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Why does this make you mad? Who cares? To me that is a golden ticket to go play whenever I want. If she didn't bring home an STD and she didn't cost me social points by bragging around town, let her play. I will do the same. This is coming from some kind of obsessive controlling puritanical Christian teaching that is hard coded since your childhood man. Let it go.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 08:08 AM
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You're not wrong. But. Lately, I've taken a new angle on things and I'd like to hear your feedback. I see each personality type; be it a bizarre little snowflake, a feminist, or a meathead, as an opportunity to improve how I handle that type of person. I used to get upset. Why did I have to deal with such and such today? I wished they would have disappeared. But now I find it a fun challenge to either improve myself or maybe help that person take the edge off. Anyway, I don't seek out crazy bitc…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 08:18 AM
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Thank you for the wisdom. This is a lesson I needed to understand. At 30 and looking back I can see you are correct in about 95% of the examples in my life. There was only 1 exception, but she was in love and I saw her only as a friend.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 08:00 AM
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Honestly, it is the betas' self-inflicted problem. Ive seen this a hundred times, heavily in Asia but not at all exclusive to this cultural group. If your wife says she isn't interest in sex, you explain the new relationship involves her becoming celibate and your freedom to have some things on the side. If she doesn't agree then you start the conversation on what her real issue with sex is. Never let a woman use sex as a weapon - ever. Your cock doesn't depreciate bro.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 11:55 AM
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Chicken and an egg agrument. It is always the man's responsibility to be more of an adult and lead the relationship. Otherwise, this is what you get. Zero sympathy. When someone treats you as a child, you must take action immediately.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 02:48 AM
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Chicken and an egg agrument. It is always the man's responsibility to be more of an adult and lead the relationship. Otherwise, this is what you get. Zero sympathy. When someone treats you as a child, you must take action immediately.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 03:24 AM
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Honestly, by the way her post reads, this guy is probably a loser. They both probably work, as most couples do these days. When he comes home, he probably crashes and plays video games. She gets pissed doing her share and his share of the chores. If he had any kind of discipline, his woman wouldn't dream of pulling that kind of shit. In fact, she should feel she is the one that needs to step it up to be worthy of him. Millions of betas out there, women are also adapting to survive it.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 02:31 AM
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Angry that you were ignortant in the past or angry that you can never unknow the truth? When you play poker with a weak player, do you not take advantage of the situation? Does that make it wrong that you could see what they could not? The weak player does not deserve some special treatment and neither did you. Be grateful for lessons learned before you're dead.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 08:36 AM
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Great sample of the state of affairs of gamergate. Chris Kluwe falls flat on his face and shows his twisted view of reality while Mercedes manages to display patience and maturity through repeated attempts to bait and trap her. This is a clinic in dealing with irrational or emotional attacks. Highly recommend this video both for the content and the debate lesson.
/r/MensRights08/05/15 03:57 PM
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Agreed. Leaders and entrepreneurs will accept their failures as learning opportunities, blaming no one but themselves. She failed completely as a manager. Yes, her initial assumption to only hire women was foolish, but a strong leader could have made it work. The way this article is written shows that she is merely another finger-pointer in the group.
/r/MensRights03/05/15 07:18 AM
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Oh god, I hate seeing that. I lose any shred of respect I had for the bros virtues when I see his mate selection and low-status in the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 02:14 AM
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I don't think it's fair to call it a straw man argument. There are two schools of feminist thought - both valid and real. There are significant differences between academic discussion, including intelligent debate and the boots-on-the-ground feminism that people experience in their lives every day. Most hostile comments on reddit about feminism are a knee-jerk reaction to those real experiences in people's lives. Just for one example, double standards in favor of women in courts and schools make…
/r/MensRights25/04/15 01:54 AM
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I agree dude. I like a woman with a firm-well shaped A or B. The biggest problem is that a small-chested woman is so damn insecure it often sours her personality. A woman with a nice rack is somehow always a pleasure to be around.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 01:10 PM
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I don't get it. If she was just a friend that you were not interested in, why would you care? Shouldn't you be happy to help your female friend get a partner? Seems like you were beta-orbiter but finally realized it. Perhaps it was never a friendship.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 12:59 PM
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This goes both ways. A woman that is fit, has more muscle that can grab you. But, if she doesn't activate those muscles during sex you won't feel it. This can lead to a woman being too tight for pleasurable entry if she is if very fit and very nervous. If a woman is fat, she probably doesn't exercise and won't be able to grip you. However, the added fat will tighten the space around her vaginal walls and you can feel the added pressure from that. Way back in the day, a chubby woman was considere…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 12:47 PM
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I understand there is a lot of misinformation out there. The truth is that a woman naturally becomes less tight over time. This can be hastened by stretching the vagina with large objects, including huge dicks, dildos, and most seriously child birth. It can be slowed via exercise. It's not rocket science.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 01:44 PM
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Depends on exercise. A post-labor vagina will never be as tight but it can be good enough to pleasure a man. Especially if the woman focuses on Keigels. A woman might take months to recover down there after different sized cocks. This is extremely taboo and difficult to find sources but I can tell you from personal experiences - both having been with a woman right after she was with a bigger partner and feeling the difference - and having a girl tell me her other partner noticed a difference aft…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 01:38 PM
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I knew a girl like this too, however I bought her her first vibrator and had to help train her to get comfortable using it. She was able to have her first orgasm using the toy. She felt sort of awkward with it at first. Correlation does not mean causation. Many many (maybe most?) women have problems achieving orgasm. Before reading this comment I always thought vibrators to be beneficial.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 01:30 PM
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Virgins are fucking annoying. They will pick fights and play games because they still think they are a princess. A woman with a few mistakes will cherish and respect a quality man and not test limits too far because she knows the sting of being dropped. Likewise, a woman(I would argue, also a man) with too many partners has given up.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:27 AM
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Hahah, cheers bro. I owe you a beer.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:20 AM
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I have never heard that argument about vibrators being bad for women's sexual experiences. Do you have any sources for that? Also, do you feel the same about male masturbation?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:19 AM
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Sort of a chicken and and egg phenomenon in my opinion. Loose vag women typically chase larger cocks, resulting in a looser vag. They are typically boring in bed and just want a passive power fuck. They rarely exercise and lack tightness from that. They know it's loose but they are too lazy to do anything about it. Sort of how small cocks get jumpy and uncomfortable when penis size is mentioned, women have equivalent insecurities.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:16 AM
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This is every outgoing woman above a 6.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:36 AM
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Perfectly said. You nailed it exactly. I am always amazed at the shock on a slutty girls face when she realizes that she has no chance at the LTR when she thought you were in the bag.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:34 AM
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Of course we do. The point is, it's human nature; guys must stop believing in the bullshit Disney fairy tale princess, and women should stop looking for Prince Charming. It makes you a sucker. In truth, there is a female equivalent for all of the male-framed arguments. For example, a loser chick that is bending over backwards for some douche-bag abusive BF. She would benefit from applying RP thinking. She should take control of her life. She should start working out. She should hold frame and te…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 12:56 PM
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Agreed. He may be the #1 of her orbiters, but then again you might be.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 12:52 PM
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That is the worst. Hate to leave a man behind like that.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 12:50 PM
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One of the greatest television shows of your lifetime.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 12:47 PM
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So is it possible for those few members to be -ist? If Condi starts talking shit about white dudes is she gonna get called on it?
/r/MensRights03/03/15 03:49 PM
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Travel.
/r/MensRights03/03/15 03:46 PM
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Someone please explain this to Hillary Clinton.
/r/MensRights03/03/15 03:45 PM
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Whatever makes you feel better. Still sounds like you value your ego more than progress man.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 10:42 PM
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While I understand your point, it is a bit of a cop out. Why you mention your height is also of concern. Plenty of 5'8" men grtting laid in your family tree bro. Bars are one of the easiest places to meet loose women. It is also a place where normal decent girls go when they want to do something fun, meet someone, or otherwise shake up their routine. That should be your target. Find thr boring girl sitting alone that feels uncomfortable because she isnt a bar slut. Will be a great catch. She wil…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 12:26 PM
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Cold hard truth. But dont forget the character part or you will have a revolving door of new friends that leave disappointed.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 12:15 PM
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Yeah, so true. When someone tells you how alpha they are, that is a huge red flag. Most true leaders are polite and welcome you to their pack. Their position is secure.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 12:12 PM
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I totally agree with everything you said. I guess I am hung up on the idea of a family. Hard to let go of that.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:04 AM
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Okay, I misunderstood your tone. Don't you still get some benefits from LTRs? I think it's nice to have that comfortable moment where nothing needs to be said, you can read each other perfectly. Or, when I consider the health risks and rather low quality of sex with randoms. Plates can be a nice middle ground, of course. Would you never do an LTR?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 12:31 AM
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> it's better to be alone with dignity than with some slag that walks all over you.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 02:37 PM
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I think it's always telling of one's character when they extrapolate one person's opinion to represent an entire group. This is clearly my observation in a group discussion. If you disagree or have something constructive to say, please voice your opinion. Otherwise, you're just another troll on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 08:15 AM
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This is how LTRs have worked throughout history and across cultures. The respect factor has to do with the degree to which one hides it. Have a side mistress. It will improve your frame and eliminate your #1's ability to manipulate you with sex. For health reasons, maintain one mistress at a time. When things go south, find a new mistress. By keeping this hidden from your LTR and public circle of friends, you show respect. If you throw it in your partner's face or make it common knowledge, that …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 12:04 AM
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I have to agree with other comments. It is worth the risk of a little drama. Just learn to deal with the fallout and enjoy a lifetime of plates.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 08:21 AM
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Second this point. In general do not take fashion, dating, or fitness advice from untrained women. If so, you have already gone full blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 02:35 AM
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So to sum up your point, feminism > other ideas. Why would you post this here? I think you got lost.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 04:21 AM
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I've also seen infidelity as a shit test. Also a call for attention. Pay attention to me or I will find someone who will.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 02:48 PM
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She is probably very insecure - betting $50 on weak father-daughter bond.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 02:41 PM
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Been on all sides of this. The weird part is how little respect I have for the chick. She knows what she is doing to that dude - my bro - and she is so selfish that she doesn't care for a second. How can I give a shit about her? All I can do is use her. I can never invest a shred of emotion in a person so careless of others. And then to realize the truth. The other women, the ones I did invest those emotions in, they were no different.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 02:37 PM
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You've got it backwards. This increases your appeal with the prospect. You are projecting your desires (a woman that is not too slutty), on to her desires (a man that is not too emotionally available). Full steam ahead is right.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 12:08 AM
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I recommend several of his lectures: Conquering the Dire Need for Love 21 ways to stop worrying How to deal with difficult people An example of a Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy session.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 12:44 AM
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There is a certain pressure to avoid hurt feelings and uncomfortable situations. It can get awkward if handled poorly. I agree though - not a negative hit to my ego.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 01:00 PM
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This technique was popularized by psychologist Albert Ellis in his defining methodology, Rational Emotive Therapy. Yes, it works for most people.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 12:56 PM
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This is so stupid. Never push through an injury or other real limitation. Not everything is meta or psychological, man. Yes, it's possible to exercise yourself to death.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 03:55 PM
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Just smash a few times and you will get over this. It might be worth hiring a professional woman if you are really having anxiety or something.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 03:48 PM
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Seen this happen to many bros. Been a victim myself. The hardest one was when I started learning game and had plates going for the first time in my life. Got in to a LTR and somehow thought my work was done. Like I had won the game. Foolish. I think it's important to remember that you built yourself up the first time, if you somehow got mind-fucked, it is possible to build yourself a second or third time. Better to not get caught slippin' in the first place though.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 03:43 PM
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American women are more than happy to show off their BJ skills, so we've got that going for us.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 03:27 PM
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There are few solutions and hundreds of ways to fail in this scenario. Without knowing the people and the details we can't give you specific advice. Keep your head down, stay out of the melee of the so called diplomacy. Building professional diplomatic trusting connections is only possible with certain men and certain women that act like men. If they are being catty, you should not invest a minute of your time. Further, if a man is acting beta, you can bet your ass he will stab you in the back. …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 12:16 PM
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If we are just talking about hook-ups, a higher number is good for the man and bad for a woman. Assuming he doesn't get sick. But, men and women alike will carry emotional baggage from numerous failed relationships.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 04:22 AM
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This is true, and people are not static either. We must be constantly gathering information and testing our assumptions. If you can't spot the sucker, it's you.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 10:49 AM
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This is some brutal truth. And perhaps we should also choose all three. At times in my life I have played each of those roles. Even as the sex buddy, there was something incomplete. I was not totally happy. As the LTR, there is always some drama, power games and insecurities on both sides. As the BB, you feel close and a deep connection but unfulfilled - partly overlooked, since she doesn't look at you as her Alpha. If dealing with a woman as described above (chick-players), I would never consid…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 02:00 AM
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Anyone on the fence about RP/BP should always remember this fact. They will even brag about it. As a BP, you are merely a pet.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 01:51 AM
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Is this her first mention of having a baby? If so, she was testing to see if that was a problem for you. I'd say 8 out of 10 guys will pass if they know there is a baby around. Women become very sensitive about that and don't want to get excited about a guy that is going to next her. So, when your very next message says "once my schedule clears up", it sounds like you are rejecting her because of the baby. She has probably been rejected like that several times and got aggro out of frustration.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 02:14 PM
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I totally agree with your post.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 03:19 PM
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Yes, that's right on. I can't imagine a partner that would not want to give intense pleasure to their lover. It is a hint at some fucked up mind games. I would next that shit soo fast.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 12:09 PM
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The fact that any man accepts the no is shocking. I couldn't imagine such a life.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 12:02 PM
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There are plenty of white chicks that don't care what color your skin is after they get to know you. Yeah, sure some are bitches and will Next you because you are a different race. But generally the problem is that they'll pre-judge you before they know you. You should find a way to show your value and help women know you better. That can overcome the instant judgement shit. Join clubs, be publicly visible. Make a lot of white guy friends and they will introduce you to their circle of friends th…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 07:14 AM
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I like your perspective. There is no leader or teacher in the world that does not allow their followers to make a mistake or two. In fact, there must be slip ups on the way to great things. How did you deal with the internal heartache? I think most men lose frame at this point due to the emotions of it and there is no coming back once she sees you are weak and broken. Also, I completely agree. Even as a man, random fucks are never as good as with a woman that loves me.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 07:04 AM
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Great example. Some guys seem to be entirely different people when their woman is around. Do you worry that those women will influence your own wife?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:47 AM
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Thanks for the comment. I like that you took her bullshit as a chance to show her what was up. How did she respond once you allowed her to come back following her family humiliation?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:46 AM
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Of course it's possible. I would say pound for pound a black man is at a significant advantage. There is so much cultural shit working against indian and asian men in the USA. They are stereotyped as the geeky, beta, anti-sex god. A black man is stereotyped as a stud. This is Hollywood level programming since birth. That shit runs deep psychologically. To compound the issue, what is cool in black culture(hip-hop, dance, being alpha, being athletic) is very cool for white people. What is cool in …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:33 AM
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BTH, white girls are the biggest sluts of them all.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 04:37 AM
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Non-PC answer, just how I see it: If you are handsome, have strong game, and dress well, you can smash white chicks. The higher quality, the more you will need of the above three items. Black guys have it the easiest of any non-white man. That trend peaked in the 90s. Lately it has been normalizing. Or, as you said, the stigma is equalizing for all non-white males. West, Southwest, and South are still very racist. Northeast and Midwest has the most opportunity for non-whites dating white women. …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 04:30 AM
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I think this is a finer point that society is struggling with these days. There is a big difference between being in harmony and being a doormat. If a person is weak they must project kindness, this is a beta strat to hide and survive. If a person is so strong that they know they can afford to be kind, it is alpha. Only a fool struts around picking fights and flexing. Any woman worth a damn can see this insecurity immediately. For me, the heart of buddhist thought comes down to, don't try to be.…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 03:01 AM
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I think you are spot on. Further, if trends continue the wage gap will significantly favor women in the near future. Consider the long term implications of the college graduation rates based on gender.
/r/MensRights05/12/14 02:41 AM
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Without question. Buddha started his life as a wealthy noble child. He was given anything in life one could imagine, luxury, women, comfort. This left him feeling discontented and unaccomplished. So, he gave up everything and began his quest for true happiness. He lived as a peasant and begged for food. He traveled and studied new ideas. Finally, starting a new religion that changed the world. He was as RP as they come.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:18 AM
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This is garbage.
/r/MensRights05/12/14 12:58 AM
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This just doesn't make sense. Why is there a Nazi flag? What is going on here?
/r/MensRights05/12/14 12:57 AM
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Dude, from your first post it sounds like you are a little star-struck. I am not gonna knock ya, she seems really great. I love that feeling when things are new and you can't stop thinking about her. It's fun. It's why we play the game. If you dig her, and you are able to keep your head on straight to lead her properly, it could be an excellent relationship. Don't kid yourself, there is always some bullshit that will piss you off down the road. Maybe after you commit, she will change. Maybe she …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 01:30 PM
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It was liberating as hell to tell a piece of ass that hot to GTFO and lose my number. This is how real men (and real women) are created. You have climbed the mountain and will never ever lose that until the day you die. You will recognize this power in others who have done the same. Welcome brother.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 10:15 AM
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Solid advice. This is broship right here. Never leave a man behind.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 01:45 AM
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Great post. Regarding your writing style: I liked the way you set up the premise of fantasy fulfillment and pulled it back around in the end. This created a nice feeling of book-ending your story and giving resolution. In my opinion, "I want you to think of your fantasy", should have been the leading paragraph because it immediately engaged me. I was curious to read more. Your opening was a little preachy, an example of "telling not showing." Maybe put that part second and as concise as possible…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 01:19 AM
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Many CEO types that must maintain constant frame in their personal and professional lives fantasize about a woman taking the reigns for a short time. It's a very common fantasy. There are even expensive sex clubs in most major cities that cater to this specific sub-culture. A man should never admit this fantasy publicly as it would seriously damage his standing, but fuck it, we're on Reddit. I'm with you bro. I don't have this fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 01:15 AM
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100% correct boys. Learn from this shit right here. Can't tell you how many women have swallowed my load and somehow rationalize that it "didn't count". Amazing shit. I can only guess it's a self-defense response to hurt feelings or something.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 12:55 AM
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Find someone who's mature enough to make the adult decision not to throw herself constantly into temptation. No such woman to be found. I agree with your earlier points, but the solution is not a unicorn. He should improve himself of course, but more specifically he must realize that he failed to properly define himself as a man that can not be cheated on. She thinks he will roll over for this shit, since he is crying for help on AskMen, she is probably right. Throwing it in his face was a power…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 12:50 AM
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I can see your point. I think the old AWALT does apply. In my experience most STEM women are 5-6s. They have developed their skills rather than focusing on attraction. Most 5-6s can't handle male attention and spaz out when they get it.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 02:14 AM
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I agree with you. The dude probably is milking her. It's no solace or revenge that there is more bullshit and moochers in the world. Who gives a shit if he has a cock. News flash: Tons of punk ass dudes act like women.
/r/MensRights26/11/14 02:10 AM
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I gave up a STEM career to work in a field dominated by women.. It was a huge mistake.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 03:54 PM
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I grant thee rank of Master. Go fourth and spew hate speech upon the lands.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 03:51 PM
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Well it's probably true. There are several books on the topic. See Vince Foster - Whitewater.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 12:51 AM
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You killed me with that one.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 12:41 PM
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To address your last question; I think there are a lot of people that are primarily focused on those goals. This is very unfortunate as there are other reasons for communication: social harmony, empathy, healing, bonding, seeking companionship, or simply to be near other humans. Don't become too cynical. I am extremely extroverted so when I am alone too long I will spend time with almost anyone, even if it is just to listen to them talk. I love going to diners and chatting up random strangers th…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 05:01 PM
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I always considered her one of the great economists.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 04:36 PM
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over excessive ejaculation has been proven Any studies on that? Everything I have read on the topic states that it reduces the risk of several diseases including various cancers. Where do you get this information? It sounds like some ghost story from the church, like when they told boys it causes blindness.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 04:26 PM
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Considering how you have become fixated on lexis, it is plainly obvious to the rest of us, sweetheart.
/r/MensRights09/11/14 12:56 AM
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I am sorry that my choice of language makes you feel insecure. Rest assured that as you get a bit older you will have less difficulty with it. What you're doing reads like a dumb persons impression of a smart person. Pls stop. I suggest reading your own words more carefully.
/r/MensRights08/11/14 02:37 PM
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I see I do need to spell it out since you still can't understand simple concepts. She complains about unwanted attention in bad neighborhoods in New York City. As she took more than 10 hours of footage, countless more hours of planning and post-filming, she must consider this the biggest problem in need of her full effort and energy. To follow your sad little twisted argument, using your own words, it seems she lacks a real challenge or meaning in her life. Also: yeah, totally don't give a shit …
/r/MensRights07/11/14 12:04 PM
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In our lives, we must deal with far worse than the slight discomfort of walking unharmed through a multiracial, multicultural environment. I am sure you can think of countless greater challenges that you have been through. Would I feel threatened? Of course I have been threatened with far worse. I have been shot at, had stones thrown at me because of my skin color, been encircled by gang members, propositioned by pimps and whores. I don't hate them or look down on them for it. This woman is comp…
/r/MensRights07/11/14 04:33 AM
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It's true. The vag can only recover with exercise. So, if your chick took a lot of dicks and is generally lazy, then that thing is going to feel like fucking Shaq's Nikes. But, if she regularly works on her core or even does basic exercise, it wont matter too much. Consider, many professional working girls are able to hold a pencil in there with muscle power. If it's tight enough for a pencil, it's good enough for your favorite retractable pen. Easy women that crave huge dicks are also lazy. The…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 04:17 AM
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Take this one as a learning experience. Start to up your game. Take the power back, she should say things like.. wow, you're not usually like this. I am surprised by you today... You will know you are on the right track.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 04:07 AM
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I've got some news for you..
/r/MensRights07/11/14 02:59 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D7IXiXxENEA
/r/MensRights07/11/14 02:56 AM
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Would you be totally comfortable It is not the job of society to make you totally comfortable. Are not the homeless uncomfortable? Are not the children which must follow the rules of adults uncomfortable? Are not the less-attractive uncomfortable? Challenges makes us stronger and help us grow to be better people. We should seek out discomfort.
/r/MensRights07/11/14 02:44 AM
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This comment made my day. I couldn't put my finger on why that video made me so angry until you said how the feminists are attacking the poor. They want to control everyone's eyes, mouths, and thoughts. You nailed it.
/r/MensRights07/11/14 02:40 AM
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Some Buddha shit right here
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:11 AM
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Totally right. It's becoming more popular these days as a means to avoid pregnancy and for girls that don't want to get the roast beef lips too soon.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:10 AM
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You should know that is not a point I learned on the internet. I got that from my social psychology course in uni. There is significant research behind the concept of gender specific preferences. Psychology can be difficult to measure, so I will admit there are counterarguments about the specific details. However, ignoring some fundamentals of evolutionary theory puts you in a pretty extremist camp in my book. I would recommend Richard Dawkins if you can stomach the superior British tone of his …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 12:59 AM
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I think your analysis is partly correct about the perspective. You are approaching the scenario as if the man and woman have the same expectations of each other. Unfortunately, this is not how humans operate. Men are physical and women are emotional. Example: My co-worker was furious at her boyfriend for "cheating on her." She explained that he had been chatting online with another woman, yet they live in different countries and have never met in-person. She was truly upset at the thought of him…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:39 AM
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Amazing advice. This took me years to break. Never go back - ever.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:26 AM
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I got some Meat right here for ya..
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 02:06 PM
2

red wine in the sauce bro - never merlot, usually cabernet
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 01:55 PM
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Your username is terrifying.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 12:46 AM
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I find the more beautiful a woman is, the better at handling unwanted attention she is. She will probably be flattered and love the ego boost on her side. After all, she puts in a lot of effort on her appearance. I am sure she is skilled at expressing her desires for you to continue or not. As long as you are able to read those signals there is not much to lose here. 6s and 7s are the real loose cannons.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 01:33 AM
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Also, do more scary shit in general. Jump out of an airplane. Go rock climbing. Learn a martial art. Your body is responding to elevated cortisol and adrenaline levels (and other chemicals I don't understand) because of the stress of the situation. One way is to become familiar with that stimulation (hot girls), so that your body doesn't produce as many stress hormones. Other way is to habituate yourself to higher hormone levels in general so that it takes some serious shit to get you going. Or,…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 01:26 AM
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if you are really TRP then you don't need to act like a hardass. Nice one man. This is so true. A real fighter never starts a fight, but finishes them decisively. Overly direct approaches and bullying are a clear giveaway of insecurity and weakness. It makes one look very childish.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 01:26 PM
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There is a level of wealth in this world where $5000 feels like five cents. And you can use this to bend a person to your will. It's about sex, power, control, and status. A rich man must always have a beautiful thing at his side.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 04:13 AM
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There is so much wrong with this comment
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 04:08 AM
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You make a great point. I think we can all picture a time where a woman was transformed when a certain man she desires enters the room. I would never pull out my A-game tools against an extremely low-status fugly chick, even just for practice or fun. She would misinterpret my cues and it would just make things uncomfortable. It also ends with stage-5 clingers!
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 12:33 PM
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Some women don't understand it, and if they did, it wouldn't feel special for them. They don't want to understand it. They love the feeling that is being created for them by a skilled player. It feels magical. Does one speak with the audience when learning to become a magician, or a singer, or an actor? No, one should study with the artist and learn to mimic them.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 01:37 AM
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I can't imagine hearing those words from a woman in real life. I would laugh in her face. She can get away with it because of her celebrity, but wow. It is so rude. I often meet these types of men in the bar scene. There is a decent looking woman with a hanger-on. He will hover around her while she flirts with other guys, getting their numbers, drinking, touching, and going home with them. Yet, there he is night after night. I can't look these men in the eye as equals. They are more like dogs to…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 01:34 AM
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This lesson took years for me to understand. I always imagined a woman would mirror my positive energy. We could help each other to improve. This personality trait is very rare and should be cherished if found in a woman. If they worry you are outpacing them, or that you are becoming high-status without focusing enough attention on them, most women will snipe and find ways to undermine you.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 01:27 AM
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Are you mad? How many sexy woman have you decided were a disaster as soon as they opened their mouths? You will ask yourself how you ever considered her sexy, because she has completely ruined any physical attraction with her shitty girl game. An average looking woman that knows how to flirt, walk, talk, apply her talents, and turn you on with game will be so damn attractive. I think there is at least a 2 or 3 point swing based on girl game. Of course sex appeal and strong game are often found t…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 01:24 AM
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48 Laws and Mastery have basically changed my life forever. I can see the world and situations in new ways, and I could never go back. I am more effective in personal and professional relationships and I feel in control of my mistakes and successes. This should be mandatory reading in university for both sexes. It's like have laser surgery on your eyes, everything is in better focus.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 01:04 AM
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This is a serious life lesson right here boys.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 03:41 PM
8

This question is where I politely excuse myself from the conversation.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 03:41 AM
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Agreed. Reading the list, I have no real disagreements. But the fact that she has a list makes me want to run for the fucking hills.
/r/MensRights13/09/14 03:01 PM
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Thank you stranger. You have made my day. I can't wait to teach my bro friends and then use this in mixed company.
/r/MensRights13/09/14 02:58 PM
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If you are an excellent liar it won't matter.
/r/MensRights13/09/14 02:56 PM
2

I wish every woman came with warning signs as clear as this.
/r/MensRights13/09/14 02:53 PM
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Absolutely it is the case that this is partly due to biological reasons. There is a marked increase in the amount of estrogen in the environment and food chain in the past 20-30 years.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 10:07 AM
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I can't agree. There are different levels of testosterone in the uterus during development. In testing amniotic fluid, low T is correlated with homosexuality. There is such a thing as a "nice guy" at birth. It isn't a binary thing, but a scale of grey. Maybe the awkward part is due to his family failure to properly socialize him. I also feel that it isn't a bad thing to be a nice guy. Imagine a 4'10" dude with little to no muscle mass trying to show the world what an Alpha he is. It would be cou…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 10:05 AM
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Either you train her to be the woman you want, or she will come with the training of those who came before you. I'm going to say you are lazy and looking for a nice deal on a hand-me-down. With proper training, over time she will become more and more your woman and the bullshit should lessen to a tolerable degree. Another alternative is her training you to be the man she wants. I think TRP really looks down on the third option, however there is such a thing as a man that needs to be dominated to…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 11:18 AM
1

Well I can agree with your second point. I suppose I would give a study published in an academic journal at lot more benefit of the doubt. However, I think the kind of stats that the OP is complaining about are coming off of public awareness campaigns and other fund-raising materials that tend to shock-and-awe the general public.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 01:55 AM
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If you work at a major US university, I recommend you audit statistics 100. You will learn how anyone can turn numbers from fact to fiction in the first few weeks of class. You will see how this is done every day on the nightly news. You will never argue that some pro-feminist organizations (or any organization with an agenda) are completely accurate in their representation of the statistics. The better argument is that both sides are twisting and exaggerating and the truth lies somewhere in the…
/r/MensRights03/09/14 01:14 AM
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He/She said, "I don't think." Case closed.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 01:07 AM
1

Now is not the time to waiver. Do Not Flinch. They call it game for a reason. Welcome to the 4th quarter in the Super Bowl. Take control of the situation. Be a leader. Use Jedi-mind tricks when appropriate. You lead her down the proper path to the abortion clinic. You have the skills to pick her up. You have the skills to get her in bed. Now, show her you have the skills to resolve this situation. This is your life. Get it done. If done right, she will thank you. If you slip up, you may become a…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 04:31 PM
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I'll leave this here.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:54 AM
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This is so unfortunate. I feel the values of the black community and culture align very well with conservative trends. It should be the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:59 AM
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In my life I have turned away a few prospects that were in relationships. My logic goes: She is willing to flirt with me and get me "on the hook" before breaking up with that other dude (clearly not the right guy for her anyway), so what's to stop her from using me as a stepping stone in the same way? It shows disloyalty and I will never ever trust a word out of her mouth after this. She should show the self-confidence to be single for a moment without a guarantee of a new relationship with me. …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 08:18 AM
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you can't teach a whore to be loyal. Oh, how I have tried. Had fun on the way to failure though.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 08:08 AM
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Word.
/r/MensRights19/07/14 10:22 AM
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Force is the wrong word. Lead, inspire, train, or council are better alternatives. Regarding leadership, I once read a one-liner that changed me in a big way. "First lead yourself and others will follow." This motivated me to stop worrying about how I could control others directly, but instead focus on improving my weaknesses. As a result I had greater influence on others indirectly (women included). This is key.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 09:04 AM
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I totally agree with the Surgeon General on this point. While I don't disagree with you, negativity and angst is poison that will destroy you from the inside. You must find a way to be positive in thoughts and actions. Regarding sexually active women: You shouldn't hate on them, man. Enjoy their company and appreciate their good qualities. These women make the world a happier place. (in short, you gotta let a ho be a ho.) DON'T marry them. Additionally, I recommend challenging yourself regarding…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 08:56 AM
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Haha, I've met so many of those puppy dog types. Can't look them in the eye cause they always look down at their feet.
/r/MensRights31/05/14 09:38 PM
1

Those all sound like terrible, traumatic events. Let's remember those experiences have nothing to do with the lotion, right? With regard to catcalling.. can it ever be a compliment? "Wait, my dear, just wait. When I walk down the street with my lovely teenage daughter, men passing in trucks will honk their horns and make appreciative kissing sounds at her. They apparently think the prune standing next to her is deaf as well as old. Yet, their catcalls spark a vestigial memory in me — a couple of…
/r/MensRights17/11/13 09:24 AM
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I feel like I just learned a life lesson. You are both classy and intelligent.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 09:02 AM
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This is a good example of the state of gender issues. It's body lotion. The marketing made a compliment that the user (non-gender) would be so attractive as to receive catcalls. This is the opposite of offensive. Please help me understand how anyone thinks catcalling is "violence"? It may be unwelcome, rude and annoying, but is it violence? Am I old-fashioned or what?
/r/MensRights16/11/13 12:53 PM
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Or a dick. Or gay. Or a different race.
/r/MensRights17/08/13 07:12 AM
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This is how people learn their lessons. If you act like a punk then you get hit. A world without fighting back is a world full of punks. I think it was right even if he wasn't handicapped. Thoughts?
/r/MensRights17/08/13 01:09 AM
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Moral of the story is, don't date women who read that trash.
/r/MensRights16/08/13 04:46 PM
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Love it.
/r/MensRights16/08/13 04:45 PM
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I believe her when she said she was having a panic attack. She probably knows that she has a condition and is trying to deal with it. Maybe she missed a dose of medication. Clearly she is not functioning normally and she is trying to fight the disorder in some weird way. Maybe she needs to be diagnosed and hasn't done it yet. I don't like the idea of talking down about people that are having trouble controlling themselves. She had a DUI and had an interlock on her vehicle. She probably sunk in t…
/r/MensRights10/08/13 12:20 PM
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