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| -21 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?Good for you. This is not what my comment was about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:16 PM |
| 211 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?One question that’s been on my mind for the past few days is why women are the ones that are pressured into shaving. Men are so much more hairy to the point it’s actually unhygienic and genuinely disgusting. Also if body hair is such a “”turn off”” then how can they stand looking in the mirror? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:40 PM |
| 114 | I didn’t read past the title because she’s not asking the right question. Is this right? Is this respectful? Is this love? Those are the real questions.We’ve been so indoctrinated to accept being treated like garbage that we end up questioning whether this sort of stuff is “normal”... This is why I’m doubtful about getting into another relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:43 PM |
| 9 | When you realize someone you're been seeing is a LVMYup! I used to have the tendency to put crushes on a pedestal which made me turn a blind eye to bad behaviour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:26 PM |
| 3 | So is there any interest in this sub-reddit about discussing our own low value behaviours (besides being a pickme)? I'm guilty.Thank you!! I always try to get myself together before I get into a new relationship precisely in order to avoid being the one to ruin it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:26 PM |
| 8 | So is there any interest in this sub-reddit about discussing our own low value behaviours (besides being a pickme)? I'm guilty.What do you want me to say, sis? That I didn’t cook enough for them? That I once let my body hair grow 1 day past scheduled shaving and that bothered some ex and so it’s my fault for it? That I didn’t support their gaming/anime/sports addictions and so I was the bad partner? 🤡 Not all of us have had the luck to meet a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:07 PM |
| 5 | So is there any interest in this sub-reddit about discussing our own low value behaviours (besides being a pickme)? I'm guilty.And as a matter of fact, hardly if at all. I’m loyal in relationships and usually end up tolerating more than I should. 99% of conflicts were caused by LV behaviour on their behalf (lying, liking Instagram models, being unreliable etc). I don’t follow male Calvin Klein models. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:56 AM |
| 1 | So is there any interest in this sub-reddit about discussing our own low value behaviours (besides being a pickme)? I'm guilty.“Most” does not mean “all”. This is the same approach as the “not all men” thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:51 AM |
| 16 | So is there any interest in this sub-reddit about discussing our own low value behaviours (besides being a pickme)? I'm guilty.Most of my relationship “problems” were caused by past LVM/NVM exes. However they’ve also turned me into a high quality bullshit detector | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:43 AM |
| 15 | Loving mother trying to help her teenage son recover from porn addiction that cause COCSA...filthy reddit men think porn is normal for kidsThe scrote saying he used to do it 4 TIMES A DAY as if that’s normal or an accomplishment 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:44 AM |
| 3 | Not a romantic relationship...but damn. A sister and brother were robbed at gunpoint. Bro told the robbers to take the sister and rape her and leave him alone. This commentator thinks she should ask *why* he said that and mend the relationship.Pisses me off to no end how women are constantly EXPECTED to forgive every disgusting thing and be kind to garbage people. I’d like to encourage him to forgive someone who rapes him / offers that in order to save their own life. I’d like to see this same “””advice””” being given if the roles were changed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:20 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever beaten a guy in any sport? What was his reaction after losing?I love this topic idea so much but I have no stories of my own 🥺🥺🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 09:38 PM |
| 7 | This isn't about dating, but it is about how men treat womenThis man is gross and manipulative. Do you have any way of completely avoiding him? He seems to have developed a weird obsession towards you and the fact that he’s married makes everything so much worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 09:28 PM |
| 26 | LVM says I watch too many romcoms 🤦♀️He’s rude as fuck and seems stuck up. Good riddance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:02 PM |
| 18 | Was an inexperienced pickme, can I salvage the relationship?The key word in there is “potential”. Never fall in love with potential, ladies! It’s the quickest road to disappointment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:56 PM |
| 25 | Was an inexperienced pickme, can I salvage the relationship?Exactly! Plus working on self improvement and career prospects! Not being tied down as someone’s slave at 20... or ever for that matter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:24 PM |
| 9 | Having a deadbeat father does not negate the fact that a mother may feel bitter from experiencing a LVM's incompetence, negligence, mistreatment, and disrespect for fulfilling their fatherly duties. Instead, it's easier to play victim and feed into the "toxic angry ex bitter mother trope"....Scrotes will always blame women for EVERYTHING | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:19 PM |
| 101 | Ab so lu te ly worthless. I felt like a generous goddess today so I told him off instead of just blocking him outright as is tradition. You can't polish a turd to make a sparkly diamond, unfortunately.I wouldn’t waste my time sending paragraphs to someone who can’t be bothered using proper grammar or a question mark after a question... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:32 AM |
| 5 | Remember to never settle for less than you are worth, ladies. A man who values you will go out of his way to make you happy.Thank you so much! That was also my intention! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 10:52 AM |
| 11 | Remember ladies, you're not a real woman if you refuse to be his therapist, chef and coachDoes he make $500,000 a year? Can he build me a mansion? Is he capable of giving 10 orgasms a day? No? Then he’s not a “real man” either 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 08:48 PM |
| 31 | Brother outright OFFERS sister’s body in exchange for his phone and wallet not to be stolen from THUGS.When the criminals themselves realise that the scrote brother is NV 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Any women here who dont get along with certain ethnicities?🔝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 05:27 PM |
| 167 | Straight from the horse’s mouth!! These men WANT us to employ FDS principles ladies!!!! 💅🏽 I’ve added captions of important points outlined in our lovely handbook under each picture.All the “but what if” pickmes need to see this post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:27 PM |
| 25 | Of course this doesn’t get over thousands of upvotes and over a hundred awards. People only care about men and I’m getting sick of it.Where is the lie? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:03 PM |
| 20 | AngerHe gave you scars??? I’m so sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:21 PM |
| 35 | What are some things that you used to think were normal/cute but now realize are red flags? 🚩Babying men or pickmes saying shit like “my husband is my second child”. It’s not cute, it’s fucking gross! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 07:59 PM |
| 43 | What are they thinking?When you’re naturally ugly so you try to cover it up by looking ugly “on purpose” 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 06:20 PM |
| 13 | There are more fish in the sea, but lots of trash as wellI don’t want kids or marriage. So if I occasionally get into a short-term relationship and he turns out to be a massive LVM I just dump quickly and move on with life. However some LVM shit can be hard to shake off. I look at relationships more as a hobby / source of entertainment. I don’t look for anything overly serious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 06:17 PM |
| 60 | Women are "the emotional gender"90% of my trashy ex bfs in a picture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 05:49 PM |
| 67 | 90,000 Members Party!!! 😃😃😁🎉🎉🎉🙌🙌This sub is the only reason I use Reddit. Happy 90k celebration!! 🌸❤️👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:30 PM |
| 8 | It finally happened. A scrote in my inbox!If this “blanket date” is happening at his place or somewhere unpopulated then that’s a safety hazard. Hard pass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 10:57 AM |
| 13 | I just realized I didn’t want penetrative sexI’ve only had sex with 3 dudes but I can assure you there’s nothing special about it. Especially when they have no clue wtf they’re doing and it makes you tense up even more and you end up with vaginal tears. Just do whatever you’re happy and comfortable with ❤️ Oh and remember not to get into the “body count” discussion with men because they could use it against you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 10:24 AM |
| 14 | Unconventional red flagsMomma’s boys are such a big NOPE 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 10:15 PM |
| 173 | Instead of holding rapists/harassers accountable, he mocks women for trying to protect themselves. A true POSYeah, having to worry about our safety 24/7 is truly hilarious. What a moron | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 09:25 PM |
| 26 | Unconventional red flagsIf he’s weirdly close to his mom. While it’s great to have a HEALTHY relationship with parents, there is a line that shouldn’t be crossed. My last ex would overshare with his mom to the point where he needed her approval to do nearly anything. He also literally fucking gossiped with her about me and said some pointless insults (that for some reason he thought he should tell me about??). The skank (sorry but I have some leftover resentment) called me “broken” for having been through past trauma w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 09:03 PM |
| 33 | Woman begs boyfriend to pee in a mason jar with a lid, empty it out, and wash it every morning instead of peeing in water glasses and leaving it sitting out all day.The y chromosome is dysfunctional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:44 PM |
| 5 | We honor our female ancestors by living a life they could have only ever dreamed of.I love this so much. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:59 PM |
| 47 | When you have kids with that LVM gamer. "Here little Jimmy, watch me play vidya. Quality time with the kids!" SMH 14 awardsThis is why I refuse to have anything serious with gamers. Most they can provide me with is a waste of time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 10:18 AM |
| 4 | I’m soooooo annoyedBlocking them is the only way. Explaining yourself gives them the option to twist the situation with lies and try to change your mind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:22 PM |
| 6 | "Am crazy don't pay attention to me" Okay dude, next! Imagine letting the world know how little you're going to try to be a HVM.Aquarius 😬🥴🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:14 PM |
| 21 | The gift that keeps on giving- seduction sub again!!They ban feminist subs but never ever ban these shitholes where they LITERALLY promote manipulation tactics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:12 PM |
| 290 | A post on the ‘seduction’ sub, please don’t get ‘seduced’ by a $3 drink ladiesThe last line where he admits to buying the girls alcoholic drinks to get them “””in a fun mode””” gives off major rapist vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 10:36 AM |
| 15 | What is going on with men these days? Rant, will probably delete but damn.My last ex in a nutshell. The ugly loser watched weird ass hentai and had self-inflicted ED at 19 💀 The current dating pool for women is a horror movie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:48 AM |
| 14 | I'm so stupid to even think about going back.3 years is a long time, but better than 30. You already know what he’s put you through and what his value is. Have you tried incorporating some change into your lifestyle? It helps more than one could imagine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:36 PM |
| 19 | Dumped him!Yessss girl!!! Congratulations on putting yourself first and seeing your worth for what it is! I hope you’re feeling well and remember not to be hard on yourself in the healing process 👑❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:29 PM |
| 7 | Feel like a hypocrite sometimes ...Thank you! I went through the exact same process where I slowly pushed away all of my female friends and wouldn’t open up to the only one who stuck around, whom I had known since childhood. It’s something horrible to have to go through and I genuinely don’t wish it upon anybody! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 06:44 PM |
| 11 | Feel like a hypocrite sometimes ...Years ago I was in a verbally and emotionally abusive relationship for 1 year and all throughout it I experienced the same mind-numbing inability to leave. I also feel frustrated when I see women in obviously awful situations, especially when they keep repeating stuff like “he’s perfect in every way but cheated on me 26 times, should I communicate more???”. The difference however is that I was only a teenager (15 turning 16) when I went through abuse and I never opened up to anyone about it at t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 06:37 PM |
| 32 | To every negging scrote out thereThe cause of rape/harassment is rapists/harassers. Everyone should be free to wear whatever makes them happy as long as they aren’t walking around naked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 04:07 PM |
| 42 | Maybe he doesn’t hit you.... butMaybe he doesn’t hit you, but your boundaries are long gone and so is your self esteem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:31 PM |
| 122 | Step right up for LVM Bingo!And the never-dying “it’s just a joke” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:46 PM |
| 62 | A guy asking If I’m good at cooking?I’d respond by asking him the same question. I won’t cook for a male in this lifetime. Unless I decide to work at a restaurant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:41 AM |
| 225 | Women aren't "making men feel special" anymore because we're tired of so many men not meeting our standards for even being a basic decent human being. I'd much rather make myself feel special than a man who thinks I owe him anything for existing and wants me to inflate his ego even bigger than it isHe has no problem making that statement about all women but if someone confronted him with some shit men do he’d be like “nOt aLL mEn!!!!!111!1!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:45 AM |
| 99 | The double standard behind “not all men”As if you were cutting your hair to give his 2 inch dick erections. The audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:16 PM |
| 14 | This POS thinks his argument over whether or not his GF should have to serve him is light hearted.I hope she realises what her “role” in his life is and leaves him. She’ll be much happier making meals only for herself while this dumb scrote starves to death. This is why to me a guy mentioning women cooking/cleaning for him is a gigantic red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 07:03 AM |
| 13 | In addition to questioning my modesty he also told me I wasn’t submissive enough and that he thinks it’s fine to hit children. Dodged a bullet here 🙃This exchange went on for too long imo and you didn’t put him in his place. Instead you seemed to go for his bait and defend your opinion on something he has no business inquiring about. I would’ve blocked as soon as he asked. He is in no place to be asking a woman about leggings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 08:27 PM |
| 43 | Step 1: Try to sound smart while not actually saying anything. Step 2: Make it known that you don’t know how to plan dates. Step 3: Get blocked.He’s desperate to sound smart but playing dumb at the same time. Also a rude piece of shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:54 PM |
| 3 | I just realized how terrible reddit is for my mental healthPlease remove yourself from any place that brings negativity into your life instead of joy/relief! Unfollow toxic subs and surround yourself with positivity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | We Should Hang Out...omg that would be wholesome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 07:25 PM |
| 3 | How do you emotionally less involved?I think an important step in shifting your mindset is to think about your safety. If you get emotionally invested early on you allow yourself to become susceptible to manipulation because in your own mind you put that person on a pedestal. By remaining objective and detached you are able to see glaring red flags and make your way out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 07:17 PM |
| 63 | She asks them to hold each other responsible. They retaliate with garbage comments as expected, thread gets locked.It was on r/running | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 205 | She asks them to hold each other responsible. They retaliate with garbage comments as expected, thread gets locked.They took down her post because SHE’S RIGHT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Refusing to date a man with social mediaTotally understandable imo, especially since you know you’re already happy by yourself. Social media addicts are way more likely to cheat online and justify it as “just engaging virtually”, whether that’s watching porn, following Instagram models or flat out texting/sexting other girls. My most recent ex was an ugly, hairy sack of garbage who basically lived his life online and I can tell you these people are a big no-no. They’re not only severely lacking social skills but they also easily come … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:33 PM |
| 66 | Hey young women! I know my balls are old and saggy and I need viagra for my porn addled dick to work - but I prefer my women to be 18-23! No red flags here, just into music and working out. -ScrotesMajor pedo vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:28 PM |
| 50 | Still no mention of leaving him?I don’t know what’s worse, the pornsick scrotes doing this shit or the women who lack any form of self respect and don’t kick their fucking asses out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 09:47 AM |
| 15 | Why am I still hurting over thisI think you need to get yourself out of the routine of checking up on his social media and thinking about him. You need to keep yourself preoccupied with things, whether that’s talking to friends/family or developing new interests and routines. It doesn’t have to be anything extraordinary, just implement change in your life and that will help. I would also 100% recommend going through the Handbook. It’s a lifesaver | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 08:13 PM |
| 70 | Even women fortunate enough to not be attracted to me are not safe from having their entire lives invalidated by scrotes.He’s just bitter he can’t have them and they’re happy without rotten dick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:34 PM |
| 42 | Being creeped out is perfectly validThey forget the fact that the few men who get raped ALSO get raped by men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 06:01 PM |
| 72 | dating in 2020If only they would at least give that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 28 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.After all he’s very clearly said to her and showed she’s still deluded enough to say that “they are in love”. Someone needs a wake up call asap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:14 PM |
| 78 | Being creeped out is perfectly validThese are the same scrotes who downplay the horrifying stories of rape victims or try to blame what happened on them (“you were wearing revealing clothes”, “you were out alone”, “you got drunk” etc. etc.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:10 PM |
| 16 | Making A List & Checking It Twice - Maintain Objectivity When DatingSound advice! Staying objective is the only way to be able to vet them properly. The moment you get emotionally invested early on you allow red flags to slide and become vulnerable to manipulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 08:57 AM |
| 82 | How I Feel After Reading the First 3 Words of Some Scrote's Lengthy Time Consuming Post Knowing I'm About to Ban Him and No One Will Ever See It But Me And I Didn't Even Finish the First SentenceJerry be lookin like he’s seen some shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 06:26 AM |
| 74 | The double standards... I can’t deal!!! Ugh!Does he realise sperm quality also decreases with age? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:01 PM |
| 18 | LmfaooooYou’re hella right, he was very interested in me and I was looking for a way to get over another dude so I just went with it as a “rebound” 😭 Just a whole ass mess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:55 AM |
| 49 | LmfaooooThey’re beyond delusional. My ex had long greasy hair, crooked stained teeth and a receding chin amongst other hideous features and thought he was “above average” 😂😂🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, please talk some sense into meEverything will get better. It just takes time and 5 years will probably require a lot of healing. Keep yourself busy, discover new things and spend time with people who make you happy. It will not only speed up the healing process but also help you grow as a person. And remember you did the right thing. 5 years with the wrong person is better than 50! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:45 PM |
| 64 | When a man says “ I like a lady who can please herself”Read: I’m bad in bed and can’t be bothered to put in the effort to please a woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 04:57 PM |
| 28 | There's people in the comments saying that some of these are reasonable...While I agree that no human can be an actual mind reader, emotional intelligence is a thing for a reason. Often they do very well understand what we want / how they made us feel by being assholes, but they pull the “I’m not a mind reader” card to shift the blame onto us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:28 PM |
| 69 | SAHM’s husband takes 15k out of their shared account that was meant to correct her torn muscles. He claims he thought she no longer wanted the surgery and wanted to reward himself for being a great father with a computer.This is yet another reason why I’m childfree and reluctant about marriage too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 11:49 AM |
| 7 | Two times is a patternSaved the post as a reminder!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 01:51 AM |
| 149 | Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversationAnd now when you block him he’ll blame it on you being a “golddigger” instead of him being a rude, insecure prick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:41 PM |
| 79 | Apparently it's Opposite Day on twitterScrotes will add the “biology” stamp after every biased statement they make | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 05:27 PM |
| 25 | Husband won’t take care of his basic hygiene and wonders why wife turns him down for sex, comments say he’s probably depressedI would personally punch anyone who uses depression to justify people being lazy pieces of shit. Depression is a very serious problem and far from a joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:26 PM |
| 74 | The guy I was dating gaslighted me about my own boundary regarding Instagram ModelsWhen they start the bullshit “mansplaining” it’s time to get out. Also, expecting loyalty online as well as sexually is perfectly normal. Don’t let scrotes gaslight you into thinking it’s not! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 01:19 PM |
| 14 | Should you ever pay for a man - even guy friends?I would never ever pay for a guy’s order. In terms of him paying for mine, if it’s a date and we aren’t yet exclusive I would definitely expect him to. I have seen WAY too many horror stories of forever girlfriends who go 50/50 on everything. Once we’re exclusive and he’s proven himself I may let my guard down a bit in terms of paying. Keep in mind that a lot of guys who ask to split the bill are simultaneously seeing other girls, as they often complain on the internet that “seeing 174892 girls … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:53 AM |
| 30 | Every time you feel like a regretful idiot for keeping NV/LV mates and friends in your life for too long, remember that Beyoncé is still married to Jay-ZI legit chuckled at this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:45 PM |
| 38 | How do you approach the « not having sex with a new partner before commitment » thing?If he “wants to have sex ASAP” and pressures you into doing it / keeps bringing it up after you’ve said you’re not ready, he’s at best LV and at worst NV. You shouldn’t have to justify yourself as to why you don’t want to have sex with him early on. A HVM will wait until you are ready and not push your buttons to try to get into your pants. That is exactly why it is such an important part of vetting and so encouraged to go for the 3 month mark. By that time LVM will usually have shown their true… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:34 PM |
| 16 | this makes me so sadHe sounds like a selfish manchild | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:38 PM |
| 10 | Movies and TV that aren't filled with Pickmes or Toxic Hollywood RomancesIt’s really not. But the female protagonist is not a pickme and definitely doesn’t fit the common female stereotype found in most movies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 07:33 PM |
| 40 | Cool Story BroThis scrote’s whole account is FULL of misogynistic and racist tweets. I went ahead and mass reported. I hope more people do the same so that it gets taken down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:12 PM |
| 20 | My HVM told me he had plastic surgeryAside from the plastic surgery part of the question, may I ask how you know he’s HV after only 3 months of dating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:14 AM |
| 42 | Movies and TV that aren't filled with Pickmes or Toxic Hollywood RomancesGone Girl. The “cool girl” scene is brilliant. (I don’t want to give spoilers) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Thank you FDS members for your support. Here is my update.I’ll second all of this. It’s the cold harsh truth. There is no room for sugarcoating when it comes to liars and manipulators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:26 AM |
| 55 | Ladies, Be Patient. He'll Marry You ELEVEN YEARS FROM NOW 🤡The number of people who agreed w this shit and retweeted it is alarming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:47 AM |
| 121 | Every day on relationship_advice...omfg THIS and they literally insert a long ass list of glaring red flags but hE’s aMaZinG iN eVeRy oThER wAy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:44 AM |
| 33 | If the only thing special about him is that you like him, it’s time to move onI wish I had this reminder in my previous relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:20 PM |
| 29 | Men doing basic things is NOT praiseworthyWtf!! You’d think everyone knew to shower before that, I guess with LVM it’s always something new. Quickest way to give a girl UTIs and smell awful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 09:20 PM |
| 156 | 🥰😜Ha ha omg I’m such a douchebag it’s so cute😜🥰Hinge is a dating app and she didn’t mean enough to him to get saved by her actual name | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:15 AM |
| 206 | A dad correcting a pickme auntieYessss!! Also being financially challenged is usually a clear sign of several things being off (addictions, can’t keep a job, lazy etc.), it’s not just the money aspect of it 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 11:25 PM |
| 32 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsSidenote but I’m living for that nail polish colour!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 04:10 PM |
| 95 | Have no wordsWhat kind of advice does she want? She’s just looking for excuses to stay. The only way is out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:21 PM |
| 24 | I started a discussion 😬Queen sh*t!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:55 AM |
| 9 | LVM Bingo Time!I can confirm the teeth brushing part 💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:12 PM |
| 9 | A scrote making dehumanizing joke about women, his defenders whine for attacking his family after being told he's nasty and poorly raisedHis name matches his IQ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:37 PM |
| 10 | Most shocking responses from r/seduction I've seen“other’s” 🤢🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 02:45 PM |
| 17 | They love to make it about themselves 🤦♀️There is a second photo in the post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Taking the trash out is never a lossI haven’t seen this posted before. If it has been then my apologies. If nothing ever “has to be said” just because it has been said before then the sub would be inactive. I thought this was supposed to be a safe space for women where we can share our thoughts and help each other out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 02:37 PM |
| 17 | Taking the trash out is never a lossYou’ll feel better very soon!! I promise you. Just hang in there and stay strong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:26 AM |
| 11 | Stick to fruit ladiesI’m laughing so bad oh my god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 12:10 AM |
| 27 | Stick to fruit ladiesI’m so glad someone made the alternate version of the stupid girlfriend “meme” 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 12:10 AM |
| 106 | Gigi Engle and Suzannah Weiss wrote back to back articles in Men’s Health on how to choke us out. “Feminist” writers pandering and promoting sexualized violence to men has got to stop.I’m becoming increasingly scared of the direction modern sexual activity is headed towards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:18 PM |
| 26 | Unbelievable. This is only his third message to me.This pissed me off and it wasn’t even addressed to me. He can shove his negging techniques up his hairy ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Don't learn the hard way, ladies. 🤦🏻♀️I’m in this comment and I don’t like it 😭😭😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 12:02 PM |
| 110 | Daily ReminderI would like to add being vigilant and not allowing red flags to pile up!! Being too tolerant is the sure-fire way to get yourself stuck in misery and abuse down the line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:55 AM |
| 234 | I got mad at first but got pleasantly surprisedThey had us in the first half, not gonna lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:09 AM |
| 7 | Roast-a-scrote: A how-to guideHe looks like someone photoshopped a baby’s face on a 35 year old’s body 😂😂🍼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:01 AM |
| 4 | Should I be concerned? It was a family photo and this is his little brother. (Ignore the red face I did that)Agreed!! There are many dudes who don’t strangle people in their profile pics so instead of figuring out whether it’s worth being concerned about just next them and move on. Also the last part of your comment 😭😭😭💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:00 AM |
| 75 | notice the double standardOh god I know. Then they complain that you’re either “nOt fUn tO eAt wiTh” or that you’ve gained weight from eating like they do and “nO LoNgEr aTtRaCTiVe” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:31 AM |
| 85 | Someone clearly hurt this man...He sounds physically abusive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 12:18 AM |
| 27 | Was I right to block? We had only just started talking from Tinder and I mentioned not being into team sports...his comment/emoji felt weird. Thoughts?In my experience dudes who use this sort of vocabulary are usually pornsick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 10:33 PM |
| 117 | notice the double standardExactly!! Having less testosterone in our bodies makes building muscle about 4 times harder than it is for men. And since we weigh a lot less our caloric maintenance is lower. They literally have to eat like pigs to become overweight while for some of us eating 2,000 calories per day (which is so little) could make us gain a lot of fat over time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 10:27 PM |
| 9 | The delusion... I’ve only seen men look better in their 30s vs their 20s if they were obese and then lost weightThis scrote is living in imagination land. Guys between 20-25 look on average INCOMPARABLY hotter than 30 year olds. Receding hairlines, bear guts, forehead wrinkles, too much body hair and the list goes on. Also I would never have a child with a man over the age of 35. I wouldn’t want to irresponsibly risk the chances of giving birth to a baby who will live a life full of health complications. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 12:05 PM |
| 3 | The delusion... I’ve only seen men look better in their 30s vs their 20s if they were obese and then lost weightWe definitely need a well-documented post about it!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 11:59 AM |
| 36 | Thoughts?I take BC because I’m paranoid of crazy dudes poking holes in condoms. So I always use 2 forms of protection | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:24 AM |
| 5 | When LVM send unsolicited dick picsLMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 09:53 PM |
| 8 | Reaching out for supportCongratulations for putting yourself and your health first and leaving the abusive LVM! I was stuck in an abusive relationship a few years ago and, while it can be difficult to move on due to the emotional trauma that you have been through, I can assure you healing and living peacefully is so important and so good for you. If you ever start thinking about the scrote and remember the few good times you had with him, please remind yourself immediately of the hell he put you through. This way you w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:25 PM |
| 58 | I’d rather be single forever. Who the heck would ever want this life?!I don’t know whether to cringe or laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:00 PM |
| 9 | Found this on an Instagram meme page and honestly I don‘t find it funny at all. The “women are crazy” stereotype was created by men to invalidate us and our boundaries.Exactly. There are SO many stories from women about men who verbally and physically abuse them or refuse to leave them alone after breaking up, yet men never get called “crazy” for it. It’s a tool they use to silence us when they feel exposed by what we have to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 10:40 AM |
| 8 | Found this on an Instagram meme page and honestly I don‘t find it funny at all. The “women are crazy” stereotype was created by men to invalidate us and our boundaries.It was posted by a woman but there are many pickmes in the world who heavily contribute to further propagating male-created stereotypes about women. Like you said, internalised misogyny is a real thing. I personally think we all unfortunately have it to varying degrees, but it’s so important to address it and try to fight it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 10:27 AM |
| 98 | A Simple Exercise for Objectively Evaluating MenThis is so well put!! Another thing that I’ve noticed tends to cloud my judgement when it comes to removing LVM from my life is allowing myself to catch emotions too soon. I think it’s best to be emotionally detached while getting to know men, as developing strong feelings early on can make us see them through rose-coloured glasses! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:33 AM |
| 21 | I feel like this needs to be said...Can confirm the fact that the unattractive ones almost always have the shittiest behaviour. I’ve dated a fair share of them and it’s usually not just their looks that the rest of the world avoids them for! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:43 PM |
| 29 | Truly abhorrent. Okay Sis 🤡The dress, the gown, this LVM and his clown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 06:58 PM |
| 23 | This insta page lmao🤣🤣Reminds me of cringey “inspirational” quotes from 2012 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:46 PM |
| 8 | Minder part 2 🥱I know right!! I’ve had men attempt that on me but I get too annoyed before I actually respond and I just block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:38 PM |
| 25 | Minder part 2 🥱I think those who use it are trying to get the woman to reply by justifying how she’s not, LVM tactic at its finest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:36 PM |
| 5 | BLACK PILL FOR WOMEN VIA PPD-THE GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING "ALL MEN LOOK DOWN ON WOMEN WHO..."It’s not a “cope”. This man’s mindset radiates sexism. In order to get laid he would need to at least have something going for him. From his own post it’s very easy to tell how bitter and contradictory he is. Also, most people who actually have fulfilling sex don’t go around talking about it on every given chance. I would genuinely be surprised if this dude has actually slept with a woman before, as all he seems to go on about is recycled stereotypes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 12:55 PM |
| 13 | Decided to try and start online dating. Came across him and I wonder how there are girls who swipe right to thisFlorida man strikes again with his unwashed ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:41 AM |
| 9 | Man child throws fit when GF doesn’t want him to move in with herNot only does he want to live rent-free, but he also tries to tell her what to do with HER cat and HER house??? Fuck no. Tapeworm scrote needs to be thrown away asap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:35 AM |
| 15 | BLACK PILL FOR WOMEN VIA PPD-THE GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING "ALL MEN LOOK DOWN ON WOMEN WHO..."And this is why we don’t go into the “body count” discussion with men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:30 AM |
| 9 | BLACK PILL FOR WOMEN VIA PPD-THE GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING "ALL MEN LOOK DOWN ON WOMEN WHO..."I’d be willing to bet good money he’s never slept with a girl before in his life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:28 AM |
| 11 | LVM and shavingIt’s always the nasty scrotes who don’t put effort into their appearances who have the audacity to make demands in regards to ours | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:14 AM |
| 37 | Presented without comment. Swipe to read all of it.I hope she let the scrote’s gf know who her “boyfriend” actually is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | I'm super closedminded bc I hate paedos, guys 😔 I should just get over my rape and stop using it as an excuse to be bigoted towards this oppressed minority“You’re against a group of people rather than the individuals” excuse me what???? They’re a group of people because they all share one common trait: they rape children. This scrote is so dumb it’s infuriating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 05:26 PM |
| 31 | Married man (with kids) cut his wife out of his profile pic and still had the audacity to "search for friends, something more tbd". Blocked and reported.I wonder if he purposely posted that pic where you can see he has a boner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:21 PM |
| 9 | MY fiance “jokingly” said he wants to marry MY bestfriendRemember abuse starts slowly and gradually. If now out of jealousy he “””jokingly””” threatened you to marry your best friend, further down the line he could cheat on you or his threats could come true. He sounds like the “look what you made me do” type of person, manipulative and abusive. It’s a risk that, imho is 100% not worth taking. A man who loves you will not even joke about adultery. I think you should listen to your gut feeling and make your way out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 12:53 PM |
| 7 | Lord help me... I can not with these scrotes. Guys... just stop. Stop pushing our boundries. Stop abusing us. Stop telling us thats its normal and okay to be abused. Stop telling us to stay when men who are abusive. FUCKING STOP!!!Imagine the scrotes’ reactions if she liked to bite his dick for fun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 09:30 PM |
| 71 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?They also constantly complain about wanting women who wear “no makeup”, but the moment you don’t cover your under-eye circles or spots they start acting like you’re Shrek | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Dude shames her gf for “embarassing” him while giving birth to their child, then ghastlights her and denies everything 🤢For my own sanity I am praying that this is not actually real because it’s just-... no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 07:30 PM |
| 67 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?I think it’s a vicious cycle they get themselves into. Get pornsick, expect sex from women without any effort, get rejected, go back to porn. Women could easily have sex with many men if they wanted to. Not the same applies for them though, but they like to delude themselves into thinking it does | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:54 PM |
| 79 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?I personally think the overly easy access to porn is a big part of the problem. In the past the most they had access to were magazines and the images were nowhere close to what modern porn depicts. They knew that in order to reach that point with a woman they had to prove themselves worthy of it and in most cases even get married first. Libfems are only making things worse as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:43 PM |
| 3 | He might as well put up his resume. Someone loves himself a little too much...There’s a fine line between loving yourself and acting borderline narcissistic and obnoxious. The guy clearly crossed it big time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | The exact opposite of funnyThe comments here gave me a good laugh 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 12:00 AM |
| 20 | He's already threatening to lose interest?!Men only use zodiac signs and personality types when the traits give them a free pass to cheat or act like garbage. Otherwise if women bring up astrology they’re just “talking too much” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 11:00 PM |
| 2 | He's already threatening to lose interest?!Forreal!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 10:59 PM |
| 23 | Djungelskog wouldn’t cheat on me though 😤😤And he costs way less than men cost you in the long run too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 09:13 PM |
| 9 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionAlso, liking pictures or engaging in any other form of social media connection is a no-profit activity for them. If you openly express that whatever they’re doing is hurtful and they refuse to stop, they’re prioritising a fundamentally useless activity over your feelings and wellbeing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 07:39 PM |
| 26 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionI told my most recent ex that if he didn’t stop liking pictures of models and hentai I would break up with him because I’m not ok with that shit in a relationship. He stopped for a week and then resumed. He was staying over while I found out and I kicked him out in the middle of the night and told him we had nothing left to talk about. If they don’t respect your boundaries then they don’t respect you. Best course of action is dumping asap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 07:33 PM |
| 101 | Guys who play video games, obsess over cars in a childish way, or collect stupid piece of plastic as "hobbies"I try to be very attentive when meeting a new guy to see what he’s into. If he classifies himself as a “gamer” or says he watches anime I instantly know not to go any further. Nothing particularly wrong with video games or some select anime, but 99% of the guys who are into any of this are often pornsick and have anger issues (i.e. raging at their PC screen over Call of Duty) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 01:11 AM |
| 2 | She's a marriage therapist...has several other posts like this as well. Mostly men salivating over her posts as expected.LOL literally this.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 12:01 AM |
| 3 | YikesThis!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 10:51 PM |
| 3 | YikesI just can’t feel bad for women like her.. It genuinely annoys me that they are so delusional as to think being treated like a mom/slave is fine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Respect yourself enough to walk away.It took me so long to start acting out on this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:58 PM |
| 13 | Wife finds a strangers hairs on shower wall multiple times, husband pretends he doesn't know where they came from. Predictably, half the comments side with the husband, saying that the hairs are obviously from the air vents/street/a stranger secretly living in their attic. Full post in comments.This is sadly so true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 02:02 AM |
| 5 | When you reject a NVM and his feelings are hurt, it shows.LVM’s obsession with rating looks with these stupid numbers is so pathetic it’s impossible to take seriously at this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:58 AM |
| 13 | This man got chewed out in the comments. If I was his wife, I would leave him.Honestly I wouldn’t even be ok with him naming a celebrity, like that would be an instant dealbreaker for me. If he doesn’t make me feel like TO HIM I’m the most beautiful woman in the world then I don’t fucking want him. I’ve wasted too much time on ain’t shit dudes in the past. He either meets the standard or he’s out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 12:36 AM |
| 12 | A man who tells me when to stop and continue talking.Please don’t think you did anything wrong. The simple fact that he made you over analyse something as trivial as speaking is a huge red flag and he is not worth any of your time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 12:27 AM |
| 6 | Y I K E S“Say hi” nope piss off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 11:09 AM |
| 3 | This guy doesn’t understand that it is not hard for women to find a man interested in herThe simple fact that he carries out “experiments” like this on Reddit is part of his problem. Instead of wasting time on shit like this he could do something productive. LVM at his finest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 03:25 AM |
| 1 | I asked my grandma why she never re-married...Are you still with him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 10:50 AM |
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