So, my wife and I have been separated since June and have decided to start the paperwork for divorce. Together 11 years married for 4. Here's the thing it was a sexless marriage, her family is a nightmare, I had to support her a pay for everything, I did all the cooking and housework, I hated her friends and job, she gave shitty advice and wasnt around all that much. Why the F do I miss her and why is this so hard for me to get over?