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he's got an axe to grind and prove he's "morally" superior
/r/ExRedPill17/03/17 07:25 PM
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I wish you the best of luck with your one dimensional view of life. It's pointless, cause the video you posted is garbage. Attraction is not a linear thing. Keep believing that TRP is real. Narcissism is a terrible trait to portray.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/17 11:05 PM
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Nothing about the redpill is accurate or true. The redpill is a strange mix of pseudoscience, insecurity, gas lighting, and a bad self-help mix. The only grain of truth that TRP preaches is most fat neckbeards need to hit the gym.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/17 10:36 PM
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in models, Mark Manson mentions to keep masturbation down to once a week. He never says to go cold turkey!
/r/seduction15/08/16 03:51 PM
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I'm a pretty frequent ice skater. I am typically there on a friday night (i have lessons right before friday night public skate). I use it as a practice session. I've seen a ton of first dates. My only word of advice. Have fun!! Don't be really self conscious about sucking. It takes a lot of practice to become good at ice skating. This guy is awesome for tutorials
/r/seduction27/01/16 05:11 AM
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you wake up feeling relieved!
/r/seduction26/08/15 04:26 PM
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It's certainly an experience. One experience you have no utter control over, and you are just taken for a ride! It certainly will force you to reckon with your demons. It's usually a positive experience.
/r/seduction26/08/15 03:13 PM
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Find a local rink. There's a ton of ice rinks in your area. Just google it. I've seen a couple of rinks that have learn to skate programs. (remember you have a hockey team local). The classes are always called learn to skate. It depends on the rink on how they teach the basic skills There's the isi or the USFSA You'll see both used very interchangeable. There's no real difference in the skating skill, just order of progression. For instance mohawk turn is taught in basic 8 under usfsa, vs gamma(…
/r/seduction19/06/15 08:57 PM
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I'm in my mid 30s. So there's quite a few of them that are far to young for me. You gotta be old enough to buy a drink in order for me to want to be interested in you. However there's mothers in my class that are pretty attractive. I flirt like crazy but I don't really ask any of them out. I really like the class so I'm careful with my game. I have to keep everything above board since I'm the only guy in the class. I'm having a blast with the class. Jumping on my skates is a huge Adrenalin rush.
/r/seduction19/06/15 08:19 PM
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Don't put expectations on things that are unpredictable. It's better to just let it be. What happens will happen. You'll always feel unsatsified in a coulda/woulda/shoulda situation.
/r/seduction19/06/15 08:11 PM
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I've been taken a learn to skate class for the past couple of months. There are 30+ girls in the class and me. Only guy. It's beyond easy to pick up a girl. There are lots of activities that you should explore. You'll be surprised how easy it is to find people to be social with a learning a skill type class. edit. grammar
/r/seduction19/06/15 08:02 PM
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just saying. if you want to throw money away...
/r/seduction14/05/15 06:33 PM
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300 dollars buys a lot of drinks for girls. You'll probably get better results by random chance, and cold approach than spending 300 dollars on a book and a facebook group.
/r/seduction14/05/15 01:01 PM
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It's happened a few times in my life I was 18. This girl that sat behind me in french club had a wicked crush on me. (I was dumb and naive at the time). She asked me to the prom. I turned her down. We still are friends to this day, but I never got another chance to go after her. One of the regrets of my life honestly. I was on a road trip in st. louis. I was in this bar with my friend and this british guy that was staying in the hostel we were crashing at. This pack of very drunk pharmacy girls …
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:52 PM
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There is a ton of parallels you can draw between sales and seduction You can only sell to the ones that have a need for your services. Seduction you can only seduce the willing. If she's not interested in you, you're effective dead in the water. No amount of convincing will change her mind. We tell people to move on. There's always another sale out there, just like girls. Outcome independence. Just like seducation, in sales you can't get all butt hurt when you get rejected. You can't sell if you…
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:45 PM
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I don't think I've ever seen a girl throw a shit test in the wild. I truly believe these are mythical.
/r/seduction11/01/15 04:18 PM
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Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all ~ Alfred Lord Tennyson I think that if you really want an emotional connection and a healthy relationship you have to be willing to give her some trust with your emotions. It's ok to fall for them if you think she's a good fit for you. It is never good to lose sight of what you need, want, and desire in life. Don't let an horrible women emotionally abuse you. I think over time you'll develop what you think is a good partner for yo…
/r/seduction11/01/15 04:17 PM
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I've done LSD, peyote, and mushrooms a handful of times. The experience each time was completely different. Location, people, what we do while tripping all varies the experience. However no matter what we did, who I took drugs with, or where I was. there was something that just felt corrected with the universe, after the trip was done. It feels as if all the mental blocks, and stupid shit that you've been mulling over forever is suddenly gone. I wouldn't recommend doing it all the time, but it's…
/r/seduction11/01/15 04:06 PM
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Having a positive cashflow can certainly be a component of a healthy relationship Having money doesn't equate to true love or a healthy relationship.
/r/seduction10/12/14 11:08 PM
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All these answers are shit Couple of things to realize. The anxiety isn't going away ever. I work for a system engineering company. I've done countless presentations for work. I know my platform inside and out. My heart still races every time I do that presentation. It's much easier to do it the 100,000th time than the 1st time.. but still have some anxiety about it. Having a game plan usually helps. I try to have a few sentences/points worked out in my head before I go talk to someone I want to…
/r/seduction10/12/14 01:56 PM
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In poker, you must play the hand you have, not the hand you want. I think the part of seduction that everyone fails to realize is there a certain amount of "chemistry" or "spark" needed to make the interaction go from attraction to full blow seduction. Let's face it attraction makes a girl interested in you.. chemistry keeps them there. Let me stress this YOU CAN NOT FORCE CHEMISTRY. It is either there or not. I think you are going after pretty girls that you have no real chemistry with. Girls a…
/r/seduction10/12/14 01:48 PM
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I don't see what the big deal is. So you're going to meet up with some girl that you used to play with when you were younger. So what she's a pretty girl. She's still the same girl you used to play with when you were 6. Nothing has changed. I think it's safe to assume she isn't interested in romance. So I don't see how this could go wrong. Take your friend out for dinner, swap stories, maybe have a few drinks.. seriously this is a no-brainer.
/r/seduction10/12/14 01:40 PM
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I took a bunch of dance classes and practiced a lot on my own. I took some swing and some salsa lessons. They helped learn how to move my body to the music, when/where to do steps, and how to improvise a bit when it comes to dancing.
/r/seduction08/12/14 01:01 PM
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My style is a slower more passionate approach. I've never gotten a negative review. But talk with her, ask her what she likes... ultimately good sex is getting what you both enjoy.
/r/seduction08/12/14 12:08 AM
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This is a question way more suited for /r/sex Here's my explanation of it, but YMMV I like to think like girls are like flowers, if you try to force the petals open you'll break it. Just like girls if you try to force her vagina open you're going to be disappointed. It requires a bit of energy time and coaxing to get a flower to bloom. Girls are like this. If she's worth her salt, she'll let you know when she's ready for your penis. Method: Lots of kissing on face/jaw/neck, give her some build u…
/r/seduction07/12/14 11:56 PM
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When a girl gives me a shit test. I look at them weird, call them out for being weird, and end the conversation then and there. I have a zero tolerance policy with shit testing. You wanna be weird.. go for it, but I have no interest in being with you either.
/r/seduction04/12/14 05:52 PM
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I think you missed the point of being direct. I think a big part of being direct is being able to say your feelings to her face. Another thing I think a big part of seduction that is missed with being direct is the vulnerability aspect of it. Being direct with a girl as you say you're feelings toward her is exposing yourself to her. You may experience rejection, but to some girls if you aren't willing to do that, they aren't interested in you. Any method of communication about interest/intent to…
/r/seduction03/12/14 06:56 PM
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We are men of action. Lies do not become us! Seriously, if you have to misrepresent yourself to seduce a woman I feel bad for you. I thought the whole point of "the game" was to put your best foot forward, so you could attract the woman you are interest in. Lying and being deceitful are not tools I like using in my arsenal of seduction methods.
/r/seduction03/12/14 04:56 PM
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I have no interest in posting my FR. I don't see any value in having other people criticize my social interactions. I do enjoy helping others out in their journeys. I got probably 10 years on the average seddit users. So it's nice to be able to reflect on my past and help others with their path. I rather not create an environment of haves and havenots.
/r/seduction02/12/14 03:47 PM
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I don't think that is the answer. There is no true universal method of seduction. What works for one girl will produce disaster with another. I think newbie add a lot of value to this sub since we were all newbies at one time. Some of us like just helping out people since we are further along the journey than others and like to share our adventures. I don't see the value in making a private section.
/r/seduction02/12/14 03:06 PM
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In my words of infinite wisdom I have a couple of quotes for you: Suck it up buttercup! Those who do not risk, can not win Find comfort in an uncomfortable place The anxiety isn't going to go away instantly. It's going to take a lot of failure, and a ton of practice before this feels nature. You'll still feel the anxiety just know how to manage it better. So to sum it all up, what you feel now is the absolute worst anxiety you are going to feel, and it will get better with practice. I'm sure you…
/r/seduction29/11/14 01:42 PM
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"never let the truth get in the way of a good story" Confidence is formed thought struggle. We never talk about the journey to get the accomplishment much. College degree= effort/struggle, fixing a car effort/struggle, hiking a mountain effort/struggle. Confidence in oneself (at least for me) may not be mastery of a subject, but it certainly is the ability to perform a task without failure. I can confidently say I can change brakes in a car. Done it a thousand times. Am I a master mechanic? nope…
/r/seduction29/11/14 01:03 PM
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Confidence comes from successful accomplishments. School, sports, job, etc. Pick something that you can feel proud about and stick with it. There is no way to feel confident without having something to back it up with. Through the trials of adversity comes confidence in oneself. I have a ton of money in the bank, a good career, tons of great friends, and a house. Sometimes my confidence in my abilities wavers, but it certainly helps to look back at where I came. It certainly gives me a boost in …
/r/seduction28/11/14 09:40 PM
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I like using magic tricks/coin tricks/palm reading as good ice breaker. I would suggest either trying to master a slight of hand trick or palm reading. I practice palm reading on anyone that will let me. It can be a great opener on a pretty girl. Also always brings a smile to the person face you are doing the trick for. I do it with my guy friends and girl friends too. having a small gimmick can work wonders
/r/seduction28/11/14 04:43 AM
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My job tends to ruin my social life. It's tough find dates when you don't know what or where you'll be next week. You never leave work since I either work from home or in the field. The positives. I have tons of friends/connection scattered around the country. I've seen more than half the US on my employees dime. I also have a story to tell when i get back into town. I have become excellent at making new friends. It's really easy when you have nothing to lose, and have an excellent story to tell…
/r/seduction26/11/14 04:52 PM
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No problem! I started out in the IT world working for a school system running helpdesk/desktop support. I learned enough at the school system/experience to jump to be a sysadmin for a couple of different companies. Mostly small/medium sized. One of those sysadmin jobs I held had my current employer as a vendor. (I didn't work for them yet). I became friends with a lot of the sales staff. I got laid off and was looking for a job. My sales contact came out of the blue and said I have a temp positi…
/r/seduction25/11/14 05:00 PM
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I am going with the opposite. I'm going to say my career has helped me out with seduction. I do pre-sales engineering for enterprise clients. confidence- After doing the same pitch a million times it feels as if I can do anything. It helps with your confidence when you have a couple of hundred of these meetings under belt. Talking to ladies is just another sales pitch. It helps having a solid track record of success and failures. Rejection- I've poured my heart into deals only to have them be re…
/r/seduction25/11/14 03:52 PM
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Two things Not all bars are created equally. If you find bars that are just loud dark and not good for you, then try to find bars that are different. Maybe a sports bars or a brew pub. Set an objective and stick to it. If you are going out to pick up women, then don't get drunk. If you want to go out to hangout, get drunk with your friends, then don't try to pick up woman. (sometimes no rules apply, and just gotta go for it). Meeting someone outside of drinking alcohol may be end up with a bette…
/r/seduction24/11/14 08:05 PM
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I'm guessing you are the grass is greener on the other side. It seems like you are in a rut of mediocrity and it frustrates you. Don't be disheartened by a world of mediocre, cause in the end we are responsibility for making the world a colorful place. If you are bored with your routine and it's not getting you the results you are looking for. It seems like a change of pace may be needed. If you are bored, stop being boring. Do exciting things with your life, and exciting things will happen.
/r/seduction24/11/14 02:27 PM
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i use facebook to stalk them a bit. Can give you some real insight into interest/humor/personality. Good tool to keep connected and set up a no pressure activities. But terrible at expressing interest/serious conversation/etc. If you ever wonder if I should do this via facebook... don't
/r/seduction20/11/14 04:24 PM
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As a fellow ectomorph, putting muscle mass can be challenging. But there's no reason why you can't have definition. Ladies don't always want big muscle, just nice looking muscles!
/r/seduction20/11/14 02:53 PM
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I use the FORD method; Family Occupation Recreation Dreams. Typically start with Recreation or Dreams. Conversations are like flowers, you gotta put some energy into it before it blooms. http://lifehacker.com/5937348/use-the-ford-technique-to-make-small-talk-easier
/r/seduction20/11/14 12:44 PM
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Depends on if the guy you are chasing is gay, bi, or straight. I think that's your first step: Determine his orientation. If the guy is gay. You have no hope, don't try to change the way he feels. It's time to move on If the guy is straight. Your gay friend has no hope. So there's nothing to worry about on that front. If the guy is bi. Then it gets interesting. I don't have much experience with this. (never had to seduce a woman while she's being seduced by another woman). I have no advice. You …
/r/seduction20/11/14 12:42 PM
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