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Coming off as desperate is also a turnoff and people can see it a mile away. Going to the city on the weekends for a few weeks isn’t really any great effort whatsoever, you gotta be kidding me. That’s literally what everyone used to do, before the invention of dating apps. Congrats, you’re socializing. It does indeed take more effort than sitting inside your house.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 05:07 PM
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Sorry to burst your bubble that you didn't figure out the secret of life to banging women, after all. /eyeroll Also, what's with the juvenile "white knight" comment? Sounds like you're not really cured of the red pill theory, since apparently you don't realize that women are also on Reddit. ETA: Oh, you're out of rehab. That explains it. Enjoy your new drug, dude
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 03:28 PM
7

This is the same dipshit crap that redpillers tell each other. “9 out of 10 women will totes magotes bang you under the right conditions!” Nah, dude.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 04:11 AM
1

You deserve better. Especially after overhearing what he was saying to his friend. Danger, Will Robinson.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/24 08:20 PM
4

It’s not up to you to write out this dude’s asshole origin story for him. What you know, from his own fool mouth, is that apparently he thinks if he’d kept his wife under his thumb instead of her having a career and income, she wouldn’t have been able to leave him. Red. Flag. Rewiring his thinking?! Girl, come on. You feel the need to take up casual psychotherapy for a dude you’ve known for three months?! What is this, paint-asshole-by-numbers? He was with his ex for 16 years. What are you plann…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/24 05:43 PM
2

Do yourself a favor, and stop with the deadlines and the results metrics. You're not a traveling salesman with a quota to meet. It definitely sounds like you have a life-enjoyment deficit going on. You need to give that a lot more thought, and ask yourself if your "goals" are even enjoyable to pursue for their own sake. Imagine you meet two girls who are both attractive and fit. The first person is from an athletic family who loves to hike and play sports, has visited every National Park, and sh…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 07:34 PM
1

Are you talking about Black Lives Matter in 2020? The protesters were the ones being killed, not doing the killing. Maybe you need to learn how to read, too.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/24 07:06 AM
3

We get it, you want to cling to your sour grapes rather than acknowledge the obvious logical fallacy.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 03:14 PM
3

But you want the experience of getting attention from people you have absolutely no interest in, because you seem to think that’s so valuable it will be your salvation. That’s what you keep arguing women are benefiting from. So go ahead. Go get it. See what it’s really like. Maybe you might find it flattering, you never know.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 09:35 PM
9

Nobody’s stopping you from making a female Tinder and LARPing as the other side, if you think it’s so amazeballs.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 06:10 AM
12

The gay guy being attracted to you as a low confidence man still holds, though. You still attract people. Just not the people you want.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 06:05 AM
23

Exactly. He's not complaining that he hasn't met someone special. He's complaining that he's trying everything to gamify interactions with women, and it doesn't work. Probably because women are actual physical human beings, not NPCs with cheat codes...but he can't grok that. He thinks there should be a woman store and he can just pick one and take it home.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/24 08:42 PM
11

Tall Promotion is back with his daily topic
/r/ExRedPill17/05/24 08:40 PM
31

At the risk of revealing myself to be an old fart...This is one of the oldest tricks in the book. It was an old trick even when I was a college kid in the very early 90s. And EVEN THEN, it was considered a juvenile tactic and the dudes who did it generally had a reputation as egomaniacs or fuckboys or both. Now, in 2024, where all the dating apps are a total sausagefest, and the relatively rare woman who even uses them complains that she deletes the app regularly, because all the men she meets a…
/r/ExRedPill08/05/24 10:24 PM
8

I don’t think you understand your own point you’re making.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:49 AM
14

Even if you parachuted into the middle of a conference of all demisexual women, they would have to like you as a person. It’s pretty stupid to complain that it’s a numbers problem.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:28 AM
24

So, you and Tall Promotion are the same person, and both post endlessly about the same problem. GIVE IT A REST
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:17 AM
16

A demisexual woman would have to find your personality attractive.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:16 AM
35

It sounds like a dopamine addiction issue more than anything. You probably got addicted to the "rush" of TRP ragebait, you got addicted to the rush and novelty of a porn addiction, and then you got a rush from the excitement of your new relationship, which is now wearing off. That "empty" feeling you feel is the absence of dopamine. Maybe it wouldn't be a terrible idea to talk to a mental health professional and see if there is an anti-depressant that would help with all this. And take Vitamin D…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/24 08:04 PM
6

Parents, family members, you got it. 68% of mass shooters kill their own family members too.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/24 05:09 AM
5

What point do you have, even asking this idiotic question?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/24 02:07 AM
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Incel doesn't describe ANYONE with an "amazing personality". It describes someone with a personality disorder.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 10:14 PM
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I think that if you find that you're not feeling chemistry with this person, that it's best for both of you to end the relationship before it goes on too long. It's good that you're trying to give it an honest chance, and see if it's an issue of temporary infatuation vs. honest feeling. But one thing you can be sure of - if you don't know if you're really feeling it, you're not really feeling it. And if you can't work up the mojo to be intimate, you are DEFINITELY not feeling it. Sexual chemistr…
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 04:26 PM
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Uggo certainly accurately describes someone who not only is falling down in the looks and hygiene department, but has a personality to match. But I can switch back to the word “incel,” if you’re more comfortable with that terminology.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 03:01 PM
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Who cares, at this point. You clearly just want to piss and moan that nobody’s noticing you, which is why you’re all over this sub lately, asking the same questions so you can argue. I mean, nobody on here can even see what you look like, so clearly personality is part of the problem. You might argue, “I’m not like this in real life!”….you sure about that, though?
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 02:57 PM
21

Sorry not burst your bubble of self-delusion that all these incels only rant online about their deeply hateful viewpoints, but would somehow instantly morph into the best boyfriends ever. They don’t. They don’t have empathy. They don’t have interest in treating people nicely, they have an interest in revenge. They have a strong incidence of domestic violence.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 02:43 PM
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Ask your “friends” who you keep “playing matchmaker for” despite “no one ever speaking to you.” It’s not like posting the same drivel on here daily and arguing with the responses is getting you anywhere.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 02:26 PM
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LOL, no, they absolutely do not. Ugly guys are almost always angry, insecure and project their self-loathing onto the person willing to date them. They act like they resent having to “settle for” the girls who “can’t do any better than” the guy they see themselves as. In other words, they keep acting like INCELS.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 02:19 PM
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Said the guy who himself thinks all “good-looking guys” not only lie and use women for sex, but that it’s the women’s fault for getting tricked. Nobody gives a fuck what YOU think is “misandrist.”
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 01:59 PM
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No they’re not. It’s more like ugly guys are starry eyed and waiting in the wings for the chance to treat women like crap, just like they think good-looking guys do. If anything, the uggos are even worse.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 01:49 PM
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Then why wouldn’t you go debate these topics with them, instead of random internet people? Don’t they know you better, and can tell you whether they think your perceptions are accurate?
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 02:00 AM
8

Are you judging who is attractive to YOU, or are you looking at attractiveness as it applies to the entire population, as a tool for the pursuit of fame and fortune, like a beauty contest?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 05:34 PM
3

Grow up already.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 02:36 PM
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Stop empathizing with this crap and start calling it for the harmful bullshit it is. Just stop tolerating it. It falls into the realm of emotional and mental abuse. He’s literally invalidating you, but god forbid his fragile ego handle being disagreed with. Oh, it’s like a “fuck you” to his opinion? It should be an ACTUAL “fuck you” to his opinions, because they’re shitty opinions that demean you as a woman, not to mention your individual lived experience. The next time he moans about being reje…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/24 09:51 PM
3

Because Red Pillers don't want women to be happy. They want them to be cooking and cleaning for them.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/24 07:22 PM
4

Do you watch reruns of Gilligan's Island and are convinced that it's really easy to get stranded for years a couple hours away from Hawaii and endlessly make recipes out of coconuts? Maybe, don't believe everything you see on a video.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/24 03:21 AM
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You can be as uncomfortable with it as you like. Everyone’s entitled to their opinion. Just be ready to accept that by having that and expressing that opinion, most people, especially women, will assume your opinion is based on a psychological projection of your own personal sense of inadequacy. Maybe it’s sexual, maybe it’s just socioeconomic in general. Maybe women don’t want to date a man who is likely to be bad in bed, or who goes around trying to establish an arbitrary pecking order of wome…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 11:06 PM
2

Gotta love how men would rather flagellate one failed men’s center for three decades, rather than fund another. Meninism in a nutshell!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:16 PM
1

Says the video game player who is perpetually clueless about even speaking to women. Like you would know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:05 PM
1

I achieve all my goals. It just turns out that I didn’t need men to do it. If fact, I found out that I needed to get rid of the men in order to do it. If WWII showed us anything, it demonstrated that it takes a year to teach a woman how to build a tank or an airplane, and it’s taken seven decades and counting to teach a man how to parent or clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:00 PM
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It’s just that men consistently have a grossly overinflated self-image and sense of entitlement, so even when you meet someone who is convinced he’s an A player, real life reveals him to be a C student at best. Dudes think they deserve a handmaid for bringing in $70k a year. But if I make more, it’s endless arguments as to why the house should not have an inch of dust, or the kitchen shouldn’t be left in a state filthy enough that it attracts ants and cockroaches, or that meals should be nutriti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:52 PM
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I do make a lot of money, but sadly, relatively few men bring any kind of skill outside of wage compensation, and even those that do are conditioned to expect it done for them. They consider their participation to be at their convenience or desire, not a consistent responsibility or obligation. It literally becomes a situation where they are fundamentally not contributing meaningfully in any capacity. The entire exercise just reveals that men are socialized to be relatively useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:38 PM
1

Oh good, then where is my stay at home husband who will cook and clean after me and do everything I say, for literally zero direct, tangible socioeconomic benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:19 PM
11

“Respect” doesn’t pay the bills, and most men aren’t all that good at it, either. Hell, a lot of men aren’t even particularly good at paying the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:19 PM
11

That’s what you think.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 04:45 AM
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Women aren’t fantasizing about tall, handsome, successful men and their amazing lives. You are. That’s all incels and red pill types do. They fantasize about these men 24/7 and project their own fantasies onto women. God forbid women describe enjoying a relationship with a normal human dude. Clearly he is a loser because he is normal shaped, got married to one normal woman and decided to get old with her, gag. Not like Chad, who when he is not working one hour a day for a million dollar salary o…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 03:31 AM
1

Keep trying to rebrand socially adept people as something bad, I guess. Whatever you need to tell yourself, dude
/r/ExRedPill25/01/24 03:28 AM
1

Nothing you said refutes my earlier statement. But yes, plenty of men also suck in the category you stated, in addition to the men who have no idea how to navigate dating.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/24 12:12 AM
4

I suppose the good news is that these days, the problem is more than likely to solve itself, since more and more of these do-nothing Dudleys stay single.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 10:12 PM
9

If you lack the motivation and energy to socialize and make an effort to support other people, then for the love of god, don't get married or have kids. The world is already 100% full of checked-out fathers who don't participate in their relationships with their spouse or family. A wife and kids aren't some sort of loot crate that proves you succeeded in life. They are people who also have needs.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 06:16 PM
2

And it's not easy for women to do that either, which is why cosmetic surgery exists.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 12:32 AM
7

I don't think they do, or they would work on themselves to become more desirable.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 07:31 PM
2

No, I'm responding to the idiot drivel they say. That's called "facing a consequence of my action."
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 07:30 PM
11

“Shit tests” are just the expression of boundaries and personal standards. PUAs label these as “shit tests” because their objective is to come up with a lie to circumvent someone’s boundaries and standards in order to have sex under false pretenses. That’s the entire goal of a PUA.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 05:14 PM
5

Men like that only view “love” as a group of services performed by women for their own benefit. They do not even entertain the concept of mutual reciprocity. Even the OP demonstrates this kind of thinking, where he thinks incels will be cured by a woman somewhere having consensual sex with them, with no thought whatsoever as to what the woman’s experience is supposed to be or what she’s supposed to get out of it.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 05:04 PM
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It’s not empathy when you view an entire gender as being obligated to perform a sexual service. Oh, wait, YOU think it’s different because the women also need to make the guy feel LIKED. lmao. Fuck right off with that.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:14 PM
13

Yeah, women won’t, because posts like this sound pathetic and psychopathic
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 02:44 PM
36

Or how about develop empathy in your brain, instead of thinking with your dick all the time.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 02:43 PM
3

LMAO. Well, I'm not even a guy. But yes, I do in fact have basic social skills, and don't look at relationships as some sort of one-way transaction that should only benefit myself.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 06:29 PM
6

Men who watch this content aren't trying to have successful relationships with women. They're trying to learn how to be performatively cruel and self-serving towards women in order to have higher social status with other men. In other words, men watch this content in order to try to be more powerful men. But in this fantasy world, it can't happen unless they figure out how to take away the power from women.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 11:49 PM
8

New topic: why should men be talked about and treated as if they are people with individual feelings and thoughts? Evidence clearly proves otherwise.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 03:26 PM
10

While retaining their sleaze. They don’t want to improve themselves, they want to trick people.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/24 03:18 PM
14

So basically you're red pilled because you dated someone you already know is a hot mess, because she was attractive to you. And because the hot mess turned out to be a hot mess, now all women suck. Sounds like you're trying to make yourself the victim of someone who did one more drug than you do.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 06:35 PM
3

That last sentence is very poetic
/r/ExRedPill28/12/23 11:36 PM
-2

Keep an eye on your kidneys. And if this person wants to see so much as an ATM receipt of yours, nope
/r/ExRedPill26/12/23 03:21 AM
-3

Yikes. I cannot imagine why I would ever want to date someone fifteen years my junior, inexperienced, with a mental disability no less.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/23 02:06 AM
5

With my depression, not in a long term relationship. But I know guys who are in a much better place for ltrs who have no luck with women simply for not excelling in any of the areas I mentioned. For casual sex I think I am, why settle for a fling when I could have repeat customers In this comment, you presume that women should be pity-fucking YOU. Please describe this "average guy" whose plight you are championing so hard. How much does he make? What is his education level? Where does he live? W…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:17 AM
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It's entirely NOT my problem, because I can surround myself with socially enjoyable people of all creeds, and thus I don't need to hand out pity fucks to boring dickweeds, actually. I think you will find that most women feel the same way I do. I'm sure you already HAVE found it to be the case, or you wouldn't be on here, bitching and moaning that more women aren't pity-fucking boring dickweeds.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:51 PM
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Someone with a tolerable personality IS charming. You don't have to be Don Juan to be fun to talk to and have charisma, you know. And no, we women don't HAVE to go for some "average guy" we aren't attracted to, who doesn't share our goals and values, who isn't emotionally present or reciprocal. We're not a commodity who has to agree to divide ourselves up fairly so that the entire class of dudes gets one. We're actual people who have individual preferences. If you, or even the "average" guy does…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:25 PM
17

Yes, guys who have tolerable personalities are soooooooo sus. Better go for the fucking asshole, he's got such a heart of gold!
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:12 PM
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If you spent as much time developing organizational skills as you do on this woo horoscope bullshit, you might actually get somewhere in life. Because “Are there women that will manage a career so I don’t have to, AND cook and clean so I feel cared for” like…no. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:08 PM
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Literal man child we have here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:44 PM
14

It’s almost like she dated him and knew what he was like, and you only have this one post to go off of
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 03:56 PM
1

Have you posted anything on Instagram that announced, publicly, "Wow, I sure did think some messed up ideas about women when I was younger. I'm glad my mindset is different these days." Because you didn't seem to have any problem announcing your disdain of women publicly, so if that's changed, then announce the change. If you can't, then yes you're still an incel. And your women friends DO know something about you, if they know you're the person who posts that crap on your social media. It's not…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 11:16 PM
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Grow up. I’m pretty sure you DID act like one knowingly and intentionally. It’s not like people innocently post a bunch of woman-hating shit on Instagram. So yes, if your friends and women were aware that you espoused those views, they thought and probably still think you’re a misogynistic dick. You can tell if a guy is an incel when he says the same shit you did on Instagram.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 05:16 PM
6

I think you're really minimizing men's personal responsibility here. "People" didn't create and buy into RP theory, men did. "Society" didn't fail to socialize men. Men rejected traditional socializing in favor of Red Pill theory, because what they see is a "cheat code" to escape the obligations and accountability built into traditional social expectations. Men could have taught each other how to succeed at socializing normally. Instead they made up Red Pill theory. "Feminists" aren't cherry-pic…
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 10:35 PM
6

Have you met promiscuous men? Do you know how many partners they’ve had? What are your thoughts about them? Are they gross for being so indiscriminate?
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 04:17 AM
1

Red pill is an entire ideology based on conjuring up reasons and methods for hating women, so it’s pretty illogical to assume we get unconditional love. From whom, exactly?
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 06:46 AM
1

Besides loveless incels, boy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:22 PM
1

Sure, dude. I'm sure your fiancee had to tell you all about needing a clean dick. Right after s/he removed the bubble wrap off it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:21 PM
1

Oh wow, you tried to insult someone on the internet for liking cats. Do you think you came up with that one all by yourself? Better stick to your dwarves and elves, since touching pussy is clearly something outside of your wheelhouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:06 AM
2

Says the guy who plays Pokémon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:58 AM
5

Women do, like drawing, painting, crochet and knitting, gardening, woodworking, cooking and baking. You just don’t see examples of them online because your algorithm is set to “thirsty pervert.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:45 PM
1

Is this what kids call "line cook energy"?
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 06:38 PM
2

What is a Pookie and a RayRay?
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 06:17 PM
1

Man-hating has been a male stereotype of feminism, period.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 06:14 PM
1

Assuming you are talking about straight women, all these women you resent for finding someone to date are, in fact, dating guys. They're not out there collecting some commodified concept called "guys" that works like Pokémon cards and every woman has a box of "guys" that she trades until she gets the best ones. Because that is stupid. Every relationship a straight woman is in, there is a guy also in a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 06:04 PM
2

How about you just address the content of that opinion without tone-policing it? Nobody needs to coddle your feelings.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 05:28 PM
1

Because diversity matters
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 12:09 AM
1

Well, I can't blame a guy because the app kinda sucks
/r/ExRedPill20/07/23 07:25 PM
1

Well, I'm sure you can continue to find attractive people, and they will find you. Beyond that, you dig deeper for the other good qualities you find in them, and let them do the same. Some bad habits and thought patterns will require conscious work to unwind, but it's probably worth it. Come to think of it, I know a lot of dudes who had a fuckboy phase in their 20s (into their 30s) and they are now all married with conventionally attractive wives their age. The wives were all pretty career-orien…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/23 04:51 AM
1

Beauty is a commodity and you're treating it like one, and your relationship is based on it. Which is like whatever, you're young, your life is in transition. Are either of you planning on marriage right now? Probably not. It's perfectly acceptable to have superficial relationships at this point in your life, if you're both on the same page. But if you are starting from a point of a superficial relationship - which, again, is fine! My ex-husband and I were basically "love at first sight" and I w…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/23 02:35 AM
1

Okay, that second paragraph is just pure redpill drivel about what all the other dudes assume are guaranteed ins with women. Whoopee. Dude you haven't even graduated yet, and plenty of guys are 6'2". Do you even know if she cares all that much how tall you are? Can you cook and clean NOW? Have you ever asked her directly what she likes about you, even? What does she think about you? Once you get that career job, you better nail down that workout or you'll have a gut by 28 like every other dude. …
/r/ExRedPill20/07/23 01:24 AM
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If it's supposed to be about love, then why does this person need to be a 12/10? Why are you entitled to that level of beauty, and what do you provide in return? Clearly it isn't money, you're broke. Do you have connections, can you provide access to places and people she can't? Do you have a cool job that she can network? What does she get from dating you? Are you literally the hottest guy around, or are you just Pete Davidson so she doesn't get the same effect from being out with you? What is …
/r/ExRedPill20/07/23 01:07 AM
2

He sounds pretty high maintenance himself. Look at it this way: I'm a great home cook. But if our dates are always homemade meals at my house, then you'd better be willing to buy the groceries because I'm the one doing all the work, using all my stuff and whatever side ingredients that I had to acquire to make these meals. If some guy expected to come to dinner at my house but then acted like I'm being a gold-digger over groceries, I wouldn't be like, "oh, sorry I tried to make this a transactio…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/23 12:50 AM
1

Well, let's back away from what the women think and look a little harder at YOU, looking for budget 10s. That's an entitlement all on its own. You can't be demanding someone look like a million bucks so you can walk into a room with them and preen while all the ladies want you and all the men want to be you...for zero cost to yourself. Even if that girl pays for all that stuff and does all that work for herself...what the hell does she need you for? She can make those entrances single. Don't eve…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 11:11 PM
1

Yeah, well, if your ladies only make as much as you do, then by the time everyone gets dressed, nobody can afford dinner. It's been 20 years since I made 30k and I was broke back then. I can't imagine how it is now, you must be panhandling for PBR. Unless you start ingratiating yourself at the tennis club to get sponsored by rich cougars.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 11:05 PM
0

He's going for the hottest person on the block, who happens to also be broke. The difference between looking like an adorable girl next door and the hottest girl in the room is usually about $150 of salon appointments. These two kids each make jack shit for money. She's not going to have any money leftover after nails, tan, hair, makeup, etc. to buy dinner. I'm 120, not 20, I make 100k more than those kids, and I'm normally totally cool with 50/50 all the way. But if my date expected me to do al…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 09:49 PM
1

You have to go older. College kids generally don't have money.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 09:25 PM
3

Entitlement and frustration, coupled with a toxic desire for power to "be the bully, not the bullied." You have probably noticed that as much as the "nerds" make fun of the "chads" by ripping on typical masculine endeavors and "sportsball," their own groups contain a massive amount of bullying and strict enforcement of conformity, arguably worse than the "popular kids" ever were. Redpill is just an attempt to use the manipulative social tactics often used by the relatively powerless, combined wi…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 05:06 PM
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It's so idiotic for a man to think he's entitled to declare himself the leader and his wife the follower who serves him. The leader is the person who has the best ability at leadership. The end.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 06:28 PM
1

I think they are all a lot more like Steven Crowder, where he started off claiming it was “satire,” and then it turns out he actually really is a mentally abusive piece of shit.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/23 04:52 AM
3

Honestly, I'm older and I see just as many dudes my age falling for this crap as I do teenagers. Usually it's because they're in a major midlife crisis, and oftentimes their wives have gotten sick of having to cook and clean up after them and sent them packing. TRP tells them that they've been the ones in the right the entire time, that their mean ex-wife was wrong, they've "aged like fine wine" and they're going to start having 25/23/21/19-year old coeds fall all over themselves aaaaaaany minut…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/23 03:28 AM
1

And all the little RP lemmings probably heard this story and immediately assumed they’re the fitness pro in this metaphor, not the fitness pro’s new customers…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/23 11:57 PM
6

Those are the exact same claims that suck people into all the typical pyramid schemes and sell "get rich quick" bullshit, really. 10 years ago, every guy suffering from SDE was falling for "learn how to flip real estate" come ons featuring a guy standing next to a boat and a private jet. This is absolutely no different.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/23 03:21 PM
35

Women started sitting home alone in their yoga pants drinking wine with their girlfriends on Zoom, and by April men were doomed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:50 PM
29

Keep in mind he is trying to spend $2.86 on each date, not $20 per date for a total of $140. Don't get a flavor shot in that coffee, the 7th girl will have to get water...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:46 PM
34

If this were an average business deal, this guy would schedule an hour meeting, no problem. If it happened at noon, he'd arrange lunch or even sandwiches no problem. Guys like this act like they expect someone to be DTF for less time and expense than an automatic carwash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:37 PM
14

Keep in mind if he matched them, he swiped on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:26 PM
21

As a vintage lady in my own right, I can confirm for you that they're totally full of shit. I've seen guys claim they're 38 and they don't even pass for 48. And I can speak for my peers by telling you that the only things that will make a guy LOOK 40 are: a) constant booze and drugs b) being a manual laborer like a roofer or construction (see a) c) some sort of massive health crisis or weight loss d) being at least 40 Even the bald and chubby ones will keep the baby fat around their face in thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:41 AM
16

Guys like this act Iike you're hosting a garage sale for your pussy. Actually no, Kevin, I do not in fact need to let you take me for a ride as if I have nothing better to do, like I'm some sort of medium budget rental car and you get a AAA discount.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:19 AM
6

Red flag: Men who narrate how romantic their actions are supposedly supposed to be. They're inflating the meaning of their actions and trying to dictate how you should feel about it. Dinner is just dinner. Being asked out is just being asked out. It doesn't need a hype man. A guy who does that is lovebombing you specifically so you won't drop him like a hot rock when he reveals his jail sentence/other coworker he also sleeps with. He's trying to take you for a sucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:39 PM
35

He told his mommy on you for getting his sweater dirty. Is he twelve? NEEEEEEEXT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:31 PM
9

I'm an atheist but I don't go around being a master debater about it. I'd tell these guys I don't believe in the myth of their superior logic without evidence either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:39 PM
31

Men getting triggered over women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:04 AM
17

Plenty of deadbeat dads already have sons. Doesn't stop them from peacing out on their responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:03 AM
6

I would pretend they didn't say it. Or if they ask if I cleaned, I'd say "I did!" In a shocked voice. Seems to work for their son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:56 AM
115

Even if he's fugly and she's 3x cuter than he would ever be, he'll just TREAT her like he thinks he could do a lot better, even if it's an infinitesimal chance in blue, frozen hell. It's like the minute they succeed, their mindset switches to "well, if I got you, I can probably do better" and act accordingly. Just stick with cute guys who don't have that scarcity mindset. The guys who have a choice actually CHOOSE you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:10 PM
12

He's a teenager. What value does he even have, a used car and mom's savings account? Live your life and reach your goals. That's your priority. If he also reaches his goals, great. If not, please keep in mind that you do not have to be picking out the husband you might have at 26 when you're only 19!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:54 PM
66

I guess the thing I feel compelled to point out is that he didn't make an effort with Ms. Major League, either. It sounds like he gave up before he even finished the date. One thing I am learning is that some dudes just won't make an effort no matter what they tell you or even tell themselves. They don't reciprocate for the ones they can "get," and they don't even leave the bullpen for the ones they can't. So, don't exhaust yourself trying to ascertain what level of non-effort is supposed to qua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:09 AM
13

Online Dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:05 PM
29

Hey, Mickey, you're so sly. You're so sly I said goodbye, hey Mickey! 👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:01 PM
3

Dude lives in a fucking halfway house. He probably can't afford brunch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:28 PM
22

This guy sounds like if he bought you a $1 cup of coffee he'd charge you 25 cents for the half n half.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:44 AM
268

24 reddit gold isn't even 50 bucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:45 PM
151

Calling their mothers and asking them if their arbor mist collection has been ransacked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:26 PM
10

Not to mention guys who complain about the cost of dinner affecting their potential volume of dates. Women don't need to offer a volume discount.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:22 PM
27

Maybe it does, and he hit her up because he bought into the myth that single moms will settle for absolute losers. He's all offended to find out otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:48 PM
719

Women: "can you support yourself?" Men who cannot support themselves: "ALL YOU CARE ABOUT IS MONEY! GREEDY GOLD DIGGER" Dudes acting like women should be sexual food pantries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:45 PM
31

Imagine how that balding, skinny guy would react if you starfished during sex half the time and needed weekly cam sessions with hot guys with chiseled abs and jawlines every week, that you spent $400 a month on it or so, and that you expected him to just be cool with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:11 AM
15

If you really want to know, basically you have to maintain an ideal weight range, like within 10 lbs, and a decent amount of muscle tone (lifting weights is the easiest way to manage this). Being fit always reads as "young." That's the number one "head turner." On top of that, you keep your hair in nice condition; especially as you age, it gets thinner and drier and grows more slowly, so you have to take better care of it. Weekly protein masks, good conditioners, regular trims, don't shampoo it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:19 AM
25

Repeat after me: You are a person, not a commodity. You're not for sale, you're not for service. Stop caring what he thinks and start caring what you think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:58 AM
9

No they aren't. You can google John McKinnon Miller and find his young pics. He was never a beefcake. Just regular cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:19 PM
7

You just tip them a quarter so they know you didn't forget
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:57 PM
32

A guy comes to a party, points out all the girls he fucked including the host, then demands an on-the-spot Yelp review from her in front of her husband, but OP's the one "being insensitive." Give me a break! LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:57 PM
37

I can believe it because I had to deal with the same thing. A guy watches enough Pornhub that he thinks he gets university credits in female anatomy for it. Who's he gonna believe, one picky lady and her own weird body parts and sensations, or 5,000 videos of porn actresses all acting like they like it?! (/s)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 07:38 PM
7

Yeah but that's also Justin Beiber
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 01:30 AM
8

This kid looks like Justin Beiber's loser cousin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 01:12 AM
4

Tbh this is one of those situations where hopefully the next cup of tea she makes him tastes a little funny and makes his mouth tingle. nite nite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 01:05 AM
9

He ruined her most loved space forever because he wasn't getting the money out of her that he wanted. That's what he did. He's laid off. She works. He used THEIR savings to buy a car already. Did she pay for that truck? What fucking else was he trying to get out of her? He realized she wasn't giving in so her oasis and Great grandma's plant had to go. He's a psycho. I hope she leaves him homeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 11:56 PM
10

"Ima peel rubber if you're an uggo. Hey, your silence upon absorbing my comment hurts my tender feelings sob"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:07 PM
14

Don't use your imagination to fill in all the holes in this picture and overblow the potential for this reconnection. Just keep in mind the following: 1) You weren't really friends before 2) you weren't really that flirty before 3) Both of you are on lockdown 4) connection not strong The entire country has gone insane right now and we all need friends and emotional support to help us get through it. Recognize that you and he likely both have this need, but also recognize that it'll probably be h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:27 PM
47

Oh sure, a "woman" wrote about the sad predicament of boys who aren't allowed to hit, make fun of or completely avoid women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:16 PM
48

It's like the dick version of people who only eat pizza and chicken tenders and gag at the sight of a healthy vegetable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:49 PM
7

If it were like Cosby there would need to be 50 guys coming out over the next 30 years, pointing out she likes to drug and rob them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 02:16 AM
-4

He's a good-looking campy yokel, let's not forget that. Face it, even at almost 60 with a mullet he wasnt that hard on the eyes. Didn't anyone else think it was weird that he could hook up with 19 year olds? He couldn't have done that if he looked like Stripclub Chucky, and all the interwebs wouldn't have thought he was a charming antihero. They would have thought he was the arrogant creep he is. In addition, he was benefitted by the most flattering editing and production job this side of the Ap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 02:14 AM
26

You should start carrying a tape measure with you and challenge them to a 5'11"-off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 02:05 AM
14

Exuding is overrated. First of all, you're talking about the gender that yells unintelligible things out of car windows at anything with a ponytail. Do you really think you have to try that hard? Just be yourself. Not everything needs to be soft and sweet, that's how people get diabetes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 02:01 AM
11

Probably uses that same fake-quirky line on every single woman. Prepare to be wooed via Mad Libs Wants a lady in the streets and a maid to wash his sheets (and clean and cook) So boring he can't even pick out a TV show Is an asshole but calls it "honesty", will shit on your feelings and then complain you're too sensitive when you expect an apology Will make you plan every aspect of every date and make you carry him around like a remora Fat, potentially depressed (tbh at least it sounds like this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:52 AM
38

This sounds like the romantic equivalent of a guy who goes to a restaurant and complains about the menu prices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:22 AM
66

Don't forget tall! How dare we have attractiveness standards, he grumbled as he swiped right across all the 25 year old hotties in sexy dresses with perfect makeup...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:16 AM
14

Needs a picture of a pair of Converse and an Untucked shirt or a "CoOl TsHiRt" with something like Star Wars on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:03 PM
81

Congratulations, especially on turning around those grades. No dude can ever make a woman feel as good as turning a D into an A does! A guy can try to mess with you but he will never take away your transcript!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 07:45 PM
10

Sounds like this asshole should be farther away from vaginas for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:19 PM
5

When men contrive to worship mass killers and promote the literal hatred and dehumanization of women, they "just need that space to vent." When women use a space to vent, it's taken as promotion of hatred and dehumanization of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 08:06 PM
44

This guy's idea of safe sex is making sure all the women he sleeps with aren't sleeping with other guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 07:29 PM
7

Here's the thing, though: The kind of guy who wants to split every bill because he's so worried about his bank account is also the same guy who will only worry about his orgasms and his laundry. They are never "eager to please you" because pleasing you doesn't benefit them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:08 PM
10

Gold leaf diggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:29 PM
14

"I refused to validate the relationship I was in to the person I was in it with, because she's a whopping 4 years younger than me. She dumped me and now I miss the relationship I refused to reciprocate"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:28 PM
16

The fault-escaping waltz: Step 1: I can't talk to you when you're angry at me because you're loud/argumentative. Learn how to act reasonable. Step 2: I can't talk to you when you're upset at me because you're emotional. Why can't you be calm? Step 3: How was I supposed to know you were serious about the problem you had with me? You weren't even upset or angry, I figured it wasn't a big deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:04 PM
5

Who knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 10:22 PM
2

Yeah, if there's anything none of us want, it's finding an overly good hair stylist! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 09:14 PM
8

I cannot shake the feeling that one day, I will wake up and regret not dating more people and "settling" for him. FTFY Men, in their late teens to mid-20s especially, are absolutely 100% convinced of the fantasy that because they have a penis, their ideal girlfriend is supposed to be a total dime supermodel and anything less is "settling". The good news is that most men grow out of this mentality; they realize that attraction isn't just based on who looks best in a bikini, and even if it is, it'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:47 PM
2

Meanwhile, strictly modded subs like r/AskWomen are treated like r/AskCaroleBaskin because they keep a high bar for question submission and responses. Sometimes it seems like overkill, until you sort by new and watch all the inkwell trash questions and comments come through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:35 PM
11

LVMs: "I don't want you to be the kind of girl that guys like me are addicted to jerking off to"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:29 PM
18

Just like a Rolex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:27 PM
77

Autistic dude with hair transplants and future of job in question seeks 20-something manic pixie third wife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:49 PM
29

This is not the behavior of a normal man who wants to get laid ever again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:26 AM
42

Just use the original meaning for guys who make 3x what their girlfriend makes but still expects her to pay for 50% of the bills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 05:02 PM
1

Dhshsg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 01:18 AM
17

Lesson to learn: Forgiving a guy for being a piece of shit will just give him an excuse to find out just how much of a piece of shit he can get away with being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 01:17 AM
2

Religion legitimized male entitlement. It is great that we're losing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 01:01 AM
191

Hopefully it smells like breakfast and cleaning at his house too, because you don't need tits to cook eggs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 11:42 PM
11

Hopefully he's taking Trump's medical advice in this picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:32 PM
54

Exactly. A woman's "small" dating pool is still larger than a guy's large one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:20 PM
47

So the only women in the world this guy sees are Asians and Mommy. Welp, that about sums it up. He's a real Einstein to boot, since apparently it's never even occurred to him to, say, attend a Korean church or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:46 PM
136

Exactly. It has to be something they find demeaning. Like "that's so cool, Trevor. Now shut up and hold my purse."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:02 AM
4

Joe Dirt-Broke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:31 PM
1

That's like going to the mechanic to put the registration tabs on your license plate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:27 PM
133

It came right after "Forsaking all others," so...not sure what that guy is trying to argue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:23 PM
36

I would absolutely punch that kid in the face and really give him something to cry to Mom about. Where the fuck is this kid's dad??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:10 PM
10

Because this isn't r/nothingNecessarySpeed4hates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:14 PM
18

Handsome barbarians who are actually quite self-educated on the arts and humanities once away from their men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:57 PM
37

Pretty sure there aren't large trafficking rings forcing men to dress up as earls and handsome pirates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:43 PM
19

Pretty sure I've never been so mad at a man I had to beat up a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 10:05 PM
3

Tell him he'll never get to phone home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 10:00 PM
3

She made him a hamburger at 3am and he stood over her criticising how she was cutting the tomatoes. She literally had a knife in her hand and he still walked away wondering what the problem was. He should count himself lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:57 PM
21

Being overly reliable is as dangerous in a relationship as it is in a career. In a career, if you're good at your job, even great at your job, you get rewarded and promoted. But if you're INDISPENSABLE at your job, kiss any advancement opportunities goodbye. Why is this? Because your employer already gets 110% out of you exactly where you are. And because you devote so much energy into maintaining your current role yourself, you might even make your employer think you're not capable of strategy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:51 PM
82

Yes, she is right. He won free flights and had her pay the hotel. They should have split the remaining costs. LVMs love to pull shit like this and then have the nerve to claim that women are "gold-diggers." Don't ever let a man call YOU a gold-digger for refusing to cover HIS costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:39 PM
42

If he is making significantly more than she is financially, he's actually using her for money and trying to deflect that fact back onto her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 05:26 PM
9

Massive Electra complex and self-infantilization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:59 PM
44

It reminds me of the Ann-Margaret episode of Mad Men, when Peggy pointedly asks what the allure is about a "25 year old woman who acts like she's fourteen." Same shit, different decade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:53 PM
2

Because if it's not already true, he makes it true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:50 AM
1

Nope, those are guy feet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:40 AM
20

Is he Shallow Hal? I would find that annoying in the same way I find it annoying when people say I look like I'm in my 20s when I'm twice that old. It's like, not only do I know you're full of shit, why do you think I would find that flattering, as if my current reality is an insult?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:29 PM
43

Maybe if you're 17. "Don't sleep with a guy on a first date" has been around for, I don't know, ALL TIME?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:57 PM
41

Working 12 hours a day for free isn't nothing, but at least they didn't have to fuck her to get the job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:46 PM
15

Because they're the expired Walmart meat of humanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:45 PM
92

"Somewhere or someone new to call home"? So basically he's living in a van down by the river until he finds some woman to leech off. What a catch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:35 AM
40

This is the kind of guy who hears the saying "couldn't get laid in a women's prison" and applies to be a prison guard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 01:06 AM
6

Exactly, it's like maybe the sugar baby budget isn't as necessary as the actual baby budget. 🙄🙄🙄 and Lauren sits there pretending it's cool. Sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 11:57 PM
5

Omg! What a toad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:29 PM
64

Jeff Lowe is the biggest LVM on TV right now. 60 something, bald as a cueball but tries to dress like a 20 year old magician, fake tan, dumped his wife for Lauren and at the end of the show is seen trying to pick out hot "nannies" while she's pregnant. Gross. Not even with stolen pussy! Although that seems to be his specialty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:35 PM
73

FDS makes you realize you've been subsidizing your LVM's effort with your own in order to feel loved, and that if you really love yourself, cut out the middle man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:17 PM
10

So...let me understand this guy correctly. He was raised in a "cultural and religious family" and he was able to let go of the concept of GOD, but not able to let go of the concept that his wife had a little dick before he did? I just saw the inside of my brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 01:28 AM
19

We're supposed to "filter" the evil dudes out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 01:21 AM
36

LOL, exactly. This guy sounds like he wants free porn. "Just take hot pics of yourself in your underwear." Okay, then just upload a pic of your W2 and your apartment instead wasting our time with your selfies taken from waist level in the front seat of your car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 01:21 AM
13

She needs to throw that wishbone into the trash and get a roommate. 50% of the rent and bills, 0% of the daily hit to the psyche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:14 AM
17

It's only cultural misogyny that defines women as lacking those qualities in order to deprive them of authority. It's the same as rich people calling poor people lazy and greedy and entitled for wanting the same material items, pay, and opportunities "handed to them" that are literally handed to rich people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:10 AM
22

NoT EvErY GuY! This guy's so fucking clueless he can't even grok that we're not aiming for not EVERY guy, but like less than even one guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:34 AM
18

Oh god. Not the "my wife doesn't understand me" line. The oldest one in the book! Don't be flattered. I bet he tries that line out on all the fresh meat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:11 PM
1

And I'm sure you're still resentful over the fact that your wife put out for Chad a week sooner than you. It must mean she liked you less! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:10 AM
2

Men only regret women's pasts, hence this post. This post is about the problems insecure men have with a woman's "past."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:49 AM
1

This sounds like the writing of a boy who thinks that a 3 month long relationship that got to sex is the deepest type of relationship he can possibly imagine. Stay in school, kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:47 AM
6

Maybe you're the whiny snotrag kid on the block and the ice cream man hates your face. He might feel obligated to SELL you ice cream as a paying customer but he sure as fuck doesn't have to GIVE you any, not even if he gave some to everyone else. Because you don't do anything to deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:44 AM
10

He has a string of failed relationships because he's a self-obsessed douche why worry about hurting the feelings of someone who clearly gives zero shits about other people's?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:09 PM
69

He must have been taking "sexy singles in your area" literally like it's some sort of migration path.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:57 PM
3

This doesn't sound like a "boundary." It sounds like someone who married someone else under false pretenses. His post clearly shows that he wanted to work on the issue and resolve it and his wife doesn't. That's bullshit no matter what your gender is. That would be like the sexual version of a guy who kept up his own house until he married a woman and quit doing a lick of housework because he figured a wife = a maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:31 PM
8

Your title is misleading. Apparently they only have sex 6 times a year on average. Plenty of people would be climbing the walls at that rate. This guy may be a jerk but if you can barely stand to fuck your spouse more than once every two months, why are you even married?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:57 PM
250

A guy gets to lay there and just enjoy the view. You have to do all the work while staring at his hairy feet. 'Nuff said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 10:35 PM
15

This might be an unpopular opinion, but everyone needs to ask themselves first if marriage is even something they want out of life. I support most of the ideas in this sub, but it still boils down to "pickmeisha" behavior if you're basically doing all of these behaviors only as a strategy just to get hitched. People can change after marriage. You can do everything "right" and still be unhappy or get divorced. And it may not be because your spouse turned into a total dick. You might find out that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 10:20 PM
134

I like how FDS is like "get us a greeting card ffs" and incels are like "women should be enslaved and executed, ER is my hero" and dudes are trying to say the two groups are identical. Better not tell Hallmark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:51 PM
12

A baby you obviously conceived while two-timing both women. 10 -9 = math isn't hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:39 AM
22

Yeah...he must have missed the 14 chapters that instruct that negging is supposed to be extremely light-hearted and very minor absurdity, Like "your lipgloss is trying to glue all your hair to your face, look out! Haha" Saying straight insults like "you'd be hot if you didn't have such tiny tits" used to be a fast way to get a kick to the nuts or a drink in the face, back in the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:33 AM
16

The only appropriate response to something like that would be "Who the fuck asked YOU?" That's a straight up insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:24 AM
38

If it's Russell Stover, It's Over, Russell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:00 AM
71

Ah yes, the endless materialism of a greeting card. The lobster dinner of paper!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:08 AM
4

Perhaps it's more like the incel-type mindset is a rapist's coping mechanism. It's a lot easier to justify being a bag of human shit if you can rationalize that you're being ViCtImIzEd By SoCiEtY in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:06 AM
6

Yessss! Ugh!!! So selfish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 11:28 PM
37

Charlotte was boy-crazy but also had the best boundaries. Carrie had horrible boundaries and didn't respect other people's that much, either. It pissed me off when Miranda asked her to be her post-LASIK buddy but then Carrie just blows it off and calls Steve in as a last minute sub-in. Didn't even respect that maybe Miranda didn't want to get enmeshed with Steve again and that's why she didn't want him there in her vulnerable state. That's the kind of friend-shittiness that gets you banned from …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:01 PM
20

Yes, he did do all that, and he didn't let his ego get in the way of accepting her help when she clearly had the industry expertise. Good point. I suppose on her end, her expertise told her he was a good "investment" from a professional standpoint, so even if they weren't involved she'd have been likely to want to rep him. But everyone should be "supportive and loving." That's the minimum standard for an SO! And also why Carrie wasted even that short amount of time on Berger - don't get me start…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:42 PM
49

Except even Samantha had to build Smith Jared basically from being a catering waiter into a movie star. Harry was the only self-actualized guy on the show. And Anthony, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:55 PM
72

Not to mention all the stupid, psycho shit she did like pick fights, stalk his mom, ditch her friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:54 PM
7

Especially since the more misogynistic/ incel types perpetuate a concept of demanding a "traditionally" submissive female partner while simultaneously portraying a traditonal male provider role as itself being "financially submissive." So basically these guys expect to be treated like kings for nothing in return, like spoiled three year olds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 01:30 AM
-8

Wow, two entire people.
/r/seduction22/12/12 07:29 PM
-7

Dude, it's speed-dating. Speed-dating is set up to expose the maximum about of people using the most minimal amount of meaningful interaction. It's basically a capitalized excuse for people who, deep down, really don't want to meet other people. If you want to stand out, wear a bright pink shirt.
/r/seduction22/12/12 07:08 PM
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