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Well I mean that and it is a very slippery slope cause no means no which uhh can be a criminal charge. But when girls are secretly saying no means yes... Like do you really wanna roll that dice? Just be God damn forward and honest, ladies.
/r/seduction28/04/25 01:50 AM
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its all about discovery dont ask questions that are binary ie yes/no. Like some of the other comments have said, you want to ask somewhat open ended questions and go from there. Asking do you like music is a pretty stupid question to shoot for. But asking what genre of music do you like is far better because it forces an actual response and then you go from there
/r/seduction07/12/24 03:26 AM
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I mean this community has kinda gone spiraling everywhere. Before it was a legit place where guys would be constructive and tl;dr was be confident but work on yourself then when reddit had those purges all the incels and redpillers would come here with extreme mysognistic remarks which was whack. Then folks outside of this subreddit started to think this place was the new hangout for sexist (weird era) now we got awkward teens which is a good step away from toxic shit lol. IDK it feels like the …
/r/seduction01/12/24 08:31 PM
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You would be amazed how often people keep trying to fight for a hill that doesn't exist. I have a female friend who was in a relationship that got hit on. The guy approached her for the number, she politely declined she had a bf. The guy would. Not. Let. Up. Kept going on about some random shit bringing up age, how he looks young for his age and they should trade numbers to just be 'friends.' It was honestly the most pathetic thing ever. Her friends got fed up when he implied about cheating and …
/r/seduction02/08/23 03:18 AM
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Exactly You don't have to be the best. Just have better value. Once you can reach the top 20/10 percent of the dating pool then opportunities exponentially arise
/r/seduction04/06/23 03:21 PM
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I just found out that this is the definition of black pill. Go figure. Control the aspects that you can. Sometime you have to invest a little more into some category more than others. BUT you have CONTROL. Improve your value always and others will see it eventually
/r/seduction04/06/23 03:20 PM
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The basic premise is you have rationale 'players' in a game that are all trying to make a decision that best suits them. So in your case, the protagonist, you want to make the best decision you can based off of what you know about the other players. So this is done by considering all the possible decisions for you and the potential results and doing the same on what you think the possible action/results are for the other players. You are actively trying to predict and describe the game you are i…
/r/seduction01/06/23 03:21 AM
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then set forth and conquer like a dirty Ceasar
/r/seduction01/06/23 03:07 AM
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Game theory baby Just do it. What is the worst is going to happen? Who cares if 99 approaches were horrible because if you find the 1 right one then it makes up for it
/r/seduction31/05/23 06:12 PM
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I appreciate you giving the advice and I hope it does help someone but I am aware of this methodology. But, as you mentioned, some folks just get irrationally pissed so I think I was in the boat of every right answer is the wrong answer
/r/seduction10/05/23 02:18 AM
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You are talking about efficiency. And yea, I agree. Once you know you can pull successfully at a certain threshold then it really isn't worth trying to chase at certain locations cause it can be pretty fatiguing and annoying like you mentioned.
/r/seduction09/05/23 10:08 PM
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Lol I gotta say this sub has some weird views and I agree with you. A lot of rich folks, maybe not the 'majority, but enough of them have enriched lives that make the competition fierce. In reality, if you think/want a chance with the 8-10s then you are going have to get lucky to find the ones that are either tired, had bad luck with the boring rich guys or haven't been scooped up yet. So you do have a chance but don't kid yourself into thinking that NYC is easy or easier than Ohio.
/r/seduction09/05/23 10:04 PM
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Yea, I just got into trouble about this very fucking recently. She made it pretty clear at first she was interested in solutions for help. Nope. Fucking apparently misread that even though the answer said it was correct...somehow. Unless the girls are insistent on a solution MULTIPLE times then this is like 99% true all the time
/r/seduction09/05/23 02:08 PM
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Yea that was kinda weird to read. I won't lie I got a little lost when I was reading the post and thinking I thought I clicked on r/dating_advice lol
/r/seduction09/05/23 02:03 PM
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I was about to say that OP's ideas aren't bad but these are more for newly established couples if anything. These are not good first dates (except maybe the coffee+walk). Like who the fuck goes formal dress-up as a first date? I know so many people that would get turned off or a bit weirded by that. First date is suppose to be about establishing rapport. Hence why kino and escalation is so important in that small time frame. For second+ dates though then you can start dipping into some of these …
/r/seduction09/05/23 01:59 PM
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charming seduction right there
/r/seduction02/04/22 02:38 PM
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I think a little has to do with clothes tend to be more flattering for fit people. Shirts, dresses, pants etc... are typically made to help accentuate certain angles and what not. When you are even just a little overweight then things start becoming tricky. This doesn't mean a fat person can't be fashionable (quite the opposite) but you have to put more diligence in finding those clothing. A guy with a pot belly is gonna hide the waistline so 'showing' off that belt as an accessory is moot point
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:49 PM
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practicing Wonderwall read comment ahh, fuck me...
/r/seduction07/03/22 03:06 PM
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No worries and thank you for the kind words. Could care less about the critics. Got enough confidence to stroll through this shit wheat field. This was how I came to my realization in my younger days. I do wish for others to see how reflection is a powerful tool in not just for seduction but for life. I remember when this sub use to give GREAT advice. But nowadays it seems everything is about combatting the incels, sexists, misogynists etc... It really does make me sad what a great place this us…
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:02 PM
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lmfao gotta love those armchair folks
/r/seduction04/03/22 07:21 AM
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I find these things sort of entertaining. Like what do they say?
/r/seduction04/03/22 06:33 AM
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Jesus christ these users and comments... I sometimes wonder how much the reddit purge affected all this. At least before the angry incels had an echo chamber to be contend with
/r/seduction04/03/22 06:31 AM
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Good attitude is one of the things to help improve. Won't guarantee getting laid but having a shit attitude it will sure as fuck guarantee you being angry sad incel that no one wants. Dude, we get it. You are mad and frustrated. Some of us have been down that road. But just off putting the blame elsewhere instead of taking control on what you can isn't gonna help. And have you ever thought that maybe the majority of those rejections might be due to some recurring issue you have yet to fix?
/r/seduction04/03/22 06:29 AM
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I would argue that the visibility is higher but not necessarily the population of weakness increasing
/r/seduction04/03/22 06:21 AM
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My comment wasn't necessarily pointed to you but more so to the whole thread. Especially OP with his crying
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:20 PM
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I think people are getting the word nice and kind confused. Helping an old lady is a nice act. But it is a kind thing to do. You aren't doing it (hopefully) for an ulterior motive. You are doing it cause you are emphatic . You are kind.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:22 PM
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Jesus christ the amount of incels in this thread is insane. There is power in being kind. You can be kind and sexy/masculine. There is a fine line being a doormat and being kind. Being kind is showing a personal characteristic of power while being 'nice' can easily be just a facade
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:10 PM
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I honestly can't believe that post got upvotes. Your comment is the EXACT reason why you reply as such. One of the biggest changes in the frame of mind. Be more efficient
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:40 PM
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Exactly. Give a time and place to force a reply. If they are not interested then they are not interested. You don't have to sulk in a corner wondering if she forget etc... If she likes you then they will give a proper response to compromise on time. If she doesn't try to make it work then you know she is NOT worth the time and it is time for you to go somewhere else. No wasted time and/or effort.
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:38 PM
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lol wut? Is this a sarcastic post? If it isn't then no. The whole point of putting up a time is to force the ball in their court. If they are truly genuinely interested in you then the proper response will be something like 'I'm busy at that time. How about <some other day> at xyz instead' If you leave it open ended then that gives the girl the avenue to bumfuck around ie say I'll get back to you etc... In other words it gives them the opportunity to go ghost on you and, worst case scenario, let…
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:35 PM
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? Do you wanna be her friend? No? Then move on. She is looking for companionship. Do whatever you want to do. Personally, if I'm bored and don't have anything on the dinner event then I'll go but you can bet your ass I'm gonna be flirting
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:06 PM
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I operate under the guise that if she's interested, That is your first fatal mistake. If they are on a date with you then they are interested. It is now on you (both of you really) to help facilitate and grow the attraction between the two. You could take a back seat and hope she takes the lead on everything but then wtf is the point of that? She will either not care for you, bored and/or disgusted. Think about her side. She will either look at you as a just a friendly person and/or a boring per…
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:22 PM
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I just assume they won't want it with me lol. ...Why? Why would you just assume that? If you assume that then you just give off friend vibe.
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:02 PM
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Just..make out and escalate? I don't understand what you don't understand? Escalate/increase the kino and go from there. This isn't rocket science. If she isn't into you then she will tell/show you. Be bold but don't be rapey
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:01 PM
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What are some of the sad posts you are talking about? I'll admit I haven't been on this sub as much as I use to but I haven't seen anything like that (though it could be selective bias). But I will say that reddit use to have incel subreddits (redpill, incel etc...). They use to brigade here and talk some mad sad shit saying we are wasting our time etc... Obviously we just laughed at them
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:13 PM
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Can someone give some examples of the shit post OP and others are talking about (angry incels etc...)?
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:10 PM
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and lube
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:39 PM
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pickup lines can be fun but they are only for a quick introduction. Still gotta go through the majority and important part of being charming
/r/seduction22/01/22 07:38 PM
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good lord, try to explain that to the average redditor... Got into a heated argument and was getting downvoted liek crazy when I was trying to explain that it isn't about manipulation. Apparently we are like 2 steps below being rapists or some shit
/r/seduction21/01/22 10:29 PM
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TBF those things in ADDITION with something else can work since it simplifies and eases your flow. Like a movie and a coffee after works because now both of you guys can comment about the movie during the coffee (the real date). Or you can just go to coffee straight. But yea by itself those dates are useless
/r/seduction20/01/22 06:16 PM
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That is what draws the line between the bold and fearless vs the 'weak' By having this fear or encroaching, you are showing lack of confidence. People do not like lack of confidence. It is weakness. Think about it rationally. If the date goes on a date with you then you can rationally assume they are attracted. So touching/flirting is expected. You are encroaching or labeled as a creep when you both have DIFFERENT expectations of the situation ie they think you are friends hanging vs you thinkin…
/r/seduction20/01/22 06:12 PM
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Basics that should be repeated. I usually tell people that if you are new or still nervous ie can't follow/comprehend these basics then go to a strip club. Seriously. The strippers want your attention due to money. So they will be some of the most easy going people. So let out your awkwardness, fear, sweat etc... and learn how to control your adrenaline. Experience what it is like to have sexual tension, even though somewhat artifical, in the air. I found it so much easier in able to identify cu…
/r/seduction20/01/22 06:08 PM
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Be more bold but don't be a creep. If you are both having a good time, then just try touching their shoulder. If you are on a date with someone, then that means they are potentially sexually attracted to you. Not making any moves during that event shows you are not confident or attracted. Be bold but don't cross lines. Don't immediately grab their ass when you introduce yourselves but instead put your arm/hand on their hips etc...
/r/seduction20/01/22 06:05 PM
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And not have the book upside down
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:10 PM
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And your wad of cash
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:10 PM
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I think of it like the rule for cologne. Let the smell be discovered, not announced. A confident person doesn't have to boast anything. He KNOWS he looks good, feels good, acts good. An arrogant ass will boast about all the cash and items he has, brag about his accomplishment etc... And to clarify, doing a little bragging is ok. It can even be fun and engaging if done tastefully.
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:08 PM
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care to give some example of bad advice?
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:13 PM
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I THINK what OP is trying to say is that you are more than 'likely' attractive 'enough' to be spitting game. But that is the problem isn't it? If you are overweight, anti-social, have TERRIBLE hygiene then you are most likely not the targeted audience for this read. Get your shit together. Hit that baseline of mediocre looks and go from there. Cause NO ONE and I mean NO ONE will ever agree that looks don't matter. They do matter. They just matter up to a certain point. Cause again, if a girl can…
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:52 PM
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Worst case scenario: His desk never gets cleaned
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:46 AM
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honestly this is the right answer. Yes, you could go up to a girl and blah blah blah but unless you are a good looking guy you wont get much success (surprise).
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:49 AM
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OP has been a redditor for one day... Has to be a troll account
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:39 PM
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what was the response?
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:12 PM
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raises hand 2 questions. Does edging count and what do you do about ejaculating prematurely?
/r/seduction12/08/21 10:06 PM
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Just remember Fit is king. Style comes after. Doesn't matter if you go for the hottest trends if you look like a sad bag of sagging fabric
/r/seduction24/06/21 03:37 PM
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You can't win 100% of the time. But you, as an individual, have a lot of control. Far more than you believe. Agreed on the red pillers etc... They are the bane of the male image. Believing in entitlement makes you already lost from the get go. THAT is the toxic mentality that guys and this sub needs to avoid. Also LOL at the edit 2 hahaha
/r/seduction05/06/21 03:11 AM
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Damn, literally everything got setup for you PERFECTLY to ask/continue. But it is all good. Just ribbing you. Awesome job working up the courage though. Now go out there and do it again! Eventually you will notice those opportunities rise up quite a lot and even figure out a way to make it happen more without being a cringey dickwad that corners people into a social trap lmao
/r/seduction03/06/21 02:22 AM
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Damn, that was a 200IQ move right there.
/r/seduction26/05/21 05:50 PM
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We just got out of a pandemic. Everyone is going to feel like being social. So yea good shit to OP. People in this sub are oddly super uptight. When...you know this community is literally about learning how to be social and attractive to the desired partner
/r/seduction29/04/21 03:31 PM
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I think this is hilarious. Honestly who the fuck cares. Yall are way too uptight. You guys think this is cringe but saying some shitty pick-up line isn't? So what if he came off as a social awkward butterfly. Probably was entertaining (hopefully) and somewhat made their night with something to talk about. OP: I love it. That 'who gives a fuck attitude' is good to have, in moderation of course. Funny how you are scared of cold approach and I'm over here thinking I couldn't do what you did to rand…
/r/seduction29/04/21 03:28 PM
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Move on. The ball is in her court. Game theory shows either she is distracted/busy or doesn't want you. Move on. If she was playing hard to get, then she will eventually reach out. If she is no longer interested, then that is self-explanatory. If a shit test, then you are gonna fail if you text her back. Don't come off needy. Either she responds back or doesn't. People are fickle creatures.
/r/seduction28/04/21 04:38 PM
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Not saying online dating is not harder for guys. All in all, it is. But you do have a chance if you can use quality to cut through the quantity. This is the key. If you are in the elite club then online dating is easy pickings. But if you are not in there then you are SOL Good news is that anyone can get into the elite club. Just gotta develop it ie no random cat pictures unless it is tasteful
/r/seduction28/04/21 04:17 PM
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supply and demand, right? Girls see they have 100+ matches so they can go be pickier. Guys unfortunately then are in a rat race. Online dating is sound if you are in the elite category. However, if you are not in the elite category then you are SOL
/r/seduction28/04/21 04:16 PM
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IMO: Nice guy is someone who is a people pleaser. Perceived to be a doormat. Submissive-ish. These are not 'attractive' qualities because they imply you lack the ability to excite them. Excite? As in being adventurous whether it is in the bedroom, going to new dinner or drinking spots, trying out new things, the ability to push the boundaries that help facilitate growth, playful/teasing, invoke emotions. Pushing the envelope is something a lot of people look for in a relationship. Do you see how…
/r/seduction28/04/21 03:37 PM
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I usually recommend folks to try to go to a strip club. Expensive? Yes. But it can be quite educational on learning what the social and physical cues are (strippers should be making it VERY obvious what attraction is and how easy conversations go if both parties are interested in each other). Also the added bonus of being fun. Cold approach is akin to the casting of the fishing rod. Once you know what attraction (socially) looks like then that is you feeling the tug on your line. Then you reel t…
/r/seduction28/04/21 03:50 AM
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You'll realize that the fear is only in the first second or so, after that, it becomes radically easier. it is quite the speedbump to get over But you are absolutely right. Cause once you initiate the contact then you gotta commit. And honestly...you can do surprisingly well. Gotta give yourself more credit
/r/seduction28/04/21 03:44 AM
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Just like the other user said, if you GENIUNELY enjoy it and it is your passion then don't be afraid. Learn how to channel and communicate your passion/energy effectively. They don't care about the topic per say. They care about how you feel and how you make them feel about it. IMO there is no such thing as boring. Ask an exciting hobbyist of any topic and they can make you feel like it is the most astounding thing in the world. That is game.
/r/seduction28/04/21 03:41 AM
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I wasn't arguing with you per say. More of expanding on it mainly for other readers/viewers/amateurs. But yes, look is important. Quite important. Anyone that says it isn't is deluding themselves or are simps/incels (different poison, same result). Dating apps are literally all about window shopping. Get them to go inside the store and once they are inspecting you then you pull out the big guns
/r/seduction28/04/21 03:39 AM
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Being attractive is a multi-faceted thing. Looks is only one important aspect of that concept. Even an overweight male can look well physically if he gets the right haircut (sharp, geometric and volume hairstyle) and fitting clothes (not overly too tight that looks disgusting but also not overly baggy that screams either low self-esteem or childish looking). But it isn't just about the physical as it just gets your foot in the door real easy. After that, then your characteristic/personality take…
/r/seduction28/04/21 03:17 AM
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Absolutely. It seems like this subreddit has lost the understanding of what it means to be attractive... Learn to stand out. Create value with your self-image. 'Oh, but you should just be you!' Yea, no. If I was gonna be just me, I would be a video game addict at 400lbs showering once every full moon. But yea obviously that can't happen. You need to groom yourself, be healthy by eating well and exercising, have hobbies and be somewhat social. For whatever reason, people think this subreddit is a…
/r/seduction28/04/21 03:14 AM
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Go over the courting more. This is really good advice for dating for sure. And people here will find value with your post.
/r/seduction22/04/21 04:18 PM
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The best secret to being charming and smooth is honesty
/r/seduction22/04/21 04:10 PM
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She really was into me and taught me that you don't have to play games when she likes you. That's why I typically recommend newcomers to go to a strip club. Yea it is an expensive endeavor but it helps hone and develop the basic instincts on what it's like to have a party that is 'interested' in you. Learn the social cues and flags so you can pick up on them and drive in your advantage in a public setting. Helps to develop confidence and your natural style instead of relying on alcohol. And to a…
/r/seduction22/04/21 04:09 PM
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define how to be charming I think people would be interested in such topic
/r/seduction21/04/21 06:47 PM
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Subreddit socialskills is just as bad. Well worse. I tried to reply telling others to come visit this subreddit. Immediate down vote with responses of everyone here is a chode and double bag rapists. Yea this subreddit has some creeps and shitty responses sometime but hardly the image I would affiliate with the real pua community. Bad stereotypes make me sad that deters people away from improving. People here need to make a bigger presence in the other subreddit where the white Knights are so da…
/r/seduction19/01/17 06:44 PM
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My buddy and I were to go to a small nye party with old friends we agreed upon going. Well two old buddies as they had their SO there with them. Well I find out my other buddy has been talking to a girl for awhile and wanted to bring her along too now making it 3 couple party with me being a odd wheel out. I fucking hate being the odd wheel. They proclaimed it won't be bad and it will be fun and I was just being self conscious etc... God it is always so fucking awkward for me but not for them ca…
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:40 AM
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We will need to refer to the DENNIS system
/r/seduction02/12/16 09:05 PM
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Were you not paying attention? They have to be on a boat. There will be a pop quiz after
/r/seduction02/12/16 03:22 PM
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Agreed. I like the phrasing but I can see how people will read into it too far and come off almost sexist. Relationship is a push and pull. No one is better than the other.
/r/seduction09/08/16 10:12 PM
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Any good tinder convo you don't mind sharing so others can see and learn from the flow?
/r/seduction14/07/16 08:38 PM
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Oh Interesting cause I could say the complete opposite. Guessing you are more of a family man?
/r/seduction23/06/16 09:42 PM
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Please expand on the "gaming in 30s is an insecurity issue" Do you mean the folks who fail at it? Try too hard? Or those that start at 30(improving themselves) were the dorks instead of improving themselves in the earlier years?
/r/seduction23/06/16 09:04 PM
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Ahh man I just commented myself. I should just edit the comments
/r/seduction25/08/15 10:39 PM
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Fuck I mean read.
/r/seduction25/08/15 10:39 PM
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That all I needed to hear
/r/seduction25/08/15 10:39 PM
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Troll them Have fun and pick on them a little. Say bold shit so either they will follow and show their true selves or you will have a good laugh. Personally I'm difficult to open up to people so I'm a little reserved. But as soon as you make a dick joke I'll be screaming eat booties like groceries
/r/seduction15/08/15 05:09 PM
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Stop talking Let them talk more Be curious in them.
/r/seduction15/08/15 05:03 PM
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yea flow is hard to achieve but good news is that it is a skill and once you improve it will become part of your instinct. Generally people have bad conversation flow because the other party is not putting up their own weight ie not interested or awkward. This is avoided by not using dead statements. I'm sure there is a better term but this means to not use absolute replies like cool, ok, yes, no etc... If someone says one of those replies then that is a conversation wall. It stops the flow from…
/r/seduction15/08/15 04:52 PM
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Well looks like we are in the same boat. My interest resides in nerdy stuff (computer engineer) so as you can imagine those are not exactly popular topics. You and I have a couple of options: -make them talk more about themselves so we can take a rest and instead focus more on little quips (mostly sexual or flirty quips) -gain more attractive 'interest.' I am sure you enjoy other things that you just don't notice or think about. you mostly wanna go with the number one option. The idea behind the…
/r/seduction15/08/15 04:15 PM
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yea that is a downside (and you should probably have a friend with you). You could do a 1v1 I guess but generally its seen as a 2v2 game.
/r/seduction15/08/15 03:13 AM
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for cornhole? You have two platforms that are angled with a hole in the top center. Each team player gets 3 bags thus three chances to throw the bags at the opposing platform. If the bag lands on the platform, one point, in the hole is 3.
/r/seduction15/08/15 03:06 AM
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I hear ya and I still do but like newton's law states once you initiate that conversation its too late for your brain to yell at you to eject. I would rather skydive then talk to a woman just because of the anxiety I get from approaching but honestly once you approach and initiate the stress comes down by magnitudes. But like I said you need to pretend/act that you are confident. You will still feel the fluster in you but don't show that on the outer shell. And if you are hesitant about doing an…
/r/seduction07/08/15 02:40 PM
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You will get rejection but remember this is all a numbers game so the amount of rejection is relative. PUA will approach a 1000 people and maybe 400 will reject them (this is the number no one hears about) but will get 600 to close out with a kiss or number (the statistics everyone brags about). For me I go in with the mentality of always trying to be better. To me this means that I am going to approach with little intentions of closing out. Instead I am going in to experiment and log what works…
/r/seduction07/08/15 02:26 PM
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Besides the self pity stuff: work on your image if it isn't good. Got acne? Work on it. Are you slouching? Work on it. Fat or skinny/lanky? Work on it. Though I'll admit taller guys have a bit of an uphill to climb when it comes to working out as the muscle mass gets distributed far more than shorter people (harder to look stocky). Confidence. Get it. Fake it. Whatever just get some of it. No one likes a loser and if you think you are a loser then people will see you as a loser. Now don't get me…
/r/seduction07/08/15 01:38 PM
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Seriously The sub is lame with the whole alpha mentality. Confidence is Sexy but overdo it and you come off as a douche. Corny shows confidence as well as being fun. Whatever it's my opinion. Personally having a sense of humor is something I am attracted to
/r/seduction07/08/15 03:15 AM
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hopefully someone can help, if not then I'll just remake another post :P Anyway I can't remember exactly but someone did link a youtube video that was a simple dance move that consisted of escalation/kino. At one point you have your leg between the girl and help her sway on your leg to beat off to the music. Horrible pun I know. Obviously you don't just initiate those moves in the beginning. You wanna try to get their attention (don't approach from behind) and gauge their reaction. I like shuffl…
/r/seduction16/07/15 01:08 AM
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Sounds like a decent app idea. We could be on to something here
/r/seduction17/06/15 02:44 AM
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is there any other avenue then asking questions. From what I understand, you need to find a point in the conversations to drive forward on which in my case would have been perhaps playing more on the rivalry of the school and poke fun back. I agree though when you are asking questions on and on and on it can seem a bit tedious. That and I could have probably put more of my input but at the time I was thinking why would she be interested into my inputs.
/r/seduction13/06/15 04:34 PM
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yea there were a couple of nuances I could have done better. I definitely could have approached on a stronger note. I think my nervousness simply dominated the situation and it was more of a lost-cause night if anything
/r/seduction13/06/15 01:04 PM
2

thats not a bad rule and will try to employ it. It was pretty weird trying to keep the conversation going but then again maybe she wasn't just good at conversation and I didn't assess the situation better.
/r/seduction13/06/15 01:03 PM
4

yea i figured you gotta keep chugging along and ignore all the bad ones
/r/seduction13/06/15 01:00 PM
4

thx
/r/seduction13/06/15 12:59 PM
1

Mind on expanding more on the second and third paragraphs?
/r/seduction03/06/15 02:57 PM
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Can someone expand on number 4 please? Not quite understanding why smiling after a smile makes you lose your escalation control. I have read that a trait of a charismatic person can make others smile AFTER he or she smiles so is that related? Or are is OP saying being happy and bubbly does not go hand in hand with escalation?
/r/seduction08/05/15 10:10 PM
2

asiano. SK Also got the double eyelids going
/r/seduction19/04/15 11:51 PM
1

Something to look forward too...I think xD
/r/seduction19/04/15 11:51 PM
4

I could do such thing but only the chin area would be affected. Not the most "fashionable thing" to do imo.
/r/seduction18/04/15 04:16 PM
9

sadly not an option for me
/r/seduction18/04/15 03:59 PM
6

so be attractive and don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction18/04/15 03:59 PM
1

Ha if I was only so lucky to meet people curious as you :p Probably doesn't help that the fact I don't meet a lot of people or socialize as much as I would like to. That and being unattractive.
/r/seduction08/01/15 12:45 AM
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I feel like that leads to an argument and then goes downhill. I always hated confrontation and arguments. I'll try it
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:18 PM
1

Huh Maybe I'm just a terrible speaker :/
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:10 PM
3

Welp I goofed up on that
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:38 PM
1

Socially awkward penguin here Pm me ladi... Err homies
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:32 PM
1

Give me an example of this Gusto I want this Gusto. What would be speaking with conviction or passion be like? An example please. Assume I am socially inept and can only talk to a goldfish
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:27 PM
5

Huh well... I could see why
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:24 PM
1

Haha interesting... I actually am a shuffler myself. How do you... Shuffle that into your conversation. How does that raise interest
/r/seduction07/01/15 09:42 PM
1

Shuffling as in dancing?
/r/seduction07/01/15 09:31 PM
1

I understand what your saying but let me ask you this At what point do you stop yourself so you are not dominating the air? My fear is that despite my conviction and passion they are still uninterested and hence I'm torturing them. Or is it the answer of not giving a Fuck and swag your way
/r/seduction07/01/15 09:08 PM
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I like that. Another variation is some mentions how to look at your life like a movie. You are the star and everyone is a support.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:55 PM
1

Wanna give me an example? I don't like artsy stuff. I do like canoeing, sleeping in hammock, enjoy camping and fishing. I also enjoy news, science, playing guitar. Idk maybe I'm just running into bad conversations or people that can't carry a conversation. I try to find other's interest but I can never tell if their "interest" is genuine or a half-assed response
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:35 PM
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