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thats true too, but then if i see someone really good looking and I want to go talk to them, I stop myself cause I feel I may not be good looking enough (or something along those lines)...
/r/seduction20/01/18 05:49 AM
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i was actually talking a bout females that im close friends with. like I know when theyre joking. its just that when they say hands off I feel weird keeping my hands on even if theyre joking
/r/seduction19/01/18 04:59 PM
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alright so last night i stayed over night at the library because i had an exam today and she was also there and we just ended up studying together in the same room.... so much for not contacting her
/r/seduction14/12/17 02:00 PM
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so how should i show interest
/r/seduction12/12/17 11:40 PM
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yeah youre right its just that this stuff is so new to me and its super scary. like this may sound crazy but i only started hugging girls a couple months ago (and at the first even that was scary but its easier now i guess)
/r/seduction12/12/17 10:14 PM
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alright, ill do that... its just a waiting game for now i guess. she actually messaged yesterday asking for her money cause i owed her but i havent replied back to that yet. in the meantime about kino, shell like "hit" me when i tease her or shell like punch my arm when we're talking or like bump into me, stuff like that... i basically do the same stuff back... is that what kino is?
/r/seduction12/12/17 10:13 PM
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but i thoughts guys and girls are different, like i shouldnt show interest the way a female would
/r/seduction12/12/17 10:08 PM
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uhh i really dont know... like shes touchy and stuff in person but that might just be her personality, outside of us studying we don't really talk so i cant really say anything else... yeah this stuff isnt my strong suit
/r/seduction12/12/17 07:18 AM
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yeah honestly i am scared of being rejected... especially since ive known her for a while... like i dont mind being rejected by a girl i just met but someone i will most likely see again, the thought of that is scary... and how will she help me if she likes me ? what am i looking for. would i just ask her out on a date ? or just ask her to hang out ?
/r/seduction12/12/17 07:17 AM
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i guess i want to date her, i just wouldnt know how... and if she says no wont that be really weird? like i know how busy it is its probably not in her best interest to date
/r/seduction12/12/17 04:45 AM
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possibly
/r/seduction12/12/17 04:44 AM
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how would i make that be known?
/r/seduction12/12/17 04:44 AM
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youll never know until you go and say hi to her
/r/seduction07/12/17 12:10 AM
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how can you let them know youre there as a guy and not as another girl
/r/seduction23/11/17 09:03 PM
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"I not sure really HOW to be okay with things that you can't change." would you mind rewording this? and for your first part, you're saying that basically things that make me uncomfortable, keep doing them right? btw what are some things that are difficult for you?
/r/seduction09/11/17 11:51 PM
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well my brother is like 11 years younger than me so if shes going for him im pretty sure theres illegal looool and alright ill try to remember that, what do you mean by asking if theyre negging
/r/seduction09/11/17 11:50 PM
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any other things i could have said ?
/r/seduction08/11/17 03:45 AM
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thats true loool
/r/seduction07/11/17 04:57 PM
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how do I get perspective? and I think im good looking but lets say that im not actually not cute. how do I be okay with that?
/r/seduction07/11/17 04:57 PM
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lool nah im not gonna say that
/r/seduction07/11/17 04:57 PM
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how would you throw a study session?
/r/seduction04/11/17 11:02 PM
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alright and what if shes like no i dont want to touch your hair... then what!
/r/seduction22/10/17 05:00 AM
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what would an inaccurate thought be? how could this relate to my own self esteem... for example if one day I feel like im look really good and the next day I feel like shit which thought is the accurate one... how can I determine how I really look... (what if im really ugly (which im not) but how can be sure which thought is the inaccurate one...) also, since we're talking about this stuff anyway, I talk to girls and become friends with them in class but a lot of them have boyfriends/ the one th…
/r/seduction18/10/17 05:40 AM
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alright I got you, I'll work on being more positive... is that the same way to get over over thinking as well?? by the way, i don't mean them asking how having sex was... it could even be something like someone asking "do you think that girl is hot?" or "do you think this person is attractive" that's what I mean by sex (which is really not the right word now that I think about it)
/r/seduction17/10/17 05:18 AM
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nah its really not like that, I've known these girls for quite some time and we're pretty close friends. trust me theres nothing between us... like they were talking about guys at some party they went to too so yeah
/r/seduction17/10/17 05:16 AM
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alright I don't really know how to quote so lets see.... I have a feeling you're completely right about the second thing. How would I get over those negative assumptions about myself? And alright by sex I meant like girls and stuff... I haven't done anything with a girl before so it's like talking about that kind of topic makes me feel weird. How would I get over that? I'm 19 and in college by the way. Also how should I not worry about always saying the "right thing" I beat myself a lot because …
/r/seduction16/10/17 02:56 PM
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yeah you are getting silence, but if you send them a joke or something which they cant reply to then why send something at all... or is it kind of like a test
/r/seduction10/10/17 09:13 PM
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why would you not want them to reply?? would you message them again after you sent them the mem/joke/photo?
/r/seduction10/10/17 06:11 PM
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and youre saying its okay if they dont reply right? that's what I understood
/r/seduction10/10/17 04:12 PM
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so memes/jokes?? i didnt really quite understand the wording
/r/seduction10/10/17 01:14 AM
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can you explain the silence stuff? what would a good first text be ?
/r/seduction09/10/17 11:33 PM
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yeah im a guy... i dont drink so i dont think i would go clubbing anyways. go out where to talk tho
/r/seduction01/10/17 01:57 AM
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oh yeah where should i take a girl on a "date"
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:37 PM
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how
/r/seduction30/09/17 09:22 PM
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i go to uoft... its pretty big tbh but i dont know how big partying and stuff is here...
/r/seduction30/09/17 06:21 PM
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oh yeah thats the other problem... i commute so I dont really know what happens on dorms
/r/seduction30/09/17 05:37 PM
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idk any parties...
/r/seduction30/09/17 05:17 PM
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alright ill keep that in mind when we study... i dont know if i wanna sleep with her LOL... ive never kissed a girl before so getting even a kiss would be quite an achievement. just not too sure how to go there from studying
/r/seduction30/09/17 04:27 AM
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thanks buddy u really are an expert
/r/seduction28/09/17 10:51 PM
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alright, apart from hugging how else can i escalate? i guess we're gonna study together but idk what else
/r/seduction28/09/17 07:12 PM
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Okay by just met I meant like you kind of know her and you've talked to her a few times. Because most of my friends that are girls I basically never hug. I just wave( or do the half assed peace sign) hi and bye so I was wondering if it means I'm not close enough with them or is it just something I have to go in for.
/r/seduction28/09/17 05:53 PM
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if you've just met a girl and you go in for the hug do you think shell back off?
/r/seduction28/09/17 05:31 PM
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what if ive seen her a few times already... and i havent done it yet
/r/seduction28/09/17 05:31 PM
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what clubs have u joined... all of them seem so boring and you talk to random people around campus?
/r/seduction27/09/17 02:55 PM
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okayy I guess, i workout/play intramurals so I guess im pretty involved if you say so... what other stuff do yo suggest I get into?
/r/seduction27/09/17 12:09 AM
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lmaooo what program? theres no way sports are important here... no one gives a shitt about sports
/r/seduction26/09/17 07:31 PM
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do you go to uoft? thats where i go LOL i feel talking to random people walking outside is pretty weird on campus because everyone is always walking somewhere to go do something
/r/seduction26/09/17 07:13 PM
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i know im not him but I was kind of wondering the same thing... i'm 2nd/3rd year and its a very academic oriented uni... sports and stuff like that are not a big focus
/r/seduction26/09/17 06:02 PM
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playing basketball makes me happy... as well as putting in work for school and getting good marks.. seeing hard work pay off is very satisfying I want to get more involved around campus but I'm not too sure how... I wanna have more friends (especially female friends lol) I'm really not sure who or what I respect... do you mean what type of people?
/r/seduction18/09/17 04:37 PM
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How much do you charge lol? Cause I don't have money to spend on stuff like that? But I do want to improve myself
/r/seduction13/09/17 08:46 PM
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I guess... I'm don't really feel nervous talking to girls that sit beside me in class... but i've never really approached outside... how do I respect myself?
/r/seduction13/09/17 01:54 AM
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What kind of situations make me uncomfortable? Should I just tell people to take pictures of me??
/r/seduction13/09/17 12:46 AM
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I actually said it the wrong way... I look weird in the back camera (so in like group pictures I look retarded for better lack of terms)
/r/seduction13/09/17 12:43 AM
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Hopefully this isn't too late. I was raised pretty religiously so I actively didn't talk to girls till around grade 12 when I decided to just talk to the girls in my classes anyway. At that time I realized I had really bad self esteem and my social skills were pretty bad. It's been around 2 years since then and I feel I've come quite a way from there. People who I used to see in high school say I've completely changed. I'm better dressed, more confident etc. So at this point I'm 19. I haven't do…
/r/seduction21/06/17 08:38 AM
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Honestly I kind of feel that way sometimes. Like is it worth trying to play on the university team when it's very unlikely im going to go pro. But I guess I like becoming better at ball is fun to do and I push myself to see how far I can go. Plus school is so boring. I hate the days when I'm at the library the whole day (and sure they may help me get better grades) but I feel so empty those days. Also I do workout and since I'm motivated (by ball) I'm very consistent with it. and like i guess i …
/r/seduction24/05/17 03:39 AM
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LMAO yeah thats kinda weird tbh... like if i go to the gym its to get stronger or to get better at something im not trying to pickup girls
/r/seduction03/05/17 09:23 PM
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if you do use it, let me know how it goes
/r/seduction02/05/17 11:09 PM
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yeah i guess that could work... i definitely meet ppl at courts.. i just never end up getting closer than that to them
/r/seduction02/05/17 11:08 PM
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any suggestions?
/r/seduction02/05/17 11:08 PM
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mhm yeah i dont think im overloading myself... its just that i feel i lack human contact sometimes if you know what i mean.. like i never hang with people or just "chill" so honestly sometimes i feel like i dont even know how to act outside of classes and the court... another kind of problem is i dont even know many people and im not sure where i would meet people so thats also kind of why i dont socialize... yeah i guess at this point i should just focus on trying to form friendships and see wh…
/r/seduction02/05/17 11:08 PM
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yeah i live at home the whole year anyways since its pretty close... i think its too late for internships since the year started already
/r/seduction02/05/17 11:05 PM
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wow okay your first part makes complete sense... honestly ive been inviting friends along to do stuff so im going in the right direction i think for the second thing my biggest problem is that i dont know enough people/girls and im not sure where to find them.. now that college is done for the year i cant exactly look for people in classes and thats my dilema right about now
/r/seduction28/04/17 03:04 PM
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yeah i get that part but what do you do when you get lonely? from example i come home after a day of working out and studying.. now im in my room and i just wanna talk to someone like i guess working out and studying is what im doing but it doesnt feel enough... do you get me??
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:05 AM
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what do you mean by having drive and motivation? how would you show it
/r/seduction13/04/17 05:31 PM
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well getting to the NBA is unrealistic for me but making my university team is a possible goal. I workout for it, i do drills and push myself all that nonsense (like if i tell people this they would be like why are you doing this you arent gonna make a career out of this) but i want to prove to myself that i can make this team the thing is this isnt gonna help me with girls (unless maybe i make the team LOL) but thats maybe a year or 2 years off. i actually went to a party for the first time in …
/r/seduction08/04/17 04:46 AM
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what if my passion is basketball? (im 19 btw) should i just keep getting better at it?
/r/seduction08/04/17 01:26 AM
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kk do they apply to people my age too (19)
/r/seduction09/03/17 06:11 AM
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hmm kk im also reading some book called models by mark manson and i really like it... any other similar books??
/r/seduction08/03/17 10:59 PM
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ok this might be kind of pathetic but im 19 and have never kissed a girl :/ so like fuck buddies are kinda farr for me sadly i started reading a book called models and its pretty interesting but i still dont have a place to go out and meet girls... my school is mostly foreign non english speakin students so theres that -_- and i dont drink thanks for helping me out bro
/r/seduction07/03/17 04:12 AM
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LMAO i really dont get what you mean... can you say that again
/r/seduction06/03/17 04:53 AM
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kk i usually bike but its too cold here right now so i've stopped but yeah for sure i'll get back onto it.
/r/seduction05/03/17 12:10 AM
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ok i started reading the book and im pretty lost to be honest... its really confusing and i cant understand it like im not sure if its cause i havent read enough of the book or maybe im lacking some background
/r/seduction04/03/17 03:49 PM
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im doing it because its better than doing nothing.... like ive always gotten 90s in school because im a hard worker... thats a good trait i have.. but ive never liked school and nothing else really has captured my interest. ive thought about this a lottttt but im not sure how to find something i like doing cuz frankly some days it seems like i hate everything im not sure if i said but im on the varsity basketball team so i already do that... we do lifts and stuff so my days are pretty busy usual…
/r/seduction04/03/17 03:39 PM
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i have about a few grand from school so i guess that could work... thing is there never really isnt stuff i wanted to do yeah i guess the thought of doing it alone makes me sad.. like i wish she or someone was there with me and LMAO thats sooo cool i just googled it... so you just float around looool
/r/seduction04/03/17 05:23 AM
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any recomendations of something cool LOL?
/r/seduction04/03/17 04:26 AM
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i mean she cant really notice im not around cuz shes not texting me LOOL but yeah i get you for sure.... studying for exams gets boring reallllllllllllllll quick trust me.... also i dont drink so as much as i want to go clubbing i really cant -_-
/r/seduction04/03/17 04:26 AM
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this might sound weird but honestly im not interested in anything other than basketball and my leg is broken so im off the team for now :/ im studying life science at school and i really am not passionate about it so theres that... like ive looked for clubs but i really have not found anything you're right what you're saying tho... its just that i honestly cant find stuff to join.. ive tried really hard
/r/seduction04/03/17 04:25 AM
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kk im not too sure what you're saying tbh but im gonna start reading that book.. ill ask you if i have any questions LOOL
/r/seduction04/03/17 04:24 AM
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yeah my friend always says how its better you just push thru the tough times because relationships are worth it even if its possible they will end... i honestly have never been in a serious relationship so i cant exactly comment on this myself so i just have to take your word for it why dont you still talk to that girl from before??
/r/seduction04/03/17 01:23 AM
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yeah i think i do have oneitsis.... so do I just not reply to her? even thought she replies once a day smh... this sounds kinda funny to type out LOL.. like im very very sure she doesnt care about me as much as i do for her.. so if i do break it off shell be like uh why are you not talking to me anymore? like what did i do wrong? (or maybe she wont give a crap and life will move on) as well i play ball for my university but my leg is broken LOL so i cant exactly play and that means i have wayyyy…
/r/seduction04/03/17 01:22 AM
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LOOL i imagine us getting married and thats not gonna happen... but yeah ill try your strategy... lets see how well it works
/r/seduction04/03/17 12:08 AM
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WOW that sucks :/ i think this is honestly why i distance myself with people.. cuz theres a chance they wont like me back and that will hurt so much then i need to figure the last part out
/r/seduction04/03/17 12:07 AM
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yeah i get you... i mean im not double texting or anything soooo
/r/seduction04/03/17 12:06 AM
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well can i at least get a hint??
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:29 PM
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yeah last week i spent like 5 nights outta seven just hanging out with friends.. we didnt really do anything like going to a bar or something but we just walked around downtown... it was pretty good but to be honest I kept checking my phone to see if she replied sooo :///
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:27 PM
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yeah i guess you're right... like i work hard in school but it kinda sucks cuz then when its my off time i dont really know people do do stuff with
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:27 PM
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yeah i get that last sentence :/ how do I get over it?
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:27 PM
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LOOL what would i do at a supermarket???? or even a bookstore?? i mean im at the library but people dont really talk to each other here LOL
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:26 PM
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thats true... how do you control your mindfullness and what state should you keep it in?
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:24 PM
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well its more like .. "oh yeah i remember when we talked about this blah blah and i had so much fun" then i just wanna go back to that time cuz its not like that anymore
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:23 PM
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thinking of the best feeling thoughts only makes me more sad... like i wish we could go back to those times :(( the factual stuff makes sense.. like she hasnt told me to never text her again so like i shouldnt assume anything its just that at this time in the world like almost everyone has their phone with them and constantly checks it so like shes choosing not to reply which makes me sad :/
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:24 PM
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lool i feel you bro girls suck!!
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:22 PM
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would you mind rephrasing that? like i kind of get what you're saying but i also dont get it
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:22 PM
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lool my spring break was last week actually :/ all i did was study LOL i did pretty well on my midterms tbh but we were talking back then so maybe thats why.. ive been feeling down lately i also workout/play ball so idk what else there is i can do
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:22 PM
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yeah i know that and i really want this to be the case with me but im not sure how to do it :(
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:21 PM
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honestly i kinda am talking to more than one but she is the one i want to talk to the most :/
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:21 PM
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im 19 idk if i have to worry about getting paid right now LOL
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:20 PM
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im not sure how to explain it but it doesnt feel the same.. like i only want to talk to her
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:20 PM
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i honestly do talk to more than one but i dont like any of them "like that".. like somwhow i got attached to her
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:19 PM
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i do workout every morning and i play ball too so thats not really a problem.. just that when im studying which the rest of the day im superrrrrrrrrrr sad/bored edit: by night do you mean like go clubbing and stuff? I dont drink so thats a bigggg problem
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:19 PM
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lol ya sure buddy whatever works for you
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:19 PM
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