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FDS MEMEShongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:34 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:22 PM
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#JustLVMThingshongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:53 AM
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FDS MEMEShongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:25 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:31 PM
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REMINDER 👑hongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:00 PM
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QUEEN SH*Thongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:14 PM
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QUEEN SH*Thongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:12 AM
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REMINDER 👑hongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:30 PM
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FDS HUMORhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:31 PM
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SCROTES MADhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:35 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨hongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:49 PM
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REMINDER 👑hongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:51 AM
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FDS MEMEShongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:52 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:29 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:13 AM
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FDS MEMEShongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:11 PM
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DISCUSSIONhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:10 PM
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hongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:30 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:10 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTEShongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:52 PM
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SCROTES MADhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:09 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:19 PM
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SCROTES MADhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:38 AM
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SCROTES MADhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:27 PM
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#JustLVMThingshongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:52 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:33 PM
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REMINDER 👑hongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:55 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:48 PM
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FDS MEMEShongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:30 PM
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LIES MEN TELLhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:11 PM
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WHOLESOME CONTENThongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:39 PM
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DISCUSSIONhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 03:29 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTEShongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:50 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:54 PM
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DUMP HIS ASShongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:46 PM
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PICKME CULTUREhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:43 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:39 AM
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NOTHING BUT FACTShongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:06 PM
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FDS HUMORhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:33 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:26 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:25 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:27 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:53 PM
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LIES MEN TELLhongkonghenry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:05 PM
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He should put some money into an account that's only in her name, that he can't have access to so if she wants to leave at any time she can. The only way he can make her feel safe and not trapped is to give her the power to leave at any time. I feel so terrible for this woman and all she has been through. OOP if someone has told you that you post is here and you are reading this, I strongly suggest you take my advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:43 AM
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I came off mtx to have fertility treatment but I have taken it in the past for extended periods of time. This guy needs to be reminded of his 'in sickness and health' vow. It's his job to understand what you are going through, research it if necessary. It shouldn't be your labour to explain it to him. I can't believe you are managing to teach full time on mtx, you're a fucking warrior. Him turning to porn is particularly disgusting to me because he's saying you're too broken to have sex with, so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:16 PM
59

I met my husband at work. He worked in a different department and asked me out a day or two after we had briefly worked on the same project.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:10 PM
174

You are not overreacting. I wouldn't have given him the second chance you did. I think you have underreacted. I'm so sorry this happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:09 PM
1

No Hong Kong Henry is a character on a podcast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:33 AM
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No I'm not, it's a reference sorry. I have been to Hong Kong though and I have friends there. We went to Ocean Park on Christmas day, it was wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:28 PM
38

If a friend had a coupon and was like "let's go an order way too much food and stuff ourselves" I'd be 100% down for it. A date? No thanks. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:35 PM
29

There is so little evidence linking circumcision to better hygiene. If men wash their junk properly it's a non issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:32 AM
6

Germ infested is right. I bet she gets awful UTIs and can't figure it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:14 PM
14

My husband wipes his dick. I'd never seen a man do it before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:12 PM
7

Wow that's super neurotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:32 PM
8

I second this. I was harassed 2 years ago via Instagram by a guy I barely dated 11 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:10 PM
30

You're Regina George 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:46 PM
62

These aren't apologies. They're just fishing lines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:48 AM
7

I'm entirely pro choice, but I also don't think I could personally have an abortion. I support your decision to have your baby. Things happen, and most of us have slept with LVM in the past, any one of those times could have been the time to get any of us pregnant. This was in no way meant to shade anyone who had a kid with a LVM, more as a warning to be cautious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:02 AM
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Unblock his name, I just wanna talk... /S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:52 PM
2

Happy Cake Day 🍰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:29 PM
1

The person said 'trash men' not 'men are trash'. Edit for clarity, the person didn't necessarily mean ALL men, they could specifically have been referring to men who are actual trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:28 PM
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Neither of these people are me. It was under a post where a man was telling 'fat chicks' not to eat too much on Thanksgiving. Most of the comments were women roasting the tiny dick energy of the OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:47 AM
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I would and will never "give a man oral sex." It isn't mutually pleasurable, and any guy who just wants his dick sucked doesn't give a shit about you unless you are serving him. I perform oral on my husband sometimes as part of foreplay. We've been together 10 years almost and I can count on one hand the times I have done it to 'completion', and those times were because it started as foreplay but I felt like he was really enjoying it, and I decided to continue. All of those times he tried to sto…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:27 PM
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/u/yagirldebbie I'm afraid you are this dude's side chick. We are here for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:37 PM
6

How did she not notice?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:55 PM
4

Mine is also never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:24 AM
11

Dunno where you live but if you need a WhatsApp buddy to text every once in a while for some noise DM me for my info. I am also pretty isolated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:02 PM
7

Is this man forgetting that same sex relationships exist? I could fuck my female friends too. He only counts the male friends because he knows what he is deep down and assumes all other men are the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:32 PM
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I don't want to sound like a prick, but you probably shouldn't blame your meds if it isn't your meds. You're just appeasing a substandard lover, and they're not going to get any better at pleasing you if you lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 10:42 PM
1

My husband and I fought for 8 years to get our son. I was not worried about his involvement when the time came. He wanted to be a parent as much as I did. I don't wanna be like #notallmen or anything, but there are good ones. I hope you find one. Also happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:26 AM
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I refuse to believe that it's incompetence. These men know baseball/football stats from 20 years ago, or video game stats, WoW Lore, or whatever their thing is. They're perfectly capable of remembering things when they care. They don't care about their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 09:02 PM
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I wouldn't downvote you. I am a wife, mother and I stay at home. All my own choices, and I wouldn't have chosen that if I didn't have complete faith in my husband to take his share of the evening and weekend labour in the house, half the emotional labour and half of the general admin stuff (he actually does way more of that last one). I do not, and will not, accept any form of malicious compliance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 09:00 PM
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I've been ranting to everyone I know about this today using sports as the example too! If they cared, they'd know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:54 PM
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I'm glad. ❤️ So glad you got them in the divorce too, I know many men would have tried to keep them.out of spite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:05 PM
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It's not wrong at all. They are protecting you which is super sweet. When I was pregnant, my cats stopped going outside while my husband was at work. One stayed within about a metre of me, and one guarded to door to whichever room I was in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:02 PM
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They must smell different, even pre puberty there must be some hormonal difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:00 PM
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I'm sorry your dog didn't have a good time, but he has you now. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:51 PM
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Wtf? Don't 'ok' this girl. Tell him he better pick up his children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:24 PM
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I live in the UK, a gun is not an option. I can defend myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:50 PM
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Morticia and Gomez Addams. He worships her, and they parent equally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:30 PM
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No, sometimes he uses mommy to masturbate with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:26 PM
5

I won't do that. I disagree with guns being available to the general public personally because I've met the general public. I will continue to learn how to protect myself without a gun, I am not above using anything nearby as a weapon, and I am not so law-abiding that I don't carry a knife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:58 PM
12

cries in British
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:43 PM
3

First of all good job ditching the cheater. Secondly you need to find a way to make you friends understand that not everyone takes the same path in life as them. I understand self esteem issues, but only you can find a way through them. If dating isn't a thing in your country, can you visit with a matchmaker and tell them what you are looking for? Just know that you deserve to have a good relationship and you deserve to do that without pressure from your friends and family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:35 PM
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JFC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:27 PM
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They'll say any old shite to make themselves the victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:41 PM
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If you read my actual post I do specify that having a preference is not the red flag. I even used the word vehemently. I don't know how I could have been more clear. Saying 'drops mic' when you fail to make a good point based on what I actually wrote is not a good look. Also toxoplasmosis doesn't come from cat feces, it comes from a parasite that cats and dogs can have. If you take care of your pets its not an issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:41 AM
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I'm not from Hong Kong but my kid's godfather lives there so thank you anyway ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:54 PM
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They are not inherently damaging to the environment at all. This bird charity from my country does not believe that cats represent any danger to the bird population. And I doubt their impact on urban rodents even puts a dent in their population. I agree with the litter box comment, and you didn't mention dogs, but for anyone else reading who thinks dogs are somehow cleaner, they legitimately eat poop and then lick you so, swings and roundabouts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:52 PM
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Omg! I'm so so sorry. I know what it's like to lose a cat, but to have one murdered must be even worse. RIP Kittu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:49 PM
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I definitely want two goats when we move. I have names ready and everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:24 PM
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The idea that cats affect bird population is being disproven little by little. This! Bird Charity doesn't seem to think cats affect it at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:23 PM
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I have a very bad cat too. He will eat just about anything. He will escape and go into other people's houses and steal their food. I love him to death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:47 PM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. I'm also a survivor. These men who think it's ok to rape women are the lowest of the low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:46 PM
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Omg the ENTITLEMENT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:44 PM
83

I'm horrified. Cervical stimulation? I can still remember the agony of cervical sweeps when I was being induced with my son. I'm almost certain that NO ONE would orgasm from cervical stimulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:11 PM
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That's a very good point also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:40 PM
77

Exactly this. They decide, not you. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:59 PM
104

What a HVMC! Gorgeous 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:14 PM
10

Are you a control freak?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:59 PM
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He bought tickets to a gig before he asked me out. We ended up sat in the beer garden talking for about 4 hours, we barely watched any of the bands. It was really good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:01 PM
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You too girl. We didn't deserve it. Men are worse than animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:59 PM
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He wasn't justified at all. My first sexual encounter was also rape, but I don't count that as losing my virginity. I've switched it in my head so whenever people talk about your 'first time', I think of the first time I had consensual sex instead. It was still a disaster 😂 but at least it wasn't traumatic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:48 PM
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Block and delete sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:28 AM
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Yeah but if the woman is the one who cheated (for example) she can never be trusted again and must never speak to a man under the age of 75 without a chaperone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:19 PM
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There's an overlap it seems. These are the textbook definitions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:50 PM
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Yeah I was 10. It's honestly just disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:17 PM
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Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:36 AM
12

Oh you might be right. I'll look it up and correct my original comment. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:07 AM
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INFO: while technically correct since the term ephebophilia refers to attraction to teenagers, colloquially paedophilia refers to the attraction to anyone under the legal age of consent. I just think that this should be noted in the DSM5 so scrotes can't use it as a 'get out'. Edit for clarity: Paedophilia refers to attraction to ages under 13 (with the subset of infantophilia or nepiophilia refering to attraction to children under 5). Hebephilia refers to attraction to the ages of roughly 11-14…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:50 AM
105

Well he created everyone and everything involved so who's fault is it really? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:32 PM
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Even if it went down like it says in the Bible, it took the literal devil to convince Eve. It took Eve with her boobs out to convince Adam. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:28 PM
2

Can you pm it to me too please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:41 PM
7

This is great, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:39 PM
4

Yeah he's for sure refeeding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:54 PM
1

Worthless holes is probably the worst description of women I have ever read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:43 PM
7

Huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:54 PM
158

I know. I don't even know what he looks like but I guarantee he's not even close.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:11 AM
4

You know what I mean hahah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:22 AM
23

I'm 5'2" and my husband is 5'8". He's legitimately the only guy I've dated who wasn't self conscious of their height. My first love was 6'4" (imagine that) so I made it a point to date more appropriately sized men after that. All of them, (including the 6'4" but for the opposite) guy had a complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:53 PM
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If you're not a troll, this man should be in jail for raping you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:38 PM
1

Oh that sucks! My kid is half French 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:15 PM
7

Sex worker* False.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:11 PM
20

Nvm u ugly NEwaya
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:29 PM
30

Haha I should have said attempted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:50 PM
44

Settle for your nasty, weak ass, limp noodle arm, doesn't try to improve themselves, low credit, ten baby mama having ass. Get a clue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:08 AM
11

35 yo with a DUI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:54 PM
74

So does "I'm not 16/17/18" or whatever the age of consent is. Statutory rape is rape and it should be punished just as harshly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 02:55 PM
2

r/thathappened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:47 AM
27

Is it that society (or men) have taught you to be in constant competition with other women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:36 AM
44

Ah right 🤣 my son has my surname so I was confused but so does my husband 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:27 PM
30

Sorry for being dumb but I don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:20 PM
5

My husband was in a niche industry when I met him, but he is now thriving in Educational Tech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:19 PM
4

A good year for me, and I'm still not confident enough to try tailored trousers, but it's a 2021 goal. (Not doing it now as k have a 4 month old baby and my body is still changing.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:13 PM
23

Your best bet is to learn to sew and make your own. It's a skill I'm so so glad I have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:58 PM
25

The way it makes sense is that men just hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:09 AM
18

I met mine at work. He was a projectionist and I worked part time at the cinema while I was a student. The really sad part is, a projectionist was a really skilled and technical job that he was passionate about. Now thanks to digital media, that job practically.doesnt exist in my country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:45 PM
2

Which he very well might.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:43 AM
1

We are responsible for who we choose to date tho, so it's the same. We just need to encourage more women to raise their standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:24 PM
8

Can you pm me the channel? I wanna watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:53 PM
19

Good on your friend circle for cutting him out. So many 'friends' write stuff off because 'it was a one off' or 'he's not really like that.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:53 PM
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I'm so sorry your ex husband treated you that way firstly, and secondly, that he tried to fucking gaslight you after the fact. When we begin to realise that men believe their own lies, so much of their behaviour begins to make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:20 AM
5

I read "the bar is so low, it's a tavern in Hades."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:39 PM
10

I know. If my husband wasn't taking the lead with the baby as soon as he finished work so I could have some time he'd be a very sad and very separated man. I made my expectations abundantly clear before I got pregnant and so far he hasn't let me down. That's not him being amazing, that's him taking care of his responsibilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:38 PM
5

I hope you find one if you want one ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:25 PM
5

I don't know why your comments are being downvoted, you're being honest and you seem to be aware of the missteps you have made. It isn't the dog's fault so I would keep taking care of the dog until he gets back, but then I would block and move on. This guy is straight garbage. Just please do better with the next guy, you're worth so much more than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:48 PM
47

INFO:. the blues are not all the same person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:52 PM
26

If every woman stops accepting them as they are, they will have to become better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:50 PM
24

Absolutely. 🤡 🐒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:16 PM
40

I'm so glad you are upping your standards! Most of us need to tbh. Good luck out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:16 PM
14

I can definitely believe that but having a trash tattoo doesn't mean this particular woman sucked a dick for it. We don't need to be dragging other women for stuff we don't even know is true. (I understand you aren't the one saying this but I wanted to say this anyway.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:56 PM
1

Not me but this woman is a Queen for reall 👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:34 AM
23

Are we assuming she paid for it with sex work? Because I really don't think that's appropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:36 AM
9

Aside from the content and composition of this tattoo, it's so overworked that it's going to take weeks and weeks to heal. What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:35 AM
1

It's not me but this woman is a legend. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:33 AM
6

Absolutely. The fundamentalist religious are the worst for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:22 PM
4

Definitely couldn't be assed to do this myself, but it's an absolute ride of a read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:21 PM
6

You can know this tree by the root system that probably sucking some other poor tree dry. Insidious men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:02 PM
5

Glad he's an ex. They really don't see how fucked up they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:54 PM
16

Please. Do us all a favour. Never speak again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:16 PM
4

They're not my screenshots, but they were too good not to share. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:53 PM
13

Maybe she was just bored, or wanted to get screenshots to make an example. This woman does not strike me as someone who would let someone eat into her time unless she wanted to give it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:10 PM
10

Maybe she was passing the time in a waiting room, or maybe she did it just to get these delicious screenshots for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:50 PM
3

It's not me but you're so right. We need an emoji for a little chode, maybe like an acorn or something 🤣 Whenever they send us 🍆 we send a little 🌰dick emoji.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:49 PM
14

Hopefully your friend will thrive without the weight of him around her neck. Sometimes the trash takes itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:42 PM
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I live in the UK and I had my first baby a few months ago. Throughout my pregnancy, at all the appointments, the ladies toilets were plastered on posters warning women that 40% of all domestic abuse begins when a woman is pregnant, warning women that abuse doesn't have to be physical, warning women that men will gaslight them while they are vulnerable. The NHS knows men are garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:37 PM
30

Imagine being so thoroughly destroyed and still offering up his shriveled peen like it's even worth standing on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:33 PM
21

Not me but whoever she is I'm proud AF of her. 👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:33 PM
43

Exactly. When he realises the the D has to be attached to a HVM for anyone of value to want it, he may have a chance to sort himself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:55 AM
96

It's not me, but this lady is a Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:29 AM
2

You have to earn dinner. Lel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:17 AM
37

Ugh. If my son ever mistreats his future spouse in any way I will have some serious words with him. I'm trying to raise a HVM!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:42 PM
28

I'm not going to post any of the comments here, but this link is allowed I think as it's non interactive. The red comments are those that have been either deleted or censored. Absolutely disgusting. https://snew.notabug.io/r/nextfuckinglevel/comments/igaec7/at_18_he_adopted_a_prostitutes_kids_today_he_has/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:40 PM
2

I misread it as "divine feminine energy" the first time 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 06:41 AM
9

Pregnancy was way worse than the birth, and I had 18 hours of labour and an urgent c section during a pandemic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:37 PM
59

I didn't want kids really before I met my husband but I ultimately decided it would be an absolute crime not to let this man reproduce. He is so very thoughtful, he takes care of every responsibility, he is sensitive enough to allow himself to show his feelings, secure enough not to feel ashamed of them, but mature enough not to be a total cry baby. He also loves me fiercely and openly. I thought one day that a daughter who saw her father treat me the way he treats me would never settle for less…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:42 PM
138

Piss baby is my new go to insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:37 PM
66

Ahahhahaha. If women praise my husband for anything he does, he says 'I get 40 hours a week away from the baby, if I'm home I want to be with him.' It simultaneously makes them question why their own husbands do not want to be with their children, and points out that I do 40 hours a week of childcare ALONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:34 AM
8

I said there's hope, not we are saved haha! Very good point though. I do know this man fairly well and he is one of the good ones. Just needs to get his business off the ground and he'll be a wonderful HVM for someone. (He's an extremely talented digital artist but not making much money rn)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:21 AM
32

They say 'oh younger women are more likely to get pregnant' and the say they prefer shaven pubic hair, so like which is it? Fertile post puberty or prepubescent children? Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:07 PM
21

Yeah, absolutely fucking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:57 PM
42

Ugh, that's so fucking creepy!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:39 PM
13

It's not your virginity that is valuable. It's you, your body, your mind, your time that is valuable. Don't worry so much about the 'perfect' first time, it is very likely not to be. As long you're comfortable with what's happening, you're ready, and it's with a HVM that has committed to you then go for it. The same applies to any subsequent sexual encounters as well, not just the first one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:00 PM
81

A Clockwork Orange is literally no one's favourite movie. Anyone who says it is, is just trying (and failing) to seem intelligent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:27 PM
48

That poor woman. Not only did he cheat, he put her health at risk having unprotected sex. And you just know that's not the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:49 PM
69

She's just a girl. She's asking because she doesn't know the answer yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:35 PM
12

Complications after 30 are hugely overstated between 30 and 35. Medicine is amazing and between now and only 20 years ago genetic testing and scanning has gotten better, knowledge and detection of GD and Preeclampsia has gotten better. If you take care of your body and be as healthy as possible you are probably less likely to encounter problems than a 25 year old who parties once a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:30 PM
5

Yeah I realised that and I posted an interview with the woman a bit further down. Actually gob smacked, but my flair of cultural misogyny still stands imho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:40 AM
10

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/ype59w/we-spoke-to-the-woman-who-said-taylor-swifts-vagina-looks-like-a-sloppy-ham-sandwich I just wanted to verify it myself as I'm not the one who blocked his name.... Turns out it was the MOTHER not the father!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:35 PM
15

And I'm not the one who thinks the appearance represents sexuality. The poster in question is. He is implying that a chaste woman has an 'innie' and an unchaste woman has an 'outie'. I am not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:04 PM
16

I mean, look at it. Do I really need to address that a ham depiction of a vulva is incorrect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:01 PM
55

You absolutely don't have to. If it's a deal-breaker for the guy you're with, he's not the right guy (for you or anyone else).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:21 PM
7

I agree with your logic but I would say it's not breaking up because 'something feels off,' it's 'I don't trust you.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:28 PM
33

I don't agree with checking his phone. If you feel the need to that, it's already over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:35 PM
36

Lol I did this with my little brothers when I was 12. This is not something a parent should do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:05 AM
15

Yeah, so basically she has no safe word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:16 PM
19

He thinks sex is worth a dollar? Even at minimum wage it would cost more. Also, ITS NOT A FUCKING COMMODITY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:37 AM
3

I live near this town, it has several Mackies. This one is in a basement, with no natural light, next to a poundshop. Under no circumstances would this be a special location to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:18 PM
4

Mine too but I'm working on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:35 AM
5

Your brother sounds delightful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:40 AM
28

Attracted to men* not me 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:29 PM
4

It's a yikes from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:22 PM
1

Feral is such an appropriate word. Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:50 AM
237

And honestly, the fact that he thinks it's ok to look at a worker's nametag so he can stalk them online later is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:39 AM
19

My mother is on her third husband and I'm one of seven kids. I'd love to say she raised us by herself but my grandparents did a lot for the older four kids, and we then raised the younger three kids. I wouldn't have had the kid I have now if I did not 100% trust my husband to share evening and weekend labour 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:55 PM
6

There's nothing worse than when it goes the other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:55 AM
1

It's #cosplay. What are we loving?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:16 AM
102

I have a favourite movie but I hate the poster. My husband contacted the artist for the poster to buy one of the rejected designs that he thought I would like better. He was right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:15 PM
2

That's good to know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:48 AM
5

I've been dating people that aren't you for so long. And it's been amazing. Then never reply again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:12 PM
89

Stop creating unnecessary waste by spelling things out in unrecyclable foil balloons. Why has this become a trend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:08 PM
17

I don't want to judge her by her appearance but why would you get a huge neck tattoo and a hand tattoo before having decent coverage elsewhere? I love tattoos but the placement here seems like it was chosen to grab attention only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:03 PM
1

Forget the drinks, wtf is that facial hair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:34 AM
0

Also the baby could suffocate on the side as there's no holes/slats/mesh. Grandpa should have researched his safe sleep guidelines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:06 PM
6

It's really cute like, but 100% unsafe once the kid can sit up. So like 6 months. Should have made a cot bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:03 PM
51

Great news. There is still work to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 05:33 PM
14

I told my mum if it was left up to me to take care of her, we'd be going on a haphazard walk along the top a very tall cliff. It not your responsibility to look after them if you don't want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:31 PM
7

My husband of 8 years has is a bit obsessive about things around the house. He 'wastes' my time by asking to watch a movie at 7pm, for example, but we won't actually start the movie until 7:45 because every time he enters a room he finds a small task that he has to complete before he can relax.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:19 PM
93

This is an excerpt from a very good article written by a man realising that it really wasn't about the dishes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:35 PM
18

He can't seriously be claiming to have had a consensual relationship with someone who literally cannot legally consent, can he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:50 PM
4

Fat people get less wrinkles as they age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:49 PM
112

No outside opinions = I will gaslight you. Also I bet he's closing in on 40. Fat don't crack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:11 PM
38

So green flags are the just doing the bare minimum of a decent human. Is this how shite most men are? We label the ability to compromise as a 'green flag'? Smh. No shade to you OP, just shocking when you think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 02:15 PM
80

When I was in my late teens and early 20s I had many male friends. My first boyfriend and I argued a few times about it because he thought they were all trying to fuck me and I was keeping them on the side 'in case of emergency,' his words. I disagreed but it turns out he was half right. One by one they all tried to fuck me. Over the course of my 8 year marriage I have made a few new male friends who haven't tried to fuck me. I think the marriage makes them see me as a human being rather than a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:25 PM
36

I feel like when they speak of "picking a fight', they are going about the conversation in a way that they know will cause an argument, and not trying to have a mature calm discussion. This could be because they know full well that their husbands are not capable of an adult discussion or because they need the drama, because they have little else. I personally couldn't be married to someone who couldn't have a proper discussion about differences.l or things that were bothering me or them. It's sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 09:19 PM
16

I feel like that spelling mistake is also accurate... Sweaty dirt merchants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:17 PM
20

Absolutely. Doing drugs in the same house as your own children? (Or any children for that matter) No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:30 PM
12

I don't know. The worst thing I think I've said in that sub is something along the lines of 'throw the whole man away.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:03 PM
27

If you click on the flair 'man rant' and read through them you might actually vomit. I read a few aloud to my husband and he was stunned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:01 PM
54

I genuinely believe at least half of all men would have turned out better if their mothers had left and raised them solo. A boy sees his father treat his mother like sexmomslave and grows up to expect his own sexmomslave. But yes, can't break up the family!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:03 PM
122

Absolutely. I read one woman's post today, her husband is working from home and does maybe 1hr of work and spends the other 7 hours on YouTube. Then spends his evening on his computer as well, all while she's running round covered in baby shit. Sounds like you got a great one there love. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:00 PM
8

I genuinely believe everyone in this series is trash, including Carole. They're all profiting from animal cruelty. I think Joe was set up for the murder plot, but he still belongs in jail for the animal abuse. It's tough because some of the memes are funny, but the hate Carole is getting isn't because of the abuse, it's because she's a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 03:11 PM
2

My husband sent me pics of the shelves on messenger of which maternity pads were available at the shops so I could choose!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 03:07 PM
8

Absolutely untrue. HVM like women they like for who they are, not for what arbitrary category they fall into. Be yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:52 PM
1

She states in the video that in these times women weren't lacing their corsets tightly, men were. The publications she shows in the video clearly demonstrate men were oppressing woman about their fashion and corsets. I sincerely doubt this woman is doing any mental gymnastics about sex workers and corsets considering she is a published fashion historian. I'm not trying to say wearing a corset is taking power back from the man, but there is clear evidence in this video of men using anything they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 12:23 PM
2

I want to get a better one for my back. I'm super stoked to see if it can help me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:27 PM
0

I would probably have the immediate thoughts that you have. But there's always the possibility that he's a widower, or that he was divorced by a wife through no fault of his own. I don't think I would write a guy off based on his age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:41 PM
39

She has eaten herself into the high risk category for Covid 19, and is looking for sympathy every day. I'm 9 months pregnant and just found out I can't have my chosen birth partners so I'm fresh out of sympathy, and also in the high risk category!! Is there an FDS for friendships? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:12 PM
58

I'm honestly having this problem with a female friend right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:06 PM
2

That's what I told her in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:12 PM
4

I think you're right but it's not fai to expect women to choose better without expecting men to be better. I don't know how a man can look at their own wife and see her as physically not good enough because she's growing a child they both decided to have. It disgusts me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 08:39 PM
1

I hate to be 'that guy' but this was trending on this sub only 4 hours ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 10:06 PM
47

Just sitting here 38 pregnant trying not to hyperventilate. 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 09:58 PM
113

I hate it when wives talk like this is normal. Throwing shoes into the street isn't normal. Leaving lists of chores for the woman raising your kids isn't normal. Calling them to check if they've done said chores is abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 11:25 AM
28

Jfc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 09:58 AM
7

I don't agree that it's only 'impressive' if the guy isn't a provider. I think it's only 'desired' if he isn't a provider. A HVM, in my opinion, would be equally impressed by a struggling artist who was talented and passionate but not financially well off, as they would be by an amazing business woman who had already achieved financial success. A LVM would not, and would desire the financially better option only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:24 PM
37

I had a 3 year relationship that became horrible. When I moved out and left him I basically swore off relationships for good. I met a man at work who persued me gently and waited for me to be ready for a relationship. He didn't try to be a nice guy, or my new best friend. He was very clear about his feelings and he waited, not too close, not too distant. I married him 8 years ago and we are 2 weeks away from me giving birth to our first child. HVM are out there, they've not all been snapped up b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:19 PM
16

My cousin got pregnant by a married man, stayed with him while they got divorced and then married him to have another kid. I think the husband was not married for less than 3 months in between. I have absolutely no respect for her. And he will do the same to her eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:53 PM
3

I hear your point but I know my husband. He has spoken in detail about several of his previous relationships as I have. He didn't do anything shitty, and she broke it off with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:38 PM
100

My husband's first girlfriend messaged him a couple of years ago. She said she was still in love with him and it was hard to be in touch on social media because she saw how happy he was with me and our life together, and that hurt her. He cut off contact with her, but I was mad. Why even send the message? She said she could see he was happy so what did she think she was going to achieve? Some women are just LVW, as much as we want to lift each other up, we can only help those who want to help th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:39 PM
38

I bet you she wasn't even real haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:03 AM
59

Anyone who shares a name with either of the men who raped me. Sorry Johns and Matts of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 11:34 PM
18

Is this Miguel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:58 PM
46

There is full frontal male nudity in the show too, from human and host characters. The sexual abuse themes are not there for gratuity, they are carefully written to make the audience question themselves. I don't personally have a problem with this show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:56 PM
54

You may not have succeeded in everything but you did in some things. It's a step in the right direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:35 AM
3

I think you should let it go and learn a lesson here. Don't lend money unless you are prepared not to get it back. People will let you down, especially romantic partners. My relationship in my early 20s left me around £18k down. It's tough to let go but for your sanity I would move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:13 AM
4

I know right? What an absolute moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:52 PM
20

150kg? So 330lbs... And he wants a beautiful woman to inspire him to lose weight? Yeah no thanks pal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:15 PM
22

I don't want to come off as a pickmeisha but my engagement ring was not expensive. I picked it myself (a sapphire) because I simply don't like diamonds and I do find them unethical. Some of the women in this thread may genuinely not want to contribute to the trade for ethical reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:24 AM
26

I had this exact same disagreement with a previous boyfriend. I'll pay half rent and bills but I'm not paying half of your mortgage pal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:15 AM
2

You could say you typed 'po' because you were about to go on the pottermore website, if you're a Harry Potter fan it's a plausible cover. I know it's not good to lie but sometimes it can keep a discussion non track instead of it becoming about you snooping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:26 AM
1

Hi, I have PCOS and am a survivor of child abuse (physical, emotional, sexual). If you ever need someone to reach out to you can PM me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:30 AM
24

My husband is a HVM. I had been holding him at arms length because I was recently out of an LTR. He came to my house after work, which was prearranged but I had forgotten and made other plans to play an online game with friends that night. He went and got us takeout and chilled in my living room with a book until I was finished. He didn't get mad that he wasn't the centre of attention, or that I had forgotten plans we had made. He just adapted his evening so we could still spend some time togeth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:37 AM
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