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Maybe your first 100 approaches, but if you do things right you should start feeling like the photo above eventually.
/r/seduction23/08/20 12:51 PM
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If you are on an uneven playing field in your country (sexual marketplace value lower than it should be) than Tinder is highlighting this even more. If moving to another country might be too drastic of a solution you could start with learning to meet girl where at least you don't complete with 50 guys throwing themselves at the girl at the same time you do. The solution is learning to cold approach. Now might not be the best time for this due to pandemic, but once it goes away I would make this …
/r/seduction23/08/20 12:48 PM
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I am guessing you talk about Sliding into her DMs on Instagram? Well since you are focused on this one girl only then make sure before you DM her you get your IG in order. Make sure you have a good thumbnail picture, tight bio, some photos with other girls (to show her you have other girls interested in you), make sure you have value displaying photos and good engagement. The good thing about it is after you have done this work to charm this one girl, you can go on and message 100 more and this …
/r/seduction22/08/20 09:15 PM
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You do this by not waiting for interest from women, and by initiating contact. Don't wait for someone to like you, figure out who you like and go after them. The ones who will be reciprocal with you will end up loving you. Vinny IGCasanova.com
/r/seduction22/08/20 09:12 PM
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If she likes you she likes you, if she does not she does not. Initiate the conversation and be ready to lose her as a friend and walk away. Simple as that, tell her we have to talk, when she stops and listens, tell her I want to be more than just friends, you will get a yes or a no. Does not get any easier than that. Vinny IGCasanova.com
/r/seduction22/08/20 09:10 PM
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I was a 21 yo virgin. I see a lot of similarities in our stories. I am 32 now. You say you attract 5s and 6s. It was same for me. Why does that matter though? You should stop waiting to attract someone, go after girls you want. Learn to cold approach. Yes you will get tons of rejections, but eventually you will get women you want. Waiting and trying to attract someone is what women do, it was my biggest mistake. I was thinking, here I am good looking and fit, why do only ugly girls show interest…
/r/seduction22/08/20 09:06 PM
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There is nothing wrong for your brain to pick out unusual behavior. For example if you are used for 8s to reject you and then one of them suddenly shows interest you might think something is weird about it. The solution is have a bigger sample size, date more women. Maybe your self beliefs are based on your outdated version of yourself, when you were not as successful or onlooking as you are now and there simply needs to be a re calibration process. I had something similar in the past. For me it…
/r/seduction22/08/20 09:02 PM
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You remind me of a friend. A good looking guy at exactly your age, who deserves to date hottest girls ever, but has never overcome the shyness issue. I am only 32, but I broke through that issue 6 years ago. My advice to you if I may is to dedicate time to it. If the problem is big enough and the pain is real, dedicate real amount of time to it. Put yourself in a position where there is nothing else for you to do but this. What I did 6 years ago, was go to a foreign country with only one goal, t…
/r/seduction22/08/20 08:57 PM
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One of the worst places to approach a girl is at her work place. Pressure from her peers is not going to help. Think about it, she is a cute girl and she gets hit on much more than girls that is similarly cute who does not work with people. My question to you is, do you go to this store often? If not then go for it anyways. Nothing complicated, come back again, reference your previous conversation, repeat the complement from a different angle, and simply state your interest in her as a woman, by…
/r/seduction22/08/20 08:50 PM
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This is not impossible, it is just very very impractical. If your goal is to be friends, go for it, it might result into something else later, but if your goal is to get a girlfriend, or get a bang, you are losing your time. It is better to figure out a way to meet more women and state your intentions clearly, and if some of them are not interested from the get go, you need to meet more, and not try and spend years convincing those girls. The only way a friend will get interested in you as a guy…
/r/seduction22/08/20 08:45 PM
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Don't overthink it, you already have everything you need for success, attraction a solid lead and a plan. So sit back and enjoy. Only thing I would change is your optimism regarding getting a kiss only. Make sure you are ready for more than just this. Aim for the stars, if you fail you land on the moon. Aim for the bang. Vinny IGCasanova.com
/r/seduction07/07/20 03:35 PM
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What you need right now is not a dating advice, but some good life coaching. Women will not solve the issues you are having. You need to resolve the limiting beliefs and confidence issues, and then focus on women again. PM me, I think I can guide you in a right direction.
/r/seduction07/07/20 03:33 PM
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Well to learn Sliding into DM's and other Instagram tactics check out my blog. That would be a good start. To improve the daygame, also start with reading around and learning basics, and then get out there and practice the skill. Get a coach if you want to get there faster. Vinny IGCasanova.com
/r/seduction07/07/20 03:24 PM
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Give her I am confident body language. Moderate hand gestures, eye contact, firmly planted feet, straight back, strong voice. If you have problems with maintaining eye contact practice with people, when you walk down the street look everyone in the eyes, you will get better quick. Quitting porn improves that immensely too. Meanwhile look between the eyes. Vinny IGCasanova.com
/r/seduction06/07/20 05:09 PM
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Make sure you are as fit as naturally possible (lifting weights and eating well without taking any shit) and wear simple, but clean and tight fitting clothing. As long as your body looks good you can wear 9$ jeans and a 5$ t shirt and still look good. Fashion is a time sink, being fit is the best strategy. For looks, health and longevity. Vinny IGCasanova.com
/r/seduction06/07/20 05:07 PM
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If you study girl's social media you can tell whether she has a BF or not. Even easier than that, just ask. Not only you will get an immediate response, but it will tell a girl you are interested, and if she has any interest back things can escalate quickly. Vinny IGCasanova.com
/r/seduction06/07/20 05:04 PM
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Good stuff and important to know. I suggest another easy tip. Try to date more than 3 girls at a time. If you have to share your attention with many, you a naturally busy and it is so much easier to pull back, and stay relatively cold. Vinny IGCasanova.com
/r/seduction06/07/20 05:02 PM
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This girl sounds like damaged goods. Also don't date girls from the same social circle it is always a bad idea. Go get some online, or when Corona is over daygaming is the best way. Vinny IGCasanova.com
/r/seduction06/07/20 05:01 PM
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Escalate physically as soon as possible. But not aggressively, start with a socially acceptable touch and build. If you check my profile I have a detailed step by step post on this. I call it SATE technique. Vinny IGCasanova.com
/r/seduction06/07/20 04:59 PM
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During Corona virus, focus on your online presence. Instagram specifically, build it improve it. Improve your lifestyle to make it more attractive, create content. Then focus on online dating, any app you can think off plus sliding into DM's. Get as many leads as you can. When the virus blows over go on dates with the girls you pipelined. In normal times, daygame. Daygame is the king. If you learn it you can get girls every where all the time. It takes 3-4 weeks of hard work to master, but trust…
/r/seduction06/07/20 04:58 PM
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It helps, but it is not a must. Due to my profession I never had women in my social circle, it was hard to learn to socialize with women, but I did it all purely through approaching and grinding. Now talking to girls, cold approaching, talking to groups all is a walk in a park. It even improved how I socialize with men. It is important not to use absence of women in your social circle as an excuse not to approach. Vinny IGCasanova
/r/seduction14/05/20 03:13 PM
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By posting engaging and fun stories. Preferably with stuff that shows value.
/r/seduction13/05/20 11:51 PM
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Don't escalate over text. Get her on a video call then get her comfortable and then escalate. This way you can see her reaction and feedback on real time. Vinny igcasanova.com
/r/seduction13/05/20 07:26 PM
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No need for talking. Who know when this is all over. Does she follow you on IG does she see your stories? Wherever you can passively stimulate her by not addressing her directly is good. IG stories, Snapchat, WhatsApp stories, tictoc wherever she follows you. Create value displaying content warm her up overtime and only text her when quarantine is about to end. Vinny igcasanova.com
/r/seduction13/05/20 07:24 PM
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You don't want to dampen your response to this. This is natural. It is like saying I want to learn not to taste food. Not only this is nearly impossible unless you go full monk mode, but it is also unhealthy. Instead if I were you I would learn to concentrate on not showing the reaction this is easy. Just takes practice. And to control not to do whatever a girl wants you to do by flashing. This so also easy. Vinny igcasanova.com
/r/seduction13/05/20 07:22 PM
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I am a good looking guy. And this is somewhat true. Being a good-looking guy without game is worse than being an average looking guy without game. Girls are afraid of you, they treat you as a player, the play games with you you are clueless what the fuck is going on. Caused me to be good looking 6.4 athletic 21 year old virgin. Being a good looking guy with game though is a walk in a park. You have shitloads of opportunities once you learn how to deal with shit tests and disarm objections before…
/r/seduction13/05/20 06:42 PM
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I am guessing you are talking about first date. Most important thing is to start escalating ASAP slowly increasing as the date progresses. Choose a place where you can have relative privacy. Go for drinks instead of food. Even if it is coffee. Find a date spot you can use over and over again. Make sure you are seated next to the girl and no in front of her. I wrote a post on escalation during the first date it is 2400 words check it out Vinny igcasanova.com
/r/seduction13/05/20 06:37 PM
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I don't think online dating improves you as a person that much. The learning and improvement curve in online texting is just not that big. Texting is just a tool to set up dates this is where there is a lot of space for improvement. What you could do is improve your value. Your online persona your IG profile your photos. And not only improve the way you show yourself, but actually use dating as a motivation to improve and then capture results or process and share it online. So improve yourself a…
/r/seduction13/05/20 03:45 PM
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Yea man small detail huge difference. We are wired to react to faces not names not words. Good call
/r/seduction13/05/20 03:30 PM
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There is no such thing as non touchy girl, just take it slow. All girls like touch, some more some less. In my experience when a girl is entirely not touchy no matter what you do, she either does not like you physically or she is mentally taken. Means there is someone she has, or wants to have but cant. Her heart is full - in a more romantic terms
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:19 PM
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Body language is important. 93% of communication is non verbal. But it still matters much what you are communicating and who you are. So I say add body language, plus verbal communication plus value building and this is where you get best results. Vinny IGCasanova.com
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:08 PM
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I appreciate your dedication, but now is really a bad bad time for this. It is being "tone deaf" like sellinga TV to a blind person. I would say channel that energy in other things now. This covid time is a great time for self improvement. Increase your own value, create content on social media and girls will be easier to get when this blows out. Work out Read books on seduction and/or self improvement Improve your IG profile Get as many girls as you can now, by sliding into DM's as well as from…
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:05 PM
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In short stories. Which ever you choose, whatsapp stories, facebook stories, IG stories. IG is my forte - hence IG Casanova. Use IG stories to keep your leads warm. Get all the girls you meet on dating apps to follow you on IG, it is at times much easier than getting their number and much more efficient. Get them to follow you, it is a must, not you following them not them replying to your messages but actively following you. Once you do start posting stories. Anything that evokes emotion in you…
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:01 PM
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Getting a second chance with ex or with a girl that you failed to meet is always harder then just getting a new girl, but if you are really willing some things can be done. Since you operate on IG this is my area of expertease. 1st. Make sure she follows you if not, call her out, if she does not forget about it and move on. 2nd. If she does follow you, start posting value demonstrating content. If you don't have much to show, show the process of you achieving things. Eg. if you are not currently…
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:55 PM
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It is OK to be shirtless in places where it is socially acceptable to be shirtless, think pool, beach, boat. In today's dating it does not pay off to be shy, these are days of shameful self promotion! Vinny igcasanova.com
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:49 PM
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Any attention is good. If gay dudes stare at you it is attention, if older or younger girls look at you it is attention. Reality is that sometimes girls 18-30 are just too good at making sure you don't see it when they look at you. So take it as a compliment when anyone gives you attention. And use it to improve your confidence. Vinny igcasanova.com
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:48 PM
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Simple, use rules of etiquette to your advantage. Hold a girls hand when crossing the street, if she is surprised say law of attraction. Open doors, etc. Give an occasional cheesy compliment. Unless a girl is feminazi she will take it well and will approve that it is romantic. Vinny - igcasanova.com
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:46 PM
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Congrats, you are on a right path. Away from learning gimmicks tricks and routines and actually focusing on what I call - value based game. First improve yourself. You are 16 which means that girl of your dreams is probably just started going to school now, there is time. Improve your mind first - read. Read as much as you can, watch video on productivity and motivation on youtube. Develop growth mindset, I advice you look at channels such as Impact Theory. Improve your body second - go to gym, …
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:41 PM
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It only seems this way, but trust me, once you try it, it is actually a lot of fun. It is kind of like a game instead of not having any direction you just follow the steps. After few dates it becomes your 2nd nature and it is a lot of fun to girls.
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:32 PM
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I literally wrote a post on it 10 days ago, your luck In short it is important to gradually build to the kiss through out the date and not just wait till the end to pull the plug I call it Socially Acceptably Touch Escalation or SATE You start with socially acceptable touch and build during the date so by the time you have to kiss a girl she is more than ready and accustomed to your touch. https://www.igcasanova.com/how-to-kiss-a-woman/ Here check out this step by step guide, 2400 words of wisdo…
/r/seduction12/05/20 04:21 PM
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1st quit porn it really really affects the way you interact with people. Helped me big time. That is the easiest part. Rest is harder and takes longer term. Confidence is a representation of what you think about yourself, meaning it can be affected by stuff like childhood trauma. What worked for me back in the day is powering through my anxiety and getting good results, which later on reinforced my confidence. I know now it is a wrong way to do it. It is better to identify what is causing low se…
/r/seduction03/05/20 12:28 PM
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I wrote a post on escalation few days ago https://www.igcasanova.com/how-to-kiss-a-woman/ It largely applies to you. In short start touching as quick as you can. 2 steps forward 1 step back if she resists. Slowly build touch intensity and she will respond. Since she is your ex it might either be very easy - if she is not seeing anyone at the moment. Or very hard if she is seeing someone and decided to be committed. You can also do a lot of damage with verbal escalation, especially if you bring h…
/r/seduction03/05/20 12:13 PM
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If you don't want the commitment of messaging her daily yet you want her to still be "warm" when Covid ends I suggest you just make sure she follows you on IG, and then you can keep her engaged with a daily story. This tactic is good if you are dealing with more than one girl especially. Also it shows a bit less interest on your side then talking to girl directly all the time. Depending on the types of stories you post you can boost your value in her eyes as well. For example if you post stories…
/r/seduction03/05/20 12:09 PM
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Learned to cold approach. This is a game changer that brings unlimited amount of women in your life. Learned how to create and maintain attractive online persona using Instagram. Learned how to maintain girls engaged passively, and message me instead of me messaging them, by posting fun and personal IG stories. Learned how not to give too much attention to any one given girl in rotation, by simply having a lot of girls. Learned better how to understand my own masculine nature and explain it to g…
/r/seduction03/05/20 11:49 AM
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Just getting you guys ready for the end of the quarantine :)
/r/seduction02/05/20 11:32 AM
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During the date start slowly escalating with touch. Touch her hands, and work your way up from the wrist to shoulder and then back. Touch her hair, whisper something in her ear. Smell her perfume, get comfortable with escalating with socially acceptable. I call it SATE technique or Socially Acceptable Touch Escalation I have a 2400 words post on this subject https://www.igcasanova.com/how-to-kiss-a-woman/
/r/seduction01/05/20 04:07 PM
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I have read no such book, however I have an advice, get a girl or a girlfriend who is borderline frigid. Couple months of trying to get her going and you will become an expert. When girls ask me how did I get so good, this is my reply. Frigid girlfriend for few years.
/r/seduction27/04/20 02:36 PM
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Yea. But those are hard. It is like going for a bang and skipping a kiss. Unless you want to pay. I would say the best chance for a spontaneous threesome is a houseparty, of which preferably you are a host. Lots of alcohol or even drugs might help, but this is not something I personally like.
/r/seduction27/04/20 02:35 PM
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Tried them all my friend. Multiple LTR's not doable without lying most of the times. Open LTR normally include open form both sides which is not an option. In threesomes you get the powerful argument of you are bisexual - I am not. We can enjoy this together. And it is for us not just for me. This makes a huge difference. I had up to 7 regulars at one given time, you just get tired of low key lying cause if you keep things entirely open girls drop off. My post is based on me working hard for 10 …
/r/seduction27/04/20 02:33 PM
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Thanks for being a whiteknight and allowing other guys to get the girls you want but can not have. How do you say a guy should establish a connection with a girl if he never breaks the ice and starts a conversation be it online or in real life?
/r/seduction12/05/19 05:46 PM
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Step 1. Build your Instagram. Get more followers using bots improve your album by adding unique value displaying pictures. Pretty much a portfolio of best things about you. Make sure you have at least 50% of photos with you in them. Photos of travels, photos of hanging out with friends, photos displaying talents, photos with hot girls. Step 2. Find a lot of girls to message, it is a numbers game, you will have to message 10 girls to get 1 meaningful reply. Automate the girls finding process usin…
/r/seduction01/05/19 02:47 PM
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I used to be a 1 photo on Facebook kinda person. When I started to look into Instagram as a dating solution I realized that it could serve as a portfolio for you. For example you can put all the best photos of you or photo outlining best values you have and they will be there for girls to see and appreciate. For example if you meet a new girl while daygaming she will only know very little about you apart from your boldness to approach your looks, manners voice etc. If you go for Instagram close …
/r/seduction01/05/19 02:30 PM
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Here is step by step video on how to slide into DMs https://youtu.be/XITRt4q5GAc
/r/seduction14/04/19 04:29 AM
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A lot of time Instagram is better than a number but not in the case if girls account is private. Make sure you tell her to follow you back, or even follow you when you are still talking so that she will receive your notifications. She is either busy or simply does not like you. Pending request is better than rejected request however so it can be both at this point.
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:13 PM
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As Instagram Casanova obviously I am a bit biased, but I have been using Instagram for dating last 3 years, and I think it is the best choice. Here is an example story of Instagram vs Phone number. I daygame a girl in Kiev metro during a trip there, had no signal so could not add her on IG, instead took her number. What looked like a great approach and great lead turned to be a flake. Slowly declining reply rate and interest. Then I asked for her IG and her interest revived. Girls just need visu…
/r/seduction12/04/19 02:38 PM
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When thinking about DM's on Instagram most people concentrate too much on opener or what to say and too little on how to present yourself and overcome Instagram limitations.
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:38 AM
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I wrote a post about sliding into DMs few years ago talking about this subject in detail. First of all it is always smarter not to concentrate too much on one single girl. Maybe she has a boyfriend, maybe she is lesbian or maybe she is just plain busy an non interested. The wider net you cast the more results you can get. There are billion people on Instagram after all. You have to understand that unless the girl actually follows you she wont get your message in the inbox, it will go message req…
/r/seduction20/02/19 05:34 PM
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I wrote a post about it few years ago talking about this subject in detail. In short open with a compliment. If a girl likes you she will reply something, a smiley face at least. I am not to obsessed about the text game and all of this BS, just concentrate on your IG being as value displaying as possible. The higher your value - more followers, more engagement, photos from cool places, photos having fun, photos or videos displaying talents and achievements - the higher is the change she will lik…
/r/seduction20/02/19 02:19 PM
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In short Instagram seductions works. Half of the girls I bang come from online Instagram online game and even when I daygame I go for Instagram close. It allows you to do much more then just a number, you can build a better connection if a girl follows you and consumes your content. No regarding to your original question. It depends. You have to be mindful of a good boy bad boy balance. If girls in question liked you as a good guy, they will be angry and might drop off if you are a player and th…
/r/seduction20/02/19 02:09 PM
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Well try it, if she said no settle for a social media, Instagram for example. If you stay in touch via social media you will have a change to build a better connection overtime, if you are active there.
/r/seduction20/02/19 01:59 PM
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I used to be this way before. I can't really give you a very specific instruction cause I could not put a finger at the moment where it changed for me. However the culprit is dating a lot of girls, and having success with it. What you need to do is get rid of this sense of importance and then things will fall in place. Not an easy solution I know but it is true. ​ Funny example, I remember when I was around 16 a girl was looking at me in the bus and I got so self conscious, I was worried about h…
/r/seduction17/02/19 12:39 AM
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Being nice to you is her job. Avoid approaching people like that. Like a cute girl offering flyers in a mall, will get literally every guy trying to go for number. Because approach is not cold. Better suggestioni it to wait till it is late night and bar is about to close. If she is still giving you attention, then you might try to bounce her somewhere after work.
/r/seduction16/02/19 03:12 PM
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Save some money and go to south east Asia. There the girls will be attracted to you cause you will be taller and whiter than guys around you. Once you get over your virginity and fears things will get much easier. Thank me later.
/r/seduction16/02/19 02:55 PM
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Thanks for re-posting my video. I am here to answer any questions guys ;)
/r/seduction15/02/19 08:03 PM
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