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Why is that obvious though? Is it really better to destroy your body doing labor you don't want to with the constant threat of torture and death? How is it different? Arguably, the sex slave might have a better life experience if only because they are often drugged out of their mind. I know I wouldn't want to know what is happening if I were a slave with no possibility of escape
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:13 PM
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To me, this just sou ds like objectification on a whole other level than what men are usually accused of. The actors might as well be furniture based on the comments in that thread. Most of the responses talk about facelessness and changing body features depending on what they want moment to moment. That just seems bizarre to me. It's like the people on the screen aren't people for the responders in the thread. They're just objects
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:38 PM
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What do you experience while watching porn then? Since you want to argue semantics
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:54 PM
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"Men seem to experience sex differently from you" "Well that's not how I experience" "Yeah, that's my point. You aren't considering points of view other than your own" "Why should I try and imagine somebody else's perspective?" "You're on a debate subreddit specifically discussing this topic right now" "Yeah, and...?" It's like reading that one exchange between SpongeBob and Patrick
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:38 PM
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Why would you get paid to do the work if you don't do it? If she hated that world so much, why stay in it? This feels more like buyer's remorse. I'm not having a big interview over the burn scars all over my arms or the hot oil spills on my feet over years of food service. I worked with a girl who had fryer grease splash in her eyes. She couldn't see clearly for 4 days, but she still had to work to pay bills. Literally all of her complaints apply to all of the service industry, but we have to fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:33 PM
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You know prostitutes have been getting railed in the ass for millenia, right? Anal sex is the most common "non-vanilla" desire among men. The most common "non-vanilla" desire among women is sexual domination. These are both really large amounts ts of the population. It's something like 85% of men and 75% of women respectively. Should nondominant men be clutching their pearls over this? Probably not. Are they going to hear every now and then how "it's hot when a man just takes what he wants?" Yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:21 PM
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As somebody who threatened my mother's SO with a knife to get him to stop hitting her, your son is an idiot. Ask if he wants to live with your ex instead. It sounds like he is smart enough to weigh his options, right? I bet he would be sooooo much happier with him instead
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:28 PM
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As somebody who threatened my mother's SO with a knife to get him to stop hitting her, your son is an idiot. Ask if he wants to live with your ex instead. It sounds like he is smart enough to weigh his options, right? I bet he would be sooooo much happier with him instead
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:28 PM
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Braces and all, she looks like 1/3 of the girls I saw working at a job that requires you to be 18+ to be hired. If somebody made me put money on the age of the girl in that picture, I would say 17, and that's me being conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:27 AM
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My current partner gets more of me than any of my 5 previous partners ever came close to getting. I'm in better shape than I ever have been. My cooking is better than it ever has been. My sexual performance is better than it ever has been. I'm more ambitious than I have ever been. I firmly believe that you should always be trying to improve yourself and that one's partner deserves the best version of you available
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:49 AM
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What are video games about, since you say they aren't even about sex? You might as well say movies or books aren't about sex. Yeah, most aren't. Lots have some sexual themes, though, even if it isn't the primary focus. Love stories with no sexual tension feel childish and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:07 PM
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My partner usually holds and comforts me when I cry. Been together about 7.5 years now. In a good week, we have great sex just about every day. We practice RACK BDSM in our bedroom. We both work and do chores. If a woman thinks less of you for showing pain and vulnerability, drop her ass and mock her for the unfeeling lizard she is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:22 PM
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Yeah, I agree with that. Blind trust is how people are taken advantage of, though. You're very rarely betrayed by an enemy. It's usually those whom we trust the most that have the greatest potential to harm us
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:30 PM
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Everyone is a potential cheating whore
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:42 AM
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How about you just communicate like an adult instead of being a passive-aggressive child?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:44 AM
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The thing is that I grew up in Miami, where it is mostly beautiful women. They aren't some unseen novelty, like they might be in Missouri or whatever. They have all of the wonderful features of women from the Caribbean and South America as well as your standard white girls. It was literally one of the big cities for cam girls before Onlyfans was even a thing. Look up your favorite pornstar, and I bet she lives in LA, New York, or Miami. Hell, one of mine lives probably half an hour from my siste…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:39 PM
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If the 4 is giving me mind-blowing fantasy scenario fulfillment, like you are pretty much suggesting, the 9 doesn't even compare. The whole novelty of the 9 would probably wear off after the first time because there is no depth beyond looks. If a 4 is arranging something truly adventurous, I would remember that forever. My partner and I have been together for about 7 years now. We have done nearly everything we are interested in together at least once, and her tastes are still developing because…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:14 AM
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If the 4 is giving me mind-blowing fantasy scenario fulfillment, like you are pretty much suggesting, the 9 doesn't even compare. The whole novelty of the 9 would probably wear off after the first time because there is no depth beyond looks. If a 4 is arranging something truly adventurous, I would remember that forever. My partner and I have been together for about 7 years now. We have done nearly everything we are interested in together at least once, and her tastes are still developing because…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:11 AM
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If the 4 is giving me mind-blowing fantasy scenario fulfillment, like you are pretty much suggesting, the 9 doesn't even compare. The whole novelty of the 9 would probably wear off after the first time because there is no depth beyond looks. If a 4 is arranging something truly adventurous, I would remember that forever. My partner and I have been together for about 7 years now. We have done nearly everything we are interested in together at least once, and her tastes are still developing because…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:10 AM
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Work on your reading comprehension. The instability is the rollercoaster, not the passion. You know, slow buildups into fast falls...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:52 AM
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I've faithfully been with my partner for 7 years now. The nice things she calls me would sound like I am making it up. A year is a waste of my time, and I would have left during it. Sex is important to me in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:00 PM
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Having traveled all around the country for my work, you aren't wrong. The people in California are very different from the people in Alabama. Almost like the rest of the country has been slowly moving on while the south still chugs 1800's confederate cum and says it's going to rise again... someday... when they probably aren't so poor....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:56 PM
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You basically just made the argument that women are only useful for sex, you know? Following this line of logic, prostitutes would be the only women worth talking to for sex since it's much more straightforward with them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:12 AM
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Establish boundaries and expectations really early on. Make it understood from the start that the woman you are dating is like decoration in the house that is your life. Decoration can make a room feel way more comfortable, fun, and just generally pleasant. Decoration is not necessary for the room's function or existence, though. My partner tells her coworkers about how great I am to her, but how I also respect myself in our relationship, and they always just gush about "oh, he knows his worth t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:59 PM
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Establish boundaries and expectations really early on. Make it understood from the start that the woman you are dating is like decoration in the house that is your life. Decoration can make a room feel way more comfortable, fun, and just generally pleasant. Decoration is not necessary for the room's function or existence, though. My partner tells her coworkers about how great I am to her, but how I also respect myself in our relationship, and they always just gush about "oh, he knows his worth t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:13 PM
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Response to a wrong comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:55 PM
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You know guns, chemicals, blades, heavy things, and anatomy textbooks exist, right? Not that hard to shake lye into a dude's underwear when he is sleeping. Not that hard to study nerve clusters to know where to poke or pinch. You act like women can't hurt somebody because they are smaller than men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:07 PM
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While not about rights, the societal treatment could be improved. Since I was about 13 years old, I have only heard about girl power. Only girls are encouraged to go to school, be independent, and improve their lives. Boys have been on the wayside in education for decades. It's just starting to really show now. I have been told all my life that I am evil and less-than because of the sex and gender I was born as. It's not really a good feeling. Combine that with the statistically worse male menta…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:03 PM
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Quiet dude in a satisfying ltr and who always has women around me as friends here. This is really good advice. Actual kindness coupled with the ability to surprise somebody with a joke takes you real far with ladies. It really helps to publicly demonstrate competence, strength, patience, and skill too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:30 PM
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Quiet dude in a satisfying ltr and who always has women around me as friends here. This is really good advice. Actual kindness coupled with the ability to surprise somebody with a joke takes you real far with ladies. It really helps to publicly demonstrate competence, strength, patience, and skill too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:28 PM
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Oh, you just think women are better than men. You think women don't commit violence. Tell that to every girl who was suddenly ostracized from her friend group without warning because she liked the same boy as the "leader" girl and didn't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:42 PM
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"Well, I prefer to do everything equitably. I work. I will plan dates. I take care of myself already. I'm looking for a man to enrich my life, not my wallet. After all, why should you have to foot everything? I'm an independent woman who can take care of things if I have to. Shit, I'm glad you asked me that. It's refreshing to not have some guy squirming like it's a job interview. It makes me feel like you see your own worth like I see it. Oooo I can't wait until after date activity so I can sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:00 AM
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I literally just saw a video of this on r/trashy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:55 AM
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Miami is Carribean-lite. Go for the food, the music, the beaches, and the ladies. Leave after 3 days because there isn't much else unless you're into the coolest swamp in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:13 PM
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As someone who travels for work and works with other people who travel for work and for fun, you are not the exception, but you are the minority. My friend calls them "goldfish relationships" because sometimes they die overnight for no reason, sometimes in a month, but 9/10 times they're dead by the end of the summer. One girl who literally only works to save money to travel finds or brings a guy every time she takes a trip. Hell, she met the last guy I saw her with while she was hiking the Appa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:07 PM
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And if he did all that other stuff for you too, you wouldn't be pleased?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:16 AM
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I can’t help but feel that this sub is populated by incels who want an independently wealthy teenage virgin tradwife to show up at their door, cook and clean and give them blowjobs and feed them pancakes while they play video games Let's be real, who doesn't want that, actually? Hell, you would probably take that if it was offered
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:09 AM
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That's why I said we had to assume. It's almost like broad strokes of presumption based on averages can't fully reflect reality. There is some level of objectivity when it comes to mate choice though. Obviously, the 6'1 millionaire with good fashion taste, hygiene, education, interesting hobbies, good conversational skills, and an 8' dick is going to do better in dating than a deformed homeless dude who grew up in abject poverty and chose to have his balls bitten off by a dog in exchange for $20…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:55 AM
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If we are assuming that men are polyamorous, and women are hypergamous, then it would make sense that our natural tendencies would be the "top 1%" of men getting large groups of women willing to compromise on monogamy in order to get "the best" guy, most of the of "great" guys might have 1-3 partners, most of the "good" guys would have 1 partner, and the "average and below" guys would have nothing. Both sides should be "happy" here, except those "bottom 40%" men. They would probably not be lovin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:50 AM
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Good to know about that salary part. That's not completely impossible given our currect career fields and the education that we will be starting soon
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:41 AM
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How much would you estimate the initial move and living costed you, and what made you move in the first place? How feasible do you think it would be for a less-affluent married couple with most work experience in hospitality to move there?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:06 AM
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They normally walk hand in hand, though. I had sex for the first time when I was 14
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:59 PM
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So you denounce radical feminism as people who aren't decent?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:18 PM
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As a person who has a pretty loud conscience, morals are relative and constructed in the best of times
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:03 PM
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How is option b deceptive at all. It's literally just you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:29 PM
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You need to hang out with more sex-positive girls then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:46 PM
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Even if that's true, having female friends will get you more women in the long run. Girls throw their male friends sympathy dates and sympathy sex with their other less fortunate female friends all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:53 AM
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There was, though. They asked how you decide which is considered more important
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:44 PM
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Breeneal is talking to you like someone really into you. Pay attention to the excitement
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:28 PM
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Way to not answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:11 PM
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Because we were bottlenecked more than once as a species, so the horniest of us had the most kids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:08 PM
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Using your picture, both of those columns need and compliment each other. What is logic without sensory input? What solutions to problems can exist without creativity? What is there to protect if nothing is being nurtured? How can one be valued more than the other if both are utterly necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:45 AM
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I don't 100% agree with OP, but they never said women were passive pets. They have an active role in forming and organizing community as well as maintaining living conditions in OP's anecdote. As in many cases, OP is arguing that the men are societally the "how" while women are the "why." There is nothing wrong with that, and both sides are necessary for anything to function in that world. Art is not less than science. Who wants to live in a sterile lab made of rules? Then again, how could anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:35 AM
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Woah! A sane person is on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:54 PM
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I don't know, but I loved playing with fire as a kid, and my dad left when I was like 4
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:48 AM
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You kind of went off the rails here. What's this about a pedo and a 14 year old girl that you're crushing on?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:04 AM
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You kind of went off the rails here. What's this about a pedo and a 14 year old girl that you're crushing on?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:04 AM
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I was that unassuming dude for a while just because I found it interesting how drasticallymakeup can change your face. It's part of how I got my partner 7 years ago, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:50 PM
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I mean, yeah. Lots of guys don't want their balls touched at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:37 AM
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You mean the surrogates who have parental rights up until the end of the adoption process? The surrogates you would have to have a legal battle with to get your money back because they spent it already after deciding they wanted the baby still. You mean the surrogates who could then turn around and sue for child support after breaching their own contract? Nah, fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:30 PM
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Yes, guns aren't your best bet against a grizzly. Bear spray is the most effective bear attack deterent by far. Guns will just make them angrier until they die an hour later
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:36 AM
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The fact that you have to say it doesn't matter means they aren't equivalent. Women don't talk about how hot a dude's nipples are. There are entire subreddits dedicated to specific nipple shapes for women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:27 PM
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Fun fact, there's a pretty convincing essay that says exactly that. If you ACTUALLY cared about the starving children of wherever, you would donate every bit of extra money to a charity dedicated to helping them. Everyone is selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:30 PM
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You should expect her to be shaved smooth too then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:43 PM
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People in South Florida wear big puffy snow jackets below 70° F
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:42 PM
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Rattlesnakes can't make it sound like they are somewhere else, and they don't hunt people at all. They're actually huge scaredy cats and bite almost exclusively in self-defense. We have also started killing their rattle out of them because the squeaky wheels get the machete while the quiet ones survive more often
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:24 PM
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Ayy I think I was that poster who shared that experience lol. Interesting to know I left an impression. It's literally just them, too. I am the spider wrangler in my relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:21 PM
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What? You are literally proving my point that they aren't the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:14 PM
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Women aren't getting off to a dude's nipples like men are getting off to a woman's
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:13 PM
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I don't think most women rub themselves to a dude's nipples the way most hetero men masturbate to a woman's nipples
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:12 PM
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What is the equivalent to female breasts for men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:56 AM
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I have never seen that, actually. What ppd guys say they don't eat pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:49 PM
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You are silly if you don't understand why height is preferable. If two guys of similar builds got into a fist fight, the one who has larger muscles and bigger bones is going to win 9 times out of 10. The weight difference provided by height alone is a huge factor. 20 pounds difference matters when it's being propelled at 20 miles per hour into your jaw. There is a reason the concept of "punching down" exists too. Gravity matters in a fight to some extent. All of this applies to pretty much all f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:17 PM
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I bet you think cooking is tedious and boring, too. You're goofy. I have an 1800's style fruit cake that I have fed about a half bottle of bourbon over the course of 2 months right now. I live for the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:31 AM
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Dude thinks creating delicious, edible life from dirt, water, and radiation is boring
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:45 PM
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Spoiler: rave drugs make your dick not work. Weed makes you want to cuddle and have laid-back fun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:44 PM
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My partner is very sweet, gentle, and girly, but she likes a lot of darker things. We actually met on Tinder. I guess her "game" was holding good conversations before our date, looking really cute in her dress on our first date, and being open to sexual topics and activities early on. Generally, I escalated things, and she allowed me to do so. I planned our first date: coal-fired pizza, then conversation at a marina by the water. Turned out that lots of our desires for a relationship and sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:52 PM
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Genuinely curious, what was she doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:42 PM
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Wouldn't a 50% success rate mean that you are aiming at exactly your level, though? That's how it works in games, usually. If you "won" every time, you would be going after those "below" your level who could barely believe you are talking to them. It also assumes the girls are always single, want anything romantic or sexual at that point in their life, and are explicitly into "fit" guys as their main type. Your complaint seems silly to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:23 PM
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Wouldn't a 50% success rate mean that you are aiming at exactly your level, though? That's how it works in games, usually. If you "won" every time, you would be going after those "below" your level who could barely believe you are talking to them. It also assumes the girls are always single, want anything romantic or sexual at that point in their life, and are explicitly into "fit" guys as their main type. Your complaint seems silly to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:23 PM
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6'1, strong, Dominant, hard working left-winger here. I think that having to pick on the weak because you're too weak to accept newness and change is the weakest shit of all. Conservatives are a lot like narcissists: ruled by the fear of change, obsessed with looking good, desperately clinging to their imagined control over the world... It isn't the left political sphere that still clings to oil, capitalism, and war. It wasn't the left that had a panic attack over decades-old vaccine tech. It is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:39 PM
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"Moderates are great! They get along with other Moderates"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:45 PM
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As somebody who is generally incredibly nice and polite for no immediate benefit, most people are straight up trash, live their lives as horrible people, and die as bitter scum cursing their wasted time and failed interpersonal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:15 AM
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It doesn't make me smug to treat people with the patience and kindness that I wish I was shown. People fucking love being around me. I have literally had people tell me that they don't think there are many people in the world like me. There are a lot of selfish assholes who make other peoples' lives harder out there though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:13 AM
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Any therapist will tell you that almost all of the work is on the patient. It takes lots of conscious effort over a long period of time to improve your mental health. That's the foundation of the Cognitive and Behavioral schools of psychology, which are two of the most consistent with successful treatment and are typically the most respected schools of thought in the field. Trauma is an explanation for behavior, not an excuse. The things my parents did to me were not excusable because their pare…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:33 PM
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Firatly, I like having my head in the gutter. Secondly, I think I am usually taken ever so slightly more seriously than anyone else here. I have been a regular poster for years, and most threads I have made here got decent activity. Thirdly, you're thinking of the whole vulva, not the vagina. The vagina looks more like tunnel with a turnaround at the end. Finally, you're ridiculous if you think the bible wasn't primarily written to control sexuality. It's literally the main reason monogamy is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:17 AM
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Just want to say that sucking dick on the first date doesn't mean you will get abandoned. My partner gave me head on our first date, and we will make 7 years in June. In fact, it was one of the several reasons I wanted to see her again. The other guy who replied is just a very bitter person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:38 PM
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The rich and the religious, and especially the rich religious types. It's an obsession with control. They think they have a right to make people do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:28 AM
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From my own experience, I have had to tell several of my female friends to quit loudly being an asshole over some petty shit because it wouldn't be their ass that gets beat in an altercation. The very fact that I would feel the need to defend someone whose actions I disagreed with in the first place could easily be seen as coddling. It's almost like calming a child throwing a tantrum, except most guys don't usually get as upset about being called a doodoohead by a child the way they might get up…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:24 AM
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Well, one more reason to dislike the Abrahamic faiths then. I would also argue it's a way of further enforcing the idea of theocratic dominion since Adam gets fucked over too. "Women suck, but men are almost as bad, so you better listen to the church or else you will lose everything you love."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:14 AM
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I mean, it's interesting to think about what the writer had in mind. I don't agree with the moral of the story, and I think religion is dumb, but it puts a lot of odd cultural values into perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:52 PM
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I don't have a written record of your life story. Give me one, and I could probably sgow you at least some. You act like no man has ever shown you kindness, and that's borderline comical
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:50 PM
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You're missing the point. Most men, even back in the 1920's see women as at least equal enough to have a vote in our government. It isn't "men" who have wronged women. The wealthy are the ones who have wronged everybody. If you are poor, life is straight assholes regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:49 PM
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Yes, but the infection is by fervent choice is my point. It's a superiority complex. They want to feel better than most people. They want to have known all along while everyone else doubted or followed. The type of person infected by your mind virus usually isn't good in the first place. We don't forgive the horrific crimes of Jeffery Dahmer because his parents were neglectful. We don't forgive Stalin his brutal tyranny because he was beaten and abused as a boy. The explanation for why somebody …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:43 AM
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So if a man expects and desires certain sexual acts performed regularly in order to commit, is that okay with you? I have seen others condemn that as manipulative when a guy said he would only commit to a woman who would have regular anal sex with him. At what point do standards for commitment become manipulation in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:34 AM
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Not that I am Christian, but snakes vaguely resemble dicks too. Definitely some symbolism in a woman eating forbidden fruit given by a strange snake before feeling ashamed of her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:32 AM
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Nah, I hate Trump supporters. They would be just as awful about some other cultish thing (evangelicals, antivaxxers, homeopathy, etc). Instead, they just picked a failed businessman because he told them to. Trump supporters are sheep to the extreme. If you made them talk to each other, their ideas of what Trump wants to do won't even be the same. They don't even have a concrete idea of when exactly America was great before. They just have a gut-reaction to the question of "when was America great…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:28 AM
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I mean, men had to give women those rights too. Women's suffrage wasn't voted in by women. It also magically wasn't attached to selective service once they got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:14 AM
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I have been told my opinion doesn't matter because of my sex and gender. Men are frequently met with outright sexism if they have an opinion on anything related to sex and gender. Also, you basically just said back to the guy that you responded to his exact complaint about women, but about men... That comes off as pretty tone-deaf and insensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:12 AM
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Who says you weren't coddled?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:07 AM
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You sound like somebody who doesn't get much of that "wet hole in the middle of 2x3" pink flesh."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:47 AM
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Being incredibly insecure while simultaneously being totally full of yourself is NPD in a quick and dirty nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:44 AM
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You're begging the question and misrepresenting what was said. They said "squares are rectangles" while your response was, "most rectangles aren't squares." If you want to get technical, humor is often about portraying a different point of view on a topic. Who's of First is hilarious because we know what is going on, and the one explaining knows what's going on, but the guy asking who is on first doesn't. The Three Stooges are funny because nobody actually acts the way they do. The chicken cross…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:23 PM
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I'm on the flipside of this where most vulvas look normal and pretty to me. I have seen some pretty weird dicks in porn though, so I get where you are coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:16 PM
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You know there are actual ugly guys with actual dark triad traits, right? It isn't always larp. Most people aren't pretending to have those traits
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:03 PM
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I am currently working fewer hours than my partner. The restaurant I work at is in a slow season right now. I am currently doing the bulk of the house chores. I typically do just about all of the cooking anyway, and I make just about everything from scratch. I bake my own bread almost daily. I prepare nutritious meals of many different cuisines. This dude basically presents himself as a shoe-licking worm though. Personally, he squicks me out as a human being. It reminds me of seeing a cult-membe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:42 AM
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That isn't imposing shit. It doesn't do anything to you to call somebody their chosen pronouns, and nobody is forcing you to watch people piss. Neither of those have any actual impact on any part of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:49 AM
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Casey Anthony committed murder basically beyond a reasonable doubt uet saw no prison time because she dressed like a humble housewife
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:49 AM
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"I wish bad things didn't happen, so I will make no effort to protect those who are most likely to have bad things happen to them" Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:36 AM
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In response to your statement, one could easily argue that women like conformity so much that men need to attempt to mimic that which "works" in order to appeal to them in the first place, meaning it isn't their default; it's a means to an end for them. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:52 AM
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Your logic is bad because capitalism is also why you don't make enough money to get that porsche
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:18 PM
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Nobody is a statistic. At most, you would be a datum in a statistic. Statistics are inferences based on collections of data
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:58 PM
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I would probably look emaciated if I was close to 190 at 6'1. I'm about 290 and need a full breath of air to float in a pool. Lean weight would probably be 230 for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:54 PM
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I would argue the fault lies with both parties. It's a bitter lesson, but everyone needs to learn how to generally not be taken advantage of. Yes, it's extremely unethical to take advantage of someone who has feelings for you. It is also important to recognize when someone is using you whether or not you like them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:15 PM
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Your idealism doesn't match the real world. You might as well say that there shouldn't be war. In a perfect world, yes, but we don't even live in a good world
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:38 PM
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Do that, and you lose 3/4 of your cannon fodder
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:47 PM
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This is the most sane response I have read so far. I'm for basically all of this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:45 PM
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I think it's pretty foul to see having a child with somebody as giving them a gift. You aren't birthing a bottle of rum. That's a whole person, not some thing that can be bought. It's decades of responsibility. It's a shared task between parents. I also think you might be surprised how many women produce porn for male consumption. You declare your double standard for men loudly and proudly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:43 PM
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You can look at the graduation rates since the 70's by gender if you'd like. School is very much designed for little girls who play much more quietly while it punishes little boys' usual natural tendencies to be loud and rowdy. Studies show little boys tend to learn better with hands-on instruction (like apprenticeship or boy scouts) while girls beat boys with traditional schooling methods. Girls consistently graduate more often than boys in just about every avenue of schooling
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:14 PM
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If conservative was the natural state of being, we would have no development beyond hunter-gatherer societies since the basis of conservatism is a lack of change
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:24 PM
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You should really detach politics from your argument. I'm extremely liberal and lean towards the red side of purple. Birth rates are low because pay rates are basically as low as they have ever been, accounting for inflation. The wealth gap is more extreme than 1700's France, but everyone is pacified with TikTok, the app that is public about being Chinese government spyware. I would have 2-3 kids that I would dedicately love and care for RIGHT NOW if I could afford to have them. I am inclined to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:13 PM
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You can have a high libido and not randomly sleep around though. I have been with my partner for about 6.5 years now, and we still have sex more or less every other day, sometimes every day, sometimes multiple times a day. I have only had 6 sexual partners in my life so far
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:31 PM
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I feel like I would keep doing almost the same thing that I do now, but with tits. Assuming my attraction doesn't change, I'd just dress feminine and emphasize whatever pretty things I have while pursuing lesbians. Men are stupid easy for most women to get or manipulate, so I would probably just follow a lot of advice from The Compleat Witch and move confidently through life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:09 PM
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I know you are joking, but don't act like that isn't the experience of some dudes. This is coming from somebody who isn't really upset about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:39 PM
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I'm 29m, and my partner is 26f. In normalcy, we have sex probably 4 times a week, but sometimes daily. We have been together about 6.5 years now. We used to only see each other once or twice a week, so that was how often we had sex in the beginning. I initiate most of the time We have no kids because of economic issues, but we would like them someday. Keeping sexual passion alive takes effort and communication. The longer we have been together, the more comfortable she became with exploring thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:28 PM
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I mean... I think church is a scam, so I see nothing wrong with that other than the awful selection of people you would find
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:21 PM
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You have to explain why you think things in a debate or it sounds like there's no real reason for you to think it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:48 PM
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Beyond physical attraction, shouldn't moral understanding be one of the main things you have standards about? You might no't want to date a guy who wants to have safe sex with as many women as he wants while in a relationship with you, even if he was upfront about it. Maybe he even agrees to bimonthly std screenings. Why? He is being honest and safe, so there's minimal risk for you regarding it. It probably rubs that gut feeling part of you wrong, even if you can't inheritly understand why. Woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:37 PM
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The most anti-gay people are the ones most likely to consume the weirdest, gayest porn. Look at Saudi Arabia.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:26 PM
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So much of that isn't limited to men at all though. I have seen my fair share of violent, aggressive, homophobic, sexist women who don't care about others, put them down, act superior, abuse power, and try to control people, and who were terrified of appearing weak. That was most of the girls I knew in high school, actually. I have seen more girls/women slut-shame than guys, so there's your misogyny too. Hell, I kind of think you're sexist for ascribing these traits to masculinity when I have se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:31 AM
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While I have my own ideas on toxic masculinity, I am curious to know what you consider as such
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:08 PM
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A society of highly intelligent people would create solutions to that problem with the modern tech we have. Also, intelligent people do not necessarily get bored with simple jobs. I consider myself relatively intelligent. I got a 1790 on my SAT's back in the day (the writing section was included in the score at the time), and the last IQ test I took put me at 132. I read several books per year. I love physical labor, though. Warehouse jobs, unloading freight, accepting intake for a restaurant...…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:35 PM
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You seem to only consider social and emotional intelligence as intelligence, but there are many forms of intelligence. Take Olympic athletes as an extreme example. In addition to winning the physical trait genetic lottery, they tend to have a natural ability to pick up athletic skills. NFL quarterbacks make judgement calls in less than a second based on lots of visual informational input. Some of them are dumb as bricks when it comes to anything else. Politicians clearly have a lot of social int…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:12 PM
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Also, weight classes exist for a reason. Technique stops mattering if you can just eat the hits or break the holds with raw size. An untrained 6'0 man who has more muscle than fat literally just needs to get both hands on Nunes' arms, and she's done no matter how trained she is. Bruce Lee in his prime would be pulp if he tried to fight Mike Tyson in his prime
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:23 PM
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Hey, man. My best friend is 6'2 and works a physical labor job. He's built very similarly to me, keeps a big bushy beard, and occasionally shaves his head. If he wore boots, jeans, and a leather jacket, he would probably not get a 2nd look at a biker bar. He's a bisexual bottom who had sex with a man before a woman Gayness has very little to do with what you look like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:15 PM
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To put things really bluntly, it's the difference between a woman forcing herself on you versus a guy forcing himself on you. If you don't see a difference, I can only assume you are attracted to women as well, just probably ridiculously picky about them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:03 PM
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I would and have. I can probably count on my fingers how many times I have fully turned down sex with my partner. We have been together for a little more than 6 years now. I have a general rule that she can do whatever she wants if she can get me hard. We have had penetrative sex without me finishing just because my body responded when I wasn't in it mentally. Just to further emphasize, though, this is very much not the norm. I initiate sex nearly every day, and she tends to have a very responsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:52 PM
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Have you ever eaten the same inexpensive, moderately enjoyable food over and over? I love grilled cheese. I'll hook it up on some fresh-baked french bread with smoked gruyere and sharp cheddar. No matter how good it is, a grilled cheese will never hit like a three-course meal of your favorite foods. There's no meat, no veggie, no fruit, no dessert, and nothing particularly exciting about a grilled cheese
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:21 PM
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Ayy! Congratulations! You used both the strawman and begging the question fallacies. Your argument isn't an actual argument
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:30 PM
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So one might say that they experience more want that the side that isn't desperate...?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:36 PM
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This is advice I would give anyone, but I'll aim it specifically at heterosexual women. Find a guy who reads books. He will have a much better vocabulary, grasp of the language, and general understanding of the range of human emotion. Don't adjust your likes and dislikes to suit your partner's, but be willing to try new things. Go for the guy who seems a little awkward, but nice. He probably just doesn't love social interaction with people he doesn't know. If they don't listen to you early on, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:20 AM
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You're just wrong. My partner's sister is with an idiot scumbag who has cheated on her and destroyed 2 of his own cars in fits of rage, once was when he was caught cheating. The dude straight up has destructive temper tantrums, and he's 22 years old. She still calls him "Sexy" as a pet name 2 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:36 PM
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Big, strong man who can barely handle being in the same room as cockroaches and centipedes here. I feel that fight-or-flight panic sensation when I have to go kill them. I grew up in a really neglectful and abusive situation that, unfortunately, was paired with a horrific cockroach infestation of my childhood South Florida home. Every night, they would be flying around the house, crawling on your clothes, your skin, and getting caught in your hair... Anyway, it isn't always an unreasonable fear.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:28 PM
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My partner has said as much to me. You're not alone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:24 PM
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You're just living in irrational fear, flat out. I worked with a girl who almost exclusively travels alone as a backpacker/camper. She is actually currently alone in Greece on a backpacking trip, right after a breakup. For context, I'm a 6'1 man with a pretty large frame. I don't really go out at night period. I always tell people where I will be when I go someplace. It almost sounds like you are living in a Lifetime Channel movie. To answer your question about how guys act alone, not really. Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:21 PM
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As a guy looking to find another woman to add to my relationship, I swipe left on every boat girl, "fly me out" girl, every girl who looks like they are trying to be an influencer, every girl who demands money or expensive first dates, every girl with pictures in expensive and trendy restaurants... and so on. I have no patience for that, and it doesn't fit my lifestyle. I go for curvy girls with bigger titties and who seem down to earth, intelligent, and sweet. Those are really my only major qua…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:59 AM
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For an example, DJ Khaled says he doesn't eat pussy. I worked with a girl who won't suck dick despite the ridiculous sex life she keeps otherwise. People are lame
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:03 PM
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This just isn't true. My partner has only become more orgasmic as our relationship has continued, and our sex life really only slows when life beats us up (stress and exhaustion). We just hit 6 years together a few days ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:44 PM
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If you haven't even sat in your helicopter or tried taking it out on a good day, then you can't presume you know how to fly if you haven't even gotten off the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:24 PM
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This is the equivalent of thinking you know how to fly a helicopter because you have seen a helicopter and read about flight time statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:12 PM
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Probably more along the lines of wealthier, curvier, nicer, smarter women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:26 PM
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Or they didn't want to date around, and they want somebody who wasn't so unsure of what they liked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:35 PM
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My mom always told me to be extra careful at night Saturday through Sunday, as well as on holidays, for this exact reason. I kind of do agree with that, honestly. I'm much more anxious driving at night on weekends than mid-week
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:27 PM
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You're just wrong about drunk driving in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:18 PM
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You clearly haven't spent time in the American south if you think all drunk drivers always crash. I have known way too many people who have been driving drunk for years with no accidents. It's still incredibly dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:17 PM
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Nobody should be raped. It's also absurd to take no measures of protection for yourself. I'm 6'1, 280 lbs, with man arms. I don't walk around at night because I don't want to be mugged. Getting fall-over drunk in public is basically screaming "victimize me! I couldn't stop you from doing anything to me no matter how much I would want to!" Predators exist. It isn't victim blaming to tell vulnerable groups to protect themselves. It's outright stupid to tell rapists not to rape because that ignores…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:13 PM
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That is completely ridiculous. That would mean she is essentially raping him too if he had more than 1 drink. I have had deep conversations with people 6 shots and 1 hour into the night. You must see women as incapable of making a decision for themselves while mildly impaired. I bet you think women shouldn't be able to be convicted of DUI...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:11 PM
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While this is all fine, why does that same drunk lady end up in jail if she goes to drive a car? She couldn't apprise the nature of the conduct. You're taking about barely coherent person while OP was most likely referring to a kind of sloppy club girl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:06 PM
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You didn't say anything other than attack the lifestyle of someone you don't know. They might be having threesomes every night with their two loving wives while contributing heavily to society. Learn how to actually have an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:03 PM
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No it isn't. Nobody said all-out abortion fest. You're drawing an absurd false comparison. You're probably one of those "good for me, but not for thee" because, of course YOUR abortion would be justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:43 PM
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Usually after a harsh population cut. For example, I read that most women just wanted a healthy, nice man after the black plague. It happens sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:25 PM
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You're pro-choice, not "pro-life" (which is really actually just anti-choice with a sanctimonious spin). If you think abortions are a necessary medical procedure, you are pro-choice. If you would get one for health reasons, you're pro-choice. If you think a little girl who was a victim of incest should be able to abort, you are pro-choice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:47 PM
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I worked with a girl like that this summer. Toxic, abusive relationship with regular several-hour-long arguments. Both gave and got, but he would call her ugly and compare her to Tiktok girls, saying he wishes she acted and looked like that. She would complain constantly how he wouldn't fuck her or go down on her. Mind you, the girl was thin, athletic, and had huge titties for her frame. She wasn't ugpy in thw face or anything either. The whole time I knew her, she was sexually frustrated. One d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:24 PM
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I saw that video when I was 12. It's an amazing foundation to build on, and I still think of it when I hear people say there is nothing to learn about sex from porn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:45 PM
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Support boys' education and push them into lucrative careers through advertisement campaigns like we have been doing for girls for 40 years? Maybe then the 60 year long difference in education quality between the sexes would smooth out, and boys might start graduating more and with better grades. School is designed for little girls, not little boys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:16 PM
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Guys, you ladies aren't much better. Did you forget the moms drooli g over teenage Jacob in New Moon? My stepbrother had much older women calling him "a tall drink of water, and boy I'm thirsty" when he was 15. I had several older women full-hand grab my biceps while saying I'm handsome when I was a teenager. As with many things related to sex, we are just mocked if we have any problem with it. Look at all of the female teachers fucking students lately while they get basically no prison time. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:07 PM
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Man, my mom would have given me awful advice. Learning from experience is usually the best way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:02 PM
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Just get it from a woman not participating then...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:39 PM
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Every time I see someone write something like this, I just presume they have nothing to actually say in response and recognize that they're wrong. Best case scenario, the person saying it is too lazy and dumb to read a whole entire paragraph, a start-to-finish thought
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:35 PM
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Kind of everything if you actually look at history
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:31 PM
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God, this is the stupidest argument I see in here, and it's recited like a prayer is in an effort to invalidate the obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:15 PM
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Well, she isn't happy. That's the issue. It's not "finally! A good guy!" It's "something must be wrong with him. He doesn't want to stir my drink with his dick and call me a whore on the first date, in the restaurant, at the table"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:52 PM
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Remember it is mostly young men amd old women on here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:49 PM
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How does that make it better? You're arguing about how hot the pan is when the food is burning
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:48 PM
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It really is though. Penetration shouldn't be uncomfortable like that. You probably need more lube or foreplay. Also, you don't enjoy giving head at all? I have known partners to get so worked up giving head that they don't want the favor returned before penetration
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:10 PM
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My guy, not all women feel the same. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:06 PM
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But you're the one talking about ships...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:23 PM
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Who mentioned the titanic except for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:29 PM
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That's kind of funny. I only ever read the surface idealogy with a grain of salt and never got involved in any pill stuff outside of here. Some of it is useful, but a lot is reminiscent of the old phermone cologne ads you would see on old porn sites that promised hoardes of women shoving themselves spread eagle at any man who wore it. I can only imagine how insane the "field reports" could get The best takeaway from it seems to be the psychology trick of making other people want to like you by t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:08 PM
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What a ridiculous expression. That's so subjective. My 9 is probably a lot of guy's 5 while their 10's are like 6's to me. I know one guy who mainly drools over tall, fat, dominant women. I know a guy who mainly likes short, skinny, boxy ladies with big titties. I know a guy who prizes moderate proportions with no height preference whatsoever. My ideal woman is a shorter-than-me curvy chubby woman with big titties. Lots of guys would call my ideal too fat, but I think most celebrities and influe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:53 PM
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I think they are referring to the love shown towards women by society as a whole. The whole "women and children first" mentality. The "women are wonderful" effect and so on. Maybe not, though. I am explaining somebody else's words. They could just be so mad that they mean what they said at face value, in which case they are just absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:40 PM
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That's genuinely adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:06 PM
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Who i am heavily influences what i do for my partner, how I make her feel, and the lifestyle we share as borderline vagabonds. I am not rich. We have lived at her mom's house before. I have been out of work while she was working and going to school. Those have been some of our lowest points, yet she loved me through them as I did her. We have totally changed our long-term plans twice now in order to adapt to a changing world. She knows things will not be easy for us for a long time, and that's i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:03 PM
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What's an hb9?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:28 PM
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That's just not true though. Why did my partner's coworker need to be told 3 different times that she doesn't want to fuck any other guys other than me only to be responded to with "you shouldn't put all of your eggs in one basket" each time? Why did I have an ex barely talk to me after things ended (she was using me as "the other guy")then try so fucking hard to get back with me once I met my partner? Many women prefer men who have partners to single men, and many women are never satisfied with…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:27 PM
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They're usually the most insecure people out there. That's why they need to control people: so they can feel better about themselves by having people "beneath" them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:14 PM
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In fact, Erin Pizzey was ousted from her own organization for suggesting that most DV is participatory and involves both parties as aggressors, making it even more of a non-gendered issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:12 PM
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Treating everyone as wonderful until proven otherwise is not only stupid, but outright dangerous for most people. Even not-good-not-bad people will take advantage of a sucker with barely a second thought. In a culture of consumerism, self-absorbtion, and entitlement, you're just asking to get used by people with that mentality. I assume most people are shitty, and it usually proves true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:08 PM
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I think they mean "men" as a whole, not "a few men."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:04 PM
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I can tell you that I wouldn't be making any serious plans for the future if I didn't have my partner and our plans for a family. I would be hopping from seasonal gig to seasonal gig, fucking whatever girls that were down, barely saving any money, partying and doing drugs. That would probably be my mentality until I met a woman that clicked with me well enough to want kids and a future with her. My needs are not that complex or pressing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:11 PM
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Not that I 100% agree with the person you are talking with, but that's kind of their point. That's how many young men feel nowadays as far as I can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:04 PM
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Humans are animals. Deprive them of water for a day and a half, and let's see how civilized they are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:00 PM
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I'm American, and I only understood half of it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:59 PM
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It would actually fall right above basic sustenance in "psychology needs" in Maslow's hierarchy, so you're actually very wrong about how close it is to food and the like. Also, nobody is talking about legal entitlement except you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:41 PM
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Man, you're just setting yourself up to be used. I don't mean this in a mean way, but you sound very naive about the world and how bad people often are. It's not about being mean. It's about not making assumptions about other people based on your own views. Maybe you are nice and think things through. I know people who live paycheck to paycheck in seasonal work who are happy to steal or impose on someone to get by in the month in between jobs. I have had several people that I thought were friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:27 PM
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Assuming the best or most logical intentions is a fools gambit. Just work a service job, and it will show you how brutally selfish, demanding, and materialistic most people are. Also understand that because of how the IQ test is set up, 50% of the world's population is in the double-digit IQ range. You might as well be expecting a 12 year old to be making the best possible choices with the best intention behind them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:47 PM
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No, I typically say I edited something if I did, unless it was just fixing a word or something less than a minute I post it. I try not to misrepresent myself Edit: I don't know now. I don't know why it has you responding to somebody else. I'm sure you responded to me initially. That's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:06 PM
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Ah, I may have misunderstood what you were saying then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:00 PM
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Alright, it's like somebody going to a job interview and asking for full time + benefits and being offered part time instead
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:31 PM
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An entire board of people throwing hissy fits in a forum intended for such. It's not just men on this subreddit, and the women are just as bad here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:26 PM
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The men at bars are fragile, you mean. Almost like alcohol lowers inhibitions or something. I have never seen a man throw a hissy fit because the wrong person asked them to go to the party rather than the one they wanted to ask them. I have seen that happen two times after high school with women though. I'm not on the "I hate women train" by any means, but at least acknowledge the typical differences between the sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:16 PM
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More like 40 years ago at this point. 20 years ago was 2003 now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:58 PM
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It's really more like an employer saying there is an opportunity for full-time employment for seasonal hires, depending on performance, even if there is no chance of that happening, which is done regularly with no repercussions for companies...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:54 PM
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"I acknowledge that my beliefs are irrational and don't make any sense, but I still choose to hold them regardless" what the
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:50 PM
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My eyes usually enjoy either form-fitting or very loose and flowy clothing on women. I like things that emphasize curves and suggest "assets." I like dresses, skirts, short shorts, and jeans on most women. Crop tops, tight t-shirts, and blouses with lots of cleavage are usually my favorite tops on ladies. Despite all those preferences, I'm not really picky with what a woman wears. Whatever she is comfortable and happy wearing is fine. My partner has been updating her style recently, so i have ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:42 PM
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I'm making presumptions based on what they have been telling me about the situation. If the friend was going after guys who valued her beyond sex, then she wouldn't have the issue she is facing. She is aiming too high and allowing herself to be strung along while getting no commitment whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:05 PM
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My partner and I have been in "save mode" for the past 3 years or so. I also cook better than most restaurants. My food puts the fancy restaurants around me to shame. All that together means that I make us egg and cheese burritos nearly every morning (weekends, I'll usually do other stuff like pancakes or whatever) and cook dinner nearly every night. Last night, I made a lemon rosemary london broil with from-scratch 4 cheese macaroni & cheese and carmalized shiitake and onions. Meal time has bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:46 PM
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Well, she could work on improving herself and not being so desperate for attention and validation that she just gives those guys whatever she wants. It's pretty much the same advice I would give a guy who gets strung along on food dates and never gets anything out of it except blue balls. It's not the men using her. It's her allowing herself to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:45 AM
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Fuck religion. It's a cancer of the mind that makes you think it's a necessary organ. Before you know it, you're cutting up baby dicks and marrying little girls off to grown men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:00 AM
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Yes, it does. If "attainable" guys won't stick around, then they aren't attainable for her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:01 AM
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Then they aren't attainable for her if she can't attain and retain them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:40 AM
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You basically just paraphrased what I said but chose to generalize all men. I literally said the men she is going after are not taking her seriously (just sex, no commitment). She should aim for a more attainable guy if she can't get commitment from the ones she is goi g after.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:37 AM
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Edited my original numbers. I meant to type 32, not 22. My mistake. Still though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:35 AM
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Not offended, but I can expand on 9. I want my partner to be satisfied in life. I don't want her lying on her death going "I wish I could have slept with a woman at least once," even if it's only for a second and to herself. It's an entire aspect of her sexuality that she has only recently co.e to erms with. Going off of your stance, she still has moments of jealousy while thinking about it, and she is quite nervous about the first time she will see me being sexual with another woman, but it's u…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:58 PM
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It's just her body. I can almost put my hands around her waist, and she is actually still quite overweight (I don'tmean this in a mean way whatsoever. I'm overweight too). Her mom and sister are built very similarly, but smaller. I'm confident I'm not off by much on any of her numbers there. Old navy's curvy jeans line is the closest thing she has to a fit, and the waist is still usually a little big on her even if it fits her hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:48 PM
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As somebody who is slowly beginning to incorporate polygyny into my relationship, it is a way for my partner to enjoy the women she has always wanted to sleep with, but denied herself, while I will never want for variety in the long term. My partner has come to the realization in recent years that she finds way more women attractive than she does men, even down to just basic body types and gender identity expression. I completely satisfy her desire for "man," but she wants "woman" too, and I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:42 PM
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Poly doesn't mean having ons left and right while having a partner. It CAN mean that. It could also be a couple that has a few fwb that they rotate. It could also be a couple that has one person who likes just one other person while the other enjoys casual hookups once a week. It could be 3, 4, or even 5 people deeply in love with each other for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:21 PM
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Personally, I'm not vegan, and I'm not especially interested in being vegan. I love to cook, but the idea of cooking two meals for every meal sounds so tedious and laborious that it's a dealbreaker for any kind of LTR for me. I love my eggs and dairy. I could cut back on my meat intake for a relationship, but I wouldn't want to exclude it entirely. I do exclude fish from my diet for both ethical (overfishing and industrial fishing in general) and health (pollution) concerns. When in vitro meat b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:53 PM
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I used to be friends with a guy who loves him some BIG women. He likes big bellies, muscles, big titties, big asses, tall women, anything. He would be so hyped to get with a 7 foot tall woman who has a big belly and works in a warehouse as delivery intake. He's only 5'5. It may not be the typical woman most men like, but there's a significant enough population of them out there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:43 PM
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At first I thought you meant Marilyn Monroe (because of her shape), so I was going to make a Charles Manson joke, but then I remembered that Marilyn Manson had ribs removed, and everything clicked
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:38 PM
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Incredibly important. Both my partner and I are very liberal in our politics, and we share the same vision for our future. We know we want kids, but both of us fluctuate between 2 or 3. We like complimentary sexual kinks. We both like some of the same hobbies (hiking, video games, movies). We share a lot of taste in music. It's good knowing that I can typically trust her to make decisions that I will agree and be happy with, and I know she feels the same way about me. I can't imagine trying to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:29 PM
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Girl, quit body shaming women with a different shape than you. You're just being ridiculous. Organs are really pretty small
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:06 PM
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Right? My partner has 58 inch hips with a 22 inch waist and 44 inch bust. Sure, it's technically bottom heavy, but she certainly never had any ribs taken out Edit: Just realized i said 22 and not 32. Still though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:05 PM
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Joke responses aside, that level of obesity means she has a very unhealthy relationship with food. For reference, I'm a pretty big guy. I'm 6'1, kind of chubby, and muscular enough that I don't float very well. I weigh 280 pounds. My partner had then further developed a very bad relationship with food partway through our relationship and gained roughly 80 pounds. We reassessed our lifestyle, and I started preparing pretty much all of our food. She has lost roughly 100 pounds in the last 3 years,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:57 PM
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I think this is the answer. She is probably going after guys who wouldn't take her seriously, but they don't mind the low effort sex. Probably shoot lower
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:35 PM
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Yes, I am aware of that. I promise that I am very familiar with it. It wasn't being used in that context this time. I'm like 98% sure that they were saying women don't drool over dick like gay dudes do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:19 PM
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I disagree with both of those. When I have sex with a condom, I do not consent to my bodily fluids being taken. Men should keep hot sauce or mace with them to put inside used condoms for hookups if other women have the same attitude towards this as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:28 PM
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What? You're arguing how sending countless more vehicles to do the same job is worse? Next you will argue that trains are less efficient than trucks. I already explained it and everything. A family of 4 goes to the store once a week to buy $200 of groceries. That is one trip for a week. Some people walk to the store, especially in large cities. Some people take public transit that has to drive its route anyway. When everyone orders shit to their home, they require a truck to drive their goods to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:24 PM
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Can't say the same about the girl I know. She's been in a happy relationship for years with the aforementioned guy, and he's really taken on a paternal role for the child she had in a previous relationship (accidental pregnancy in a ltr with a guy who developed a cheating problem after the birth). I can't really knock her lifestyle since she seems to be doing fine lately
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:56 PM
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By this logic, "stealthing" shouldn't be rape. If condom usage doesn't matter for consent, then you have to agree with that. If "stealthing"is rape because he could get her pregnant, and she didn't consent to unprotected sex, then so is this scenario. He did not consent to her impregnating himself with the used condom. It's the equivalent of a guy ejaculating on the inside of a contraceptive diaphragm prior to use without saying anything to his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:48 PM
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I know a girl back in my hometown who absolutely cock worships her partner. She brags about his 10 inches all the time on social media. I have never even met the guy, and I know how big his dick is. They on/off run an OF together, but I never cared to pay $25 to confirm. She's pretty out there, honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:39 PM
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I literally watch porn with my partner sometimes during sex. She mostly prefers porn without men, but I don't care if she oggles a 14 incher for a few minutes while she rubs one out if I'm unavailable. Tl;dr no, I don't care if she looks at porn. I wouldn't accept cheating, but watching porn isn't cheating in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:36 PM
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Delivery of everyday goods is actually a bad trend. In place of large trucks hauling large amounts of food and goods from warehouses to stores for smaller distribution, warehouses now must individually deliver each person's goods with smaller trucks, leading to a greater carbon footprint. Customers are not encouraged to get everything they need in one purchase either because of the convenience of delivery, further escalating the problem in addition to requiring more packaging for each separate o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:16 PM
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I promise you they do. Just like lots of men don't care who they fuck, lots of women don't either
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:18 PM
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I think you can talk to a woman as a person while being light and flirtatious with the conversation. In my experience, it's the best approach with the women I like. It's like you're acknowledging their attractiveness while also saying "you're also just a human like me." I am also friends with women who almost never know how they feel about a guy until after a few conversations and interactions. One of my coworkers only feels sexual attraction after respecting a guy for a while. Then her libido o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:11 PM
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It doesn't make sense to separate how somebody makes you feel from who they are as a person because who they are changes how you feel about them. I would never touch Cardi B because her personality qualities make me feel more or less revolted, even while acknowledging that her body is visually appealing to me. Character makes up a lot of personality. Personality influences actions. Actions decide attraction. Who someone is often influences how attractive they are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:59 PM
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This is counterproductive in my experience. I told my partner what my relationship expectations would be maybe 2 weeks into talking with the intent of dating, even before we actually went on a date. It's been pretty great for almost 6 years now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:53 PM
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As someone who has a rudimentary understanding of statistics and lives in the US, yes they are. I'm literally learning French to get off this sinking shit ship called the US because I do not want to raise children in this trash country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:50 PM
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I mean, most of the developed world could make that claim. We aren't first in anything good like education or employment. Shit, look how France's citizens are willing to grab their government by the throat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:51 PM
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It's pretty common. There's an attitude of "what's mine is mine, and what's his is ours" in modern dating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:28 PM
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Alright, guy. I saw that you're still very young. Save up $1000 so you have a cushion to land on, then start looking at seasonal national park jobs. You're doing regular shitty city jobs, but out in the boonies. I have worked at the Grand Canyon several times as well as a few other places with that "holy shit" factor. The girls who work these jobs are adventurous. They want to meet new people. They want to party. They want to fuck. They're basically the nice burnout girls from high school OR ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:49 PM
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I do. Relationships lead to so much more sex (and good sex) than casual hookups would. In good conditions, I have satisfying, kinky sex with my partner almost every day. We will have been together 6 years in June. She does pretty much everything I want her to, and I'm game for just about anything she would ask for. I don't understand you guys who think a relationship means boring sex or infrequent sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:54 PM
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So what does disease existing as an ever present threat with borderline no ancient defense have to do with social structure?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 10:41 PM
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I'm not saying my tribe will be immune to sickness. You're the one saying disease will just wipe out my population with your argument laying in an archaic understanding of how disease works. Who is to say that they don't decide that wrapping the afflicted's face in fresh sun-dried boiled rags every morning keeps the curse of coughing contained to the afflicted? How do we know that they don't figured out that boiling their old beer removes the magic from it, and that the holy vapors can be captur…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:16 PM
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You don't need modern medical records to have a rough idea of which diseases were common. People write about people being sick all the time throughout history with descriptions of symptoms. We're talking very early rome and the cusp of Classical Greece here. People wrote personal things down at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:03 PM
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What people say and do are very different things. Most men would probably say they want to be the tough Dom manly man, but in practice, most would be happiest with a strong mommy Domme lady who took care of everything. Most women would probably say they never want to share a man no matter what, but I bet a surprising number would be perfectly happy to join a sugar baby harem with some reasonably attractive rich guy. Lots of people say they hate fascism, but...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:20 PM
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Cold isn't a virus. You don't "catch a cold" by being chilly or out in the rain. It requires infection. Women are perfectly capable of setting fires at night at attackers' villages if retaliation was needed. It's not weird to discuss what weapons turned the tides of battle throughout history. Go look at the slinger counts in historical battles, even through the middle ages. They need less training than archers and are just as effective in defense. Defense is my group's primary military goal, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:14 PM
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It would still be extremely uncommon at this point. You might as well be arguing about vaginal embolisms caused by air being pushed in with penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:08 PM
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You are just repeating the middle part of what op said
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:25 PM
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Syphilis has to be in the population for it to spread. You're also assuming, not presuming. Please read the definitions. Nothing I said implies a free love culture. There is one coming of age ritual orgy per year in my proposed society. It's also not a rape party. It's an morphine dream cuddle puddle after a day of festivities. If Luis has rotdick, I doubt a woman is going to want him, and they're probably going to wonder why he has rotdick. We are also pretty sure historically that Columbus' cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:16 AM
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Syphilis has to be in the population for it to spread. You're also assuming, not presuming. Please read the definitions. Nothing I said implies a free love culture. There is one coming of age ritual orgy per year in my proposed society. It's also not a rape party. It's an morphine dream cuddle puddle after a day of festivities. If Luis has rotdick, I doubt a woman is going to want him, and they're probably going to wonder why he has rotdick. We are also pretty sure historically that Columbus' cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:16 AM
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Syphilis has to be in the population for it to spread. You're also assuming, not presuming. Please read the definitions. Nothing I said implies a free love culture. There is one coming of age ritual orgy per year in my proposed society. It's also not a rape party. It's an morphine dream cuddle puddle after a day of festivities. If Luis has rotdick, I doubt a woman is going to want him, and they're probably going to wonder why he has rotdick. We are also pretty sure historically that Columbus' cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:16 AM
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First off, it's ancient italy in the scenario. It's hardly a russian winter we are talking about. Grain keeps just fine for a year. The cold also does not explicitly bring illness. Women can absolutely work fields with children. Every ancient agrarian society had pregnant women and breastfeeding women working in the fields. Some early european accounts of native Americans describe the women working in the fields until they give birth. After a short rest period, they went right back out there. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:09 AM
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Yes, it is. My partner's mom didn't leave her dad until the 4th extramarital affair, and she probably only did it because the woman worked at the same place as her. People forgive cheaters constantly, but most people have an eventual cutoff point. Someone who only cheats once is miles better than the one who just cheats constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:26 AM
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It's the latter. He ran to his car in a group outing with other friends. Yes, she is very shallow. She isn't considered weird for it. That's why I said ypu were being solipsistic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:23 AM
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I'm 28 with a 25 year old in a 5.5 year relationship with marriage and kids in our plans. Nice sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:21 AM
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That's not what i was referencing. If anything, your ratios and my statistic combined points to a smaller fraction of women just being aggressive serial cheaters because they have to hit that 49% with only 13% of women. I was discussing the split of cheaters between sexes. You are discussing the proportion of each sex that cheats. These two stats mean more men cheat, but do it less frequently, while fewer women cheat, but they do it way more frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:19 AM
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I'm very liberal (nearly anarchocommunist), and I understand that freedom comes with responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:14 AM
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That's pretty much the norm in a lot of relationships. Culture tells girls that what is theirs is theirs, while their partner's resources are to be shared
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:58 PM
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Marginally. I care more about how much of a thinker she is than what classes she sat through. I'm not exactly chasing rich, educated women primarily. My partner and I both have 2-year degrees, but we can talk about deep subjects no problem. I have gotten deer-in-headlights looks from educated people when I talk to them about themes in literature, or social trends, or economics, or philosophy. Intelligence does not equal education, and I'm attracted to intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:56 PM
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So because you disagree with it, nobody feels that way. So when my coworker told me about how the dude she had slept with roughly 3 times a week for 2 months ran to the car, and it gave her the ick for him, that didn't happen because she was willing to have sex. Nice solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:48 PM
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Most studies I have seen showed that 49% of cheaters were women while men were 51%. That's basically the same proportion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:44 PM
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Finally! These pwople need to stop treating women lime they are little kids. OP thinks she can decide who her 18 year old daughter would date, and it's frankly creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:43 PM
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I think it's funny that you think you get to choose who your adult daughter would date
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:41 PM
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I would trust my daughter to make decent decisions for herself because girls have a brain, too. It's not my place to pick my child's mate. It's weird that you think this is an argument worth making
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:40 PM
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While the meowing thing doesn't bother me, I DO NOT like being talked to as if I'm a toddler. It really grates my nerves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:35 PM
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My mom is a selfish bitch, and my dad is a narcissistic psychopath. Not all parents are good. I don't talk with my father, and I keep an arms-length relationship with my mom
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:32 PM
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Nah, don't talk to me like a toddler. It's one thing to do that kind of baby talk a few years in. It's a little weird to baby talk a dude who just plowed you for the first time. I would be somewhat put off by this and would ask her not to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:30 PM
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You sound like somebody who has never worked construction. All you can expect from that job is 80 hour workweeks and to be broken physically by 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:24 PM
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I would love to stop working and raise kids. You're crazy. I hate going out. I hate helping entitled strangers. I wish I could just mess around with little snot goblins all day. I'd have them digging up rocks to see if they had dinosaur bones and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:17 PM
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My society would be communal, like most of the ones discussed in this thread. Basic structure would be like that of clans. There would a sort of marriage that celebrated committed love, but the whole community would care for and educates the children. From the age of 10, both boys and girls are given combat training once per week until the age of like 45. Emphasis would be on slings, clubs, spears, and shields. Everyone would participate in food production at least two days per week through comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:23 PM
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That's literally communism. You're not understanding the idea of "private property" in communism. Private property is that of capital. It's money and businesses, not a house to raise your family. I also think you have a disconnect between what is "owned" and what is "given away." When your 10 cows consistently produce milk that goes to the village, those 10 cows are just feeding the whole village. There's no money in your society, and overflow goes to everyone. That's communism, which is fine, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:32 PM
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Anton LaVey, and women should too. I'm a purist, so I don't subscribe to the official CoS doctrines. I prefer the source material -Indulgence rather than abstinence -Living for the now rather than an unsure future or set-in-stone past -Seeking truth and refusing to accept lies, especially from yourself -Kindness only to those who deserve it -Vengeance rather than turning the other cheek -Responsibility to those who are responsible and the rejection of allowing oneself to settle into victimhood -…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:05 PM
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I don't give or do anything for anybody except those I care about or those who compensate me. I used to be the guy who would cover sidework as a waiter for everyone without asking for anything in return. Eventually, I got tired of being awesome to everybody while I got lukewarm thanks in return, so I changed myself. I don't lend money that I expect to see again. I do my job only at work. I don't give anything to anyone if they aren't giving back. Oftentimes, I won't even initiate kindness unless…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:03 PM
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Personally, it is sometimes very hard to actually express non-happy emotions to my partner. It will often eventually turn into her venting about something not related to what I was talking about when I needed somebody to listen. She has gotten much better about this recently, but it was always one of my only complaints about my relationship. Meanwhile, I become the heatsink for everyone who has wronged her that day, sometimes for hours on end. I like listening to her, giving advice, and being th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:39 PM
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You're better off just directly asking about fun stuff to do for a first message. Use their name. Comment on their profile. "What kind of books do you like reading, Collette? I saw all those books in your 3rd picture. I'm partial to Palahniuk and Lovecraft, personally, but it can sometimes be a little hard getting past the racism with the latter" It invites response by asking a question, shows interest in her beyond pussy, shows that you might have common interests, and gets her attention with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:44 PM
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Where do you live? I'm not denying your experience by any means. I just hate being places with that vibe. Probably avoid Montana and Idaho. It's like a weird cowboy Virginia, but even more white
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:33 PM
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Damn, I said almost the same thing. It's nice to find common ground with people sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:02 PM
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It contradicts the first paragraph with the 2nd and 3rd. If someone can't respect someone because they have a slutty past, then one of the foundational concepts for a healthy relationship isn't there. If it is up to the individual to define what they value in a partner, then there can be no judgment like the whole first paragraph is. It is just as okay to reject a girl who had 3 different guys a week every week for 3 years straight for that as it is to reject the softspoken skinnyfat guy who onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:01 PM
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As somebody who doesn't have any trouble making female friends, this always seemed appealing, but I never knew how to go about asking for it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:44 PM
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Lots of projection here. You aren't the table, friend. You're sitting at the table too. I'm in a great relationship that is coming up on 6 years in June. We're going to move to France in the next few years and start a family. She tells me nearly every day that I am the best thing that ever happened to her. I also don't really understand what you are talking about with the Middle East. My point was that you're basically operating on a level playing field with men now while acting like you have it…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:46 PM
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So men are just given food and housing for free then? You act like only women have to work to survive. Men need to be stable and put together just to survive too. Your portal thing is reaching at best. I don't understand how the stakes are higher now because you can read books. It's been that way for what, 80 years in the US? You keep really downplaying potential negatives a woman can bring to a relationship while acting like she has to be this autonomous super person. I just don't get it. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:14 PM
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I'm not though. Coworker has had other less satisfying, but still abusive relationships since. She admits she is drawn into emotionally distant guys and sees a trend that she is trying to work on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:51 PM
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I never said you were abused by the guy who railed you just right. I mainly mentioned that to show that women can value physical sex from shitty partners if they don't get it much afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:28 PM
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One of my coworkers was too. She's 28. Still says the best sex she ever had was from an abusive ex in high school. The older I get, the more sure I am that most dudes just can't fuck very well at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:06 PM
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What a cop out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:58 PM
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So, if we assume male orgasm as consent, should we do the same for female orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:37 PM
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Yes, and you're just a poor opinionless dude who can't have boundaries or say what he wants, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:36 PM
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So don't have sex with those men. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:34 PM
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So don't have sex with the men who don't want to use condoms. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:34 PM
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I fit into this category of men. I do 10 hour shifts at a resort's intake dock, receiving lift parts, restaurant food stock, vehicle parts, retail stock, etc. While I am frequently exhausted, my libido has only been bumped down to "most days I want to have sex just once a day instead of multiple." I would absolutely be trying to get women if I were single, though it would not be at a club or bar since I don't really drink much. I'm better off having a quiet 1-on-1 conversation with a woman I wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:49 PM
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But those 3 guys are just weak losers who have a broken logic pattern about sex. Cheating is weak. Refusing to improve yourself is weak. Fear of real commitment and compromise is weak. They need to fix themselves before any real improvement in their lives will happen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:56 PM
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I have a loving relationship with lots of fulfilling sex in it. I do not think of my partner as a caregiver. She does laundry, and I cook. We both clean, but she does a bit more than me there. We both drive (not little half hour city driving. We live pretty remotely), but I take the harder trips (icy roads, night driving, etc) pretty much every time. We are partners who help each other smooth out our flaws through support. When I am horny, she gets me off if we are around each other, and I make …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:46 PM
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Most stats I have seen show cheating is roughly 50/50 in hetero relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:21 PM
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It does mean that the elephant would be justifiably upset if it only got mouse-volumes of food though, right? In that scenario, the mouse might not even understand what the elephant's problem is because the mouse would be fine with the amount of food the elephant recieved. So now the elephant is starving, and the mouse thinks the elephant is greedy and dramatic because they both got the same amount of food, and the mouse is fine. I bet the elephant would enjoy and value food much more than the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:57 PM
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What are condoms lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:21 PM
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For real! It's so tiring seeing all of these people acting like women don't have access to condoms! It boggles my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:17 PM
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Not sure why you choose to focus only on hormonal bc. There is the copper iud, and cervical diaphragms too. Personally, I think hormonal bc is a very good development, but I have been encouraging my partner to take her implant out for a couple of years. She has been on hormonal birth control since she was 16, so nearly 10 years now. She says her sex drive is lower than it used to be as a kid, and she has always struggled with her weight. All that said, I would choose to wait until Vasogel is on …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:10 PM
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You are pretending like women have no choice where semen ends up; that it is entirely dependent on the man as well as entirely on him to pick women who would abort an unplanned pregnancy. It's as if you are saying men decide who gets pregnant, but women decide who has babies. It's an absurd and reductionist stance. Both parties choose to have sex outside of rape. Unplanned pregnancy is not 100% the fault of the man, but the woman gets 100% of the choice. That's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:16 AM
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Actually I have worked construction. I didn't have any female coworkers at the jobs I did. Why are you assuming I have no experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:01 PM
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So, while women make up 10.9% of construction workers, they make up 63% of those work-related repetitive motion injuries. Lots of those hazards also affect men's reproductive health too. It kind of seems like you are basically saying it's detrimental to hire female construction workers with how disproportionately the work itself harms them. I'm not really sure what argument you are making here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:42 PM
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But you weren't arguing about child needs. You were basing your stance on the idea of choice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:32 PM
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Bodily autonomy in this context is founded on the implied right to private family planning, so... Also, what's your stance on women who steal semen out of used condoms? That's bodily autonomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:10 PM
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This argument is only valid if men get to pick whatever woman they want while women have no choice in the matter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:05 PM
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You know most of those bots aren't connected to the internet and just simulate responses based on learned algorithms, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:54 PM
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I'm very picky with my women and don't really do casual sex. I have been with my partner for almost 6 years, and only a couple of girls have gotten my attention betond surface-level attraction in that time. My partner and I have sex with oral nearly every day, and there is usually a little bit of kink involved. We both need kink. For the most part, everything we are interested in is on the menu, so to speak. If one of us wants to try something, we just have to bring it up. We have been experimen…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:26 PM
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You aren't arguing in good faith. I'm not taking a stance on whether anything should or shouldn't be. I am not taking a stance on addiction. I am explaining the biological reward system in an extremely simplified way so you have a better chance of understanding. You want to change what the discussion is entirely and assign some moral judgment to it. It's not condusive to communication, and it makes me wonder if you even know what is being talked about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:49 PM
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While I agree with this in a relationship context, sex is absolutely a reward for behavior in a psychological sense, especially outside of relationships. Sex feels good. It releases dopamine. We like dopamine a lot. Dopamine is mainly associated with satisfying survival needs. If somebody acts like an asshole then gets sex, that behavior will be reinforced with a positive experience (reward). Your comment isn't an argument for the topic at hand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:02 PM
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Never heard of The Office?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:12 PM
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Arms folded is insecure body language. It's the unconscious desire to protect your vitals because you are not secure. Too much eye contact can come off as creepy or desperate too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:03 PM
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Having "a way with words" is what charisma is. This isn't D&D where we have numbers next to stats
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:38 PM
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Having "a way with words" is what charisma is. This isn't D&D where we have numbers next to stats
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:38 PM
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Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:37 PM
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It's crappy grammar that muddies your attempt at making a point. You're better off with almost any other punctuation in place of a question mark at the end of a statement. An elipse would communicate better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:53 PM
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No, they aren't though. A question mark designates an inquiry, not a statement. They are now asking the person they're replying to the basis of their argument instead of stating it. It's crappy grammar that originates from a desire to not actually stand behind your argument. It's weak and passive-aggressive, and it makes me assume they don't actually know what they are talking about because they aren't confident. This isn't "passive voice" where the sentence is in an indirect order. It completel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:52 PM
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At this point, you're pretty much just arguing that they're even worse than he knows though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:46 PM
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Nah, narcissists are predators. Ostracize them for your own sanity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:42 PM
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Come work a hospitality job like hotel front desk and tell me adults have more self control. I have seen a guy full volume scream at US Marshalls (who were just thanking hotel staff for bringing their equipment to them) just because he couldn't hear his (also very loud) phone conversation in the hotel lobby. That kind of thing happens every other day at my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:37 PM
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What do you think Charisma is? You're literally describing what charisma is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:32 PM
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Cried many times, including full anxiety attack breakdowns, in front of my partner. We have been together 5.5 years. We still plan on getting married. She is still my collared submissive. We still have a very healthy sex life. This is just nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:20 AM
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Damn, dude. They're saying that it's okay to express yourself, but you need to handle your feelings like a grown-ass adult. It is childiah to have tantrums. It is even more childish to throw a tantrum and refuse to even admit it is happening until hours later. A rational adult with funtioning emotional intelligence would probably have taken some time to himself in order to process his emotions before walking inside and explaining what happened and how it made him feel. At the very least, throwin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:09 AM
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Not everyone is you either
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:48 PM
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It always boggles my mind when someone says they don't give head. Like, how do you exist? How do you have a sex life without going down on your partner and vice-versa. It's like saying you don't cook with any salt at all and only get your sodium intake from the unseasoned meat you rarely eat. How do you enjoy that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:31 PM
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How do you get no joy from that? Not getting any joy from pleasuring your partner soumds miserable. Even when one of us isn't super in the mood to fuck, we both still eventually get into it and feel good about what happened afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:26 PM
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After the east empire became the east empire, it was Byzantium though. It was all downhill for Rome proper after Constantine. Once Cerularius was excommunicated, they didn't even share the same faith denomination. There's a reason it is called the Byzantine Empire and not just Rome
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:49 PM
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I can really like a woman for who she is, but I'm not sticking around waiting 6 months. For context, I have been with my partner for 5.5 years and have plans for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:57 PM
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Not that this is how it should be, but that's how most jobs in the US are already.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:12 PM
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Yeah, my partner and I just have a cook a nice dinner and fuck. We shared some good chocolates to make it fancy. I might have bought her something small our first year, but aside from that it's been all dinner, fellatio, cunnilingus, and sex to celebrate. We aren't really materialistic though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:44 PM
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Any martial artist will tell you that skill only goes so far. the 6'4, 250lb dude who goes to the gym once a weak can lift up that featherweight with one arm and tip him up and over his head. No matter how fast Bruce Lee was, it would be over as soon as Mike Tyson landed a solid hit or grabbed him. ​ ​ For reference
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:09 PM
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Only slightly related, but studies have shown that men hear and respond to lower pitch better than women. On the other hand women hear and respond to higher pitch better than men. It probably has to do with hearing our own voices more than others, so our brain is trained for it by the time we reach full adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:35 PM
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Yes, because those should be attempted first. I am running from an attacker first. If I can't get away, I'm targeting joints, sensitive areas, and vital organs. My attacker will regret coming after me, but I will do everything possible to avoid that fight. You're basically complaining that modern men have a brain and use it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:29 PM
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Forgetting the rest of what you said because it's just opinion, your first point is literal garbage. Any normal person who has been in a fight as an adult will tell you it is the worst option and should only be considered as a last resort. You don't know if the other person has a weapon. If they hit the ground wrong, you can get charged with manslaughter. If you hit the ground wrong, you can just die. I'm very much for brutal, crippling, and decisive self defense, but every attempt should be mad…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:21 PM
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It kinda feels like fetishizing a normal biological difference Isn't that pretty much the basis of human heterosexuality? Breasts, hips, voice pitch, height, shoulders, muscularity, facial hair, skin softness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:15 PM
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"I'm scared that I am out of my depth and have no real response so I will use my (probably never even read through the bible) faith as deflection from this argument." Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:51 PM
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You don't even know what Satanism is if you think that was a gotcha. To abridge LaVey's deep thoughts, Satanism is a philosophy of self-fulfillment, self-empowerment, responsibility, respect, vengeance, and the refusal of anything but the truth. I worship and command myself as my own god because it is MY hand that guides my life. I'll just have to take your word about how secure you are about yourself because I don't see it. Thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:39 PM
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I have been with my SO for about 5.5 years now. I have always been open with my emotions with my partners because fuck them if they don't accept me. I can't remember the first time, but I have expressed everything from giddy excitement to full-on sobbing to her. She is generally pretty supportive and really likes when I am happy. Sometimes if I am upset or frustrated, she feeds off my mood and also gets irritable. Then we are both snippy which can lead to dumb arguments about nothing. We both su…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:53 PM
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Man, this is a very weak and insecure mentality. You know what's strong? Not being afraid of other people's reactions to your emotions. Instead of expressing how you feel, you try to hide it because of other people's opinions on you. Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:37 PM
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I don't care about the other guys in this thread lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:38 PM
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You're either lying or just ignorant. I have never torn a partner open or had to spend 15 minutes easing myself in with 7 inches. My partner and I have sex almost daily. Maybe a guy with a 10 inch or bigger would have to take it slow, but I have always been told that my dick is either perfect, beautiful, or both by my past partners. Most women can take 7 inches no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:56 PM
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7 inches here. I doubt the half inch makes a huge difference. I go all the way to the base inside my partner every time we have penetrative sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:45 PM
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I'm not moving the goal post. My argument is the same. People who are really fucking good at something aren't worried about saying they're really good at it. For example, I'm a damn good cook. I make food that makes anything short of legit fine dining seem like chef boyardi. I realized yesterday that I have 20 years of cooking practice, and I'm 28 (I made perfect pancakes when I was 8, and it was the first time I had used a stove. It was all uphill from there.) Any time I see something good, my …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:29 AM
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They may get some of the same hormones, but hormo es effect men and women differently. Prolactin is one of the big ones responsible for lactation. You aren't suddenly leaking milk after an orgasm as a woman. You are missing my point here, honestly. Also, not all women can orgasm from oral sex. I have had partners that cum more than 10 times from an hour of head. My current partner can pretty much only orgasm from head if she has been specifically craving it and she gets it exactly how she has be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:57 AM
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Go tell them they suck from a point of authority on the matter and tell me that again. Genuinely harshly criticize a performance of theirs and watch their blood boil. I mean, we all know Mahler and Beethoven were so modest, right? Mahler thought he was such a good composer he practically wrote his own requiem with his 9th symphony because he believed that all of the greatest composers died after their 9th. Then he died 2 years later, so maybe he was right. Mozart rearranged and presented church …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:50 AM
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"Why should I eat a variety of healthy and satisfying foods when I have gruel that fills me up just fine?" What are you even asking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:29 AM
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Yes, those famous actors, musicians, and athletes are all so modest about their skills... When you are good at something and can back it up, you flaunt it. That's pretty much the whole concept of pride
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:25 AM
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So there is a different flood of hormones that hit men, namely prolactin, that causes what is refered to as a refractory period. It's causes a sharp drop in testosterone among other temporary things such as inability to get an erection and a rapidly reduced sexual desire. It's kind of major. The good news is that men tend to produce less prolactin after orgasm as they get older (out of their 20's) so this period can shorten or even cease to exist entirely. My partner occasionally is satisfied wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:11 AM
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Ok now imagine if she got an orgasm and you hadn’t yet, then she got up and left. Sure, you can finish yourself off - but you would call that “masturbating” not “sex” right? I have actually met women like that and known guys who had partners like that. They saw it as a form of empowerment somehow. I have even seen ppd ladies basically say that once they are done, they are fine with pushing the guy off and telling him to finish himself. This isn't unheard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:29 PM
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They lost to Rome, you mean. Pretty sure an emperor just happened to convert
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:16 PM
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You say that moral initiation arguments are flimsy then rested your entire point about rape on it being seen as bad, so it has to be an evolved mate guarding thing. That's why it's in the top 3 sexual fantasies around the world among both sexes, right? Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:15 PM
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That sounds exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:44 PM
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What is generous in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:36 PM
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If you split a room of 100 people in half and told only 50 of them that they get to pick who they want, those 50 choosing people still have the power in that scenario. Your last sentence has nothing to do with the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:54 PM
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I could see that if not for the anecdotal phenomenon of lesbians having slept with and dated all of their lesbian friends. If there is a scarcity mentality it is either self-imposed or they live in some podunk-ass small town
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:52 PM
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I love this sub because I find relationships and sex dynamics very interesting. I feel like I offer a unique point of view with my background and occupation. I grew up as a poor minority as a white kid who didn't speak spanish fluently, and I travel around the country for work. I'm generally very good at reading people and recognizing trends. I enjoy showing people bigger pictures than they are seeing. I like to stir the pot and argue too, so all of this together combines into this being one of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:51 PM
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You do know those are police-sourced stats, right? You do know that police are typically supposed to arrest the man on domestic violence calls regardless of context, right? Men have been hospitalized by their abusers only to face charges because she has a bruise on her arm. You're pulling from biased sources, and there are basically no unbiased sources for this info right now that I am aware of. Men are not considered victims by the bulk of society regardless of context. I have seen talk show cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:35 PM
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First off, what do you think corporate office jobs are? They're shitty clerical work. Secondly, you aren't making the point you think you are. If it didn't have to be brainwashed into women, there wouldn't be SO MUCH push to get women into STEM with so little in the way of results. It also doesn't make sense that you assume women would just have to revert to digging in the dirt just because they prioritized family life over a career. In a society with fewer workers, labor would be more valuable.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:31 PM
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It has nothing to do with men being "so much more likely to be perpetrators" while having everything to do with female violence being ignored and brushed to the side, like you literally just did. Men as seen as "strong" so some littlle "weak" woman could NEVER actually hurt him (even though female-perpetrated domestic violence is more likely to end in injury). Just say you are sexist and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:19 PM
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I just looked it up. At best, there is conflicting evidence, and most of the new studies focus on specifically violent porn's effects on sexual violence, saying little to nothing about porn that isn't violent. I personally don't see how me watching a lady jiggling her big titties on a screen makes me more likely to rape...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:13 PM
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No, I think you are. Such a small amount of time makes sex all but pointless. Want to sit down amd watch 15 minutes of movie? Want to go out to dinner, order, get your food, and just leave without tasting it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:09 PM
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As always, it really boils down to living in a capitalistic nightmare-scape. The solution is obvious. You just have to glorify family life and encourage girls to want to start a family. We are run by corporations who don't want a cut to their employee pool, so that won't happen anytime soon. Women commit to shitty jobs that they hate in the name of a career. We encourage that as a society. I'm sure if we encouraged it through propaganda, women would be much more willing to settle down with a guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:37 PM
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Yet rape rates tend to go down when it is available, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:06 PM
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The ethical way to do this is to ensure your partner is also participating in the openness. If my partner had trouble getting girls, and I was getting a lot of attention, you can bet I would be trying to hook her up with every nice lesbian I met. Extended jealousy is a relationship killer and a life taker. Communication would help all of this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:19 PM
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The primary guy I think of is Willy. I have mentioned him once before on this subreddit. He is probably about 5'6, no chin, and skinny. He is loud, obnoxious, and kind of dumb. He has a slight speech impediment. He objectifies women like crazy. He points out everyone's mistakes while laughing off his own. He only talks about skiing and video games which are both very basic hobbies in this area (a ski town). He makes bad decisions that almost immediately bite him and loudly complains when it happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:49 PM
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Most of the self-described hiker trash I have met do through-hiking like the Pacific Crest Trail or the Appalachian Trail. They're pretty unique people. Very minimalist. I met a guy who would only shower every 3 days and only do his laundry once a week. He owned 1 jacket, 2 pairs of pants, 3 pairs of socks, 1 thermal underlayer, and 2 t-shirts. One of my coworkers did the Appalachian 2 years ago, and has done on-foot travel through a bunch of SE Asia and through New Zealand. She has been stuck i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:42 PM
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Counterpoint Instead, you should shower her with compliments and physical affection while also having other options. If you do that, she will feel special and love you a whole lot more than feeling like she has to fight for you all the time. A small dose of jealousy here and there is fine, but there has to be trust in a relationship for it to work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:20 PM
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I mean, that last paragraph is literally how it works. Look at the US South or the Midwest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:56 PM
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7 minutes of sex is horrifying. What about foreplay? When do you have time to enjoy feeling your partner? What is that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:36 PM
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You must not talk to many parkies, hiker trash, or van-life girls then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:35 PM
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While we don't necessarily have penetrative vaginal sex every day, my partner and I have some type of sexual activity pretty much every day with penetration more often than not. It doesn't get in the way of things anymore than anything else we do together. We have been together 5.5 years. I'm 28. She is 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:21 PM
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Out of these categories, they are in this order: Personality Looks Age Weight Career N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:12 PM
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They're still in that high school clique mode where they have to follow the herd for fear of being ostracized. They have to wear the same clothes and think the same things or else. It's odd
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:27 PM
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Well, I don't agree with that at all. I can't stand childish behavior, so I would much prefer a woman who has had to take care of herself for a little while. College girls all kind of look the same too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:13 PM
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Miss, I'm only 28, and I have been with the same 25 year old for almost 6 years now. We aren't interested in girls under 24 because of how flighty, ignorant, and entitled they are. They need at least a year out of college before they turn into real people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:00 PM
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What "god given talents?" You being a young woman? You are not the prize. The relationship you form with somebody is the prize. Both people put in or it's shit. "Young and hot chicks" are just people like me. If they want me, they need to work for it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:40 PM
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You are an investor into a business, not the product being sold to a consumer. This post seems very young and entitled. Entitlement is only ever taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:40 AM
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I would guess roughly 35% of single women 18-30 have casual sex at least occasionally. I would guess maybe 25% of that chunk of the population insist on condom usage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:30 AM
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I prefer relationships. Even just sexually, they are superior to hookups. The best sex comes from a woman who knows she is going to have good sex with you. On top of that, there's companionship, love, comfort, figuratively having somebody to help you up when you fall, and so on. All of my sexual partners have been fwb or girlfriends, and I have never had sex with a lady fewer than 3 times. I kind of get the appeal of variety, but that pales when compared to consistent quality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:58 AM
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These spots. https://images.app.goo.gl/YC5AauB7Nzti9PBf7 My parner and I love foreplay. Neither of us lacks for either oral sex or orgasms in our sex life. You are probably refering to either the g-spot or the anterior fornix, sometimes called the "a-spot." Some theories I have read argue that the clitoral roots extend down into the posterior fornix, but most of the stuff I have read for the a-spot zone suggests uterine stimulation combined with g-spot stimulation is primarily responsible there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:11 PM
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Yes, we sometimes use the position you keep talking about. It's a decent position, but we both prefer different ones. Again, some women want light clitoral stimulation with heavy vaginal stimulation while the position you are recommending grinds the clit on the public bone and dick with very little penetration. We both like it in the beginning of PIV, but typically move on to other positions as things get more intense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:52 PM
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I'm very aware of the clitoral structure and the female reproductive anatomy in general. My partner is not dissatisfied with our sex life, nor is it lacking in frequency or intensity. I never said a specific position. That's all you. The vaginal wall has very similar cells to our cheek, yes. The stretching of muscles and pulling of viscera involved in actual vaginal stimulation is not sliding a BIC pen in and out. It's usually pushing and pulling hard enough to move your whole lower body around.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:47 PM
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Yes, but there are also other erogenous zones in the vagina that probably aren't clitoral that can bring about orgasm. Both fornixes cause different kinds of "deep" orgasms. I have hear the anterior fornix orgasms describes are more "WOW! HOLY SHIT!" while the posterior fornix orgasms are more "oh fuck...!" I only say this because my partner generally struggles to orgasm through clitoral stimulation alone and typically needs penetrative sex, sometimes without even touching her clit, in order to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:10 PM
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I do not understand what you are trying to communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:02 PM
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I'm not sure what you are saying to me. I am equal to my boss in that I can leave if the conditions are unfavorable. What point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:56 AM
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At its core, submission is the willingness to have things done to you. It's the desire for the passive role. It's the desire to follow competent leadership. It's the need to commit yourself to somebody who you probably place higher than yourself. If you want a good explanation on D/s power dynamics, check out The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book. They are fantastic resources
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:37 PM
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Okay, that's just not true. You're forgetting the first part where the sub consents to this lifestyle and remains a thinking human being who may withdraw consent at any time. You don't just accidentally fall into a power dynamic. It's thoroughly discussed, often with written contracts between the individuals participating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:33 PM
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Not at all. A weak submissive can't do anything for themselves and ends up putting everything on the dominant. It is the subs responsibility to establish and enforce boundaries and limits. They are supposed to add to, not take away. The submissive is still a partner, not a dependent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:56 PM
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Submissive doesn't mean stupid or helpless. It doesn't mean weak. It doesn't mean silent. Submissive is not incompetent. I push my partner to be independent and speak up for herself, especially at work and with family. She has been promoted twice at her job and now actually makes more than me partly bwcause I helped her feel confident and strong enough to go for it. I do not feel emasculated because of that. I am proud of her. I want my partner's input on things so that a better decision can be …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:57 PM
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For your information, I actually love that my partner challenges me. Submissive does not mean lesser. Real dominants want a submissive with a voice who has opinions and feelings. She helps me grow and makes me want to become the best man I can be for her. I'm genuinely sad for you that you see the world the way you do. You're angry and hateful about something you don't understand, and you aren't interested in understanding it. It's just smug ignorance, and I will not try to educate you about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:56 AM
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There's no point in talking to you. I don't like people like you, so I will not waste any more time. I bet you vote conservative too. Have a day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:00 AM
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Man, you should seek therapy. To respond to your question about what men want to do the rape, they're your cousin or your coworker or your partner. While I would never actually harm someone, the idea of taking what I want, how I want, and when i want it is thrilling. The power rush of the agressor side of CNC is no joke. There is a certain kind of satisfaction in knowing I could utterly overpower my partner, and she feels the same way about it. BDSM is a vent for our darkest animal desires. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:16 AM
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Way to minimize the consent of the submissive and ignore the entire mass of people who practice bdsm safely. Just because you don't like something, that doesn't mean nobody else does. For example, some people want to go through the ordeal of torture without any of the actual bad stuff typically involved like kidnapping, threat of death, or the inability to stop it. I have actually seen suspension artists do wire ballet while suspended from their back skin in real life. They say the endorphin rus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:11 AM
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As I consider myself a Dominant in bdsm, "submissive" can primarily be considered to be a willingness to allow yourself to have things done to you. It's a willingness to give yourself to me. It's a desire to serve and service me. It's saying "Here i am! I am yours!" In exchange, I do fun things to my partner (orgasms, spankings, etc). I accept my partner and encourage healthy growth (doing things for yourself, seeking fulfillment in life, standing up for yourself, etc) while punishing bad habits…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:45 PM
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Man, I was tentative to read this for a bit, but I agreed with pretty much every single word. Hell yeah, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:09 PM
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That bit about texting is not necessarily true. Most women I have texted in the past few years are shit at holding a conversation and lose my partner's and my interest pretty quickly. That one-sentence shit gets ignored or even shorter replies. I only give what I get
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:55 AM
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Holy shit! I can't believe I wholeheartedly agree with you for once. OP is a psychopath
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:42 AM
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It's both though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:56 AM
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I grew up in a predominantly Hispanic and Black neighborhood in South Florida, and I saw a lot of black girls thirsting over white guys. I actually was fwb with one when I was 22 who would joke "once you go white, you see the light" (which made me a little uncomfortable sometimes) because she said it was so hard to get her previous (mainly black guys) partners to go down on her, and they didn't really care if she came. She said her friends would hype up white guys for being more giving in bed, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:58 AM
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For most, this is fine. The idea of bowing and groveling to anyone, especially a potential sexual partner, makes my insides squirm though. I would much rather take that woman's position and have her take the worshiper's place. This is honestly a good dividing scenario for D/s in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:43 PM
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I'm saying that it isn't representative of what you look like whether you wear it or not, and to prefer yourself with it is a form of self-deception that will just hurt your self-image in the long run. It's no different from using a filter on snapchat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:31 PM
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But that isn't you anymore than the clothes you wear are you. It's like a mask. My partner does makeup art as a hobby sometimes, but she's devoid of makeup 95% of the time. Makeup is typically making you look aroused or like you just climaxed. Obviously you will look prettier when you are simulating your prettiest moment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:23 PM
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It's the idea that they can't help it that makes it not just apathy. It would be like a guy saying women just can't help gold-digging because it's just in their nature. I'm picking apart the thoughts here. It's the evolution of apathy into actual hatred that I am pointing out. It's not that they don't like that some men are arrogant and shitty. They think that men literally can't help but be arrogant and shitty. If they can't help it, then it is either because they are so ingrained in their inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:35 PM
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Yes, actions have consequences, which has almost nothing to do with what we are talking about. You were discussing responsibility to oneself or one's ex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:42 PM
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That's not apathy. That's them assuming he's too stupid to do anything else because "he can't help it." That is misandry unless assuming somebody can't do something because of their sex is not sexism anymore. Maybe you should look at yourself some too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:40 PM
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Today I found out that a few ppd ladies would be pretty into me, especially after talking for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:28 PM
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This may be true, but that amount tends to fluctuate between both people as time goes on. Sometimes, one person puts in more. Other times, the other person does. Relationships are push and pull, give and take
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:11 PM
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I understand what you are saying. You just aren't making a sound argument
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:15 PM
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I’ve also developed an “AMALT-style” cynicism toward men over time. Like when I see a man, even one I’m close to, be dismissive or arrogant toward myself or another woman, I feel a bit of indignation followed by “He can’t help it. You’ll never be loud enough to argue over him so just let him run into that brick wall on his own." It's important to recognize that this is the real sexism creeping in. This is how you get to where the person you are saying you don't understand is. You are dehumanizin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:00 PM
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Oh, this doesn't effect me at all. Both my partner and I are solidly working class. You just aren't drawing a real line of logic with your argument. They aren't mutually exclusive concepts, so there's no hypocrisy, so why should he?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:44 AM
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A lot of elements of your argument that you juxtaposed as hypocritical aren't, specifically about the alimony. Not wanting to take responsibility for another person doesn't negate wanting that person to take responsibility for themselves, and often goes hand in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:25 AM
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Oh man, yes. Chubby and curvy girls are life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:41 PM
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It's roughly 1 in 10, based on the studies I have seen, though I did just see one that supports your stats Source: I have one and looked up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:36 PM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:06 AM
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I literally had that conversation with a coworker TODAY. She specifically noted that one of the chefs we know is attractive partly because he can cook well while her partner (whom she is incredibly dissatisfied with but cannot leave yet for a reason) cannot. In my experience, if a lady is interested in me, then tastes my cooking, then that's pretty much it. It's one of the only things that I am borderline arrogant about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:53 AM
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I desire my partner. She is kind, smart, funny, and cute. She's a little chubby, and she has a bottom-heavy hourglass figure. She has full lips and long black hair. She's kinky, exploratory, and giving in bed. She indulges the couple of (genuinely not extreme) fetishes I have. We can do things together. We go on short hikes. We watch movies and play video games together. We can talk together literally all day. The vast majority of our political beliefs and life values line up. We are trying out …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:05 PM
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I can only speak for myself, but I consider myself pretty high-value for the most part. I'm tall, strong, intelligent, great in bed, and respected and valued at my job. I'm no millionaire, but I make enough to have a meager savings after everything is paid for. I have traveled all over the US, and I have met people from all over the world. I read books and can have long, deep conversations about complex subjects. Value is subjective though. I am not very social. I don't value money beyond necess…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:35 PM
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Nah, I work with a guy who has 2200 (not exaggerating) matches on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:52 PM
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Grouchy people who think 90% means 100% probably. I have met women just like you before. I know a lady who drools over hentai and muscley, big-dicked dudes as if she were a gay weeb guy who loved porn, and while I can generally assume that my initial comment applies to most women, I know there are ladies like you who need direct stimulation for arousal and ladies like my friend who are extremely visual like most guys are. Generalizations are only good if you genuinely acknowledge the ones that d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:04 PM
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Gotcha! All of that kind of lines up with my theory, honestly. Thanks for the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:56 PM
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Well, there you go. Maybe you need more of a direct approach like that then. Surely there's some inbetween before straight up grabbing your titties or rubbing his dick on you though. I see that you describe yourself as a masculine woman in your reddit profile. Do you think that might be part of why you feel how you do? Are you more into doing the feeling rather than being felt?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:13 PM
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Tl;dr hunting wouldn't have mattered if gathering wasn't going on Get off tiktok and read a book. 3 paragraphs really isn't much reading
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:41 PM
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I thi k context would matter here. I understand the guy at the massage spot at the mall probably isn't getting you excited, but a lover or a really close friend you have chemistry with? That wouldn't do anything for you? I'm genuinely curious, not knocking your response
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:40 PM
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Personally, I would have to say I do. Softness and gentleness are not weakness the same way ambition and brutality are not strength. I believe they both compliment and support each other in many ways and both are shadows or reflections of each other in that they are often opposites that fit together
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:28 PM
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Obviously women are typically arroused by different things in slightly different ways than men. If they weren't, then they would consume the same porn at the same rates as men. Yes, some women are visual and start panting at the sight of a buff guy with a huge drooling cock. Most need some kind of mental stimulation to really get going though. Most guys wouldn't get rock hard from a good shoulder massage from strong hands, good conversation, and the feeling of being listened to and understood. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:16 PM
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Totally different process from menstruation. Please go read a book. This borders on badwomensanatomy-level
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:41 PM
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My dude, you're being purposefully obtuse here. If gathering things was as easy as you say, then mycology, geology, and botany wouldn't be entire fields of science. Forget the fact that there are some plants that look different depending on their growing conditions. Forget how many toxic mushroom look-alikes there are with only subtle differences between edible and "kill you." Gathering would also probably include tool resources like wood, stones, and fibrous plants. It would include simple medi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:28 PM
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Honestly, from an evolution/logic point of view, there are so many reasons why this might be. Talkative men might have been too loud for ambush hunting. Women might have relied on group dynamics for survival more than men did. Properly raising children requires social skills, and women probably would have been the primary caregivers. Being able to read body language and vocal tone would be more important as the physically weaker dymorphic sex when tensions were high. Being able to socially fines…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:01 PM
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If I had all of my thoughts, interests, and desires, I would probably be a slutty lesbian since I like women doing more or less the same stuff I do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:12 AM
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Touchi g is like, step 5, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:59 PM
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I don't do social media beyond reddit, where I mostly look at cooking subreddits, porn, and this cesspit of joy. I still think basic respect of other people is morally correct. Where do you get your morals and opinions? The various interpretations of a 1500 year old book that's been run through google translate 5 times and editted into something that barely resembles the original?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:35 PM
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Go read The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book. Use google at all. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:31 PM
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This is stupid. Your idea is dumb. The only way artificial wombs help anything is by giving reproductive access to men who can't get a lady to have a kid with. Artificial wombs are just the male equivalent of a sperm bank for women. You can't just grow adults like that. Also, what the fuck, man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:16 PM
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Almost like it isn't really changing, and it's basically just "stop being a piece of shit, and treat people respectfully"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:11 PM
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In regards to the poor white southerners part, actually they cared a lot. Many interracial communities with very little discrimination formed in the south. Then the elites who just lost their slaves saw how powerful the collective political power of the poor whites combined with the poor blacks, so they created the KKK, and Jim Crow laws, and all of the other sources for the hate machine we see today. Poor black people and poor white people had way more in common right after the US civil war, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:25 PM
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Roughly 90% of the entire human population is naturally submissive, so... You're talking about human instincts. Do mothers not protect and provide? Do fathers not nurture? You have a weird view of the world, and I'm not interested in talking to you anymore because it seems very detached from reality, in my opinion. Please read more books and interact with real life people more
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:41 PM
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Both parents need time with the infant. That's what being a parent is. I think it's funny how "female instincts" are just some made up bs, but "male instincts" are 100% solid, and I'm less than for not fitting your definition of them. You hold double standards for both men and women, and I don't think you're putting together an effective argument. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:20 PM
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You're genuinely comical. Why are my genes crusty lol? My partner already expects to work when we have kids. We are actually considering moving to another country to hopefully have some better economic options in the future. You cannot shame my masculinity because I strive to be the kind of man that I would respect. Something something female instincts submission comforting etc. You see how dumb it sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:30 PM
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Then what are you complaining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:13 PM
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I'm not saying what is and isn't possible. I'm saying use your human brain and don't do it if you don't want to. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:12 PM
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No, you're over here complaining about the cake you ate already being in your stomach. You don't get to go "women are equals who run their own lives" then demand a man provides for you if you get pregnant. You want the kid too, right? Where did your strong independence go?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:11 PM
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Women get bored fucking the same guy who never does anything differently, you mean. 5.5 years deep, and my partner and I still usually have sex 4-7 times a week. We use toys, different positions, kink, satisfy each other's fetishes, and openly communicate before, during, and after. People who get bored with their lovers just aren't trying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:53 PM
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Stats like these boggle my mind. I don't understand people who do not care about their partner's pleasure. How can someone enjoy sex with somebody who isn't having THE BEST time?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:56 PM
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Abortion absolutely was a religious issue because the majority of both partisan sides didn't want it. You know who makes a big part of the elite (lobbyists, politicians, and the ultra-rich) though? WASP-y ma'fks who have never struggled with anything harder than deciding which maid to hire and can't even begin to imagine what it is like to be a destitute, single, pregnant woman staring down the barrel of life-long poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:18 AM
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This is one of the most assbackwards things I have read. Just don't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:12 AM
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What are you talking about? That has nothing to do with what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:58 AM
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So why do you want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:19 PM
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Doesn't that go against that point though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:46 PM
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Yeah, but those guys are stupid and disconnected from reality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:03 PM
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Forget the whole "beggars can't be choosers" bs. Your point is to get out of the mindset of a beggar period. You're absolutely right. On OLD, for example, I will not be the only one pushing the conversation. If a girl starts giving me 2 word answers and doesn't really ask any questions, she is getting left on read until she decides to be a participant. It's just about respecting yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:21 PM
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I suppose I see the world differently than you do. I do not give myself to everyone that I meet anymore. It is a waste of energy and time. If somebody seems like somebody I want to be around, I make the effort to have them in my life. If somebody makes me feel bad about myself or eats up so much of my time that I can't do the things that I want to do, then I don't have them in my life. Your way of life sounds exhausting and self-destructive to me, and I am doing my best to unlearn unhealthy patt…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:58 PM
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Then everything is transactional in life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:46 PM
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My affection isn't transactional. I just don't give it to those who do not deserve it. I do not waste my precious time and energy on people who do nothing for me. Unrequited love is something to stamp out and move on from, like an accidental fire. Giving yourself to someone who doesn't want you is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:20 PM
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No, but nobody is worth that, in my opinion. I would probably die for my partner if it came to it, but I'm never going to pay in order to cuck myself because it might make my unrequited love happy. That's just dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:02 PM
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I don't think that's true. I would expect it to basically come off as a guy getting "woman-vouched" for, kind of like when you hook a friend up with a job
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:44 PM
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My guy, you can pursue women who aren't your friends while having female friends. It is helpful to have girls as friends. They communicate slightly differently from guys, and when women see you have a lot of female friends, they drop a lot of the barriers they hold for other guys. A man with options does not need to pursue every pretty woman he meets
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:28 PM
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That's a scrub move, in my eyes. Pedestalizing anyone to that degree means you truly have no idea who they really are. It's like sacrificing everything for a ghost that you made up in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:56 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:22 PM
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Regarding the strip clubs and OF subscriptions, this seems like a fundamental misunderstanding of male sexuality to me. I wouldn't go to a strip club because I think all of the women are into me. I would go to see a stranger's titties in real life. I wouldn't buy an OF sunscription to get a girlfriend. I would buy one to see a woman that I couldn't normally see do things that I wouldn't know she was doing otherwise. It's a physical release, not an emotional one. Trying to go to sleep while turne…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:35 PM
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Just want to say that a man can value you as a person and still want to have frequent sex with you. You may be weeding out guys who only want sex, but you will also weed out decent men who just have a high libido
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:26 PM
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My partner pretty much says the same thing about me, so I second this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:50 AM
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I mean, would you want to have to get consent from your dildo to use it? You bought it for a purpose. It's not a person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:49 PM
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You literally just supported my argument. All of the examples I said fit that defininition. How does sexually teasing your partner help with the actual act beyond turning one or both parties on? That's literally "a strange habit, usually of a sexual nature." Please do more research before asserting ridiculous claims and acting like an arrogant child. I'm done with this conversation. You won't get any more responses from me in this comment line. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:19 PM
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Yes, teasing is mild S/M. The denial is "pain" inflicted on the one being denied. Putting a blindfold on your partner is kinky. Holding your partner's wrists down is kinky. Scratching your partner is kinky. Biting your partner is kinky. Liking being called a good girl/boy is kinky. Liking being called a slut or a bitch is kinky. Missionary CAN be kinky, but it isn't by default. Being on top doesn't mean you are in control. The woman on the bottom could be controlling his exact speed and depth of…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:58 PM
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BDSM literally stands for Bondage Domination Sadism Masochism. You're just unbelievably ignorant right now. The thing you are literally talking about is right there in the abbreviation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:56 PM
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Kinky people are regular people. If you're a functioning adult, you probably don't know that you know quite a few. You are also talking about kink. Domination and submission are kinks. If you like them (especially during sex), then you are kinky. Truly vanilla people approach sex as 50/50 equals. No pushing against the wall, no holding anyone down, none of that. Also, putting "tf" at the end of your post doesn't add anything to your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:29 PM
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I don't avoid women at all. I have a partner, and we are active seeking more women to share together. I don't suffer from a lot of the complaints on here anymore, but I do have some experience with them from when I was single and less attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:48 PM
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Source is the books, "The New Topping Book" and "The New Bottoming Book" as well as personal interactions with people into kink. It's not that most men are into BDSM, though most might be surprised how much they enjoy some kinks. Most men (and women) into BDSM want to have things done to them rather than do things to somebody. That is the most concise definition of what submission is. Domination is active and sometimes even straining. Submission is receptive and very freeing for those who crave …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:36 PM
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I am actually very dominant. My partner and I practice all kinds of kink. I am speaking based on statistics and interactions with other people into kink
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:27 PM
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I get what you're saying. I'm not arguing that repoir doesn't mean anything. If is dude just has no chance of physically exciting a woman, he can be the coolest, smartest guy otherwise, and it won't matter. A true sapiosexual is the only kind of person where personality and intelligence matter regardless of looks. They exist. They are not common though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:14 PM
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Predators are predators. Personality matters, yeah, but you wouldn't have had sex with those guys if they were genuinely ugly. For context, I don't struggle with women. I just acknowledge reality for a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:37 PM
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Except your profile is shit too... most people don't even read the peofile until after a match. Go make an average guy dating profile with your paragraph and see what you get. Also, again, most men are submissive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:22 PM
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It doesn't take much effort is the dude is attractive already. Girls are not going to listen to the short guy with a weird way of talking no matter what he is saying. I know a dude who is 5'5 with a not great face, and the only sexual encounter he has had cost him $200 in the vip room of a stripclub. The stripper didn't even touch him. He only ate her out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:18 PM
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Your first point is just incorrect, straight up. Go read about birds, for example. Your second point is also probably wrong. You only don't know if they have ever done it. Most sexual assaulters don't broadcast that info. I was groped many times throughout middle and high school by many different girls. There was one staircase I especially hated going up in 9th grade because a specific group of girls would grab dudes dicks and asses walking up. Security usually just laughed Your third point is r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:22 PM
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It doesn't matter if you are good in bed if nobody wants to get in with you. You might be awesome at step 5, but you need to do 1-4 first
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:04 PM
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Glorious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:02 PM
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See if there are any cooking, painting, or dancing classes in your area. You just have to actually try
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:31 PM
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The vast majority of both men and women prefer a submissive role. The stats I read about a year back were 92% women like being submissive while 88% of men prefer being submissive. Truly dominant personalities are actually really uncommon. Talk to 100 people in bdsm community, and you will meet like 9 Dominants, 41 switches that mostly lean submissive, and 50 submissives. Also, actual submissives care a lot about who they submit to. There's a lot of negotiation and getting to know each other befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:47 PM
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Well shit, you better never get on a car because they're waaaaaaayyyy more dangerous than men. In fact, don't go outside. So many people die outside every year! The sun will literally give you cancer!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:18 PM
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Gotcha! Yeah, that's our plan. We work our way up to both on me as my partner becomes more comfortable with the new lady. Most of what we want to do involves my partner being in the middle anyway, so I'm sure we will be fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:11 PM
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Yeah, but what you typed is essentially saying "if you want your relationship to survive as the man, be the elbow (middle?) and fuck up at least once." You used a double negative, so I'm having trouble understanding what you or your friend is trying to communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:00 PM
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Yeah, your friend's husband violated her consent. You're right that it CAN throw wrdges into relationships. That's why my partner and I have had on/off discussions about this for the past few years. It was her idea in the first place. Our rough plan is to either start with my partner in the middle (the elbow?) Or even with just her and the other lady while I direct in the beginning. I'm not 100% sure what your other friend is saying. Did you mean to say "not survive" or...? Cold approach sounds …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:23 PM
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Well, I guess you would just ha e to be pretty picky about which relationship you want to be involved in. Fortunately, my partner and I don't go through relationship bullshit. We have been together for 5 years with no splits. Our sex life is generally great. We have long-term plans. I'm sorry your friend was disappointed. Most people generally disappoint me as well, so I get that lol Edit: I also understand most dudes are just straight garbage in bed, especially in casual encounters. At risk of …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:53 PM
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Well, there you go lol. I'm not a sub at all, so we probably wouldn't be compatible, and that would be perfectly fine. My partner is intensely sub to me but has some switch interests with other women. I don't think looking for a 3rd has to be skeezy. We're very direct with our communication and expect the same from our partner. Negotiations have to be clear from the beginning while keeping things fun and friendly. It's like getting ready for an amusement park with somebody, except we are all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:32 PM
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Well, I'm not a troll, and neither is my partner lol. I do sympathize with you though. Lots of the couples I see are like that. I'm 6'1 with a good jawline, a deep voice, broad shoulders, and a naturally muscular build. My partner is a bottom-heavy hourglass shape with a 38E bra size and a very pretty face. I wouldn't call us 10's, but we aren't ugly. We are getting women interested in us. As for why, that's up to your imagination. If you can't think of anything you can do with 3 people instead …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:04 PM
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It's really not if that's what you want. A girl who wants both a woman and a man at the same time will have a great time with us. Why do you assume they are getting taken advantage of?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:44 PM
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You really don't have to explain what unicorn hunting is. You are forgetting the whole "she has to like us both equally, and we have to be the only dick she takes, and she has to be 100% respectful of our relationship as it is now, and she has to only want to fuck on our terms, and..." That's not us. We just want a girl that we get along and like hanging out with with that we can fuck together. She doesn't have to be this ridiculous fantasy person, there just has to be some chemistry between all…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:57 PM
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Not exactly. I only OPP my partner, and I consider it part of our bdsm dynamic. We also don't need her to like us both equally. It also doesn't have to be a romantic thing with all perfectly equal attraction. I don't mind if the lady we get has other male partners. There a bunch of subtle differences that separate us from your typical unicorn hunter. We are dating. We have a coffee date planned with a girl this weekend, in fact. We are not just rushing into sex with some random woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:24 PM
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That's literally what I do. My partner and I want a fwb we can have threesomes and hang out with, so that's what I say. Magically, I start getting matches with women interested in that setup trickling in after a few weeks. You guys are probably 100% right about clarity of intent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:34 AM
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I mean, I know some people struggle with recognizing that. I grew up around narcissists and lived with a psychopath for about 3 years. They all just come off as fake or reptilian to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:09 PM
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If I were a man-attracted woman, I would vet hard for personality. I would only form a relationship with a man who is considerate to those around him, kind to those he doesn't have to be kind to, generally honest, can stand up for himself (especially in difficult situations), and communicates his feelings, needs, and wants clearly. Those are all standards I hold myself as a man to in a relationship, so i would accept nothing less from my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:25 PM
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-phobic implies "a dislike of," not necessarily "a fear of." It's the opposite of phillic, which is "a like of."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:57 PM
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Is something is phobic, it is repelled by something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:04 PM
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-Phobic implies a lack of attraction. Hydrophobic surfaces repel water. Hydro- meaning water and -phobic meaning not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:03 PM
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Etymologically, it does lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:49 PM
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Real confidence bleeds into behavior. In day to day life, I'm pretty confident in myself. I can tell my bosses I don't like their ideas. I can hold eye contact with pretty women during a conversation. I forget about weird interactions soon after I have them. I am strong, good at my job, and excellent in bed. There's nothing anything anybody can say to hurt me that I haven't said 1000 times to myself already. Knowing all of this about myself gives me confidence which allows me to interact with mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:57 PM
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Ooh an opportunity to talk about loyalty! Loyalty is one of the foundation blocks for trust. Even in a polyamorous relationship, the concept of loyalty exists through disclosure and consistently being there for your partner. It's an unwillingness to break that trust that really defines loyalty. Personally, I would never break my partner's trust. I know what we have, and I value and prioritize it. We have plans and goals for our life together. I'm not going to throw that away just because a girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:09 PM
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Yeesh, you're pretty sexist against both sexes. There's nothing transactional about my relationship beyond the basic idea any relationship being made of a mutually beneficial group of people. The stuff we do for each other is stuff we typically want to do anyway. I'm not expecting sex because I made a bomb-ass dinner. It just turns my partner on that I cook so well, so we end up having sex. I don't comfort my partner when she is having an anxiety attack because she is going to blow me. I do it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:44 PM
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Man, you sound like the type of guy he wasn't talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:45 AM
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Well, Dominant women get turned on by men who do what they say, so the lube probably isn't as important in that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:44 AM
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I think this is partly to do with a submissive vs dominant mentality. Dominant people want to set things up. They want to give others an experience. They are happy to pick something they like to do and share it with the person they like. Suissive people want to be taken somewhere. They want to have an experience and get stimulated by it. They are happy for someone to pick something nice for them to do, and they enjoy the feeling of being whisked away on an adventure with their counterpart
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:42 AM
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When you have to explain that the forest exists when all the trees are right there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:57 AM
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People need to realize that confidence doesn't mean "no shame." Fuckboys who play the numbers game don't have to be confident. If they have a 5% success rate and talk to 20 women in a week, 1 is going to have sex with him. Then all the sudden, it's "he's just naturally confident in his ability to get women." No. He just played the field and was pretty sure SOMEBODY would fall for his spiel of "ayy girl. You know what they say about big earlobes, right?" Is that confidence? No, that's just being …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:53 AM
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Narcissists delude themselves into thinking they are more important than they are because they can't accept that they are just as insignificant as the people they shit on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:47 AM
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Read up on NPD. Narcissists are the most insecure people in the world. Point out a big flaw they don't like about themselves and watch the month-long meltdown. Watch them claw for recognition and respect even when they don't deserve it. Watch them turn everything good into something about themselves while distancing themselves as much as possible from the bad. Observe as they manipulate, decieve, and plot to keep people around them in order to feed their crystalline, fragile ego. Narcissists are…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:45 AM
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They do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:31 AM
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I mean, I was able to pull the occasional girl back in college when I was at my fattest, least confident and most desperate by faking confidence at first. One girl really helped me grow into my real confidence with how good our dates always felt and how enthusiastic she was in bed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:30 AM
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Even if it wasn't, who cares? It's still true. Her best friend must be chad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:25 PM
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The focus on media is a little heavy-handed, but basically all of this is right...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:21 PM
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All genuinely good advice tbh. I couldn't really find anything wrong. This is how you carry yourself like an attractive man in my experience. I would switch the word "aloof" for "independent" though because that's what really matters. Women want to be wanted, not needed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:20 PM
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You can look up the studies, domination is about as popular with women as anal sex is with men. Most women do like it. You just might not while you judge others who are, when all it does is make you look like off-brand vanilla ice cream
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:02 PM
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The trick is to not wait for them to make the first move. Carry yourself like somebody who is attractive while treating them like they could just be another friend. If you feel like they might have some interest in you, then you can start flirting. Worst case scenario, you start collecting female friends who at least respect you as a man. Then all the sudden you have 3 girls talking you up to other women, trying to get you laid and in a relationship. It's about confidence and perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:14 PM
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That sounds really hard. Hobbies don't have to be expensive though. It could be as simple as taking pictures of the flowers on a walk with your phone. You could get into making earthenware from your own refined clay (all you need is dirt and a bucket). It just sounds like you aren't caring for yourself anymore. You need to reaffirm that you matter to yourself. I'm very sorry that you are going through all of that stress
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:13 PM
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It kind of sounds like you need to reclaim yourself as a person. That sounds really tough. Do you have any hobbies you put down for your kids or somethi g you have always wanted to do? This might be the time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:53 PM
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So why not be single?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:45 PM
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This has nothing to do with "men" and everything to do with your choice of partner. Pick a better guy, or at least pick a dude who expresses affection the way you want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:09 PM
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I'm not even sure who you are talking to anymore. I take it back. Keep wasting your time. It's gone past confusing into funny. Call me a simp and a cuck again, friend. You're really typing those words up. You go!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:32 PM
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I didn't imply any of that lmao. In fact, my partner is my submissive. We are actively seeking other women to have sex with together. Please leave me alone now. I know you conservatives are big on misinformation, but it's pretty silly to try and brainwash me about my own life. I'm sorry you are so frustrated in life that you feel the need to try and bring others down to your level, but I'm only interested in living my life the best that I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:56 PM
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Your projection is so real. Please have a nice day. I see no purpose in continuing this further. You have just proved my point many times over
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:46 PM
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I espouse LaVey's views on sex. Have as much as you want with whomever you want, however you want. However, it ahould never control you. You also need to accept the consequences of your actions, i.e. cheating can end valued relationships. Sex is one of the great joys in life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:33 PM
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Take your own advice, friend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:30 PM
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I literally travel around the country for my work... I have worked in Florida, Oregon, Arizona, Montana, and Colorado. Don't tell me to go outside and talk to people. That's literally part of my job
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:25 PM
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It's almost the exact same insult in usage, honestly. You just put special weight in the word for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:23 PM
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Unless you are some kind of biological oddity, I don't believe you. All of the women in my life are heavily effected by their hormones. To deny hormonal effects on behavior is ignorant approaching willfully choosing to ignore reality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:21 PM
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You are genuinely hilarious. Keep crusading
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:19 PM
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"Oh no! You're everything I actually want in my fantasies, but I would feel inadequate and threatened by your sex drive and lifestyle despite constantly reaping the benefits in the long term, and I could never admit this publicly or even admit it comfortably to myself because it would only highlight how irrational it is" This is the fear I mentioned in another comment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:10 AM
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Nah, conservatives in my country don't deserve the niceties they were afforded previously. I'm personally glad that republicans are dying of covid more frequently than the goofy dems. At least Democrats can understand basic math sometimes. Republicans are scared of anything that wasn't written 2000 years ago or that has scientific backing regardless of how simply you break it down for them. Every conservative that I have met in the past 2 years has spewed nonsense from "they worship the devil an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:06 AM
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Yeah, this is basically how you select for a decent lady
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:00 AM
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Cheating Violence (especially related to my genitals or face. I don't stand for that shit) General disrespect Entitlement Stupidity Selfishness Low sex drive Lack of any kind of activity Lack of curiosity Bigotry Strong religious views other than athiest Actual nagging
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:58 AM
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Hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:54 AM
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Us dominants are a tiny population. The last stat I saw was roughly 12% of men are actually sexually dominant, and only 8% of women are sexually dominant. Dom(me)s are almost a commodity in the bdsm scene with switches often filling the role out of necessity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:47 AM
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I wear XXL shirts because XL shirt sleeves end up in my armpits, and I look like a guy trying to wear clothes that belong to a guy half my weight, especially in my chest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:27 AM
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85% of convicted rapists are men. Let's not touch on the fact that in some countries, men literally cannot be raped in a legal definition of the word. I think more men are chefs too, just saying Ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:14 AM
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Yes, and you feel the exact same at all points in your menstrual cycle, right? Hormones don't do shit, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:45 AM
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And he gets called a pretentious asshole when he talks like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:41 AM
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Nice casual sexism, dude. Real rad!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:56 PM
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I'm saying they are targeting the wrong demographic when girls have higher attendance rates, graduation rates, and graduation gpa. You're being purposefully obtuse at this point with your all-or-nothing fallacy, and I don't argue with people who do that. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:24 PM
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You invalidated your own boundary though. I didn't do shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:12 PM
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If you don't want to talk about it, don't give an opinion about it, especially not on a debate subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:07 PM
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Special treatment in general. What? Boys are consistently falling behind in many formative aspects in society. Look at graduation rates. Look at all the encouragement for girls to go to school. Look how little there is for boys. Look how there are tax breaks for woman-owbed businesses. Look at the #BelieveAllWomen attitudes that pervade our society. Come on. Don't cover your eyes and pretend like girls are ground into the dirt in western society. Boys are not in a good spot, generally
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:06 PM
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I mean, you could give and take there. Maybe teach boys to manage their expectations and maybe we take 1 step down from telling every girl she deserves the world
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:57 PM
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Men are nature too, ya silly. We aren't extradimensional robots summoned through occult magic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:56 PM
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I don't really care about the welfare argument, but it's hypocritical to say you don't want to discuss it before giving a definitive and conclusive opinion on the matter. You don't get to call him out and try to shame him when you literally invited a response after saying you didn't want to talk about it. Doing that looks stupid and like you can't handle real discourse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:53 PM
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Like we didn't just set a fire next to a herd opposite a cliff while hucking rocks at the animals until they ran off. Why waste energy and put yourself at risk when you can just scare 30 of them into falling to their deaths?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:43 PM
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"just be yourself" isn't advice for attraction. It's advice for compatibility. It also doesn't mean "you're fine just as you are." It means to stay true to who you are as a person. Yes, you can be yourself while exploring new hobbies, improving skills, and working on your physical appearance. Just because you assumed it meant something else, that doesn't make it bad advice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:58 PM
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If you don't like cooking, you're missing out. It's a full sensory experience. I can guide someone's cooking with just my ears and nose. Working with dough is one of the coolest tactile sensations out there. The pitch of a sizzle and how hard it crackles changes with the water content or heat level in whatever you're cooking. Smelling herbs and spices blend with different oils on different vegetables and proteins is right up there with any perfume. Then after stimulating your ears, nose, hands, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:32 PM
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Drag makeup heavily influenced the looks from 2016 on. Everything in drag is 10000%. Contour the fuck out of your cheeks. Insanely feminizing eye shadow (wings and the like). Emphasize the eyebrows to exaggerate expression and draw even more attention to the dramatic eyes. The more "natural" feminine makeup look is only now starting to come back again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:11 PM
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I'm a guy, and I really want to have kids and be a dad. I want to give them experiences and opportunities that I never had as a kid. I want them to grow into less broken people than I am. I want them to be happy and express themselves freely and assertively. I want to teach them all the shit I had to learn the hard and painful way. To be a father sounds the highest attainable happiness out there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:06 PM
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I'm probably not the best one to talk to about that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:19 AM
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Yes, Jonah Hill was never made fun of. Even in The Other Guys, he's basically just a juxtaposition to Channing Tatum after losing a bunch of weight. I'm sure Brad Pitt's looks had nothing to do with his popularity
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:26 PM
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Don't feed the trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:19 PM
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Nah, I think you just stopped seeing the bad shit. Reality only gets more horrifying as I get older, and I was raised by a neglectful, abusive hoarder
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:11 PM
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Either you both sit down and honestly discuss how to be more respectful of each other or you move on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:57 PM
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I absolutely support contraceptive and abortion rights for everyone. I think we should be investigating more methods outside of hormonal birth control as well. Surely there is a way that would allow couples to have unprotected sex without hormone changes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:37 PM
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Don't feed the trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:22 PM
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I just find being straightforward saves time and effort in getting what I want out of whatever relationship I'm establishing. If she doesn't want what I want, then I can turn my attention to other prospects, where I will eventually exactly what I want from someone who wants what I offer. The trick is making yourself worth having around for what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:28 PM
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I'm not giving an example of a man leading a woman specifically. You are missing my forest because I showed you a tree. My point is that is how a lot of interactions go in relationships. You example of how to unwind after work is weak as well. You are probably not helping as much as you think by suggesting random relaxation activities. I had to stop doing that with my partner because it just overwhelmed her. The same goes for food. Too many options, and she doesn't want anything Finally, you mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:15 PM
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NotAllWomen In all seriousness, I agree with you and the other commenter. Leading isn't about making all the decisions for your partner. It's about taking everyone's needs and inputs from the group (in this case, usually a man/woman couple) and deciding the best course of action from there. W: I'm hungry M: Me too! What sounds good to you? W: I don't know... Not Italian M: Alright, do you want nice or cheap? W: cheap. We spent too much last week on going out. Let's cut back this time. M: sounds …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:01 PM
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I mean, if you want to get this hardline about it, nothing is a need beyond basic sustenance. Hell, there's no need for reproductive autonomy, technically. There's no need to ever go outside or talk to anybody. You're arguing semantics very poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:02 PM
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catholic church pedophilia scandals over and over all over the world Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:59 PM
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Well, then it sounds like your social anxiety is what's getting in your way. Confidence and maintaining eye contact are step 1 to flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:41 PM
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Good for you. You're still too stupid to do anything with them at that age and have any real capacity to understand the difference in brain power
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:45 PM
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Personally, I think those women should be tried, imprisoned, and registered on the sex offender list just like the inverse situation. Boys are stupid and will happily traumatize the shit out of themselves to look cool for their friends. To expand on this, I think there should be grey between the ages of 18 and 21. As soon as you can go buy alcohol, underage sex should hardline not be allowed anymore. Before then, there should be some leeway. It would be too easy for a 21 year old to go get a bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:00 PM
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How is it not? You are admiring what they are, not who they are when you look at their body
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:29 PM
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Let's be real here, please. Objectification and sexuality go hand and hand. You really think most ladies are just attracted to Jason Mamoa's personality? Everybody objectifies everybody when it comes to attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:30 PM
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But how could they be attractive if nobody is attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:38 PM
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So then would you say that someone could be considered universally attractive whive simultaneously having nobody attracted to them? If not, then they logically can't be separate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:17 AM
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So are you saying you have no choice in who is your partner? I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:15 AM
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You're arguing semantics based off of your personal definition of words at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:33 PM
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You said if they only can choose that men don't rape them, then their choice doesn't matter. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:29 PM
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So ice cream sales cause crime. Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:28 PM
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It's more like hiking, diving, or exploring a city. If you only do the first mile of a long trail, only explore the shoreline while diving, or only hit the tourist trap places, then you don't really get a feel for the local or activity. An experienced cave diver can do the shallows. A hiker who did the Pacific Crest Trail won't struggle on a 20 mile hike. The local who knows what a good bodega is like in New York will probably have better luck discerning which are worth checking out in another c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:26 PM
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I feel only slightly more clear on your idea of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:20 PM
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How so? In a biological sense, choosing to not get raped is massive for evolution. Also, look it up. It's newer research on genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:19 PM
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Something something only like anime boys something something don't want to put in the effort something something the pot calling the kettle black
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:13 PM
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This reads a lot like a guy with porn addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:35 PM
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While I enjoy hentai, it might be good for you to get more real world experience. Hentai sex is somehow less realistic than regular porn. The titties are always crazy big. The dicks are all 18 inches long. The people don't act like people do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:07 PM
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You have never watched some dude working hard then pick up something actually heavy (at least 100+ lbs/45+ kg) and felt something watching that? My partner basically can't keep her hands off me after I do something that requires physical strength. In my head, being strong was always kind of like the male equivalent to big titties since we can't wave our dick and balls around to show off their size. Maybe it's confirmation bias on my end, but 3 of my exes told me actual strength is hotter than ae…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:05 PM
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We are actually about as close to gorillas, chimps, bonobos, and orangutans. Each uses a different strategy of mating. Gorillas=typically monogamous Chimps=short term relationships with social status meaning a lot and occasional rape Bonobos=sex all the time for any reason with everyone Orangutans=biggest male gets a harem with prevalent rape
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:52 PM
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It's literally there to make you look aroused
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:47 PM
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What is your definition of attraction since you keep saying sexual attraction doesn't count?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:45 PM
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I honestly don't really care what my partner's job is in the grand scheme of things. The journalist might have cheated through college, and the girl at Walmart might have her MA in organic chemistry. I don't love my partners for their career. I love them because of how they make me feel when I am with them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:35 AM
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You're basically screaming that ice cream causes crime because ice cream sales go up and crime goes up during the summer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:47 PM
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Sleeping with 1 woman 50 times is arguably better if you have had any other experience aside from it. Sleeping with 50 women won't tell you anything other than vagina feels good. Sleeping with 1 woman 50 times would give you time to explore her likes and dislikes while she does the same for you, giving you much more practical sexual experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:22 PM
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Nah, masculine pride knows when to step aside. This is boyishness that wasn't socialized out as they got older
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:19 PM
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You can still use condoms in addition to the various forms of hormonal bc and copper iud's. You only have more options than men do currently. You get to pick what form of contraception you use. Guns and knives kill everyone the same way. I do avoid it altogether. I have been jumped for no reason before. If 2 guys attacked me, I'm just as fucked as you. I don't really fight, so i would feel just as out of my element as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:19 PM
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What is your point? That's not really what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:14 PM
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Frequent, straightforward communication without mincing words or implying your real meaning is the best way in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:08 PM
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Blindly trusting anything or anyone is a fool's gambit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:01 PM
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Please tell me mine. I love when people tell me about me. Go through all of my post history if you want to make sure you got it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:57 PM
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I currently have a relationship with almost no friends. It's not really that bad. I don't like most people anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:53 PM
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About the birth control, that was fought for by women for decades. Men don't have even close to the options. Your hardship here is something that genuinely makes me jealous. I can't wait for something like Vasogel to come out. Vasectomies are not intended to be reversible any more than getting your Fallopian tubes cut, tied, and cauterized is. I get you about the fear of violence, but only because I feel the exact same way as a guy on the street at night. Anyone who isn't a little jumpy on the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:52 PM
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Almost like looks aren't usually why people cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:48 PM
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as a tall man, I fucking hate them too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:42 PM
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I could write a whole list for this, but it all really boils down to society just generally not caring about us. There are no ads to get me into working at a daycare, yet girls have millions spent of several year advertising campaigns to get them into STEM (to almost no effect). Graduation rates have been dropping for boys both in high school and college while girls steadily climb year after year. There are huge pushes to give women more freedoms and privilege while I get jack shit if I don't cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:41 PM
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Yes and no. Our societal value is inherently tied to what we can provide materially. That's not really true for ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:34 PM
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Yeah, MensLib is like a "reeducation camp" subbreddit where you are expected to internalize that all of society's problems stem from white men, especially men's problems. Fuck that shithole of a subreddit. I got perma'd for talking about how I grew up poor in an area that was only 13% white non-hispanic, so my race didn't help me at all. No slurs. No hate. Almost no anger. Just a rejection of the narrative being pushed that went directly against my experiences. Permabanned
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:32 PM
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Nah, it's a big part of why I gave up on my dream of being a teacher. I don't need that extra 1% risk, especially for a job that pays less than dirt
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:23 PM
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First off, my partner uses Flexdiscs and recently got a reusable cup. I'm pretty hyped for her. ​ Second off, lots of cultures give women a coming of age rite. The sweet 16. The Quincenera. The Bat Mitzvah... I'm sure there are more. I just don't feel like doing research right now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:20 PM
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seasoning doesn't really add any caloric content if it isn't sugar or oil. That's on you for sucking at cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:10 PM
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Just going to say that your idea of an "overweight chubby girl" is legit my favorite female body type, and she looks great in that picture. ​ Do your actual best to be reasonably healthy, be able to hold and carry an intelligent conversation with a bit of fun and humor thrown in, and have confident, flirtatious body language. You will eventually find a woman who likes you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:06 PM
1

that's the word you meant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:57 PM
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I guess you do have more time in college if you don't work. That's just wild to me. Surely she could get 95% the same results with 1/4 the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:56 PM
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No, it isn't the same kind of effort. It also isn't THAT much harder to lose weight. We just tend to be bigger, so we have to eat more to maintain our body. Pounds of body fat have basically the same caloric content regardless of sex. Men and women tend to gain weight in different ways too. Ladies have much more subcutaneous (pretty) fat while men tend to build visceral (belly) fat primarily. Unless you have a major hormone problem, it's almost the exact same amount of effort to lose weight acro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:35 PM
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That dude sounds crazy. They should have had you play Neo in The Matrix
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:16 PM
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"They don't take as much effort. You can just spend money as long as you don't mind the sting." Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:14 PM
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If you are trans, you were always a woman in a man's body. That's how being transgender works, right? Were you pursuing women as a man or were you indetifying with them because that's who you really are? Your point of being trans doesn't make sense or support your argument if you were MtF
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:07 PM
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You're comparing nascar driving to city driving
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:03 PM
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Most makeup techniques are literally making a woman's face look like she just had an orgasm and is extremely aroused while hiding flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:55 PM
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Yes, and I look so much like the old spice guys...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:52 PM
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Alright, I'm going to say what this translates to me in my head based on previous conversations I have had in regards to this subject. women wear makeup and get dressed up to look sexy for men (even though ladies swear it is for themselves and other women). Since women try SO hard to appeal to men, men should take the same approach and use artistic skill to hide their flaws and emphasize subtle facial composition. I acknowledge that this sometimes takes 4 HOURS to do, but I think it's reasonable…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:33 PM
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Keep having lots of sex with your partners because that's really good for a relationship, but understand that people are usually with someone because they like them a lot. They aren't stuck with you anymore than you are stuck with them. No matter what you tell yourself, you can't argue the fact that nobody is forcing them to be with you, so it must be by their own desire that they are there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:22 PM
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Firat off, you deacribed asocial behavior. Antisocial behavior is that of a sociopath. Second, no. I have very few friends that I interact with frequently. I like my quiet alone time. I think a lot. It would be silly for me to expect a potential partner to be a wild extrovert with a village of friends since I am the complete opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:59 PM
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I don't go to bars and clubs anyway, so your question is a bit moot towards me. I don't really care for alcohol, so it's not really the spot for me. With regards to hanging out with people, i have friends and acquaintances between the ages of 19 and 46. I'm 28 right now. I don't know if this answers any of your questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:53 PM
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First off, you said you made fun of the 30 year old women, not men. Secondly, men making fun of women for getting older is also stupid. Time stops for no one. We will all be old someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:07 AM
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You don't have to explain RACK to me. My partner and I practice a dynamic. I'm just saying a young person who struggles to find partners her age is just asking to be taken advantage by somebody who says they know what's up, but really has just watched a lot of bdsm porn and thinks they have a new 21-year-old toy to go all queensnake on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:04 AM
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Yeah, that sounds like what people who are into kids tell their friends to guage their reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:11 AM
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That's fair. I was just pointing out the odd grouping between the two
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:10 AM
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I'm personally not really into anal. I'm very sensitive to smells, so I tend to stick with the sex acts that don't inherently involve much excrement. It's an act I would like to do someday, but I have basically no desire to pursue right now. My sex life really isn't suffering without it. From what I understand, anal kinks are about as common with men as domination kinks are with women (both are statistically the #1 kink for each sex respectively), so most guys will fantasize about it and want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:08 AM
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I'm one of those women happily return types. There is some stuff that can be taken and used from porn. A lot of the stuff that looks like it would be awesome is. A lot of it also isn't. Leaning back reverse cowgirl is mainly for the camera and is one of the more dangerous positions for some penile injuries. Spit isn't enough lube for anything except oral. Anal requires lots of prep. Dry anal requires even more prep. Porn scenarios tend to be very unrealistic ("STEPBROOOOO"). I saw an instruction…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:59 AM
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That's heartbreaking. I'm sorry you went through that. If you could go back in time, would you do anything differently? Would you have stayed as long as you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:03 AM
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That's the difference. The trust isn't broken, so the relationship isn't damaged
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:58 AM
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In high school, I briefly had a long distance thing with a friend online. We sexted and traded nudes and discussed shared fetishes and how we wished we could do the stuff we talked about. She knew about my real life girlfriend. My real life girlfriend didn't know about her until a few months later. We should have just broken up since I broke the trust, but we hung on for another year and a half with her becoming extremely controlling and abusive by the time things ended. I had stopped talking to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:56 AM
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That's the type of person who will eventually push things to far and get hurt though. Edge play is refered to as such for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:28 AM
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Your former close friend is a pedophile, straight up. Any guy who says that probably prefers them at 14, probably just like your friend. Don't give passes just because she has a vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:24 AM
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So you find them attractive, you just wouldn't do anything out of stigma
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:22 AM
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This just sounds like you are saying you can't compete with your peers, so you need to be the baseline they grow from...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:18 AM
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In 7 years, you would be there though. I don't understand the idea of anything less than like 10 years being such a drastic difference. Also, why were you dating him if it was so weird? Was it actually that strange or did your friends mainly have an issue with it? Surely you dated him for a reason, right? To me, this just sounds like peer pressure and jealousy stuff from them to keep you from having something you wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:12 AM
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Having a mortgage means he had a house though. You're acting like that's a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:08 AM
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That's like standing in line at the gallows and laughing at the people before you, knowing you're going to be up there soon. I can't even imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:55 AM
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then gets up to be useless as fuck at work the next day, putting your workload onto others because you're hungover and still drunk Ftfy My last boss used to do that. I just took his position
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:52 AM
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I was just straight up wondering what your definition was
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:14 AM
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What makes a man attractive in your eyes? Is it a demeanor? Is it a facial thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:35 AM
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You don't think any of that anger and frustration bleeds into your interactions with women? Also, maybe you are waiting too long to act. Maybe you are acting too fast. Maybe it seems like you aren't actually interested until you spring it on them. Is your body language communicating what you want it to? Do you maintain eye contact and wait for them to break it first? Do you mirror them? Are you watching her mouth as she speaks? Do you let her see you looking at her body? You need to be sending a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:26 AM
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My body is similar to this guy on the right, but flabbier. I work physical jobs, and encourage other average men to do the same. I have done construction. I have been a product receiver for restaurants. I have done intake for furniture warehouses. I have never been to a gym. I mostly read, cook, and play video games in my off-time, but I occassionally will go for a 2-5 mile hike maybe once every few weeks. ​ As for the "as friends" part, that's the whole idea. Have confident body language, make …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:15 PM
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No, I'm saying simping over every girl that makes your balls tingle is how you put out desperate vibes instead of confident vibes. I talk to women like people. I actively listen to them when they talk, and I show genuine interest in what they have to say if I care about the subject. Amazingly, that makes people like you and want to talk to you. You also forgot how I'm 280 pounds (127 kg). It's not like I'm some ripped dude with blonde hair and blue eyes working a 6-figure job. ​ I'm also primari…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:49 PM
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Yes, but so did wealth, family reputation, sex, and many other things
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:19 PM
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It's something I have no patience for and would never accept in a partner, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:28 PM
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Yeah, that's my point. It's directly related to race and has nothing to do with social standing or money
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:18 AM
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If most guys stopped chasing women so hard, shit wouldn't be so unbalanced. I don't flirt with girls. I talk to women like I talk to guys. I have conversations about their interests and show genuine interest in them. I freely talk about how much I care about my partner if she comes up in a conversation. I am professional, friendly, and polite at work. I have had more women look me up and down or seem a little flustered since adopting this behavior than I ever did when I chased after them. I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:09 AM
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All you really said is that it's harder for men than women to be physically attractive. That goes without saying. Just quit being so scared
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:54 AM
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You just haven't heard about the 6666 standards then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:33 AM
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They were intertwined in that if you were black, you were probably poor. If you were rich, you were probably white. This does not mean that all white people were rich though. There were probably some white families who lived poorer than the Till family in the same area. That doesn't mean they would have been lynched for whistling at a woman in a higher social class. Think about things just a little bit before getting defensive. Race was definitely the single biggest factor. Till could have come …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:47 PM
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The article you linked said that it gender roles may have a part in decreasing uncertainty in a relationship, especially for men. They also implied that it only matters when both partners hard adopt the gender roles. ​ This sounds like the guys don't have much in the way of a personal identity and just feel better after defaulting to the provider-man trope if his partner defaults to the homemaker-woman trope. Considering how little boys and men are encouraged to find themselves and their passion…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:43 PM
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yeesh. Way to abbreviate and minimize the other forces at play with Till's murder. There was much more than just class differences at play there. The accuser even recanted her testimony on her death bed like the coward she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:24 PM
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I see you weren't raised by a narcissist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:10 PM
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I mean, do you want every unique pain to be felt by everybody? If they invented a machine that makes you feel what terminal pancreatic cancer feels like, are you going to climb in as a show of solidarity for those suffering with it? ​ If you really dig at the why you feel that way, the only logical end is wanting some kind of revenge for an unequal pain. That's a toxic thought pattern that has no place in a relationship. I don't wish my partner knew what it feels like to get hit in the balls. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:57 PM
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I can't think of any other source for that desire other than bitterness or sadism. When I do things for my partner that she can't do, I don't begrudge her that. I don't demand she spend 4 hours making full dinners because I do sometimes. I don't demand she do things that are physically strenuous even for me. Hell, I wish she could live a pampered life where she barely does anything she doesn't want to and never suffers. That's just not real life though. Sometimes one person just has to do someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:53 AM
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Yeah, I agree. This basically how I see it too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:08 AM
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I have a pretty physical job that demands about 3-6 hours of moderate weight lifting and cardio 5 days a week. My arms have gotten substantially bigger, and I'm steadily losing weight again. I think most young men should look for a physical job to feel what really using their body is like. It keeps you active and gives you confidence. It's cool to know that I can carry 150 lbs in my hands more than 30 feet away. You don't have to dedicate hours per week to a workout as long as you maintain a hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:57 PM
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I genuinely don't find celebrities to be especially attractive compared to the average person facially, and most female celebrity bodies are more or less the same shape which is too skinny imo. Sofia Vergara is the most attractive celebrity that comes to my mind, but I literally went to school with women with prettier faces and similar bodies. Emma Watson was just fetishized by 4chan
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:24 PM
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It's not like the inch drops off. That's just fat burying it. Lose the weight and you get the full dick length again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:12 PM
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Just want to say that I have never begged or insulted or been aggressive after being reject. The most I remember asking was "I guess I waited too long, huh?" She just flat out said yeah. It is what it is. Most of the time, I just say "alright" and move on. I know not every dude does this. There are just plenty of others like me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:19 PM
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I have to wonder about how genuine that is though. You don't know those ladies. They might see you as a threat and be givi g you false confidence. You know 100% that dude means that though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:36 PM
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Ayy I'm agreeing with JanuPhilo today. I also equate casual sex with fast food. A long term partner can be like a buffet of your favorite food, all perfectly cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:43 PM
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It also took months to cross the ocean. Everything is faster. What took months is done in hours now. Everything is faster and with a bigger scale with the internet now. ​ If you want to talk history, you could say the last sacking by barbarians was the true end of ROME. Imagine if messages traveled in seconds rather than weeks though. Byzantium had its own history for a while afterwards, so I count that as separate. The Holy Roman Empire was just the church trying to control the monarchs of Euro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:12 PM
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Active listening Remember she isn't a robot Remember you aren't a robot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:08 PM
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I disagree. Lots of people form lasting relationships, both romantic and platonic, at cons and the like. Just because it isn't your personal choice for meeting romantic partners, that doesn't mean it isn't worth trying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:46 PM
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Conventions aren't as bad as you would think. There will obviously be the stinky, greasy guys who most women don't want to be near. There will also be the regular guys who collect miniatures or like anime or just have a video game hobby. I have seen dudes with gym-carved abs cosplaying pyramid head or whatever, and I have seen women wearing costumes amounting to a fur bikini with a spear (think Nidilee from LoL). At any convention bigger than a local level, you will see all types
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:22 PM
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First off, I don't think that's a matter of figuring out how to regulate it rather than caring enough to write the regulations. ​ As for the difference between making porn and having sex with strangers, it's mainly the contact and performance of the sex act on them. Don't pretend like there isn't any crossover. Plenty of ladies on OF do meetups. Please understand that I'm not against sex work or the people who do it. I just don't pretend like it isn't all in the same field with different aspects…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:46 PM
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If it's regulated properly, pimps and traffickers won't have a leg to stand on in the first place though. I don't think the labor force is as lacking as you think. OF is booming. Prostitution is only a few steps removed. I don't think all OF creators would switch to it, but if even 10% did, that would be a huge population being brought into the prostitution workforce
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:33 PM
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You're forgetting the entire other side of what I said about regulating it as well. We don't just let liquor stores sell shit willy-nilly. Weed stores in legal states are heavily regulated and require licensing. I'm pretty sure most brothels in Nevada are pretty legit considering the fact that they can literally get google reviews now. It's not just about not putting people in jail. It's about making sure things are done safely and legally through enforcement of regulations and legal standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:19 PM
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I don't agree. It's different when you are doing something hard for someone other than yourself. It's not just you anymore. I think this is much more likely to be "Family=more to work for" than "more work time -> family."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:08 PM
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I think it's the idea that starting fresh from nothing would be better than continuing the way things are to them. I understand the romantic appeal, but I also like history, so I just want to get out before the first shots really start
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:03 PM
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Assassination and war will become the norm if shit really drops like that. I bet 9/10 of the top 5% would be dead in 2 years. Bullets kill from very far away and some poisons are undetectable until they're killing you. Chemists and physicists in the post-collapse will be in an interesting position. People don't like being on the bottom and will care a lot less without the FEDERAL GOVERNMENT hanging over them in name anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:59 PM
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My conspiracy brain notices that 10% of the human race is 20% of men. Something something 80/20 tinder dating statistics and all that... Hmmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:54 PM
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Yeah, and didn't the barbarians eventually sack it, killing most people inside, and starting the first bit of the medieval age?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:51 PM
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Okay, at least make the point properly. They rewrote Mein Kampf using feminist terminology and got it published in a journal to make the point that social grievances are being prioritized before objective logic in academic journals. It's not that feminism is basically nazi ideology. It's that people are scared to say something true out of fear of being ostracized and rejected by the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:42 PM
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Yes, running into a burning building where your life, body, and capability are on the line is just so much easier, right? ​ Sorry you don't like men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:26 PM
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Sex trafficking is a direct result of its illegality. Look how alcohol was handled in prohibition in the US. Look what the war on drugs has done to people. Banning something only makes it so the people who don't care about the law are the only ones selling it. ​ Do you know why those jobs are (probably) not as dangerous statistically? It's because they're regulated by the law. Job sites have OSHA guidelines they have to follow. Police and firefighters are provided with protective equipment. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:24 PM
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I don't really care as long as they accept my no. I think most guys who would be brave enough to ask and that would encounter me know I am in a committed relationship with a woman though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:00 AM
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If you're going to criticize sex work for those reasons, you should criticize pretty much all of construction, most utility work, firefighting, police, the military, medicine...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:51 PM
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No, it's much more nefarious than that. You're right. Social media addiction plays the need for social acceptance and the desire to be liked and desired. Social media lets you live the fantasy of being famous, well-liked, and hot. It's being told you're right all the time. It's the ability to portray your life as "better than." I think that's much more intoxicating and addictive than watching a dude blow his balls all over some lady's face once or twice a day. Porn also doesn't come with the "wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:36 PM
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What is your point? You had all that choice, but you still only watch like 15 minutes of 1 or 2 regardless of scarcity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:11 AM
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Okay, I'm talking about how male fertility decline isn't actually that drastic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:05 PM
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Yeah, that's pretty out there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:24 AM
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As a guy, I appreciate and dig the makeup art. Maroon lipstick is actually really flattering on some skin tones. You should try D&D. You can be just about anythi g you want. You could be a fairy who can change their appearance at will that travels with a disguise kit and a forgery kit to crash nobility parties and poison the punch to start peasant uprisings
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:57 AM
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What if it's really good?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:46 AM
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I see it almost as a thing i could point to with pride. I can know medically that the child is mine. It's the closest thing a man has to giving birth to the kid as far as certainty goes, and it really shouldn't bother faithful women because they know there wouldn't be any discrepancies. It's straight up just a protection for the men who are about to raise another man's child without knowing it, and I think it should be done just after birth regardless as part of standard medical procedure. In fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:42 AM
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Nah, you don't if that's what you think it is. Read The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book and then miss me with that. Literally written by lgbtq women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:30 AM
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My purple takes, since that seems to be what this is asking. Chemistry and communication far outweigh looks even if looks are the first screen, even for casual sex Girls have every right to sleep around as much as they want. If I had my sex drive as a woman, I would probably be pretty fucking slutty too. If you want something, and you can get it, why not? Most young guys who struggle with love and sex are inept, ignorant, and some level of cringe. Their insecurity screams in their eyes and body …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:51 AM
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No, masculinity is getting shit done safely and efficiently. The best hunting leader is the one who doesn't get his tribe hurt or killed. Masculinity is keeping a steady hand in a tense situation. It's preventing bad shit and handling it if it still happens. It's leading if you're the best option and defering to who is if you aren't. It's control of your environment and restraint of your self. You described monkey shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:13 AM
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Male fertility doesn't get that much worse. It peaks in mid 20's though around 26-27, then steadily declines until it gets back to as shitty as it was at 18 around 80. It's like a 2% difference in some mental health disorders for the kids, so do with that what you will
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:08 AM
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No it isn't. I have never thought that way. You seem really ignorant on the subject, honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:58 PM
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I have been told by a hostess of a bdsm munch that she would never expect me there because I have such a "wholesome" look. I'm a dominant with more than one fetish, but I keep my hair short, my face shaved, and I dress very plainly. So, I have personally experienced this even in a community that prides itself on openness and acceptance
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:56 PM
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Did you ever research kink and bdsm, or is that just an uninformed gut reaction opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:53 PM
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Man, you're smoking some good shit if you genuinely think people can have rough, pelvis-crunching, gut-stirring, cum-drenched sex without any animosity. It comes from inside you. My power comes from within, not outside
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:47 PM
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What do you mean psychopathic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:42 PM
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I would be miserable and end that relationship before the year was done
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:39 PM
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This sounds like Meth Mike from down the street rambling about his ex wife. My partner does some of the nastiest stuff I have ever had done for me. We have an extremely fulfilling sex life. I'm going to marry her and have children with her. Your dichotomy is self-imposed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:38 PM
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What vocab?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:32 PM
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I would not date someone unvaccinated for any reason aside from a compromised immune system that couldn't benefit from the vaccinations. I trust medical doctors over Joe Rogan, and I really look down on people who subscribe to pseudoscience and don't research how things actually work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:25 PM
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My primary love languages are touch and quality time, so E and B If I have to pick ONE E with sweet nothings and I love yous Male
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:26 PM
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I'm not usually mad. I'm sad pretty often. One part of me just wants to help people straighten out their messed up worldviews. The other part just wants to be reminded that some of the people here do actually exist. I have seen some of the most misogynistic and mysandristic stuff said here, and it's important to remember that hate exists in the world. I have had my happy relationship judged and mocked by miserable people here, and that's always good for a mindfuck. I like debating things I feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:24 PM
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okay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:43 PM
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Ask before, or not at all. Springing your mistrust that she would bear your child on her during or after the pregnancy is shitty. exactly. This should be talked about before pregnancy, and ideally early on in the relationship if it is expected to get that far. ​ I'm very aware of how dangerous pregnancy can be. It makes me nervous for my partner's first pregnancy when we get there. Don't act like it isn't a unique experience that most women who go through it consider to be along the lines of som…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:26 PM
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AngelGrad spitting facts today
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:56 PM
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I said at the begining of my relationship that I want paternity tests for my kids even if I have no doubts about my partner's fidelity. I think it's fucking cool to have a piece of paper that medically tells me I had kids. I don't get to have them come out of my body. That piece of paper is the closest I get to that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:51 PM
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Ooooh nothing I like more than clear, direct communication. It just tickles the relationship needs section in my brain like no other. Genuinely good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:33 PM
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Well now all of my interactions with you make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:14 PM
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But that wasn't your original point. You're moving goalposts now. You said there weren't subreddits dedicated the same way when there are. I never said that women look at visual porn as much as men. I just said that there is a female audience for it, and that there are plenty of female-aimed porn subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:28 PM
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By necessity they'd have to lower their standards if in some fantasy timeline men became just as picky as women. Or else a vast majority of people are just going to die alone. It's not that tough to understand. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:28 PM
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You're combining strawman fallacy and slippery slope fallacy. That's really illogical reasoning, friend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:21 PM
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I wouldn't know them off the top of my head. I'm a straight male. Click through some of the posters' histories and see where else they post content. That would be the best way. You could go check out any dick type subreddit. There are plenty of genuine female users drooling over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:37 AM
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Ha! I actually had a good conversation about consent earlier with somebody else. You are the one saying it's an excuse to abuse them. You're trying to grasp at straws
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:32 AM
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So this thread tells me ppd women are either good partners or trash who perpetuate the very things they complain about while simultaneously demanding them. "Men would just rather get blowjobs." "Men don't appreciate thought, effort, and kindness" "I want a man, not a woman" I have nothing but disdain for the women trying to emasculate men for thinking a picnic sounds good as romance
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:20 AM
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Fuckin' tell him! The cigarette-smokinest, whiskey-drinkinest, scrappiest, gruffest chefs are the ones who make the prettiest foods
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:13 AM
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Wew, show your ignorance louder, guy. There isn't a chef alive who hasn't worked through a hell shift. Some of the toughest people I know are cooks and chefs, and I have seen not just a handwritten note for his partner, but a handwritten note written in flowery cursive font in glossy icing on the cake itself. You're mocking an artist's art as feminine, and it just makes me wonder if you have physical deficiencies with how worried you are about appearing masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:10 AM
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I love getting blowjobs. I have more than one fetish that involves them. I would still absolutely love a lot of these ideas. Cute little baked goods, little notes of affection, massages, gifts aimed towards my interests: these are all so awesome to get. I can be a big manly man who likes having my dick worshipped and also appreciate the effort put into something made, given to, or done for me. Blowjobs also aren't gifts any more than eating pussy is a gift. It's a sex act that shouldn't have any…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:03 AM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:55 AM
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Yeah, thanks for telling me what I like. I didn't know until you decided to speak for the opposite sex and say what we don'tcare about. You really nailed it, sis!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:54 AM
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Minus the beard, I'm a grouchy metalhead with serious misanthropic tendencies. I would absolutely melt if my partner planned a picnic with the blanket and flowers and all that. I would have gushed over the muffin and the cake slice if you did that. Metal heads are all softies inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:52 AM
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Should there be funding for educational porn then? I know I learned a lot from a video on how to eat pussy when I was like 12. I still use some of Nina's advice, and it's served me well so far. Maybe it could discuss lubrication, all of the common erogenous zones for men and women, visual signs of arousal in both sexes, the dangers of common edgeplay (like choking), and other stuff regular porn forgets about? What do you propose as a solution to this very real issue of uninformed kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:43 AM
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I don't think you are right. Your whole argument is "come on, that would be a big deal," and I'm going "yeah." It's like talking to a conservative about climate change. It's not just my partner. Girls are tough to attract. Once you get one, it's business as usual, but the hurdle to jump is just really high now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:36 AM
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Slipery slope is literally an illogical fallacy. Look at 5 shades of Grey sales to see how many women are excited by domination and submission, which are aspects of bdsm. You're basically reducing your argument to porn inherently abuses women, which us just not true. Show me a lesbian feminist who gets turned on by porn, and I will show you a woman who doesn't agree with your argument. I bet you don't even know how common it is for women to be the porn producers. It's other women telling pornsta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:31 AM
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I disagree. My partner struggled to find a girl on tinder just as much as I did. I can't count how many times I have seen women affirm their happiness with being single rather than dating a guy who doesn't immediately do it for them, so your point is lost there. They would literally rather die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:22 AM
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There are lots of subreddits for that. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:16 AM
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Honestly, I don't. Porn also came in video form back then. You can literally watch Ron Jeremy suck his own dick back in the 80's if you want to. I don't think much has changed, really
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:15 AM
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Yes, constant compliments, reassurance, and ego stroking have no instant gratification at all, right? Porn and social media hit us very similarly. If you need the little arrows, it's post picture>get compliments, sexual attention, and validation>feel good about yourself. The line is just as short, and it hits with every comment instead rather than orgasm. You are also trying to make women sound like some kind of desperate, sad, lonely creature who only debases herself to suck random dick because…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:13 AM
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You're silly if you don't think social media gives dopamine hits. Arguably, it's worse because it's a series of hundreds of little hits instead of one solid punch. It's like living on a permanent morphine drip rather than getting high once a day. Social media addiction is very real, and pretty much all addiction revolves around dopamine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:57 AM
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I don't agree with you. My partner's mental health plummets when she starts getting sucked into social media again. She gets angrier. Her self-esteem drops. Her sex drive drops. She gets jealous more easily. Her attention span gets much worse. She reads too much into social interactions. I see people talking about deleting social media all the time. It's worse than even religion for population manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:53 AM
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My type technically falls into the bbw category. I like wide hips, big titties, a little belly in the tummy area, big thighs, and so on. It's not that uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:44 AM
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I don't think kink should necessarily be underground, but bdsm safety needs to be more publicly talked about if it's going to be mainstream. People need to learn about trachea injuries and arterial sheering. Circulation can be cut off and nerves can be damaged during bondage. Serious damage can be done real fast both mentally and physically if the scene goes south.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:35 AM
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Your stereotyping is what's ruining your argument here. Most D&D groups have been closer to a 2-3 ratio of girls to guys. The caliber of guys is on a different level too. It isn't a bunch of brave, hunky dudes usually. Vin Diesel is the exception here. D&D girls are not usually the ultra hypergamous type in the club that you're talking about. They're mental types. They're literally role-playing as a hobby. Capture their mind, and you get their heart. That guy you are talking about is way more co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:29 AM
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Yeah, you know the type. Hoodie, hair in his face, skinny, listens to emo and industrial music, hard childhood, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:12 AM
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Well, that's interesting, I guess. I just can't imagine an unenthusiastic blowjob being good. I sometimes take a very long time, so you would probably hate me. Both my partner and I love giving and recieving oral. You sound like me talking about the boxes at my job
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:10 AM
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That just sounds like inexperience to me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:40 PM
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I'm not particularly sexually experienced but three of my partners have told me I was the first guy to make them orgasm, including the woman I lost my virginity to. ​ Yeah, cool. I made my first ex orgasm on my first time too. That's not common though. Also, 3 partners isn't inexperienced anymore if you had any kind of repeat encounters. ​ Maybe she should tell the guy, because men aren't fucking mind readers.This idea that men are supposed to figure out exactly how to make awoman cum via teleki…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:17 PM
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It's called a blowjob because it used to be something men would ask prostitutes for instead of their wives. "Blowie" or somethi g along those lines used to be slang for a prostitute, so it got shortened to blowjob. It's a term from the victorian times when shit was super conservative and weird about sex. It doesn't have to be work. You can do 95% with just hands, lips, and tongue if its your jaw that bothers you. If it's just an intimacy thing, then disregard most of this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:48 PM
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If you're actually on the fence between those 2 extremes, just find a guy who you like and is into exploring with you and just fuck him a bunch. Sleeping around won't do much for you. You're better off just finding someone you really like and having a lot of good sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:36 PM
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Hey, don't equate my disorder with people being greedy. It has nothing to do with inability to focus. It's unchecked want and entitlement that cause the modern dating scene. It's guys looking to spin plates like a dumb monkey and girls thinking they are above the common humans they allow to associate with them. People are just shitty. That's all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:47 PM
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Most experienced bdsm practitioners make sure that consent is given becore any kink is done. The worst part about the person who chokes someone without warning is they will typically have no idea what they are doing when they go to do it, further increasing risk of injury
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:44 PM
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Yeah, you know how you pay attention to your partner and have questions to ask? You need to be having sex. You don't develop orgasm control during sex without having sex. You could edge yourself for hours while masturbating and get totally overwhelmed in minutes with an actual partner. You also glossed over my point of needing experience to know what to do with the communication. A girl isn't going to tell you how to rock your hips to get her g-spot with your dick. On your point about women not …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:48 PM
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TIL I'm a crocodile
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:36 PM
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What are you talking about? I don't mind that at all. I would never take it as an insult. If anything, I would feel a little bad if I didn't want her because I have been in that spot plenty of times
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:31 PM
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Your link says that over half of women at least somewhat enjoy it. Less than 20% of dick-liking women totally hate sucking dick. The article really skewed to results through tone to make it sound like sucking dick is generall a big chore when it's at least a little enjoyable for over half of women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:42 PM
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My partner and I share your opinion on this. We want to be kinky with each until we are old and dead. We are about to start looking again for a fwb to have threesomes. We have almost no holds barred for each other in bed. It's really kept the fire in our relationship I think it's fine to do crazy stuff when you're single, but I think it's good to share that side of yourself with the one you love most. You don't lose your appetite for having your throat violated or your face sat on just because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:12 PM
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I don't think the women dating the bisexual women are usually looking for men. The majority of women are plain ol' heterosexual too. Polycules are also generally very uncommon. The thing about girl-girl not being cheating is entirely subjective on context and the couple. While I am okay with my partner having sex with a woman, if she did it secretly and hid it from me or was dishonest in any way about it, I would consider it cheating. I don't know that I would be the most comfortable seeing her …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:56 PM
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Like I said, it's a variety of people. My 26 year old virgin best friend at the time met a great girl who appreciated him for him. Pretty sure they have been together 2 years now. Some of the really promiscuous types will sleep with almost anyone. In 2019, the sadboy type was real popular where I worked. It's just regular people who don't really fit in society very well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:39 PM
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While I don't know for sure that the hatred would be less, the accusations of saying one thing while doing another would at least be unfounded. I appreciate honesty. I have seen female sexuality from many angles. I'll admit it can be somewhat daunting or even a bit intimidating in some of its rawer forms. I know that male sexuality definitely can be intimidating for some women, so I just chalk it up to primal shit being kind of scary. You ever seen someone actually angry? Not like temper tantrum…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:08 PM
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You need to have sex in order to be good at sex. That's what it has to do with what we're talking about. He would need to somehow be running in the same crowd as the club girls who sleep around in order to get them in the first place. Then he would need to be confident enough to use the knowledge he has to actually pull the party girls. Then he would need to be phenomenal in bed once he fucks her. Then she would have to be the type of girl who brags about good dick rather than hoarding it. Then …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:00 PM
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I don't actually use that term (cc), but I would feel somewhat uncomfortable with someone about my age (28) having more than like 15 partners, and even that's kind of pushing it in my opinion. That's just under 2 per year, which still kind of seems like a lot. I'm not really a casual sex guy. All 6 of my partners have been girlfriends or friends with benefits with 2 relationships lasting 3 and 5 years (and counting) respectively. I don't know that I would have a lot of chemistry with someone who…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:53 PM
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He might get something out of it if he is especially great in bed is basically what you said. He would also need to be running in the party girl scene somehow. Sex is like playing an instrument though. Even if you know all the music theory there is to know, and you understand all of the movements required to make the sounds, you won't have the procedural memory ingrained from practice in order for it to be done smoothly or for any extended period of time. Long term relationships provide the most…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:38 PM
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Honestly, I think everyone could use a little bit of angel in the streets, demon in the sheets. I think people could generally be more decent, and I think more people should be down to get a little gross during sex. I'm probably not the best to ask that question. It's how I like to be, and it's pretty much how my partner is. I keep a pretty plain appearance, but I'm a degenerate inside
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:20 PM
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Make it so that a woman simply enriches your life rather than completes it. You need to like you. Once you stop caring about what other people think, confidence becomes the norm. Women fucking love confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:11 PM
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You can do both though... I had a 3 year relationship over and done with before I turned 21. My current partner is a 5 year relationship, and I'm 28 now. 1 year isn't shit. 1 year is still honeymoon. Let the limerance fade and see how you maintain a relationship that requires work sometimes. I don't agree that you're stunted necessarily, but you're certainly untested if you haven't had a real adult long-term relationship, which i would say is 2 years minimum with at least 6 months live-in if it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:10 PM
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Best advice I have ever seen from a woman. Men need to focus on what they enjoy in order to find somebody with mutual interests. Chasing girls is only worth it when they are worth catching. What use is a nerd being able to catch party girls if he will get tired of partying, and she will get bored with his nerdy stuff? Women are just people. The real world interaction advice is tough for those stuck in a suburban hell, but city people and some niche country people would benefit a lot from it. I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:56 PM
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Shein puts out some cute pieces, to be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:37 PM
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Interestingly, my partner and her sister are on complete opposite sides of this coin. My partner is a plus-size hourglass. She has a tiny waist, really wide hips, and wears a 36F. She struggles to find clothes that fit properly. Check out Lane Bryant for big titty bras. They have everything from full-coverage underwire to little bralettes and lingerie. Anyway, my partner has awesome skin but can't find clothes. Her sister is built like the typical 19 year old instathot. She can go to any store a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:36 PM
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I literally remember a time when a girl I didn't know just smiled at me as we passed each other in the sidewalk in college 7 years ago. Men don't get complimented on shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:17 PM
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When my sex drive peaks, I look at nearly every lady like I'm hungry, and they're a sandwich. I could have just had sex with my partner, and I'll want to go again in 15 minutes. It becomes very hard to not look at women online. On the other hand, when my libido bottoms out, I have next to no desire. My sex drive becomes much more responsive, and I might go a whole day without orgasm, which is unusual for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:09 PM
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Caveat though, I had been in a year-long dry spell, so I ignored lots of red flags while she was very aggressive and in my face about wanting me. That kind of shit also can only go so far. As I said, I found out in just a couple of months when I didn't even use social media. It was her loss anyway. She came sniffing around once a year trying to get sex from me for 3 years after I dropped her. The last time she messaged me, which was a couple of years ago now, she said nobody has satisfied her si…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:56 PM
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Leave me out of your bro science, guy. Your shit's cofused at best, and I don't care enough to explain why anymore. I feel like I'm talking to an extraterrestrial about how sex and human biology works
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:39 PM
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Alright, fine, guy. One of my biggest complaints was that she doesn't use her hands when she sucks my dick. She used to just work the head with her tongue and deepthroat. I like a lot of shaft stimulation. Now she uses her hands a lot more. Free use is where I can have sex with her anytime I want regardless of what she is doing at the time. It's open-ended consent. If she is washing dishes, I could pull down her pants, lube myself up, and go to town. If she is playing Sims, I can just decide to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:05 PM
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Yeah, my partner is also the best friend I could ask for
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:44 PM
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I don't expect anyone to read minds. I expect communication and attempts to improve based on said communication That's why you need to feel her out in the early stages. You don't have to tell me about human dishonesty. I was literally used for 2 months as the other guy for one girl who was unsatisfied with her boyfriend's sexual performance before my coworkers showed me her social media. The worst part of it was that I gave her an out for it before we did anything, and I wouldn't have even cared…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:43 PM
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This sub exists to debate these things. I'm offering a solution to the problem. The solution just requires the mental fortitude to hold standards in the position of the pursuer and to respect yourself enough to stick to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:31 PM
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I literally said she put more effort in and started fucking me more. What? If you want details, I can give them. We have explored me having day-long free use privileges if we talk about it in the morning, and she generally initiates more. She rides me more now. She uses her hands more now. Her passion comes from kink, like I said. I try to avoid being too graphic on here since it isn't a porn subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:27 PM
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No, my partner and I are expecting to have threesomes in the next year or two. I literally had a conversation with her last night about setting tinder up again when we have time off. Speaking strictly sexually, I would still pick consistent monogamous sex with no chance of outside women over irregular variety with weeks to months inbetween. I'm very introverted and like connection with a sexual partner, so I'm not the type to go to the bar and pick up strange
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:17 PM
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I have worked in Arizona, Colorado, Oregon, and Montana. I have worked with people from all over the US as well as people from all of the world on J1 visas and J2B visas. While my sample may be parkies and seasonal workers, my sample is extremely general aside from that. I am also not usually the one the girls are interested in, so it's not me going "well I fuck lots of women, so why don't you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:09 PM
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That is again not saying what ypu think it says. That research shows us that sperm communicate in a way with the female body that discourages an autoimmune response to pregnancy, the main trigger of many common miscarriage causes. This sounds more along the lines of repeatedly having sex after conception increases the odds of sucessful full-term pregnancy. This makes sense evolutionarily two-fold. It reassures the woman that the man will be around instead of fucking her and leaving her pregnant,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:02 PM
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Because you said it's a minority of women when I would say 9/10 women at the jobs I work are dtf while partying and traveling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:52 PM
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So then just do it instead of complaining online. I'm not "they." I'm a 28 year old man who has self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:50 PM
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There isn't just one hormone involved in brain growth, maintenance, and survival though. I don't think you have studied biology that much. The end result of what you are saying would still be a happy, horny, loving woman because that's how neural connections work. Her egg also isn't going to just magically descend because she got cum in her pussy. There are major hormonal shifts that push the whole menstruation and ovulation cycle in human women. Realistically, women can only GET pregnancy in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:47 PM
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So both parties should make an effort to keep the flame alive, and this should be discussed whenever the passion starts fizzling. "What can I do to make you feel better?" "What would get you really wet for me?" "What can I do to get your dick jumping for me again?" "Could we try something aggressive/gentle/taboo?" Don't pretend like most guys don't settle into the same positions and rhythms after a while. I consider myself to be pretty good at sex, and I know that I have been stuck in a rut befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:42 PM
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Yes, your insecurity and jealousy over his previous relationship is what I'm talking about. Would you have cared if he kever mentioned her? While I did get my partner a $900 laptop for her birthday last year, I have also gotten her nothing aside from a home-cooked meal and a lot of head before having sex how she likes it. This isn't about you feeling valued. This is about you feeling like you are better than his ex and demanding he show it through paying for things. What's so wrong about being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:31 PM
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I just don't get it. It's not her tits or her ass or how wet the ex gets. It's behavior she is jealous of. It's the passion. She literally says that she goes passive in bed even if she initiates when her partner has said he likes aggression and passion in sex. If she is so intimidated by a public blowjob, maybe she should suck him off in the movie theater. This is fixable stuff. This isn't some average guy feeling insecure that his 5 inch dick can't reach as deep as some dude who left her thighs…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:22 PM
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I don't think you read a lot of that research beyond the tittle. The one about semen affect female behavior basically says that compounds in semen make women nicer and feel better in general. The guy gave an abusive, withdrawn mother an oil that probably stimulates the production of the compounds being researched, and it made her nicer to her kid and want to start fucking her husband again. You are literally linking to stuff that goes against your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:06 PM
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Oh man, I'm glad my partner isn't like you. You're so hung up on what he did for his ex that you made his life harder? This sounds just like the guys complaining about women riding the cc then settling for some beta bux bitch, just reversed. "Why did SHE get to go all over? Why did SHEEEE get all that stuff? I'm better! Hmph! He better get MEEEEE a nice ring or clearly my worth is below that woman I see myself so high above, and that's unacceptable." It sounds like a guy complaining he doesn't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:54 PM
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So pick a different lady
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:42 PM
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They lose interest in mediocre sex that barely makes their clit twitch, you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:40 PM
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I don't know, most of the friends I have had wouldn't hold me while I have an anxiety attack about my deadbeat dad slowly dying of cancer. Most of my friends don't fold my clothes and put them away for me. Most of my friends aren't by my side 100% no matter what happens. I have never had a friend tell me she can't wait to have my babies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:39 PM
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Damn, tell on your inability to pick girls more, guy. My partner likes hiking, video games, and painting, and I love hearing about new stuff she has read. Maybe you ought to choose someone you actually like to be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:34 PM
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Thank yoooouuuuu. You have to take care of yourself to maintain attraction with a partner. Not many ladies want to hold up a big belly to suck a dick she swears was bigger when they were younger
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:31 PM
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Just saying, you sound like somebody who hasn't traveled much. I work at resorts and national parks around the US. The girls I work with are always fucking somebody. It's usually in a bf or fwb context, but every job has its party sluts who move down the list of guys until the end of the season. At my first park job, there was a girl that we will call Casey. Casey had big titties, liked white tank tops, and didn't wear bras. Casey had 3 different threesomes of various combinations that season. C…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:28 PM
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Maybe take out the trash, mow the lawn, and feed the dog before it becomes a necessity that needs nagging then. Maybe hold down your wife and give it to her like she actually wants then. You're allowed to be a good partner who excites your wife sexually. Nobody is stopping you but you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:19 PM
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I mean, it's not like the old fuckers are taking it to the races. That's exactly what they do, and you can bet they would be quite upset if it got damaged
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:16 PM
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I have been down to hookup before, but my normal sexual mindset is relationship or fwb. I absolutely want to be husband material. My partner tells me at least once a week that she can't wait to have my babies. We have a pretty active sex life, and we have been together for over 5 years now. Why would I choose several women wanting to fuck me once with no long term plans after and no guarantee of sex afterwards? We have sex about 3-5 times a week during our work-heavy times and usually every day …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:15 PM
3

eh. All 6 of my partners have liked some combination of the same things though. It's going to be some mix of clit, vaginal entrance, g-spot, cervix, anterior fornix, and posterior fornix stimulation. It might just be 1 or 2. It might be all of it. Vaginas aren't some mystery box. Touch the parts that make her respond and give less attention to the parts that don't. It's not like there aren't physical signs of arousal in women. I have had to teach 2 of my sexual partners where to grab my dick. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:13 PM
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Personally, I'm slightly envious of the societal love that women get. It sucks to get lumped into a group of people that I am beginning to think I am generally pretty different from. I'm somewhat envious of the insane level of power women hold in the vanilla sexual dynamic, but it doesn't really personally effect me outside of the little bit of dating my partner and I occasionally do to find a FWB. I do envy the lack of selective service requirements in the US. On a day to day basis, I don't rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:23 PM
1

I'm so glad that I'm leaving this country with people like you voting. It's terrifying how hard you can dehumanize a group of people then use unconstitutional precedent for your course of action. Please refrain from polluting my day any further
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:09 PM
1

Well, we don't really do anything to those associated with the confederacy. Go to Alabama and see for yourself. I'm pretty sure those associated with Al Qaeda are usually disappeared to a black site prison in a different country where they are isolated and tortured by 3rd party workers for information before being quietly executed and disposed of. That's what the CIA usually does to suspected terrorists anyway I think you were very specific on what kind of treatment you think incels deserves tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:10 PM
1

Nah, real dating advice should come from a guy with a similar build and personality, same vein of interests, and likes the same kind of women who has had a few long term (>18 months) and short term (<1 year) relationships outside of high school. This guy would need to genuinely want the advice-seeker to be happy as well. My advice would best suit a quiet nerdy guy who likes nature stuff, is 6'0, is muscular but overweight, and doesn't have a lot of money to his name. I live the niche life of a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:54 PM
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Yeah, and look at aaaaallllll the headway they have made in 50 years. BLM is railing in the same issues black Americans have had for over 100 years
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:28 PM
1

Yes, and no man has ever been maimed or murdered in his sleep by his abusive partner... Eyes and testicles can't get easily injured with even light blows. Noses aren't easy to break. Hearing damage can't be caused just by slapping someone's ear. PTSD affects a woman more intensely than a man just because men are bigger, right? The ignorance, man...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:56 PM
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it doesn't help that the men's rights groups are publicly demonized and mocked
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:48 PM
3

You sure had your coffee today, huh? That is pretty close to a call to violence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:45 PM
1

I'm sorry that has been your experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:27 PM
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Eh. You don't have to be afraid of competition to not like it at all. If I were talking to a woman, and she told me she had 2 other dudes on the side, I would tell her they can have her. Why would I talk to somebody who already isn't making me her priority? Whatakes her so special that she doesn't have to try? That shit's for the birds
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:39 PM
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None of your shit makes sense, and everything you say stinks of insecurity and fear. How do you expect to form a meaningful connection if you aren't even brave enough to be vulnerable for 5 minutes? You split your time between several girls and think they're going to be anything more than fuck buddies? You really think you're having more sex by "spinning plates" than by just picking the one you like and actually trying? I know you know it isn't great sex compared to a relationship that has time …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:21 AM
1

Depending on delivery, you might get a green light laugh from some girls I know with that line
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 12:00 AM
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Yes. Have a 20 minute conversation with a woman to see if there is chemistry and attraction, then ask her out rather than being a coward and friending until she wants to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:48 PM
1

What a legend. You crack me up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:43 PM
1

Eh. It sounds like you were just being a good friend to women who weren't interested in you in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:17 PM
1

One person's good time might be a long time girl for another and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:12 PM
2

Yes and no. I went into all new relationships willing to commit but not sure that I would. I needed good romantic and sexual chemistry, similar morals, and at least a few common interests before I would have considered somebody for long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:54 PM
1

Adult friendships sometimes have adult qualities to them. Friends might bang once and never talk about it again. Shit happens sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:58 PM
3

Why would you have sex with someone you don't want to? What
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:56 PM
1

While I agree with the sentiment on privacy, there's something oddly satsfying about hearing your partner talk up your dick and skills in bed to her friends. Maybe it's knowing that they are all imagining it positively?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:35 PM
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No, you can't cane the backs of your own thighs the way a sadist helping you can. A woman might have a huge visual cum fetish then find out the smell and texture combo of semen make her immediately outright vomit. I have read many accounts of people being unpleasantly surprised with scat and piss fetishes. Tons of inexperienced bdsm "submissives" think it's just getting told to do sexy things while they wear a silk choker before they meet their first Dom. Lots of inexperienced bdsm "Doms" think …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:43 PM
1

Go have your average women and leave the "abnormal " ones for me then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:19 PM
2

Yeah, I drop into lows here and there where sex really doesn't sound great to me. I hit libido highs that ride out a long time before gradually falling into basically no interest before heading back up the peak
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:27 PM
1

Bmi has basically nothing to do with body density
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:26 PM
1

Yeesh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:25 PM
1

Yeah, that's a major misnomer if it is more common. BMI is a whole-ass mess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:24 PM
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It's as simple as my partner is queer, wants to experience sex with women, and I'm down to have 2 at once. It's not really that abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:22 PM
2

Your weird fanfic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:38 AM
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Yeah, no. I have been with my partner exclusively for 5 years. 3 years ago, we discussed bringing other women in at her request. I have been working with her on conquering her mental blocks, and nowadays, she's much more confidant with herself in general. We went on a few dates and talked to some ladies, but things have yet to work out for various reasons on their end. Pretty soon, she will probably be ready to try again, and it would surprise me if we go through with the next girl she really li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:37 AM
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Oof. I respect your self control. Someone poking at anything other than what I have told them about my relationship would infuriate me, especially some ignorant shit that really shows they don't know what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:29 AM
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It's not bro science? It's about as basic as stacking 4 blocks next to 3 and seeing that 4 blocks is higher
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:15 AM
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Alright, let me be clear here then. I understand your knees are a majorly limiting factor. I am not knocking you personally about this at all. My first ex severely tore her hamstring in dance class as a kid doing a split, so there were things she couldn't do too. I get it. On the other hand, you were initially arguing that being penetrated is more physically demanding that penetrating if you are the one doing the stimulation.The way you just described how to get your good spots is almost the exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:47 AM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:31 AM
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I can look at how hips move and move my hips that same way. Thrusting and grinding are not that different between the sexes. I have eyes, a brain, and hips too, ya know? It's still a pelvis moving around on a spine. You also just went on a rant about how every vagina is different while simultaneously saying that getting fucked taught you how to fuck better. You're saying two different things. I could also talk about how I have a dick, so blah blah blah I know better than you, but that's not the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:24 AM
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Okay, you seem a bit miffed. You're switching up your argument to a hormonal one rather than a mechanical one, which honestly makes more sense. I'm very aware of the strength and endurance differences between men and women. It's one of the things my partner really enjoys about me, if you follow. I also wasn't calling anyone a starfish. I was mainly just skeptical about your dick game as a lady who can't feel the "dick" inside their partner. I navigate my partner's inside by feeling depending on …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:45 AM
1

I think thats a stat you can look up rather than ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:36 AM
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Underrated response
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:32 AM
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Oh I didn't know ADHD had hypersexuality as a symptom. That explains some things about myself to me...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:31 AM
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Yup yup yup. I second this. Tye best sex is had by kinky people who have a lot of sex with each other, so they know what the other likes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:28 AM
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Alright, guy. Let me tell you how things work. The best sex is had by those who try the hardest at it with a lot of anatomical knowledge and have the most practice doing so. My partner and I have had everything from quick and dirty 5 minute quickies to 3.5 hour long LSD-fueled seemingly-infinite periods of unimaginable ecstasy. Once I get into it, my senses go mostly to sensation. While I like seeing myself inside of her, my eyes are closed half the time, and most of the other half is dedicated …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:27 AM
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They are also not legally obligated to do a 50/50 split with women. I don't understand what point you are trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:14 AM
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Yeah, pretty sure that's what the other guy was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:08 AM
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Because they aren't different. If you have the right to run, you have the right to be in congress. If you didn't, they wouldn't let you run for it. They wouldn't let Arnold Schwarzenegger run for president if he wanted to because he does not have the right to be the President of the United States. He is an immigrant who became a citizen. That right is barred to him no matter how successful he might be as a politician
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:01 AM
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First off, thanks for the genuine advice regarding knee pain. My knees haven't hurt me chronically since I did kitchen inventory and recieving a couple of years back. We would get ~300 piece orders 3 times a week that included roughly 30 ninety-pound boxes of meat, 100 boxes of restaurant paper goods that weighed between 20 and 40 pounds, and ~150 other pieces ranging from a few ounces to 50 pounds. Our twice-a-week alcohol deliveries included full-size kegs, enough liquor to stock 2 bars, and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:58 AM
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That's fair. I would never think to say what ALL women like. I was raised by a single mom with an older sister who turned out to be gay though. I would bet that 1/3 of all of my friends during my life have been female. I ha e had deep, intimate friendships with girls before. I have even given dating advice to help them pick up guys. One of my best friends in early high school was a girl who would complain almost daily that the guy she liked wouldn't fuck her. I have seen patterns in what most of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:33 AM
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Well, we're probably moving countries soon because the scotus shit with Roe v Wade is the canary in the coal mine, imo. A lot of that is subjective depending on the country
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:21 AM
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You're talking to more than one person in this thread. I didn't say most of that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:19 AM
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I don't think you know how much the PUA shit costs. I have seen packages go for hundreds or thousands of dollars for basic social psychology shit. Below-average guys are truly desperate for any edge that will help them. If some con starts telling them they have all the answers they need to finally get a woman's attention and desire, and they can do it too, I bet a lot of those guys would literally cut off one of their balls for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:18 AM
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Nobody is making you bounce on your knees to ride. Kneel and grind instead of squatting and bouncing. It's not that complicated. I'm betting your strapon game isn't as good as you think since you aren't feeling the penetration unless you have a Feeldo or something like it. I do circular motions all the time when I penetrate my partner. Try pretending to stir up her guts next time you use a strap on. Use your hips like your grinding while also maintaining a rhythmic thrusting. Just thrusting in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:15 AM
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I guess. You could say that to anyone about anything though. You offered a nonreply as a gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:08 AM
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Yeah, like 400 years ago... It also started as a part of mail armor
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:06 AM
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So atypical anorexia is the typical anorexia?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:05 AM
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So, I don't agree with not eating meat daily. Meat keeps better than most veggies once dried properly. I promise you primitive humans weren't devouring 60 pounds of meat in a sitting. I don't think most people realize the volume of food one single hunted deer provides. The organs alone would probably feed a group of 50 that first night. Half a cow can keep a family of 4 fed for about a year. If anything, meat might be the only thing we ate for extended periods of time, depending on the season. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:04 AM
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He is. 7 inches is 2 SD from average. It's the top 10% of dick length
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:57 PM
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7 inches is 10 percent dick
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:57 PM
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Yeah, it really does. You have to cut out all extras for months to years at a time. That means lean meats, vegetables, and very little starch. For months. It's hard. That's why I am still chubby. I have also lost 50 pounds in the last two years because I reduced my portions, started eating better, and changed my lifestyle to something more active. My partner has lost about 100 pounds by doing the same thing. We aren't starving. We don't do real workouts beyond >5 mile hikes every couple weeks. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:56 PM
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I have done all of that except painting my face before a date. I have even growled and sang in my lower vocal range to help bring out the bass in my voice before a date. This stereotype that men don't try before dates is getting stale. No guy who expects a date to go well rolls out of bed unshowered in dirty clothes and messy hair and goes out. If he does, he's dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:47 PM
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What do you mean? Those are chad traits for a lady
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:39 PM
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80th percentile means you're bottom 20% though...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:37 PM
1

The solution is a weekly squat regimen, not implants
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:33 PM
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So cultures existing in regions with no real agricultural options just don't exist? Tell that to the Mongols and the Inuit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:32 PM
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We're generally better adapted to a carnivorous diet than a vegan diet. Yes, we are omnivores. The Inuit culture doesn't really have any agriculture because of climate, yet they have (had) the healthiest hearts and livers in the world while subsisting mainly on meat and blubber, which is a lot like fat but with more collagen. Whale blubber makes citrus look like Mountain Dew with its vitamin c content.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:29 PM
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Bmi is a shitty way of measuring body fat and was never intended for such. The real way to know what your % involves seeing how much water you displace while comparing it to your body weight. It tells a doctor how dense your body is, allowing a much more accurate estimate of your real body fat %. Bmi doesn't really tell us much information. If your hair is thinning, and your periods stop, you are dropping down into malnourishment. That's not your basal metabolic rate you are maintaining at. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:26 PM
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I don't believe that about breasts at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:16 PM
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You literally can make your boobs bigger by working out. Work your chest. Build muscle. Do some pushups, and your titties will get pushed up and out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:15 PM
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What do you mean?! Most women don't consider chubby guys as romantic partners. I have had many female friends over the years. I have only been actively pursued by my first ex, who used me as a look-alike replacement for the guy she dated before me, and by one girl who both was punching way up in leagues with me and used me to cheat on her boring partner. Meanwhile my female friends fawned over no-personality muscle boys. It is what it is, but don't deny reality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:10 PM
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Yeah, growing a beard is a genetic thing... My dad didn't have a beard worth growing until he was 35. Hair transplants are a medical procedure equivalent to getting implants
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:51 PM
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I find curvy, chubby ladies most attractive. That doesn't mean the majority of men do or that they don't prefer the typical instathot at least. Understand that you are in the minority is all I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:46 PM
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You say you wouldn't judge a guy wearing makeup, but I know that most girls would dry up if they saw a guy touch up his foundation and concealer. Male vanity is the fastest way to kill a woman's interest other than just being a terrible person. Most ladies don't want a man who primps and makes himself look pretty. Most women I know want a groomed man rather than a pretty man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:26 PM
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Funny you say that. The heavy contour and facial shaping is taken from drag, so it was made by men who wanted to look like pretty women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:01 PM
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If I can see a womans bones if she has too much muscle, especially in her tummy or forearms, I am very much put off. I really prefer curvy women, even chubby women. Estrogen literally supports weight gain. Women have more subcutaneous fat than men do. It is feminine to have a small belly and little muscle definition
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:21 PM
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Come on now. You think PUA get rich off of things men are secure about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:57 PM
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Yeah, so wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:55 PM
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So what are you arguing here then? It feels like you are talking in circles now. Personally, I want political representation a lot more than I want gender or racial representation. If a black woman fights tooth and nail for a white man's rights, is he not represented? Why would she need testicles and light skin in order to represent her fellow countrymen? Perhaps we should be voting on policy and who the politician is rather that what they are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:45 PM
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So now I don't understand what you are arguing. You want women to have the right to win more elections? Wouldn't the responsibility of that lie in the campaign management of the candidate? Voting for somebody because of their genitals is just dumb, and it goes against your meritocracy argument from earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:34 PM
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You're talking about lexical semantics. I'm talking about formal and conceptual semantics. You are arguing semantics. You're splitting hairs on whether somebody has a right to run for congress versus a right to win a congressional seat when you know the other person was refering to the right to have a chance at winning. You're being obtuse about formal semantics because you're refusing to acknowledge the implied meaning and taking the words they used literally. You're arguing conceptual semantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:14 PM
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How could we do that? My partner and I are literally considering putting the business we plan on setting up in her name because there are female-only business tax breaks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:06 PM
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You are arguing semantics at this point. Moving goal posts doesn't help your case
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:04 PM
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Just want to say that true meritocracy is basically impossible. In order for it to exist, everyone would have to be given the exact same opportunities. As long as intergenerational wealth exists, that will never happen. As long as industry is regionalized, that will never happen. As long as there are ignorant people who can be exploited, that will never happen. Your argument is founded on a practical impossibility
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:58 PM
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Just want to say that submission is not meekness. The vast majority of the human population are submissive. Submissive means defering to leadership during conflict and negotiation. Submissives would list out the foods that sound good for dinner, then let their dominant decide what they eat. Submissives work to ensure the well-being of their dominant, which usually includes their own well-being. Submission and domination are planned forms of codependency that elevate both parties above what a typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:49 PM
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The woman can doo all the work in every position you mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:50 PM
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I usually feel it in my quads and just below my belly button. My knees also usually ache depending on how up I'm thrusting. Either way, this lady doesn't know how to fuck and is basically complaining about being lazy in bed. Spoilers: there are ways to be active in bed that don't require knee stress
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:46 PM
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So are you saying all women are prostitutes, or what? I'm not sure what other point you could be making here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:34 PM
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I'm just going to say that I make food better than most restaurants serve for 1/5 the price of the restaurant that would serve something comparable. If some guy you were talking to and liked suggested Rigatoni alla Genovese at his place as a first date, you would rather go to Olive Garden? The first dates I have had where I cooked were all usually several hour processes. I did herb-infused creme fraiche-basted cornish game hens with butternut squash gnocchi and roasted brussel sprouts once. My p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:39 AM
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Saying a dinner date is boring for both parties involved is kind of telling on yourself. How does doing an activity help you get to know someone better than focused, intimate conversation over food and drink? I could see a hike or something, but the point is still the conversation. Doing something out of the ordinary sounds way more like 2nd or 3rd date stuff to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:29 AM
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So women don't have to commit, or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:54 PM
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Honestly, yeah. When my libido hits its high points, it can be very tiring to have to constantly readjust my frame of mind. Just about every woman catches my attention, and my refractory period all but disappears. My balls always have a full feeling. Imagine if every guy suddenly was super hot and called your name any time you look in their direction. Some days, it feels good to feel like this, and I feel super manly and masculine. Some days, it can be incredibly stressful, and I feel like a cag…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:47 PM
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I would do my best to teach her to pursue romantic partners that treat her well. I would make sure she knows the risks and benefits to sex. I will encourage her to voice her wants, dislikes, and likes with partners and in life. I will teach her to stand up for herself and to value having practical skills. I will teach her how to tell when somebody is lying and when they're full of shit. I will teach her to value trust and honesty above all else in her relationships. I would teach my hypothetical…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:26 PM
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That's not the worst way possible. That's just literally what it is, cutting away the bs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:36 PM
1

Out of curiosity, what is MEN'S coin in your opinion then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:34 PM
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So in your opinion, it's okay for women to pump and dump then? I don't see the distintion you are making between women "having sex just for fun" and men "pumping and dumping"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:07 AM
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Be the change you want to see in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:05 AM
2

You you could just talk about things like thinking human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:04 AM
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Why should he if she doesn't care about his?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:57 PM
1

So it's an unwillingness to be vulnerable in a new relationship? A fear of putting yourself out there? Hmmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:03 PM
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My theory is that primitive humans lived in groups of about 120 max. They would work as a community to raise children into adolescence once they are toddlers. There would probably be frequent group sex while most held primary partners. There would be the occasional life-long monogamous couple, but most people would break up and move onto a new partner every few years. Eating was probably communal, but who you ate next to probably mattered. Success with hunting and fighting would have been crucia…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:49 PM
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While not back to back, some men can train themselves to not go soft right after orgasm, allowing erection through the refractory period. You can have multiple orgasms in a session, though not necessarily chained or compounded like some women are capable of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:04 PM
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Dude, just communicate your needs. This is crazy talk. If you feel pressured to have sex on the drop of a dime, and you aren't feeling it, say so. Most of the time I'm ravenous for my partner, but every once in a while my libido will just drop for a week or two. I tell her what's going on, and we will probably only have sex once a week. Then one morning, I'll wake up and be back to my normal self. Communication is the foundation of trust
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:02 PM
1

I just don't think encouraging religion is a good long-term humanity plan. I try to dissuade it whenever I see it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:13 PM
1

I just don't think encouraging religion is a good long-term humanity plan. I try to dissuade it whenever I see it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:45 PM
1

He never mentioned religion. He said he wants a woman who hasn't had sex with a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:52 AM
1

Ew don't push group delusions on people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:03 PM
1

I just don't agree. I have read too many stories of people being completely put off by the fetishes and kinks they thought they had once they try it. I have read stories of people thinking they are hardcore masochists who safeword after 1 cane stroke. What looks good and sounds good doesn't always feel good. Without real experience, you don't really know as much as you think you do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:46 PM
1

Man, it kind of sounds like what the incels say a lot when you put it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:28 PM
2

Your first point is just garbage. The other 3 were alright. Men do the vast majority of physical labor jobs, and also do most of the physical labor in less laborious jobs. I currently work in a mail room at a resort. We get different interns every 2 weeks to help us and show them that aspect of the hospitality field. When we only have girls, I know that I will be picking up any package over 40 pounds. There are a lot of packages over 40 pounds. I can comfortably lift over 200 pounds if I have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:25 PM
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You aren't even trying to understand what she said though. You brought up dresses and trucks. She said things and people. Little girls gravitate towards other people while little boys gravitate towards things to play with. There are studies. I have read the same ones. Google "baby behavior sex differences study." If I remember right, it was a French study that did it first, but it has been a few years since I went to school
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:01 PM
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Man, that's a lot of words to say women think about the destination/end result while men think about the journey/building process. I don't entirely disagree with you, bit it seems a little reductionist in my opinion. I also feel like you kind of contradicted a point by saying that objective-minded men can dictates tasks to others in order to accomplish the goal while saying that men need to learn from women how to get others to do things if they want worth beyond utility. Interesting ideas, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:56 PM
2

Your solution is the equivalent of not telling each other what kind of flour you want to bake with before making bread together. Yeah, probably most people will bring all-purpose flour. There are lots of other flours out there that some people really like though. You have whole wheat, almond, coconut, rye, rice, and a bunch of others. If you're trying to make baguettes, and your partner shows up with coconut flour, when you expected all-purpose, things might get a little awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:37 PM
5

You do realize the hypocrisy of complaining about misogyny while labeling yourself a misandrist, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:29 PM
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Straightforward is the only way to go. It weeds out people who want to play games, and it lets you get to the best parts of a relationship quicker. Trust is built more easily. Honesty becomes the default. It's so much easier
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:23 PM
3

Go have kids and build a family with your friends and therapist then. This reads as extremely condescending and unsympathetic to this dude. You're not being nice or helpful to him even if you think you are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:14 AM
1

2% of the world's population is about 155 million. That's about 77.5 million women who are there with you, friend
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:11 AM
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Nah, I have met several 6'0+ ladies. I don't think i have ever seen them struggle much in dating. Lots of guys like tall women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:08 AM
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It sounds like you view people as a commodity only there to sate your desires. You will never actually be satisfied until you see them as complex human beings. People aren't stacks of money or jobs to perform like your comparison. They feel things and want things just like you do. They have good days and bad days. I wonder how you might feel recieving the same treatment. I'm glad I haven't met you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:03 AM
5

Yeesh. Nice job complaining about sexism then generalizing the male sex. This is just mental gymnastics to justify actual hatred of men here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:37 AM
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Yeah, I wouldn't go to one of those, and I don't think the type of woman that I would want would either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:51 PM
2

yeah, that's kind of my point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:39 AM
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Next is fine and all, but what about the guy who has trouble meeting women in a romantic capacity? The next one down the line could be years of looking later, quite possibly with the same result. That dude just kind of gets pooped on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:47 PM
5

I mean, I don't really find it hard. Even during passive-aggressive stupidity, I know something is wrong. Read 15 minutes of literature on body language. Most emotions are pretty obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:41 PM
1

No no. They have a higher rate when compared to western countries. Men still kill themselves more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:35 PM
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Yeah, but who cares about attempts. I would bet that includes all of the "attempts" as well. People who actually want to die, do so. I knew a kid in high school who hid an infection in an attempt to make his death look natural. He almost had to have his arm amputated by the time they found him out. It still nearly killed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:32 PM
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What a confused, resentful, insecure, and biphobic thing to say. I can't tell if you're closeted bisexual or just THAT intimidated by previous male relationships partners may have had. You basically complained about yourself and just insulted the previous commentor's sexuality. That's messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:49 AM
1

Whatever, dude. I don't think you're less of a man because you have a small dick. If you let that hold you back, then it will
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:38 AM
1

So there are a few solutions here. Find a woman who doesn't care much for penetrative sex anyway. Find a woman who prefers smaller dicks. They exist. I have heard a girl loudly proclaim it in a group conversation with both men and women at a party. She was pretty detailed about how much better she felt they are for oral and anal. Get a dick-enhancing sleeve and find a lady who likes giving blowjobs. They have them on bad dragon. I'm sure there are others out there. Realize this is more about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:50 AM
1

Yeah, but in what ways? Surely not every way
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:31 AM
1

Yeah, what does that mean? Why do you think of yourself that way? Until you stop considering yourself as such, you will remain so
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:27 AM
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Just want to say that I'm my partner's 2nd relationship. She only had 1 sexual partner before me. The dude was selfish, small-dicked, had 1 ball, and was very possessive while he often just barely didn't cheat on her. She told me she could probably count the number of orgasms in that relationship on 1 hand. While she had a lot of solo interest in sex when she was a teen (she wrote a somewhat well-known story on wattpad that still gets comments 8 years later), she was very inexperienced before me…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:24 AM
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27M Purple pilled Grew up in Dade County, Florida, USA. Lived in 5 different states and traveled through 26 others. I have friends/acquaintances between the ages of 19 and 60. I have talked to and met people from all over the world I consider myself purple because I believe I'm a realist about people. Generally, most human beings are awful, horrible people. They're mean, selfish, and stupid. That said, there are the occasional "Dune humans" (like in the book, Dune). They're not that common thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:01 AM
1

Who are guys like you? What's your in-group here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:24 AM
1

Yeah, except it's literally there to help you change your thinking and behavior. You defeat yourself before you try so that you don't have to experience real failure. It's okay to fail sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:23 AM
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Nah. There's a coworker that I could probably easily sleep with. I have a ravenous libido. I wouldn't ever touch her unless she wanted to be involved with my partner as well. I respect my partner and my relationship; ergo, I do not ever cheat. Period. Anyone who cheats dgaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:17 AM
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Yeah, that's not what therapy is. Read up on cognitive and behavioral therapy techniques. It's the practical side of psychology
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:00 AM
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Well, may e you should explore why you allowed a woman to define your masculinity. Maybe it was her failings as a woman that prevented her from seeing you as a "real" man. She was clearly weak enough to cheat, so we know she was a garbage person. Perhaps you should find a real woman who actually appreciates you for you. My partner has really exaggerated curves, so she gets her fair share of flirting from dudes. She would never touch any of them though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:58 PM
1

As I have said several times on here, my partner and I practice BDSM. We play with all of those letters. Her submission is mainly a mentality, and it'ssomething she chooses and wants. She follows me and let's me lead most of the time. If I tell her to do something, she typically does it. As long as I make sure she is okay with it, I pretty much have 24/7 access to her body. In bed, it's almost always me leading things. In exchange for all that she gives, it's my responsibility to lead us into th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:52 PM
2

Intelligence is a multiplier, not a base value for attraction. Reciting pi to the 30th decimal doesn't get the ladies damp. Shutting up the annoying guy in the room by doing so does. Knowing the similarities between Alfred the Great and Charlemagne doesn't usually get a woman flustered. Using that knowledge in a way that relates to modern affairs in a social setting might though. Knowing how cool the orcs in Warhammer 40k are won't get most girls excited. Using the idea of an unconscious collect…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:57 PM
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Nah, all that's cool, but you need to be smart enough to not be an asshole when you do it. Sometimes you have to be nice. Sometimes the "aitodaso" needs come a few weeks after the fact so that they aren't so upset and can ask what you mean. It's no surprise that people don't react well to "yeah your relationship is garbage. It's going to fail. You have no idea how to pick a partner." Come on, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:44 PM
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No, muscle density differences between the sexes aren't sexist, but your opinions on rape are, friendo. You act like it's the physicality of rape that makes it so heinous. It's the mental aspects of it that destroys a person. It's the violation and the powerlessness. It's the feeling of being truly used by another thinking being who can't see you as another person. I'm going to stop replying now so that I don't get mad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:01 PM
1

We live in a capitalistic nightmare of inflation, low wages, and price gouging. The only escape is to hate years of your life to save up enough to become a capitalist, and even then you are faced with the dilemma of running an actually ethical business or getting out of poverty. At least you work for yourself and yours at that point though. I just want a small farm to grow veggies and enough weed to sustain a family lifestyle, and I'm looking at at least a 600k startup between land and equipment…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:54 PM
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There's no such thing as pretty death. A dead person is dead no matter how. The essential part of what made them who they are is gone and only a husk remains. There is no pretty death
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:45 PM
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Nice job saying the quiet part out loud. You just told everyone you don't think rape is as bad for men. Cool sexism, bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:36 PM
1

Yeah, guns still kill men. You're overestimating your safety in general. There are also female consultants
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:35 PM
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No, they wouldn't. Bisexual people existi g has very little to do with what you are saying. The only true equivalent to what you are saying for a heterosexual man is a hideously repulsive woman not taking "no" for an answer. It happens. Trust me. You aren't "attractive-man-sexual." That's not a thing. That's just being attracted to men. It has nothing to do with being gay, bi, pan, or straight. An ugly man coming on to a woman is equal to an ugly woman coming onto a man. Anything else is sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:55 PM
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Like, pick up a washing machine and move it for a lady. That kind of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:50 PM
1

Just be an adult and push the conversation. It's not that hard. Ask direct questions and demand clear answers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:32 PM
1

Funny you say that about blood type. That's common in Japan because of a cultural belief about a link between blood type and personality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:21 PM
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Be upfront and honest. You are ajerk if you hide that you are talking to other girls. If you straight up tell women that you aren't looking for anything serious or exclusive, then they would be dumb to get upset. Conversely, you would be just as dumb to get upset if she had other dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:15 PM
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Try doing it in everyday life rather than at a gym then. You also genuinely might be missing it. Women don't exactly announce when they check guys out usually
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:00 PM
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That's not what I'm saying. You're equating sexual preference to attraction. It's a false equivalency. I love women. I think most are at least a little pretty. Even women not considered conventionally attractive often have something that I think is nice. There are women I would never touch though. Look up Nora Nature from Germany. She will let literally anybody have sex with her. That lady is horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:56 PM
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Do it! Hell, get a job at a furniture warehouse. I have never been to the gym in my life, but I can lift and carry over 300 lbs. Being strong is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:04 PM
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It's also going ro take into account shoulder width, chest size, back muscularity, and probably leg shape and thickness. I remember having a conversation with some girls and my 1st ex back in high school about what they thought was hot in a guy. Above even the aesthetics of musculature, they all said that actually being physically strong was what they found sexy. They all said that they want a guy who can carry them and toss them around. So, regardless of chub or height, if you are actually a st…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:02 PM
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No, the equivalent to what you said would be ugly women being attracted to you. You made it about sexuality rather than attraction, which is a non-equivalance. Straight people aren't even sligjtly attracted to the hottest person of the same sex. Nothing will ever make me want to bang a dude regardless of how objectively attractive a man is. You're arguing in bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:16 PM
2

My guy, Germany got all that race stuff from the US. Eugenics was an American study
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:21 PM
1

Robots already are slaves. It's literally what the word comes from. I really wish they educated about robotics more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:52 PM
4

Why would you be embarrassed about using a sex toy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:50 PM
4

No, I was upfront at the start of my relationship that I will want one for my kids. I don't sneak unless it's dark outside
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:34 PM
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I told my partner that I see it as a point of pride rather than an accusation. I have genuinely considered framing my future kids' paternity tests so that I can point to it and say to them "that says that I am your dad 100%. Nobody can tell anyone otherwise..." It's like when mothers talk about their kids coming out of them. It's a pride and certainty thing. There's a difference between being sure and knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:59 PM
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Or it could be a point of pride and irrevocable proof of parenthood, you know kind of like how mothers feel knowing their baby came out of them. The ego, man...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:49 PM
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Yeah, that's what I don't get. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:52 PM
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I never really got that. My girl is mine. I would almost prefer my friends not being into her like I am
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:02 PM
2

Nah, most physicians would tell you that acetaminophen (tylenol) should be a prescription NSAID. It's basically impossible to recover from a severe overdose, and even just a little too much js extremely toxic. When people abuse percocet, it isn't the opioid part that hurts their liver over time, it's primarily the acetaminophen. Ibuprofen should be the first option for OTC pain relief. You can take huge doses compared to the lowest effective dose, and you can even have alcohol in small amounts w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:19 PM
1

nah, that just weeds out the ones who don't want to travel
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:16 AM
1

I just don't get having sex with the type of person who respects you so little that he might not answer the door for you after calling you over for sex. That's just wild to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:37 PM
1

that's goofy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:27 PM
3

I've had this happen a few times perhaps you should reassess the type of guy you pick
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:42 PM
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talking to other women flirtatiously only compliments physical attributes or sexual skills says he doesn't want anything serious or he's just looking to see what's out there doesn't ask you about anything other than surface level crap (favorite color, favorite movie, favorite food, etc) Charming, moves fast, sexually forward lots of flashy moves (spending lots of money on booze, getting a nice hotel to fuck in, really expensive dinner for a first date) canceling dates often making you feel like …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:41 PM
7

About that, instagram pushes sexualized media to its users. Make a new one. Only follow food and outdoors stuff. Use it for a week. Watch the knees-turned in, back bent in a U-shape, titties pushed out instathots slowly start streaming into your feed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:33 PM
5

Thank yoooouuuuu!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:27 PM
4

what does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:26 PM
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I mean, we're basically blown off by society. Almost every day I am told that I am bad for the actions of others who sometimes aren't even alive anymore. No shit men don't love themselves. We are constantly shitted on while women are lifted up higher than Everest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:40 PM
7

It's such a simple answer too...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:38 PM
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Yes, it is pretty much pointless if no action is taken to deal with the problems being complained about. In my experience, the hest way to escape a dry spell is to act like you aren't in one. Sex is had with the men who are not desperate for it. Women usually don't want a man who needs them. Instead, they usually want a man who wants them but has everything under control. It boils down to an air of confidence and self-assuredness. Complaining just makes you look weak and desperate. It's better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:33 PM
2

I literally live and work in Montana
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:53 PM
1

I freely admit I'm not into average or what is typically considered attractive. Almost no celebrities do it for me except Sophia Vergara. I like curvy ladies. I like a more-or-less hourglass or pear figure with big breasts. I like full lips and soft thighs. I like a small tummy. I prefer longer hair. I have a significant libido, so I need somebody willing to help satisfy it pretty often. I like a sweet girl who cares about my feelings. I like a by-definition feminist who genuinely wants actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:01 AM
2

Nah, there are some pretty dumb states. Mississippi? Oklahoma? Alabama? Come on now. I am from Florida, and I definitely consider it a dumbfuck syate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:29 PM
2

Chubby women with cute faces is one of my favorite types
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:26 PM
3

I have seen an anime that predicted how ubiquitous and influential the internet would be nowadays from 1991. I have seen many anime that question what it means to be human. I have seen many anime that ask how to find happiness in a cruel and unfair world. I have seen an anime with more historically accurate portrayals of medieval armor, weapons, and warfare than anything I have seen outside of a textbook or museum. One of the most well-thought-out time travel stories was a light novel adapted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:04 PM
5

Nice job avoiding the questions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:54 PM
5

It was a trend 30 years ago. I feel like you think The Beatles are an edgy new hip band still
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:52 PM
1

They suck, but it's a line in the water. I met my current partner of 5 years on tinder, and I plan on marrying her and having kids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:03 PM
2

Yeah, this is basically what I tell guys. If you want a relationship, you need to be a person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:57 PM
1

I don't agree with that. Why wouldn't they care just because they have kids 4 years later than 5 decades ago? If you plan to have a family with children, presumably you care about your future children
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:42 PM
1

Yeah, but that doesn't mean they deserve more sympathy than the male victims of physical abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:13 PM
2

Yeah, it would be a complicated, but technically possible argument to make. That doesn't make it a good argument though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:10 PM
2

I think they said this is the first generation where women cheat more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:39 PM
1

I also completely agree that sex can't even be replaced by masturbation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:34 PM
1

I also completely agree that sex can't even be replaced by masturbation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:34 PM
2

Not sure why I am being downvoted. I literally said it would be a stretch argument, and I didn't even make it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:32 PM
3

But you just implied that men are rapists when someone said they don't like being demonized for being a man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:29 PM
0

What are you talking about, dude? You aren't born married with kids. Single men eventually become the fathers of the children you say are "other people's kids." This rant is the equivalent of "it's hard, and the people who think it's hard don't want to do it, so it's crazy to care at all" when you could just try and probably succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:28 PM
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What are you talking about, dude? You aren't born married with kids. Single men eventually become the fathers of the children you say are "other people's kids." This rant is the equivalent of "it's hard, and the people who think it's hard don't want to do it, so it's crazy to care at all" when you could just try and probably succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:27 PM
1

Abuse is abuse regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:22 PM
6

Yeah, shit is hard sometimes. Accept that. Internalize it. Uphill doesn't mean impossible. Sometimes hard things are just worth doing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:05 PM
1

Well, I don't date somebody who does, so I don't have to feel uncomfortable about it. It is pretty easy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:39 PM
1

For me, it's a release valve for a constantly building pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:38 PM
5

Alright then. Think of it this way. We play a game where we roll stats out at conception. Some shit can't be changed like height, genetic abnormalities, skin color, etc. Some stuff can though. You can grind out your charisma stat even if you aren't a naturally high roll on it. Yeah, you burn some potential friends and mates in the learning process, but you eventually learn how to talk and relate to people. You may be overweight, but if you grind strength and endurance for a bit while min-maxing …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:36 PM
1

To answer your first question, because you are realistic and understand that there is probably no true 1-1 match every single time for sexual desire. In regards to the 2nd, why would I not relieve my urges if I wanted to? It's my dick. I'm not going to walk around all day uncomfortable and drooling over every woman I see. It helps my anxiety, picks me up out of minor depression funk, and helps me interact with the world more calmly and comfortably. I will not internalize shame about masturbating…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:22 PM
1

I second their comment. Like any other vice or pleasure, some people can handle it and some people can't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:03 PM
0

A lot of people do though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:01 PM
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I guess you could argue in a roundabout way that the compliments and attention recieved for said pictures could satisfy a need for attention that would otherwise be satisfied by a romantic partner. It's pretty roundabout though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:00 PM
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I mean, they could just be like me who wants sex 2-3 times a day, but they have a partner who will usually only want sex 4-7 times a week. High libido is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:57 PM
1

Of course I do! Boudicca and Rosalind Franklin are two of my favorite historical women. Rosa Parks was also a fucking badass
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:14 PM
2

Perhaps you should try it with somebody you really like and want then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:48 PM
1

It has nothing to do with how to other person sees the person with feelings. It feels shitty to be rejected. It makes you feel small. It makes you feel not good enough. It makes you feel less than.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:46 PM
1

Women like shoulders and arms almost how guys like titties. Shoulder width ratio even has an impact on orgasm frequency. You could probably compare being muscular in general to having wide hips and a nice ass
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:39 PM
1

Evolution will take its course. Those who are too picky to accept a mate will breed themselves out over time. Sucks for current generation though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:15 PM
1

Mostly true. It just reads as very "pick me" and pedestal-ish.You are not an accessory. You are a whole-ass person, just like she is. If you are bringing all of that, she better also be some bad bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:09 PM
2

Just want to say that bottling your emotions isn't stoicism. Real stoicism is accepting reality, working to improve what you can, and coping to the best of your ability with what you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:03 PM
1

Finding love doesn't cure depression. It just give you a fence at the edge of the cliff and a net 3/4 of the way down so you don't hit the rocks if you fall anyway. You're still on that slippery cliff though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:06 PM
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I do about 95% the cooking in my relationship. It's my art and my hobby. I make damn good food. My partner usually does the dishes and folds the laundry. We both wash and dry it. We also split cleaning the bathroom and kitchen area. Chores should be shared in a relationship. She has told me several times that one of the big factors in her attraction to me is that I cook and how well I cook. It's pretty common for me to make medium rare flatiron in a beurre blanc sauce, for example, and her to as…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:37 PM
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Maybe it would be healthy to take a tech and media "fast" in order to deprogram. No social media, no OLD apps, no shows, no movies for 2 months. Read a few books. Take a few hikes. Cook a food you have never tried before. Only interact with the people in your immediate life. See how you feel after that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:36 PM
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I'm reasonably comfortable with my body. I'm muscular but chubby. I have a scar on the inside of my lip that I used to be self conscious about, but I eventually decided that anyone who didn't like it could just fuck off. I don't really like my belly, but my partner and I have been steadily losing weight together over the past few years, so I won't really be that insecure about anything physically when we switch to maintaining. As a kid, I was mostly bullied for being fat or smelling bad when I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:33 PM
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Yes, that's what I am saying. Your dating strategy seems alien to me. I just can't understand, I guess. Guys who don't eat pussy are just as lame as girls who don't suck dick. DJ Khaled is an idiot. I truly don't understand those who don't like oral sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:04 PM
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I'm thinking you may just be really easy to get off. I have been with 2 girls like that. One counted 17 times in a session and still messages me once a year at least to see if I am still with my partner. If that's how you are, then I guess keep doing what you do. You just have such an alien strategy towards dating compared to what I do. When I am single, I usually talk to several girls at once, but once I move to start dating one, I focus only on the one I want. I would think having a fuckbuddy …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:52 PM
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Some questions for you: Why talk to a guy if you are going to be entertaining other dudes in the begining? Wouldn't that make it hard to actually bond with a dude if you're listening to sweet talk and fucking other guys? I know I would have trouble trying to focus on one lady if I had some other girl on the side to keep my thirst quenched in the early stages of a relationship. Why talk to and fuck other guys if a dude grabs your attention enough to consider a relationship? If a guy is good enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:13 PM
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That's wild. You should really take some time to be single, at least for a few months. Don't sleep around. No flings. Just you without a romantic/sexual partner. You need to be by yourself to actually develop a personal identity. My partner's mom and sister are serial daters who have to immediately start a new relationship when one ends. They feel like they have to be with someone. Their lives revolve entirely around the garbage dudes they date. It's wild
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 09:29 PM
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No, they really are hard on your body. They cause liver damage, slow your metabolism as a whole, and can lead to brain damage from hypoxia if your breathing slows down enough. As far as neurological damage, they can burn out your serotonin receptors, leading to nothing ever really feeling that good and chronic depression. Opiate abuse is just as brutal as alcohol. They're both depressants that are very toxic if even a small overdose is consumed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:52 PM
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Slow down, friend. 4 days a week is considered heavy drinking if I remember right. Alcohol is about as hard on your body as opiates
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:28 PM
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Yeah, you're fucked there. Two chimps from the same troup have more genetic variation that you and some dude from an isolated community in Tibet or a pureblooded Aztec descendant from Mexico
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:49 PM
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Ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:41 PM
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My point exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:33 PM
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Just want to say that only a tiny fraction of your taxes would actually go to people not working. You are paying for roads, police, schools, fire departments, etc. Literally everything the state does is paid for by taxes. They're like a subscription service rather than a forced charity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:36 PM
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I too don't care for sports, clubs/bars/loud shit in general, or most social events. I still go to the occasional party, community event, work bbq, etc. You have to. Life gets shitty if you clam up and avoid people too much. I also encourage my partner to still go out if I don't want to. Just because I am a hermit, it doesn't mean she needs to be too. She can go have a few drinks with her coworkers and bring her silly tipsy self back when she's done
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:30 PM
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You're being sarcastic, but most of the more sexually promiscuous girls I know have said that they wished guys dressed sluttier more often. More chest, more leg, more arm, more dick package. I promise you thirsty girls are out there who want to see some skin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:23 PM
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