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That's my marriage. Best friends first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:16 AM
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Wrong. It's happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:16 AM
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I don't feel like I settled. There's no one in the world I'd rather be with than my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 08:56 AM
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Cool, do my CMV next. Masculine men are one of the worst types of people to date. (NB I'm defining masculine as "is a wifebeater).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 06:52 PM
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I DID. THAT'S MY POINT. IT'S WRONG.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 06:45 PM
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That's not how "career woman" is defined: a woman who considers her job and success in her job to be very important in her life A career woman may be a workaholic, but she can also have a good work/life balance. OP is misusing the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 06:25 PM
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Except that's not how "career woman" is defined: a woman who considers her job and success in her job to be very important in her life A career woman may be a workaholic, but she can also have a good work/life balance. OP is misusing the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 06:25 PM
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AKA a career woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:29 PM
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Great. I don't care. If your only interest in me is getting in my knickers then I don't want to get to know you better, so please do go elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 07:40 AM
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Nope. There are plenty of guys I've been indifferent to or downright found unattractive when I first met them, then fancied when I got to know that better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 12:16 PM
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Yup. My husband has never set foot in a gym and has more muscle from his lightly active job than I do from weightlifting for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 12:02 PM
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Sigh. Here's a hopefully non-identifiable photo of my back (NSFW). 25 inch waist. Olympic weightlifting. Now am I allowed to express a personal preference for men no muscular or leaner than the one posted by /u/CreightonWAbrams?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 11:54 AM
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Jesus Christ, so much misinformation in one comment. Time to Attainment of Recovery From Borderline Personality Disorder and Stability of Recovery: A 10-year Prospective Follow-Up Study Over the study period, 50% of participants achieved recovery from borderline personality disorder, which was defined as remission of symptoms and having good social and vocational functioning during the previous 2 years. The Longitudinal Course of Borderline Psychopathology: 6-Year Prospective Follow-Up of the Ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:09 PM
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Mainly rich Vietnamese businessmen who see it as a status symbol and "detoxifier".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 05:42 PM
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The main driver behind the rhino horn trade is not a lack of "boner pills".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 11:17 PM
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How can you know you want to be in a relationship with someone if you haven't spent any time with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 05:35 PM
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I actually studied ethology, and still work with a lot of them. It is not accepted that there is a dominance hierarchy amongst all social animals. Instead there is often a dominance relationship between specific individuals WRT specific resources. E.g. between dogs A and B, dog A may display dominance towards choice of bed, while dog B may have dominance in terms of first access to food bowls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 11:24 PM
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That mentality is exactly how you have a healthy, happy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 07:30 AM
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I went to a party last night. No one had sex or did anything stupid. I did discuss the representation of anthropology within a book series, the psychology of "mind-reading", the variables affecting university league tables, the need for thorough risk assessments when conducting fieldwork, and how poaching is affecting body size in flying foxes. But yeah, parties = stupid...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 09:41 PM
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I like to read books by differing perspectives. Gender's currently the only variable I track because it's by far the easiest. Besides, female authors tend to write better female characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 06:49 PM
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Yay books! I've just finished my reading challenge for the year: 104/104. Below are some random stats and details. General stats: 27% re-reads 19% non-fiction 52% female authors 17% audiobooks Averaging just under 3 books a week, or 144 pages a day Ratings spread: 32 books 5* 39 books 4* 29 books 3* 2 books 2* 2 books 1* Favourite fiction: Bird Box by Josh Malerman. Best horror book I've ever read. Trying to find something that will come close! Runners up: Lock In by John Scalzi. Fantastic conce…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 06:16 PM
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the same could be said for a man who will marry you but won't take your last name No, it says you'll have problems with her following you. That you aren't a team unless the wife is in charge. Men in their naïve practicality might agree to this, not understanding the consequences. And you could say the exact same thing about a man expecting his fiance to take his last name...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 01:24 PM
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Yup, it's happened to me multiple times as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:58 AM
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A similar sense of humour and similar values are essential. Education and hobbies are not important.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 11:41 AM
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I actually found some fabric of farm animals doing yoga! I made a bag from it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 12:05 AM
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Yeah, when I make clothes my primary concern is not "does this dress make my boobs look as big as possible and my waist as small as possible?" In order of priority it goes: Does the fabric have a super cool pattern, preferably with animals on? Are the colours bright and pretty? Is the dress comfortable to wear? Is the fit good? Is it professional enough I wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen out and about in it by my boss? Is it vaguely flattering? Is the fabric high quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 09:16 PM
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Same but opposite. Being on birth control drove me crazy. I'd always recognise it and apologize after though too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:51 PM
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If she's happy not orgasming every time, why can't you just accept that her sexuality is different from yours instead of projecting your insecurities onto her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:42 PM
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Why should anyone have to experience sexual pleasure in the way that you do? What makes your way objectively right? I rarely orgasm during sex because I don't particularly care to. I still love sex so why "should" I have to do it any differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:25 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 07:12 AM
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He's not in a band but he does play guitar. I can't imagine being paranoid because your partner has a hobby you're not involved in!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:41 AM
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Yeah, imagine being happy in a committee relationship. The horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:39 AM
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It doesn't matter what other women do, only what my husband does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:39 AM
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Doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 10:27 PM
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If hot women show interest in him (and he actually notices...) I have absolute faith that it will be a nice little ego boost for him, and he will do zero about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 10:19 PM
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Yes? My husband frequently goes to gigs in bars without me. We have something called trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 10:11 PM
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Could you please post a link to the original study?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 07:26 AM
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From my personal experiences, I do not appear to be an outlier in my social circle. I'd say ~50% of my female friends from my grad programmes with partners are dating someone not on their career/education "level".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 07:10 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:03 PM
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When we were planning our wedding my husband and I agreed on everything but the song we should walk down the aisle to. Our favourite love song is Happy Together by The Turtles ("No matter how they toss the dice, it had to be. The only one for me is you, and you for me"), but it's too dance-y. I wanted I Choose You by Sara Bareilles ("I will become yours and you will become mine"). My husband wanted My Kind of Woman by Mac DeMarco. Finally we realised the perfect song for us was Dream a little dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 08:56 PM
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You're not going to have kids with Bob normal working at Home Depot pulling in a median income, with median interests being a median guy. Well, why not? My husband is a sales assistant in a carpet store. I couldn't care less. Redpillers are always banging on about how a woman's career doesn't matter to them, but then refuse to accept that women often feel the same way. (I know, I know, NARPALT...)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 08:29 PM
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I have no idea where this "dominant women = fat" trope comes from. I far prefer being dominant over submissive, and I'm in great shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 07:10 AM
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Eh? Do you think book covers are randomly selected and stuck on with zero thought? The same people in charge of writing and editing the story choose the cover...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 06:02 AM
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I don't know how your body functions. I had to take a tramadol last night for cramps and have had a foggy headache all day long.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 08:31 PM
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What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:35 AM
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Yes, though I'm not sure how that's relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:49 AM
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I already answered it. Not in the slightest
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:37 AM
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Not in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:28 AM
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Lol. Sure. That's why I have 30 tattoos but am happily married to a guy with zero tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:20 AM
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I'm not a model, but still get hit on all the time with short hair and no make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 06:00 AM
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I'm white and still had a lot of guys hitting on me with a buzzcut.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 05:55 AM
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Your education level does not determine your intelligence. He's still very clever and interested in the world without a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 08:56 PM
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Nope. My husband does have any post-school qualifications. Don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 07:55 PM
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Yeah, none of those silly soft sciences like computational biology, genetics, evolution etc. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 04:44 PM
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Okay. I'm not talking about a liberal arts PhD either, but I don't know any engineers. Mainly conservation, computational biology, genetics, evolution, psychology, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 04:34 PM
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Unless this is a field that requires a lot of lab time, it sounds like there's just a culture of procrastination in the name of "working". You can easily treat a PhD like a 9-5 if you're strict about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 04:31 PM
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You don't need to study 60-70 hours a week to get a PhD, unless you spend most of your time procrastinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 04:25 PM
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Taking data from /r/relationships That's a silly idea. People with successful relationships don't make posts there. No-one's going to make a post that says "My wife graduated from her PhD and everything's great". Also all the PhD students I know pay their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 04:23 PM
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Hey, something we agree on for once. It's not scientifically valid and is subject to numerous criticisms. It was developed by 2 people who weren't trained scientists off the work of one psychologist whose own work was also subject to numerous criticisms and untestable. Most of the "evidence" supporting it is methodologically unsound/paid for by the Myers-Briggs foundation. It relies on dichotomous binary choices which is unrealistic - people fall in a bellcurve not a bimodal distribution. It's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 07:33 AM
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Making lots of money is not my primary value or purpose in life, not is it my husband's. As long as we make enough to be comfortable, I don't give a fuck is either of us brings home a six figure salary. What matters is that at the end of the day we are both happy and satisfied. We're partners, our money is pooled and our time is equally valuable to both of us. If you want to call that socialism, then hooray for socialist relationships. Sidenote: It's always amusing when single people try to tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 07:27 AM
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In my case it meant ending up in both a happy marriage and a great career.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 07:12 AM
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Sure, wanting a bit of nuance when talking about a highly controversial life-altering practice is "fighting over nothing". You just don't like admitting when your original statement was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:59 AM
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This is PPD. If you make sweeping generalisations, someone is going to call you out on it. Abortions do not only happen when people screw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:47 AM
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Completely ignoring abortions for medical reasons I see...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 07:21 AM
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Wow you have no idea about how brutal the job market is in academia. Please, I beg you, go post this as a CMV or something on /r/AskAcademia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 10:39 AM
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Except you don't marry an average person on paper, you marry an individual who you can test your compatibility with in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:22 PM
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I'm working on my PhD and my husband left education at 18. That's totally fine. You don't need to have gone to university to be interested in the world around you. A difference in intelligence I would have an issue with however.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:02 AM
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Well, I'm normally a PhD student making ~24'000 USD, but currently I'm consulting for an international NGO, making the equivalent of ~87K a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 07:07 PM
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Sure, but it's a decision you choose to make (even if sometimes none of the options are great ones). You weigh up all sorts of factors when buying/renting a home - size, price, distance to work, number of bedrooms, does it have a garden, are there shops nearby, etc. Some people just put greater emphasis on the location factor, and may compensate their standard of living in other areas. That may mean working more, or it may mean not having a holiday every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 04:53 PM
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I don't think it's really fair to include commute in working hours. There's nothing about having a career job that necessitates having a long commute - that's a choice you make. I'm willing to pay a bit more in rent in order to live in a nice location close to my work. My commute is a ~15-20 minute bike ride along a river. Still a bit rubbish in winter of course, but I wouldn't consider it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 03:51 PM
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I don't think hard statistics were provided except in the case of a specific country which was then generalized to all Middle Easterners/Muslims Where are people doing that? I've provided hard statistics, which I've been clear apply specifically to Egypt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 01:08 PM
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I said expected, not currently though. 21.4% are currently circumcised, a further 34.9% are intended to be circumcised. Total of ~56% expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 12:49 PM
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Have you actually read the methods? How much training have you had in the social sciences?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 12:06 PM
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That's not how surveying works. You don't need to survey every single person in the population, you survey a representative sample. According to the 2014 Egypt Demographic and Health Survey 92% of women who are/have been married are circumcised. Thankfully, this appears to be on the decrease. For girls currently aged 0-19, "only" 56% are expected to be circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 11:23 AM
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Nope, only ~19% of users here identify as fully redpill. 22% are bluepill and the rest are somewhere in between/other. That's a lot of users who believe in happy marriages and faithful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 10:01 AM
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This is PPD, not TRP. There are plenty of people here who do not believe TRP is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:51 AM
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Uh, no, red pillers might be claiming that. Plenty of other people are in happy marriages* and don't believe women are naturally unfaithful. *and actually, I think some of the redpillers are too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:46 AM
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According to World Bank data from 2014, the teen pregnancy rate is actually 10.8%.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:44 AM
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all marriages suck anyways. Nope! If that's what you think based on the marriages of the people around you, perhaps "domesticating people sexually" isn't quite as successful as you think. My marriage is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:37 AM
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Well, not all (most?) jobs are 50-60 hours a week. I can honestly say I enjoy working my ~40 hour a week job. I'd be far more miserable as a SAHM. I would love it if my husband didn't have to work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 08:46 AM
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[It's 69%, not 90%] (https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/08/150822154900.htm), and in non-marital relationships the break up rate is equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 07:06 AM
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The female PhDs I know have far too much self respect to ever play dumb for a man's ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:24 PM
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What I don't get is why do you even care? I get a couple of downvotes all the time but I don't make a fuss about it. So few people vote on PPD that it doesn't really make a big difference to the visibility of comments or posts. It's meaningless internet points - is that really worth getting upset about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:18 PM
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Not wearing baggy athletic wear. Dressed up in a sexy dress and heels with their hair done? They definitely would.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 07:36 AM
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And I'm saying that's not been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 07:59 AM
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Most women are very "serious". It seems like a lot of women are miserable more often than not, and while that's okay if they have a good heart and care about others, I don't find it attractive. Women are also less likely to have special interests and more likely to casually like a lot of different things, which is good in the sense that it's good to be a well-rounded individual, but I find that a lot of women aren't really that passionate about anything aside from their families. This could be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 08:32 AM
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Oh my God Bebo. I'd love to see my old profile again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:52 PM
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How would you formulate your view then? ...Did you even read the paper I linked? They sent out identical application packs and only changed the gender of the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 09:09 AM
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Just to clarify, your hypothesis is that no-one is biased and the only reason a male candidate would be offered more money than an identical woman is because mean are on average noticeably more competent? Go ahead, show me the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 08:48 AM
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And I guess if you haven't noticed racism that doesn't exist either right? Here's just one example - Science faculty’s subtle gender biases favor male students Faculty participants rated the male applicant as significantly more competent and hireable than the (identical) female applicant. These participants also selected a higher starting salary and offered more career mentoring to the male applicant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 08:23 AM
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People who say that unattractive people are doomed to a lifetime of loneliness usually just don't have great personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 11:10 PM
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I would not wish to bring another vapid arsehole into the world. Someone who is truly kind and loving will be loved in return for who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 10:42 PM
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Kind and good-hearted, 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 10:19 PM
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I've lived in a mix of small, medium, and large cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 08:15 PM
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Out and about. It doesn't stop all men of course but it does cut down on them. And it's a great way to quickly escape the conversation - just shrug and flash the ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:55 PM
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Sewing. I make pretty much all my own clothes, and am teaching my friends too. Quilting. I have literally 9 quilts in my living room right now. Fabric painting. This is new, but quite fun. Reading. Finished 60 books this year so far. 75% fiction (generally fantasy and crime thrillers), 25% non-fiction. Fitness. Like yoga, Olympic weightlifting, and cycling. Baking. Bake at least once or twice a week, and bring the results into work. Scary movie nights with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:24 PM
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What niceties? I started wearing an engagement ring at 18 precisely to avoid being hit on by strange men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:15 PM
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Having kids is selfish. You only do it because it makes you happy. You create an entire other person just on your whim. It's massively egotistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:43 PM
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No idea what that's supposed to mean but I'll reiterate: people who choose to have kids are doing it for selfish reasons. Even if you're raped it's still your choice to keep the kid or not (though minority cases aren't particularly relevant).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:35 PM
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Ah yes, that incredibly common scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:22 PM
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Wanting kids is selfish. You do it because you think it will make you happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:42 PM
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Big difference between being childless and childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 07:00 AM
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...this must be a US English Vs British English thing then because that only means you're massively muscular where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 06:55 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 08:13 PM
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I didn't say she wasn't. It's still coming from an incredibly heteronormative viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 03:07 PM
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I wouldn't want to be the man in the relationship. What a heteronormative response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:50 PM
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I don't support military conscription.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 07:54 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 10:41 PM
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10 years after giving birth women earn ~23% less than if they had not had a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 09:13 PM
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I usually only hear this in relation to having children, not being married. Here's some evidence from Denmark: The arrival of children creates a gender gap in earnings of around 20% in the long run, driven in roughly equal proportions by labor force participation, hours of work, and wage rates. Underlying these “child penalties”, we find clear dynamic impacts on occupation, promotion to manager, sector, and the family friendliness of the firm for women relative to men. The impact of having child…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 05:47 PM
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Cute, scruffy indie boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 05:29 PM
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they don't have the knowledge of inter-gender dynamics to contribute anything to this sub. Lol, I remember one guy insisting that all women are frigid and incapable of experiencing sexual desire because no woman had ever been attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:43 PM
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I moved a few times as a kid, and definitely viewed it as an adventure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:40 PM
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There are 9 criteria for BPD. You only need 5 for a diagnosis. This means that 2 people who both have BPD can manifest in very different ways, and blanket statements are often not applicable. Secondly, my experience and that of my best friend who has BPD shows you can "truly care about a man that loves them in a secure attachment manner."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:11 PM
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*correcting misinformation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:58 PM
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You're ego syntonic No, I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:03 PM
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They will never truly care about a man that loves them in a secure attachment manner. Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:53 PM
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So much of this is just, not true... This may apply to the people with BPD you've met, but is by no means universal for all sufferers. BPD is literally incurable Depends what you mean by "curable". Think of it like an alcoholism. An addict is an addict, but they can be in remission without symptoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:49 PM
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I don't have it anymore, but I was in a relationship for its entire duration. I was pretty clingy and prone to getting unfairly upset, but I was also proactive about seeking treatment and taking responsibility for my actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 02:06 PM
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I was diagnosed with BPD and was completely open about it. My best friend has BPD and is completely open about it. Perhaps your vast experience of one woman isn't as representative as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 12:48 PM
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What on earth would prompt you to comment that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 12:47 PM
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...So you think a maximum of 7% of women would make great wives? Only ~3.5% of women marry under 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 05:53 PM
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Making multiple comments about how sucky career women are seems pretty defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:55 PM
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Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 09:12 AM
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Being over 6'5" is freakishly tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 08:33 AM
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I have no idea what the dating life of the 99th percentile for height in men is like - by definition they're not very common. Even if they don't have problems dating however, that doesn't mean that women generally want freakishly tall men. For all we know there's a small subset of women who specifically go after giraffe men. Perhaps the top 1% of tall women love them because they can wear heels when dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 08:16 AM
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...do you think I've never met a really tall person before? I can assure you I have. Admittedly I've never dated someone with a freakishly large penis, but my best friend tried and she said it was awful. It hurt. My husband has a normal size one and even then we need to be careful in certain positions in case it got my cervix. More is not always better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 08:06 AM
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Just because certain traits are generally desirable, doesn't mean that being in the 99th percentile for those traits is necessarily a good thing. With physical traits like height or penis size there's often a sweet spot, but beyond that you start to get freakish. A 7.75" penis sounds awful, as does dating someone a foot taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 07:16 AM
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Those are "yo momma" jokes, and not what OP is referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 05:00 PM
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anecdotal experience on this sub is way more valuable than some citation Some people may treat anecdotes as better "proof" than actual scientific studies, but that doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 11:36 AM
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I've never heard of "mom jokes" before. I don't think it's a very common stereotype (at least in my culture/social circle.)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 11:07 AM
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It's like we live in completely different worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 07:22 AM
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Living in a civilised society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:27 PM
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This is something that comes up a lot, and it usually seems to be the result of a miscommunication between the genders. There are 2 definitions of "respect": a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements. due regard for the feelings, wishes, or rights of others. In my experience when men talk about "respect" they're generally referring to the former definition. When women talk about it they generally mean the latter definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:16 PM
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The other morning in bed I offered my husband a handjob if he'd give me a lift to the gym. (It was a joke.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 06:15 PM
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I'm talking 15-25. But he's definitely hot. Masculinity isn't the be all and end all of hotness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 10:26 AM
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Any feminine boy you show attention will gladly reciprocate it because it's highly likely it's the only time he's ever gotten it. Haha, that's a common stereotype but my husband has literally never hit on a woman before. The 3 women he dated all hit on him first, and he still gets hit on by strange women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 08:14 AM
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I have a stepbrother. He's a massive dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 07:07 PM
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Why did the opinion of strangers on the internet, who have never even met her, bring her to tears?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 09:39 AM
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Not sure what there is to say. I can be more touchy-feely and open with my female friends than my male friends because they don't mistake affection for flirting. The only difference I've noticed between my female-female friendships and my husbands male-male friendships is we talk more about feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 07:42 AM
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A sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 03:32 PM
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Ah I see, yes, I completely agree with you. I rang the GP a couple of weeks ago because I was getting bad cramps from a new coil, and his immediate response was to write me a prescription for 90 tramadol. Didn't even want to meet me. I was pretty shocked at how freely he was handing these out and when I said I was worried about the possibility of addiction he said "only people with addictive personalities get addicted"...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 07:33 AM
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Depends on the part of the UK - big problems with heroin in my hometown.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 06:59 AM
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Well, we were best friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 06:56 AM
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In the US perhaps. Effects of poverty on IQ are very different elsewhere. Also, that quite a biased and unfair statement to make about the drivers of poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 05:51 PM
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Why do you think poor people are not college material?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:31 PM
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That's just a load of opinion pieces (and a lot of them religious-orientated). Marrying my best friend is the best thing I ever did. If that doesn't work for other people, that's fine, but I'm hardly going to change something that works because of a few op-eds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:32 AM
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Let's sort a few things out here A) there are lots of different types of feminists following different ideologies - by basing our characterisation of feminists on our own experiences it's possible we could both be right. B) some feminists do work on men's issues. E.g. C) there is no obligation for feminists to work on men's issues. Believing that women have historically been oppressed and still suffer from systematic biases in some areas, and working to bring the treatment of women up to the tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 07:14 AM
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No, it's not. "When you're used to privilege, equality starts to look like oppression."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 06:59 AM
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My husband is my best friend, and I'm his. What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 06:57 AM
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That's not particularly conducive to the discussion. It's pretty easy to just say "I bet your husband is X and that's why you love him, but I can't tell you what X is", but it doesn't leave me much room to agree or disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 09:58 PM
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He'd be the last person to describe himself as tradionally masculine, but what sort of qualities/attributes are you thinking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 09:27 PM
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I married my best friend. 100% turned on by him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 09:10 PM
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... but I can watch what they do by seeing the men they date?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 08:53 PM
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Oh, I get it. You literally can't accept that anyone could have different experiences from you, so anyone who doesn't parrot your views must be a liar? Cool. Solipsism at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 08:46 PM
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Eh, a few of these girls were on tinder and happy with hookups. They still expected potential shags to not be dicks (obviously a lower bar than taking the time to thoroughly vet a personality). I can't quite remember the details, but one friend went over a guy's house, started making out with him, and when he acted too entitled she just went "nope, not worth it", put her clothes back on and left.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 08:44 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 08:40 PM
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You know full well this will get removed. What was even the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 08:40 PM
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What are you defining hypergamy as?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 08:36 PM
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I see it every time I look around in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 08:34 PM
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That's his experience. In my experience my female friends are very much looking for feminists their own age to date. Perhaps it's a different cultures thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 08:32 PM
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I knew who wrote this by the title alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 07:56 AM
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LOL. Actually love you're speaking MY language. It's not called "American".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 08:26 PM
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Americentrism at its finest. A 1/3 of users here aren't American. Don't assume that everyone's always talking about America. Sure, just like astrology.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:51 PM
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Most studies look examine behavioural/personality differences and stereotyping using just the binary variable of having a tattoo or not. That is extremely short-sighted in my opinion. There's a massive difference between a guy with a teardrop tattoo on his cheek, an art student with a cherry blossom tattoo on her ribcage, and a dad with his daughter's name on his bicep. This study did differentiate between tattoo genres and their affect on people's perceptions, and it's interesting (if predictab…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:39 PM
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That may not be a good study to draw conclusions about the United States So? Who said I was trying to make any conclusions about the US? This is the first you've mentioned it. You know that your study is based on Australians, not Americans right? Dangerously unscientific. Nonsense. (And laughable coming from someone who acts as if his MBTI sign has more relevance than his star sign.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:29 PM
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People at my high school did not have tattoos, they were too busy studying to get into college, Right, because getting tattooed is such a time-consuming activity...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:18 PM
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Some other studies/reviews: Over the past 20 years, tattoos have become extremely popular in Western countries. In Germany for instance, 8.5% of the population (aged between 14 and 90 years) have tattoos. Trends in France are similar according to a recent poll (10%). However, tattoos are becoming increasingly common among the young, involving up to 25%, according to the individual country. Reasons for getting a tattoo are plentiful and personal. There is no specific profile of tattooed individua…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:16 PM
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I do not know what specifically the study is referring to when it references "risk taking," but I did not assume they meant high N to count as one of them. That's one of the 3 "risk-taking" behaviours they measure (and I would agree with /u/haunting-you that 2 of those behaviours need more context to actually be called risk-taking): Having been tattooed also correlated with certain risk-taking behaviors, most notably smoking, cannabis use, and greater numbers of lifetime sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 06:56 PM
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Like most things in life things like self-consciousness fall along a normal distribution, which basically means most human beings fall somewhere in the large hump in the middle and are relatively above or below normal, and at either end the small tails represent people at the extremes. So it's important in an individual to fall somewhere in the normal range in this particular trait, either too high in self-consciousness or too low could be problematic. So your assertion that people with tattoos …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 06:37 PM
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Child support isn't even that much, I just don't see how it could be worth it...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 08:34 AM
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Well the most recent reason was because he was trapped in an OCD-spiral. Is that "unmanly" enough for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 08:12 AM
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I can't say I've ever heard about a woman IRL who's gotten pregnant specifically to get money from a guy. I know of two women who got "accidentally" pregnant while married because they wanted another child (which is still all kinds of fucked up), but it wasn't about the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:52 AM
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My husband has broken down and cried in front of me. I didn't feel disgust, what an outrageous thing to think. When you love someone and they are hurting, you hurt room you want to help them. You're not disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:41 AM
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Yes, legally there is. Me. When I had to literally get the manager to make customers back off so I could actually do my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:38 AM
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For some reason, this sort of thing never occurs to me when someone mentions heartbreak. I only think of romantic heartbreak, of which I have none. But in this vein I had to terminate my pregnancy for medical reasons, and found out I'll never be able to have kids. So yes, you're completely right. This counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:29 AM
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Actually it is my right not to be sexually harassed at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:23 AM
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...you've never been an attractive woman working in a bar have you? You have no idea how persistent some men can be. If you don't want to get fired by being rude, you're not going to stop them. I've literally had to get a manager before as the only way to get men to back off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 08:02 PM
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Ah, so it's American media distorting perceptions of what British people actually look like? Because if you lived in the UK and had a look at the couples walking down the street, you would not think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 08:21 AM
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Eh? I have never heard a stereotype about British men generally being hotter than British women. It's generally accepted to be the reverse...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 07:43 AM
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Hip thrusts. Read Bret Contreas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 07:37 AM
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But the decision to become a parent doesn't necessitate the decision to become a SAHP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 02:27 PM
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Yes, but you can get joy out of being a parent without wanting to spend every waking hour with only a small child for stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 04:22 PM
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Personally if I had to stay at home for childrearing I'd consider it a sacrifice for my family. I like my work. I also like the things I can do with the money I earn. Spending all day every day devoid of adult company trying to keep a small child alive sounds pretty dreadful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 09:34 PM
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No, this still doesn't make any sense. Say we accept all your premises about women doing zero pursuing etc. If a woman had 5 men all interested in her, all wanting to be in a stable relationship with her, why would she pick the one she liked the least?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 07:48 PM
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Yes, that's taken for granted. I don't need to keep typing it. The question is why you think women chose the "least preferential man whom a stable relationship is possible" and not the "most preferential man whom a stable relationship is possible"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 07:19 PM
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I don't understand how you are using "least preferential" then, if you think it also means "the partner they like the most".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 07:03 PM
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Why are you posting this again? You posted these studies 14 hours ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 06:54 PM
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That still doesn't make any sense to me. Why would someone purposefully choose the partner they liked the least?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 06:44 PM
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since women usually play the sought role, they instead go up the list from least preferred -> most preferred, which ends with them being matched with their least-preferred man with which they have a stable relationship. I don't understand what you mean by this. Why would women start with the men they like the least?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 05:54 PM
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Who hates corgis? :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:48 PM
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s As a girl would have liked to have my intelligence and intellectual labours regarded as an unmitigated good and a source of pride, rather than something I had to handle delicately, lest I upset or offend. If this is a common sentiment (and I have heard a few of my female friends express it), then it's yet another reason to be grateful for my husband. He's never once made me feel like I shouldn't be proud of my accomplishments. In fact, on Wednesday he said he found my lack of modesty very ende…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:46 PM
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I saw it last night, it's so good! Emily Blunt and John Kransinski are married in real life too, and their scenes together were really sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 07:26 PM
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since all humans are equal then babies should have a right to buy a gun since they are humans too and humans are equal Congratulations, you have managed to build the biggest strawman I have ever seen on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 07:22 PM
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My husband admires me, and will defer to me in specific areas. I likewise admire him and will defer to him in specific areas. Our marriage is not destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 02:54 PM
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Why wouldn't he do it? He's got to eat something right? And he didn't just live in filth (I'm assuming) before you moved in together?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 01:26 PM
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So if you were single, you'd just live in filth?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 12:49 PM
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I was even the sole earner for about two years and still did all the housework and cooking. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 12:48 PM
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I work in conservation. Have you been on the 80000 hours website? They have a career's quiz you may find helpful. The book Doing Good Better: How Effective Altruism Can Help You Make a Difference by William Macaskill is also well worth a read.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 12:21 PM
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I don't really feel like life has to have an overarching purpose, but I do enjoy working towards things and having plans. I guess my "goal" is to be happy with my loving family, and make a difference in the world through my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 10:08 PM
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My husband's the same. He'd prefer to let things like that go to have an easy life. I won't get aggressive or anything, but I'm not afraid of being assertive. If he needs to talk to the bank or anything like that, he'll give the phone straight to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 06:11 PM
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I was the first one to make a move. I take care of moths. If someone's being rude or unfair to us, I'll be the one to speak up. I almost exclusively initiate sex. Not sure what else could fall under masculine gender roles... I'm more highly educated? I take care of the budget?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 11:33 AM
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I don't know why some people continue to have such problems with this. "Be yourself" does not mean be an unattractive slob who makes no effort, it just means be the best version of yourself. It means don't lie. If you hate sports with a passion don't pretend you're on the basketball court every night to impress a potential date because it will screw you over long-term in a relationship. You don't want to have keep up a facade forever. Instead talk about the things that genuinely interest you, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 07:42 AM
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...maybe this is a different cultures thing, but everyone I know would consider just going up to a group of strangers and hanging by them until they let you in really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:49 AM
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Well yeah, but that'a bit obvious isn't it? It stands for most friend circles. People don't just go up to another group of people and say "I'm your friend now, let me play with you". They make friends with one person, and that person invites them to hang out with others. Being a nerd is immaterial.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:01 AM
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there are just no women who try to get in by themselves. That is just so not true. There are plenty of women with nerdy interests who didn't need a man to show them the way. My mum was the one who introduced me to fantasy books, not a boyfriend or father. I host board game nights with my (exclusively so far) female friends. Our idea. At the last one my friend told us about her trip to Japan, with the main goal of visiting the Pokemon Emporium thing. That was not prompted by any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 08:47 AM
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There's a website that roughly calculates your dating pool. Mine is less than 1%, but I'm still happily married. 3 million odd people is quite a lot to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 06:58 PM
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Who made you the gender-arbitrar?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 08:03 AM
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Same. My mum wouldn't let me do ballet growing up because she didn't want me to internalise an unhealthy body image. (All of the ballerinas she knew were anorexic).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 09:02 AM
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Clothing sizes makes way more sense than BMI, because BMI is affected by muscle. When I did Olympic weightlifting I had a BMI of 23, but I was a size 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 08:31 AM
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Hmm, see I feel like that's a rather narrow view of the stereotypes around masculinity. It is also commonly held to involve familial role (e.g. head of household vs. SAHP), personality traits (e.g. dominant, assertive, stoic except when it comes to anger or agression), occupations (e.g. mechanic), and physical characteristics (e.g., bearded, tall, broad-shouldered, deep voice). I disagree that a man must embody these stereotypes to be regarded as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 12:21 AM
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I vastly prefer sawing wood to cleaning. You do it far less often so it's more novel, you get to be outside, and it's a satisfying workout.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 09:16 PM
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Maybe it's because we're British. Abortion just isn't a controversial issue here anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 05:49 PM
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being a victim of rape or serious sexual assault, having an abortion, I do not believe these to be mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 05:00 PM
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Well, to clarify first, what are you imagining when you think of someone who's "stereotypically masculine"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 04:58 PM
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Eh, disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 04:26 PM
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Society being structured in a way that women "have no need to approach men, so they don't", is different from women being inherently, biologically, averse to approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 03:21 PM
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Obviously in the 21st century in the West we use the internet. Feeling the need to constantly identify ourselves as Feminists^TM online is another matter. I only do it when it's directly relevant/I'm asked (like now).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 03:18 PM
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They have no need to approach men, so they don't. ...Which is social reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 03:06 PM
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There are some awfully masculine women leading these organsations then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 02:52 PM
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Feminists exist outside of the internet too you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 02:43 PM
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My response is the same of all the feminists I know IRL, but sure, go ahead and decree who the "real" feminists are. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 02:14 PM
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I am a feminist. The response I wrote here is the response I would give in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 02:03 PM
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Here's a tip: when you're looking for a woman to do all your cooking and cleaning, you might have more luck if you didn't constantly denigrate the work she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 01:54 PM
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It's not. It's also not bad for a specific woman to not want that role for herself, or for a man to not want to be stereotypically masculine. People are free to choose the gender roles they want to perform in a relationship. The only issue is when someone tries to force someone else into a gender role, or implies that you are lesser if you do not fit the gender role that matches your sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 10:43 AM
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That would not be sufficient evidence that it isn't social.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 09:05 AM
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No, you're missing my point. Physical looks didn't factor into the equation at all, so people didn't need to "act" arrogant/humble about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 12:22 PM
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If you're good-looking ... you are so intimidating to other people that they get utterly slighted and start slinging all sorts of shit at you. As I said, not my experience. People weren't shit to other people because of physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 11:38 AM
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What's 7th year? My point stands for all school ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 11:15 AM
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I don't know what kind of school you went to, but that was not my experience at all. People didn't make friends based on looks, they made friends based on personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 10:02 AM
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Lol, that chart for men was definitely made by a man. They put Ryan Gosling at a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 11:49 AM
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Somewhere between him and him maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 10:30 AM
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Why do Americans say "y'all" not "you all"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:26 PM
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...why would you not be sceptical about someone who is nasty to those they consider beneath them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:23 PM
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Haha, you too? The moderation really is OTT. I "derailed" a thread by telling a poster it wasn't fair to say all vegans stink just because she had one smelly roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 06:16 PM
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I mean, I'm pretty sure I've been called a "special snowflake" by multiple users here for being so bluepill and even I've been banned from /r/AskWomen...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 02:43 PM
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I've not cheated on my husband. I've certainly had the opportunity to with men who would be considered objectively more attractive than him, and no possibility of getting found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:03 PM
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Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 09:09 PM
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Again, in dying is a pretty negative consequence no matter how you try to spin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 08:57 PM
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And you claiming Pregnancy is not a negative sexual consequence doesn't hold true for everyone else on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 08:32 PM
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Prole women get degrees. Why do you believe that? There are literally more male babies born each step you take up the class ladder. Source? This large scale study says otherwise: No evidence was found to support the hypothesis that parental social status has any significant effect on the sex ratio of offspring. Totally open to a recent meta-analysis/systematic review though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 05:15 PM
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Q4All: Do men and women learn sex from porn or through their peers or first-hand experience? You left out a fourth option - from the general entertainment industry. I learnt about sex in detail from reading books like the Clan of the Cave Bear series by Jean M Auel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 04:58 PM
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If I get pregnant again it could kill me. I think that's a pretty negative consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 09:28 AM
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A) The meta-analysis you linked focuses only on children and adolescents. At least 4 other systematic reviews (referenced in that very paper) have consistently found an effect size of .24-26 for the stereotype effect. B) The meta analysis you linked still found an effect size of .22 for the stereotype effect! It failed to find and effect of moderating variables. Publication bias means that the effect size may be overestimated, but the authors cannot determine to what degree it influenced the res…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 12:40 PM
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It depends on the type of haircut - I've had short hair for years and I don't even own a hair brush. No gels or sprays or anything, just a cut every 6-8 weeks. It's way less hassle to me than I had long hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 10:08 PM
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Financially independent social worker/welfare drain and stable married PhD student/maladjusted criminal, sure, what's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 11:19 PM
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Not wanting to date a black person is not prejudice. Calling black people disgusting criminals who would probably rob you is prejudice. Do you really not get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 09:25 PM
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You know what is disgusting? Prejudice based on sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 07:13 PM
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but even in Western Europe I would say overweight young women (below the age of 30) are in the minority, no more than 20% even in places like UK or Greece that apparently are the the leading countries for obesity in the Old Continent. Check this out. They're a minority, but a sizable one, well above 20%. 37% of women aged 20 in the UK are overweight or obese, rising to 50% by age 30. In Greece it's 24-46%.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 06:58 PM
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Yeah that's me alright. Men beware. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 08:02 PM
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I'm really not a fan of the oppression olympics. Person A can have a problem. Person B can have a different, slightly worse problem. That does not invalidate the existence of person A's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:13 PM
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I guess I must not actually be a woman then...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 12:34 PM
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I'm personally in favour of hyphenating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:14 PM
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This is such a silly objection that always comes up. Children grow up into adults with agency. They can choose which part of their surname they want to keep when getting married (if they change it at all) and which part to pass on to their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:13 PM
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Started off strong and then crashed and burned. I became incredibly ill with the pregnancy, lost the baby, and have been told I'll never be able to carry to term. Was too ill to travel back home for Christmas, but in a touching display of support our family have all taken turns travelling to visit us instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 04:34 PM
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I'm attracted to attractive women of various ages, I just don't think it's right I should have to pretend I don't notice when a younger girl has fully developed sexual features and clicks the automatic response in me that attractive women do. Have you ever considered how it feels to be a vulnerable, developing teenager and have a load of disgusting older men leering at you? Because that's what you seem like to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 09:12 AM
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Yawn. If all you're going to do is pretend possession of a penis means you know my own inner thoughts and feelings better than I do, you really aren't worth responding to. Try better next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 03:41 PM
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Yes. Very much so. But not at first, it grew on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 10:22 AM
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In that case so is the OP. So are 99% of all Reddit comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:52 PM
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I know. I never claimed otherwise...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:15 PM
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What majority? This is all anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 04:28 PM
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We must hang out in very different social circles then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 12:58 PM
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It's called a stupid question. I'm putting you down for idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 02:03 PM
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eh it is disrespectful dummy, chick is a slang used by frat boys, And many women find being called a "girl" disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 02:49 PM
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I love Barba. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 10:26 AM
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Crying is solely a communication tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:19 AM
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...and when someone cries on their own they're what, trying to communicate with God?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:01 AM
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Thank you! Excitedly making baby blankets between bouts of nausea.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 07:44 PM
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Why do you sound so defensive about this? You've replied to several people insisting that regular redditors can't possibly lead productive/fulfilling lives. I don't understand why you believe that. I'm working on my PhD (a full-time job in itself) have three part-time jobs, a husband, am actively involved in local politics, exercise daily, do a lot of service work in my department (union rep etc), volunteer in outreach, have multiple time-intensive hobbies (e.g. last week I sewed a dress and two…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 07:24 AM
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Only 4 weeks! People in my family tend to have "happy little accidents" so it will make a nice change to tell everyone about a planned baby. Looking forward to being an auntie?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 07:41 PM
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Thank you! Only found out yesterday and we want to tell family in person at Christmas, so I need to let out the excitement on the internet. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 07:05 PM
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I'm pregnant!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 06:29 PM
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Julianne Potter didn't have 2 concurrent love interests and wasn't clumsy. Vivian Ward has no friends. Polly Prince does not work hard. Muriel Heslop is not smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 09:21 AM
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People need to be taught deescalation techniques and conflict resolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 09:13 AM
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Eech, I hate the guy playing a guitar trope. I find it pretty cringy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 06:49 AM
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I mean, I certainly consider my marriage worth the effort...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 09:56 PM
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It's always better to have raw attraction and romantic intent from the start. I didn't have that with my husband when we first met. We were platonic best friends, and have a wonderful relationship now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 09:54 PM
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Your just changing definitions on a whim to suit your argument and ignoring what doesn't fit your view. Nobody cares about what you think a definition is or isn't. Learn to actually read what's in the article. Jesus Christ the irony is palpable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 01:46 PM
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Remind me, who did Theresa May and Angela Merkel marry to get where they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 08:11 AM
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Representativeness?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 06:26 PM
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I don't know whether or not they are held by most women. I do know that they are held by most of the women in my social circle, but as I just said to another commenter they may not be a representative sample of "most women".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:41 PM
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In my experience women will judge the fuck out of you for being a climate change denier. Buuuuut I work in conservation so my social circle is unlikely to be representative!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:39 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:28 PM
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Wow, ya sure got me! 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:14 PM
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...That's not what I said though. It does however relate to a common issue: a negative, self-defeatist attitude. "I hate my job but there's no point in me sending out job applications because I'm sure no one would ever hire me and there probably aren't any jobs I'd like to do out there anyway. No I don't want to meet your recruiter friend, it's probably just a waste of my time. Etc etc etc."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:02 PM
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Aye.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:59 PM
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I think there's almost always something you can do to try to improve the situation. Even if you don't know if it will work, or it may not have a huge impact, put the effort in. People will probably be a lot more sympathetic to you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:53 PM
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Oops, sorry, my mistake. I think that one is probably heavily dependent on culture/age/social group though (as they all are to an extent). Interestingly, I currently have more friends that don't want children than do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:45 PM
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I don't think it's about organisation or neatness, it's about having some form of agency and trying to fix your problems instead of just complaining about them all the time. It's fine to want to vent about a personal issue for emotional support, I just think you ought to also try to do something practical about it. I am not hypocritical about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:43 PM
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Dude, chill the fuck out. If you're interested in perceptions then that's fine, but that is not what you said: If you wanted to know how most men feel about women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:40 PM
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That's an interesting question, and I suppose a philosophical one - am I "good" for supporting political party X instead of Y? Obviously I would think so, but a someone from party Y would disagree. If you mean whether I am hypocritical in my standards, then no, I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:39 PM
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So you didn't understand my reply at all. K
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:34 PM
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Choosing never to have children Really? This one is interesting to me. Why do you judge women for not having children?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:34 PM
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If you wanted to know how most men feel about women, you need to ask it in a generalized manner and remove "how do you" feel about women. Now there is bias in all answers, but you are actively asking the person posting to remove individual or self acknowledged biases. Uh, no. That is not correct at all. If you wanted to know how most men feel about women you would ask a representative population (based on power calculations etc) of men how they individually feel about women, and analyse the resu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:27 PM
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Exactly. It's been 33 minutes and already 100% of the 6 BPW who have responded have all talked about what they judge other women for. The exact opposite of your comment. Again, ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 03:22 PM
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Ouch. Must be a bit embarrassing to be proven so wrong so quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 03:18 PM
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I don't think I've ever been rejected (in a romantic context). But then I don't cold approach strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 03:15 PM
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Speaking for myself: Being environmentally-destructive/a climate change denier Politics Uh... Hypocrisy? I also judge things like shoes, but not the person wearing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 03:12 PM
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Eventually I realized that even feminists never ask men out on dates Weird, could have sworn I was the one to make the first move on my husband, but I guess I'm not actually married then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 11:35 AM
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That's vague. In no particular order: A loving wife Happy Determined Highly successful in my field of work Sharp and analytical A good mother Fun to be around Kind I guess you could sum it up as: Someone who makes a positive impact on the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 09:53 PM
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What "studies"? This is a divorce attorney's blog based on a book. Are we supposed to buy the book to find the references to evaluate the original studies to see whether we want to CYV?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 08:27 AM
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Translation: I'm scientifically-illiterate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 10:05 PM
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I think the whole architecture of the MBTI is pseudo science. It is. It's not scientifically valid and is subject to numerous criticisms. It was developed by 2 people who weren't trained scientists off the work of one psychologist whose own work was also subject to numerous criticisms and untestable. Most of the "evidence" supporting it is methodologically unsound/paid for by the Myers-Briggs foundation. It relies on dichotomous binary choices which is unrealistic - people fall in a bellcurve no…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 05:57 PM
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Each couple can obviously decide this for themselves, but my husband and I have completely shared finances. I wouldn't want it any other way. We're a partnership, not roommates. I cannot even fathom building a life with someone without having lots of open and honest conversations about our financial situations and approaches to budgeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:53 PM
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I am skeptical of women who claim to have higher libidos than all their partners. Maybe one or two duds, but come on. Uh, who are you describing as duds and why? That's kinda offensive. I know several women, myself included, with higher libidos than their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 07:56 AM
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True. I've met plenty of people who define a hobby as "something that I deem interesting and worthy"...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 09:36 PM
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The only person saying what women "should" lift was you....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 06:36 PM
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She shouldn't lift her body weight because she should have better things to do with her time?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 05:58 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 04:49 PM
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So many women are just insanely fucking boring. They have absolutely no hobbies, no interests, nothing. It's funny, but I have yet to meet one of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 04:48 PM
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On the contrary, I've heard loads of women talk about this. I'm shocked OP finds it such a revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 07:32 AM
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Because it's wrong. The post argues that "if you're not Alpha, you're a cuck", defining cuck as someone receiving worse sex because their partner isn't attracted to them. OP even says "My contention is that nothing exists between Alpha and Cuck." If my husband isn't an alpha (and he's really not) but he's also not "cucked", then it must be wrong in some regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 02:43 PM
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I experience a visceral, strong reaction to my husband, but I still would never describe him as an "alpha".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 01:34 PM
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Why are equating "interesting" with being a lecturing know-it-all? You can be clever and have fun in-depth conversations without being a douche about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 08:12 AM
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Thanks, I think we already covered that love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 12:22 PM
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And many will think those societal norms are old-fashioned and judge those who hold them and etc etc etc. I think we get the picture - we can do what we want, we just have to accept the inevitable repercussions to our actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 08:50 AM
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Men can look wherever the fuck they want. However they will be judged by societal norms and many will think they're boorish and crude for blatantly leering at someone in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 07:53 AM
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Mmm, I already have a job educating people on research methodologies and the scientific method, I'm not going to waste my time doing it on PPD too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 02:03 PM
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I'm going to assume you're just being deliberately obtuse to be annoying, because I don't think you're actually that ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 01:25 PM
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An argument for better training in understanding research in schools/university, not for dismissing scientific studies out of hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 11:10 PM
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Yeah, I've read enough papers and had enough actual training during my PhD to recognise when a research methodology is crap. Acting as though that invalidates all social science studies and suddenly makes anecdata reliable is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 10:34 PM
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More valid than anecdata.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 10:24 PM
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Maybe laymen can't. People with actual training can.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 10:23 PM
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Anyone who dismisses an entire body of scientific studies in preference for anecdata is a fucking idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 10:22 PM
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I hope to earn enough by our second kid for my husband to be a SAHD. We've gone months with him being unemployed before and it's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 09:02 PM
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Currently trying to get pregnant. Sex really isn't that different. If anything, it's better when I'm not ovulating because it's just for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 06:24 PM
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This is still weird to me. Both partners should want each other. Trying to analyse who has more "power" or whatever is not a healthy way to conduct a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 10:42 PM
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This is weird. Partners generally select each other IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 10:26 PM
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...no. Most men have jobs and hair, just like you assert most men have decent personalities. That's why it's a good analogy to disprove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 10:12 AM
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Yeah, I definitely did not say that. Men who are bald are in the minority. I guess you think whether someone has hair doesn't matter then? Men whoa re unemployed are in the minority. I guess women don't care about their partner's jobs then? Never mind that "decent" is a pretty freaking low bar...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 10:04 AM
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What doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 09:59 AM
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A good portion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 09:55 AM
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My preferences: Funny and witty, able to make fun of themselves. Sharp, able to keep up with a conversation Kind, empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 09:48 AM
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Cake and tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 07:20 PM
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Who do you think it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 06:43 PM
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The face looks British but the room does not. Groovy on holiday?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 09:43 PM
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Where's that top from? My husband would love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 08:27 PM
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Lol. Someone seems a little sensitive today. Feeling inferior are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 08:46 AM
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Lol, there you go showing off your utter ignorance again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 08:37 AM
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Lol. My PhD is interdisciplinary with psych. People for whom psychology is not just a hobby, those who actually understand MBTI, know it's bullshit. But sure, flaunt your superior knowledge from your business degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 07:31 AM
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I don't understand why anyone other than trans people care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 07:26 AM
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Ugh, this is tagged as "Science"...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 09:42 PM
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A 2 minute google turned up 2 hits straight away: Corporal Punishment by Mothers and Development of Children's Cognitive Ability: A Longitudinal Study of Two Nationally Representative Age Cohorts This study tested the hypothesis that the use of corporal punishment (CP), such as slapping a child's hand or "spanking" is associated with restricted development of cognitive ability. Cognitive ability was measured at the start of the study and 4 years later for 806 children age 2-4 and 704 children ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 09:37 PM
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Nah, this has been shit. No serious discussion, just insults, poor satire and "edgy" comments. I'd definitely unsubscribe if the mods quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 04:20 PM
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I care. Congratulations /u/GinSmokeLies! I hope you're very happy together. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:36 PM
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You forgot the other two options: they could be lying or deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 08:39 PM
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It's already a shitshow...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 08:34 PM
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So all men are rapists? That's really the stance you want to take?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 12:41 PM
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What the hell are they talking about? She's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 08:44 AM
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People don't respect people who are inferior to them in every single regard
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 04:44 PM
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You definitely missed my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 04:28 PM
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People don't respect people who are inferior to them in every single regard Well duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 03:39 PM
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Why SHOULD the political leanings of dating sites be considered a moral issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:00 AM
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Once again: you haven't provided any scientific sources to actually dispute.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 04:16 PM
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Lol. This is not how it works. You don't get to just spout a load of big words and call it science, then try to shift the burden of proof onto the audience. This is your theory, the onus is on you to provide the evidence that backs up your claims. Don't expect anyone to take you seriously until you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 04:11 PM
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You didn't provide any scientific sources to actually dispute...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 09:33 AM
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If you use chrome, install the Nuke Reddit History extension. It's really handy. You can automatically overwrite and delete all of your comments with one click.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 09:04 PM
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The first thing I ever saw him in was Keeping Mum*, where he played a pervy middle-aged man who spies on a teenage girl undressing through her bedroom window. Now whenever I see him I'm reminded of that character. *(which I 100% recommend btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 07:13 PM
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I try to do it every couple of months, because I find it creepy when strangers will occasionally stalk it. Also means I'm less likely to be identified by people I know IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 06:51 PM
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I didn't find Ghost sad because I find Patrick Swayze super skeezy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 06:31 PM
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....Goddammit I just deleted comment history today, and can't be bothered to redo my last comment again. The gist of it being: One of my favourite films as a teenager was Closer. I thought it was beautiful and raw and full of great quotes. Other films that sort of fall under the "romance" banner that I've loved: The Proposal The Holiday Easy A Pitch Perfect Grease and Grease 2 Love Actually My Best Friend's Wedding She's The Man Stardust Tangled Tarzan 10 Things I Hate About You Bridget Jones's …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 06:30 PM
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You seemed to have missed the pretty much everything. Maybe if you weren't triggered and used your logical brain you could have grasped them. Oh again totally missed it. Do you even try? Do you do this on purpose? Aren't you a mod? This is not at all civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:31 PM
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I don't generally like romance films, but I loved Closer. It's all super raw and beautiful, and full of quotes that you think are awesome when you're a teenager. Lying's the most fun a girl can have without taking her clothes off - but it's better if you do. Dan: I fell in love with her, Alice. Alice: Oh, as if you had no choice? There's a moment, there's always a moment, "I can do this, I can give into this, or I can resist it", and I don't know when your moment was, but I bet you there was one…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 02:45 PM
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When one person is too incapacitated to consent, and another person takes the initiative to have sex with them, that person is a rapist regardless of gender. If a guy passes out and a woman mounts him, she is also a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 09:39 AM
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Three Professions: Banker, Engineer, Musician Uh, is "none of the above" an option?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 07:03 PM
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And taste is music or movies isn't objectively bad. It can be objectively different, but calling it bad is a subjective opinion. Are you paying attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 09:13 PM
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Sure, but all that means is they're lame to you. To people who also like Crash or Cosmo or whatever, they are interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 09:10 PM
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Yeah, nah. Someone liking different movies/music to you does not make them objectively uninteresting people. Personal taste is considered subjective for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 04:41 PM
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Why do you think that you need to date lots of people to appreciate a good partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 04:07 PM
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Do you have any specific examples? I'm still not sure what you mean. Also, you mean not interesting to you right? Being heavily into is probably a red flag that someone wouldn't be very interesting to me, but I'm sure they'd be fascinating to someone who's also a sport lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 04:03 PM
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Having less than 3 partners That's like the opposite of almost everyone else here. How come? Being vegetarian/vegan/etc. Also how come?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 03:40 PM
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What are "bad" movies/music, and why is that a read flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 03:39 PM
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White supremacy is not just an American fringe ideology. Have you never heard of the Nazis, or South African apartheid?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 03:37 PM
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My husband and I are officially trying to conceive!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 07:02 PM
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You never enjoy some light petting without wanting to go all the way into having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 03:29 PM
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Well, one will ask and the other answers. Asking is its own answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 03:25 PM
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Foreplay != penetrative sexual intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 03:15 PM
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My husband and I have had sex 1000+ times, and we still always ask each other if they want to have sex first. I don't get why so many people are making it out to be some horrific, unworkable thing. It's really not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 07:18 AM
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Kelly Brook vs Emma Watson. Stop trying to exaggerate the difference. Also, lol at Kim Kardashian having a 38E bra size. This what someone who wears a 38E looks like. Is that really the size you think KK is? And like hell does someone suddenly become unattractive because they're a brunette vs a blonde. Men are not that picky. So again, stop stretching.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 01:02 PM
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Oh please, both versions of both genders are nearly identical, the women's one is just a bit slimmer. To say otherwise is really reaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 12:20 PM
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RP and MGTOW are not the vast majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 09:00 AM
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Except nearly half of the BP users who answered said they were very satisfied with their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 06:28 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 06:01 PM
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Maybe it's different social circles, but the vast majority of pretty women I know aren't "conceited bitches".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 05:59 PM
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I was thinking drugs or a mental breakdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 09:02 AM
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He started spamming a load of subreddits including this one with spam posts ("ALL MEN ARE EVIL" etc) and comments telling people to fuck off and die, trying to get IP banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 08:55 AM
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My mum said she'd totally be up for polygamy if she could be the sex wife, and the other was the chore wife. Basically she just wants a housekeeper she doesn't have to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 12:15 PM
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Yeah sure, if you're a moody 14 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 06:41 AM
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I don't believe that everything is war. Perhaps you think that makes me naive and powerless, but if so that seem like a great trade for happiness and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 07:31 AM
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You're ignoring the existence of cooperative games, where the point is to work together to achieve a common goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 07:28 AM
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I have never thought that being blue pill will antithetical to being a sweet person who's a good host..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 06:38 AM
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The Damore memo has been discredited and debunked by scientists, who argue that Damore’s claims of differences between men and women are overstated and rely on deeply flawed research, and that his effort to use biological studies to make sweeping conclusions about workplace diversity is irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 08:02 AM
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Best not to put too much stock into it. The actual hierarchy lacks empirical support and the rank-ordering of the needs has been questioned (Wahba & Bridwell 1976). It's based on Western ideology and is considered ethnocentric by some as it doesn't account for differences in the cultural needs of societies (Hofstede 1984). For instance, it has been shown to not apply to collectivist cultures (Gambrel & Cianci 2003).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:15 PM
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Maybe it's an American thing. I'm friends with plenty of overweight people, and not a single one has ever shared something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 07:21 AM
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I really do not think that is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:17 PM
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Do you mean that they often won't, or that people are actually incapable of caring about anyone else? Because the latter is demonstrably false.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:14 PM
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You understand that very different motivations can be behind the same behaviour right? Like eating an apple because it's tasty vs healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 01:20 PM
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Uh, no. Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 12:39 PM
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...why are you assuming it's a desire to be dominated, rather than a chance to see if they can dominate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 07:21 AM
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What's she doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 10:25 AM
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"I am not attracted to you" != "You do not deserve me"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 10:25 AM
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Uh, it was in the news. I remember it being in the news. E.g. ABC, Spectator. You also seem to be missing any grasp of nuance. A lack of bias in one industry in one country, does not mean there's no bias anywhere else in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 11:25 AM
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Rank the following attributes for a potential partner from most important (1) to least important (12) Why is sense of humour not an option? That's way more important to me than things like status or education. Or are you counting that as sense of rapport?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 10:29 AM
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Which does not mean they don't want to die as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 08:37 AM
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I'm of the mind that still retaining a shred of empathy doesn't mean you don't want to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 08:36 AM
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Perhaps you should re-evaluate your argument then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 08:35 AM
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Only if you take just a cursory glance. Women don't succeed as often as men because they choose different methods, ones which are less distressing to those who will find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 08:06 AM
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You didn't answer mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 07:57 AM
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What sort of personality is a stoneage caveman supposed to have, and how exactly do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 07:17 AM
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So you knew there was an obvious counterpoint to your comment, but still felt the need to make it? Great debating. Women choose different methods, ones that are less distressing to those who will find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 07:15 AM
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More women attempt suicide than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 07:05 AM
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Didn't you hear? I don't count old men as men. They're non-existant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 12:05 PM
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I might start arguing that I think all men are Chad, because I just don't count non-Chad's as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 08:08 PM
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I think it's quite insulting to insinuate that just because /u/GinSmokeLies doesn't like discussing the the superiority of one beer over another, she's less "worthy" as a partner. A lack of interest in one specific topic does not mean you "revel in ignorance". I know nothing about wine and have no desire to learn more about it because I don't drink it, but I have plenty of intellectual curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 06:59 PM
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Poor strawman. Toddlers are children, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 06:45 PM
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You might not consider them women, but women over 35 are still women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 06:34 PM
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~18% of women are over 65. I think that's "post wall" by most people's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 06:16 PM
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All of these women are 5s to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 05:03 PM
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If someone will literally only talk about sports hobbies, it's really not surprising if they struggle to get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 04:45 PM
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Assuming he does have actual interests and doesn't do literally nothing all day (video games and music and stuff are fine), definitely the first guy. I don't want a really ambitious partner. Someone who can afford to be home with the kids sounds much better to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 01:37 PM
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It should be noted 5th is too busy attacking /u/BiggerDthanYou all over this thread to notice the "infographic" he's dismissing comes from the actual report.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 01:30 PM
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Where in the report does it say "buying her things" was considered rape? Or dirty talk for that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 08:31 AM
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Are you a man or a woman? You can talk to people without hitting on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 05:26 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 05:24 PM
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I can't say I've noticed the same. Do many people really get intimidated by looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 05:02 PM
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...I can't tell if you're intentionally making a joke or you mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 03:04 PM
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Compensating how?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 07:26 AM
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If you're doing something you enjoy, what does it matter whether other people want to call it a "job" rather than a "career"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 04:37 PM
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Only ~10-15% of people have the intelligence, ambition, and conscientiousness to have an interesting career. Only about 3-4% actually do have interesting careers. I'm not saying you're wrong, but do you have any sources on job satisfaction that support the figures here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 04:33 PM
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*Masters
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 03:58 PM
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"Modern feminism" is not one big monolith with unified commandments and followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 03:14 PM
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Good Lord if I could banish one feminist talking point to the shadow realm. Yes yes yes, not every single feminist is an identical clone. You've good and properly murdered that strawman. Try not getting arsey with people who don't relate to your conception of feminism and maybe we can. The point is that there are plenty of examples of feminists saying something but when called on it suddenly they don't exist anymore. I suggest you reread my comment. I never claimed your version doesn't exist ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 02:07 PM
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You missed my point. I don't think you have to have lots and lots of money, luck, time, personality, and looks to be a feminist with a family and a career you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 02:03 PM
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Well, my apartment's on the ground floor because that made moving much easier, but I have all the rest going on. Certainly luck was involved (in that I was extremely lucky to have met my husband so young), but I really don't think I'm extraordinary in the other respects.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 01:59 PM
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A) "Modern feminism" is not one big monolith with unified commandments and followers. B) I live in a different country to the author, and presumably have a different social circle. It's not that weird that we would have different experiences. C) I didn't get the impression that she thought men should be at her beck and call with nothing in return, but rather she's only just reaching the point where she thinks she might enjoy the trade offs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 01:56 PM
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Funny, I haven't seen that amongst any of my modern feminist friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 01:29 PM
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just because you’re a woke feminist with a trendy loft apartment who’s passionate about her career doesn’t mean that you’ve somehow transcended your biology. I don't see why you can't be all that and have a partner and children you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 01:20 PM
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It's hypocritical even without specifying gender. You said it's insulting to be told you only deserve bottom of the barrel partners when you have a great personality, and then went on to define bottom of the barrel fat people, irrespective of their personalities. That is hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 11:13 AM
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Being told ''You only deserve the bottom of the barrel'' Is insulting to anyone who has any sense of self respect. You can be kind, honest, loyal, and any number of great quality's and yet a night out on the town will only net you fat or just low class partners due to the nature of your great quality's. Are you seriously not seeing the hypocrisy here? You're saying it's insulting to unattractive men to be told they only deserve the "bottom of the barrel" (fat women) when they could have loads of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 07:30 AM
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Some of the greatest minds I know love discussing people. The biggest gossip I've ever met is the head of my entire university department. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 07:36 PM
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but most of the women I know have hobbies I find fairly boring. That's the core issue though isn't it? Everyone's just judging everyone else based on what they personally find boring. I find sewing fascinating and sports dire but that doesn't mean that people who are really into sports are boring, they're just not interesting to me. These aren't objective judgements.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 07:33 PM
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Please don't mistake my being confused at an ambiguously worded comment for apathy. It's quite rude and not at all conducive to a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 09:13 PM
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Is there or is there not a significant strength difference between a 6'3" 240lbs man and a 5'8" 170lbs man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 08:56 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 08:54 PM
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Enjoying sex is a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 08:39 PM
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...or she just really wants to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 08:17 PM
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I like having sex, but if events somehow conspire that we go more than a few days without, my husband gets insufferable while I'm unaffected. Other way round for us. I'm the one who gets grumpy and mopey if we don't have regular sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 06:25 PM
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Claiming that it's not surprising that a feminist wouldn't bother reading sources is a blatant dig at feminists. Don't be disingenuous. My comment was just a reply in kind. I did read the links he provided. I refer you back to my earlier comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 04:24 PM
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For someone who thinks feminists are unintelligent, it isn't surprising at all that you lack scientific literacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 03:57 PM
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There is a statistical distribution method using the Gini coefficient and lorenz curve that explains the distribution. It isn't as varied as you think it is. Where's the source for this specific claim, in the comment I was actually replying to? Additionally, a screenshot with a load of text blacked out is not an actual source...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 03:53 PM
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For someone with "SCIENCE" in their flair you sure seem to hate providing sources for your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 07:20 AM
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I think settling down early runs the risk of you growing apart, but settling down late runs the risk of you being too set in your ways to adapt to another person. Really the deciding factor is when you meet a person you actually want to settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 07:14 AM
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I'm noticing a lot of assertions with no supporting evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 10:06 PM
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He tried to do a good deed I mean, I think the comments are too harsh, but lets be real here. He wasn't trying to some selfless good deed, he was trying to get tugged off by a girl he fancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:55 PM
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Unless you question every single woman you meet about whether they've had plastic surgery, you have no way of knowing if you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:23 AM
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I'm treated satisfactorily in public anyway, so makeup would be a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 08:38 PM
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...And you're probably just recognising the people who have shitty plastic surgery. That's like saying all vegans/Christians/crossfitters/etc are vocal assholes when you only know the minority who are vocal assholes because they don't shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 03:35 PM
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Right, which is a different scenario to: I think it's a bit shit to lead someone on if you 100% know you see no future with them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 01:53 PM
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That's not an exception, that's a different scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 12:46 PM
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I think it's a bit shit to lead someone on if you 100% know you see no future with them. If you're upfront about it first, that's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 10:33 AM
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I'd think it was a bit weird that it took them multiple dates to suddenly realise their partner wasn't a millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 10:06 AM
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Short purple hair is beautiful to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 11:18 PM
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I think being a billionaire world leader is a bit more impressive than just having married one. Also, so what if you met a girl with short hair and that made you sad? I doubt your penis was high up on her list of concerns when she went for her haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 11:04 PM
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Grey Worm!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 11:29 AM
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I know quite a few women who had children with their partners without getting married, because they don't see the point in marriage. That does not mean they lack in self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 07:41 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:58 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:57 PM
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You can be a productive, contributing member of society without paying taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:52 PM
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Try not sabotaging his relationship by worrying about "back up plans" in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 04:32 PM
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Translation: I can't back up my shitty claims, and so am going to bluster about not actually needing evidence. Are you sure you're a STEM academic? Really? Because that is a rather disappointing indictment on the state of America's universities if so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 04:54 PM
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How about every feminist looking girl that showed up in my sophomore classes on biochemistry ended up with bad grades, or even dropping the course? I find it hard to believe you're a STEM academic with logic like that. I repeat, how about a real source?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 04:34 PM
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Then you should know that your personal experiences are a pretty shitty source for something like this. I'm actually in a biological field, filled with feminists. Got any actual evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 12:05 PM
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I don't think that this hierarchy is entirely accurate, or at least not all of the time. You're right, it's not. The actual hierarchy lacks empirical support and the rank-ordering of the needs has been questioned (Wahba & Bridwell 1976). It's based on Western ideology and is considered ethnocentric by some as it doesn't account for differences in the cultural needs of societies (Hofstede 1984). For instance, it has been shown to not apply to collectivist cultures (Gambrel & Cianci 2003).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 09:54 AM
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Most feminists flunk biology. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 09:50 AM
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Alternatively, you can fuck right off with your opinions and women can do what ever the fuck they want with their bras.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 06:45 AM
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Embarrassing to you maybe. Not embarrassing to people who don't give a shit about whether their breasts fit society's perfect mould.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 06:43 AM
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I understand the concept of social ranking. I don't understand how you look at the person you love, all the complicated traits that make them then, and decide whether they're better or worse than you, or why you'd even want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 08:36 PM
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Ah "virtue signalling". The bastion of any who feel vaguely threatened or insecure when someone does not behave as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 08:25 PM
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Engaging in good faith while still being sceptical would be questioning my behaviour to see if it does in fact match what I say, not dismissing me out of hand because my experiences do not match your preconceived notions of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 07:46 PM
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If leagues are about more than just looks then it becomes immeasurably harder to rank myself against my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 07:26 PM
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Right, which goes back to my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 07:13 PM
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Colloquially I have always heard of leagues as referring to more than just looks. Eg. a successful lawyer is not in the same league as a broke waitress.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 07:02 PM
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Where did I say I hadn't heard of leagues? Nowhere. I said I wouldn't know how to classify a person in a league, to objectively call my husband better or worse than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 06:54 PM
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Implying someone is either lying or delusional about their own experiences is not engaging in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 06:40 PM
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No idea. I don't really think of myself or my husband as being in "leagues". He's great in some ways, I'm great in other ways. I don't know how you rank a person like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 06:06 PM
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"I can't possibly conceive that someone could have experiences that differ to my preconceived worldviews, so I'm going to make a snarky little edit to her comment to imply she's either delusional or lying. Then I can bask in my assumed superiority." FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 02:46 PM
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Lol "drop the ego and start ego-lifting instead"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 01:56 PM
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To lots of women yes. To plenty of others, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 11:41 AM
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He's much better looking than most chubby guys I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 11:32 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/6idwjf/profile_review_week_of_june_20_2017/djdc7gk/ they don't even say that he should lose weight, add more better pictures, less about him solo. I think it is a great profile. A lot of girls like the cuddly bear look, and he's very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 11:30 AM
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I wouldn't say you're a 4/10 at all, you just have shitty lighting in most of the pictures. Also the "outdoor enthusiast" followed by "like lazy stuff" seems contradictory. I'd change one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 11:28 AM
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Nope. I've only ever liked nice guys, and believe me, it has not been a bedroom killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 07:43 AM
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Single mothers can still have standards too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 07:43 AM
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Just to clarify, you think a) 60% of men would probably rape their partner if she asked them to stop midcoitus because she was in pain, and b) raping your partner isn't something worthy of legal punishment? Jesus Christ dude. That is way more unreasonable than I would have expected of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 07:35 AM
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I think my husband's a pretty boy, and I mean that as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:08 PM
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An engagement ring and a wedding ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 07:46 AM
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There are 7 billion people in the world. I highly doubt you're such a unique snowflake that there is not a sizeable number of other people with complementary personalities/values.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 07:01 AM
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Yes, and I'm saying people can become sexually attractive after you get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 05:23 PM
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Not having ONS != not finding people sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 04:46 PM
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Yes, the latter too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 04:36 PM
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Notice you left out the 2 most important words: good Christian girls AKA women are wonderful if they behave in certain prescribed ways. Otherwise they're dirty whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 09:57 AM
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Right, but my point is there was zero attraction there before I got to know his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 08:53 AM
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I generally am not attracted to men of that description.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 08:47 AM
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Sure, if you think a fat, bald, short man with no dress sense and a decade on me is already attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 08:38 AM
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There isn't such thing as "after knowing him better he became attractive" Yes there is. I don't know how often it happens, but it can and does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 08:25 AM
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I kinda feel sorry for people who think like that. Have they really never experienced love and affection before?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 08:23 AM
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Ditto here. Working class, didn't really have any assets to worry about protecting, and didn't know anyone else who had one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 09:33 PM
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...I think we're talking about different things. I'm saying you can't make yourself be attracted to someone you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 06:04 PM
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Have you? I'm happy to be proven wrong, but I've literally never heard of this happening. I mean, it's basically gay conversion therapy, and we all know how successful that is...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 04:56 PM
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"Making" implies a conscious choice and control over the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 04:46 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 04:40 PM
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Yes. And you can be physically attracted to someone and have no emotional connection. And you can be both physically attracted and emotionally attracted. And you can be neither. Doesn't affect my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 03:20 PM
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Through an emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:09 PM
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No, that's not what I'm saying. Chemistry can develop from nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 01:53 PM
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I don't get that from your comment at all. How is that what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 01:19 PM
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You've really never heard of someone becoming attracted to a friend due to their personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 01:13 PM
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You can't MAKE attraction where there is none, but it can develop where there was none.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 01:11 PM
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I didn't say all (or even most) incels are incel because they can't read body language, just that a lot of them have posted here saying they can't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 08:51 AM
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If you think that, you must not be using it right. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 07:55 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 07:15 AM
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A person's value does not rely on how many people want to bang them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 06:52 AM
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I don't consider myself particularly good at reading people's emotions, but I got 31 out of 36. Maybe this is why I find it so hard to relate to the large number of male posters/incels who seem so clueless about reading body language. It's pretty obvious to me when someone doesn't want to be bothered vs is flirting, but I've seen multiple guys complain about not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 08:41 PM
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Campaigning to change the definition of rape to include male rape is an action. It contradicts your preconceived notions of what feminism is but rather that admit it's possible you might be wrong, you're just trying to hamster it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 06:37 AM
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Various redpillers have said that women are evil. Does that mean it's accurate to assert that redpillers think women are evil? As to why, I yet to figure why they campaign for such a thing when clearly feminism isn't about gender equality. Dude, you are so biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 06:20 AM
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...Why would feminists campaign to change the definition of rape to include male rape, if they didn't believe male rape existed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 06:12 AM
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But I wasn't replying to the OP, I was replying to one specific comment: I'm willing to argue that not every woman wants to tame a wild beast (high-status attractive male) because it is an unrealistic goal, not because they don't inherently want to. I don't "inherently want" to tame anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 06:10 AM
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Calling anything you don't like or disagree with "hate", doesn't actually make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 06:03 AM
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they have no idea about the truly insane bile feminists openly support and teach in schools worldwide. Go on then, educate us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 05:50 AM
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So? My life isn't a fantasy, it's a reality. It doesn't have to make for exciting storytelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 09:54 PM
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I'm sorry, but that's quite an ignorant mischarcterisation of science/social science.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 09:53 PM
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You realise that social science does comprise of studies right? Studying the common literary themes in different cultures could certainly be done. It may already have been done, if you wished to do some research to back up your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 09:36 PM
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What a nonsensical statement. You hate when people want you to back up your science with science...?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 09:34 PM
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Disagree. Why would I want to "tame" anything? Why not just marry someone lovely who's already suited to me, without the need for struggling to change them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 09:33 PM
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People who complain about sexism seem to have very easy lives. Or people who don't understand why people complain about sexism have been lucky enough not to experience any strong forms of it...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 06:27 PM
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Because they realize that feminism is not actually good for women. Speak for yourself. Personally, I feel that the rights to bodily integrity and autonomy; to vote (universal suffrage); to hold public office; to work; to own property; to education; to enter into legal contracts; and to have marital, parental, and religious rights, have been very beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 10:05 AM
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Society and that various feminists say females can't ever rape males. Absolute bullshit. Male rape is certainly marginalised compared to female rape, but it is completely untrue to pretend that society/feminism claims it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 09:40 AM
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It's kind of common for bachelorette parties. Source? I don't know anyone who hired a male stripper for their bachelorette party (if they even had one - plenty of women don't.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 06:36 AM
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Shaming actually does work. It's been proven over and over again to actually work. Uh, quite the opposite. Fat shaming has been shown to not make people healthier, generally. Obesity stigma, guilt, and shame reinforce high body weights and can even promote weight gain. Experiencing obesity stigma often leads people to adopt coping strategies that undermine physical health – such as comfort eating, or avoiding exercise in case they are made to feel embarrassed about their bodies. Obesity stigma h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 05:56 PM
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You know that fat shaming generally doesn't work right? If you're just doing it to be a dick to people with higher BMIs, carry on I guess, but don't fool yourself into thinking you're actually making people healthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 10:30 AM
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You ignored the standard CDC classification for the Obese III category showing a 1 point difference huh? What on earth are you talking about mate? You're the one making assertions that the actual researchers aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 10:06 AM
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I think you have something called "making a post about a scientific study without bothering to look at the actual data first".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 09:46 AM
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Fine, but that's not what I'm replying to. I'm replying to your separate assertion in the prior comment. And FWIW, I don't consider "1" to be substantially lower. (And again, with those SEs that may not even be the case.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 07:45 AM
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You can't actually reliably assume that morbidly obese women had the highest N-count. Look at the SE bars and the actual numbers on the graph. Even the researchers say Generally speaking, there was little variation in the number of sex partners for women of differing body masses [with the exception of underweight women]
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 07:22 AM
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Dear Lord, the hubris of you love. "I don't understand something that I have not experienced, therefore anyone who has experienced it must just be mentally ill."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 04:20 PM
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Uh, in the UK there's already a charity that holds fundraisers specifically for male victims of domestic abuse, including having women run actual marathons vs walking a single mile. It's a great cause and all the feminists I know support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 07:56 AM
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That's your issue then dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 07:51 AM
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Uh, in the UK there's already a charity that holds fundraisers specifically for male victims of domestic abuse. It's a great cause and all the feminists I know support it. Instead of hiding behind your strawman of the big bad feminists, why don't you actually try doing something productive like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 07:50 AM
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You're just arguing over semantics here. I'd say my husband because more physically appealing to me because my love for him filtered my appraisal of his features, so that they became more attractive. Therefore, physically, I find him better looking now than before I got to know him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 05:46 AM
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I've spent too much time in England so mine's very faint now (unless I'm drunk/excited), but most of my family sound like that. My grandfather is very anti-Wales, and he once tried to pay for me to have elocution lessons to eliminate all traces of Welsh from my accent!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:57 PM
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https://youtu.be/vMtpcvPwvRY?t=15
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 12:25 PM
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I can get pretty shrill, as can my best friend, and it doesn't seem to have put anyone off too much. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Unless a voice is particularly unusual/attractive I can't say I really even notice them. I do think that the Iranian actress Shohreh Aghdashloo has a gorgeous voice though. If I have to think of a sexy voice, she immediately comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 11:11 AM
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There's also the 'high rising terminal' common in Australian English - ending every sentence like it's a question. Very annoying I don't find that annoying at all. If anything, I like it. But that's probably because it's common in my country too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 11:06 AM
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And yes, women are frigid by nature. Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:57 AM
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If we're doing GoT guys, then Grey Worm would be my pick. He's so pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:56 AM
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I have in multiple comments already. They're easily googleable: e.g. http://www.independent.co.uk/student/news/oxford-university-summer-school-white-working-class-british-boys-year-12-pupils-sutton-trust-a7607706.html
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 12:30 PM
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Your strawmen are amusing no one, and are not conducive to a genuine discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 09:27 AM
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They're easily googleable: e.g. http://www.independent.co.uk/student/news/oxford-university-summer-school-white-working-class-british-boys-year-12-pupils-sutton-trust-a7607706.html
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 09:14 AM
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It's not obvious at all. Working to improve access to HE for disadvantaged groups is in no way a conflict with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 09:13 AM
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Don't be ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 08:59 AM
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Eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 07:45 AM
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I work with outreach programmes, I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 06:09 AM
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Your sarcasm is super amusing and all that, but as a feminist I already work with outreach programmes specifically targeted at poor white boys, to try to get them into university.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 06:07 AM
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There are already outreach programmes specifically targeted at poor white boys, to try to get them into university.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 06:04 AM
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There are already outreach programmes specifically targeted at poor white boys, to try to get them into university.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 06:04 AM
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There are already outreach programmes specifically targeted at poor white boys, to try to get them into university.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 06:03 AM
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Just because you care so little about other people that you find it impossible to conceive of someone genuinely possessing empathy, that does not mean anyone who's a liberal is merely "virtue-signally". What a sad, sad, world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 06:32 AM
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Yes a liberal. I want a man with empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 11:45 PM
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Ah, of course. Silly me, I forgot for a moment that women are basically just a hole between 2 legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 06:34 AM
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This blatantly untrue. I'm surrounded by unattractive men who I admire and/or am friends with. I find it very hard to believe you have never seen a woman laugh at an ugly dude's joke, or respect the capabilities of their ugly boss. Hell, even Donald Trump had hundreds of thousands of women voting for him. Do you really think it was just because they thought he was hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 06:06 AM
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...in your scenario is the rapist the "best"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:18 PM
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You'll probably always be Purple, having knowledge that while some women are "like that", not all are. That is not contradictory to being bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 07:17 AM
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Jesus, that's misleading, even for you. Only 2 out of 9 women have specified they want their partners to be really good at something ("guitar/bass" and "anything"). Multiple other women have said the men they date don't have to be particularly good at X, as long as they enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 06:06 PM
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Eh. If you're not money poor and time poor maybe. Most things I make are way cheaper than buying them in a shop would have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 11:50 AM
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You seem real eager to let everyone know just what a heterosexual male you are bud. Sure you're not overcompensating for something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 11:26 AM
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I really don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 11:04 AM
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Wow, definitely disagree. She looks miles better in her after photos to me, (and I think more people would agree with me than you).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 10:04 AM
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It's not all or nothing though. You can workout 3x a week and go out and do other things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 10:02 AM
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You can get them tailored to fit though, or even make them yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 09:57 AM
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Right back atchya.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 01:41 PM
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And I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 01:17 PM
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Have you considered that women not giving a shit about MGTOW does not depend on whether or not the men are doing to "punish" them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 01:01 PM
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And what a loss it is for women everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 07:35 AM
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Totally happy to adopt, and probably will anyway. Any race or gender, up to the age of 4 probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 06:34 AM
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He'd broken up with his girlfriend just a few days before, and it was her birthday. That's why I invited him over, to make sure he was okay. I guess technically our marriage is his rebound fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 06:29 AM
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I made the first move with my husband. He was funny and cute and a bit sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 10:00 PM
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One at least was way older than me, short, bald, overweight, and badly dressed. I did not do anything because I was in a relationship and I don't cheat. I distanced myself instead. When I first met my husband there was literally zero sexual attraction. Then we became best friends and I fell in love with his personality, and now I think he's the sexiest man in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 02:08 PM
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I've developed crushes on men who've been short, overweight, geeky, balding and unattractive just because of their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 01:09 PM
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Dude, don't lie. She's claiming one large, blatantly fake, arse is fake. She does not say that all large arses are fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 06:22 AM
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Nope. You're talking to an exception right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 06:16 AM
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Sometimes but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 09:39 PM
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That's all in the methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:08 PM
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Ignorance, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:07 PM
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Having enormous boobs would not positively impact my life. I already have breasts larger than I prefer, and tend to stick to sport bras to batten them down a bit. Having strange men leer at your cleavage is not as enjoyable an experience as you seem to think. Anyway, to answer your questions: twice this year. don't think any part of the male body has been pedestalised by western society in the same manner as women's breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:23 AM
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There's a big diffidence between claiming someone is lying about their personal experiences, and thinking that the general conclusions they have drawn based on those experiences are inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 11:28 AM
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Perhaps so-called ‘women’s jobs’ attract deflated salaries precisely because they are held, in the main, by women. A number of research studies have shown that managers simply recommend lower salaries to women job applicants even when their male counterparts submit identical CVs (Davison & Burke, 2000), suggesting that the gender of job-holders may indeed influence the way salaries evolve over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 03:52 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 05:24 PM
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Agreed. Also, I made my first quilt Atlas! I have one in the works for my mum's birthday, but decided to practice free motion quilting on a baby quilt for a friend first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 05:10 PM
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Again, You should select these 5 qualities in such a manner that if a man possessing these 5 qualities wanted to be in a relationship with you then you wouldn't reject. I gave you my 5 most desired qualities already, but possessing just those qualities is not enough for me to not reject someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 04:46 PM
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You said: You should select these 5 qualities in such a manner that if a man possessing these 5 qualities wanted to be in a relationship with you then you wouldn't reject. Multiple women are telling you that 5 qualities is not enough to make them automatically date someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 04:29 PM
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See the start of my first comment: Possessing just 5 qualities is not enough to make me automatically date someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 04:19 PM
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Impossible to answer accurately and for all situations. It depends on the combination of different qualities and the personality of the person who possesses them. E.g. I think blue eyes are the prettiest, but that doesn't mean I like everyone with blue eyes, nor does it mean I dislike everyone without blue eyes. Generally speaking though, I like things like a genuine heart-warming smile, full lips, long eyelashes, big eyes, thick hair, pleasing voice, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 03:56 PM
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Yes. Why wouldn't I be?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 03:52 PM
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Possessing just 5 qualities are not enough that I would automatically date someone. However, the closest I can get: Similar moral/political values Attractive to me Intelligent/curious Funny/witty Kind (But also easy-going and patient, similar longterm goals and views on religion, family, child-rearing, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 12:47 PM
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I've never had a ONS, nor would I want to. Sex to me is more about emotional intimacy. I don't really care that much about orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 12:47 PM
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A cross between Jessica Biel and Sandra Bullock in gravity, with a bigger bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 04:53 PM
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You: give me example of hard scientists who recognise that the social sciences are science. Me: gives examples You: nanana, can't trust what scientists say
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 08:28 PM
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I know little about sociology, I specifically mentioned psychology. For starters, in the UK, the Science Council awards Chartered Scientist status to experienced psychologists. Psychology is one of 24 subject-area sections of the American Association for the Advancement of Science (AAAS), the body responsible for setting standards for science and technology education in the US (and publisher of Science). UNESCO, the UN agency charged with promoting science at a global level, operates a classific…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 08:17 PM
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Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 06:44 AM
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Yes, because there are zero couples who remain married after middle age. Not a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 11:35 AM
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Social sciences like psychology generally are considered STEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 10:01 AM
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And you know that how?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 10:59 PM
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Some of the links have disappeared, but my go to response: It's not scientifically valid and is subject to numerous criticisms. It was developed by 2 people who weren't trained scientists off the work of one psychologist whose own work was also subject to numerous criticisms and untestable. Most of the "evidence" supporting it is methodologically unsound/paid for by the Myers-Briggs foundation. It relies on dichotomous binary choices which is unrealistic - people fall in a bellcurve not a bimoda…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 11:35 AM
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It's great you're so up front about being biased but why ask for evidence if you already know it won't convince you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 01:55 PM
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I'm pretty sure I have provided you with evidence in the past and you just dismissed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 01:21 PM
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I do have quite a lot of tattoos which can draw attention, but only one of the comments were about my tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:32 PM
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I'm visiting America for the first time. From the airport to my friend's house, 4 strangers made unsolicited comments on my appearance. Is that a thing in America? Do people really feel the need to tell a complete stranger what they think of their body?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 10:47 AM
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What on earth would be the point of lying about your weight/height, unless you're only interested in dating blind people?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 06:22 AM
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...and this comment is why we have the "no race-baiting" rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 06:13 AM
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I've been trying to get him to start lifting for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 07:30 PM
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Not really, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:49 PM
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Not every woman is so insecure. I'm confident that my husband doesn't stay with me just because of a lack of other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:18 PM
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You've either miscounted me or missed me out. My parents didn't divorce, they were never married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 09:08 PM
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Generally, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 02:06 PM
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Again, not semantics. You just miscommunicated your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 02:05 PM
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That's not semantics, unless you think your partner is unable differentiate between you and the male gender at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:48 PM
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women have extremely low sex drives Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:40 PM
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One specific man != "men".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:37 PM
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Wtf? When did women stop being people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 05:07 PM
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Hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 10:02 PM
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Sadly, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 12:08 PM
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I don't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 12:08 PM
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This may be the first time we've ever been on the same side. Thank you for bringing a voice of sanity to this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 07:25 AM
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Actually, lots of people are working reducing deforestation, biodiversity loss, and pollution. We're underfunded and it's often not enough, but saying nothing is being done is blatantly untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 07:18 AM
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Sure it is. You think "this may not be very good for me but a cost benefit analysis shows having fun tonight is worth it to me".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 07:14 AM
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23, non-red, star sign is cancer. Personally, I want someone who: has compatible moral and political values makes me laugh is my best friend has similar views on finances, religion, and raising children is vegan is not career-orientated and is happy to move about likes my family, especially my mum is easygoing is fun in bed is kind
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 06:40 AM
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Bp women… well actually these girls might actually be happy. If they do get a beta boyfriend who’d treat them like the princess they are. If an alpha comes along and they have sex… it’s not like they lose out on anything. They got some hot sex with an attractive guy. And the beta bf at home who still treat them right. Of course there’s the little hate and fighting towards rp men but that’d barely damp down their happiness. I'm married to a man I find incredibly attractive, who treats me with lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 09:38 PM
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What utter bullshit. What exactly is it about lacking a penis that you think means a woman is incapable of instilling moral values and ambition in their children? Because my mother did a great job of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:30 AM
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can never be a true wife to a man What does that even mean? I was raised that way and I have a fantastic marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:23 AM
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I doubt being raised in a household full of fighting and resentment would be healthy for a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:20 AM
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Uh, their mothers are at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:17 AM
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Venomous*
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:16 AM
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My husband's done it three times for me already.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:31 AM
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Ignoring this study for the moment, bisexuality != exactly equal preferences for both sexes. It just means you experience attraction to members of both sexes. You can be bisexual and generally find women hotter than men, as long as you do sometimes fancy men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:38 PM
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Literally never. I don't watch sports so I can only name like three athletes: Serena Williams, Christian(?) Ronaldo, and David Beckham. Not interested in any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 06:55 AM
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How did the black rights movement start if white people were the slave owners?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 06:41 AM
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Nope. Closest is a friend who's a webcam model, but she doesn't meet any of the guys in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:04 PM
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I'm not from suburban America, I'm not quite sure what point you're making here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:43 PM
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LOL. K.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:16 PM
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My husband and I hyphenated, but socially he often just uses my maiden name because he likes it. No one reacted in horror or tried to shame him, it wasn't a big deal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:09 PM
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Who's joining which family? Who's entering who's life? What? I find this rather an odd viewpoint. Surely both partners are joining their families together?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 08:56 PM
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That would only be correct of the question was the other way round, if it asked whether all Lazzies are Bloops. Every single bloop is a razzie, and every single razzie is a lazzie, so it's impossible for a bloop to not be a lazzie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 07:57 AM
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No, it's yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:40 AM
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I'm shorter than that and start looking anorexic at that weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:24 PM
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the mean age for this sub is about 16 or 17 Is it? I find that surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 09:46 PM
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For men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:37 AM
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There's like 1.4 million female secondary school teachers in the US alone. Even if you accept that once a month there's a news article about one of them sleeping with a pupil, and 100x more of these cases actually occur (which is highly debatable), that's still only a 0.08% prevalence rate. Still shit to be sure, but hardly an "epidemic".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:56 PM
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Still beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:52 PM
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Disregarding Emma Watson specifically, a 5 woman is not a "cute girl with a normal body". She's more likely a middle aged overweight mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:46 PM
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You may think her face is not beautiful but I heavily disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:39 PM
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/r/gonennatural Lol, you know loads of those girls are wearing make up right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 06:38 AM
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I made animal-themed bunting and banana bread with chocolate icing for my office. Excited to share them with my colleagues tomorrow. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:17 PM
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A greater level of social respect for your relationship. Like it or not, people tend to view marriages as more serious than couples who just live together. This can pay off in lots of little ways - e.g. "I can't work on Saturday because my in laws are in town" goes down better than "I can't work on Saturday because my boyfriend's parents are in town".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:47 PM
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That's what I'm wondering. Is it threatening? Is it persistent? Or is it just direct?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 09:58 AM
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if she calls herself al feminist ... I lose respect for a woman. Funny, that sort of answer is what would make me lose respect for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 09:29 AM
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Dude, have you seriously never heard the circlejerk about #notallmen? Men are just as likely as women to go "not all members of my gender are like that!" It's frequent enough to have a joke hashtag attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 09:49 PM
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4-year major college, or it's a non-starter Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:50 PM
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You're missing my point though. The original question was binary, intelligence or beauty. If you want to contribute to society and can choose between two traits, intelligence or beauty, then intelligence will almost certainly be more widely useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:29 PM
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I think it's doubtful whether someone lacking in empathy would care about contributing to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:23 PM
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Hey, thanks. If you have any pictures of quilts you've made I'd love to see them for inspiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 07:50 PM
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Once I collect enough scrap pieces of fabric from other projects, I think I might.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 07:44 PM
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I'm sure your home looks fabulous by now! No one else sews in my family unfortunately, but my mum's already asking me to make her curtains. Are there any good resources you've used for curtains? We're not, but thank you! I'm just a planner. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 07:02 PM
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It took me so long to figure out you meant surgical work. For some reason I thought you were either making paper dolls or matchmaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:50 PM
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That's what inspired me - I did a cushion workshop. Using a sewing machine is so different (ie more enjoyable) to sewing by hand! When I get pregnant I'd love to start a quilting project for the baby. If you do make a quilt I'd love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:49 PM
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I've discovered a surprising love (and talent) for sewing. With all the baking I already do and the full skirts I wear (and now make), I think I'm slowly turning into a 50's housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:23 PM
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No. The point is simple. If you want to contribute to society, then intelligence will be more useful to you than beauty. The fact that many people don't care about "doing good" is immaterial.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:20 PM
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That doesn't change her point. Even if many people do not wish to contribute to society, intelligence would be of more use than beauty for those who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 05:54 PM
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Doesn't change the fact that intelligence can be better applied to do good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 05:52 PM
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Intelligence can be far more widely applied to help others and benefit society than beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 03:24 PM
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28% Traditionalism 78% Liberal Feminist 53% Radical Feminist 67% Marxist Feminist 52% Cultural Feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:33 AM
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Pretty arbitrary considering what someone actually looks like at a given weight will depend on their height and body composition.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 09:35 PM
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I think that goes for everyone. I k ow I'm a lot more generous judging the appearance of people I know in real life than celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:06 AM
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I wouldn't call her a deadbeat mum, but equally she is not "literally the opposite" - that would be a loving mum involved with her child's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:38 AM
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Not really. He's not a career-orientated person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:06 AM
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24
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:39 AM
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Our goal is for my husband to be a SAHD, or at least for him to be able to go part-time when we have kids. That's assuming we can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:15 AM
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Sweetie, no. Just no. There's no common sense in how you're trying to be mathematical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:14 PM
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I'm just stating facts. You're the internet stranger trying to create a fantasy land about my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:56 PM
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There's no such thing as an objective, universal 10. I know I'm a 10 to my husband both because he's in love with me, and because I posses the type of physical attributes that he is most attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:22 PM
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Wrong. The chances of a random woman being a physical 10 to him are small. The chances that he thinks the woman he choose to marry is a 10 are far higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:17 PM
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I'm not assuming anything thanks. I know how my husband feels about me specifically, and I know what sort of women he likes generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 12:24 PM
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Chances that the man who married me and who has a lot of sex with me is highly attracted to me are actually fairly high.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 12:22 PM
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No, I'm happy I lost my virginity to my husband. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 05:52 PM
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But you're still worth dating right because possession of a penis means reading Reddit doesn't affect your value?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 11:38 AM
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Yes, and any man who is "divorced raped" only has himself to blame for not picking a better partner. ^/s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 10:43 AM
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There only other way to increase strength is by increasing the efficiency of the neural networks in muscle, which is limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 05:52 AM
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Yes? Sorry I don't have the same taste in men as you, strange man on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 08:40 PM
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3, 6, 8, 12 - left All others - right. Don't really any of them actually attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 08:32 PM
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Eh, you think the first is too much. I think the second would look much better with some muscle on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 08:10 PM
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No worries, just messing. ;) He's about 170 at 5'10.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 09:38 AM
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Why are you assuming he's light instead of I'm strong?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 09:25 AM
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Think I know how attractive my husband finds me better than you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 07:48 AM
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By knowing the man I am married to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 06:09 AM
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I can put my husband on my back and do squats!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 06:05 AM
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How about A) we were raised as brother and sister so it's disgusting B) I didn't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:32 AM
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At least I realised he's a complete arsehole sooner rather than later!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 07:42 AM
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My stepbrother, who I'd known since we were 2/3, tried to have sex with me at Christmas one year because I looked hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 07:35 AM
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How do you know your penis isn't attracted to every single woman under the age of 50, no matter how ugly or obese, but your subconscious ensures you think you're only attracted to the hot ones for social acceptability reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 07:18 AM
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God, wish my husband had the dying hair kink! It would be very useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 07:04 AM
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I really don't think I can put one objective number on my physical attractiveness, because it will depend on the preferences of those who view me. To my husband I'm obviously a 10, to someone who hates tattoos I'm probably a 2. It has also varied at different points in my life - eg weight gain due to a hip injury. Generally I'm pretty cute - a curvy US size 4 with neotonous facial features, but also polarising traits like tattoos and short hair. I was an adorable child and got told so all the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 06:29 AM
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Plenty are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:17 AM
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I didn't even realise you'd written this post, but my initial guess was that you'd score the highest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:45 PM
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Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:51 PM
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If it's exhausting and you're always hungry then you're probably not eating a balanced diet. I don't have either of those problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:42 PM
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Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:39 PM
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I don't know, can you? You haven't actually linked any of the studies you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 01:16 PM
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No, he'd already flirted with some of them. They still weren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 10:26 AM
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How should I know, we're not one monolithic entity. I've certainly never shared it. Did you not bother checking where it came from or what it actually says before citing it as evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 10:26 AM
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You're putting a hell of a lot of stock into a poll by a lingerie company... Which, by the way, asked each gender what their favourite body parts were, not what they thing the other gender would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:12 AM
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One example: last week I was in a meeting and one of the most attractive men I had ever seen in my life walked in. Like, distractingly hot. He was a tall, suave, American guy, who I thought looked like a young Brendan Fraser. After the meeting I went and told the rest of the women in my office about him. Turns out, half of them already knew him, and we got some Facebook photos of him up for the rest. Out of a group of 12 women, 4 thought he was hot (but to varying degrees), a couple thought he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:50 AM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:14 AM
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Nonsense. What are you basing that on?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 09:40 PM
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What is a "normal woman"? Pretty much everyone in my office reddits, including the attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 09:39 PM
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Woman, non-red. I did too! Best decision I've ever made.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 08:50 PM
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That last girl is so pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 06:28 PM
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I feel exactly the same about all of your points. Edit: Actually, I don't even care if he does work hard at his job, as long as he's competent enough to not be at risk of getting fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 03:28 PM
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Oh man, I forgot about her! I've not heard her mentioned in years, but I totally had a crush on her in Grey's Anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 03:26 PM
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She looks like she has kind eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 03:19 PM
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Awh man, what a tough choice. How can I be expected to choose between Carey Mulligan and Angelina Jolie?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 03:18 PM
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That's great and all, but it doesn't make it true/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 10:43 AM
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Dude, seriously, would eating more fruit and veg really "ruin your life"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 06:40 AM
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Yes, I know. That's what I was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 06:21 AM
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Not sure which of those two categories Joseph Gordon Levitt falls into...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:56 PM
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Guess you're Team Jess then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:05 PM
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Other than my husband, maybe Joseph Gordon Levitt?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:00 PM
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I wouldn't be upset, but I would find it a bit weird. I wouldn't understand why he felt a need to do so, and it's not in keeping with his personality at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 07:37 AM
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Source? I know a lot of gay men. None work out, and only two dress well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 06:33 PM
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Because it's more comfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 04:34 PM
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Not crossing your legs != trying to show off your knickers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 03:39 PM
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..that's exactly what it implies. People who are fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 03:39 PM
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Eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 08:45 PM
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Agreed. Really we should be asking whether redpillers are fire signs and bluepillers are water signs. ^/s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 08:37 PM
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In real life, different women are attracted to different men. Agreed. Today I saw one of the hottest men I have ever come across in my life. Like, male model, should be put in a burkha because he's too distracting, hot. Turns out, ~70% of the women in my office think he's totally unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:24 PM
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...you know this is the 21st century and, shockingly, some people have children out of wedlock right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 06:22 AM
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Sounds like you've got that completely assbackwards. Feminists are more likely to pursue a degree/career, and not want to rely on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 06:38 AM
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If you work 14 hour days how will you have time for your family? Biology matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 06:36 AM
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Sarah Millican is one of my favourite stand up comedians. I also like Mindy Kahling, Miranda Hart, Jo Brand, Lucy Porter, Sharon Horgan, and Melissa McCarthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 06:11 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 03:55 PM
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Same. There are photos of me at parties in short dresses holding 2 drinks or with my bra showing. Was completely a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 09:02 AM
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(Apologies, just realised my comment came off as very condescending and judgemental, and I didn't mean it to have that tone.) I hope his life is appropriately sucky now!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 06:19 AM
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I see aggression and violence as vital to being a man, it's driven heavily by testosterone after all. A non aggressive and non violent man feels much like a docile child. Difficult to be competitive and give a shit without aggression and violence. ...No. My husband is not at all violent or aggressive, and no one considers him a "docile child". He can be competitive, just in a fun way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 06:00 AM
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Why did you want to be friends with a physically abusive scumbag?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 05:57 AM
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That is one of the more ridiculous racial stereotypes you have made.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 05:43 AM
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I've never seen anyone over the age of 2 behave like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 04:22 PM
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Nonsense. There is nothing hypocritical in what she has said and done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 04:20 PM
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...and?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 04:05 PM
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I was questioning why you seem to think this she claims she is against gender roles and this but is dating a brick shit-house in a rugby uniform are at odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 03:34 PM
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...and?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 03:15 PM
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...and?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 06:18 AM
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So? You think we should hate anything that doesn't fit our personal ideals?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 09:34 AM
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Why "should" they hate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 01:53 AM
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What? I don't think their attractiveness matters in the context of scientific research.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 04:09 AM
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Respect and sexual attraction are not the same thing. Why would anyone care if you're attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 04:00 AM
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Same here!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 03:04 AM
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That's just anecdata though. Conversely in my department the very attractive women are also intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 02:59 AM
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Thanks for taking the effort to do this. I'd welcome more science posts here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 12:59 PM
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Don't really get all the disbelief. I frequently see couples where I perceive the woman to be a lot more attractive than the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 04:49 PM
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Currently working in SEA, the men in my office put flowers on the desks of all the women and bought us a cake to have a little party at lunch. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 02:40 PM
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I just wish I could have 1 day, ONE DAY, without having to deal with women. Would be nice. Is your girlfriend aware of how you feel about her and the rest of her gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 02:37 PM
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That doesn't make any sense as feminists are overwhelmingly against the institution of marriage. Wait, what? I don't know any feminists who are completely against the institution of marriage. Some don't personally want to get married, but they're not against marriage itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:29 PM
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J.K. Rowling wasn't born into a highly privileged life, she was a single mother on benefits. She's not an ivory tower academic (not that I fully agree with the term). She lived on £83 a week and would go hungry some nights so her daughter could eat. If you want to attack the privileged elite for being out of touch with "the real world" go right ahead, but it's laughable to characterise Rowling like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 08:14 AM
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Hah, same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 03:33 AM
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You mean the woman who gave so much to charity that it knocked her off the billionaires list? Rowling donated £10.3m to charity last year alone. What did you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 03:19 AM
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Something being true for you is quite different to it being true for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 03:19 PM
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Kids aged 5+ are at school for 6 hours a day. The exact level of difficulty is immaterial to the point at hand - whether a marriage is a partnership or a business arrangement lacking in trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 05:32 AM
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...no. That's the opposite of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 04:24 AM
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Looking after children all day is in no way 2 hours maid work at minimum wage. A marriage about two partners pooling their resources (whether that's money or time) to build a life together. It's not an employer/maid situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 03:53 AM
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but in general loud enough so that everyone in a room can hear you, as if you are speaking to ALL of them. God that's annoying. If there are multiple conversations in a room going on, speaking so loudly that everyone can hear you is just rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 03:48 AM
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Women are unable to maintain attraction (or at least it's much more difficult) if her own dominance is higher than her threshold. Do you mean a high dominant woman with who prefers a low dominant man would have great difficulty maintaining attraction to her partner? I certainly don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 03:45 AM
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they get too caught up in all their intellectual bullshit and they get disconnected from our physical selves What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 01:23 AM
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I'd go for smart and capable because hopefully then he wouldn't waste time on MBTI nonsense...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 01:21 AM
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That's weird, I know loads.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 01:16 AM
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And? It's not like he turned her lesbian. None of the other hot women he had lots of sex with became lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 07:26 AM
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These are just some of the women your "incel" had sex with: Your "slut" Rachel AND her sister Jill Mona His young student Elizabeth Charlie, who also dated your "chad" Emily, who wanted to marry him Bonnie Julie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 03:45 AM
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A) cup letters are meaningless without band numbers. B) I'd bet she's at least a 28G.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 05:48 AM
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Ditto. She is just cute as a button.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 03:47 AM
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No, I'm highly ambitious, my husband is content working as a shop assistant. It's perfect for our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 01:13 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 01:11 AM
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Well that's an extreme overreaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 12:39 AM
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Oh my God, those are all her? That's amazing. I'm updating my rating to a 9.5
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:54 AM
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I gave her a 6 too. Her teeth are a little bit wonky, that's all. It's not a huge deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 06:09 AM
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Oh yes, if you just prefer to think through your emotions and process them privately that's totally fair enough. I'd just feel really sad if my husband felt like he couldn't cry in front of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 01:55 AM
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Well my husband's 10'000km away but at least I can still masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 01:45 AM
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It would break my heart if I thought my husband was hiding in his car to cry because he thought that was the courteous thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 01:39 AM
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Well I think 80% of men are attractive. (BTW I'm only considering male models and athletes).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 01:30 AM
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What makes a woman "low beta/omega"? How do the female posters here exhibit those traits? What makes them less than average?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 10:01 AM
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From what I've seen, almost all of the women here are the female equivalent of low beta/omega males. Not necessarily in terms of looks, but in beliefs, behaviours, attitudes, mental and social problems, etc. What are you basing that on?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 08:05 AM
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Compatible views on financial matters, children, religion etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 04:30 AM
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Honestly, even if she wasn't an identical twin, but was young and attractive, this is not a good thing to ask somebody. You know the answer, you know he "can't" give you the right one. The lie will be unsatisfying, the truth--hurtful. Honestly, that completely depends on your relationship and personality. I ask my husband who he finds hot because I find the answers interesting. I like guessing to see if I know his taste. He doesn't lie about it and I don't find the truth hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 02:47 AM
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I hate it when names you like suddenly become really popular. Names like Ava and Olivia are all the rage now, which is a shame because I think they're very cute but I wouldn't want my child to be 1 of 5 kids with the same name in their class. The names Jessica and Hannah were like that for my age group, I know loads of them. Violet is lovely, and I like Emma because a favourite family member is named that. Also a few years off having to use any baby names, but they're fun to discuss!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 04:03 PM
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Haha, fair enough. What name is it, out of interest? There are only 4 boys names I like. 2 are in the family already, 1 is our surname, and the 4th is so posh he'd definitely get teased.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 03:49 PM
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I think girl's names are prettier, so girl. Plus it would be cool to see if she looked like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 03:19 PM
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I did explain myself. Your comment was as random as mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 08:29 AM
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Is this random snide comment supposed to lead somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 08:15 AM
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Lots of things are super weird but I'm fully aware that occur. I find paedophilia super weird but I still believe paedophiles exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 07:54 AM
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Why would I not believe it? It's super weird to call a natural emotional reaction some kind of manipulative test, and to need to advise men to comfort their crying partner, but I can definitely believe that of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 07:42 AM
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I have never purposefully given a guy a "major shit-test". I have however genuinely been upset, and expected comfort. My husband has always comforted me when upset, as I would expect him to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 05:26 AM
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A solid jaw line on an obese guy with BO, stringy hair and bad teeth, is still not going to make a woman want to fuck him. Like I said, one sexually attractive trait is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 01:38 AM
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Women don't find beards attractive. Lots of women do. If that were true then Bin Laden would be a sex symbol. Jesus Christ. It's almost like, as has been stated by multiple women in this thread, no one single trait is enough to guarantee attraction. They find attractive men attractive. What a pointless statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 05:13 PM
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Sure thing sweetie. Whatever you think makes you look big on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 01:24 PM
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Proponents often claim that they fat shame to shame people into being healthier, but it doesn't even work. Obesity stigma, guilt, and shame reinforce high body weights and can even promote weight gain. Experiencing obesity stigma often leads people to adopt coping strategies that undermine physical health – such as comfort eating, or avoiding exercise in case they are made to feel embarrassed about their bodies. Obesity stigma has also been strongly linked with depression and compromised mental …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 01:12 PM
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Dear me, someone's trying to be edgy today aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 12:41 PM
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And it goes without saying that this is a horrible collection of fat ugly excuses for humanity I wouldn't say that at all. I thought a lot of them were pretty good looking. Though I am not a fan of Buzzfeed lingo. "Slayage", really?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 11:59 AM
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The woman in the second photo is SO pretty. Her hair is just lovely, though I bet it's a right pain to maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 08:49 AM
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Dunno, don't think I've ever had brunch and white wine with my "girlfriends".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 08:47 AM
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You sound like a caricature of the "pointy elbows 2/10" meme. There's nothing wrong with her nose, her eyes are not wonky, and I can clearly see her cheekbones. Her breasts are a nice size and the mole is cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:24 AM
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Again, untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 01:29 AM
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Whatever. Sounds like bitter bollocks to me, definitely doesn't represent any of the feminists I personally know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:25 PM
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That's nice and all but the comment I was replying to: There is literally zero talk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:10 PM
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...And you have no idea that it's due to changing gender norms. More likely linked to debt and the impact of austerity measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:08 PM
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It is acted upon - changing gender norms benefits both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 02:29 PM
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If he actually did it. I'd like to see some screenshots.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 01:45 PM
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There is literally zero talk of improving things for men This is literally untrue, other than in redpiller strawman fantasy land. Try getting to know some actual feminists and learn what they care about before making sweeping declarations unfounded in reality. I've talked about how society negatively affects men with multiple feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 01:40 PM
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I wouldn't count student loans as a normal debt at all, more like an extra education tax. Vagina with and immediate 10k price tag at the start... What?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 11:11 AM
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Perhaps that says more about your social circle than you realise. I don't know any women in debt, (unless you count a mortgage/student loans). Personally, I'm far more financially responsible than my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:04 AM
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The only people I've heard touting this statistic are Redpillers trying to disprove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 02:55 AM
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Not really, not when you consider the average amount of resources consumed by someone in the US vs Malawi for example. An American choosing to have 5 children has a FAR larger environmental impact than a Malawian.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 01:29 AM
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Yes, we do, under the Human Rights Act. The UK incorporated the Charter of Fundamental Rights of the EU.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 08:42 AM
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I didn't say she shouldn't be grateful at all, I implied it's not an extraordinary act that her husband can do simple tasks so that how he does them therefore doesn't matter. Grocery shopping is mundane, and it is expected that both partners in a relationship should do their fair share of chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 03:19 AM
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she had a husband who was willing to stop and pick up the groceries. Wow, her husband is a grown man capable of doing grocery shopping. Yeah, she should be kissing his feet in gratitude alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 02:47 AM
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I haven't done a single load of laundry in over 2 years! My husband insists on doing it because he does it "right" apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 02:46 AM
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I've never seen an intelligent woman criticize RP logic. Is your argument every single bluepill woman is PPD is unintelligent?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 06:24 AM
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Sweetie, don't get confused between anger and contempt or derision. Trying to be a troll isn't big or clever, it just gets people dismissed as pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 02:45 AM
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Hey, you want to make ridiculous assumptions about strangers on the internet, don't get your panties in a twist when they do it right back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 02:37 AM
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I already have a guy that understands me and treats me as an equal. You just keep hanging on for the scraps that women throw you when bored though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 02:21 AM
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Not this one. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 02:11 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 01:51 PM
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Imagine how much worse they'd be without any training...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 12:15 PM
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In my country the absolute minimum to be a qualified teacher is a 9 month full time course (on top of a bachelor's) including 24 weeks of practical classroom experience in two schools or more; academic study to give you the knowledge and understanding to teach successfully; experienced professional mentoring and tutoring in classroom management; ongoing assessment of your teaching skills. I'd be baffled by anyone who thought they could be a good teacher with less. Having plenty of knowledge is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 07:09 AM
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Do you have a teaching degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 05:52 AM
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More like really bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 02:05 PM
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A theory: Perhaps we have a different scale for scoring average people vs. the beautiful people? I'm definitely much more generous when rating the attractiveness of people I know in real life than with celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 01:30 PM
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He wasn't trying to start a business, just find casual labour.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 12:46 PM
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A couple of hours ago a middle-aged man posted on my local residents Facebook group about needing help to find a job. Within minutes, multiple people were offering to donate to a kickstarter for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 11:48 AM
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Not a fan of trying to reduce people to a 10 point scale, but: 7 5 5 4 7 8 5 5 4 8
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 11:27 AM
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Maybe we mix in different circles, but this feels like an exaggeration to me. I agree, you'd be relatively hard-pressed to find someone who doesn't drink at all, but I know loads of people who don't go clubbing/don't drink to excess. Personally, I go out drinking once a month or less and never have more than 2 drinks (though I do like having a drink at dinner parties). I've been drunk enough to throw up just once in my life, because I was trying to finish off a couple of bottles of alcohol befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 08:36 AM
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I probably go once a month or less, for never more than 2 drinks. Don't know if that's fairly regularly or not, but it doesn't feel particularly abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 04:33 PM
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I can't imagine Stephen Hawking is able to get a lot of hot girls in their twenties. Do you think he's lacking in value?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 01:29 PM
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No they don't. I was an adorable little girl, blue eyes, blonde hair, cherubic smile etc, and nothing creepy ever happened to me until I was a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 07:34 AM
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Heavy social media use How is that different from the amount of time you spend posting here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 05:02 PM
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Nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 05:00 PM
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Thanks to the "Rape Is Rape" campaign launched by the Feminist Majority Foundation and Ms. magazine, more than 160,000 emails were sent to the FBI pressuring it to change its archaic definition of rape. The old definition, "carnal knowledge of a female forcibly and against her will," hadn't been changed since 1921. It meant that many types of sexual assaults, including the rape of men, weren't counted as part of the bureau's annual Uniform Crime Report. The new definition now includes all forms …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 03:15 PM
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I'm not trawling through a wiki link to make your point for you. Try elaborating on the relevant section.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 03:10 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 03:01 PM
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That's not exactly something to be proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 05:16 PM
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Plenty of women are feminists for reasons that have nothing to do with their father's...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 07:53 AM
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What do you mean by "we've all had sex without our parents knowing"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 07:51 AM
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That's what it's always meant in my circles too. Can't say I've ever heard anyone tell a guy to "hit the gym" and mean "go become a cardio bunny".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 07:47 PM
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Wow, good for him!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 08:31 AM
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Such a level of obstinate ignorance can surely only come from trolling, so I won't bother to engage you again unless you're going to post in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 07:31 PM
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No, it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 07:25 PM
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Did an BSc and MRes in STEM subjects, currently working on my PhD. Good stalking though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:27 PM
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Think you may need to have a time out there buddy, you seem to be getting rather worked up over nothing. To be clear, I'm not an environmental science undergrad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:22 PM
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Ahh, the random reddit user who feels the need to stalk post histories for insults without actually contributing to the discussion. Bout time you turned up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:15 PM
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I'm not focusing on a smaller factor, I'm using data to encourage other people to stop focusing on a smaller factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:13 PM
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I really believe that people who claim large psychological sex differences exist due to biology are under-thinking this one. We have the data to actually check whether our assumptions have any basis in reality - use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:21 PM
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Assuming this is true, then why is it part of the feminist agenda to promote science and math for women? If it's because less women go into science and math than men, how do you figure that women are just as capable? Far more things affect career choice and success than merely ability. I'm surprised you need that pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 04:31 PM
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What's that supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 03:44 PM
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I love it when people make blanket statements that are falsifiable by a single anecdote, then try to backtrack.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 08:08 AM
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Rubbish. My husband works in a shop, and was unemployed when we got married and when we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 07:40 AM
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My point isn't specific to Taylor Swift though, I'm talking generally. I've seen this notion that to be a "true feminist" you have to love all women bandied about multiple times, and I think it's rubbish. Treating women as a single entity without varying personalities hardly seems feminist to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 03:43 PM
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Well no, it doesn't. My "anecdotal evidence" is that I've never met a single one of the vast swathes of deliberately celibate women you claim exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 03:39 PM
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She's not a true lover of women, either--from Katy Perry to Nikki Minaj to Ke$ha, she's been involved in a lot of feuds with female celebrities, yet at the same time willing to slander women for not properly supporting other women. To add on from your comment, I think it's unfair to accuse someone of not being a feminist or "true lover of women" just because they have issues with some individual women. Recognising that women are people and some people are shit is plenty feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 02:36 PM
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I love a good dinner party or game night.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 08:44 AM
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The age of consent is 16 in Canada. Are Canadians pedophiles? The age of consent is 15 in many countries in Western Europe. Are Europeans pedophiles? Do you seriously not see a massive fucking difference between two teens having sex and a 40 years old man preying on a 15 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:03 PM
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..."?????" ?????
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 07:19 PM
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Because I think her face is cute. She has lovely facial features, with or without fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 03:42 PM
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Nah, Melissa McCarthy's way cuter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 03:09 PM
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That's not a great photo of an ordinarily very cute woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 02:40 PM
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"But social sciences aren't STEM!" /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 08:52 AM
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Funny, it's working in my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:02 PM
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Ruin their bodies in your view*
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:01 PM
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Totally! I can't imagine how different my life might be now if I hadn't. I'm guessing you have no qualms either?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 10:31 PM
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I wasn't talking about generating sexual attraction to me, I became sexually attracted to my friend. Also, so by "you" you just meant men? That was unclear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 10:27 PM
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Pfft, nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 10:26 PM
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So your last comment was what? Just made up for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 06:35 PM
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No, it doesn't. It's not trying to. It's calling you out on a blatant lie instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 06:29 PM
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You can't create sexual attraction from friendship. I can and did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 06:27 PM
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That's a straight up lie. Shall I remind you of my comment? Patriarchy developed as farming and greater urban settlements developed. Foragers and early farmers lived communal lives, but once farming took off suddenly people settled and had property to pass down to their offspring. Material inheritance was the alternative to poverty and small family groups took on more importance (as well as ancestor worship). Hierarchy within households quickly developed as domestication sharped the sexual divis…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 06:19 PM
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...How? How are German or American graduates relevant to the SCOTTISH university system?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 05:05 PM
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I made all the first moves, it's been over 7 years and he's still the sexiest man in the world to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 04:16 PM
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That's what I'm beginning to think. Surely nobody can be that wilfully ignorant?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 12:34 PM
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Incorrect. All you need is 3 A Levels, equivalent to US GPA 2.0 I think. Hardly good scores.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 12:31 PM
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Dear Lord, get the picture. I'm not arguing that feminism developed any societies, you just don't understand HOW patriarchy actually developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 12:07 PM
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It's a 700 page book, so the VERY brief summary is genetics and archaeology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 12:04 PM
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No everything is not just speculation, we have physical evidence from archaeology and genetics that predates recorded history. Go on then, where are your sources? Find me the written recordings from the "cave men civilisations" you're talking about in your OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:51 AM
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You appear to be having trouble reading, so I'll make this as clear as I can for you. I am not making any judgements about the morality of patriarchal societies, nor am I promoting the development of matriarchal societies instead. I am telling you that your basic facts about foragers vs farmers and the evolution of patriarchal societies are WRONG.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:38 AM
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I clearly exempted STEM from the academic analysis. Sorry love, but a) you didn'tint he comment I was replying to, and b) STEM is a part of academia - you don't get to exempt it. Since STEM is now a good minority of degrees, the majority of academia is useless nonsense. Again, source?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:33 AM
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Seriously? I just provided a source by a historian, containing nearly 900 references from archaeology and history. Try doing some actual research before making up some feel good stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:27 AM
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To quote: academia that is a net drain on the society STEM is a part of academia. Are you really arguing that academia is a net drain on society? The vast majority of degrees are in useless liberal arts subjects dominated by women in college. Uh, source? Of the 1,840,000 bachelor's degrees conferred in 2012–13, the greatest numbers of degrees were conferred in the fields of business (361,000), health professions and related programs (181,000), social sciences and history (178,000), psychology (1…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:25 AM
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We have absolutely no idea of the rules and social behaviours of humans or our ancestors. We do. OP's version is bollocks, but extensive research in archeology and history has given us some idea of how civilistaions developed. I recommend Why the West Rules—For Now: The Patterns of History, and What They Reveal About the Future by Ian Morris.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:22 AM
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I'm not arguing for or against patriarchy, I'm telling you your version of its development is bollocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:20 AM
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And you think that outweighs modern medicine, which wouldn't exist without scientific research in academia? Or televisions, nuclear power, space travel, neuroimaging, knowledge of climate change, x rays, and electricity? Really? Hell, without archeology and history you couldn't have even made this post, as we'd have no idea how civilisations evolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:19 AM
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A) he's a dude B) what evidence do you have that academia is a net drain on society? Sounds like nonsense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:06 AM
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Let me summarize why patriarchy formed from the cave man civilizations: Dude, where on earth are you getting this evo psych babble from? Patriarchy developed as farming and greater urban settlements developed. Foragers and early farmers lived communal lives, but once farming took off suddenly people settled and had property to pass down to their offspring. Material inheritance was the alternative to poverty and small family groups took on more importance (as well as ancestor worship). Hierarchy …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:03 AM
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...I haven't though. Never even heard of the singer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 10:36 PM
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Hah, I started to write a new comment then remembered I had one from a few weeks ago the last time this topic was posted, and laziness won out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 12:50 PM
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Same here, that's why I've never really been interested in a one night stand. It's the emotional connection that makes sex special.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 09:21 AM
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I put moths outside for him in return. Everyone needs to pull their weight in a good marriage. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 09:19 AM
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I get so much from my marriage. My husband is kind and patient, I can tell him anything. He's my biggest supporter but also keeps me grounded by constantly making fun of me. He's literally the funniest person I've ever met and there's no one else I'd rather spend my free time with. Having 2 incomes means we can afford a nicer place together than either of us could alone. Double the people in one house doesn't mean double the chores, so we each have less to do than if we lived alone. He does all …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 07:06 AM
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Or because making the most amount of money you possibly can is not the be all and end all of life to plenty of people? There are other things often considered more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 08:09 AM
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Yes, that's the point. He's supposed to become unlikeable at the end as in transitions more into a villain. Though I think maybe he redeems himself by sending her the Shakespeare dude or something in season 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 01:35 PM
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Um, no, I liked him when he gave up being evil and reformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 01:20 PM
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I would, at points. He switches back and forth but I think he genuinely wants to be good most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 11:34 AM
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He renounces being a demon/king of the underworld and starts saving people instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 11:09 AM
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The only time I've liked a "bad boy" character is Cole from Charmed, and that's because his love for Phoebe made him good again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 08:03 AM
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I definitely don't. I loved JDM in Grey's Anatomy, but he's a psycho in TWD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 10:06 PM
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Personally, I think most of it is pseudoscience due to irreplicable nature of the study. Can you expand on what you mean by that? Do you mean that all studies in Evolutionary Psychology cannot be replicated due to their design, or that scientists have tried and failed to reproduce the results of prominent studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 04:19 PM
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I'm very far from being an average American, as I'm not American at all... But anyway, the full list: The average American is overweight and just 10lbs or so from being obese. Nope, healthy weight. The average American household income is $51K. The average American worker makes $30K annually. Household income is about that. The average American household is 2.6 people. Just 2 people, missing the .6 The average American lives paycheck to paycheck, in fact 3/4 do. No way, 54% savings rate baby! Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 02:58 PM
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Do you think BLM and MRA are selfish movements also?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 01:33 PM
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Right of course, 2 people say feminism is irrelevant and 1 person says it isn't, so that's cut and dry then. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 12:06 PM
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What math? You didn't provide any math, just anecdata - matched by my anecdata I may add.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 11:43 AM
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And when I lived in one of the largest cities in the world last year and had a wide variety of friends and associates from all kinds of backgrounds almost every single woman I knew mentioned feminism at some point and still found it relevant to their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 11:28 AM
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Why, just because it represents your views? Many would disagree with the statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 11:10 AM
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Legal equality =/= social equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 11:09 AM
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Minus the heartbreak due to lack of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 07:55 AM
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You're completely right, though I don't know why you're ascribing this lack of due diligence to SJWs only - I've had the exact same response on CMVs from Redpillers in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 07:50 AM
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Just because you don't like something, doesn't make it not science. If you think there are actual methodological flaws, address them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 01:50 PM
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There have been multiple scientific studies which have provided similar evidence, and yet so far the majority of the comments are just blind disagreement. Just saying "no" to science is not how an intellectual discussion is supposed to work. If you think there are flaws with this study, point them out or try providing alternative scientific studies which reached different conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 08:02 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:45 PM
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"Evan Balaban is in the Behavioral Neurosciences Program"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:33 PM
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Your response to "your source is unreliable" is "well there are other unreliable sources out there too"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 01:35 PM
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You mean the book which "disappointingly fails to meet even the most basic standards of scientific accuracy and balance. The book is riddled with scientific errors and is misleading about the processes of brain development, the neuroendocrine system, and the nature of sex differences in general. Source. Which study specifically does that quote refer to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 01:28 PM
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Everything I do is definitely not about finding a higher quality man. Not by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 07:38 AM
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Or because they get satisfaction from their job and feel like they're contributing to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 07:34 AM
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Both parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:42 AM
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Let me google that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 06:29 PM
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I get the moths for him in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 03:40 PM
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My husband is kind and patient, I can tell him anything. He's my biggest supporter but also keeps me grounded by constantly making fun of me. He's literally the funniest person I've ever met and there's no one else I'd rather spend my free time with. Having 2 incomes means we can afford a nicer place together than either of us could alone. Double the people in one house doesn't mean double the chores, so we each have less to do than if we lived alone. He does all my laundry. He's great in bed. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 11:02 AM
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They seem pretty well matched lookswise to me. If anything, she's better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 08:45 PM
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The only one I know is disabled so gets benefits.
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Stefan. 20 matches a day yet only 5 dates in 2 years. Must just be in it for the validation of course. No other possible reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 08:13 PM
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It's telling that these guys will get like 20 matches a day but in reality they've only been on like five dates. Proves that it's much more about validation than anything else.
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Ugh, MBTI again. It's not scientifically valid and is subject to numerous criticisms. It was developed by 2 people who weren't trained scientists off the work of one psychologist whose own work was also subject to numerous criticisms and untestable. Most of the "evidence" supporting it is methodologically unsound/paid for by the Myers-Briggs foundation. It relies on dichotomous binary choices which is unrealistic - people fall in a bellcurve not a bimodal distribution. It's also unreliable - up …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 12:17 AM
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