I need your diagnosis on the problem.

I was first exposed to the game and seduction in my first year of college. During that time that stuff was pure genius, I read and absorbed all the techniques and played it out in my social circles as well as on campus. Life was so good I would wake up with a hangover and still be like damn life is good. I can't wish for anything better. I was surrounded constantly by women and I did whatever I wanted and got whoever I wanted.

All this came to a point where I was dating multiple people at the same time all until they started finding out and messing up. Then I had this slight attachment with one girl which i didn't really care about. Until she got a legitimate boyfriend. That messed me up real bad and I told myself I would never ever play around again ever and never use game stuff. I felt pretty bad for being the person I was breaking so many hearts.

Fast forward a few months later I was fine. Met another girl who was not that bad party type but a rather good one. Things are getting so stale. I seem to have lost it now, so boring so stale. So I try dating around now but its all different, I don't want to party, I don't tell my dates i'm dating around, I go to classy dinner and bar places (cause I work and have decent pay now). Its just not clicking though with the chicks. Now i'm just losing confidence as everything is not working well, never really had text game but relied on meeting. But now the meeting part seems so stable. Boring.

What on earth is going on. What should I do. What material or experiences do i need. Can someone dissect the problem and lead me back to the path of light?