humerousboner Archive

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1	What’s the difference between having good game and being manipulative? I don’t even think that creates pressure necessarily, that just sounds like a statement of fact “he’ll be leaving soon”. Probably easier to fuck someone like in some cases	/r/seduction	10/04/20 10:24 PM
1	What’s the difference between having good game and being manipulative? Learning addresses? Does that mean something other than what I think it means?	/r/seduction	10/04/20 07:28 AM
1	What’s the difference between having good game and being manipulative? Not by my definition no. But this is my question, are there any psychological things like “yes ladders” that are compatible with being non manipulative? Can they just be a playful thing?	/r/seduction	10/04/20 07:11 AM
1	Any girls into dudes dressed like this? Tight jeans a look for dudes? Then I would post in r/malefashionadvice - they’ll give you better tips. But if you love those jeans man, there’ll be women who like them too. Don’t sweat it. Honestly I see the bigger issue as being the colour clash on the shoes and jeans	/r/seduction	10/04/20 06:25 AM
1	Any girls into dudes dressed like this? Tight jeans a look for dudes? I think I would buy a pair of straight leg chinos to compliment your wardrobe and move away from the drainpipe style of skinny’s. There are other styles which won’t cling as aggressively. As for shoes, if you’re going black pants I would recommend converse in white . If you’re feeling more adventurous I love Nike Air Force 1’s and think they work extremely well in formal and informal settings. Ultimately your shoes are the dot at the end of the exclamation point. You can choose to build an outfi…	/r/seduction	10/04/20 06:19 AM
1	Any girls into dudes dressed like this? Tight jeans a look for dudes? Happy to help bro. I’m a former distance runner and current powerlifter. I get wanting to show of the fellas (quads) You know looking at this again, I think it’s also the way they’re draping over your knees. It may even be this particular set of jeans, rather than the style itself. Also a gentle pointer, the colour of your shoes clashes a bit to harshly with the pants Edit: real talk, are these women’s jeans?	/r/seduction	10/04/20 06:08 AM
0	Any girls into dudes dressed like this? Tight jeans a look for dudes? You have great legs man. I think these are a touch too tight around the quads though Edit: alternatively, you could make this work look better by changing the type of shirt. Think a crew neck in a dark neutral colour (or white) that fits well across the shoulders but drapes. Ideally if it can be a little tighter on the bicep that would be perfect	/r/seduction	10/04/20 05:54 AM
2	What’s the difference between having good game and being manipulative? Actually extremely well. Being open and honest has always worked really well for me. Asking girls if they want to come back to mine more often than not leads to a yes	/r/seduction	10/04/20 05:46 AM
1	What’s the difference between having good game and being manipulative? The result I want is to not feel insecure and to be comfortable approaching anyone. I’m not necessarily concerned with sleeping with every woman I speak with, but I want to put myself in the position where I will find those women every time. The result I want is internal calm and outcome independence. I don’t want to pretend that i don’t care if a woman likes me, I genuinely don’t want to care. I want to play game according to my own moral compass. That’s why I’m asking these questions and seein…	/r/seduction	10/04/20 05:46 AM
1	What’s the difference between having good game and being manipulative? Disagree. Plenty of women and people more broadly will do shit or fuck someone they regret today. Let’s put all the low hanging fruit (i.e, hair cut, clothes that fit well personal hygiene etc ) to one side (I’m not even sure I’d class that in game, that’s just style) and focus in on the conversational side of things. What do you mean by eliminating guilt? I understand defeating insecurity by progressive exposure and slowly coming to not care, but what guilt are you talking about? So in your eye…	/r/seduction	10/04/20 05:36 AM
1	What’s the difference between having good game and being manipulative? Steering someone in a direction of meeting your needs while having no consideration for theirs	/r/seduction	10/04/20 05:31 AM
1	What’s the difference between having good game and being manipulative? Sure, but advertising and sales can be manipualtive and create false pressure to make someone buy something they don’t want. No the ad itself is not immoral. A high pressure sales tactic would be. I guess that’s the line then, pressure	/r/seduction	10/04/20 05:30 AM
1	What’s the difference between having good game and being manipulative? So what is game in this context to you. ELI5 I’m coming completely from Mark Manson’s vulnerability position. I prefer operating that way and have pretty alright results. However with corona on an lockdown in effect, I’ve been bored and looking into other stuff	/r/seduction	09/04/20 09:55 AM
0	What’s the difference between having good game and being manipulative? Explain this better. Game can be manipulative absolutely, depending on how you present yourself. Well that’s what I mean, where does the lie start. Say you’re using a yes ladder. Is that manipulative inherently?	/r/seduction	09/04/20 09:51 AM
1	What’s the difference between having good game and being manipulative? I’ve read it already and found it to be extremely helpful. Someone linked me some stuff from girlschase so I was exploring that	/r/seduction	09/04/20 09:49 AM
1	I gained 40kg in my last relationship. Struggling with dealing with high levels of rejection on dating apps after being a moderately successful guy at a lighter weight. Looking for advice and support Thanks man, I’ll use these	/r/seduction	08/03/20 10:58 AM
1	Dont chase women Great response man. Would give you gold if I had them	/r/seduction	05/03/20 09:40 PM
2	Dont chase women “Models” is a good resource for this about how to approach it internally	/r/seduction	05/03/20 09:39 PM
2	Where can I find like minded guys to learn with? Appreciate it brother	/r/seduction	05/03/20 09:18 PM
1	Where can I find like minded guys to learn with? Yeah man I heard about this. Apparently what was happening was a group of guys were all approaching the same girl one after the other. There’s one guy in Sydney who I’ve seen so close to “Models” which is where I’m coming from - Damian Diecke. Yeah man I’ll dm you!	/r/seduction	05/03/20 09:17 PM
2	I gained 40kg in my last relationship. Struggling with dealing with high levels of rejection on dating apps after being a moderately successful guy at a lighter weight. Looking for advice and support It’s funny - I actually feel a lot better about myself as a person now than I did at that weight. That’s a function of being on the correct medication more than anything I think. I actually feel pretty good about myself. I’m happy enough with the progress I’m making. What I want is to get back to the point where I feel that women are my equal, and that I don’t have to be anything other than what I am to get laid. That’ll come with practice and exposure. I just have to push myself to practice. Ri…	/r/seduction	05/03/20 01:10 AM
1	I gained 40kg in my last relationship. Struggling with dealing with high levels of rejection on dating apps after being a moderately successful guy at a lighter weight. Looking for advice and support Have you ever tried this? Seems easier to just meet women in other places, and I am at a university so there’s tonnes around	/r/seduction	04/03/20 01:47 PM
1	I gained 40kg in my last relationship. Struggling with dealing with high levels of rejection on dating apps after being a moderately successful guy at a lighter weight. Looking for advice and support Couch surfing? Like that website for a free place to crash?	/r/seduction	04/03/20 01:31 PM
1	I gained 40kg in my last relationship. Struggling with dealing with high levels of rejection on dating apps after being a moderately successful guy at a lighter weight. Looking for advice and support See it’s not a matter of going back - I started with dating apps and always was good at digital communication. For me, it is very much learning from the ground up. While I have been very successful, I haven’t got the groundwork around approaching that many of you will have. What I try to remind myself during an interaction is that she has to meet my standards. That it can’t be outcome dependent, and that rejection isn’t the end of the world. Beyond those principles, do you have any others you’d …	/r/seduction	04/03/20 01:14 PM
2	I gained 40kg in my last relationship. Struggling with dealing with high levels of rejection on dating apps after being a moderately successful guy at a lighter weight. Looking for advice and support Yeah man this is exactly what I’m lifting for. I need to stabilise my back so I can get back into doing martial arts. There are super hot women at my gym at the moment, but it kind of feels like shitting where I eat if I were to hit on them. The guys are supportive and the whole vibe of the place is great. I’ve dabbled with a few hobbies recently but nothing has stuck really. Last one I tried was warhammer but fuck did those guys have some serious racism / social issues. Edit: It’s good advice. …	/r/seduction	04/03/20 12:46 PM