heyheym1ckey Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
49	Many of you girls decided you’re fine with being single forever. But how do you feel fine with never having a family / biological kids?	SEEKING ADVICE	heyheym1ckey	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/05/20 10:35 PM
38	How do you heal abandonment issues and prevent it from making you clingy in life? Success stories?	SEEKING ADVICE	heyheym1ckey	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/20 02:13 PM
14	A friend of mine’s ex cheated on her and she hasn’t decided whether to stay with him or not and he’s making no effort to admit he did wrong, it’s been months. She keeps talking about it. I don’t know what to do, it’s starting to make me aggressive.	SEEKING ADVICE	heyheym1ckey	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/20 12:27 PM
1	What is going on and how do I deal with this (boyfriend of 5 years)?	SEEKING ADVICE	heyheym1ckey	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/20 03:15 PM

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7	A friend of mine’s ex cheated on her and she hasn’t decided whether to stay with him or not and he’s making no effort to admit he did wrong, it’s been months. She keeps talking about it. I don’t know what to do, it’s starting to make me aggressive. But like what do you do when she keeps bringing it up?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/20 12:31 PM
1	Many of you girls decided you’re fine with being single forever. But how do you feel fine with never having a family / biological kids? Yes, I started going to a therapist this spring and am going regularly. But I still don’t feel much changing, I still have severe abandonment issues and trust issues.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/20 12:54 PM
3	Many of you girls decided you’re fine with being single forever. But how do you feel fine with never having a family / biological kids? That’s amazing to hear, I would love to hear more about how you managed to build a strong chosen family. I was severely bullied as a child so forming friendships with people. I always believe they’re out to get me, I have trouble forming and holding boundaries and I’m a people-pleaser.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/20 07:54 AM
7	How do you heal abandonment issues and prevent it from making you clingy in life? Success stories? This reply was gold. Thank you very much!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/20 10:56 PM
1	How do you heal abandonment issues and prevent it from making you clingy in life? Success stories? That’s great to hear! When did you notice a shift? How long did it take?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/20 05:16 PM
3	How do you heal abandonment issues and prevent it from making you clingy in life? Success stories? Hey, I went to my first session on Friday and next week I’ll be doing the first hypnosis-part which is finding a “safe place” before we go into working with the past. My therapist said it’s vital to find a safe space before doing the other hypnosis as it can cause further trauma by reliving painful memories. I can get back to you when I’ve come further in my therapy sessions!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/20 05:15 PM
8	No HVM will have a “work wife.” That’s bullshit y’all. What’s a work wife?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/20 04:58 PM
8	The new HONY story has me feeling a lot of emotions. Went from a survival story to 40 years of emotional neglect in .2 seconds. Omg I am so happy u wrote this!!! I’ve been thinking the same thing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/20 07:40 PM
33	When you realize that true self love makes the difference in dating Yep he’s LVM	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/20 12:06 AM
11	Got rejected from SEX? Freaking out My girl. What you need to do is work on your self-esteem, it shouldn’t be so low that you make yourself only available in the hookup scene. When you work on yourself you’ll set your standards high enough and the rest will follow suit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/20 07:32 PM
1	Excited for potential HVM Don’t get too excited because it’s easy for a dude to do well in the beginning. But great to hear that so far so good!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/20 07:30 PM
1	Female Long-term Relationship/Marriage Strategy? I was be super interested in reading this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/20 03:03 PM
5	HVW dating LVM* LOOOOL	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/20 11:36 AM
2	What is "Asking too much"? Bare minimum indeed. And you can definitely find yourself a HVM that can do this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/20 11:35 AM
5	Advice please! A guy keeps asking me out for coffee. How can I hint to him that I want him to take me somewhere nicer? Just say it like it is. If he’s HVM he will get it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/20 11:46 PM