humaninstrument Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	[FR] 2nd Tinder date, K-Close with a lot of hot makeout at a bar. And holy shit, people watching is awesome and a THANK YOU Seddit. Which videos would you recommend?	/r/seduction	16/05/16 05:37 AM
1	[FR] 2nd Tinder date, K-Close with a lot of hot makeout at a bar. And holy shit, people watching is awesome and a THANK YOU Seddit. On the first date I tried my best to open myself up and vulnerable. I talked about things I liked, thins I disliked, what I like and don't like about myself, my experiences and what I've learned from them, how I grew up, etc. I wanted to make her comfortable around me, and I guess it worked. Thanks btw!	/r/seduction	16/05/16 05:37 AM
2	[FR] 2nd Tinder date, K-Close with a lot of hot makeout at a bar. And holy shit, people watching is awesome and a THANK YOU Seddit. Glad I fit the criteria.. I personally dont spam anyone with texts, but I do like to chat via text if I really do care about the person. I try not to engage in "How are you?" or "How was your day?" type of texting, cause I feel like that is a huge turn off, even where you are in a seropus relationships. I try my best to keep conversations flirtatious, sometimes maybe too much, and funny, but I always worry that I may be coming off as a bit needy for always texting, and I'm always afraid of respo…	/r/seduction	15/05/16 08:42 PM
2	[FR] 2nd Tinder date, K-Close with a lot of hot makeout at a bar. And holy shit, people watching is awesome and a THANK YOU Seddit. YES. I really, REALLY, do want to be alone with her. The things I would do this girl.	/r/seduction	15/05/16 08:40 PM
1	[FR] 2nd Tinder date, K-Close with a lot of hot makeout at a bar. And holy shit, people watching is awesome and a THANK YOU Seddit. Interesting, how do you mean? I always had a little trouble with the concept as well	/r/seduction	15/05/16 07:34 PM
3	[FR] 2nd Tinder date, K-Close with a lot of hot makeout at a bar. And holy shit, people watching is awesome and a THANK YOU Seddit. Oh really? Ahah, first time someone did it to me. And you're right, it was erotic...a lot	/r/seduction	15/05/16 06:26 PM
8	[FR] 2nd Tinder date, K-Close with a lot of hot makeout at a bar. And holy shit, people watching is awesome and a THANK YOU Seddit. I don't know where that came from ahah. It was just the moment, I felt like saying it. Now I don't want to fuck shit up and appear clingy or needy. Keep my ground and livemy life. If she wants come along, that would be perfect. Thanks!	/r/seduction	15/05/16 05:07 PM
5	[FR] 2nd Tinder date, K-Close with a lot of hot makeout at a bar. And holy shit, people watching is awesome and a THANK YOU Seddit. Yes, I absolutely understand that. I made that mistake some times in the past, I don't want to it again. Thanks!	/r/seduction	15/05/16 02:01 PM
2	What to do when you want to go out with a girl, but it's going to be a while before you get free time? Also have some issues with this. Waiting for the replies	/r/seduction	19/04/16 06:14 AM
7	Calling out a flake - "How to" without seeming like a needy jerk. I find this to a big problem for me. A girl is treating me like this lately, however I do not have many options for now. I have not been needy with her by any means, but she's giving me the same bullshit has OP. Should I still cut her off or call her out telling her that I don't accept this, even though I'm on scarcity mentality?	/r/seduction	08/03/16 07:38 PM
3	Zero game to dating an HB9. 2 year journey I'd like to share what I learned along the way. Out of curiosity, what is your job and how do you have time for another internship and another job?	/r/seduction	06/03/16 06:30 PM
2	[FR] Tinder date with K-close, power of eye contact, and in need of guidance I would love that as well, problem is that we still both live with our parents, makes things much more difficult in that regard. But it's definitely something that has been on my mind	/r/seduction	04/03/16 06:01 PM
2	[FR] Tinder date with K-close, power of eye contact, and in need of guidance Well guess fucking what. She blew me off. I do believe she was telling the true though. Yesterday I called her confirming the date. She said yes, but I noticed her voice was off. I asked her if everything was ok, she said yes, but I could tell that she was not alright. I figured she was just tired being the end of the week and brushed it off. This morning she texts me saying "Hey! Sorry we're going to have to post pone our date today. I had a rough week (you could tell by my voice yesterday righ…	/r/seduction	04/03/16 02:04 PM
2	[FR] Tinder date with K-close, power of eye contact, and in need of guidance Hey man thanks. Appreciate it. What kills me with this chick, is not knowing. I have no idea what's going on in her mind. We are going to be together today again. Last time we spoke before this date was on last sunday. I understand that we're not on a relationship by any means, but this chick doesnt make contact, at all. But when we're together, we have a blast, even though we didn't kiss in the last date. It's all so new for me because I've never been with a girl I liked I think my problem is b…	/r/seduction	04/03/16 08:50 AM
6	You are out in public with a girl you have slept with but are not yet exclusive with and you run into someone you know. How would you introduce her ? Troglodyte her as a friend, introduce!	/r/seduction	28/02/16 09:07 PM
1	[FR] Tinder date with K-close, power of eye contact, and in need of guidance Alright, duly noted! Thanks! What about the question that I made about telling her "It's cool, I don't care, getting to know you was already awesome, you're a cool chick. Let's walk over there" after she told me that she didn't want a relationship? Was that a good thing to say? I know it doesnt matter now but maybe I could deal with that better in the future?	/r/seduction	28/02/16 09:02 PM
1	[FR] Tinder date with K-close, power of eye contact, and in need of guidance Yes, that's what I've thought. What about communication? Should I limit it to only logistics? Should I let her chase me a bit, or should I take initiative most of the times? This girl is actually making the initiation most of the times. She said she wanted to be with me again next week. I'm feeling kinda good about this. First time this has ever happened to me	/r/seduction	28/02/16 08:44 PM
2	[FR] Tinder date with K-close, power of eye contact, and in need of guidance We haven't had that, yet. But I'll look forward to it	/r/seduction	27/02/16 11:29 PM
1	[FR] Tinder date with K-close, power of eye contact, and in need of guidance Tbh I don't know. I would like both. I think I would handle better the latter option, but I don't know if she wants that. The first one sounds awesome as well, but I don't know how I would handle that	/r/seduction	27/02/16 11:24 PM
2	Texting Before First Date. Well, this is something that depends on case to case. I think that talking too much via text will only hurt you. I think it's nice to build up antecipation. You can always tell her that you're not really fond of texting too much and tell her that you can't wait to see her in person. This of course depends on case to case. Some girls take it as you losing interest, others take it as you beeing too needy. What I like to do is avoid all the "hi, how are you texts?" texts and send her, sporadically,…	/r/seduction	09/02/16 07:36 PM
1	Texting Before First Date. We need some more info. What have you talked about via text? Suggest a specific time and place. Be assertive and work with her restrictions	/r/seduction	09/02/16 07:07 PM
5	I get invested in girls too fast. How can I change this? That's one my main issues as well. I think the only thing that helps is talking to more women and having stuff going on in your life. Now, of course this is easier said than done. You just need to really try occupy yourself with hobbies or personal projects. I know it's hard, but just try it, and avoid the temptation of texting a girl in this situation. Trust me. I'm talking from experience here. Also, don't place too much expectations in any date. That kills absolutely everything. Just go with …	/r/seduction	09/02/16 07:01 PM
1	[FR] My first (good) Tinder date and a lesson learned. Yeah that's the plan. Let's see if she tells me when she's available.	/r/seduction	08/02/16 06:37 AM
2	What is your tinder bio? I'm stealing that.	/r/seduction	31/01/16 11:20 AM
1	Have a tinder date tomorrow, and SHE's picking me up... Need advice Well, I actually was able to made it non awkward. She had a bunch of cds lying around of hers and her brother. I just jokingly grab them all and started talking with her about it and making fun of her about her music taste and her brothers as well, ahah. Was funny and relaxed. No awkward silences.	/r/seduction	20/01/16 10:49 AM
1	Have a tinder date tomorrow, and SHE's picking me up... Need advice Yeah maybe I'm over thinking it... Why bonus point if I'm in the back seat?	/r/seduction	19/01/16 12:50 PM
1	Putting the ball in her court, but have a question Yeah I guess that's a good option, but I'll just seem way too needy. But you know what, fuck it. I'll do it in a couple of days, maybe next week. If she says she can't, fuck it and I'll move on.	/r/seduction	02/01/16 01:02 AM
1	Putting the ball in her court, but have a question Our last text exchange was today and it was initiated by her. (just happy new years stuff). Before that, I texted her saying that I had a great time in our last date, even though no k-close. Then I told her I was free this month from day 15 and that we should hang out later. She said she needed to check her schedule but that she agreed we should meet up again. I said "alright awesome, hit me up when you're free so we can figure something out", which she replied with "Sure :)".	/r/seduction	01/01/16 10:51 PM
1	Putting the ball in her court, but have a question This is what I was thinking. But should I wait to hear when she's available, or text her again? Won't that sound just too needy?	/r/seduction	01/01/16 10:41 PM
1	Stop asking this subreddit what you should do. Do something and make a mistake. Learn from it. Your fear to make mistakes is why you are failing. Well this is good advice. Just came back from a second date where I tried to kiss her right off the bat. I did escalate, not as much as I'd like. I put my arm around her, was close to her, etc. When we got to the park I said something which I dont remember and just went for it. She said "sorry I dont know you well enough yet" and I said "alright fair enough, I had to try though". After that we went on a walk around the city and I just brushed it off. Kept smiling and talking to her, no awkward s…	/r/seduction	22/12/15 09:36 PM
1	Seddit, I need your help. This hard 1-itis is fucking me up and nothing I do now seems to make sense. Please, guide me. Yes, I'm planning to do this. If she flakes out again, I'm done.	/r/seduction	18/12/15 08:48 AM
1	Seddit, I need your help. This hard 1-itis is fucking me up and nothing I do now seems to make sense. Please, guide me. Thank you so much for this response, really. I must admit, my life is not the most interesting one. This is one of the things that sometimes depresses me, but hopefully this will get better in time.	/r/seduction	18/12/15 08:47 AM
1	Seddit, I need your help. This hard 1-itis is fucking me up and nothing I do now seems to make sense. Please, guide me. I understand all you said, trust me. My only problem is that I don't know whether it was a legit excuse or a flat out flake. I believe this girl sent me some mixed signals, that's I'm confused and lost about what to do. If I knew it was a flat out flake, I could move on, no problem. What's eating me inside is that I don't know that, and because she hasn't text me or said anything, it makes me feel worse. I'm tempted to text her again, but I'm afraid to come out as way too needy. This is my issue…	/r/seduction	17/12/15 10:55 PM
1	21 years old and first date ever tonight. Help! TELL US HOW DID IT GO!	/r/seduction	12/12/15 02:55 PM
1	Did 5 approaches today Thanks man... I need to ingrain that in my head. I keep saying that I don't have time to approach and practice, yet I know I'm lying to myself. I even have other lame excuses like "you're not dressed well enough" etc. What sickens me is that I know I'm lying to myself, yet I can act regardless. Anyway this post is about you. Good luck in the future friend!	/r/seduction	29/10/15 10:09 AM
6	Did 5 approaches today Keep going! You are already light years ahed for me! Good luck	/r/seduction	28/10/15 10:46 PM
1	Day 2 of overcoming approach anxiety (field report to follow) Good luck!	/r/seduction	25/10/15 11:15 AM
1	I'm going to go out today and approach for the first time in my life Looking forward for the FR!	/r/seduction	24/10/15 09:58 AM
1	Seddit how much has your life change since you found seddit? Claro, estamos aqui a fazer spam de língua portuguesa, ainda vem aqui os mods e chateiam-se. Mando-te uma PM com contactos.	/r/seduction	07/10/15 10:11 PM
1	Seddit how much has your life change since you found seddit? Deixa lá. Em que nível de "pickup" estás? Consegues fazer "cold approaches" facilmente? Dates? Pulls?	/r/seduction	07/10/15 09:58 PM
0	Seddit how much has your life change since you found seddit? Bela Lisboa. E tu ?	/r/seduction	07/10/15 09:40 PM
5	Seddit how much has your life change since you found seddit? I have been improving my life in terms of habits like writing, exercising and meditating. Certainly to say, that helped me, but only to a certain point: I've improved my self in only that way. I haven't improved at all my social skills. I still can't approach girls on the street, I suck with girls and I have the Nice Guy syntome. Discovering this area has taught me that I should be the very best of my self first, and that's what I've been trying to do for the time being. But I'm afraid that won'…	/r/seduction	07/10/15 08:38 PM
1	Field Report #1: Failing. Or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Approach. Well your description sounds me... And I don't take action because I believe I look bad and ugly. I can't afford the gym but I still go on daily runs to try not to get fat. I'm in the OK zone of the body weight/age ratio, but I still see myself as an awkward dude and it's so hard to start approaching... Anyway, good on you man. I wish I had a partner to practice this shit	/r/seduction	06/10/15 09:19 PM
1	Wanted to ask out a girl, failed badly Went through something like this a few months ago. Don't worry, she won't remember in the next 2 or 3 days. The important thing is that took action. Never stop improving yourself	/r/seduction	06/10/15 09:13 PM