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Urgently ill ***FOREIGN girlfriend…. Red flags also include “finally gave in” to taking her to the doctor. What a turd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:38 PM
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Maybe he can spiritually birth the child and breastfeed it lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:05 PM
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His* friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:22 AM
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13 comments and I can only see one—- oh yeah the haters are out in full force
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 04:21 PM
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Where is the “stick by the women you force to overwork” propaganda for men when they don’t lift a single finger around the house?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:54 PM
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“Their sexism is much easier for me to navigate” What a line! I’m going to use this in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:09 AM
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I definitely wouldn’t avoid dating a guy of another race, or discourage a friend from doing so, but just like with a guy of your own background you have to always vet him. I’d do a lot of research beforehand (if he’s a serious candidate) and try not to stereotype, while also being realistic about what his culture may expect from you and from him. One thing to consider is that men and women are already very different, and adding cultural differences on top can be too much for some. Another point …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:48 AM
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In Europe, WhatsApp is a totally normal form of texting. I use it with my boss, landlord, friends, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:04 PM
57

“Oh just racism? I’m dealing with racism AND sexism and still making my payments on time”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:53 PM
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Maybe he should spend less time on Tinder and more time with his kids? In 15 years he will be griping that no one visits him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:59 PM
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B-b-but I thought we were all old hags?!?? Lurkers gonna be mad when they see their most vulnerable crop of women are wising up. Don’t touch Gen Z yo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:39 PM
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Women are expected to shell out big money to keep up our appearance, but apply just 5% of the pressure to a guy and they completely melt down. If you’re balding and don’t like it, do what women have to do all the time and start spending some cash. Start doing painful beauty rituals. Start restyling yourself to fit around your insecurities. Every single way I turn my head, I am told how I’m supposed to look, who to look good for, how to do it, where to buy it, and why I’m worthless if I don’t kee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:29 AM
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Replying to myself here, but I also want our culture to examine that there’s a difference between mildly interesting fetishes and conditioning your brain to be turned on my certain content. A lot of these kinks are manufactured through the pleasure feedback loop porn is creating in the brain. The more you engage in these taboos, the more intense the taboo needs to be to get the same pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:32 AM
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“My man beats me” “Oh no honey that’s horrible and you need to leave! This is abuse!” “My man beats me because it gives him a boner” “Don’t KINKSHAME omg he is just exploring his sexuality. Be a good gf and explore with him!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:47 AM
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The cognitive dissonance between calling your name a “stripper name” and then trying to virtue signal you about respecting strippers is giving me whiplash. SW is not the path to empowerment for any woman and they know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:56 PM
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“Spam and complaints from men” 😂 You ladies are doing an amazing job and we appreciate your work. Thank you so much! Not sure why these guys can’t read that we are female only... guess that’s the LoGiCal SeX hard at work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:09 PM
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Handbook material! I am so sick of being called a frigid bitch viewing marriage as a contract, and for wanting a man who is willing and able to provide for me and our future. Women become the caregivers of children in most cases, and we need to see that our man can provide without our income in case of serious injury and maternity leave. Even women who do not become mothers need to have this security of him providing freely and joyfully. Our love is so valuable and we cannot sell ourselves for a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:21 PM
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I think they made a good point about being already established in your ways/career/lifestyle make a difference. Seven years is not unheard of, but if its between a fresh, confused uni student and a guy with a settled lifestyle, it could turn abusive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:58 PM
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I mean, even Epstein. As much of a shit as he is, it was his lady friend pulling all the strings to get him off and get him an endless stream of girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:43 AM
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Okay men, then start providing. Oh, that makes me a gold digger? Now we’re back to square one. F outta here, we already tried this strategy and women got played for millennia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 09:49 PM
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Y’allQueda
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 06:15 AM
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Four* of those
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:43 AM
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We all know a man would have left years ago if the roles were reversed, and all the comments would be other men encouraging him to leave her. “Wifely duties” or whatever. Women have been gaslit to tolerate so much ridiculous nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:16 PM
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Oh but the degrading kink subreddit’s about raceplay, rapeplay, and forced a*al are fine because.... mUh PeNiS? Lord, I’m tired
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:03 AM
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Fresh off the boat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:30 PM
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Yes!! Women absolutely lose respect for men they have to care for and coddle. I’d argue most of the dead bedroom posts are men who do nothing for their wife and act like children, then are shocked that their exhausted wife is too tired and grumpy for sex. No reasonable woman is sexually attracted to a manchild who can’t tell the difference between laundry soap and bleach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:37 AM
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It’s really common in the John community (guys buying prostituted women) to build a narrative of “im helping her buy diapers/get through school. I’m one of the good ones! At least I am nice to her” but would these guys ever just donate the money and not r—e her? Absolutely not. Because it’s all about getting their dick wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:59 AM
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That’s always my retort to the “they choose this profession” arguments by the pro-prostitution circles. Poverty and poor mental health are not a means for consent. I believe this post is 100% fake incel fan fiction, but if it was real then this clearly traumatized woman is not in a place to be making good decisions for herself. We try to stop people all the time from making self destructive decisions (drug use, staying with an abusive partner) but somehow prostitution is some holy business we ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:56 AM
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I don’t know what FDS queen would be doing a no labels situationship anyway. This post is fake af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:35 PM
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He got that J name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:11 AM
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For mEn GoInG tHeiR oWn wAy they sure do come our way quite a bit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:49 AM
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....annnnddd it got removed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 10:26 AM
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Bingo. This is the basis of all of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 05:16 AM
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He’s so shit I wish she could have dumped him twice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:41 PM
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Good thing you blocked and deleted him, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:19 PM
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I also find being celibate til marriage is the best way for me to weed out the guys who aren’t actually in it for the long term
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:56 PM
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The Olympic Mental Gymnastics event is apparently in December this time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:09 PM
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Lmao once again women’s accomplishments go unnoticed (/sarcasm but also not)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:01 PM
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If women were doing all these shootings at schools and malls to compensate for their lackluster sex lives, guns would have been outlawed within 2 weeks. But because it’s MiSunDeRsToOd whiny men, it all gets a pass. As a bonus feature, they get to push the agenda that if only more sex workers had been available to service his wiener, we wouldn’t have these kinda of tragedies. Lord, I’m TIRED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:37 AM
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I need some first rate buckwheat and hoop skirts in my life 😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:49 AM
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On today’s episode of What Item Were Women Compared to Today, we have tires
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:27 AM
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It’s because at 25 our brains have finally fully developed and we become a threat to the establishment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:25 AM
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Scrotes can’t have brave guys like this one raising the bar for the rest of men. Gotta keep those expectations at rock bottom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:18 AM
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People so often forget the trauma involved for the newborn to be taken from their mother. Even if the baby’s genes are different from the surrogate, the baby still recognizes her as their mother and goes into distress when they are separated. And lest we forget that the surrogate mother has also been bonding with the baby, even if only subconsciously. Surrogacy is purely narcissistic and should not be legal. Your genes aren’t special, sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:57 AM
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These posts write themselves at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:49 PM
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An insecure man will ruin your life! Good job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:59 PM
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I’d bet money she makes more than him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:55 PM
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Add Slavic women to that list. These western men go to these countries to financially coerce a woman into being his bangmaid, and then get all upset when she isn’t the doormat he expected. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:11 PM
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It’s from the Political Compass. Top is authoritarian, bottom is libertarian, left is economic left, right is economic right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:00 AM
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Great insight! It just takes experience and practice to get better at responding appropriately to their nonsense and not getting hung up on it. It sucks big time at first, but then you get back into all the other fulfilling things in your life and see a scrote for what he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:51 PM
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I have HUGE doubts he is the sole caregiver of this baby. Odds are he pumped and dumped the baby mama, then dumped the baby onto this new mama. She’s giving her best years and best care to a child that her husband will have no issue taking with him in the event of their (hopefully soon) divorce. Heartbreak all over for both her and the little boy. This man has psychopathic levels of narcissism and lack of empathy to wrap so many lives into his nonsense. All for MuH lEgAcY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:15 PM
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Just do it more, its like any other exercise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:21 AM
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I like to hope just a little bit it’s a male author but good men are so rare that who actually knows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:30 PM
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Probably a female author anyway. Just write “man here and I think X” and watch Reddit give you a free pass to say whatever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:21 PM
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That go to hell money is not to be underestimated!!! Very important
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:20 PM
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I love how “1st Masters” implies a second one, queen shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:49 AM
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literally any time some random man comes up to me on the street for ""help"" with something, I either entirely ignore them or reply, "no go ask a man." If they actually were in need of help, they would ask a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:51 AM
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No one leeches like a LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:51 AM
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"When you are so focused on improving yourself, you don’t have time to get jealous of other people." Queen shit, thank you!! I've had a really intense year, and as much stress as it was, I lost all of the stress that used to come with comparing myself to others. Keeping myself busy with my own level-up strategy kept me sane!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 09:27 AM
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If men are actually in trouble, they can go ask another man for help. This is why I don’t help random men on the street anymore. I have too much to lose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:26 AM
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Add vegans to the mix. The men get super into the movement for the feeling of moral superiority, then tangle a young woman up into the movement, telling her if she really cared about veganism, she would alienate herself from her social groups that will still eat animals products. The guy gets to feel like a god who is soooo much better than everyone else, and the woman is left isolated from those who would help her escape abusive situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:17 AM
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A man wrote this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:24 PM
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Lmao me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:05 PM
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Let’s talk about how I have to endure seeing guys with their penises out, pissing in broad daylight on the street multiple times a day because they “have to go now” but women who give birth have far higher rates of bladder issues, yet I have never seen a mother pop a squat on a sidewalk in front of a cafe to take a piss. It’s absolutely vile and disgusting behavior, and while the sex offender registry has its own issues, I agree that men exposing themselves in public to pee should be arrested fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:08 PM
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Older women in my sphere have been giving me such a hard time about not giving any of the young men a chance, but they just don't understand the absolute depravity we have to sift through to find a single decent man that will abstain from porn, has a job, and washes his ass. They couldn't believe any man would have the nerve to ask out a girl for a walk and coffee, or demanding sex after being literal strangers the day before. The bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:19 AM
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The quotable content on this episode had me SHOOK. Hard-hitting fact after fact. I had to pause and just take in her statements in the silence a few times. Thank you so much Dr. Dines, and to the women of the podcast. I know Lilith is leaving Reddit, but FDS goes beyond Reddit and having such an important speaker on has really shown how relevant this content is. This movement has finally given voice to all my hesitancies of the current liberal feminism culture and has so much to offer other wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:13 AM
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Excuse me, Queen, don’t call yourself a 4 or 5, you are a 10/10!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:55 PM
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It’s only revolutionary for him because he (apparently) doesn’t want to fuck her. Probably the first time he’s done something moderately not shitty (I can’t say he did anything helpful really) for a woman that he wasn’t sexually attracted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:52 PM
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Ovarit maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:43 PM
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FDS is bigger than reddit, and I am confident you ladies will find a reasonable platform for this content. I became a patreon subscriber because I believe in you all and this cause! Don’t let the haters get you down, you are so strong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:42 PM
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Ill admit I teared up while reading this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:39 PM
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They won’t clean themselves, but they’ll sure as hell make sure you know if you’re not doing a good enough job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:04 PM
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Homemaking is a specialized skill that doesn’t get appreciated because it is unpaid and traditionally female. Managing a family’s schedule and making the home a welcoming, clean, safe environment is akin to running a small business
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:40 PM
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If he doesn’t have the emotional fortitude to put together an IKEA bed frame (or hire someone to do it) then he doesn’t have the emotional or financial capacity to be dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:30 AM
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Right? Build me a house first then we will talk about getting access to my body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:25 AM
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“Doesn’t work outside the home” is the terminology my mother’s generation/friend group uses to discuss SAHMs and is also my preferred terminology. Homemaking is tough work! I’m glad to see this video of a man showing so much respect for his wife’s line of work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:19 AM
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Do these men not work? I can barely find time do to my enjoyable hobbies, much less hate-scroll some sub I can’t stand. It’s truly a form of self harm to continually work yourself up over a sub that’s not meant for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:14 PM
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I reported a few for impersonation, because that’s what they’re doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:13 PM
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I’ve also seen what having an abortion does to women. And while they agreed it was the best decision they could have made at the time, it was still very painful to go through, both physically and emotionally. The legal hoops they make you go through at the doctors office of listening to the heartbeat, etc are such a lasting memory for these women, and the hormonal rollercoaster you have to put your body through. But for the men, they simply don’t care. It’s truly a ticket to free sex (hell, some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:11 PM
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Might be financially trapped to him too, with a son and all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:07 PM
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This poor, traumatized woman! I really just want to hug all these women who think a guy that would treat her like this is the best she can do. He doesn’t deserve a single bit of what she’s given him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:06 PM
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Plus announcing he’s newly single and a changed man, and can now start taking phone numbers without all the questions and guilt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:47 AM
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Yes, they see the potential of free labor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:10 PM
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Right? Like c’mon sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:59 PM
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It couldn’t be me, that’s for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:23 AM
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Unfortunately if we all did this, we would all still be in caves. I’d bet money that it was women who actually invented fire. But yeah, in the business world I don’t work for free. Somewhere else in this sub, someone said “don’t be flattered when someone tries giving you extra tasks for free” and it resonated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:22 AM
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Haha I’m sure it’s just a common rap line. He’s just who I thought of first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:40 PM
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Childish Gambino? :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:55 PM
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Did his parents not teach him shame? I’m shocked, but not surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:21 PM
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I often fantasize about this exact thing. Every biography I read from the past about male accomplishments, I try to read between the lines of which women helped push him to the top. And for every female biography, I’m often met with sad stories of how much more she could have done if not for the oppressive systems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:04 PM
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I cant stand the critics that say a woman leaving her career to raise her children means she wasted her education. Even if a highly educated woman leaves the workforce to raise her children, her education isn’t wasted because she’s influencing the next generation, voting, making consumer decisions, etc all with that knowledge. (And she’s a person, and therefore deserving of the education she wants in the first place, even if she wasn’t influencing others). Nobody bats an eye when a guy gets and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:59 PM
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check the sidebar!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:36 AM
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I second this. We have spotify playlists of quality music, the next step is films and other media
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:05 PM
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Oof yeah my thoughts exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:48 PM
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I was in a similar boat, although to be fair, not as severe. My solution was to move to a different region and limit my contact with them. FDS really opened my eyes to the deep rooted misogyny and disrespect I was expected to take as a female household member. I feel for my female family members, but it’s not worth dealing with they’re horrible husbands. They’re not very receptive to my points of view, so I’ve stopped sharing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:41 AM
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Yeah honestly. It’s not going to get any better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:22 AM
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Any possibility of letting the landlord know? I had a similar violent run-in with a drugged-out guy in my building and I covered my ass by informing the landlord ( in case something happened to me bodily, or if he tried to damage the apartment door, etc) so that there was a written record of the incident. The landlord took it very seriously and I don’t think that tenant is getting renewed. My neighbor has not been a problem since that incident, and our brief hallway interactions (just passing by…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:17 AM
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Same! I always want to shake them and ask why! It’s sooo expensive and follows you forever. Every single legal form asks “former names?” And you have to list them. Plus the internal identity crisis it can cause in women by having a sudden new name. What man would go through all 15 of his ID cards, banks, email, social media, work accounts, etc to change his wife’s name? Now ask why we are expected to do the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:56 AM
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I won’t change my last name if I get married, and my children are getting my surname. If my man wants the same last name as his kids, he’s welcome to take my last name. No way in hell am I doing all the reproductive labor and childrearing for them not to have my name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:53 AM
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Whoop, there it is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:43 AM
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Lmaooooo it took some turns, but I trusted the process and love the final look
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:14 PM
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If he really could have paid your salary, I’d have asked for that money to be sent to my own personal bank account just like a regular job. Watch how quickly they backpedal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:00 AM
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I would literally rather work. What a headache. I’m glad you go out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:24 AM
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Damn I gotta put this on a sign or something and hang it in my house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:03 PM
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Preach! I had a call with my mother this week and asked her at what age she started making me do chores around the house, because increasingly I come across families where the children do absolutely nothing except their own fun hobbies and sports. She said by age 3 I did a lot of tasks, even scrubbing the toilet. It took a lot of supervision and training on her part, but I will proudly say my mom never cleaned a toilet after my siblings and I were around 5 years of age. We did most of the househ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:58 PM
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I’m really lucky that I’ve found a few solid female friends to do those kinds of things with. I also have a sibling that is dating (they have the same requirements as me) but I just don’t as much interest right now for dating as they do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:57 PM
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Pickings are still slim though 😂😂 I’m better off single regardless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:47 AM
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It’s common enough in my community
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:25 AM
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I’m in the “no sex until marriage” camp and it is amazing how good it is at keeping the lvm away. I know it’s not the route for all FDS women, but it’s that standard I’ve set for my relationships, and has given me so much peace (because the lvm have left me alone lmao)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:27 AM
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Yeah the cops would be so useless in this situation, glad for these queens using the naming and shaming method instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:21 AM
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I literally just messaged them on Twitter so the barrier to entry isn’t that high, I think it could go female-only if they wanted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:49 PM
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Pickmes need an intervention, I swear. Like the FDS podcast said, women as a class need to have a strike and demand better conditions. This thread had me 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:14 PM
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This literally was happening to a friend of mine and I had to spell it out for her in such simple terms, it was embarrassing for both of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:14 PM
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I got asked why I looked so young once, and deadpan replied, “no man, no kids.” (And PSA, wear sunscreen. Even if you have skin that doesn’t burn easily. Stress and the sun are huge at aging you)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:15 AM
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I’m also choosing the single life. The sheer amount of hours and emotional labor I watch my friends put into their men is crippling their lives. It’s like 3 hours a day after work (in person or on the phone), and then all weekend every weekend. Ma’ams, that time could be for a weird hobby, or job training, or education, or Netflix. But no, you’re spending it making sure your man is fully entertained by you (and not running off to some other woman’s bed). It gets in my last nerve, and I simply do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:09 AM
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What are her legal abilities here as far as a restraining order goes? (I know, I know, varies by location). What amount of proof is usually needed? Would this (bf? Brother?) count as a witness to weird behavior? How can we protect ourselves from this stuff legally?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:42 PM
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👑QUEEN SHIT👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:39 PM
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Schrodinger's scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:55 PM
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Alternate route: breaking mom, and then fds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:10 PM
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If he’s breaking shit, he’s gonna break you next. Thanks but I’ll pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:26 AM
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Its basically been proven over and over in studies that when a man controls money, he boozes it away. But when a woman controls the finances, she gets her children educated, better access to nutrition, and uplifts her community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:18 PM
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The North acts like everything southern is racist, as if Oregon and Maine just fell from the sky. Just because y’all is southern does not make it racist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:23 AM
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The South gave us the gender neutral “y’all” and is what I use
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:02 PM
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I’ve met some seemingly great guys, but then their friend group ended up being a garbage heap of LVM, and it dawned on me that they are willingly putting up with this clownery and will drag them down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:41 AM
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Those male therapy scenes sent my flight or fright response into overdrive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:28 AM
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hmmm where have I seen this before? Maybe the downgrade of teachers from pillars of the community to glorified babysitters once women took over the role
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:14 PM
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I listened to the podcast twice, and decided to give it a rewatch this week. I liked hearing the producer discuss the role the Soviet Union played in both empowering women and enforcing traditional norms. For example, Soviet women were highly educated and had roles as doctors and nurses, but were very rarely in the powerful party positions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:29 PM
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Men 👏🏻are 👏🏻the👏🏻actual 👏🏻golddiggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:42 AM
3

I was fucking wheezing on my public transit commute like a crazy person for that whole segment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:37 AM
65

Oh wow, is this the post for me. I’m from a family with a lot of military members and this post hits the nail on the head! I’ll add, due to the nature of relocation every 18-36 months, wives are entirely unable to have independent careers, and are then bashed (common names for wives are “depend-a-popotamus”) for being dependent on their military spouse for their survival. It’s a truly vile system used by LVM to baby-trap a stay-at-home-mommy-bangmaid-life-manager who can hold down the fort at ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:32 PM
31

Make sure if you go out of pocket, you try to invoice it, and make sure the client knows that was your money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 12:33 PM
20

Not replying to subtext and maybes is so huge! Congrats! Women give so much credit to men that their “I don’t knows” and “maybes” might actually mean something else, but good on you for believing your man when he said he didn’t know about the future with you. Focus on doing what’s best for you, and if a HVM comes along and wants to be a part of your life, he will not keep you guessing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:41 AM
6

I need a whole word origin thread for all these words asap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:41 PM
59

On a side note, I’m just noticing the same word “groom” is used for “husband” and also “manipulate.” Maybe I’m just wearing a tin foil hat, or maybe....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:34 PM
77

M O D L O V E!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 10:05 PM
50

The myth of the full time stay at home mom is such a 50s trope too. Women have always been mothering alongside field work, tailoring, etc., but modern mother’s are apparently supposed to also feel some sort of mom guilt over leaving their baby to go earn money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 10:04 PM
6

Right? There are far better casseroles to make too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:46 AM
4

The title was the translation 🤗 sorry if it wasn’t clear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:31 AM
8

Nazdar!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:30 AM
34

My profile is locked up like Fort Knox too, so there’s no other possible info to glean from the public view! Too bad they can’t take the hint that we don’t want unsolicited messages from strangers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:32 PM
13

I don’t think they can read sent messages after they’ve been blocked. I’ve read it just says “content unavailable” from “Facebook User” for them. And since he’s sent the same message to 45 other women today, he won’t remember it’s my profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:15 PM
54

I knew the FDS purists would scoff! I did it for the lolz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:09 PM
103

Shirt potatoes ☠️☠️☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:03 PM
71

Ah yes, their good ole friend, Projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:22 PM
43

I had so much respect for the well thought out reasons for the loft bed, the organization of everything, the craftsmanship of building it himself, and the creative hobby, but the bragging about a full set of sheets and the cuddling pillow has me ☠️☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:11 PM
23

Not even doing sports, just watching it. Or playing it via a video game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:44 PM
19

*awoman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:58 PM
45

I applaud you sticking to your guns on all these issues!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:35 PM
10

Wow, were you eavesdropping on calls with my mother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:40 PM
29

If he wanted to, he would My safety takes priority over men’s feelings Investments of time/money/energy into myself will always see a return on investment Attention from men is low value and abundant I have a sacred duty to my foremothers to use my liberty and endless options to do what they only dreamed of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:34 PM
31

My eyes have truly been opened and I cannot be more grateful to this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:29 PM
21

Yeah, I’ve been applying FDS principles for years, and FDS just helped me internalize that I’m not a frigid bitch, but a woman with healthy boundaries. It made me realize I’m not alone and gives me a community of like minded women amidst a sea of patriarchal bullshit, so that part was eye-opening, but the strategies themselves were already part of my dating plan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:15 PM
9

I cackled at that part
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:34 PM
3

That’s the only way to do it. No way in hell am I renaming 15 documents while he just gets to check the “married” box and get lower car insurance rates. 50/50 babe lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:33 PM
9

The amount of rebranding I’ve seen my lady friends have to do once married is mind boggling. What man would ever change all his emails, bank cards, loan forms, passports, ID cards, rent agreements, etc for a woman?? Not a damn one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:51 PM
877

File a police report.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:52 AM
58

The skill I use for this is “playing the tape until the end.” When abuse/red flags have been presented to me, afterwards classically comes the apology and brief changed behavior. But after FDS, I now play the scene until the end. At the end of it, they are back on their bullshit, and I’m worse off. I’ve been applying this to all the relationships in my life and now I know to walk away at the first red flag. The red flags do not easily leave, but you definitely should
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:20 PM
3

Men would literally rather hold a weird grudge against their dad than go to therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:25 PM
65

I lost it at “random cords” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:53 PM
18

You know she paid for that burger too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:58 AM
6

It was a quick read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 10:23 AM
12

The Life Changing Magic of Not Giving a Fuck is also magical. I read it and had already been applying the principles at an 80%, but after reading it had the guts to go full 100% efficiency of not gaf. Truly life changing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:34 AM
44

“Water bed shaped bastard” 💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:38 AM
12

At least he found a wholesome hobby out of it! Bare Minimum Man strikes again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:43 AM
5

It’s the thought that counts ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:09 AM
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Oof, yeah, the hardest part of becoming an FDS’er for me was realizing the male members of my family were all LVM. I’d always had a weird gut feeling towards their beliefs and actions, but couldn’t quite vocalize what it was until finding FDS. It might be called female dating strategy, but it’s really come to encompass my worldview on all men in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:44 PM
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I had a guy ask my deal breakers and I replied “why would I just hand you the playbook?” His reply was “to save time.” So here it is for you ladies :) -kids -dead end job -no education -still living with parents (unless in the rare instance he is caring for them in their old age, or some other reasonable reason) -no tangible short or long term goals -sexist -racist -messy house/car -no hobbies -shitty friends (guilt by association!) -criminal record -poor diet or lifestyle choices (excessive smo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:03 AM
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