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| 1 | The Real Reason So Many Women Are Doing OnlyFans | Lib Turned Red Pill Female PerspectiveThis is absolutely the correct answer I also think OP is correct in many ways, and I don't say that as a drag on the women (though full disclaimer, I do have a OF I don't use much or take seriously). I love the idea of making it work because I do want more of a traditional life and that's just harder to secure these days, this seems to be the only way with the rate these 'alpha' guys are scrutinizing their potential wives, and I don't want to have any part of that lol. But what holds me back per… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/23 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Should Women Defend their Men from Feminists who Call them Misogynists for wanting Traditional Wives?This is absolutely how I feel about it 🙏 | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/23 08:32 PM |
| 14 | My (20F) boyfriend (26M) cant let go of my past but doesn’t break upThis. This is insane, but boringly predictable. He either hasnt reached a certain level of mental maturity, or he's taking advantage of you, OP, by trying to make you feel bad about any little thing about you and being committed to misunderstanding you and committed to seeing the worst in you. Whichever of the two it is, it is not your problem, go find someone who can be normal about things | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/23 10:15 AM |
| 3 | Is a man talking about men’s nature (polygamy, need for sex) a red flag?Oh no, there is never overthinking when it comes to children. I am a shitshow and I have a family who thought the only prerequisite to having kids was to be married to thank for that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/23 07:27 AM |
| 0 | Fearing reaction from my mom after telling her that my boyfriend is ArabDude, I LOVE East Asian men, I feel safe with them and trust them with my LIFE, I will let them walk me blindfold across a bridge, but the only time I ever tried seeing a middle eastern I was shaking and scared the whole time, I left and went home | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/23 08:36 AM |
| 40 | Fearing reaction from my mom after telling her that my boyfriend is ArabListen to the other commenters here. Middle Eastern men are notoriously misogynistic and sneaky, please tread with caution, OP. If your mom has words to say about it, consider she knows best, I know it's fucked up and it's 2023 and nobody wants to entertain that prejudiced bullcrap any more, and that's lovely, but this is not like dating an Eastern Asian man, this is really some rocky territory and you need to protect your physical safety, love. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/23 11:15 PM |
| 4 | I don’t know where to start, but I know I want to understandSo what's the tea with fresh and fit? I stopped keeping up with alpha male crap a bit ago because their lack of confidence to be themselves is just a turnoff | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/23 10:07 PM |
| 11 | Pretty privilege is everywhere and is actually the strongest discrimination on earth??You are happier because you are not unattractive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 05:14 AM |
| 1 | What music artists makes you most feel in your femininity?Ummm no way, was this the commentor with all the REALLY good suggestions?!?!?! I was planning to reference this and I REALLY liked one of her suggestions, to which I can never remember the artists name and it was WONDERFUL. Why would you delete your comment?! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/23 11:03 PM |
| 1 | I'm now with a gamer, and I want to find feminine video games I can play solo, or cooperative ones we can play together (non-competitive!)I get that but it's because I know I actually would not enjoy a masculine game | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/23 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Relationship advice?Despite the names, they're not compatible. They're just using the same information to their advantage. Exactly, a million times this. This could be a tl;dr of a recent comment I made in here on another post. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/23 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Banned from subredditOh wow, I've never seen one of the automated messages but I've been wanting to as I've been curious if there are automod messages sent out about it on any particular subs. There are sooo many threads on this subreddit (RPW) that explicitly speak AGAINST incel/mgtow ideology. I've seen countless threads on this sub of women asking if it's okay to be RP if she doesn't want a rp man. I personally even had a few years where I went absolutely crazy thinking about this and too scared to post and ask… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/23 06:43 AM |
| 5 | Husband was upfront with me but I didn’t realize it… now I have questionsWith the more context in the comments now, I'd suggest looking for signs of gaslighting in other areas. If the ducks do line up, I'd end it, otherwise yeah this is just going to be a tough and specific situation to ride out, and I hope it can be done with you both taking a compassionate approach to each other and lending a genuinely listening ear 🥹 | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/23 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Husband was upfront with me but I didn’t realize it… now I have questionsOh man, this is a toughy 🥹 I really have no advice to offer, but fuck, I feel for you, this one is so hard :/ it's just a very specific situation | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/23 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Banned from subredditSame, I think I am starting to realize I'm still as progressive as I always have been, and the left walked away from me more than I from it | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Banned from subredditI've even been banned from subreddits like r/ hepatitis for it. I don't have hepatitis, but I've tried posting there to ask a question about truvada. I also a while back attempted to post to r/ melanoma to ask if I should be concerned about a spot (I was fine, thank god), and saw I was banned. This is how evil and twisted and cruel they are. This is pure evil. This is heartbreaking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/23 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Just need reassurance about a small thingWell that's fine. I have my career path chosen and am 100000X happy with it. Js that kind of thing would be good as either a badass part time gig (though I could easily see a job like that not being the type you can do part time), or as an additional skill-builder for what I want to do, if that makes sense? So, my field is in design bit not particularly fashion, but there can be some overlap. It could be a good way of character development for me, taking time to practice seeing things from a COM… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Just need reassurance about a small thingOh my GOD that is a job!!!!!?? I would love a job like that | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/23 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Moving in togetherWhat a terrible way to potentially be bait and switched. This takes away the ability to vet someone in their most natural state | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/23 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Moving in togetherCongrats! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/23 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Moving in togetheru/FangOfDrknss Okay, so we should do this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/23 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Considering not having children bcz I have semi-ugly genes? Thoughts? [21F] POTENTIAL DYSMORPHIA WARNINGI feel the exact. same. way. Holy fuck, I truly thought this was an original fear Always have felt this way, kept pushing it to the back of my mind | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I'm so used of wearing jeans- how do I transition to wearing pants?uniqlo I keep hearing good things about uniqlo. How do you go about searching specifically for pants with minimal waist elastic and a stiff button closure? Because yeah, that sounds about right . Do you mind if I ask the name of the pants, and if you stumbled upon them purposely or not? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/23 06:30 PM |
| 3 | I'm moving in with my boyfriend soon. How do I decrease my living-in-filth tolerance before then, so I can do a a sufficient job at keeping his home clean?Also here coming from a moderate version of what you've described, I agree with the 'closing your house' idea. I'm currently struggling to maintain it but I usually do it maybe 3 days a week, and I'm always mentally making a goal for myself to increase my number of days. This week has been bad, but I'm also on my period. I just want to be fed raspberry truffles. I think hyping yourself up to have a stretch goal about it is nice. You seem to respond to external motivation more but you could also … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/23 05:51 PM |
| 6 | What music artists makes you most feel in your femininity?SAME!!!!!!!!!! Looking to add some more, "traditional feminine" to my list. I'm a huge Lana and Pink Floyd fan | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/23 03:59 AM |
| 1 | I’m stunned lol. Offmychest sub permanently banned me due to me being apart of this sub. The hypocrisy is incredibleIt's ironic because what if we want to get off out chest is that people think anyone with the least little amount of redpill traits or values is evil | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | What vitamins are you taking or are your favorite?Ooh okay, that's relieving to know! I always feel like a total weirdo | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/23 10:17 PM |
| 2 | What vitamins are you taking or are your favorite?Ah I see, I could see how that could be annoying. Personally when I do it it's because I have ASD and am terrible with summarizing on a subject enough to ask my question in a normal way. I overanalyze a lot of topics internally mentally and then when it's time to communicate to others, I suck at being concise and it's like oh heck, I have little to no experience with this lol. I'll end up either under or over explaining my point. Not sure if others just do it on purpose, though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/23 07:53 PM |
| 6 | What vitamins are you taking or are your favorite?I get where she's coming from. I'll ask a lot of seemingly random questions specifically to red pill women (online or not), because these are the people I'd deem as more stable and cultured and know what they're doing. I don't know many straight up conservative people (dang, and I didn't even realize that until typing just now.. I mainly know democrats who don't know why they're democrats which has always been mad annoying to me. My best friend is very much like me and just a very discerning, se… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/23 07:24 PM |
| 1 | RPW Gamers!- Who are the most loving twitch couples?Interesting, I wonder who has the longest relationship on twitch | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | What are some good lingerie channels on YouTube (or elsewhere, blogs, etc)?Sure! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | RPW Gamers!- Who are the most loving twitch couples?DGR? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | RPW Gamers!- Who are the most loving twitch couples?Yes! Haha, I think so, he runs on this monster looking guy around catching the pokemon on his switch, he says if I make a Nintendo account I can use his | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | How often are you asked about your sexual history?I have definitely considered SLAA | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | How often are you asked about your sexual history?That's how I originally felt about it when I was younger (before I even have had sex because I've ALWAYS been very introspective and loving to "discuss" ideas in my head with myself since I was young LOL and I'd say I've always been very mature mentally but not emotionally, so I still consider and respect younger me's opinions on a lot, because I've always been very clever and that's one of my proudest traits in myself)-- until I started overthinking the last couple of years (okay I know I said … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | How often are you asked about your sexual history?That's a really great way to put it, thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/22 06:25 AM |
| 3 | How often are you asked about your sexual history?This is a separate post, but I am still struggling with sexual addiction as of current and I have been curious if there's room in the RPWsphere (though I'm admittedly purple pilled and have been for 7 years) for women who just... acknowledge that their sexual addiction isn't going away soon, or possibly never. Not from a feminist place of oh you can't change me or something, but from a humbling and self aware place of, "okay, I know myself, I know my shit, people die with their shit all the time… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/22 03:05 AM |
| 0 | How often are you asked about your sexual history?I agree with the advice in this thread, but if this doesn't get buried, I'm curious what you ladies think if a woman has a significantly above average body count, do you think she is obligated to disclose that? I am pretty open about having a high n, but when most people hear that I think they think like... 9 lol. Like no, you're still very cold..... and BECAUSE of that for me, do you ladies think I have the responsibility of disclosing the actual number (or at least what I presume it to be arou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Comfiest work out leggings?I'm not big huge a true crime fan, but it does sound somewhat interesting in an absurdist way lol, what's the tldr? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Comfiest work out leggings?Where did you get yours at? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/22 06:18 AM |
| 3 | What do you like to wear for just lounging around the house?RIGHT lol, I live in a cold climate in northern Illinois | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | What are your favorite places to buy candles?Yeah. I do think that paraffin is waayy overrated, though beeswax doesn't have the fragrance I'm looking for, I've had some beeswax candles a while back. I would like to find something very fragrant but not as toxic as non-beeswax candles 🤔 | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/22 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Niche homemaking questionWe've been putting in for houses this week but I think we're going to have to build our credit a little first, which is doable | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/22 06:38 PM |
| 2 | What is something you like to do with already burned candles?the vase did cross my mind. what are some short & low-maintenance plants that could take well to it as a little habitat? :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/22 04:31 AM |
| 3 | My boyfriend called me used up…My exact thoughts | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/22 04:18 AM |
| 1 | My boyfriend called me used up…This | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/22 04:17 AM |
| 13 | My boyfriend called me used up…Yep, he completely yielded the opposite result | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Where can you find a shower mat that's actually compatible with a lot of shower and bath oils?I need one where the traction is strong enough, is what I'm asking. My adhesive ducts aren't so adhesive with my product preferences | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/22 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Where can you find a shower mat that's actually compatible with a lot of shower and bath oils?Yeah, the one for inside the tub, and I've seen those bamboo stools, they are really nice, but my tub is far too small for that | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/22 09:26 PM |
| 10 | Help! My husband and I are at a complete gridlock as it relates to personal belonging boundaries.OP, this is the comment you need to listen to. Though personally out of her list of examples of the women, the only bits I personally have an issue with are the dishonesty ones, I personally take a "libertarian approach" to clubs/thirst traps/whatever, where as long as it's not somebody's entire personality, I don't care, but I've been purple pilled for 7 years (longer, really, but started coming outward about it 7 years ago, and I tend to hone my more RP side when in a relationship, and sometim… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/22 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Relationship coachingFollow the Gottman Institute | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/22 02:01 AM |
| 7 | My best friends left me because I chose to stay with my boyfriendI agree with you here. A lot of the comments are repeating what the OP has already acknowledged in her OP. She knows, is aware of the situation, and barking at her what's obvious won't be of any help. That being said, I wish I had actual advice for OP but unfortunately I don't, as I'm someone who would typically seek similar advice, so im more of the "seekee" as well | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/22 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Your a beautiful person but annoying - is this considered negging ?It's only been 4 hours, she may be busy | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/22 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Handling infidelityIs it Shirley Glaser by any chance? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Cute and warm clothes for autumn? 🍂So what I mean is like, I have a big stomach but not the ass to match and make it "okay" Sure. Some people will go for that, but I want to wear something that makes me generally, by rule of thumb, make me look more conventionally attractive than I would look naked, by across-the-board standards So, I'm not sure if what you're suggesting would sculpt my body, or if it would just put my more seen as negative aspects on display | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Cute and warm clothes for autumn? 🍂Does this work for women who don't have nice figures? My body is badly unproportionate Also, what do you recommend for the tight layers? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Cute and warm clothes for autumn? 🍂Awesome! Mind if I ask why only sometimes with the jeans in winter? Is it because the heat tech is a bit on the bulky side, or not warm enough for winter? If it's because it's not warm enough for the winter, that's fine, as I'll look for things for the winter when it comes closer to approaching as it is important for me to find something specifically for the autumn that doesn't OVERheat me, but if it's a bit on the bulky side that's disappointing because these seem to otherwise fit the bill real… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/22 04:06 PM |
| 0 | How do you handle being hit on by strangers?I get what you're saying and of course that's crossed my mind, but I don't want to be with a man who is committed to misunderstanding me and doesn't have the intelligence to use discernment and see the best in me that I am still staying an impressive amount of loyal for somebody who I dont see a LTR in (so imagine what i do for the one), and see the class in me of not rushing being desperate FOR other men at the moment, but just peacefully open to them and taking care of myself and my current ne… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/22 03:45 AM |
| 2 | How do you handle being hit on by strangers?My thing is, I don't mind being approached, when it's respectfully. This specific example was obviously not respectfully, but how can you exude warmth and interest to well-meaning men, while deterring others? I think seeming bitchy and unapproachable could deter both types of men | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Negative association with cooking, how to nix and small kitchen appliancesOmg thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Negative association with cooking, how to nix and small kitchen appliancesI'm not a huge fan of chicken pot pie or pie in general (surprisingly, despite being more into baking than cooking, I'm really snobbish about cakes, cookies, brownies, and pies, I typically don't like them, I think they're usually bland and wasted potential, I like carrot cake just about anywhere though, and I like the tiramisu SPECIFICALLY from whole foods but even upscale restaurants can't nail tiramisu in my opinion, and I can appreciate a SMALL red velvet bundt cake sometimes, peanut butter … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Negative association with cooking, how to nix and small kitchen appliancesI eat rice a lot more since being with my partner, since his family is Vietnamese and eats like it LOL and I love it. Oh yeah, they store their pots and pans in the oven, so there really isn't one. There's one that sits outside in the inside patio that apparently no one uses, and when I ask him if anything's wrong with it he just shrugs and says, 'I don't know' I'm opposed to table salt, but sea salt and I could definitely be civil LOL, and yeah I don't really buy butter like that, just never … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Negative association with cooking, how to nix and small kitchen appliancesOmg you're so right, I am so shy even to go grab water, even when I need to take my antidepressants The herby foccacia with cherry tomatoes sounds super fun , I'm hoping they will be easy though haha. I was hoping somebody would come through with a good easy and healthy way to incorporate baking into my cooking, so thank you! I know about eatcheapandhealthy, and am subbed to 1200isplenty. I did consider resubbing to eatcheapandhealthy lately, so I will do that now! I didn't unsub for any particu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Negative association with cooking, how to nix and small kitchen appliancesOh, she lives 4 hours away and is moving 12 Also, I know this is controversial, but I'm not a big fan of pizza aside from Domino's philly cheesesteak pizza | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Where can I find comfortable formal shoes for work on a budget?Cole Haan, really? I almost just bought some Cole Haan at Von Maur the other day, they would have been $200 and something. I still walked out with a pair of shoes in that range, but they ended up killing my feet more than anticipated, because it had a VERY small heel on it that I thought would not be a problem, and when I tried them on they were comfy. Then, 2 hours into my shift and I was HURTING lol. Now I want to be more conservative with my investments, because dang that was a blow. I still … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Where can I find comfortable formal shoes for work on a budget?80? I know this is ridiculous, but I am on a budget and struggling | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | 25yo RECLUSE (but "wife material").. how do I meet a husband ? +other anxiety questionsThat is absolutely crazy | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Monthly Goals for SeptemberMine are: 1) get halfway through House of Leaves (I need to get back into the habit of reading, and thought reading a low amount of pages Sep-Oct to make it 🍁 seasonal 🍁🎃 would be festive! 2) Knock it out at my new job at a perfume shop, they already are really happy to have me on board, and I want to kill it there! 3) Become a better partner for my new S.O. I don't want to say I'm bad, but I'm only newly becoming emotionally available, and taking this first leap with him. He knows this and we a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | I went through my boyfriend’s YouTube history...and immediately regretted it. How can I get over these feelings I’m having?Well I skimmed | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/22 02:03 PM |
| 0 | I went through my boyfriend’s YouTube history...and immediately regretted it. How can I get over these feelings I’m having?It's possible he's thinking of getting you some as a gift | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/22 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Guy lied about his nameThis :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/22 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Crafty feminine hobbiesI second fleece blanket making, it's been a while but it's so simple and fun! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | how to be personally clean, not just house clean?What's the name of them? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/22 02:22 PM |
| 3 | how to be personally clean, not just house clean?Oh, yes!! She should try taking chlorophyll, I just ordered some and I'm hoping it comes in the mail soon | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | how to be personally clean, not just house clean?Where do you get your scent sachels from? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/22 11:26 PM |
| 2 | how to be personally clean, not just house clean?Do you have any thoughts on epilation vs sugar waxing? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | how to be personally clean, not just house clean?Oh, it is interesting and nice to see another sex work supporting yet conservative leaning woman :) Your tips are great, question though- I know that a lower pH is supposed to be good for certain things, but how do you incorporate this in a way where it doesn't completely throw off the pH of the body? Sorry if this is a stupid question, I'm essentially asking how possible it is to actually pick and choose where you want to lower or higher the pH in one area, without throwing other areas or the w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | 19F Masturbating when I have a fiancé:(This. This reeks of 19 year old immaturity | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Reflecting on audacious womenEveryone knows WeChat is legit but you can't even figure out how to sign up properly and sound scared of your own shadow | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/22 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Reflecting on audacious womenOkay guys, it's definitely a troll. I know for certain now that I saw she a post saying that vegans aren't supposed to use the toilet https://www.reddit.com/r/vegan/comments/flj1lg/im_vegan_but_still_use_the_toilet/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Reflecting on audacious womenYou're really going to act like the obvious answer isn't that you sent your passport to strangers and are getting caught up in WeChat scams | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/22 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Reflecting on audacious womenIf by chance this isn't a troll post, judging by her post history it seems to be a very sheltered woman living on a small little island, probably around cults and stuff. She's even naieve enough to fall for obvious scams, so of course she would believe some dogma | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Bf wants to split finances “50/50”This is the best answer imo | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Where is the best place to meet RedPillWomen?So you're a predator, and not only a predator but you don't know why you do the things you do, you are impulsive and make big decisions offhandedly | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/22 01:26 AM |
| 6 | Trying to not feel ashamed by wanting to be a housewife.I relate to this. Like you one of my passions are writing, and the other is UX which is a technology field (the most feminine of the tech field imo, it's based in design and empathy), and it would be a dream to have a man provide financially while I have free reign to do writing/blogging/freelance UI and UX so I'd have free reign with it and not like actually tied down. That being said I wouldn't mind being tied down in this career, so I'm pursuing it. But I always have a wanderous heart and wan… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with men who are close to you but are not your husband?I was actually going to say to also, when the daughter is old enough like 9 maybe, to tell the daughter to be careful around him, but if that's even the case, she shouldn't even be brought around him in the first place. Imagine having to tell your daughter, "just so you know, I want you to be careful around your uncle because he did something bad before", imagine how much that would scar the daughter, but if you're GOING to bring her around him, that would be the right thing to do. But that woul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with men who are close to you but are not your husband?Yep, I'm glad you mentioned the softness, it sounds like she is putting her sex appeal of being docile and the nice, sophisticated trophy wife above her daughter's safety. Sicko | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/22 11:37 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with men who are close to you but are not your husband?Yeah, I also feel actual genuine fear about the daughters well-being and safety. She should be protected, not "half-protected". I didn't even see the part where her husband cheats on her, previous to that I was gonna say don't leave him, he sounds like he's already on board with her enough and like he would be understanding if she didn't want the brother around since she said in another comment that her husband and her agree not to leave him alone with her. But I just have skimmed over the cheat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with men who are close to you but are not your husband?Lady, you're still putting your daughter at the brunt of your feelings to not have to rock the boat. I understand commitment and that's why I'm here, but no man, even a husband, is worth using your daughter as a pawn so that you can feel like you must be a good person because you're palatable | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/22 11:12 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with men who are close to you but are not your husband?What in the fuck is wrong with you that you would let that person around your daughter. Some people shouldn't have kids | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/22 10:13 PM |
| 4 | How to stand out from other women in being and physicality?I have to also second (third) the last point, it's sooo unnattractive seeing women who gossip with intent to demean or get a rise out of someone. I don't mind GOSSIP in general, I believe it's in a woman's nature and everyone's nature just moreso women to do so, but when I see people gossipping WITH INTENT TO TRIANGULATE OR BULLY, it's suuuuch a turn off. Granted I'm a woman too, but it turns me off from them as friends and makes me secondhand embarrassed for both them and their dating prospects… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/22 04:39 AM |
| 4 | I know it's been said here before, but the tiniest details can really take your class and graciousness to the next levelI know what you mean about Catholic mass, I grew up in a Catholic household, and Catholic mass is beautiful! Unrelated, I actually later decided to be Protestant, though I'm also Taosit and acknowledge my Taoist side more. I do go to church seldom. Anywho. I digress. This is SUCH a cute gesture!! She sounds like such a wonderful woman and you have to absolutely love people like this, such great role models and honestly just lovely people to be around 🌹 | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/22 12:30 AM |
| 9 | How popular is anal really? 😅I have the strongest orgasms from getting my ass fingered and from getting my neck bit, so not sure if you'd ever try fingers in there but it's an idea I think goes overlooked, that being said not everyone is the same, far from it, so if you know it's a no from you then it's probably a no, with maybe a slight chance of it being something that would surprise you that you like. I didn't expect to love it as much as I did, I did it for the fuck of it and because I wasn't opposed, since I'm an exper… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/22 05:00 AM |
| 14 | How popular is anal really? 😅Hahahah I'm with you, I enjoy it, but if I had a dick I don't know if is want to stick it into someone's shithole, and if I did, I would seriously have to think the girl is really clean, and I wouldn't be fingering ass which is so hypocritical of me because getting my ass fingered is my FAVORITE thing | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/22 04:55 AM |
| 3 | How popular is anal really? 😅This is wonderful | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/22 04:54 AM |
| 10 | How popular is anal really? 😅This is what I've noticed as well, but I'm the outlier who like it, like really likes it, but isn't some vapid fangirl of it, there has to be others like this as well but where?? 😅😅 I feel like some women will just tolerate it as well if it's what their partner wants, but that's not what I'm doing, I really do enjoy it as a piece of the sex pie | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/22 04:52 AM |
| 5 | Is it rude to ask for a few/possibly several drink refills on a date?Ah, you're the second person who's commented on the sugary drink thing. I think I've caught myself in a bit of fat logic because health wise, (this is completely contrary to my point about the date thing though, just something you two've made me think of) I always assumed because it's something like a herbal lemonade and a raspberry tea, and not, say, a nasty soda or something (something I do veeeeery seldom), that it must be okay. I'll have to think about that | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Is it rude to ask for a few/possibly several drink refills on a date?Yeah, I do tend to overthink small details and hyperfixate on if I'm being weird. Ironically this typically leads to me being even more weird | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Is it rude to ask for a few/possibly several drink refills on a date?That's actually a really good tip, thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it rude to ask for a few/possibly several drink refills on a date?I wasn't sure about this, so that's why I asked I guess for me it's more of an insecurity about like, he'll eventually find out I'm this weird chick who can easily order a lot of drinks, so I may as well get it over with, which is why I say stifling. Plus I wonder how it'll go in the future relationship if I held off on doing it, like I feel like springing it upon him would be weird, even if I'm the one paying for extras at that point | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/22 10:50 PM |
| -1 | Is it rude to ask for a few/possibly several drink refills on a date?Ooh this is something I actually get impostery about because I usually, not always, but usually gravitate on whatever the healthiest menu item is (I may be chubby but my diet is surprisingly clean, I just eat TOO MUCH of the healthy stuff 😅😅 and also am extremely sedentary, trying to work on that), regardless of if that's the cheapest, the most expensive, or average or something in between item on the menu. I feel like if I did BOTH of these things it can strike them as a red flag for sure, even… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/22 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Is it rude to ask for a few/possibly several drink refills on a date?Yeah that's exactly what I'm afraid of, and I don't wanna be a jerk, thank you Like with your husband, that obviously makes sense since you guys are in a LTR so it's not awkward, I wonder if there's a non-awkward way to ask if he's comfortable with it for a new guy, or if it's best to just avoid it altogether since it would just no doubt make things awkward, if that's the case I'd rather just not | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | This is so random but... where can you even find decent pajamas?!Remindme 21 days | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | This is so random but... where can you even find decent pajamas?Awesome, I'll be looking forward to it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | This is so random but... where can you even find decent pajamas?Don't know what happened to the person who suggested fleece/flannel from LLbean, but commenting this here to remind myself.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/22 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Which is better- husband with low or high body count?yeah, this is why statistics are so sloppy, unfortunately :( it really sucks because I have an interest in statistics and think it would be so cool and do so much good if it were foolproof, but foolproof pretty much goes against the nature of statistics :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/22 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Which is better- husband with low or high body count?Yep this makes a lot of sense, I also agree with the other commentor that reasons/context matters. Even moreso than that, his feeling in retrospect and anything he learned from it/did it make him a better partner today/if not does that bother him etc. Like, I'm not saying he has to regret it or not have had fun, but just if he has a mature mindset about it. For me personally, I prefer a guy with a higher count because I feel like having lower count makes someone more susceptible to waking up one… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/22 06:24 AM |
| 1 | The Tea Room Discord is open!Hey, can you post the permanent link? | /r/RedPillWives | 21/05/22 03:31 PM |
| 1 | The Tea Room Discord is open!Hi, can you send a new invite, the link is expired | /r/RedPillWives | 21/05/22 03:30 PM |
| 12 | Bf admitted to losing respect for meThis is exactly this answer | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/22 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Where do you ladies fall on the trad wife to modern wife spectrum?For kids, I've always been hellbent on having 6 kids and a white pickett fence lifestyle, but tend to suppress the fact that I don't know if I can do it... I don't want to be pregnant, I have incredibly low pain tolerance and something about being pregnant grosses me out, and because of my extensive mental health history I worry about my child having mental problems which I would absolutely hate. Because of this I can see myself settling on 3 maybe? But even for one, the idea of going through th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/22 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Where do you ladies fall on the trad wife to modern wife spectrum?Also hugely attracted to Asian men, love to see it, good on you OP, we are women of taste hahaha. But imo I don't see this as non-trad, just because at one point it was illegal. To me, if the dynamics of the relationship are trad or the woman's values are trad, then it's trad. Something being illegal or so highly taboo that it's basically illegal at one point is more of a variable, it's more of a, "it's very technically textbook non-traditional because it just so was, the world was set up to for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Where do you ladies fall on the trad wife to modern wife spectrum?I sort of relate, lmao | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/22 10:43 AM |
| 17 | Am I being paranoid in my relationship or is there something going on?The Nordic girl thing is the biggest red flag here, to be honest. The other stuff sounds like he may be trying to respect you by not giving her what she wants since she's obviously into him, so he could be having good boundaries because we all know what "feeding the troll" does, the fact that he's distancing himself from her really almost solidifies my takes on that. The only honking red flag is the Nordic girl comment, that was really, really bad. In case I'm wrong about the former sentiment, w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Questioning feminist seeks adviceAbsolutely, absolutely!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/22 02:05 AM |
| 4 | I (M) will be having a baby daughter any day now...THIS | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/22 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with "inappropriate" jokes from an s/o?Well said | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Has a guy's hygiene ever really stopped you from dating a guy you liked?Is the sleepy lotion bath and body works? I've heard great things about light blue | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/22 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Has a guy's hygiene ever really stopped you from dating a guy you liked?What do you use? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/22 10:04 AM |
| 6 | What are some "feminine" careers?I think this is oddly enough the norm, although I'm sleep deprived and can't quite articulate why at this time. It's like on the tip of my tongue lol, but I am struggling lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/21 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Where do you guys fall on the political spectrum? Why?I'm preferred life. I'm against anti-abortion legislation because I feel it leads to more abortions. People never make good decisions when they're in panic mode and have to worry about options being stripped away. There is a pro life feminists group on Facebook, you should check it out! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/21 03:53 AM |
| 4 | Where do you guys fall on the political spectrum? Why?Libertarian | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/21 02:31 AM |
| 7 | Please help, my ex is mad at me because I slept with someone else when we weren’t together?My comment is long so go at your own pace This is victim mindset meets internalized misogyny (hope I don’t get in trouble on here for using that term, I am politically independent and believe we can acknowledge the existence of internalized misogyny from a RPW mindset, or also acknowledging the value that RPW has and that just because internalized misogyny is a very real, valid thing that we need to have a discussion about, doesn’t mean that everything is internalized misogyny even if it looks s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Please help, my ex is mad at me because I slept with someone else when we weren’t together?How long were you broken up? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 04:02 PM |
| 7 | Please help, my ex is mad at me because I slept with someone else when we weren’t together?My comment is long so go at your own pace You know you’re not. This is victim mindset meets internalized misogyny (hope I don’t get in trouble on here for using that term, I am politically independent and believe we can acknowledge the existence of internalized misogyny from a RPW mindset, or also acknowledging the value that RPW has and that just because internalized misogyny is a very real, valid thing that we need to have a discussion about, doesn’t mean that everything is internalized misogy… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Questions for career womenNot a career woman “yet” but I am working as a secretary assistant and am aspiring to work in the tech field 1.) Yes, that is what I’m aiming for. Hyperindependence is obviously a form of escapism akin to spiritual bypass. Usually a trauma response to being let down so much. Endurism is obviously unhealthy but I don’t believe in pendulum swinging either, and me personally I feel like I need to be MORE self-reliant 2.) Absolutely NOT!!! I would LOVE to be a housewife and plan to in the future. I … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/21 10:23 PM |
| 0 | Guy gave me an incurable Std and has blocked me, I’m angry.Hey! I don't have HSV (that I know of) but I have done a lot of research on the topic due to part health anxiety, part genuine interest in reproductive health and I just couldn't in good faith scroll by without informing you all that this is actually incorrect! It's understandable that you would think that a condom would be the antidote to this, and I spent a looooong phase of my life, many years ever since I learned what condoms were until I was an older teenager, maybe even young adult (I don'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/21 02:49 AM |
| 1 | How to navigate situation with distant friend of the family?Deleted because I waaaayyyyy overthought this, I have really bad general and social anxiety | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | How to navigate situation with distant friend of the family?Thank you, and I also uptake the same view from your comment ❤️💗 | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How to navigate situation with distant friend of the family?Missed what he said, I was asleep before it was deleted, but imagine insulting someone who just said that they just had a death in the immediate family... I think a lot of people are trolls, or possibly dark web users temporarily on the surface web (specifically the dark web, I have nothing against deep web folks) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/21 05:59 PM |
| 2 | How to navigate situation with distant friend of the family?This sounds like a good idea 🥰 | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/21 05:55 PM |
| 3 | How to navigate situation with distant friend of the family?Etiquette on how to navigate a social situation with tact, themes being hosting/hostee, and somewhat family dynamics? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | How to navigate situation with distant friend of the family?I’ve been working diligently 18 hours a day training a building my portfolio for a job, please do not assume the worst of me | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/21 05:53 PM |
| 3 | How to navigate situation with distant friend of the family?THANK YOU!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/21 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Any RPW with ADHD? How do you cope?!Remindme 28 days | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/21 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Fascinating Womanhood for girls?I completely agree | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/21 07:32 AM |
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