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We've got one guy saying to he needs to speak to her for 4 hours without asking her any questions, and we've got one saying that he shouldn't try to feign confidence or appear in a good mood! This is Gold.
/r/seduction18/07/17 03:41 PM
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But can you really call 'just be yourself' ''game'' ? Isn't that what got people into this in the first place? Being 'themselvesl' wasn't getting them laid? :) - so they started using techniques (DHV'ing, negging etc)
/r/seduction06/07/17 08:52 PM
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It was decent, man. You sounded pretty chill and relaxed. I don't think you really done much wrong. I love that you made the effort to record it for us, too. This should be upvoted big time. No idea why some sad people downvote posts lke this Make loads more!
/r/seduction06/07/17 09:04 AM
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Can a 19 year old not bang a girl under 18 there? My God, UK is so different. My friend is well into his 30's, and he's fucked about twenty 16-year-olds in the last year or two! In the US he'd probably be given the electric chair or something, lol
/r/seduction05/07/17 10:37 PM
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About 0.25% F-close rate if I do the maths. I don't really go for numbers or dates, but I imagine that would be about 1 in 50, maybe? 1 tinder match per 400 swipes - zero meets
/r/seduction05/07/17 01:45 PM
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those were both day game interactions for what it's worth. And he pulled them both
/r/seduction05/07/17 07:25 AM
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In order to try to learn the same answer, I wrote down the dialogue from some of RSDMax's infields. Open: Do yuo speak English? She anwers AFTER OPEN: What are you doing here? She anwers Where are you from? She answers You loked Pretty cool. That's why I had to say hi. Where are you going now? Another one: Open: Excuse me. Are you Swedish? She answers AFER OPEN: Oh. Are these your friends? She answers You're short. How old are you? She answers Can you cook? So, yeah. I mean, it seems to be the t…
/r/seduction04/07/17 09:16 PM
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I assumed this would at least be a little easier in the US. Am I right in thinking there are things like singles bars and stuff over there? Here in the UK, if you walk up too a group of guys by yourself on a night out and try to 'make friends' (''hey, guys. Im Jack. I'm by myself. What's up?) they'd think you are an oddball loner and wouldn't give you the time of day! I hate to say it, but back when I had a good social circle, on a few occassions, guys would try to 'get in' with our gang, and th…
/r/seduction04/07/17 05:21 PM
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Bump. So, I'M assuming I need to certainly stop with the stuff that's usually advised ''Just say 'hi' '', ''introduce yourself'', ''make a comment on something she's wearing'' etc? Since obviously none of those things are particualarly funny/different/make her interested in me/informal etc So, what sort of openers are we talking about here? regards
/r/seduction04/07/17 02:11 PM
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I was told the opposite? That I SHOULD be smiling on approach, otherwise you can come across as too serious or even intimidating?
/r/seduction04/07/17 02:06 PM
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haha
/r/seduction04/07/17 12:54 PM
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I have 'the natural' and in about 90% of max's infields he opens with like ''Hi, i'm max, are you from (name country)'' and then he asks their age and stuff, and it's kind of the sort of interaction that, if I wrote in script form in an FR, people would tell me off for being boring. Jeffy and Julien maybe do more of what you are talking about? But Julien also often just rattles off lots of interview quetsions(name/age/country etc) - with the occasional 'odd' question thrown in there such as ''ar…
/r/seduction03/07/17 06:52 PM
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truth, lol
/r/seduction03/07/17 03:23 PM
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Nah, I mean, i've bought a number of RSD products, so I should have the 'knowledge' And i've made thousands of approaches, so I've also had the 'practice' But I tend to go for hot young girls who tend to want handsome guys, and i'm short with a big nose etc, so they tend to not be remotely interested in me 'sexually'
/r/seduction03/07/17 02:30 PM
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I call myself 'involuntarily almost never gets laid' :) - I do make the effort, though. Lots of approaches every weekend for the last decade or so
/r/seduction03/07/17 01:29 PM
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I guess i'm not technically an 'incel' since i'm not a virgin, but i'm pretty close! Basically a life time of rejection and complete lack of interest from girls, but I don't hate girls at all. In fact, I really like them! I i certainly make teh effort. I've been approaching for years! I haven't given up! I also try not to judge them for rejecting me based on looks because, at the end of the day, i'm just as bad! I only want to sleep with good looking girls so I can't then be mad at them for reje…
/r/seduction03/07/17 01:25 PM
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lol, true. I had like a 20 year dry spell (from birth). Then got laid. Then like a 3 year dry spell. Then got laid. Then another 3 year dry spell. Then got laid. Currently on like a 2 year dry spell! :) I can't fathom that there are some guys out there who get laid all the time. Literally my brain can't coprehend it, lol. One of my friends has banged 350 girls!
/r/seduction03/07/17 11:20 AM
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What do you say to open and 'make them laugh' and what do you talk about to 'bring the fun' initially after you've opened? Like, I can have fun with a girl who is receptive to me and talking back, but otherwise i'm not sure Also it looks like you're going for name and where they're from a little to quick, you're being too formal IMO. Make them smile or laugh or at least get them slightly interested in you before you dive for a little info. Can you give me some ideas on how to do this (make them …
/r/seduction03/07/17 07:50 AM
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thanks. Yes, I really am trying to put the work in. Been doing so for well over a year! You'd think i'd be immune to the pain of rejection by now, but that's not how it appears to work. Quite the opposite, in fact! lol Wondering if I should at least scrap dancefloor approaches now unless the girl is making it ridiculously obvious that she's into me! Otherwise, it just feel lke tinder where it's 100% about looks and nothing else and i'm just cannon fodder
/r/seduction02/07/17 08:17 PM
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10 girls in 4 days? Are you Justin Beiber?! :)
/r/seduction02/07/17 10:27 AM
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I do that as well. I don't only approach on the dancefloor. See my linkes to previous FR' in my op
/r/seduction02/07/17 09:58 AM
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I was slightly drunk when I wrote this FR. I don't think I really want to kill myself! :) But I do feel VERY hopeless in terms of girls. I just don't think lots of people can relate to how it feels to CONSTANTLY get harsh rejections no matter how I adapt my approach. My internet history is full of 2 things: Plastic surgery websites and airline websites for places like Thailand and the Philipenes where I at least have the 'white God' factor - Would feel amazing to have girls receptive to me I'm n…
/r/seduction02/07/17 09:51 AM
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What techncal rules/theory are people most commonly making mistakes with in your opinion? I think part of the problem is that there are so many gurus with such conflicting advice on every sinly nuance of game, that there almost isn't a 'game' to learn anymore. You could do or say almost anything, and it would still be inline with some peoples teachings
/r/seduction01/07/17 03:59 PM
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how does practice with something like that actually help you 'improve'? (i'm not saying you're wrong by the way, I just want to better understand) Like, If I always find myself running out of things to say or stuggling to hold a conversation after a thousand conversations, i'm not sure what changes going forward? How does the process work? Does your brain remember interesting questions or something that SOMEONE ELSE ASKED YOU in on of your conversations, and then you can use that question going …
/r/seduction01/07/17 08:41 AM
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i'm in UK. Every American girl i've ever met is so much more sociable and friendly that it's not even funny. UK girls are friendly when they're in another country, though
/r/seduction30/06/17 05:55 PM
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i'm in the uk! :)
/r/seduction30/06/17 05:54 PM
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Seems to go against what I've read in the mystery method regarding showing interest before they have, but i'll certinly include some of these sorts of approaches in my next night out, and i'll report back in my next FR and tag you! :) cheers
/r/seduction30/06/17 05:27 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement. Although, i've been appraoching for a while and have made LOTS of approaches. Not necessarily improving, though. Everyone gives very conflicting advice. I try to take it on board an experiment, though. But I just generally seem unable to 'hook' girls. Nothing seems to work except being handsome, lol PS - I only do night game. I've read that you are better being INdirect with night game according to RSD stuff and especially old school PUA such as mystery Good luck
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:55 PM
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I'll just copy their delivery from the infields. I'll practice it a few times. Cheers
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:07 PM
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yeah, but I want to approach in the meantime(although inner game is already fine. I have a job and hobbies), so I need to know what bits showed no social awareness and what bits were very unsmooth and looked like performing surgery with a spoon, and maybe some things that I SHOULD say instead cheers
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:04 PM
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OK. I'll give it a go tonight. Not sure yet, but i'll think of a very weird opener (Maybe 'do you like salad' like the simplepickup guys used to use) and give it a go on 15 girls or so. Cheers
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:00 PM
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What do you look like man? I'm not good looking at all, so I need excellent 'game'.
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:53 PM
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thanks.
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:52 PM
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not a quick fix as such, but you said to stop having normal conversations as openers, so I need to know what I SHOULD say to open, in that case. An enxample? Does a comment about her jacket or something count as 'normal'?
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:50 PM
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I'm caught in the script because you said to stop having normal converstaions as openers. Any examples from your own life that I can use tonight?
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:30 PM
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But most people here say to open with ''Hi, i'm xxx'' Are you saying teh open should be something crazy? What do you open with? thanks
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:22 PM
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any practical advice though? Something tangible? How should a conversation look? What did I say that looked lke I was performing surgery with a spoon? Where was my conversation and social awareness bad? cheers mate
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:17 PM
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what did I do wrong and what should I have said? thanks
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:07 PM
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1/ how do I 'create' attraction? What should I be saying? 2/ Doesn't telling them they are hot straight away go against most pickup theory? thanks
/r/seduction30/06/17 11:34 AM
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I have, although i'm not very handsome which I feel contributes to the negative reactions I get when I go direct. It makes them choose right away, and since i'm not tall dark and handsome, I tend to get a very bad reaction. So I tend to try to sneak in under the radar a bit and see if I can at least get them laughing, but often i'm talking too a brick wall which makes it so hard (for me at least) to know what to say in order to spike their emotions/take them on an emotional ride/create 'attracti…
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:50 PM
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thanks, but it doesn't feel like a nice job, lol. I really don't feel i've improved much in the better part of 2 years of approaching. I just don't know what to say. How to get them interested. How to spike their emotions. I need someone to give me a script of exactly what to say, questions to ask, statements to make etc, lol
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:48 PM
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thanks for your help - Last question, I promise! Any advice regarding ''Building a strong sexual tone in what you say''? I get the impression this is kind of at the heart of where I was going wrong and stalled after we'd established a little kino. Are you referring to certain subjects or certain questions/statements? Or are you saying I can literally be asking her whether she has any siblings, but look at her lips and use body language to 'get sexual' before diving in?
/r/seduction21/06/17 06:00 PM
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The tone for your intent was already set. You just didn't follow through. Yeah, that's kind of how I saw it on reflection. Feels bad. So if i'd have said ''lets go outside for a second'' after she'd asked me feel her muscles and she'd have agreed to go with me, would I just literally go in for the kiss out of nowhere? Don't need to 'set it up' at all? It's hard too explain, but I guess I'd feel awkward with using such flimsy evidence at 'she let me touch her arm' as reason to go for the kiss. I …
/r/seduction21/06/17 05:41 PM
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lol, I noticed ages ago that more and more pua coaches that are cropping up are handsome fuckers lol.
/r/seduction21/06/17 05:35 PM
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Thanks for trying to help me! I have a semi-decent track record of sleeping with girls that I kiss - I tend to find it easier from that point But I only tend to kiss girls who make is as obvious as hell that they like me. So I guess she 'maybe' had some attraction for me since she was letting me touch her, but then it was only her arm, so maybe it didn't actually mean anything. So as you say, as a starting point, I needed to keep testing thw waters more with more sensual touching? Hips/brushing …
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:21 PM
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What if I wanted to kiss her in teh bar that night instead of getting her number? Imagine the same situation; Imagine We're talking. Doing some light kino. Imagine we are even now isolated somehow. I still don't really know how to go from that to making out with her. I know that i'm likely over-complicating it, and the answer it basically, 'juts go for the kiss', but it seems so uncalibrated to me. I hear that RSDJeffy gives his students certain lines to use at different points of each interacti…
/r/seduction21/06/17 12:14 PM
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