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SOCIAL GROUP STRATEGYima35yearoldwhiteman/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:36 PM
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#HeAin'tTheOne2021ima35yearoldwhiteman/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:33 PM
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#JustLVMThingsima35yearoldwhiteman/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:31 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEima35yearoldwhiteman/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:06 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨ima35yearoldwhiteman/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:10 PM
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SCROTES MADima35yearoldwhiteman/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:25 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tima35yearoldwhiteman/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:20 PM
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#JustLVMThingsima35yearoldwhiteman/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:49 PM
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NAH, SISima35yearoldwhiteman/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:50 PM
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FREEBRITNEY!!!! edit - oh so THAT’S how you get the big writing on reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:10 AM
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sad thing is... women in today’s society are conditioned to ‘take care of’ useless slobs like this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:04 PM
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okay I’ve seen this book recommended on this subreddit three times, I definitely need to buy this book once I finish my assignments!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:18 AM
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it’s also manipulation when a man says he will stop doing something that makes you sad or uncomfortable and continues to do it!! if a man really wants you he will never deliberately put you in a position where you are unhappy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:17 AM
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SLIM JIM AND OPPRESSION OMG Miss Banks had time today 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:14 PM
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LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:59 AM
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exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:40 AM
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this. my mum was in a highly emotionally abusive marriage with my dad, and they eventually went through a divorce which was finalised when I was 20, so two years ago. during the divorce I had found my first boyfriend who was highly controlling and manipulative just like my dad. after the relationship ended, I had a deep talk with a friend about relationships in which he spoke about his previous relationship of four years. when I tell you I was absolutely MINDBLOWN when he said they never shouted…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:23 PM
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yep, just tried to look for it earlier. I’m gonna do a hot take and assume she was embarrassed from the influx of comments letting her know her husband is a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:11 PM
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no but they really do. have you ever seen a video of a man getting his eyebrows plucked?! I wouldn’t be surprised if the ‘excruciating’ pain this man felt in his shoulder was a bug bite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:53 PM
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I remember growing up with my friend and her dad is absolutely a HVM. not ONCE did her dad ever yell at her, her siblings or his wife. he was very gentle. not to mention he has had problems with his health, which resulted in him needing a triple bypass surgery, yet he never yelled at anyone when he was in pain like this guy did. it’s no surprise that two of his adult children are now in healthy, loving relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:35 PM
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bi! ct! h!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:32 PM
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oh fair enough! seeing the notification three times made me think you were genuinely concerned lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:29 PM
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AITA because my husband got mad at me for comforting my crying daughter 🥺👉🏽👈🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:15 PM
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knowing these dumb LVM they’d probably make a fake account with something painfully obvious that they’re not actually a woman eg: “deathtoallmen95” or “misandryrocksxoxo” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:01 PM
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understandable. but so much so you had to comment three times? nevertheless I will explain. it is a reference to Atlanta, and the point of that picture was that the man in this picture, who said he is a 35 year old white man, is clearly not a 35 year old white man. and I am neither a man, white or 35. another reason I had chosen this name is because someone from my University had actually found me on Reddit with my old account, and immediately worked out it was me because of how much my username…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:55 PM
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Oloni is a UK sex blogger (who I love) and she occasionally makes threads like this on Twitter, but this thread almost broke UK twitter because it basically outed the reality of men having a bad hygiene. I was tempted to not post these pics because of the extent of repulsion that this thread exudes, but it is important to remember how disgusting men can actually be. with that being said, a lot of women in this thread could have saved themselves from these scenarios from having higher standards a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:51 PM
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The fact that she would even ask if she was i. the wrong here shows this is not just a one-time thing and it is always like this. I don’t know why I didn’t think about it this way but you’re absolutely right. before that I was perhaps thinking this could’ve been a one-time incident, but this poor woman has clearly been conditioned into putting up with this man’s awful behaviour to the point where SHE is asking people where SHE went wrong to piss him off despite doing absolutely nothing wrong. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:27 PM
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exactly. I hate how emotional abuse can be overlooked compared to physical abuse, incidences like THIS are extremely harmful full stop. emotional abuse is so much harder to combat than physical abuse because the damage is invisible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:19 PM
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honestly it’s bad enough speaking to a grown adult like that but saying this to a child (who was being REALLY thoughtful and attentive) is downright disgusting. poor baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:56 PM
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they’re both unacceptable in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:53 PM
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yes it is!! it represents the irony!! 🤣 I’m neither 35, white or a man. however this nickname has landed me in some awkward situations including getting banned on this subreddit because mods thought I was really a man (totally worth it tho)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:53 PM
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being disrespectful to his SIX year old daughter, being disrespectful to his wife and very evidently gaslighting her? damn, triple homicide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:34 PM
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so shameful. I’m scared to have kids, both girls AND boys because this society is becoming far too sexualised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:09 PM
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“you’re clapped anyways” - the motto for any guy in the UK who gets rejected, pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:43 PM
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probably a Piers Morgan sympathiser 😂😂😂 bore offfff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:05 AM
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that is scary...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:59 AM
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I totally agree. my cousin has a cousin that I am not blood related to, and at this time he was due to be married in less than a week. I had also just found out that I got accepted at my university of choice, so I was 18. less than a week before he was due to be married, he had messaged me like “you’re going to ____ University? they’re my ends, [his number] text me when you’re free and not having a party lol 😉” and of course I was fucking weirded out. yet, when I told my mum about this, she was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:19 AM
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yep. in a world where people are constantly pitting women against each other, it’s lovely to find a place where we simply uplift each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:51 AM
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damn I’m glad your friend made such good progress! also, I hate to be that girl that’s like “not all men” but, there are some Indian men that are really not this gross. I am fortunate enough to have Indian men in my circle that are genuinely v respectful, and were raised to have equal responsibilities as their sisters/female relatives. but with that being said! I do advise if you’re seeing an Indian man you vet him extra hard, and if you’re a white woman, be sure to be on the look-out for “white…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:13 AM
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this!!!! Desi men are far from God’s gift with their entitlement and general awful behaviour! I honestly think finding a Desi HVM is like trying to mop the ocean at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:06 AM
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legit. to put it crudely... my mum doesn’t want me to show my skin incase my uncle’s dick gets hard over it. it would be my fault even though they’re my actual blood relative? it simply doesn’t make sense, and I’m sorry you go through that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:54 AM
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I am so sorry about this. never ever let anyone try to tell you about your worth as a human being, it doesn’t matter who they are. and yes it’s absolutely disgusting! it’s like when people are casteist too, I’m from England where the caste system is literally irrelevant but people still choose to judge people on it! and yes it’s especially bad when people use religion to cover it up. sometimes I even feel people confuse religion with culture very badly. my family are Sikhs and some people in my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:50 AM
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sadly it is ingrained in our culture that women are only worthy of respect if they dress modestly and are sexually pure. and it’s not even people in just India who carry this mentality; I have a cousin from the UK in his late 30s who always tells me off for my choice of clothing when I go on a night out, and my mum once called me a slag for wearing a top that showed my shoulders lol. and she always makes me ‘cover up’ whenever a male relative visits us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 07:32 PM
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also, Desi women on this subreddit (and those that are interested), be sure to check out a page called ‘Pink Ladoo’, they are on Instagram and Facebook! it’s a brilliant page that helps to contribute to the progression of feminism in our culture. for those who don’t follow Desi Culture, a ladoo is a type of sweet and traditionally, when a family is having a baby boy, ladoos are distributed in celebration of this. sadly, it isn’t as common for ladoos to be distributed when a girl is born as men a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 07:05 PM
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i need a proper man to shut me up it’s really sad how for most of these people their definition of a ‘proper man’ is a man who exhibits controlling behaviour, and needs to tame a woman and whip her into shape. also I’m sorry you went through that. the “things could be so much worse” mentality is so dismissive and wrong; it’s not as if a broken arm isn’t worth being hurt over because hey, at least you didn’t get shot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:50 PM
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I feel like the rabid dogs in India would still have more respect than them 😂😂 heck even they are more respected than the women there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:45 PM
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it’s annoying because my dad is really strict and literally banned me from having a boyfriend before the age of 25. looking back I can kinda see he has a point, but I’d never admit that to him. I also know what he said totally oversteps emotional boundaries too but... guess he was just trying to protect me from meeting a man like him 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:38 PM
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oof. I like that quote. that speaks volumes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:31 PM
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first of all, your username is brilliant lol. secondly I’m really sorry to hear how hard it must be to live as a Sri Lankan woman. a lot needs to be undone to progress the mentality of Desi people, plus yeah it’s absolutely disgusting how behaviour like that and stalking is so romanticised in Bollywood etc, like it’s really a predator - prey dynamic :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:23 PM
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and he has the audacity to pretend to agree with her, “right” 😑. man if you don’t get the hell on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:05 PM
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thissss 🙌🏽🙌🏽 India are slowly but surely unlearning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:52 PM
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I went to India once when I was 15. despite my username, I am actually a 22 year old South Asian girl. but yeah when I went to India it was terrible. I was instructed by family members to not leave my house without a man, I wasn’t even allowed to simply step outside, and I recall going to the shop and a couple of men were literally staring at me like a piece of meat. and as well as this, my own cousin’s cousin tried to flirt with me over text (my cousins from England are blood related to him and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:49 PM
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the guy standing next to her creeping on her on the sly (on camera too) is pissing me off. but brown women on this subreddit, make sure to vet extra hard to ensure the men you’re speaking to don’t carry even a crumb of this misogynistic mentality! we are worth more than that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:39 PM
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[war flashbacks of my ex banning me from farting in front of him intensifies]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:22 PM
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I wish everyone had that mentality!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:46 PM
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yep!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:20 AM
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as a girl of the South Asian community I have seen Muslim guys use the lollipop example to compare non-hijabis to hijabis sadly. I guess you can say it paints girls as ‘impure’ if they wear revealing clothing... but with that same interpretation it shows men as literal parasites 😂 but they ain’t ready for that convo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:19 AM
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Rochelle deserves the entire world 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:46 PM
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I’ve never heard this saying, and I ALWAYS drink my tea with spoons in it... if it ends up being more than just an old wives tale I won’t be mad at it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:36 AM
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I’m deeply sorry for your loss. and those were some really powerful words that everyone should take into consideration ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:41 PM
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this ESPECIALLY also applies if a guy suggests that it’s ‘unhealthy’ to talk about your relationship concerns to other people. never ever fall for this bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:17 PM
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I’m super glad that he found that funny and didn’t get fake offended by it. I’m hoping he’s a good egg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:54 PM
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literally!!!! pure projection if you ask me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:49 PM
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my cousin is 31 this year... she has no kids, is single... but I look up to her more than anybody else. she has a degree and an amazing job, heck before that she even worked for Spotify at one point. and when her contract for Spotify was over she travelled the world for six months. oh and she’s drop dead gorgeous. I’m sure she doesn’t need some bum guy with a receding hairline and a huge stomach to tell her she isn’t winning at life 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:46 PM
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where’s the lie??😂👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:59 AM
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I HOPEEEE this is a joke. literally my nightmare in a photo wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:08 PM
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was about to go off on him 😂😂😂 what a king
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:43 PM
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brilliant 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:56 AM
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wtf your dad sounds awful 😭😭 I’m sorry you had to go through that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:17 AM
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I’m glad this helped! blessings to you queen ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:16 AM
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thank you 🥺🥺 I’m 22 now but was 21 at the time this happened, I appreciate your kind words x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:15 AM
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I can’t wait to spoil my kids like this 😍😍 good on you for setting the standard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:27 PM
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yep. yep. yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:04 PM
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my bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:15 PM
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LVM: I want a woman with no body hair, a virgin with sexual experience, curves in all the right places but not fat, not too skinny either, she needs to be submissive. she can’t be ugly either. definitely not ugly. FDS: we want a man who treats us with respect and has good hygiene. LVM: femcels!!! FDS is toxic and supports the rape of men!!!!11
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:09 AM
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“oh no women are starting to hold standards for themselves! how toxic!” 😂😂😂😂 the concept of why men are mad at FDS are so funny. it literally calls them out for shitty behaviour and instead of rectifying it they quake in their boots and scream that we’re “femcels”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:06 AM
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😭😭 I’m wishing you all the best girlie. it’s tough out here for us kuriye and yeahhh my first ex was only with one white girl for two years before me, but it didn’t stop him from complaining that she was way less ‘naggy’ than I was... and then there was the time I refused to do a sex tape with him, to which he responded, “it wasn’t this hard getting one from a white girl” 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:20 AM
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as a brown woman we’re left with very little options - whitewashed brown men who would deep down rather be with a white girl or brown men who are in touch with their culture but more than likely have ideologies deeply rooted in misogyny as a result of this 🥲 plus the fact that I was the first brown girl both my S/ Asian ex’s ever dated never rlly sat right with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:05 AM
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yo I used to have an Arab male friend who literally told me he refuses to date a girl if she doesn’t have blonde hair, blue eyes and is white. man is Lebanese with olive skin, brown eyes and brunette hair. I feel for Arab women bc y’all are real life queens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:02 AM
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I don’t know what I’m more offended about; the fact she did this or how terrible those tattoos look. if you’re gonna pay that much money to embarrass yourself at least make it a little bit prettier :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:47 PM
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love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:53 AM
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I’m doing my uni work! what better way to spend your time than bettering and improving yourself :) what are your plans?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 10:26 AM
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I didn’t know about this but I’ll look into it now. thank you for informing me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:12 AM
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if I ever hear another brown guy tell me that brown girls have too much attitude again.... 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:12 AM
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as in....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:12 PM
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I like this 😎. but sorry, red pill playbook? is that a book? I’m trying to look for reference to it on the handbook and can’t find it anywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:21 PM
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I unmuted the video and now I can’t stop wheezing help 😂😂😂😂 we all need a friend like her!! (luckily I have plenty of those 👑)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:02 PM
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saw the comment without the /s and was starting to reel 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:36 AM
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just had a dude reply to me like “what if I said all women were awful???” well I simply wouldn’t be triggered to the magnitude that you are because I know it just isn’t true 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:56 AM
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as innnnnn😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:41 AM
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nah facts. they’d just rather pretend to be instead of hold themselves accountable for anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:40 AM
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hahahaha FDS make misogyny go brrr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:53 AM
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omg 😂😂 and thank you! yeah ever since that incident I never leave my curtains open ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:53 AM
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exactly. if they’re feeling personally attacked from what I said then that’s something they need to work on from within themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:52 AM
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I wish women could literally do anything without having their peace disturbed 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:51 AM
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CONTEXT: I posted on a subreddit sharing my personal experience of a MALE neighbour staring at me through my window l while I had no trousers on. I ducked under my window pane and he continued to stare through my window for another good 15 minutes. a lot of women have replied to my comment to say that they’ve been through similar experiences and, surprise surprise, every single experience I read about involved being harassed by a MAN. to one woman I responded saying that “men are actually awful”…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:28 AM
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sorry idk if i’m being stupid but is noodle like a code word for an LVM or something?😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:52 PM
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shit crumbing 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m here for coining that into a new term!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 12:08 PM
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my friend sent this to me and I almost hurled 😭😭😭 God forbid I ever marry a man who actually hates my guts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:55 AM
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exactly. and like the saying goes, the first step to overcoming a problem is admitting you have one. it’s only upwards from here queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:38 PM
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I wish I found this subreddit when I was an even more impressionable young adult lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:05 PM
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right!!! I thought I was the only one who picked up on that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:06 PM
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“I have a dark sense of humour” - I’m actually not that funny but I’ll make racist, sexist and ableist remarks and pass it off as dark humour so hopefully nobody knows how much of a shitty person I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:35 PM
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“I’m a nice guy, I don’t get why girls just don’t give me a chance” - I’m a loser who’s addicted to porn and anime and I lack enough maturity to have proper conversations so this leads me to manipulate, gaslight and never hold accountability for when I fuck up. girls also don’t go for me because I reek of desperation and nobody finds that attractive, but I lack the self-awareness and accountability to see myself for my flaws and work on that. :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:32 PM
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I really hope that isn’t true...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:11 AM
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lmaooo thank you 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:10 AM
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I just had to google who he is... yuck. your tribe really is your vibe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:10 AM
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absolutely agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:36 PM
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the fact that this was the SAME man that did annual inspections on his own daughter’s hymen to check if she was a virgin too?? LVM really do be protecting their daughters from people like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:07 PM
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are you threatening me with a good time?!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:45 AM
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yeahhhh especially so young. don’t get me wrong kids are great and all, but whenever a young mum tells me that their kids are “great” and she wouldn’t “trade them for the world”... I can’t help but feel like they’re lying and they’re only not saying otherwise because they don’t wanna look like a selfish person. like your 20s are stereotypically (and rightfully so) your selfish years... having a baby is a much bigger commitment than most people realise and it means no longer being the main charac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:01 AM
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disgusting. safe words are a huge part of consent and he crossed major boundaries. trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:37 PM
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Diana deserved better 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:44 AM
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“I like violent pornography and I’m a woman” - lmao wait until she finds out the vast majority of men who are into that would have genuine gratification in harming women like us and her in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 02:58 PM
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well done girl ❤️ onwards and upwards from here! also pls don’t be alarmed by my account name it’s a meme reference hahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 01:49 PM
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