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His problems here say more about him than it does her. His insecurities about being falsely accused, cheated on, and so on really have a hold on him. He's got it bad.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 03:00 PM
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Religion and Fox News was my parents' drug of choice.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 08:09 PM
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"Women want the hottest guys only" Meanwhile they just want the hottest women.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 12:20 AM
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It left me traumatized for years. I'm not his only victim. He belongs in prison.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 06:49 AM
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You're not old enough to drink yet (at least in the USA) and your brain isn't done developing yet, and you think your prime is ending? Dude life just started for you. The way to get over redpill brainwashing is to stop consuming that kind of content. Stop watching it. Go experience real life.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 03:15 AM
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Stupid question: why not?
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 01:41 AM
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It's clearly already been invented lol
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 06:51 PM
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So when you don't have answers to something, you just fill it in with mystical supernatural bullshit?
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 09:12 AM
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Half the crap on that subreddit sounds like it was written by men pretending to be women.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 09:10 AM
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Dudes like this shouldn't be reproducing anyway.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 08:01 PM
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Lol no
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 07:02 PM
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Thanks for proving my point.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 09:22 AM
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I think there's a gray area. Some people (especially women) don't know that they are allowed to say no. Or they are uneducated about sex and reproduction (too young or due to the culture/society they live in) and they don't know what they are consenting to. This is why proper sex education is important.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 09:21 AM
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I will say I haven't heard many arguments from non-religious pro-lifers so feel free to throw your opinion out there if you wish.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 09:16 AM
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Every U.S. citizen has their bodily autonomy restricted every single day. How? Stop acting like killing the unborn somehow makes your bodily autonomy more or less special than the next person, woman or man. You haven't explained at all how the unborn are more important than someone who is already grown and living. Oh wait, let me guess, because sex is a sinful thing and having had sex makes her less worthy than the fetus inside her, who hasn't had sex? I'm gonna go out on a limb here: even if ab…
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 04:05 AM
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The difference is that driving is a privilege and nobody is forcing anyone to drive against their will or ability to do so. Bad comparison.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 04:00 AM
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Then I guess they should have been more responsible with their sex lives. This doesn't prevent non-viable or dangerous pregnancies, and it also does jack shit to address how birth control isn't perfect. There's also how couples can have relationship issues which impact their desire for/ability to care for a child, so how is "be more responsible" supposed to address that? Simplistic answers such as the one you gave doesn't fix anything and it's unrealistic.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 03:58 AM
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It's a hypothetical question. But it sounds like you don't want to use your imagination at all.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 03:54 AM
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I don't see why the 40% even matters. So many dudes on here keep complaining that online dating isn't working for them. Why keep trying the same methods over and over if it's clearly not working? If there was a medication out there that worked for the majority of people but it didn't work for your health and maybe made it worse, would you keep taking it? Besides, assuming that statistic is correct, what about the other 60%? Why not explore other options?
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 02:06 AM
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You're pretty much avoiding the question: what would it take to convince you women do/can have a hard time dating? What stories or evidence would sway you?
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 01:42 AM
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If men peak at 50, then why are so many blackpillers and redpillers crying that they missed out on everything important in life by 18 or 25? All they need to do is be quiet and wait their turn, if it's truly the case.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 05:41 PM
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And "chads" which are so integral to blackpill/redpill. They bring up "chads" (typically younger hot dudes) all the time but conveniently forget about them when they say men peak at 50.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 05:40 PM
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Dating apps are not real life.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 05:34 PM
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He "befriended" her under false pretenses and is even complaining that she might "fuck some guy" at college. Like wtf dude, she can fuck all the guys she wants and you have no right to get pissy about it, because she said no and she owes you nothing. All the while she thinks this guy is her friend, while he's just still waiting to get in her pants. I wish dudes like OP would just cut out the crap about women and just admit that they are jealous of the other dudes who get laid. It's obvious that …
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 05:22 PM
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And also don't blame her for it. See, this is what pisses me off so often. Many guys pretend like women string men along. The whole bullshit about women having so many orbiters? But she has been SUPER CLEAR with you. She doesn't want a relationship (yet). And then you lied to her about your intentions. She's not stringing you along, you're stringing yourself along. NONE of it is her fault. Yup! And then redpill dudes will string her along, for the fake reason of "well she was doing it to me, or …
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 11:51 AM
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Ok so last year I was talking to this girl and she said she wasn’t ready for a relationship and then I lied and said I just wanted to be friends. Mistake #1: lying. Then after some time I felt like shit because I wasn’t getting what I wanted Which is what? The redpill doesn’t condone this because I know she’s gonna fuck some dude at college and I will be friends with her automatically. That's quite an assumption to make about someone. Making assumptions is going to get you into a lot of trouble …
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 11:48 AM
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Who even came up with such bullshit? It enables/supports grooming and pedophilia. Whoever comes up with such arbitrary numbers probably hasn't even met real people who are 18, 25, 35, 50, whatever. I've seen 30 year old women get called "grandma" by these creeps, meanwhile age 30ish women tend to look normal and beautiful. And is 50ish really the prime age for men? That's old enough to be my parent and it's fucking gross. It's clearly a cope to deal with the fear of aging. It's unfortunate that …
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 12:07 AM
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Thought experiment: what would it take to convince you that women have just as tough of a time dating as men do, if not worse?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 10:47 PM
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Exactly! How many more times does this have to be explained?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 08:05 PM
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Uh, have you seen gas prices lately? https://www.nbcnews.com/data-graphics/live-state-set-ban-abortions-see-how-far-you-d-n1296555 There's travel expenses (in some places the nearest clinic is 100s of miles away), time off work and lost wages, the cost of the procedure itself... it all adds up.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 08:00 PM
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And women don't want to risk pregnancy because...? (Fill in the blank)
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 07:55 PM
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Yeah I got my tubes removed and I was EXTREMELY lucky that my doctor didn't give me a hard time about it.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 07:52 PM
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"Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them." -Margaret Atwood
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 07:49 PM
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You said "this movement" which implies something recently happening. So how is 88% a low percentage for you?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 10:42 AM
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The data show that promiscuity is low. 88% of all respondents reported having not had sex, or having had only one sexual partner, within the entire year of 2021. 88% is low to you?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 10:38 AM
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What point are you trying to make?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 10:25 AM
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I'm convinced a lot of redpillers and blackpillers have body image issues. Getting a girlfriend or getting attention from women isn't going to solve that issue.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 04:46 AM
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Ask yourself what kind of person you want to be Figure out the steps needed to get to that point Go for it
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 04:44 AM
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You do need to change bro. For yourself, if nobody else.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 08:22 AM
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The reason women have plenty of "options" is because there's an unlimited number of thirsty guys out there. If one gets little/no satisfaction from attention from people who don't give a shit about them, then exactly how is having options a good thing? Having an abundance of something you don't want is not a good thing.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 06:05 PM
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What?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 01:42 AM
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Interesting take. I think it's definitely why she ran off and disappeared for a few years after she gets into bed with him. She felt like she didn't deserve stability, and she probably thought that she did something wrong by being with him. To be fair, they really didn't know much about HIV/AIDS up until around that time, or so I'm told.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/22 09:43 PM
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I never thought it was worth making a post about, so I'll leave this comment here. I always wondered if Forrest Gump would be considered some sort of validation to redpillers. Forrest is hardworking, honest, rich, successful. Jenny spends a lot of time around other guys (we all know what her troubles were, I'm just putting it nicely) and eventually she "baby traps" him and "mooches" off him. That's definitely not what the story is about, it's not my opinion of the film, and there's way more nuan…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/22 05:19 PM
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Either it's written by him or it's a very sad woman in a bad place in life.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 03:27 PM
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Therapists can't diagnose anybody, only doctors can. "Mild attachment issues" is not a diagnosis. This guy is definitely an unreliable narrator, I wouldn't be surprised if he's not even married at all. No way would I trust anything he's written. This reeks of bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 01:36 PM
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Uh, that makes it more likely it's all written by him. It sounds too convenient.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 01:33 PM
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Yeah I've done a LOT of reading on r/DeadBedrooms and it's related subreddits... none of this fits the typical reasons for a dead bedroom and redpill has never fixed a dead bedroom either. This post is like a puzzle piece that doesn't belong in a puzzle. I'm inclined to believe it's all written by the same person. If it was written by two different people, they would have different points of view and different experiences here and there.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 01:31 PM
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I'm surprised they don't go run off and join religious cults where women are considered property and marriages are arranged.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 01:21 PM
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They're just horny and looking to get laid. It's no more complicated than that.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 01:20 PM
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You haven't done so even once.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 01:18 PM
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Because you refuse to absorb any new information. This is why you're struggling.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 04:04 PM
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I waa going to respond to every one of your replies, but dude there is no point. You WANT to still believe in redpill. You don't want to change. Good luck to you.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 01:55 PM
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If they don't want it that often then why does it matter? Do you realize that other people have different values than you do?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 06:33 AM
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But come on seriously its not a big deal. It IS a big fucking deal! Instances such as being called a "girl" or being told to shave our legs is only small examples. It's a part of a bigger picture where women are expected to be submissive objects where all we are good for is beauty and our genitals. Misogyny leads to things such as rape and abuse. If we don't put our foot down on the little stuff, it makes it easier for others to walk all over us. Why should anyone see your struggles as a big dea…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 06:26 AM
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I think what needs to happen is that when you hear women share their genuine struggles (with sex, dating, loneliness, unfairness in the world, gender norms, and so on) start believing them.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 06:13 AM
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Uh, that's assuming all women are having loads of casual sex.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 06:10 AM
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Women aren't interested in casual sex as much as men are. And why should they be, when it's not as pleasurable? You're definitely not able to see from outside your own perspective here. "I want it, therefore it must be good for her too." No dude, not everyone experiences stuff the same way you do.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 06:09 AM
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She's either one of the few women with that opinion, or she's saying stuff for likes and money. Why would you take her seriously? Why does the number matter so much to you?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 06:04 AM
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How would you know? Because one Instagram person said so? Your standards to make you believe in something shitty is really low, but your standards to make you believe something that benefits you is really high. Do you realize that? It's like you want to believe you are hopeless.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 06:02 AM
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How many women do you need to hear from when they say average height and average dick is fine, until you believe them? Ask yourself what it will take to convince you.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 06:00 AM
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Jesus christ, a woman's figure and weight have NOTHING to do with what kinds of dick she likes. Where are you getting this information from? Confirmation bias, dude.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:59 AM
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For the type of porn you're referring to, it's mostly men watching it. Not women. I guarantee you. Most porn is geared towards men. Size Queens exist but they are not the norm.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:57 AM
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For the type of porn you're referring to, it's mostly men watching it. Not women. I guarantee you. Most porn is geared towards men. Size Queens exist but they are not the norm.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:56 AM
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8-10 inches is fucking scary. It's so painful. 6" and under is great because it's so much easier to give oral.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:55 AM
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Do you care at all about how you treat other people? If so, why even bring up shitty people who find dates? Their relationship probably sucks anyway. Is that the kind of relationship you want?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:53 AM
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You're falling for information you got from porn, TV, movies, and gossip. There's no proof that size is what does it for women. Stop falling for pop culture bullshit. Men care more about their size than women do, it's always been the case going back hundreds of years.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:50 AM
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You're falling for information you got from porn, TV, movies, and gossip. There's no proof that size is what does it for women. Stop falling for pop culture bullshit. Men care more about their size than women do, it's always been the case going back hundreds of years.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:50 AM
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Exactly. What good is endless attention and sexual validation if you don't want it and it's really gross and objectifying?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:44 AM
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Based on what?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:40 AM
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Exhibit A: Wal-Mart
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 09:10 PM
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I can't speak for all women, but I know if I got the vibe that a guy is manipulating me I'd ghost him so fast.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 09:07 PM
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I don't understand how you got to that conclusion. ELI5?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 04:53 PM
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Yup, plus it depends on where you live. If you live in an area surrounded by people of the same minority group you're in, I find it hard to believe there's people unwilling to date you due to race. If you're one of the few people of your race living in an area, then yes I can guess that some people might not be interested in you due to race. My suggestion is that it's important to move away for better opportunities in life.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 04:50 PM
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Do you just word vomit all over every post you read?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 11:25 PM
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I mean it sounds like redpill is cool in your book, so why are you here? Still not relevant to my post.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 11:24 PM
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Well then you don't pay attention. Are you aware this is r/exredpill? Why are you even here? Go back to jerking off to Fresh and Fit.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 06:19 PM
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What was assumed here? I've literally seen redpillers say that same shit.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 06:15 PM
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🤮🤮🤮
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 06:04 PM
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Reading isn't the problem, writing is.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 04:03 PM
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Your posts are really hard to read, dude. Try some punctuation.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 01:27 PM
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Nobody (except maybe trans people) know fully what it's like to be the opposite sex. You're asking for a woman who completely understands men when you don't completely understand women.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 01:24 PM
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This has nothing to do with the post I wrote.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 01:22 PM
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What
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 03:35 AM
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I think the less attention communities like that get, the better. I'm pretty sure a number of redpillers (or redpill types) believe rape doesn't even exist.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 03:34 AM
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Well said. I'm someone who puts a lot of value on the time I have, so it's insulting to me how guys like this waste other's time.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 05:10 PM
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I guess its a guy whose waiting his turn in line in hopes a woman will eventually choose him. Its the woman's backup plan in case her relationship fails or something like that. Sounds pretty creepy and desperate. I don't think I've ever met a guy like that. I've met dudes like this but I wouldn't call them beta and/or orbiters. My best friend (I'm female, so is she) is incredibly good looking and she's always been outgoing. The type of person who fits into any social group. There's always been g…
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 03:22 AM
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There's a guy out there I have a massive crush on. He's a friend of a friend of mine, I've met him a couple times. He's incredibly my type, talented and educated. Honestly I wouldn't give a fuck if he had a micropenis.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 06:33 PM
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It's not common. Where are you getting this idea from?
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 04:49 PM
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They are delusional and they are sadists. I worry if they came to this conclusion on their own, or if someone else convinced them it's true. If it's the latter, then it's truly evil that someone is spreading such misinformation.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 04:46 PM
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If there's anything I've learned it's that a lot of creative people and famous people are truly messed up.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 04:40 PM
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We aren't the jury or the judge.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 04:37 PM
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It's really hard to change your mind on this sort of thing. The good news is, the only person you have to convince is yourself.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 12:48 AM
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Unfortunately that's a common occurrence among famous people. I've never been to LA or Hollywood but it sounds typical for that sort of scene.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 12:46 AM
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With body image issues, it's honestly an internal issue. Very little of what other people tell you will sway you. You have to convince yourself. Ask yourself, do you want to look at yourself like you're an ugly piece of shit? Or do you want to experience looking in a mirror and thinking, "hey that dude is looking pretty good today. And that dude is me."? The first step is deciding which way you want to go.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 12:44 AM
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I will quote Christopher Titus: "crazy makes you crazy. When you're with someone crazy, they make you crazy." I know he had a really tough childhood, and unfortunately bad upbringings often mean people don't learn the interpersonal skills they should have. I'm not giving him a pass though, because he's old enough and has had more than enough time in his life to get his act together. I'm sure the drugs only made it worse.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 11:46 PM
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I think those who sow divisions among people (whether the differences be politics, race, religion, gender, whatever) it's to distract us from the real divide between people: class. A lot of controversies are made up bullshit. Abortion, CRT, immigration, and so on. I've been meaning to dive into Noam Chomsky's work because he explains this all very well. r/lostgeneration
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 11:42 PM
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I just want to say this is very relatable, I dealt with something similar growing up. Redpill and parenting don't mix. I'm sorry you went through this.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 11:34 PM
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I'm not on Amber's side (I get bad vibes from her) but let's be real here, they are both incredibly messed up people. No wonder their relationship was a dumpster fire. I think the one good thing to come out of this case is that it shows men can get abused and mistreated as well.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 11:29 PM
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I just want to add that I've dated most exclusively computer/tech/stem guys, and they're not all alike either. Some of them were relatively stable and ok in life, others didn't have their act together at all. There's a large variety of people out there to meet, and you miss out on stuff in life if you try too hard to label people and put them in neat little boxes.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 11:22 PM
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I think an argument can be made that very few people are stable in their teens/early 20s, so most people will date other unstable people when they are younger and then settle down as they get older. It's not a gendered thing, it's a simple age and maturity thing.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 11:18 PM
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I think you came to a much healthier conclusion. It's kind of like being jealous of someone who receives a free pizza. Except they didn't order it, didn't ask for it, maybe they don't even like it and they can't eat gluten. Why be upset at them over it?
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 11:13 PM
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I'm just going to make a few counterpoints. Women didn't ask for this. It's all due to outdated gender norms. Decent people with a more modern way of thinking will see everyone as equals, and what makes someone worthy or worthless is how they treat other people. Example: someone who raises money for charity will be considered a better person than someone who is a sex offender. Gender doesn't matter in this equation. I think a lot of redpillers and blackpillers should reevaluate what societal nor…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 10:57 PM
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Yes.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 10:50 PM
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Exactly, if the guys were just lucky then how come the women weren't? If the women aren't lucky, then what are they?
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 03:15 PM
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rewarded and fawned after for simply existing. That's not exactly rewarding or something to be jealous of. It sounds boring, lazy, and unfair.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 03:13 PM
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Why is it hard to treat someone as an equal because you want something from them? Are you aware that treating them as equals may make it more likely for you to get what you want?
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 03:11 PM
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Some might think you're good looking, some might think you're hot. Either way it's above average, which is good.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 02:40 PM
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Dude, there's dozens of people telling you on here that you look fine. Good looking and hot, even. Random people on the internet have nothing to gain from lying to you. Your parents sound uncaring. Maybe you shouldn't listen to them if their opinions make you feel like crap. Go get help. You definitely have body image issues, maybe even bad enough to call it a disorder.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 01:34 PM
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You clearly have body image issues because you're not ugly whatsoever. Glasses might make you look even hotter. Spend your money on therapy.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 04:51 AM
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It sounds like you've already made up your mind on the answers to your questions. So why are you here?
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 04:47 AM
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That's it. This is the most fucked up thing I've seen in weeks. I'm getting off the internet and going back to my coloring books, I can't take this shit anymore.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 04:44 AM
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I'm sorry reality offends you.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 03:58 PM
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Oh I have plenty of guesses why men are desperate. Being young and horny Not knowing the difference between sex and romance Patriarchy, toxic masculinity, basically being taught as young men to be too self reliant and not open up about your issues, not having any healthy outlets Being taught chasing sex is like half the meaning of life and that it will make them worthy (I'm exaggerating but you get the point) Some combination of the above. If young guys such as yourself stopped acting as if you'…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 04:24 AM
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Good luck with that attitude
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 04:18 AM
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Sure it seems like that to you. But the rest of us that hang around on this subreddit know that a lot of redpillers and blackpillers have body image issues, mental health issues, and self esteem issues. So I'm not inclined to believe that you're as ugly as you think you are, or that being better looking will solve your issues. Once again, you might envy the looks of others. But being if having more dating/sex options or being better looking isn't what someone wants out of life, or if it comes at…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 02:57 AM
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If you want more out of life, you have to make something out of yourself. That goes for both genders. It's easy to envy someone who is valued in the way you wish you were valued. But if they don't want to be valued in that way, then it's useless to them.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 02:22 AM
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I've asked two of my female friends about this and and they told me I'm one of the very few male friends that didn't fall for them and how lucky they feel about it. I felt worthless. Why? They literally told you they appreciate you. Little they know that if they asked me out I'd say yes in a blink of an eye, the only reason i'm not attracted to them it's because I feel like they are way out of my league even tthough they are completely average women So what you're saying is that your self esteem…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 01:36 AM
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Agreed. Having standards is not hypergamy. I expect my partner to be able to hold down a job and have his own transportation. I expect him to have some sort of healthy social life. I can't date someone super religious. I can't date someone who is dishonest. I can't date someone who has kids. Guess what? I bring the same good qualities and attributes to the table. Having standards and offering the same standards yourself is not hypergamy. When someone is incredibly desperate to date or fuck anyon…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 01:25 AM
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No dude. Women get used and lied to. Women get ignored too. Women are valued by men quite often only for their looks/bodies. That's not a good thing, it's alienating and it invites harassment. Girls often get hit on before they even finish puberty, and it's never wanted attention. What is a good thing? Having higher standards to help weed out the guys who are bad eggs. Looks don't even factor into it at this point.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 01:21 AM
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I would like women to find more men attractive You said this. You're literally wishing women would change. If you want consistency, maybe start with yourself. Maybe you should put evolutionary psych on the back burner and do some reading on the nature vs. nurture debate. You seem to keep asserting that if people don't change in a way that benefits you, then evo psych is correct. It literally makes no sense and you're definitely arguing on an emotional basis here.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 01:14 AM
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What does the number of upvotes have anything to do with anything? These men want a romantic relationship You keep saying that with nothing to back it up. You also can't speak for all men. I'm sure a lot of guys want a romantic relationship. But there's just as many other guys out there who say they do want such a relationship, but back away or ghost or when the opportunity arises. Plenty more guys say they want a relationship but really they just lie about it to get sex. It's not easier for wom…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 01:08 AM
6

No shit haha
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 12:56 AM
16

You seem to have this belief that women only become friends with men they would date, Sounds like he's projecting what a lot of men do. They only befriend women they would date and/or fuck.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 12:52 AM
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It's not about recognizing homosexuality exists. That's a given. What you don't seem to understand is the contradiction that you expect women to change their preferences and what they are attracted to, but changing your own isn't going to happen if someone asked that of you. It's hypocritical.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 12:51 AM
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So you're not a gay dude but you think you get to speak for gay men because you got hit on by one once? Dude you are still drowning in redpill. Do you want to leave redpill or not? Because you're repeating the same redpill shit over and over without taking in any new information. I find it hard to believe you actually want to leave it behind. Maybe more women would give you a chance if you weren't spewing redpill shit left and right. Maybe you don't talk about it in real life, but people can pic…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 12:48 AM
8

I know you're hung up on this evo psych stuff, but you're forgetting cultural and societal influences. For example, a lot of women have an adversion to sex due to religious/societal/cultural lessons they've learned growing up. Why engage in an activity if doing so gets you labeled a slut, a whore, worthless, sinful, used up, and so on? Purity culture is a huge thing in America. It has a huge affect on both men's and women's sex drives and desires (or lack thereof.) You know what else? Redpill he…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 12:45 AM
10

Maybe you should be asking "why are women so picky" less, and ask more "why are guys not picky?" Everyone should have standards. Ironically, having less standards sometimes leads to getting less romantic and sexual opportunities. Reeking of desperation is a turn off and it shows someone has little self respect.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 12:38 AM
11

I'm pretty sure a gay dude in this thread just debunked what you said. What even is your point? If women do happen to feel safe around the dudes they are around, they absolutely should be attracted more to them? Come on dude. Being safe isn't the only factor in being attracted to someone. And you don't get to dictate to others who and what they should be attracted to.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 12:35 AM
6

Women being picky =/= hypergamy.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 12:33 AM
6

I don't think you addressed my point at all. It's like you're addressing something else entirely.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 12:31 AM
11

Bro you are drowning in redpill and every single comment you make just regurgitates redpill crap you've read.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 11:08 PM
10

You have no clue how attraction works.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 11:07 PM
9

Lol because they're not valid. You missed the point. If you think it's so easy for others to change their sexuality but they simply refuse to, then why don't you just change yours? Easy peasy
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 11:07 PM
8

Maybe he should have gotten some post nut clarity before he wrote this post. 🤣
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 11:04 PM
19

So, because you're desperate and you find most other people attractive, other people should think like you do?
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 11:02 PM
6

Do you know who is committing these crimes against men? Most often, it is other men.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 10:58 PM
19

It's like these guys have never stepped foot into Wal-Mart.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 04:20 PM
1

And what?
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 04:17 PM
1

I think this can't be ruled out, but it's probably a very tiny percentage of these guys.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 06:56 AM
1

No matter how she looked, he'd probably make fun of her.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 06:56 AM
1

Yup, when you hire a circus don't be surprised when you get clowns and monkeys.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 06:54 AM
2

This. It's a combination of insecurities + low emotional intelligence/regulation.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 06:52 AM
5

He's a fucking scumbag.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 06:51 AM
2

This is very well written!
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 06:49 AM
1

Generally whoever is doing the asking out should be the one to pay for the date.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 06:44 AM
1

Every guy I've dated (but one) I've made more money than them. We also would split expenses/dates roughly 50/50. We wouldn't necessarily only pay for ourselves, but we would simply take turns paying for dates/outings/gifts.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 06:43 AM
6

Feminism isn't a dating strategy.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/22 11:01 PM
16

Redpill guys probably won't be there for their kids either, so it just continues the ugly cycle.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/22 01:26 PM
1

Redpill definitely isn't the way to go if you want a real relationship.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/22 01:25 PM
1

So the entire endgame is sex? Not sure why any redpill guy would want to go through all the trouble you just mentioned. Just pay for sex and cut the bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 09:33 PM
0

"Free attention" can you elaborate on this please? What's wrong with attention and why should it not be free?
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 03:38 PM
9

Source?
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 03:35 PM
0

Never said you had to. Enjoy your day.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 08:08 PM
0

I don't believe you.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 03:25 PM
1

The men that pay are not gross. They don’t want to try and manipulate their way into sex through a relationship like most men do Lol either you haven't met those types of gross dudes, or you're one of them yourself.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 12:55 AM
1

I'm not the only one making that complaint. Are you high?
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 12:48 AM
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Don’t you think if you were truly ex redpill, you wouldn’t be so triggered by some of the responses? Just want to add that it's not easy to unlearn something once you learn it.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 05:50 PM
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Your post and your comments make no sense. Your thinking seems to be all over the place and distorted.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 04:53 PM
8

Fetlife and tinder don't speak for all women. The only person spreading misinformation here is you.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 07:56 PM
22

Why do you put so much stock into not being masculine enough, but you say you won't care about not being feminine enough? Huge contradiction there.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 06:03 PM
1

That doesn't make redpill true, it just means your wife is a bad communicator. Some people are, and often it gets worse with age.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 01:29 AM
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They don't get it at all. They blame their wife's decreasing level of interest in them on "yeah she wants someone better than you bro" Like how the fuck does that fix anything and how the fuck is it truthful? If you treat someone like shit, they won't like you anymore. It's that simple. No need for manipulative bullshit if you actually care about your marriage.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 01:28 AM
1

I want to believe that a lot of those posts are made up bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 01:25 AM
1

Glad to hear he's an ex.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 01:24 AM
1

My stepdad is kinda redpilled. My mom is basically a battered housewife. Not a healthy dynamic at all.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 01:22 AM
2

Ask questions while providing little details, get answers that provide little details.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 01:19 AM
13

My question is, how do you not?
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 04:40 AM
2

issue is that some redpillers/blackpillers lack the socio-economic purchasing power to participate in therapy To be fair, this is an issue that many Americans are facing regardless of their background. Thanks to our healthcare system.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 11:17 PM
1

No space is a safe space when you leave your echo chamber comfort zone. But you don't live, learn, or grow until you do leave your comfort zone.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 10:36 PM
3

Lol wrong. You are so naive dude. Are you thinking for yourself or just repeating stuff you were told? Have you considered that maybe the reason you haven't had luck with the ladies is because you harbor laughably ridiculous beliefs such as what you just said?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 10:15 PM
5

You don't know what the orgasm gap is, do you?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 06:46 PM
1

Because you don't know it until you try it.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 01:43 AM
4

Even if that's true, it doesn't mean shit if someone doesn't want those opportunities. What exactly is the benefit for a woman to sleep around anyway?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 01:35 AM
3

On the attention part. I don’t know the ratio of good attention to bad attention but I would assume its 80% good or neutral and 20% bad Hahahahaha you sweet summer child
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 01:29 AM
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women are just as flawed as men and sometimes their own hatred of men she come out in certain ways or certain phrases or beliefs Nobody is saying this isn't the case. But revenge still isn't helpful even when you take gender out of the equation. Do you know how many years I spent arguing with female friends over the same type of logic. Never wanted to take accountability and not realizing what they're saying is hurting me just as much as whatever they think men are doing is hurting them? Account…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/22 10:30 PM
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What is the point of this comment? How is any of this helpful or useful?
/r/ExRedPill30/04/22 10:26 PM
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Yeah, it's only easier if you consider any and all attention to be a good thing. Spoiler: it's not.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 11:16 PM
1

I'm pointing out your labeling men not participating in dating / marriage as woman haters. I never said all men who don't participate in dating/marriage are women haters. I was talking about the redpilled men in particular that OP was talking about. You jumped to that conclusion on your own. If being alone is working for you, cool beans. I honestly don't care. Whatever floats your boat.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 05:02 AM
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I don't hate anybody. You seem turned off by the concept of dating and marriage, and I'm pointing out that the simple solution is don't get involved at all. But apparently that's offensive to you for whatever reason.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 03:31 AM
1

Okay? If that's what you believe, then don't participate. Mind your own business and find something else to do with your life.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 09:52 PM
1

I don't think anyone here understands what you just wrote. Find a better argument Learn to describe your points to others in a more coherent manner
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 03:54 AM
3

In this economy???
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 03:51 AM
1

Thanks for the DM that admitted how lonely you are. Quit pretending to be someone you're not and maybe you'll get somewhere.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 02:14 PM
1

Lol and how's that working out for you?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 06:26 PM
2

r/lostgeneration
/r/ExRedPill11/04/22 07:03 AM
1

That's a long-winded way of saying "I hate women because I don't understand them."
/r/ExRedPill11/04/22 06:59 AM
3

Same. I've dated a handful of guys and only one of them made more money than me.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/22 06:58 AM
4

but women are told that they can spend their 20s exploring their bodies and having a career and then in your 30s have a family What exactly is wrong with that? It's normal behavior to have fun and goof around when you're young and then want to settle down later. For men and women. Also it's not a bad idea to wait until you have a stable job, housing, and income before having kids. which is not an option because guys don't want that Says who?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/22 06:57 AM
3

So childfree women don't date? What?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/22 06:54 AM
2

They didn't say anywhere they only cared about themselves. They were describing what their trust is founded upon. Here's a hint: they have it figured out in a healthy way.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/22 06:51 AM
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Because they hate women, it's that simple. They only care about the wrongdoings of women. Plus a lot of male on male sexual assault is probably assumed to be a gay problem, and Redpillers don't seem to concern themselves with anything to do with the LGBTQ community. (For the record that's not my opinion of anything LGBTQ related, I'm just relaying information.)
/r/ExRedPill11/04/22 03:22 AM
3

Troll account with hateful and bad advice.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/22 12:20 AM
1

Don't care. It happens.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 04:29 PM
3

Quit it with the catastrophic thinking. You're not doing yourself any favors.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 04:27 PM
1

I'm not sure how much guys understand it, but it absolutely is possible to pick up on someone's personality and attitude from their expressions and how they carry themselves. Women are probably more socialized to figure it out.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 05:33 PM
1

First of all, that already has been taught to women for centuries. Are you new to this planet? Second, it's shown to be ineffective at deterring sexual assault/abuse because predators don't discriminate based on how someone is dressed. They look for the easiest targets, not the hottest ones. Hence why the narrative has changed on what we've been teaching girls.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/22 11:58 PM
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The human brain doesn't stop developing until around age 25, and it's not bigoted to point that out. Pointing it out in women is not infantilizing them or being misogynist. Go read a fucking psychology book.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/22 11:55 PM
3

OP, this right here.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/22 11:52 PM
3

How do you know what's right and what's the truth? Go out and experience life, see what works and what doesn't. Learn from your mistakes. This is what everybody has to do for themselves. Redpill has brought out your insecurities to the extreme and possibly has given you even more insecurities. Get to the bottom of your insecurities and work on healing them. I suggest seeing a therapist to help you work through this. Bro you really need it. This is too much for you to handle on your own. Take dat…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/22 11:51 PM
2

It's true but I don't see how being put up on that pedestal is beneficial to anyone.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 10:31 PM
3

Society teaches you to put women on a pedestal and treat them like glass dolls. Can you elaborate more on this? Examples?
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 04:59 PM
3

There's plenty of good reasons out there to not have kids and not get married, and they don't necessarily have anything to do with redpill or gender politics.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/22 08:17 PM
4

It depends, is that shadow self a good person or is it someone toxic? Is that shadow self someone who wants to be more outgoing and helpful and cheerful, or is it someone who only brings drama and toxicity and abuse to the table? Let the former out to play. As for the latter, acknowledge it exists and do everything to make it better.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/22 08:13 PM
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Toxic manipulative people obviously have their bad side, but what people often don't realize is that they're good at love bombing too. It's the same reason why regular dudes out there settle and stay with toxic women. They fall for their sweet side, stick with them through the toxic behaviors, hope it gets better but rarely does. Eventually if they have kids, marriage, and combined finances it gets harder to leave. I've seen toxic relationships of a number of different types, sometimes it's the …
/r/ExRedPill15/03/22 08:10 PM
4

It's the economy, social media, lack of support systems for men, mental health issues, and political extremism all mixed together to form the perfect storm.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/22 08:02 PM
1

Look for red flags.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/22 11:56 PM
1

Why should any woman want to date a guy who has zero standards? Basically it would mean he's just looking for any woman and he doesn't give a shit about her in particular. That in itself will drive people away from you. People don't lose their virginity after they lose their standards. That's not how it works.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/22 05:59 AM
7

If there's one thing that every woman does have in common, it's that they have a small crush on Volodymyr Zelensky.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/22 02:26 AM
2

Long story short, I ended up suicidal and hating myself thanks to his abuse.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/22 05:45 AM
3

Dudes 18-19 years old are naive and inexperienced too. It's an age thing, not a gendered thing.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/22 05:43 AM
3

Yup, they want all of the power but none of the responsibility.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/22 11:56 PM
2

Entitled much?
/r/ExRedPill25/02/22 03:25 AM
10

You need to read more about narcissism and how abusive relationships work.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/22 03:19 AM
2

Relevant: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qj0ozp/i_think_i_met_my_first_cheap_angry_hypocritical/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/ExRedPill20/02/22 08:45 PM
3

Why is it such a common problem among men that they don't seem to have much purpose to their life?
/r/ExRedPill18/02/22 10:30 PM
2

Technically, having any preferences will narrow down your dating pool. But that's the whole point, not everyone is going to mesh with your life and you can't change people into someone they are not.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/22 10:23 PM
2

High school is a joke. The rest of life is not like high school. I guarantee you that everyone else is also dealing with bullshit, you're not the only one. Get through this torture chamber the best you can, try to make some friends and get the best grades you can. Teenagers are assholes a lot of the time, I'm sorry that's how it is. But you have your whole life ahead of you to figure out relationships and love.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/22 11:18 PM
6

Lol they think they can bully and shame women into dating them. But they don't realize it's most likely to not work.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 10:41 PM
14

Wanting to be degraded in the bedroom doesn't mean wanting to be degraded as a human being. Do you understand the difference? Someone's sex life doesn't dictate their worth as a person. Edit: also people use their playtime in the bedroom to experiment with doing things they normally wouldn't ever be okay with. The whole point is vulnerability and trusting your partner with that vulnerability.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 07:13 PM
8

You often won't even get to know why they think you're garbage. There's the big information void that redpill grifters are all too happy to fill. You're assuming rejection always equals "she thinks I'm trash." No dude, the whole point is don't take it personally. And you yourself are filling that information void with garbage statements.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 07:08 PM
3

That's not how science works.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 07:03 PM
5

Lol there's women in their early 40s having kids. Not as common but it does happen.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 07:02 PM
13

Usually people who make fun of others for being old and/or ugly are afraid of being old and ugly themselves. Women are typically happier when single, compared to men. They also live longer. A single woman who is on the internet discussing health/fitness for 35+ ladies is obviously happier than dudes who hide behind their computer screens, leaving nasty messages for her and blaming their singleness on everyone but themselves.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 08:33 AM
6

PPD is definitely usually one-sided, it's overrun by redpillers and incels.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 08:27 AM
3

That sounds more like some alpha guru trying to make some ad money and sell courses via easy promises, And the red pill. Lol you think these are two different things... 🤣
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 08:25 AM
5

What you're forgetting is that there are different ways to view and interpret statistics. Much of the time, statistics can be spun to promote some sort of narrative. Redpill is not statistics. Redpill is an interpretation of statistics, and not a good interpretation at that. Statistics is huge in psychology and the social sciences, and I find it fascinating how if redpill was true they would mention it and teach it somewhere in higher education. But obviously that's not happening.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 08:23 AM
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I found two posts to get you started: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/ro6ej4/what_were_the_most_damaging_aspects_of_the_red/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/r3v7lr/all_pills_are_a_waste_of_time_spend_your_limited/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 01:40 AM
18

If you want answers, go read the posts from the people who tried redpill or had to deal with a redpilled person. See for yourself the damage. Nobody can change the mind of someone who doesn't want to have their mind changed. So this subreddit might not have any value to you.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 12:18 AM
26

Lol right? The entitlement
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 12:17 AM
1

Because those street interviews don't represent all women.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/22 10:02 PM
2

Well said.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/22 03:07 AM
2

Good point, I didn't even look
/r/ExRedPill28/01/22 04:30 PM
4

That would be considered a double standard. It's an unfair and selfish expectation to put on someone.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/22 12:11 AM
1

Indeed
/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 05:28 AM
3

Well, technically if he did murder you after you were born you wouldn't feel differently. Because you wouldn't be alive in the first place to feel anything.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 05:02 AM
1

Redpill claims they are. I'm not saying you said that.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 04:50 AM
1

I'm not sure why you think I would disagree? I don't think what you said contradicts what I said whatsoever. That's why I called it a necessary evil. Because as bad as it is what you described, there's some situations where a couple staying together is even worse. I'm gonna leave it at that. Thank you for the conversation.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 04:49 AM
3

Like attracts like.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 11:46 PM
1

I don't see it as fine and good. More of a necessary evil, I'd say. I've never been divorced, but from what I hear most divorced people are glad they got divorced. Or at least they're glad to move on. Broken homes are due to broken people. Broken people often come from broken homes. It's about breaking the cycle.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 11:36 PM
4

It sounds like this is what your entire opinion boils down to. Your gut says women are the gatekeepers of sex, so therefore more of the responsibility falls on them. And your life experiences back this up. Am I correct? The thing is, it's not that your experiences didn't happen. They did. That is valid. But your experiences aren't the entire picture of what happens in the world between men and women. There are indeed men who turn down women and reject them. There are men who turn down sex. It ha…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 11:32 PM
4

Exactly! (For the sake of argument) if men are inherently the better half of our species, then how come so many they aren't stepping up and being the fathers they should be? And they would handle that responsibility no matter what.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 11:22 PM
2

I wish you luck in your journey. Remember all you can do is make better choices than they did.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 11:13 PM
1

Whether or not she was making the best decision is debatable, but clearly at the time she thought she was doing the best she could. It wasn't your dad's decision to birth you but he could have done his part to prevent pregnancy too.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 11:06 PM
1

You tell us. Was him paying child support enough to raise you? You needed a father figure to teach you how to be a man. Is paying child support a good enough substitute for that? Because you seem bitter that you didn't have that father figure/second parent in your life, and yet you think that paying child support is him doing his job? That doesn't make sense man.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 11:01 PM
7

Honestly that's a very common reason why people have kids and it's stupid. They think having a kid will keep their partner in their lives. They think a kid will solve their relationship issues. That NEVER works out. I'm sorry this happened to you but it's not a gendered issue... both men and women have done this to each other.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 10:49 PM
1

I'm not gonna go into detail but I have had experience with redpill guys. Redpill doesn't live in a vacuum, it has real life consequences and effects on people. Both men and women.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 10:29 PM
5

This is true and it reminds me of how some men get jealous of their own offspring. The mom will be spending so much time taking care of their baby and the dad sees the child as a threat, because he is super needy and insecure.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 10:26 PM
1

That's not what your earlier comment sounded like but okay.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 10:23 PM
0

Divorce itself isn't the problem. Divorce is necessary in many cases. The problem is that couples often get together for the wrong reasons or when they aren't ready for marriage.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 08:11 PM
1

Find people who don't give a shit on how you look.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 08:03 PM
2

I have a story I'd love to share, if you want to share it on your channel. DM me if you like.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 07:59 PM
3

Birth rates have declined drastically since the 60s/70s, so this right off the bat disproves their lies. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-57003722 This is basically common knowledge, so it's funny how redpillers think their beliefs are based on evidence. Anybody who does try to trap their partner with a kid (man or woman) has mental issues that need to be worked on.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 07:53 PM
1

So brown people are the problem? That's what you're saying?
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 07:43 PM
1

Defend themselves from what? There would be less people on the streets with guns you would need to defend yourself from. There's no such thing as "running out of other people's money" when the tax system continuously supports social programs. Countries with robust social programs have the happiest people, such as the Nordic countries. Do you think those countries are out of money? Do they have runaway inflation? They're definitely doing something right.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/22 10:12 PM
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There's tons of childfree/childless people out there who are happy with their lives.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/22 09:58 PM
18

He blames women, insults women for having high standards, for being promiscuous, and as you noted- frames the "ideal woman" as a dependent doormat who has been groomed to tolerate abuse and mistreatment. But at the same time, redpillers will insult women and say "why don't you pick better men?" The fact that he frames "high value men" as being entitled to cheat shows that he isn't concerned with kids growing up with single parents- which is the outcome of encouraging "high value men" to cheat on…
/r/ExRedPill13/01/22 06:05 PM
4

I remember having many dumb conversations with redpillers/blackpillers, this one frequently came up: "Women have to worry more about their safety more than men do." RP'er: "men get attacked too!" Me: "yeah, statistically by other men." RP'er: "but men get attacked too! What about the men?" Me: "yes, statistically men get assaulted more often by other men. Why is there so much violence among guys?" Somehow they still blame it all on women.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 09:42 PM
3

Or they do realize it, and enjoy it as some sort of power/control move. It's a fucked up mentality.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 01:21 AM
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Not even entirely sure why some redpillers want to get married in the first place. If the second you marry and sleep with a woman and she turns 30 she's no good anymore, then why would you want to be married to her? It's fucking stupid. If women only have value if they are "untouched" (so to speak) and you villify women who have less value, then why would you devalue them?
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 01:15 AM
3

Covid is hurting everyone's dating life, you're not the only one.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 12:32 AM
7

Those are great activities but they are usually solo activities. Find some way to make them social. Join a book club, find a sport or workout class, something of that nature.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 12:30 AM
1

Do you work? Even at my shitty job out of high school I met tons of people.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 12:28 AM
3

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/better-divorce/202002/why-do-people-divorce
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 02:22 PM
6

No. I wouldn't say most men agree with redpill content.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 11:49 PM
11

The guys who say this phrase aren't asking fishermen, they're asking guys who have never caught a fish in their life.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 11:20 PM
1

You're going to get a lot of women who ditch you simply because you are trying to "game" them. So no, it's not going to work on everyone.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 02:33 PM
6

I don't see what's wrong with saying "I suck at this thing and I need to do better." It's part of being honest and mature. It's part of growing up. Sometimes you have to admit that something is indeed a negative thing.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 02:32 PM
2

Even then that's nowhere near a majority. You should see a professional and discuss why your opinions don't reflect reality.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 10:31 PM
2

Actually 6% of the population is black people, so black men in Minnesota is probably about 3% of the population.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:59 PM
6

Well said. OP is super biased.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:58 PM
7

Okay? So what? That's one example out of the billions of couples in the world. Minnesota is 83% white people and 6% black people. Do you honestly believe only 3% of the people in Minnesota is partnering up and getting laid? Come on. You should know better. Like I said, confirmation bias.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 03:46 PM
7

Confirmation bias
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 03:28 PM
1

Agreed. Besides, if women are all trash, then it's time to be gay. /s
/r/ExRedPill28/12/21 02:48 AM
6

Oh look, another shitpost from OP who has some internalized racism. Good luck trying to bait us, it's not going to work. People have their own opinions and you don't get to dictate for them what they find attractive or not. That didn't work in your last posts, did you think it would work this time? OP, if you want people to stop judging others for their looks, why are you contributing to the problem? Do you realize you're also harassing the people in the photos? Fuck off and go get professional …
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 09:07 PM
12

OP has some internalized racism.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 05:11 AM
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I'm sorry to say you most likely have some internalized racism. It's really sad how you want to shit all over the guy in the picture because you are projecting your insecurities that you aren't dealing with properly.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 05:10 AM
11

You don't get to dictate the opinions of others.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 05:08 AM
22

"oh yeah you want these big pussy flaps baby, they so moist and I wanna put them on your face baby". This would be some A++ flair
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 11:22 AM
3

Less and less people (both men and women) are having kids. Why? Because they don't want to. Why don't people want kids? Because of the economy, political turmoil, climate change, prices of housing/Healthcare/childcare/cars/everything else important has skyrocketed, mental health awareness, and so on. We don't need more people on this planet, it's not sustainable. It's been a steep uphill battle trying to switch over to renewable energy/resources. Automation has been replacing jobs and will conti…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 09:53 PM
7

Have you never been on this sub before? There's tons of stories about how redpill is bullshit and doesn't work. Pay attention.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 08:38 AM
1

I think too many people enter marriage with wrong/unrealistic, or mismatched expectations. Money, kids, sex, or anything else you can think of.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 08:34 AM
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Third would be that girls with high body counts have had their DNA and personalities altered because of the “nuts the dudes she fucked busted in her”. Like holy shit how do you fail sex Ed this bad. Not even joking, I had a guy tell me this in real life. I ghosted him quickly after that. Lol that's not how DNA works...
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 05:25 PM
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Lol right? Plus where is this assumption coming from that all women just want attention?
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 08:14 AM
2

I'm a woman and I wish we were valued for what work and skills we contribute, not just our bodies. The grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 06:45 AM
1

You are correct. And if you weren't, subreddits like r/deadbedrooms wouldn't exist.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 04:04 AM
22

I agree with your definitions here.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 04:03 AM
8

Agreed, redpill promotes a life that is devoid of anything that makes human life unique and happy and worth living.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 08:18 PM
3

Can confirm.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 04:03 PM
2

safely Strong emphasis on this word.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/21 12:28 AM
1

Dude... just leave. You're not benefitting from this relationship at all.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/21 12:16 AM
1

You can have fun with anyone. You can have even more fun when you're with someone who isn't an asshole.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/21 12:15 AM
1

When someone shows you who they really are as a person, believe them. You can't change people. That's probably the worst fantasy someone can engage in. If anything, by staying with this dickhead you're showing him that he indeed can act/talk shitty and someone will put up with it.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/21 12:13 AM
5

Generally, yes.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 12:25 AM
7

And people wonder why women go to bathrooms in groups...
/r/ExRedPill06/12/21 08:07 AM
1

Dude people know that dating costs money.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 08:24 PM
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Normal people who are on a budget don't go all extravagant and expensive anyway, at least not for the first few dates. One of the best dates I ever went on, we went to a local burger joint. Just be polite about it and clear up who will be paying before the check comes.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 08:17 PM
1

Simple solution: go dutch. Both of you pay for your own. But be polite about it and ask if that's ok beforehand. Or a lot of times what I've done, I'll pay for the meal and my date pays for the movie/arcade/insert activity here. Or vice versa. It's a nice gesture from both parties, and usually the prices of the meal and activity are in the same ballpark.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 08:12 PM
2

Step 3: go talk to people in real life
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 12:53 AM
1

How do expect to sleep with someone and have those moments together without talking to them, getting to know them, and using the phone to communicate? Do you think people travel together and sleep together while just staring at each other, not talking?
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 11:34 PM
3

I think you need professional help more than you need a girlfriend.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 11:32 PM
2

Use your imagination, for starters. Brainstorm. Part of dating is getting to know someone and getting a vibe of who they are as a person. Especially for women, they aren't going to get with a guy they know nothing about. It's not safe. Talk to them like a normal human being. Don't make demands on someone so early, you just met them for God's sake. Use common courtesy.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 11:31 PM
4

Why are the two extremes "put in little/no effort" and "harass them until they agree"? Neither option works. Can you not find any happy medium between the two options?
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 08:03 PM
4

You can't control how much you text? Does your brain not send signals to your hands on how to handle your phone? That's a new one.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 08:01 PM
2

Nobody said it was.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 08:00 PM
3

Wow, way to ignore advice and blow that all out of proportion.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 07:59 PM
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These red pill dating coaches especially encourage women not to be idealistic and waste time chasing a high value man But then they turn around and blame women for being with a shitty guy, because she should have been more picky. Fucking pick one.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 03:59 PM
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It's shitty advice no matter who is what gender. Don't put up with shitty behavior.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 03:56 PM
2

Agreed, but I would call all of them together a "system." Don't get me wrong, they do all influence each other. r/lostgeneration might be for you.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 05:05 AM
2

Sexism, capitalism, and mental illness is the cause of all of that.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 04:42 AM
7

Remember, naturalizing history, and social dynamics is a fundamentally right wing endeavor. That is what is behind redpill at its core, reactionary politics. I've always wondered why right-wingers have this tendency. Considering how anti-science so many are. Considering how much they emphasize personal responsibility. Personal responsibility means that people do indeed think for themselves and don't just go off their biological instincts. How do they claim social influence is negligible, while a…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 04:39 AM
5

Because misogyny hurts everyone.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 12:29 AM
4

Right, because falling asleep early is something nobody in the history of ever has ever done.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/21 03:24 PM
1

Endocrinated? Lol
/r/ExRedPill30/11/21 06:50 PM
3

Oh really? Because I've seen tons of people on subreddits such as ones like these, and reddit in general, where they say their parents were shitty and they didn't have a good role model. Do you live under a fucking rock? Lol your comment makes no fucking sense. You realize you're insulting men, too? Right? You're saying men want to sleep with animals. Grow the fuck up.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/21 03:15 PM
3

Is it the job of women to be good male role models to young men and boys?
/r/ExRedPill30/11/21 01:43 PM
2

If you reject women you like just to play stupid ass games with them... Any decent woman will be like "lol ok bye." Any woman who does start chasing such a guy is probably as nuts as he is.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/21 11:34 AM
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What's with all the pro-redpill content? Can't detox if you're still consuming it. For real, what percentage of men have zero role models and they need to resort to reading online garbage to give them any sense of direction in life? What a sad world we live in. Men have failed men.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/21 11:32 AM
8

Some of the angriest, bitter, and most condescending people I've ever spoken to on Reddit have been redpillers.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/21 01:35 AM
1

Evidence?
/r/ExRedPill30/11/21 12:36 AM
4

None of what you said even remotely applies to me. Nice try. Lol, first you assume I'm a dude then you assume I'm a woman. Nothing I said is a gendered perspective. Once again, how do you expect anyone to listen to your arguments when you won't do the same for others? I think this conversation has run its course. I hope you one day learn an ounce of respect, understanding, and empathy. I hope one day you ditch your condescending and manipulative attitude. Thank the lord I don't know you in real …
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 10:50 PM
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It's a pretty sad, ugly, and serious story. There's a lot of ugly graphic details. I don't think you're mature enough for that kind of serious conversation. And I don't believe you're ready to hear it either. I'm not going to waste my energy describing the long list of evil I saw for you to only laugh at it. Best of luck to you in your endeavors. Edit to add: don't expect others to take your viewpoints seriously when you won't do the same to others.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 09:51 PM
5

Actually yeah I kind of was. I saw how much damage it does to people.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 09:33 PM
5

Why are you even on this sub anyway? This is EX redpill and you're clearly still addicted to the Kool-Aid
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 09:15 PM
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Lol I doubt biologists or anthropologists will agree with you.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 09:13 PM
6

You don't speak for all dudes
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 08:38 PM
5

Some of us have experiences we want to share about how we encountered redpilled people. Redpill doesn't live in a vacuum. There's no rule saying this sub is only for people who were redpilled.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 08:37 PM
3

Who spit in your cereal this morning?
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 08:35 PM
6

It's a shitty viewpoint of men, too. Like the only way men can be successful is if they stomp all over women. Misogyny hurts everyone.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 08:34 PM
4

Good point
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 08:33 PM
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That went right over your head, didn't it? There's a difference between wanting a traditional wife and having a shitty opinion on what a woman's place is in the world.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 08:31 PM
11

Honestly she doesn't know what she's missing. Teaching people who are virgins/inexperienced can be a ton of fun.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 06:45 AM
6

My point was that it's a possible source of their misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 05:18 AM
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He sounds like a jerk and an idiot. Do not listen to his bullshit. You deserve to go as far with your education and career as you possibly can. I've met misogynists like him, and deep down they are jealous of successful women and want to take credit for what they accomplish, or at least say she doesn't deserve it. He's a bigger clown than Bozo. Dump him.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 03:23 AM
2

Blackpill science isn't a thing. It's not science.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/21 03:45 PM
2

I don't even know what he looks like and I would call him a creep.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/21 11:56 PM
2

Occam's razor. It's more likely that he lied.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/21 11:52 PM
2

🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮 That's my opinion.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/21 11:48 PM
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Yeah. OP has some confirmation bias going on.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/21 11:45 PM
1

Why would any of us be saying this stuff if we didn't believe it to be true?
/r/ExRedPill25/11/21 05:04 PM
7

Maybe, but not the type of women who are worthwhile to date.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 08:11 PM
2

"Half your age plus 7" and you'll be fine bro
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 08:08 PM
3

Age gaps in general increase the likelihood of divorce.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 04:29 AM
5

People in general are less picky when it comes to hookups. As far as I'm aware. How much less picky? Depends on the person.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 04:28 AM
3

Or they figure out he's a creep/not serious and they leave him. I rarely ever hear of older men dumping younger women, but maybe that's my own bias?
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 04:26 AM
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I think that's why the "men age like wine" argument is appealing to redpillers, it gives them hope that they will have better luck with women later in life. It goes in hand with the "women like older men" argument.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 04:25 AM
2

Yeah there's a difference between dating and marriage, too. Some people will date certain people but not marry them, and vice versa.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 04:22 AM
12

I find it interesting to see all the pro age gap people come out of the woodwork in this post. Not entirely sure why you guys want to give credit to toxic redpill ideas, and confuse the guys who are trying to leave.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 03:10 AM
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Lol I didn't dig through your comment history. It was like the first thing I saw when I clicked on your profile, plain as day. Why did you date an old fart, then?
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 02:12 AM
8

I didn't say any of that, but ok.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 02:03 AM
1

Everyone has their own unique experiences bro.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 12:26 AM
10

Well, in your post history you're talking about your eating disorder. No judgment, I'm sorry you've been dealing with that. But you're only proving my point. Mental illness is a factor, plus your relationship didn't work out.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 12:25 AM
1

That was a lot of rambling...
/r/ExRedPill23/11/21 11:30 PM
8

Look around you, do you often see couples with large age gaps where the guy is much older than the woman?
/r/ExRedPill23/11/21 11:26 PM
7

If you only look at statistics and not individual humans, then no wonder you're not getting it.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/21 12:20 AM
2

r/lostgeneration
/r/ExRedPill22/11/21 09:53 PM
1

Lol I guarantee you the dads are broke too.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/21 01:22 AM
1

So you agree they are all predators then? Nobody is forcing you to date people you aren't attracted to. Why are you defending these predators anyway? Are you one yourself?
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 11:17 PM
1

What for? Why would you marry someone you don't trust to handle themselves around the opposite sex?
/r/ExRedPill18/11/21 02:18 PM
2

Agreed
/r/ExRedPill18/11/21 02:17 PM
3

Sounds like you found a shitty friend
/r/ExRedPill18/11/21 02:15 PM
1

You mean like marriage?
/r/ExRedPill18/11/21 02:12 PM
5

Or they just pretend bisexuality isn't real.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/21 05:28 AM
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Guys that go for young girls are either predators and/or aren't mature enough to find someone their own age.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/21 05:28 AM
1

My bad.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/21 03:31 PM
1

No wonder you have dating issues... you don't even know what a healthy relationship looks like.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/21 03:34 PM
1

What exactly do you believe people in relationships do during their time together ?
/r/ExRedPill15/11/21 02:19 PM
1

People generally like being friends with their SO. More stuff in common = stuff to talk about and stuff to do together.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/21 07:53 AM
2

Bartending job would be great. It's decent money, those jobs are going begging right now, learn to socialize better and meet more people. Plus it's a cool skill. You are automatically an important person at any bar/restaurant/club. u/AmbitionLazy this could seriously be perfect for you.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/21 09:03 PM
1

There's free/cheap events to check out. I met a ton of people going to $5-8 local concerts.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/21 09:00 PM
1

Facebook events are also a great place to look for stuff to check out.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/21 08:59 PM
1

Sounds like you have bigger problems to worry about than dating. Yes I would seek professional help. Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 05:16 AM
1

r/momforaminute r/adulting I think there's a youtube channel called "dad how do I...?" I completely understand, my parents did the same shit. You have my sympathies. Fortunately there are resources out there for you to learn anything you want. Whenever you're ready to take that step. The sooner the better, trust me. Once you get the ball rolling, it gets easier.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 12:21 AM
1

I think it boils down to, if all you do is look at the statistics and read what is written about someone/a group of people, then you won't ever truly know them. People grow, learn, and change. For better or worse. It's kind of like if you read someone's resume, that doesn't tell you everything you need to know about if they are right for the job. Would you appreciate it if someone did the same thing to you? Lol that's why online dating is shitty, a bio doesn't tell you everything. Wasn't trying …
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 02:28 AM
2

It's not the dollar amount. Can you cook? Clean? Take care of children and/or pets? Fix up the house? Take care of shit like an adult and act like an adult? Have any other useful skills?
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 09:58 AM
5

I don't insist on "going dutch" but what usually happens with my partner is I'll pay for one date, they will pay for the next. Then it's my turn. Maybe one of us will pay for some small stuff a few times in a row, but then the other person will make up for it with a more expensive date or something along those lines. It evens out.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 09:55 AM
2

Agreed
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 09:50 AM
5

Dude it happens every day, what planet are you on?
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 09:47 AM
5

The judge makes the final decision
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 09:46 AM
8

The person who showed up to class and got a 70% on a test did better than the person who didn't show up and got a 0%
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 09:44 AM
4

It applies to both genders. It's not completely equal, for example. There's more birth control options for women, but it's easier to get sterilized as a man. (It's less invasive and doctors are more willing to do it.) But either way the same principle applies.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 09:42 AM
3

The basic premise is that women have to be choosy in picking their mates, since women carry a lot of risk and invest a lot in gestation & child rearing, and can only give birth to a few children over their lifetime It's funny because many redpillers will then turn around and make other arguments saying women don't have to carry a lot of risk, that women are careless, and it's men who do all the hard work and risk taking in life. Because his bank account is more important, or some shit. Lol so wh…
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 02:12 AM
1

It's not about trying to bypass scientific facts, or whatever the hell you meant by that. It's about the way you misuse scientific research (which you didn't even provide, you provided some shit that one person said and their opinion doesn't speak for the entire scientific community) and use it to place value judgments onto the lives of human beings. It's pretty disgusting. People should have inherent value as long as they treat others well. This isn't a scientific argument I'm making, it's a ph…
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 02:09 AM
4

Why does the 80/20 rule only apply to women? Does it not apply to men, too? Or does it just assume that most/all men will fuck anything that moves? The 80/20 rule is insulting to men, too.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 12:45 AM
5

Not to mention, why is it assumed that 9% increase is not due to more men not wanting kids? Does it even specify anywhere if more men are not having children by choice or not? Has condom usage gone up in recent years? That should say a lot.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 12:43 AM
21

If you bring children into this world, you have to provide for them. End of story. Don't like it? Don't want kids? Wear a condom, get sterilized, or don't have sex.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 12:15 AM
1

I'm playing along for the sake of argument. Let's assume you are right. If higher body count means that someone isn't marriage material, then what does that say about people who were trafficked or raped? Do you understand how logic works? Maybe you should Google it.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/21 11:48 PM
1

Dude, that's where your logic follows.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/21 10:14 PM
2

So if you're correct, I guess people who were sexually abused aren't marriage material? Or people who were trafficked?
/r/ExRedPill10/11/21 09:43 PM
2

None of those point to any actual studies. Besides, correlation vs. causation bro.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/21 02:29 PM
2

You didn't explain the causation there, either.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/21 02:26 PM
1

That's all true, but none of that reflects on someone's value as a person.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 03:58 PM
3

Why does past sexual behavior determine someone's value as a human being?
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 03:57 PM
2

So you jump from "how many people have you slept with?" to looking out for cheating behavior? Why are you making such a leap?
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 03:56 PM
2

Source?
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 03:55 PM
10

You proved that commenter's point
/r/ExRedPill07/11/21 10:38 PM
2

You mentioned your race, body type, and income/job. Then you say you have nothing to be depressed about. Dude, people get depressed for all sorts of reasons. There's more to life than just looks and money. Mental health, physical health, friendships, family, relationships, having hobbies/activities to fill up time and do something worthwhile, having some sort of faith/spiritual belief, all sorts of stuff. Having a healthy balance of these things helps one fight against depression/anxiety/whateve…
/r/ExRedPill07/11/21 10:37 PM
1

There's your problem bro... it's not hypocrisy of an entire gender. It's your own misunderstanding.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/21 12:10 AM
3

That women want to be submissive/inferior
/r/ExRedPill04/11/21 10:57 PM
4

Where are you getting this idea from?
/r/ExRedPill04/11/21 10:55 PM
5

There's absolutely nothing wrong with being friends of the opposite gender. Quit trying to sow division between people.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/21 08:09 PM
2

You're not taking it seriously (or possibly just straight up not believing it) that other people can be insecure.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 11:06 PM
2

Exactly
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 06:10 PM
1

That quickly snowballed into something nonsensical. The only thing this tweet proved is that at least 9500 idiots exist in the world.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 06:09 PM
2

Said the person who most likely has never actually dated someone with insecurities lol... you would know it's real and you would take it seriously if you actually experienced it. And by the way, just because you don't take something seriously doesn't mean it isn't real.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 06:06 PM
3

Bingo
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 07:36 PM
6

I was gonna say, what are OP's social skills like? What is his social circle like? What does he to try and improve his dating life? You can theorize all day long about why the dating world is the way it is, but what actually matters is what you do about it and if you have some social skills.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 07:36 PM
7

You need to go find a hooker. Problem solved. Why should any woman put up with you and your bullshit?
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 07:37 AM
3

Agreed
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 07:36 AM
3

🚨🚨🚨Racist asshole alert 🚨🚨🚨
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 07:35 AM
3

Think of it the opposite way: what is the opposite of confidence? Insecurity. And dating people who can't deal with their insecurities fucking sucks.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 07:33 AM
4

Sounds to me like you know how to put on an act, but you don't know how to actually change yourself.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 07:31 AM
1

Advice doesn't do you any good when you shoot it down by talking shit about yourself.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/21 10:16 PM
2

Dude how old are you? I guarantee you're either Gen Z or a millenial, same generation as 30 year olds.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 10:51 PM
3

If that's true, then why bother making a post in the first place? Do you want advice or do you want sympathy?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 10:48 PM
2

Depends on what you're interested in. If you have no interests, then get some.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 02:17 PM
3

30 year olds aren't boomers.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 02:16 PM
2

You want proof? Go talk to an actual doctor. Exercise and the right diet is good for anybody. Being an incel has nothing to do with it. Being an incel is not a medical condition.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 02:07 AM
1

Life is unfair, get used to it
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 03:49 PM
1

Plenty of ugly dudes get laid. Quit making up lies.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 06:12 PM
1

Depends on your definition of "success" I suppose.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 06:10 PM
1

I wouldn't say it's anyone's fault you haven't had intimacy, except possibly your own life circumstances and your own beliefs and actions. Nobody is trying to keep you from getting laid, bro. My point still stands, because you have zero idea who and what deserves blame, if there is any blame to begin eith.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 06:09 PM
1

At least the blame is where it belongs. Blaming the wrong group is only going to make one bitter towards that group, which is self defeating when you want to be on good terms with that group. You can't even begin to solve a problem if you never identify where the problem comes from.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 03:35 PM
7

Sometimes I wonder if they've ever seen men in their 40s - 50s with their own eyes. Most are not doing so well. The ones who were working physical jobs are now just 'harvesting' the negative fruits of their labor which means a lot of doctors visitations. Others pruned from many years of alcohol abuse. Many looked just exhausted with life in general and are just done. Plenty are started to get anxious about their own mortality. I don't think redpillers have encountered 40-50 year olds. I don't th…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 04:51 AM
2

Exactly what kind of success did you find?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 09:34 PM
3

You said it yourself. All a woman has to do is not be fat. That's a pretty low expectation, isn't it? I don't agree with you, but even if you were correct, you only have other men to blame.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 09:29 PM
-6

Women didn't make these rules/expectations. Men did. Therefore men brought this upon themselves.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 09:16 PM
1

Right, because obviously you haven't compared yourself to others before I ever mentioned it. /s
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 02:44 AM
1

Body dysmorphic disorder. Look it up. Why are you comparing yourself to other dudes anyway? Why do you give a fuck?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 02:30 AM
2

Plenty, dude. I've seen guys of all appearances and backgrounds get girlfriends and/or get laid. Quit moving the goalposts, quit it with the pity party.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 02:22 AM
1

There's been loads of stories from ex redpillers and ex incels who turned their lives around. Those who worked through it learned that more shit was in their control than they originally thought. So yeah, I don't believe you and I'm not going to. People who escape shitty situations in life do so by putting in a lot of effort over extended periods of time. People have dug themselves out of worse situations than yours.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 01:05 AM
1

I find it interesting when people dig themselves into a hole and then complain about it.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 12:43 AM
1

So you're weeding yourself from the dating pool?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 12:41 AM
1

I didn't ask you to post one. You're the one who shot the idea down before it was even brought up. I don't give a fuck if you post one or not. Yes it would be a lose-lose situation, because you only want to throw yourself a pity party.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 12:32 AM
2

You didn't even try. Are you depressed? Or cowardly or lazy?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 11:46 PM
1

Well you're the one who refuses to post a picture. Why are you here if you don't want to change anything and aren't going to try?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 11:45 PM
2

Then why the fuck did you even make this post?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 11:40 PM
1

Hmm, I'll go tell that to my dozen friends (who are far from being model material) who are in long term relationships. They'd laugh at your bullshit. Reality doesn't align with incel beliefs, bro.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 11:39 PM
2

Do you actually want to work on your shit or do you just want to complain? Cuz I don't see much of the former going on with you, only the latter. Your backwards beliefs are what got you into this situation. This sub is not the venue for your pity party.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 11:37 PM
1

Looks don't pay the bills. Looks don't get work done. Looks don't make long lasting friendships or relationships.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 11:35 PM
1

Here's a secret: attractive people can and do have self esteem issues too. Also you're probably not ugly like you think. Your brain is lying to you. The Incelselfie subreddit got taken down, but pretty much all the dudes who posted there were totally normal looking. Some of them were actually pretty attractive. Most of them would look just fine if they learned to smile and learned to take pictures.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 10:38 PM
2

Do you think 100% of ugly people have low self esteem? Do you think the only way to gain self esteem is due to being good looking?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 10:35 PM
3

This is made up bullshit. They just want fodder for their persecution fetish.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 04:31 PM
5

There's ugly people out there who are charismatic and fun. How do you think they do it?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 04:30 PM
1

They probably get together with dull women, don't they?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 04:29 PM
8

You need to work on your self esteem. You're probably depressed.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 04:28 PM
3

That's for you to decide, not any of us. You're the one that made this post.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 04:27 PM
10

"Obtain it" sounds like you want to just be able to go to the store and grab some personality. If you want to be a different person, work on it. It takes hard work. Figure out what kind of person you want to be and go from there. You probably have to work on some social anxiety. Nobody ever got over it without trying, trying, trying over and over again. Exposure therapy, basically.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 02:25 PM
1

You're the king of jumping to conclusions. Did the blackpill teach you to do that, or did you learn it on your own?
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 03:50 AM
2

Love and sex in high school are both garbage. Teenagers don't know shit about either. I'm sorry that the only thing to teach you anything about life is the TV, social media, and 4chan.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 12:03 AM
1

That's high school bullshit. Grow up.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 12:00 AM
5

Are you trolling?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 11:56 PM
7

I felt myself losing brain cells from reading this comment
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 11:54 PM
1

Exactly. One word is clearly worse than the other, but they are both dehumanizing.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 04:14 PM
2

Women get called sluts for doing nothing. And yes, plenty of racist people will take the opportunity spew their hate when they see something a POC does something they don't like. Your comment is totally backwards and ignorant.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 04:12 PM
4

All of this stems from you not feeling good enough no matter what you do. This has nothing to do with other people, it's your own insecurity. Get therapy, like yesterday. What women find attractive varies a LOT. You're doomed to failure if you try to attract every single one, because everyone likes something different.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 01:56 PM
3

Same. Usually I get caught off guard and just automatically say no. I prefer being left alone.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 01:52 PM
1

Is game the only thing you tried?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 02:04 AM
7

And where are you getting this idea from? Your asshole?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 02:03 AM
2

They just took the "lone wolf" stereotype and slapped a new label on it.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 01:59 AM
6

I guarantee you haven't noticed the normal couples walking around who don't have those relationship problems. Why? Because there's nothing scandalous to talk about. You'll always hear about the shitty stuff people do, not the positive boring stuff.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 01:58 AM
5

You either live somewhere shitty, or it's confirmation bias.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 10:01 PM
1

I think you invented an excuse so that way you can feel justified in trying to take others down a notch.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 05:31 PM
8

Your first article doesn't explain shit because it doesn't speak for all women. The second article shows that cheating can be done by both men and women. How is this news?
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 05:29 PM
1

What is your solution to this nonexistent problem?
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 05:25 PM
3

You're missing the contradiction there.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 05:21 PM
1

Go out and experience life and learn that there are multiple pathways to happiness.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 03:55 PM
1

Then go change it. Figure it out. Nobody is gonna do it for you.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 03:18 PM
2

You're probably single cuz you're stubborn as fuck and depressing to be around. Therapy bro.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 07:18 PM
1

Speak for yourself
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 02:55 PM
0

People have sex with each other? How is this news to you?
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 02:53 PM
11

She's a great person.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 02:47 PM
1

I don't think it's true for anyone, except maybe some teenager guys or gals out there who have a different crush every week.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 03:57 AM
1

Just me personally, my best friends are people who are honest, will tell it like it is, and aren't afraid to tell me if I'm being an idiot. Just my 2 cents. I agree with you. Although some people only want friends who will coddle them and put up with their bullshit. This enables bad behavior and stupid opinions.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 02:04 AM
5

Agreed... I'm sorry if you missed my sarcasm earlier, I was taking the stupid logic and taking it to its conclusion.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 02:02 AM
3

Yes they did go on rampages. We've had wars, murders, and all kinds of violence since the beginning of human history.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 11:51 PM
2

I should alter my statement, some of them don't know what love is. It makes me wonder what goes wrong. If they are from good families, then what else went wrong?
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 09:11 PM
5

rage machines that bring nothing but chaos if nobody touches their pee pee And yet, women are whores for sleeping with these dudes. Everybody loses here with this logic. Society needs to stop putting sex on a pedestal and turning it into something dirty and evil.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 08:49 PM
2

Men are socialized to be more violent/aggressive than women. It's a society problem too.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 08:46 PM
2

If men can't stop themselves from shooting innocent people alone, then this is a problem that "adding a woman" cannot possibly solve. These men don't know what love is, and they probably have never experienced it. Assigning them a woman/being provided a woman will not fix this problem, because she will not love him.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 08:45 PM
6

You don't sound mentally or emotionally well.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 08:40 PM
25

You can't fix his problems for him, he has to learn this lesson on his own. It's the only way people learn.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 05:57 PM
20

They think they are better than women, and yet they think they are slaves to their sex drives and violent tendencies. Without being coddled by women, they can't control themselves. This is what they are admitting to. How exactly does it make them better than women?
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 03:18 PM
3

Very true. Plus half the people on the app don't read the bios anyway.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 12:22 PM
7

Most short dudes I know date short/petite women. And there's no shortage of women like that.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 12:13 AM
1

People are bigots
/r/ExRedPill12/10/21 04:19 AM
1

Spot on. A number of men who hire high end escorts do so because these women are socialized and educated enough to mesh with the lifestyles of rich men. Rich men will seek them out not just for their bodies, but for their company too.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 07:12 PM
2

Wow this makes all of their bullshit make total sense now. It's still bullshit but it explains it.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 01:47 PM
3

Inherently undesirable and undesirable due to society's opinion are two different things. Why do you give a fuck what society thinks? Sometimes the common rhetoric is helpful, but way more often it's total bullshit. Think for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 01:42 PM
1

At least you're honest, and you understand why it didn't work out with your earlier relationships.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 01:39 PM
1

Definitely for social class, leagues are a thing. Rich people and poor people (for the most part) don't hang out in the same circles. Rich people make sure their kids are surrounded by better opportunities, and generally they are surrounded by other well-off people. Poor people just don't have access to that kind of lifestyle and opportunities. Some millionaire with a good job who will inherit daddy's money is (most likely) not ever going to date someone from the wrong side of the train tracks. …
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 01:38 PM
7

Inherently undesirable, or undesirable due to what society says?
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 01:32 PM
7

Because it's not the truth, duh. They think they have opportunities that they don't, then act inappropriately based on the false belief.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 01:29 PM
2

For some girls, it happens to them even earlier than that.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 09:00 PM
3

Lol right? OP, 18 year olds don't want to date you bro.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 08:58 PM
3

I've heard redpillers call 25-30 year old women "saggy boob Grandma." Not sure why you would take anything they say seriously.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 08:56 PM
12

It's not easy to tell when so many people will just lie straight to your face. A lot of dudes aren't honest or don't know what they want until they get that post-nut clarity.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 02:35 AM
8

Welcome to life. You must be new here. Nothing is guaranteed.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 05:08 AM
6

Because this sub is garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:01 AM
6

Everyone on that sub should just admit "I'm a giant piece of shit" and call it a day. I'd call it a dumpster fire but that would be offensive to dumpsters.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 04:59 AM
4

This right here. You said it better than I could.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 12:24 AM
7

I don't see how it matters to me (a woman) at all. Not in a superficial way. As long as a dude makes enough to pay his bills and has 4 wheels to get around in. It matters a little bit on a practical level, but I wouldn't say it's superficial. It's just basic adulting. Most people date and marry within their socioeconomic status, so what is there to worry about? Look for someone on the same level as you.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 12:17 AM
1

Agreed. Some people think relationships are all about control and sex.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/21 05:11 PM
1

Well the statistics don't reflect what you say. Sorry I'm not buying it. Check your biases.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/21 12:53 PM
1

That's really fucking sad. Get help.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/21 12:52 PM
1

Maybe women don't have as many options as you think, and even if they did that doesn't mean they're gonna go for those options. Maybe guys have more options than you think.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/21 02:45 AM
7

This right here
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 04:59 PM
2

Even if they did have more access to people to cheat with, why are you assuming any of them actively want to cheat? Just because someone has options doesn't mean they will definitely choose one of those options. You assume too much.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 02:48 PM
5

Everyone does at some point or another.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 02:46 PM
2

Yeah it takes awhile to spend time with someone and figure out if they are trustworthy and worthwhile to be around. People in their right mind generally aren't willing to give up a steady relationship that is working just fine for some random person. It just doesn't make sense. Yes some people cheat, but both men and women do it and the statistics say men are more likely to cheat. And I would argue that people who cheat probably have some issues they need to work on. Either they regret cheating,…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 02:44 PM
1

That doesn't necessarily mean someone else would want the same thing. And your mentality is ripe for finding an abusive/toxic relationship.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 01:51 PM
3

How would you feel if someone chose you just because you're vulnerable, and not because they actually like you?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 02:00 PM
1

Life involves risks. By entering the dating world, you're already taking a risk that someone could leave you and/or cheat on you. It's up to you if you want to take any risks or not.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:34 PM
48

Redpillers project a lot of their own problems and insecurities onto others. I guarantee you that some of them don't know how to love, so they assume others don't love either. Remember that.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:32 PM
6

The point of dating is to get to know someone and figure that out. You don't know until you meet someone and see how they treat you.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 11:08 PM
16

There's a lot of guys out there who are disrespectful whether you sleep with them or not. There's also guys out there who are respectful whether you do sleep with them or not.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 10:20 PM
12

She was being rude, you don't need redpill to tell you that.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 07:40 AM
2

This is a great realization. Haven't read your sources yet but I'm glad you wrote this.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 05:21 AM
3

They don't know what a good and normal relationship looks like anyway
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 05:20 AM
0

So what you're saying is you didn't even read the whole comment?
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 05:17 AM
1

arranged marriages, bridewealth/brideprice and wife abduction This was a part of the misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 05:11 AM
1

Well fucking said.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 05:08 AM
1

Misogyny hurts everyone.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 05:07 AM
2

Sounds like we should withold the sex until they behave themselves. /s
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 05:05 AM
1

I think that says more about the redpilled dude than anything else. I had one redpiller DM me once, he tried to tell me my friends are shallow and don't actually give a shit about me. It was the most offensive thing I've heard directed towards me in my life. I wouldn't be alive if I didn't have friends looking after me. It says a lot more about how a lot of redpillers have zero idea what love and friendship is. They project their psychopathy onto everyone else.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 05:04 AM
11

Don't worry about that ignorant commenter. They're trying to take the blame off the asshole drug addict simply because he's male.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 04:55 AM
5

How exactly are inexperienced young people supposed to know what kinds of people to avoid dating and marrying? Hmm, it's almost as if life experience and making mistakes is how people learn...
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 04:54 AM
9

They have zero evidence for that shit anyway. What can be asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 04:48 AM
1

Downvote and move on, that's my motto.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 03:28 AM
0

Lol that is not what you made it sound like.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 02:36 AM
0

I don't know where you get this idea that women are constantly trying to get pregnant, or getting pregnant is the purpose of dating. Birth rates have gone down in recent decades. This is why I was asking you, why even mention 500 dudes if it only takes one dude?
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 01:47 AM
2

Assuming this number is even true (doubt it) do you really think every woman goes around actively considering 500 dudes one by one?
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 12:30 AM
9

Right, god forbid I want someone who actually wants me as a person and not just anybody.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 12:23 AM
2

My level of happiness never depended on whether or not I was dating someone.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 10:26 PM
3

Your logic doesn't follow. Women aren't a hivemind.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 10:21 PM
3

Evidence?
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 10:21 PM
3

It makes me think they probably don't own anything Gucci haha
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 10:19 PM
5

You assume those are good matches Some guys swipe right on everyone
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 10:15 PM
16

Makes sense because a lot of incel subs got banned and the cockroaches had to scatter somewhere
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 10:11 PM
3

I had this issue too
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 01:25 PM
3

Yes of course.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 02:43 AM
1

I knew a girl who was about 6 feet tall. Loads of short dudes wanted her. She dated a number of them.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 02:14 AM
5

It's not about your height. People will bully each other over anything. Can you build confidence despite being bullied? Yes.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 02:12 AM
3

Haha some millennials are BEGGING for society to collapse. If we could bring it all down simply by fucking, we would.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 02:32 AM
1

There's a huge difference. People mature over time and their desires change because of it.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 02:31 AM
1

Agreed, it's just a fantasy. The equivalent for men would be a porn star.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 10:40 PM
1

Are you talking about edgy 15 year olds or grown, mature women?
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 10:39 PM
5

It must be a pretty fragile society if it can all come crashing down due to women getting laid.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 10:34 PM
2

Ever hear of "decision fatigue"? People having more options actually makes it harder to choose. Millennials and Gen Z are having less sex and waiting longer to have sex compared to Boomers. More choices doesn't necessarily mean more sex.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 10:33 PM
3

Evidence or GTFO.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 10:27 PM
2

Assuming this was true, they wouldn't have to be "gatekeepers" if way too many men weren't such horndogs.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 10:24 PM
1

the vast majority (95%) of the general population report have made their “sexual debut” – as she rather grandly puts it – by age 25. And the most recent data available, from 2010-12, suggests that just 2.2% of British men and 1.1% of women were virgins at the age of 30. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/jun/18/later-in-life-virgins-at-my-age-it-becomes-a-red-flag You're literally making shit up. The statistics don't reflect what you say. Quit spreading lies.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 06:05 AM
2

Do you even know any "high value" people? Do you even know any rich people? They don't hang out in the same circles as working class people. They don't want their children to just marry anyone. Families with money make sure their children grow up to have really good jobs, and that they marry partners with good jobs or who will be stay-at-home parents. McDonald's has nothing to do with it. Rich dudes don't want McDonald's cashiers. They want trophy wives or equally successful wives. Source: I kno…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 05:56 AM
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Men are much more likely to leave a sick spouse, compared to women. Men are more likely to remarry after divorce.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 05:41 AM
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Maybe you should ask yourself this question: why will black guys and white women get together, but not white men and black women? Hmm...
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 01:41 PM
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So if all redpill says is "women tend to like strong guys" then congratulations. You found the truth in the half-truths. But it's not all that redpill says, is it?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:19 PM
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I'm replying to multiple comments of yours here. Redpillers take studies to extreme conclusions. Even if the studies are true and scientifically sound, so what? So the fuck what? Who cares? There's always trends to what people do. It doesn't mean anyone is bad for liking what they like, or not liking something. A trend is not the same as "all people do blah blah blah." Are you aware that not everything people like/dislike is due to biology, but also social influences? Why do celebrity men often …
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:04 PM
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It's still not a reason to be an asshole and throw your life away.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 04:16 PM
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Have you ever read such materials? It's an entirely different description of sex. Remember that porn and erotica sell fantasies. They aren't reality and reasonable people understand this.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/21 10:06 PM
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Anyone of any gender can use the word bro, bro.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/21 06:39 AM
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If everywhere you go, you run into assholes... maybe you're the asshole. Ever consider that?
/r/ExRedPill12/02/21 06:38 AM
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You need therapy, bro.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/21 12:13 AM
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Lol who hurt you? You're so butthurt you can't handle that a woman commented on your post? Grow the fuck up.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 11:18 PM
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Pictures can be stolen from anywhere on the internet. Besides I'm not asking you to dox yourself.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 06:19 AM
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even girls admit they dont know what the hell they want most the time, so how can you take that opinion 100% seriously. Girls often make terrible decisions listening to their friends bad advice. So do guys. It's human nature. What you saw in that thread was comments by girls giving their side of the story. And there's nothing wrong with that. If Redpill has all their viewpoints figured out, they should have done some of their own studies to prove the 80/20 rule. It's how science works. The fact …
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 06:18 AM
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I have a feeling you aren't the ultra Chad you say you are. r/asablackman
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 06:03 AM
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Question, if 80% of girls are doing this behavior, then where are the other 20%? You guys don't say shit about them. And how successful is the 80% in their goals? Then why are like 75% of Tinder users men? Assuming what you say is true for the sake of argument. If most women were just ravenous slutty gold digging bitches, then it doesn't make sense that they would also be so picky. Why fight over the top 20% when there's more men to exploit? Of course we want to find out what's really going on. …
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 06:01 AM
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‼️🚨⚠️ Angry entitled incel alert ⚠️🚨‼️
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 05:53 AM
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If what you're saying is correct, then the logical conclusion is that most men aren't dating material. Having your shit together and knowing what you want in life is apparently too much to ask. You're being very insulting to men. "Make do with a relationship" Wow you really are a piece of shit.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 05:51 AM
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Gee I wonder why. The fact that you act so butthurt and entitled must have nothing to do with it. /s
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 05:29 AM
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So you're making the claim that the top 20% of men want a stay at home wife & kids are polyamorous or in an open marriage don’t know what they want don’t want anything serious And the bottom 80% of men want something serious? Are you fucking joking? Do you even have a source for this? You're making a harsh sexist judgment about men, too. No, you don't know what kind of lifestyle a woman wants when the only thing you know about her is that she's a woman.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 05:27 AM
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It's like you didn't even read the comments in the thread you linked.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 05:23 AM
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Here's a comment that sums up all of their complaints: I’ve been single for 3 years now and I’m in my early 30s. I struggle with meeting men that want the same thing/lifestyle as me, so usually things fall apart before they even begin. Most men I meet fall into one of these categories: - want a stay at home wife & kids - are polyamorous or in an open marriage - don’t know what they want - don’t want anything serious Wanting someone who has their shit together and has the same goals as you is con…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 05:22 AM
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After reading many of your comments, it sounds like you have a huge misunderstanding of how people socialize. You should spend more time working on basic social skills, forget about women for the time being.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 01:05 PM
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Actual social events where people are open to meeting others: (meeting people can later lead to dating opportunities) Parties, concerts, festivals, dances, movie outings, bars/clubs, hobby or game or sports groups, volunteering. Places where people generally want to go about their business and only be talked to in a friendly or professional manner: Workplaces, public places like grocery store or bank, doctor's offices, stores/places to shop, ect. If you need help telling the difference: ask your…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 01:00 PM
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If you don't know how to treat people like a human being, or what that even means, then you have much bigger problems on your hands than a lack of dating life.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 12:53 PM
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No, they are not the same thing. My boyfriend and I got together this past summer, a few of our friends met up. One guy that I never met before kept hitting on me. It was awkward, he kept making comments and suggestions about him and I being physical together and giving me multiple compliments. It was creepy, I just met this guy. I didn't know how to handle the situation. The guy who would be my boyfriend, he just asked for my number and said he wanted to hang out again. No flirting, no pick up …
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 12:50 PM
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You keep mentioning rules that you are having trouble following. But you fail to list those rules and cite where they came from. I think you have a warped idea of feminism. No wonder you're having dating issues.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 12:36 PM
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No, the conclusion you came to was "I'm not allowed to hit on anyone."
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 12:35 PM
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Are you aware that there's a third option? Just be straightforward about your interest in someone, and don't jump to flirting or hitting on them?
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 03:42 AM
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What rules are you having a hard time following?
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 12:22 AM
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Who exactly is telling you that you shouldn't want to get married? MGTOW, probably. Lol cuz they do discourage guys from getting married.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 12:21 AM
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That dude is probably 40 years old and wants to fuck a 14 year old.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 08:17 PM
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I knew you were going to just dismiss everything off the bat. Have fun being lonely the rest of your life, or only ever dating mentally ill women. Because no sane, healthy women will ever give you the time of day. No normal person wants to be with anyone who doesn't listen to them. No wonder women are happier being single, because little boys like you are a fucking disease to the human race. Fuck you, and the horse you rode in on.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 04:02 PM
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Women don't get paid the same as men. Women have a harder time finding a doctor that will let them get sterilized. Sexual assault/abuse still happens way too often. Slut shaming still happens. Maternity leave is a joke in the USA, same with access to reproductive care. I literally was able to mention these just off the top of my head, imagine if I put in the time to come up with an exhaustive list with sources cited. Many of these issues are related to other issues (the economy, healthcare, and …
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 03:49 PM
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65% of Americans are Christian in 2019. Not all of them are "modern" Christians, as you put it. It takes a long fucking time to change gender norms and old ways of thinking, so if you think misogyny doesn't happen anymore you're fucking ignorant. Even people leaving their religion doesn't mean they also leave old gender norms behind
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 03:37 PM
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It's literally in the Bible, dumbass. That millions of people live by every day. Did you forget that most Americans are Christian?
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 03:29 PM
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Your religion is a source of misogyny for many people.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/20 03:24 AM
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Using my Throwaway account to post this. When it comes to body type, I've dated the rainbow. Tall, short, muscular, skinny, average, very overweight, ugly, hot, doesn't matter. Some of the best sex I've had was with short guys who got hit with the ugly stick. Some of the worst sex I've had was with guys who were taller, better looking, and/or had a bigger dick. Because they felt like they didn't have to put in much effort. Ultimately, how they look has no bearing on how they are in bed. My type …
/r/ExRedPill06/08/20 04:25 PM
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I think you just wish this was the case. Plus I never said everything was based on what society teaches. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 04:16 AM
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Of course I can't force people to think the way I do. No shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 04:14 AM
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Um, no. You missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 04:11 AM
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Did you only read the title and not bother to read the post? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 04:10 AM
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OP is an atheist and has heard this argument so many times. OP is laughing their head off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 04:08 AM
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Sure. Doing surveys, doing studies on bullying, things similar to that. Edit- also just by listening to people you can learn something. This may not be something that you can put numbers on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 01:16 AM
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The effects are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 01:15 AM
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You're not adding a single thing to the conversation. And you ignored every comment women have said here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 10:34 AM
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Because it's not always the case...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 10:31 AM
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That ignorance still thrives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 10:11 AM
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Maybe you won't know what you're looking at when you see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 10:07 AM
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Did you not read any of the other comments here? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 10:06 AM
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All three of her stories demonstrated how women (supposedly) aren't as good as men and have a place they need to stay in. Someone doesn't have to specifically say "you're worthless!" To show you and say to you that they think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 03:44 AM
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For me personally, it was my narcissist stepdad. He was a misogynist and pedophile. His beliefs that men are superior to women is rooted in his religion (A denomination of Christianity.) He drilled it into me since I was born that because I'm female, I'm not good for anything besides sex, looking pretty, and making babies. Much of the abuse was verbal and occurred nearly every day for years. He would talk down to me, openly point and stare and comment on women/girls walking by, made my mom call …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 03:33 AM
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I'm saying add hallmark holidays on top of Christmas and birthdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:52 PM
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Are we talking mostly about appearances and beauty? If so, yes I do think it's "magical" that we can use makeup and hairstyling tricks and change our clothes to look totally different. It's a form of art and we can do whatever we want to our bodies. If I'm at home, you bet that I'm going to be a lazy bum in my pajamas. If I'm going someplace, I like to put on a decent outfit and some makeup. It's for myself, as much as it is to show others that I care enough to put in the effort. Plus I'm an art…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:24 PM
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The issue is if the requirement list is a mile long and if each thing is a dealbreaker. Personally, I find it attractive if a guy has facial hair, tattoos, piercings, and glasses. But finding a guy that has each and every one of those things who also happens to fancy me isn't as likely to happen. I can't make each one a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:09 PM
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I don't think it's just the online dating that inflates standards. The media is constantly shoving videos/magazines/whatever that show us pretty girls and hot guys. It kind of puts it in our heads that girls are supposed to look one way and guys are supposed to be another. So I would guess screws with our own self image as much as it does with our dating expectations. You can say girls are more vulnerable to this imagery, based on how much more likely they are to develop eating disorders. If the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:05 PM
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Hallmark holidays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:53 PM
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It's not diamond earrings 5 times a year. I know of one girl who consistently wanted gifts and cards, and for each gift to be something very creative/thought out or something that was exactly what she wanted. Thing is, she also hated to voice what she wanted. She was too lazy and stubborn to say what she wants, then would get mad when she didn't get what she wanted, saying the person didn't love her enough because they didn't just know what she wanted. Ughhh... She's an extreme example, but I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:51 PM
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I think birthdays, Christmas, and anniversaries (if it's long term) are standard times to give a gift or at least a card or token. I'm talking about when you add on Valentine's day, sweetest day, new years, Halloween, your weekly anniversary, her dog's birthday, and anything else Hallmark can think of. Also when you have to regularly give gifts "just because." That's a bit obscene to find a gift or card for someone that frequently and you even have to set a budget for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:40 PM
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