Hey guys,

I've been lurking for a while, have put some stuff into action, have definitely gotten better/more successful.

One thing, though, that I'm realizing, is that I'm not fun. In general I'm pretty somber, I don't burst into smiling/fooling around too often, etc. When I'm one-on-one with a girl, I'm very interesting and extremely engaging, and this of course works to my advantage. But when I'm not on a date or in a one-on-one conversation, but rather just kicking it and hanging with some guys and some girls, etc, I'm not "fun". I think it might be partially an inner game thing, where I don't just "fool around" or make random jokes and laugh at shit because I'm afraid of putting myself out there because if I make a joke and it's not funny then i'm sort of wierd (this isn't what goes through my mind but it's a hypothesis I have).

So on the one hand there is the inner game stuff that I should work on, but what are some tips to be more fun? One thing I've read around seddit is things like high-fives and just smiling and making stupid jokes more... any other tips?