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themissdaydreamer · 2020-05-02T14:37:55+00:00

I just call them "emotional vampire", because they suck the life out of you and when you ask for some empathy they blow out a thousand bats and disappear

ello-motto · 2020-05-02T13:26:05+00:00

Also for those who expect you to be their mom. Cook, clean up, do the grocery shopping, take care of all holiday plans and logistics etc. Time is money and that’s what a real golddigger is after. Not a drink at Starbucks that you ask me to “split the bill” for, Brandon.

tslur · 2020-05-02T12:11:22+00:00

And then never reciprocate it. How many times have I sat across from a man, patiently listening to him talk about his goals, his dreams, his pain, and then realize, "Wow, this motherfucker has not ONCE asked me about myself. Not once did he try to get to know me. Not once did he dive in deep to understand me as a human being. And some of them, when you do try to express something painful, will turn it around on themselves or say something completely rude. They have no emotional intelligence. Women are so emotionally giving, but what do we get in return from men in that department? Most often, nothing. I used to feel good about helping others and understanding, but some people will use you for it.

randomgirlimok · 2020-05-02T20:52:56+00:00

Or dudes who want the woman to work full time and pay half the bills while doing the majority of the chores- essentially bring a live in maid and sex doll.

KillChildProcesses · 2020-05-02T13:49:35+00:00

Or just ungender the term. Plenty of men are gold diggers. The above sounds like a mommydigger but that doesn't sound as good.

idiosyncrassy · 2020-05-02T17:02:57+00:00

Just use the original meaning for guys who make 3x what their girlfriend makes but still expects her to pay for 50% of the bills.

drslvtr · 2020-05-02T12:43:25+00:00

Soulsuckers. They are called the soulsuckers.

timeknife · 2020-05-02T21:51:11+00:00

I think “leech” and “mooch” works just fine

marijne · 2020-05-02T15:11:36+00:00

Please yes! But also include in this definition men who expect the woman to do all the housework and taking care of the family.

bitchbaby1 · 2020-05-02T21:44:27+00:00

and any man that only wants a girl for sex/her looks.

Alcheologist · 2020-05-02T18:58:06+00:00

Oooo how about "soul digger."

TheCrowsHaveEyesIII · 2020-05-02T22:06:08+00:00

And physical labour. And executive function labor.

0kfornow · 2020-05-03T00:41:03+00:00

Great idea. Lets even the score on this term. All it takes is for people to start using it in their conversations...

"Kevin just wants someone to do all the housework and cooking, someone to plan his life for him. He's such a gold digger."

"Greg is a total gold digger. He barely lifts a finger around the house. Have you seen how he treats his girlfriend?"

199Night · 2020-05-02T14:12:48+00:00

Indeed

CHIQUIS-REDDIT · 2020-05-02T23:51:20+00:00

"parasite" says my sister in law... instead of using fancy words GOLD DIGGER

mypepsipussy · 2020-05-04T06:02:48+00:00

Every guy I’ve ever dated has cared more about MY status and earning potential than I ever have about theirs. Even though not to sound like a bitch but they were already pushing about their weight. I’m fairly attractive and honestly I have ugly short dudes a try because I thought they might appreciate me. Nup, they were just as ungrateful as the hot men so I will never date guys like that again. Cya.

TOO MANY Millennial men think women care so much about their money that they treat women with SO much disdain and contempt if they haven’t got a degree or work a low status job. I’ve had men give me snide remarks about my major studies. Young men are like, “well because of feminism it all needs to be 50/50.”

It’s a lot of pressure to be a young woman. Be expected to have a high status job, have a degree work full time AND be expected to raise their fucking child. 50/50.

So if a man puts 60/40 they cry about how unfair it is. Give me a fucking break. Especially when you can tell they are planning to most likely leave their wife in 20 years for a younger model because the baby boomers did it.

That’s the vibe I get from men these days.

VonZemo · 2020-05-10T15:02:05+00:00

This but honestly that’s an actual problem that as a guy I really hope we can tackle. Men really do kind of just bottle everything until we can blow up on somebody, unfortunately it’s just something that happens to a lot of guys whether it’s because of society’s view on men or not I really want men to be able to express emotions more freely so we don’t blow up and become a vampire

leialaughs · 2020-05-03T00:33:22+00:00

Anyone else read that too quick and get angry?

Title	🤷🏻‍♀️
Author	kumquat_fds
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Date	May 2, 2020 12:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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