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| 5 | The best thing you've done to improve your attractiveness? Any other quicktips from you pros that's not game related?Thanks buddy, I will check them out tonight. I in the process of reading the red queen now. Very interesting stuff! | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 06:55 PM |
| 1 | The best thing you've done to improve your attractiveness? Any other quicktips from you pros that's not game related?I have a hard time giving complete attention to someone and observing what else is going on around the room. Are you able to pay attention to both? | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 06:15 PM |
| 15 | The best thing you've done to improve your attractiveness? Any other quicktips from you pros that's not game related?Yeah | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 06:13 PM |
| 12 | The best thing you've done to improve your attractiveness? Any other quicktips from you pros that's not game related?darker game blogs? | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Calling or Texting? It has become apparent that there many other ways of communication. What are your guys'/girls' opinions?If everyone texts and we are showing her that we are different than all the other guys, then don't you think that means we should call? I personally alternate between the two. I find that some girls prefer talking on the phone, others prefer to text. Just go with whatever medium she is being the most responsive on | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 03:36 PM |
| 16 | How to remain attractive/sex worthy to your female friends? Social Circle GameHad this same problem. I handled it by: Being the decision maker High levels of kino (since your just friends its not sexual or is it ;-)) Treating them like your bratty little sister Not being afraid to approach in front of them. That last one took the longest to get comfortable with. I also like introducing them to other guys at the bar, but the jury is still out on if that helps or not | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 09:06 PM |
| 71 | My Experience With Being ApproachedNice post, I think understanding it from the other side would improve all of our game more. I know mine would. | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Poll: How many hours do you spend learning about talking to women compared to going out and talking to women?Really? | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 12:39 PM |
| 3 | How to transition from being able to befriend girls to being sexual with them?It all comes down to kino | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 05:28 AM |
| 1 | I didn't approach when I should have...Keep a $100 bill in your pocket. Whenever you don't approach burn it (it works better when you have a friend to do it) | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 05:20 AM |
| 5 | Night game openersA default I go to is using whatever song is on. Thank you Taylor Swift for the many times you have allowed me to walk up to a girl and say that "we are never ever getting back together". | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 05:16 AM |
| 8 | "Talk to Everyone" - Examples (long)In Art of Seduction they mention allowing yourself to be seduced by your ideas. In other words, if something pops into your head just do it. Allow your ideas to take control. I force myself to do this after the moment has passed. I have literally walked back into a restaurant to say what I wanted to say when I first saw them. Eventually it will become normal and your game will improve for it. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 05:06 AM |
| 3 | How do you stay out of your head during conversation?In my experience I contact forces you to stay present. Focusing on your fun first also works. A body of mine embraces the enter monologue and just keeps repeating to himself "I'm going to fuck you" | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Apparently girls like it when guys are dyingI'm at a place where I only go after girls I really want so I am willing to put in a little more effort then I would with some random girl whose number I got. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Response to the shit test via text: "Don't be mean. I don't have to come over"that's good one | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 02:47 AM |
| 3 | [FR] "The IKEA Date" as requested. OKC Day2 with vanilla girl, quick recap on date #1I will be making out in Ikea soon with a flask, thanks! What are the slow times by the way? | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Response to the shit test via text: "Don't be mean. I don't have to come over""no, but you want to" or something like that if you are trying to keep up the cocky frame | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 02:14 AM |
| 0 | Getting rid of approach anxiety with progressive desensitizationMemorize 5-10 good/unique conversation topics. Even if you don't use them, knowing that you have a way to overcome the dreaded conversation lag will give you more confidence in the interaction. There are books and articles that will list conversation topics if you need them. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 02:11 AM |
| 0 | Getting rid of approach anxiety with progressive desensitizationTake off you watch or just ask for directions | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 02:08 AM |
| 4 | does anyone else use dancing to pick up women?I plan to learn salsa, but I haven't had any noteworthy success on the dance floor. I think different styles work for different people. I'm sure the fact that you enjoy dancing so much makes it attractive to women. Women like to see men passionate about other things because it means you can be that passionate about them as well. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 07:19 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My first night in a while being in the zoneI am a good looking guy (I worked hard to accentuate my positive features), but honestly I have friends who are naturals that are average to below average. They consistently pull more girls then me. It's actually the most annoying thing ever. Don't worry about looks, worry about have you feel. If there is an outfit that makes you feel cool wear it. If having a six pack makes you feel sexy, get one. I went through all the superficial stuff to boost my confidence in the beginning just to realize I… | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Question: What part of your game are you working on right now?I'm working hard on that last one to. I have noticed that it becomes even more powerful when you can internalize the basic techniques as well. But I have noticed significantly better results when you put your fun first. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Question: What part of your game are you working on right now?Right now I am working on eye contact and frame control | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 03:56 PM |
| 1 | What I've learned from failureI'm with you on that one buddy! | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 12:53 PM |
| 3 | What I've learned from failureWhat help me get through is to constantly getting outside of scarcity thinking. There are always more girls and there is never a girl so special that you can't afford to lose her. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 12:52 PM |
| 2 | What I've learned from failureHappy I'm not alone on this one! | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 03:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The benefits of having the basics down (# - Close and text game)Yeah that is the game I was talking about, thanks for clarifying it. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 12:25 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The benefits of having the basics down (# - Close and text game)Thanks for the feedback, I see what you mean. I felt like I overplayed it a bit, but you never know until you try it. I like your points and will tweak things to help improve. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 12:24 AM |
| 0 | [FR] The benefits of having the basics down (# - Close and text game)I honestly have no idea if she knows which one I am. But I know I'm the best so it is irrelevant. I did cheat a little and text a her friend (who is also her roommate) the next day so they could compare numbers if they so choose. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 08:20 PM |
| 1 | The Value Of Having "Your Spot"It took me a while to feel comfortable approaching women around co-workers, friends and family. Then one day I just stop caring and when you develop a reputation of being good with women in your social circles it just makes life better all around. They start wanting to introduce you to their friends, asking for advice, etc. If it really makes you uncomfortable, then just stop bringing them. But don't give up your spot. | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 07:57 PM |
| 3 | The Value Of Having "Your Spot"If you are skilled enough to pull that off, it is a much better way to go! That's more or less what I do now, but in some cities it can be very difficult | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 08:17 PM |
| 8 | My first meetings with women go great, but it's all downhill from there because I'm too funny.I've had this same problem (still working on it), I am a natural cocky/funny guy who can keep interactions interesting naturally. My problem was 1) I never knew how to switch gears from cocky/funny to let's build comfort and go home together (or date) 2) I wouldn't be taken seriously or they would be very surprised when I asked them out (most of the times they would respond with "I didn't even think you liked me!") A buddy of mine who is naturally good with women called me out on it after he too… | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Think my first date plans are good?I would scrap everything except the salsa dancing. Giving here new experiences are great and like you said, there are a ton of benefits that come with dancing. I used to do over the top dates and the girls are never as appreciative as you expect. This is because they know that they have done nothing to deserve this level of attention. Which then translates in their mind to "this guy is trying very hard to win me over, he must have a lower value than me" You can be fun and exciting without going … | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Beginner Protip: Turn off the text tone for your phonePractice make perfect, but goal setting really helps. Next time you are interacting with a woman, make a goal of 1 inside joke. Nicknames are the easiest because it helps draw them back into the emotional state they were in when you were together. Last night I called a bartender Poison Ivy for making me a strong drink. (I got bonus points because she was a Batman fan like myself). That's what I refer to her as in text messages Hope that helps | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 02:47 PM |
| 3 | [FR] #-close with guest professor after lectureNice show of courage sir! | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 06:38 PM |
| 5 | [FR] #Close with stylist, afternoon date with young PoF cutie, later beers with OKCupid Day 2 – F-closeThanks for sharing! Not always accepting the cheek as "all she wants to do" is a great tip. I will start making a point of it | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Beginner Protip: Turn off the text tone for your phoneDuring a first date, I like to plant a bunch of inside jokes and things that I can reference back to another day. For example: During a date I will point out older woman with obviously fake breast. The next time I text her I will say something like "ever since that day I keep seeing fake breast everywhere! I think you are a jinx" or something like that. As for the frequency of texting, I will usually leave 1-2 days of me not initiating a text message. It really depends on the girl. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 05:59 PM |
| 2 | A Quote Important To All Of SedditRead a great suggestion the other day. When you go out with a friend, give him a $20 bill and tell him if you don't approach to burn it. (and really make him do it!) | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 05:42 PM |
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