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Scam
/r/MensRights15/08/25 12:15 AM
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They are. My bitch ass accountant still hasn't filed my taxes and I had my meeting with her 6 months ago!
/r/MensRights13/08/25 12:09 PM
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It's not you. I've noticed too and it's everywhere. Not a complaint. It's just an observation. I almost never interact with men in businesses anymore.
/r/MensRights13/08/25 12:08 PM
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It's perfectly acceptable to body shame men and discriminate against men in American society.
/r/MensRights10/08/25 08:55 PM
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Therapy teaches a man how to be vulnerable and then women use it against you.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 01:17 AM
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There are therapists that do YouTube videos that you can book zoom sessions with. If you can't find a male therapist in your area you can find one line. Duh.
/r/MensRights03/08/25 01:35 AM
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Find a YouTuber that you like and book them for a session.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 12:24 AM
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Hahaha. See! You can't trust a woman's intentions. It was such an obvious play for subs/likes. We got your game figured out now! Hahahahaha
/r/MensRights31/07/25 11:22 AM
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Um, search. Scroll. Read. 🙄
/r/MensRights31/07/25 11:20 AM
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What you don't get is too little too late. We know we can't trust a woman's intentions. So when you try and help forgive me if I don't trust you.
/r/MensRights31/07/25 11:13 AM
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Sounds like a trap.
/r/MensRights31/07/25 02:40 AM
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"Politely debating back and forth," and she "realized she was a clown." Said no woman EVER! Obviously written by a man pretending to be a woman or a woman pretending she had an epiphany. My guess is the latter.
/r/MensRights31/07/25 02:29 AM
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Fake
/r/MensRights31/07/25 02:11 AM
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No
/r/MensRights07/07/25 10:08 AM
3

Get a dog
/r/MensRights19/06/25 11:19 AM
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Never going back. Why pursue a relationship with someone who is hardwired to leave for something better?
/r/MensRights12/06/25 09:03 AM
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Oh ya. Nearly every TV commercial depicts the man as incompetent or an idiot and the female gets the job done. Need to fix a leaky toilet? Step away man, a woman can use an app to hire another woman to come out and fix it. 🙄 Such nonsense.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 11:48 AM
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Not for me. I'm choosing to stay toxic .
/r/MensRights07/06/25 03:47 AM
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Haha. Guess so. Thanks homie! 🙏
/r/MensRights25/05/25 05:28 PM
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Red rock! I like the desert!
/r/MensRights25/05/25 05:27 PM
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Also today, I'm hiking joshua tree with my dog, and it's 75 degrees. You're right. Fml.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 04:33 PM
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Maybe miserable for you but staring at grey walls and a 3x5 window is miserable for me. I always have beautiful weather and happy people around me because they are on their vacation and their vacation is my life. Not miserable at all. I do whatever I feel like. If I wanna be at the beach, I go to the beach. If I want to go to the mountains. I go to the mountains. If I want to be social I go to a busy campground. If I want peace and quiet. I go where there aren't people. If thats miserable. Then …
/r/MensRights25/05/25 04:31 PM
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It's true. But once you realize it it is kind of freeing. Nobody cares about me so I don't care about anyone but me either. I live in a 20ft travel trailer with my dog, never any drama, do whatever I want. Only have tonworry about paying for myself. It's not too bad.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 12:42 PM
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Ya, person above. Excuse my rudimentary internet skills.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 01:25 PM
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Hm. For how long? I would argue in the beginning, but later in life, women platuea and men continue to grow because we live with accountability.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 09:36 AM
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Dang
/r/MensRights09/05/25 09:28 AM
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Men are the new oppressed
/r/MensRights09/05/25 09:27 AM
37

Height. Every woman will describe her bf with his name then followed by his height. If I describe who I'm dating by breast size suddenly I'm worse than Hitler.
/r/MensRights26/04/25 01:18 PM
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When a woman does housework, it's a career. When a man does it, it's just life.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 12:02 PM
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Hard pass
/r/MensRights03/04/25 12:13 PM
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I wash my clothes, clean my house, and cook but I don't "work" in the home. I'm just unemployed.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 02:33 PM
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I try not to make eye contact
/r/MensRights02/04/25 02:32 PM
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Yes. Equal rights. They don't need men and they can do whatever a man can so enjoy boot camp bitches!
/r/MensRights02/04/25 01:40 AM
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Women want to be independently dependent. No.
/r/MensRights03/03/25 01:18 PM
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Rv life
/r/MensRights24/02/25 05:09 PM
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None. 38% of the luxury home buyers are single women right now. They can pay for their own dinner.
/r/MensRights25/01/25 11:08 PM
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We re brainwashed.
/r/MensRights22/11/24 05:42 PM
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Huh? Tx is short for thanks.
/r/MensRights27/07/24 12:23 PM
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I couldn't imagine life in a relationship again. Seems so expensive, controlled, and too much work now. I'm good.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 06:12 PM
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Hm. Byeeeee!
/r/MensRights22/07/24 08:49 AM
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Ah! Someone gets my humor! 😂😂 tx!
/r/MensRights21/07/24 07:11 PM
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I rather feed the ducks
/r/MensRights21/07/24 05:30 PM
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I just say, "you're funny" and walk away. It makes them so much more mad. 😂😂😂
/r/MensRights20/07/24 12:21 PM
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You have to look at them like toddlers. They fight the exact same way. When you see it you won't be able to unsee it and then the whole experience gets quite funny.
/r/MensRights20/07/24 12:18 PM
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Totally. I see tent campers, car campers, van lifers, school bus dwellers, travel trailers, cargo trailers, everything. The facilities have everything you need. Water, electricity, showers, all price ranges and varieties of amenities.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 12:46 AM
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Or check out vancity vanlife on YouTube. He's from Canada and does a lot of camping up there.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 12:44 AM
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Im not familiar with Canada but tons of Canadians come to Southern California in the winter in their rv's so probably have a lot up there too. Just Google rv camping, or rv resort. They are everywhere.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 12:42 AM
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Seriously. Campgrounds are full of men exactly like me. Middle aged, divorced, with a dog. No offense if you are not middle age. It's quiet, and nobody bothers you. It's kinda awesome.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 12:39 AM
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Buy an rv and live on the outskirts of town with the rest of us.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 12:29 AM
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Bitch, you're on your own.
/r/MensRights17/07/24 07:36 PM
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Stop paying for stuff! Take back control with the power of the purse! Make them come beg for it.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 12:47 PM
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You're good bro! Don't worry. That's not how it works. Save those texts. Don't contact her again. It will blow over. Sounds like she's pulled this scheme before. If turns up pregnant ask for paternity. ✊️
/r/MensRights09/07/24 02:53 AM
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You have the right to remain silent. Use it. Don't trust the cops. Don't say anything without an attorney present. I wouldn't worry. She's sounds like a nutter. You said she asked to be on top, so it sounds like consent to me. Just lay low for a while. Good luck.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 02:40 AM
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Same
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/20 01:56 PM
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Same. My ex is a Yoga instructor and very fit. I'm still attracted to her. We have a 12 year age difference. I'm 46 and its so depressing getting likes and messages from women on dating sites in their 50's! I dont have much interest in a relationship but if my options are old women from dating sites I think I will be dating pornhub for the remainder of my days.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/20 01:49 PM
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I'm sorry man. That really sucks. Just know it will end and you will be happier one day. Keep your chin up.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/20 11:52 PM
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You mean its so much tighter "back" there?
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/20 07:58 PM
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Marriage Story on Netflix was so accurate for me it was like I wrote it myself.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/20 02:52 PM
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Keep it. Gold is a hedge in this shit economy.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/20 05:11 PM
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Only marriage. Yes
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/20 01:15 AM
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Most hold up in court. It may cost 30k in attorney fees to get to that point though. Many just state what the law already is: you will leave the marriage with what you came into it with. In that regard they aren't necessary. My fuck head attorney left out any waiver of alimony so I had to fight that with my slut face ex. Everything else held up though. Custody is probably the biggest issue if applicable. Just don't get legally married. There is no point. Ceremony, rings, pictures yes just don't …
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/20 10:34 PM
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Totally agree. No point in committing to another human being at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/20 05:04 PM
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It will end and it will get better! Nothing is worth your life. Your child needs you and the hurt will go away. it will take time but you need to go through it.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/20 12:31 AM
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Police report NOW! You need to document her physical violence against you. It will help for custody fights alimony child support etc. NO ONE ever believes the man. All she has to say is she didn't do it and your fucked.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/20 10:24 PM
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If you have already separated the moving the money after the separation is not considered community property. And fuck her.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/20 10:37 PM
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My slutface ex wife never paid a cent for anything. At least yours paid something. I had a pre nup that was worthless. She walked with a nice severance but it's never enough. Like my brother said tho, either way they are going to think your an asshole, you may as well be an asshole with money. Fuck em. There are no shortage of chics that will let you pay for them.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/20 08:19 PM
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Do it. The only way anyone will find out is if you say something or she pays for a forensic accountant to search for undisclosed accounts. In ny experience women won't spend their own money on anything!
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/20 07:48 PM
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Facts
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/20 01:16 PM
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Offer a buy out. That's what I did. Saves on attorney fees.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/20 03:58 PM
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Thanks man. Happy for you.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/20 09:00 PM
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The first reply is spot on. His 5 step program couldn't be a better road map. I may add in one thing however. If you dont have a dog, get one. I got a puppy since the separation with my wife and it's been a life saver. Good luck my man. It will get better. You will feel better and although you need to work on your self to get better dont ignore the pain. Hurting is part of the process of recovery. Accept the fact sadness and mourning is part of who you are right now but it won't always be.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/20 09:38 PM
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Dont blow your money or your brains out. Take a few hundo and go to a strip club. Yes it's a rip off but it's good for the ego. Get some lap dances. Tip. Have a drink and a conversation. Its nice to have the attention of a female that's not your wife even if it isn't real. Also you will get over this. If you dont have kids she has minimal claim to your assets. Lastly you may have given good years to her but she gave her good years to you as well. There are tons of women out there and eventually …
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/20 09:47 PM
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Well said.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/20 09:43 PM
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Alimony is based on the date of separation not divorce date.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/20 05:24 PM
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Unfortunately you are not alone. Wife's cheat so much on deployed husbands. Dont file. Make her do it. If she wants to end the marriage fine. Make her work for it and pay for it. Get some space, take care of yourself and maybe even go to therapy. It helped me a lot.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/20 09:16 PM
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Btw she thinks the grass is greener. It's not. Shes the problem not you.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/20 09:12 PM
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No. That's terrible advice. Dont go to the lawyers. They will be the only winners in your separation. Try and amicably work out a separation agreement and go to mediation. It's way better. Yes she had an extra marital relationship whether it was sexual or not. Either way get some distance from her and try your best to focus on yourself. Let the chips fall where they may.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/20 09:11 PM
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Yes. He just talked about what the law is and what each individuals options are. Mediation is $500/hour which I thought was pretty reasonable because an attorney will charge 300 to 500 an hour for advice anyhow. So we both got the benefit of his consult while working for resolve at the same time.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/20 02:10 PM
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I think it's the opposite. Attorneys create paranoia and pour gasoline on the fire. They are terrible people and make an already unbearable process excruciating. I just finished mediation. I found the process to be helpful and constructive. Its nice not worrying about having to figure out the overwhelming cryptic process of uncoupling. The paperwork, fees and process is just a nightmare. I found it a benefit to have someone handling all that so i can concentrate on healing. It only cost us $2800…
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/20 01:37 PM
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Dang. Well I give you props for handling your business. I spend time in therapy, going to yoga, and I got a puppy. Not totally convinced i want to be divorced though. Thanks for sharing. All the responses have been really helpful.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/20 01:03 AM
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Ya, I'm encouraged by that. Tx.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 10:07 PM
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Also good to know and an awesome pep talk. Good luck to us both then.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 10:06 PM
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Hm. Good advice. I like the dancing idea. Tx!
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 09:34 PM
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Thanks for the laugh. I needed that. Good advice as well. Tx.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 09:14 PM
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Ya. Thanks for the insight. I just feel like I should feel better about and excruciating experience coming to an end but I dont.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 07:01 PM
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Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 05:57 PM
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You should write an advice column. Tx!
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 05:45 PM
1

Probably to some but I do get a reasonable amount of likes and messages. Always from the women I would never consider. Is that how online dating works for most people?
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 05:39 PM
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Ya. I think that's an accurate assessment but encouraging words. Tx!
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 05:22 PM
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Totally relate to this. The hardest part for me is missing who she was. I dont care for who she is now but I would marry her all over again if she was still the person I met 11 years ago. I knew it when I showed up unannounced to the yoga class she was teaching and she looked me straight in the eye devoid of any connection. It was as though we were strangers. I knew at that moment my marriage was over.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/20 06:18 PM
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It won't last. It's an infatuation. You are doing the right things for yourself. Keep focus on yourself and your healing. Getting over an ex isn't linear. You will have set backs and some days will be better than others. She doesnt know what shes doing and when the new ness of her crush wears off she will realize that this guy has issues she won't find acceptable. She is trying to fill a void in herself with a new/next relationship. She is the problem. Not you or him. Keep busy, distract yoursel…
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/20 04:35 PM
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Also find a mediator that will do a kitchen table divorce
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/19 08:23 PM
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Courts consider separation date as the end of the marriage not the date you actually are legally divorced. This extra year will not count.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/19 08:21 PM
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I wish I had an answer for that.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/19 12:56 AM
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Lesson learned!
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/19 01:40 PM
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Thanks for that.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/19 01:38 PM
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Truth
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/19 01:13 AM
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Thank you. I needed to hear that.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/19 01:10 AM
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Haha. That's funny. Too bad the jokes on me
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/19 01:07 AM
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You will get through it and some of the best advice I have received is one day you will look back and think this is the best thing that could have happened to you. You will not be alone forever. There are plenty of women out there that want the same things you do and just imagine how good it will feel when you meet someone that thinks your pretty neat. It will happen but for now take care of yourself. Exercise, eat well, get a massage, splurge on a purchase. Do something for yourself because you…
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/19 08:55 PM
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Totally agree and am in a similar situation. My wife didnt really work (she taught a few yoga classes per week) no kids and I paid for everything. I have a pre nup but every lawyer will say it could be invalid. It will be held up.in court but it will cost 5 figures in attorney fees to get there. There is no point in marriage. Its expensive and the whole process is designed to create discord wich results in more money for attorneys. My wife had 11 years of free living and now she wants half my ho…
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/19 08:50 PM
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What does ego have to do with anything?
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/19 08:39 PM
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Haha
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/19 01:02 AM
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I got married with a pre nup. It didnt help all that much. Everyone will tell your wife the pre nup might not be valid and to challenge it. It will likely hold up in court but it will cost thousands in lawyers fees to get there. Best thing is just dont get legally married.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/19 10:23 PM
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Men need to stand together and abolish the institution of marriage the same way women did for equal rights or me too. Its bullshit and we get screwed. Not in the good way either.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/19 10:12 PM
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I agree with the other replies. I have had the same relationship 3 times in a row. Meet woman, commit, then she becomes a dependent. My brain says I'm attracted to independent women but I haven't ever been in a relationship with one. If you have a similar issue it isn't them it's you. I keep getting involved with the wrong woman. It isn't them, it's me .
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/19 10:06 PM
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Makes no difference but give yourself some peace of mind. The woman always wants it her way but isn't willing to do anything about it. My soon to be ex is the same way. I'm filing so i can get this over with and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/19 10:56 PM
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Sounds like she should see a therapist by herself. She probably has issues she needs to work through on her own. My wife and I went to couples therapy for 1 year. Then I went by myself for a few months. What I learned is that I needed to make changes in myself and unfortunately those changes showed me that my marriage wasnt right for me and now I am getting a divorce. Therapy isn't just trying to fix a broken marriage it is to help you see the answer that is best for you. Sounds like you already…
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/19 10:23 PM
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Truth
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/19 03:05 AM
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Haha. Ya.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/19 02:14 AM
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Ya. Worth looking into. Just because she didnt quitclaim doesnt give blanket half ownership. She may only he entitled to a portion of the appreciated value. Talk to an divorce lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/19 06:25 PM
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Yes. She has a problem and its probably not that she cant figure out who she wants to be with. She likes the attention or the drama or some issue other than she cant decide who to be with. It's a no win situation and the only thing you can control is what you have control over. Please put your needs first. Determine what is best for you and move forward with that decision. Dont wait. You will end up waiting forever and in the meantime live in misery. If your path forward is without her it will b…
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/19 08:32 PM
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Just go to a massage parlor and get a handy.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/19 11:17 PM
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I'm sorry man. That sucks. Sounds like you are a good Dad. We can only control what's in our control so I would focus on that. Take care of yourself. Prioritize your health and happiness and soon things will get better. Sometimes we forget when caring so much for others we forget to care for ourselves and you need that right now.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/19 03:49 PM
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I'm in a similar situation but you will never be able to convince him of anything. You need to prioritize your own needs first and if he wants to, he will adjust, and if not, you have to take care of yourself first.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/19 01:54 AM
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Yes, get a therapist. Both of you. Often times when we are triggered by a dynamic it's because there is something in ourselves that's unreconciled. A therapist may help you both see why these fights are important not what it's about.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/19 02:53 AM
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For sure. Focus on yourself. Also maybe try a different therapist her skill set may have run its course with you. I'm going to be bold here and suggest something outside of the box. Medicinal marijuana. Stay with me. Sativa is very cerebral. It helps me to gain a different perspective when I smoke. I can see things from a different perspective and get understanding. Stop by a dispensary. Take one hit, walk the beach and process. I'm sure she did a lot wrong but it might help for you to see where…
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/19 03:40 PM
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Also, you will find someone else. There are tons of women out there looking for a relationship. Get some routines. Start something new and get some positive recognition. Sounds dumb but maybe start going to yoga. Its healing to be around positive female energy even if you dont meet anyone. Get a puppy and go to the dog park. Women love dogs and it's a good ice breaker. Go someplace that makes you feel small like the beach or top of a mountain. When my problems seem huge I go to a place that make…
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/19 03:32 PM
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Also, you will find someone else. There are tons of women out there looking for a relationship. Get some routines. Start something new and get some positive recognition. Sounds dumb but maybe start going to yoga. Its healing to be around positive female energy even if you dont meet anyone. Get a puppy and go to the dog park. Women love dogs and it's a good ice breaker. Go someplace that makes you feel small like the beach or top of a mountain. When my problems seem huge I go to a place that make…
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/19 03:31 PM
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They say time heals all wounds but I dont think so. Some wounds dont go away until you understand why they have become wounds in the first place. A therapist helped me get over some things I have held on to for years. You are being triggered at certain times for some reason. A therapist will help you recognize those times and for you to understand why and soon they will go away and you will be happier. Might be worth looking into if you haven't already.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/19 03:25 PM
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Almost 4 years
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/19 02:58 AM
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Ok. Maybe I see it now.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/19 12:34 AM
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Hm. Interesting perspective. I'm wondering why you think I deserve to lose this partnership however.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/19 12:33 AM
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No , undecided when we started dating. Indifferent when we got married. I would now if she wanted to, but it looks like it's going the other way.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/19 08:23 PM
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This is the kind of response I was looking for. Asshole responses. I was undecided on kids and I didnt think marriage would be so laborious. I thought it would be easier working as a team but instead I got a dependent.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/19 08:08 PM
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Ya. Pretty much all financial aspects pre date the marriage. Mine and hers
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/19 05:51 PM
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Ya. You're probably right. I appreciate the candor however.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/19 05:29 PM
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At 45 no kids, aging parents and no other family really to speak of I can appreciate how having kids could enrich life. It may not be in the cards for me at this point however.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/19 05:09 PM
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I dont know. I feel like this marriage is a job. I feel like the possibilities without are more inspiring than the possibilities with her. I feel like I have more possibilities without her.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/19 05:04 PM
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I was smart enough to get a pre nup and pull out thank fuck.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/19 04:51 PM
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Ya. I agree. There's no incentive to change things but I have asked for help in either living expenses or household choses but she can't be bothered because she is on a spiritual path to enlightenment. I think all that stuff is a whole lot of who shot John if you ask me. I just wish she cheated on me or started to doing heroin so this decision should be easier to make.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/19 10:02 PM
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That's some good advice. I appreciate you taking the time to send that. I will seek another therapist. If I am blind to an issue in me I am open to addressing it and hopefully making a positive change. I'm not sure she feels the same way but thanks again for that. It was helpful.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/19 12:26 AM
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Shes 33 now but point taken.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/19 10:32 PM
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