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| 34 | [FR] I didn't know girls could be this fucking hot.I want you to know that this comment is the straw that broke the camels back and I’m unsubbing this sub | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | if a girl asks sexual questions is that an IOI?Are you purposely trying to be stupid? | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 07:14 AM |
| 1 | 4 dates in one week, how do you juggle multiple women!So are you inviting out girls you’ve already fucked? Or are these just girls you’ve gotten numbers from. Bringing girls that you’re already in a sexual relationship with just seems like it would completely blow up in your face | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 07:12 AM |
| 1 | 22M, living with parents, help meI’m 26 and bring back girls on a regular basis, never really dealt with any problems. If some girl starts to say something, I tell her I like spending an extra grand on shit I like rather than rent, and that I feel sympathy for her being so poor. It’s a non issue, I probably bring a girl a week back. It’s not like my dad hasn’t fucked before or heard someone fuck | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 06:25 AM |
| 1 | How to tell how big a girl's boobs actually are?By not being a virgin and getting experience Furthermore, why the fuck do you care? | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 09:14 PM |
| -1 | Girl Cancelled On Me 30min Late To Support a Male Friend Who Had "Bad News and Needed to Vent"r/relationships is over here man If you want seduction advice, I’m here for you. Otherwise just fuck right off | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 06:16 AM |
| – | There is this girl that likes me and I liker her too, whats my next step?I hate shit posting like this, but yours was worse, so I feel obligated. You’re gay, there is no cure, probably just start having sex with guys | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 06:00 AM |
| 11 | Wow, intriguing girls that don't make it easy are so stimulating.You wrote a novel to let us know you’ve been getting cuddly with a girl that’s boring? Nice | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 04:50 AM |
| 2 | AdviceI’d say 90% of the time when I’m out partying and I get laid, the conversations I have with women are completely pointless and devoid of any real substance. People just want to let loose and fuck around | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Cross post from TIL; Dutch mimicry study: Waitresses who repeated their customers orders increase their tips by 70% over those who positively reinforce the order ("sure", "great choice"), Suggesting that we favor those who mimic our behaviors. • r/todayilearnedNo, you’re retarded You don’t understand nearly enough about psychology | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 03:49 AM |
| 7 | Randomly showing up to her house?After 1 date? God no wtf is wrong with you | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Lying and seductionFacial structure, skin quality, bust size aren’t fundamental aspects about a person? Doing things to make yourself appear nicer through non natural means is at best deceptive and a manipulation of someone else’s perception. And a job is not a fundamental aspect of ones life, it’s a method of acquiring currency necessary for sustenance and doesn’t define someone, although in America there seems to be this intermingling of work and pleasure, which I will never understand. Lying about age and finan… | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Lying and seductionWomen wear makeup, get fake tits, and lie themselves. It doesn’t fucking matter if you’re not hurting anyone | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 02:32 AM |
| 2 | how do i respond to "You remind me of my little brother"Instead of figuring out a way to deal with it, figure out a way to change the perception of girls so they don’t say it in the first place No girl wants to fuck their little brother, no matter how good your comeback is | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 06:07 PM |
| 3 | I’ll be attending a free coed tennis class today. How do I approach and ask out women there?Use your feet, and then probably your mouth | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 09:55 PM |
| -1 | How do you guys hook girls in clubs?See girl, make eye contact, hold eye contact, walk over and say something sexual about how she just eye fucked me, proceed to take her dancing, makeout with her while dancing, take her home | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 06:03 PM |
| 4 | 24M looking for sex adviceYeah, go ask her instead | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 05:25 PM |
| 16 | Would you exclusively date a girl who's been with a lot of guys??More than 5 guys lmfao I don’t think I’ve even met a girl in my city who has fucked less than 5 guys | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Wanting to escalate, but current living arrangements pose a problemAnd my response was a way to allow her to offer her place as an option? And the only reason you’ve stated for not wanting to bring her over, is because of you renting a room while she has a house. So if you put the ball in her court, she’s the one that has decided to come to your place. I grow weary because these types of questions are just so painstakingly obvious | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Wanting to escalate, but current living arrangements pose a problem“Would you rather go back to mine or yours?” I’m growing weary here boys... | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Me and my boyfriend have a betFirst of all, wrong fucking sub. None of us here give a single fuck about your stupid shit. Secondly, stupid fucking bet Go away | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 06:27 AM |
| 37 | Met a girl trough a match on Tinder, but shes 28 and I'm 21.Stop overthinking shit Just go out with her, and play it by ear. Plus also stop being a judge mental retard about “it won’t work out because of a 7 year gap” Your inexperience is showing | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Never had a relationship, ever.I woke up one day and decided to be awesome That seriously was it. I watched a lot of YouTube videos on understanding social dynamics, understood what characteristics were desireable in men, and began embodying those traits, or faked and lied about them. It really was a night and day change for me. Put time in to learning the fundamentals, and fake it till you make it. I’ve posted plenty on this sub, it gets a bit repetitive for me | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Never had a relationship, ever.I was a virgin until 19, didn’t have a gf until I was 21. I’ve now had sex with more women than I can count, 4 relationships and just generally kill it with women. Don’t stress on it, it’ll come in time if you put time into it | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 01:49 AM |
| 6 | Stop FAKING confidence, stop lying and stop trying to impress people. Stop trying to 'be alpha' - this doesn't just fail, it actively undoes your real confidence. This is the single biggest mistake there is. The right way is a lot harder, but works.As someone that has faked it until they made it, you are completely right, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t work. I became incredibly narcissistic, manipulative, and self centered and it was great! Until after about a year of it I felt empty inside, and felt no real connection to anyone. So i fixed that, but maintained, the confidence and strong sense of self esteem. I’d recommend faking it until you make it, as long as you don’t go too far down the rabbit hole. | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 12:10 AM |
| 12 | Getting a shy guy to make a moveI want to give you a blowjob No guy has ever turned down a blowjob | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Inexperienced 23M, looking for adviceLmfao dude you are so far up your ass it’s hilarious But I’m pretty sure OP knows that too | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 10:25 PM |
| 0 | Is there a guide for solo-travelers or solo club game as a traveler?At what point did I ever mention trump? Americans are stereotyped as being loud, boisterous and stupid by nearly every european countries locals. Californians are known for being cool surfer liberals who live by Hollywood and the beach. But don’t take it from me, I’ve only been raised by Europeans, you probably know best | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Inexperienced 23M, looking for adviceOral and fingering before, sometimes not at all. I don’t ever perform oral unless I really like the girl, or she’s really hot and I want to keep her around. Sometimes I’ll pull out and eat her out during, never after though There isn’t a standard amount of foreplay, just whatever you feel is proper. Keep it under 5 mins though. No set amount of rounds. Go twice if you want, I typically don’t. Don’t worry about rubbing her clit as a newbie You on top, her legs pinned back or up in the air with yo… | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 02:41 AM |
| 91 | What do you say to a girl right before kissing them??Just lean in and do it. Sometimes I’ll say “don’t hate me for this” and then I do it. Or sometimes I say “fuck your lips look sexy” and then I do it Or sometimes I just say “fuuck” and then I do it It doesn’t really matter, they either want to or dont | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 02:33 AM |
| 37 | I think I made a mistake.No you didn’t fuck up. That was her friend, testing your ass. Girls don’t just randomly call some guy from 2 weeks ago from a random party. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 12:04 AM |
| 24 | Ex messaging me after no contactFuck that dude. Block her. She dumped you because she doesn’t want you anymore, but she wants you to want her, so she can still feel good about herself. She’s a fucking child, who isn’t giving you any fucking respect as a human being. Block | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 11:03 PM |
| 52 | Is there a guide for solo-travelers or solo club game as a traveler?Are you from America? If yes, the answer is no. You’re from California. There has been/is a lot of anti-USA sentiment around the world, however cali has been widely regarded as liberal and not full of shit bags by the international community. Just trust me on this one(especially in Europe). I would recommend staying in hostels no matter where you go. You will meet people, they organize pub crawls, and other activities that will get you with girls (and guys) looking for similar things. Things wil… | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 10:55 PM |
| 30 | a few months into my reboot and waking up, women are starting to notice me moreIt’s kind of weird you keep referring to freshmen and sophomores, you do realize there are girls your own age right? | /r/seduction | 26/08/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Anybody in here who gets laid regularly, 2-3+ girls a month got advice? Problem with this sub.My social life is mostly going to bars or out to eat with a friend. Most of what I do involves some form of alcohol, and my full blown alcoholism is being realized presently actually. I primarily game alone, my friends aren’t very good at talking to women, why risk having them fuck up my game? I do not cold approach day game bullshit. I do not use dating apps like tinder. Picking a girl from tinder or just walking along, poses the risk of wasting a lot of time on one person who may or may not su… | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 04:27 AM |
| 3 | What to do once you get a girl homeMakeout with her and take her clothes off | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 12:50 AM |
| 3 | U.K.) I get matches on tinder but irl I’m hideous and look like a different person?Sorry to be the one to break this to you, but you just wasted a lot of time. He’s just going to post the same bullshit in the next couple of days, never make progress, and keep being a depressed little bitch | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 12:03 PM |
| 4 | Why Being Mr. Nice Guy Turns Women OffThis thread is cancer. I’m as nice as i can possibly be to whoever i meet, male or female, and I get laid incredibly consistently. It has nothing to do with being nice. It has everything to do with your self esteem. People like being around nice people. Acting like a jerk for the sake of being a “bad boy” works on children and drunk chicks. Grow up. | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 11:20 PM |
| 0 | Virgin because I’m hideous and I don’t leave the house because of it..Jesus this subreddit has gone to shit. /r/rateme is that way | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 09:53 PM |
| 7 | Girl playing hard to get, advice???Fuuuuuck that She’s not a fucking prize Go get some pussy somewhere else with a girl just as cool and won’t make you play stupid games to do it Edit: this girl probably isn’t even cool to begin with now that I think of it | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 03:56 AM |
| -2 | I don’t know where to startDude most of the people on this subreddit don’t get laid on a regular basis, nor do they have any real idea what the fuck they’re doing. Not trying to brag at all, just for context. I fucking kill it with women, it’s an absolute joke to me. And what you said is pretty accurate for the most part. There are diamonds in the rough, but not enough to where I’m expecting to find one if I go out. | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 11:23 PM |
| 2 | I have severe approach anxiety, can't even approach 1 girl no matter what. What do I do?Start drinking or sack up | /r/seduction | 28/07/18 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Ghosting after SexI consistently will either ghost girls after fucking them, or make a point not to exchange numbers in the first place and avoid the situation altogether. I got what I wanted, you weren’t anything special, move the fuck along so I can find someone I actually want to be with. | /r/seduction | 28/07/18 09:46 AM |
| -2 | I live in a place where it seems like I can never find the right "atmosphere" for picking up girls. Is it over for me?Fuck off dude. Your woe is me attitude needs to just fuck right off | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Does it matter how I lose my virginity?Dude, it’s just sex either way. The first girl was forgettable, the 50th girl was forgettable, and I’m sure my 100th will be too. Just stick your dick in some strange, don’t build it up to be this big huge thing, because it’s just not | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 07:21 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Next Day Date but no Phone NumberGive an update | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Should you be direct or trying to build comfort when texting girls from dating apps?Are you me? But luckily man, I found the answer to our problems. Delete tinder, and just go meet people in person. | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 07:18 PM |
| 24 | Any advice on going out solo?I go out alone consistently. I’m pretty much a full blown functioning alcoholic, and my relatively small group of friends can’t keep up. It’s a lot easier than you think, and really not hard to get laid. I order my drink, and immediately go to the smoking area, and sit/stand near people I find attractive or interesting looking(typically not looking for the girl I’m gonna take home at this point). I’m a social fucker, so I strike up conversation with those I’m around, and introduce myself. Once I… | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | During night game - preemptively telling a girl you’re not having sex with her - thoughts?This Works a good amount of the time, but you’ve got to read the room | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 09:40 PM |
| 11 | What to do when other guys start trying to dance with the girl youre dancing with and shes open to it?Some girls are just massive fucking sluts/attention whores. You just need to accept that, and no amount of game is going to keep her loyal to you. You reacted how you should have, and at that point you just need to decide if you want to have sex with that slut. Personally, I probably would have just ditched her at this stage in my life because I have enough consistent sex to where fucking her would just make me feel bad about myself. But if I was on a dry spell, I would have done the same thing … | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Is having a high value what's preventing me from getting laid?I mean how’s it been working out for you so far? You’re clearly already attracting the girls, you just aren’t closing. | /r/seduction | 15/07/18 08:29 PM |
| 0 | Is having a high value what's preventing me from getting laid?Start acting like more of an entitled asshole who’s better than they are I mean don’t actually be that way, just act like it | /r/seduction | 15/07/18 07:49 PM |
| 11 | Does "the game" and "the mustery method" still work or are they outdated in the tinder age?They both feel cheap, shallow, and unrewarding to me. | /r/seduction | 15/07/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Eye contact of neutrality, approval or denial?Shut up | /r/seduction | 15/07/18 01:48 AM |
| 6 | Meditation Prior to Gaming?Fuuuuuck no. I play the most hyped up loud fucking music I know, and pump myself the fuck up. I’m not trying to be a serene motherfucker. I’m trying to be an interesting one. But if you’re going for the whole “mysterious” vibe, I guess? Probably not ideal for the club though | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 11:25 PM |
| 0 | Any tips for long distance sexual challengeTell her to fly to my city and have sex with me. | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | After a month and a half, I’ve finally seen what my neighbors next door look like. One of them is a bombshell. What’s a good excuse/intro to stop by and say hi?Dude I’m just saying pay attention outside and notice what time they leave. I for the most part know my neighbors patterns of habit without even paying attention. Walking up and asking for a cup of sugar and then inviting them is pretty Transparent in your intentions. Girls love “accidents” and organic connection. Make an articulated coincidence happen, and you get the girl. | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Bad bitches what to do do what i like or do whats smartYou know the answer. At best, I’d invite her to hangout sometime, grab a few drinks and make it a casual fuck, and see where things go, while at the same time maintaining a strong frame and dictating your desires over her manipulativeness. Read: drunkenly hookup but keep her at arms length | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 02:00 AM |
| 1 | After a month and a half, I’ve finally seen what my neighbors next door look like. One of them is a bombshell. What’s a good excuse/intro to stop by and say hi?You need to make it a coincidence. Be creepy. Learn their schedule without them noticing you. Figure out what time of day they are approachable, and just make sure you happen to be walking by at the same time. Then just strike up casual neighbor greeting talk, and let them know you’re hosting a bbq (or whatever social gathering) next week and invite them. | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 01:57 AM |
| 9 | After a month and a half, I’ve finally seen what my neighbors next door look like. One of them is a bombshell. What’s a good excuse/intro to stop by and say hi?Yeah dude, being friendly with your neighbors is terrible, it’s better to seclude yourself and only talk to girls out of state | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Asking for girl number (classmate)Should have done it earlier in the semester, but just shoot your shot. “Hey I didn’t want to get distracted during the semester, but since class is over, would you like to join me for some coffee?” | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Looking way too young for my ageYour appearance has nothing to do with it You lack game Get better at game | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Approaching a girlNext time you see her do this “Hello again!” Insert brief smalltalk “Hey so ive got some free time this insert day would you like to grab some coffee and catch up?” If yes, get coffee and proceed to spit game. It’s all on you at this point | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 05:23 AM |
| 1 | 23M - IOI's or Am I Staring?Real easy way to find out is after making eye contact, give a smile and see if they return it | /r/seduction | 08/07/18 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Approaching in a clubBe attractive, make eye contact, pull girl into you. I can offer you no other advice for the club. | /r/seduction | 07/07/18 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Help me I'm confused.It adds commitment to a lifelong bond of merging two lives into one. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t believe in the practice at all, but every once in a while I’ll meet a girl that has me questioning that. Point being, I’ve had sex. A lot of it, with many different people. There is no way in living fuck you could convince me to spend the rest of my life, just picking one of those partners at random, due to sexual compatibility. For instance, i absolutely hate having sex with girls over like 5’6. I d… | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Ratio is off recently - Number Closes to Ghost or Reject0 number closes 1 sex | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 02:22 AM |
| 37 | Getting laid in EuropeDon’t say you’re from the us. Say you’re from California, even if you’re not. Just trust me on this one. | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 01:41 AM |
| 0 | Where to actually find guys that are good at game?Exactly. I don’t want some weird fuck around me, trying to hit on girls with me. I spend enough time on seddit, I don’t need to bring those same guys around me when I’m at the club. Your best bet is to just find someone who’s interested in learning the same way you are, and just work on helping each other. If you’re not paying me, I’m not going to want to spend time teaching you, throwing my shit off. | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 01:36 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Guys I'm a newbie and I just had the best night ever...Ive used “you’ve got great tits” before and that worked | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 10:31 PM |
| 1 | seduction at workNo don't write anything ever. You just need to be able to converse with people coming in. I'm a server at a restaurant, sometimes I'll ask if I can leave my number for a girl after flirting for a bit. I crack jokes, I compliment them. I've had some success with it, but you just need to be personable enough to communicate on a personal level before trying to leave a number | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Quitting a potentially high paying corporate career in order to try and get into bartending or club promoting just to get laid more in my 20s.I don't think you realize how much bartenders make at the right place | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Quitting a potentially high paying corporate career in order to try and get into bartending or club promoting just to get laid more in my 20s.This is the worst idea in the world. You don't just get into bartending. It's a long process getting to become a bartender, and then you need to get into the right place, and it's not like you're just getting free pussy or crazy stories working the bar. Everyone else are the ones drinking and having fun, you're working. If you're good looking you'll have some girls try to get your number, but just forget this idea and never look back on it. | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Temporary LDR when my charm works best in personLots and lots of dick pics | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with almost obsessive nature?You're valuing yourself relative towards the acceptance of someone else. It's the whole thought process of: "how could she possibly not like me, I'm so cool but if she doesn't think so, is my life a lie?" By someone no longer wanting you, you're allowing it to take a hit on your ego/self esteem | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Fear of intimacy?I've walked in on my parents. I listen to my dad and his gf fuck pretty routinely. It's just sex dude, you've got it built up to be this big huge thing. Every single in this world has sex (except those wizards, bless their hearts) Get over it, and you wonder why you're a virgin. I'm just saying, if I'm in the thousands, and you're at 0, maybe you're doing something wrong | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Fear of intimacy?My dad has probably heard me fuck over 100 times. Get over it, he fucks, your mom fucks, everyone fucks. I felt weird at first, but now I don't even think about it. | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Dming girls on social mediaI've had really good success with girls that I've met before in a non-date setting. Maybe it's a girl from high school, or a girl I met at a party a year ago. I've had no meet ups with anyone that was just out of the blue. I'm far too impatient to build the necessary rapport from being a random guy on the internet, but I have had some conversations where there was some interest on her part, but not enough to justify spending more time, so I'd call those failures. Also a bunch of nonreplies from … | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Multiple missed opportunities and I’m beating myself up.If you don't know where to go from there, you're not a decent conversationalist. From there, you take a situational cue and remark on it, whatever it may be. Is she wearing a sombrero to the gym? Probably talk about that. Got nothing to comment on? Ask a question, personalize it, yet keep it general. "Can I get your opinion on insert whatever?" Are you receiving any indications of interest? Does she seem to be at least somewhat enjoying the company any not just waiting for you to leave? If yes, … | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys think opposites attract? (read text before commenting)No | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 12:20 AM |
| 6 | How to deal with almost obsessive nature?When you figure that out, let me know. I'm in exactly the same boat. The best I cope with it is just getting rid of anything that reminds me of her, fucking as many new girls as possible, and just accepting that these feelings are temporary, and over exaggerated. We as humans have this tendency is fill in the void of information with positive ideals. That girl you thought was just so cool and perfect for you? That's just because you don't know her nearly as well as you think you do, and just bec… | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Girl changing QUICKI would not have brought this girl back to your friends. She doesn't want to meet a few random people in a club/bar. If you've already danced with the girl, you no longer need to qualify yourself to her. You put her in a position of feeling awkward by being around people she doesn't know. Best case scenario, she talks to your friends and hits it off. Great, thats less time she's spent with you building rapport. Immediately following your little bumpngrind, grab her hand "hey follow me" and start… | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Met a girl only OKC, please give advice?Do you like sex? Yes? Weird. You should probably pursue it then. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 08:23 PM |
| 7 | Failed attempt at the libraryToo forward? Dude, not even a little bit forward at all, completely passive and cringeworthy. If you're just going to drop off a number, you should have just walked up to her, said she was cute, and given her your number on a piece of paper, it doesn't really fucking matter if you're in a library at that point. I wouldn't have texted you either. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Am I being fucked with!?This guy is right. Also sometimes people just don't want to text. There are days where I lie in bed, and won't respond to a single text that I get, regardless from who. I know girls that do the same thing, sometimes you just feel like shit and don't want to talk | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Is It Worth It?"Hey wanna grab a drink with me ______?" If she says yes, get a couple drinks and then have sex with her. If she says no, stop talking to her entirely. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 08:13 PM |
| 7 | Proof that being nice isn't sexyDude, you don't honestly think Tupac viewed women as equals do you? You absolutely should be nice, to everyone, especially women. The difference is not being a little bitch or a doormat. The whole asshole routine only works for a very brief amount of time on girls with shit self esteem, or drunk chicks. Source: recovering asshole | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Advice on re-attracting an exI mean, you are kind of being a little bitch. The whole loser part was a bit hasty, but move on dude | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 11:56 PM |
| 3 | How up-front should you be about non-monogamy?As women LOVE to point out frequently "you don't owe him anything" Now change him, to her, and proceed to do whatever you want | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Im so bad at dating, always getting friend zonedPussy on the pedestal. Stop doing that. It's your world, we all just live in it. | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 08:21 AM |
| 3 | How to give off a hookup vibe instead of an I want to date you vibe?Drinks at bar dude. Hooking up on a coffee date gets more difficult because a lot of the time people do make plans with their day after seeing you, and hooking up just won't work logistically, not to mention there aren't a lot of opportunities to escalate physically over coffee, while at a bar sitting side by side, it's very easy and going back to yours/hers is just one question away | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 08:19 AM |
| 21 | ☠️7 Deadly Sins Of Picking Up Women☠️If you don't possess these qualities, you're suffering from low self esteem. These basic fundamentals to pick up aren't anything new, and people with high social value and self esteem embody them naturally. Work on yourself. Appreciate your own personality, stop comparing yourself to the world, develop your own set of principles and morals you live your life by, and stand by them unwaveringly. Develop a unique zest for life, and live it unapologetically. Read "I hope they serve beer in hell" by … | /r/seduction | 29/04/18 09:47 PM |
| 9 | Need alittle advice.5'5 you might want to rethink your career choice and start getting better grades I'd start there | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Thank for the motivation! Advice needed.Try striking up pointless and casual conversation instead of immediately trying to touch them, offering your hand, or asking to dance. Literally just say anything that pops into your head, make convo, then physically escalate. You're going too hard too fast | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Guys who bulk up in an attempt to get laid are insecure beta malesSpecial kind of stupid aren't you? | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Guys who bulk up in an attempt to get laid are insecure beta malesUsername confirms what everyone else is thinking this guy is actually like irl | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 06:39 PM |
| 2 | How to seduce the man I babysit forOh god this is an easy one. Wear lowcut shirt. "Hey before I leave, could I get your opinion on something? I got my tits done recently, and I was just wondering what you thought of them?" With positive response, go ahead and pull shirt down further, and look up at him all sexual like. Literally just copy the script of a shitty porno. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 06:36 PM |
| 1 | how do you make tinder/bumble work for you as a virgin?I mean I didn't, but I sure wish I had. My first time was a fucking travesty that makes me cringe when I think back on it. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Sex before first kiss.Percentage, who knows. But it's happened a handful of times | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Girls only want to sleep with me but not date me, why is that?"I am the social chair of my fraternity" I stopped reading there. Understand that people are judgmental as fuck. Understand that women are even more judgmental when it comes to prospective relationships. But then again, I didn't read the rest of your post | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 03:13 AM |
| 1 | FR: Record number of approaches in a day.I've found question approaches work decently. "Hey could i get your advice as a complete stranger?" Or if she's chatting and you overhear, offer something of high value and low self interest anecdotally, and quickly change topics. "Hey do you wanna chat?" Is not a very strong opener | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | how do you make tinder/bumble work for you as a virgin?I'll probably get downvoted to hell for this, but just get a hooker dude. You've built it up in your head as this insanely complex thing that you have no idea how to navigate. I'd get a hooker in your shoes. She'll work with you if you let her know, it'll shortcut you to getting around that inevitably awkward first sexual encounter with a female, and you'll lose the notion of complexity. We all pay for it one way or another in the end. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Erection problem with a girl that I REALLY like?Your dick is broken and you'll never find love. Dude, like what do you want us to tell you? We don't know why your soldier won't stand at attention. But if you say "I might have performance anxiety and I'm really stressed out" what do you think the responses are going to be? | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 12:50 PM |
| 3 | In a class with a girl who ghosted me. What to do?Lol this thread. Stop thinking about it, don't ignore her, just go about living your life. Ok cool there is someone that ghosted you, like move on bro | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 10:12 AM |
| 5 | Advice for asking a girl to prom?This is the most beta shit I've ever heard | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Did therapy help you guys?Therapy doesn't work for me. But I'm also me, so there's that | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 08:20 PM |
| 0 | What do you bring to the table for a relationship or a hookup?Relationship: emotional support, own set of hobbies and interests that I allow SO to take part in, I'm a good cook, I am intelligent enough to the point where I can intellectually stimulate her preventing a mundane life, big Willy for the good sex. Hookup: big Willy for the good sex. I don't give a shit about her, why would I offer something besides my charm and cock? | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 08:18 PM |
| 3 | ice skating date coming upabsolutely nothing. I landed one of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen on a first date ice skating | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 08:14 PM |
| 2 | A good trick I use for getting over a heartbreak, and getting back out thereYou need to delete any connection between your throwaway twitter and you/her. If this hadve been 4-5 years ago, I would have fucked with you just for the sake of it, and people like that still exist. Also, new girl you fuck on the reg helps tremendously. Don't let it be anything but sex though, you're gonna look for that emotional support but you need to curb stomp that urge | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Question for those of you in a monogamous relationship...I'm 26. At 21 I met my SO through friend of friends. At 22 tinder At 24 I went on a date with a girl off tinder, she ended up bringing along a gay friend and female friend. I got in a relationship with said female friend next day. At 26 coworker, but that was a massive mistake | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I will be with 2 single female friends for Valentines, how should I proceedBingo | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 07:20 PM |
| 18 | Accidental Erections?Hand in pocket, push it down so it rests behind my leg and doesn't protrude. Feel like this stuff you learn in high school? | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 11:53 AM |
| 2 | What is the fastest possible way for me to get a girlfriend?Get a job, buy a car, get some goals for your life. Meet females, ask if they want to hang out, sex them, girlfriend them. It's not that complicated. If I can get a girlfriend while I'm literally on house arrest for 8 months at 23 years old after being arrested for a felony, living in my fathers house while having no job, I'm sure you'll manage. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 06:47 AM |
| 9 | Logistics when living with roommateGet your roommate used to the idea by vigorously and loudly masturbating in the living room while she's in an adjacent room. Or you could ya know, just be a normal person human being and live your life. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 09:58 PM |
| 4 | STOTD - What kind of car do you drive?I actually ride a kangaroo | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 07:17 PM |
| 2 | STOTD - What kind of car do you drive?whisper zoom zoom | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How to joke around through texting without sounding too serious?Emojis Just use them, you're asking for an answer you already know. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | I'm looking for full-length, uncut pick-up clipsDrunk chicks are easy and will respond to almost any external stimulation that is even remotely interesting. If you're good looking, it doesn't even need to be interesting, you just say shit and act like it's interesting and their drunk brains just go along with it. Just act like yourself and believe in the things that are coming out of your mouth. Be genuine, and enjoy your own company and others will too. | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Feeling lostI think you missed the point. Don't keep anything in mind. Just live. Stop thinking. Just do whatever the fuck you want, stop worrying about the reactions you're going to get, stop worrying about the consequences. Be a decent human being, don't intentionally hurt anyone, but just be you and live in the moment. | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Great first date but can’t tell if she’s interested"Let me know next time you've got an evening or afternoon free :) id love to get together again if you're still interested" There is no special formula. She's either into you or isn't, but it's important you aren't doing the lost puppy routine. You should have done this last week or prior to that even. There are so many women out there that pining after just one isn't worth the time and effort. | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 06:01 AM |
| 1 | How to Attain MILFFind the local dive bar that caters to the 35+ crowd. A lot of the time it will be in the more expensive part of town. I'm 25 and have had great success. As another user said, compliments are the way to go. Start with a compliment, and then start the playful banter. If she asks your age, ask her what how old she thinks you are. Typical response I've received is something along the lines of "oh my god you're so young" I typically respond with "yeah and so? I think you're gorgeous so I want to tal… | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 05:56 AM |
| 2 | I'm looking for full-length, uncut pick-up clipsPicking up drunk chicks is not anything to study or concern yourself with. You just walk up, and say the first thing that comes to mind. I've told a girl that her boobs looked great hanging out of her dress. She gave me a strange look, and said excuse me? I responded with "well you picked that dress for a reason, you know exactly what you're doing" I made out with her 15 minutes later with her hand on my junk. It quite literally doesn't matter in the bar scene. Also, that guy is a fucking tool a… | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 05:42 AM |
| 6 | Great first date but can’t tell if she’s interestedPlease don't do this. "Hope you're having a great time in (insert location here)! Let me know when you return, I'd love to (insert place, activity, etc here) if you're still interested :)" Obviously adjust to fit more appropriately. At that point, the ball is completely in her court and if she wants to continue things, she will. If not, now you don't have to keep asking week after week trying to figure out if she has any free time, and you can move on to someone else. Don't chase, ever. | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 05:37 AM |
| 3 | Feeling lostFake it until you make it. It's this big scary world of the unknown from you and you are completely out of your comfort zone. The only way to get out of that, is to force yourself to fail. You need to put yourself out there. I'll let you in on a secret too. We are all composed of the same decaying carbon based material on a rock in space infinitely large, in a fraction of time that the universe has and will exist. None of this is important, people don't matter, "pretty" girls are a complete soci… | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 05:32 AM |
| 2 | [FR] pub crawl experience and lifestyle questionsStop thinking. Start doing. It's important to make sure women are constantly changing location or activity. Talk for a while and notice the convo not escalating sexually? Take her dancing. Take her over to the bar for a shot. More changes = better time = touching = sex | /r/seduction | 06/02/18 07:37 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Second Night Out SoloYour failure was your initial line. You had the right idea, but your execution was fucking awful. You tried to neg and compliment her friend at the same time, which gives you an unintended perception. The two girls automatically assume you're hitting on one of them, usually the person you approach first which is why we typically do not approach the target when they are with friends. So far so good. At this point, you give her a compliment of being a really nice friend, which has overshot her act… | /r/seduction | 28/11/14 01:52 AM |
| 2 | How to always be in "mindset"?you're experiencing a lack of positive reinforcement for your behavior that you previously were getting the day before. it's like painting a picture, and having to wake up the next day and start all over. you've taken this "mindset" as a facade and have not made it a part of your personality. you were simply acting. how do you get it back? get up right now. walk outside, tell the first person you see that you really like the way their ankles compliment their eyes. then you keep fucking walking. … | /r/seduction | 28/11/14 01:43 AM |
| 4 | I'm not "fun". Help me.game is not about getting laid, dont listen to these two fools. start being fun for yourself man. do what you think is funny, what you think is interesting, and then find people to spend time with that also have the same sense of humor. whats the point of hanging out with people if you're just going to sit there and be boring? find people that enjoy your youness. stop being a little bitch afraid to make new friends because its mysterious waters | /r/seduction | 28/11/14 01:38 AM |
| 5 | What's a good way to find out if a girl has a boyfriend?asking if the girl has a boyfriend, makes your intentions known from the start and you lose plausible deniability. women don't want to be hit on, if they think you're hitting on them, you just blew yourself out. | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 07:27 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Pickup by Explaining PickupMe: You ever meet a guy, spend hours talking to him, you're having a good time, then at the end of the night, he goes for a kiss and it's just awkward? At this point, you could have kiss closed, which would have logistically set you up much better at potentially avoiding the friend or given you more time to defuse the situation, which in this scenario would have been much easier. Because of your prior value demonstration regarding social interaction, you could have become someone to act as a win… | /r/seduction | 05/06/13 05:03 AM |
| 0 | The semi hermit guide to seductionyou lack confidence and good looks and you have become extremely cynical. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 06:51 PM |
| -4 | Difference between being 'cute' and 'hot' and how does it alter your game?cute is if you're above average looks and it denotes a form of attraction. being called hot means you can have sex with her in the next 15 minutes | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 06:48 PM |
| 5 | The semi hermit guide to seductionI literally have no idea what anyone in this thread is talking about. Cold approach is perfectly acceptable given you approach in a way that isn't "hey im steven and i would like to fuck you" this is standard textbook game. approach with ulterior motive, build value, escalate. do this in public setting and talk about surroundings. is this everyone's first day or something? | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 06:10 AM |
| 4 | How can I stop being so chill all the time?As someone who used to suffer from the same dilemma, i've found that alot of it personally stemmed from me caring what other people thought. I suppose I wasn't as willing to throw myself out there and take a risk of acting a fool. Once I stopped caring completely, I was more willing to act extrovertedly which in turn makes me much more lively and interesting. Add on like others said, be extremely into whatever you're saying, could be fucking chicken farming in kentucky and you talk about all the… | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 05:58 AM |
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