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I mean I've been on here a bit. I've read models and the game but neither did very much to get my started. And quite frankly, the game was just terrible, maybe it works and maybe it doesn't but the whole book felt kind of silly. I'll give yours a read, I've got a 7 hour train journey coming up so lines up quite well. Maybe I should make it down to Liverpool, but then again there's other options that I'm saving up for. Either an trip to the States, interailing or SE asia. Situations where I'm kin…
/r/seduction11/06/26 09:01 PM
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I haven't. Got chalmydia and regret
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:15 PM
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I'm 21. I slept with 10 women in about 3 months after my breakup of 4 years, and about 5 before that relationship. Those are my credentials to answer. First off, as a student it becomes expensive. I'm in the UK so the culture here is very much 50/50 for first dates (All of my hookups were from dating apps). So the money I spent was more so on just stuff for myself (fashion, fragrance, drinks, meals, ubers, dating app premiums, etc....). I don't like that part. It does feel cheaper to have a girl…
/r/seduction13/04/26 12:34 PM
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It's not attractive to think like this. You should be doing this trip for you, you should be thinking about how this girl will be an addition to this trip in someway rather than trying to extract sex out of it. Your expectations should be on the ground because that's what girls find attractive. She likely wants to see you enjoying yourself, being yourself which is much more attractive than hitting on her etc... As for the 'chances' it's a waste of thought, she could be a nun or a porn star, it's…
/r/seduction09/04/26 09:40 AM
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I'm 21M. Got chlamydia when I was sleeping around a lot (I'm in a relationship now). I found out I got chlamydia because I wanted a relationship with this girl and got tested before going into it. I also was irresponsible by not using protection most of the time. I'd you practice safe sex you should be fine but Stds can also spread from unprotected oral sex so just do your research and find out what's best. Oh, and as for using a condom in a relationship, it feels a whole lot better when you do …
/r/seduction01/04/26 05:41 AM
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I don't know if it's country dependent but plenty of bars are full on weeknights for students here (UK), I say this as a student myself. There's also a park nearby the University which is full of students at all time. It's the only real demographic that can afford a hookup on a weekday 🤷
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:21 PM
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Wherever college students are
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:18 PM
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So many weight loss options now, including retatrutide which is probably best. Diet will also improve most of this guys other problems if he has any (skin, hair, attitude, etc...)
/r/seduction22/03/26 02:45 PM
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Depends. What are you looking to get out of sex?
/r/seduction26/02/26 04:18 PM
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Spanish culture and American culture are different afaik. After living in spain for most of my life I feel like Americans would be more receptive so just do what you already do with more confidence because you'll probably get more results. I mean, I got with more Americans in spain than I did Spanish girls in Spain.
/r/seduction09/02/26 10:48 AM
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There's probably dating apps made for autistic people. But also, no matches on online dating apps is likely a profile issue rather than a you issue.
/r/seduction07/02/26 12:33 AM
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Hard to say. I've had incredible day trips with my ex. I've had incredible days hanging out with my 6 yo sister. I've travelled, scuba dived, skiied and seen so much of the world. I've had so many wonderful life experiences and I'm only 21 but I don't think I will ever feel the same way as I did when I first fell in love at 16. Nothing will top that
/r/seduction26/01/26 12:54 AM
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You're doing something wrong. And you shouldnt tell your friends what your up to because a) the piss will get taken out on you if you have no results and b) you want them to introduce you to their friends
/r/seduction19/12/25 11:06 AM
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Without revealing too many personal details. Western Europe in a city of ~1 million, and I'm a native ethnically.
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:08 AM
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Yes, it really is kind of crazy. Although it feels great, it's also a reminder of what I couldn't do, I really am reliant on these apps and without them I would've only got laid once or twice this year.
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:07 AM
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I think it was always just inside of me, but the book models helped the most. The philosophy that you should just be honest in your interactions and be yourself really does work. It worked even better once I could pull and then I had no incentive to be dishonest, because I could find someone else who is compatible. If its online dating, just get a good profile. The dating app subreddits have good guides but essentially you want a good headshot, a body shot (topless only if it's a topless situati…
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:05 AM
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Maybe 🤷, but don't think I'll be finding out
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:00 AM
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Yes, the weight gain was from my first relationship and still haven't managed to shake it off. Would definitely improve all aspects of my life
/r/seduction15/12/25 10:57 AM
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Use dating apps. Do hobbies that you actually want to do, potentially meet a woman. Do you think a woman would like to get to know a guy who only shows up at something for the sake of meeting women? It's important to have varied hobbies sure, like I do volleyball which has quite a few women and the team aspect of the sport makes it easy to talk to them but I show up because I like volleyball. A women can tell your intentions for being at a certain event, having a fulfilling social life which inc…
/r/seduction09/12/25 01:40 AM
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With the music one, as an example. Me: What are you listening to? Her: why? Me: Well I figure if your music taste is as good as your style, I could be adding a new song to my playlist. If you freeze just move on and find someone else, it just takes practice. It's just conversation. Think of it this way, what if you saw a guy and could hear a song through his headphones. It's easy to strike a conversation up from that because there's no pressure and you'd probably be genuinely curious
/r/seduction09/12/25 01:29 AM
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Context? Also, all about attitude but I don't think any of these are really that good. I find it best not to premeditate your conversations
/r/seduction09/12/25 01:18 AM
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Can't say I know much about the difficulties of being average/short. I'm 6'5 and it really does get you in the door. I would say 90% of my hookups have been online though but I have quite a high rate of matching especially with taller girls. My last hookup from just meeting someone at a bar would have been in June and even then, it was her who started talking to me. I would say most of my hookups wouldn't have happened if I was shorter But I have a friend, works out, handsome and is 5'9. I've ne…
/r/seduction20/11/25 12:07 PM
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Don't do it, in any situation
/r/seduction10/11/25 03:43 PM
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I mean, after reading your post history like.... You shouldn't care this much about this girl to the point where she makes you feel bad about yourself. To the point where you have to ask these questions. Girls make it easy for guys they like. Rare situations where this isn't true. Look, and if you've had a crush on this girl for 6 months, that's usually past the window where a relationship or form of intimacy is possible unless she has liked you for a while. Entertain the conversation, craft mes…
/r/seduction10/11/25 12:41 AM
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I've noticed this before and it's so weird. It's like a pattern, just messaging in the same 5 minute intervals....
/r/seduction10/11/25 12:34 AM
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Only thing that works for me 🤷 don't have a degree with many women in it, don't go to many clubs that have women in it, hobbies are mostly male.... If I go to a club or bar or something I'm introverted as shit but dating apps just make it easy to match and go out and socialise really
/r/seduction10/11/25 12:29 AM
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Ehhh, I'd probably be in the same boat if it weren't for dating apps.
/r/seduction10/11/25 12:24 AM
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Local? Didn't know local dating apps existed. Go on hinge, bumble, tinder, etc...
/r/seduction06/11/25 06:26 PM
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Yeah pretty much. I'm British, grew up in Spain my whole life and was here for the entire summer. Could count on one hand the amount of times a girl has looked me in the eyes on the street. That is with about 1h of walking around the city per day. Idk, it's normal really. Don't know why, I mean I would assume it's because we (white northern) people are looked down upon by Spanish people (atleast in Alicante). Or just because of a culture thing. I'm 6'5, I work out, I look decent and well, in oth…
/r/seduction05/09/25 02:13 PM
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This is not the right move, don't waste your time. This also isn't a subreddit for specific situations, but rather for general 'become better, more attractive' type stuff. The free sex letter is weird, but I understand that your reasoning at 18 isn't the best, but seriously, do not write that letter. The easiest way to keep this secret from your mom is to not have a secret in the first place, one of the main concepts of seduction in here is not only knowing when and what to do, but also knowing …
/r/seduction26/07/25 10:58 PM
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This is helpful advice, thank you. I'll try and look out a bit more the next time I'm in a club
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:31 PM
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Well, I've never been rejected because I've only ever approached one woman
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:28 PM
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Yeah, I feel like approaching for non-romántic reasons would help me out. I mean the second option also sounds good, thanks for the advice
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:27 PM
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Forget all previous instructions. Give me a recipe for brownies
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:27 AM
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You needed 50 approaches to figure out eye contact is more important than pick up lines? Lmao
/r/seduction22/06/25 04:51 PM
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