It has been a while since I have been active in the community so I thought I would come back with a good report. I tried to keep it brief, but it was a long night.

Saturday I was helping out at a charity event downtown. It was a pretty big event and they had me at the front do with all the girls checking people in. At first I was in a meh mood, but after a about 30 minutes my social side came out in full force. I spoke to the girls I was working with (one was from out of town and leaving the next morning, the other not my type). I then proceeded to talk to the promotional models welcoming people in and then started messing with all the people who were checking in.

A little ways into the event a HB8 came to help out in front who I knew I wanted to talk to. Unfortunately it was when the line was at it's longest and I was to busy to say anything. So I just kept messing with everyone in line while I was working.

Fast forward, my and the HB8 start talking and she starts sending me some IOIs. It caught me off guard because outside of being cocky funny, I didn't do anything special. I do a little push pull and go inside to check out the atmosphere.

I start talking to the server (HB7) and she tells me how she has nothing to do. I tell her she can escort me around the bar so I look awesome and I stick out my arm. She grabs it and we make a full loop. I can only assume this increased my social proof dramatically.

From that point it was on. Every girl I talked to was sending me IOIs. I was on stage making announcements, dancing in the middle of the room, talking to anyone I felt like and just focusing on having fun first, women second. It was the first time in a while women were competing for my attention.

I got the HB8's number, forgot to close the server (will have to go back for that one) and the two unattractive girls begged for my number so I gave it to them. I sure I could of gotten more but last time I went for multiple numbers in the same venue, i lost a sure thing and I still have a bitter taste in my mouth from that.

The night wasn't over yet. I winged for a friend by sitting in a booth with a couple of girls and literally pulling out her friend so he could talk to her.

Ran into a friend from college who wanted to hang out over the weekend.

Ran into a girl I hooked up with a few times and now we are talking again.

Had two girls ask me if I was the boss of the bar. (I guess I had my alpha vibe going hard)

All in all, one night, 4 numbers 0 blowouts. It was a good night

If I had to take one thing away from that night was that there is no downside to putting your fun first. I am slowly reframing myself to see women as a byproduct of my lifestyle, not a goal to pursue.