I’m 3 years out from my divorce, I’ve moved on to a healthy relationship with a fantastic woman, but that’s not the purpose of this post. I’m curious if you can look back and see the red flags. The subtle warning signs that the hammer was about to fall. I didn’t notice it much at the time, or I dismissed it as “being busy”. The loss of compliments, the decreased affection, the phone never leaving her side, constant snap chatting, dismissive to opinions, never satisfied with anything you did. It doesn’t happen all at once, it’s little by little.

Looking back I can see it like it’s encase in flashing neon, but then I just didn’t think divorce was ever an option. So I guess I didn’t pay attention.