Has anyone else let themselves go, is that being a LVW?

curlygirl507 · 2020-03-01T05:55:24+00:00

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2020-03-01T06:41:31+00:00

Yes!

I'm still obease but I'm working on it and getting better every day.

At my worst and highest I was extremely depressed and anxious. My room was a mess, I worked for a company that didn't respect my hard work, I was 235lbs. I was online dating someone for three years and had never met them. My health was bad. I got colds and stomach flus/issues. my body felt hollow and I couldn't generate my own body heat. My periods sucked. I hated myself.

It always gets better.

I would say that it's a symptom of being low value but it doesn't make you low value. Especially since you're starting to work on yourself.

I don't necessarily think being over weight should be focused on that highly. Work on fixing your health and such and the other things will fall into line gradually.

Start first by working on your self esteem/self worth. Do this without first needing to accomplish something. Like don't tell yourself you need to lose weight before you can love yourself. Love yourself and it will make it easier to lose weight.

Stop talking negativity to or about yourself. This will help a lot.

I think we let ourselves go as a symptom of not feeling well. Learn to love and respect yourself and it will be easier to do things.

Anything you work on you will be able to improve. You know that where you are isn't where you want to be. So now you just need to take whatever steps to help yourself improve.

2020-03-01T07:06:29+00:00

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