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Discussioniamsojellyofu/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:06 AM
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Did you have friends who you thought were pretty but was not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:03 PM
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What were the differences?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:59 PM
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If I only have two of these, am I above or below average
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:49 PM
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The majority did not though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:40 PM
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It is the same when people try to claim that conservative women are hotter than liberal women. They think the average conservative woman looks like the ones on Fox News.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:30 PM
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That is actually how it went for me or at least they tried to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:21 PM
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Blackpill makes men angry and angry men scare me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:08 PM
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I learn my lesson when someone posted how they wish women were honest with their preferences, so I was. The next 24 hours my comment was posted on one of those incels websites and they were sending threating messages on my DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:07 PM
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Tbh OP ain't wrong. Choose the white pill and chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:01 PM
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I mean as someone who has been on both side (the rejector and rejectee), it is their responsibility to figure out if they want to stay in the friendship or not.n
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:39 PM
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Oh white women get plenty of backlash by other women, especially women of color.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:32 PM
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Too many guys are assholes then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:04 PM
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I have seen actually married men do this to their wives though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:59 PM
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These women are hiding so you do not see them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:16 PM
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Yup social anxiety does not exist in women. Just naracissm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:14 PM
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Why are you describing me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:13 PM
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I wish I could be like those women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:12 PM
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I do not understand why other people find this question weird? Anyways I pick B as I am not really a sexual person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:05 AM
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What does being treated as a subhuman mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:45 AM
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My cousin agrees with you. He is almost obese, balding, and has bad skin yet does nothing to get rid of these traits because he thinks aging men will become automatically attractive. Props to him for being delusinal I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:37 AM
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I am only 27 and see it with most guys from my high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:29 AM
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I mean one of the strongest component in happy long-lasting marriages are love, even if it is not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:58 AM
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Tall men can also reject these short women if they worry about having short sons 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:22 PM
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If a man is chosen these days, it is because the woman really likes him for who he is. Basically it is real love which is the ultimate beauty of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:18 PM
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I like the Japanese "average " guy better but the American "average" man is not bad either. He just needs to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:33 PM
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Am I still average if I am 5'8 and am not overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:31 PM
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I literally tried searching women regreting being childfree before and have found no videos about it. They are outnumbered by the opposite problem (women regretting having children).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:09 AM
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I am the average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:17 AM
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I am 27. There is no difference between the attention I got from 18 to now. In fact I seem to be getting more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:13 AM
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Well the chances of that happening was low, but never zero. The same thing applies for the dating success of short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:50 PM
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That is still considered "old" for the attractive young women (usually in their late teens to early 20s).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:04 PM
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Okay but the average woman is still desired in a way that the average man will never be. Even other men admit this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:02 PM
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Because men would rather drag shit to the dirt before even agreeing with a divorce. I have seen men claim their marriage is horrible but they are not willing to separate from their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:01 PM
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I mean it is not much different than non-feminists ignoring reseach that supports violence against women and how it affects their lifestyle. I was also just letting you know that you do not need to hang out with people who drain your energy, speaking from personal experience... but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:44 PM
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Maybe it is not feminism propaganda. Maybe she had a bad experince with men, which statistically speaking, is mostly likely the case. Also why do you both hang out with her if she is a miserable person?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:06 PM
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Guess I better save up for surgery then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:06 AM
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I am not 5'5 (5'8) but I am slim and in my 20s. Basically look up the lyrics from GUY.EXE. That is my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:48 AM
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If you saw my face, you would probably think I am a catfish since I apparently have a fat face according others who saw my pic. In reality I am pretty thin as my bmi is in the lower healthy side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:41 AM
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Everything. Be born, live, and die for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:59 PM
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That is why I will die on the hill that an older man who wants younger women will go for young girls if they could. Idc if anyone tells me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:21 PM
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That men who liked younger women would go for children if it was legal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:16 PM
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May I ask how this mentality works? Like do you mean these women are no desirable to you at all but you still go out with them? I am only asking because I cannot imagine myself entertaining a guy dating wise if I do not even find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:15 AM
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So a woman needs to be attractive to be considered marriage material, but not too attractive lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:12 AM
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Since the chad is supposedly causing harm to the woman, should he also be looked down upon? I agree that women should be more wary of men just looking to hook up (unless they are okay with being just his sexual partner) but I also side eye chad (or any guy) who plays this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:09 AM
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None of these apply to me so can I desire the 35 year old billionaire husband
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:59 AM
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Then as another woman who is also thin and not have a success dating life, I can eat like shit and my dating life will be the same since I am an outlinear. You just convinced me to eat another hamburger at 11pm. Thanks 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:57 AM
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Define extreme success because I am that skinny woman and my dating life is a flop. I have thought of making myself fatter since my weight makes no difference in dating apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:54 AM
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You literally described my dad. We had to distance ourselves from him because he kept dragging us into his dilemmas. He is currently homeless because of this and we have tried to help him but he gets annoyed at us for not listening to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:46 AM
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If this is who I think it is, I assume that the majority of his fanbase are teen boys. Not that it makes it better as teenagers are more impressionable...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:07 AM
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I had something similar happened to me in my adulthood except it was his family doing it....he was in his 30s and I was in my early 20s...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:55 PM
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How do you know if someone is lying about their body counts? I have been accused of lying when I say I am a virgin. People do not believe me for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:48 PM
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I told a guy I was not interested this and people kept telling me I was too harsh lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:45 PM
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If it makes you feel better, I am a woman and a man did this to me. He did not believe me so I showed him the screensshots of his rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:21 PM
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Sounds like my dad and brother
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:20 PM
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goals
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:19 PM
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I would but my motor skills are bad due to my autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:18 PM
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I stopped picking my face so it has been looking cleaner and clearer lately. I also have been working out more. I still want to be cat though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:16 PM
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You want a girlfriend even if you are not attracted to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:32 AM
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May I ask why are you with her if you are not attracted to her at all? Is being single not an option for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:17 AM
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So men do show interest in me. However either 1) They lose interest in getting to know me more, 2) get creepy/sexual towards me even when I tell them I am not interested in that. I think both aspects are related to my autism though. The way I look and behave are different from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 04:29 AM
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I am a woman with no much dating experince. Yes, I would l like a relationship someday. However I would rather be alone than to be in a unfortunate relationship. I witness people around me getting into toxic relationship that makes me glad I do not have to deal with that. This is a positive aspect of being single for me as someone that hates conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:41 PM
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Why is she single?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:38 PM
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So you met my dad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:37 AM
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I didn't downvote you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:00 PM
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So you do not want that food?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:54 PM
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You can have that food then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:45 PM
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You do realize the "beta bitch passive shy man" can also be a rapist right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:57 PM
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How????
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:02 AM
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Personally, I have never done this. But I will say that if you both agree to be friends, then she will treat you like one. This means she will talk about other guys to you as if you were another one of her female friends. If you do not like this then stop being her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:33 PM
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Rasing a dog is different than raising a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:15 AM
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Well for me, muscles on a man are a plus as long as they do not look too muscular (like The Rock). Face is what matters most to me. A cute guy is cute with the muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:20 PM
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I have also been attracted to class clown types as someone who is shy/quiet. They make life more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 10:02 PM
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Physically? The only time it did was when a guy I found to be below-average looking started to lose weight and take care of his skin. He moved away before anything could happen though but we have been on friendly terms before. Otherwise, I need to find you at least somewhat cute a first glance in order to give it a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:57 PM
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Okay and then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:34 AM
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I think yes. I ran into many posts/comments imply they want to build a systematic structure that pressures women to get into a relationship with men and have their kids by 30. Just like the good ole days.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:46 PM
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I actually had my first one at the age of 26. It is embarrassing tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:33 PM
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I am a woman and actually agree with this. I wish it was normalized to be single than to be in a unfulfilling relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:29 PM
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Wasn't there a study that said younger women are less likely to want marriage nowadays though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:02 AM
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Sadly these women grew up in times where it was normalized to marry a man who is at least 10 years older. Not to mention that they were underage when they met them. I had an older lady talk to me about how romantic it was for her husband to wait for her after-school so they can go out to eat...this man who in his 30s while she was in her first year of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:57 PM
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I mean you say age does not matter but yet I said I would pick an attractive man around my age than an attractive man who is 10 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:40 PM
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Can we say the same thing about the men here who make posts about dick sizes 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:48 PM
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Speaking on my experince as a woman who is in the age range you tend to date, I actually had more older women encourage me to go for older men than younger women who seem gross out by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:46 PM
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I think this is why I am not into older men. I want to be with someone I can grow with, not with someone that can give me the santa claus treatment. Plus in those situations, the women end up losing. I have seen it happen with the women who dated waay older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:43 PM
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Not just that but alot of older men hit on young women because they believe the stereotype of younger women being into older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:35 PM
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Older men who are attractive are rare (I do not count the men in Hollywood because everyone is suppose to he attractive). But even when I met them, I still am not interested in dating them due to being at different stages of our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:30 PM
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Tbh even if I had to pick between an attractive man around my age vs an attractive older man, I would still pick the one who is closer to my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:28 PM
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Yup so on conclusion, women do not like older men as society thinks they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:25 PM
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I buy them their favorite snacks and send cheesy memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:21 AM
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It seems like it is because it just showed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:20 AM
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I mean this saying is referring to the fact that compared to be in a unfulfilling relationship, being single does make women happy. Women do not value relationship like men do. I see tons of men perferring to be with any woman than staying alone. Women tend to feel the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:45 PM
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Tbh I tend to keep my dating life very private, even with my friends. Only my family tends to know about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:43 PM
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I can only stay friends with a guy if he is 100% over me romantically. Cause if not, then our friendship does not feel sincere as he is viewing me still as a romantic prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:40 PM
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Not really. While eating tons of candy will lead to bad outcomes, being single itself will not unless the person really does not want to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:28 PM
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I mean eating tons of candy as a picky eater will guarantee terrible outcomes. Staying single, while possible a bad outcome can happen, is not always the case depending on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:27 PM
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How is being single destructive compared to eating tons of candy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:12 PM
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You can solve this problem by not having kids
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:06 PM
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Thanks for this comment! Tbh a part of me gave up on finding someone later in life because it seems so many men here consider women after a certain age (25+) undesirable. So I ended up internalizing that. I will read your advice whenever I feel insecure so I appreciate it 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:53 PM
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Thank you, same goes for you! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:49 PM
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I am 26. Realistically speaking, I am no super model but think I am cute. I do tend to attract people since I put alot of efforts into my looks. Because of this, people find it hard to believe I do not have much dating experience or that I am autisitc. I think in general I have a low sex drive, so I never really felt the physical urge to do it. But you do have a point that sex can enjoyable when there is also an emotional connection involved. Still, I would rather be doing other things with my p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:37 PM
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Yeah still a virgin. Tbh I never really been interested in losing it other than to fulfill curiosity. I am actually okay with never losing it. The only downside of it though is that I am probably going to face a stigma for not being with someone. As for adventurous memories, I guess it depends what you define as "adventurous". The most adventurous thing I did in my life was ziplining. I also do hang out with people but nothing too steamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:39 AM
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Yeah I am not opposed to be with someone if I met someone ideal. But for now, I enjoy my life giving love to other people like family, friends, and animals (cats mainly). I sometimes get made fun for living this way and people tell me I am going to regret wasting my youth. But the things most people expect young adults to do are not enjoyable to me. I have more plessure with staying at home and doing my own thing. Maybe because my autism makes me feel the way but I do not mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:17 PM
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I am going to be that 45 year old. It is crazy people assume I am living wild because I am a young woman. Nope, I am too anxious to even leave my house. Basically like a 90-year-old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:34 PM
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Idk about new york but I live in LA as a young woman and can say I have not met that many women who are into older guys. If they are, they are probably kept in secret.
/r/seduction28/11/25 03:43 PM
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You realize you are talking about the top men here right? These men are rare outside of Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:10 PM
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There is a concerning amount of teens joining and engaging these places. I discovered these spaces when I was a teen and I wish I never did because it ruined my self-esteem growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:02 PM
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Years. I have only met like three men throughout my 26 years of living who have met my high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:46 AM
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So I am not sure if I am even wording this right, but I guess that being marriage material is not always idea for women as it seems. I have been told that I do not need to worry about a guy lusting for women online as long as he is married to be at the end of the day. I am not sure if that is suppose to make us feel relief but it does not. Lusting over other women, even the ones you would not marry because they are not marriage material, is something that is consider disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:10 AM
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My brother is like this and tbh it is heartbreaking to see. Both of us grew up in a toxic household and we struggle alot when we get into relationships. I honestly feel much better when I am single mentally but my brother makes fun of me for it even though he also loses himself mentally when he gets into these relationships. I am trying to convince him to heal before he goes back to dating but he refuses to do so. These relationships he have do more harm than good to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:02 PM
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I mean if you think it is okay to abuse women then yeah you should stay single forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:58 PM
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Yup I grew up witnessing bad relationships around me, including my parents. I feel exhausted from it even if it is not my relationships. So while I am not against being with someone, I also am not desperate to be in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:56 PM
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Is that how you see rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:54 PM
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Well for me, I like the option of not having a kid. Growing up I was expected to be a mother, which scared me because the idea of raising someone else sounded terrible to me. The idea of being childfree had always sounded appealing for me before I knew it even existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:53 PM
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I noticed the opposite. Alot of the millennial I know are married with kids while the gen z people are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:51 PM
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Then what is the point of being in a relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:49 PM
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Wait till they find out this shit can happen at their own homes too 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:28 AM
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I guess we will have to agree to disagree because our experiences are clearly different 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:02 PM
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The thing is the men who complain about this...are not the best men. They have alot of bad qualities in both personality and appearance. It is not like they try to improve themselves either. They just point at the womem and blame them for not being attracted to them just the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:08 PM
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Yeah but it is not as common as people make it out to be. Especially if financial security is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:16 PM
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Hate to break it to you but even back then I did not like older men hitting on me. Neither did other young women I know. Heck even now in my mid 20s I am still being hit on by them and hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:02 PM
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Has not happened and it is not as common as you think for women to have this experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 07:05 AM
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Well they probably mean a year or two older than them not like 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:04 AM
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I mean I do not agree with this either. I think it is better to stay single than be with someone you are not getting your sexual/physical needs from but most people disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:25 PM
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What are you confuse on. I can explain it in another form.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:48 PM
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Maybe but womem see love in a different way. A man that claims to love her but gets off on other women is not accepted as a form of love from women. Some even see it as cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:48 PM
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I guess I am thankful my sex drive is not high because to me this sounds like misery. Also what is the point of being present around family if you are not emotinally there. A separation of divorce would be a much healthier option for the family. That way the man can continuing going after these women without any emotinal consequences being involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:32 PM
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I mean is that any better? Some of these men are in relationships but still go after these sexy women...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:28 PM
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It is kinda sad because I have seen men that say while they love their wives, they also tend to seek out attractive women to lust over. These women are usually their ideal, physical wise. Meanwhile they get another woman is meets their emotional needs. Like having two separate women types instead of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:26 PM
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I mean does it matter. At the end of the day they are getting their attention. Sometimes maybe even their money. Meanwhile the wife gets a husband who gives "temporary" attention to these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:22 PM
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This does not speak well for you gender
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:18 PM
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I mean that fact that these men follow them and view their photos for a while, even if not committing to them, is not really a compliment to women. That is why most women get annoyed when their man is watching a porno, even if the guys insist he still likes his gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:14 PM
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Well that is why discrimination does not really exist in dating in the eyes of the law, unlike the other stuff you mention ☺
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:40 PM
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They ignore young women's complaints because we do not know any better and that tons of young women want older men as they pick ONE famous handsome old looking guy to prove that young women want old men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:09 PM
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I actually have seen handsome men date women less attractive than them in my area. The amount of times I have been surprised when a woman introduces me to her bf and he is very good-looking compare to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:13 PM
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Is that what your gf did?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:07 PM
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And the people that worked in that area abuse their partners the most so...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:49 PM
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The thing is being abusive is a choice that one CAN control. Unlike a wild animal, humans can chose not to be a POS but unfortunately perfer not to. Now I agree that people should look out for signs someone is abusive but also these abusive people need to be stopped before it gets worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:43 PM
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I am a bit confused on this mentality. So because of her chronological age she will be less attractive to men even if she looks attractive and fit? And does this mean that a 18-25 year old woman are more desirable even if they are not attractive or/and fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:36 PM
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She never said women do not like hot and rich men. It is just uncommon than young women want specifically older men as their partner, even if they are hot. I speaking as a young woman who has talked with other younger women btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:43 PM
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Exactly. I had weird cartoon crushes that I used to fantasize about but that does not mean I would actually interested in them. I used to have a crush on King Dice from Cuphead for example but it does not mean I want to actually date a dice lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:38 PM
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I mean speaking as a young woman, yes we do like hot men. Even if they look good in their 50s. But that does not mean we want to actually date them (unless if it is for status and money, but even then these women will be with rich ugly men still cause of the resources they gave). Our ideal men is usually someone who is handsome but also closer to our age. It is actually rare for young woman to perfer an older handsome man compared to a younger handsome man. Even if a man is handsome at an older …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:34 PM
9

Especially with all this talk about age gaps being problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:08 PM
2

I mean even in observable reality average men do not struggle as much to get dates as people think online. The only average men I see that are struggling are those who want women that are more desirable than they are and do not like their limited options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:06 PM
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Because it is more common for those type of men to hit on us than the rich sexy silver fox. But even then, I would still want to go for someone closer to my age (mid 20s).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:47 PM
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I graduated college recently. Personally I did not find any of my professors hot but my classmates did and would talk about them with each other. That was just it though. It was not anything crazy like pursuing them or something. Just more of an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:45 PM
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I guess alot of pornos pair young women with older men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:35 PM
13

What does eye fucking look like because I had men tell me I do this but I am just looking at them....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:32 PM
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I get downvoted when I say this by men who want to believe in this fantasy. That the young hot women want older men and not men in their age range. I have yet to see this happening irl. In fact a lot of these women would winced when they talked about being hit on by someone who could be their dad's age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:28 PM
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Yup in my church there is many single older men going after women who are young enough to be their daugthers. There was a single guy in his 70s who wanted to date me, a 26-year-old. Got all pissy when our bishop tried to set him up with someone closer to his age. Unfortunately he is not the only man to do this. We recently had to split our young adult sessions into two groups, one for 18-25 and another for 26-30 year olds cause so many men would go after the young women. And no, it was not "old …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:24 PM
2

Nerdy tech geek that looks like an NBA player
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:30 PM
5

Yup once a woman turn 30 she turns into an old hag who looks like she belongs in a nursing home!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:30 PM
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Right! Like I constantly hear men saying how they age like wine and women age like milk yet I see the opposite. I have seen more women looking younger their age than men. I think I only met like five men who actually look good at an older age, aside from celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:29 PM
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Then why is there so much shaming for women with body hair, small boobs, facial piercings, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:32 PM
3

Gaslight yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:35 PM
17

I am a woman and I agree with this. I do not understand why there is backlash for people who want to opt out of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:23 PM
2

I have not witness this since graduating high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:33 AM
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I am confused on what are you trying to say tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:06 PM
4

Agreed. I wish men had higher standards. I am saying this as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:06 AM
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My brother is like that. He has not had any dating experienced since high school, which was years ago. However, he still wants to stick to his standards because his last relationship was fulfilling for him and does not want to settle for someone who will not make him feel that way. He acknowledges that maybe someone better may not ever come along but he feels in content with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:05 AM
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Yup most of the "be wary of men" comes from other men in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 11:50 PM
3

I am actually okay with not having sex ever. I had chances to lose it but it is not something that interests me. I rather being doing other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 09:36 PM
1

A lot of Latinas are like that. Source: I am Latina. I do not have much to show off, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:48 PM
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I have literally witness tons of "high-value" men leaving their good wives for these types of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:15 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:48 AM
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I do get male attention but once they see how autisitc (not the uwu socially awkward cutie type but the I can't cook or I have trouble doing chores type) I am they will either get turn off or turn on...only to act weird towards me 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:47 PM
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Wow you just desecibe my exact life, expect without the husband. I hope I am able to find someone like yours someday 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:42 PM
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Only if the woman is a level 1 white autisitc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:39 PM
5

How do you phase the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:09 AM
6

My butterface is actually at the top of the chain then? 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:19 AM
1

Because then we will die all lonley at an old undesirable age with nothing but cats 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:15 AM
1

The same can be said about "divorce rape" but y'all keep using that shit still
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:13 AM
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Alot of men here get defensive when tol say average/below-average looking men can be assholes too. Some even think that domestic violence only occurs because a Becky is dating a Chad who is apparently the only type of man that abuses women 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:10 AM
3

Tons of men will fawn over a "natural beauty" not realizing she has light makeup/procedures done.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:05 AM
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I remember a post who was encouraging women to settle like he did with his wife. The way he spoke about it was so horrifying. Alot of the comments supported him because it was realistic in most relationships. I rather be alone than to deal with that misery 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:02 AM
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Yeah I am gen z and can say age gap are not as common as people like to make it out to be. The ones that are in age gap stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:46 PM
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I met almost all these requirements damm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:02 PM
2

I am concerned the amount of peiple who are okay with marrying someone they do not love just so they will not be lonely. I can't imagine ever being in a relationship like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:43 AM
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My mom is like this. She was in an abusive relationship with my dad for many years. She only left a few years ago after my brother and I entered our 20s. She seems much more lively being single. She does get asked if she plans to ever date again which is a hell no for her. She is perfectly fine with never dating again. Meanwhile I do feel sad about being single at times. Whenever I vent this to my mom which starts dozing off lmao. She is afraid I will fall into an abusive relationship if I get t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:39 AM
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I am already a young spinster with cats so
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:33 AM
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I mean it is not that women give false confidence about other women's weight. Most fat women know that they do need to lose weight and are working on it. They will randomly talk about working out and/or dieting. I like to be encouraging when this this brought up. Also, the compliments I give to other fat women are not based on their weight but face. I got accused of faking compliment for a facially pretty woman because men thought she was fat so I should not be complimenting her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:44 PM
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I mean I dated a guy who is in my league and he still tried to do this shit. He was the furthest thing from being Henry Cavill too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:04 PM
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Antidepressants did help me make healthier life choices
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:30 PM
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From what I have seen, they are average-looking. Not ugly but also not hot either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:47 PM
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It is not that attractive men never abuse but y'all like to act that when a woman is in an abusive relationship it is because she was a Becky dating a Chad. Attractive men are already rare so how is it that the common assumption is that attractive men are abusing women (specifically below their league cause apparently an abuser stops being an abuser when they date their equal). Also personally speaking, I have witness more unattractive men abused their partners than the attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:12 AM
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My dad has schizophrenia. In his youth it was hard to tell so my mom ended up marrying him. The condition got worse as time went by. He gets aggressive with everyone expect my brother and I. Now he is almost homeless and not living in reality. I feel bad for him but he is hard to help because refuses to get medications or even go to therapy. This makes me somewhat cautious when dating because idk if the man I end up with will have an untreated mental illness and I do not find out until it is too…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:04 AM
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Exhibit A:
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:21 PM
1

Is the gigachad like the male equivalent of a bimbo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:11 PM
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Because attractive women with such a social class tend to be pair up with attractive men of also the same social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:10 PM
1

Yeah I have the same experience. Also I noticed that when I get into debates with conservative men, their approach are softer towards me compared to other liberal women who look like the stereotype more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:55 PM
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Yeah I do not know any woman who thinks she is a 10 just because her friends told her so. This includes me. My friends hype me up and while it is a nice thing to do, I know I am not a 10 but I appreciate their support.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:47 PM
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That is literally what my friend and I do lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:40 PM
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As a woman, I have. Plenty of times. They only show this side to women they want to date which scares them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:02 PM
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Most of the men there are not even attarctive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:28 AM
2

Hope you feel ok soon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:38 PM
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it is ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:33 PM
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No worries I was koking. You are right though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:06 PM
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So you are saying I am mentally ill? No arguments here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:59 PM
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Women age faster than men. I witness the opposite. I know more older women who look well put together compared to older men. It is rare to see a man look good at an older age outside of celebrities. Even at my mid-20s, I am already seeing a lot of men my age letting themselves go.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:46 AM
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Men did not want to commit to me even in my "prime" so 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:40 AM
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I have been told I look fat just because of my face, even though my BMI is within the lower-healthy range.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:39 AM
2

How would Universal Healthcare not benefit you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:59 PM
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Answering here because the bot doesn't recognize me as a woman cause of my flair. I only consider a guy creepy when he keeps hitting me up even after I rejected him..which is unfortunately most guys. These guys keep trying to change my mind and become desperate on accepting them. It makes me feel uncomfortable because I try to reject them politely but the more they keep insisting the more harsh I get with my rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:14 PM
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And then they try to make it seem like they are not forcing women to get into relationships that they do not want. "Nooo I am not saying women should be force into relationships...I just think there should be more consequences for women if they aren't 😇".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:43 PM
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Well yes. Otherwise we would have men focusing on other qualities to improve other than looks but men of today are paying attention to just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:24 PM
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" she is a 2.5, arms too pointy"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:21 PM
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Come to LA
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:20 PM
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I have seen couples like that, and the most likely scenario is that these women used to be thin but gain weight throughout the years. This is especially true if the woman still has an attractive face.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:17 PM
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thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:38 AM
2

Still need to find one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:32 AM
0

A lot of men here complain about not having experience or understanding of women. To help with that, it is encouraged to get to know women not just in the context of dating, but in other forms of interactions as well. I am a woman and had trouble interacting with men due to trauma. I was recommended to talk to men, not just in a romantic sense, but also in general. It helps improve my social skills with men to feel more comfortable talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:28 AM
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All the tall, good-looking guys I know do have female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:18 AM
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You say women overlook you but they also sleep with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:46 PM
13

I think Gen Z is actually more critical of age gaps. A little bit too critical to the point where they think the age gap between someone in their late teens and early 20s is predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:06 AM
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Yeah i am a woman in my 20s and it is uncommon to meet another woman in their 20s preferring a guy 10 years older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:27 AM
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We were always here. Among you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:53 PM
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The majority of men are rough looking unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:59 PM
1

It is when you are comparing it to pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:28 PM
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Pregnancy is a choice, unlike food which your body needs otherwise it will die.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:04 PM
3

How do you determine that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:59 AM
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I think it depends how you word those preferences. If you say something like "I hate women with hairy legs they are gross" then you are going to get blacklash but if you say something like "I prefer smooth legs" then that sounds more reasonable. I will say that this will hurt some feelings still but no one should be giving you a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:05 PM
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This is my experience as an autisitc woman. Men tend to be okay with me being shy, socially awkward, having special interests, etc but when they find out I cannot cook, clean, stay in bed all day, etc they opt out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:26 PM
1

Mine was 0.34%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:26 AM
9

A lot of men take that over being with no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:20 AM
3

Better that than to be at risk of being plumed and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:56 AM
1

I knew plenty of homeless men with missing physical features get with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:53 AM
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About number #3, a mid woman has more to lose if she has sex with a guy if she does not make him wait longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:51 AM
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Idk, would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:13 AM
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My BMI is 20 and I think he look better on the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:03 PM
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Because it is more likely for a thin woman to gain in the future than a tall man becoming shorter. It is the same when young women hear men going on about how old women are undesirable because they will be an old woman someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:10 PM
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Was this suppose to be an insult? Good for them if they are working on themselves to date the women they are actually attracted to instead of complaining how women have high standards and should lower them, which most men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 12:18 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:49 PM
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Me or him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:01 AM
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I am just speaking from personal experience. Attarctive men do not really approach women unless if were already in a social group. Women just come up to them. I used to hang out with an attatctive guy and women would intrupt us to talk to him. I have seen another attatctive guy go through the same thing. As for attarctice women, many of of them have stories of unattatctice men hitting on them to the poin where they wish they stop being attatctive being these guys will not leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:11 AM
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You guys all act like unattarctive men know they are unattatctive so they stay in their lane. Trust me that is not what is happening. Ask women, especially attatctive women, who approaches them the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:07 PM
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Ask any attractive woman how many unattarctive guys hit on them. You would he suprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:05 PM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 07:40 PM
1

When I was uglier, I had men who I was not even attarcted to get offended when I existed nearby them. I remember I was struggling in one of the materials in my classes and ask one of the tutors for help. He literally made a face at me as he walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:28 PM
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Attractive women get hit on by unattarctive guys most of the time because unattatctive guys usually are the ones that shoot their shot since they have nothing to lose. Meanwhile attarctive guys get women approaching them so they do not approach that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:21 PM
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I have seen it though it is not as common. Sometimes I will meet a handsome guy and think his partner must also be a pretty girl but then I actually meet her and am surprised how she manage to score him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:04 PM
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We do know our league. We just prefer to stay single and work on ourselves so that we can move up to date the people we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:02 PM
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I was referencing the OP's statement about women here being trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:42 PM
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I am not happy about being a single trash, but I am happy that I am a single trash, not paired up with another garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:47 AM
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Chad is not most men, though, which is what the OP was arguing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:44 AM
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I can. I have even considering becoming a nun in the future. Sex is just not worth it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:52 AM
5

It sucks but it sucks less than being in a loveless relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:32 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:09 AM
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This is my kind of lonely. I want chad but I only get brads 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:40 AM
1

You mean the devil?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:39 AM
1

I have fit body (bmi is within the lower end of healthy range) but not really a fit lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:04 AM
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First choice as in they experience love already but were unable to be with them now? I would not mind as long as their previous love became just an experience that they do not long for. Now if you are talking about them still having strong feelings for another woman but decided to date me because they could not get with her, then yeah I would not want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:56 PM
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I once had a crush on a dude who was popular with many women. I would get jealous of the women he surrounded himself with because they were extremely beautiful. However, there was this one girl who I considered average at best since she was overweight and had mess up teeth, so I did not get jealous of her. Then one day it is reveal he ended up dating which shook alot of us who like him. He is still happily with her till this day. So much for men go for the hottest chick they can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:36 PM
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That is not my experience. Plent of pretty women are supported by other women. If anything, it is the less attractive women experiencing all this in my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:31 PM
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No I am basing this off skin care and grooming. I am not a big fan of heavy makeup and I think women do well it just the simple stuff. Even with that "scientific fact", I do not find most older men attractive because they let themselves go more often than older women. I can only count with one hand how many older man I find physically attractive who are 10 years older than me. These type of men actually do look like they take care of themselves so props to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:14 PM
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Outside of celebrities, I rarley see a man aging good in a public setting. Most of them lose their looks when they get older. Heck, I am even seeing this with my male peers in their mid 20s which is crazy because they are still young and already look like a mess. I wish the fact men age better is true cause I would have alot to look forward to instead. Meanwhile I see plenty of women that look attractive because they make an effort on their looks compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:05 PM
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We still find professors hot. We just are more informed of the power dynamic between them and us students should we get invole with them compared to previous generations were they just went for it and got themselves hurt as of the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:00 PM
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No I see it too. Most women I know date within their age range, which is anywhere between five years. If anything, I actually met more women getting gross out when older men hit on them. Maybe they will joke about dating an older man for their money (I do it too) but that is about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:38 PM
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Yeah it was rare to see a young woman date a man five years older than them in my area. The ones that do they moved to a different area where I guess the age diffeence is more acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:32 PM
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Please do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:20 PM
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In my side of Reddit, men gave me the idea that they are not thrill about going for women who had slept with many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:41 PM
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2
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:02 PM
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I feel like when men say that, they are talking about clinically obese women, aka the women who look like they can be on my 600-lb life. Women who are chubby or slightly overweight can do fine, especially if they have curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:42 PM
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In general. Even the men who say they are left leaning tend to actually not be that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:49 PM
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The guys that tend to approach me and want to date me tend to have right wing beliefs even mine swing the opposite. It was not that common for men to share my beliefs so I settle for the right wing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:59 PM
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I was thinking about this. When I was a teen I could not even look at my crush without blushing hard. Now that I am an adult I can talk to my crushes normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:59 AM
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I am sorry for your loss. She sounded like a sweet person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:09 AM
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Maybe she was the 1% that struggle with dating and wanted someone in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:07 AM
3

Same. I am not really a sexual person so I am okay with being alone with cats (or dogs).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:38 PM
1

I grew up around these types of men. I never liked them. I found them cringe-worthy and bothersome, regardless of their attractiveness (not that any of them were that attractive in the first place lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:13 PM
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I will answer here since the bot does not see me as a woman. I am not interested in dating apps for the following reasons: - I feel the majority of men who would want to talk to me there will only be looking for sex - I am scared that my date will think I look uglier in person (I have a complex about my looks) and ghost me because of it. - I romanticized the idea of a meet cute scenrio with a guy like in the older days. I find the idea of meeting someone offline lame tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:58 PM
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I remember there was a post about a handsome athlete who was dating a woman that was not on his league. Many of the comments were from angry men calling the athlete dumb for dating such a plain woman when he could have gotten with a hot looking model because of his looks and status. These average men were projecting themselves to the attractive man and basically revealing what they would do if they were famous and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:00 PM
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Sometimes it was not even the guys I dated. I have met so many handsome men that have been nice to me even if they are not attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:54 PM
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TIL I might be one of the top 3% women according to this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:33 PM
2

Even if she has an ugly face?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:29 AM
1

Urusei Yatsura. After a misunderstanding, a very desirable female alien falls for a human mal3 who is perceived to be a dumb perverted unattatctive loser by everyone on earth. She could have any man in the universe but she goes after the one who is not attractive in any way and does not want her (at least this is how it is at the start of the series).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:57 AM
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I am 25 and can concur with the OP's statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:36 PM
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We do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:33 PM
3

How are you single but have a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:58 PM
1

If you are ignored, you are likely average rather than ugly. Ugly women get seen and suffer because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:14 PM
1

This is me, except I do not watch porn and am more like a 6 on a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:26 PM
2

Yes. I plan to pick a guy to be my husband in my last hour of being 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:03 AM
1

The last time I tried to be honest about my preference, I had a guy trying to dox me because he felt offended that people like him were not my type soooo yeah...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:42 PM
2

I already have that and I am a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:37 PM
2

Same it looks like I lost my virginity a year ago. Time to change my flair I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:32 PM
–

The second girl is literally me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:12 AM
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I am 25 and more like the second girl. Is that concerning?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:11 AM
13

Women can sense when a guy truly does not want a friendship and just wants to sleep with her. I have befriended men in the past because I like talking to people but unfortunately they would expect me to fall for them in return. I don't want a friendship if the guy just keeps doing "nice" things so I can sleep with them. So to avoid complicated feelings I started stopped giving chances to these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:07 AM
14

Why do you want just women to be friends with you? Why not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:59 AM
22

Looking at this post and your replies, perhaps they are justified in doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:51 AM
1

More like if you are not in the 10% then leaves us alone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:18 PM
1

I doubt the 10% is in this sub tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:38 PM
2

It still says that the most common age gap between couples are two years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:36 PM
7

I dated a guy who once posted a meme about girls weighing over 130. Then he would constantly compliment my body and how fit it was. I was 140 and he did not know that. I am normal weight according to BMI but I carry my fat in my butt so maybe that is why he did not think I was unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:20 PM
2

I am like this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:40 AM
1

Maybe she already is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:44 PM
1

They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:48 PM
5

I am sheltered, shy, and very picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:04 PM
0

Be creative
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:57 AM
52

I would feel hurt ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:48 AM
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Because people tell us to give these guys a chance so that is what we are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:29 PM
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For real. These men want women to lower their standards and date them but then will resent them because they were not attached to them like they were with Mr.Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:28 PM
3

You are going to have to share how she did it since that is how the court analyze these cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:16 AM
0

This shit is why I am not having kids. Imagine dealing with that. It is heartbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:14 AM
2

People do say that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:03 PM
2

This actually helps my autisitc ass to figure out if I like the person or just want to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:36 PM
1

If you are compatible with someone but not that attarcted to them, isn't that just a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:31 PM
3

It is a shame that being seen as husband material is an insult because when I tell guys that it means they have the perfect package since they have the personality and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:19 PM
1

It depends how much a person feels they are settling for. If they recognize they partner is no Brad Pitt but still find them cute and enjoy their company, then yeah that person can be happy in a relationship. If they are not attracted to their partner because they are still into someone else but felt like they have to be with them in order to not feel lonley and because they are a decent person then I can see how that can lead to resentment. If course, it also depends how the other person feels …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:16 PM
3

Your source is outdated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:26 AM
2

These sources are outdated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:00 AM
6

Who know$
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:38 PM
5

Alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:46 PM
5

I am leaning toward not having them. There are too many cons that come with motherhood that I do not think I could handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:15 AM
2

25
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:53 PM
8

For me, usually any man 13 years older than my current age makes me feel intimated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:26 PM
1

She is me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:14 AM
2

90% of my conversations with my friends involve memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:59 PM
3

Do you shave?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:27 PM
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She is literally me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:39 AM
3

Being a virgin will not kill you like being poor does
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:22 PM
1

It is better to be a good person but virgin than a bad person but unvirgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:55 PM
6

Will you deny or confirm these accusations
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:28 AM
1

If you are this angry, I would say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:56 AM
4

It gives people who are like him hope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:51 AM
1

These days a 7 is actually a 5. This video explains it all: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCT2Ocnzp7U&t=320s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:11 AM
2

These interactions are probably happening in their DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:30 PM
1

It does not happen much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:37 PM
4

Guess I am a loser 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:01 AM
24

NOPE
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:30 PM
1

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:01 AM
26

Same. I usually see videos of women who regret having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:01 PM
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I am an example of this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:46 AM
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Is there more to the post? I feel like there was supposed to be more to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:08 AM
0

If they think they are a 7 it is because something in their life gives them that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:40 AM
-3

It is implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:01 AM
2

What if these are not the same women who are sharing those statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:57 AM
-6

I mean at least you can control most of these factors. You can't control age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:34 PM
2

There is a saying in spanish "la suerte de la fea la bonita lo desea" which translates to "the luck the ugly (woman) has the beautiful (women)" wishes she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:31 AM
11

A woman is telling you how women behave. That is your source...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:03 PM
2

Where do you get that idea lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:36 PM
1

Under 40? I feel that most people over 40 are actually the ones who belive it the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:32 PM
1

5.5 I am a fit young woman with an okay looking face
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 10:27 PM
1

Is that really considered average?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:30 PM
2

That is very interesting because irl I had contact with women (including my aunt) who were abused in their relationship and their partners were unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:25 PM
1

Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:54 PM
3

When has a male fictional character ever gotten backlash due to their appearance? When have women try to cancel a game because a character did not look “fuckable” to them and send death threats to the creator because of it? Please tell me when because I am actually confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:42 PM
9

Okay but have women ever gotten upset because a fictional male character wasn’t 6 feet tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:16 AM
1

If you read their wiki page, that is not why men were banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:08 AM
1

So I would need to date someone that literally looks like my brother?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:08 PM
3

This varies but for me looking at you multiple times means that I am down to have a conversation with you. I think other girls may be in the same position as me too.
/r/seduction17/04/23 12:39 AM
3

Yeah I was kidding haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:51 AM
2

I would be curious to know why he stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:36 AM
2

Maybe they meant fellow women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:35 AM
1

what is considered "unmasculine" for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:27 AM
1

I think they look at least in their early 20s. The most attractive people at my university look like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:24 PM
1

The question was asking who I think looks average for my age group (early-mid 20s). These are the types of people I see day-to-day basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:23 PM
1

How do they look 17?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:45 AM
1

I think 40% is a small number for that age group. That means you are more likely to see someone who is not overweight than someone who isactually overweight. I also live in a city where tons of people my age tend to take care of their looks, so if you were overweight in your mid-20s then you would stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:08 PM
-1

I should have mentioned I live in a big city where there are tons of wannabe models and influencers. Anyone who does not have that look is just considered slightly above average at best (like a 6.5/10). Anyways, here are the folks that are not popular celebrities that would be considered conventionally attractive (7.5/10). ​ Attractive woman: https://i.pinimg.com/736x/65/1b/ed/651bed07d0cd0a5d63bccda47606bcc4.jpg Attractive man: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/EBLJhBjUEAAJeBW.jpg:large
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:02 PM
1

I should have mentioned I live in a big city where the beauty standards are higher, so compared to all these attractive people in my city these folks would be considered average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:47 PM
1

The question asked what I think the average person looks like in my age group. If I were asked what I think the average person looks like in general then the answer would be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:37 PM
-1

Well, those are the types of people I see on daily basis. I do not think they are unattractive but they are not that attractive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:15 PM
0

I am in my mid-20s btw. Woman: https://www.thelist.com/img/gallery/ways-every-womans-body-changes-in-her-20s/intro-1544641562.jpg Men: https://www.emlovz.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/daniel-capelani-gRslJX1S4h0-unsplash.jpg ​ Edit: For people who are telling me that these people are attractive, I live in a big city where there are tons of wannabe models and influencers. Anyone who does not have that look is just considered slightly above average at best (like a 6.5/10).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:53 PM
1

I am 23 and still a virgin. It is kinda of a choice and kinda not. I used to put myself out there but I never found someone. Now I am just focusing on finding a relationship before I lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:13 AM
1

I am 23. I do not think I have ever been in love but I definitely had strong crushes on people. My first crush would have to be when I was 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:44 PM
1

13 to now at 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:24 PM
1

College and church
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:40 PM
2

What age is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:37 PM
1

What does it mean if you get asked out on dates but never even have been able to get a second date with someone? Are looks still the issue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:42 PM
1

Idk about everyone else but I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:18 PM
2

I have autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:23 PM
1

Female. 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:57 PM
1

Omg, my male classmates used to be so scared of getting paired up with me. One of them even threw a fit when he found out he had to work with me. What hurt was that I did not even like these guys like that I just did not want to be disrespected like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:51 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:44 PM
0

What song was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:32 PM
0

The blue pill people?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:31 PM
15

You really think that is average?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:57 AM
1

I have a preference for men that are taller than me (5'8); however, I have had crushes on dudes who were slightly shorter than 5'8 - with the shortest being 5'6.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:12 AM
1

I like being called babe, princess, or angel. Anything else makes me cringe. I am a woman btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:57 PM
1

Attention from men as in romantic or sexual interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:38 PM
3

No they do not. If a man is easily seduce by a woman then that is his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:53 PM
4

These only work if you are not planning to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:36 PM
9

It takes two to tangle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:35 PM
4

That is true~
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:43 PM
7

Idk I have seen some couples where an attractive man is with a less attractive woman and claim he likes her for her. I do not personally believe it but those couples seem happy together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:28 PM
-1

You are assuming that the average/unattractive but "nice" guy is not putting on a fake persona and once they get the girl they will show their true colors and treat her like shit. Maybe that makes up a portion of the "women have stories about an abusive ex" statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:06 PM
4

My ex did all that except he was not hot lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:59 PM
1

It has always been that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:29 PM
1

I would say no. Maybe she is just shy but I would not risk it.
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:04 PM
1

I see. If that is the case then I only ever get hot approach (is that a thing lol) because I have never been told word-for-word that they want to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:56 PM
3

1) What is cold approaching? 2) Almost always because someone asking for my number rarely happens to me 3) Funny thing is that these men rarely text me back and if they do we only end up exchanging a few messages. I then never hear back from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:50 PM
2

r/trufemcels used to crosspost a lot of the posts from here back when it was not banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:39 AM
2

For some people, it gives them a boost when it comes to attracting someone. I agree that relying on just your physical attributes is a horrible mentality but it is better to be single but slightly attractive than to be single and not-so-attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:31 PM
1

Praying aka luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:50 PM
3

I would say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:05 PM
1

I agree. I wish I could stop looking through this sub (and r/seduction). It just made me feel insecure. I have no doubts others feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:30 PM
1

Online but you could only do so much in that setting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:49 PM
2

Damm, I must be uglier than I thought lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:08 PM
5

Most of the women here have low self-esteem and are not that bold lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:07 PM
12

This is so not true. Most women, attractive or not, have body image issues. Even Megan Fox has said to have self-esteem issues regarding her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:35 PM
1

What is the difference between finding an average woman attractive vs finding an actually attractive woman, well, attractive? Do you put more effort into the attractive woman compared to the average-looking one?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:20 PM
1

I do not think so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:10 PM
0

It is not fun for me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:20 AM
5

It has always been toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:01 PM
5

Both?
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:12 AM
1

I would say...pretty normal. I do not get special treatment or anything like that but I do not feel like I am being mistreated either. In order words, there was no difference in how I was treated when I look fit compared to when I appeared skinnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:06 PM
2

Lol I have seen young women saying that they would get a sugar daddy if old men did not gross them out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:25 PM
1

!remindme in 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:23 PM
2

I am confused on why women who consider themselves average to above-average are commenting? The OP intended this question to be specifically for unattractive women (3s and under). Is being average-looking the new ugly for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:05 PM
3

I agree. There are so many women who say they are unattractive but their past experiences say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:03 PM
1

You do you. I still think it is weird but do not let me stop you.
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:32 AM
1

25
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:31 AM
1

Yeah, my bad I missed the typo.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:07 PM
0

I do.
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:31 PM
0

According to the “your age+2/7” rule, the youngest you are able to date without being seen as a creep is 24.
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:27 PM
5

Yup. I am sorry but if you are going after women who like 10 years younger than you, you will be seen as a creep no matter what excuses you give. Either live with that label or date within your own age range. And before anyone calls “a jealous old lady” - I am also a young woman.
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:24 PM
1

I mean some people can pass off as looking younger than 30, so they have more success if they lie about being younger than they actually are because people will be more inclined to believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:17 PM
1

Where is your source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:49 PM
1

Not if they look young.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:48 PM
2

Not me reading this as a 23-year-old who has never been in a relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:47 PM
1

This does not prove women are more abusive than men in relationships. It just proves that women can be the abusers within their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:44 PM
1

People with great personalities but average looks. I am thankful for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:26 PM
1

My looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:23 AM
10

🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:11 AM
0

This kinda contradicts the studies that say women are happier when they are single, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:53 PM
0

Today I just found out I am manipulating men just by being here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:42 AM
5

Nope. My dating life is still the same as it was before Coivd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:37 AM
1

Wait, being the 20% of women, in this case, is a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:25 AM
1

Depends. If you are religious, you are more likely to meet people who do not drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:36 AM
4

As a person who rarely views porn...wtf are these searches
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:09 AM
1

That is one way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:30 AM
12

Hmm yeah, I could see this happening. Not being able to relate to your age group can cause you to seek other people from other age ranges...typically from the older ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:13 AM
9

It is not always about status. Personally, No matter how successful the guy is if he looks like he could be my father/grandparent I will not be attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:11 AM
8

Not to be mean, but they usually lack a male guardian in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:08 AM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:34 AM
3

I am answering this from one women's perspective. I think it depends on what the man needs. I believe he will gain the benefit of having someone value him as a man and as a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 11:10 PM
7

I do not partake in casual sex, so I am going to answer this as if you asked what guy would I rather date. I would rather date and have sex with guy #2. It would be nice to have a guy in my league think I am the prettiest person he has ever been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 09:54 PM
1

Just because she has a chubby face does not mean she is overweight. I have a chubby face and am pretty skinny. Also, people are allowed to have standards. Even people you find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 09:37 PM
1

I thought that sub was banned during the incel-like subs banning purge I think those standards are reasonable. Notice how she did not say she wants someone fit/good-looking. Do you think average/unattractive women do not deserve finically stable men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:55 PM
1

We are not talking about attractive women here. The women who talk about not getting dates or attention from men are the average-to-below average women. Sure, they might have an easier time when it comes to looking for someone to have sex with but sex alone does not mean that they are valued as a person. That is why shit like "pull-a-pig" events exist. Some men are so desperate for sex that they will do it with any woman regardless of her looks but they will not be interested in getting to know …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:54 PM
11

For women - it is because there is a narrative that women are supposed to be getting attention from men and thus meaning that dating is supposed to be easier for them, right? Well, these women are talking about the experiences of not fitting in the norm of being a beautiful woman. It is really uncommon for women to not be attractive/get positive male attention, so seeing all these statements about how women should have an easier time with men makes them feel like they are being left out because …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:46 AM
88

Imagine not only having to be attractive to your bf, but you also have to be attractive to your bfs homies omg it is so tiring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:34 PM
98

This is why a man wanting to fuck me is not a compliment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:53 AM
11

As a fellow virgin, a man being a virgin is not a red flag to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:20 AM
2

Not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:27 PM
2

I think we all have thought of doing this. I did too but I am like nah that ain't fair to them. They deserve someone who likes them for who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:26 PM
2

Anyone taller than me, which is 5'8.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:50 AM
2

And before someone says it - no, I am not overweight. Quite the opposite actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:13 PM
3

As an average woman, this is already my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:12 PM
8

Tbh I agree. To me, neckbeards are below average in terms of physical appearance, therefore they are not as common as an average guy who is able to tidy up their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:38 PM
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Thank you so much for your sweet comment 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:04 AM
2

Their social media accounts usually show what their values,beliefs, interests and lifestyle are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:14 AM
1

Talk to my son.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:48 AM
2

There is a lot of studies that show men get attracted based on looks first. I feel like taking care of your appearance even a bit can help you in the dating field as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:24 AM
3

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:55 PM
3

Are we only suppose to compliment conventionally attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:08 PM
4

I rather experience this as a beautiful woman than an unattractive one because at least it has its benefits. I just feel like men will feel more sorry for the beautiful woman because...she is pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:05 PM
2

thank you! love yours too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:07 PM
20

Only one woman in my group of friends has ever had a boyfriend. She has been pretty faithful to him from what I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 05:19 AM
1

This is above average at worst...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:39 AM
-1

Being ugly can be an advantage if you are not a people person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 05:07 PM
2

Come to think about it, I never met a woman who has a sugar daddy. The most they do is joke about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 12:49 PM
1

Only if you come from a low-income family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 12:48 PM
0

This is my life when I interact with me. - They either ignore me or are friendly to me (not to the time it’s creepy tho). I rarely get hit on in real life. I do get hit on a lot on Facebook tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:00 AM
1

lol i'm being called out in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:43 AM
1

I like feeling pretty, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 10:38 AM
6

In my community, most women are not interested in dating older men. Most date around their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:28 AM
2

I thought the average girl was supposed to be the bottom pic and i was like "same"...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:48 PM
1

It's also expensive for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:15 AM
1

pls yall will hate on both afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:08 AM
1

I have autism but I was here a day after NYE so...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:07 AM
1

enough to support my family. we are gonna lose the house soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:06 AM
1

probaly a safe 5 and f. i been told I'm not ugly but also to not get so cocky about it. i do not know what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:00 AM
1

Nothing. That's why I don't chase after men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:56 AM
0

Intrested in what people think of my gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:54 AM
1

It depends on how well they took care of themselves when they were younger. I have seen a lot of women who still look good at 50 and look better than their husbands, who happened to be also 50 years old or older. The same can be applied vice-versa. Is there a source that says 50-year olds are preferred on dating apps? The only reason why I think they would be preferred is to become a sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:41 PM
7

they will not age as well as their male partner Most men do not age well either...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:29 PM
1

Well I’m a woman and I like playing video games and board games. I think it only becomes a problem for the opposite sex when that’s all you do 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 01:50 AM
2

Or they grow out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:31 PM
15

I follow her and hope that she is safe. This man is quite dangerous and refuses to let her live in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:06 PM
3

Oh, that's me alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:49 AM
3

Yeah. I have been on this sub for a while now and even I find the atmosphere here surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:47 AM
1

I'm not old and voted for that but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:40 AM
3

I keep seeing this in the pics that are now deleted wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:04 AM
2

Not all feminists are as what you described though. Most femcels I know aren’t even feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:59 AM
4

You can already tell who’s been waiting for purge week lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:46 AM
1

That was from last year’s, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:46 AM
0

Either I want to ask you something and I’m too shy to do it or because you caught my eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:33 AM
1

I can't speak for all women, this is true for me. I automatically think they won't like me talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:53 PM
2

he looks borning and his bio made him look wirse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:02 AM
55

I don't know if this is true, but I heard that a lot of viewers liked the fact that a healthy relationship was being portrayed on television.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:49 PM
2

You haven't met a young woman who seeks out these qualities in a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:01 AM
1

What is a decent man to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:38 AM
1

While that may be true, most of these women were already born into wealthy homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 01:06 AM
2

Well I haven’t done any sexual activity since I was born. That would probably be my only problem if they don’t like virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 12:56 AM
1

It depends. Personally, I wouldn’t make the first move unless if he gives me signs he is somewhat interested in me...romantically anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:26 PM
1

I like reading this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:18 AM
5

I mean... I once had to hear 10 boys having a conversation about their dicks while I was next to the group. It wasn't until someone pointed out that a girl (me) was there. I kind of invisible to men so I see how they talk as if I wasn;'t there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:23 AM
2

it really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:06 AM
0

I’m gonna read them, but where was I making claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 07:21 PM
3

And men aren’t like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:28 PM
1

What do you mean all women shit test men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:27 PM
2

You mean look wise or behavior wise? I always thought Stacy meant you are extremely good looking and also have an extroverted personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:25 PM
0

What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:21 PM
1

People who got lucky dating don't know what TRP/FDS is, they never needed Good for them. No seriously, good for them. Ever since I discovered all these pills and "dating" methods, I became more insecure about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 07:00 AM
1

My friends are pretty real. I also met a lot of girls online (yes, they are real girls and not catfish) that like stuff that is consider for dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:36 PM
7

I know many women that do. You just have to met them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:16 PM
1

I think this based of a tweet that went viral after someone asked their bf who is the prettiest disney princess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:15 AM
1

I posted a question like this before, but the answer is yes. It would bother me. I know I’m not the most beautiful looking girl out there, but I would like for my SO to find me somewhat attractive. Otherwise it just feels like they are settling. I don’t want that kind of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:47 AM
1

Why wouldn't they exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 11:15 AM
1

Sometimes it happens. I just stop the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:59 PM
2

I mean taste is a personal thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:29 AM
2

It looks pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:23 AM
2

I think it’s cute. Good luc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:14 AM
2

I tend to crush on guys with good hair. That’s the first I look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 07:08 AM
1

I wish the best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:30 AM
9

Treating women with respect because they respect her and not because they wan sex or a romantic relationship from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:26 AM
1

Two chihuahuas
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:54 AM
1

If you want your children to look like me, I would take that as a compliment. But no thank you I don’t want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:34 AM
8

Most of the GC and FDS women claim to be/have been attractive so...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:30 AM
3

No one has to date someone they aren’t attracted to, but is it necessary to be mean to them because they are not attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:57 PM
2

Can y’all stop trying to find ways to justified your desires to date younger women? We get it younger women are hot but why mention it every 30 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 05:06 AM
2

I hate how normalize porn has become that even Reddit allows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:53 AM
1

I want us to be equal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:57 AM
2

Irl? 0. I have guy I can talk to, but we are not as close as my female friends are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:56 AM
8

Deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:42 AM
1

No. It’s about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:41 AM
1

This is up to interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 07:57 PM
5

Why were they banned?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:45 PM
2

I just realize I never seen a couple where one was more attractive than the other in my area. They both have the same level of attractiveness. They seem happy with each other too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 02:11 AM
1

Do online relationships count? In that case, only one lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 05:44 PM
2

exactly ˢᵃʳᶜᵃˢᵐ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:23 AM
0

I guess it depends on the context. Some people say it out of concern. Other people say it just to shame people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:21 AM
3

They may not say it like that, but they say it in many other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 06:19 AM
1

It’s about the same honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 09:19 PM
2

Not really. I won’t go on a date unless if I think I might like the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 09:19 PM
6

I’m kinda nervous, but excited at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 09:18 PM
1

Men don’t stare (at least that I would know of) so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:36 PM
1

Probably now the age of 20. My teeth were much straighter back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:13 AM
1

Well it’s a good thing I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 09:23 PM
8

I really hope Reddit isn’t the representation of all men. Ever since I discovered reddit, I began to be turned off by the idea of dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 06:11 AM
0

21F and my body count is 0. I'm such a "loser" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:49 AM
4

I think I'm one of the few women in their early 20's to like men near my age and not too old (like 30+)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:47 AM
2

I kinda look like Mia Khalifa except without the big boobs :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 02:11 AM
1

what if the man was married? most of these comments come from married men or so i see.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:25 PM
3

I think marriage and all that jazz won't be a priority anymore. And I'm glad because that takes off the pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 08:32 AM
1

I first heard about it when I kept getting ads for it. I didn't really start using it until last summer. Now I only go there to watch fun skits or see if anyone has any lifehacks I could use.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 08:30 AM
2

I don’t drive. I walk and sometimes take buses to my destination. I used to think it was because I was so unattractive but I heard even unattractive women get callcalled too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:28 AM
1

Well, I live in the USA. The country where a lot of catcalling supposedly happens. Almost every woman I talk to tells me that they have to deal with catcalling where I live. Even my own mother says she has dealt with catcalling in my area. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 12:18 AM
1

I feel like I'm one of the few women that have never been catcalled in public. It should make me happy but it also makes me question why does it not happen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 10:54 PM
4

This does not happen in my group. I think I am the only aware of all these pills stuff. My best friend seems to have crushes on men who are not objectively attractive and is even currently dating someone who FDS advises not to date. They seem to be happy together. As for the rest of my friends, we do not talk about unattractive men. We do talk about which cute guys we saw today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:00 PM
5

Well, not me. I disagree with their stances. We would not work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:39 AM
5

People are showing their true colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:14 AM
3

the circus is in town
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:12 AM
2

Being desired by horny men does not count. There was someone who messaged a MINOR femcel about having sex with him. Are her standards too high because she does not want to have sex with a grown-ass adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:00 PM
1

Yes. Insecurity issues ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:56 PM
1

Ideal: 1. I do not like the idea of sex that much, but I do not want to be left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:00 AM
1

Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:56 AM
2

this is actually scary wtf are men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:51 AM
1

Period.
/r/MuslimRedPill03/05/20 09:39 AM
1

People always do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 06:09 PM
24

“You are not like other girls I ever met. You play video games.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:16 AM
1

Yes. Unless if they were mean to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:49 PM
1

I get some attention online but offline I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:43 AM
2

It’s not a turn on/turn off thing for me but it does make him look like a better person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:39 AM
5

I would tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:49 AM
2

it's shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:52 AM
1

Nope. I have another account for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:53 PM
1

Muscles are a bonus, but it's the hair the makes it or breaks it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 09:45 AM
1

hmmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:15 PM
3

They get paid no matter what. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:09 PM
1

“Attractive how?” Like they do not find you good looking. Your appearance does nothing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:06 PM
1

The youngest I liked is 20 but even then that’s not too young since I am 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 07:39 AM
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