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1

The things you need to do to attract a girl and keep her is the same.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 08:24 PM
3

Well, you said on another comment she offered to leave, just allow her to do it before she does some crazy shit to fuck up your life in order to get revenge from you.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 05:51 PM
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Exactly she'll do anything to get you back / get power over you / boost her ago. What good is there allowing her to stay with you?
/r/askTRP30/11/17 05:46 PM
3

What kind of law forces you to allow her to sit with you in the same house for 30 days? You're not even married or share the rent?
/r/askTRP30/11/17 05:44 PM
6

Exactly, this is the finest way of letting her know. When you REALLY stop trying, she won't think you are asexual now, she'll think you are into someone else.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:16 PM
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If you lived 500 years ago, by that age, if you are still alive, you probably would have had some battlescars. Consider what you have as a battlescar, and carry it with pride. Women dig men that have scars yet stay strong.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 06:05 PM
1

A fat socially awkward billionaire? I'm sure some women would fuck them for a while?
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:32 PM
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There was a post about this in redpill main subreddit before (not my post): https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2n6npa/how_you_know_youre_alpha/
/r/askTRP19/11/17 03:24 PM
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Ofc she would say "no guts". Because the other option is "Oh he didn't give that much damn about me" and that shatters her princess ego, so yeah, no guts evil guy, go to hell!
/r/askTRP19/11/17 03:05 PM
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If your best options are those 3 girls AT YOUR WORK, your best bet is to get better options.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 04:28 PM
1

Any answer you give her at that point will be in her frame. Regardless of the outcome, you never want to be in her frame.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 07:09 PM
0

How about agree and amplify? You do the same thing, but in a more absurd way? Text her out of blue, "i really have to fart so badly" "damn where did i put my key?" "did i turn the stove off?" "shouldn't have eaten that last taco" just make sure it's funny and absurd. Then she'll probably get your point. You have to keep going for a while after she "gets" your point just for your amusement.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 09:39 PM
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Yup, at that point it's a game of who needs the other one more. If you need her more, it's a game you'll eventually lose and there's no other way around it.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 02:54 PM
1

All I need in my life is an Uncle Vasiliy for inner voice.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 07:31 PM
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I'm 30, and often people ask if i am 24-25, 20s chicks dig me. So yeah, don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 11:18 PM
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It's solipsistic approach. Imagine you are in the matrix, and you are the only human, everyone/everything else is just a piece of code. How would you approach the world if that was real? Would you give a shit if a piece of code thought you were a jerk? Would you give a shit if a piece of code rejected you? Nope. You'd probably still eat, drink, sleep (to survive in the game) and not commit a murder, because then a piece of code will still put you in a jail. But you would be free from the "what w…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:43 PM
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Lying to her isn't an issue. But chances are he already looked awkward while trying to come up with "an alpha answer" and at that point it doesn't matter what he says he lost frame.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:22 PM
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If you treat women like your equals, when they shit test you, you will feel like a man said the same thing to you and try to explain stuff, and fall into their frame. From that point , it's hopeless. That's why you treat them like children, in the end they don't care about what IS, they only care about how they FEEL.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:05 PM
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Try doing it, they don't resent you for it. They actually enjoy it. (Don't do it on people that you already have an established frame with.)
/r/askTRP22/10/17 12:48 PM
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Exactly, and to add up on this. You are afraid of rejection because your mental state of well-being is reliant on things other than yourself. That's the core of the problem. You need to be happy on your own. Then you won't fear anything. Think of life as a simulation game where you can try and see how "objects" react to you. Don't take things too seriously. Once you reach a state of mind where you feel like, "well I don't care if she rejects me or not, I just want to see what will happen" then t…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 10:27 AM
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You took her seriously and submitted to her frame. That's the one thing you should NEVER do. Try pressure flips. -Were you waiting there alone? -Oh so you were paying attention to me before I started talking to you huh? In fact you can say just about ANYTHING and it sounds better taking her seriously and trying to convince her. -Were you waiting there alone? -Alone? What do you mean alone? I'm always with Bob. (Introduce her to your imaginary friend Bob) He doesn't talk much to strangers.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 09:58 AM
2

You might be suffering from childhood emotional neglect. It's often a cause for low self-worth. How was your relationship with your mother when you were a child?
/r/askTRP20/10/17 10:54 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/67vucj/heres_what_to_do_on_a_date_with_a_girl_to_never/ You might want to read article (not mine).
/r/askTRP19/10/17 07:45 PM
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Do what you truly enjoy doing without her. The feeling will be conveyed and you'll both have a good time, women are a reflection of you. Anything you do to amuse her (that you wouldn't normally do) you'll feel like a clown (and this feeling will also be conveyed subconsciously) and she'll think you are a clown. That said, avoid the stuff low SMV guys do. Which you should normally avoid on your own anyway.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 07:37 PM
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Don't forget it. Let it remind you of the horrible things you experienced every time you try to spit out the red pill.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 07:29 PM
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How late do you think she'd be on a date with Brad Pitt? And how would Brad Pitt react. Now you know the real problem is you're not Brad Pitt enough. Now you know how to fix it too.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 04:12 PM
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Can you honestly say this to yourself: If I had 1 magical wish in my life, I would use it on the other thing? Maybe you want her for external validation. Our ego is our worst enemy.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 03:31 PM
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Have something more important than her in your life.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 03:24 PM
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Imagine you had a HB10 girl waiting to suck your dick in the next 5mins. Act accordingly.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 05:16 PM
1

..and don't forget to visit your mother.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 08:23 PM
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Mincing words isn't going to help you. Get kicked into the dirt, lose everything you think you had, cry about it. At some point you will look around, see no one really cares. Then you will get yourself back up on your feet.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:32 PM
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MGTOW isn't about giving up on women because you can't do it right. It's men that have figured women out, and after years of experience decided that it's just not worth the effort.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:07 PM
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He already has the oneitis man.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:01 PM
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You face your fears head on. Then realize it doesn't even hurt, the only thing that hurts is what you do to yourself in your head. Learn stoicism.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 09:17 PM
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Only one? Amateur.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 07:43 PM
2

What's the proper way of kino with them? How do you escalate without scaring them of?
/r/askTRP05/10/17 03:02 PM
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Are they? I just feel like because their self esteem is usually lower, they'll think your neg is actually real and feel bad about themselves and get distant.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 02:49 PM
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Well it's easy to pull them, but how do you push them before they actually get offended.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 02:28 PM
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I'm just naturally attracted to more shy/submissive girls, not just a particular one. And I want to learn how to do it right, see for myself if they are worth gaming or not.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 12:32 PM
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You have to work your inner game before you start gaming chicks. Women reflect your emotions. When you tell yourself that they are above you, they will tell you that they are above you and reject you.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 08:58 PM
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The fact that you feel the need to tell her something shows that it bothers you. Your words are meaningless.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 08:35 PM
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see: hypergamy and covert communication.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 07:54 PM
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Yeah, getting confusing these days.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 11:04 PM
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The correct answer depends on the situation, but the incorrect answer is always the same. Treating them like men and giving them serious answers and breaking your frame. Treat them like they are 6yo children that just came up with something witty, don't try to reason with them, they don't give a shit about logic, they want to feel good and they feel good when you are in control and are having fun (because they are a reflection of what you are). It doesn't matter, you can say the most nonsensical…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 10:50 PM
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They usually try to make you say some bluepill SJW stuff. "So you think women are like that?" "I thought you'd respect women more?" "You say that to all women you meet?" "I didn't think you were so rude" shit like that. Whatever your soft spots are, they will try to break your frame from that point. Remember this: Nothing ever you can say or do can attract a woman more than being a strong high value male with immovable frame. And you can't convince them to be attracted to you by shit you say. It…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:58 PM
2

When men hangout, usually there is NO unprovoked tension. When you notice a woman say something that makes you feel uncomfortable for no reason at all and your first reflex is defend yourself, you are being shit tested. Most of the time you'll say to yourself "Wtf would she say that for? A guy would never say that." "We were just having fun, why the fuck would she ruin the mood now?" Then you know it's that moment. Try to have a very very strong frame. Shit tests usually aim to break that frame.…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:13 PM
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Because it subconsciously conveys the message "I can treat you like shit because I am better than you and I have better options than you" and triggers their hypergamy and they get attracted to you.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 08:52 AM
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Agreed, I also know women can't love us like our moms on the conscious level. But how do you cope with the constant feeling of void?
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:32 PM
1

So you roleplay that she's your mother?
/r/askTRP28/09/17 06:46 PM
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Right, the problem is, I get the girl, but she either means nothing to me, or I have oneitis and she's the meaning of life. If I have no feelings, I absolutely hate them, even more so that being a jerk worked wonders and think they are retarded for falling for that. If I have feelings, she turns into oneitis and I sabotage the shit out of everything with my bluepill shit.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 06:21 PM
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Role playing what? Can you elaborate?
/r/askTRP28/09/17 05:45 PM
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Thanks for the insightful post. I do have a lack of mission in my life, that's for sure. Here's my problem, there are some available women in my life, yet I feel nothing for them, and it feels like a oneitis love (not just a particular one) is the only thing that can fill my gaping void. I am trying to find the reason I have this void and fill it so I don't delude myself with disney crap.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 05:43 PM
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I'd give her maybe a 5/10, but I'm probably just trying to be nice in case she sees this. Well that sentence is going to work if she sees it.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 08:13 PM
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elaborate please.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 08:56 AM
1

How do you deal with mother issues? Spent my entire life in depression without knowing what was wrong with me, now that i realized it was childhood neglect, how do I deal with it? How do I stop defaulting to looking for an "innocent mommy" type woman?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 12:15 AM
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I used to be in the same spot as you are. Depression phase (of grief) or whatever. It happens when your knowledge exceeds your wisdom. You "know" things but you didn't quite yet "accept" them. Over time you realize how lucky you are not being caught in the vicious cycle. It's not something that happens over night. Think of it like a lucid dream. You woke up inside your dream and you realize you are in a dream. At first you're like, well this is pointless, whatever i do doesn't matter. Well yeah,…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 11:42 AM
2

I can see someone making it work. 99% of the time it's not what you say, it's how you say.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 03:55 PM
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Like others said, change the things you can change, own the things you can't. Lift, get ripped, learn game, approach, and build an iron frame that cannot be shook. You said it yourself, you had good looking GF's in the past. That just shows you're OK. Your perception of yourself however IS NOT. Work on that. Develop such confidence that women think "How the fuck is this guy with an ugly face so confident. Who does he think he is?" That will do more than surgery for you.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 09:12 PM
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I'm no TRP expert but the core teaching of TRP is "be the best version of yourself, for YOU". Not to bang chicks, not to impress others. Be free, improve yourself everyday, just to fullfill your life. Chicks and status and fun are byproduct of living a fullfilling life. If you are risking your health to get laid, even if you get your results after surgery, you'll still be an easily manipulated man. Let me tell you about myself, I used to be obese, now i look good, and my perception of ME hasn't …
/r/askTRP23/07/17 08:46 PM
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This might be an unpopular opinion but surgeries have always a potential to go wrong and fuck up your health. What would you tell yourself if shit went wrong? Oh I wanted to get laid really badly so now i have to live with this chronic health problem. Worse looking people than you get laid with good looking women.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 08:02 PM
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Give her a break! She may have just been on a losing streak and she just needed her panties back!
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:31 PM
1

What are some good sources to learn how to tease women? I saw some posts here but they are not very detailed.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 10:57 PM
1

And what are the sources of dopamine that's not toxic for you in the long run? Working out and what else?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 06:47 PM
2

Been in a similar boat, lots of addictions and always attracted to BPD women. Can you elaborate what you do to get over it?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:16 AM
2

This post has made me realize what my problem was for years, and will probably change my life. Thank you sir.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 04:04 PM
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usually accepting reality is tougher than the reality itself. so we torture ourselves in all creative ways to deny it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 04:30 PM
3

Anything is better than saying "I'll jerk off then". Hell, even staying silent. She'll think you must have options that's why you don't react to her refusing sex.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 04:01 PM
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This was an amazing post, thank you. I remember talking to a friend saying: "I already knew men were monkeys, I just thought women were special, when i realized they were different kind of monkeys it was depressing."
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 10:16 AM
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Do you mind sharing a bit of your story? I'm just curious, if it was oneitis, were you bluepill when you wanted to marry her or was it some other thing.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 04:45 PM
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i think what he means is this. Even when a woman has been conditioned with disney bullshit, as soon as they don't like the deal (with you), they will move on with their lives and not rot in a corner crying about you. As soon as they get a better prospect, poof they are gone. Rest is your problem.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 10:49 AM
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Bro, I've been in a very similar situation. Say this to yourself: "She came in my life with a mission (to turn me into a man)". You already realized most of your mistakes. Now to complete that mission, you need to let her go. You need to learn to let go off the woman you love so desperately so no woman ever can do the same to you again. "The greatest power a woman can have over you is convincing you that your life would be incomplete without her." Never give that power to any woman, or anyone/an…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 08:35 PM
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Stay the fuck off my sis bro!
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 08:20 PM
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I can't blame the dude, I was like him once lol. Even after discovering TRP I was like naaah NAWALT. Well... After enough women I understand AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 08:15 PM
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wow that's a very very good example.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 10:21 AM
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“Hanging onto resentment is letting someone you despise live rent-free in your head" If you are sure, ghost immediately. The fact that you were so confident and left without saying anything will fuck her up much better than anything you can possibly say/do to her. You give the message that "I'm so much above you that I don't even need to say anything about it"
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:05 AM
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She doesn't find you attractive enough, yet she wants to keep you around for validation, women do that all the time, validation for them is as valuable as sex for us. Read : http://markmanson.net/fuck-yes
/r/askTRP17/05/17 02:55 AM
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How much time do you think she'd need if you were Brad Pitt? 5minutes? 20seconds? Yeah, that's as long as she needs. If she needs longer than that, then the problem isn't that she needs time, the problem that you aren't "Brad Pitt enough".
/r/askTRP17/05/17 02:51 AM
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I didn't mean mislead as a bad thing but as a "too optimistic" way. Your post was a great read and sort of something to aim for for me. I used to be a 4, nowadays I'm 6-6.5, working on improving myself. Deep down I still want to believe there can be some sort of relaxed and fun relationship between men and women. And I think the easiest way to get that is your example, keep a very strong frame, constantly be your best self, and probably settle a few points lower than your SMV, so your woman alwa…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 02:40 AM
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Right, but there's some sort of misleading here. If you are so much higher in SMV that she shakes talking with you, have naturally alpha frame, have options, and overall, DGAF whether she leaves or not, you are already red pill graduate. You already satisfy her hypergamous needs in every way, plus you are ok with her leaving anyway. At that point you can do whatever. Most of TRP teachings imo are guidelines to get to that point (becoming your best self and content with yourself), but on the way …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 11:45 PM
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So you're saying do not be afraid to do X Y Z as long as you are higher SMV than your woman, keep alpha frame, and have options. Most people here in TRP are trying to shoot above, not settle, which makes their woman have easier time replacing them, which makes it harder to keep frame and so on.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 11:29 PM
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because women hate overt communication. they like subtlety and cunning. overt communication is repulsive.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 10:42 PM
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Ask yourself this question: "If you knew 100% you will find a better woman tomorrow in every way, would you still feel the same?" If the answer is NO, then your problem isn't that she broke up with you, it's that you are worried you won't get anyone better. So your desperation is the one torturing you, not the breakup. In that case, you do what TRP tells you to do to increase your chances to get a better woman. Improve yourself and meet other people.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 08:48 PM
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This was written very well thank you. I always felt that void but I could never figure out why I was so desperate for love. My life had been a living hell even though everything in my life was perfect (except love). This explains why I felt the way I did, and hopefully allows me to heal over time. Looking forward to your next post.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 10:39 AM
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That's why you never listen to what they say and look at what they do. I think she wants you as an emotional tampon to give her ego boost after each Chad bangs her senseless and dumps her. She might even really feel the way she tells you, however, mating is not a decision made by frontal cortex. It's like drinking water, when your body tells you to do it, you go and do it. When her pussy craves for an alpha cock, she goes and finds one on tinder. Afterwards when she feels worthless, she wants yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 03:38 PM
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Sluts are like the nice guys. They naturally get attracted to alphas and think if they give away their side of the bargain (sex) they will get what they want (commitment). Sadly it doesn't work that way, and they do the same mistake over and over, just like how nice guys fall into LJBF's.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 03:31 PM
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There is a reason meditation is a very often repeated suggestion in this forum, almost second to lifting. To me it sounded like, you are in depression state and maybe not yet reached acceptance? For your natural desire to pair-bond, I think before you do it with a woman, you have to pair-bond with yourself. When you think to yourself, you'll notice there is a guy speaking (your brain, the chatter), and a guy listening (your conciousness) , they need to bond first. For more, you can check out Eck…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 11:50 PM
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Reminds me of the matrix scene: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hw88MWoqenQ
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 07:24 PM
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I'm not an expert but I think you can do an early handshake, then maybe do "the cube" (neil strauss cube if you don't know) and then proceed to palm reading and so on. It sets up a nice "mysterious" atmosphere. The key is how you feel when you are touching her. If you feel awkward, then she'll feel awkward when you touch her. Treat her like your bratty little sister then it won't feel awkward. Once you have a bit of control, you can push her on the shoulder, pull her from her waist and so on. Th…
/r/askTRP11/05/17 08:56 AM
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wiser words have never been spoken. that's a solution to most problems in your life.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 12:27 AM
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Looking for validation most likely. Social media and dating sites are porn for women. And if they end up with a guy they like, they might as well just go for it.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 12:11 AM
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because males' natural sexual strategy is "spread the seed", while females' is, "find the best one and stick with it". so every break-up is a trauma for a woman on subconscious level, because it is a proof of "you couldn't find the perfect male" while for a man, it never was the aim. after enough breakups woman just loses the ability to pair bond and just looks for a beta provider and starts crying "where are all the good men gone". and after losing her compassion, her "soft side", she becomes m…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 08:33 PM
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How many times do you have to write an essay about life after 30 when you are 27, and doomsday talk about it as if you know shit about it? Most of the stuff you write here is against core philosophy of TRP written in a bluepill mindset. Worried about life after 30? Watch: https://youtu.be/CPoH0hVQWfY?t=84 She is 15 or so here and Brad Pitt is 45+. You think he hit the wall? The thing you should be worried about as a man isn't your age, it's whether you are Brad Pitt or not. If you are not Brad P…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 08:32 PM
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This looks very good on the paper and I may be the one with the unpopular opinion but isn't this more of a PUA trick then actual TRP theory which is mainly based upon self-improvement?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 10:19 PM
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read rational male by rollo tomassi asap, but don't rush it. take your time and let it sink. it will change the way you look at things a lot.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 12:25 AM
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ask these questions to yourself: -how much good can you expect from a woman that drops you when you are busy for a week and can't see her? -how much beauty justifies treating you like shit? -would you rather have a 9 that treats you like shit? or a 7-8 that treats you like king? -does it really matter if a woman is 7 or 8 or 9 as long as she treats you respectfully, meets your demands and you find her extremely bangable?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 07:03 PM
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brother, i'm no redpill expert, but let me tell you something you want to hear. go ahead and try to "convince" her by "explaining your feelings" towards her. sometimes you just have to make the mistake and fall, then you'll learn. just be prepared to fall flat on your face and be prepare to swallow the pill again. the main redpill rule is that you can't "convince" someone to feel attraction towards you. if she was attracted to you she would have found a million clever ways to not allow you to sl…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 06:54 PM
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you handle it the same way you would handle when a 6yo girl would call you those things. you can make fun of them back, you can make them feel they are "cute little things" , you can agree and amplify, you can ignore them etc. what you never do is give a shit and try to defend yourself.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 09:10 AM
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well brother, been through similar stuff (i'm 29 and she was 23) and i feel exactly the same but i'm beginning to get myself together. here are a couple things from my notes to self: -the problem isn't what she feels about you, the problem is what you feel about yourself. -you allow a 12yo child (which all women are) to define your selfworth. -being with a woman who doesn't desire you won't make anything better. -how much beauty justifies treating you like shit and dumping you? -the only reason …
/r/askTRP01/05/17 05:45 PM
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if she is as good looking as you describe, yeah she'll have plenty of man to pump and dump her, and she can call them "boyfriend" while they are still enjoying her pussy. finding a man that sticks with you is the hard thing for women, she lost more than you did in that trade brother, find comfort in that. also read this one, it will give you an idea of what will happen next: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6556hg/diomedes_triple_strength_rp_guide_to_ltr_breakups/
/r/askTRP23/04/17 10:08 PM
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if you "feel this might be the last time you see her" there is a good chance you actually won't even get to see her again, women would rather ghost men than end things like a mature person. i've been in your shoes my brother not too long ago, good thing is that you are in the right place, and before it was too late (you got married). read the books "no more mr nice guy" and "rational male". take your time, don't rush, let the ideas sink. i'm going to be honest with you. there will be a lot of pa…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 07:49 PM
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i'm checking sidebar and can't see the one named handbook. which one is it?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 12:28 AM
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I'm in the same boat with you on most of the points you made. If you haven't, read "Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi. It helps, maybe re-read it slowly, let it sink. I've also swallowed the redpill on a conscious level, but it takes a lot of effort to re-invent yourself on the unconscious level.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 09:16 PM
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honest question, did you really completely change from a BP guy to a RP guy in 2 months? I've known TRP for over a year and would say when i'm conscious i act like a RP guy, but sometimes BP tendencies still kick in and i struggle keeping my "body" in check to not react like a loser.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 08:32 PM
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Your parents will love you when you are a child but that's about it. The idea is that you are on your own and don't expect others to love you the way you love them. Love is a very subjective thing. You can say for sure that your child will love you with all their heart but it will not the be same thing you feel towards them. Their love is -again- contract based unconsciously. As long as you are a good parent that treats them right and supply their needs, they will love you.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 08:12 PM
7

man i wish you lived inside my head mentoring me everyday.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 09:59 PM
7

See, you don't have to love a woman naively and unconditionally. Just like how you wouldn't love your 3yo child and do everything he/she wants and then be pissed when things don't go well. You have to be above them, you have to observe and understand their nature and give them what they need (their hypergamous nature) not what they say they want. You have to draw the lines in which they can live happily and nurture your family and admire you for the strong man you have been despite their numerou…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:38 PM
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The love hierarchy is like : God>Men>Women>Children There is compassion, and self sacrifice, and giving without taking when you go towards right. The love going towards right requires nothing in return. But love when you go towards left is contract based. A child will only an abusive parent for so long. A man will only love a cruel god for so long. And a child will loathe a parent that requires their help and love to function. Same thing can be said about a man and god. Same with women and men. …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:22 PM
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women are compassionate creatures, just not towards man they mate (they are very compassionate towards their children), because they are not programmed to be. covering up our weaknesses does not increase their chances of survival, finding a better man does.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 07:19 PM
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Sure i'd like to read, but i'm no TRP master to give you an educated opinion on that. The fail faster idea from the video actually seemed very smart though.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 12:47 PM
1

that makes a lot of sense, thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 11:41 AM
1

somewhere in TRP i read that if a woman is "talking with you a lot" on unimportant things that leads to friendzone because that's what they do with friends. i consciously make fun of their attempts to qualify themselves to me but other than that, how do we differentiate between those? also another problem i have is, since it's them mostly doing the talk, there are a lot of times when they run out of things to say and it gets awkward. how do you deal with it?
/r/askTRP14/04/17 11:30 AM
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my problem is that i'm not a very talkative person. and when i talk it's usually short and brainy so i have hard time making women laugh. i'm learning C&F stuff and how to tease women but really it happens so rare i'm not very comfortable with it. that said the women i have dominance over try really hard to validate themselves to me and i tease them, but since most women aren't really funny, our conversations usually end up being "them blabbering about some nonsense". any advice?
/r/askTRP14/04/17 11:23 AM
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thank you very much for the post, and even this last comment. it made it so much clearer for me how to carry out conversations with women.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 10:35 AM
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you might want to watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_muEULSxgIU i think what you are feeling is a natural cycle. i felt the same way, but bitterness fades over time.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 09:26 PM
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i don't know, maybe? i've spent my entire life being nice to them and getting friendzoned, then i saw TRP and started "testing" the theories. in my eyes i feel like "oh is that how we are playing?" and i treat them like shit in a somewhat-playful manner. and they all seem to love it and try to validate their worth to me and i'm just chuckling inside. though i must admit i feel like punching them in the face from time to time when i observe how shallow but entitled they are. am i a sociopath? i h…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 09:23 PM
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well if you come to a clean conclusion, let me know. we share the same fate brother :D
/r/askTRP11/04/17 06:56 PM
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very well written. except 1 part i disagree with, is that hating women doesn't really make it hard to bang them. if anything, it worked a lot better for me than my blue pill years. but i agree it's unhealthy, and there is a better way.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 06:54 PM
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thanks for the insightful posts brother.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 06:22 PM
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say you pick-up a girl at a bar or an event, you got a few minutes of talk and got her contact info, do you go for a coffee first or straight up for these "activity dates"? if you go for a coffee, what's the duration of the date you are shooting for? just trying to learn your approach.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:27 PM
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could you give some daytime/nighttime examples on good date ideas that involve minimal talking?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 02:25 PM
1

the thing is, pain is why we WANT to change, pain is how we got here in TRP for the most part. so we have to embrace it. most of us grown up in a feminized society, so all the value systems are engraved in us and it feels like we are losing a part of ourselves when we want to change. either way, we have to trust in the pain in our lives and allow it to change us.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 08:43 AM
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went from about 290 pounds to 210 pounds and working on building muscle all around.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 10:08 PM
1

that was very insightful, thanks. it's very possible that i emit a nerdy/lonely vibe because i am.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 08:31 PM
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29 yo incel here, discovered trp last year, lost 30kilograms in weight, lifting pretty regularly and trying to get in better in shape, already get compliments from lots of people and been trying to practice my game with women, and getting some positive results. but i feel like i lost so much time as a bluepill guy, it kind of makes me worried. any particular advices?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 07:30 PM
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I think the book is put together in a way that you can take step by step and change the way you look at things. Let me tell you this, when my beta self heard "just be yourself man" he heard "just be super nice to girls and they'll come along". When it actually meant "just don't give a flying fuck about what girls think and have fun in the moment". Women are very good at judging your worth and if they are around you, they already see your value. Whatever you do to impress them just convinces them…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 10:19 AM
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Yo i'm not an expert, trying to swallow the red pill myself but here's what i can say to you. People that are uglier / fatter / poorer than you get pussy in worse places than you live in. Forget about your parents, genetics, social status and so on. Do not look for people to blame. Blaming other people/things takes the power away from you. There is only one person that can get you out of this situation and that is you. Read the book "the rational male". You want pussy? There is only one thing th…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 09:58 AM
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i've been a very overt person my whole life and i'm very interested in becoming a manipulative asshole... so any sources to read?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 11:25 PM
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Narcissim pays very very well. i know it does. But i am trying to find the right balance between being a spiritually righteous person and getting laid. I don't want to give up too much on my personal values just to get laid. I am just trying to figure out if it is at all possible. Or if it is a lost cause just like being a nice guy.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 09:29 PM
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I was actually raised in a traditional family, and my father is overly masculine. Many times i would think to myself, "he's just being irrational now, i would never treat my mom like that" and would never understand why my mom was so happy with him. Until recently i was a strong believer in gender equality, you could even call me a feminist, i would look at women and see wonderful creatures that make the world a better place. After being with lots of different kinds of women and only to find how…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 08:54 PM
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If you still are really nice (maybe too nice?), at least read 'no more mr nice guy'. not anymore. i now have strict rules and boundaries and feel nothing when punishing people that cross them. This is not good. Get yourself involved in some activities or hobbies that men are into in your area. I don't know if it's something wrong with me but i find that most of what men do is basically comparing dick sizes. And i find that intellectually boring. For example, supporters of different football club…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 08:21 PM
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