How to avoid being insecure over a joke like being called not cute.

ribbitmedi · 2017-11-07T08:40:20+00:00

"that's not what drunk you is gonna say"

bookynerd · 2017-11-07T11:02:05+00:00

Why would u want to look cute like ur baby brother

Atonapalment · 2017-11-07T17:34:09+00:00

Have the same problem bro

infideleo · 2017-11-08T05:55:48+00:00

when a girl hits hard like that and you simply do not have the perfect response, playfully admit that it hurt (almost sarcastically).

it shows you are secure enough to take a hard hit. then playfully ask if she is trying to 'neg' you like some pick up artist or something - turn the tables on her and playfully take control of the exchange.

i actually prefer chicks who can hit hard like that. a buddy of mine were out on his boat with these girls (one i thought i might want to pursue). at some point i reached for something under the dash and ended up with a smear of grease from some boat component. my friend looks at my hand and asked me what happened. before i could answer this chick fires off "he ran his hand thru his hair". ouch!!! for some reason that stung. and my friend laughed. i did my best to play it off like nothing. so my friend said to me "there's a rag in the back". i looked over at the girl (she was sitting behind me) and fired back "i know there's a rag in the back, but i need something to clean my hand". ironically, i could tell that she was the one all butt hurt and pissed and blushing. my friend later told me that her friend later told him that she was humiliated by that one. whatevs.

i am gonna go out on a limb and guess that you have friend zoned this girl yourself. after all, you were showing pics of your little brother (not the smoothest play). so i am gonna guess that you have no interest in her at all.

ok, maybe he is 'cuter' than you. maybe he is more her type. maybe she prefers young boys over men. who knows. it doesn't matter. if you're not interested in her, then it shouldn't matter to you what she prefers at all.

if, on the other hand, you have some interest in her, then i would reevaluate your whole approach.

Title	How to avoid being insecure over a joke like being called not cute.
Author	ineedhelpaz321
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	November 7, 2017 6:20 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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