Lately I’ve been reading a lot of posts and it’s making me feel more hopeless for finding a HVM

After finding you guys a few years ago, I changed my ways and realized I was never going to find a man if I kept the same attitude I had about myself and men

I’m trying to move out of my city after graduating and I understand it is super difficult during these times but for my own happiness I have to leave. the city I live in notoriously attracts broken people and I’m sick of not being treated the way I think I deserve. I travel often and this city is just full of broken people in my experience. Unavailable men who only want to have sex

There was this one guy I met four years ago, we went out on a few dates and have similar philosophy which is rare to find in our area. He stopped things and told me he was married but hadn’t spoken to his wife in a few years

Whatever, I moved on but him and I continued being friends

I’ve had a rough four years here. All of my potential mates live out of town and it has been exceedingly difficult for me to keep my head above water and continue to work on myself and tell myself that I’ll meet someone that is worth all of this pain. Well, I fucking haven’t.

And now that I’ve graduated and getting ready to leave, the boy who was married is trying to start things up with me again. At first I was into it but then I realized the disappointment he gave me and now I’m just angry that he’s contacting me. He’s contacting me because he knows I’m trying to leave

What the fuck Why do men think this is okay to do Why do they think it is okay to treat me this way? If and when he hits me up again I will be honest and call him out becauae I no longer have any patience with this bullshit

Why do men only see me as this???? And it is only in this fucking city I’m 30 and a late bloomer, only now graduating university after living out of the country throughout my early and mid 20s. I have men who treat me better and wait in line for my attention elsewhere It feels ridiculous to leave because I can’t find anyone decent here, but it’s a small city and it’s a broken city and I am angry that I wasted my prime years here

How should I approach this LVM when he hits me up ?