| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itThank you for the respectful reply | /r/MensRights | 06/12/21 10:40 PM |
| 1 | We need to talkNo it's there impression of the people here which I completely agree with, I think the people here are full of hate which is why they are all so opposed to being civil towards people they don't agree with, it doesn't mean I don't support men's rights, infact I support it completely but this sub isn't about mens rights anymore, this sub is about trying to win the gender war through hatred. And the fact you didnt realise the reference to hatred and extremism proves you didn't read it, they also sa… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/21 01:16 AM |
| 1 | We need to talkCan you quote what part of his message where he says he "actively disagrees" with us? | /r/MensRights | 01/12/21 08:02 PM |
| 3 | We need to talkYes but that's not what I'm saying, I'm saying that we can't resort to insults and personal attacks, especially when they start doing it to us | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | We need to talkabsolutely nothing has changed. I literally highlighted it in pink so you couldn't miss it, they said they don't agree with the sub but by seeing someone talk about it respectfully and rationally they've started to see what they can do to help with issues that men face | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 08:13 PM |
| 3 | We need to talkHow is it manipulative? I'm not saying anything outrageous here, if we want ppl to like us then maybe we should try and calmly and rationally debate them and try and change their minds, it's common sense | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 08:11 PM |
| 0 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itIt does work | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 12:39 PM |
| 0 | Only for the men who are with stay at home mothers/wives.And he's the hateful one, damn | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 12:34 PM |
| -3 | We need to talkHow can you not see that those people whom you are trying to impress would only agree with you if you are willing to do what they want. Read the screenshot, I have done nothing that this person wants and they are on our side when they weren't before my post | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 12:25 PM |
| 0 | We need to talkhttps://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/r4c0af/saying_a_patriarchy_exists_is_no_different_than/hmfxy6e?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 Something like the replies to this comment, someone has come to our sub and disagreed with what op has said, they weren't rude or anything about it and the response (which has positive upvotes) is extremely aggressive, unnecessary and rude, this is what neutral people see and it turns them away from our movement Specifically this reply: htt… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 12:14 PM |
| -1 | We need to talkI genuinely don't understand why this is such a controversial opinion, if you treat someone with respect and civility no matter how they treat you it shows you have a better character and are a better person that can take the high road without resorting to insults, and people will join us if they see we are nicer and more civilized and respectful then the feminist movement I would genuinely appreciate if someone could explain why so many are opposed to this idea because I genuinely don't underst… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 12:03 PM |
| 1 | We need to talkI suggest you reread my post, I'm saying we need to be civil and not resort to insults and personal attacks even if feminist do the same which kinda sounds like common sense (if you want someone to listen to you then make them like you, they won't like you if you just devolve into insults and this isn't me saying we want feminists to like us, this is me saying we want people that aren't MRA's or feminists to like up because then our movement might grow), and I didn't say you shouldn't express an… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 12:01 PM |
| 2 | We need to talkI never said we would be treated well by feminist, the goal is actually the opposite, to make them treat us badly which makes them look bad whilst us not treating them badly makes us look good, also I said "violence and anger", which is saying neither are helpful responses, not saying that mean words and violence are the same, also I originally used the word "hostility", which isn't just limited to "mean words" | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 11:46 AM |
| 1 | We need to talkYes, because it works, violence and anger doesn't https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2019/02/why-nonviolent-resistance-beats-violent-force-in-effecting-social-political-change/ | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 11:33 AM |
| 0 | We need to talkHopefully that's easier to read | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 10:32 AM |
| 0 | We need to talkExactly, I had a comment on my other post saying "men built society, we just allow women to live in it" and someone else trying to convince me that women's only use is childbirth | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 10:14 AM |
| 2 | We need to talkExactly my point, nothing is achieved through hostility and for a movement to succeed we need to have people backing us, and if we treat everyone that doesn't agree with us like shit then we won't have anyone wanting to back us | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 09:45 AM |
| 0 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itHow am I pro feminist anti MRA? | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 05:01 AM |
| 0 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itNo my post shows that I want to beat the feminist movement and that I care enough to tell you all the truth that the way some members of this sub have been acting is hurting more then helping, and the standard I'm demanding of this sub is to help it, I don't hold feminists to the same standards because I want them to make themselves look bad, if I held them to the same standard we'd both look good and nothing will have changed, so I'm trying to make us look better and more civilized | /r/MensRights | 30/11/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itFirst, not a white knight or feminist, also im a man and an MRA, and I don't hold feminist to the same standard because they will never reach it nor would I want them to, because them making themselves look bad makes us look good, I want our movement to beat the feminist movement and using the same tactics they do and "not playing nice" reflects badly on us, so our movement isn't going to go anywhere if we are cunts to everybody that disagrees with us. if we want to win we need to beat them at t… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 11:20 PM |
| -2 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itNo what makes us look bad is saying "women are only needed for childbirth", can you imagine the backlash here if a woman said "men are only needed for their sperm"? Everyone would have a fit. don't apologize for being a man, and you say we can't make a blanket statement that "men and women are both needed" but you happily make the blanket statement that "women are only needed for childbirth" don't apologize for being a man, apologize for being ignorant and having a really narrow worldview | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 11:00 PM |
| 0 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itThis is the sort of thing that I was talking about, this makes us look bad | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 08:11 PM |
| 2 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itOk, after reading this I agree with you, we shouldn't silence the hate but we should condemn it and not promote it | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 02:34 PM |
| 3 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itI know what you are referring to, I'm not purposefully trying to view the sub in a negative light, I'm trying to show you that what you think is helping isn't, by fighting with people and resorting to insults instead of just leaving them be we are going more harm then good, I'm not trolling at all just tying to help a community and movement that I love and fully support. And I fully agree that everyone deserves to be helped but I also believe that they should be held to the same standard as us, … | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itLink to the post in question: https://www.reddit.com/r/justneckbeardthings/comments/r4icac/made_the_mistake_of_looking_at_a_mens_rights/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 01:38 PM |
| -6 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itThe post was in r/justneckbeardthings it has over 1000 upvotes and over 100 comments, just because they have no negative spaces to go doesn't mean they should be "tolerated" , and just because the community we are against has more toxicity doesn't mean it's fine for ours "I did it because they did it first" makes you just as bad as them, and it doesn't matter that the comment has 0 upvotes, that's because ppl from the other sub have come and downvoted it which is why all the comments defending i… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 01:37 PM |
| -2 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itThis isn't me attacking the sub, I'm trying to show you all that when we argue and insult people that come here we aren't gaining any support, which is what we need, we need more people standing with us and by resorting to childish insults we are driving away people that may actually join our cause if treated with the respect they deserve and shown evidence that we are right | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 01:22 PM |
| -1 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itThank you, I genuinely really care about this movement and don't want to see it fall on its face because people can't see the bigger picture, sure messing with trolls makes you feel good or whatever but in the long run it makes us look like salty children | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 01:18 PM |
| -5 | There has been a comment here that has been posted to another sub and I think we need to talk about itYes but it would be heard more and listened to more if we where taken seriously and at the moment noone really does | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Saying a patriarchy exists is no different than saying a nebulous Jewish power exists to dominate Christians. It’s nonsense. And it’s designed to normalize violence against men.Pissed my self laughing I think | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 08:25 AM |
| 8 | Man tries to pick up his son from his exes house and gets shot twice by by his sons stepfather.I mean the guy with the gun shot at him before the father tried to wrestle it from him so I have a feeling he would have been shot either way | /r/MensRights | 26/11/21 06:52 AM |
| 11 | There literally exists a dedicated sub-reddit that is against men having any rights at allIt's also really badly worded "EVERYONE has the right to use Reddit free of harrassment" well clearly fucking not everyone | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 08:05 AM |
| 5 | There literally exists a dedicated sub-reddit that is against men having any rights at allThank you, I would have added credit but didn't know who to credit | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 01:43 AM |
| 30 | There literally exists a dedicated sub-reddit that is against men having any rights at allTheres a screenshot of a conversation between a Redditor and a Reddit official where the official says something to the effect of " the hate speech rule applies only to marginalised or minority groups, it is designed to protect them, men and caucasian people aren't marginalised and therefore the rule doesn't apply" Edit: fount it https://www.reddit.com/user/helicoprion08/comments/quvd8i/reddit_admitting_to_allowing_hate_speech/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 12:43 AM |
| 11 | Men shouldn’t be shamed for going for younger womenIf that's your opinion that's fine but don't say stupid shit just to make us look bad, also women can have children up to 45 years old your just ignorant | /r/MensRights | 30/10/21 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Are you guys religious? If so which one?Roman Catholic | /r/MensRights | 27/10/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Sexual violence statistics based on sexual orientationOk, I understand where I made the mistake, when I read intimate partner of a lesbian I assumed that means based on sexuality E.g (the intimate partner of a lesbian is a woman, intimate partner of a gay man is a man and heterosexual is the opposite sex) | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Sexual violence statistics based on sexual orientationAll good, do you mean the "violence by an intimate partner" section on page 8? | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 09:11 PM |
| 6 | Sexual violence statistics based on sexual orientationCan I ask why you believe lesbian can't abuse each other at a higher rate then heterosexual people? Please explain your logic | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Sexual violence statistics based on sexual orientationAgain can I ask what page or how you got the numbers for the woman on woman violence | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Sexual violence statistics based on sexual orientationCan I ask what page you got the numbers from so I can reread it? Also thank you Edit: for the first section | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 08:33 PM |
| 5 | Sexual violence statistics based on sexual orientationLesbians do abuse each other more than straight couples but that wasn't what I was meaning in my post, what I meant to do in the post was to draw a comparison between the vastly different rate of violence between lesbian relationships and gay relationship to show that women are also very abusive which debunks the "men can't control themselves" argument, then I tried to show how straight relationships are very similar in violence rates | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Sexual violence statistics based on sexual orientationApologise if I didn't represent the data in an adequate way, I was just bringing attention to what I found interesting in the study, I must have misinterpreted the data Edit: what I was trying to do in my post is draw a comparison between man on man violence vs women on women violence and the massive difference, then show how straight relationship violence is quite close | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Sexual violence statistics based on sexual orientationBut it is true, this study was conducted by the CDC and the data was also collected by them, and coming from an abusive lesbian household, fuck you | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 08:02 PM |
| 41 | UK: 'Misogyny against a MAN is absolutely wrong': Dominic Raab claims men are also victims of hate speech in bungled backing of Boris Johnson's refusal to make hatred against women a crimeIt already has a word, misandry, people need to start using it | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 12:53 PM |
| 6 | Woman stabbed man so hard between the eyes it reached his brain - sentenced to just three years in prisonIt's really fucked that she was only brought up on charges of grievous bodily harm with intent because stabbing someone in the head definitely screams attempted murder to me | /r/MensRights | 30/09/21 09:08 AM |
| 5 | Woman stabbed man so hard between the eyes it reached his brain - sentenced to just three years in prisonExactly | /r/MensRights | 30/09/21 09:07 AM |
| 8 | Woman stabbed man so hard between the eyes it reached his brain - sentenced to just three years in prisonYeah the world is kinda crazy | /r/MensRights | 30/09/21 07:45 AM |
| 20 | Woman stabbed man so hard between the eyes it reached his brain - sentenced to just three years in prisonThat Australian court case is fucking disgraceful | /r/MensRights | 30/09/21 07:01 AM |
| 4 | Woman stabbed man so hard between the eyes it reached his brain - sentenced to just three years in prisonWhich country passed that? | /r/MensRights | 30/09/21 06:57 AM |
| 50 | Woman stabbed man so hard between the eyes it reached his brain - sentenced to just three years in prisonI think they are referring to Donna Hylton | /r/MensRights | 30/09/21 06:54 AM |
| 4 | UK: Violence against women should be treated as seriously as TERRORISM, watchdog says. OP: But women kill, maim and make false allegations against men without any punishment.Lol | /r/MensRights | 18/09/21 01:22 AM |
| 7 | Took a trip down r/againstmensrights and it was the most horrid place I've seen in a while, it was like againstHateSubreddits but there were more female incelsdaddyIssues | /r/MensRights | 02/09/21 01:57 AM |
| 8 | Took a trip down r/againstmensrights and it was the most horrid place I've seen in a while, it was like againstHateSubreddits but there were more female incelsBut still how do people get away with saying shit like this, the post was saying that what is currently happening in Afghanistan (the Taliban takeover) is what happens when you let MRA's run a country | /r/MensRights | 02/09/21 01:49 AM |
| 3 | If you are white or male you arn’t protected under reddit’s hate speech rules. White men can’t be oppressed according to reddit and feminism ideology.I've been looking for this picture for so long thank you for posting this | /r/MensRights | 07/08/21 06:31 AM |
| 4 | Watch them ban me for defending usYeah but I can atleast try | /r/MensRights | 06/08/21 12:04 AM |
| 6 | Watch them ban me for defending usI'm not necessarily trying to get banned, I'm trying to save our sub from getting the ban hammer, I'm trying to show them that we aren't a hate group and deflecting their accusations back on them will just get them mad and fight us harder, I want to show them that we are good people fighting for what we feel is right | /r/MensRights | 05/08/21 11:50 PM |
| 6 | Watch them ban me for defending usNot banned yet but I probably will be, Ill either update the post or make a new one when I get banned | /r/MensRights | 05/08/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | It is an absolute outrage that AgainstHateSubreddits wants to ban Men's RightsExactly, they don't do any research at all other than seeing that we support men's rights and assume we want to take women's rights away | /r/MensRights | 05/08/21 11:41 AM |
| 21 | It is an absolute outrage that AgainstHateSubreddits wants to ban Men's RightsYeah exactly but AHS doesn't see it that way, they see it as a group with opinions of society that don't match their own, in their opinion we are all female hating bigots who will do nothing but try and take women's rights away, they attack anyone they don't agree with including those who don't break Reddit's ToS, there are rumours of them spamming subreddits with child P*** to get them banned just because they don't agree with the subreddits message, AHS is nothing but a bunch of people who sup… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/21 07:46 AM |
| -5 | Detained by police for "Man with child"It's stupid but it's procedure, they were following their training, which is dumb but they were doing what they were told, like in domestic violence cases no matter the aggressor they arrest the male as soon as they get there, it's ridiculous and stupid but it's their training | /r/MensRights | 03/08/21 12:01 AM |
| 38 | Againstmensrights subIk but according to a Reddit employee (I remember seeing a screenshot of this statement but haven't been able to find it) the hate speech policy was to protect minority and disadvantaged groups from being oppressed by majority groups, and they later went on to clarify that men don't fall under that and therefore hate speech towards men isn't considered to be worthy of a ban | /r/MensRights | 24/06/21 12:11 PM |
| 115 | Againstmensrights subIt won't matter, Reddit wont ban it, Reddit has said that men, and white ppl don't come under their hate speech guidelines as the hate speech guidelines are in place to protect minority groups, which men aren't | /r/MensRights | 24/06/21 12:04 PM |
| 2 | I posted the #menarehuman slides on Instagram and these are the comments (green are women, red is me and blue is men) NSFW for swearingOh ok thanks, swearing is in 2 up from the bottom | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 10:55 PM |
| 2 | What are the current American rape statistics, I can't find consistent answers anywayOk, I only asked because I posted the #menarehuman post on Instagram and I was met with so much backlash I had to take it down, I found it really ironic that all the people that were offended were women | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 12:09 PM |
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