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| 1 | The reason why men think women are lying when they personality matters a lot is because they mistake personality for characterMost relationships aren’t great. You can be dating and feel miserable every day. It’s very common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 08:10 AM |
| 1 | The reason why men think women are lying when they personality matters a lot is because they mistake personality for characterThank you for putting this into words! I believe that most people have a decent personality but I personally value character more for dating. For friendship, personality alone is enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 08:10 AM |
| 9 | Would you date a feminine guy ?I used to chase men because I thought this is how I could get the man I wanted. It wasn’t about me having no respect for myself. I wanted hotter men. But they were not looking at me. Back then I didn’t know that they make a difference between pretty and gorgeous. I was pretty. I thought it was enough for a man to be attracted (but there are different levels of attraction) Then after studying the male psychology, I changed the definition of “men I like”. The man I like is now: a man who pursues m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 09:28 PM |
| 8 | Building myself up again, after letting a man take it allHe didn’t take it all. Don’t you worry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 09:17 PM |
| 7 | Double StandardsYes they know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 09:16 PM |
| 18 | Double StandardsNo. They want a top notch woman that has no standard . Which doesn’t make sense since part of being considering top notch is having high standards. It’s like landing a 6 figure job with no qualification. It doesn’t exist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 09:16 PM |
| 14 | Worth the wait!What’s crazy is that our standards aren’t even that high. And it would benefit them as well to meet them. It’s all about having fulfilling relationships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 09:14 PM |
| 5 | If you don’t meet him half way he really does go all the way.It’s very important to understand why a thing has to be like this to actually do it. When you explain people why it’s benefitial to them and can back it up with science , they do it with no resistance I used to be against letting the man pay for all dates once we re married. Until I watched a podcast from a divorce lawyer. And he explains that if we pay with our joint account, I’m paying with my own money. The man isn’t seducing me anymore. Which is terrible because the relationship works well o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 09:13 PM |
| 6 | If you don’t meet him half way he really does go all the way.Second month | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | What are according to you the top 3 things that make a man addicted to you ?Block them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 08:23 PM |
| 2 | What are according to you the top 3 things that make a man addicted to you ?It’s crazy how they call it “love “. If they were abusive that was not love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 07:56 PM |
| 0 | What are according to you the top 3 things that make a man addicted to you ?HV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 07:55 PM |
| 19 | What are according to you the top 3 things that make a man addicted to you ?THIS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And when you leave they act surprised because other pickmes would yell but stay. As a high value woman. You don’t yell. You just leave ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 07:54 PM |
| 5 | What are according to you the top 3 things that make a man addicted to you ?(When I was working with men )I was surprised by how so many of them were attracted hot women who didn’t have a good heart but who were hot and hard to get. (Personality comes wayyyyyyyy later). For the initial stage, just be hot and hard to get | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 07:47 PM |
| 2 | What are according to you the top 3 things that make a man addicted to you ?Why do you date leeches ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 07:35 PM |
| 5 | I lost hope in love and running into a HVM has changed my life.Yeah. Meeting his mom 2 months in is super early no ? 2 months in I want to meet your friends, and favorite colleagues. Not your mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:04 PM |
| 3 | I lost hope in love and running into a HVM has changed my life.I liked that he didn’t try anything sexual. But I wasn’t sure why he talked about friendship and then love. Men don’t change their mind like that. They come for the looks first. So, maybe they were not attracted physically but they gave it a go because of lack of options or OP was chasing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:01 PM |
| 15 | OC: I decided to do a little gender swap on that horrible meme. I’m not a cartoonist but I hope you enjoy it! 🥰Im dead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:38 PM |
| 10 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?The skills that make you stand out in life and in dating aren’t taught at school. I’m from Europe and almost everyone has a diploma. University is free. I impress more people by being in personal development: studying relationships, social skills, négociations, entrepreneurship, spirituality etc. I’ve been told so many times that I was super intelligent by men since I’m doing this. They were not saying this when I just had my bachelors although I was good at school too. But being good at school … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 06:53 AM |
| 7 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?Oh waow! Interesting Why it makes them less attracted to you if you aren’t attractive ? Because they are hating on you for not being hot first of all and making more money than them ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 06:43 AM |
| 5 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?She’s a real FDS Queen. Her comment belongs to the handbook to be honest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:59 PM |
| 11 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?Realest comment out there. Also, it doesn’t matter if they aren’t thousands of them. We only need one. If a mod sees this, I would love to get it pinned as the top answer I agree that other women aren’t my competition because most women don’t do FDS and completely forget to act like the prize when the man is a catch. Not only that, they rely on what helped them get LVM when getting a HVM to be addicted to you requires a lot of knowledge about the male psychology and self control HVM have more ch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 05:59 PM |
| 16 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?From established families, they have family pressure to deal with They don’t marry for love only, they marry for assets New money can be different for sure. In my country, I’ve seen women with new money (like entrepreneurs) dating men who make Less than them but are still successful. As an entrepreneur, you don’t need to flush yourself a big salary. You keep most of the money in your company (since you can deduct all the expenses from the taxes ) and you pay yourself an average income. Other stu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 05:06 PM |
| 12 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?That’s what I was thinking as well. They are either handsome with no money/drive/decent personalities but not HV Not handsome with no money nor drive decent personality LV with nothing LV with money I might need to make a new man myself lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 05:05 PM |
| 3 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?😂😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 16 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?The whole point of being rich and famous is to have a top notch woman. Their official women are there for their image and it helps them stay disciplined somehow (they are kinda forced to have serious girlfriends because it helps them stay focused ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:34 PM |
| 9 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?I feel like you have all kind of people. Some women date unemployed men. Some women don’t mind chasing men. And there is a difference between being completely dumb and not having a doctorate. You can have meaningful conversations without having big diplomas and still be pure joy to be around. If your roommates like spirituality/philosophy, then yes I understand why he wasn’t happy with his ex. I used to work with a lot of men and some were dating women who were making a lot more money than them … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:29 PM |
| 33 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?If he doesn’t respect you, you leave. Education has nothing to do with school. I learnt more from books than at school and I have a bachelor degree :). I get a lot of compliments on how hot I look but also how smart I’m from men. You want to add dimensions to what you already are. Even if you’re super smart, if that’s the only big quality that you have, it gets boring. For the relationship, I found out that to keep the chase going on, the man needs to feel like he can lose you anytime. Most wome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:56 PM |
| 35 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?I watched a documentary about soccer players. They were saying that in the restroom, it’s a ritual to show pics of the girls you’re currently banging. If she’s hot, other men respect you more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:52 PM |
| 28 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?Yes. Because just by mastering those social etiquettes is how contracts are signed in business. A business dinner is like a game (like te one we have in courtship. You have specific ways to take business cards, specific ways to smile, to eat to compliment ). You want a partner who can bring value to those dinners whether you’re a man or a woman. If you are successful, you want a partner who understands what it takes and helps you become even more successful. My friend is friend with men who come… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:32 PM |
| 16 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?Yeah. They don’t necessarily want you to be super successful the way they are. But have your own thing at least for long term relationships (for sex they go with you as long as you’re hot) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:20 PM |
| 30 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?I’m watching another video of hers where she says that some men came at her when she was a matchmaker calling women gold diggers. But when she would look at those men, they had nothing else to offer than their money so they could only attract gold diggers 😂 Basically LVM with money want the model who isn’t a gold digger HVM with money wants a HVW with looks and achievements/money too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:25 PM |
| 10 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?Successful # HVM This is the point the video didn’t mention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:16 PM |
| 49 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?Oh yeah. They said nothing about HVM. Just successful with money. The pool gets even smaller for us lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:14 PM |
| 29 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?My friend has dated a successful man. Shes hot . She was challenging at the beginning and then she stopped being a challenge. She didn’t have a job when they were dating and wanting to go back to school to learn new skills. He was telling her that finding a job would be better. He would pay for everything but I feel like he wanted someone making good money (maybe not as much as him but good money). His next girlfriend is a designer for Chloe and he seems happier with her . I feel like being hot … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:11 PM |
| 91 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?I agree with her when she says that we want the top notch men as we become top notch ourselves. The reality is that there are more top notch women and not enough top notch men :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Don’t text firstWe are all the 10 of someone and the 3 of someone else. That’s ok. It only takes one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 10:06 AM |
| 7 | My friends hvm bf never let her payWhat do you mean by Fuckboy ? Not into commitment and making it clear or a really bad person that you don’t want as friend. I think people can change. From decent to high value (was my case). I’ve never met anyone going from trash to HV. I don’t stay that long to see the change so I don’t know if it happens | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Do HVW feel lonely?I want a presence of my HVM in my life but I don’t miss him since it looks like he doesn’t exist yet lol Actually, there is one area I’m working on to be ready for that HVM. But if I stay at home too long without going out, I feel lonely. Not from men but just human connection and doing exciting things. Hope this helps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:14 PM |
| 8 | Don’t text firstIt’s so exhausting for us women because we aren’t wired to do the chasing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:28 PM |
| 9 | Don’t text firstYou’re missing the point but I’m dying 💀💀💀😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:22 AM |
| 30 | Don’t text firstI’ve posted in the past on r/askmen about not hearing from a dude. Some men were telling me “why don’t you text him ? You are also capable of communicating “. They all say stuff like this when there is not a lot of attraction. If I was their male friend talking to a hot girl they would all say “bro!!! What the f are you doing!!! Message her !!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:21 AM |
| 7 | Don’t text firstDelete his number, go out and let new men approach you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:18 AM |
| 22 | Don’t text firstThey don’t message you if you were a “why not”. Like, they got a confidence boost on that moment and saw that the pick up line worked on you. They think “cool, I’ll try with the next girl “. Source: I saw my male colleague do this to a girl working in another department. When he got her number he was already telling me “she’s not super hot but why not “. Only go for those who think you are super hot. It will be less people but it doesn’t matter. You just want to be worshipped by one special dude… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:16 AM |
| 6 | Don’t text firstEverything starts with you. I don’t feel insulted anymore by a mans behavior. Asking me out last minute shows that he doesn’t respect HIS time. Not mine (since I don’t have to accept it) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:14 AM |
| 9 | Don’t text firstI feel so sorry for men that aren’t at this level of maturity. The rest of their lives must be so chaotic. It feels so great to know that you are emotionally mature! And you get that self esteem boost with little things like :arriving in advance to a meeting or just reading personal dev books. It’s not that hard to level up slowly but surely. Anyway, I don’t feel like I need to raise someone’s else child since we all have a brain. If you don’t need to tell me that a blow job would be nice, I don… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:11 AM |
| 4 | Men Have Become Utterly Delusional!For his defense he said that he offers some programs for men to level up in all areas. In the beginning he mentioned that he asked those men if they have a good job and are grounded in spirituality. He did show hot women without mentioning their career/mindset etc. Even if he focused only on the looks of those women, I don’t feel threatened at all. It’s just a pic. With make up , FaceTune and the right angles most women can take gorgeous pics . Looking pretty is not that hard for most women! Wha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:36 AM |
| 14 | Men Have Become Utterly Delusional!Jordan Peterson killed me when he talked about women who are in their 30s, successful, gorgeous looking for a similar match. Those women when they meet a catch, want a child today. He explains that this is why men around 30 date younger women (25-26) because they don’t want marriage immediately. He also said that there a not a lot of men around 30 that are at that level 😂 I did a carpooling with a dude last year. He told me that there was a study showing that men had more chances to get a relati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:33 AM |
| 21 | Men Have Become Utterly Delusional!Omg!!! This should be the slogan on OLD sites. I find it incredible that I spend more time hearing men saying that they want this and that in a woman. But I never hear them say what they are improving to get that high caliber woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:09 PM |
| 44 | Don’t text firstI watched a video on relationships of Katya Henry. She said that she had to remind her ex to buy her flowers for Valentine’s Day. Some men get to date women like Katya and still treat them like shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:06 PM |
| 35 | “Stop accepting what you don’t want to settle for and go find you someone who can give you what you want.”Can’t believe that celebrating love is a compromise. My brother just got a baby. He organizes a party every month for his child. Men who don’t want to celebrate you aren’t in love. When you are in love, you don’t think about not celebrating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:04 PM |
| 9 | 'Sex work is work' doesn't prove anythingSome women love it. I watched a documentary on it once. And one woman hated it but she said she was addicted to how easy it made her money. Remember that you don’t just love money, you get addicted to how you make it. This is why entrepreneurs open new businesses all the time instead of going back to a 9-5. They just love the game | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 04:06 PM |
| 5 | Religions?The “men must provide for their families” would be a beautiful thing if it was there to emancipate women and help them choose the career path they want . Unfortunately it oppresses them. The man provides so that the woman doesn’t have financial freedom and can only put up with his BS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻You can never work on yourself too much. There is no limit. What you need right now is a therapist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻I’m sorry about the pain you feel. But the mindset that you have here, is not a mindset of a HVW that wants to attract a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻You have men that want you. They are just not high value. This is why we create this sub. We focus on HV offers only | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:17 AM |
| 3 | The myth of the “honeymoon phase” 🙃It’s the time they need to fall in love/know you’re his future wife. I’ve seen men knowing they wanted to marry you after 2 months and deeply fall in love after 3-4 weeks (the woman played her cards extremely right and knew how men were. You just need to push the right emotional button to stimulate them. The pickme they leave is not already prettier than the FDS Queen, she’s just emotionally stimulating ). Wanting to marry you, is like an epiphany that comes to them. They dream about you a lot, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Men are rooted in nothing more than oppressing womenWe want men whose lives are deeply rooted in morals, values and integrity 🗣🗣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 08:26 PM |
| 5 | The myth of the “honeymoon phase” 🙃It’s like when they say that women hate sex after marriage. It’s not the marriage. The sex was bad before marriage .The woman was faking it. We can’t fake it forever so we just end up avoiding sex . It’s not marriage. The sex is just bad 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 08:20 PM |
| 35 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻Yes. It’s written in our DNA actually. The female is looking for the best mate since she only has one egg available. Look in nature how the male needs to seduce the female to prove himself. It’s the same for us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 08:00 PM |
| 8 | Haha, it's a struggle out here... We be blocking and deleting left and rightHow you do one thing is how you do everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 07:21 PM |
| 6 | The huge contrast between the hobbies/leisure activities of guys and girls I knowTake it day by day queen. Sometimes just taking a shower is a victory | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 07:16 PM |
| 1 | The huge contrast between the hobbies/leisure activities of guys and girls I knowI remember going on a date with a dude. He spent 20 mins in the bathroom. I started to think that he left to let me pay lol Then he came back. I thought that the bathroom was full. It was my turn to go and there was barely anyone. He was just on his phone. I don’t understand this habit of checking your phone at the toilet. Unless you’re a president or a big CEO, no one needs you this much. He was certainly just watching IG stories. I remember that he would take some time to answer my texts but w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 07:10 PM |
| 22 | An interesting read! Haven’t read the whole book but it certainly sounds intriguing, and will be next on my audible wish list!Best thing I’ve read today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Neurochemical reasons why a woman should not sleep with a man until after he has fallen in love with her, and how to train your brain to fall out of love (hint: block and delete scientifically works!)I’m reading this again And something came up about a past love of my colleague. She was in an abusives marriage. She left her husband and reached out to his ex when she was still a student. He was married with 4 kids had his own company. He was never in love with his wife but still in love with my friend. Well, my friend was living on the other side of the world. When she reached out, he left his wife, shut down his company and moved with her to the other side of the world. All that in less than… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Men lose a HVW and spend their whole life trying to replace her, while remaining the same LVM.I watch him. I like him :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 04:25 PM |
| 20 | Neurochemical reasons why a woman should not sleep with a man until after he has fallen in love with her, and how to train your brain to fall out of love (hint: block and delete scientifically works!)There is that couple that I follow on social media. They’ve been together since high school and now there are in their 30s. They made a relationship video and the man explains that when he saw her the first time at church (they were 13) . He already thought she was the most beautiful girl on earth. They broke up many times but you could sense it was the girl breaking up all the times and the man loved her more. He would say “she was the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen”. And you hear her say “… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:15 PM |
| 9 | Neurochemical reasons why a woman should not sleep with a man until after he has fallen in love with her, and how to train your brain to fall out of love (hint: block and delete scientifically works!)High school! Waow !!! Why do you think men have a longer time processing this ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:05 PM |
| 22 | Neurochemical reasons why a woman should not sleep with a man until after he has fallen in love with her, and how to train your brain to fall out of love (hint: block and delete scientifically works!)I honestly think that they are obsessive because OP was rejecting him. If she changed her mind and became a pickme , he would lose interest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Just thought this was funny (not sure what to flair it, but oh well)Women need to empower themselves and ask for more. Some studies show that often times men make more because they ask for more. They apply for jobs they aren’t qualified for whereas us women don’t feel worth it if we don’t check all the box. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:41 PM |
| 24 | Men lose a HVW and spend their whole life trying to replace her, while remaining the same LVM.It’s so crazy how it affects their brain when you do all the work. It’s certainly like us when he’s tall and has a good job but still let us pay for ourselves. We think “what a beta” and lose interest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:37 PM |
| 34 | Men lose a HVW and spend their whole life trying to replace her, while remaining the same LVM.They aren’t self aware / educate themselves on psychology. How many dating coaches do you see online selling women programs on how to keep men interested vs how may dating coaches do you see making videos teaching men how to keep us interested ?! For men , it’s all about managing to sleep with us. I don’t see many videos teaching them do be quality partners . This is why I only date men who read self dev books. There are no videos on that but at least when they learn to be high value in their ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:35 PM |
| 31 | Men lose a HVW and spend their whole life trying to replace her, while remaining the same LVM.The worst part is that he’s constantly thinking about his lost love. Thinking about tactics to get her back . You aren’t in his thoughts at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:31 PM |
| 10 | Is there a reason for women to get married - set me straightFor social recognition I agree: people are less likely to say anything negative about your wife than your girlfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:24 PM |
| 10 | Is there a reason for women to get married - set me straightIf he’s a HVM then yes I recommend marriage. You are protected if he dies. Imagine spending 10 years with him, he dies in a car accident and you get nothing. The boyfriend of my friend had 20k in savings. He was living with her and her parents for years. He died from cancer and she got nothing. With marriage you would have something. It’s the proof that the man loves you Studies showed that there is a difference. When married, you make more effort for the relationship to work because you both in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:19 PM |
| 30 | I'm so tired of being aloneAnd 37% of the people who are about to marry, know that they are marrying the wrong person. My friend divorced 2 years after her marriage. She knew before marrying that it wouldn’t last but she wanted a party | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:03 PM |
| 47 | I'm so tired of being aloneThey are so good at picking up insecure women. It’s insane. Even when they have dated a HVW (and she dumped him because of low effort ), they go back to a pickme and give them subpar behavior. They don’t think “with Sarah, I learnt that I was a LVM. I’ll become a HVM from now on and be great with the next woman”. They don’t necessarily think “I want an insecure woman”. It’s actually the insecure woman who wants them since they chase them. Since they don’t have a lot options, they say yes to the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:56 AM |
| 17 | I'm so tired of being aloneDon’t fantasize on other people crappy’s lives. It’s fucking hard to have an healthy relationship with someone . Think about how hard it is to have a healthy relationship with ourselves already (no shades to you queen but if you post stuff like this you still need to work on your core confidence/ self worth ) Most people date just to date. Just to say that they have someone. The goal is a FDS marriage/relationship. Not just a relationship. If I just wanted someone, I would go on tinder and find … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:53 AM |
| 29 | I think I hit the goldmine here. “Imagine how a man feels thinking that you are scared he will rape you.”Yes, women are superior to men. We have less ego, are closer to our emotions, we are less shallow, we look way hotter than you, we don’t validate ourselves through sex, we can live without you whereas you die faster when you don’t have a wife in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 07:55 PM |
| 9 | Question: When a woman messes up against a guy. What is an acceptable action of earning his trust back VS He's using her mistake to abuse her/resentment is growing.A changed behavior from the girl and the complete forgiveness of the man. If he knows he can’t forgive and have an healthy relationship, it’s better to break uo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 07:44 PM |
| 40 | they did it to themselves. 🤷🏾♀️They are so fucking insecure. Way more than the biggest pickme you know. They are just good at hiding it. But they are terrible when it comes to process their emotions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Reason #235643 why we say men should like you more than you like themYou think he never cheated ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:24 PM |
| 6 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outMy male colleagues would tell me how much they hated paying on dates and telling me that so and so bought them a drink. I started to think that men would be attracted if I paid for them on dates. Looking back I was feeling very masculine When I was doing it 😂 I’m a girl damnit ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:51 PM |
| 10 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outExactly. You can’t be Rihanna and chase at the same time. There is something wrong. You must hide something. be a psycho on the inside or try to get something out of them (get him to commit murder for you something like that. But it’s not real interest ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 12:13 PM |
| 8 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outRead the rules. Act single basically with a rich inner and outer life. I’m not married but this is my plan based on what I see other women that are workshipped by their husband do: Basically, you keep on educating yourself on the male psychology so that you always have the upper hand on him.you keep on reading self help books too so that you’re always growing and he needs to keep up with you otherwise you dump him. A FDS Queen only dates a man who is conscious and growing daily. You challenge yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outYeah! I see this now as practicing dating. I practice those skills even with men I don’t really like. So that when the perfect catch come my way, I don’t go back to my pickme ways because being hard to get became an habit. A true FDS Queen could sleep with a man fast but still have the man chase her after sex. FDS is a mindset. With some EQ and education on the male psychology, you will know what to do naturally. Before FDS We were all doing FDS naturally with men we don’t like too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 10:45 AM |
| 11 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outThis guy is sick. Yes, they aren’t madly attracted by this behavior because they are wired for the chase. It has to be a bit difficult. A lot of men have told me that they ADORE the chase. They ADORE women that are hard to get. I saw some men still chasing a girl who replied to their texts one week later . As long as you’re hot and they feel like they have a chance , they will chase | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outI was really confident in myself when I was asking men out because I thought this is what I was supposed to do if I wanted my dream guy. That’s not true. What I needed to do to attract better men was becoming a better person (looks, fitness, intellectual life and spiritual life). As long as I seem friendly they talk to me. Just don’t be aloof and be friendly with men you don’t like so the entire room thinks you’re approachable. They aren’t that shy. They just need to know that you aren’t a bitch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 10:38 AM |
| 17 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outI’m dead! What they mean is “I dream of Rihanna asking me out”. But they know that a girl on the level of Rihanna doesn’t chase men. They know that they need to take care of their shit if they want a Rihanna to look at them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 10:36 AM |
| 4 | Wife benefits vs girlfriend benefitsI want my eggs cracked 🐣 and my name dropped 💎💍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 10:18 PM |
| 8 | Wife benefits vs girlfriend benefitsThey need to give us something substantial 🗣🗣🗣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 10:11 PM |
| 31 | "It's wrong to expect men to provide for you! Men are under so much pressure to provide, it's not faaaair! pAtRiArChy hUrTs mEn tOo!"Even if he makes less than you (which is common nowadays), he still needs to pay . It’s not about the money. They need to do small things for you to bond. A dinner a week is small. You’re not asking for a car every year | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 08:39 PM |
| 7 | Happy Friday. Remember, know your worth.I love the “good night. “ So high value | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 07:21 PM |
| 13 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outThey really love it for sure! Some of them aren’t aware that they love it, but their brains do . They are wired like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 07:20 PM |
| 30 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outI watched MJ Harris interviewing his male friend around sushi. That friend said “if a girl chases you, there is something wrong “ I had many male colleagues . None of them fell madly in love with women who chased them. They would have sex with them, but it was never their first choice . They would dump them immediately once they get better. Their Brain is like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 07:17 PM |
| 11 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outI used to do it too. It has never worked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 07:15 PM |
| 77 | "It's wrong to expect men to provide for you! Men are under so much pressure to provide, it's not faaaair! pAtRiArChy hUrTs mEn tOo!"I don’t let them pay for that. I let them pay because that’s basic psychology . Their brain doesn’t value what they don’t have to work for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Wife benefits vs girlfriend benefitsI LOVE being taken care of when I’m sick so I feel it’s ok to give back on this one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 06:05 PM |
| 4 | Wife benefits vs girlfriend benefitsOh yeah I expect him to also help me with my goals. I mean if I’m not passionate about let’s say mechanics but his goal is to work in that field, I won’t necessarily read books on that stuff but I would check threads here on Reddit and send it to him or buy him books about it. If I marry him, it means he’s also doing this for me if not more. I don’t marry just to marry, i want a power couple where we both become more powerful and help one another accomplish their lives mission. With 2 Brains we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:54 PM |
| 4 | On Personality Psychology & HVM/LVM CharacteristicsI totally agree on your point on the HVM who follows through is also more apt to make more money. The best man I dated was making good money and displaying HV behaviors. Taking me to nice places but also picking up a bottle on the floor that wasn’t his to throw it away on our date. I would talk about celebrities that do surgery and he would tell me “whatever make them happy”. I went to his country on my own and told him that his brothers would hit on me non stop and he would reply “it’s certainl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:19 PM |
| 3 | On Personality Psychology & HVM/LVM CharacteristicsI absolutely love how you break it down but in that case we could say the same thing for a LVM who gets the same results. The safest bet is still to get to know him :). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:14 PM |
| 8 | FDS, crushes, and redirecting your resourcesIt’s very common to marry colleagues . Since we spend 40 hours together . But I understand you. It’s better if it’s like a huge company and you are from different departments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:58 PM |
| 15 | FDS, crushes, and redirecting your resourcesI’m immediately turned off when the other person doesn’t ask me anything about myself. Your best education is to get male friends and see how they go after the girls they truly like. My male roommate had no bed in his room. He didn’t want to buy one as he was moving soon. When his girlfriend living abroad came to visit him, he bought a bed You don’t even need to read the handbook. Get male friends and watch them chase their dream girl. They sweat /get angry when you haven’t replied to their text… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:57 PM |
| 33 | Reason #235643 why we say men should like you more than you like themEven when I was a pickme, i knew that my ideal man would be a man who loves me more than I love him. It’s the only kind of relationship I noticed the woman is happy and stress free | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:50 PM |
| 10 | Wife benefits vs girlfriend benefitsWhat do you call emotional exclusivity? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:49 PM |
| 8 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?Therapy if you can afford it. Otherwise, just by reading more stuff about the male psychology you stop being that insecure. They are more insecure than you this is why they act low value. They don’t have as many options as you think. Why do you think they keep messaging you back once it’s over ? Once you understand that they validate themselves through sex, you understand that as long as you have a vagina you are actually the one who has the power | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:39 PM |
| 14 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?Stop being friend with them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:37 PM |
| 17 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?The rules are the same sis ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:36 PM |
| 3 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?Most of the time, they aren’t even that funny. They are just making fun of other people bc they are insecure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:36 PM |
| 42 | *internal screaming, forever*I have no words. You’re not even asking him to make 6 figures | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:33 PM |
| 2 | What surprised when I had mainly male colleagues was how much they knew exactly what they were doing in dating (WAY more than me. Actually, back then I could not put into words what I was doing, it just felt or didn’t feel right). Look like this dude was one of my male colleagues 🙃Move in with family or date a high value man. You don’t need to settle. You can save money and be surrounded by love. It’s compatible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:45 AM |
| 3 | What surprised when I had mainly male colleagues was how much they knew exactly what they were doing in dating (WAY more than me. Actually, back then I could not put into words what I was doing, it just felt or didn’t feel right). Look like this dude was one of my male colleagues 🙃Sending hugs to your husband. He’s a real one 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:37 AM |
| 9 | What surprised when I had mainly male colleagues was how much they knew exactly what they were doing in dating (WAY more than me. Actually, back then I could not put into words what I was doing, it just felt or didn’t feel right). Look like this dude was one of my male colleagues 🙃This is the whole point of dating. If you don’t worship the floor I walk on, you aren’t my man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:25 PM |
| 12 | What surprised when I had mainly male colleagues was how much they knew exactly what they were doing in dating (WAY more than me. Actually, back then I could not put into words what I was doing, it just felt or didn’t feel right). Look like this dude was one of my male colleagues 🙃That’s what I thought! Why not get a roommate instead ?! It’s the exact same thing Well no, it’s different , you don’t have free pussy with a roommate and rent is more expensive since you pay for a room x) with the girlfriend rent is cheaper and again, free pussy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:07 PM |
| 18 | What surprised when I had mainly male colleagues was how much they knew exactly what they were doing in dating (WAY more than me. Actually, back then I could not put into words what I was doing, it just felt or didn’t feel right). Look like this dude was one of my male colleagues 🙃Edit: I don’t think they think of themselves as being a bad person for leading women on. They just think “I’m not in love so I won’t do that”. Without it having anything to do with morals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:00 PM |
| 36 | What surprised when I had mainly male colleagues was how much they knew exactly what they were doing in dating (WAY more than me. Actually, back then I could not put into words what I was doing, it just felt or didn’t feel right). Look like this dude was one of my male colleagues 🙃I don’t know (personally) anyone who is madly in love with their partners 🤔🤔🤔🤔 Except maybe one friend but that’s it. She does FDS unconsciously (she s indépendant and knows that she’s attractive. She only dated rich men when she was younger. I feel like women who only go for rich men have a higher level of self esteem . The minute they stop getting attention (compliments, quality time, gifts etc ) they leave) If I date it’s because I want to be WORSHIPPED. I’m not your roommate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:53 PM |
| 18 | What surprised when I had mainly male colleagues was how much they knew exactly what they were doing in dating (WAY more than me. Actually, back then I could not put into words what I was doing, it just felt or didn’t feel right). Look like this dude was one of my male colleagues 🙃This is exactly what I thought. They must hate themselves so much to actually stay with a girl they don’t just like not LOVE. The minute they break up, they are already looking for someone new without healing. Studies showed that they can’t live long alone. They need a woman in their lives. Men live longer and heal faster from cancer when they are married. Us women live longer when we have female friends. I don’t feel like men value friendships that much. When their male friends have someone, th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:50 PM |
| 15 | What surprised when I had mainly male colleagues was how much they knew exactly what they were doing in dating (WAY more than me. Actually, back then I could not put into words what I was doing, it just felt or didn’t feel right). Look like this dude was one of my male colleagues 🙃My friend from high school wanted to move in with her boyfriend but he said no when they were still living in a small town. He said yes when they both moved in to the capital city. (Rent is more expensive 🙃🙃🙃🙃) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:48 PM |
| 61 | What surprised when I had mainly male colleagues was how much they knew exactly what they were doing in dating (WAY more than me. Actually, back then I could not put into words what I was doing, it just felt or didn’t feel right). Look like this dude was one of my male colleagues 🙃Most women are completely clueless about the male psychology! I suspect one of my male colleagues of doing this as well. He ended up moving in with a girl that he wasn’t initially attracted to. We were all working in the same company. The girl was chasing him. They became really close and one day the got intimate and started dating (the sex was great). He moved in with her very fast. He had child support to pay. He would always complaining about wanting a raise etc. He mentioned once that his dr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:23 PM |
| 10 | An advanced Pickme spotted in the wild, commenting unironically:One of my friends feel sad for men that pay on dates. She would even call me out for wanting a man with status. Well, she ended up getting pregnant with a man who didn’t want to spend money on their first child and gave her 2 babies without being in love. They finally broke up and she wants him back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Entitled guy in red sees women as objects and can’t bother to use protectionI don’t think that a man that doesn’t care about getting a woman pregnant and disappearing cares about me being satisfied in bed. Most married women aren’t satisfied in their sex lives | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Lately I've been questioning my sexuality because I realize I'm not actually attracted to +95% of men.I didn’t see it like this for this specific case. But I feel like women have more tools to look better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:55 AM |
| 1 | How to be a femme fatale.How many femme fatales do you know ? The multidimensional thing isn’t just for a man. It’s for yourself. You feel richer when you do more than what you usually do. I feel richer when I learn more about let’s say physics when I’m usually reading nutrition stuff for example. When I worked on being more feminine, it mainly helped me at work and with my female friends. It wasn’t initially aimed to attract men. It still helped . Again, a win somewhere is a win everywhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:34 PM |
| -1 | How to be a femme fatale.Do what works for you :) A lot of those stuff are based on psychological studies. I didn’t make it up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:31 PM |
| 0 | How to be a femme fatale.Lmao! This is only if he has potential. If he doesn’t you should have blocked him already | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:31 PM |
| -2 | How to be a femme fatale.I did and read the rules and other books on the male psychology! Those tips is if he’s performing well until now. The handbook is more on how to vet IMO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:23 PM |
| 17 | Lately I've been questioning my sexuality because I realize I'm not actually attracted to +95% of men.I’m picky too! Most men aren’t attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:06 PM |
| 33 | Lately I've been questioning my sexuality because I realize I'm not actually attracted to +95% of men.Women are more attractive than men. We have to accept this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:05 PM |
| 33 | HVM love FDSIt’s true that there aren’t so many HVW out there . A lot of them are big pickmes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Women are the center of men's world. Let's act like it.The power of now And the mans guide to women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Women are the center of men's world. Let's act like it.Books :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Women are the center of men's world. Let's act like it.Just check my answer above :) I explain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:07 PM |
| 7 | Women are the center of men's world. Let's act like it.In ancient civilizations the divine was represented by a feminine figure. Women were literally workshipped. Women are closer to enlightenment than men because we are more in touch with our emotions. Male energy is all in the mind, the ego. As we lost touch of our divine nature, and the world became more ego driven, we started to represent god by a WHITE MAN. This is why we have all the racism and sexism we face today. In the past we had paintings of black divinities but they have been destroyed … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Is there anyone on this sub from Scandinavian countries + Germany doing FDS ? Have you been successful?I don’t even feel comfortable for a passionate kiss on the first date so let alone sex 😱. I can only do a small peck and rubbing your hand for 3 sec max in a row. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:38 AM |
| 5 | Is there anyone on this sub from Scandinavian countries + Germany doing FDS ? Have you been successful?It’s true that it sounds US-centric. Like all those dating rules come from English books /US dating coaches. But it’s based on science/psychology so it works on all men. It’s basically how dating used to work back in the day without women being doormats and financially dependent . It’s a good combination of what was good in the past and what’s good now I was just curious about how Scandinavian women who want a FDS relationships were navigating through it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:13 AM |
| 5 | Is there anyone on this sub from Scandinavian countries + Germany doing FDS ? Have you been successful?There are a lot of stuff . First Be multidimensional. Choose 3 qualities that you will develop to its extreme. It’s better when it’s qualities people don’t except you to have. If you are extremely hot and dress like a princess, people don’t except you to be like a gamer. For example I’m a sexy fit chick but I’m also very intelligent, very spiritual and very playful and has a strong sense of self/self awareness and core confidence. You want to combine extreme feminity with a bit of masculine trai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:08 AM |
| 16 | Women are the center of men's world. Let's act like it.Men who have a rich outer life usually have a rich inner life. My male colleagues were not doing anything special to attract women. Most men don’t. They just TALK and are entitled | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:07 PM |
| 36 | Women are the center of men's world. Let's act like it.Of course they do. They all know that they need to make more money to attract better women. Men that approach me the most are successful men. Those who don’t have much find me intimidating . I know because their friend would tell me “he likes you a lot but is too afraid to talk to you. I ask him daily if he talked to you today and he says “no. I don’t know what to say””. That same dude was a Batman so he was getting numbers easily ( of low value women I guess). The friend we had in common was te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:05 PM |
| 4 | How easily do you orgasm?Try to do more sports. It teaches you body awareness. This is why it’s usually the women who are the most active that are the most confident in their bodies. Regardless of how it looks like. It’s by focusing on how it works that you live in your body and not your head. This is how you will be more feminine. Being in your head is a masculine thing. The girl just receives . What I do is I take a step back, stop focusing on what’s happening outside of me and bring the focus inside and then I ask my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:00 PM |
| 14 | How easily do you orgasm?Live in the moment. Orgasms aren’t scarce so no need to rush. It’s more of a mindset shift | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:21 PM |
| 9 | How easily do you orgasm?Stop the vibrator. It’s too intense. Doctor Ruth talked about it. Check her on YouTube. She said that she asks her patient not to cum with a vibrator. Try with your fingers only. Lie on the stomach. Also check psalm on YouTube. She’s from mindvalley. She made a video on all the breathing exercises you can do if you can orgasm. What worked for me was: lying on my stomach and breathing heavily as if I was getting ready to orgasm. The brain works like this. You must make him believe that the event … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:13 PM |
| 238 | Make him work for sex, not just before you have sex the first time after commitment, but all through the relationship!Foreplay for the next intercourse starts at the end of the last orgasm . It comes in form of flowers, phone calls to check if I’m having a great day, dinners, gifts 🗣🗣🗣🗣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 57 | Women are the center of men's world. Let's act like it.I used to work with men . It’s crazy how all their conversations were about women. I would watch them chase, talk about that hot girl who doesn’t text them back. Get nervous when a girl is ignoring them but still like them a lot. Spending hours on tinder in a hope of getting a match. Dancing when they get one . I told myself that if a man doesn’t behave the way my colleagues did with the girls they liked, I’m not interested | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Is there anyone on this sub from Scandinavian countries + Germany doing FDS ? Have you been successful?I find German men SO handsome. Well, at least when I was a pickme. I haven’t interacted with any German man since I stopped traveling around. But they would always be my first choice as a pickme. I was seeing my friend getting male attention and buying them stuff, ask for their number so I thought it’s how I had to do it too. I’m so ashamed now hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:43 PM |
| 4 | Is there anyone on this sub from Scandinavian countries + Germany doing FDS ? Have you been successful?My German friend (the one I mentioned) was getting TONS of male attention because she would play so many sports. She never had to use dating apps . She was fit , blond and out going. It’s Easy to meet men under those conditions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:40 PM |
| 6 | Is there anyone on this sub from Scandinavian countries + Germany doing FDS ? Have you been successful?I’m dead I’m laughing but I went on an ice cream date too. The waitress asked if we were paying together. The man looked at me and said nothing. I understood that it was just the beginning of a beautiful friendship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Is there anyone on this sub from Scandinavian countries + Germany doing FDS ? Have you been successful?Tell her that bringing them where you live is not acceptable. It’s very dangerous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:35 PM |
| 9 | Is there anyone on this sub from Scandinavian countries + Germany doing FDS ? Have you been successful?FDS is the only way I want to live. You can be lazy and the man will fall deeply in love and you have nothing to do . You need to trust tho because some tactics take a few days/weeks before you see the results. But it works. It’s insane. The best dating coach o know says that there is not a lot of women who know how to truly magnetize a man. I agree. Most women don’t do FDS and are emotionally desperate and take it for “empowerment “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:33 PM |
| 17 | Is there anyone on this sub from Scandinavian countries + Germany doing FDS ? Have you been successful?Of course there won’t be a proper date after. If you accept low effort, his brain understands that you’re ok with low effort It doesn’t matter how modern society is now. The brain is still the one of a caveman. They need to chase | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 08:58 AM |
| 1 | I am a pickmesha and I'm marriedHi! I found this video on YouTube that gives you ways to make money from home. You literally just need a computer and internet. You can teach English to a Chinese kid, transcript YouTube videos. Some people are mKing $1k/month with just this. You could leave your household sooner than you thought https://youtu.be/VFEEyKllFRI | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Until you’re engaged, when you make plans for the future, always start your sentences by “if we are still together by [ insert month/year], we could go to xxx“We do FDS naturally when we don’t like the man too much. Once feelings start to grow, we become pickmes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:58 PM |
| 22 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!I really wonder how they got the time to date many people at the same time and how it is possible to find multiple high quality partners . I already struggle in finding a decent man. My standards keep on getting higher every week. I might stay single forever. X) Edit: when I see the daily work I need to take to become a better person for myself but also learn to treat others better. I really think that most people are in shitty relationships or don’t know that Better is possible . When I feel di… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:35 PM |
| 11 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!The women in this sub are the funniest 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:33 PM |
| 4 | Most of these are exceptions but why would you date someone for 10 years with no ring 🤡🤡And people who say stuff like that aren’t high value in other areas as well. Part of being high value is having values that are deeply rooted in you. You know exactly how you want to react when someone is treating you like a queen by also like shit. You replace instinct with training There are rules in life whether you want it or not. You don’t drive full speed in a residencial area because “you just go with the flow”. There are rules. We just need to create our own | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:16 PM |
| 4 | Most of these are exceptions but why would you date someone for 10 years with no ring 🤡🤡Men don’t fall in love with women that don’t have a plan. They are on autopilot most of the time with women. Most women have very predictable behaviors. Dating is a game . Learn the rules of you will get played | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:13 PM |
| 5 | Most of these are exceptions but why would you date someone for 10 years with no ring 🤡🤡Some businesses are successful fast but most business owners need to work hard for years. I would see this working if both people were super high value people, healed their wounds, there is an immediate connexion on both parts, they have a similar life vision/are on their life mission, and educate themselves on healthy relationships But it’s rarely the case. Most people don’t know how to have healthy relationships and aren’t what I call high value | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 3 | I am a pickmesha and I'm marriedGreat : update your post with this info. And add that someone (me) recommended that you post your job experiences in case someone has something for you in your area. You have more chances that someone reads it this way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:21 PM |
| 2 | I am a pickmesha and I'm marriedI’m sure someone here works in HR and would gladly help you create a great cover letter or even hire you. Tell us more about what jobs you could do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:29 PM |
| 4 | I am a pickmesha and I'm marriedA lot of us didn’t grow us with a good example of a healthy relationship. This is why we end up in toxic stuff but there is a way out! In what city do you stay ? Maybe someone here can help you ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:23 PM |
| 2 | I am a pickmesha and I'm marriedI’m so sorry for you. Do you have the abuse texts he might send you ? Maybe the neighbors hear him being abuse and can testify for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:20 PM |
| 23 | I am a pickmesha and I'm marriedHi queen! Your level of self awareness is your biggest strength. Know that you can end this nightmare. It’s possible for you. Have faith. No one was put on earth to live this. Your first emergency is to sort out your finances and leave. Are you able to move in with a friend ? For a few weeks ? And get a job and contribute at bit For your education: you can read books on pdf format. A lot of them are free. Check think and grow rich by Napoleon Hill. If you don’t have a tablet, you can listen to a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:43 AM |
| 8 | Found on instagram. He is looking for a mommy🤣I cook pop corn in the microwaves. This is the best I can do until you’re my bf and has spent a considerable amount of money on me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020He must acknowledge your emotions even if he doesn’t agree with you. “I understand that you feel that way but xxx” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 15 | 50/50?!I’ve never heard a man say that there is no equal give and take. Like he’s giving to his queen too much and he wants the exact same thing. Men don’t need you to do thousand of things for them. There are just a couple of things that are important to them that they want you to do often. A masculine man loves to give. The only thing he wants to receive is your appreciation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:25 PM |
| 6 | Guys avoid the “date” word to avoid accountability for their intentions. Pay attention to these clues.It’s sad but that just how their brain works. High value is high value so they will respect everyone. But as for dating and investing in you, they need to work to get you. Men don’t have empathy (like us women). Their brain think “ I have to be with her because I did this and this for her”. Not “she does this so I should be with her”. In a sense it’s good for us. We can now become lazy and do nothing and let them do everything for us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:17 PM |
| 11 | Guys avoid the “date” word to avoid accountability for their intentions. Pay attention to these clues.It’s crazy how common it is for men to date women they aren’t attracted to. When I was younger I would think that if they are dating it’s that they both like one another. After working with men and hearing about their love life. Most of them are so fucking insecure. They have nothing to offer so they can only get the women who want them. Those women have no standards and no requirements. They just want someone. The man doesn’t have to be great | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:10 PM |
| 65 | “What are you getting out of this relationship?”It’s a mindset shift. If I’m in a relationship, I’m here to TAKE. My life is at 15/20 single. If you want to date me, you better take it to 17/20 minimum. I used to give language lessons to a teenager. Her grades without me were 12/20. After a few weeks with me it went to 17/20. This is the effect I have on people lives. You’re not getting this for free without me getting anything in exchange. The fuck !!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:10 PM |
| 7 | So are you wondering if he disrespected you? He did. Don’t give him the benefit of the doubt.This is why we have to date based on common value and common vision. I was listening to a podcast and they said “ what if something is disrespectful for you but not for the other person ?”. It simple. He either stops doing it and apologize or you break up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:06 PM |
| 11 | The “Let’s Grab A Coffee” Outfit 🤣💀The next guy that asks me out on a coffee date, I’m gonna say yes but order an expensive coffee with a pastry. Which is the same cost than a meal in my country anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Most people aren’t great. Me or female. We all underestimate the amount of inner work that is required to have a life of meaning and fulfilling. Do you know that the average American only reads 2 books a year ?? And it’s generally romance or fiction. Not personal development | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:43 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I was listening to a podcast from Matthew hussey and Lewis howes about relationships. Matthew said something very interesting that I noticed myself. He said that we don’t need to implement tactics to be hard to get. It’s simply by continuous growth that you become unpredictable and maintain /increase desire. The other person keeps on being surprised because he feels like he must step up his game too to keep you interested. Looking back, what makes us hard to get/valuable in the FDS community isn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:41 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I’m dead “sucking his dick on command “ 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:34 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I say “there is this forum I go to for effective dating advice” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:36 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Read never split the difference | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:35 AM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I’m a woman and I think the same way. I used to be skinny and unfit but would only want to date handsome muscular men . Then I grew up and wanted to date handsome men that are rich and high value. Well, I started to kill the gym, read self dev books and worked on my finances. I attract Better men now. You can’t ask for stuff that you aren’t yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:34 AM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Who cares if it intimidate men ? Do you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:31 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020It’s ok if you don’t trust guys. What’s required of you is to trust yourself. Would be nice if you can educate yourself more on healthy relationships. Listen to podcasts from therapists. I Love Esther perel. The dude who wrote men are from mars and women from Venus has a great YouTube channel as well. Once you know what a high quality man looks like, it will be easier to know if the man in front of you is right for you an dif feelings can grow in time. Women need more time to fall in love. When … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:29 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I was listening to a podcast with Lewis howes and that dating coach (I forgot his name but he’s black and has dreadlocks). He said that most people overestimate the time it takes to know that the person in front of you is right for you or not. It’s not that long. Especially for men. They know it fast. Us women have a lot more expectations tho (and us FDS women need to vet them hard ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:25 AM |
| 64 | Why are men so fucking gross? Like do you think every woman wants to see your dick?In my country you can sue a man who sends unsolicited nudity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:11 PM |
| 5 | The Ultimate Dating Strategy is Knowing You Do Not NEED to Date Anyone, EverI don’t miss sex but I sometimes miss kissing. I find it so relaxing. Then I tell myself “let’s find someone”. I download tinder, don’t find anyone I like and delete it again :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:44 PM |
| 5 | The Ultimate Dating Strategy is Knowing You Do Not NEED to Date Anyone, EverYour love language must be physical touch. Can you get a pet ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:43 PM |
| 20 | The Ultimate Dating Strategy is Knowing You Do Not NEED to Date Anyone, EverMost women in relationships are with LVM. Honestly I don’t know anyone in my family or friend group whose I envy their relationships. Except my friend of 50yo who is with a HVM. I tell her that I want someone like her husband and even her tell me that I can do better lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:41 PM |
| 26 | The Ultimate Dating Strategy is Knowing You Do Not NEED to Date Anyone, EverQueen please write that Essay !!!! The world needs you. I really love what you said about the “he’s not into you”. Sometimes they are but feelings don’t matter at all. What matters is how their actions affect OUR reality. I know Matthew hussey isn’t loved here as a dating coach but I find his self development videos excellent . The one that made me understand your point is the one where he explains the difference between instinct and logic. Your instinct wants love and you can’t control it but y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t fall in love when you serve yourself on a platterI think “I’m Rihanna and I’m giving one of my fans a chance” Then I analyze all his behavior like “would a gentleman like Ryan gosling treat me like this ?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:14 AM |
| 35 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I’ve decided to “date” my female friends lmao. It’s my friends birthday in a few weeks so I booked 2 tickets outside of town so that we can take golf classes and have a picnic. I already have her Christmas gift as well already. Spoiling my friends and organizing stuff for them give me joy. Men don’t deserve me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:18 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I’m so sorry for your loneliness. Start meditation to feel whole again. And then try new hobbies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Even on my own I don’t do chain restaurants. I’d rather pay $5 extra and support a local restaurant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Oh waow. I didn’t know this. Looking back it’s true that he mentioned once that before being with her, it was hard for him to commit to one girl only. Because of IG, he felt like he could easily slide into girls’ DM. Let’s see if he marries Janet that’s the only way we will know that he takes her seriously . I’m sure he won’t because she doesn’t make as much money as him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020He has a lot of contacts. I’m sure it helps her with her career. Also for the green card. He makes more money than her (although she’s also successful). I’m sure he stays with her because she’s fucking hot but I would not imagine him being this shallow. I mean for a few weeks it’s okay to not have deep conversations with someone. But living with her for a year and talking via google translate??? English can be learnt fast anyway. I feel like he’s giving it a go in a hope that she will be fluent … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020How can you connect with those women ? Do you know them personally? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:45 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I love Lewis howes and his podcasts but there is something I find strange with his Mexican girlfriend yanet Garcia. She’s gorgeous and seems like a very sweet girl . I speak Spanish so I can get her vibes. But he doesn’t speak Spanish Nd she doesn’t speak English. I really wonder how they built a one year relationship. He’s into personal growth so I know he loves deep conversations... I wonder in what language they communicate to be able to have a fulfilling relationship . She made a video to ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:41 PM |
| 30 | I mentioned the steps I’m taking to invest in real estate in the near future with my SO. Interestingly he began using “we/us” pronouns surrounding the decisions that will be made with my money.If she feels like he can’t make sound financial decisions she should dump him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:25 PM |
| 40 | I mentioned the steps I’m taking to invest in real estate in the near future with my SO. Interestingly he began using “we/us” pronouns surrounding the decisions that will be made with my money.Yeah. I don’t understand why they date tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:05 PM |
| 11 | I mentioned the steps I’m taking to invest in real estate in the near future with my SO. Interestingly he began using “we/us” pronouns surrounding the decisions that will be made with my money.Do you see a future with him ? I need a man who can lead in his finances as well. If he’s not educating himself on making money, I’m not interested | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:03 PM |
| 30 | Men don’t fall in love when you serve yourself on a platterYeah exactly. It’s not about the money. Just them making an effort. Like writing you a poem or cooking/cleaning for you. My friend got 2 marriage proposals and both men were the one chasing her and telling her that they could not live without them. Her ex husband put tons of gifts on the table the day she told him she wanted to divorce . He begged her to stay. When she was going out with friends he would call her to ask when she will be home or get nervous when she doesn’t pick up the phone. On … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:29 PM |
| 45 | Men don’t fall in love when you serve yourself on a platterExactly. I’ve seen men chasing women because they were gorgeous and hard to get. They didn’t have beautiful personalities at all. Some were true bitches to them. But they would still chase. They stp when it’s too long and you become impossible to get. Ideally they must feel like only them can get you but also they can lose you anytime if they don’t step up their game DAILY I watched a video from a dating coach coaching one girl. He explained that a lot of his male clients get bored with their gi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:20 PM |
| 25 | Men don’t fall in love when you serve yourself on a platterTell me about it. My friend from te Caribbean let her boyfriend move in with her and her family. He got cancer and died. She would visit him everyday, take care of him etc. When he died, she found out he had an OLD profile. Another friend had her boyfriend die from a car accident. Well he told her that he was going for a jog but we found a girl with him in the car. They were together for 5 years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:13 PM |
| 15 | Men don’t fall in love when you serve yourself on a platterSis! I’m so sorry for you. For others reading it, stop playing Bob the builder !!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:18 PM |
| 40 | Men don’t fall in love when you serve yourself on a platterSo many women are ok with paying for themselves. Then they wonder why their “men “ aren’t in love even after 4 years in a relationship and never tell them that they are gorgeous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:42 PM |
| 3 | And that’s on periodtIt’s true that is uncommon. But I also think that we should have friends outside (males and females ) of our relationships. I personally don’t mind if he goes for a drink with a friend from high school if nothing has ever happened between them and if I’m welcome to join | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:39 PM |
| 10 | And that’s on periodtI was watching the IG story of a dating coach and a girl is asking him what to do because her boyfriend kisses his female best friend on the neck. She told him that she was not a jealous person and she’s wondering what to do . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:36 PM |
| 0 | Do any of you just sit still and listen during the date ?Yes! Always be mysterious “I have something to do. Talk later”. Even if you’re just doing your nails. They should not know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:29 PM |
| 9 | Do any of you just sit still and listen during the date ?They love talking and us listening . My favorite thing to do is to shut up immediately when I see that they try to say something and listen to them. They feel very powerful. Little do they know that I’m the one who has the power. I’m just looking for red flags so yes I’ll shut up and listen to everything you say. And if I like the guy, I used to tend to be nervous about the “what are we going to talk about”. But I read the rules and they say “you don’t need to do the talking. Just be bubbly and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:29 PM |
| 9 | The Real Reason He Should Pay for DatesKeep radiating beautiful energy just like you did the whole date. Waif for him to pay. Then touch his hands to say thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 07:05 PM |
| 56 | The Real Reason He Should Pay for DatesI used to be ok with paying every 2 dates because I was thinking that it was expensive to make the other person to pay for 2 all the time but it isn’t. It’s only one date a week. Anyone with a job can spend $30 once a week . So don’t date jobless men to begin with. And as I studied relationship books by therapists and psychologists they all say that men need to invest in you and do small things for you to bond and feel needed. It has nothing to do with the money. An ice cream costs $5 , mojitos … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Until you’re engaged, when you make plans for the future, always start your sentences by “if we are still together by [ insert month/year], we could go to xxx“The 4 hour workweek | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:47 PM |
| 8 | Until you’re engaged, when you make plans for the future, always start your sentences by “if we are still together by [ insert month/year], we could go to xxx“No relationships is perfect because no one is perfect. Yes reading stuff here has been very eye opening because I get to read the opinion of other high value women that are more experienced than me. I realized that I let some stuff happen although I thought I was already good with that stuff. You’re never doing FDS enough. Especially when you like the man. You are less on your guard when this is exactly when you should me even more on your guard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:06 PM |
| 21 | Until you’re engaged, when you make plans for the future, always start your sentences by “if we are still together by [ insert month/year], we could go to xxx“It’s crazy how fast they become complacent . It’s CRAZY 😱 Are you still doing FDS even in the relationship ? He needs to feel like he can lose you anytime if he’s complacent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:43 PM |
| 0 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020It’s not so much about the time, it’s about consistency. Has he been consistent that whole time ?? Did you make him invest time money and energy on you ? You can start by doing orals for now and go slowly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:08 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020High value means confident in himself and socially intelligent. He needs to work on himself a bit. Let him go. This doesn’t sound like a fulfilling relationship down the line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:43 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020First of all set a deadline of when you allow him to reach out . A week from now is ok but no thing more. If he wants a break tell him that if he feels like it’s an issue you can’t work out as a team, for you it’s a break UP and Other high quality men want to take you out and you won’t be able to say no to great dinners and being cherished. If you fell faster than him , it’s certainly because you were the one chasing. It should really look like you are Megan Fox and you give a chance to a fan be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:42 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020It’s due to lack of inner work and poor examples in their family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:37 AM |
| 8 | Simon Sinek, my fave. Too bad he’s already married.Same sis. Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Today it’s the first day of my menstruations and I happened to be a little bit more sensitive. I shed a little tear while thinking about how come I haven’t met a high value man in a while only low value men. But then I reminded myself that it’s not because I want something serious that I have to take dating so seriously. In the past I would laugh when I meet a low value man and ditch him now it gets to me like “another one ?!!!!!! Why ????? It should be easy to attract high quality “. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Or have seen other men treat them better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:59 PM |
| 3 | this was posted to r/iamatotalpieceofshit and all of the commenters were sympathizing with the guy in this scenario...they aren’t getting itI’ve paid food for (female) friends without them reciprocating immediately and I didn’t feel used . I do it because I’m happy to offer something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:53 AM |
| 5 | this was posted to r/iamatotalpieceofshit and all of the commenters were sympathizing with the guy in this scenario...they aren’t getting itWhy do they Believe that we fall in love so fast ? Studies showed that it’s the men that fall in love first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:52 AM |
| 23 | It's men of every culture and religion.I love the quote from Why men love bitches . It says “men control the world. But women control the men” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:39 AM |
| 35 | It's men of every culture and religion.My low value aunt/pickme who happens to be super religious and full of shit was telling me that by having sex with one man only you can only love his dick since you have no one to compare to. Her husband who happens to be alcoholic cheats on her with te neighbor and everyone at church. He’s known in the community because he “knows” the Bible (basically he can just quote a couple of scriptures but doesn’t live by them ). He hides his beer when people visit him at home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:38 AM |
| 20 | The men are realizing, we are leveling up. Their 2 hour long conversations, about a book they read in 2001, no longer interest us. Filling up their egos, no longer interest us. Being with them, while they suck up the energy of a whole room, no longer interest us.The audacity !!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:59 PM |
| 242 | The men are realizing, we are leveling up. Their 2 hour long conversations, about a book they read in 2001, no longer interest us. Filling up their egos, no longer interest us. Being with them, while they suck up the energy of a whole room, no longer interest us.I’m dead! “A book they read in 2001” 😂😂😂 Omg! Next time a man tells me about a book, I’ll ask him when he read it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:46 PM |
| 22 | PSA to all the young Queens on here: a man wanting to have sex with you is not a compliment, nor does it mean he cares about you as a person!My daughter will read the handbook at 6 years old | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:39 PM |
| 24 | PSA to all the young Queens on here: a man wanting to have sex with you is not a compliment, nor does it mean he cares about you as a person!I feel like I have always been confident with that. I used to hang out with popular girls at school. They were getting a lot of male attention (I wasn’t). It never hurt me because they were never quality men. Some women envy other women that have boyfriends but those men are never great . I always tell myself before feeling lonely “if he wanted you, you would have say no” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Unconventional red flagsThe boyfriend of my friend who is black always tell her (white) that when he sees a black woman next to a white girlfriend, he’s more attracted to the black woman. She asked him if he found her attractive and he changed the topic of the discussion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | What does he offer you?After how many dates can you ask him this ? Do you wait for him to talk about commitment ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 01:43 PM |
| 3 | I got the job!!I’m proud of you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 01:40 PM |
| 9 | I'm a firm believer that men catch feelings faster than women do. Unfortunately those feelings are jealousy, controlling, and inequalities in the relationship. They seem to prefer "tricking you" into dick, or somehow giving you unsolicited D, but if you want it on your terms they get all madThe more you learn about FDS, the less you want to give sex so easily | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 01:36 PM |
| 5 | The message I got after the last comment I posted here...It’s because I’m attractive and high value that I can’t find a decent man. Most women in relationship settle for less | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:16 PM |
| 10 | What does he offer you?First and foremost he needs to be in personal development and study healthy relationships too! I won’t date a man who doesn’t study the female psychology the way I do. I’m not the only one who can read I won’t date a man who isn’t consistently growing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:11 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜For men it’s very clear. You are either his girl or you aren’t. They are very clear on that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:55 PM |
| 9 | Unconventional red flagsOmg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:58 PM |
| 80 | Unconventional red flagsI really don’t understand the point of following people just because they are good looking . I won’t see this as a red flag in terms of “he fantasizes on other women”. I will think that he’s a loser because I can’t imagine a man working hard to be rich having time to follow girls he will never ever meet. I didn’t see any successful man having time to follow hundred of women. Good rule of thumb is; the more he is on IG checking women, the less he does in his life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜It’s alarming yes! A compliment is ok but no sex talk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜He can’t hype you up ?????? 🗑🗑🗑🗑🗑🗑🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜A dude I had a match with in 2016 messaged me in 2019. We never met. Just talked a bit. I know men don’t get many matches but damn 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜Are you asking if it’s ok to put salt in your food ? Compliments are important. You build your own self esteem by complimenting others. Not just theirs. Even before exclusivity. Just the right amount of it’s good. Don’t over do it and don’t give them when he has just complimented you. Give them way later when you notice something nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜They all know. They don’t do it because they aren’t so much into you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜If it’s a situationship, why do you call him “my bf “? And him agreeing with your statement shows that he’s low value. We all say small lies here and there but the vibes I’m getting from your message is that he’s low value | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:00 PM |
| 0 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜I don’t think it’s professional to call a client for no reason. I just saw him today for the first time. It would be easy to stay in touch if I go back to his gym but I don’t want to pay again when I already have a gym membership elsewhere and I’m already leveled up (body and confidence ) I’m not making things up about him liking me. I’m not a narc that thinks that anyone that is polite with them is flirting. I can tell when a guy likes me by how he talks to me during the session and with the bo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜I went to a CrossFit class that I found on Groupon. I now crush on the coach . I feel like he liked me too. He waited next to the door when I left and he had another class after my lesson. To say goodbye he asked me to check him. There were too many people for him to ask for my number but he said “if you want to talk about bodybuilding anytime soon and debate. I’m ready. “. He knew that I came with the Groupon offer. I want to call tomorrow to pretend I lost my iPhone charger and ask his colleag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜They all lie on their height. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:07 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜Wear what makes you feel like “I’m the hot one. I’m just here to check if you’re good enough for me” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜Hi love! Have you been able to see a therapist ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜What do you want to study ? Self education is worth more than schooling in real life. Unless you want to learn something very technical like surgery . You can study yourself with books But school is great to make new friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 11:44 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜It doesn’t take 8 years to become high value. Why don’t you start making new friends ? And start reading more books. I feel more confident when I know I’m intelligent :)) I’ve received a lot of compliments on my ability to talk about different topics and have so many knowledge on various topics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 11:11 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜I don’t think you should say anything for them having casual sex. Not everyone wants commitment at all stages of their lives. Now, for asking men out, you should tell them that their jobs is just to show signs of openness not chase the man. And explain that men just need clues that it’s okay to approach us but they don’t need us to do the whole work for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 11:08 AM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜I use it as a way to vet his social skills. I check if he makes other people feel important, interact with others. I’m very into that and I can’t date someone that doesn’t have great social skills/is way too shy I also use this opportunity to make new friends . I don’t sit next to him but sit next to his good friends. If they are his friends, I want to know if they are great people . Then check in with one another’s here and there. It gives both of us the opportunity to vet one another and be tu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 11:04 AM |
| 1 | How to vet for sexual compatibilityJust show appreciation. With a passionate kiss , your touch and your words. If he goes down on you 5x in a row and you still don’t reciprocate then I would understand that you’re being selfish. But if it’s just one time where he takes care of you , I don’t think he will immediately say “ok now it’s my turn”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:54 AM |
| 5 | How to vet for sexual compatibilityThis!!! A high quality man gets a smile on his face just for seeing you smile after he has done something for you outside of sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:51 AM |
| 3 | How to vet for sexual compatibilityIt’s not the same for the brain (giving) and I feel like you feel less like you “have him everything”. For men PIV is still more pleasurable than oral . Most of them can’t handle the intensity of PIV whereas they last longer with orals only. The reason why we say that we should not sleep with them too fast is because it doesn’t give the man time to bond with us. They bond through kisses, and hugs and eye contact. With sex they just get a huge dopamine shot as if their body was congratulating the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:48 AM |
| 8 | How to vet for sexual compatibilityIt’s the brain that is your biggest sex organ. My tip to have orgasms are: think about nothing. Lay on your stomach . I’m not sure of how it works but there is something happening when you are on your stomach that helps you orgasm. You need to breathe heavily as if you were ready to orgasm/experiencing deep pleasure. You teach your brain that the event has occurred (even if it hasn’t), then he will trigger the orgasm for you Try to get orgasm on your own first ! Not with An electric dildo. Just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:40 AM |
| 2 | How to vet for sexual compatibilityHave you been able to report them ? If they didn’t understand a no then it’s a rape ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:34 AM |
| 2 | How to vet for sexual compatibilityOp! Please add “don’t share bed with him before commitment either”. A lot of women say no to sex but still let the man share their bed. For men it’s more intimate than sex actually . And they take it as a “she might change her mind when she will sense that I’m turned on “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:31 AM |
| 7 | How to vet for sexual compatibilityWear ugly underwear so you know you won’t remove them. Other than that, I know that it took me awhile to learn how to pleasure myself. So I think it’s great to spend a lot of time getting to know each other’s bodies before PIV. Also we should stop putting PIV on a pedestal. It’s not the only way to deep pleasure. To be honest, I’ve never had an orgasm from PIV but I always have an orgasm with clit stimulation and it’s the case for most women (but I get your need for deep intimacy). Look into tan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:29 AM |
| 17 | How to vet for sexual compatibilityWe should create a FDS magazine omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜I don’t agree with this at all. The connection you have through sex is a different kind of connection you have by doing things outside of the sex. I’ve dating a very loving man (feminist, HV) with a big dick. The penetration was too painful so I had to end things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:17 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜Even less. Sometimes the AHA moment takes just one quote or one conversation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:12 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜Next time , tell the man during the day “I’m sick of texting. Call me real quick I want to hear your sexy voice ;)” If he calls you at night, don’t reply. Text him the next day saying that you saw his call and thought it was sweet that he wants to talk to you. But unfortunately it was past your bed time or you usually have tons of activities after work with your friends. Always make it look like you’re busy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:11 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜They just hustle. Some people are good at making money. It doesn’t mean that they are good at managing people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜You get tax reductions from donating money. And it improves the image of your company. If he was volunteering with the homeless it would be different. Dump him. He isn’t love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:05 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜Then he’s not high value | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Being high value means working on improving yourself in all areas. Average person means to me someone who doesn’t do any sort of self development and isn’t intentional in his way of living. They just take things as they come. And nature set us for average. You can’t say you live a rich life if your relationships are working well but you have poor health or no intellectual life. It’s about being a well rounded person so yeah we all need to work on all life categories : emotion life, career life, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020I’m sorry but you killed me with his penis 😂 Hmm, if the sex and size are important for you then it’s good that you don’t take this further | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 10:22 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Right before having sex with him when you’re doing foreplay. It would be great if you could masturbate on your own to get to know your body first. Maybe buy a sex you so that the introduction isn’t too painful for you. I didn’t tell my dude that I was still a virgin . I did oral before so I didn’t consider myself a virgin . I used sex toys on myself (alone) so I knew how to be relaxed . Maybe you should do foreplay first for a night with the man and another time do PIV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020No! I think the average population male or female is decent. 80% decent. 10% high value 10% trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Of course it’s not that hard to have someone. But what you described is the average joe. If we wanted them, none of us would be here. We want the high value man that is invested in personal development. Can lead with his finances, hit the gym, learn about the female psychology, has an exciting life. I think my friend meant a high quality woman that he loves very much. They all want their dream girl. Not just someone Most men settle and prefer to change their style instead of becoming better to a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020I know men have a scarcity mindset when it comes to the women they can have sex with (this is why they have to try with many women). But do you think that they also have a scarcity mindset when it comes to the woman they can love ? I have a male friend and he’s still not over his break up of 3 years ago and tells me he can’t fall in love again. I don’t know what happened in the relationship but I’m sure he didn’t act right! He keeps on telling me “it’s when they leave you that you understand she… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020What do you mean by he never noticed you ? Thought you were not shit or just not necessarily talking to you ? Like you were a stranger to his eyes. If a dude from high school was average in high school but 10 years later he became high value etc, I might go dinner with him ... Vet him and see | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 09:40 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020It’s not necessarily bad unless you said “I want this specific thing all the time”. If you say “I’m into men that are thoughtful”. It’s good because you get to see what being thoughtful means to him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020I met HVM when I was living there. There definitely hope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 09:09 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020You said “not jumping into bed with him on the first date. I usually do it after date 1 or on date 1”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 09:08 PM |
| 0 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Did you meet him on a dating apps ? When you were having sex on the first dates, was it with men you met on OLD ? When I meet someone from internet, I just can’t imagine myself being in their bed. I can kiss them but not too passionately . My brain still has to process the fact that it’s a stranger I could only do it if I’m drunk and at a club or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020This! He hasn’t stopped and OP shows that she is into him so there is no problem. As long as she keeps on telling him that she loves hearing from him, he will continue u/vocabularylover OP, get him to call you. “I want to hear your sexy voice” . Texts take a lot of time. When he calls your Brain thinks “wow, he’s so into me” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 08:32 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020You can start to write one by following FDS :) :) :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 08:28 PM |
| 10 | Never, ever settle for a scroteous LVM thinking he’ll stay loyal because you’re a literal goddess.It surprised me that he was aware of all the effort he had to put in to have her. I guess it was a real challenge. I’ve seen him chasing other women. It’s true that he goes for women out of his league (he has nothing to offer except that he’s tall) so he needs to chase. It’s not the kind of man that has women pursuing him (most men don’t have quality women pursuing them. They might have a 6 or a 7 that want them but when a 9 or a 10 shows up and they feel like they have a chance, They get rid of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:47 AM |
| 51 | Never, ever settle for a scroteous LVM thinking he’ll stay loyal because you’re a literal goddess.This is why we need to stick to FDS! You know fast if he’s a HVM or not. If he is, you play you cards right and he won’t dare to lose you. I know it works and the man was not even high value . It was a colleague of mine. He did long distance relationship with his girl for 6 months. He told me that he would have never dared to cheat because getting her was so fucking hard. That stuff works ! They broke up and he was still in love It’s sad that we don’t learn FDS at school. Having healthy relation… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 07:51 PM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020I don’t want to hear about dating anymore. I’m done watching videos on how to keep men interested. The one who watches videos on how to keep ME interested will find me Btw, there is that dude I met on OLD last year. Nice guy but didn’t pay on the date and I was not attracted physically(he didn’t even offer to pay. We were having an ice cream). Didn’t hear from him after the date but he added me on IG 2 weeks later. I followed him back because I liked him as a friend. We like each other’s pics so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 07:46 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020It’s called cognitive dissonance. She’s doing that to save face. It’s a human thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 07:43 PM |
| 1 | If sex work is work then would liberal feminists be supportive of sex workers, Johns, and Pimps coming to local high school job fairs to recruit? 🤔I was reading the book by Robert kiyasoki and his rich dad explained that people are not just addicted to money. They are addicted to the way they make money. Then I watched a documentary on sex work and the girl hated it. But she explained that she would not stop because the money is addictive. This is also why you see LVM looking for their next successful girlfriend who’s gonna pay for everything . They are addicted to money without having to do anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:50 PM |
| 2 | If you use dating apps, what does your bio look like?I say something like “my ideal date is hiking and dinner at my favorite Persian restaurant”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:35 PM |
| 20 | 😊Give to your friends and family. Not men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:33 PM |
| 14 | Communicating standards: no commitment no sexAlso no kiss on the mouth to greet him on the first few dates. It has to be in the middle of the date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:26 PM |
| 12 | PSA: You would never stop job hunting in hopes of hearing back from the place you interviewed at.It’s a shock for men when they see you treating dating like business | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:20 PM |
| 8 | Common courtesy things your bf should be doingLmao!!!! This is also what I think. This is why I think I would be a better man than 99% of the men out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020I’m so sorry ! I hope you can heal soon. What do you mean by aloof ? I don’t think it’s a good strategy to be cold. Men want women that are pure joy to be around but who live their lives when they aren’t around. Basically just a woman who isn’t needy. To fall in love men need to feel like you need them for small things and that you appreciate what he does for you. They need constant validation it’s unbelievable! How was it going here ? Were you stroking his ego ? During the courtship? Was he the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 07:24 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Ladies! This is an amazing podcast from the guy who wrote women are from Venus and men are from mars. He’s basically in line with FDS. He explains why women turn into a pickme when they like a guy, how to choose the right guy, why it’s easier for men to find the right woman, why men are becoming more and more feminine, porn addiction etc I’ll watch it again or read his books. I love him Something surprised me tho. He said that a lot of women struggle in finding a man because they have the mindse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020FDS is only if you want something serious. If you want something casual , no need to be hard to get | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020You can die from a heart hache indeed. I saw a documentary about that. So many people get scammed like this!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Yes! It’s crazy how they are all the same. I wonder how they are in Scandinavian countries tho . There, they have sex on the first date and date only later. They want to figure out the sexual chemistry first before dating you. Women do the first move as well. I saw some of them flirting with the friend of their previous hook up in front of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020When I started to read your post, I was thinking that the men I liked when I was a pickme, aren’t the men I like now as a HVW. I even wonder how I could be attracted to their insecure ass. They are all so fucking insecure. But act as if they have their shit together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020👑👑👑👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020A letter is indeed too much effort but the text is low value behavior. It’s not because someone is trash that we have to behave like trash. OP, Give it great energy but don’t invest in him. Tell him that you have something to talk about that is important but short. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020The real question is: do you like them ? Do you like being around them knowing what you know ? Family should be about love. If one of your family member is toxic it’s ok to cut them off. You are bond by blood but that’s all. If there isn’t love, it isn’t your family | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryNo. She just lost her self confidence with time. I don’t think she’s aware of it tho. I saw a shift when she lost her job. She automatically had too much free time which is normal when you don’t have a job. So she has time to text and hang. When she works she’s unavailable naturally. But even before that, she would have casual sex with a low value man. He would tag her on Facebook on photos where it’s written “ when you make your friends try your girl”. She would still go back to him. This dude … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryYes! It’s certainly just a move for the media coverage you know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryThey are both Hot and but she’s more successful than him. He got more money just by dating her. I feel like it’s one of those couples that don’t just date for love. They marry for power. They work on social media so they both need to have the perfect image of the hot couple that is happily married . It’s for their image basically | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:30 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Omg! I’m so sorry I can’t help more. This is a terrible situation. Don’t you have a friend you can stay with ? For the sex, you don’t need to force yourself. No is a complete sentence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:57 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020DROP HER ASS now ! She should get “friends” as shitty as her I recommend picking up a new hobby or volunteering. You have a scarcity mindset regarding friendship. I’ve been there too. Remember that humans are the most abundant resource in the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Let’s say you bought a dress that you love, your sister asked you to wear it. You want your sister to look hot in it too. She ruins the dress. Instead of hating her for what she did to your dress, you should focus on how happy you felt when you gave her your dress | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:47 PM |
| 6 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryI’m not sure to understand the tone of the quote you quoted (English isn’t my first language). Is it more like a “well, since I have to get married and she’s around. I’m gonna take her. I’m not good enough for better anyway”?? I feel like this is the mindset of my brother. He wanted a better girlfriend but she never came so he ended up getting his current gf pregnant but she isn’t his dream girl. I asked him if they would get married. He said the girl doesn’t care about marriage. I’m sure more w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:44 PM |
| 6 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryThis is true. I heard none of them talking about making sacrifices after 1 week (Which is what someone who is deeply in love does) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:35 PM |
| 8 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marry👑👑👑 Were you doing FDS with the 2 previous dudes ? Do you come from the western world ? If you come from a conservative country, I’m not surprised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:04 PM |
| 17 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryHe was thinking of breaking up way before that week. He just didn’t know how and made up stories. Don’t believe that men are distant when they have too much work. That coach said that when a man doesn’t feel great, all he wants is being connected to his woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:02 PM |
| 21 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryWhat’s crazy is that some men actually act as if they were the actual prize. I’m turned off immediately. Most of them don’t have what it takes to date a girl like me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:21 PM |
| 32 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryYeah. They lack integrity . Their spirit is literally connected to another woman and they make you sound crazy when you tell them that they aren’t really with you. It can last for months until the next girl shows them she’s available . They use you for sex in the interim but just know that all their actions and money are toward conquering the new girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:11 PM |
| 26 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryI’ve just checked his IG. He said that he didn’t have an ex. My friend used to party with him. He was fucking around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:53 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Try to just enjoy the good times you had and not think about how it ended. See yourself like a child. So many bad things happened to me in primary school that are today irrelevant as an adult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020What kind of man he is. Is it because he was super shy with girls or he was a player ? It’s not the same thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:12 PM |
| 16 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryHe wanted to make himself look romantic .im gonna check the comments he received . Maybe his ex said something ahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:11 PM |
| 48 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryOh yeah I was wondering how come he didn’t know how long he stayed with his ex. He clearly didn’t care about her lmao He’s basically bragging about staying with a girl for that long with no goal in mind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:03 PM |
| 31 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryIt isn’t in English unfortunately but along with the clues I already mentioned, men in that situation will be distant : they will plan stuff as if they were single or just be physically distant with you. They don’t want you near their phone even if you ask to check something with them casually. She says that the worst part is that it’s before getting the other girl that they think about her the most. It’s almost obsessive . That’s all they can think about. (It surprised me. I knew they think abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:02 PM |
| 20 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryBeing pretty and going out often and meeting people. A lot of women stay at home after work and don’t have a rich life. I used to be like this after the uni. When I was a student I would meet more men than now. I had a more active social life My female friends who meet a lot of men today just go out often | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 09:08 AM |
| 91 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryThis is when you are like “wait! I was with him for 4 years he never wanted to propose. With her he got her pregnant within a year and now he proposed “ I had this conversation with my other female friends a while ago. We were all saying “it’s when they aren’t ready”. Now that I know the male mind very well, i know It’s not true. You just aren’t his dream girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 09:05 AM |
| 24 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryYeah. The current is always prettier than the previous one. If they found the previous one very pretty in the first place and with a lot of options, he would be chasing her and the girl would never need to be in her masculine. This woman wrote a book and she said that she was never interested in one night stand. She certainly did a part of FDS instinctively (most women who have a lot of options and don’t like casual hook ups do it naturally. They just know what kind of relationships they want). … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 09:01 AM |
| 47 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryYes. My friend got 2 proposals. One when she was 18 and when was she was 22. And she said that both times it was the man chasing. Now she’s 35 and she became a pickme. Men stop chasing her now, she drives them home, ask them to hang out, take back ghosters of 2 months. I’m trying to teach her FDS. Not successful so far The only thing that she does well is making them pay on dates , not accepting dates too fast, not initiating contact and not sleeping with them too fast. But she sends too many te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:59 AM |
| 112 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryThere is that dating coach that made a video to give us clues of when a man thinks of pursuing another woman. She explains that he won’t break up with you until he’s sure the other girl wants him too. But he thinks about her constantly (this is why you feel like he’s not really with you when you talk to him). He’s always glued to his phone because he might receive a text from her anytime. He’s constantly thinking about how he will seduce her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:00 AM |
| 55 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryOf course. I spent 2 years working with men. I saw them falling for girls super fast but none of them talk about marrying them. And also falling out of love fast. It was always superficial love. The girl was very attractive and making them chase. It was never because the girl had an amazing personality. I feel like most people have an average personality anyway. What make men chase is you being very attractive and hard to get. The personality matters only way later . They are all so shallow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:58 AM |
| 50 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryI see what you mean. But a lot of men that are happily married say that they knew it immediately. It’s a gut feeling. Time of course confirms their first impression. And remember that there is superficial love (it’s just a feeling they have early on) and the action part (Which is consistency, acting like love etc) . Feelings fluctuate but the actions do not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:50 AM |
| 205 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryLmao ! I asked on askmen at what age they start looking for a wife not just a girlfriend. A lot of them tell me that when they date a girl, as soon as they find out she isn’t the one, they break up with them. I feel like most men stay that long because they are waiting for better to come. Most of them don’t want to make an effort to become better so they stay with the girl who gives them everything although they aren’t fulfilled | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:47 AM |
| 88 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryYeah. And it depends on their age as well and their finances. If you meet them at 20 yo it’s normal that they won’t propose within a year but still know that they will eventually marry you at an older age with a stable job. I see my brother and his girlfriend. He never wanted to introduce her to my parents and would always tell me that he won’t marry her. He visited me when I was living abroad and would tell me “I’m with a friend”. Meanwhile the girl would say stuff like “we love eating sushi’s”… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:40 AM |
| 38 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryThey don’t voice it. They just know it and are consistent in their behavior. You don’t need to know after a week that he knows you’re the one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:38 AM |
| 109 | Men know immediately with who they gonna marryYou never hear them say “ imagine being with them for 5 years and one day you want to marry them”. Same for “I was with her for 6 months then I fell in love”. They fall in love quickly. They don’t wake up one year later and realize they are actually in love with you. (I feel like nature made them fall in love with us faster than us in order for them to start chasing us and get us pregnant. ) So if you feel like you’re falling for him and he hasn’t, you are in your masculine/pick me mode | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:07 AM |
| 5 | FDS worked for me!So it’s possible for the all of us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 07:25 PM |
| 5 | FDS worked for me!Lmao same !!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 07:25 PM |
| 10 | Something to send to the “Nice Guy”:This! I see so many men saying that they are nice and funny and don’t understand why they are single. But what they call funny is actually making fun of other people and humiliating them. What they call nice is actually smiling often | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Should I plan to have kids on my own?I think there are thousand of great men for us. We just need to learn to ditch the wrong man fast. How is your social life ? If having a family is a very serious goal right now, you need to be very strategic. How many times do you go out a week ? Do you go out where the caliber of the men you want tend to go out ? With how many men to you interact in a friendly way each day ? Are you a HVW ? Do you follow the handbook to the T ? Do you see yourself like the table ? Etc. As a woman you don’t need… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020There is that dude on tinder that only posted one pic of him. He seemed to have broad shoulders so I decided to give him a chance and let him see my IG (I don’t like giving my IG to OLD dudes unless we really click). I added him and we’ve been talking. I really thought that he followed me back and thought that the app I use to track followers was not working since I usually see who is following me back. Well he had the audacity of chatting with me without following me back. I’m the hot one... I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020Hmmm. Is he receiving professional help ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020This is so hilarious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020A lot of women say yes to this. It’s so fucking dangerous. I watched one documentary about OLD and some men use fake pics . One 60yo man used a pic of a model to flirt with women and asking them to pretend they are in 50 shades of grey. The girls came to his house, had to close their eyes so that they don’t see him. At the end of the sex he removed the ribbon off their eyes . And the girls realize he’s a 60yo perv. Not an Abercrombie model. SO MANY women are desperate ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 10:02 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020On whatssap she can see your location as long as you allow her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 07:28 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020One of them never replied when I tried to call him. Then he texted me “why are you trying to call me?” He would ignore my texts when I would talk about getting a drink. Then come back a few days later to ask me if we could hang in my apartment. I told him that I don’t have casual sex with strangers. He said no problem. We can still hang at your house. He was just looking for a girl who has her own place so that he doesn’t have to spend money on the hotel since he was still living with his parent… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 07:42 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020Making a list works really well!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 10:11 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020You can DM me if you need a friend :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020Add: shared values and common vision !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020When I say masculinity I meant personality traits that are “classified” as being masculine. So leadership, action oriented , assertive, nurturing etc. I didnt mean “doesn’t have a feminine mindset”. Like, I don’t care much what masculine traits and feminine traits are dominant in him, I just want it to be balanced. A man like this one that does inner work is rare. Most of them have huge ego so they stay in their toxic masculinity/immature masculinity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020Instead of qualities in partner I focus on the kind of relationship. I aim for a FDS type relationship where I’m fully in my feminine essence. I just think “what great guy can give me a FDS type relationship ?” As long as the man is in his mature masculinity and physically my type, I’m happy. I read a book on spiritual Love a few months ago. And basically we should focus on having fulfilling relationships instead of specific personality traits because we can’t control when those personality trai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:00 PM |
| 3 | The chances that a man will propose drop by 50% after 18 months of a relationshipBest advice ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:25 AM |
| 2 | The chances that a man will propose drop by 50% after 18 months of a relationshipSend it to her like “ look, those are tips you will enjoy since you want marriage “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:23 AM |
| 1 | The chances that a man will propose drop by 50% after 18 months of a relationshipOh yeah it has to be a sure thing. She can figure it out I think. But I don’t know if women doing long studies are focused on marriage during their studies. I don’t think it’s the end of their world to not marry the man they dated at the uni. I personally would not care. The relationship was nice for the time being. I would move on. There are better men out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 08:29 PM |
| 4 | The chances that a man will propose drop by 50% after 18 months of a relationshipThe link is so interesting!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 07:55 PM |
| 13 | The chances that a man will propose drop by 50% after 18 months of a relationshipMy high school friend has been living with her boyfriend for years now. They are madly in love (he really treats her like a queen since high school and now we’re are almost in our 30). But they aren’t getting married I think. She’s pregnant of their second baby. He s not educated and went to jail. I would have dumped him personally but yeah she stayed and never said anything when he was in trouble with the court . He needed that jail time. Now he takes the law seriously. (He came from an abusive… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 07:26 PM |
| 3 | But _beta_ you can’t live alone (and so obviously unburdened by an abusive, overgrown man-child) like this! What will people say?My aunt asks me constantly why I’m single. While they are married to cheaters lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 07:03 PM |
| 6 | The chances that a man will propose drop by 50% after 18 months of a relationshipIt could work if the girl practiced FDS with him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:55 PM |
| 14 | The chances that a man will propose drop by 50% after 18 months of a relationshipAlso “ most men will not contemplate marriage until they have been working and living as independent adults for several years” They are basically looking for a free cook+ maid+ mum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:54 PM |
| 6 | The chances that a man will propose drop by 50% after 18 months of a relationshipDo you know why the level at which we end school dictates when we get married ?? Is it because when we leave school young, we join the workplace early so we become financially stable before those who are still in school ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:50 PM |
| 11 | The chances that a man will propose drop by 50% after 18 months of a relationshipOne trainer at my gym was hitting on me. He was handsome and way older than me. I knew that he was fucking some women at the gym. I was 24 and he was certainly around 36-38. He told me immediately casually“ I’m sick of women who want to get married when I’m clear that I don’t want commitment”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:47 PM |
| 7 | The chances that a man will propose drop by 50% after 18 months of a relationshipThis is so true. I find women more complicated actually even tho I’m one and I hang out with women. But I think now that you have 2 types of women: women who do FDS and women who don’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:37 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020He’s certainly selling drugs. If he makes that much money, he can hire a nurse. It’s your family or girlfriend that has to take if you in those situations. Not your casual hookup . The fuck ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020Proud of you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 07:05 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020Meditation ... inner work. Most of the stuff we put up with is due to lack of core confidence Change your mindset from “ I can’t imagine a life without him” to “ I just want to be happy”. Your brain is smart and knows what happiness looks like. I’m going through something these days too. I found that going from “ I wNt him to come back” (Which is the ego talking. when you live a life built around love, there is no ego, no “i need”, your needs are always already met )to “ I just want to be happy”… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020You can change it. You can improve your personality and remember that ambition is a muscle. I recommend having a strong “why” that isn’t physical. And to automate the hard stuff. Basically you want to work out before your brain realize that you are working out. You might need to wake up at 5am to jump rope before the office. Since you love challenging yourself at work, see it as an extra boost. Working out helps you think faster/solve problem faster . I recommend reading Steven kotler, the rise … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020I asked a male colleague about one gorgeous girl another colleague was pursuing. I asked if she was his type. He said “ if she pursues me I won’t say no but she’s not my type enough for me to go do the job”. This is how we all think anyway. I would say yes to some men if they work very hard to get me but I would not initially spend time elaborating FDS strategies to get him to pursue me. I would treat them like friends until they worked hard enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:57 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020I used to ghost with no explanation but one dating coach I like says that we create a virtuous circle when we message the dude to say that it’s better to just leave things there and say hi if we Bump into one another downtown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 08:06 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020My friend at the end of the year messaged all her exes/OLD dates for fun to tell them that they lost a diamond and asked them why they thought it didn’t work between them. One of her OLD date said that they lost contact because she didn’t message him either. In those situations, i think it just means that the man isn’t particularly interested but would still bang if you are the pursuer. But here we want men that are the pursuer. So let him reach out. Your only job is to show interest /joy when y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 09:41 AM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020Hey! Stop this negative talk NOW. We are all the 10 of someone and the ugly one of others. Seek therapy if you can and spend less time around your dad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 07:53 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020If he doesn’t message me after the date I understand that he didn’t like me. I guess it’s only the men that are super high value that message you to say let’s be friends if they didn’t like you. I never had it happen to me Usually if they didn’t like me, i don’t like them either . So it never hurts me to not hear from them after the date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 07:50 AM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020I posted the same question on r/askmen because one dude didn’t reach out. I worded it as if I was a man and asked when they expect the girl to message them after a date. All men replied that they don’t wait. They know that the girl is waiting for them. In my situation I initiated the kiss. I would have looked so fucking desperate if I initiated the text too! (Nothing wrong when the man does both. But as a woman that does FDS I Can’t do both ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020Talk with him about this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 07:45 AM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020It’s ok if you have emotions for them. What matter are your actions. Don’t text him or anything. Meet more men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I watched a video from a dating coach about how to know if your man is focused on another woman. She was so spot on 😳 Basically: 1)the dude is distant. He wants to do a lot of things that are “normally “ done with a partner alone. 2)doesn’t let you near his phone and become very defensive if you ask him to lend it to you or check it with him. 3)he doesn’t listen to you when you talk/isn’t really present . Especially if he hasn’t slept with the new girl yet. He’s constantly thinking about how he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020We don’t play mind games in FDS. We just focus on men who invest in us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020It’s not online. You will have to buy it. The Rules is online tho. I also recommend the female guide to women. It’s on the female psychology. It will help you understand yourself better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:24 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Not past my bed time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Tell him that you want your earrings.eet in public place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 04:56 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Go for it when you feel a deep connexion . Listen to your intuition. If you already spent a lot of times kissing , cuddling and looking into each other’s eyes. It’s great. This releases oxytocin and create a strong bond. For sex, we are all different. Some people here say to wait for commitment. I know that the greatest gift a man can get from me isn’t sex. It’s my presence and my exclusivity . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:07 AM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 20202 hours away is very farrrrrrr to plan dates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Yes. If he wants to date you stop talking to him that much. So that you don’t mislead him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 07:43 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Working out 4-6x/week doesn’t mean squatting 2x your body weight everyday. Sometimes it’s just some swimming at a very slow pace or a quick walk on the treadmill. A lot of people work out almost everyday. + Us women can workout this much because we recover faster. It’s very good for your productivity to work out everyday actually. It doesn’t have to be long. I occasionally do the 5am routine by robin sharma. He asks us to work out 2x/day to boost productivity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020It’s okay to have male friends Act as if he was one of your female friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 05:43 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Yes. Let him recover. I didn’t know until last month that porn was awful for the brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Most men don’t like texting much. You should care more about the dates he plans to see you. A man that likes you wants to see you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 09:40 AM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Treat them like your female friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 09:39 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020If you have him on social media, post a pic. But most importantly, redirect this energy towards yourself . Not him. This is how you will attract him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Short answer is no Long answer is it depends. If you moved away and came back, no problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 12:07 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Get him to call you. “I’m sick of texting. Call me real quick. I want to hear your sexy voice ;)” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 07:30 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020A date the following week. 1 date a week the first month. Then 2 dates a week the second month | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 07:17 PM |
| 22 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I understood something. Earlier this week, I initiated with a dude on a dating app. After the first 3 jokes I noticed that I was the one keeping the conversation alive. I decided to pull back a little bit (i didn’t reply to his last text) to see if he would start to chase me . Well, nothing. I initially thought that by doing that he would step into his masculinity. But nope. What I’m getting from this is that not every man in his mature masculine energy. It’s not because you are in your healthy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 01:07 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Studies showed that men know ah month 6 if they will marry you or not. What about us ladies ? When do we know ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 08:07 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Hi. You already know how to take care of you. Try to do one small thing and the rest will follow. You have a lot of self awareness and you take time to be vulnerable with us. Which makes me feel like you are a strong person . Try to focus on making new friends. Not having strong connections with others is what makes us feel terrible. Try to read leaders eat last from Simon sinek. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 08:03 AM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Go on his page and make him unfollow you too. There is a tool for that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 08:02 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Then call him to break up or Skype if you prefer to see him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:57 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:48 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I’m so sorry for you. When can you see him face to face ? Call him already and tell him that you are unhappy with a situation and that you need to discuss face to face. And that you are taking a break from him until you guys meet Pain is normal. You can’t escape it. You are human, you love him and you invested in him. Try to hang out with your friends yo distract your mind a bit. Do a cool activity with them. Read a spiritual book or listen to a podcast . Read the rules when you’re ready to date… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:45 AM |
| 23 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I watched that video from a male pick up artist. He explained how a lot of men act uninterested to confuse the girl or act passive (as a strategy or because they don’t know how to take it further ). I really don’t see what’s hard for them. Just be consistent and that’s it. Honestly I’d be a better man than 99% of men A dude has done this to me. I didn’t just unfollowed him, I went on his page and removed myself from his following. He noticed and spent a week depressed . Yeah, I’m not fucking wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Why do kids do better when the parents are married ? (Was it opposed to single parent or opposed to just living together but unmarried )? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:39 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Feel free to write a post on how to date as a single mum. The mistakes you’ve done in the past, advice etc. I’m sure the mods will be able to put it in the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Exactly. I used to believe that if I say fuck off to someone that hurts me, I’ll be the bad person. That’s not true. I can only be a good person if I prioritize myself first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:33 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Is it only the video games ? What are the actions he will take to play less ? Do you see yourself working on the relationship ? Do you have love , respect and shared values with him ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:30 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020There are only 2 outcomes any way when you date : a break up or marriage. But Ok. Update us on how it goes. It got me curious . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:51 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I’m so sorry you feel like this. I’ve seen a lot of post supporting single mums ditching their low value husbands | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:25 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I would remove what you’re looking for. It makes it sound like you will take any guy that offers commitment (which isn’t true) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:23 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I’m so sorry for you. Call your girlfriend, go out dinner with them, analyze the situation with them, do some meditation but block him everywhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020No no no no no. Don’t go there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 20207hours waow that’s a long!! Did you manage to keep your energy up ? The touch barrier doesn’t have to be sexual at all. It lasts 1 sec. He should not even noticcce that you touched him. Touch his shoulder when you want to show him something like “hey Bryan, look”. Feminine energy is about touch. Let him give you the compliments , on your side, touch his shoulders, knee as you would touch a female friend that you hang out with Men always come back anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020He certainly doesn’t take OLD too seriously. Remember that none of us is special in 2D. You are perceived as an avatar. They block you/delete you with no emotion at all. Hmm. Saysomething like “I’m sick of texting. Call me real quick. I want to hear your sexy voice”. Then wait for him to ask for your number | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 10:49 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Block him and get rid of that anger. It blocks your own blessings. I had a lot of hate for one dude. I ended up treating the next one badly although he was a sweet dude. Hurt people hurt people. You might need to heal from this experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020This is so true . Your intelligence and kindness matter only once they like your looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:16 AM |
| 0 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Did you like one another ? Physical touch is very important the first and second date. It doesn’t have to be super sensual. But touching for a few seconds very often and kissing makes you want to see the person more. A lot of men are discouraged if there was no kiss after the second date or if you were distant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020You don’t have to agree with 100% of what’s written here. You can easily say yes to dinner with a colleague but with a complete stranger that certainly used a pic of him when he was 10 years younger with no beer gut, it’s better to keep things short and sweet and think that you are just meeting up with a friend. Keep it to 45 mins-1 hour. Then say you have to meet a supplier from work or a friend. Makes you look high value to have a busy life after seeing him (you can lie of course). Always be e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Did you love the job ? I recommend you listening to ken Honda on YouTube. He has such a beautiful energy and teaches you how to attract wealth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020So fucking true. They are all so shallow I didn’t know that the body was that important to men. I always thought that having a pretty face was enough as long as you aren’t obese. But no they care a LOT about the body. Not just the face I used to be skinny with a pretty face. I liked my looks but always dreamt of a fit body. I was into super hot dudes so to have them I had to be the pursuer. They would always end up leaving me for a hotter girl. I started to hit the gym hard and now has the physi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Dinner is great when you know that you already like him. Most men don’t look like their pics on dating pics. I would feel terrible having to eat for 3 hours with a man I find ugly. The coffee date is more of a meet up. For the first time it’s ok. The second date should be a real date (dinner ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:38 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Get him to call you before accepting the date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Did you kiss ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020I personally hate having long conversations with men via texts. I think texts should be used for arranging dates or quick/playful interactions . Not used to get to know someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Text only when you have something interesting to say. Texts aren’t there to get to know someone. Ideally you want him to call you. “Hey, give me a quick call. I want to hear your sexy voice” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:24 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020He needs to be the one calling you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:39 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020I can totally understand why your mum feels terrible I would too. Can you help her alleviate some of the stress and talk to your dad and brother about how it destroys your family ? I’m not sure to understand why your dad doesn’t want that job 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020https://youtu.be/_9oTiAi73h4 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:29 PM |
| 20 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020I’ve just listened to a video from a spiritual guide (Hindi I think). He explained that there is no soulmate. No one is perfectly made for you. I really thought there was someone perfectly made for me and I would not struggle. He said something very interesting. He said that the beggar takes whatever food people give them. The goal is to be so great that everyone wants you. All you will have to do after that is just pick the best option. He said that your soulmate becomes a soulmate because you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:27 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020I used to think that living together was the same thing than marriage but it doesn’t. Studies have shown that there is a difference. People who Re married are more willing to put in the work to make the relationship work. Men who are married make more money, are happier and live longer A lot of men can get you pregnant but will say no to marriage. Why ?! They perceive marriage as a symbol of love. A lot of men can get you pregnant and don’t mind it even if they don’t love you. My friend got 2 ki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 09:52 AM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Say no to arranged marriage ! Honestly it’s risky | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 09:48 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020You can still open it. But don’t reply unless he hurt you. I had replied once to a dude who ghosted me but it was only when I stopped being interested in him. I saw him as an acquaintance. Not at all as someone I could date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 09:46 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020HVM with HVW. This should be a law | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020I can’t believe I’ve attracted a LVM. I don’t understand why. I’ve always thought that since I’ve attracted them in the past when I was not confident, it would stop now that I’m confident and know how to spot them and use FDS. I thought that I would only attract HVM now that I learnt what I had to learn from my past. I really feel worthy of a high quality man so I don’t know why life gave me someone so fucking inconsistent . I didn’t deserve it. He has been deleted etc and I’m talking to new guy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Focus on quality texts or ask him to call you in a playful/sexy way. If he still ignores you then there is a serious conversation to have | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020OMG | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 02:13 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020You are human. It’s completely normal to get attached and feel emotions. Remember that we are emotional creatures so you can use as many logic as you want, your emotions will always win. Now, you can accept feeling those emotions and accept them for what they are: emotions. What matters is your actions. The pain of blocking the wrong dude is easier to live with than forcing things with a LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020I’m so sorry for you. I know it’s hard to accept that the guy we like doesn’t like us back. Don’t ask men out sis! This one just wants to be your friend. Otherwise he would ask you out himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 06:36 PM |
| 6 | Common courtesy things your bf should be doingThe book said that you put money in the bank when you say things like that. A man that says something to me when I say no to sex will make me undress my dress in less than 3 seconds . I’m so turned on by kindness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 08:57 AM |
| 22 | Common courtesy things your bf should be doingThe best sentence I heard was from a book called the mans guide to women. They recommend saying to your partner when she’s not up for sex “what do you feel like doing ? Do you want go eat for an ice cream? Or go for a walk ? I just want to be connected to you” So HV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 08:49 AM |
| 1 | What is one FDS principle all newbies need to know?The first relationship I had when I wa sin my early 20 thought me that my happiness was not tied to a man. I never had a bf before so it was really nice to have someone that you like and likes you back. But the rest of my life wasn’t great. I understood at this exact time that I had to be happy in my life before bein with someone. This is why I spent a lot of time not dating anyone (not even being open to love) until I healed my trauma. I was hurting others because I had pain in me. Now that I m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 08:44 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020And men start to think that they have nothing to do to get their dream girl. You want Rihanna dude! You have to take massive action! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Omg! You’re describing a situation I’m going through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:10 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020It’s hard to reply since you don’t follow the guideline... Stop having sex with him every time you meet to see if he truly enjoys your presence outside of sex. And do FDS from now on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020What matters is how you feel about it. You don’t need to agree with 100% of the things written here. Take FDS if you are looking for something serious. If I’m on a holiday for a week and meet a great dude, I won’t follow FDS to a T for example. I will go with the flow as long as the dude is respectful and invest in me a bit (pay on dates, come pick me up etc). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 12:40 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020I’m watching a video from one dating coach (he coaches men). He teaches men to see themselves like the prize and say stuff like “it’s the girl that needs to seduce you”. “She should message you more than you do” I can already tell that this coach is used to pickmes or doesn’t get laid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 12:34 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Or when he likes the pics of other women but not yours | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:34 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020I totally see what you mean . I love this sub but sometimes there is too much focus on LVM and not enough success story with HVM and we tend to forget that the world is full of HVM. You just need to become good at ditching the wrong man fast | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 12:59 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020So many men look for women like that . One of my friends who could date such a man told me thT I was too judgmental for saying that I would dump a man who goes to jail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020Amazing!!! Congrats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020I’m so sorry this happens to you. Maybe it’s a mental pattern that you have. Would be great if you take the time to analyze your beliefs and change the beliefs that don’t serve you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Despite what modern media tells you, your boyfriend or husband should not be your best friendFor farting, I feel like having a vegetarian diet helps fart less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 05:03 PM |
| 64 | Leonardo DiCaprio is creepy tbh.Men who date young women don’t want LTRs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020When do you start discussing finances (where to invest, books on money, seminars to go , you money will be spent and valued in your relationship etc ) with your man ? I feel like this is wifey stuff no ? Imagine helping him getting rich and see him leave you for a pickme he found on tinder 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:01 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Don’t initiate anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:20 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of men who don’t post pictures of their girlfriends on social media ?Exactly this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 01:15 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Basically they want a girl who says yes to everything and congratulate them for their bad behavior 🤔🙄 Not only they don’t have the ability to deal with conflict, They just can’t live with NO girl in their lives for more than 10 mins. They don’t even think “oh no. I’m losing my girl”. They think “fuck! Who can I have sex with as fast as possible now without working too hard and without spending too much money/energy ?!” Honestly they are more pickmes than us!! The only difference is that society … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:19 AM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020I was talking with my friend about how men can NEVER have no girl to at least talk to. As soon as their dream girl rejects them, they go back to the girls they ghosted. I’ve seen some male colleagues do that. There is nothing worst for a man than to have no one to potentially have sex with . They need constant validation. It’s very pathetic ! Same with those dealing with a break up, they put tinder back the same day. This is why you should never take back a ghoster. He’s just coming back to you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Some men seriously start a convo with that ????!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020I agree that she should not have mentioned commitment . They really have an issue with that. They need to feel like it’s their decision | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:17 AM |
| 9 | Despite what modern media tells you, your boyfriend or husband should not be your best friendKeep on cultivating friendships outside of your relationship that’s it. Realize that it’s impossible to have one person only fulfill all your needs. Your partner is your partner. Not your best friend, friend, therapist, lover, business partner, life coach, spiritual guide , dad at the same time etc. If you need one of those entities, seek it outside of your relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:03 PM |
| 4 | Despite what modern media tells you, your boyfriend or husband should not be your best friendAct the way you acted when you were single. Maybe you will enjoy this article : https://medium.com/@monicaapplewhite/understanding-infatuation-and-devotion-f16ad203ee1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:58 PM |
| 9 | Despite what modern media tells you, your boyfriend or husband should not be your best friendI don’t think your partner should know everything about you . (I will never talk about the FDS stuff I do for exemple to keep the chase going , I won’t share my body count stuff like that) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Despite what modern media tells you, your boyfriend or husband should not be your best friendThe best friend thing is only when you met when you were kids. Basically you grew up together so it feels like you are best friends. I feel like most people call BF the people they know the longest. It’s interesting because I had this convo with a friend. On how you lose friends as soon as they get into a relationship (especially men). I lost a lot of male friends once they got into a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Meditation, cooking, drawing, journaling , call a friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:47 PM |
| 35 | PSA: "Cooking together" is not a date.They are all creative when it comes to sex. They all underestimate how successful they would be and fulfilled if they transmuted that energy to work on their goals . Attracting high quality women would be a lot easier too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:58 PM |
| 76 | PSA: "Cooking together" is not a date.My friend always goes then she gets mad because the man is trying to initiate sex. I’m trying to teach her FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 06:03 PM |
| 44 | Ladies, help save me from myselfInsults are not tolerable (even in friendship !) It’s better to move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 05:57 PM |
| 5 | When a woman lets a man take her to McDonald's for the first dateAt this age an ice cream will do. Past HS it’s better to leave me alone than to take me to mc Donald’s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Online dating optionsThen leave it if it doesn’t spark joy. And with the quarantine, you aren’t going on a date anytime soon. Invest that time in you. Your HVM will find you when you will have the right mindset | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Online dating optionsMaybe it’s your mindset ? You let that affects your self esteem. Tell yourself that you’re a 10 and see how life treats you (just by doing FDS you are a 10). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:17 AM |
| 6 | When a woman lets a man take her to McDonald's for the first datePast high school. Do some men truly do that ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 08:35 AM |
| 9 | What you have to answer when you hear “I’m not ready for a relationship?” Or “I want no strings attached”?I love the first answer. Honestly if there is compatibility, he will commit to you without even realizing it . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 08:05 PM |
| 19 | Just blocked a guy after he said he’s not loooking for something seriousThey want to fuck a bunch of women but can’t afford it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 02:43 PM |
| 37 | Just blocked a guy after he said he’s not loooking for something seriousSo many of them ask it immediately on OLD. They don’t necessarily just want a hook up as fast as possible . I met a dude like that 2 years ago. He would stop answering when I talk about having a drink. He came back a few days later and I told him that I understand that he wants something casual but I’m not the kind of girl who invites strangers at her place for sex. He said “I forgot to answer . We can still meet . Do you live alone ?”. I said no with my family. Then he stopped messaging me 😂😂😂T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 12:02 PM |
| 28 | Just blocked a guy after he said he’s not loooking for something seriousYeah. I feel like she goes out of her way to explain herself to a stranger on the internet. I’ve blocked men that didn’t want to call me and moved on with my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 11:59 AM |
| 45 | Just blocked a guy after he said he’s not loooking for something seriousI don’t see them as high quality fulfilled men. It’s impossible to have a high quality life while constantly chasing girls and having meaningless interactions. It’s just draining! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 11:58 AM |
| 34 | Pickmeisha is messaging girl to rub it in her face that she's dating this guy. HVW is unbotheredSame. I would not even reply | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do men always keep ghosting me without a answer?Men text us at the beginning because they think we like that and use it to chase us. But they aren’t big on texting. I learnt to value my time more Even with my friends. I don’t reply to useless texts anymore. I stopped texting 24/7. In high school my best friend at the time would know what I’m eating minute by minute. It’s just a time waster (unless we have a long distance friendship but in that case I only text them when it’s important and when I know they aren’t at work making money). I prefe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Not emotionally attached to sex?I believe that you can make him chase now, it doesn’t mean it’s a high quality man . If you are confident in yourself you should be able to see what men has some sort of potential and which one just wants sex. It’s very easy to tell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 03:50 PM |
| 20 | How FDS has changed my lifeTrue. They like a challenge . If you are their dream girl they will come to you. They really have the scarcity mindset when they feel like you stand out. I mean I’m great but I’m sure that other women in his country are great too. I just did FDS and the rules and brought my goddess feminine energy to the table. What I think made him addicted is the fact that he feels masculine around me. That’s the only thing they care about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 03:31 PM |
| 1 | LVM complains about how expensive it is to string four women along.If he has a lot of money it won’t matter. One dude spent $600 on my friend (they went to expensive museums and dinners) . He ghosted before the 3rd date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Not emotionally attached to sex?Most girls are pickmes . I was one before and most of us on this sub were like this too . I agree about the orgasms part and sex can be great without the orgasm. But science shows the release of neurotransmitters that make us bond during orgasm. I’m not making this up. The connexion you have during sex is not AT ALL the connexion that helps you see if the man/woman could be a good Long term partner. Sex is very mechanical for men. To simplify their sexuality if the girl is attractive and has goo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 03:18 PM |
| 5 | Feeling the whole “Lord grant me the confidence of a mediocre man” today.The title is hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 02:30 PM |
| 7 | Not emotionally attached to sex?My male colleague kept on chasing a girl after sex. He put her on a pedestal before the sex (she was a 9 to his eyes). The girl was from abroad but she spent the we with him. He had another fuckfriend (a 7 through his eyes) that he ended up ghosting to have this new girl as his new fuckfriend/situationship. They would text constantly everyday. She was an easy going girl and the sex connection was his best. If I remember correctly, the hot girl wasn’t texting him much before spending the week end… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 02:28 PM |
| 41 | How FDS has changed my lifeAnd it shows that I’m respecting natural laws. He’s the one traveling to me, I’m not the one traveling to him. He was already dreaming about moving to my country before meeting me. I feel like life forced him to do it by putting me on his road. When there is a hot girl involved, all of the sudden they do what needs to be done | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 12:36 PM |
| 8 | Why do men always keep ghosting me without a answer?You are probably focusing on those who ghost you instead of focusing on those who have some potential. We attract what we focus on Texts aren’t meant to get to know someone. Keep everything light. Make jokes, ask them to help pick the color of your nail polish. Get them to call you “ I’m sick of texting. Call me real quick “ or send vocals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 12:32 PM |
| 9 | Not emotionally attached to sex?I’m able to separate lust from love when I absolutely don’t see myself hanging out with the man again. Well this was my past. Now I think why sleep with him if you think he’s dumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 12:30 PM |
| 17 | Not emotionally attached to sex?Men can separate lust from love. Us women receive a huge shot of oxytocin during orgasm which causes us to bond. Men receive a dopamine shot (I’m not sure if it’s the right neurotransmitter but I know it’s not oxytocin ). For them it feels like their whole body was congratulating them for having sex. Sex isn’t a tool to bond for men. It can be an amplifier if the connection was already there BEFORE. I also think that men lose interest after sex, not because of the sex but because we turn into pi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 12:28 PM |
| 113 | How FDS has changed my lifeI agree on rule 3. Men would do anything for their dream girl. I met a foreigner before the quarantine. We both clicked deeply. Well, he’s now applying for a work visa to be in my country. Men will do anything for their dream girl. Absolutely anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 12:22 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of men who don’t post pictures of their girlfriends on social media ?Yes. Just a “me and my gorgeous girl” would make me melt. Most HVM would do it naturally when they are truly in love and see a future with you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 05:30 AM |
| 17 | Make sure you're not with him just because you want something to love.Volunteer with kids or pets. Or give that love to the homeless or your friends I find it silly how society conditioned us to love. It almost asks us to take any man (usually LV) as long as we are in a relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:18 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of men who don’t post pictures of their girlfriends on social media ?I used to work with men. Nothing shocks me anymore. I know all the silly stuff they do to cheat. Do you find that now that you do FDS, men see you like the only goddess on earth or do they still cheat ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:16 PM |
| 8 | What do you think of men who don’t post pictures of their girlfriends on social media ?My uncle (Cheater) asked me to set up his FB settings in a way that he gets a notification before getting tags on pictures. He had his side chicks tagging him and his wife would see it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:01 PM |
| 54 | Make sure you're not with him just because you want something to love.The fastest way to experience love is by giving it away not by receiving it. You don’t feel love when someone that you don’t like likes you. But you can still feel love when the love that you give is not reciprocated I gladly recommend you reading what about love from Gina lake. Free pdf online | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of men who don’t post pictures of their girlfriends on social media ?Thank you I’ll edit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:12 PM |
| 10 | What do you think of men who don’t post pictures of their girlfriends on social media ?I find it awful to hide your girl because she’s not attractive! One dude at the uni was doing that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:11 PM |
| 38 | What do you think of men who don’t post pictures of their girlfriends on social media ?A lot of men look like “they don’t use SM much” a lot but they watch all the stories of their ex tinder dates/bikini pics without liking them. Average Men spend as much time on it as an average IG user . They just don’t post much. Successful people don’t use SM much in general. It’s too much time consuming Edited | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 02:12 PM |
| 26 | What do you think of men who don’t post pictures of their girlfriends on social media ?I used to also think “it’s just social media” but it has taken so much space in our lives that it’s not “just social media” anymore. I see so many pick me girls posting pics of their man but the man never posts anything. Like when I post pics and my best friend at that time would not like my bikini pic (although I know she saw it), I would feel like she isn’t happy that I feel confident in my body. We aren’t friends anymore. She deleted me on IG 😂 she was so insecure about her own looks anyway a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 01:49 PM |
| 16 | What do you think of men who don’t post pictures of their girlfriends on social media ?😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 11:57 AM |
| 8 | Was I too sensitive or is it my faultThis is a very HV /loving answer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 11:52 AM |
| 3 | Is it normal that guys in their early 20s expect you to pay and how would you do about it?Exactly. You can practice this with everyone. Even women and men you aren’t attracted to. Life is not all about attracting men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Is it normal that guys in their early 20s expect you to pay and how would you do about it?Oh I stopped doing it. I’m an “adult” now. Looking back I’m sure if I would have told those dudes “let’s go for a walk instead” they would have said yes. Men say yes if you challenge their usual routine. I realize now that I was doing what my pickme friends were doing. No one was poor in the schools I went to (average or wealthy but never poor). FDS is about being hard to get/hard to keep. But being around you is always pure joy. Being bubbly doesn’t mean sleeping with everyone or telling them y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal that guys in their early 20s expect you to pay and how would you do about it?In what country do you live ? Maybe date young men that come from wealthy families. Money is not an issue with them In college I had real dates with older men but I would also accept dinner dates at home with no sex. Now that I do FDS i know I should not have but for me it was always clear that sex was not involved. It was just the cheapest option. You can tell them that you would love a picnic date and let them buy /organize the stuff. Or go for an ice cream date . It’s quite cheap for them. Do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 06:29 PM |
| 12 | Is it normal that guys in their early 20s expect you to pay and how would you do about it?Do you like those guys you are on a date with ? Do they like you? Some men don’t pay if they end up not liking you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Writing a MOH speech for a marriage I don't support? Help!I can totally see why she’s always attracted to LVM/abusive men. That’s all she knows. We are attracted to what’s familiar Check Marisa Peer on YouTube. She’s an hypnotherapist. She talks about hat and what to do Your friend needs some spiritual/inner work too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Writing a MOH speech for a marriage I don't support? Help!She needs therapy. Try to help her with that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 01:38 PM |
| 6 | How does one properly love themselves ?Repeat all the time “I love myself”. The mind learns through repetition. The actions will take care of itself. First you become them you do. Check Marisa Peer on yt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Bf is insecure, because gf’s ex(hvm) still pays all her billsOr those “friends” who said that you should lower your standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 01:32 PM |
| 7 | It’s not always possible to have fast confirmation of low value behaviour. Which is why it’s important to vet and CONTINUE to vet throughout your relationship.Same!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:12 PM |
| 16 | It’s not always possible to have fast confirmation of low value behaviour. Which is why it’s important to vet and CONTINUE to vet throughout your relationship.Oh yeah. Basically everyday you start again. You need to ask yourself when you wake up “hmm do I choose him today ?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:11 PM |
| 7 | The importance of having a rosterYou know better now. Your job is to pick the best candidate. They need to prove themselves to you. Being exclusive with you is a privilege. You can’t give it to a random dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:04 PM |
| -8 | one important yet often understated piece of advice for women who want to start dating HVMMy friend does my tarot reading. I ask if my date is cheap before going on dates and what are the flaws I will have to deal with if I pick them. For those who believe in tarot reading/astrology , it’s incredible how many information you can get 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 05:11 PM |
| 4 | Don't you LOVE Meagan Good's husband, Devon Franklin? He is THE ultimate high-value male. I have been following their marriage for the last 7 years and as an atheist (they're Christians and he is a pastor) I am in awe of them and cannot get enough. I wanted to share this with my FDS gang!I didn’t know he was her husband! I watched the podcast that’s a good one. I don’t advocate for no sex before marriage tho. He s really handsome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 04:59 PM |
| 11 | Sometimes it’s just another human connection and nothing moreAre you a writer ? (Serious Q) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 04:56 PM |
| 20 | The importance of having a rosterTell them that you barely know them to tell them yes or no. It’s strange that they talk about exclusivity straight away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 04:51 PM |
| 8 | The importance of having a rosterI feel like doing this even in a relationship now 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 04:48 PM |
| 39 | Read receipt strategyIf they are trash why are you even posting this ? Block and move on sis. With HVM, don’t always answer immediately. Live your life and answer when you catch a break | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 04:45 PM |
| 21 | When should a HVM stop dating other women?Hmm. A man can date multiple women but commit to none of them because he doesn’t like them enough. You should focus on the one and one “relationship” that is going on between you and him. Not what he does with his other dates. And you certainly overestimate the amount of sex he’s getting. Going on dates with other women most of the time just mean talking, diner and kissing. Men don’t have as much as as we think. It’s hard for them !! I personally don’t ask if they are seeing other people just li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 04:41 PM |
| 35 | This subreddit has saved my life. I’m looking back at the red flags I ignored and I just can’t believe I put up with them!Méditation, gratitude journal Catch every negative thought and replace it with “interesting. I won’t let that sink in” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:06 PM |
| 7 | He ghosted me...my response? How do you ladies deal?You should care more about high quality texts. Men text us good morning texts in the beginning because they know we like that. But in reality most men aren’t big on text and use their phone for logistics /quick flirt. I’m not sure about the intensity of your relationship but i would not be surprised if this took a break because of the crisis. Leave it like that and get busy with your life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a guy that has InstagramThose random baddies are photoshopped as fuck so I would not care. But if it’s women from tinder and you see a lot of them, it’s a red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a guy that has InstagramOmg ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Not wanting a guy that has Instagram😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a guy that has Instagram😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 08:24 PM |
| 21 | Pretty much all of r/relationship_adviceI’m crying 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 06:30 PM |
| 6 | Not wanting a guy that has InstagramI find it a bit controlling no ? Why not just avoid dating a man that follows stuff that you don’t want your man to follow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 06:05 PM |
| 10 | Not wanting a guy that has InstagramOh I laugh when I see men following facetuned baddies. I always think “ you’re getting catfished my dude” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 05:05 PM |
| 7 | Not wanting a guy that has InstagramLol. No men know that many girls organically. But following doesn’t mean he’s sleeping with them. Actually the more girls they follow, the less they are getting laid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Not wanting a guy that has InstagramWtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 05:03 PM |
| 4 | Not wanting a guy that has InstagramThis is also true. One colleague deleted Facebook because his side chicks would tag him and his ex was making drama . He also stopped using IG because she was looking at who he was following. He only kept Snapchat and follows strippers there. He uses it to announce his trips . Once he posted that he was in his hometown and some girl offered to pay a uber for him because he didn’t have a car. His girlfriend was in the city where he works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Not wanting a guy that has Instagramhttps://youtu.be/UAqj2LHYKt4 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 04:26 PM |
| 22 | Not wanting a guy that has InstagramI feel like most men follow their friends on IG. Only Low value men only follow bikini girls but I doubt you are into those men anyway so you should not worry about that ? Are you into very high caliber men ? In that case I will worry more about that than a man following a model that he will never date/meet anyway. High caliber men will have women following them. Your standards are your standards so there is no question here. I personally don’t want a man that spends too much time on social medi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag? How to react in a HVW way ?Tell him this op | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 07:48 PM |
| 8 | After becoming exclusive/official for a while , what is a way that one can disclose one is a virgin in the most FDS way possible? Should it be casually mentioned or more formally ? Etc .Hmm. I recommend doing foreplay only at the beginning so that you realize that virginity is not something as important as society makes it look like. You are just having sex for the first time It will help you also get used to nudity/intimacy After those sessions , when you are ready for penetrative sex, just say that you have never done it before and ask him to go slowly. Buy lub and put ton of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 07:45 PM |
| 23 | Why would a man be a bachelor later in life if he claims he has always wanted a family?Why do you expect a man that has 2L of love to give you 50L. Those men know that they have nothing to offer . They are giving you a gift by being upfront about not wanting to commit. Believe them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 08:15 PM |
| 3 | What Do Women Want Out of a Relationship?It’s the sex that makes us women go back to the same dude. When you look at most toxic relationships. Everything is shitty except the sex. Us women stop thinking clearly when the sex is good. This is why if you want something serious, delay the sex to see if it’s truly a great match. The connection you get from sex is not the kind of connection that helps you decide if it’s a great long term partner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Preach, babygirl!Ill try to find it again. But I’m sure he spreads the same message on almost any video. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 04:53 PM |
| 8 | Preach, babygirl!I think what you mean by healthy “clinginess “ is: being present when you’re man is around you , and being thoughtful and nurturing . But then completely be independent when you are apart and saw one other sufficiently I’m slowing down with the nurturing part tho. It’s a masculine trait not a feminine trait contrary to what society tries to teach us. High quality men love taking care of their family/women. They are really driven by that. I want to nurture babies. Not my man (unless he’s sick/sad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 01:11 PM |
| 13 | Is it okay for a man to be selfish with the others, while being a HVM with his girlfriend?I personally want someone who is good to everyone not just me. I want a dope individual not just a great partner. I notice that a lot of my friends partners are like yours. They treat their gf well but completely ignore the people around them. I love watching my partner being kind to others | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:56 PM |
| 69 | What Do Women Want Out of a Relationship?Not even for the child. Having a healthy relationship costs money. Women need to be romanced for the relationship to work+ sex. That’s just the way it is and men are driven by making the woman they like happy. It’s hard to plan nice dates with no money. The books on self development cost money. The hobbies that make you an interesting partner cost money. The couple therapy will cost money too. Money removes a lot of stress from lives in general. It’s not about spending someone else money. It fee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:52 PM |
| 32 | What Do Women Want Out of a Relationship?Esther perel explained that women get bored faster than men in a relationship. Especially because of the sex.we need romance. For men it’s just mechanical | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:47 PM |
| 4 | Preach, babygirl!I love you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:42 PM |
| 4 | Preach, babygirl!He’s looking for you too. Have you tried doing more activities where the kind of men you like go to ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:41 PM |
| 6 | Preach, babygirl!Focus on becoming high value yourself. Like attracts life. I recommend investing in self development. I don’t recommend all the dating advice of Matthew hussey but when it comes to becoming a high value person yourself, he’s extremely good. He’s the one who inspired to start working out, set boundaries, develop assertiveness. He doesn’t just do dating advice. He does life advice. When your life is great, attracting a high quality man is a byproduct. Honestly low value men know with who they can … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:40 PM |
| 6 | Preach, babygirl!Exactly. It’s only when they make money and become successful that women start looking st them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Preach, babygirl!This absolutely normal as human beings. We are attracted to familiarity. This is why we click immediately with someone that comes from our country when we are traveling To go back to relationship, you can teach your brain anything. Including teaching him that you are only used to HVM. Even if it’s just someone you saw in a movie. Teach your brain that that’s the only behavior you want around you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:28 PM |
| 16 | Preach, babygirl!It’s funny because the woman i meet that are single at 30 are the ones with the most exciting life/higher self esteem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:24 PM |
| 4 | Preach, babygirl!I was watching a podcast from Lewis Howes. He said that some women would talk about wanting a child within the first 5 mins 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:23 PM |
| 5 | Preach, babygirl!This is crazy. I look at the people I know in my life and trust me. I know no one in a healthy relationship. They all settle and accept whoever want them (male and female). I like what Matthew gusset said once “ don’t fantasize on other people crappy relationships. “ And from dale Carnegie “a great relationship requires hard work “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Preach, babygirl!It’s usually the sex that makes us stop thinking clearly. My idea: Also the conditionnement to love by the society+ lack of good examples of healthy relationship + lazy ness to go find someone else. For sex women have the abundance mindset but for dating we have the scarcity mindset | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:18 PM |
| 4 | Preach, babygirl!Alexandre Cormont. He’s French actually but also has a channel in English | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:15 PM |
| 4 | Preach, babygirl!It’s funny you say that. I just received a DM about that “if WoMen aRe So MuCh BeTter , whO fIGht fireS , DoEs the HeAvy lIftIng and proViDE proTeCtion ?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:13 PM |
| 5 | Preach, babygirl!Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:11 PM |
| 143 | Preach, babygirl!Also LV women tend to be clingy during the relationship but I notice that LV men see your value only when you’re gone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 08:32 PM |
| 50 | Preach, babygirl!I’m always ready to block! No matter how much I like you. If there is something off, it means I learnt what I had to learn with you and it’s time to say goodbye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 08:31 PM |
| 90 | Preach, babygirl!I honestly feel like even the biggest HVM will never be as great as the biggest HVW. Us women are better when we work on ourselves. Men have access to the world through us. They step up their game by being around us. Just listen to any successful man. There is always a woman behind him. Look at a successful woman, there is a woman or many women behind her. One study showed that women heal from cancer faster when they have female friends. Men heal faster when they have a wife. Really, we ain’t br… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 08:29 PM |
| 5 | What are 5 things you love about yourself?We all should read this whole thread everyday. Only by reading this at the first person i increase my self esteem and it’s not even my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 07:53 PM |
| 215 | Preach, babygirl!One dating coach I follow said that the woman should give the vibe of “you can lose me anytime if you under perform “ with men. It’s rare to see a woman do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 07:50 PM |
| 0 | He’s been calling me “wifey” onlineDon’t bring it up. You aren’t supposed to look st his SM. Reddit is pretty private. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 09:17 PM |
| -1 | Have you ever left a good man for no real reason?Do you speak his love language, does he speak yours ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 09:12 PM |
| 10 | As if being single is a disease 🙄Hes amazing when it comes to leveling up your life and having boundaries . I love how big he is on kindness. But when it comes to dating, i feel like he teaches women to date the way he taught his former male clients. I have one dating coach in my country that teaches us stuff close to FDS. In English, Dr Antonio something is the closest I found to FDS. MJ Harris is great too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 11:54 AM |
| 5 | He keeps viewing all my Insta stories. Does this mean anything?It’s just the internet. IG is built in a way that it is addictive and you crave novelty . I’m sure your female friends from high school you haven’t talked to in years still watch every of your stories too. Watching stories doesn’t mean anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 11:40 PM |
| 14 | What mixed signals really are.They are just chasing girls that are more challenging than you. They come back to you when those girls reject them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 11:33 PM |
| 68 | As if being single is a disease 🙄I’m very concerned ! I saw a post yesterday from Matthew Hussey answering the women that ask him how to live when you are single. Seriously some women can’t imagine themselves single ?!!!!! Waow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 11:22 PM |
| 12 | For those of us who think finding an HVM is next to unreal. Being single forever may be a reality for some of us, but you create a high chance of finding a suitable partner with your mindset first. Align yourself with your desires. You deserve it.I meet a couple of HVM easily. They are just not my type physically :( Sometimes it’s their finances but the rest is great | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 07:44 PM |
| 21 | Has anyone had feelings for their partner just suddenly stop?Its completely normal to have ups and downs. Esther Perel says that a lot of people ignore that it’s usually the woman that gets bored first in the relationship because of the lack of romance. We need seduction for sex. For men it’s just mechanic You can both already start studying the material I just sent. It’s also normal to want novelty. You seem to love your BF and he seems to love you too. In everything I do, I like to give myself fully for 3 months to decide if I quit or continue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 12:18 PM |
| 52 | Has anyone had feelings for their partner just suddenly stop?Women need to constantly be seduced so I understand how you feel. Maybe your man took you for granted because he never felt like he had to work hard for you. Hmm.. Think on paper. Write down the + and the - of what he does but also yours. What your needs are, talk to him to know his needs. Discuss a couple of actions you are both willing to take to save the relationship. Give everything for 3 months and reassess. Maybe he needs to read a book on the female psychology (I liked the men’s guide to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 11:29 AM |
| 2 | More antecdotal proof that men prioritize physical type over anything else, even if they don't know it. Don't waste your time if you're not his physical type.personally I think a mans type is part fantasy and part what makes him feel comfortable without having to grow or change. Girl, I’m dead !!!!!!! All men want the perfect 10 wifey material but only 5% of them are willing to do what it takes to have such a woman . Then they find themselves in unhappy relationships settling for women that they take for granted. This is why it’s important to communicate your standards. The 5% that is willing to grow/improve will do whatever it takes to have a woman … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:06 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when you're trying to distract/prevent yourself from texting someone?Honestly just reading this book puts me back on track when I’m weak. It’s the Bible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | More antecdotal proof that men prioritize physical type over anything else, even if they don't know it. Don't waste your time if you're not his physical type.I’m very confident in my looks so I didn’t feel ugly. I just told myself that he was not a kind dude. I was 21. I didn’t know at that time that it was possible for someone to have sex with someone they didn’t find attractive. I didn’t know that most men simply take whoever want them because they don’t have options. This dude was super strange . He didn’t talk to anyone the first few months when he moved in (this is what my roommates were telling me). Maybe he was autiste i don’t know or didn’t k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:24 PM |
| 5 | More antecdotal proof that men prioritize physical type over anything else, even if they don't know it. Don't waste your time if you're not his physical type.They all want a 10 but don’t dare to go after them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:28 PM |
| 3 | More antecdotal proof that men prioritize physical type over anything else, even if they don't know it. Don't waste your time if you're not his physical type.I had a thing going on with my roommate. I would always dress nicely at home and do my make up. He still said that he didn’t find me attractive and that we were hooking up because I asked. He called me a few months later to say that he wanted to be with me even if it’s in 10 years. I said “ you said I wasn’t attractive”. He didn’t argue with that. I will never date someone that doesn’t find me attractive. No matter how great he finds my personality. He needs to show me off ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:27 PM |
| 5 | More antecdotal proof that men prioritize physical type over anything else, even if they don't know it. Don't waste your time if you're not his physical type.Of course! Beauty (and personality)alone doesn’t keep a man (especially a man that has money ). Girls like Katya Elise Henry are complaining about men not treating them like a queen you know... she’s gorgeous and adorable but I feel like those girls aren’t practicing what we preach here This is why we do FDS. They need to work hard and you need to be the secure one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:19 PM |
| 1 | More antecdotal proof that men prioritize physical type over anything else, even if they don't know it. Don't waste your time if you're not his physical type.It’s true that following a lot of girls in general is strange anyway. (Unless they are friends/colleagues but it’s never the case. It’s always girls from dating apps) The biggest players are on Snapchat. Not IG. You have more privacy there. My male colleague deleted his Facebook because some girls were tagging him when he had a girlfriend. His girlfriend would check the girls he follows on IG so he also decided to not use it much. He only kept Snapchat. When he travels (we work abroad), he puts … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:14 PM |
| 8 | Just wow! Cut your losses sis. He dont want you!😂😂😂😂😂 It’s true that within the first few minutes I’m able to say “it’s not him” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:11 PM |
| 7 | More antecdotal proof that men prioritize physical type over anything else, even if they don't know it. Don't waste your time if you're not his physical type.It’s risky to follow new girls/leave comments when they are dating. They just keep the hot ones on their social media but delete the average looking ones to pretend that they take you seriously now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:55 PM |
| 117 | Just wow! Cut your losses sis. He dont want you!After6 months ,studies showed that men know if you’re the one or not. He’s just telling her to leave him but hasn’t got the strength to break up with her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:04 PM |
| 11 | More antecdotal proof that men prioritize physical type over anything else, even if they don't know it. Don't waste your time if you're not his physical type.Exactly. There is a difference between who follows him and who he follows back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 08:28 PM |
| 21 | More antecdotal proof that men prioritize physical type over anything else, even if they don't know it. Don't waste your time if you're not his physical type.True!!! I really don’t understand why !!! They are a 3 but call a woman fat because she has bigger legs than them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 08:13 PM |
| 4 | What are some signs he JUST WAS NOT THAT INTO YOU that you wish you would have seen as a Pickmeisha?There is short term attraction and long term attraction. Some men message me only when I post bikini pics and ask me out. A few days later they forget that they asked me out. Now I only reply to those that ask me out when I post normal pics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020I can totally get why it sounded like that. The post wasn’t that much about that dude (we are good so far and I found out that he likes me a LOT). I was just reflecting on men in general that look confident but still lack confidence in themselves in some areas. What I interpreted like a lack of interest (because of my ignorance) was just a fear of rejection . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020It’s okay. Great that you get his hints now :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Find another dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Oh yeah breakfast dates sound awesome. Next time I have a date I’ll suggest laduree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Oh yeah I hate it when they ask for my social media! They just want to see bikini pics. I don’t like it too much when men follow me on SM. I have my brother on IG and I’m always afraid that some dude writes inappropriate stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020I listened to a podcast by Matthew hussey and Aubrey something and it made me realize that no matter how someone may portray themselves as confident and have no reason to feel insecure, they still fear rejection. I mean both of those dudes are REAL catches (hot, muscular, successful, kind, well rounded, self aware and into self development). In one video Matthew said that he didn’t know if he could kiss that girl he was on a date with. They even said that they get ghosted by some girls. I went o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020The goal at the beginning is just to have real dates. Not Netflix and chill dates. Most men don’t mind going on real dates (if they can afford it). You don’t need to clarify verbally that you are looking for something serious if you behave like someone who does. So no sexy pics, be sexual without sleeping with them (compliment on their body, kiss etc) , no date for the next day. The rest is in the handbook. Basically just don’t behave like a bootycall. If the dude is just looking for a booty cal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 03:17 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Don’t tell them straight what you’re looking for. It makes you look as if you will take any man. Just say something like “I’m just talking for now. I’ll see how things go later”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Flirt with him a bit and see if he’s flirting back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020I find dinner fucking long! What if you don’t like him or he doesn’t like you ? I know we can all leave at any moment but I find a coffee date reasonable when it’s the very first date. Especially with OLD. It’s just a quick “I want to see what you look like and check your vibes in 1hour”. Then leave. It’s not a real date actually. The second one is the most important | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 01:01 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Yes. Most men have the potential to step up their game. They are used to insecure women that allow low effort so they think it’s ok. Once you show once that you are HV they understand the message. They either chase you more the way it should be or they remain LV and you have to block them Edit: a word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 12:58 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020If you feel like you have to be aloof around him then you don’t like him. If you like him , you naturally wants to be warm. Remember , high quality men just want to experience your soft feminine energy. They want to observe your excitement about life. That’s all. They are really turned on by happiness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Why did he ghost ? Was it a true ghost or you just lost contact ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Lmao. I need to watch that video | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020I made a list too! It works very well. Unless you have mental blocks around your ability to attract exactly what you want. Most girls date low value /insecure men because they never met high quality men before. Once you know what exists out there, you refuse to settle. The first step is to become HV yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020You can initiate the touch tho. Nothing sexual and nothing too direct. Feminine energy is about touching. Hug when you meet to break the physical Barrier Sit next to one another on a bench Touch his arms or thigh for one second. Do it often but it has to be super short. Unconsciously your mind will synchronize and you will bond. Then kissing will be easy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Say nothing. Just don’t act like a booty call . Wait for 2-3 months and see if they bring up exclusivity. If not start dating other men . As the weeks go by, you should see that he’s trying to see you more and more Never talk about exclusivity first. They need to feel like it was their idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Practice self love meditation, I believe that everything that is messed up in our lives is because of lack of self love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 10:30 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Great that you see that there are stuff you need to improve about yourself. We all need healing before starting new relationship. Your next relationship starts when you start the healing process. Not when you meet someone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020I love what you see about seeing her become more confident. The drink date is not a turn off for me. You can come up with a more exciting suggestion. I say no to walk in the park, hikes etc because not only it’s dangerous to go hiking with a stranger but also they just don’t want to spend money on you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 10:23 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 10:16 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020I was listening to Esther perel today and she talked about the fact that there is no “the one”. You pick someone and choose what are the problems you will be ok dealing with. I tried to think of what problems I could be okay with and I’m like “cheating no. No Financial security no, disrespect no, fuckery no”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 10:04 PM |
| 1 | I have a bf and he makes me very happyI did it on date 2 lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | I have a bf and he makes me very happyI tried it with German /Spanish men and they didn’t like it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I have a bf and he makes me very happyI feel like men associate hand holding with commitment (if done when you walk) not when you play together at the cafe. When do you start doing that ? I love holding hands | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | FDS works and I’m bummedThat condom free sex seems to be perceived as a demand for exclusivity by men. My friend (pickme), met a dude on tinder. After a month she asked him for exclusivity and ask him to get tested so that they could have sex with no protection. The next day the face of the dude literally changed. She asked what was wrong. He said that he was afraid of needles. I didn’t mention that he was a tattoo artist and had tattoos all over his body For your case. It reinforces the idea that men need to feel like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Finally met a HVMSo many girls get raped with OLD. We don’t hear about it often | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 09:17 PM |
| 1 | FDS works and I’m bummedExactly! I don’t attract Toxic men anymore. I attract men that aren’t a high caliber for dating but I would not mind being friend with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | FDS works and I’m bummedWhat do you think made him lose interest in chasing you ? Was it just a lack of compatibility? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | FDS works and I’m bummedExactly. I have a lot of HV female friends and I don’t want to date them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Female nicknames for menI didn’t take it like that. By writing a female name she doesn’t think “I need her to love me” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 08:46 PM |
| 3 | I have a bf and he makes me very happyHand holding in the cafe to flirt or walking around like a couple ? And Around how many weeks/dates did you do that ? It’s sad that we have to mention “it has been an easy ride “. Love should be easy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020It bothers me that he chases me while he’s still heartbroken. He should heal completely first IMO. I can understand that some stuff sounds crazy but I know what I’m doing. I’m not emotionally involved the way I used to when I didn’t understand the male psychology. I’m VERY confident in myself and I saw the ex (and the girls who follow him) and I have nothing to worry about. I’m very careful with him and my intuition has NEVER deceived me. I don’t think he can find better than me and he seems to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020I found my guy on OLD. He showed one LV behavior once. I redirected him and taught him that with me he can’t behave like that and then he started to invest. Men of OLD allow themselves to be LV because too many girls allow them to be like that . They see you in 2D, as if you were a sims avatar. Some of them have potential but because most girls say yes to Netflix and chill dates, they think they can do it with you too. I was watching a video from one dating coach. He said that he has a friend wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020So during the 2-3 months of courting you don’t initiate anything AT ALL ? I feel like you can occasionally plan something to show your personality too. Like once every 3-5 dates planned by him, I did it . Like surprise him with a fun activity without telling him what exactly we are going to do. It shows that I can lead with my feminine essence (i lead by staying playful which is different from the male leadership) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 01:36 PM |
| 5 | How do you distinguish the fine line between settling and making a mature decision to be with someone despite their flaws?Think on paper. This is what successful people do. Write your qualities and your own flaws. Then write his. My friend did that when she wanted to break up with her boyfriend. She realized that she was actually the worst one lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020When do you start to initiate dates ? The man should do it ALL the time ? (During the courting ?). Does it change when he commits ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Give him just enough reason to approach YOU, not the other way around!They see each other’s at the gym daily already. Find a place that you can go often. When your face is familiar it’s easier to talk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020The sexual escalation. Does he talk about his body in an indirect way ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020Oh yeah being on tinder is not a problem. Ok if he was showing you something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020I just don’t touch my phone at all. It’s not just men. My friend also used her phone during her date the other day. Since they talked for 3 hours at some point she checked IG. He also replied to a text his ex sent in front of her . Actually I’m only mad when I care about the dude. If I’m not into him I think “I’m hanging with a friend “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020That’s the point of dating apps. Once your current date is over, you’re already swiping on the next person But why did he have his phone during your dates ? I mean that stuff should be in the pocket the whole time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020I don’t see the point of being mean. Especially if you are talking via text. It’s hard to show the proper emotion. Not only that but if you are looking for a happy relationship you need to learn how to communicate with kindness even when you’re mad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020I used to be like your friends 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020Thank you! Even if the man might be looking for something casual ? You would expect him to say it early on ? My friend (female) has also been married (now divorced), and she also says it on the first date or the second one. She says it’s extremely important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020After how many dates do you expect the man to tell you that he has been married before ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | I can't tell if he just called himself a dog or thinks I see him as one... but point is: he completely missed MY point. 🚮🚮🚮This !none of them think “oooooh, she’s mad. I’d better act better or ill get some trouble “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 04:05 PM |
| 2 | I can't tell if he just called himself a dog or thinks I see him as one... but point is: he completely missed MY point. 🚮🚮🚮“If you sense that I have been distant it’s because yes I have been”. LMAOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 04:03 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020I’ve just watched a super interesting video on OLD . The video says that a lot of people are addicted to it even when they are in a relationship. They feel like checking who is in there. (One of my colleagues did it once although he was in a happy relationship). And because of OLD people have less tolerance in a relationship and break up faster than what they used to. They have a sense of (fake) abundance and they have a fear of missing out. This is crazy! I’m glad I left and committed to 3-4 ac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 12:18 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020It’s completely normal to be better at giving advice than following. Emotions are more powerful than logic. Learn to love yourself more and the actions will take care of themselves. Repeat daily and often : I love myself. I have so much to offer to others. I’m so loveable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Give it 2-3 months. You can see if he truly likes you if he wants to see you more and more. In 2-3 weeks you can already start dating other men but don’t tell him anything. He will notice that you are less available for him and will probably like to talk about it. Let him start. And tell him “ I have a lot to offer to a man so I don’t feel happy spending that much time with you if we are just casual. What do you think?” Let him answer that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:04 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Ice cream dates, you can also drink non alcoholic beverages;). Is it common in England to have men pay for your taxi ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 08:45 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Going to the movies on my own for the first time. I found a free event online for an avant première. I feel like I wasted the last 3-4 years of my life. I didn’t have much social life going on for me . Before that I had a social life around parties and drinks. With the gym I’m not into that anymore. And I don’t feel like it makes me super interesting. I want to make new female friends so I’m always going to networking events. This week end I’m going to a free cooking class with a friend Edit: wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020There are so many HVM out there. They will manifest when you build a life that you adore and are loving and positive. No one can be more wrong for you that someone that shows red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 08:42 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020I don’t like the idea of because you do arts, you need to make average income or be poor.’ Learn how to market yourself. There are plenty of books on advertising. I like cashadvertising | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:41 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020You need to communicate your standards in a loving way. No need to be passive aggressive. If you feel like you’re being triggered it’s time to block. He didn’t say Netflix and chill so there is hope I would just say “ thank you for the invitation. Unfortunately I’m busy this Thursday. What about Friday ? There is that amazing Italian restaurant that you will love “ If he still talks about casual “chill” dates. Just say that you need more time and investment from a man before chilling at his plac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Message her to let her know and then block her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020That’s a great video indeed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 09:25 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Your post was hilarious Welcome back queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 07:54 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Send me the link of that video if you don’t mind.’ Mj Harris is lovely. I like the video he made on how to be more feminine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 06:51 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020I’ve just looked her up. I’ll check her videos later. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 10:19 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020I’m also looking for a successful man or one who is working On becoming successful but it is not to live off of him. It’s to build together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 10:18 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020I love Matthew hussey and how big he is on kindness and assertiveness and self love (he taught me that at a young age). He’s the reason why I started the gym a few years ago and attracted better men , friends and got into self dev/spirituality a few years later. But, I’m realizing that he actually teaches women to date like men. Because he used to coach MEN. I love his book and him but I’m now taking his stuff with a pinch of salt . What do you all think of school of affluence?. I feel like her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 07:45 PM |
| 5 | A Kiss Can't Lie: If he doesn’t kiss you, he‘s not in love with you.Waaaaaaaawwww 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:25 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020You should not take stories/ SM so seriously . I also watch the story of David Beckham it doesn’t mean shit. I kept some men I went on a date with/slept with with no meaning at all. I just don’t like/comment their stuff . I think they are good people so I keep them but it doesn’t mean anything. If those dudes ghosted you then yes they are Fuckboys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:20 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Don’t go on his phone. Dump him if you don’t trust him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:17 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Do a FaceTime Make sure you meet in a public area too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:16 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020I personally love it! It’s good to do different things. So high value | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Thank you! I actually had an epiphany today and realized that I could not believe that he was occupying so much space in my head . I’ve been a traveler too and I never cared about the men I met on the road once I got home. It’s a lovely memory but that’s it. I got over him after posting this. I feel like I needed to express how I felt somewhere. I definitely have/had a scarcity mindset and I feel like it grew as I aged but I’m getting rid of it slowly and surely. I’ve been realizing that there a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:25 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Look for the quality of your interactions instead of the number of texts. I don’t like small talks and if we text, it has to be a bit flirty but short. Not the whole day. And I mainly want to use it as a logistic tool (links, info about dates). I don’t need “good morning “texts for example. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:08 AM |
| 0 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜I get your point but if you go that route, we can say it too for a lot of things we do as FDS followers “ letting the man pursue us” “letting him provide etc” I’m not excusing low value men for their behavior, I’m just saying that I understand now why getting a girl pregnant is easier for them than marrying you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Can we just talk about the horrid men's need to chase?Yes be feminine but also develop some masculine traits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:03 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜When I say “they don’t do much of that freedom” i meant “they don’t work on their goals/don’t accomplish much in life” I find it sad tho because a lot of those men that don’t marry aren’t dating their dream girls (this is why they don’t want to wife you most if the time). They can’t have their dream girls because they are low value. So they settle with the first girl that want them but they aren’t fulfilled. You should reply that so that you stay elusive and you don’t give them the idea that you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 07:28 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜I finally understood why so many LVM don’t mind getting you pregnant but don’t want to marry you. It comes down to biology. Men want to spread their semen everywhere but marriage is perceived as a loss of their freedom (although they don’t do much of that freedom) . They have a huge fear of commitment this is why it’s better to let them talk about it first. From a logical standpoint it doesn’t make sense tho. I’d rather get married with a lvm that having his child. At least with the marriage if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜A lot of men are in their immature masculine. Just like a lot of women are in their immature femininity. It requires inner work to be in your mature essence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜Communicating with your feminine side is more about your body language (how you smile but also when). How you pace your voice, we contact etc. Your ability to stay loving etc. Let’s say he interrupts you when you talk. You should : “makes eye contact and shut up and see if he notices thatsomething is wrong. If nothing, say “ my love, i love the conversations we have and how passionate we are when we talk about something but I don’t feel respected when you interrupt me” . Then wait for him to see… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜I would add learning about feminine leadership to this list | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:06 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜After 3 dates ghosting isn’t kind. It’s not because he’s low value that you need to become one too. Just tell him “ hi Steven. I understand that you might be busy but since I haven’t heard from you for awhile, I felt like you were not that respectful and I started to lose interest” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 12:14 PM |
| 25 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜What I find incredible is that so many of them refuse to hit the gym hard and eat well but expect their girl to be thin and dress well all the time. The audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:48 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜You have no idea about how many times I’ve been called picky /shallow for saying that so and so wasn’t attractive. The same men saying me that were attracted to women with big boobs. I had the most shallow colleague ever. He would find so and so too fat but would recommend me to date a man with a beer gut although he knew that I go to the gym almost every day. My female friends telling me that “everyone has something” were all insecure about their own looks so it’s completely normal to not ask f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:27 PM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜I’m watching a dating advice video and they talk about the difference between the male attraction and the female attraction. The coach (woman) says that she has dated ugly men in the past because they were confident and recommends us to do the same and not look at the physique too much. It’s true that having a good heart makes me want to be around you. But why date? Why can’t we just be friends with amazing men that aren’t attractive physically? A lot of women think like that but I wonder if the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 02:35 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜Excellent for the break up! And also they start to regret because now you won’t put up with their bs and they realize that only a few women are like you and they don’t deserve you. I’ll add to this that the masculine energy/essence is about thinking. They love solving problems and figuring out why x and x is happening. They shut off to words also because I believe that it come off like drama. Men don’t know how to handle conflicts and the human body has the same reaction as when we are being pur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 02:19 PM |
| 47 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜I’m being called psycho on r/love for giving FDS dating advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 07:22 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)😂😂😂😂😂😂 I just got downvoted to hell on r/love when I suggested to a girl to not say I love you first to her new boyfriend and that he should be the one saying it first. The entire community told me that “tHeRe waS No GAmE NeedED wHen YOu LOve SoMeOne” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 05:47 PM |
| 10 | No effort from them = no effort from you. Men will initiate texts, dates, and commitment with women they’re really into. Don’t give them excuses for not trying and program yourself to literally be turned off by their lack of effort.So fucking true! They stalk their social media as much as us. Not necessarily who they follow but like they always want to see more pics etc . Get a confident boost when you like their pics out of nowhere . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 03:00 PM |
| 13 | No effort from them = no effort from you. Men will initiate texts, dates, and commitment with women they’re really into. Don’t give them excuses for not trying and program yourself to literally be turned off by their lack of effort.Yes! The friendship would have been over. It has happened in the past then it felt awkward . I’m so happy I found FDS . I used to follow the advice of my friends that would tell me that approaching and asking men out was ok. I was complaining that I was only attracting men below my league. The truth is, I started to get hot men talking to me by becoming hot myself and less needy Edit: misspelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)My friend kept the flower her ex husband used to propose her . She still has lovely memory of their dating before marriage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)You have no idea of how many creeps messaged me. One wanted me to sell my underwear. I also made 3 real friends here on Reddit so it’s not always that bad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 12:39 PM |
| 27 | Stop engaging in FWB relationships! It does nothing but make you an unpaid escort who will eventually get her heart broken. Women aren’t built for casual relationships. You deserve a man who loves you, treats you like his queen, and commits to you. You deserve the full package!It says a lot about him not you. Why do you except 68liters of love from someone that has 2 liters only. That’s all they have to give you . Accept this and move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 10:02 AM |
| 58 | No effort from them = no effort from you. Men will initiate texts, dates, and commitment with women they’re really into. Don’t give them excuses for not trying and program yourself to literally be turned off by their lack of effort.This!!! There is a dude at my gym that I kinda found attractive. We greet each other’s daily. I was telling myself that I would like it if he asked me out. I don’t ask men out anymore and notice that I Protect my feelings a lot more Yesterday we talked and he said something like “my girlfriend xxx”. And I understood that he didn’t ask me out because he already had someone. What’s written in the rules is truly true. If he doesn’t ask you out, there is a reason. Most men aren’t that shy. And when … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 10:00 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Do what feels right to YOU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:55 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)How do you act when you wear a tight dress on a date and other men are checking you out ? I have an extremely fit body that pulls a lot of attention so I’m wondering how to react as a FDS woman if my new date notices that other men are checking me out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)My friend says that most men don’t break up even if the relationship isn’t great. They always wait for the girl to leave them. What do y’all think ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Work on your self confidence and read the rules | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I wonder how they found this sub. I’m a girl and I struggled finding a sub like this one. After reading the rules, i was wondering if some women were applying that stuff and being successful at it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:49 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Go to his house to see how he lives. Let him initiate sex. You can make it easy for him by accepting a date in his area (exceptionally for this time). If he proposes something far away, look for a place near to where he stays . Say something like “sounds great, what do you think of doing this instead” Also don’t sleep at his place after sex. Sleeping next to you has to be something he has earned. He will be surprised because most women want to stay over and cuddle. For a lot of men sleeping is m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:48 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)This! Casual sex was so empowering when I was in my 20s. I felt adventurous while chasing men etc. Movies like “friends with benefits” made casual sex trendy . A part of me would chase players because they were hot but I would not ask much of them because I was telling myself that they had nothing to offer. Another part of me found them way too hot to date me. They ended having relationships with girls that were hotter than me. Today what’s empowering is communicating my standards, not messaging… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 11:47 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)The goal is not to get a date. The goal is to get GREAT dates Some men have potential tho. They just do the lowest effort possible because some girls let them get away with this. Block those who talk about sex too soon obviously. For those that ask for cheap dates, usually it’s just that they don’t make much. If they look like they make enough, say something assertive but soft like “I like home cooked dinner . We can keep those kind of dates for when we will know each other’s better. What do you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Have sex with him once or twice and then move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 10:09 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)My OLD date didn’t say my name once out loud. I thought that because I have an exotic name maybe he was afraid of mispronouncing it so I said something like “my friends always tell me Nzeto, you are too xx” to help him with the pronunciation but still nothing. I feel like since he talks to multiple women, it’s better for him not to say names so that he doesn’t confuse us . My colleague called his girlfriend “Sarah “ during sex when her name is “Brenda”. After that he told me that he stopped ment… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 10:08 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)They only notice it when you aren’t educated. If you grew up in the same area, it’s their norm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)No I don’t know any Samantha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 07:13 AM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)That’s okay. Those are just thoughts. You don’t need to buy them . What matters are the actions you take daily to move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I didn’t know it was a book | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Yesterday I posted something on askmen. And some of them told me that high quality women were rare. It’s a bit of shock for me. I’ve thought that we had more high quality women than men. I try to analyze my female friends. It’s true that a lot of them are pickmes with men and don’t apply FDS but they are still great women. I only know 2 real high value women and I met them online . Most of my female friends are insecure on some level and accept subpar behaviours from their men. I also have great… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 05:21 PM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I deleted those apps last year and never looked back. It was bringing negativity in my head and I was building the mindset of “most men are unattractive or the hot ones aren’t high quality”. I don’t want to have that kind of thoughts. I noticed that when I have beautiful thoughts, hot men show up in my life by themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I feel like a lot of women deal with those men without even seeing it. I feel like most girls are truly desperate for a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Thank you ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 10:45 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I was expecting a pick me message but girl, you got me proud 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)It doesn’t matter what men like. What do YOU like ? I like sightseeing so I have no problem going with my date to the Eiffel Tower then follow up with a coffee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)We don’t recommend drinks here because with alcohol we don’t see red flags 🚩and become overly excited because alcohol gets us off guard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)“That’s sound lovely but What do you think of an ice-cream right now? There is that place downtown that makes froyo ”. I’m personally into dates that aren’t conventional. The dating coach I follow advises us to redirect men to better date spots to stand out. Most of the time they take you to the place they took their previous dates to. He says that when he talks with his male clients, the date spots they remember are the ones the girl took them to . Not the pizzeria they go with all their dates … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:40 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I like what’s written in the rules “ if he’s just messaging you, he’s just making a conversation. What matters is when he asks you on a date”. I follow a French dating coach that has that philosophy too. He says that a man that is interested with ask you out within the week he met you. I think you just have a new pen pal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:29 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Write it in your journal and move on. A lot of people ignore it but your power isn’t in your words, it’s in your action Edit: typo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:25 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)It depends. Could you afford not being friend with him if it doesn’t work out ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:22 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:21 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)The boyfriend of my friend didn’t want to move in with her when they were living in a cheap city. They moved to the capital city (where everything is expensive ) and now they live together. When you’re the one asking to live with him it’s over for you girl . Another male friend of mine (low value as partner but great friend) also moved in with a girl that was chasing him when he wasn’t finding her attractive. Guess what: he cheats on her when he’s traveling. I feel like he moved in with her to s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:20 PM |
| 13 | How did you figure out your career path?Do some deep thinking; write on paper what’s your dream life would be like. Most people don’t know how to set goals. They think about the” what i want to do” instead of thinking about the “who I want to become”. You should also write something about your main values. It will help you have a strong “why”. When we are lost it’s usually because we don’t know who we are and what we stand for. Writing down your values will help with that. It doesn’t have to take forever. Just take the first step | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Why men are the one who must pay for datesThis! Most people don’t have the great relationship they portray on social media tho. A healthy relationship requires hard work and kindness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:00 PM |
| 12 | Why men are the one who must pay for datesI totally get your point . It’s not so much about paying, it’s about investing. Men fall in love by giving not by receiving (a lot of girls don’t know this). It means they must give financially, but also their time and energy. Money has been created by society. But as women we are biologically here to receive. Cooking dinner for someone is an act of giving. It doesn’t have to be spending money in front of the girl. Also giving gifts is a love language. Not everyone is responsive to this love lan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 02:41 PM |
| 83 | HOLY SHIT! FDS made the Wall Street Journal!I love this. I actually started to think like that when I read an article from a trainer who was talking about growing a nicer butt. He told men “if you want a girl with a nice butt you need to have one too. You can’t ask others to have qualities that you don’t have yourself”. I made a girl mad on a forum once. I said that I was only asking for muscular men because I was fit myself. She replied so « you’re implying that ugly people should date each other’s and hot people should date each other’s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:51 PM |
| 2 | The Bible has arrived! Something in this book made me not regret giving chances to low value men occasionally . Let me explainI practice receiving/being served by/ with (male) strangers. I say yes when they offer to help me for small things, I go to the cash register where it’s a man I also like to sit next to men on the train to amplify my feminine essence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 08:42 AM |
| 2 | The Bible has arrived! Something in this book made me not regret giving chances to low value men occasionally . Let me explainThank you for this. I consciously know this but I still get crushes. Instead of beating myself up, I accept things the way they are. Having a crush is an emotion and emotions are more powerful than logic. But I also know that although I can’t control my emotions I can still control my actions. Which means that I delete social media so that I can focus on my own life instead of watching what others are eating for breakfast and stalking my crushes and the tinder girls they follow. I join activitie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 08:33 AM |
| 6 | The Bible has arrived! Something in this book made me not regret giving chances to low value men occasionally . Let me explain👑👑👑👑👑👑👑 real shit right here. HVM just want to be around women that are pleasant to be around with their own exciting life. Also you are never a mean girl with men that you don’t like too much. (At least I’m not). I just don’t invest much. I practice on them to know how I should act when someone I Iike doesn’t behave the way I would like them to behave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:32 AM |
| 9 | The Bible has arrived! Something in this book made me not regret giving chances to low value men occasionally . Let me explainYou should read the rules too! I like it even more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 08:16 PM |
| 21 | The Bible has arrived! Something in this book made me not regret giving chances to low value men occasionally . Let me explainThank you for that. I’ll keep it in mind for the next dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:09 PM |
| 118 | The Bible has arrived! Something in this book made me not regret giving chances to low value men occasionally . Let me explainWhy going on dates with Men you don’t like too much sometimes can help you. Last summer, I accepted a tinder date with a dude that I didn’t like too much physically. He was a 6 but friendly . In my area most men aren’t hot. He was nice but the conversations were not that interesting. Sometimes I practice dating with men I don’t like too much to get ready for the men I truly like. I will for example train my leadership skills with those dudes, or redirect them to places where I would like to go w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Is it ever appropriate to initiate a date?Always let him guessing a bit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 6 | Dating someone with lower qualificationsI see. If she’s very passionate about her job (and she should), maybe they end up talking about it a lot and it gets boring. When I’m on a first date, I don’t care much about what question. I care more about the “why” question. Maybe she should ask more questions like that. The goals of those first dates is to figure out each other’s value. When my date told me that he went shopping with his mum to buy her orthopedic shoes, I understood that he was a caring/family person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 6 | Dating someone with lower qualificationsI’ll add to this that 2 years after your studies, no one care about what diploma you have. We care more about you improving your skills on a daily basis and being self educated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Is it ever appropriate to initiate a date?I agree with others but it’s also nice that he sees that you are still a mystery . If he knows that during the week you are busy with work/school, he never fears losing you. I think here you will create more mystery/make him thinks “hmm what is she doing” by asking him out during that special day when you are off but then decline his invitation for this weekend. Say you are busy this time but don’t tell him what you’re doing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 12:55 PM |
| 6 | Dating someone with lower qualificationsHmm. My male friends don’t mind when their GF make more money than them. They don’t date them for that. But for who they are. Is she the bragging type ? Does she mention it because they asked or she just say it out of nowhere. She’s the recruiter during the date. She should be the one asking questions to men to see if they are good enough for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Yes you can, you get tf away from them the moment the attention you give is not reciprocated and you feel yourself falling down the rabbit hole!A lot of people think that loving is just with the heart. No ! It’s also with the head. If you are turned off by a racist dude even tho he looked friendly in the beginning, why can’t you teach your brain to be turned off by men that show LV behaviors | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 12:34 PM |
| 6 | Should you reinforce good behavior in men by thanking them?I really like what you’re saying OP. And I love how you train men/dogs lol. It’s the same psychology when you raise kids actually. It requires a lot of patience but you’re doing great. I also give less attention when I see bad behavior instead of saying anything (I block when I see disrespect. No drama). I only like your pics or watch your story when you ask me on a date. I reply low investment texts when you give me a heads up when youre in town . I also kiss after you ve paid during the dates.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 12:28 PM |
| 6 | Should you reinforce good behavior in men by thanking them?I notice that those stuff work on kids too. I was complaining that my baby cousin never kisses me. Her sister said “oh with hi it’s whenever he wants”. 1 hour later he gave her a kiss and didn’t kiss me. They hate receiving criticism. It’s just a psychological thing. Not an age thing. Also kids don’t like getting a no. I learnt from a negotiation book that we should learn to say no without saying no. Like instead of saying “don’t touch this”, say “I love this box so much. It’s very fragile . Pla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Really struggling with self esteemHigh self esteem comes from your inner dialogue. Check Marisa peer on YouTube Basically you just need to tell yourself kind words even when you don’t believe it for now . The mind never argues with you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Just because you think you're dating a HVM, it doesn't mean he's "the One"; Don't get desperate if you suspect he's losing interest.A man (women too) can have sex with no feelings for the other person. The rule is to not share bed until you’re sure he’s got feeling. For a lot of men sharing bed is more intimate than sex actually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Low Value Scrote Admits to Using Tinder as a Free Escort ServiceI’m 26 but still afraid to go to an internet strangers place. It’s very dangerous!! Be careful ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:23 PM |
| 1 | This is why we need to have high standards and vet vet vet! LVM value their dicks over human decency 👏🏾I don’t think so many girls accept that. Remember most men don’t have that many options and don’t get matches on dating apps . Only the very attractive get matches and it’s like 10-20% only. My male friends (average looking with no money) would get maybe one match a week . I knew them for a year and they only managed to sleep with 2-3 average looking women or below (their words). None of theirs girls made them pay for dates. In fact they were paying for their own drinks or even buying theirs. No… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 11:55 AM |
| 2 | This is why we need to have high standards and vet vet vet! LVM value their dicks over human decency 👏🏾👑 They definitely step up their game when you show them that you have higher standards. I feel like some girls with low self esteem made everything harder for us HV women because they let men treat them poorly without saying anything. Then those men start to believe that they don’t have anything to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 11:50 AM |
| 3 | This is why we need to have high standards and vet vet vet! LVM value their dicks over human decency 👏🏾They have way less options than us. I slept with a dude that didn’t find me attractive and he told it to me when I asked him. I had a low self esteem back then and didn’t know that some men could sleep with you without finding you attractive. It’s effortless sex for them. I have a male friend like that too who doesn’t mind sleeping with girls he doesn’t find physically attractive. He goes for the girls that chase him. He rarely makes the first move. He also cares about personality tho. He wasn’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 11:47 AM |
| 3 | It took him exactly five weeks and five days from the first date to making me his girlfriendIt’s true that they don’t get as many attention as we think they do (even the HV ones since they are also picky ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | This is why we need to have high standards and vet vet vet! LVM value their dicks over human decency 👏🏾Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 05:09 PM |
| 7 | It took him exactly five weeks and five days from the first date to making me his girlfriendI understand what you mean but I also don’t see myself seeing a dude for 6 months that still doesn’t want to be exclusive and stop chasing other girls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 05:08 PM |
| 5 | It took him exactly five weeks and five days from the first date to making me his girlfriend😂 they want to move in in houses they don’t own ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 05:07 PM |
| 13 | How can I use the "single until married" strategy effectively?Same! I think it’s more for religious people or people that want to stay virgin until marriage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How can I use the "single until married" strategy effectively?Same! I think it’s more for religious people or people that want to stay virgin until marriage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 04:33 PM |
| 6 | I've been in a relationship with my (26f) boyfriend (31m) for seven years. I am the definition of a forever girlfriend.What are the major differences ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 03:34 PM |
| 12 | I've been in a relationship with my (26f) boyfriend (31m) for seven years. I am the definition of a forever girlfriend.I didn’t know that since I don’t have experience in either of them. I used to see marriage just like a party but I believe what I read. Can’t wait to have my own experience ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 03:26 PM |
| 45 | I've been in a relationship with my (26f) boyfriend (31m) for seven years. I am the definition of a forever girlfriend.Omg this is so true! My friend had a man making her 2 kids but didn’t want to marry 😳 he said that after 4 years he still wasn’t in love but thought that the kids will make him fall in love Having kids is a bigger commitment to me than marriage but apparently not for those men. My brother also got his gf pregnant but they aren’t married. They were together for years. He visited me when I was living abroad with her but would tell me she was his friend lol He introduced her to my parents only 2 mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 02:09 PM |
| 4 | I’m reading “the mans guide to women” and they recommend to men that don’t like giving orals to suck it up. What are your thoughts ?Yes. Love with your head. Not just with your heart. This is the realest thing I learnt when I read the rules last month | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 12:21 PM |
| 3 | I’m reading “the mans guide to women” and they recommend to men that don’t like giving orals to suck it up. What are your thoughts ?I like combining both . In whatever I do I always feel like you never have enough hands nor enough saliva | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 12:19 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)Make a list of what you expect so that you have something to refer to whenever you aren’t sure about a dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 09:52 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)Congrats on the money !!!!! I ordered the book today too! Can’t wait | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 09:48 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)Tell you have a boyfriend . I say thank you because I’m cultivating that energy of being open to receiving (attention ) from men . In the past I was a lot ore shut off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you feel physically lonely?What’s their purpose ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 09:10 PM |
| 12 | How to to weed out any LVMEspecially when they are hot and have game | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 09:03 PM |
| 16 | OLD Red Flag #4: Peek-a-boo abs picThey are just looking for a hook up when hey do that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 10:34 AM |
| 29 | OLD Red Flag #4: Peek-a-boo abs picI made a list of my ideal man and I was afraid to write “has great social skills” because I felt like it was too much to ask and I was being picky. But you know what, the universe gave me someone that has excellent social skills. I almost cried 😂. Life loves me too much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 10:34 AM |
| 38 | #JustLVMThingsThis reminds me of a dude I met on tinder. He wanted to see me somewhere where he didn’t have to pay for anything. I initially thought that he was just looking for a hook up so I told him that I respect whatever he’s looking for but I don’t go that fast with men I don’t know. He replied “no problem . We can still hang. You live alone right ?!”. He wasn’t looking for just a hookup, he was looking for a free place to stay . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 10:29 AM |
| 8 | Can we just talk about the horrid men's need to chase?Hard to keep forever. He should always feel like he has to step up his game with you. I like the 3:1 ratio. He has to give you 3x more than you give him. If you are in your mature femininity, you will attract HVM that are in their mature masculinity. Basically if you are extremely feminine right now (in touch with your emotions, create a lot, live in the present , hedonistic), you need to build masculine traits (assertiveness , goal oriented, challenge yourself, stillness, independence etc )to b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 08:01 AM |
| 5 | They Always Come BackWere you hard to get /doing FDS well ? How is your personality? (Do you get a lot of compliment on how beautiful your mind is as well ? Not just looks? Are you funtobe around and multidimensional ( extremely sexy but also extremely curious, hilarious, spiritual ). Most of us are a bit of everything but when you are extremely X,Y,Z and not a bit of everything, you create addiction. If you are just extremely hot, you’re replaceable Edit: the only time someone stopped chasing me for someone less at… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Tip: Lean in for the kiss, but never connect it yourself. Always let him close the gapI saw a PUA video today for men. They are teaching men to tease us to the point where we are so turned on that we are the one kissing the man. The coach came with a female friend to teach his clients and it’s true that I would be turned on if the man was making me wait like he showed . I feel like if the guy has game and knows about pua stuff he will manage to make us kiss him. Also, I don’t know what to think of men that have great social skills/does PUA stuff. I watch those videos so I know ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Tip: Lean in for the kiss, but never connect it yourself. Always let him close the gapWhat if he kisses you on the cheeks when he says goodbye but has been extremely tactile the whole date ? My guess is that he thought we would kiss on the subway. I didn’t want to take the subway with him because we were going to opposite sites and I knew waving at each other’s would be awkward. When it was time to split I said “ I’m not taking the subway with you. I’m going to X”. He said ok then kissed me on the cheeks then I immediately reached his lips. I kissed him then I stopped for 2 secon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 09:23 PM |
| 5 | I think another FDS angel just got her wings 😇They definitely get a dopamine rush with every new match. If it was fulfilling they would be happy by now. Once you understand that they haven’t found themselves, you stop taking it personally. Anyone that has inner peace values high quality people in their lives. Most people don’t have inner peace. And you don’t want to date those people anyway. Do you ?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 08:55 PM |
| 3 | I think another FDS angel just got her wings 😇It took me awhile to admit that the social status was important to me. I wasn’t aware of it. There were handsome men into me but I could feel that something was off . I’ve been used to men that make good money/are educated (or come from rich families ) and I love that. I was living in an emerging country before. So when men with the minimum wage would approach me, I would also think “he’s cute but I’m not deeply attracted” without knowing how to articulate why. I met one dude at the gym (a 7) bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 08:50 PM |
| 16 | Can we just talk about the horrid men's need to chase?Do you see a pattern or was is it just that dude ? If they aren’t HV then they aren’t. But if they were and then stopped investing it means that you give them too much. You should always be hard to keep . Not just hard to get and then let him be comfortable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 08:44 PM |
| 7 | They Always Come BackTheir ex came back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 08:26 PM |
| 35 | They Always Come BackThey usually ghost for someone they perceive as being higher value tho. At least all the time I’ve been ghosted, it was for someone hotter than me or an ex that came back. Back then I was the pursuer so men didn’t value me much. And I wasn’t a fit chick either. Now that I’m hot and super confident in who I am (not just looks), men respect me more . Those who ghosted now wish they didn’t. It’s funny because I would put them on a pedestal “he was too hot for me anyway”. Now I find them unattractiv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 08:14 PM |
| 17 | They Always Come BackI have male friends doing that. There is nothing worst for a dude than having no one to hook up with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Daily reminder if no one knows you’re together, you’re 110% single and free to act single.“ I DoN’t HaVe oTHer piCtUres” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Really pause and think if it’s even worth arguing about #kickhimout2020Oh yeah I wasn’t thinking about abusive dudes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Yes, this is directed at you 👀 Block him, sis.Oh this of course. I was replying to the girl saying that that dude was still watching her story. I don’t mind if he likes celebrity posts tho but not bikini pics from his ex tinder matches 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | And the most high-value man of all has already worked on himself before trying to date. Don’t date projects.It depends! More and more people are into spirituality/self help books now. Sometimes it’s just by surrounding yourself with people that are into that that makes you click. I got a few of my male friends into that and I’m their “life coach”. I still have a lot of toxic masculinity behavior to make them unlearn . They hang out with low value men themselves so it doesn’t help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:37 PM |
| 3 | And the most high-value man of all has already worked on himself before trying to date. Don’t date projects.I’m the same and I’m a woman. I refuse to date when I’m unhappy. I see a relationship as a way to share the extra joy I have in myself. My friend went out from a mental hospital because of depression , got a 3 month old baby, broke up with her boyfriend that never loved her. She was already on dating websites to find a new man. I dont think anyone can have a high quality relationship when their mental health isn’t in check . A lot of people just want a sense of togetherness and want to say that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:35 PM |
| 10 | ‘Get the Ring’ Coach Says Women Should REFUSE To Be Exclusive. “Don't stop dating other men until he proposes”, advises 'Get the Ring' coach who did just that (and is now responsible for 95 engagements).Wow ! 1 year to get engaged after the first hello sounds soo fucking short for me! My friend got engaged after 6 months of relationship but they got married one year in. They divorced 2 years later. They were both 23. It’s different for everyone obviously. But most people don’t struggle to get relationships/married. The struggle is in getting loving marriages and high quality relationships and this happens only when you work hard on yourself . Most people don’t. This is why I’m not sure followin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:29 PM |
| 6 | Yes, this is directed at you 👀 Block him, sis.I pay attention to that social media validation. When you look at it at a biological standpoint, we just get a dopamine shot with every new story. He just watches the story of everyone . Not yours in particular. What matters is him asking me out and the time spent together. The rest is him wasting my time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Really pause and think if it’s even worth arguing about #kickhimout2020There is no such thing as “withholding feelings”. When a man is in love it’s clear and he doesn’t try to hide it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:17 PM |
| 3 | What are the mistakes you still make even if you mainly follow FDS philosophy?You’re lucky to have a lot of HVM in your life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 10:21 AM |
| 8 | What are the mistakes you still make even if you mainly follow FDS philosophy?My friend wants us to date 3 men/week. This is too much for me. 2 is my ideal number | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 08:18 PM |
| 3 | What are the mistakes you still make even if you mainly follow FDS philosophy?Are they usually cheap ? That dude is always buying new clothes and traveling. He isn’t rich but I thought that he’s alright. And I feel like it would be insulting to him to assume that he doesn’t make enough money because he’s from LA. I’ve been working on the feminine and masculine. Everything seems in balance with him so I want to keep it light that. I’m playful and surprise him, and I let him provide | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 08:14 PM |
| 36 | What are the mistakes you still make even if you mainly follow FDS philosophy?I used to pretend to pay before reading the rules book. Yesterday I try to practice the “I don’t do anything”. I had my purse on my lap. He asked for the bill, took it and paid. When I saw that he was reaching coins to get the exact amount. I touched his hands and said “thank you”. And he was like “oh, this is nothing”. He’s Latino so I think it was easier than with an European dude. My European friends hate paying 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 07:52 PM |
| -5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)If your needs aren’t met then leave. I’m just saying that when the dude barely knows you, he’s more driven by his sexual needs, than his needs to have a connexion. It’s your job to communicate /redirect him towards what you’re looking for. It’s not because you’re looking for a hook up that you are a Fuckboy ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 05:43 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)If he’s violent it’s better to warn I think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 05:09 PM |
| -8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)No. I can be serious with one dude and looking for a hook up with another dude. And I’m still high value | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:03 PM |
| -1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)That’s the touching then that needs some work Edit: do you show appreciation? Do you compliment him ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 03:37 PM |
| 28 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)If he’s not into the gym you should not force him. If fit people are your standards then date one . Physical attraction is very important for sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 03:03 PM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)Hmm. My friend had an abusive husband. The ex of her husband told her that he was abusive but she would not believe her. Until he starts being violent with her too. The 2 ex wives became friends after everything was over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 03:01 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)Who asked the other person out ? Who paid for dates ? Did you touch a lot during the dates ? Touching a lot early on and being warm is the secret to kissing during the first few dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:59 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:58 PM |
| -5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)Hmm. Blocking for that is a bit extreme for me. Remember that online, most men don’t create an account with the idea of finding the girl of them dreams. The same men can be serious and also into hook ups with 2 different girls. It depends on how you behave /show standards too. It’s your job to tell others what you want. I mean maybe I’m judging your standards, it’s not my intentions. I personally just block when it’s too direct “do you want to hook up?” For a where do you live, I reply casually.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:57 PM |
| -1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)Avoid bars and dinner. Everyone does that. It’s not because you want something casual that you can’t be playful and original . Make it a surprise for them. Don’t tell them where you’re going. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:50 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)You are right. My ideal man works hard and he knows that I’m into successful men. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:29 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)Its because I asked him what his goals were for the next 3 months. And he said “I would love to get a raise”. Then I said casually“oh I have great books on that. I’ll send them to you” I can understand that it sounds like life management but I just send books to everyone. Even people I just share a carpooling with. I read a lot of books . I also said that I would send him books on spirituality. But you’re certainly right. It s better to not send anything than have him believe that I try to manag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:49 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)I believe in saying your standards in a playful way when it’s just the first time. Men are used to last minute plans because other girls allowed them to do this. What I say in those situations is just “I would have loved to. Sadly I made plans on that day already. What do you think of rescheduling it to X. I’m not telling you where we’re going. It’s a surprise “(when it’s my turn to find a cool place) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:21 PM |
| 2 | The LURE method: How to make men crave youNot only that, it’s also the fact of building a life that you adore and finding your mission. You remain average when you don’t know where you’re going and don’t have big dreams . You can only grow by pursuing your dreams and staying true to your vision | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 08:20 AM |
| 1 | My crush is still not asking me out so I’m repeating to myself what The rules book say “if he doesn’t ask you out someone else will”. What’s good is that I know that this also helps me build discipline that I can use in business too and make more money.Oh yes for sure. High value for me means, at least a 7 physically with a muscular body. Not just abs. In term of character I’m looking for someone that Taps into his potential and lives with integrity. Has clear values and doesn’t settle for less. Kind, compassionate etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 08:50 AM |
| 2 | My crush is still not asking me out so I’m repeating to myself what The rules book say “if he doesn’t ask you out someone else will”. What’s good is that I know that this also helps me build discipline that I can use in business too and make more money.Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 06:05 PM |
| 7 | The LURE method: How to make men crave youCan’t believe that I have to go back to school to learn how to date😂. Do you have a YouTube channel that explains this? I need to focus harder to understand your entire strategy and imagine everything.With videos it’s faster for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 05:46 PM |
| 14 | The LURE method: How to make men crave youYes. High value for me means someone that has clear values and does inner work. Not just money and looks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 05:43 PM |
| 3 | The LURE method: How to make men crave youOh thanks for clarification. Approaching for conversation and Talking first isn’t considered as “making the first step “ ? In the rules book they say that we should not talk first. Just be bubbly and a little butterfly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Share your goals for levelling up in 2020Make my first million and have luxury brands taking me seriously 2.Date a high quality man for awhile. I don’t want to write too many goals because I know that I won’t have them in mind. What I wrote here are linked anyway. By making more money, I meet more people (I’ll have to network more, I’ll have bigger clients , i can also afford higher quality places etc ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 05:28 PM |
| 7 | My crush is still not asking me out so I’m repeating to myself what The rules book say “if he doesn’t ask you out someone else will”. What’s good is that I know that this also helps me build discipline that I can use in business too and make more money.I also prefer meeting men during day time activities . I ask for their jobs. In the clubs I go to, rich men go there. On Thursday it’s mainly afterwork party . Only people doing a white collar job do afterwork parties in my city at least :) I like Wednesday and Thursday because people are less drunk than during the weekend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 05:19 PM |
| 2 | When you go on a date, do you pretend to reach for your wallet?Most men don’t mind paying but don’t like it when we feel entitled. Pretend to reach for your wallet and see what he says. You also want to show that you can reciprocate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 10:46 PM |
| 10 | Men have high standards while expecting women to settle for lessI’m 168cm . I do like tall men but a lot of them are super skinny. I’d rather pick average size but muscular than tall but skinny. I refuse to settle tho. I want both 180-185 is my ideal height | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 10:12 PM |
| 20 | Men have high standards while expecting women to settle for lessIs it an epidemic in the USA « men with no jobs »?! We have jobless men in my country too but it’s not something that I’ve ever worried about . I don’t meet those men in my environment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 10:06 PM |
| 9 | Men have high standards while expecting women to settle for lessI didn’t find him attractive at all. He was way too negative and ethnocentric for my liking. He was super insecure about his dick size. He refused to date white girls that dated black men before him . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 09:58 PM |
| 6 | What are your biggest pet peeves from men’s OLD profiles?“No big butts “ “No black women “ Who wants to date your racist ass anyway ?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:49 PM |
| 6 | What are your biggest pet peeves from men’s OLD profiles?I found a married colleague on tinder. He didn’t bother hiding his face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:45 PM |
| 25 | Men have high standards while expecting women to settle for lessThey hide the girls they find ugly so much !! My male colleagues would show pics of hot girls they fuck to everyone. But would not keep pics of not so hot women in their phones so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 06:43 PM |
| 18 | Men have high standards while expecting women to settle for lessThis . My white colleague would say that he doesn’t want to date black girls because their butts and tits are too big and their hair are fake but je would find Kim k hot. He was into very skinny white girls mainly and liked flat asses but big boobs. I hit the gym 5x/week . But he would recommend me to date one of our colleagues that was hitting on me with a beer gut because he had “charisma” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do some women draw people to them, while others don't?It become who you are when you do it enough, A lot of people ignore it but you can alter your personality. And it doesn’t mean jumping everywhere. Just have a positive attitude towards yourself and others. Make a habit of speaking highly of others behind their back. You can rest at home I was shy when I was a child and lazy. Now I run a company and became a leader. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Why do some women draw people to them, while others don't?And how to talk to anyone. The audiobook is on YouTube | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Why do some women draw people to them, while others don't?Don’t compete . Dominate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 06:45 PM |
| 17 | Why do some women draw people to them, while others don't?Yes it’s the bubbly personality that works well. I went abroad to study and decided that I would become a better person. No gossip etc . In my hometown there was a girl that I found normal but all men were attracted by her. They would all say that she had nice facial expressions and she was never talking trash about others and always delightful. I decided to emanate her and started to attract very handsome men. To the point that my other female friends would be jealous because I was skinny . I k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 06:44 PM |
| 25 | Why do some women draw people to them, while others don't?It’s your energy (=thoughts )you have on the daily basis ) Have positive thoughts and work on your body language . From my experience we just need to show openness for men to come at us. The mistake I was doing was to be cold with men I didn’t like . Be friendly with everyone. When the man you like feels like you are approachable, he will come to you. It’s not the hottest ones that get hit on the most, it’s the girls that seem the more receptive/open | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 12:56 PM |
| 2 | The first dateAsk “why” questions to connect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 12:49 PM |
| 13 | MEN KNOW! Celebrity men discuss how they knew their wives were “The One” Almost ImmediatelyI’ve been hearing this a lot these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 12:39 PM |
| 1 | How can i meet girls after work?Go clubbing when you don’t work lol | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet women during the day?For the gym take classes | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | To keep texting her or to stop?Keep on meeting other girls. Keep having an exciting life so that you have a lot to share when you meet Like her social media stuff occasionally | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 03:23 PM |
| 10 | When to go for a kiss?The secret is to touch often. Not sexually. She will barely notice it actually. It’s like when you tap someone to say “hey look” you know ? Do it often. Touch for less than a second her forearm, knee, arm, upper back. It’s a very subtle move but it works. I’m a straightgirl and I know it works because I tried it with female friends i meet. By touching you make a connection. Often times, kissing feels weird because we go from 0 to a kiss. By touching often you build up the sexual tension Sit next… | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 03:20 PM |
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