| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 753 | Just desserts 🧁🍨🍮 | FDS MEMES | timeknife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 11:15 AM |
| 713 | I only have problems with Excel now 💅🏾 | FDS HUMOR | timeknife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:12 PM |
| 117 | Askwomen over 30 emphasising the need to protect yourself financially before and during marriage | STRATEGY | timeknife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:07 PM |
| 24 | How to Create High Dating Standards | STRATEGY | timeknife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:44 PM |
| 17 | Online Dating Trends during Coronavirus | DISCUSSION | timeknife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 07:36 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 39 | I need some helpAsk yourself if he would want you to feel bad or happy about receiving a gift. He gave you the present because he wants to see you happy and he could get the necklace for you. I think you’re feeling guilty because you don’t think you’re worth the effort, but that’s not true at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 09:00 AM |
| 13 | Vetting Updates: sad but not for meWhat? I think it would be easier to understand what you were saying if you used paragraphs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:58 AM |
| 15 | Why is the bar so low for men in the states?Not uneven abs! 😂🤣😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:53 AM |
| 66 | Even when not involved with one, a LVM ruined my dayPickme friends are the worst: They’ll sacrifice your friendship for male approval by: disclosing your secrets, as they rarely have something going on for themselves dropping commitments with you in favour of time with their ‘beaus’ put other women down to prove they’re one of the guys meet up with men in a pandemic for sex, putting their circles/communities at risk try to gaslight you into accepting shitty standards like they do They will complain consistently about how badly they’ve been treate… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:50 AM |
| 36 | Stop celebrating this asshole (details in comments)I see this comment x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:36 AM |
| 13 | Stop celebrating this asshole (details in comments)Hi OP, I only see the comment from the autobot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:07 AM |
| 5 | My Experiences with Religious MenThere was something I read, I will update once I have the source, that said that sociopaths and psychopaths tend to be religious men as it gives them cover for their bad behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Wife finds a strangers hairs on shower wall multiple times, husband pretends he doesn't know where they came from. Predictably, half the comments side with the husband, saying that the hairs are obviously from the air vents/street/a stranger secretly living in their attic. Full post in comments.This is like the opening scene to Doctor Foster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:07 PM |
| 12 | Jacinda hasn't tried to turn into a male version of what a prime minister should be. She's empathetic and polite, and communicates well while TAKING NO SHIT. Women can lead countries just as well as men think they canOmg people like that should be named and shamed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:06 PM |
| 7 | Askwomen over 30 emphasising the need to protect yourself financially before and during marriageI think it’s better not to beat yourself up about it. After all, you were doing the best you could with the information you had at the time. Also society has been very good at discouraging women’s self interest for a long time and it’s only with the internet that women from all stripes are able to talk to each other. Are your children all old enough to be out of the house? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 03:43 PM |
| 3 | You gotta know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em. DUMP HIS ASS!I have never seen such a prime archetype of the term “fumbling the bag” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:53 PM |
| 8 | I feel bad for the girls who'll be "inspired" by this. Everyone thinks they'll be that rare success case of the Adult Industry, never one of the many painful failures...The receipts! 🧾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:45 PM |
| 57 | Askwomen over 30 emphasising the need to protect yourself financially before and during marriage110% especially because women tend to put their careers on hold for the good of the family and children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:23 PM |
| 7 | You gotta know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em. DUMP HIS ASS!This is beyond “Am I the Asshole?” and has slipped into “I am dangerously dumb” The ex wife could petition to get a bigger child support payout based on this inheritance and here she is skipping into danger. This is why I can’t be friends with pickmes. They knowingly put the ones they love at risk because of their pathological need to be liked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:14 PM |
| 14 | i’m so glad this gave men another reason to generalize women and let them think they can do no wrongWill's mistresses were just more discreet. I think UnWine with Tasha K did a mini expose on Will Smith's girlfriend but it wasn't picked up by the news media because she didn't blab. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Why Men In Their Thirties Won't Commit — Solitary BeastIf you can do so, edit the link and replace it with the archive version. If not, delete the post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Why Men In Their Thirties Won't Commit — Solitary BeastNo worries, this is the url for it https://web.archive.org/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Why Men In Their Thirties Won't Commit — Solitary BeastOP (u/kht777) Please stop linking to posts on sites by incels. It's frustrating that because of this and the other post by this blogger being put here, this guy's now number 3 on Google for "Female Dating Strategy", while therealfemaledatingstrategy.com isn't even on page one. This is not strategic. Even copying and pasting the text can still have this effect. If you really want to show the contents of this external blog in order to critique it, then use the Internet Wayback Machine to create an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 11:59 PM |
| 22 | Reminds me of the BF who spat on his GF, now thisTo /u/zeldas_stylist: First of all, I want to congratulate you on doing the right thing and booking a flight home as soon as possible. In doing this, you have saved yourself from a further escalation of abuse. If you haven't already, please don't tell him that you are leaving: someone who tries to exert control over you like this would also not react well to knowing that he might not be able to any longer. What he did was a crime, and the fact that he recorded it means that he derives some sort … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | I only have problems with Excel now 💅🏾To me romantic isn’t equal to sexual I’m still not sure that gatekeeping is the term you’re looking for: Gatekeeping: the activity of controlling and usually limiting, general access to something This could be a positive thing in dating. See FDS. Future-faking: when a person lies or promises something about your possible future in order to get what they want in the present. It could be as basic as promising that they will call you later, then never calling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:56 PM |
| 2 | I only have problems with Excel now 💅🏾Ah. I wouldn’t say that situation you gave falls under gatekeeping though, more a rude way of expressing a lack of romantic interest in someone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:51 PM |
| 21 | This is just sadI was thinking the same thing 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 06:58 PM |
| 2 | I only have problems with Excel now 💅🏾what do you mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 06:29 PM |
| 4 | She's calling Dave Ramsey for advice on how to help her WILLINGLY UNEMPLOYED HUSBAND pay back ALMOST $60K OF UNPAID CHILD SUPPORT to 3 OTHER WOMEN. Why would you even marry this kind of person??? 🤯Yes. The fact of the marriage doesn’t necessarily change it automatically, but the primary caregiver can petition the court in circumstances where for example the marriage greatly improves the financial circumstances of the secondary caregiver, making the child support unfair. If one of the baby moms is wily enough, the lady on D.R. is in real trouble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:05 PM |
| 8 | She's calling Dave Ramsey for advice on how to help her WILLINGLY UNEMPLOYED HUSBAND pay back ALMOST $60K OF UNPAID CHILD SUPPORT to 3 OTHER WOMEN. Why would you even marry this kind of person??? 🤯Bruh wtf. I think all women need to be taught that if you are marrying a man who owes child support, as long as the mothers of their children do not get (re)married, YOU WILL OWE CHILD SUPPORT TOO. Your wages can also be garnished, as you are now being treated as the same legally. I'm not even sure if pre-nups protect from this. Ladies, please be careful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 11:28 AM |
| 11 | UPDATE 3: We've cleared our website application backlog! If you have NOT received an 8 digit code or membership approval - PLEASE READ!Well done ladies 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Ah cool! Makes a bit more sense now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 06:06 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Please tell me how it goes! I met my beau through online dating so I have a rather more optimistic outlook on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:56 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Would this be something like the hollaback! app? If so then I would advise looking at some of the pain points that other users have with the app and design an mvp that addresses them as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:53 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020I wouldn’t reach out to the ex wife just yet as he hasn’t officially expressed interest in you. It could be that he’s just a private person, but if he asks you out, that’s one of the questions you could ask. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:15 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020I saw a really interesting online dating concept and wanted to know if anyone here is using it. It’s based on speaking to people first before being matched. https://apps.apple.com/gb/app/sixx-blind-voice-dating/id1506870160 I’m not single so I can’t try it without getting in trouble 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:12 PM |
| 16 | Wanted to share another gem from my short stint on tinderIf all you have to offer is the physical, that is how you will be judged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:37 AM |
| 32 | It's sad to see how often women's good nature is taken advantage of. I hope we don't let LVM make us bitter, but that we become less naive and save our sweetness for people who will value and appreciate it.That’s messed up hun... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:51 AM |
| 18 | I'm not for everybody, and I'm not trying to be. LVM's lazy ways get them none from me.I don’t know why this made me laugh so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:04 AM |
| 3 | r/seduction shows us the real nature of menI have a question to ask about dtw, but we both have our DMs closed 😂. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 04:33 AM |
| 2 | I feel traumatizedThats great advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 06:44 AM |
| 2 | When you send a LVM manchild to the grocery store...Yikes. I don’t get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 06:14 AM |
| 5 | Be careful out there ladies! We must look out for our sisters, if we don't who will?There is an Instagram account documenting this called allabusersuk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:51 AM |
| 5 | Yet Another Kinkmeisha Learns the Hard WayExactly. Even though one of the witnesses who pulled him off was crying because of what he saw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:25 AM |
| 9 | Yet Another Kinkmeisha Learns the Hard WayLol no worries, white women get it too, with “boys will be boys, it’s just a youthful mistake, etc” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:22 AM |
| 30 | Yet Another Kinkmeisha Learns the Hard WayI think black women have long been conditioned into “protecting” men at the cost of themselves. If one looks at the differences in abuse, domestic violence, child molestation, child abandonment, etc between black women and women of other races, you’ll see that black women protecting men just means that men feel entitled to get away with more. It’s a really horrible mentality because it’s so insidious to place even tenuous relationships with men over the physical and mental wellbeing of black wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:58 AM |
| 43 | Yet Another Kinkmeisha Learns the Hard WayI think she’s trying to say that a white guy would be less likely to be killed by police, but I think you should call the police on abusers no matter their skin tone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:34 AM |
| 25 | like a mother!!! mad props to herI’m in marketing, let’s make it happen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:06 AM |
| -2 | Have you noticed how women who take the initiative are portrayed in western culture?Absolutely, and I get that. It also hasn’t escaped my notice that this fact isn’t being presented critically | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 01:22 PM |
| 8 | This guy sent a DM complimenting a picture of mine. I said thank you and I appreciated it, then he jumps to this... no thanks bud!Guys who use guilt to get women into bed with them are the slimiest on earth. People who are okay with receiving pity/guilt/coerced sex are messed up in the head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Have you noticed how women who take the initiative are portrayed in western culture?I think the portrayal you mentioned is deliberate. If women got to really choose who her suitors were, and not just from a pool of men who just so happened to approach her, it would actually be freeing. Women might not be afraid to look that really hot guy in the eye and give him an encouraging smile, or a wink, or a wave. All I can say is being someone who was assertive about approaching/ flirting has meant that dating was actually incredibly fun for me, because I sometimes got to choose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:06 PM |
| 25 | Have you noticed how women who take the initiative are portrayed in western culture?Exactly, which is why we shouldn’t be using Disney movies as a guide for how women live their lives. It’s embarrassing that a post shaming women is so highly upvoted here. Also if you’re a single woman living an unbothered life, you become: a witch who is good and is therefore at the whim of those who summon her or a witch who is evil and must be slain by the Male protagonist. Virgin, wife, mother, witch. These are the roles that Disney has for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:00 PM |
| 5 | Wife catches her husband paying for porn on only fans, which he lies about, but wife finds undeniable proof. REDDIT Scrotes tell her “it’s just porn” and manage to guilt trip OP into apologizing for being mad about paid porn subscription services. 🤦♀️This husband of hers is out of his peeny pulling mind. A joint account to pay for only gam’s?! Smfh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 11:46 AM |
| 2 | I found one! HVM stays with and cares for girlfriend of 4 months after her spinal cord injury.We love to see it 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 11:43 AM |
| 11 | Unloading all your baggage on a first date. On TV. 🤦🏻♀️She’s a spokeswoman for early menopause awareness so if you see her appearance as PR/ trying to raise awareness then she’s done a good job. I’ve seen her in a few magazine interviews about it as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 02:09 PM |
| 21 | an emotionally abusive relationship that later revealed he was taking naked photos of her without her consent and sharing them with his friends ..... this is why we need to empower ourselves and empower each other to RUN at the first sign of abuseI read into the case a while back. It wasn’t just his friends. He also sent it to a donor of the ballet school *edited for Autocorrect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 05:22 AM |
| 14 | 🚨 Sometimes it’s easy to spot the HVMs 🤷♀️ and the NVMs 🤡 just spotted this comparison and it just clicked..!I’m not the one making sweeping statements hun x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 12:27 PM |
| 10 | 🚨 Sometimes it’s easy to spot the HVMs 🤷♀️ and the NVMs 🤡 just spotted this comparison and it just clicked..!Oh really? 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:53 AM |
| 20 | hilarious- for the PickmeishasLadies, this is obviously satire. Clock the username on the screenshot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 05:07 AM |
| 88 | Pornsick boyfriend doesn't find his girlfriend sexy or beautiful because he's "been conditioned" to only appreciate porn stars.The use of the passive voice is so fucking pathetic too. You conditioned yourself into this, sweetie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 01:43 PM |
| 29 | Brother tries to blame sexually abusing his little sister on his ‘raging hormones’ his parents says it’s just a mistake. DisgustingThis situation happened to my best friend when she was 4-5. She remembers and doesn’t speak to her parents any more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 01:37 PM |
| 3 | When he is trying to rush things, but you know your worthI’m sorry. I just rewatched the Ted Bundy documentary on Amazon and then I saw your comment. 😅😇 My bad, sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 01:35 PM |
| 29 | Pickmeishas be likeExcept... As of 2017 in the United States, 84.4% of black women are primary, sole or co-breadwinners Pickmeism is a brain rotting disease. This woman is displaying a serious lack of observational and critical thinking skills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 09:19 PM |
| 11 | Proof is in the pudding. Don’t try and build a man.Cringed into the shadow realm is so apt and witty! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 09:05 PM |
| 18 | When he is trying to rush things, but you know your worthTed Bundy was actually quite ugly. This guy doesn’t have his weak jaw and monobrow Ted Bundy looks like George Bush junior during his second term. Unfuckable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 08:50 PM |
| 24 | 🤦🏻♀️ hAs iNtErEsT fOr sUrE 🤡Girl, send him your Venmo, then block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 08:48 PM |
| 17 | My (26F) boyfriend (35m) choked me until I passed out during sex, waited until he "finished" to check on meWell my kink is abuse shaming, whether it’s in a sexual context or not, so I don’t mind calling people out in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 02:58 PM |
| 94 | My (26F) boyfriend (35m) choked me until I passed out during sex, waited until he "finished" to check on meThis is attempted murder. If she’d died, would he have cared? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:03 AM |
| 7 | As a white guy you should be thankful I give you attention...As someone who’s both black and a woman, this is as tone deaf as Yoko Ono’s “Women are the N*gger of the World” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Where is a good place to meet a potential HVM?I would usually agree with a statement like this, but this is female dating strategy, not wgtow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:44 AM |
| 6 | Where is a good place to meet a potential HVM?You will find HVM and LVM in most places you go, so my advice would be to focus on what you want. My version of an ideal HVM was a man who was into rock climbing as I appreciate a man with a six pack who can enjoy his own company, so guess where I met the guys I dated next? I also met a few HVM men on dating apps. Despite how much women in this subreddit bemoan apps, the sheer quantity means you can be extremely picky and the initial investment is low. I would never find the HVM for me in a chur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:42 AM |
| 1 | My mom always gets so upset when I tell her, I won’t marry a Muslim dude even if my life depends on it. I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but as someone who spent years studying the religion, the whole thing is super misogynistic when it come to women.Omg the hotepery... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:20 AM |
| 5 | TwoXSex: Man sexually assaults a woman by ejaculating inside her without telling her. Predictable yet horrifying responses from both people.She’s not even a girl, she’s 23. Maybe she grew up in a state where education about sex wasn’t freely available, but I’m so sad that someone with the resources to find TwoXSex hasn’t been using that resourcefulness to educate herself about reproductive health | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:16 AM |
| 10 | KHLOE KARDASHIAN IS A PICK METhing is... Jourdan Woods didn’t kiss him. He kissed her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:10 AM |
| 8 | Men who claim they “can’t cum with a condom on” have been assaulting their brains and penises with porn. IMMEDIATE DUMP.That OP seems incredibly naive about the biology of reproduction and sexual relationships. She’s not got confirmation of free STI test results she’s still assuming the best of someone who assaulted her he didn’t pay the bill for the plan b She still wants to see him in person to do the breaking up despite him displaying a lack of respect for her body this relationship is just over two weeks old she’s breaking quarantine for this guy?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:00 AM |
| 101 | All over the world there are women and children are murdered by selfish SCROTES. Don’t give men the benefit of the doubt, ever. Don’t take a man back. Don’t give them the time of day ever again. SCROTES / LVM NEVER change and are seriously deluded.I really appreciate that you gave names to these women. So often the emphasis and attention is on the murderer. Thank you so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 155 | As a white guy you should be thankful I give you attention...That sub is cancer. With rare exceptions like this, it’s mostly reposts of misogyny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Why Are One Night Stands Being Advertised to Girls as “Strong and Empowering” instead of “Risky and Reckless”?That’s not what the OP of this post was saying. I think other readers would understand better if you let is know what you were arguing against. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 11:34 AM |
| 43 | Just left himCongratulations! Write down a list of all the things you wanted to do but couldn’t while you were together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Woman who was on “Catfish” three times finally snags her a man 🤡The reference to Catfish is already in the title of the post, so I didn’t mention it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:07 AM |
| 5 | Woman who was on “Catfish” three times finally snags her a man 🤡She was also on dr Phil. She’s not alright up there https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qbT_py-WSCg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 11:11 AM |
| 39 | Another example about how men could murder someone, but a woman stealing a piece of gum is just as bad (AITA post)/u/dianaczag you are not the asshole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:07 PM |
| 27 | Unbelievable, next-level Pickmeisha whose husband only chose her after he became paraplegicShe’s the kind of person that calls a debilitating accident a blessing in disguise. Not gonna lie, I’d dump her too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 01:46 PM |
| 14 | Unbelievable, next-level Pickmeisha whose husband only chose her after he became paraplegicI mean the way she describes his accident as God’s plan and a blessing is very creepy to me. I don’t think he’s the one winning here tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 01:42 PM |
| 7 | “Sure I pay the majority of the bills but like, he gets me nice gifts during the holidays!” Wtf else is he doing with all the money he’s saving???I hope her parents keep her inheritance away unless she takes a finance planning class or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 01:37 PM |
| 71 | DATE PARTNERS, NOT PROJECTS 👏🏻Lol I’ve never had to do this because I don’t date toddlers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 12:54 PM |
| 5 | Why can't some men at least try to understand women's struggles?Wow, it’s a mystery why women aren’t throwing themselves at him, he’s such a good listener and doesn’t project his insecurities unto women at all! Seriously OP, this guy is telling you that he’s no longer your problem, and is using you as a proxy for all the women who rejected him. You could be a complete stranger at a bar and his reaction would still be the same after you’ve expressed standards during a conversation. My advice going forward is to limit contact with this man... he is seething be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Apparently we’re praising men for apologizing for rape now. Comments say this apology “restores their faith in humanity” smhI’m just sitting here wondering why a self admitted rapist would be working as a victim’s advocate... The answer is on the tip of my tongue but I cant seem to reach it... I’m sure it’ll come to me sometime soon. Seriously though this woman has gone from pickme to dumbb***h and the male lurkers/larpers are only too happy to upvote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:23 PM |
| 9 | “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly but a woman is. After sex, a man IS thinking clearly but a woman isn’t” : Post-Nut ClarityWith women, besides hormones, what happens is the sunk cost fallacy. Every woman has an idea of which number (of sexual partners) is a lot and the closer she gets to it, the more she panics and tries to retro fit the guy she’s slept with into “must be the one” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Call her daddyThere is already one, kind of. Deborrah Cooper has over 100 videos and she is a true blue FDS woman. On average they are 40 minutes long each, so there’s plenty of material there. She also doesn’t sermonise, which Sheraseven tends to do. Her videos can be listened to without the need to watch as it’s usually her on a backdrop and she has plenty of videos that cover troubleshooting as well as strategy. She also has a lot of guests on her videos like therapists/psychologists etc. You can check her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 02:58 PM |
| 9 | Haven’t you been paying attention? I’m not interested!😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/6/2020Haha same! BI Analyst | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:23 AM |
| 15 | Man is upset for his sons friends hitting on his daughter, so he bans his son from having friends over.OPs post was removed by the mods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 02:45 PM |
| 69 | Man is upset for his sons friends hitting on his daughter, so he bans his son from having friends over.Lol if this happened in my family, my dad would offer my brother help with packing his bags. 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Research! Research! Research!Reverse Image search: - Tin Eye - Google Image Search (click the camera icon and choose “upload” or “image url” if the image is still hosted online) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 10:45 AM |
| 6 | Research! Research! Research!You wrote the post!! Thank you x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/6/2020Are you an analyst by any chance? Your pragmatism is very much like my internal monologue about dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 06:58 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/6/2020Please don’t break quarantine for someone who calls you disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 06:53 PM |
| 8 | Just desserts 🧁🍨🍮Thank you x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 05:55 PM |
| 11 | Just desserts 🧁🍨🍮Yooooo 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 05:53 PM |
| 9 | Searching a man in the court dockets comes through again.You need to write a post about how you do this. LVM around the country would be shook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 08:36 AM |
| 8 | Men get so madThis needs to be a new meme format | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating Trends during CoronavirusMy pleasure :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 08:33 AM |
| 1 | You’ve secured a HVM and after some time together, an unforeseen circumstance causes his value to diminish...Ah okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:55 PM |
| 10 | Online Dating Trends during CoronavirusFull text of article: ON A SMARTPHONE screen Rob (not his real name) looked good. Twenty-four years old, classically handsome, with a job on Wall Street, he was an attractive prospect on dating apps. Shepherding women from bar to bedroom was easy. Sex was on tap. Then in March covid-19 struck New York City and shut off the mains. It is a frustrating time to be single. Social distancing makes meeting in the flesh hard. Some people are still trying. In socially conservative Bangladesh, where cohab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 07:38 AM |
| 3 | Imagine being this delusional...Yep. The concept of a “traditional” marriage is quite shaky when you consider the history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 10:16 AM |
| 7 | Imagine being this delusional...*Rich men had multiple wives This commandment slyly protected richer male members of society, who could afford to have multiple wives. Agree about the women as property bit though, glad that’s changed in most countries but alas still a long way to go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 11:03 PM |
| 3 | This is extreme... Why would anyone willingly want to degrade themselves like this. Serious issues. Sad thing is god I used to be like this (from previous abuse its only thanks to FDS that I'm slowly starting to see my worth). I actually feel sorry for her. Pick me pick me pick me...This is either a man or A shrewd woman doing a native marketing campaign for her OnlyFans account | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:56 PM |
| 2 | No HoOkuPZzz I aM a SerIoUz peRsOn loOkiNg fOr a loNgtErM cOnCuBinEGraphic but hilarious 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:51 PM |
| 3 | No HoOkuPZzz I aM a SerIoUz peRsOn loOkiNg fOr a loNgtErM cOnCuBinEDirty hands and community willy. Goody! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:46 PM |
| 4 | It’s only beginningIt’s meant to be a display of humility. “Oh he’s humble too” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:30 PM |
| 4 | The AudacityTrolling thirsty men is my favourite pastime | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:29 PM |
| 19 | Why do men feel the need to correct women all the time?If only men dedicated the time they took mansplaining to actually spend time teaching their children... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:23 PM |
| 9 | How do I stand up for myself?~* I’ll post the same comment that I put for a similar post *~ You learn to internalise this mantra: “What’s in it for me?” This might seem selfish, but only because you’ve been raised to think: “What can I do for them?” It will take practice, and if you can’t afford a therapist I recommend you read some CBT workbooks so that you can adjust your thinking through your actions. I would also highly recommend reading through the FDS handbook. It’s linked in the automod, which would have been the fir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:20 PM |
| 97 | Anyone else have a pickmeisha for a mother, and therefore learned no female dating/life skills at all?You learn to internalise this mantra: “What’s in it for me?” This might seem selfish, but only because you’ve been raised to think: “What can I do for them?” It will take practice, and if you can’t afford a therapist I recommend you read some CBT workbooks so that you can adjust your thinking through your actions. I would also highly recommend reading through the FDS handbook. It’s linked in the automod, which would have been the first comment on your post 💙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:15 PM |
| 7 | The AudacityI always say yes and ask them to meet me at the parking lot. Then block and delete. No booty cometh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:58 PM |
| 25 | Am i the only one weirded out by grimes and Elon musks dating thing?The pronunciation is Kyle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:36 PM |
| 21 | If your man seeks space like this most of the time and gives the same attitude about it, give up and move on sis. It’s boring being with a moody, non-conversing, inconsiderate, stone-walling man child. He doesn’t want to spend time with you so leave itYes it is :) Mom just wants a break from the kids but instead her image is being shared on TikTok 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:52 PM |
| 183 | Imagine being this delusional...God found adultery so egregious that it’s the only commandment that’s mentioned twice. (Commandments 7 AND 10) ETA commandments Thou shalt not commit adultery Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour’s wife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:27 PM |
| 64 | Pickmeisha gets cheated on by her husband who is SLEEPING WITH HER BOSS 🤡 🤡An employment lawyer would be DROOLING at the prospect of this case. A divorce lawyer would use it to get an amazing settlement. OP could really secure the bag here if she has some receipts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes you just knowHad me in the first half, not gonna lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Woman wants to know if she's the asshole for putting puppy pads around the toilet because the 30 YR OLD GROWN ASS MAN she calls a boyfriend keeps pissing all over the floor. I FUCKING CANNOT, Y'ALL.😂 I yell laughed at this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 09:09 AM |
| 8 | When he doesn’t know how to count 6, Sis you made a wrong choice.Malicious compliance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 08:57 AM |
| 20 | When he doesn’t know how to count 6, Sis you made a wrong choice.I would laugh 😂, play along and then serve him the mini potato for dinner. I’m sure he would find it similarly funny tee hee hee 😂 /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 08:56 AM |
| 6 | Somethigs I hateThe median age in Dublin is 25. It’s the youngest city in Europe so you see more of the consequences of men having to put images on social media, and the men there are more image conscious and less macho aspiring. There is also more of a social expectation of being good ‘craic’ so the sense of humour is also much more my style. The sun does not help Florida men one bit but I thought the humidity would at least do them some favours? Damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 08:53 AM |
| 16 | You’ve secured a HVM and after some time together, an unforeseen circumstance causes his value to diminish...I mean, the definition of high value here is attitude and character, i.e. things within one’s control. The post is very vague - understandably to conceal your situation - but the only situation where I could see an unforeseen circumstance turning a HVM into a LVM suddenly would be a lobotomy or brain injury from an accident. Otherwise they’ve been LV all along and just bided their time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 08:48 AM |
| 261 | LVM caught in the wild.I can GUARAN-fuckin-TEE that this man, despite his longer hours, is still not the majority breadwinner of the household. Why do I know this? because he didn't mention it. chickenshit through and through, and I hope his wife sees the post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:55 PM |
| 4 | 6years with incredibly cheap but well-off bf who will never commit and resents paying for both of usI think you've done one of the most important things so far and you've reached out. There are three things you need to keep in mind: The validation that you receive from him being upset whenever you say you're going to leave is addictive. It makes you feel strong and loved, because he has spent most of this relationship making you feel like you're a burden. When you leave for good, remember that this feeling never lasts and that's why you're addicted to it. Try to move out as soon as you can, an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:44 PM |
| 11 | Simple but TrueFor the non-US residents: W.I.C means Woman Infant Child services. It supports women of lesser means that fall pregnant and helps support with infant formula and other nutritious food for mother and baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Man wants new GF to foot half the bill for him and his two kids. Throw the whole man awayShe was a side chick too? This story really has it all, smh. All she needs is a therapist to work through her Not-like-other-girls-itis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 08:54 AM |
| 9 | Great video about the dangers of stingy LVMDeborrah Cooper is fantastic as well as the Baggage reclaim woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:09 PM |
| 22 | Man wants new GF to foot half the bill for him and his two kids. Throw the whole man awayRight?! She’s been conditioned so much by society and this man to see herself as a tool to be used. She has no ability to put herself in another woman’s shoes it’s ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 11:18 AM |
| 5 | I can’t fathom the fact that this exact type of men are my neighbors, coworkes or a part of a friend group I’m in. This is why men can’t get a sense of the experience women face even remotely; they will likely never in their lifetime feel this unsafe, hated or belittled by a woman.Yep, he just sounds bitter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 06:16 AM |
| 10 | Being a pickmeisha isn't just about you - it hurts those around youI looked through OPs comments. The sister’s kids are imaginary. She is just jealous that OP is doing more with her life than she did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:43 AM |
| 136 | Man wants new GF to foot half the bill for him and his two kids. Throw the whole man awayThis woman’s self esteem is in the toilet. “Looking for a man’s opinion” because she can’t trust her own judgement any more “Twin Flame” she’s been brainwashed into thinking this soul sucker is her soul mate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:34 AM |
| 13 | 🤷🏻♀️I think “leech” and “mooch” works just fine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Let’s Talk About How to Discuss High Value Men On This SubDeborah cooper on YouTube has a series about raising boys and she is FDS pre-FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:00 AM |
| 26 | Just stumbled on this sub.. Oh Lord!I am hoping/praying this is a satire sub because he signs off his posts with Kind regards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 05:09 PM |
| 17 | Just stumbled on this sub.. Oh Lord!That’s manky as fuck. He wants to shag his own daughter wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 05:08 PM |
| 66 | Let’s Talk About How to Discuss High Value Men On This Sub“High Value Traits” fits well with the types of posts you’re talking about. “How to be high value” would be good for long form strategy posts about discipline, behaviour and goals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Wife with pneumonia and COVID-19 wonders if “she’s the asshole” for accidentally falling asleep while babysitting her husband who accidentally cut his fingerWhen she said “I didn’t take the bait and suggested we go to CVS”, I knew this NVM must bait her constantly This lady needs to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 08:04 AM |
| 33 | 35% of men in study admit raping female animals. Most many times over years. 30% group rape. All articles are primarily concerned that the rapists could be more likely to develop penis cancer. GOOD! Fuck men's sympathy for rapists. THEY DESERVE FAR WORSE.Omfg 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 07:26 AM |
| 8 | Super PickMeisha Cleans Boyfriend’s Mom’s Bathroom. No Ring after 13 years.In a way I'm glad that she's not married to this guy: - He lets her clean his mom's house - He isn't involved in the cleanup I don't feel too bad for her because at least she's making money from the content | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 07:46 PM |
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