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Aw man that was beautiful.
/r/seduction21/06/11 12:15 AM
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I don't have a solution I'm afraid. Just thought I'd comment saying that I'm the opposite. Not so good in groups (unless I have high status in the group), a lot better 1 on 1 when I know it's on and I just have to have fun with her, make things physical and let shit happen. No other guys competing for her attention, she's completely focused on you and as long as you're not in a public place she doesn't worry about looking like a slut. So there are big advantages when you're alone. The best thing…
/r/seduction16/06/11 12:10 AM
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Watch this. It gets more relevant later on in the video when someone asks a question.
/r/seduction14/06/11 08:14 PM
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QUICK WHERE'S MY 5 YEAR ANNIVERSARY ROUTINE BOOK
/r/seduction13/06/11 07:57 PM
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Plus it's sometimes NICE TO HAVE FRIENDS.
/r/seduction06/06/11 07:37 PM
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Yeah sounds like she definitely wanted you to come over. Should have just google-mapped it when she told you where her house was, ignored her questions and driven over there. The following texts in particular I would interpret as IOIs, plus the fact that she texted you at 1am. "why are you such a weirdo?" "You know I kind of liked you back when i worked at Gullivers Buffet" (less of an indicator, more just straight up telling you she's interested.)
/r/seduction05/06/11 10:40 PM
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Everything I've seen from them is pretty awesome and I've read good reviews from people who've done bootcamps.
/r/seduction05/06/11 10:35 AM
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My thoughts exactly. And happy birthday!
/r/seduction04/06/11 03:57 PM
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Awesome, dude!
/r/seduction04/06/11 03:22 PM
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"Rest your head on her shoulder and say, "This is nice, us, hmm?" while looking up at her." This is quite gay.
/r/seduction04/06/11 01:02 PM
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Go for a walk round your town/city first. Much easier to 'kino' in that situation. Kiss her, then go see the movie. Edit: Just noticed I'm way too late. Wanna tell us what happened?
/r/seduction04/06/11 12:58 PM
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Less than she texts you.
/r/seduction04/06/11 12:57 PM
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Haha, guy's a legend.
/r/seduction02/06/11 08:56 PM
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Thanks for this
/r/seduction02/06/11 11:04 AM
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No shit. I meant how did he behave etc. He provided the IM conversation in detail but only a few lines on the in-person interaction.
/r/seduction02/06/11 12:08 AM
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She then asked me if I minded, to which I said that I did mind, and then she said "No you don't." Conversation died after that. Sounds to me like she's being fucking disrespectful. If you're already at the point where she thinks she can just walk all over you when you explicitly state you don't want him there, you're probably done.
/r/seduction01/06/11 10:16 PM
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Nice, mind telling us what happened when you actually hung out? Your IM skills would have been wasted if you'd been a massive creeper when she actually met you.
/r/seduction01/06/11 09:42 PM
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I see. I was confused because 2 steps forward 1 step back is a principle that's applied to 'physical escalation' and they sound very similar. I've always had the most success when I notice that a girl wants me, decide that I find her attractive (obviously not in all cases) and make a few moves. Easy peasy. However, what about when you like a girl but she obviously isn't that into you? Or at least, isn't making it clear. How do you avoid being the 'chaser' in this situation?
/r/seduction01/06/11 02:59 PM
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Solid post. But don't you mean two steps forward, 1 step back?
/r/seduction01/06/11 02:10 PM
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I love your second example. She gave me a startled look which I responded to with a grin. That grin was probably what made her attracted to you more than anything else. A man with less understanding and confidence might have looked embarrassed or even apologised. I commend you sir.
/r/seduction31/05/11 10:49 PM
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I have the opposite problem. Anyone got any advice on getting out of my head, into the moment and hard?
/r/seduction31/05/11 02:28 PM
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The Real Social Dynamics site has articles+videos from him and other instructors. If you just want the videos from him (most valuable IMO) go here.
/r/seduction30/05/11 11:09 PM
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Tyler from RSD speaks a lot about the key to success in your relationships and your life in general being Intent (clarity in your thoughts and actions) + Freedom from Outcome (not being attached to your results, not striving or trying for a certain outcome). Check his stuff out.
/r/seduction30/05/11 10:42 PM
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His stuff is so simple because his inner game is so beast. I find his videos about life, attitude and other subjects that aren't seduction/pick-up to be far more interesting than his 'game' stuff (although it's all connected).
/r/seduction29/05/11 11:18 PM
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Haha, love that idea! I wonder if a grooveshark playlist counts.
/r/seduction27/05/11 09:21 PM
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this
/r/seduction27/05/11 04:23 PM
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I like these because they don't require money. 5 I usually take care of pretty well, and I'm not bad at 2. 1,3 and 4 definitely need work.
/r/seduction27/05/11 04:10 PM
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Awesome, I'm going to be reading more of these articles.
/r/seduction27/05/11 04:06 PM
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Agreed. My first reaction to the title was "what is this out-of-my-league shit?"
/r/seduction26/05/11 04:46 PM
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Your kids are what's important now. You can meet other women, you can't just meet new kids. They are far more important than any woman will EVER be to you.
/r/seduction24/05/11 07:31 PM
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Sounds pretty natural to me. You just developed the skills later on in life.
/r/seduction24/05/11 07:13 PM
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No there's no meaning behind it, she just wants you to choose where to go. Wouldn't you do that anyway since you're offering to take her out? Just tell her where you're going.
/r/seduction17/05/11 12:25 AM
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Brilliant.
/r/seduction16/05/11 10:21 PM
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As a guy I don't think I'd actually do that. I am most likely only exchanging a couple of words with whoever serves me so I don't care if it's a hot girl or some old man. Unless you're going to ask her out or something (or you're scared of talking to hot girls and challenging yourself) I'd say looking for the best looking girl to checkout with is fairly lame/beta/needy behaviour.
/r/seduction15/05/11 12:42 AM
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I'm in the same boat as you except my girl's parents don't hate me (I have to sleep on the sofa/couch). Sending her a picture of your dick was an extremely dumb thing to do but we all make mistakes. a) is the best way. Remember the idea that her mom might find out, or walk in on you at any time, is a HUGE turn on to some girls. So if you can get her horny enough she will go along with it. I'd be cautious though. Depending on your age her mom could call the police and get you in very, very deep s…
/r/seduction13/05/11 12:36 PM
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Don't agree with all of them but there's a lot of truth here.
/r/seduction12/05/11 08:54 PM
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No. Kick her ass, teabag her in victory then call her a noob and a faggot. This will show her that you are an alpha male and dominant.
/r/seduction12/05/11 06:55 PM
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Remember out of all the advice you read only a small amount will be useful to you. It's good to change things about yourself that you dislike, but sometimes you have to go "nah, that ain't me". If she conveys interest in coming with me, I'll make up something about having to work in the morning. Don't do that. Stop resisting her. Girls are fun! A quote that I like from the movie Casanova (and I believe he said it himself at some point) is "I don't conquer women, I submit." I do much better in a …
/r/seduction10/05/11 11:50 PM
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Alphaness is not always about being big and loud and calling everyone bro.
/r/seduction10/05/11 10:36 PM
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Curious about this too. Not just girls that friendzoned me, but girls I broke up with for whatever reason. Anyone got any thoughts on the best way to reinitiate?
/r/seduction09/05/11 09:05 PM
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Solid advice.
/r/seduction09/05/11 12:25 AM
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You haven't said in your post whether you like her or not. Now based on the fact you posted this, I'm assuming you do. So stop worrying about whether she likes you or not and just kiss her. The worst thing that can happen is she turns you down, which really isn't so bad.
/r/seduction08/05/11 09:31 PM
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"the first step towards understanding women, is to stop expecting them to act like men" Dunno who said it but I always remember it when this kind of stuff comes up.
/r/seduction08/05/11 12:02 AM
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If girls know you're involved sexually with other girls they will typically be more attracted to you. This is just another example of that.
/r/seduction07/05/11 08:55 PM
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Being comfortable with who you are will bring you a lot more girls, not to mention happiness, than using a bunch of negs and 'seduction techniques' on girls then blaming it on their low self esteem when they don't like you.
/r/seduction07/05/11 07:46 PM
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Being a dick won't make girls like you. Or anyone, for that matter. Just be cool, be YOU and don't let people push you around.
/r/seduction07/05/11 07:27 PM
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Do what you want. All I'm saying is it's not a big deal when you call.
/r/seduction07/05/11 06:53 PM
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Why? Don't worry about that stuff. If a girl you liked called you while you were eating, would you be like "FUCK YOU BITCH I'M HAVING LUNCH"?
/r/seduction07/05/11 06:22 PM
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Sounds to me like she likes you. Do you like her? If so, get more one-on-one time and let things happen. If you don't want the friend to come, you can tell her that you'd like to spend time alone with her. Don't be shy about it.
/r/seduction07/05/11 06:17 PM
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Whenever it's convenient for you. It wouldn't hurt to be with friends when you call, or on your way to do something interesting that you can chat about, but niether of these are essential.
/r/seduction07/05/11 06:11 PM
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Excellent points. I have nothing to add.
/r/seduction07/05/11 06:08 PM
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I love it when girls call me an asshole. It's code for "you're doing it right".
/r/seduction05/05/11 07:27 PM
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Totally agree with you. Reading pickup material fucked me up for a long time. I was taking the whole girls thing way too seriously which made me even more unattractive and not having any luck with chicks at all was making me depressed. I realised one day what was happening and completely stopped reading rsdnation, watching videos about pickup etc. Becoming someone who is attractive to women = great. Talking to other like-minded men about this = great. However if you get caught up in the bullshit…
/r/seduction05/05/11 06:16 PM
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Doesn't sound like you're having much luck building sexual tension with texts. It definitely sounds like she wants you there, so just meet up with her and escalate in person.
/r/seduction05/05/11 06:05 PM
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It's a good thing - girls like it.
/r/seduction05/05/11 03:30 PM
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Attraction has nothing to do with what country you're in or from.
/r/seduction05/05/11 03:28 PM
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Meet up as soon as possible.
/r/seduction04/05/11 01:07 PM
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The self is always coming through.
/r/seduction03/05/11 10:59 PM
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Indicator Of Interest. It's when a girl does something to show she likes you.
/r/seduction03/05/11 08:02 PM
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Very interesting, never thought of it like that before.
/r/seduction03/05/11 07:42 PM
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I'm pretty sure he means his girlfriend was dishonest with him and that's why he's ending the relationship.
/r/seduction02/05/11 07:29 PM
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Yeah I would have. I guess I took it to mean more than it did. I've had girls walk all over me in the past (albeit due to my own beta behaviour) so I am probably over-reacting because of that.
/r/seduction02/05/11 12:15 AM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction02/05/11 12:11 AM
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Yes, it was the first time she came to my place so I had to meet her. I didn't have to wait another 20 minutes, but she had no phone at the time and would have just had to get the train back home as she didn't know where my house was.
/r/seduction01/05/11 10:39 PM
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I've been in the exact same situation, multiple times. Don't beat yourself up over it. The first thing to do is relax. Because I had a tendancy to not escalate, when I was going to hang out with a girl I would stress over it and feel like it was really important that I make a move. Don't do this. Enjoy talking to her, being with her and having fun with her and intimacy comes much more easily. If it feels like a huge deal going for the kiss, try to be more physical from the start. Give her a big …
/r/seduction30/04/11 04:50 PM
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No kiss? What did she do when you tried to kiss her?
/r/seduction30/04/11 04:00 PM
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Post about it on the internet and obsess over it for hours. Works every time.
/r/seduction28/04/11 06:27 PM
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I'm pale as fuck, usually the whitest in my group of friends. However I couldn't give two shits. Guess who gets the girls.
/r/seduction25/04/11 11:56 PM
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It doesn't matter about the roommate. The relationship doesn't matter either. The real question is: Would you rather be take a chance and be rejected, or never ask and never know?
/r/seduction22/04/11 11:13 PM
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Yeah I dig this. I find it happens pretty naturally in person when I'm with a girl I like, but is it possible to have the same kind of chemistry when you're texting/chatting on facebook or something like that?
/r/seduction20/04/11 06:31 PM
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I like your response because you're not just spouting community BS. Respect to you sir, a free-thinker!
/r/seduction20/04/11 04:55 PM
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Allow yourself to lose state and not care what happens. Seriously. If you're going in thinking about how you have to be in state, have to be confident, have to attract the girl then you're just going to mindfuck yourself. Just HAVE FUN.
/r/seduction20/04/11 03:48 PM
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I know this article is meant to be over the top but the slut vs non-slut mentality really is a joke. Every girl likes sex they just have different ideas about how this kind of thing goes down. God forbid you might actually spend more than a few hours with a girl before you get in her pants. Chode!
/r/seduction20/04/11 03:45 PM
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This. However you can increase to 1 per 2.3 if you DHV at the same time.
/r/seduction20/04/11 03:43 PM
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