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| 1 | I think I found a somewhat Machiavellian way to avoid the 'marriage + kids' trapNah, if you're not married you still have to pay child support on children that you're accused of fathering.... unless the mother is married, then her husband will pay child support. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/26 04:11 AM |
| 2 | I think I found a somewhat Machiavellian way to avoid the 'marriage + kids' trapYou need food. You don't need sex, you merely desire it. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/26 04:09 AM |
| -3 | Nazis Persecuted Gays Yet Tolerated LesbiansIs that the only reason why people kill men more? | /r/MensRights | 11/01/26 11:54 PM |
| 21 | Men can be victims of psychological abuse — do people actually believe that?Can be? Are. Men are victims of every kind of abuse. Do people believe THAT? | /r/MensRights | 10/01/26 02:12 PM |
| 71 | Georgia Father Wins Custody Of Infant Son After Mother’s Death; Calls For Reform Of ‘Antiquated’ LawsGeorgia law granted him no automatic parental rights because he was not married to the child’s mother But it does grant him the automatic responsibility to pay child support if the mother demands it. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/25 07:03 AM |
| 2 | /r/interestingasfuck AGAIN, this is similar to saying "All Muslims Are Terrorists" and then treating that whole community like shit. Even if a few people have shed a bad light that is never cause for going after the rest of the crowd, when will people learn?how can anyone hate on a community intent on fighting discrimination? as best I can tell there are 2 reasons why: saying that discrimination exists against men is misunderstood to imply that somehow discrimination doesn't exist against women (obviously this is laughably false because there is DIFFERENT discrimination against men versus against women) since this is a safe space to experiment with ideas and vent authentic emotions some people do actually say things where they blame *women* as the … | /r/MensRights | 18/12/25 11:32 PM |
| 2 | /r/interestingasfuck AGAIN, this is similar to saying "All Muslims Are Terrorists" and then treating that whole community like shit. Even if a few people have shed a bad light that is never cause for going after the rest of the crowd, when will people learn?well said. Religion is good. Religious extremism is just like any other kind of extremism: bad. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/25 11:28 PM |
| 0 | /r/interestingasfuck AGAIN, this is similar to saying "All Muslims Are Terrorists" and then treating that whole community like shit. Even if a few people have shed a bad light that is never cause for going after the rest of the crowd, when will people learn?Totally random side discussion because This one's always interesting. What slavery meant in the bible is not what slavery has come to mean today. For example the American system of slavery was not permitted by the Bible and the Catholic church sent missionaries to the Americas to convert the slaveholders as well as to convert the native populations. The Bible allows entering into slavery contractually but it forbids enslaving people (with rare exceptions during war), and it forbids being born in… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/25 11:27 PM |
| 38 | Labour: We’ll treat violence against women like terror and gang crime*checks notecards* "Violence against men is men's fault." - Misandrist politicians, probably. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/25 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Company solves gender pay gap by cutting men's wagesExactly. This was the most capitalist solution ever: "solving" inequality by cutting salaries instead of raising them. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/25 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Meta-analysis Indicates Men Are 3 Times More Likely to Die of Obesity. Sex-Based Differences in Obesity-Related ComplicationsExercising and staying lean is much more important for men than women. Yes... AND keeping stress down. Men are more likely to be exposed to stress - professions that educators propose to male students tend to be higher stress and the financial responsibilities of a household are not equally distributed due to sexist societal norms. Also, religiosity greatly reduces stress and religions tend to outreach more to female parishioners. Stress has a HUGE impact on heart disease. So work out AND keep s… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/25 08:13 PM |
| 14 | I have no wordsDo some people really hate men this much to where they think murdering them is instantly justifiable no matter how innocent they be or how little they know about them? Yes. That's how hatespeech works. Tell them that a group has privilege, that it runs all the banks and runs Hollywood, then it becomes acceptable to hate them. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/25 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Fatherhood and Masculinity Research *Mod Pre-Approved*Then it's studying the wrong thing. Men are victims of the toxic consumer behaviors that corporate profitmongers have normalized (for shareholder ROI at the expense of male health and lifespan). Do not study how men conforming to norms affects their rate of seeking help, no, instead research how the capitalist class is suppressing the ability of men to receive help. I'm a father of 3, and all of my kids are under 18. So I would qualify for this study. Convince me to sign up for this study. I'm a… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/25 08:00 PM |
| 18 | A generation of young men, who have only ever known a world of feminist extremism, will soon be entering adulthood. What effect do you think feminist extremism will have on them as adults?I think that some small percentage of them will join a monastery and live a happy life, away from the financial trap of marriage-and-divorce, away from the belief that their value somehow depends on sex, and close to a bunch of male friends whom they work with shoulder to shoulder. They'll be full of joy and they'll have a life expectancy that is equal to women. I think that every other man who is coming of age in the era of this nonsense is going to face a supremely unhappy life with declining … | /r/MensRights | 16/12/25 07:43 PM |
| 1 | U.S: Massive collapse in male applicants and enrollment to Medical and Law school. Men go from 51.4% to 42.2% of Medical school applicants in the last 10 years. A world-wide decline with huge ramifications.Tell your healthcare provider that you only want Jewish Women Doctors. Tell them they better not give you some low-budget Indian male doctor. Or, even worse, some black male doctor with muscles and a strong jaw line. No no, none of that, you tell them that you only accept the best: Jewish Women Doctors. Tell them that. Go ahead. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/25 07:39 PM |
| 6 | What would it take for the men's rights movement to become mainstream?The more experienced MRA's, yes. The new guys that come here after being hurt and they channel their anger not at misandrists but at women. We can do a better job at teaching them to hate the idea not the people. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/25 10:39 AM |
| 3 | What would it take for the men's rights movement to become mainstream?I think if the overall MRA message was "outdated ideas about gender roles create systematic biases against men around military conscription, around what victims look like, and around family court" then people would debate it and it wouldn't be extremist. As soon as people hear a single one of us say "women just want to use us for military conscription, falsely accuse us of rape, and take our children away from us so that they can collect child support" then we are seen as extreme. So I think tha… | /r/MensRights | 01/10/25 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Why is MRM the most isolated and homeless movement ever?Agreed that it's not everyone. It's enough people. AND there aren't enough people to correct it. For me the distinction between hate and progress is disliking people versus disliking an idea. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/25 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Why is MRM the most isolated and homeless movement ever?After a decade in this space I think I know why our movement is so isolated. Because so many of us don't know that the enemy is misandry and we instead alienate allies by saying that the enemy is women. IMHO It's really that simple. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/25 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Whats your spirituality?Rejoin! YES! real faith and the true church (ie the people, not the building or organization) still exists and is flourishing - outside the construct and institution of the “church.” Boo! Telling people to be "real" men or "real" Christians or "real" Americans is cringe. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Whats your spirituality?I'm Catholic. I was away from the faith for like 10 years. Now that I'm back I find that it has been very helpful in difficult times and it brings me a deep joy (not like a happiness, because I still get happy and sad like most people, it expresses itself with a satisfaction within myself). I was unsurprised to learn that religious people have lower rates of depression and suicide. And that the effect among Catholics was even more pronounced and the rates of suicide and depression among priests … | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 08:31 PM |
| 21 | Why more women get cancer in India - but more men dieMedical outreach to women is better. Medical care for women is better. I'm not surprised that the result is higher death rates among men. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/25 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Anti Porn Is MisandryAddiction is a mental disorder not a choice. Profit mongering by spreading addiction to vulnerable people is a choice... an evil choice. Porn is addictive. That's a fact. Porn has multiple negative effects on those addicted to it. Sure it also has collateral victims, as you pointed out. The people who peddle porn to lonely/desperate people while KNOWING that psychology studies consistently show how detrimental porn is to the consumer... those people are the scum of the earth. I am OK with hating… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/25 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Which are the best arguments against that type of feminists that think "men are privileged" or "have it better"?Laughing at it and walking away. There's no way to reason people out of a position that they arrived at irrationally. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/25 11:31 AM |
| 9 | Do hard times really make men stronger? [Article]Hard times with a strong community that loves and supports you? Yes. That strengthens bonds, strengthens mutual support, and strengthens ones ability to believe in good things. But hard times when you're alone, isolated, or without faith/hope/charity? No. That doesn't make anybody stronger. That just destroys you. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/25 11:27 AM |
| 5 | Why are so many young men struggling with erectile dysfunction?Nah. The claim that masturbation causes ED is bullshit. The claim that porn can cause ED is pretty solid. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/25 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many young men struggling with erectile dysfunction?My understanding is that there is no scientific basis for the supposedly negative effects of masturbation but that there is plenty of research that finds porn consumption to be harmful. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/25 12:55 PM |
| 8 | The Growing Cohort of Single Dads by ChoiceThe law in most countries will fuck you up. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/25 08:42 PM |
| 11 | The Growing Cohort of Single Dads by ChoiceCorrect. We need to fight for reproductive rights for gay and single men. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/25 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Men keep saying they want more spaces for real dialogue. So I built one.Brotherhood used to be forged in daily life teams, military, church, apprenticeships. Now most men don’t have it, and you can feel the void Agreed. I felt the void and I started going back to church. Holy cow the men of previous generations knew something that we have forgotten. Like, I'm working shoulder to shoulder with a bunch of other men as we Volunteer our time to set up for a 1 hour event that happens every week. The task probably doesn't matter - the shared purpose matters. I wish all th… | /r/MensRights | 18/08/25 11:56 AM |
| 3 | China is developing a pregnancy humanoid. Thoughts?We were recently given the Nero we deserve not the Nero we need. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/25 11:16 AM |
| 13 | China is developing a pregnancy humanoid. Thoughts?Comments like this make me think we are basically the Roman empire before it collapsed. Decadent, godless, and irreverent. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/25 12:12 AM |
| 26 | China is developing a pregnancy humanoid. Thoughts?If she were a man, then why would being a man be a bad thing? | /r/MensRights | 18/08/25 12:10 AM |
| 38 | China is developing a pregnancy humanoid. Thoughts?I for one look forward to becoming a welfare king. I want to have a dozen babies through artificial wombs then collect welfare for all of them. And if any bureaucrat tells me that only children of women can access those funds I will sue and win even more government money. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/25 12:08 AM |
| 14 | China is developing a pregnancy humanoid. Thoughts?Cool story bro | /r/MensRights | 18/08/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts?My thoughts: I like the concept, I feel like this is a "first draft" that requires a bunch of changes before it's ready for prime time. I look forward to a version that's a little but more subtle and has appeal to an audience beyond just those of us on this sub. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/25 10:40 PM |
| 19 | Whats wrong with circumcision?What's wrong if we remove excessive and not important part of penis If an adult thinks that their foreskin is excessive and not important then they can remove their own foreskin. They should not make a decision about what is important on somebody else body. prevent many psychological and physical problems Traumatic experiences changes people's brain chemistry. Genital mutilation doesn't prevent problems it causes problems. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/25 04:55 AM |
| 16 | Hot take: therapy is kinda useless for men.Personally I found therapy useless in the past. Recently I went through a spiritual phase and I found therapy plus prayer is actually a useful combination. I improved myself and I feel happier. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/25 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Genuine question for menCan you name one law that regulates a man’s body? Several. The government (which is run by both men and women) conscripts men but not women to get maimed and injured in wars for the protection of corporate profits. Mens bodies are not protected from genital mutilation. Women's bodies are. A shameful inequality. A man's sperm can be the property of a woman in fertility clinics. A man who was raped cannot control whether he becomes a parent. For example children raped by female teachers are forced… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/25 11:30 AM |
| 18 | What if we started our own “bear” question?If feminism joined us in the fight against misandry then they would be for equality. Until they become allies then they're only a women's rights movement. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/25 11:15 PM |
| 1 | What if we started our own “bear” question?Agreed. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/25 09:40 PM |
| 60 | What if we started our own “bear” question?Correct answer. Also, the enemy is not WOMEN the enemy is MISANDRY. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/25 03:41 PM |
| 10 | People this evil know no limits.Yeah, this one is pretty gross | /r/MensRights | 02/08/25 09:43 AM |
| 4 | Passport bro dating sites: they are ALL fraud. I investigated five popular foreign dating sites. They are ALL scam sites with all or almost all fake profiles.Lol no. Don't pretend like what you're doing here is virtuous. You're just trolling and it's gross. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/25 09:17 AM |
| 5 | Passport bro dating sites: they are ALL fraud. I investigated five popular foreign dating sites. They are ALL scam sites with all or almost all fake profiles.not my fault that the deal that was too good to be true was a scam I've heard lots of cringe right wing explanations for why we don't need consumer protection. This is a pretty cringey one. man that she knows has 3 other kids he does not take care of Yuck. What an ugly stereotype. Please don't perpetuate that kind of hateful portrayal here. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/25 09:15 AM |
| 5 | Passport bro dating sites: they are ALL fraud. I investigated five popular foreign dating sites. They are ALL scam sites with all or almost all fake profiles.Are you blaming the victims? | /r/MensRights | 02/08/25 05:07 AM |
| 5 | Passport bro dating sites: they are ALL fraud. I investigated five popular foreign dating sites. They are ALL scam sites with all or almost all fake profiles.Women can face discrimination, too. But that's not the topic. Please don't come in here with your whataboutism and try to change the topic. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/25 05:06 AM |
| 22 | UK: Young men are offered £1,000 signing bonus to work in nurseries in bid to battle toxic masculinity crisisExcatly. I support the bonus one of many steps that should be taken to overcome social stereotypes against male caregivers. I don't support the idea that bonuses somehow incentivize men to be less toxic. Oof. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/25 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Ever feel like you're navigating life's challenges alone?These kinds of mutual support groups are important. I found a faith community to do this for me. We all need to get disconnected from corporations that are exploiting us and keeping us lonely, and we need to join men's groups of some kind. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/25 01:50 PM |
| 5 | Passport bro dating sites: they are ALL fraud. I investigated five popular foreign dating sites. They are ALL scam sites with all or almost all fake profiles.I believe it. Many profiles on dating sites are scams. Many actual dates are scams, too. Everyone exploits vulnerable men. Nobody protects men. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/25 01:26 PM |
| 7 | Is there data to refute that "misogyny kills; misandry hurts men's feelings"?Mandatory military service means conscription. Don't forget the draft which is in every country and is almost always male-only. Women are the majority of the voting age population (because men die younger) AND are more likely to vote. In the 2024 election roughly 81,532,000 voters were women and 72,776,000 voters were men. Making women about 53% of the vote and men about 47% of the vote. ALSO. Please learn how to read. I said misandry (the systemic discrimination against men) is the cause of con… | /r/MensRights | 30/07/25 08:44 PM |
| 18 | Is there data to refute that "misogyny kills; misandry hurts men's feelings"?Hogwash. Governments force men. The majority of voters are women. There are many powerful women politicians and many female presidents and prime ministers and queens. Do not let anyone claim that it's "other men" hurting men. It's misandry hurting men. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/25 12:27 PM |
| 11 | Thoughts, Folks ?Exactly. The problem with human beings who suffer from loneliness is not about us (the observers) being at risk of their violence, the problem is that they're suffering and we can (and we should) help them with their suffering. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/25 10:58 AM |
| 24 | Feminists harassing the hockey players who were falsely accused of rapeWhy even have courts and judges and trials? We should just use public rage as the only way to declare people guilty or innocent. /s | /r/MensRights | 28/07/25 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Do we want to make the world better or is this sub just for hating women?It's a subreddit of people who are coping with inequities that befell them so maybe it's not the place to look for methodical societal action. We do need to do something beyond simply venting. And we need to be against misandry instead of being against women. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/25 11:06 AM |
| 32 | Why must men always change?Society must change to be more equal towards men. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/25 10:59 AM |
| 18 | Feminists harassing the hockey players who were falsely accused of rapeThe comments on the imgur link are pretty dumb. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/25 10:58 AM |
| 11 | Judge acquits 5 former Canadian junior hockey players in sexual assault case that rattled the nationIn one [video], the woman says it was “all consensual,” though she told the court that wasn’t how she truly felt. Wait. So her whole case rested on the premise that she lied on video about consenting to sex therefore it was rape? Because she lied? What were the charges? Was she accusing the defendants of not being psychic? | /r/MensRights | 26/07/25 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Obesity Is Strongly Associated With Low Testosterone and Reduced Penis Growth During DevelopmentAgree 100% | /r/MensRights | 22/07/25 08:08 PM |
| 26 | Obama Criticizes Progressives For Abadoning MenTo give credit where it's due, Carville has been raising the alarm about how we (democrats) speak down to men and sound like we're lecturing and nagging men. I may not agree with Carville on everything but I often find that the people who dislike Carville are routinely worse. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/25 05:49 PM |
| 6 | Obesity Is Strongly Associated With Low Testosterone and Reduced Penis Growth During DevelopmentI wish there were more charity helping male fitness and less admonishing about how men are out-of-shape slobs. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/25 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Are there any Men's Rights Activists who are also feminists?Meh, Women can face inequalities, too. But this is a sub where we advocate equality for men so I'm not going to advocate for women - who already have enough advocates elsewhere - because it's off-topic. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/25 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Is anyone else starting to feel burnt out with life?I was. Then I rediscovered my faith and now I'm feeling pretty chipper. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/25 08:17 PM |
| 25 | Are there any Men's Rights Activists who are also feminists?In theory, yes. Because it's possible to both acknowledge the inequalities faced by men in some areas and the inequalities faced by women in other areas. In practice, no. Because mainstream feminism is against even recognizing that men CAN face systematic inequalities. Let alone would they allow anyone to be an ally in fighting against those systematic inequalities. So if you're both then you are far far FAAAARRR outside of mainstream feminist thought. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/25 08:15 PM |
| 28 | Drama in the r/trans subreddit over rights over trans menWhat do you mean by "taken more seriously"? Can you give an example? I get paid more How does this work? Can you give an example of how your hourly wage is higher than a cis women in your field with the same level of experience? Or is the pay based on working more hours or based on choice of career? | /r/MensRights | 14/07/25 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Drama in the r/trans subreddit over rights over trans menYou may want to Google what these words mean before making a fool of yourself on internet posts. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/25 11:54 AM |
| -8 | Drama in the r/trans subreddit over rights over trans menMost transitions are male to female. If there's a bandwagon here it's not girls this time. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/25 11:51 AM |
| 2 | "MY WIFE BEATS ME" tshirts for sale on tiktok and Amazon. Where is the humor in this? There is nothing on the back of the shirt. Reverse the gender and it's not going to be very popular or funnyMaybe ot raises awareness of husband abuse and isn't meant to be funny? | /r/MensRights | 12/07/25 01:36 PM |
| 1 | UK: Drink Spiking Will Be Made A Criminal Offence Under Labour Bid To Protect Women And GirlsOr to steal their kidneys. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/25 10:19 PM |
| 2 | 'They've never heard the word masculinity without the word toxic'Ergo What boys need is a change in custody laws that guarantees them equal access to their fathers in cases of unmarried (or no-longer married) parents. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/25 01:47 PM |
| 6 | Anti Porn Is MisandryBoys are conscripted to fight against their will, enslaved to work in mines, and neglected when they're the victims of abuse. Feminists are strangely silent about those children and so very loud about girls. It's almost as if they don't care about kids, they only care about women and girls. Which... makes them bastards. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/25 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Anti Porn Is MisandryBeing against porn is OK. That means you shame the for-profit companies making and distributing porn. Being against men is not OK. That means you shame the men who are watching porn. What I'm seeing out of feminism is very little of the "shame the greedy companies" rhetoric and a whole lot of "shame the men" rhetoric. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/25 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Anti Porn Is MisandryI agree that porn is psychologically harmful to its viewers. There are dozens of published studies available to anyone who knows how to use Google or chatGPT. The masturbation thing though... that's where I didn't see any studies showing medical harm. The conclusion I came to is that porn is proven to be detrimental but that infrequent masturbation is totally normal and not harmful (of course, frequent masturbation is a different matter). | /r/MensRights | 02/07/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Anti Porn Is MisandryThere are anti-porn people and anti-male peole. Being against porn because it psychologically harms its viewers is a good thing. That implies that you shame the for-profit companies that are knowingly selling harmful materials. Being against porn because you get excitement from chastising men for what they do in private is a bad thing. Screw those people. I am 100% against anyone who fights against the men watching porn and I'm 100% for the people who put regulations on the greedy companies maki… | /r/MensRights | 02/07/25 01:31 PM |
| 7 | Teacher charged with having sex Teacher, 26, charged with having sex with student, 16 – after ‘telling colleague about sick affair’ - She could face up to 15 years behind barsShe COULD serve up to 15 years. But she won't. Some judge will let her walk free to prowl the streets again and to victimize more children. Because "chivalry". | /r/MensRights | 02/07/25 01:24 PM |
| 20 | Counter to "Not all Feminists..."All feminists are complicit of supporting the extremist feminists who call for violence against men and deprivation of rights from men. So even if they don't do so themselves all feminists enable the ones who do. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/25 10:12 PM |
| 4 | Why are very many Reddit feminists christianophobic?There's a tangible goal that was articulated by an African dude named Augustine back in 300AD. He wrote a book called The City of God - a world that will replace the City of Man. A glorious future in which good people are rewarded and evil people suffer, unlike the city of man where rich people get away with being evil. That tradition who routinely stoned people to death for the crime of saying a name, I think you got that mixed up. Christians WERE stoned because they were a threat to the people… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/25 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Why are very many Reddit feminists christianophobic?They sort of have a point? The ideals of a fair world come from Christian tradition. But the underlying ideology behind WHY we want a fair world have diverged over time. For example: Christianity and the left both want dignity for immigrants but for different reasons. Both want dignity for workers but for different reasons. And because the reasons diverged then a bunch of other things diverged, too, like abortion. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/25 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Why are very many Reddit feminists christianophobic?You keep using that word but I don't think you know what it means. But sure, some 5% of the world is not in a cult and everyone else is in a cult. Haha funny. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/25 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Why are very many Reddit feminists christianophobic?Only men can be priests (and needs to be married to be able to rise to the title), at least in east europe Catholic priests aren't even allowed to masturbate, let alone can they have sex or get married. according to the church women ar to sit in the back, silent, and are only good for making kids. This is not ok. (For example a woman must enter the church wearing head cover because of Eve, also not allowed in the church if they are on their periods because “they are impure”. I don't know what cr… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/25 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Why are very many Reddit feminists christianophobic?There's probably a better way to phrase that which won't cause people of faith to feel unwelcome in the MensRights cause. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/25 08:46 PM |
| 9 | Woah, reddit built-in AI shows it is a subreddit to avoid!!Menslib only seems healthy and helpful on the surface. I spent a bunch of time there and I realized the community is insidiously damaging to one's mental health. It's all performative and it's devoid of any authenticity or real emotions. Stay away. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/25 10:39 PM |
| -4 | can we talk about the shame regarding male masterbation for a second?Fun fact: Masturbation has never been found to be harmful to you in any medical or psychological way. Unless of course you're addicted. Porn, however, is consistently found to be harmful to you. So I guess if you just wank off in private with your own fantasies and no porn, then you're going to be fine. Personally, relatively recently I just stopped masturbating altogether. I feel great being in control of my own urges and I feel spiritually better but I don't think that is right for everyone an… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Michelle Obama says she’s ‘glad’ for not having a sonI agree. There are a lot of valid points made in this sub. This post is not one of them. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/25 09:52 AM |
| 1 | A feminist and a tradcon debatehow can i protect my mental health while debating? 2 things that help me when I worry too much about a debate: You're debating against misandrist ideas not against people. You can hate the ideas but don't hate the person. That helps a lot with the anxiety and stress of debating them. You may not have perfected every argument yet. Give yourself grace. You're going to learn from the debate on how to improve your wording or how to anticipate certain counterpoints etc. That's normal. Forgiving yours… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/25 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Finally some common sense at uniThe right already doesn't like it. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/25 04:56 PM |
| 10 | The photo gapThe family photo gender gap. This fathers day let's take lots of photos with our kids. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/25 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Governor Gretchen Whitmer @GovWhitmer To the men of Michigan, we’re working hard to ensure you have access to the support you need to live a good life. Here’s how we are fighting for you 🧵Well. It's a start. Hopefully democrats keep working on regaining the male voters that they worked so hard to lose. This is insufficient but she can keep building on it. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/25 11:24 AM |
| 5 | Governor Gretchen Whitmer @GovWhitmer To the men of Michigan, we’re working hard to ensure you have access to the support you need to live a good life. Here’s how we are fighting for you 🧵Since when does the republican party care about men? Don't fall for either party. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/25 11:21 AM |
| 4 | Do Republicans pander to men?If Republicans cared about men then I'd be a republican. I've observed the size of the crap that they do not give about men's issues. So I'm not a republican. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/25 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Getting zero matches on dating apps impacts my mental health and self confidenceall women are the same Lolwut? | /r/MensRights | 09/06/25 11:23 AM |
| 3 | Getting zero matches on dating apps impacts my mental health and self confidenceCorporations are exploiting men. The blame is squarely on greedy people screwing over men for profit. Society isn't doing a darn thing to protect men. What's worse is when anybody dares to complain about it they're met with snide comments about hating women. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/25 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Getting zero matches on dating apps impacts my mental health and self confidencethere is still a slim possibility of matching with someone and going on dates, Then there's an even slimmer possibility those dates lead to meaningful relationships. Go to a place where you can find a wife. Not a place where you can maybe find dates. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/25 10:22 AM |
| 3 | Getting zero matches on dating apps impacts my mental health and self confidenceMen are being exploited by for profit corporations. I blame them. Some women are complicit with this, sure. But I'm angry at the few rich people exploiting me rather than at the many normal people who were sold a fantasy. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/25 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Getting zero matches on dating apps impacts my mental health and self confidenceThere's some truth to this. Especiallyin the office. But it's not the majority. You can still talk to girls in all the same places your forefathers found love: school, church, community groups, social gatherings in your neighborhood, etc. Running groups are the new dating apps. Join a Running club in your area. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/25 10:17 AM |
| 33 | Wife called Cops on MeThis. She'll claim that she has defacto custody because you're not with the kid. Document that she's denying access and get emergency orders ASAP. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/25 09:59 PM |
| 12 | Wife called Cops on MeShe's taking the kid. That's where this dude needs to get a divorce document and an emergency custody order to protect his child's right to equal access to daddy. Do not hide assets. That makes judges angry and you lose even more that way. Nobody cares if she's cheating you still lose everything. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/25 09:58 PM |
| 20 | The Classic "You can't be sexist to men" garbageThe Supreme Court took on a case of a white woman facing discrimination for being straight. They sided with her. Maybe they can take a case of a man being discriminated against for being a man. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/25 10:08 AM |
| -7 | Michigan Governor Gretchen Whitmer praises hard working menThis hatred of the right needs to stop The delusion that the right somehow cares about men needs to stop. perhaps men are not the bourgeois oppressors feminists say they are. The poster is right that leftwing policies like workers rights or the ERA are better for men. The people who have taken over the democratic party and made it about female supremacism need to be thrown out. Until then we have 2 parties that hate men in different ways. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/25 12:30 AM |
| 19 | Michigan Governor Gretchen Whitmer praises hard working men"Them" being all politicians. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/25 12:04 AM |
| 1 | What precautions can a man take to avoid losing everything in a divorce?Be a stay at home husband. Don't have anything that can be taken. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/25 10:52 PM |
| 0 | USA: Sex-crazed female teacher who gave birth to student's baby is accused of shocking new crimes. OP: In reality female abusers get hardly any time in jail.A serial pediphile rapist got 6 months of jail time. This pedo raped 3 children and after only 6 months is back out there prowling the streets for more child victims. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Mankeeping - the next theoretical way to position men as oppressive and women as victimsStep 1) villainize and dismantle men's support networks such as fraternities or all-mens clubs or even boyscouts. Step 2) blame men for not having support networks. Step 3) ... profit? | /r/MensRights | 19/05/25 12:24 PM |
| 4 | Article: pre-nups actually prevent divorceDivorce rates are much lower among couples with prenuptial agreements. Why then are some people so opposed to them if they're objectively a good thing? | /r/MensRights | 19/05/25 12:21 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about the Christian influencers who talk positively about masculinity?That's a really interesting article about how to view marriage laws through the lens of game theory. We REALLY messed up by changing the laws to disincentivize marriage for men and incentivize divorce for women. I also like your point about the role religion plays in creating disincentives for divorce. Christianity has not been firm about this, and preaches more towards men about family responsibility, is less stern towards women. Despite the laws, Muslims and Hindus in the USA have much lower d… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/25 10:09 AM |
| 8 | "if she said/did that, she's not a true feminist"New flash: there are no "true feminists". | /r/MensRights | 15/05/25 11:52 AM |
| 9 | Are feminists allowed to comment on this subreddit? If they are, why aren't they commenting?There are posts and comments from feminists here all the time. There are many parts of their ideology they can talk about calmly and the debates are easy. But when they say anti-male tenets of their ideology they get a vigorous debate that calls them out on their hate. By contrast - if you go to a feminism sub and post that men are victims of, well anything, then you get banned and cannot even have a debate. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/25 04:12 PM |
| 18 | Feminists always talk about toxic masculinity, but what are some examples of toxic femininity?Stay at home wives. Scantily clad social media influencers. Comparing the wedding ring their husband or fiance gave you. Viewing men through a lens of what they, as objects, can provide to women (e.g. the "female gaze"). etc. Anything where women submit to an idealized traditional role of women that are actually self-sabotaging. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/25 11:47 AM |
| 13 | Rapists of men and boys given tougher prison sentences than those who target female victims (UK)Does the study compare female perpetrators on female victims? Homophobia could be an explanation. So we would look for harsher punishment of women who sexually assault other women relative to women who sexually assault men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/05/25 11:38 AM |
| 0 | I’m a gay man wondering about Men’s right? Do gay people have any place to take advantage of these right too?Trans men are men. We stand against TERFs. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/25 11:05 AM |
| 7 | "Not sure if I want to have children" at ages 40+. WTF?Wait, do you mean the men didn't consent to having the kids? Or the women didn't consent? | /r/MensRights | 05/05/25 12:46 AM |
| 0 | What do you think of democrats engaging the "manospgere"?The person who won the popular vote against Obama in the primaries, and later won the popular vote against Trump in the general... was a bad candidate? Not to mention how she absolutely smoked Bernie in the vote count. So there was no better alternative candidate. The problem is the party has hemorrhaged male voters, including black male voters. We cannot win like this. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/25 11:30 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of democrats engaging the "manospgere"?I agree with some of this (especially about the party feeling entitled to votes) but I adamantly want to emphasize that the problem is the anti-male hatespeech thats part of the platform and NOT the choice of candidates. It would be a stretch to say that Hillary or Kamala were worse candidates than Trump. They had each won multiple elected offices and had impressive resumes of political service. OK They were not as charismatic, true. But they were visibly more qualified and they were winners of … | /r/MensRights | 02/05/25 02:31 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of democrats engaging the "manospgere"?it's been working on most people apparently, so why change it? It had been working. This last election shows that it crossed a line and stopped working. Too many people left. We'll have to lose more elections before the hatespeech people will be elected from the party. Then we'll start winning again. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/25 12:22 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of democrats engaging the "manospgere"?an egregiously terrible right wing candidate After abandoning men we can't even win against an egregiously bad right wing candidate. We lost to someone who is so egregiously bad that he divorced and remarried 3 times (which as a Christian is a major MAJOR major sin), was convicted of 34 felonies, found liable for sexual assault, is obese, has a bad combover, speaks in a vulgar manner, has had several of his businesses go bankrupt, has been called inept by the people who worked with him (includin… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/25 10:23 PM |
| 16 | What do you think of democrats engaging the "manospgere"?my breaking point was when I saw that video of Barack Obama giving those black men a talking to and said not voting for Kamala was nothing but misogyny. Me too. I'm leftwing AF and vote democratic every year. But that Obama gaffe was the moment that I knew we lost the election. And nobody apologized. Upon further reflection, we have committed to losing the next several elections because we continue to allow that kind of language within the democratic party. We deserve to lose until those hatemon… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/25 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Young Men Voters May Be More Likely To Swing Back (to the Left)I predict men are most likely to swing to "not vote". In order to swing to the left our colleagues who hate men but love capitalism (as long as it ponders to women) would need to reform. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/25 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Misandry from the US GovernmentThe only people who consistently hate men more than liberals... are conservatives. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/04/25 05:15 PM |
| 20 | Why Gen Z men are becoming more conservative? General discussion:where men, who have historically held more power, are being asked to share space, reflect on harm, Tell that to the boys who work in mines and die painful deaths at a young age from black lung disease. Tell them that they had the power while being exploited as child labor. While they're in the middle of a coughing fit, tell them to reflect on the harm they caused. Why don't you go tell your message to the rich and powerful. Because when you tell it to the people who have always been the victims … | /r/MensRights | 20/04/25 02:37 AM |
| 2 | "The Emphathisers of patriarchy are also enemies of mras" -How you guys resonate with that statement?it's all men hurting other men I hate this right-wing nonsense. It's all men being exploited by the powerful classes. In the case of child soldiers then it's young boys being forced to hurt other pre-teen boys. You're showing a complete lack of human compassion when you use a "black on black crime" style of argument against those victims. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/25 09:32 AM |
| 10 | "The Emphathisers of patriarchy are also enemies of mras" -How you guys resonate with that statement?Oligarchy is the enemy of MRA's. Men have been oppressed for thousands of years by the men and women of the moneyed classes. I reject any efforts to paint a male face on the oligarchs who exploit us. It's disingenuous and ultimately drives men to run away from the groups that repeat it. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/25 01:55 PM |
| 7 | "The Emphathisers of patriarchy are also enemies of mras" -How you guys resonate with that statement?Karen's don't even realize how much this applies to them. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/25 01:44 PM |
| 10 | "The Emphathisers of patriarchy are also enemies of mras" -How you guys resonate with that statement?Afghanistan has child soldiers. Any country that forces preteen boys to fight and die for the profit of a moneyed class is not a patriarchy. The middle east as a region oppresses male sexuality through genital mutilation and through grievous bodily harm (even death) for men who do not conform. The gender gap in life expectancy in the middle east and Afghanistan is way worse than here in the US because we're more equal towards men than they are. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/25 12:59 PM |
| 4 | Half of the 250 Kids Expelled from Preschool Each Day Are Black BoysThe article pointed to the research study. The boys behavior was NOT found to be any different according to the researchers. But the way their behavior was reported was very different. This isn't about how the boys behaved. This is about teachers hating boys. So this is explained by misandry nit fatherlessness. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/25 07:50 PM |
| 0 | Half of the 250 Kids Expelled from Preschool Each Day Are Black BoysBecause it's in the article A September 2021 study published in the journal Annals of the New York Academy of Sciences found that teachers tended to complain more about Black students, particularly Black boys. These teachers identified Black students’ behavior as more problematic, compared with white students, the authors wrote, even though these differences “were not seen in directly observed behavior in the laboratory.” The researchers found the kids behavior was the same but people reacted mo… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/25 07:48 PM |
| -6 | Half of the 250 Kids Expelled from Preschool Each Day Are Black BoysA September 2021 study published in the journal Annals of the New York Academy of Sciences found that teachers tended to complain more about Black students, particularly Black boys. These teachers identified Black students’ behavior as more problematic, compared with white students, the authors wrote, even though these differences “were not seen in directly observed behavior in the laboratory.” The kids behavior was observed to be the same by researchers. People's reactions to the boys' behavior… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/25 07:47 PM |
| -2 | Half of the 250 Kids Expelled from Preschool Each Day Are Black BoysPreschool! There are 2 mutually exclusive explanations for this. Either Being male and being black makes you a monster from birth Or Being male and black makes people see you as a monster, even when you're a tiny child. There's no mixing and matching here because this is about preschoolers not adults not even "kids". You can't say "well toddlers deserved that reputation". No. Therefore it cannot be "a little of both". It's exclusive. Either 1 or 2. I say it's #2 because when people look at males… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/25 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Why is talking about men's issues seen as anti-woman? Even when you don't mention women or feminism at all?A "Men are exploited by military conscription" B "Actually, there haven't been any female presidents" A "nobody said anything about women. Men are more likely to be given dangerous or fatal assignments by employers." B "Actually women make up the minority of CEOs" A "again, nobody said anything about women. Men do not have equal rights in family law." B "sounds like you hate women" A "WTF I never said anything about women". | /r/MensRights | 16/04/25 01:47 AM |
| 5 | “Men were free but women weren’t”When we're we free from exploitation of our labor or from oppression by the military draft? | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Almost all of the immigrants/citizens being sent to prisons abroad are menCan we stop repeating this man-hating nonsense. They're targeting men because they're men not because they're gang members. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 12:40 PM |
| 0 | Almost all of the immigrants/citizens being sent to prisons abroad are menThat's a bullshit feminist narrative. We're deporting men because of systemic misandry in government and society.. We WERE previously only focused on deporting criminals but Trump changed the directive to deporting everyone ICE can find. They're only looking to find men because misandry is systemic. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 12:39 PM |
| 0 | Almost all of the immigrants/citizens being sent to prisons abroad are menThis is an unsatisfactory explanation for why we are not also deporting women. The answer is misandry. We're not deporting illigal immigrants. We're deporting men. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 12:36 PM |
| 0 | Almost all of the immigrants/citizens being sent to prisons abroad are menFeminists use the prison system as a means of furthering female supremacism and dehumanizing men. Misandry is how we arrive at the bullshit narrative that we aren't deporting humans - fathers who hug their kids and then go to work to feed their families the way that men are told to do. No, we're somehow supposed to believe that we're deporting non-humans who are violent gang members. It's nonsense that plays into the feminist narrative of crime as a male character flaw. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 12:33 PM |
| -1 | Should we normalize carrying pepper spray?it is a major tactical force multiplier in any confrontation whether I hold the beam on them while I fend them off to escape or blind them so I can engage. I guess reddit is a good place to write about your fantasies. I've lived in big cities all around the US and Eastern Europe, and in my 40+ years never once seen such a "confrontation". | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Russell Brand being charged with “rape” from 1999.Oof he is going to lose sponsorship from Hallow. Darn dude. I'm a user of the Hallow app and I can see how someone like Russell Brand would be effective at expanding the audience. This sucks. https://www.osvnews.com/russell-brand-christian-convert-and-promoter-of-hallow-charged-with-rape/ | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 08:25 PM |
| 7 | Russell Brand being charged with “rape” from 1999.It's probably the police thinking they can score a high profile arrest with zero evidence, as they often do. But Hypothetically there's an answer to your question: a paper journal, or a dated letter. If it's got dates and no signs of tampering then it's admissible in court. Remember that PAPER is the technology our court system was built on. Not video. Not digital notes stored in a blockchain. Paper. Now. Most likely no actual paper trail exists implicating Russel Brand. So like I said: it's pro… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 08:17 PM |
| 13 | Russell Brand being charged with “rape” from 1999.consensual forms being offered to partners before sex Consent can be withdrawn during sex. Any pre-sex forms would be legally useless. You would need a post-sex form to verify that consent was maintained throughout. AND you'd have to prove that there was no coercion in the signing of that form otherwise it would be thrown out of court. and things like body cams being more normal (up to the point of just before intimacy), Audio recordings during sex might become a more common thing... at least in… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 08:05 PM |
| 6 | One thing I rarely see discussed when it comes to George Floyd/police brutalityI'm willing to help men that help themselves. I'm willing to help men. They don't have to earn my charity because men are human and deserve the same dignity and value that women receive. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 11:42 AM |
| 0 | One thing I rarely see discussed when it comes to George Floyd/police brutalityI see. This is about politics for you. For the rest of us this is about supporting men. We're here because men are treated unfairly and we want to educate, organize, and bring about changes. I recommend that you put aside your political bulls%!+ and support men instead. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 10:36 AM |
| 22 | One thing I rarely see discussed when it comes to George Floyd/police brutalityAaaaahhhhhahahahah! That's so naive. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 10:34 AM |
| 14 | One thing I rarely see discussed when it comes to George Floyd/police brutalityCourts saw those reports and all the other evidence, too. They found that George Floyd had been murdered. He was murdered, in part, because he was a man. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 10:17 AM |
| 5 | One thing I rarely see discussed when it comes to George Floyd/police brutalityYes. You're right. Police and courts assume that darker skin makes you suspicious of criminality and they think that masculinity makes you suspicious of criminal activity. Cops treat people with darker skin roughly more often and they treat men roughly more than women. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 10:15 AM |
| 14 | What feelings do most men have everyday; happiness; anger; rage; boredom, fear, etc...?Mostly disappointment and self loathing. The term anger is often misapplied to men. Our actual emotions are blindly mistaken by others as anger. Thus men are pressured into hiding their feelings so that people don't accuse them of being dangerous and angry. So you should not label any man's emotion as anger, you should actually listen to them. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/25 12:10 PM |
| 4 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?Mostly because society doesn't allow men to be victims and we havs the audacity to point out that men have been oppressed for thousands of years by things like military conscription, genital mutilation, gendered laws, and social expectations that value male lives less than female comfort. ALSO... because some people here mistakenly blame women for these problems instead of blaming misandry for these problems. That unnecessarily ruffles feathers and detracts from our cause. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/25 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Any one heard of Dr T Hassan Johnson100% agree! | /r/MensRights | 07/04/25 10:58 AM |
| 42 | Why is prostate cancer research so underfunded even if around the same people die from it as breast cancer?Misandry. It's because men are not allowed to be victims. We have to help those poor victims of breast cancer because they're allowed to be victims. But men with prostate cancer? Give them bootstraps. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/25 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Any one heard of Dr T Hassan JohnsonWe need more if this. There absolutely is intersectionality in the discrimination against men and the discrimination against black people. When combined it produces an experience that both black women don't understand and that white men don't understand. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/25 10:52 AM |
| 1 | The plight of boys and men, once sidelined by Democrats, is now a priorityAbout time | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/25 11:50 AM |
| 26 | Study shows marriage increases your odds of dementia by 50%I wonder what the delta looks like by gender 🤔 | /r/MensRights | 04/04/25 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Would a man seek a lifelong relationship with a woman who has kids?I married a single mom. I was a single father with primary custody. She had sole custody. The marriage is great but being a stepfather is the worst disappointment. I was excited to be a stepfather and now I advise young men to avoid it at all costs. My son had very positive expectations of what a stepmother was. He was very open to it. My stepdaughter had heard one story after another about stepfathers being bad. She didn't see me as who I am for the first 2 or so years, instead she superimposed… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/25 11:04 AM |
| 83 | Is male loneliness really all in men’s heads? This floored me.Can't admit that society is hurting men. God forbid anyone show sympathy towards men. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/25 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Please tell me what rights we’re missing.Fuck you, You first I am an ally. Well, You really fooled me and everyone else here. Do better. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/25 12:00 PM |
| 11 | My mom thinks women are inherently unable to do anything bad or evilThis is an ages-old belief. That's why laws were mostly designed to target men. It's partly why Prison systems were designed with the sick obsession of punishing men. The idea that men do wrong and women are angels, has a driver of systemic sexism against men for thousands of years. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/25 11:40 AM |
| 8 | Please tell me what rights we’re missing.Today men are being forcefully conscripted and sent to death and dismemberment on the front lines in * Ukraine and Russia * Myanmar * across the Sahel region (Burkina Faso, Mali, Chad, etc) * Sudan and South Sudan * Ethiopia * Colombia * Afghanistan * Somalia and more. So don't tell us it's hypothetical that we can get drafted. Instead become an ally against the systematic sexism against men. It personally affects me that I had to volunteer for this exploitation by the men and women of the power… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/25 11:12 AM |
| 7 | Please tell me what rights we’re missing.About 70% of divorces are filed by women because the law incentivizes divorce for women and disincentivizes divorce for men. Divorce is usually something that happens to men. So YOU stop blaming the victim. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/25 10:59 AM |
| 4 | Netflix says it has made 'Adolescence' available to all secondary schools across the UK and that a 'healthy relationships charity' will produce guides and resources for teachers, parents and carers to 'help navigate conversations' around the seriesI also don't read Mein Kampf just to form my own opinion about it. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/25 10:55 AM |
| 10 | Netflix says it has made 'Adolescence' available to all secondary schools across the UK and that a 'healthy relationships charity' will produce guides and resources for teachers, parents and carers to 'help navigate conversations' around the seriesI would watch it if the people who saw it came out thinking "we have to help boys because they're being hurt". Instead the people who watch it seem to come out thinking "boys need oversight because they're dangerous". Is it nuanced enough to make people charitable instead of hateful towards a group? No? Then why should I watch it? | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 11:07 AM |
| 227 | Netflix says it has made 'Adolescence' available to all secondary schools across the UK and that a 'healthy relationships charity' will produce guides and resources for teachers, parents and carers to 'help navigate conversations' around the seriesDo these materials talk about boys being the victims of misandrist for-profit schemes that have led to mental health issues and thus boys need our help and our charity? Or do they paint boys as the monsters who need to fix themselves and need to be be monitored and punished if they don't prove themselves to be "one if the good ones"? And if they dare to say that the world is unfair to them then punish them even more! I'm going to take a guess the materials are more about the later? | /r/MensRights | 31/03/25 04:43 PM |
| 7 | I wonder why?Because the majority of voters are women and Because feminists organize and build alliances. (Hint: we should organize and make alliances). | /r/MensRights | 30/03/25 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Is misandry and wokeness really dying or on the decline now?Misandry and wokeism are two different things that have some overlap. Trump might be fighting against whatever "woke" is but he's not fighting misandry. He's not changing military conscription. He's not protecting boys from genital mutilation. He's not making family law equal for fathers. He's not changing the representation of men in media away from negative stereotypes. He's not helping anyone but himself. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/25 08:49 PM |
| 2 | You're more likely to get bitten by a snake than finding that traditional womanKnow your worth kings 🤴 | /r/MensRights | 29/03/25 02:48 PM |
| 2 | You're more likely to get bitten by a snake than finding that traditional womanDon't you look at women's presence as a reward. If they're not carrying theor weight then don't marry them. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/25 02:22 PM |
| 12 | You're more likely to get bitten by a snake than finding that traditional womanWhy would anyone want to marry an unemployed bum? If she can't relate to me about the stresses of work that's not helpful when I come home from a hard day of work. If she can't contribute to family finances then how does that help me and the kids to live comfortably? Nah. Tradwives are just unemployed bums. Kick them to the curb. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/25 01:53 PM |
| 3 | divorced dads with children, how is dating going on for you?I was a divorced dad. I escaped my abusive ex wife, I won full custody of my son. Dating sucked. For years it was emotionally devastating and I gave up a few times. I did eventually remarry. I moved to NYC and it kind of happened. I married a single mom. She could relate to me about the challenges of single parenthood. But I tell you being a step father is a bad deal because of all the pre-conceived notions children have about stepfather. Overall. Sexism made the dating experience into something… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 01:46 PM |
| -2 | North Carolina introduces "Women's safety and protection act"Typical republican misandry. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/25 11:13 PM |
| 15 | The “loser” epidemicYep. The loneliness epidemic is the mass isolation of (mostly) men by profit-mongering media (including social media) and by exploitative corporate employers. It's something that is being done to men. Not something caused by men. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/25 10:54 AM |
| 15 | Equal Rights AmendmentYes. I believe that we should. It would force the law that protections women from genital mutilation to be made gender neutral. It would end gender discrimination in military draft. It would end outright gender preference in custody laws (though obviously not end biased judges). Etc. Etc. So yes. We support equality. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/25 04:04 AM |
| 5 | Will male Americans who break the law be deported?I am unsurprised that the Trump administration planned to only deport men and signed their contracts accordingly. The only people who hate men more than liberals, are conservatives. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/25 11:39 PM |
| 5 | What rights dont men have?Abuse is not about strength. Abuse is about control. My abuser was smaller than me. That just made it harder for me to get the help I needed. 😕 | /r/MensRights | 26/03/25 05:09 PM |
| 4 | What data is out there to debunk the "misandry annoys, misogyny kills" argument?Conscription | /r/MensRights | 26/03/25 01:23 AM |
| 6 | Netflix drama demonstrates that smartphones are poison for boys’ minds. Only boys minds.To be fair... smartphones and social media ARE poisonous. They're damaging our social lives, ruining our sleep cycles, giving us unrealistic body expectations and making us value materialistic garbage. All of which hurts us physically, mentally, and spiritually. What's not fair about this focus on smartphones, is the lack of focus on boys as the victims of corporate exploitation. Rather it paints boys as the bad actors in the situation - which is just adding insult to injury. We need to protect … | /r/MensRights | 24/03/25 03:03 PM |
| -17 | UK: Schools to give boys anti-misogyny lessons to stop toxic masculinity in wake of Netflix hit AdolescenceThe manosphere is being sold as real. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 01:58 PM |
| -8 | UK: Schools to give boys anti-misogyny lessons to stop toxic masculinity in wake of Netflix hit AdolescenceWe started a war with Spain after a fictional story about the sinking of the USS Maine. We just revoked the legal refugee status of Haitian immigrants after a fictional story about them eating the dogs in Springfield. So... yeah that happens a lot actually. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 01:35 PM |
| 5 | "Undesirable" men are being abducted in the Ivanovo Oblast and sent to warStanislav Sergeyevich Voskresensky is the governor of the Ivanovo Oblast. It's in Russia, just Northeast of Moscow. He's probably a stooge for Putin, who should be in jail, too. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/25 03:16 PM |
| 6 | "Undesirable" men are being abducted in the Ivanovo Oblast and sent to warHuh? Ivanova Oblast is in Russia. Just Northeast of Moscow. Our tax dollars are not going to support Russia. Our tax dollars are going to protect American corporate investments from the negative financial effects of Russian foreign policy. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/25 03:12 PM |
| 26 | Let's Talk About Toxic Masculinity (And why we should stop using it!)Use "Internalized misandry" instead. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/25 11:07 AM |
| 24 | Some of the biggest misandrists I know are menInternalized misandry is a real thing. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/25 12:20 PM |
| 8 | Some of the biggest misandrists I know are men100% true | /r/MensRights | 20/03/25 12:19 PM |
| 34 | Some of the biggest misandrists I know are menMisandry predates feminism. Feminism is only a symptom of misandry. Not the cause. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/25 12:18 PM |
| 60 | Whenever a radfem leftist woman says “misandry isn’t a real thing” just say this verbatimtrans men are either seen as traitors or excluded from feminist discussion about men, which denies them their identity Very well said. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/25 12:15 PM |
| 3 | Charities for women. Mutual aide societies (e.g. fraternities) for men.Wow. I was skeptical. They're not charities to support for-profit schemes like legal services or counseling. They seem to actually offer aide. Very cool. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/25 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Any men against Mandatory Patternity Testing at birth???? So should we ask the fetus for consent before it's born?? That's just ridiculous. The whole notion of parents forcing birth on their children is ridiculous. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Any men against Mandatory Patternity Testing at birth?It's understandably unpopular to say that a parent "forced" life on their child. Maybe take a less radical position? | /r/MensRights | 19/03/25 08:03 PM |
| 7 | Any men against Mandatory Patternity Testing at birth?Who do you mean by "that person"? It implies the woman, but maybe you might mean the fetus? In that case you're also against unilateral adoption and safe surrender. Both of which are rights women have that men don't. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/25 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Charities for women. Mutual aide societies (e.g. fraternities) for men.I'm genuinely curious about such charities. I am looking to donate to male only charities. Can you share a few links? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/25 12:20 PM |
| 13 | Any men against Mandatory Patternity Testing at birth?If you forced a life on another person I hope this isn't implying that men who consented to sex with a woman somehow forced a pregnancy on her? Remember, rape victims are still required to pay child support to their rapists because of ages-old misandry like that. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/25 12:18 PM |
| 8 | There was a vtuber (named Kitsunero) who told anyonee that men deserved love (through twitter). And oh boy, look at how Feminists respond to her…Omg it just keeps going. I thought there would be like 4 or so screenshots. But the hatespeech just keeps going and going. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/25 12:23 PM |
| 14 | The Men’s Rights Movement: Changing The Cultural NarrativeWhy is there such a belief that female leaders are more trustworthy? Conditioning by the media If there were a few hit TV shows showing terrible bosses being women instead of men then that poll would change. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/25 11:04 PM |
| -1 | This community needs to open up to the idea feminism to at least some degree.we have still made a critical error in our handling of feminism in our discussions Agreed. The enemy is not feminism the enemy is misandry. Not all of feminism is misandrist and not all misandrists are feminists. there is also an incredibly large number of feminists who support feminism because they genuinely support equality Yes. Or at least they want to support equality but usually still accept certain anti-male positions and mistakenly believe they're supporting equality. we're locking oursel… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/25 10:57 AM |
| -6 | Is it me, or are men globally fed up with women’s bs?Hello, mods? This has nothing to do with advocating for equality for men and boys. This is the kind of post that makes people think we're anti-woman. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/25 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How to prevent against false accusations?Should we have a recorder on at all times in our rooms? If you are in a state with "single party consent" laws, then yes. That means only one of the people being recorded must consent to the recording. And you consent so that's legal. There's no reason NOT to record your bedroom for your own protection. If your state has a "two party consent" law then everyone being recorded must consent to being recorded. In that case recording people in your room who are unaware is illegal and thus inadmissibl… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/25 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Circumcision constitutional challenge coming.That's why we need the E.R.A. Then they'd have to make the ban on genital mutilation either gender neutral or repeal it. The gamble is hoping they simply make it gender neutral. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/25 12:09 PM |
| 12 | Circumcision constitutional challenge coming.Many governments have banned it... but only to protect people who have more privilege than you and me. No country in the world protects people like you and me from this barbarism. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/25 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Hot take: It's hard to talk about a men issue without mentioning women and Feminists.Your argument seems to be that when you talk about it in a way that doesn't mention women then other people will bring up women, and/or that you cannot cover the the paradoxical nature without mentioning how feminism impacts an issue... which thus involves women. You can always tell people that their whataboutism is not welcome in the conversation and ask them to leave. And you can talk about misandry without mentioning feminism. Because after all, even if we eliminated feminism with a magic wan… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/03/25 10:57 PM |
| 30 | "The total killed includes 13 women and five children"Translation: "144 animals who are worse than bears, were killed. We hate them anyway. Good riddance." But remember: "there is no systemic discrimination against men." 🙄 | /r/MensRights | 10/03/25 02:26 PM |
| 31 | Matriarchy in Modern Russia."Yeah, but it's men who made it this way therefore it doesn't matter if men suffer these inequalities. Also it's less impactful when discrimination like this happens to men because... reasons. " - feminists, probably | /r/MensRights | 10/03/25 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Jobless, isolated, fed misogynistic porn… where is the love for Britain’s lost boys? | Sonia SodhaThat's how you know it's a good article. 👍 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/03/25 01:45 PM |
| 90 | 2-year-old daughter abducted 25 years ago found, reunited with fatherThe news story doesn't say how she reacted to her father. I guarantee she grew up being told that her father had abandoned her. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/25 11:24 PM |
| -3 | I Stand With MenAaaahhhhahahah! GTFO! | /r/MensRights | 09/03/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | I Stand With MenHere's how it works. If every time an aggressive girl hits someone to get something people just say "we'll let it slide. Here have it." The she's going to keep hitting people and will keep getting free stuff. If instead, when she fucks around she gets humiliated and nobody takes her side when she's put in her place, then she's going to think twice before trying those shenanigans again. So if Ukraine had gotten the funds they needed from day one of the war, and if Ukraine conscripted everyone (me… | /r/MensRights | 09/03/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | I Stand With MenAgreed. This post should be flagged and banned. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/25 01:51 PM |
| 2 | I Stand With MenExactly. If one is for men's rights then they are against gender discrimination in military conscription. In which case they are against the policies of both Russia and Ukraine. But the war itself and NATO's role in it are totally NOT topics for this sub. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/25 01:49 PM |
| 6 | Why do we feel mad about the word patriarchy?Yeah you hit the nail on the head. Men are not a monolith. Most men are oppressed by the capitalist class. Most men have been exploited by wealthy families for thousands of years. The theory of Patriarchy mistakenly says that oligarchy was male and then mistakenly says that therefore all men are oppressors. Thus, we hate it. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/25 10:05 PM |
| 10 | I Stand With MenHow do you propose we end Russian expansion? Allowing Russia to take territory today only emboldens them to try to take more territory tomorrow. We will NEVER have peace as long as they keep picking fights. Sadly, it looks like the only way to get peace is to hit back so hard that they go home and stop attacking everyone else. And the only way to hit back hard is gender neutral conscription. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/25 10:00 PM |
| 12 | Woman who forced ex into sex at machete-point sent to psychiatric hospitalIf that were true then why not just send her to jail? Because There is a difference! Female perps are often seen as being good people who can be healed to be good again. Male perps are seen as bad people who must be punished for their inherently beastly nature. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Woman who forced ex into sex at machete-point sent to psychiatric hospitalNah. Not worth saying it in the first place let alone repeating it. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/25 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Woman who forced ex into sex at machete-point sent to psychiatric hospitalSo then why not send her to jail? Because There is a difference. Female perps are seen as being good people who can be healed to be good again. Male perps are seen as bad people who must be punished for their inherently bad nature. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/25 04:05 PM |
| 243 | Woman who forced ex into sex at machete-point sent to psychiatric hospitalPunishment for men. Reform for women. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/25 12:15 AM |
| 2 | besides circumcision obviously what are some major issues mens rights care about out of curiosity.Gender inequality in family law. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/25 07:34 PM |
| 5 | besides circumcision obviously what are some major issues mens rights care about out of curiosity.At the moment Russia invaded them, they should have conscripted both men and women. Every human should defend their home from evil minions who would try to take it from them; every human not just every man. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Equal rights amendmentYes, I believe the equal rights amendment would be a HUGE step towards equality for men and boys. That would include multiple laws that average men will bring to court. Including lawsuits about gender discrimination in family court. There is a limit however: the constitution mostly applies to criminal law and much of civil law and family law doesn't have to adhere due to various technicalities (for example, the rights of the accused don't matter if you're not technically accused you're just divo… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/25 12:30 PM |
| 7 | How the Manosphere is Radicalizing Young MenRemember. "Kill all ____" doesn't mean something other than what the words mean. It is literally a call to genocide a group based on its race, gender, creed, sexual orientation, etc. Comparing a group to a wild animal, like a bear or pigs, is TEXTBOOK hatespeech. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/25 12:24 PM |
| 2 | How the Manosphere is Radicalizing Young MenThis is correct. The crappy media that young men settle for today is just low quality and high in shock value. And you are spot on about WHY young men are even bothering with it at all. It's because the alternative is content with insulting claims about men being "privileged oppressors" just like you said. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/25 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Why is talking about men's issues seen as anti-woman? Even when you don't mention women or feminism at all?Why would try to change the topic to women in Ethiopia? The USA could make the legal protections gender-neutral. In the USA Men are overwhelmingly the subject of genital mutilation. Why make it suddenly about women in Ethiopia??? Why the whataboutism? I don't understand. It's annoying. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/25 07:47 PM |
| 21 | Are there any crimes women commit more then men doJust so that nobody confuses what this means with a pop culture term... it's the crime of castration of a male victim. And yes, women are more likely to be perpetrators. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/25 01:39 AM |
| 16 | Are there any crimes women commit more then men doSadly not a crime. Though it should be. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/25 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Why is talking about men's issues seen as anti-woman? Even when you don't mention women or feminism at all?The reason why is because when discussing many men's issues, the issue is presented in a way that entirely misrepresents the occurrence of the female equivalent I diny buy it because many men’s issues don't even have a female equivalent. For example gender discrimination in the military draft. There are no women being forced to die, get dismembered, or get traumatized in battlefields, against their will, for the profit and security of wealthy families. Or genital mutilation. It would take away n… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/25 11:19 PM |
| 19 | "Left-wing"I stand firmly against the exploitation of the working class by the men and women of the capitalist class. Anyone may become my enemy if they dismiss the oppression of working class men by disingenuously painting a male face on our oppressors in order to make a "black on black crime" style of argument. That makes me a left wing male advocate. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/03/25 12:07 PM |
| 8 | UK: Young men's wages fall behind women's for the first time as gender pay gap grows, damning report revealsSo I say, let's give men those social privileges, too. Let's give men DEI points. It demonstrably helped women. And now men visibly need the help so we should use it to help men. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/25 12:00 PM |
| 1 | an honest question: Do you believe that toxic masculinity exists?But, do you believe, that the concept of toxic masculinity exists? No. I believe internalized misandry exists which may drive men to perform a gendered rile in society based in hateful ideas about men. I personally believe so and I am learning about even teenagers who do believe that "women" belong in kitchen and that men are above some jobs or concepts. You believe that men are toxic? Maybe you should stop. I've seen lots of teenage girls who think that women belong in the kitchen. They even do… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | DNC's "Run for Office" Webpage excludes men wile Democrats struggle with getting young male supportyou are called to duty I am called to equality. Women and children need your strength. Help me to fix the family law so that children are guaranteed equal access to their fathers after divorce. Then come back and talk to me about how children need me. shed the weight. Are you projecting? Fatty. We need strong men now more than ever We need to treat men equally now more than ever. No more gender discrimination in the military draft. No more unequal assistance to boys in education. Protect men fro… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/03/25 12:50 AM |
| 9 | So I tried mentioning Misandry in r/Leftist...They literally sent you to the conservatives. WTF! We need your vote. And they just told you to take your vote and go to the conservatives. I hate these people because they're a part of the reason why Trump won. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/03/25 01:00 PM |
| 76 | UK: Young men's wages fall behind women's for the first time as gender pay gap grows, damning report revealsThe report angers me. Their solution is to give men more bootstraps but to continue giving charity to women. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/25 12:57 PM |
| 10 | The lost boys: how a generation of young men fell behind women on pay "Women and girls aged 16 to 24 in both white-collar and blue-collar jobs make nearly 10 per cent more on average than their male peers"First young people there is a pay gap... in the other direction. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/25 12:33 PM |
| 4 | The lost boys: how a generation of young men fell behind women on pay "Women and girls aged 16 to 24 in both white-collar and blue-collar jobs make nearly 10 per cent more on average than their male peers"Sounds like they're going to give us "role models" and a "return to male virtues". But they won't give us the same charity and social programs that have proven to help women. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/25 12:32 PM |
| 38 | The lost boys: how a generation of young men fell behind women on pay "Women and girls aged 16 to 24 in both white-collar and blue-collar jobs make nearly 10 per cent more on average than their male peers"Exactly. The report talks about a return to male virtues but not about the introduction of male charities or social programs. They're going to continue to give aide to women while giving bootstraps to men and then winder why outcomes continue to lag for men. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/25 12:28 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach people to talk to without being thought as a creep?Ah got you. Just remember: women are not the arbiters of your worth. If you have many male friends and they don't think you're a repugnant "leopard" then they're right, you're not. You don't need the approval of women to be a good person. You don't need the confirmation by women to be valuable as a human being. I hope that helps. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/25 12:56 PM |
| 21 | Discrimination Double Standard: Supreme Court to Rework Legal Rules Against Straight White MenInteresting. For those who won't watch: the burden of proof to bring a discrimination trial is different for groups that are deemed less likely to be discriminated against. The Supreme Court took a discrimination case against a straight white woman who alleges discrimination discrimination by gay co-workers. They're not reviewing whether the ruling was fair (because there was no ruling) they'll be ruling whether the judges refusal to take the case to trial was fair. This could help men's rights … | /r/MensRights | 02/03/25 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a single mother under this conditions?This is a worst case scenario. There are many good reasons to date single mothers who have 50/50 custody with their ex husband. But this list is just all of the worst things that can possibly happen. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/25 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Man Suffers Intestine Necrosis After Fiancée Electrocutes His Belly for 3 Hours as Pre-Marital Pain TestAccording to Chinese legal experts, if the man or his family files a complaint, the guilty party faces up to three years in prison and paying compensation to the victim How does civil vs criminal law work I'm China? Because in the US if the victim sued her for damages then she would just pay but here they're saying he can get BOTH damages and jail all in one swift package of justice. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/25 12:07 PM |
| 22 | Man Suffers Intestine Necrosis After Fiancée Electrocutes His Belly for 3 Hours as Pre-Marital Pain TestWhy did they have to add a "too"? If anything we should be saying "well, Men can be violent, too". Otherwise, leave the "too" out of it. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/25 12:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach people to talk to without being thought as a creep?Did anyone actually say that or are you speculating? You may be assuming people don't like you before they even have enough time to know you. My experience with clubs for men is that they do NOT treat any man like a leopard. Join a fraternity (like the Masons or the Knights of Columbus etc.). Or Join a Men's Shed. Or a Warriors Circle. Or... there's like a dozen options. Likewise in church there are people with serious problems who are looking for absolution and grace... and they find it there. … | /r/MensRights | 02/03/25 11:59 AM |
| 2 | The Who Set the System Up argument does not work.Painting a male face on the capitalist oppressors is disingenuous. It serves one purpose: to deny that a large chunk of the work working class are truly oppressed because it's just "other men" doing it to those working class men. When I look at British colonialism I see oligarchs I don't see white men. British colonialism started under Queen Elizabeth I, reached the peak of atrocities under Queen Victoria, and when it was falling apart Britain tried to clung in to control with bloody war after b… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/25 02:47 PM |
| 14 | "Last year in #Haiti, child recruitment into armed groups surged by 70%. Right now, we estimate that up to half of all armed group members are children, some as young as eight years old." - @UNICEF (Most are likely boys)Whenever men are being oppressed then the language used is gender neutral. 🙄 At least they're not saying "Child soldiers: 100% of whom are women and children." | /r/MensRights | 01/03/25 02:31 PM |
| 2 | "Radical Feminist" financial services MasterCard reportedly cut a secret deal with Google to sell it's users personal information. Just more evidence that "Feminists" absolutely despise human rights.If there's a competition about who gets exploited more, it's not women and it's not men. It's not blacks Hispanics or whites. It's consumers. The winner of the Oppression Olympics is "consumers who have their data sold to advertisers who use complex algorithms to shape consumer and voter behavior in ways that is indisputably against the interest of said consumer". | /r/MensRights | 01/03/25 02:29 PM |
| 15 | USA: Glamorous Texas teacher, 35, raped boy she met at her school, police sayThat's fair. Rapists are not glamorous. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/25 09:23 PM |
| 66 | USA: Glamorous Texas teacher, 35, raped boy she met at her school, police sayThe headline actually got it right! | /r/MensRights | 28/02/25 08:37 PM |
| 6 | Did men have a granted right to vote the last centuries?💯 | /r/MensRights | 28/02/25 06:25 PM |
| 17 | Did men have a granted right to vote the last centuries?Men have no right to vote now. Men's right to vote in many states is contingent on registering for the draft. Failure to do so is a felony and felons cannot vote. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/25 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Is a bad thing to rejoice when an anti-men male feminist receive his karma?I hate the sin not the sinner. So I celebrate when misandrists learn from the errors of misandrist thinking. I do not celebrate when bad things happen to misandrists, especially not men with internalized misandry. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/25 01:16 PM |
| 17 | Spectacular! Men what are your views on this?Men are afraid of being conscripted and then disfigured on a battlefield. And men are afraid that if they refuse they'll be imprisoned and/or denied access to all federal assistance or loans that are essentially required for things like education. And be denied from government employment. Not to mention denied the right to vote in many states. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/25 01:14 PM |
| 2 | It sucks to not be involved in bro talkbecause i am more immature and i dont really have the same confidence or prowness Nah. That's not why. What groups are you in? What regular events do these groups hold? I suspect the problem is you're in the wrong groups ... or that you're not in any groups with regular events and thus are wondering why it's so hard to maintain friendships. If you feel immature but you're in an improv comedy group then everyone will talk to you a lot. They'll seek you out. But if you're in a bereavement group th… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/25 01:10 PM |
| 9 | Any arguments against "Misandry annoys, Misogyny kills"?Conscription definitely kills. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/25 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Why are Some Men Callous to the Suffering of Men (Inflicted by Women)?Growing up with an absent father Many fathers are not fully allowed in their children's lives. Was he an overworked father? Or even an access-less father? Or was he a human who is imperfect or who didn't conform to some unrealistic ideal? | /r/MensRights | 28/02/25 04:01 AM |
| 1 | when people say they circumcised their children to improve their sex lives what their really saying is.It was never about the health benefits. Circumcision is, and has always been, about controlling the sexuality of young boys and girls, and about outdated ideals of purity and beauty. It was NEVER about health. Girls can face inequalities, too. This is a cleacut case where men have less rights than women. And it cannot be justified. And it sure AF cannot be justified by touting shaky claims about either the spiritual benefits or healing properties of Circumcision. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/25 03:51 AM |
| 1 | when people say they circumcised their children to improve their sex lives what their really saying is.✋️ Genital mutilation can wait until they're adults. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Wasn't allowed into a bar because I'm a man? Seems to be happening fairly often nowadays.Can they refuse all Catholics who are unaccompanied by a protestant? Can they refuse all blacks who are not accompanied by a white? Can they refuse all amputees unless they're accompanied by a person with all their limbs? If they can't do that, they can't refuse all men. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Wasn't allowed into a bar because I'm a man? Seems to be happening fairly often nowadays.I feel like there must be grounds for a lawsuit in things like this. Some enterprising group of single lads with lawyers should get into these situations with body cameras and then take it to court. If there were a sudden spate of dozens of lawsuits like this then you bet bars would change those policies quickly. Just to make the series of lawsuits even spicier, the lads should be really diverse. Disabled lads. Black lads. Arab lads. 2 gay lads trying to get in together. Etc. Etc. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 04:59 PM |
| 10 | Women, why do u think MRAs are joke?How did Betsy Ross run one of the largest businesses in colonial and post-colonial America without a bank account? Her workshops supplied the uniforms for the revolution. Did she really do that without a bank account? How did Martha Washington run one of the largest slave plantations in the country (before George Washington met her and married up) without a bank account? Were war widows not allowed to have bank accounts so that the children of war hero's would starve? Something is not right. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 04:50 PM |
| 5 | Women, why do u think MRAs are joke?Happened to me recently. I said some facts to a feminist and she wrote some seriously odious female supremacist ranting then blocked me so that I can't respond. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1iy27ht/comment/mersc51/ | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 04:32 PM |
| 22 | Women, why do u think MRAs are joke?Lol. Her paranoid delusions are not reality. Men are 5x more likely to be victims of violence than women so she's not the one who should be checking her back seat and walking with keys in her fists... we are. I wonder if she can name one legal right that men have that women do not? Because I can name several legal rights women have that men do not. And I bet she cannot find a single law that prevented women from opening bank accounts. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 04:15 PM |
| -9 | I reported a woman who made a sexist comment in my university/college classThe “men” in these institutions are effectively women to further complicate matters We're a sub that's pro-men and pro-equality. I would not bash men who have internalized the misandry that society forced on them. Also, there's a post on here at least once a week about how we're too "anti-woman". We're not, but comments like this sure AF make it sound as if we are. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Why are Some Men Callous to the Suffering of Men (Inflicted by Women)?Internalized Misandry | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 02:50 PM |
| 3 | when people say they circumcised their children to improve their sex lives what their really saying is.The practice is "controversial" for boys and "illegal" for girls. This inequality is unacceptable. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 01:39 PM |
| 10 | when people say they circumcised their children to improve their sex lives what their really saying is.The law that bans female circumcision has no religious exemptions. It would be a perfect law if only it were gender-neutral. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/25 08:09 PM |
| 14 | when people say they circumcised their children to improve their sex lives what their really saying is.Men have been oppressed for thousands of years. The traditions you're mentioning are misandrist traditions. Circumcision is, always has been, and always will be, about controlling the sexuality of children and enforcing outdated notions of beauty and purity. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/25 06:15 PM |
| 9 | when people say they circumcised their children to improve their sex lives what their really saying is.I don’t get the point The point is that doing that little boys and girls who can't consent is despicable. We want change. If you do for religious or health reasons, then do it. I don't think anyone here is against an adult man or woman making that choice for themselves. If they believe it has spiritual or health benefits they can do whatever they want to their own body. We need laws to protect young boys and girls from having this done to them without their consent. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/25 06:02 PM |
| 11 | when people say they circumcised their children to improve their sex lives what their really saying is.Being baptized is great. Being mutilated is terrible. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/25 05:53 PM |
| 30 | Mantalks posts about the rise of misandry - tantrum in the comments proves the pointThis was a good post. And a few of the comments were good. I liked the supportive comments in hopes it'll help the positive ones rise to the top. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/25 01:59 PM |
| 5 | what do you think an only male civilization would look like?Just because you repeat a myth enough times won't make it true. The system was set up by oligarchy. Trying to paint a male face in it is disingenuous. The "men did it to other men" nonsense sounds like the "black on black crime" nonsense. It's hatespeech. Men and boys have always been conscripted to fight for the profit and security of the men and women of the wealthy classes. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/25 01:13 PM |
| 8 | what do you think an only male civilization would look like?The system was established by wealthy/capitalist families. Men are subjugated by the system. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/25 12:42 PM |
| 44 | USA: Shocking excuse of female teacher with stripper pole 'who dreamt of sex with boys then raped 10 of them'. OP: And another one!Holy cow! The headline got it right for once! She raped them. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/25 12:09 AM |
| 29 | Happened near me: Mom kills 17 year old son.Men are several times more likely to be driven to suicide than women. And nobody is doing anything about it. Not the left. Not the right. Not religious groups. Not atheist groups. Nobody is focused on the male suicide epidemic. So we shouldn't be surprised that as a result, boys like him want to die by suicide. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/25 12:07 AM |
| 60 | Happened near me: Mom kills 17 year old son.2 things stand out about how she was treated. The officers deployed their tazers multiple times at her as she charged at them with a bloody knife... and threw the knife at the cops. Look, if it were a man they'd have ditched the tasers and done an "officer involved shooting". And "We love you, Katie," her family said to her from the gallery of the courtroom Can someone point me to an article where a father who killed his kids had his family shout in court about how they love him? No? I'm sure th… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/25 12:01 AM |
| 6 | what do you think an only male civilization would look like?Leaders waging wars have nothing to do with gender. The world leader who oversaw the most wars was queen Elizabeth II. The height of colonial invasions of African lands was under Queen Victoria... not to mention that British colonialism started under Queen Elizabeth I. So the world would continue to have wars just the same whether it was all men or all women. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/25 09:16 PM |
| 17 | DNC's "Run for Office" Webpage excludes men wile Democrats struggle with getting young male supportThey only "work" in that they may pressure major parties to modify their positions slightly in order to lose fewer votes. If there were a "men are human" party that advocated for the ERA, equal protection from genital mutilation, equal protection from violence, and end to gender discrimination in the draft, and equal (not shared) custody time in divorce regardless of status quo... etc. And if it were popular. Then either of the two parties may pick up one or more of those policy positions. In th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/25 06:22 PM |
| 49 | DNC's "Run for Office" Webpage excludes men wile Democrats struggle with getting young male supportWe are 100% fucked. Meanwhile Vance pretends to care about men by saying we should ignore the negative messages about us and return to the more traditional oppressive roles for us. And sadly it's working because it's less crappy than the way Obama talked to men during the campaign. So fucked. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/25 06:13 PM |
| 8 | Childless Men Who Date Single Mothers?I have primary custody of my son from my previous marriage and married a wonderful single mother. So I'm slightly different. The marriage is great but being a stepfather is fucking terrible. My wife has a fun experience being a stepmother, though. So until society stops teaching potential step children hateful nonsense about untrustworthy or abusive stepfathers then I strongly recommend all men to avoid becoming step fathers. In other words, once society makes it safe to be a stepfather (equal t… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/25 03:36 PM |
| 6 | The World Does Not Care About Men AnymoreMen have been oppressed for thousands of years. When is this mythical past in which the world cared about men? | /r/MensRights | 25/02/25 03:32 PM |
| 2 | (22F) dated my professor (45M), and now he thinks I ruined his life. Was I wrong?I hope you find closure for this. I don't think that random strangers on the internet are the right people to help. And if they were, the topic of this sub is about something different than this post. Again. All the best. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/25 03:33 PM |
| 4 | Men's Rights goes mainstream: Richard Reeves - “Of Boys and Men” & Reframing Debates About Gender | The Daily ShowI for one, like Richard Reeves. He's able to get on big shows and talk about issues facing men and boys. And he brings statistics and data. The rest of the world is not as far along in the men's rights conversation as we are. He's simply meeting people where they are. Hate him all you want but I challenge you to get a bigger audience with your all-or-nothing approach. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/25 02:27 PM |
| 15 | J.D. Vance - "We want you guys to thrive as young men, and we're going to help with our public policy to make it possible to do that". Time to act for us may come soon, gentlemenMen have been oppressed for thousands of years. At the end if the clip Vance encourages men to return to the roles that have kept us in chains. I don't want to go back. I want equality in the modern world. I want equal choice in when I become a parent. I want equality in custody court. I want equal protection from violence and equal protection from genital mutilation. I want equal responsibility in the draft. I want equality and NOT to go back to the inequalities of the past. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/25 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What research and activism are Men's Rights groups currently engaged in?Check out the American Institute for Boys and Men. They publish lots of research on issues affecting men's rights. Especially in the domain of education. Also check out National Parents Association. They're lobbying for equality in custody laws. And they publish research on how different states are progressing on the issue. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/25 01:45 PM |
| 2 | I need advice: How can I cheer up the boys lining up in my 2nd Grade Children's Ministry Class when the instructor enforces her 'Ladies 1st' rule?Give her feedback. It's hard but necessary. Tell her just the facts without any interpretation. Say you've observed that her behavior is hurtful to the students and thus a disruption. And make it clear that if she doesn't address the issue ASAP then you'll raise her disruptive behavior further up until it's resolved... possibly with her termination. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/25 12:13 AM |
| 1 | JD Vance's message to young menI'm OK with DEI. I'm not ok with white women being recipients of DEI at all. We should not have given the most privileged group in society even more privilege. Let alone how white women were the primary beneficiaries of DEI at the expense of actually oppressed groups... like black men (who are systematically oppressed by the police). If they had fixed DEI instead of scrapping it I'd be happier. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/25 12:03 AM |
| 7 | Why Men Need Their Own Space And Women Should Stay Out Of Itwomen will complain about, infiltrate, and finally ruin the space, especially if it ends up being popular with men I agree... and that's not a good reason why we shouldn't have male-only spaces. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/25 04:31 PM |
| 6 | Why Men Need Their Own Space And Women Should Stay Out Of ItI'm considering joining KoC myself. I'm active in my college fraternity alumni club and it's really fulfilling. I assume KoC might give me a similar feeling of community and mutual support from other men. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Your Reference Ain't Relevant: Harrison James was just 15 when his stepmother fell pregnant with his child. It took him years to realise he was a victim of abuseYes but the word "rape" does roll of the tongue. She raped him and impregnated herself. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/25 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Irish police force fitness requirements relaxed. Reasons include worrying that different standards for men & women could lead to discrimination cases. Extra info: Almost half of all women who took the test last year failed.This is a tough nut to Crack. We shoukd not discriminate against men who have the same level of physical fitness as their female counterparts. So what do we do? In order to achieve equality we need more women in high-risk jobs like firefighting or deep sea fishing and we need more men in low-risk jobs like childcare and psychology. So what do we do? I think the only answers that exist require some trade-off. And to me the best trade-off is to lower the fitness standards and to ramp up recruitmen… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | JD Vance's message to young menThen he goes on to say that men should fulfill the original roles that have oppressed us for thousands of years. The end of the video is not MensRights it's traditionalist garbage. Also... fuck that guy. Let's hear him talk about gender discrimination in the draft, gender bias in custody court, gender disparity in legal protection from violence or even from genital mutilation, etc. Let's hear him talk about men with compassion instead of talking about returning to some idealized past. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/25 02:00 PM |
| 9 | Why Men Need Their Own Space And Women Should Stay Out Of ItMe too. It's my college fraternity alumni club. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/25 01:49 PM |
| 13 | Why Men Need Their Own Space And Women Should Stay Out Of ItI'm with airlockBob. Unless the gym is specifically single-gender or has single-gender hours, then it's open to everyone. Instead I think we need more public support for male-only spaces like fraternities or male-only gyms etc. without hearing some kind of misandrist nonsense about how evil it supposedly is. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/25 01:45 PM |
| 13 | Why Men Need Their Own Space And Women Should Stay Out Of ItYou mean like a fraternity? Go check out the Masons or the Knights of Columbus or Elks etc. It's meet-ups for men and it's better than sitting online all day. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/25 01:40 PM |
| 45 | Why Men Need Their Own Space And Women Should Stay Out Of ItGood point. Men DO offload to other men... in male-only spaces. But those have been villainized out of existence... and corporate profit-seeking initiatives have destroyed them. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/25 01:37 PM |
| 3 | How do you express your conviction to other people in real life?So I’m definitely more on the left-wing part of men’s rights advocating Me too. Check out r/leftWingMaleAdvocates How to make sure these people know that I don’t get along with the men-bashing/generalizing mentality that is so present online? How do I do it in a way that doesn’t seem like I’m just another misogynistic weirdo (because that’s the image we have, apparently)? This is tricky. I think people like Richard Reeves have found a way to do it successfully. Unfortunately it often involves re… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/25 11:41 AM |
| -1 | Mozambique: DOGE cuts €9.5M male circumcision programmeEven a broken clock is right twice a day. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/25 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Who influenced men to be like this ?Misandry. We've internalized all the negative things said about us. It warps how we view ourselves. Internalized misandry is the worst because we keep acting the way we were taught even after our oppressors have left the room. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/25 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Why is talking about men's issues seen as anti-woman? Even when you don't mention women or feminism at all?I agree. I come here to talk about equality for men and boys. Ibskip all the posts about women or feminism etc. There used to be a separate sub for those people but it got closed so they all came here. It sucks | /r/MensRights | 18/02/25 08:42 PM |
| 3 | The Who Set the System Up argument does not work.The rich. Wealthy men and women set up the system. Wealthy families set it up to benefit themselves while exposing the poor to violence and exploitation - especially poor men. Nobody on the left should believe that anything other than the bourgeoisie set up the system. If they say anything different then they're just wrong. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/25 06:02 PM |
| 1 | “this could help women and minorities” included in many unrelated grants requestsIf it were that simple I'd say equality of opportunity. It's not that easy because society is complex AF. So we need to measure outcomes to get a good sense of the opportunities being issued. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/02/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | “this could help women and minorities” included in many unrelated grants requestsI believe diversity has benefits. I believe that offsetting historic treatment of specific minorities helps counter the latent effects holding them back from equality. I don't understand why white women were included in this list? So if reviewers were just getting points in their grants because they would help white women perpetuate their privilege then that's bad. It would have been better if we just canceled grants that help white women so that we can help the underprivileged instead. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/02/25 03:20 PM |
| 12 | Intact Global Will Announce Historic Lawsuit Against Infant Circumcision In MarchPrior laws have fought against religious AND non-religious genital cutting of women. It's sad that our best fighting chance to get a gender neutral protection against genital cutting is to challenge non-religious cutting only. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/02/25 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Why is talking about men's issues seen as anti-woman? Even when you don't mention women or feminism at all?I disagree with your hypothesis. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys stay healthy mentally and physically if you keep reading all the negativity things ?I've stopped reading the negative things. I joined a running club, that helps me stay fit. I got active in my fraternity alumni association, that helped my mental health a lot. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/25 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Why is talking about men's issues seen as anti-woman? Even when you don't mention women or feminism at all?In real life people do not stop talking to me afterwards. Though online yes, people that you know exclusively online will stop talking to you if you bring up men's issues. But you cannot take that seriously. Look, I remember that online acquaintances stopped talking to me because I supported Hillary instead of Bernie. Another time an online acquaintance unfriended me because I said veganism (while better than the Standard American diet) is not in fact the healthiest nor had the best longevity re… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/25 11:14 AM |
| 5 | Why is talking about men's issues seen as anti-woman? Even when you don't mention women or feminism at all?But I'm not calling out women for bad behavior. I'm not mentioning them at all. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/25 09:54 PM |
| 11 | Why is talking about men's issues seen as anti-woman? Even when you don't mention women or feminism at all?Is this happening when you talk to people in real life? Both. The medium definitely changes the way people say it. Online/anonymous commenters are more likely to spew hatespeech in return. In real life people are more likely to just stop at the knee-jerk reaction of being against equality for men and boys. They are less likely to follow it up with hateful nonsense. In my experience at least. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/25 04:32 PM |
| 13 | Goodbye thanks for nothingCan you name one legal right that men have but women are barred from? | /r/MensRights | 16/02/25 04:26 PM |
| 20 | Why is talking about men's issues seen as anti-woman? Even when you don't mention women or feminism at all?[well actually] women don't have the same rights I don't dispute that women can face inequality, too. It doesn't address my question. Why is there so much whataboutism whenever I talk the rights that men lack? | /r/MensRights | 16/02/25 04:24 PM |
| 9 | Why is talking about men's issues seen as anti-woman? Even when you don't mention women or feminism at all?I think the conscious decision not to mention women or feminism is the malicious behaviour I disagree with your hypothesis. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/25 12:52 PM |
| 55 | Why is talking about men's issues seen as anti-woman? Even when you don't mention women or feminism at all?This is a great answer | /r/MensRights | 16/02/25 12:49 PM |
| 10 | I thought r/men was a neutral sub for men. But they’re as censorious as men’s lib.After reading this and some of the comments I went and posted a few comments. Received my ban last night. Look, I'm not antifeminist and I don't talk down about women. I posted about how society has toxic expectations out of men causing us to bottle up emotions which is bad for us. I talked about how it's not true men don't support each other because I get a lot of support in my men's group - the problem is such groups are stigmatized leaving men without support. Etc. Etc. I said nothing about a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/25 12:15 PM |
| 53 | Ohio and Mississippi bill aims to make ejaculating without intent to conceive a felony — costing over $10KHow about they draft a tongue-in-cheek bill that says only women can be drafted to the military and men are exempt. You know, to highlight the hypocrisy and get a conversation going. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/25 12:30 PM |
| 11 | Jealous Woman Kills Boyfriend After Finding Texts from Another Woman on His Phone He Accidentally Left in Her CarStay safe out there kings. It's dangerous. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/25 06:08 AM |
| 14 | Are you just having fun?What does this have to do with equality for men and boys? This sounds like complaints about modern dating. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/25 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Men, how do you feel about female teachers getting away with sleeping with underage male students?In my high-school a teacher raped 2 boys and she was sentenced to 2 weeks in jail. When I see rapists in TV they don't look anything like the a actual rapist that I saw in real life. On TV they have mustaches and trench coats but she had blond hair green eyes and usually wore a dress. When my kids see rapists in TV, maybe those fictional rapists should look like the serial rapist pedophile that I saw in real life. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/25 12:13 AM |
| 19 | Men, how do you feel about female teachers getting away with sleeping with underage male students?Yup. Pedophile rape. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/25 12:07 AM |
| 14 | Men, how do you feel about female teachers getting away with sleeping with underage male students?Pedophile rape. Even worse. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/25 12:07 AM |
| 3 | I asked on r/AskSocialists why we don't vote out the rich. The answers were revealing.because he looks like people that did bad before. Because he looks like what some people imagine the people who did bad before. Most men I history were exploited by wealthy families. They died in mines, battlefields, and flimsy factories, for the profit of the wealthy women and men of the capitalist class. They didn't do bad. They had bad done unto them. Remember that Queen Elizabeth kicked off the colonial era for England, Queen Victoria oversaw the highest levels of the slave trade (overwhelmi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/25 06:40 PM |
| 4 | I asked on r/AskSocialists why we don't vote out the rich. The answers were revealing.I'm still plugging my nose and voting democratic. But yeah we do need to fix the whole thing about excluding males. There are fellow lefties who lack self-consciousness that they sound like the #MenKampf meme (in which you replace the word "jew" in antisemitic statements to the word "male"). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/25 06:15 PM |
| 9 | I asked on r/AskSocialists why we don't vote out the rich. The answers were revealing.I'm leftwing AF and I agree with your criticism of (many but not all) leftwing spaces. We often lack self-reflection and really do turn people away. We are absolutely a cause of Trumps rise. There are more people escaping the toxicity and misandry of leftwing spaces than there are people who are drawn to Trump. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/25 01:22 PM |
| 18 | Japanese zoo bans solo male visitorsThe zoo deserves to get sued into bankruptcy. I love animals and support conservationism. But this zoo should be punished to the point of being shut down. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/25 01:02 PM |
| 6 | Since when did rightists think men are pigs too?Since the beginning. The right hates men. The left hates men. Always and forever. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/25 01:01 PM |
| 16 | The Man Carrying Thing Makes Fun of Male LonelinessUgh. The point is not "women should be nicer to us". The point is "society should stop treating us like shit" because we do in fact have it worse. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/25 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Why is men’s right seen as group “ negative affects some people “ by some popular reddit sub?Unfortunately yes. It irks me. I come here to talk about equality for men and boys. Then there's posts complaining about how women are _____. Like, go to a different forum to talk about women. We're trying to work on men's issues over here. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/25 10:13 PM |
| 8 | Why is men’s right seen as group “ negative affects some people “ by some popular reddit sub?Those people come here looking for posts to confirm their pre-conceived notions about us. So they scroll past all of the posts about inequality and they find the few posts where people here do bash women. Then those people are like "we knew it, men's rights is all about hating women". 🙄 | /r/MensRights | 12/02/25 05:10 PM |
| 8 | A man not having a social group after high-school is the worst thing that can happen to himthat might be because your social skills are poor, The older I get the more I'm convinced that one's social skills have nothing to do with making friends. Go join a club. Even the most awkward nerds will make friends at board game clubs. Even the most unlikable assholes will make friends at sports clubs. It is, like you said, about repeat interactions. So go to church and interact with people. Go to a running club. Join a men's group. Volunteer regularly at a charity. Make friends through repeat… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/25 12:21 PM |
| 16 | Man thrashed, rod inserted in private parts in bus over spilled food in Delhi, diesNot all human life is cheap. Men's lives are cheap. Look at the mortality rates, see who gets killed at younger ages. It's overwhelmingly men. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/25 12:15 PM |
| 30 | To cut or not to cutLet your sons decide what to do with their body once they're of the age of consent. They can look at the medical evidence when they're 18 and choose for themselves whether to get circumcised or not. Their body. Their choice. Not yours not your husband's. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/25 12:13 PM |
| 5 | Women achieve gender parity with men in US big screen lead roles for first time. How do we feel about this?Parity is good. I mean I'm here to talk about achieving equality for men and boys, but I'm happy when women achieve equality, too. Talking about groups other than men and boys feels like changing the topic. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/25 12:10 PM |
| 9 | Never forget this when people say there isn't a war against men or masculinityYeah. Bullying does cause trauma. Never leaving your room sounds like a higher level of traumatic events than just "bullying". | /r/MensRights | 10/02/25 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Hello and I have a question.I think you're confused. I'm glad you're able to discuss these things so that you can correct your logic. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/25 01:33 PM |
| 1 | State 'bias response hotlines' - does anybody want to try reporting misandric rethoric and see what happens?Everyone who advocated genocide based on gender should be reported 👏 submissions about that #killAllMen hashtag needs to flood these hatespeech services. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/25 01:30 PM |
| 4 | Perhaps people of this subreddit should join BlueskyPerhaps people in this sub should join community organizations in the real world and not online. Each of us can have more of an impact on men and boys in a fricken PTA than we would by posting on advertising platforms like X, FB, bluesky, insta, etc. Even better would be a men's group. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | White women have been among the biggest beneficiaries of DEI programs, experts sayWhite women. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/25 01:18 PM |
| 26 | Never forget this when people say there isn't a war against men or masculinityThe doctor who prescribed the estrogen, Danny Wang, ... Internalized misandry. The article says the kid started to grow boobs, got bullied for it, and now is so traumatized that he never leaves his room. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/25 12:07 PM |
| 11 | White women have been among the biggest beneficiaries of DEI programs, experts sayThus white women should have bever been a DEI demographic. I can see plenty of arguments why we should give a helping hand to underprivileged black men from poor neighborhoods, or Hispanic men from non-English-speaking households. Yet college attendance for black and Latino men is down and career advancement for them has been eclipsed by career advancement of white women. I cannot for the life of me, justify why the most privileged class in society was receiving benefits for the underprivileged. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/25 12:36 PM |
| 6 | White women have been among the biggest beneficiaries of DEI programs, experts sayCollege enrollment for black men is down. College enrollment for Hispanic men is down. It is a good thing that women of color were helped by DEI. It is a bad thing that they were helped less by DEI than white women were - a lot less. It is outright despicable that men of color received even less benefit from DEI than women of color did. I support bringing DEI back if and only if they remove the most privileged class in society from the list of beneficiaries. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/25 12:31 PM |
| 182 | White women have been among the biggest beneficiaries of DEI programs, experts sayIf DEI had benefited black and Hispanic men then then it would have been canceled a long time ago. Instead the programs gave even more privilege to the most privileged group in society: white women. I think we should have DEI programs that help men. Or at least groups of men. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/25 12:31 AM |
| 7 | The Bishopess Who Chastised During Presidential Inauguration....Your words describe exactly how I feel. 💯 agree | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Major FIFO mining warning after 'diversity hire' blow up: 'Men overlooked'To be fair... this is because of corporate greed more so than diversity initiatives. Capitalism has been exploiting mostly men for a long time. It's seen as normal to do this to guys. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 10:16 AM |
| 22 | “K*ll all men” statement that was really uncalled forI don't want either. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 10:12 AM |
| 8 | “K*ll all men” statement that was really uncalled forCalling for genocide based on gender, or perceived gender, is always uncalled for. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Men are treated worse then women in the military (high effort higher iq post)Men are treated worse then women Than (high effort higher iq post) Low effort higher IQ comment | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 10:08 AM |
| 17 | Just had an epiphany about men being “creeps”Creep is also a gendered slur. Have you ever heard of a woman referred to as a creep? | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 10:06 AM |
| 3 | Masculinity needs to eradicatedI propose that we test this hypothesis: A group of straight men will show up to all their first dates wearing a dress. Then we compare them against the control group of men who show up with manly clothing. We observe the number of second dates for each group. My prediction is that we will find that women are equally obsessed with gender roles as men are. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/25 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Masculinity needs to eradicatedGender roles need to be eradicated. But saying that only men's gender role needs to be eradicated is sexist. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/25 12:05 PM |
| 12 | How do I approach people to talk to without being thought as a creep?Am I overthinking or am I right for avoiding people completely? Yes you're overthinking it. You're wrong to avoid people. My advice is to join a club like a running group or a men's group or a church group or... something. And be regular. Because that repeated presence will make you comfortable about the people around you so after seeing them a few times and saying hi then it'll be easier to start up a conversation without fear of being judged. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/25 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Sexism in religious assistance for migrants.I'm looking to volunteer for a charity that specifically helps men. I'm in NYC. If you can link to a few then I'll reach out to them for sure. I came to the USA as a refugee child 20+ years ago and I'm looking to pay it forward by helping migrant boys and men. All I found are genderless charities or charities that are gendered to help women. I've found zero that are gendered to help men. If you can show me a few charities for men then I'll certainly give them my time and money. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/25 12:03 PM |
| 8 | Combating (Male) LonelinessBut as long as you also have a strong social network, research suggests that quality solo time boosts happiness, curbs stress, and improves life satisfaction. Sure. If you're not lonely then having alone time is good. What the article is blind to is that if you're already lonely then you aren't lacking in alone time. The cure for loneliness is NOT to just accept being alone. Sadly there is a long tradition of telling men that it's manly to stay lonely. 😕 Nah. Instead support community groups tha… | /r/MensRights | 05/02/25 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Sexism in religious assistance for migrants.and an inquiring Catholic Welcome. Hope you join us for mass and for some volunteer work. As Christians, we're supposed to go against the grain and not be of the world, That is an ideal we strive for. We as humans are never ideal. Society has been oppressing men for so long that everyone just thinks it's normal to give charity to women but not give it to men. We have to be the change we want to see in the world. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/25 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Sexism in religious assistance for migrants.The only difference between Feminist and Traditionalist is which side of the coin you're on Agreed. The enemy is not feminism. The enemy is not Democrats or Republicans. The enemy is misandry. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/25 11:26 AM |
| 8 | Sexism in religious assistance for migrants.What would you call the lack of charity for men? If not sexism? | /r/MensRights | 04/02/25 11:57 AM |
| 0 | Sexism in religious assistance for migrants.yikes. We need more men's charities. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/25 11:56 AM |
| 4 | Sexism in religious assistance for migrants.Wokeism Wouldn't an institution that upholds values from centuries ago, is run as a monarchy, is against gay marriage, is against trans acceptance, is in favor of sexual abstinence instead of sexual liberation, and is unfairly scapegoated by the left for many of histories mistakes... Wouldn't the church be the OPPOSITE of woke? | /r/MensRights | 04/02/25 11:55 AM |
| 6 | Sexism in religious assistance for migrants.Infantilizing women is one thing. A distaste for helping men is something different. There's only formation programs for men: which is telling men how we should be in order to be proper. But there's no help. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/25 11:47 AM |
| 3 | The term "toxic Religiosity" would never be taking seriously as toxic masculinity in society.I like the thought experiment 👍 In the colloquial sense... toxic religiosity would be taken to mean "religion is toxic". How are you defining toxic religiosity? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/02/25 12:48 PM |
| -5 | Yes, Women are Visual too, and get Horny the Same as Men, They just Don't Admit itSo many posts this week about women. What's happening to this sub? | /r/MensRights | 02/02/25 10:49 PM |
| 3 | What is best response to feminist who justify violence against men simply because women are biologically less strong??These people are just looking for any nonsense to justify their hatespeech. They don't justify weak men perpetrating violence against Ronda Rousey because she's physically stronger and can beat the crap out of most men. They're only apologists for hurting men regardless of the actual power differential. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/25 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Women are pure evil a woman who ruined my lifeWe support you as you recover from the abuse you described. This is a safe space where you can experiment with words to describe your lived experience. However... With headlines like this, no wonder people think we're just a bunch of women-haters. Maybe in the future try finding less hateful ways of expressing this? | /r/MensRights | 02/02/25 04:58 PM |
| 20 | How come only men complain about loneliness ?Society is more likely to alienate men than women. This results in men suffering from a lower number of friends (outside of work and family) than women. I don't believe that this is biological, I think this is a social construct. So unsurprisingly, in our society men have more to complain about. It's not because of reddits demographics, it's because men are more likely to be victims of these particular societal biases. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/25 04:53 PM |
| 19 | Do women not care about what men is wearing ?Does society think men’s body aren’t sexy as women The average male body is less sexy than the average female body. Yes. If you're muscular like a Greek statue then your body is beautiful and is deemed worthy of celebrating in art and movies etc. But that’s like 0.01% of men. The rest of us whose bodies are not ideal, we are deemed ugly by society. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/25 04:49 PM |
| 9 | American PoliticsIf the Equal Rights Amendment should pass then we will be able to more effectively sue when our rights are trampled 100% agree. With the ERA we can sue the living shit out of the government for gender discrimination in the military draft. With the ERA we can sue the pants off of every university that discriminated against men. This has led to the massive harm for real victims. But they don't have standing because there is no legal requirement for institutions that suck our tax dollars to be equa… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/25 02:02 PM |
| 66 | Why is the left losing younger men to the right?What men heard from the right was: you’ve got problems, we don’t have solutions. What they heard from the left is: you don’t have problems, you are the problem That hits the nail on the head | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/02/25 12:47 PM |
| -1 | Do women fall in blind love at all?I'm sure lots of people love you. Your parents love you. If you have pets, they love you. Jesus loves you! Most importantly you love yourself. You're talking about whether someone sleeps with you. You're talking about being obsessive about someone that you went on one date with and you're wondering if anybody feels that same obsession towards you. Respectfully, I wish you the best and I recommend other forums to help you with this better than we can. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/25 12:45 PM |
| 27 | Do women fall in blind love at all?I mean... this is a sub about men's issues. Maybe this is a better question for a dating sub? | /r/MensRights | 02/02/25 12:30 PM |
| 4 | Too many women honestly believe they have a justified right to judge socially aloof and unsuccessful men as being "undateable".More than just undateable but also unloveable and unworthy as human beings. Know your worth kings. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/25 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Just as women can choose whether or not to have a child, men should also have a choice?About themselves. At birth (or better yet, after a paternity test administered immediately at birth). | /r/MensRights | 31/01/25 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Just as women can choose whether or not to have a child, men should also have a choice?You are talking about women going through a physical ordeal either way, at the choice of men Nope. I am not. I'm very clearly talking about women making that choice for themselves. Go away, troll. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/25 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Montana child support bill wants to destroy FathersWhy do Republicans hate men this much? Like feminism is full of misandry and all. But this ages-old misandry about family roles is arguably worse. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/25 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Just as women can choose whether or not to have a child, men should also have a choice?To achieve your idealism, you need to trample on the rights of women's bodily autonomy You're wrong. To achieve this ideal we can guarantee safe and legal abortions for those carrying the baby and we can guarantee equal rights to safe surrender and to unilateral adoption for everyone else. Equality does not trample the rights of one gender. Equality may remove privilege, but equality will never force the nonsense that you're claiming it would. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/25 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Just as women can choose whether or not to have a child, men should also have a choice?be an incubator against her will, to satisfy the wills of men That is the opposite of what I said. removing the autonomy and rights of women? Are you a troll? Because you're not funny - you're just annoying. Or do you lack reading comprehension? Let me restate it another way. Every human being should have autonomy and rights. We should not force anyone to become a parent if they aren't ready. We shouldn't force anyone to have an abortion if they don't want one. The freedom of choice should be av… | /r/MensRights | 31/01/25 12:51 AM |
| 76 | "The Missing Men of the Democratic Party" - KALW (NPR affiliate) in SF interviews author Mark W. Sutton on how the Democrats Lost Men"What we need are even MORE ads telling men that they're manly when they support women" - Democratic Party Strategists, probably | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/01/25 10:45 AM |
| 107 | UK: Misogyny identified as breeding ground for extremism in UK, says leaked report | UK security and counter-terrorism. OP: Men's rights gets a mention."Kill all _____" is advocating for genocide. Period. Fill in the blanks with any race, gender, creed, sexual orientation, ethnicity, etc. And it's genocide. So it boggles my mind how advocating genocide is not on the radar of government reports about extremism. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/25 11:43 AM |
| 46 | Just as women can choose whether or not to have a child, men should also have a choice?I believe all people, regardless of gender, perceived gender, race, creed, social class, sexual orientation, ethnicity, etc., should have the freedom of choice about when they're ready to become parents. This puts me to the left of pretty much everyone that I talk to about abortion. If a student would have to give up their studies to become a parent they should have the right to opt out. If a human is not ready to raise another human being (due to mental illness, for example) they should have th… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/25 11:38 AM |
| 16 | GQ Article: "Can Pat Ryan Help Democrats Win Men Back"?he said that Democrats should provide an alternative, a masculinity that’s healthier and more patriotic than Trump’s I have a better proposal: STOP TELLING MEN HOW TO BE. Don't call it "provide masculinity". Call it what it is. It's telling other people how you think they should act based on gender. How about you accept men as they are? Even if you don't like men and even if you don't approve of the way that men are. Just accept them into leftwing spaces, welcome them, and let them be themselves… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/01/25 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Fathers who invoke “parental alienation” in custody fights have a high chance of success, even when their abuse has been substantiated?They usually define success as "every other weekend". I define success as 50/50 custody. And in that regard there's very little success happening. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/01/25 02:00 AM |
| 8 | Divorce Laws F*ck MenAnd how! | /r/MensRights | 27/01/25 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Decided to fix the definition of toxic masculinity. What do you guys think?Because then people will (wrongly) assume it's about men behaving in a toxic way. Sorry, we can't have nice things so we have to spell it out precisely: that the thing that's toxic is the expectations placed on men by society and NOT something that men themselves are doing or are responsible for. I guess we can say something like "societies toxic gender norms" if we want it to be gender neutral. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/25 01:53 AM |
| 7 | Decided to fix the definition of toxic masculinity. What do you guys think?You're talking about the archaic definition. Everybody knows that "fag" no longer means "a bundle of sticks" and everyone knows that "toxic masculinity" no longer means "the definition of masculinity that's harmful to men". Both of these words have become slurs and we should avoid using both. But for what it's worth; you did a good job capturing the archaic meaning of the term using the more modern (and better) term Internalized Misandry. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/25 12:31 PM |
| 14 | Traditional masculinity shouldn’t be something men strive forExactly. We should reject the shackles that were placed on men in the past just like how we reject the new shackles that malicious actors are trying to place on men today. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/01/25 12:24 PM |
| 7 | CBS: How Trump Connected With MenThe root cause is misandry. Men have been oppressed for thousands of years because misandry created conscription and religious oppression of men's sexuality and conservative attitudes about men being the breadwinner etc. Etc. Misandry created feminism. Not the other way around. Misandry oppressed men long before feminism. And if we don't defeat misandry in society then men will continue to be oppressed long after feminism is gone. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/25 11:33 AM |
| 2 | it just came up to me, how men are becoming marginalized through workJust wait until it comes to you how men and boys have always been marginalized through work. Work in coal mines, work in factories, work in deep sea fishing, work as mercenaries, work as loggers, etc. The families of the capitalist class have always exploited men through labor and war. And they continue to do so just as you have observed. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/25 11:19 AM |
| 19 | Marilyn Manson will NOT be charged in domestic violence and sexual assault casesFor an almost 60 year old musician in a non-mainstream genre, I'd say his career is doing pretty damn good. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/25 11:15 AM |
| 105 | Marilyn Manson will NOT be charged in domestic violence and sexual assault cases'We cannot prove charges of sexual assault beyond a reasonable doubt.' 'We recognize and applaud the courage and resilience of the women who came forward to make reports' 👍 OK | /r/MensRights | 25/01/25 02:31 AM |
| 8 | The tv Admin Is Targeting Immigrant Men, As Do Most Immigration PoliciesYou know thise citizens groups that go around reporting illegal aliens? I want a Sascha Baron Cohen skit where he leads them to a playground and gets them to start reporting all the Mexican nannies and mommies. Those misandrists have a fetish for hunting immigrant men. I bet hilarity would ensue when they started protecting illegal alien women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/25 11:27 AM |
| 19 | Liz Plank sexually assaulting men in the streets calling it activismWe need to educate men that if they're the victims of unwanted touching by women that they need to get perpetrators like this one, arrested and jailed. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/25 11:22 AM |
| 22 | Liz Plank sexually assaulting men in the streets calling it activismShe doesn't need therapy. She needs jail. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/25 11:20 AM |
| 14 | Congrats to my fellow American brothers, you now have equal rights and can be unregistered from selective service!In the USA, Safe surrender sites do not check whether there's a father. If you enjoy stories that make you cry uncontrollably, then look into the stories of fathers whose children have become wards of the state after a mother dropped them off at a safe surrender site. Those fathers go to court, start online campaigns, petition local politicians, everything they can possibly do to get their children back. To rescue them from the foster system. But there are no happy endings. Ever. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/25 11:13 AM |
| 3 | Women still do more housework, survey suggests - BBC NewsIs this another one of those surveys that intentionally doesn't include things like driving, which society assigns as male? | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 11:52 PM |
| 26 | Congrats to my fellow American brothers, you now have equal rights and can be unregistered from selective service!de la Chapelle syndrome and Klinefelter syndrome are both cases where 2 x chromosomes present as male. There are probably more but I'm not a med student. So even language about chromosomes would be problematic. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 10:43 PM |
| 12 | Congrats to my fellow American brothers, you now have equal rights and can be unregistered from selective service!Biden didn't sign that into an executive order. Big difference. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 10:39 PM |
| 235 | Congrats to my fellow American brothers, you now have equal rights and can be unregistered from selective service!AND we all have the right to safe surrender and to unilateral adoption. Other legal rights that men don't have. That means young boys who are paying child support to their rapists, or fathers who are paying child support for other men's children, would now have the same legal avenues to put the child for adoption without requiring consent from the other party. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Trump's "Only two genders" executive law is harmful to men.Import taxes, for example. Consumers will pay those taxes with every purchase of imported goods like food, clothing, toys, phones, etc. Trump called import taxes "a beautiful thing". My parents moved to Florida and they were happy that their tax burden shifted from property tax to taxes on roads and tourism and other things that they rarely use ... except when I sent my kids there for part of the summer and suddenly they started complaining that Florida has the highest tax rate on these things i… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 03:08 PM |
| 15 | How can we find Patriarchy so that we can take it down?I assumed Patriarchy was more of an "enemy above" type of conspiracy. Just like antisemitism. Patriarchy owns Hollywood and Patriarchy runs the banks. Patriarchy holds secret meetings at midnight in a cemetery in Vienna to plot world domination. Etc. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/25 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Trump's "Only two genders" executive law is harmful to men.With no more gender roles: Women will have to register for Selective Service The physical standards for military, police and fire services There will be no more women's sports, where women might get paid approx the same There would be no diversity programs, because everyone is the same gender. Marriage I LOVE this! Societal biases will still exist against men but gendered laws would have to disappear. I strongly support the idea of the government saying there is no legal definition of gender, th… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Trump's "Only two genders" executive law is harmful to men.Biological arguments were bad for justifying race-based slavery. Biological arguments are still bad for justifying gender-based conscription. I like OP's point that we can end many evils, including gender-discriminatory military conscription, by ending the legal distinction of gender. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Trump's "Only two genders" executive law is harmful to men.For the purposes of law? Yeah there should only be "human". Doctors can use more specific gender spectrum for more fine-grained medical care but lawmakers should not use gender for laws... especially conscription laws. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 01:20 PM |
| 1 | A Definition of Internalized MisandryYou need help... from space. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 11:54 AM |
| 7 | Women are not the answer for the "male loneliness epidemic"Yes but the risks outweigh the benefits of marriage for men. We must fix family law so that marriage can be of equal benefit to men and women. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/25 11:33 AM |
| 3 | Women are not the answer for the "male loneliness epidemic"Having romantic/physical relationships is good, and moves the needle in the right direction, but what made me better was having people that wanted to spend time together, and that Put energy, into being friends. Spot on. Men aren't lonely because women won't date them. Men are lonely because societal norms took away their friend groups. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/25 11:29 AM |
| 9 | What privileges men have that women don’t have ? And what privileges women have that men don’t have ?Why is this downvoted? This question has been asked hundreds of times on this sub already. Previous posts have excellent answers. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/25 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here gone to a Men's Group?Been googling it. I escaped my abuser through divorce... then I remarried. That would make me ineligible to join, wouldn't it? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/25 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here gone to a Men's Group?We have chat groups and chat a little bit. We call in the phone from time to time. We do virtual board game nights, and we have video calls for board meetings where we organize stuff. We occasionally have in person meet-ups, mostly to support the activechapter (e.g. the students). And every 5 years we have a gala that serves as a reunion. I would love to see them more but we are all over the country and we have kids and jobs. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/25 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here gone to a Men's Group?I'd like to learn more. Some of my high school buddies are members and they look like they have a great time. How old is the average member. And would you say it helps you with feeling socially connected? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/25 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here gone to a Men's Group?What counts as a men's group? I was in a fraternity in college and now on the board of the alumni club. It's a safe space for men to talk about their lives their feelings their struggles and to foster friendships during the early days of the male loneliness epidemic. Oh and it's vilified by feminists because how dare you provide safe spaces for men. So yeah, it should count as a men's group. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | A republican introduced a bill to allow remote voting for new MOTHERS (only). Democrats converted it to allow remote voting for all new parents, including fathers. Write your congress-critters to support GENDER-EQUAL remote voting for new parents in congress.After my kids were born I took paternity leave. 6 weeks. Spending that time bonding with them was precious. And not having to pay through the nose for childcare was a nice bonus. I support this for all parents. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/25 01:32 PM |
| 5 | A republican introduced a bill to allow remote voting for new MOTHERS (only). Democrats converted it to allow remote voting for all new parents, including fathers. Write your congress-critters to support GENDER-EQUAL remote voting for new parents in congress.The reality of the Men's Rights Movement is that we need a political party to align with. And it's very, painfully clear that neither the GOP or the DNC is suitable for the job. Agreed. People like to complain about democrats who host most (but not all) feminists. The only people who hate men more than democrats are Republicans. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/25 06:52 PM |
| 5 | I feel like most guys just want acknowledgment that things can suck for men too.I feel like most guys just want acknowledgment that things can suck for men too Things suck for men. Especially in military draft, criminal justice, genital mutilation, family court, loneliness, and more. I mean, Things can suck for women, too. But we're a forum to talk about men... not to talk about "men too". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/01/25 06:50 PM |
| 3 | A republican introduced a bill to allow remote voting for new MOTHERS (only). Democrats converted it to allow remote voting for all new parents, including fathers. Write your congress-critters to support GENDER-EQUAL remote voting for new parents in congress.This is why we can't have nice things. 😒 | /r/MensRights | 18/01/25 05:09 PM |
| 161 | USA: Pennsylvania woman's heinous excuse after falsely accusing man she never met of attempted rape and kidnapping. He spent a month in jail.You mean she did it because of a stereotype about her victim's race, gender, creed, and/or sexual orientation. Sounds like a hate crime to me. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/25 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Stop saying the left has changed. Stop calling it the left. It’s Feminism.I see Trump as a symptom of a larger right-wing phenomenon around the world. Not as the cause. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/25 12:23 PM |
| 13 | Stop saying the left has changed. Stop calling it the left. It’s Feminism.Becoming? They always were. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/25 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Men under growing pressure to bulk up with steroids😀 totally we're all among friends here. It is also a great place to practice the way we talk about men's issues to the outside world. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/25 12:16 PM |
| 17 | Men under growing pressure to bulk up with steroidsMultiple studies have shown that women, in general, prefer leaner builds, I have trouble reconciling this with my lived experience. I'm a runner who's lean. 12% body fat at a BMI of 20.5. I do strength training to support my running. Eat lots of protein get lots of sleep. Etc. I can tell you I've had numerous women (friends, coworkers, and dates) tell me I should bulk up instead. Some male friends, too. Because apparently that's what "real men" should do. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/25 12:51 PM |
| 26 | Men under growing pressure to bulk up with steroidsThat makes it sound like boys are to blame. Not very mensrights to frame it that way. I'd reframe it like this: "Societal attitudes towards men's bodies result in a 5x higher steroid abuse rate among teen boys that teen girls". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/25 12:35 PM |
| 2 | What’s a good response to the claim that all of men’s issues are caused by the patriarchy?All men's issues are caused by the men and women of the capitalist class. The wealthy families exploit men for their personal safety and profit. All of men's issues are caused by oligarchy. This myth of the patriarchy is just a malicious attempt to paint a male face on the oligarchy so that hateful people can justify human suffering with excuses like black on black male on male crime. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/25 12:17 PM |
| 6 | Is masculinity really associated with suicidality?The terminology is confusing AF. It's not that being a man makes you more likely to off yourself. The societal pressure to conform to a very unforgiving template of what you should be if you're born a man... that's what makes suicide more likely. But if you read the language they use it doesn't sound like men are the victims who receive this high-stress toxicity from society. The verbiage makes it sound like being a man is the cause of all of your problems. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/25 12:29 PM |
| 4 | Men face growing pressure to use steroids as studies show increase in male body dysmorphiaYes. My date was being honest about her preferences. The point in this thread is that her preferences were shaped by for-profit entities with zero regard for the adverse effects of their actions. Her truth was molded by the greed of others who sold harmful male body image. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/25 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Men face growing pressure to use steroids as studies show increase in male body dysmorphiaI agree! | /r/MensRights | 14/01/25 01:12 PM |
| 18 | Men face growing pressure to use steroids as studies show increase in male body dysmorphiaAgree. I had a date tell me once that she wasn't attracted to me because my arms weren't big and muscled. That Messed up my head for a long time. We had met because we were both into fitness. I'm a runner so I'm in great shape. I'm thin and have lots of lean muscle on my legs and core. But because of the fucked up expectations for male body image she wasn't looking for lean muscle she was looking for big showy muscles (the kind from high weight not from high rep) and she wasn't looking at my my … | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 10:23 PM |
| 21 | Misandry in a Jordan Peterson interviewExactly. He may be antifeminist but he's not really pro-men so he's not one of us. I am here because I want to learn from people who stand up for men and boys. I don't really care about other topics like celebrity gossip, feminism, politics, or food. I'm glad Peterson is popular in some other topics. But I don't see him being an advocate for equality in divorce court, or in military draft, or genital mutilation, etc. He's not one of us but somehow people keep bringing him up in this forum. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 12:08 PM |
| 2 | I am looking for articles that address, from a Christian/Catholic perspective, male lonelinessDo you mean "fellowship"? Isn't the whole premise of catholicism to be a community of faith. If you share the same beliefs, attend the same rituals on a regular cadence, etc., then there are always people around you helping you out and keeping you company and getting emotionally close to you. Though, as soon as you fall outside of the fold then the punishment is that you lose access the community (e.g. excommunication). Sin is often framed as a way of life that distances you from the community. … | /r/MensRights | 12/01/25 09:57 PM |
| 41 | Double Standard On DisplayWhen stronger women hit weaker men the social reaction is still the same. Crickets. Even when weak men hit stronger women, the reaction is the same. An obsession/fetish about punishing the man, physically, and showing him how he must act. So no. It is not about the strength difference. It is, was, and always will be about society controlling men and then viciously hating the men who don't conform. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/25 01:34 PM |
| 8 | How can we try to solve the Male Loneliness Epidemic? Let's come up with some ideas together and discuss them.I'm in a fraternity alumni club. We still hang out and we call each other etc. Definitely makes us feel less lonely. And it's an all-male space. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/01/25 02:39 AM |
| 9 | I'm losing brain cells here, help.What a dunce. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/25 10:43 PM |
| 0 | A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit - never mind, she is in a room full of enslaved menThat's not what I said 😕 | /r/MensRights | 11/01/25 12:41 AM |
| 8 | A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit - never mind, she is in a room full of enslaved menFrom a random article about modern slavery: forced commercial sexual exploitation represents 23 per cent of all forced labour. Almost four out of five of those in forced commercial sexual exploitation are women or girls. So women sex slaves make up "almost" 18% of all modern slavery. Most slaves are workers like the Ines who build soccer stafiums in Dubai. Which is nearly all men. State-imposed forced labour accounts for 14 per cent of people in forced labour. I wonder what the gender statistics… | /r/MensRights | 10/01/25 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Fascism and Authoritarianism, But Patriarchal Realism’s Conceptual Framework Doing Its Dirty Little Plays.The ahistorical gendered narrative of Patriarchal Realism undergirds modern manifestations of authoritarianism and fascism; left and right respectively What does this even mean in English? Was this whole thing written by chatGPT or is it a madlib? Did you mean to say: "The lack of historical accuracy in the way we talk about gender, strengthens extremism on both the left and right." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/01/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | This is disappointing to read:We're basically mistaken for antifeminists at this point. How can you have a conversation about achieving equality for men and boys if it's always actually a conversation about women and feminism? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/01/25 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Richard Reeves On The Daily Show, Many Of The Issues Discussed In This Forum Are MentionedRespectfully I disagree because he's part of the Venn Diagram that is pro-mensrights and not antifeminist. That the part of our movement that has always had the highest likelihood of success. (Also, remember that there are many antifeminists who also favor continuing the oppression of men with the draft and family court bias and circumcision. Etc. Therefore antifeminism is not men's rights). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/01/25 12:02 PM |
| 27 | A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit - never mind, she is in a room full of enslaved menRemember that the overwhelming majority of Africans captured and transported to the new world, were men. Capitalism exploits men. Colonialism, before it, exploited black men to death in such large numbers that they had to continually bring in new shiploads of captured/enslaved men to replace the ones who were worked to death. | /r/MensRights | 10/01/25 11:56 AM |
| 29 | Richard Reeves On The Daily Show, Many Of The Issues Discussed In This Forum Are MentionedThis 💯 Reeves is able to go on Daily Show to bring up men's issues to a new audience. We may criticize the purity of his message but we can't achieve the same audience that he is getting. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/25 02:33 PM |
| 4 | Fake grooming scandal perpetrator released after less than half her sentence.Ah I misread it then. I saw she had dine this before and this was her first time actually facing any consequence. It's still being cut short. They should have punished her the first time. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/25 10:33 PM |
| 38 | Fake grooming scandal perpetrator released after less than half her sentence.Wait she got zero prison time after she sent an innocent man to jail for 10 weeks? The point of prison is to be a deterrent from future crimes. We could have stopped this even bigger crime if we had jailed her after the first crime. And this time we let her out after a day of her 8 year sentence ? Ok so guess what she's going to do now: MORE CRIME!!!! | /r/MensRights | 08/01/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | A men only city. Would you consider it? There have been many women only communities in the USA, but no men only.I personally don't think it's gay. And even of it were gay that could be a positive thing. I think women and misandry are simply 2 different things. A city free of misandry would be wonderful for all the reasons you mentioned. A city devoid of women would be terrible. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/25 12:29 AM |
| 13 | A men only city. Would you consider it? There have been many women only communities in the USA, but no men only.Exactly. It's not women that are the problem, it's misandry. There are women who perpetuate misandry and there are men who perpetuate misandry. What I REALLY want is to live in a city free of misandry | /r/MensRights | 05/01/25 01:52 PM |
| 56 | A men only city. Would you consider it? There have been many women only communities in the USA, but no men only.I am part if a men's community - a fraternity - but I personally wouldn't like to be a denizen of of men's city. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/25 01:48 AM |
| 19 | What should women do for the male loneliness epidemicMen are the ones making fun of other men who do share their feelings What the fuck kind of nonsense is this? | /r/MensRights | 05/01/25 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Reddit user PROVES that people will side with a woman over a man (even when the roles are reversed!)I identify with that top comment. Seeing these swaps gives me deep satisfaction. And it's a sense of vindication of all the times I called out bias and was gaslit about it. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/25 11:44 AM |
| 7 | CBS News did a segment about a men's retreat aimed at addressing loneliness and feelings of worthlessness many men face. The FB comments were full of people making fun of the program and women trying to make it about themselves.Fun fact: For most of history it was a taboo to experiment on women's bodies nor even to direct women. Traditionally the only people who were on a low enough rung of society to be the subject of medical studies were slave men. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/25 07:16 PM |
| 48 | CBS News did a segment about a men's retreat aimed at addressing loneliness and feelings of worthlessness many men face. The FB comments were full of people making fun of the program and women trying to make it about themselves.It's almost as if "patriarchy" isn't a real thing. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/25 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Supporting men’s rights organizationsI sure will be after April. Awesome I'll join the Discord. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/25 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Supporting men’s rights organizationsIn addition to monetary donations how else can we contribute? I currently volunteer board services for a 501(c)(7) organization and after I finish organizing our Gala in April, I'll be looking for an additional org to volunteer with. Do either of these have need of a trained and experienced board member? | /r/MensRights | 02/01/25 12:40 AM |
| 4 | Opinion on TheTinMenReeves stands for men and boys. So what if he's not an antifeminist? As far as I'm concerned he's one of us. I'm here because of what I'm FOR not because of what I'm AGAINST. I'm FOR men and boys. I'm not AGAINST feminism. Reeves is just fine in my book. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/25 06:24 PM |
| 20 | Businesses go out of Business for Sex Discrimination over Ladies NightI support a ladies night if and only if there is an equal and comparable gentleman's night. If not, then I too would like to join a class action lawsuit against the sexists. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/25 01:25 PM |
| 38 | Why do we lack pro-male academics?You can help change this lack of pro-male research. Take a look at the work being done by the American Institute for Boys and Men. Find ways to contribute. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/25 01:23 PM |
| 4 | Absurd arguments/logic from this article against mandatory paternity testing at birth.3. "In positive/negative paternity testing, women’s sexual practices will be exposed: identifying whether or not her social partner is the genetic father. Yet, a social father’s sexual practices are not explicitly exposed in paternity testing So using that logic, if a cheating husband fathers a child out of wedlock then doing a paternity test should not be allowed because it would expose his sexual practices. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/24 06:55 PM |
| 13 | Opinion on TheTinMenTotally different so not sure how to compare them. Reeves secures funding for research on issues facing boys and men. And not fluffy bullshit like "how men can be better allies" nor "how men can improve themselves for women". No. He raises hard cash to go into research that cares about boys and men. TheTinMen popularizes a lot of stats from research using high quality content. Both are great. Both are necessary. And both are very different. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/12/24 06:43 PM |
| 18 | Chinese male student cyberbullied and punished for arguing that women without children should not be entitled to preferential gender treatment.Imagine that believing "equality" means that women with children should be treated better than men with children. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/24 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Progressive Male Advocacy Discord Server: A Community for Informed Conversations on Men's IssuesI mean I want to talk about men's issues not about women. I want to advocate for equality for men and boys not discuss feminism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/12/24 12:58 PM |
| 3 | Progressive Male Advocacy Discord Server: A Community for Informed Conversations on Men's IssuesSounds good. I want a place to talk about men's issues with fellow lefties. I don't want to keep hearing antifeminism that's unrelated to men's issues, nor right wing asshats. Edit: Turns out I had already joined. I need to get more active on Discord and spend less time seeing ads on social media. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/12/24 02:21 PM |
| 5 | Welcome to the femosphere, the latest dark, toxic corner of the internet… for women | FeminismReading the word "femosphere" I thought it's the parts of the internet full of misandry. I thought of femaleDatingStategy but I also thought of the genocidal #killAllMen movement, and of the prejudiced meme about "more dangerous than a bear". If I understand the article correctly, this researcher coined the name "femosphere" to refer to the parts of the internet that champion toxic feminity. That is, Influencers who romanticize extreme gender roles in which men have to provide everything for wom… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/24 01:18 AM |
| 15 | "Blame patriarchy, not feminism!"Patriarchy is an intentional and malicious attempt to paint a male face on the oligarchy. We are oppressed by the men and women of the capitalist class. But that truth is threatening to the corporate overlords so instead they propagate a distorted version of this theory which is designed to divide us, the working class, by gender. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/12/24 05:40 PM |
| 152 | Large gym installed security cameras in only the men's locker rooms to "deter crime"Female Supremicism - the widespread belief that women are superior to men, either in general or in specific domains such as cleanliness or following the law. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/24 12:34 PM |
| 94 | Large gym installed security cameras in only the men's locker rooms to "deter crime"Sadly, the optics will be the opposite. The only perps who will be caught, will be men. The perps that are women will get away with it... as usual. So the gym will only see men when they look at the biased subset of burglars that are caught and they will pat themselves on the back thinking they were justified. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/24 12:32 PM |
| 69 | "Blame patriarchy, not feminism!"100% I'm leftwing so I fight oligarchy. The people who fight against patriarchy are not standing shoulder-to-shoulder with me against the oppression of the capitalist class. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/12/24 12:11 PM |
| 40 | "It's not just men that traffick. Women do this to other women as well and men are also trafficked."I will always have an issue with the phrasing "men can be trafficked, too". No! Stop it. "MEN AND BOYS ARE TRAFFICKED". Period. Nobody denies that women and girls can be trafficked, too. We are simply highlighting that boys and men are trafficked every day at high numbers. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/12/24 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Common Law Marriage - How Gender Roles Are Legislated Upon Men By The Feminist Movement.Thos is incorrect. Paternity tests can be used to make you pay child support but in no way are they a requirement. If the child formed a bind with you then it doesn't matter who the biological father is the system will oppress you. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/24 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Men are constantly harped on to do better and improve all for what exactly?Being healthy is important... for the right reasons. Get healthy for yourself. Not for others. If you hate lifting weights but love running, then get into shape by running. You'll be thin as a stick and won't have big muscles. But you'll be healthy and you'll be happy. Get a solid group of friends that you can talk to regularly - people who accept you the way you are and not people who will leave you if you aren't some idealized version of what a "real man" is supposed to be. Join a charity, or … | /r/MensRights | 26/12/24 02:22 PM |
| -1 | I'm single, childless and alone. Feminism has failed me and my generation, writes PETRONELLA WYATT 'My teachers made me feel as if marriage was shameful. My English mistress once teased me for looking at a bridal magazine, but then she was an arch feminist who demonised men.'I agree. I come here because I support men, not because I'm against feminism. This article may be anti-feminist but it's not pro-mensrights. It's on the wrong sub. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Woman chops off her boyfriend's genitals with a knife as his marriage was with another womanA better way to say this is that the motive for the crime was that she was attracted to a married man. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/24 05:50 PM |
| 10 | NYPD Chief of Department Jeffrey Maddrey resigns amid bombshell sex abuse, harassment claimsShe has the privilege of being a cop AND of being a woman. Both of these things have massive systemic privileges in court. There is a near100% chance she will get a massive payout. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/24 02:17 PM |
| 4 | How and when did the west become so much man hating ?When? Since ancient times. We hated men enough to force them to fight in war while women's lives were protected. Men have been oppressed for thousands of years. We can end the misandry. It's time. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/24 07:07 PM |
| 13 | Andrew Cuomo vows to sue former aide who accused him of sexual harassmentUnless you're in North Korea or something, most of the civilized world assumes people are innocent until proven guilty. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/24 05:26 PM |
| 16 | The future? Heck, the PRESENT is FemaleThat's a good idea for a t-shirt slogan: The present is female the future is equal | /r/MensRights | 18/12/24 12:34 PM |
| 3 | The left approach to losing male voters is to explain how their cause is wrong.Agreed | /r/MensRights | 17/12/24 06:00 PM |
| 20 | The left approach to losing male voters is to explain how their cause is wrong.Most of the content is a sterile history lesson with a disdainful tone of presentation. It's not flattering but it's not terrible. If you want outrage then read the absolute bone-headed closing paragraph: Understanding this history is the key to enabling Democrats and the media to address the alienation of young men and their drift rightward without unwittingly empowering this movement—one that wants to restore “men’s rights” to unearned legal privileges, unfair economic and educational advantag… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | It’s not in your head. Study proves we prioritize harm against women while often minimizing harm against men.I want more studies like this. Who are the people behind this and how can I support them? | /r/MensRights | 15/12/24 01:31 PM |
| 8 | It’s not in your head. Study proves we prioritize harm against women while often minimizing harm against men.Yes. Society treats women better than men. We are taught this so we internalize it - meaning we take these ideas about women needing our help asif they were our own ideas. This is INTERNALIZED MISANDRY. The enemy is not other men, the enemy is the ideas that affect those other men. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/24 12:07 PM |
| 25 | Advocate for child abuse if the child is a boy, cant make this upDifferent. Not superior. Mothers are not better parents than fathers are. Certainly not because of some mythical instinct they're supposedly born with. That's just female supremacist nonsense. My fatherly instinct is equal to any woman's motherly instinct. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/24 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Who do you think are the best representatives of MRA?Richard Reeves Also, Warren Farrell | /r/MensRights | 14/12/24 03:15 PM |
| 6 | Woman who accused the three Duke lacrosse players of rape, now says she lied, made it all up.She should serve additional jail time on top her sentences for her other crimes. It's telling that a convict with a long criminal record never got charged for false accusations. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | I never tried dresses (90% of men have not to i guess)Dresses ARE comfortable. I like to wear a kilt from time to time. It has pockets. It's a bit of a hassle to put in compared to sweatpants but overall I like it. The reason I don't wear it is because sexism against men. For example I can't wear it to work because it's not safe. Someone will tell HR that they feel weirded out by it and suddenly I'll be unemployed. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/24 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Tell me your issues with feminismI'm going to assume you're asking in good faith. Let's explore just one specific example, out of many issues: Gender discrimination in the military draft. Human beings are being forced to fight, get maimed, even die, based on the gender assigned to them at birth. Not based on who's stronger. Not based on skills. No. Based on the gender assigned at birth. Bith Men and Trans women need allies to achieve equality on this issue. So where TF are feminists? First feminists blame the victim. Men and Tr… | /r/MensRights | 12/12/24 01:47 PM |
| 76 | Anyone else just get exhausted around women?!I'm exhausted around misandrists. But not around women. Important distinction. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/24 12:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel men?You need a comma in the title because feeling up men would be sexual harassment. how do you feel, men? I feel like there is systematic discrimination against me. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/24 11:27 AM |
| 12 | Men murdered for not wanting to kill other menYou mean why Putin is still alive? | /r/MensRights | 11/12/24 11:22 AM |
| 5 | Out of these countries which are most/least misandrist?cities. Many women tend to move there to work YOUNG WOMEN do. Women who move to cities when they're young are more likely to return to rural areas when they're older than men are. It's interesting. Children have a near equal gender ratio everywhere (except China). Then suddenly in their 20s there's a huge gap in gender ratios (e.g. cities have more young women) and it gradually reverses until for older age groups rural areas are overflowing with old women. Source: Johansson, Mats. 2016. “Young W… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/24 12:24 AM |
| 5 | Isn't the Women-Owned Small Business (WOSB) Federal Contract program discriminatory?I support discriminated groups receiving special accommodations. Men are discriminated against. I support men receiving special accommodations. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/24 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Society needs to understand that men can easily be physically abused in straight relationshipsMen are emotionally abused and financially abused, frequently, in straight relationships. No "can be". No "too". Men are abused. Period. | /r/MensRights | 08/12/24 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Women =/= feministsYeah it bothers me too. The real enemy is misandry. Since you're using math/logic symbols here: Feminism ⊆ Misandry Women ⊆ Feminists ∃ non-feminist women ∴ Women ≠ Misandry | /r/MensRights | 04/12/24 11:16 AM |
| 4 | Men who adhere to traditional gender roles or masculine ideologies face more than double the risk of suicide | Swiss National Science FoundationPersonally, I just want to be equal. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Sen. John Fetterman says fellow Democrats lost male voters to Trump by ‘insulting’ them, being ‘condescending’So what I’m getting is ... You don't get it. Voters have a choice and they chose to run away from condescending rhetoric like this. It's your choice whether to shut up and win elections, ir to spew this kind of crap and keep losing. Entirely up to you. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Sen. John Fetterman says fellow Democrats lost male voters to Trump by ‘insulting’ them, being ‘condescending’I'm proud to be a Democrat and I also admit that we insulted and were condescending to men. Here's one example of many: our ads. We had an ad in which a man's value was judged by his height, his salary, and whether he voted. The women popped balloons to show that he had failed their test. It was clearly written by weirdos who don't know how to talk to men. It was condescending and it backfired. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Sen. John Fetterman says fellow Democrats lost male voters to Trump by ‘insulting’ them, being ‘condescending’For the longest time I thought that af was a fake. That's how bad it was. I honestly thought that Republicans created a fake ad to make democrats look bad. But no. We ran that ad ourselves. I knew right then that we would lose. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 01:50 PM |
| 7 | Sen. John Fetterman says fellow Democrats lost male voters to Trump by ‘insulting’ them, being ‘condescending’I'm proud to be a Democrat but I'm not proud of my colleagues who say that kind of nonsense. They're more interested in winning the "Oppression Olympics" than they are in winning elections. I can practically hear the department of education getting defunded every time they talk like that because it's causing voters to run for the exits. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Sen. John Fetterman says fellow Democrats lost male voters to Trump by ‘insulting’ them, being ‘condescending’It could have been Nikki Haley. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 01:45 PM |
| 5 | Sen. John Fetterman says fellow Democrats lost male voters to Trump by ‘insulting’ them, being ‘condescending’Trump is pretty bad for women, Trump is bad for men. His pick for defense secretary openly stated that only men should die in war. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 01:43 PM |
| 5 | Sen. John Fetterman says fellow Democrats lost male voters to Trump by ‘insulting’ them, being ‘condescending’I'm old and I don't remember such days. Even in the 80s we had bumper stickers about how bad both choices are. I bet people who heard the Lincoln/Douglas debates also complained about how much both candidates suck. I bet the Adam's v. Jefferson voters thought both of those candidates were pompous assholes. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 01:41 PM |
| 4 | Sen. John Fetterman says fellow Democrats lost male voters to Trump by ‘insulting’ them, being ‘condescending’Let's be honest. As a man both parties hate me. One party wants me to die on a battlefield to protect women, wants me to be a traditional money-maker for a household and keep divorce laws brutal towards me. The other talks about me as if I'm the cause of all of the world's problems because I'm worse than a bear. Every year I vote for the local candidates who build more bike lanes and who support family law reform. Those are the elections that matter. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Sen. John Fetterman says fellow Democrats lost male voters to Trump by ‘insulting’ them, being ‘condescending’This sounds correct. I don't know why it's downvoted. Harris the person is different from Harris the persona created by a party machine. Anyone running for any position higher than a school board is basically an actor. Look, Trump was an actual actor, so his acting is more fluid and believable. Harris is more stiff when putting on the persona that the party wrote for her. So yeah I believe she probably wanted to go on Rogan but the party machine scripted her character differently. The party lost… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 01:24 PM |
| 12 | who is responsible for gender based selective service/conscription/draft?The rich. They wrote conscription laws in ways that money allows their sons to pay out of conscription. The rich are responsible. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 01:11 PM |
| 15 | Sen. John Fetterman says fellow Democrats lost male voters to Trump by ‘insulting’ them, being ‘condescending’I'm proud to be a Democrat but I'm not proud of my colleagues who do this. Even worse, when you point out that this language is costing us elections the response is : "women don't owe men sex" Like, OK. Nobody is saying that. Every time the man-hating dweebs say things like this all I can hear is the sound of the department of education being defunded. TL;DR Fetterman is 100% correct | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 12:53 PM |
| 5 | Unpopular opinion: toxic masculinity is a real thing, but feminists use the term in a misandric wayfeminists did not coin the term "toxic masculinity" Yeah and homophobes didn't invent the word "fag". however I'd like to think of it as "traditional masculinity but for selfish and immoral purposes " It's important to talk about how traditional gender roles screw over men. "Toxic masculinity was alway the WRONG phrase for this. A better word is misandry. Traditional gender roles were created with the belief that men are inherently bad and that every man must prove that they're "one if the good … | /r/MensRights | 30/11/24 09:02 PM |
| 8 | Men Are 20 Times More Likely to Get Killed during Police Encounters Compared to Women, Regardless of Skin Color - Gilmore Health NewsAND men are more likely to be targeted by police. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/24 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Teen who lied about beheaded French teacher's class says 'sorry'; it was all a lie to cover up her own misbehaviorI agree. The article says she only got 18 months of probation for slander. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/24 09:40 PM |
| 10 | I don't like the word "patriarchy"We had a society favouring men economically What? When? At what point in history were the boys dying in the mines, or the unmarried men who toiled until their bodies simply broke down in their 40s and died... at what point were those men favored over the average woman? I think you meant to say that we once had a society favoring a very small percentage of men while clearly disfavoring the bottom percentile of men. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/24 09:33 PM |
| 14 | she abuses her boyfriend while he was live on TwitchAbuse victims who call the police get the shit beaten out of them by the police... if they're male. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/24 09:32 PM |
| 55 | UK: Drink Spiking Will Be Made A Criminal Offence Under Labour Bid To Protect Women And GirlsNor gendered enforcement. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/24 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Father does everything right but can't protect his daughter from an abuserIf it were a man then this is what they would call crime. But it's a woman so yes they call it mental health issues. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/24 01:08 PM |
| 22 | Did Men Vote For This...?Men aren't the majority of voters. How could we be the ones to choose an outcome? There are fewer voting age men than women. Many countries can revoke your eligibility to vote for example if you didn't register for a draft or for conscription. These voter purges target predominantly men. Of the fewer eligible men left to vote... They're less likely to vote. For example. In the USA men make up about 46% of all voters. I'm not sure what the exact number is in the UK but men are not the majority of… | /r/MensRights | 23/11/24 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else notice how since Trumps election slander towards men has increased exponentially?No. Maybe one small yet loud, politically aligned group has increased its nonsense. But every other part of society continues its regular high amount of anti-male bias. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/24 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Nancy Mace doesn’t understand the irony in her statement.What? Republicans hate men? Well I never. /s obviously | /r/MensRights | 21/11/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Finnair Celebrates International Men’s DayEvery day men get conscripted and sent to the front line against their will and die. So yeah. Every day is men's day. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/24 02:26 AM |
| 11 | It isn't enough that feminism dies.Feminism is only a symptom of misandry in society. If Feminism were to go away nothing would change except the language that people use to hate on men. Our enemy is misandry. If we make the mistake of blaming Feminism for the inequities of the world then we will be sadly disappointed. We must fight the cause not the symptom. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 05:17 PM |
| -13 | Nancy Mace doesn’t understand the irony in her statement.This is true. AND since the percentage of women who vote republican went up this election, I would say that's a sign that the TERFs have won AND found a home in the republic party. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 05:13 PM |
| 1 | 'Thrown on a bus and sent to hell': Videos show Ukrainian men being hauled off the streets by army recruiters. OP: Gender equality?Exactly. Russia started this shit and Russia can end it by backing the fuck out. Russia conscripts men and blocks them from leaving the country. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 12:02 PM |
| 5 | Jeff Younger loses custody to his sons. His ex-wife will castrate his son James. This X post is posted on International Men’s Day.I have full custody of my son. I love every second of it. But if I were humiliated with supervised custody I wouldn't submit to that. It's dehumanizing. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 11:59 AM |
| -19 | A Father's Rights Case is blowing up on TwitterX is all bots anyway. So it is more a question of whether the story plays well with enough algorithms. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 11:57 AM |
| 19 | A Father's Rights Case is blowing up on TwitterI've helped several men going through custody crises. My experience has helped me to see through bullshit. When I see that a father hadn't seen the kids my experience tells me he was most prevented from seeing his kids for the purposes of establishing status quo. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 11:55 AM |
| 9 | Where did all this hatred for men start?I see feminism as a symptom of misandry not the cause of it. Men have been told to sacrifice themselves for women since time immemorial. Men have been exploited by the ruling classes since the dawn of history. Feminism isn't that powerful of a movement. It's just a part of a larger exploitation of working men. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/24 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Studies show that fraternities are beneficial to men's mental health. So why do so many people hate fraternities?Exactly! | /r/MensRights | 18/11/24 01:59 PM |
| 12 | Man is killed by police after struggling with female who broke into his homeLol. It's so rare for cops to face any consequences that when they do it makes the front page of the news. The murderer here is going to get a week of paid leave. That'll teach 'em! | /r/MensRights | 18/11/24 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Studies show that fraternities are beneficial to men's mental health. So why do so many people hate fraternities?It was a second level study. So they took data from the "Healthy Minds Study" with 850,000 participants. It's possible there's some self selection going on. For example the people who have the foresight to join a club where strong bonds are formed are probably the people who are less depressed whether they join a fraternity or not. But also... the thing they would choose would be similar to a fraternity. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 11:30 PM |
| 0 | Studies show that fraternities are beneficial to men's mental health. So why do so many people hate fraternities?I agree with the other commenter that says this language is harmful. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Studies show that fraternities are beneficial to men's mental health. So why do so many people hate fraternities?There are way more news stories about hazing rituals than there are actual incidents of hazing. Also... sports teams haze more than fraternities. So my theory is that perpetuating the "frat hazing" myth is a symptom of hating male groups and not the cause of why people hate male groups. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 07:13 PM |
| 13 | People, get off the internet a bit and go do something IRLYou didn't list doing any advocacy work IRL today. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 11:50 AM |
| 22 | “Patriarchy hurts men too”This. The older I get the more I realize all of this gender nonsense is better described by class struggles. It feels like the left has been usurped by the gender people through the generous support of the ruling class because it keeps us plebes divided along gender lines. Anything to keep us from uniting against the real oppressors. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/24 05:17 PM |
| 14 | A traffic researcher in Germany has called for men to be allowed to obtain a driver’s license only after the age of 26.In the US way over a third of all jobs are driving jobs (delivery, taxi, trucking, bus, etc.). I imagine it's similar in Germany. This researcher clearly didn't research employment statistics before opening their mouth. 😒 | /r/MensRights | 13/11/24 06:53 PM |
| 35 | UPDATE: Woman that threatened to shoot white males with a Glock "doubled down"This update makes me sad. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/24 02:09 PM |
| 8 | International men's Day is Tuesday, November 19thYes! Every day men are drafted into war against their will. Every day employers put men into more dangerous situations than our female counterparts. Every day men are more likely to be suspected, indicted, found guilty, and sentenced more harshly than women who commit the same crime. Every day boys are more likely to have their sexuality controlled theough genitals mutilated because of outdated norms around anesthetics and sexual purity. Every day men live shorter lives on average than women. Ev… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/24 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Toxic masculinity is a blaming term.Yeah totally. They are different. This can be totally unrelated to toxic gender norms and simply be a result of being around people who hate men. So I see it like cause and effect. I like to share my truth, which is about internalized misandry. When I talk about the systemic injustices that caused my experience then I talk about toxic gender norms. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/24 04:00 PM |
| 20 | Warren Farrell: Trump won because Democrats keep telling young men they’re dangerous and don’t matter | OpinionHarris really didn't seem to play the race or gender card. She didn't have to. It's obvious enough. But literally everyone on her side seems incapable of thinking of anything other than in terms of identity politics, I agree. She was pretty disciplined about this until those terrible commercials at the end. The damage was done by other parts of the party. One thing we're not pointing out is she was silent about the negative stereotypes bandied about by her colleagues . The rest of the party stay… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/24 01:06 PM |
| 4 | Toxic masculinity is a blaming term.reject the term toxic masculinity, and call it toxic gender norms instead That's a good one if all you need to describe is the roles society forces in us. I think "internalized misandry" better conveys the serious psychological effects that those toxic gender norms have on us. AND it explains why we ourselves perpetuate toxic gender stereotypes about our own selves. So personally I prefer to talk about internalized misandry. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/24 12:35 PM |
| 64 | Warren Farrell: Trump won because Democrats keep telling young men they’re dangerous and don’t matter | OpinionAs a Democrat... I doubt we'll learn from this election. I bet we're going to keep pushing the "men must be better allies to women" narrative and keep losing elections because of it. Which is a shame because other than the ant-male messaging we do a lot of good stuff. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/24 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do some men think the democrat party "hates" them?Good question. I'm leftwing AF and I'm also MensRights AF. So let me take a stab at answering this. The democratic party itself doesn't hate men. At least not any more than the republican party does. But some of the people within the larger tent of the democratic sure do say vile shit about men and nobody in the party tells them to stop. Let's start by what the party DOESN'T say and then at what some extremists within it do say. What don't we do for men? The Equal Rights Amendment is a great dem… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 03:15 PM |
| 3 | I Didn't Know a Man Could Be Abused by a WomanI didn't either until my ex wife abused me. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 02:55 PM |
| 9 | Gay Men and Men's RightsOne of the many issues that we advocate for is reproductive rights for gay and single men. If you want to have children through surrogacy then you'll realize how exposed and unprotected you are. Most countries flat out ban surrogacy for men who aren't married to a woman. So you would end up going to countries where it's simply a legal gray area. Thus if something were to go wrong then your legal contract is not necessarily binding and the courts aren't there for you. This needs to change. We nee… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 02:55 PM |
| 8 | Leaving this subI've been on this sub for probably 7 years. Some among us (but not most) do post the kinds of things you're talking about. You "be better" by helping steer the conversation in the right direction. I've come to realize that this sub is slowly becoming the male version of twox. No. Those people have always been here and I never liked them. I come here to talk about men's issues not to listen to someone drone on about how much women suck. Instead of leaving the sub like a quitter, I want you to pos… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 05:42 PM |
| 0 | Gentlemen, why don't we speak out beyond this sub?I do. I strongly encourage everyone to find a language for speaking about men's rights outside of this sub. It was hard until I found role models. Now I really look up to speakers like Richard Reeves and Scott Galloway for how they cover men's issues. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 10:32 PM |
| 75 | "Nearly 70% of Gaza war dead are women and children" - In reality, it's 44% children, and 26% women. Male deaths are completely ignored, even though by this data men constitute a higher proportion of victims than women.77% of Gaza deaths are men and children. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 10:30 PM |
| 16 | What is going on in the Two X chromosomes sub Reddit? Why are they panicked and calling all men Incels?I'm confused when I look at exit polling. Looks like Trump made big gains with women but did worse with men than he did on his first election. So... men weren't scared away by the lecturing feminists of the left and women don't give a shit about abortion? Were we lied to this whole time? | /r/MensRights | 06/11/24 01:54 PM |
| 38 | Democrats took the male vote for grantedIn 2020 men made up 46.8% of voters. In 2016 men made up 46.4% of voters. Etc. Sorry but we are a voting minority. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/24 11:27 AM |
| 2 | All this crap about “WoMeN’s RiGhTs” but Kamala+Liz Cheney will get all our sons, brothers, fathers etc…involved in endless warsStop this B.S. Juat like Neville Chamberlain, we aren't going to avoid a war by letting Putin take territory at will. | /r/MensRights | 05/11/24 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Trumps appeal to men that the media just doesn't getOk Wilt Chamberlain. You can allow Russia to expand without any resistance and surely it won't lead to war. And us allowing Russia to expand sends a signal to China that they better not expand or else we won't stop them either. | /r/MensRights | 05/11/24 11:38 AM |
| -2 | Trumps appeal to men that the media just doesn't get"I’m really good at war. I love war" -Donald Trump November 12, 2015 As president, Trump increased drone strokes in Somalia and bolstered troop presence in Saudi Arabia and the Persian Gulf region, particularly during the Persian Gulf crisis against Iran. From 2016 to 2019, the number of Afghan civilians killed by international airstrikes increased by 330 percent. Personally I'm worried about the number of Trump supporters who want a civil war. I'd move my family to Europe for safety if that bro… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/24 06:53 PM |
| -7 | Trumps appeal to men that the media just doesn't getTaking accountability isn't necessarily a strong suit for her or her political side of the isle I concede that there will be some who double down on hating men instead of taking accountability for shitting on men. I call bullshit because the other side of the isle is incapable of taking accountability for a fucking convicted felon who was also found liable for multiple sexual assaults and who is facing multiple felony warrants for trying to overturn an election. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/24 12:52 AM |
| -2 | Trumps appeal to men that the media just doesn't getThere are wackjobs in the left. Why the hell are you ignoring the wackjobs on the right? Seems very short-sighted to vote for ine group that hates men just because the other group hates men, too. We need to organize and get gender-neutral draft legislation, and custody court reform, and making the protections on genital mutilation protect men, too... etc. But this B.S. about pretending as if the right gives a shit about men is just dumb. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/24 12:45 AM |
| 9 | Trumps appeal to men that the media just doesn't getBrett Cavanaugh didn't do any better when she asked him that question. We're ignoring the fact that Republicans hate men and focusing on the fact that democrats hate men. We're going to be very angry in a year if we keep up this nonsense. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/24 12:41 AM |
| -4 | Trumps appeal to men that the media just doesn't getThat's what republican women want. To remove those dangerous dark skinned men who are coming across the border. They don't seem to have it out for their cleaning lady. But the men, you know, they're dangerous 🙄 Also, those old Karens want to jail those dark skinned men in the cities. You know, also dangerous because they're men. That's how the GOP wins votes among old women. Through negative stereotypes about men. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/24 11:44 PM |
| 41 | Trumps appeal to men that the media just doesn't getTo be fair... It's democrats not the Harris campaign. She has done very little man-shaming because she learned the lesson from Clinton's campaign. Most of the man hating you can think of is coming from OUTSIDE the campaign, by activists or local politicians (except for those recent bone-headed ads about keeping your vote a secret from your big bad husband). If Trump wins (God forbid) then I 100% guarantee the analysts will point to the failed rhetoric that some people on the left use when talkin… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/24 09:58 PM |
| -4 | Trumps appeal to men that the media just doesn't getI can't wait for the collective anger of this sub in January when Trump rounds up a bunch of men for deportation but leaves all the illegal immigrant women alone. (Remember that 45% of illegal aliens in the USA are women). | /r/MensRights | 03/11/24 09:49 PM |
| 38 | Wtf is this adFrom a ruthless strategy perspective it makes sense because: There simply are more voting age women than men because life is way more deadly to men than to women. Those fewer voting age men are more likely to be disqualified from voting due to felony because the criminal justice system criminalizes traditionally male behavior more than female behavior AND male criminals are more likely to be suspected, more likely to be charged, more likely to be sentenced, than female criminals. Of the fewer vo… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/24 11:58 AM |
| -5 | What are your complaints with this sub?I agree. I hate The amount of posts about how "liberals" are hurting men and how the "woke" agenda hates men and... yeah. Those people need to GTFO and create a rightwingmaleadvocates sub. Just wait until those people discover how the traditional conservatives view men. Oof! | /r/MensRights | 01/11/24 11:07 AM |
| 2 | "And who set that system up?"The Rich The rich set the system up. It sure AF was not set up by men who were forced to die and get dismembered on battlefields so that the men and women of the richer classes could profit off of war. It sure AF eas not set up by men breaking their backs on farm fields in order to feed their family. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/24 10:55 AM |
| 5 | Voting rights for menI agree. AND men should write their democratic senators and congresspersons to vote again on the Equal Rights Ammendment. The ERA is a democratic party initiative and it would: End gender discrimination in the military draft End gendered language in custody laws End gender specific college grants or educational outreach programs Make impossible a different retirement age for men and women (like many other countries have). Etc. Vote democratic AND make them pass equality as they once promised. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/24 10:53 AM |
| 23 | Are MEN to blame for the UK fertility crisis? Women want children but are forced into freezing their eggs due to the 'mating gap' - where they can't find a partner to commit OP: More male hate!There is however a male fertility crisis. The percentage of men being diagnosed as infertile is sky high and the number of boys born with underdeveloped genitals is also recorded high. Nobody is quite sure why but one theory is phthalates in the food supply (e.g. microplastics). And of course, Nobody is doing anything about it because "hey, it's only men and they're disposable. Right?" | /r/MensRights | 30/10/24 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Feminist journos keep digging deeper as they start bashing veteran draftees, implying that they are self-proclaimed victims and "developing a powerful narrative"Unpopular Opinion: I predict this kind of rhetoric to explode (again) if Trump were to win. The establishment of the Democratic Party had learned a lesson after Hillary echoed a lot of the rhetoric about "women are the REAL victims and men cannot be victims". Harris has been very disciplined about this and hasn't invalidated male voters (in fact the opposite: she has plans directly targeting various male voting groups). But if Trump were to win, the party establishment will get sidelined and the… | /r/MensRights | 27/10/24 05:05 PM |
| 1 | What was a time that you, as a man, experienced sexism or misandry?custody court Enough said | /r/MensRights | 26/10/24 10:26 AM |
| 0 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernDid Hillary supporters trash congressional offices and barge into congress while the vote was being certified? Did Hillary organize a rally then give a speech telling them to march on the capital? ✋️ stop with the equivocation. When the feds looked into what Hillary did they found no crimes. When the feds looked into what Trump did they charged him with over 90 crimes. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 09:31 PM |
| 0 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernIf you don't know then you should read the federal criminal indictment against Trump for the shit he pulled on January 6th. He repeatedly pressured and threatened Mike Pence not to certify the election despite being advised that this demand was unconstitutional. He called election workers in at least 2 states telling them to find just a few thousand votes to go in his favor. He invited a crowd then riled them up to pressure legislators to not certify the election using arguments that his staff h… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernStop ✋️ You know that January 6th was an attempt to overthrow the constitutional process of certifying the election. And you know that Primaries are not in the constitution - they're a nomination process governed by the bylaws of a provate corporation (e.g. the incorporated political party). According to those bylaws, the democratic party chose Harris as its candidate. You know this stuff. So stop shitposting online. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 05:31 PM |
| -6 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernwrong Trump claimed without evidence that Harris never worked for McDonald's. Newspapers have looked into this apparently it comes from somebody shitposting on Facebook that McDonald's corporate said she hadn't. Fun fact, McDonald's corporate never said that. Facebook FFS! He got that nonsense off of a troll on FB! Multiple newspapers have looked into this. NYT has verified with prior coworkers of hers that she did in fact work there during college. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 11:52 AM |
| 6 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernWho let the hamburglar into that McDonald's??? | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 11:47 AM |
| -8 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernIs Hitler running for office? No. I think they meant more like Haley, DeSantis, Hutchinson, Christie, Pence, etc. At least anyone competent and anyone who's not a convicted felon, who wasn't found liable for defrauding city governments and/or found liable for sexual assault. At least anyone who didn't try to overthrow a democratic election. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 11:45 AM |
| 5 | MSNBC Analyst: "Men would rather listen to Joe Rogan and be converted to fascism than go to therapy."Probably because of the troubling things he says (like musing about deploying the army against American citizens) and the things he does (like trying to overturn the 2020 election) and the policies he advocates (like deporting refugees who are here legally) And the people who support him that normally vote for obscure far right third parties (like how the KKK have supported him) And more | /r/MensRights | 20/10/24 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Why do American politicians suck up to women voters but never male voters?She's not losing support among "men". She's losing support among 1) young men and 2) black men. The rightward shift among young men is pretty stark. She's probably going to Joe Rogan to stem the bleeding. She won't win that group. But they don't vote so it's probably not her top priority. Black men vote in higher percentages. They largely vote democratic but there's still a drop. So black men are a top priority for the Harris campaign. Harris has been reaching out to black male voters like crazy… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/24 10:10 AM |
| 8 | This is what conscription looks likeGood. I'll shoot a few extra officers just to compensate for what will happen to my family. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 08:13 PM |
| 10 | This is what conscription looks likeThat's my thought, too. At that point what do I have to lose? I'll just shoot the highest ranking officer I could get close to. My chances of survival while doing that would still probably be higher than being a fresh conscript in the front lines. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Do you feel more motivated or demoralized about reading things like this sub?gynocentrism so deeply ingrained in our society and culture. Including in many men. And there are women who don't subscribe to this at all. Logivally, that makes gynocentrism the enemy, not women. Women LOVE being seen as the "better" sex, and they love treating men like shit because of it. This needs to be addressed and called out when we see it. I agree the supremacism must be called out. But the people are redeemable. We should be asking why men are seen as disposable in the first place, by b… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/24 10:25 AM |
| 11 | USA: Men have to register for the draft in case of war but women don't.It's always been like this, even before it took the form of a draft. Because men have been oppressed for thousands of years*. We've been forced to fight against our will for the profit and protection of wealthy families. The men women and children of the wealthy classes have exploited us, leading men to lifelong trauma, physical disability, and death. They claim it's our "duty" and lots of the language around "be a real men" comes from this exploitation. Wealthy women and men will always seek to… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/24 10:08 AM |
| 129 | Dashcam captures killer mom ambushing and injecting ex-husband with deadly poison. He had just been granted custody of his childrenThis is why you need to watch out for your friends going through custody battles. They're in danger of being alienated from their kids, cut off from their friends, self harm, and assault. Volunteer with them. Don't just sit online and type nonsense. Actually do something. Volunteer to help your friends in custody crises. Show up to exchanges with them. Go to court with them. Help them prepare their houses for inspections by custody officials. Etc. Etc. These men need your help. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/24 09:57 AM |
| 238 | Dashcam captures killer mom ambushing and injecting ex-husband with deadly poison. He had just been granted custody of his childrenAt the end of the article: Hovanec was ultimately sentenced to 40 years behind bars, followed by a 10-year supervised release. She was also ordered to pay more than $2.1 million in restitution. Also her mother got 10 years for being an accomplis to murder. So thankfully this one case didn't get the mom pass. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/24 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Do we need an Anti-Feminist Academia?Very easily. Because you're on a sub about men liberating themselves from societal beliefs that oppress us, and you claimed that we're a joke. So why are you against equality for men and boys? | /r/MensRights | 02/10/24 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Do we need an Anti-Feminist Academia?Why are you against men liberating themselves from the oppressive system that was imposed on them by the wealthy classes? | /r/MensRights | 02/10/24 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Do we need an Anti-Feminist Academia?Oh yeah. I agree with that. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/24 09:52 AM |
| 3 | Do we need an Anti-Feminist Academia?Let's be honest, it would probably also be nonsense. I work in tech, have worked on multiple data collection efforts, and now I manage teams with data engineers and statisticians/analysts. I can say with confidence that there is no "unbiased data" to be had here. For example: arrests for violent crimes don't include a large number of women assaulting men. The arrest statistics also include arrests of a large numbers of men who were wrongly arrested for defending themselves from assault by a woma… | /r/MensRights | 01/10/24 04:04 PM |
| 25 | Do we need an Anti-Feminist Academia?We need pro-male academia. Feminists point to the nonsense that their academia puts out. We should be able to do the same. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/24 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Do you feel more motivated or demoralized about reading things like this sub?Do bloodwork and improve your hormones. Huh? | /r/MensRights | 30/09/24 11:35 AM |
| 4 | Do you feel more motivated or demoralized about reading things like this sub?Why do you feel that way? Because on the contrary, I feel that the reason men's rights isn't going anywhere is because we're cronically online blaming the wrong people. We should be out there building allies and getting legislation passed. We should be out there changing the culture so that people start thinking of men as human (instead of as disposable/conscriptable/billable). All of that is the opposite of sitting online and blaming "modern women" or whatever 🙄 | /r/MensRights | 30/09/24 11:16 AM |
| 18 | Do you feel more motivated or demoralized about reading things like this sub?Both. Some days it gives me a new perspective to understand my situation and new language to talk about my experience. Other days it makes me demoralized that things will never change. AND some days it just annoys me to see juvenile nonsense about how girls have cooties. I try to start discussions about misandry and how as men we can liberate ourselves from man-hating ideas because after being on this sub for years I will go CRAZY if I have to hear one more person claim that the enemy is "modern… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/24 09:11 PM |
| 9 | Prove me Wrong: Child Support for Children of Paternity Fraud is a violation of the 14th AmendmentOf you were able to fight a child support case in a normal court then this might have some legs. But constitutional rights don't apply to family law nor contract law. Those are separate court systems. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/24 09:04 PM |
| 13 | According to radical feminist Lundy Bancroft, author of a bestselling book Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men, if a man claims to have been abused by a previous partner or he often has his feelings easily hurt , he is actually guilty of abuse himself.As an a use survivor myself, I say "fuck this piece of shit". | /r/MensRights | 29/09/24 12:46 PM |
| 9 | I asked a radical feminist about whether she had ever been SA'd to try and better the conversation, sh starting DM'ing me and did this:No. She doesn't need rehabilitation. She needs jail. Credible threats of violence are a felony. She needs a few years behind bars to think about what she did. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 02:27 AM |
| 7 | How can men learn not to need women?You're right that it's not explicitly allowed anywhere for gay and single men to have surrogates. However there are many places that look the other way and you can have a surrogate in a sort of "legal gray zone". This is risky of course because it makes you likely to be a victim of extortion by the surrogate mother and there is zero legal protection available to you. That is why it's important for us to also advocate for reproductive rights for gay and single men. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 05:23 PM |
| 5 | How can men learn not to need women?No, no. They're onto something. There are zero places on earth that explicitly allow single men to enter a surrogacy contract. And only single-digit number of places that explicitly allow gay couples to enter surrogacy contracts. When single men go abroad for surrogacy they are having surrogates in legal gray areas where their contracts are not well protected by the law. This is why single and gay men trying for surrogacy are often victims of extortion by surrogate mothers. "Reproductive rights"… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 05:19 PM |
| 11 | I asked a radical feminist about whether she had ever been SA'd to try and better the conversation, sh starting DM'ing me and did this:Uh... so that's a credible threat of violence. It differs by state, but in NY for example it would be a class D felony and would carry up to 7 years in jail. You're a minor, so that probably makes it even worse. Whoever she is, she needs jail. Lots of jail. Do us all a favor and help correct the gender statistics about violent crime. Please file charges. She needs to be part of the statistics the next time somebody talks about "men" being violent criminals, or whatever. Thank you in advance. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 05:08 PM |
| 32 | It’s wild how normalised the hate is.I bet she doesn't even see the men in her life for who they are. She sees some kind of idealized nonsense that she superimposes over them. The actual men behind the facade she erected are totally unseen by her. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 05:02 PM |
| 9 | It’s wild how normalised the hate is."Misandry isn't real" - feminists "Oh yeah, watch this" - Swiss bae | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 04:53 PM |
| 22 | How can men learn not to need women?Surrogacy. Have kids that are all yours and that no woman can take from you (and then charge you for). | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 10:34 AM |
| 2 | School boys told being a man makes them a rapist…Yes... and tradCons. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 10:29 AM |
| 4 | School boys told being a man makes them a rapist…There are misandrist women and there are misandrist men. There are also many women and men who are not full of hate for men .... and not full of beliefs about women being biologically superior to men (especially in things like law-abiding or cleanliness or child-rearing, etc.) So saying "women" are the enemy makes you sound just as dumb as the feminists who say that "men" are the enemy. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 10:29 AM |
| 7 | Movember has gone woke! Movember CEO Michelle Terry pledges collaboration aimed at imposing 'healthy masculinities' on men and boysThat's a shitty position for movember to take. We need a charity that supports men's health not yet another charity where men have to support women, again. But uh.... I downvote anything with the word "woke". Or "skibiddy" or "rizz" or any other nonsense word. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 12:46 AM |
| 3 | School boys told being a man makes them a rapist…When people make generalizations that "men" are a problem they're wrong. So when people make generalizations that "women are the problem they're wrong, too. The real problem is: the way that we as a society raise women with misandrist beliefs and that the misandrist actions they take have been normalized. Some men have internalized this misandry, too, and act in ways that harm men, too. So it's not "women" who are the problem. It's misandrist ideals that are the problem. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 12:38 AM |
| 45 | Indian Billionaire's wife fighting for a 75% settlement of her husband's wealth after divorceShe shouldn't get the money either. I'd rather it go towards helping the homeless. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/24 11:35 AM |
| 27 | Is Misandry justifiable? Thoughts?Especially if the question is about hating a group based on its race, gender, perceived gender, creed, sexual orientation, ethnicity, age, or disability. That explicitly includes justifying hatred of a group because of its perceived advantages. You cannot justify hating Jews because of the perception that they own the banks and run Hollywood. You cannot hate black people because of the perception that they're stronger and more aggressive. You can't cannot justify hating men because of the percep… | /r/MensRights | 25/09/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What I realized from being a stepfather.I hope that you are safe now and I can't even begin to imagine what that must've been like for you. I'm sure they're some stepfathers/mothers that are good decent people, but I've never met one. I would venture that you had met several but that you may not have known they even were stepfathers. When I started sharing my step-parenting issues with my friends over the past few days, I was shocked at how many of them told me "yeah, I'm a step-father, too, and I can relate". In the past few days I'v… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/24 05:42 PM |
| 25 | Is Feminism beneficial for women? Thoughts?Afghanistan... You mean the place where gay men are stoned to death while lesbian women are given "rehabilitation"? The place where child soldiers are forced to fight for local warlords - and the child soldiers are all boys. And the place where all of those horrible gender-based injustices against men are kept in place but the world only seeks to improve the gender based injustices against women? That Afghanistan? | /r/MensRights | 24/09/24 03:25 PM |
| 13 | Is Feminism beneficial for women? Thoughts?For white women. Yeah, feminism was beneficial to white women. Listening to black and Hispanic and Trans women talk to white women about how their experiences differ is uh, "eye opening". To say the least: minority women didn't get an even share of the benefits from feminism. To say the controversial part: minority women faced many new forms of oppression because of feminism. And Trans women are often screwed by radical feminism. A recent shift to intersectional feminism is addressing this discr… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | As Taliban starts restricting men, too, some regret not speaking up soonerYeah. That's extremely gross. Another good example of how the Taliban has always exploited boys and men. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/24 02:20 PM |
| 1 | As Taliban starts restricting men, too, some regret not speaking up soonerAaaaaaaaaaaahhhhaaahahahahaha!!!!!1 | /r/MensRights | 24/09/24 02:18 PM |
| 2 | What I realized from being a stepfather.I wish mens rights was more about this. sharing personal experiences and learning from each other. less ragebaitey... I wish the same. I've been here for a long time and I'm so sick of a lot of the rage bait. My pet peeve is posts that are not about men's rights but just because they're antifeminsm people feel like they belong here. Like "no", I'm here because I stand FOR something not AGAINST something else. Glad you found this post useful. I have a few more experiences that I want to get off m… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/24 02:17 PM |
| 100 | As Taliban starts restricting men, too, some regret not speaking up soonerSTARTS to restrict men? They've been forcing boys to fight, stoning gay men, and killing men for violations of faith and social order. What TF is this "start restricting" bullshit? | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 10:56 PM |
| 6 | What I realized from being a stepfather.You and the mother sets the tone of how your stepchild views the world Oh how I wish that were true. I would very much like for it to be that way. Kids spend like an hour a day with parents and feel embarrassed to talk about anything substantial with us. We're lame. But they spend several hours with teachers and peers. Then despite our best efforts they still spend a ton of time consuming media. So much of their view of the world is shaped by online videos. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 10:28 PM |
| 5 | What I realized from being a stepfather.Yeah. I am. Although realistically I'm just a stranger to her and my good advice and parenting is just rejected. I'd make a correction to your list. My biological kids love me a whole lot more over the family dog, it'smy stepchild who's distant. So it's like in the order what kids love it's 1) moms 2) dads 3) family dogs 4)step fathers. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 10:18 PM |
| 2 | What I realized from being a stepfather.Thanks for sharing. It helps me process my situation when I hear what other's experience is. She was a grown adult when he appeared in her life. I bet this made a huge difference. Mine was 11 when I appeared in her life. Now she's 16 which is an unpleasant age to begin with. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 10:13 PM |
| 2 | What I realized from being a stepfather.What's your dad's experience like with his stepdaughter? "Bad blood" is one thing. Does he get rejected often when trying to build a bond or plan family events? Does your stepsisters attitude towards her biological father impact how she views your dad? Etc.? | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 08:32 PM |
| 12 | What I realized from being a stepfather.I mean, yes she's hot and kind and she holds down a good job. But also I have primary custody of my son from my previous marriage so her and I bonded over being single parents. Her experience of being a stepmom is VERY different from my experience of being a stepfather. Before her, I went through HELL dating women without kids. A lot of women have an initial attraction to guys with kid(s) but then after a month or so the emotions clear up they end up saying some really hurtful shit when they exp… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 07:49 PM |
| 8 | What I realized from being a stepfather.Good question. I think it's because the same social narratives that shape a step child's views are also internalized by us. So I lived with this internalized misandry in my head saying that it's MY fault, that I'm not worthy, and that all I have to do is earn it. It takes a long time to realize that this story is bullshit and that you are worthy of being loved. It's not you, it's the situation you're in. Even after you realize it, then it takes a long time to liberate yourself from it. So yeah. … | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 07:23 PM |
| 2 | The blame gap in western media. Find any article that blames women about anything in the world versus articles that blame men.who set up a system where women are primary caregivers? The men, women, and institutions of the capitalist class set up that system. It falls on us, the men, women, and unions of the working class, to fix it. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Questions about PatriarchyIf Sweden, Norway, and/or Israel treat men in with higher value then they would fit your definition of a Patriarchy. Any country that treats men as being of lesser value and thus sends them to die as cannon fodder does not fit that definition. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/24 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Korean female vlogger terminates pregnancy at 9 months and documents her experience, Korean feminists still defend herWe're not here to save the whales, either 🐋 We're here to advocate for men and boys. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/24 08:00 PM |
| -1 | Korean female vlogger terminates pregnancy at 9 months and documents her experience, Korean feminists still defend herThen it would be a men's rights issue. Aborting fetuses that would become male babies is discrimination against men. But from the article that doesn't appear to be the situation here. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/24 05:05 PM |
| -8 | Korean female vlogger terminates pregnancy at 9 months and documents her experience, Korean feminists still defend herThat's a stretch. Just because it's anti-feminism doesn't automatically make it men's rights. This is the part of the Venn Diagram that doesn't overlap. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/24 03:08 PM |
| 13 | Questions about PatriarchyMy definition would be something like "a society where the males are generally treated with higher value within the society (opportunity, rights, access) and where the societal structure is generally lead or "controlled" by men and by male interest" Any country with male-only conscription doesn't fit that definition. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/24 02:35 PM |
| -7 | Korean female vlogger terminates pregnancy at 9 months and documents her experience, Korean feminists still defend herI come to this forum to discuss men's issues. Whether or not women should abort so late is NOT a men's issue. It's a valid discussion for sure. But totally off topic for this forum. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/24 02:31 PM |
| -8 | Korean female vlogger terminates pregnancy at 9 months and documents her experience, Korean feminists still defend herDid she abort because the baby was a boy? No. Did she abort to spite a man? No. Is there a man who was denied an equal right to opt out if parenthood? No. So how TF is this a men's rights issue? I would love to discuss this on a political forum but not here. Wrong forum. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/24 02:28 PM |
| 14 | Korean female vlogger terminates pregnancy at 9 months and documents her experience, Korean feminists still defend herThis comment 100% nails it. This post has nothing to do with men's rights. It's a totally legitimate discussion for other forums. But not here. The misplacement is probably intentional. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/24 02:25 PM |
| 4 | Any other subs like this?r/leftwingmaleadvocates | /r/MensRights | 19/09/24 12:46 AM |
| 14 | Intel USA and anti men decisionsI worked at Intel 10+ years ago. I saw the diversity initiatives you're referencing. I can nip this one in the bud and say with certainty that it's not the diversity initiatives that tanked Intel: it was the shortsighted allocation of capital. Intel's strategy in new markets was based on short term stock movement not on long-term fundamentals. First Intel totally missed the emergence of the GPU market. Then they couldn't catch up. Intel totally missed a few other market trends so they overcorrec… | /r/MensRights | 18/09/24 02:59 PM |
| 47 | A tweet with over 143k likes about how men themselves do not care about men's mental health. Thoughts?Exactly! Men's mental health problems are a result of the misandry we've internalized from society. Mens mental health crisis was never caused by "other men" and it won't be fixed by "only men". All of society needs to band together and help men just like it did for women. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/24 10:00 AM |
| 0 | How do you counter this argumentYes. It may be pointless. But I do enjoy it. Every once in a while I get the pleasure of watching somebody's brain explode. They're used to lecturing feminism to right wingers. I get them all turned around because I'm leftwing AF. Certainly further left than most of them. They don't know how to respond to classical leftwing arguments about class and about the exploitation of working men. I know I'm not changing any minds but I am telling them that their arguments are inadequate to explain the in… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/24 10:41 AM |
| 3 | How do you counter this argumentAnd that's when I correct them that it's the men and women of the upper classes exploiting poor men. Patriarchy is a concept that lacks the nuance of intersectionality. For example the experiences of rich men are not the experiences of poor men (including that poor men are exploited gor the benefit of rich women... which makes it not a patriarchy at all). | /r/MensRights | 15/09/24 02:03 AM |
| 35 | How do you counter this argumentthen try to argue that it is men the ones that ... There are millions of arguments like this. My counter is that it's not because of "men", rather it's because of complex, changing, and often subtle social and institutional dynamics. Men are raised with toxic beliefs about what it is to be a "real man". People then try to argue that it is men that are the ones who spread hegemonic definitions of manhood. Look, the single mothers who are teaching this toxic crap to boys are not "men". My counter … | /r/MensRights | 14/09/24 07:36 PM |
| 18 | "What rights are men missing?"Abortion in all states, no state has completely outlawed abortion. I hate when people spew incorrect shit on the internet with confidence. As if being confidently wrong makes up for the fact that you're just plain wrong. You know that Google exists, right? Alabama has a total ban on abortion. Idaho has a total ban with exceptions for the life of the mother, and for cases of rape and incest which were reported to the police. Indiana has a near-total ban on abortion. Kentucky has a total ban on ab… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/24 05:07 PM |
| 7 | "What rights are men missing?"It's not totally untrue, it's just misleading. Failing to register for selective service as a man is a felony and in most states felons cannot vote. OP should have been more careful in their phrasing. But their underlying point is valid: men have a legal precondition to voting in much of the USA but women have no such precondition anywhere in the USA. ALSO... not registering for selective service means men cannot take federal jobs, cannot get federal student loans, cannot get federal assistance,… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/24 04:18 PM |
| 28 | "What rights are men missing?"Women have a right to opt out of parenthood despite having sex. As they should. In fact they have 3 options to do this: Unlitaral adoption Safe surrender Abortion (in some states) Men should have the same right to opt out of parenthood despite having sex. ESPECIALLY men and boys who were raped. They either did not or could not legally consent to sex and yet are still obligated to pay child support to their rapist. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/24 04:16 PM |
| 15 | Male help-seeking behaviour and suicide – stereotypes or archetypes? — The Centre for Male Psychology: "If we can change the language of our message on suicide from “open up, you stubborn men” to “let’s all open up to men” we will get a lot further and save many more lives."The wide discrepancy in the quality of outreach is one of many factors driving the gender gap in life expectancy. We would love for Medical institutions to do an equally good job reaching out to male patients as they do to female patients. This articles recommendation would be one small but meaningful step. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/24 12:10 PM |
| 12 | Missouri teacher pleads guilty to sexual contact with a student in exchange for having the other charges including statutory rape, child molestation and child endangerment droppedWhataboutism sucks. Stop doing it. The topic is about a woman not being charged for rape. This happens all the time. It happened at my school: a serial rapist was charged with some minor infraction and wasn't counted in any stats about rapists .. all because she was a woman who raped boys. So stop trying to change the topic. Take your whataboutism elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/24 11:38 AM |
| 3 | I am and have a ton of sensitive friends and I appreciate all my sensitive dudes out here. I know some folks might not like it, I’m enjoying the softening.you’re kind of strange Thanks 😊 I've liberated myself from societies expectations of what I'm supposed to be like as a man. So I am, by definition, "strange". | /r/MensRights | 12/09/24 11:11 PM |
| 9 | I am and have a ton of sensitive friends and I appreciate all my sensitive dudes out here. I know some folks might not like it, I’m enjoying the softening.Like there are guys out here that think raping women is OK. I'm glad you've found us. After some discussions here you'll let go of some of the toxic stereotypes about how men are bad... including the ugly "men are rapists" trope that harms our mental health. There are rapists out there. For sure. At my school two boys in a lower grade were raped by a teacher and she only got 2 weeks in jail (less time than Brock Taylor). But I don't go around saying nonsense like "there are women out here that t… | /r/MensRights | 12/09/24 10:16 PM |
| 15 | I am and have a ton of sensitive friends and I appreciate all my sensitive dudes out here. I know some folks might not like it, I’m enjoying the softening.some segment of this sub is going to be kinda classical legitimate toxic masculinity. Why would you assume that? Also, can we stop using a term that means "men are toxic" to like 90+% of people? Please use "internalized misandry" when talking about the stereotypes of how men should be that we take into ourselves (often due to societal pressure) and that is harmful to our mental health. I'm a very large very very fit 6'4 35 year old man. I like communicating my feelings and being heard Welcome! I… | /r/MensRights | 12/09/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Are Any Of These Real?Patriarchy Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhaaaaaahhahahahahahaha No Rape Culture A culture that accepts men being raped. Yes. Culture jokes about men in prison dropping the soap. Culture that accepts men and boys being pressured to have sex when they may not be in the mood. Culture that adamantly demands that male rape victims be forced to pay child support. Yes. Rape culture exists but it's not what you might think. Female Oppression Don't get mad but... yes. AND And male oppression exists. Men have been op… | /r/MensRights | 12/09/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | The reproductive rights of cat ladies v.s. the reproductive rights of construction workers.Your point is correct. Can we not use "cat ladies" language? We don't want to get associated with the crazies who are using that language. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/24 01:46 PM |
| 13 | I hate the fact that in professional setups I can't be open about my concerns with boys and men.A lot of people are understanding that men are only 40% of college students. Yeah but because of misandry they believe that it's men's fault that they're not going to college. When women aren't involved in something it's everyone else's fault, especially men's fault. But when men aren't involved in something it's nobody else's fault except men's fault. Misandry is many things: including this systemic belief that men have to be actively making things happen but women are passive victims of men's … | /r/MensRights | 10/09/24 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Caught a sexist teacherDocument this in writing with a timestamp in a bound notebook. No emotion no interpretation just "Sept 10 at x time Joe, Steve and Stephanie did x but Stephanie did not get in trouble". Make sure they have the papers so File a few complaints using photo copies of your notebook. Don't expect anything to change. Get a doctor's note to show damages. So go to a psychologist and tell them about the distress this discrimination causes you. After about 10 of these complaints and 2 ir 3 psychologist vis… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/24 11:28 AM |
| 11 | Prosecutor wants a man who is NOT the biological father to still pay child support ($16,000 in arrears)The laws currently punich hard working men. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/24 06:35 PM |
| 14 | Prosecutor wants a man who is NOT the biological father to still pay child support ($16,000 in arrears)Family law is usually its own category so the things that would be illegal or unconstitutional or unethical in other domains of law are frequently found in the laws around custody. Nobody cares because the victims are men. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/24 06:01 PM |
| 44 | Prosecutor wants a man who is NOT the biological father to still pay child support ($16,000 in arrears)There aren't very many billionaires. So instead the system picks working-class men to screw over. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/24 05:56 PM |
| 2 | If you had the chance to be a stay at home dad would you?Oh yeah. Raising kids is fulfilling work. It's my genes. I'm working for my own genetic benefit instead of working my ass off for some shareholder to buy a fancy car for themselves as a result of my hard work. Compared to being exploited by a corporation, yeah Raising kids and cleaning my own house is a darn good way to live life. Sadly, they don't let men do that. Mostly women get the privilege. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/24 10:11 AM |
| 73 | It's usually never a good idea for a single man to date single mothersI'll add a disclaimer. As a single father with primary custody of my son, my experience was that single moms understood me better. I remarried and have a step daughter. I do agree, for single men without kids it's a pretty bad deal. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/24 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Former Bond Girl Gemma Arterton slammed after suggesting the word feminism 'excludes men' and has 'divisive' connotationsMens liberation. What they CLAIM to be about is: men liberating themselves from the societal definition of what "real men" should be by getting in touch with emotions and rejecting the labels of being aggressive What they're actually about is: men hating themselves for being born men and accepting all of the negative definitions about men that are stated by feminism. I had spent a bit of time on their subreddit and it is psychologically destructive and poisonous. I strongly recommend that you st… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/24 11:16 AM |
| 49 | Former Bond Girl Gemma Arterton slammed after suggesting the word feminism 'excludes men' and has 'divisive' connotationsYeah, that's been my experience, too. I'm surprised somebody suggested women "praise" MensLib. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/24 05:48 PM |
| 6 | Former Bond Girl Gemma Arterton slammed after suggesting the word feminism 'excludes men' and has 'divisive' connotationsWait, What? Women praise MensLib? | /r/MensRights | 06/09/24 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Gwyneth Paltrow on the 100 Israeli Hostages: "There are still 17 women being held by Hamas. Where are the feminists?"Everyone who understands science definitely sees her as a little bit looney. But that leaves a large percentage of people who fall for psuedo-scientific bullshit. She also somehow gets to speak at large conventions as an authority on wellness. So she has a large following of gullible, supplement-popping, candle-sniffing, people who get influenced when she says things that render male victims of war invisible. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/24 12:16 PM |
| 8 | Why we need to approach masculinism as a terrorist threat: Q&A with Stephanie Lamydeconstruct małe identity Moja identyfikacja nie jest mała 😜 | /r/MensRights | 06/09/24 10:55 AM |
| 15 | Gwyneth Paltrow on the 100 Israeli Hostages: "There are still 17 women being held by Hamas. Where are the feminists?"It's problematic when highly influential people say things that hurt men. Even if you're not into candles and skin cream, Gwyneth Paltro is a hugely influential person in the "welless" space. So if you ARE into diet, exercise, sleep, mental health, longevity, supplements, etc. Etc. Then you're going to come across her products and her material at some point. Whatever money she made acting is a tiny fraction of what she earns from being a wellness mogul. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/24 10:51 AM |
| 8 | Because work in Japan is SO easy (repost without names)This post further solidifies my belief that feminism is really a right wing philosophy because it has a right wing view of corporate employment. "The left" is charactarized by a belief that employees need protection from the exploitation of corrupt/greedy corporations. "The right" is characterized by the belief that employers are not exploiting us they're creating jobs. This poster, like many feminists, believe that working for a soul-sucking corporate boss is the same thing as cleaning and cook… | /r/MensRights | 04/09/24 11:02 AM |
| 7 | Why do many men lack self worth so much?Exactly. Feminism's horrible stereotypes about men are a symptom of a much older societal bias against men. Feminism didn't invent misandry they simply repackaged it. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/24 10:10 AM |
| 22 | Why do many men lack self worth so much?Or maybe we're just more aware of misandry now but it's always been bad. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything big to do with MRM that's not online?I volunteer with men going through custody crises. It sort of fell into my lap me because I talk about my experience a lot and random friends and former co-workers will call me up and say "I remember you talked about this". They don't know what to do so I spend a lot of time helping them understand, cope, plan and sometimes even execute with paperwork and stuff. I'm grateful to be able to do this because I don't know how I could go somewhere and volunteer to do this. Also, I support the National… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/24 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Men have saved more lives than taken.If you consider that most soldiers were victims who were forced into war against their will through conscription or kidnapping.... then "men" haven't killed very many people at all. It's the system of power/capital that killed people. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/24 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Female teachers discriminate against boys when grading, give girls unfairly higher grades than boys.How was that not documented, brought to a lawyer, and resulted in a massive pay day for the male students? If my son said anything like this to me about a teacher then I would have dollar signs in my eyes. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/24 03:32 PM |
| -7 | Woman made false rape allegations against man is jailed | UK NewsI’m saying this as a guy who was raped as a kid I'm sorry that happened to you and that you're being down voted for an argument that is normal and sane but goes against the hive mind. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/24 12:21 PM |
| 17 | Why are men's traumas and men's emotions seen as harmful to others? Why do we internalize that man-hating idea and then self-censor?Go to the feminism subreddit and tell them that internalized misogyny is a "you problem" and that trying to fight it is "being hysterical". Go do that elsewhere but we don't want you doing it here. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 06:48 PM |
| 13 | Why are men's traumas and men's emotions seen as harmful to others? Why do we internalize that man-hating idea and then self-censor?I wish that anybody would refer to the process I went through after escaping my abuser as "healing". No that's not allowed. My fear of my abuser and my desire for safety in subsequent relationships were because i "hate women" and I'm "angry". My journey was not allowed to be viewed through the lens of "healing" only through the lens of how it affects others. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 06:29 PM |
| 22 | Why are men's traumas and men's emotions seen as harmful to others? Why do we internalize that man-hating idea and then self-censor?Unpopular female opinion: because instead of going to therapy you lash out on your friends and family Thank you r/Objective-Elk1633 for illustrating my point. Men's emotions are mis-labeled as harmful to others. We're seen as "lashing out" if we don't maintain strict and stoic control over our voice or our movements when we are experiencing a multitude of emotions like disappointment, sadness, passion, or insecurity, etc. We've internalized this idea that our emotions are inherently hurting othe… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 06:02 PM |
| 38 | Are definitions of psychopathy centred on men?You want sources? As early as Ancient Greece, Aulus Cornelius Celsus described in On Medicine I Proem 23 how early medical experiments were conducted on the dregs of society: either living male prisoners or corpses of executed prisoners. Most early discoveries about female anatomy came from Galen (or "Aelius Galenus") who dissected a bunch of different monkeys. This tradition continued as recently as the 1800s in the USA: the only legal source of cadavers were executed convicts. Since criminal l… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 01:00 PM |
| 40 | Are definitions of psychopathy centred on men?If you go far enough back then yes; drug dosages, symptoms, and treatments, were often designed around male bodies. Another good way to frame this is that medical experiments were conducted on male bodies because they were seen as more disposable and thus less controversial to perform experiments on. it could be far closer to 1:1. How could it not be 1:1? There's no "mechanism of action" to describe psychopathy that involves any sex-linked traits. There's no doubt in my mind that we're not measu… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 12:09 PM |
| 30 | What are the reasons for divorceIt's because of incentives. Game theory. Due to outdated laws from the era where women didn't work, and due to gender-biased judges, Men have a MASSIVE disincentive against divorce. It means they lose their kids and have to pay loads of money. The legal environment makes it so that women have less to lose. That's why 80-something percent of divorces are initiated by women. Source: I was part of the <20% of men who filed for divorce in order to escape my abuser. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Most men need a mentor, not a therapistI would argue that everybody would do better with a coach or a mentor who's with them while they improve at life, rather than a psychologist whom they talk to for a few minutes per week. Regardless of gender. The idea that men or women would benefit from that differently sounds like pseudo-scientific hogwash with ZERO studies to back it up. In my experience a psychologist helped me less than advertised, but it did help more than just talking to friends. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/24 06:22 PM |
| 42 | Indian Woman hacks 4 year old boy to death, burns him in a pot!This is the kind of shit that Grimm's fairy tales were made of. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/24 12:11 PM |
| 13 | Do you consider forcing males to cut their hair in aviation, medical institutions and military discrimination?You're asking whether it's discriminatory to police what men can or can't wear, what styles they can choose for their hair, etc.? The answer is simple: If we were to tell women the same (e.g. "you can't wear that at work", or "you can't have that hairstyle at work") then would it be discrimination? If so then it's discrimination to do it to men. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/24 12:10 PM |
| 13 | A Definition of Internalized MisandryYup. Feminists, among others, have misandry. When they repeat that man-hating bullshit to us, and we internalize it, then we end up thinking less of ourselves. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/24 10:32 PM |
| 14 | A Definition of Internalized MisandryI saw an excellent post from the Tinman which referenced the discrepency between "internalized misogyny" and "toxic masculinity". I hope that this definition of "internalized misandry" helps others. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/24 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Women have problems. Men are problems.100% this. We should all seriously talk about Internalized Misandry and throw away the horrible framing that is "toxic masculinity". | /r/MensRights | 28/08/24 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Extreme Misogyny to be Treated as TerrorismThis is why we need the ERA in the USA. So that gendered nonsense like this becomes unconstitutional. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/24 11:13 AM |
| 10 | Got a few questions as a feministmultiple countries have conscription for women too Yes. "Multiple" is a single digit number. The USA (And Afghanistan) are not in that statistic. these ideas often put in place by men the men and women of the powerful classes FTFY Also just because some (but not all) of the people who put those laws in place shared some similarities to the victims exploited by those laws doesn't magically mean that men aren't targeted by those laws. It's rich people exploiting poor men. It's because they're men.… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Got a few questions as a feministtypically bias because most domestic violence is committed by men so often times mothers are favoured. I am an abuse survivor and I've gone through divorce after escaping my abuser. My lived experience is the opposite of the nonsense you just blurted out. My abuser was favored. But as this changes and more men take on caring roles Society doesn't allow men to take care giving roles. I wanted to hire a male babysitter and guess what my wife said. What do people say about male nurses? Why are ther… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 01:06 PM |
| 16 | Got a few questions as a feministthere are no countries that by law target men for being men WTF? Did you honestly just say that? Have you never heard of the draft? We have plenty of laws in the USA that target men for being men. Even more in conservative countries like Afghanistan. In Afghanistan young boys are targeted as child soldiers BECAUSE THEY'RE MEN. They're targeted to work in mines with little protection and die an agonizing death at a young age... BECAUSE THEY'RE MEN. The laws there have gendered punishment which of… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 12:56 PM |
| 5 | Got a few questions as a feminist1 do you not think feminism is needed NO. I think equality and equity are needed. I think that a movement which only corrects societies biases against one gender while leaving in place the biases against another gender is not what is needed. I'd rather we didn't have a separate mensrights movement: I wish we simply had one "fix gender inequality" movement that helped both me. And women. But feminism makes that impossible. 2. do you feel upset or angry that women are currently out preforming men … | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 12:39 PM |
| 8 | IDF sexually molesting Palestinian men. At least there's some news coverage of this.Palestinian men are men. Unless the name of this forum changed to r/WhiteAngloSaxonProtestantMensRights then I think we stand with Palestinian men. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 12:24 PM |
| 2 | IDF sexually molesting Palestinian men. At least there's some news coverage of this.Just re-read it and it still sounds like you're saying that average citizens did the terrorism. Not, you know, the terrorists. If you intended to convey something different you may want to clarify. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 01:14 AM |
| 6 | IDF sexually molesting Palestinian men. At least there's some news coverage of this.I'm here because I care about men being sexually assaulted in war zones... NOT because I want to debate whether CNN are a bunch of poopyheads. Please take the right-wing narratives about "mainstream media" elsewhere. I want to discuss men's issues instead. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 01:10 AM |
| 3 | IDF sexually molesting Palestinian men. At least there's some news coverage of this.I'm here because I care about men being sexually assaulted in war zones... NOT because I want to debate whether CNN are a bunch of poopyheads. Please take the right-wing narratives about "mainstream media" elsewhere. I want to discuss men's issues instead. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 01:09 AM |
| 13 | IDF sexually molesting Palestinian men. At least there's some news coverage of this.Yeah some of the comments here are very off-putting - many denialists or apologists. No Bueno I'm MensRights AF and I'm leftwing AF. The right-wingers who bring their nonsense into the debate about men's issues irk me. Like I care about men being sexually abused in war zones not about whether someone heard that CNN are a bunch of poopyheads. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 01:07 AM |
| 5 | IDF sexually molesting Palestinian men. At least there's some news coverage of this.WTF? Did you just say an entire ethnicity are all rapists and terrorists? That's like listening to feminists say that all men are rapists and abusers. Get out of here with that hate speech. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop apologizing!I think I see what you're trying to say. Yeah need to educate people on how to make men feel safe in being vulnerable so that we can express ourselves without fear of it causing us to cry ourselves to sleep in perpetual loneliness. But I don't think that fits the point of the discussion. We should also not be compelled to apologize just because of others opinions of us. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/24 06:00 PM |
| 3 | IDF sexually molesting Palestinian men. At least there's some news coverage of this.Exactly. There's self defense and then there's just opportunistically using a terrorist attack as a pretext to do terrible things to people who are not affiliated with the terrorists. Israel claim they're doing the first but the problem is that they're also doing the latter. Fuck Hamas and also fuck Likud. Bunch of war criminals who should be rotting in jail at the Hague. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/24 05:53 PM |
| 47 | IDF sexually molesting Palestinian men. At least there's some news coverage of this.Israel has a right ro defend itself against terrorists. It has zero fucking rights to sexually molest innocent men. Why doesn't aide from America have strings attached? Like "here Israel, use this money to beat the s*** out if Hamas but if you systematically kill children and to sexually molest innocent men then we will withdraw all aide immediately." | /r/MensRights | 26/08/24 05:13 PM |
| 20 | Article: Why young men are turning against feminism?Only four years later, close to half (45 percent) of young men now believe men are facing gender-based discrimination. For some young men, feminism has morphed from a commitment to gender equality to an ideology aimed at punishing men. That leads to predictable results, like half of men agreeing with the statement, “These days society seems to punish men just for acting like men.” At some point journalists went from "women claim they face discrimination" to saying "women face discrimination". Li… | /r/MensRights | 26/08/24 05:06 PM |
| 2 | I have a question. Has anyone heard of a wrongfully imprisoned woman?Agreed. Feminism is only the symptom of a much larger and much older anti-male bias in society. MRA's need to be more organized at the government level and demand criminal justice reform to protect men from exploitation by the system. And we should demand family court reform, too, while we're at it. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/24 06:03 PM |
| 15 | Arizona father loses job after detainment video goes viral. He called 911 to report his child missingThis is not a mens rights issue. Men are more likely to be victims of police violence than women. So yes it is a men's rights issue. Looks like this guy just didn't comply with police and they felt threatened. Instead of helping him to find his kidnapped daughter they're trying to get an emotionally distraught father to submit to their authority? While he's on the phone with the 911 dispatcher? Those assholes must have been out of their damn minds. I bet if they'd release the full bodycam footag… | /r/MensRights | 22/08/24 05:56 PM |
| 74 | "Cold water swimming needs to be made safer for women, study finds"....oh, is it April Fools day already or something??! Nope. It's real.We can hold 2 ideas in our head at the same time. 1) yes reducing water pollution is a good thing 2) Why wasn't fixing the pollution a higher priority before women started to show up? Was the health and wellness of the male swimmers less important than the health and wellness of female swimmers? | /r/MensRights | 22/08/24 05:24 PM |
| 2 | USA: Married teacher learns her fate after having sex with 14-year-old boy in classroom on middle school graduation day. OP: 4 years in jail seems lenient for the USA,If only we had a shorter word for adults who "have sex with a 14 year old" that we could use in newspaper headlines. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/24 12:54 AM |
| 13 | Why do many men support women’s issues when women don’t care about men’s issues?Because of the myth of male power. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/24 10:16 PM |
| 40 | How often men should ejaculate to lower their risk of CANCER, according to major review.Probably a sizable portion of married men. Yes. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/24 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Why has there quietly been a War On Men last couple of decades?LOL. Did you answer this question from the wrong account? Your spindownrabbit account is new and full of trolling comments your yourmumhedgehog account is old. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Why has there quietly been a War On Men last couple of decades?Please show me where I implied that it's women who have been oppressing men? What did I say that would give you that impression? If it's something I said then I'll edit it. I suspect instead that you're inserting your own ideas into what I wrote. Please don't put words in my mouth. Especially since your ideas are hateful and wrongheaded. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/24 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are butchered in the Ukraine war while the world wants peace in the Middle EastThose "many countries" are: Russia, Belarus, Iran, and China. That's it. Nobody else thinks Russia "had no choice" but to invade another country. Russia wanted the rich farmland to monopolize wheat production. All those men can stop dying today if Russia just gets the fuck out of Ukraine. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | The demonisation and dehumanisation of male immigrantsIn the USA, "Native American" means something totally different. More like "indigenous". Both of our presidential candidates are second generation immigrants. Here, the only people here who make a fuss about whether somebody is a child of immigrants are people who live in the countryside and marry their cousins. I assume you're in the UK? Wouldn't your last prime minister, Sunak, be considered a second generation immigrant? (From Kenya, oddly enough). | /r/MensRights | 10/08/24 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Why has there quietly been a War On Men last couple of decades?Only the last couple of decades? Men have been oppressed for thousands of years!!! For example we've been sending men to die in war for the profit of wealthy families. Or religions have been controlling the sexuality of men: including circumcision, celibacy and castration. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Men are butchered in the Ukraine war while the world wants peace in the Middle EastAnd you think that means they support any non-NATO country invading another non-NATO country in order to steal land? (not just any land, to steal some of the greatest wheat-producing land in the world). LOL. What's next, you're going to tell me that everybody also thinks Venezuela should just Guyana and take that oil? Come on. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/24 11:11 PM |
| 0 | Men are butchered in the Ukraine war while the world wants peace in the Middle EastWhat's the alternative? Should Canada say "Howdy friend. Oh you wanted that piece of land, eh? Here you go, take it. We were just keeping it warm for you. Sorry". | /r/MensRights | 09/08/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Men are butchered in the Ukraine war while the world wants peace in the Middle East??Which fucking countries support Russia just annexing territory from neighboring countries? Russia and it's minions? | /r/MensRights | 09/08/24 06:30 PM |
| 0 | The demonisation and dehumanisation of male immigrantsIf somebody is born in America, grows up in America, goes to school in America, pays taxes in America, etc.... you're saying they're NOT American if both of their parents were born abroad? How many generations does it take? Trump's mother was born in Scotland. So is Trump not an American because he was born to an immigrant parent? Kamala Harris had 2 immigrant parents: a Jamaican father and Indian mother. So she's not American? Oh boy, somebody should notify the DNC that she's not an American. T… | /r/MensRights | 09/08/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | The demonisation and dehumanisation of male immigrantsWomen make up 46% of "criminal immigrants". It's very close to half. So to paint this image of illegal immigration being men... and that they're dangerous because they're men, is misandry. Period. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/24 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Men are butchered in the Ukraine war while the world wants peace in the Middle EastThe world wants Russia to pull its troops out of Ukraine, too. That would end the war, and thus end all of the men being killed senselessly. I understand the appeal of this John Lennon bullshit of "imagine there's no countries" but it's fantasy. The world has countries. Some countries invade other countries. I wish that both Russia and Ukraine ended gender discrimination in their military draft. But I do not wish that Ukraine simply rolled over and decided not to defend itself from Russian aggre… | /r/MensRights | 09/08/24 01:28 PM |
| 10 | Men are butchered in the Ukraine war while the world wants peace in the Middle EastIf another country wanted to take part of the USA by force, would you also say that defending against an invasion of the USA is worse than the hypothetical scenario of just letting foreign countries take whatever they want from us? If you had said that Ukraine shouldn't have gender-based discrimination in their draft I would agree with you. But what I hear you saying is that Ukraine shouldn't have defended itself. That's preposterous. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/24 01:24 PM |
| 6 | Men are butchered in the Ukraine war while the world wants peace in the Middle EastI suspect that most of the world wants Israel to beat the crap out of Hamas after October 7, and that most of the world wants Israel to stop killing children. My theory is that if we stopped playing political games, we could all agree on some middle ground like "We support Israel's right to defend itself against a terrorist group and we condemn their actions of slaughtering innocent civilians." | /r/MensRights | 09/08/24 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Men are butchered in the Ukraine war while the world wants peace in the Middle EastYes, fighting against an occupation is in fact a huge different from being occupied. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/24 01:08 PM |
| -4 | The demonisation and dehumanisation of male immigrantsThat didn't make the news in the USA. I hate to break it to you but the news cycle here is almost totally dominated by the elections and we don't really cover much of the UK to begin with (except for the royals). Are you referring to these riots? https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/ckg55we5n3xo According to that BBC article, riots started after 3 girls were stabbed by a Welsh man and online hooligans spread misinformation saying it was done by an immigrant. Mosques were burned and windows were bro… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/24 07:49 PM |
| -6 | The demonisation and dehumanisation of male immigrantsMisandry. You're repeating misandry. It's repeating the false notion that some people are superior based on gender (or race, creed, or sexual orientation) - for example superior cleanliness, or superior child rearing, or (in this case) superior law abiding. It's all anti-male bullshit: women are not superior citizens to men based on gender. The Center for Migration Studies (CMS) studies these kinds of things in the United States and they have numbers. According to CMS estimates, there are 4,806,… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/24 07:35 PM |
| 35 | Check out the "Community Notes" on X.If I understand their argument, "men are pigs" is less harmful because men have more privilege. How is that different from the people who justify antisemitism because "Jews own the banks and run Hollywood"? | /r/MensRights | 08/08/24 07:19 PM |
| 14 | No, being a man is not like being white, and being a woman is not like being black.Who are the actually privileged? The ultra-wealthy of course. Yes. It's the men and women of the wealthy classes. Why is it when the mainstream media talks about privilege, wealth is almost never mentioned? It would be a cold day in hell when a for-profit media institution in the USA admitted that capitalism creates inequality. So instead they confuse the issue and divide everybody with gender nonsense. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 02:48 PM |
| 8 | But could compulsory military service help address the ongoing loneliness “epidemic” and the crisis of alienation facing men and boys?That headline is so full of hate against men: The one policy conservatives across the world say will fix men: mandatory military service Like "yeah, you know what's wrong with men? They're not being killed, maimed, mutilated, or traumatized by wars that are waged for the profit of the wealthy families. Those disabled men will never be able to feel the love of a woman. Yeah, that will fix their loneliness.... NOT." | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 11:27 AM |
| 9 | Origin for social expectation that men need to be seen as strongBecause of the female gaze. We have to perform this "tough and strong" act for the viewing pleasure of women. If we don't, then we are punished with loneliness. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 11:19 AM |
| 7 | Interesting reactions when the tables are turned.I hope that's real. It's almost too good to be true. Regardless, it's a clear demonstration of the double standard to see all the responses saying NTA because the kid isn't hers. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/24 12:13 AM |
| 11 | 800 thousand Ukrainian men go into hiding to avoid mobilization. OP: It is the sensible thing to do.Yes... and the surviving Ukrainian men are the primary victims of the high maternal death rate in occupied Ukraine. They're losing wives, sisters and daughters. ;-) | /r/MensRights | 06/08/24 12:02 AM |
| 104 | 800 thousand Ukrainian men go into hiding to avoid mobilization. OP: It is the sensible thing to do.I always wonder why anybody brings up one without the other. Ukrainian and Russian men, both, are victims of this senseless invasion of Ukraine. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/24 10:01 PM |
| 26 | Internalized misandryFor me the WORST internalized misandry is those dads who threaten boys who are dating their daughters. The worst of the worst are the ones that bring out a gun in order to inflict mental trauma on the boy. It's indefensible. They're not protecting anybody, they're fantasizing a catastrophe based on anti-male stereotypes and then inflicting actual harm on boys. If anybody were to do that to my son I would tell my lawyer to be evil and ruthless towards them. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/24 09:58 PM |
| 11 | “Our Watch wasn’t happy with his conclusions [about the causes of violence against women] and demanded he delete evidence about the role of alcohol and poverty in family violence. When he refused, his “review” was then rewritten”Exactly. They're trying to win female voters because there are more of them... and because men don't vote against misandrists. So politicians get rewarded for a message without any downside. That's the political message that must be appeased... until we change the dynamic and punish man-hating politicians. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/24 01:30 PM |
| 68 | “Our Watch wasn’t happy with his conclusions [about the causes of violence against women] and demanded he delete evidence about the role of alcohol and poverty in family violence. When he refused, his “review” was then rewritten”In his evidence to the 2016 Victorian Royal Commission into domestic violence, Miller made it clear that the prescribed approach was wrong: “A sole focus on the gendered nature of family violence which labels men as the perpetrators and women as the victims and which identifies gender inequity as the principal ‘cause’ of family violence is problematic at a number of levels.” His advice was ignored by the Commission. He sounds correct... but politically inconvenient. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/24 11:25 AM |
| 2 | The one time their isn't a double standardWow. Now that she's on Ozempic and not wearing oversized bags to hide her body... she actually looks presentable. Big improvement. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/24 11:21 AM |
| 43 | Are there any left-leaning pro-male online personalities?Healthygamer.gg or Dr. K... whatever handle you know him by. Very hippy dippy. An actual doctor. And very pro men's issues. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/24 12:42 AM |
| 17 | Do you think that when a woman is pregnant and doesn't want to abort but the man doesn't want the fetus he should be able to sign a document to the government that says he doesn't want this fetus and then he doesn't have to pay child support when it's born?I think all human beings should have agency over when they are ready to become parents. Regardless of race, gender, creed, or sexual orientation. We're not in the middle ages anymore: there are no valid reasons anymore to force either a man or a woman into unwanted parenthood given our technology and social support networks. This should be even more protected in the law for cases where a child is raped by an adult and forced into parenthood. Sadly, I still see people with a medieval mindset sayi… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/24 01:47 PM |
| 3 | JK Rowling about the boxing controversy: men enjoying punching women in the head is summary of men's rights movementGood for Iran. When I google for Algeria gender affirming care every link tells me they do not allow gender transition in Algeria. One wouldn't even have a way to change one's name and gender in legal paperwork there... let alone would thei conservative society allow a cross dresser. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/24 10:30 AM |
| 0 | Calling men who you disagree with "Weird" is A Toxic FemininityWe can (and should) also call out women who are creepy and weird. Kari Lake for example. Full of weird-ass ideas about medicine or about the elections. What a weirdo she is. Creepy. Nikki Haley is another great example of weirdness. She was saying one thing just a few weeks ago and now her nose is so far up Trump's asshole that it's clear she has no convictions of her own. SO WEIRD! People who can just look you in the eyes and lie to you like that, are creepy. She's weird. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/24 10:23 PM |
| 20 | JK Rowling about the boxing controversy: men enjoying punching women in the head is summary of men's rights movementDude, you think ALGERIA, of all places, would allow a trans person to represent them internationally? The country that punishes homosexuality with death? Them? A trans athlete? STFU. This lady was born with a vagina. Some people have gotten so comfortable spewing hatespeech against men that they also attack women who just look a little masculine. That's all we are seeing here. The whole "men are dangerous" hatespeech. That's what you're choosing to be on the side of. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/24 09:12 PM |
| 8 | JK Rowling about the boxing controversy: men enjoying punching women in the head is summary of men's rights movementIt's so common to spew hatespeech against men that even women who were born with vaginas are labeled as dangerous if they look a little bit masculine. And if you call out that blatant sexism then they say you just want to punch women in the head. This shit has gone too far. Any hatespeech about men being dangerous needs to face consequences so that we can end the hate. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/24 12:34 PM |
| 41 | USA: Female mayor, 42, who suddenly and mysteriously resigned last week has now been charged with CHILD RAPEWTF is that headline. They called an indicted child rapist "glamorous"? Not like "creepy"? Or "disgusting"? | /r/MensRights | 02/08/24 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Dutch women, but not men, in same-sex relationships are more likely to commit crime, study findsMultiple factors. Yeah, Homophobia is almost certainly one factor in why lesbians would be reported more than hetero women. Another factor is that in lesbian DV, the victim is a woman. While people laugh at male victims of female aggression, they take action to support female victims. So violent lesbians are more likely to get anonymous tips called in, more likely to be reported by their own partner, more likely to have the police take these seriously - all because their victim is a woman. Anoth… | /r/MensRights | 30/07/24 12:01 AM |
| 1 | what if robots and cloning can replace men would the world be a paradise ?What if after inventing artificial wombs we "removed" women? Wouldn't the world be a paradise? A paradise in which our kids are safer from pedo teachers and men are safer from abuse in relationships? A paradise without toxic masculinity internalized misandry? Your question assumes the only reason we let men live is because of their utility to women. So in this version we would assume The only reason women have to live is to service men's procreation needs. It's the same biased question you just … | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 11:09 AM |
| 1 | what if robots and cloning can replace men would the world be a paradise ?the normal men are removed WHAT??? "Removed" as in sacrificed? Yeah some paradise you got there where you slaughter millions of people. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 10:48 AM |
| 11 | Texas Teacher Who Sent Nudes of Herself to 11-Year-Old Student Avoids Jail. If it was a man it would be straight to jail.Because society has a bias wherein it views men as dangerous and women as victims. When people encounter reality, they deal with the cognitive dissonance by doing illogical shit like this judge did. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 10:45 AM |
| 8 | Texas Teacher Who Sent Nudes of Herself to 11-Year-Old Student Avoids Jail. If it was a man it would be straight to jail.My god, the patriarchy is really coming down hard on women paedos. This really captures the absurdity of the broader context. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 10:42 AM |
| 33 | Pulp Fiction: What if the gimp was a woman?Then people would have focused on the danger to the woman instead of the danger to the protagonists. Would have ruined the movie. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Dutch women, but not men, in same-sex relationships are more likely to commit crime, study findsMore likely to be reported. My theory is that every human being commits crime at the same rate regardless of race, gender creed, or sexual orientation. The difference in statistics is all about reporting bias. Do lesbians actually commit more crimes than other women? No. Do they get reported more? You bet. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Are most people here pro life or pro choice?Murder implies something is alive. Exodus 21:22-25 says the fetus is property. If you damage someone's fetus you pay the husband a restitution. By comparison if you injure the mother you follow the same rule as elsewhere (en eye for an eye). The earliest Christian writers didn't view fetuses as alive either. Fetuses were viewed as gradually getting ensouled as they developed. Adam didn't come alive until he drew his first breath (Genesis 2). So some thought that the first breath was the final st… | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Are most people here pro life or pro choice?"Alive" may not be the right metric because nobody can agree on what that even means AND because we can't adequately weigh the value of a potential baby's life versus the existing mother's life. This whole bullshit political battle is about whether to make restrictions at 6 weeks versus at 29 weeks and whether those restrictions have adequate exceptions for rape, incest, and maternal death. But if you listen to how each side portrays the other you'd think that the politicians either want dead mo… | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 02:02 AM |
| 4 | Are most people here pro life or pro choice?I'm pro choice for both women and men. It's not the middle ages anymore. We have better financial institutions, better wage equality, and better medical abilities to handle unwanted pregnancies. Therefore every human being should have agency about when they're ready to become a parent. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 01:33 AM |
| -6 | Female Cognitive DissonanceYes and none of that is in the post or the article. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/24 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Toxic femininity and masculinity based on behavioural scienceI strongly prefer when we talk about internalized misandry than toxic masculinity because 1) the definition is less ambiguous and 2) because we didn't choose to display these traits, we were molded into those traits by others (e.g. men are more likely to be victims of violence and "hurt people hurt people") | /r/MensRights | 25/07/24 02:40 PM |
| 13 | "Match Group and Bumble are tanking because they treat men badly; Grindr CEO."It does suck for both. But if it sucked equally we wouldn't be raising the issue consistently on a sub about equality. In addition to sucking, it's exploitative to men | /r/MensRights | 25/07/24 02:28 PM |
| -2 | Female Cognitive DissonanceWhat does this have to do with equality for men and boys? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/24 02:26 PM |
| 90 | Why don’t straight men read novels? "This idea of the hyper-capitalist man with no time for something as ‘pointless’ as reading began to take root in the Victorian era. In the 19th century, reading novels developed a reputation as a frivolous and feminised activity as bourgeois women"Criticizing men for reading less (on average) than women, is sexist. No doubt. I'm a straight man with 3 kids. We read together before bed every night. It helps me to relieve the stress from work and the quality of my sleep is better. So I don't see it as being pointless. In terms of the Victorian idea of having spare time... uh Video games. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/24 11:00 PM |
| 23 | Heritage National Security Expert and Mother of Daughter: “There is No Justification to ‘Draft Our Daughters’ for Military Service.”Since the 14th amendment passed over a century and half ago, we've instituted the draft not once, not twice, but FOUR times: War, World War I, World War II, the Korean War, and the Vietnam War. Lots of human beings fought against the unrelenting cruelty of draft in every way they could, that included countless legal challenges, and various ways of influencing politicians. And yet, 10 U.S. Code § 246 still has discriminatory language that says men between the ages of 17 and 45 can be called for a… | /r/MensRights | 23/07/24 08:25 PM |
| 37 | Heritage National Security Expert and Mother of Daughter: “There is No Justification to ‘Draft Our Daughters’ for Military Service.”And yet, it's not enough to end gender-discrimination in the military draft. | /r/MensRights | 23/07/24 06:39 PM |
| 18 | Pro Mens Rights LegislationPass the Equal Rights Ammendment That would be the end of gender-discriminatory conscription. The end of gender-specific protection of rights. The end of biased custody laws. etc. etc. Pass the ERA, now. | /r/MensRights | 23/07/24 04:46 PM |
| 12 | How The War On Masculinity Is Destroying Men (And Women)I feel like there are 3 sides to this argument: Men should be more like women Men should be more like they were traditionally Men should be whatever person they want to be I think #1 and #2 are wrong. #1 argues that men are just defective women. #2 argues that men are only valuable when they provide utility even at the cost of self-sacrifice. I think argument #3 is where it's at. It's basically saying "STOP TELLING MEN HOW TO BE". Stop defining what a man should be like. Stop defining a man rela… | /r/MensRights | 23/07/24 04:44 PM |
| 8 | You really can’t make this up😂😂😂 (scroll to the end)Toxic femininity | /r/MensRights | 22/07/24 12:18 AM |
| 47 | Holyshit guys It's possible that the presidential election will turn to Men vs Women controversyJimmy Carter was the Ned Stark of Washington DC. An honorable person who was ill suited to the corrupt environment of backstabbing lobbyist-funded politics. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/24 12:13 AM |
| 10 | Holyshit guys It's possible that the presidential election will turn to Men vs Women controversyI think Harris is smart enough to not make the mistake of running on gender. Hillary knew not to, too... but succumbed to the "historic" nature arguments. It really turns off voters. More likely she'll portray the election as "prosecutor vs. Convicted felon". | /r/MensRights | 22/07/24 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Buzzfeed still defending Amber HeardDude. Even her therapist said she was mischaracterizing things as abuse. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/24 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Buzzfeed still defending Amber HeardExcept that the Jury watched those videos and said Depps actions did not constitute abuse and that her claiming it was abuse made her liable for millions of dollars. So... you want to repeat slander then go ahead. Just understand how it makes you look. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/24 07:05 PM |
| 2 | In places where abortion is legal, women should be required to pay a monthly child support equivalent per abortion for the next 21 years. These funds could be used to support foster care/ministry for children.Or, instead of being the baddies by saying women must have the same restrictions as men, we can be on the side of equality and say that everyone should have this right. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/24 01:10 PM |
| -1 | Democrats are advocating for Hillary Clinton replacing President Joe Biden as the 2024 Democratic nominee: Reminder of five reasons no man should vote for herDoesn't matter if the DNC chose Jesus Christ as the noninee or Buddha. Democrats would find a reason to not show up and vote. There's a disease where the candidate isn't 100% aligned with them so they won't vote. At least the Republicans vote for anyone, even it's a convicted felon, with multiple divorces and affairs. They fucking plug their nose and they vote ... and they win. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/24 11:24 AM |
| 4 | Democrats are advocating for Hillary Clinton replacing President Joe Biden as the 2024 Democratic nominee: Reminder of five reasons no man should vote for herThe French already destroyed Haïti long before Hillary got involved. I agree that the policy of starving boys was boneheaded and was the opposite of helpful to the country. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/24 11:20 AM |
| 3 | In places where abortion is legal, women should be required to pay a monthly child support equivalent per abortion for the next 21 years. These funds could be used to support foster care/ministry for children.I have a better idea. Let both men and women have equal agency in when they're ready to become parents. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/24 11:02 AM |
| 1 | A classicWe haven't repealed gender discrimination in the draft since 1968 so... that's not good enough. We need an amendment that explicitly says that gendered policies are unconstitutional. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/24 01:36 AM |
| 2 | A classicWell said. Also... if we had both universal Healthcare AND the equal rights amendment then we could go to court to challenge the discrepancy between healthcare for men vs women. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/24 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Woman charged after allegedly stabbing puppy, throwing knife at boyfriendYeah. If feminism intentionally misnamed a concept then it's hard to use it to explain the reality. Instead of "patriarchy" it can just be "gender bias". There's a gender bias that shows leniency towards women. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/24 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Woman charged after allegedly stabbing puppy, throwing knife at boyfriendYeah. If feminism intentionally misnamed a concept then it's hard to use it to explain the reality. Instead of "patriarchy" it can just be "gender bias". There's a gender bias that shows leniency towards women. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/24 08:39 PM |
| 3 | A classicAgreed. We should be ashamed as a country. If healthcare were counted as a tax we would have thie highest taxes anywhere in the fucking world. And why do we keep demonizing any politician that tries to fix it? It's like shooting ourselves in the foot...and uh, shooting yourself in the foot is an even worse idea in the USA because insurance will have you drowning in bureaucracy just to get the gunshot wound looked at. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/24 08:34 PM |
| -1 | Drea de Matteo Reveals Her 13-Year-Old Son Edits Her OnlyFans Photos for HerAre you a somebody? | /r/MensRights | 20/07/24 08:25 PM |
| 7 | Uncomfortable facts about men's healthAnother excellent presentation of the facts. We should show this to misandrists who think that men are somehow responsible for their own shorter lifespans. Turns out, no, it's systemic. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/24 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Therapy isn't the definitive answerI am a big fan of therapy for helping with the hard times in your life. I am also realistic: it helps but it's not like a powerful medicine or a surgery. It's not a cure. That's especially true if you have underlying mental illness. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/24 08:23 PM |
| 0 | Was this guy being incoherent? This was on a post about making fun of men for not having the same response to a woman exposing themself on reddit to promote their onlyfans.As a manager I've taken an unfortunately large number of courses on communication. The topic of authenticity comes up a lot in these classes. Never once has anybody suggested to appear authentic by speaking like an illiterate clown. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/24 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Just curious: what do you guys think about RationalWiki?Trash | /r/MensRights | 18/07/24 11:28 AM |
| 1 | The Thirteenth Amendment in Family Law: The “Involuntary Servitude” of Support ObligationsFun fact. Most constitutional law arguments apply only to criminal law. Not to civil law and family law. Also... appeals only exist in criminal courts not in civil courts nor family courts. So you cannot even challenge the law on constitutional grounds. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/24 11:27 AM |
| 13 | Buzzfeed still defending Amber HeardI keep hearing this line repeated but the jury clearly said he was not an abuser and that the defendant, ms. Hurd, was liable to pay him money for maliciously claiming that he was abusive. So... why repeat that garbage? | /r/MensRights | 18/07/24 11:23 AM |
| 14 | Buzzfeed still defending Amber HeardAn "illness"? Alopecia is the clinical term for baldness. Every man that you know who's losing hair is suffering from Alopecia. And the illness Jada has was called.... drum roll... Alopecia. She is balding. We don't slap people over bald headed jokes. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/24 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Internet Divided After Airline Launches Feature For Women to Avoid Male SeatmatesThe gender segregation of old religion was almost certainly introduced the same way. At ine point (centuries ago) it was new and controversial...and insisted upon by women. Burkas probably started this way, with the same arguments about men staring. Hasidic jews have separate entrances for men and for women. I bet that started the same way with women arguing how dangerous men were. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/24 11:14 AM |
| 3 | Internet Divided After Airline Launches Feature For Women to Avoid Male SeatmatesI suppose if you select that you're a woman you can also use it to avoid sitting next to a woman.... but if everyone does this then you can't sit anywhere. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/24 11:10 AM |
| 6 | Was this guy being incoherent? This was on a post about making fun of men for not having the same response to a woman exposing themself on reddit to promote their onlyfans.This is a good lesson for all of us. If we want to have our points taken seriously then we must be clear, on-topic, polite, and grammatically correct. Otherwise people won't discuss what we said - they'll discuss how we said it. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/24 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Was this guy being incoherent? This was on a post about making fun of men for not having the same response to a woman exposing themself on reddit to promote their onlyfans.Their grammar was beyond bad. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/24 11:01 AM |
| 80 | So let me get this straight, men are obligated to put themselves at risk for random people?3 - not just shamed online. In real life, too! If one of those dudes was there on a date, they're single now. That is how women enforce their toxic definition of what "real men" should be. We internalize all that misandry and it hurts our mental health. SMH. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/24 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Should we move from the MRA lavel?Yeah, I never liked the term "Men's rights". I would have preferred something like "men's equality". But it is what it is. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/07/24 10:42 PM |
| 6 | You don't cut body parts off a baby boy, to avoid cleaning them.Beautiful! Well presented. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/24 10:40 PM |
| 31 | Should DNA testing be mandatory at birth100% agree. We are focused on the aspect if paternity and child support. Which is valid but is not a winning argument outside of our group. Children deserve to know their genetic predisposition to diseases. If feminists argue against children then they're the baddies. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/24 10:31 AM |
| 66 | LeftWingMaleAdvocatesMy experience with leftwing male advocates is very different from yours. What you're describing sounds more like the menslib sub. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/24 10:27 AM |
| 4 | The myth between men and the cooking skill"Myth"? You mean the supremacist fantasy that gender magically makes women superior at skills like cooking or parenting? | /r/MensRights | 02/07/24 01:56 PM |
| 11 | Totally non-stereotypedMy son and I do workouts together weekday mornings. We maintain good nutrition in our house: lots of protein, healthy fats, variety in grains, veggies (despite the opposition), low sugar, and no fast food. My son's body looks pretty close to the kid in this picture. Let me tell you what looks disgusting: 6th graders with more fat rolls than a bakery. We're destroying our kids with crappy nutrition that makes them gross. More kids should look as well nourished as the kid in this picture. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/24 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Which books should men in their 20s/30s read?Here's a link to a recent write up. https://www.reddit.com/r/sleep/comments/1dq3nmg/to_avoid_screens_before_bed_ive_started_reading/ | /r/MensRights | 29/06/24 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Which books should men in their 20s/30s read?David Graeber is amazing. I read "Debt: the first thousand years" and it changed my outlook on finance. I haven't read The Utopia of Rules ... yet. War and Peace is not everybody's cup of tea. I read a few Russian books like "Crime and Punishment", "Doctor Zhivago", and I tried learning to speak and read a little in Russian. Then halfway through "War and Peace" I was like "I'm done. This whole culture is too depressing". I have very few books that are DNF's. But War and Peace is one of them. So … | /r/MensRights | 29/06/24 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Which books should men in their 20s/30s read?I just read this like 3 months ago and applied to my sleep habits. Brothers, my life is totally different. I second the recommendation of this book. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/24 08:08 PM |
| 24 | Survivor Family Network:“Parental Alienation is Pseudoscience" "The use of PA can result in practices that are contrary to internationally recognised rights of children embodied in Article 12 of the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child 1989, which ensures that children’s perspective"I have helped several fathers experiencing custody crises. I see a pattern: dads keep reaching out to their kids but their kids are basically like "I heard you're a bad person so I don't want to talk to you". These dads want to take their lives. Parental alienation 100% is a real thing. Parental alienation is 100% child abuse because it is hurting these kids. MRA's care about it because it's hurting the dads, too. Feminists dismiss it because hurting the dads is a form of hurting men, thus they … | /r/MensRights | 29/06/24 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Ozempic is Over Prescribed to WomenI would say the treatment is BOTH diet AND exercise (and sleep). Not "or". No. I'd argue for diet and exercise at the same time... for the rest of your life. I'm also a realist. People simply aren't doing this. It's easy and simple, but yet 75% of Americans seemingly cannot keep a healthy diet. So... maybe GLP1 agonists aren't such a bad thing after all. I would say that more men should lose weight because we need to close the gender gap in life expectancy. So if a man chooses one of these new d… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/24 05:15 PM |
| 8 | Ozempic is Over Prescribed to WomenOzempic deficiency. I love that phrase lifestyle issue related to the copious intake of highly processed foods and poor exercise habits, 100% correct. most people who lose weight on Ozempic, gain the weight back the second they stop taking it, So do most people who try diets. GLP1 agonists do have worse rates of relapse into obesity than dieting... but not by much. only addresses the quantity of food one ingests, not the quality Have you seen r/loseit and r/WeightLossAdvice ? Go there and ask wh… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/24 04:53 PM |
| 20 | Ozempic is Over Prescribed to WomenI agree. We should talk about the addictive nature of added sugar. And about the predatory marketing tactics of large junkfood manufacturers. P.S. to anybody who replies - please do not confuse "sugar" in things like fruits, with "added sugar" in things like the fucking desserts that are sold to us as breakfast foods | /r/MensRights | 26/06/24 03:48 PM |
| 18 | Kenya puts end to 50% divorce grantsTurns Kenya is more civilized than the western nations that exploit it. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/24 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Ozempic is Over Prescribed to WomenWait where does it say that in the article? I see no reference to gender. Did I miss something? And... if women were to take more GLP1 agonists than men, regardless of brand, then isn't that bad for men? The stats for obesity related mortality are fucking catastrophic! That's not an underatement. Hell, obesity kills more children, globally, than hunger. So shouldn't we be making sure that both men and women get treated for obesity, equally? | /r/MensRights | 26/06/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Firestorm erupts over requiring women to sign up for military draftI'll repeat the obvious. We can not pretend like it's possible to end conscription. Every time a country indulges in such a fantasy they bring back conscription as soon as war approaches. Look at Germany as an example. They ended conscription. Now it's coming back in preparation for a war with Russia. And since there's no case law in Germany banning gender discrimination in conscription they're bringing it back as the enslavement of men and boys, only. Therefore it is a mandatory precondition th… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/24 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Firestorm erupts over requiring women to sign up for military draftAges 18 to 26 are for registering with selective service. The law currently permits conscripting citizens (or those requesting citizenship) between the ages of 17 and 44. Yes we need the 44+ crowd in our side, too. But this sub is not youthRights, this sub is MensRights. Let's keep the discussion on topic. We need women as allies against the upper classes that exploit us. So let's pass the E.R.A. and then it will be unconstitutional to draft only men. Once we have case law on the ERA applying to… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Firestorm erupts over requiring women to sign up for military draftI think the time has come that women join us in the struggle. It's us, men, who've been exploited by the ruling aristocrats. And women don't lift a finger to end war and to end the draft. Is suddenly they were to become our allies then maybe we could unite and fight the aristocrats better. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/24 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Firestorm erupts over requiring women to sign up for military draftThis mentality is not based in reality. Every country that has ended their draft has simply brought it back when war approached. Like Germany just did. Therefore it is a requirement that first we get court cases that declare gender discrimination in the draft to be illegal and THEN we can pretend like we end the draft. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/24 08:02 PM |
| 14 | Mike Pence's group urges GOP to oppose measure including women in future draftMen are not built for being cannon fodder either. You don't need to be strong to get sent to die in a battlefield to protect corporate profits. Women can fly drones while getting bombed, drive supply trucks while being shot at, push buttons inside a submarine while being torpedoed, and all the rest. There's nothing about any of that which requires them to be born with a penis in order to die that way. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/24 07:49 PM |
| 24 | Mike Pence's group urges GOP to oppose measure including women in future draftI've always said that the only people who hate men more than lefty feminists... is Republicans. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/24 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Does the "Patriarchy" Harm Boys?They'll recognize it... just not as a "patriarchal structure". A few months ago, James Carville had an observation about how we on the left have been talking in a language that is just foreign to average people. AND that the words we use make it sound like we're talking down to others. The rightwingers have capitalized on this and have won elections by fighting "woke-ism". Lecturing people about "who perpetuates patriarchal preconceptions in society" is exactly what Carville was talking about. U… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/24 11:26 PM |
| 6 | Does the "Patriarchy" Harm Boys?I think I understand what you're trying to say, and I would agree with you - and most people on this sub would agree with you - if you used terminology that is more easily understood. Similar to my last comment to you: these are examples that are familiar to us ... but not as "patriarchy". Also, if you go on the street and ask random people whether "shaming a man for being vulnerable", or "pressuring a man into paying for a date", or "expecting a man to hold a door for you", etc. whether any of … | /r/MensRights | 19/06/24 07:53 PM |
| 12 | Does the "Patriarchy" Harm Boys?Sounds like you're trying to use a less-commonly used definition of patriarchy. Most of us here have probably never heard that definition. Instead we've heard of patriarchy as something like "a system of power that exploits women, by men for the benefit of men". It's very difficult to talk about this stuff using lingo. Just use language that the common person will understand. Just say "a feature of society that benefits the few in power" and save yourself the headache of being misunderstood. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/24 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Scientists discover Mayan sacrifices were all boys, not girls, as previously believed.We both agree that men are oppressed. I categorocally reject the notion that we're oppressed by "other men". Painting a male face on our oppressors is disingenuous at best. At worst it divides us along gender lines so that we can never unite and liberate ourselves. Who even are "other men"? Are you "other men" and are you oppressing me? If you, maggimilian, tease me for not being a "real man" and thus perpetuate any part of the system of control ... does that mean you're an oppressor? I don't th… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/24 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Scientists discover Mayan sacrifices were all boys, not girls, as previously believed.I wholeheartedly disagree with your hypothesis. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/24 05:30 PM |
| 3 | More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, report revealsAgreed. As an abuse survivor myself I was shocked to learn that I was being abused. I was simply never taught that I could be. I always heard the educational literature talking about women being abused. Turns out it's not your body that hurts the most after abuse - it's your mind. Most abuse is psychological abuse, financial abuse, neglect, and social abuse. And abuse is not about strength. Abuse is about control. If more men were taught this then we would see the reporting change. And 50% of ab… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/24 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Conscription squads send Ukrainian men into hiding OP: It is the intelligent thing to do.I hope one of our metgods succeed 👍 | /r/MensRights | 18/06/24 10:23 AM |
| 3 | Conscription squads send Ukrainian men into hiding OP: It is the intelligent thing to do.If we can get that case in front of the Supreme Court that would be great! Personally, I doubt that would get there because we can't even use the 14th ammendment to get the police to protect men equally. That's why I'm more hopeful of a new amendment - the ERA - as being the vehicle. Sounds like either way we want the same outcome we're just looking at different paths to get there. Yes? | /r/MensRights | 17/06/24 11:02 PM |
| 16 | Scientists discover Mayan sacrifices were all boys, not girls, as previously believed.I respectfully disagree with your hypothesis. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/24 10:59 PM |
| 13 | Scientists discover Mayan sacrifices were all boys, not girls, as previously believed.Sounds like you're trying to describing internalized misandry. Societies hatred of men is more powerful than any of us are individually. Therefore many of us succumb to fulfilling the roles and negative stereotypes thrust upon us. Some men become part of the machine that "enforces" these demeaning traditional gender roles. But it is absolutely never "other men" who are the enforcement of gender roles. No. That enforcement mechanism is bigger and stronger than "men" are. So please remove "other m… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/24 09:33 PM |
| 25 | Scientists discover Mayan sacrifices were all boys, not girls, as previously believed.What? No it's not "other men" doing this to men. That's preposterous! "Men" don't have that kind of power. If we did then we would have ended this kind of thing. This is a problem with society. You think Women don't do this to men? Look at what women do to men who refuse to get drafted? Look at what women do to men who refuse to conform to traditional gender roles in the family finances... or during divorce. No. It's not "other men". Men and women do this to men. Society does this. Not "other me… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/24 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Conscription squads send Ukrainian men into hiding OP: It is the intelligent thing to do.Unfortunately, gender discrimination in military conscription is constitutional and legal in the USA. I want to change that which is why I support the E.R.A. followed by an aggressive legal strategy of getting cases in which men who refuse the draft to go in front of the Supreme court to interpret the ERA as applying to all aspects of the draft. Refusing the draft is a felony. You'll end up in federal penitentiary ... and likely be sexually assaulted.. Repeatedly... while being told that you're … | /r/MensRights | 17/06/24 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Conscription squads send Ukrainian men into hiding OP: It is the intelligent thing to do.Yes. We should have been sending better weapons, too. Another fallout of our delay is that Russia is gaining momentum. As a result France and Poland are both making moves that look an awful lot like they're going to join the war. They would join unilaterally without NATO probably. At least at first. But that would almost certainly pull the USA into a war, eventually. I am betting money that the US will be conscription men and boys to die in a war with Russia within the next 5 years. Mark my word… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/24 03:41 PM |
| 7 | More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, report revealsI firmly believe that all human beings commit right and wrong at the same levels regardless of race, gender, creed or sexual orientation. Therefore I believe that 50% of DV perpetrators are men and 50% of DV perpetrators are women. Ergo the gender gap in the data is a measure of reporting bias. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/24 01:00 PM |
| -2 | Conscription squads send Ukrainian men into hiding OP: It is the intelligent thing to do.Conscription is a despicable exploitation of men and boys for the profit of wealthy men and women. If we had just given Ukraine the weapons to defend themselves from Russian aggression earlier then maybe this whole fiasco might have ended sooner. Instead there's no decisive victory and Russian troops continueto occupy Ukrainian territory. This forever war will continue to slaughter conscripted men and boys in both Russia and Ukraine. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/24 12:58 PM |
| 317 | Scientists discover Mayan sacrifices were all boys, not girls, as previously believed.Men have been oppressed for thousands of years. This is just another example. The Mayans sacrificed men and boys exclusively. Why? To maximize rain and crop growth. We still sacrifice men and boys today. For example military conscription. Why? To maximize profits for wealthy men and women. Our understanding of nature and economics may have advanced. But our humanity has not advanced. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/24 12:54 PM |
| 18 | Women getting drafted for WW3"Abolishing" a draft is a myth. Countries that end their draft just bring it back when war approaches. Germany just did. And they bring back the once-abolished drafts in a gender-discriminatory way. So first we must get case law that makes gender-discriminatuon in the draft illegal and THEN we can pretend like we're Abolishing it. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/24 10:18 PM |
| 3 | What is the ‘hot rodent’ trend, and how do men feel about it? | CNNI would generalize this. Any news outlets opinion pieces are worthless. Regardless of whether it's CNN, MSNBC, Fox News, OANN, Washington Post or Washington Times, etc. Any opinions they have about men, especially opinions telling men how they're supposed to be, are cringe. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/24 01:28 PM |
| 7 | Germany outlines plans for military service. Women would also be sent the questionnaire, although it would not be compulsory for them to complete it, only men would legally have to complete it.The relevant part of the article Young men would have to answer a mandatory questionnaire about their willingness and ability to serve. From this, the Bundeswehr would select the most suitable and motivated individuals after a medical examination. ... Women would also be sent the questionnaire, although it would not be compulsory for them to complete it. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 10:29 AM |
| 3 | German national service plan 'discriminates against men'These services always look at the gender on your birth certificate not on your current ID. Trans women get drafted just the same as men. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Statistics show that you are more likely to be harmed by somebody you know than a random stranger on the streets.It's because of movies and TV shows. They portray men attacking women in dark alleys. This rarely happens to women... most violent criminals target men as their victims (except serial killers). This is why we need better representation because TV sexist tropes on TV have trained women to be afraid of the things that actually target men the most, and have failed to prepare men for the harsh reality. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 10:24 AM |
| 40 | Life As a Battered MANYou know, he would have been safer with a bear than with a woman. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 10:16 AM |
| 10 | Levels of sufferingThe average conscripted man suffers 1,000,000,000,000 arbitrary units due to gender based discrimination in military conscription. The father who escapes his abusive wife and then has his children taken away suffers 1,000,000,000 arbitrary units due to gender discrimination in the family court system. The average male criminal who is more likely to be suspected by police than the average female criminal, more likely to be charged than a woman who commits the same crime, more likely to be indicte… | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Woman lies about being raped and gets innocent man arrested on multiple felonies and one million dollars bail. Her justification? She thought he "looked creepy".Wow. That's interesting. Why not just build more jail cells? Also... googling that case: it looks like the recidivism rate went down for drug crimes because they started sending nonviolent addicts to rehab instead of to jail. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Woman lies about being raped and gets innocent man arrested on multiple felonies and one million dollars bail. Her justification? She thought he "looked creepy".ruling that means every person you give a jail sentence you’re going to have to release someone else before their sentence is up Which case was this ruling? That sounds like it's being misrepresented by some politicized news outlet. Which ruling was it and let's see what it actually states. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 12:57 PM |
| 17 | Woman lies about being raped and gets innocent man arrested on multiple felonies and one million dollars bail. Her justification? She thought he "looked creepy".She'll pass a background check unless she gets convicted of something. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 10:14 AM |
| 5 | Woman lies about being raped and gets innocent man arrested on multiple felonies and one million dollars bail. Her justification? She thought he "looked creepy".won’t even give the maximum unless she’s rich. I know that men have a disadvantage due to the gender bias if judges and juries. Amd the poor do due to an inability to afford good council. I don't think I've ever heard any evidence that rich people have a disadvantage in court. but it’s the Philadelphia area where 9/10 they’ll let her plead it down Prosecutors do this in every county in the US. Their yearly evaluations are based on the number of convictions so they spend less time in court and ge… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 10:13 AM |
| -2 | I get it nowGood morning. You want a rational response to your irrational argument? You said "ONLY" an unconscionable large number of people were killed and you think that's rational? 35,000 killed, of which 24,000 have been identified, and another 10,000 estimated to be burried under rubble. In what world is such a high number of human lives described as "only"? You're excusing the deaths of a staggering number of children (something which is inexcusable) by saying that there are just lots of children arou… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 10:05 AM |
| -3 | I get it now"only" This is some sick shit. I think I've had enough of the internet for today. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 12:38 AM |
| 0 | Is modern society pressuring us into finding ugly women attractive?There was a South Park episode about it recently. "The Cure For Obesity". There's dozens of these drugs entering the market so it's not worth saying any one by name. The class of drugs is called "GLP1 receptor agonists". And in 5 years (or less) this whole nonsense about calling fat girls "beautiful" will go away. (And fat guys will continue to be labeled as unattractive as they always have). | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 12:31 AM |
| 1 | I get it nowotherwise Israel and the IDF explicitly minimize civilian causalities Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhaaaaaahhahahahahahaha!!!!!!! Come on, if they were "minimizing civilian casualties" then Netanyahu and his cabinet wouldn't have gotten an arrest warrant for war crimes. They're just as bad as the terrorist leaders of Hamas. Fun fact: 40% of the Palestinians killed in this conflict are minors. Journalists. Aide workers. Even UN functionaries who are working in the area. They all get bombed and killed in HIST… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/24 09:14 PM |
| 10 | Is modern society pressuring us into finding ugly women attractive?Are you referring to fatter girls being called beautiful? Because that shit is about to end real soon. There are no more fat celebrities- they're all on those new drugs. I give it a max of like 3 years before fat people won't be talked about as being attractive anymore. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/24 09:00 PM |
| 19 | Men should date older womenWhile this option isn't for me, it is well thought out, reasonable, and clearly articulated. Take my upvote. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/24 04:50 PM |
| 7 | My experience with misandryWait... what? I'm confused. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/24 04:43 PM |
| 1 | What should lonely men do?To my knowledge There's nowhere in the world that enforces surrogacy contracts for gay and single men. At least not in the way that it does for straight married couples. Surrogacy is illegal for gay and single men in much of the world. This is a reproductive rights issue!! However there are a few countries that simply do not have any laws about it so they allow it without enforcement. There are cases of extortion against fathers and their newborn babies. But governments don't care about men they… | /r/MensRights | 05/06/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | What should lonely men do?That is a valid point... but not a strong point because you also cannot reloably expect your romantic partner to be always there for you in those ways. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/24 01:39 PM |
| 8 | What should lonely men do?Hire a surrogate and become single parents by choice. I have kids. I'm never lonely. I could easily have done this without a wife. You can have kids through a surrogate and you'll never be lonely. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/24 11:47 AM |
| 5 | Contrary to the stereotype that Mexican men are sexist pigs, Mexico's first woman president-elect won with more male support than female support (62% vs 56%)This is the correct answer. A larger percentage of women voted for the male candidate and a larger percentage of men voted for one of the two female candidates. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Germany ‘drops conscription’ for optional military serviceIt's not entirely Germany's choice to make. I mean - Germany has a part to play in the process. But so does Russia. So does France. So does Poland. To a much smaller extent so does the US. Given the way things are going, I would be surprised if there weren't a war in 3 years. Whether it's a NATO vs. Russia war, or whether it's a hastily constructed E.U. army against Russia. 🇪🇺 There will be conscription. And it will be gender-discriminatory. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/24 01:09 PM |
| 3 | I got my son!!!Congratulations. Wish the system had allowed you to be a father earlier. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/24 01:52 PM |
| 71 | Woman, 41, threatened her boyfriend, 40, she was 'going to find someone else to have sex with' if he didn't get her pregnant, taunted him and falsely claimed he had been violent, coercive, controlling towards her.It's so common because there's no punishment and no help for the victims. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/24 01:50 PM |
| 1 | ConscriptionI'm not a Ukrainian citizen. It's unlikely the US would draft men in their 60s. But 40s are still very likely. Although... who knows.... since able bodied Americans are hard to come by that could change. 73% of US adults are overweight (42% are obese). So maybe given that high failure rate they may have to expand the draft age to get able bodied recruits? | /r/MensRights | 26/05/24 01:56 PM |
| 15 | ConscriptionThat's a long way of saying that yes, this happens in Colombia. I heard a Russian woman dismiss conscription saying "yeah but you can get out of it if you're not poor" as if that made it any less evil. Those boys and men you described are sent to die in all sides of the Conflicto armado interno de Colombia. And then some asshole has the nerve to say that it's OK to discriminate against boys and men because they're privileged 🙄 | /r/MensRights | 25/05/24 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Conscription"He may be a bastard... but he's our bastard." Look. Russia is our enemy. Not like the way the kid on a school playground was our enemy. No. This isn't a game. They're an enemy in the "life or death" sense of the word. We'd be smart to overlook a whole lot of crap for anybody who can keep our enemy at bay. And Ukraine has been punching above their weight class when swinging at Russia so Ukraine are getting a golden "get out of jail" card from us. And will continue to do so as long as they're use… | /r/MensRights | 25/05/24 01:31 PM |
| 3 | ConscriptionI realize it's naive. Hence it's labeled a fantasy. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/24 01:11 PM |
| 3 | ConscriptionYeah. That's what I meant by the ACTUAL age of conscription not the bullshit age advertised during peacetime. In the US I think the highest we raised it was early 40s during the Vietnam War. So I should be safe... though I'm also a Polish citizen and when Russian tanks roll over the border woth Europe they're going on Polish soil. It'd be conical to receive a Polish draft notice a second time while living in the USA. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/24 01:07 PM |
| 9 | ConscriptionYeah that's most likely what would happen. I did state this was my fantasy after all. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/24 12:30 AM |
| 57 | Pennsylvania realtor mom, 51, sobs as she is jailed for life after strangling her 11-year-old son to death with a belt to get revenge on her husband for family’s financial woesHe would have been safer with a bear! /s | /r/MensRights | 24/05/24 11:36 PM |
| 23 | ConscriptionIn my fantasies, if I were to ever get conscripted I would 100% comply with everything I'm told to do and sign and then I'd tell 100% of the people who process me that as soon as I am given a live gun that I will shoot my commanding officers. I would let each of them know that I am documenting their names and what I told them so that when I do shoot my commanding officers THEY would get in trouble for continuing my processing instead of disqualifying me from service. I know this would never happ… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/24 11:34 PM |
| 28 | ConscriptionThis is happening in several countries that are currently at war, around the world. I always feel somebody has a bias if they mention Ukraine without also mentioning the terrible country that invaded them. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/24 11:27 PM |
| 63 | ConscriptionAaaaaahhhahahahaha | /r/MensRights | 24/05/24 11:13 PM |
| 208 | ConscriptionLicense plates look like Ukraine 🇺🇦 This disgusting shit is happening right now in other countries at war: Russia, Myanmar, Sudan, Colombia, etc etc. Men and boys are abducted and forced to fight - targeted based on the gender they were born with. Sick shit. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Would you accept to be monitored 24/24 to avoid false assumptions and accusations of aggression or assault ?Only if I had control of the video content. And I could limit usage of the footage for exculpatory purposes only. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/24 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Is Misandry Systemic?Yes! It always was! Here's just one example: Gender discriminatory conscription has always been the systematic exploitation of men and boys. It has always been systematic misandry. Circumcision has always been the controlling of sexuality of men and boys. It has always been systematic misandry. The list goes on. Yes. Misandry was and is systematic. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/24 02:35 PM |
| 8 | Men Only Seat (This will piss you off).This will make for some ICONIC videos on gay tiktok. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/24 02:29 PM |
| 17 | Jealous wife is jailed five years for slicing off her husband's penisAttractive dudes who get charged with much less than this do not get their selfies posted on news articles. This is specific to the way that women are seen: that even vicious criminals who perpetrated heinous acts will have their most flattering side showcased... as long as they have boobs. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/24 06:49 PM |
| 198 | Jealous wife is jailed five years for slicing off her husband's penisWHY AREN'T THEY SHOWING HER MUG SHOTS!!!!! | /r/MensRights | 16/05/24 05:41 PM |
| 19 | Question: If men’s issues and wellbeing are often ignored and not taken seriously, doesn’t that make them victims?YES! Men are victims. None of this "men can be victims, too" nonsense. No. Men have been oppressed for thousands of years by the powerful classes. Our bodies used for physical labor, for cannon fodder, and for scientific experiments. For what? For the profit of the wealthy men and women of the upper classes. Yes, men are victims. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/24 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Catholic ManhoodI have a complicated relationship with religion. On one hand I do agree that religion perpetuates ages-old misandry that has restricted men to roles that are harmful to men's health and well-being. On the other hand I am a practicing Catholic who strongly feels that there are deeper truths within the teachings of the church about human dignity and about fighting against temptation so that we achieve the greatness we are meant (while conquering our bad habits, compunctions, and weaknesses). This … | /r/MensRights | 13/05/24 12:30 PM |
| 4 | Catholic ManhoodThe complete quote makes it obvious she meant "people" but mistakenly used the colloquial "men". Here's her full quote: We Are Not Born Saints Men are not born saints with special gifts and privileges. They fight against the world, the flesh and the devil and as they conquer, the Spirit of Jesus begins to shine through with more clarity. We sometimes confuse the particular mission of the saints with their holiness. If compassion were to radiate through one, then healing would be given to that in… | /r/MensRights | 13/05/24 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Germany considering a gender neutral draft.Yes. We want this so that we can launch thousands lawsuits for gender discrimination in the workplace against the armed services. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/24 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Germany considering a gender neutral draft.I understood that from your first post. I meant that you live in a peacetime Germany and Perhaps such changes might happen faster in a wartime Germany. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/24 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Germany considering a gender neutral draft.Yes.... but do you know Germany at war? Perhaps things will change faster. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/24 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Germany considering a gender neutral draft.In a perfect world where we all drive unicorns to work... yeah, there's no draft there. But in the real world.... | /r/MensRights | 12/05/24 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Germany considering a gender neutral draft.You're probably right. But I am hopeful. Several countries have gender neutral conscription. Like Norway or Israel. So maybe Germany might follow suite. Maybe I'm naive. I dunno | /r/MensRights | 12/05/24 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Germany considering a gender neutral draft.I hope you're right. I assume that what the analysts see is the Russian economy is entirely retooled for war. They're churning out tanks and artillery... and getting more experience with combined artillery+drone operations than any military in the world. They are not tooled up like this to stop at Ukraine - they're toooled up like this for the long haul. So European countries are starting to do the same. I'm from Poland (living in the USA). Poland is also preparing for war. I am studying French … | /r/MensRights | 12/05/24 06:56 PM |
| 15 | Germany considering a gender neutral draft.100% fuck conscription. AND fuck gender-discriminatory conscription even harder. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/24 11:59 AM |
| -7 | Article: Gender Disappointment in 2024 is Almost Always About Boys "A shameful secret kept from the public eye but omnipresent in online mom spaces"Birthing more boys than girls would fix a lot of the disadvantages young men in the dating economy. Because right now we birth more boys than girls and look at how screwed those boys are. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Hey, do has anyone has tried Numan or is still using it? If they have, what was their experience like?it's probably the first time I've seen a creative, vulnerable TV ad about erectile dysfunction, which doesn't shame us men. We're so starved for respect that we'll buy literal garbage from anybody who doesn't shame us. Erectile dysfunction is often the canary in the coal mine for heart disease and cardiovascular health. We should fight the gender gap in life expectancy by showing vulnerable TV ads about men with ED going for a physical fitness exam and then changing their lifestyle (and maybe st… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Woman posts about divorce and tags husband on FacebookI'm so outraged that she's ripping a child away from it's father because it's "written in the stars". She's clearly in drugs. That poor child. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Emmanuel Macron wants to force visitation for divorced men.Pfff. Il faut qu'il oblige les mères à confier la moitié du temps de garde aux pères. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Hey, do has anyone has tried Numan or is still using it? If they have, what was their experience like?Nah. Their blood tests look like expensive versions of what I get at my doctor already covered by insurance. They sell haircare products for balding men. Plus they have a bunch of tinctures, pills, and snake oils that they claim will deliver all kinds if manly benefits. Not for me. I'd rather eat healthy, exercise, get good sleep, and not spend money on mumbo jumbo. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 10:14 PM |
| 2 | "Misandry isn't a problem, it's a response."I don’t think women were saying men were wild animals I also don't think "women" are saying this. I think a subset of divisive internet trolls are comparing men to dangerous wild animals. If we heard men with the same loudness of the independent women conversation Look around. We are advocating with loudness that we do not want to be exploited to such an extent that we love shorter lives. We are loud that we demand better representation in media. We are loud that we want to be protected from thi… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 03:58 PM |
| 8 | Do We Live In a Patriarchy?Are we really living in a patriarchy? Aaaaaaaahhhahahahahahaha no. what really defines our government as one? A patriarchy is a system designed to benefit men. Instead our government consigned men to die on battlefields and labor in dangerous jobs so that our economy runs on the pain-riddled bodies of exhausted men. Instead of protecting men from things that target men (like paternity fraud or genital mutilation) it protects women and instead it focused its legal system on criminalizing the acti… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Feds are trying to destroy the manosphere creatorsYes and I think the reasoning is backwards. Since men are treated unequally by society, they're also more likely to be radicalized by malicious actors who play on the emotions of the downtrodden. So instead of fixing the issue by treating men like humans, they're instead making sure that the subhumans are kept in line and don't get too rowdy. Thus is born the monitoring of the manosphere. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 10:53 AM |
| 6 | There should be SERVERE PUNISHMENT if a woman lies to a man about her child being hisIf there were such a thing as a patriarchy then there WOULD have been a punishment for paternity fraud. But since men do not run the world - nor are women locked out from power - this won't pass. It's simply impossible for us to get the men and women of the powerful classes to take up this issue. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 10:42 AM |
| -2 | AI girlfriends will worsen the crisis of male loneliness, not relieve itI heard a good take on this recently. That foreign governments can use AI girlfriends to send messages to the men left behind by society, messages like "I bet you can be strong so be a man and stand up take these explicit steps against the government that's exploiting you. Take this step: ____" And it could be like letting a shipment enter through the ports uninspected, or enter a specific back door into some software etc. After I heard this I immediately realized that the way AI girlfriends com… | /r/MensRights | 10/05/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Poland says it could send tens of thousands of 'military-age' Ukrainian men back to their home country to fight RussiaI don't know because I have not looked into it. But I have looked into why our daughters are not going but our sons should. And the reason is sexism. Thousands of years old sexism. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/24 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it actually true women could not work, could not go to school, could not own property, could not have a bank account, etc etc?If it were true then nobody has ever once shown me any law that prevented women from owning property. Not even a city ordinance or a state law. Let alone a federal law. So... this is probably revisionist history. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/24 02:19 PM |
| 4 | What are mens rights activists still fighting for?When you look at the people who are conscripted to die on battlefields for the profit of the men and women of the powerful classes? And you see that they are selected for this exploitation based on the gender assigned to them at birth. And then you point at them and say "privilege"? WTF? Employers assign more dangerous tasks to one group of people resulting in shorter lifespan and higher need for pain medication... which leads to an epidemic of opiod addiction and suicide. You look at the victim… | /r/MensRights | 10/05/24 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Man or Bear: which would you chooseI would just replace the word "molest" with "abuse" (or even "kill") to make your statement more accurate and hit harder. This is fair. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/24 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Man or Bear: which would you chooseThank you for sharing your truth with us. That's very powerful! | /r/MensRights | 08/05/24 04:19 PM |
| 3 | "Misandry isn't a problem, it's a response."didn’t white people cause poverty and anger by slavery, Do I benefit from the legacy of slavery? Absolutely yes. I'm an immigrant from Poland. We didn't cause slavery - we were being colonized at the time. We even helped the only successful slave revolt in history: Haiti. Should you be angry at me for causing slavery just because I'm white? Would history justify making bad assumptions about me as an individual? I'm married to a Caribbean immigrant and she's not angry at me for slavery. She's ang… | /r/MensRights | 08/05/24 11:48 AM |
| 8 | "Misandry isn't a problem, it's a response."men are exploited by richer men You misunderstood leftwing thought. Either that or you maliciously painted a male face on our capitalist oppressors. could you clarify how the bear meme is misandry instead of an expression of women’s true fear of men based on their experiences? Let me put a mirror in front of you: "Could you clarify how the portrayal of blacks as being violent and dangerous to white people is racism instead of an expression of white people's true fear of blacks based on their exp… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 11:47 PM |
| 29 | Man or Bear: which would you chooseAre people this rigorous when analyzing the bear/man meme? | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 05:02 PM |
| 52 | Man or Bear: which would you chooseI'm sorry but what does this have to do with the reductio ad absurdum that "If children are most often molested by women then it's safer to leave your kids with a crocodile"? It's a good illustration because it is equally as demeaning to women as the bear meme is to men. The parenting habits of crocodiles have nothing to do with that. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 03:45 PM |
| 3 | "Misandry isn't a problem, it's a response."Oh no. I didn't realise it posted twice. Thanks for the heads up. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 03:34 PM |
| 4 | Strategies for Effective Men's Rights Advocacy in the Digital AgeIf we diverted like 10% of our energy away from blaming feminism for problems that are thousands of years old then we might make aime progress. I especially like your bullet point about alliances. It literally pains me that BLM ended up allied with feminist groups instead of men's rights groups. Like it's literally about men who get killed by police. Hiw TF did qw drop the vall on that? We need alliances. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Ask a woman about the life expectancy gap, and she'll debunk the wage gap for free.Yes!!! | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 01:11 PM |
| 122 | "Misandry isn't a problem, it's a response.""Getting to be a problem"? It's been a problem for millenia. The bear/man meme is just proof that misandists continue to be clueless about the way men are exploited by the wealthy and have their plight invalidated by toxic gender roles. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 01:10 PM |
| 2 | "Misandry isn't a problem, it's a response.""Getting to be a problem"? It's been a problem for millenia. The bear/man meme is just proof that misandists continue to be clueless about the way men are exploited NY the wealthy and have their plight invalidated by toxic gender roles. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 01:10 PM |
| 11 | As a man, just know corporate America does not have your back, you are alone, don't matter if you are black, white, Latino, gay, straight, neurotypical, neurodivergent, just know by the mere virtue of being a man, you are on your own and virtually have no alliesCorporate America has ALWAYS exploited men and boys. This is just the katest formulation, but it's the same old thing just now using feminist language. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 01:03 PM |
| 267 | Man or Bear: which would you chooseI like the slide about "would you rather leave your child with a woman or with a crocodile" because most child abuse is perpetrated by women. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 12:33 PM |
| 7 | My girlfriend would choose the bearMy gripe about this bear meme is internalized misandry. If I repeatedly am told that I am _____ because of my race, gender, sexual orientation, religion, etc. then I will internalize that characterization and it will negatively impact my self image. I haven't discussed the bear meme yet with my wife but when I do (soon) it will be in the light of the negative impact this meme will have on our son and his mental health. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 11:24 AM |
| 33 | Ask a woman about the life expectancy gap, and she'll debunk the wage gap for free.I assume the quotes provided are to demonstrate the hateful stereotypes often used to invalidate the gender gap in life expectancy. I'd like to take a second with each one. It's because men are dumb and take more risks. Employers assign high risk tasks to male employees. Safe jobs like daycare or housekeeping fail to have diversity hiring initiatives. It's because men are more likely to smoke, use drugs and alcohol than women. Corporations target cigarette and alcohol ads at men. Male drug use i… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 11:12 AM |
| 2 | I am looking for anthropological studies on traditional male gender roles and their harmful effects on men .Some percentage of the studies about "hegemonic masculinity" and "toxic masculinity" cover the topic of how these roles are harmful to men. Yes... the definition of those terms are confusing AF. I know that crowd funding has funded studies. I see this in nutrition where for example fans of some diet will donate to a study to see if that diet has some health effects. I say we should fund studies. And we should not use confusing language - we should publish a seriesof studies like "The harmful har… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Are there any good male right books out there?The Man Not by Tommy Curry. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Man vs Bear TrendI would rather stand next to a bear than a violent man yes. Then go stand next to a bear already!!! Why is it taking you so long to do this? Jeez! | /r/MensRights | 05/05/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Man vs Bear TrendI would rather see with my own eyes rather than speak in hypotheticals. After you stand next to a bear then I'll send a survey to your sons, nephews, and brothers and ask them if they would rather that you had stood next to men instead of bears. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Man vs Bear TrendMaybe I'll understand better if you give me a demonstration? You stand next to a bear and I'll observe whether they eat your corpse or not. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/24 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Man vs Bear TrendLike I said: I encourage you to go into close proximity with bears so that you can test your hypothesis 😀 | /r/MensRights | 05/05/24 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Convicted Serial Killer still referred to as "nurse" and "accused" even in an article about how her victims families call her "pure evil" after the conviction.male nurse *groan | /r/MensRights | 03/05/24 11:33 PM |
| 6 | Convicted Serial Killer still referred to as "nurse" and "accused" even in an article about how her victims families call her "pure evil" after the conviction.Recently... Kenyel Brown was a police informant and mass murderer. I wonder if any articles about him called a a police informant instead of a mass murderer... I mean some of his victims were killed while he was on the job. I doubt anyone said that, though. If any articles mentioned his job they also called him a convicted killer. Trying to think of other recent serial killers. I'm pretty sure she's unique in this regard. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/24 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Why do boys lag behind girls at all ages of education? MPs to Investigate "The Education Committee has launched a new inquiry into why boys consistently underperform compared with girls in educational attainment across all age groups and nearly all ethnicities, and examine ways to improve outcomes."They already did. They're not asking "why the system is failing boys" They're asking "why boys are failing". That question already has the assumption baked in. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/24 10:20 AM |
| 53 | Man vs Bear TrendI encourage anyone posting the man/bear memes on social media, to test their hypothesis in the real world. We need Darwinian selection to weed those people out from future generations. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/24 09:32 PM |
| 5 | Liberals three times more biased than conservatives when evaluating ideologically opposite individuals, study findsI'm sorry but what TF does this have to do with fighting for equality for men and boys? Looks like some partisan post. Wrong sub. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/24 09:26 PM |
| 3 | So what's the plan when this sub eventually gets band?Leftists extremists think advocating for Men's issues is misogyny Don't forget that mainstream rightists think the same thing. other subs I've had posts banned that were peer reviewed studies This is actually a fair point. Ok so I'd like to revise my statement: We'd be less likely to get banned for advocating equality for men and boys than to get banned for blaming women: though there's still a possibility that we would anyway. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | So what's the plan when this sub eventually gets band?I'll go one step further. Men don't deserve any responsibility for the oppressed of... well... anyone. Men are not the enemy of women. Blame the shitty things that the men and women of previous generations handed down to us. If you switch the genders it works both ways. That's how I know it's true. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/24 08:14 PM |
| 1 | So what's the plan when this sub eventually gets band?if we don’t point the finger at women, no one will The enemy is MISANDRY. The enemy is not women. Sure, society raises a lot of women to have negative beliefs about men: everything from "men should pay for dates" to "men have to prove themselves to be fathers" to "men are more dangerous than bears". And many women act on those beliefs. But guess what: Society raises men with most of those same beliefs. So the enemy is the bullshit ideas that harm men: ideas like circumcision, "real man", unreali… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/24 04:56 PM |
| 12 | So what's the plan when this sub eventually gets band?Let's plan on NOT GETTING BANNED. It's quite simple actually. We post lots of excellent content advocating for equality for men and boys. That content won't get us banned. We also post content that points the finger at women. Maybe let's just post less of that. Problem solved: we won't get banned. P.S. No I don't keep a spreadsheet of all the content that I disagree with because I'm not a wierdo. Trust me, outsiders come here looking for the worst and they find it and that's what they refer to u… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/24 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Louisiana man sentenced to 50 years in prison, physical castration for raping teenLol no | /r/MensRights | 29/04/24 01:14 AM |
| -1 | Louisiana man sentenced to 50 years in prison, physical castration for raping teenThis is a brilliant way if saying it | /r/MensRights | 29/04/24 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Louisiana man sentenced to 50 years in prison, physical castration for raping teenI get your point about political division. At the same time: castration, death penalty, and those kinds of medieval legal practices only exist in red states and third-world nations. So while we may face may common struggles across the political divide; we do NOT face this particular struggle together. Medieval punishments like this are - factually and indisputably - not a problem that blue states have in common with you. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/24 04:08 PM |
| 18 | Louisiana man sentenced to 50 years in prison, physical castration for raping teenAaaahhhahahaha. You're so stupid that you think people are defending the criminal when in reality they're decrying the unethical punishment... which is made even MORE unethical because it's written to be gender-biased. You idiot. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/24 11:22 AM |
| -20 | Louisiana man sentenced to 50 years in prison, physical castration for raping teenIt's a red state, so... same thing. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/24 11:14 AM |
| 13 | Complaining is solely possible for womenYeah, it's easy to mis-read sarcasm and humor online with just text. The consequences are, believe it or not: Jail. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 07:53 PM |
| 7 | Complaining is solely possible for womenWhat, you did not get my joke? Also jail! | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 07:41 PM |
| 30 | Complaining is solely possible for womenAre you complaining about the gendered outcomes of complaining? Straight to jail! | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 07:35 PM |
| 2 | What do you make out of this study?studies of couples in mutually violent relationships find more negative effects for women than for men Do these studies include violence by proxy? I doubt it because if you were to include the number of men who are injured by police and by family of their mutually abusive partner then I GUARANTEE that the negative effects disproportionately affect men. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 07:33 PM |
| 4 | Does mens rights actually try to help men?I donate to charities for legal reform of custody law. I volunteer to help men in custody crises. Others help in other ways including raising awareness. What have you done today to bring equality to men and boys? | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Sensitive question - boyfriend hooked up with a guytruly feel horrible even writing about this Well, it's a good sign that you know it's wrong. It's normal to have feelings that are wrong. Almost all of us have intrusive thoughts. Almost all of us have opinions or judgements that are socially unacceptable. Almost all of us have vices or addictions that we try to keep at bay. Etc. The sin is to act on it. Don't let the intrusive thoughts win. Feel how you feel but act with decency towards others. Be decent to your boyfriend for having done a norm… | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 12:55 PM |
| 17 | Shes a single mom. She dates — but she doesn’t date single dads.I have primary custody of my son after escaping my abuser. I remarried to a single mom so I now also have a stepdaughter. I highly recommend for single dads to date single moms because women without kids have no appreciation for how hard it is to date while taking care of kids. I also strongly advise against dating single moms like this one- with sexist views about single dads. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Poland says it could send tens of thousands of 'military-age' Ukrainian men back to their home country to fight RussiaAnd also we should all ride unicorns to work. Look "no draft" is ideal but not realistic. Equality in the draft, however, is attainable. We should strive for realistic goals. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Poland says it could send tens of thousands of 'military-age' Ukrainian men back to their home country to fight RussiaAs a Polish citizen (albeit living abroad) I am deeply ashamed by this news. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 10:32 AM |
| 4 | Relevant Sky News article : Russia-Ukraine war: 'They aren't ready to die' - the smuggler charging thousands to escape army conscription | World NewsThis has to stop. Russia has to get the fuck out of there and end this thing. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 10:30 AM |
| 2 | I Lost Status When I Transitioned from Female to “Male”Most MRA's are very welcoming of trans men. 💛 Some (not most) are repeating right-wing talking points about how trans people are just playing dress-up and that men can't get pregnant and... blah blah blah. If I were the kind of neurotic person who kept a spreadsheet with links to examples of everything that I find distasteful then I would share links to some TEMRA comments. But I'm telling you I have seen it. Not frequently but it happens. AND when it does happen - we don't do the best job of te… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/24 01:31 AM |
| 5 | I Lost Status When I Transitioned from Female to “Male”Yes it is. And that is why we as a movement MUST have more trans spokespersons. Instead some MRA's are shooting ourselves in the foot by trying to exclude trans men. They're like the TERF's of the MRA movement: TEMRA's. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/24 05:48 PM |
| 6 | Megan Thee Stallion Cameraman Says She Forced Him to Watch Her Have Sex As He Was Trapped In A Moving Vehicle Then Fired Him After He ComplainedOh no, he doesn't perfectly fit our idealized notions of victimhood! I guess that's a valid excuse to invalidate his experience. /s | /r/MensRights | 24/04/24 01:50 PM |
| 19 | Megan Thee Stallion Cameraman Says She Forced Him to Watch Her Have Sex As He Was Trapped In A Moving Vehicle Then Fired Him After He Complained100% agree on both points 1) he should file them and 2) they're unlikely to stick. I see this as a chicken-and-egg problem. Men don't file sexual harassment suits when they should, as a result courts don't see sexual harassment against men as a priority. So my boys, we need to massively increase sexual harassment suits. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/24 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Google's bias against men when asked why their partner is yelling at themGot it. Yes it's biased, too. I think people misunderstood your intentions, thought you meant to imply that it's men who kill women, and downvoted you. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/24 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Google's bias against men when asked why their partner is yelling at themI'm not sure what you mean by this comment? Can you elaborate please. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/24 06:31 PM |
| 23 | How did we normalize treating men and mens issues like shit?The 1960s BC, maybe. Society has been shitting on men's issues since prehistoric times. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/24 06:11 PM |
| 12 | Don't gay rights fall under men's rights?This is an excellent question. Yes. Most gay rights issues are men's rights issues. Several men's rights issues are gay rights issues. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/24 11:07 PM |
| 0 | Biden calls for female athletes to get paid what they deserveI've been trying to get my family to attend a WNBA game or a women's soccer game for years now. I have a wife and 2 daughters. They only want the men's games. While I don't see the connection to Gaza, I'm sickened by how we're still funding the slaughter of children with our taxes. Send that money to Ukraine so we at least advance our foreign policy goals. Stop sending it anywhere near where Netanyahu or Likud can benefit from it. The problem is that both candidates will continue to support the … | /r/MensRights | 18/04/24 10:20 AM |
| 7 | What I did, is what you should do, whenever an ex makes false allegations about you to the PoliceThis is basic stuff, most men should know on this forum already. 100% agreed. The cops are part of the government. More specifically, cops are the boot heel of the government so they're the part that does all of the stomping on your rights. They don't stomp on everybody equally, they stomp on men more than they stomp on women. So we, as men, must be educated on how to survive police encounters. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/24 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Florida woman, 23, who 'posed online as SCHOOLGIRL to molest teenage boy' appears shackled in court as she is hit with new charges after FOUR more victims aged 12-15 come forwardDon't forget "SERIAL RAPIST"! | /r/MensRights | 08/04/24 05:26 PM |
| 15 | Iceland plans to ban male circumcisionEven a broken clock is right twice a day. I strongly doubt she would deliver on that promise if elected. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/24 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Wokeness is bad; women most affectedOh no. Some people did post about a, b and c. Their comments were hidden. I guarantee it! | /r/MensRights | 07/04/24 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Men misadry or going 'you are not a real man" on other men.The problem is that men are being seen as worthless, unless they slave away for someone else. The problem is the idea of "self sacrifice". I feel like we're in agreement: saying the same thing just using different words. Yes? | /r/MensRights | 07/04/24 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Men misadry or going 'you are not a real man" on other men.to be viewed as a man you need to prove yourself. I think one of the problems facing young men to do is the fact we don’t place an emphasis on the idea of becoming a man and proving yourself as a man. I disagree with your theory but I still respect you as a comrade in the struggle to achieve equality for men and boys. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/24 03:40 AM |
| 17 | Wokeness is bad; women most affectedSo I agree that "wokeness" is not bad but I strongly disagree that menslib would in any way lead to happiness. Like, what even is wokeness? It's just some word that mainstream media outlets use to lump together every random thing they disagree with. It's the new boogeyman now that they've exhausted other words like "politically correct" or whatever. Menslib is a toxic shithole where you have to perform an act or else have your comments hidden. So often, entire threads there get deleted by the mo… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Misandry in the Bible - Numbers: 31Sparing women and children is not misandry, it's about viewing them as less than men This is what is called "mental gymnastics". Look, Killing men because of their sex is the very definition of gender based violence. It is misandry in its purest form. Forcing poor men men to fight for the benefit of the men and women of the powerful classes is a form of hating men. It is misandry. Mocking men who are not strong enough to be exploited by the men and women of the powerful classes is also a form of… | /r/MensRights | 06/04/24 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Fury as funds to tackle gender violence are used to fund 'feminist twerking festival' in TenerifeI mean they could. They almost never do. But they could. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/24 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Men who were abused by a woman or multiple women, what’s your story?After I escaped my abuser, I was forced by family court to pay my abuser thousands of dollars a month. And if I didn't pay my abuser remuneration for daring to escaping her abuse and exploitation, then I would have been called hateful and sexist names. And then assholes out there have the nerve to invalidate my lived experience and lecture me about their beliefs that there's no bias against men in the family court system. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/24 12:20 PM |
| 22 | Men misadry or going 'you are not a real man" on other men.I have received hateful comments from other men for not being 'a real man' because I am not an alpha male, Yes. This is misandry. 100%. If someone believes that men are not inherently valuable as human beings until they prove themselves as worthy with useless metrics like strength or level of confidence... that is a form of hating men. It's misandry plain and simple. We all agree neofeminism is toxic for men and is mysadrist, let's agree that there are also men who are toxic to ther men too. I f… | /r/MensRights | 06/04/24 12:05 PM |
| 1 | What will you guys definere as toxic masculinity?There are 2 meanings. 1) "masculinity is toxic" and 2) "internalized misandry". Most people mean #1 when they use it but the original meaning was #2. If you want to discuss the harmful effects of societal definitions of what it means to be a man, then just say internalized misandry. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/24 12:51 PM |
| 17 | The portrayal of sociopathic stone cold female killer drug lord by Hollywood tells you much about the bias in media.Not surprising yet still infuriating | /r/MensRights | 02/04/24 12:43 PM |
| 5 | Biden signs executive order on women's health research, but not for menYes and there are more voting age women because society is more deadly towards men. And since felons can't vote then men are more likely to be made ineligible for voting by the way laws criminalize traditionally male behaviors and not traditionally female behaviors. Andd police are more likely to suspect and pursue men than women. And juries are more likely to convict men than women. So there are many many reasons. One of those reasons is also that we vote less often than women. Men who vote are… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | James and Jennifer Crumbly: both convicted of identical crimes; I wonder if their sentences will be the sameDiscussed this a few days ago. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/xoOCXbJh8m My prediction is that the gender bias of the court system will be on full display and nobody will raise a finger about it. Again. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/24 04:34 AM |
| 4 | Biden signs executive order on women's health research, but not for menProbably hoping for more voter turnout in the election. More women vote than men so more politicians pander to them. A big percentage of His voters base is flat out not going to show up because he continues to financially support the indiscriminate bombing of children in Palestine. So he's hoping to get other motivators for them to show up. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/24 04:31 AM |
| 24 | Biden signs executive order on women's health research, but not for menI always felt that was an interesting way of phrasing the fact that medical experiments were conducted on animals and men. I'm not saying it's false. I'm saying the phrasing always struck me as odd. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/24 04:27 AM |
| 92 | Biden signs executive order on women's health research, but not for menWe already invest more in women's health than men's health. Regardless of what sexist memes may have you believe, women live longer than men due to inequalities like this. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/24 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Prediction: father of school shooter will receive a harsher sentence than mother.then he can just sue for gender discrimination He can? I'd be curious to learn about cases where this has happened before. Can you point me at any examples so I can start my search.? | /r/MensRights | 17/03/24 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Prediction: father of school shooter will receive a harsher sentence than mother.This is a good question. Courts are biased against men. That's one thing. Courts are even more biased in favor of mothers. That's an even bigger factor. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/24 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Why is it that women tend to go for louder, obnoxious men who live unstable lives?Yeah this was my thought, too. Like who is OP talking about? The women on TV? Because most women I meet are un an office setting and their husbands at company events do not come across as neither loud nor unstable. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/24 12:06 PM |
| 1 | GuysI used to. And I just called it a bun. When a woman called it a manbun I congratulated her in her nice womanbun. The point came across. Let's not add unnecessary gender pronouns to things. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/24 02:44 PM |
| 5 | How men's rights activists recruit angry young menGood point. People are attracted to MRA because they support equality for men and boys. NOT because of hating women or anything like that. When others conflate the two things and start treating those who want equality as if they were women haters, then it ends up driving people towards crap like Tate. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/24 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Are our brains wired differently?I agree that the mens rights movement should not be US-centric, nor conservative. I think that men have been oppressed for thousands of years - well before America became a thing. Conscription has been around for millennia. Religious ideas that control men have been around for millennia. Circumcision has been around for millennia. Etc. These inequalities are universal and they're deeply ingrained in just about everywhere in the world. We have to fight them everywhere. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Are our brains wired differently?That too. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 02:44 PM |
| 14 | Are our brains wired differently?Early childhood trauma shapes the brain. And boys are more likely than girls to experience the trauma of non-consentual circumcision. I wonder how much of the brain differences the AI spotted are a result of the gender gap in circumcision? Also, Some negative things about gender, like internalized misandry, are socialized and not a result of brain differences. Boys are raised to believe they're not inherently valuable and have to "prove" themselves (often by paying for women). The mistreatment o… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 12:54 PM |
| 3 | (archive) "Declining male enrollment has led many colleges to adopt an unofficial policy: affirmative action for men."In a perfect world. Yes. But I'll take what I get get when it comes to equality for men and boys. If it means unofficial affirmative action then it's progress for now until we can address the root cause. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 07:12 AM |
| 33 | Doctors VisitsYou are not overreacting. This is everyday sexism. And it's part of the reason why the statistics are so unreliable. If men are never asked if they're abused then the numbers about abuse are just useless. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 07:10 AM |
| 2 | I majored in Gender Studies (Australia) AMAI'd call that system capitalism You're 100% correct to call it that. I always say that "Patriarchy" is just a dishonest effort to paint a male face on our capitalist oppressors. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/24 10:38 PM |
| 22 | I do not want to be a "real man." I am a loser.Good. Throw out all of that internalized misandry. Be who you want to be not what women want you to be. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 01:36 AM |
| 3 | I majored in Gender Studies (Australia) AMAThank you 😊 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/24 01:00 AM |
| 4 | Woman voting leads to communismWhat the actual fuck? In the USA, Divorce laws in deep red states are fucking terrible. Ironically the least unfair divorce laws seem to be in swing states. You realize that voting trends are cyclical, right? Just 2 generations ago in the USA, women were more likely to vote on the right and men more likely to vote on the left. The movement of "young women to the left and young men to the right" is a new and somewhat surprising phenomenon... and that trend is only really pronounced in non-white w… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/24 12:55 PM |
| 10 | I majored in Gender Studies (Australia) AMAWhat are some of the other perspectives apart from feminism in gender studies ? By feminism I mean explaining things from patriarchy as a system. This is a really good question! I want to hear the answer because if someone removed patriarchy theory from the discussions about gender inequality then it would make much more sense to me. Also, Can intersectionality be such an alternative to patriarchy theory? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/24 12:44 PM |
| 7 | I majored in Gender Studies (Australia) AMACan I ask more than one question? 1) I feel bad asking but I have to know: what career path are you pursuing with a major in gender studies? 2) It seems to me like the language used in gender studies lacks symmetry. For example the equivalent to toxic masculinity but for women is Internalized misogyny. But Internalized misandry isn't talked about much and neither is toxic femininity. Am I right in this observation? 3) How does gender studies justify gender discrimination in the military draft? I… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/24 12:33 PM |
| 5 | Darryl George: Texas judge rules school district can restrict the length of male students’ natural hairI feel dumb asking this question but uh... why can we sue colleges and not high-schools for gender discrimination ? Wouldn't the same laws apply? | /r/MensRights | 23/02/24 09:23 AM |
| 7 | Darryl George: Texas judge rules school district can restrict the length of male students’ natural hairI went to a private school, too. I wanted long hair like Kurt Cobain but the uniform hair length was also a requirement for me so... no. In retrospect it's sexist bullshit that belongs in the past. Traditional double standards for men aren't magically better than new modern/feminist double standards for men. Just because something is old doesn't make it OK for it to be shitty towards us. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/24 09:21 AM |
| 1 | I’m sick of toxic feminismCool. I'm glad to hear your thoughts on all of the stuff you've been asking questions about. Plumber said I can't speak for them. I would have said it differently: feminism is fighting for equality for women and girls and it ignores (oftentimes is hostile to) equality for men and boys. when it comes to war, someone has to stay behind to take care of the children Ooh ooh me. I'll stay home to play with my kids and tutor them and share family meals with them. Send my wife to war because I love my … | /r/MensRights | 22/02/24 12:24 PM |
| 4 | How To Stop Comparing Yourself To OthersHoly hell do I have a huge problem with comparing myself to others. And the negative shit I say about myself with my inner voice. It's not good and I should stop. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/24 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Men need more time for self care. Study shows Women gain twice the benefits from exercise than men.That I understand. I may think It's outdated and useless because today men don't have to be strong to work - we have to be effective and empathetic communicators to get ahead at work. But I do understand that bulky body image is a holdover and some people still view the world that way. I was asking where someone can have enemies that require one to be strong? Like are you carrying nunchucks and looking like Jean-Claude Van Damme to fend of marauders in your village? What's going on here? | /r/MensRights | 22/02/24 03:46 AM |
| 4 | Men need more time for self care. Study shows Women gain twice the benefits from exercise than men.Where in the real world can you not get weak because of strong enemies? That sounds like the middle ages. Are you posting this from inside of your time machine? | /r/MensRights | 21/02/24 10:04 PM |
| 6 | Men need more time for self care. Study shows Women gain twice the benefits from exercise than men.I understand your fear. I have a story that may uplift you. I am a runner so I'm skinny. Back when I was dating I had a breakup where a girl told me that she wasn't attracted to me because I wasn't as assertive and because I didn't have strong muscular arms. It hurt! So your fear is valid. Look. I hate the gym because it bores me and instead I love exercising outdoors. So I also enjoy biking, skateboarding and skiing. I mean I LOVE it. But you know what I did after that breakup? I bought a pull … | /r/MensRights | 21/02/24 05:00 PM |
| 2 | The Government spits in the face of its bravest and strongest.Most immigrants are men. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/24 12:43 PM |
| 2 | The Government spits in the face of its bravest and strongest.What relationship does this have to men's rights? | /r/MensRights | 21/02/24 10:50 AM |
| 112 | Women are now taking bootcamps that teach them how to pick up men.The girls in the picture probably don't need this. They're getting approached and they can choose the wealthiest suitors. Overweight girls with acne probably need to approach men because they're not getting approached as much. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/24 10:48 AM |
| 1 | They're so righteous and smart, they looped right back to sounding stupidSome small and vocal number are like what you described. The vast majority of the left actually don't give AF about gender issues and they just vote for things like: better healthcare, affordable housing, quality education, climate change, better paying jobs, fighting special interests, marriage equality, criminal justice reform, and voting rights. The only gender issues that the average lefty thinks about is: abortion and equal pay. Most don't know and don't care who Dworkin is and certainly mo… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/24 10:41 AM |
| 12 | Military DraftWelcome. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/24 12:52 AM |
| 5 | They're so righteous and smart, they looped right back to sounding stupidYep. They're running a scam. You can't pay rent with glory. You can't buy food with glory. So luring young men into a low paying army job with the promise of glory is a massive fraud ... and it's targeted at young men. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/24 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Is it even worth it to start a family in modern times?Kids are great. I recommend surrogacy to every young man I meet. Start a family that nobody can take away from you. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/24 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Joel Osteen Prays for Female ShooterI'm not a fan of Osteen but this is the correct Christian response. I want it to be extended to men, too. Also, maybe stop the massacres instead of playing political games. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/24 12:56 PM |
| 15 | They're so righteous and smart, they looped right back to sounding stupidI've said it before and I'll say it again: "the only people who hate men more than woke leftists are conservatives." | /r/MensRights | 20/02/24 12:53 PM |
| 0 | What double standards do men face?For like 99.9999% of cases sex is observed at birth and recorded by a doctor. Some children are born intersex. They're the reason why the word "assigned" makes sense here. In cases where a child has both male and female organs then a doctor basically flips a coin and makes an assignment. That coin toss determines whether or not that baby will be required to sign up for the draft later in life. Totally separate issue but in those rare cases there is often a gender surgery performed on the newborn… | /r/MensRights | 20/02/24 12:35 PM |
| 3 | I’m sick of toxic feminismYou just posted in a thread about what women can do that men cannot. That thread pointed out a few things. For example that in the US men must sign up for the draft or else they're felons and felons cannot vote. So women have the right to vote regardless of military conscription but men can only vote if they agree to fight in a war. It goes beyond voting and into federal jobs and federal aide. Women don't have to agree to fight in a war just to get federal jobs or federal student loans or any ot… | /r/MensRights | 20/02/24 12:14 PM |
| 3 | What double standards do men face?Men cant get abortions because they aren't the ones carrying the baby. Yes that's in line with what I said. Getting an abortion is not a painless experience. I don't deny it. Look. I 100% support abortion rights (and safe surrender, and adoption). I also support an equivalent right for men to choose when they're ready for parenthood. It can't be perfectly equal because men cannot get abortions and cannot force others to get an abortion. But it can be equivalent in outcome. Most people on this fo… | /r/MensRights | 20/02/24 11:59 AM |
| 3 | What double standards do men face?I wish I could wear a kilt to work. Somehow that is not acceptable for male software managers to do. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/02/24 05:41 AM |
| 2 | What double standards do men face?This is excellent. I feel like my list was so incomplete. There's too much inequity to fit into one post. Something must be done | /r/MensRights | 20/02/24 05:28 AM |
| 6 | What double standards do men face?Yup. Sounds like my custody ordeal. I had to get my house inspected and had to jump through all kinds of crap while my abusive ex wife had pill bottles open all over the house. I only won because she ran out of money and just abandoned us to move into her parents house. I met one other dad with primary custody. ONE! I volunteer for dads going through custody crises and I met one. After years of trying his ex wife had a drunk driving accident with the kid in the car. Only then did he get primary … | /r/MensRights | 20/02/24 12:23 AM |
| 5 | What double standards do men face?The way we think of these statements is the same thing you think of these statements: this hatred of women is only a response to the many societal privileges that women have over men Or Men hating women is because of women who have low opinions of men and who use men at every turn. But you know... #notAllWomen I bet your unsavory reaction to such statements are the exact same reaction that we have to the same statements about men. ------------- P.S. I do not condone any speech that is hateful. N… | /r/MensRights | 19/02/24 03:57 PM |
| 16 | What double standards do men face?increase in the number of fathers on the receiving end of a completely baseless and false abuse charge Thank you for bringing this up. This is already happening in the US. Notice though how I said conviction. The standard of proof for a conviction in a criminal court is "beyond reasonable doubt". That means you need evidence. The standard of proof in civil court is a little lower. Lowest of all is the standard of proof in family court: "clear and convincing". Which means your words gave to convi… | /r/MensRights | 19/02/24 02:46 PM |
| 12 | What double standards do men face?Give them time. I assume they're here to learn. It can take time to see an update and to process it. This is a lot of information. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/24 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Child custody: is there actually discrimination?I wonder where they dream that up from. When men CAN AFFORD TO FIGHT they win either equal or primary custody about 20% of the time. The remaining 80% of disputed custody cases result in the mother being awarded primary custody. There is no appeals process in family court. When cannot afford to go to court they just lose custody 100% of the time. This is not about wanting it. This is about the system being fucked. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/24 01:51 PM |
| 3 | What double standards do men face?I responded to OP by listing some of the legal double standards. But I totally neglected to mention the cultural double standards against men and boys. Of which there are many. I'm glad you brought this up. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/24 01:40 PM |
| 86 | What double standards do men face?I assume you're asking in good faith. Anyone who was assigned male at birth can be conscripted. Failure to sign up for the draft is a felony which means you can't vote in most states if you're a draft dodger. Not to mention you cannot get federal aide like student loans etc. And cannot hold federal jobs. Therefore women have the right to vote unrestricted by the draft whereas men's right to vote depends on being conscriptable. Women also have a right to work and a right to assistance without it … | /r/MensRights | 19/02/24 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Why are men's problems discussed primary by Conservatives, whilst women problems prinarily by leftists?Some right wingers are for men's rights and that means nothing, too. Republicans hate men's rights. Men's rights do not fall into the left/right political spectrum. Neither political party is our ally. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/24 06:16 PM |
| 11 | Why are men's problems discussed primary by Conservatives, whilst women problems prinarily by leftists?It may seem that way but it's not true. Ending gender discrimination in the military draft is talked about on the left but opposed on the right. Democrats have brought up ending male-only draft in the budget for the military multiple times. Republicans did grandstanding about how we should not send our daughters to war (implying that we don't value our boys). There are other issues that are pro men on the left and anti men in the right. Like homeless help, criminal justice reform, and reproducti… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/24 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Boys in poor urban areas suffering more than girls from violence, abuse and neglect, international research saysThe Bible is full of stories of boys who were called to fight. Even poor Shepard boys like David. The ancient Greeks from Athens to Sparta all forced their men to fight. Rome had conscription . During the Punic wars they drained almost half of the young men in the empire. Hell, just the battle of Canae killed 20% of Rome's young men. They were all conscripts sent to the slaughter. Mostly poor. The wealthy were usually officers. Fuedal estates absolutely forced their peasants to fight. The nobles… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/24 11:16 PM |
| 2 | A possible case to watch for the future to see if there will be a difference between the Mom and the Dad: Jennifer and James CrumblyI 100% guarantee he will get a harsher sentence because he's a man and that's just how the justice system works. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/24 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Misandry doesn’t exist (apparently) because the patriarchy gives men dominance over women.And your parents hard work doesn't exist either (apparently) because Santa Claus is totally real just like the patriarchy. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/24 11:18 AM |
| 7 | Accidental Incest is a real danger because of fertility fraud and paternity fraud. We need to standardize paternity tests at birth.Exactly! | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 10:01 PM |
| 24 | Boys in poor urban areas suffering more than girls from violence, abuse and neglect, international research saysI'm not sure I understand your comment? Do you mean that this sub misunderstands the ways in which men and boys have been oppressed for thousands of years by things like military conscription which forced violence on them for the benefit of wealthy families. Or that this sub misunderstands how men are currently more likely to be victims of every form of violence except sexual violence and this has been the case for a long long time? Or were you going to imply something else? | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 07:14 PM |
| 26 | Stalker who lied that she was pregnant with her ex's child then tried to frame him as a murderer is spared jailLol "Jilted girlfriend". They'll really say anything in order to avoid referring to criminal women in criminal terms. She's a stalker and a defamer. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 01:26 PM |
| 96 | Boys in poor urban areas suffering more than girls from violence, abuse and neglect, international research saysHasn't this always been the case since the beginning of time? Men have always been more likely to experience violence than women. Regardless if it's rich or poor; urban, suburban, or rural. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Support from GirlThank you 😊 | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Are there any coming of age stories that have a male protagonists?Malena. They could never make a movie like this in the USA. Coming of age story from WW2 Italy. Amazing. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 04:12 AM |
| -1 | Handy meme about adult women being the least killed population in Gaza attacks, yet climbing the victimhood ladder by teaming up with minors, despite grown up women not being childrenOk I googled it. In January the US estimated 5k Hamas casualties out of 25k total Palestinian casualties. So 1/5 of Palestinian casualties were combatants. 4/5 were civilians. During the oct 7th terrorist attack the US estimated Hamas killed 764 civilians and 375 combatants. So Israeli casualties of a terrorist attack were 1/3 combatants and 2/3 civilians. So the TERRORISTS killed a smaller percentage of civilians to combatants during a terrorist attack than the IDF did in a militarycampaign???*… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Alimony ModificationAs a woman, you are part of the problem I disagree with this hypothesis. The enemy is misandry in society. The enemy is NOT women. There are men with internalized misandry who perpetuate the oppression of other men. They're the problem, too. There are women who are allies with us in the cause of "equality for men and boys" and they're NOT the problem they're part of the solution. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How would you do a “rite of passage” in the current modern world for a coming of age boy?I don't know much about scouts but yes, this sounds correct. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 03:08 PM |
| 0 | Handy meme about adult women being the least killed population in Gaza attacks, yet climbing the victimhood ladder by teaming up with minors, despite grown up women not being childrenAnd probably like 0.00001% of those casualties were Hamas. It's clear whom Israel is waging war against: children. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 03:07 PM |
| -1 | Handy meme about adult women being the least killed population in Gaza attacks, yet climbing the victimhood ladder by teaming up with minors, despite grown up women not being childrenYup. Those children voted for Hamas in the last election... which was in 2006. It's totally their fault how they voted 18 years ago when they were still unborn. Totally agree 👍 /s | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 03:04 PM |
| 10 | Handy meme about adult women being the least killed population in Gaza attacks, yet climbing the victimhood ladder by teaming up with minors, despite grown up women not being childrenThis meme requires too much brain power to process. But it's true. By these numbers: Children are the primary victims of the Israel-Gaza war. They're 42% of the fatalities. Followed by men at 33% and women at 25%. Hamas makes up probably 0.001% of the casualties of the war. So... great success??? | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Why are antisocial behaviors such as destroying a man's property, spreading rumors, or physical assault dismissed when the perpetrator is a female?Because laws are framed to punish men. It's a sick fetish that aims to dominate men if they misbehave. But you know women are pure so if they do something wrong they just need to be rehabilitated not punished by the law. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 02:36 PM |
| 1 | How would you do a “rite of passage” in the current modern world for a coming of age boy?Those things are fun. I camp and hike with my kids, too. Hiwever those rites were ordeals where boys had to "prove" themselves, not family vacations. I'm saying if we're going to prove ourselves in anything useful during a rite of passage, instead of archaic nonsense, then we're going to climb the corporate ladder not pitch a tent. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 02:29 PM |
| 14 | Alimony ModificationThanks for your support. We don't have the privilege to talk about reform to the family court system (we get shut down and called names) so we need voices like yours to help share these truths about the inequities of family law with others. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 01:46 AM |
| 11 | How would you do a “rite of passage” in the current modern world for a coming of age boy?Back then society expected men to hunt to provide. So the rites of passage often were to challenge them on hunting skills. Today society expects men to work in team environments and to collaborate. So an appropriate rite of passage would be a challenging class on corporate communications and a debate competition. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 01:42 AM |
| 21 | Americans, mostly women, are becoming more liberal: GallupPersonally... Like I'm on a men’s rights forum so I want to learn about why young men are moving right and I don't really care why young women are moving left. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/24 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Does this sub believe in gender equality?Ah now I understand. And the answer is "not necessarily". Theoretically speaking: if you want to end the inequalities facing one group you do not necessarily want to end the inequalities facing either a different group... or even all groups. It's common for groups to mislabel themselves as equality-for-all movements. But they're often not. They're focused on the inequalities of their group not the inequalities holding back other groups. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/24 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Does this sub believe in gender equality?I'm not sure I understand the question. Feminists don’t generally care about equality for men and boys. If that's what you're implying. Otherwise they would have supported family law reform instead they insist there's no vias in family court. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/24 02:28 PM |
| 2 | I am 29 UK, realistically does it become riskier to even try to hit on a woman as one ages?What? No. But for dime who want kids, they are the gate keepers. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/24 02:06 PM |
| 8 | I am 29 UK, realistically does it become riskier to even try to hit on a woman as one ages?Romance is over-rated. Kids are not. Just get a surrogate and become a single father by choice. You get all the benefits of progressing without any of the danger. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/24 12:20 PM |
| 1 | How I deconstructed out of the men's rights movementOk bye | /r/MensRights | 08/02/24 12:18 PM |
| 6 | Does this sub believe in gender equality?Sadly, No. You can believe that women deserve equal pay but believe that men do not deserve equal custody. You can believe that girls deserve autonomy over their genitals but think it's perfectly OK to control the sexuality of boys by modifying their genitals before the age of consent. Etc. Likewise you can believe in men's issues but believe that a woman's place is in the kitchen. So it's shockingly common to believe in equality for your own group but support inequality for others. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/24 12:11 PM |
| 9 | Does this sub believe in gender equality?Welcome home. We believe in equality for men and boys. Feminists believe in equality for women. I believe in both and some others here do, too. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/24 03:11 AM |
| 4 | Latvia reintroduces compulsory service for men only. Prison for the men who object.Excellent question. First Write your senators and congresspersons to support the E.R.A. (equal rights amendment). As soon as the ERA passes then millions of young men will sue the everliving shit out of the Selective Services Administration for violating the constitution. And will also sue FAFSA, too, for requiring men but not women to have registered as a precondition to university financial aide. We will win every one of those lawsuits with the ERA on our side. When any if thise cases get to t… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 03:24 PM |
| 3 | The forgotten voice of sexual violenceI can't change what you think you heard but I can reiterate what I meant. The statistics overstate male sex crimes and understate female sex crimes in multiple phases of the justice process from the framing of the law, to suspicion, to pursuit, to charging, to conviction. This multi-layering results in an exponential distortion of the true difference (if there even is one at all) and thus an unreliable statistic that misrepresents men as being a danger to women. If you think that means whatever … | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 12:39 PM |
| 5 | Can We Actually Talk About Men's Rights?Agreed. Those are the issues I want to read more about and I do my part to post about them. I cannot describe the size of the shit that I do not give about feminism. Let's all obsess about it less. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 12:25 PM |
| 21 | Latvia reintroduces compulsory service for men only. Prison for the men who object.This is why in the US we MUST first establish case law that makes a gender-discriminatory draft illegal. Only then we can ban it. Because drafts are always brought back. So we must make sure that they're brought back. So making the draft gender-neutral is a prerequisite for banning the draft. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 12:18 PM |
| 20 | The forgotten voice of sexual violenceWow negative 100 karma on your account. I see you. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 01:34 PM |
| 4 | Thinking time to divorce my wifeShe has an income, right? Can you do this divorce over a 2 year timespan? You stop working for a year or two. Have two tax returns with little to no income. THEN divorce. Because then she'll pay you alimony. Sell the house and gift money to relatives. Then wait a year or two. Then divorce. Because she won't be able to split that money with you. Spend all the time with your kid. Put them to bed every night. Document every day on a paper calendar. Use that to show a judge that you are the primary … | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 12:13 PM |
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