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good writing, bro! definitely gonna be using this when I start actually cold approaching ​ right now I thought about prioritizing girls from the gym, some other from work and other from a class I attend; I believe that in these cases the ideal game should be an indirect one - I get to know the girl and after a few occasions of banter and attraction building I ask for the number. ​ What is your take on those situations?
/r/seduction29/01/20 05:28 AM
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Yeah bro that is just what I was thinking Almost no one really cares about monogamy nowadays and especially girls with the "u goooo grllll" propaganda I'd say guys care a lot more about it
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:58 AM
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My game is shit, I'll give you that I don't really get anxious over approaching strange people but I don't know about what to talk or how to do so I'm reading Models rn to see if I can fix it
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:49 AM
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saying you're high value automatically means you're not high value Fair enough. I just said that because I'm 6', fit, handsome and just got out of med school I do have some autistic tendencies and a pretty small social circle though So you don't push through that "bf" barrier with taken girls?
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:42 AM
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where's the purge button
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:38 PM
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hey bro I'm not a mod so this is the only way I can handle this problem ​ I will gladly tank a ban if this thread helps our community get even 10% closer to what it was back in the years
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:35 PM
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shhh let's enjoy some normies getting triggered
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:30 PM
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Jaja
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:12 PM
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I would agree with you if we were talking about 2017 But shit is umbearable now Too much noise Take a look at askTRP top posts now
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:11 PM
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yea no one here gives a fuck about your high school grow some pubes, have some heartaches, get rid of your Naruto shirts and become an actually useful member of society and this community
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:10 PM
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wow this is such a good and well elaborated argument against my post I guess the only thing I can do is laugh in another language at what I wrote jajajaja
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:08 PM
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begone ​ THOT
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:43 PM
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lol an actual bitch ​ just checked your history ​ you are essentially the problem I am describing
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:40 PM
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If you're not using it as a buffer then it's all good bro
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:24 PM
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you are probably a NEET with too much time on his hands mate ​ let me tell you ​ actually successful and productive men aren't worthless maggots like you who have too much time on hands to "game" 99% of girls who won't give you the time of the day ​ wanna know why I myself hire hookers? I'm a doc ​ I study ​ I work ​ I have impact on other's lives ​ Worthless fucker
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:24 PM
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jeez ​ this sub really needs a fucking purge ​ dumb fuck
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:20 PM
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Stop being a lazy bitch and look through the hundreds of threads that asked the same question Or check the sidebar and see your exact same question there Fucking lazy cunt
/r/askTRP22/12/18 01:50 PM
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You are just a tryharding faggot
/r/askTRP21/12/18 05:13 PM
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Dude This community gets more retarded every day
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:10 PM
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so many betas, shitty teenagers and trolls here ​ no one even seems to read even a fraction of the sidebar nowadays
/r/askTRP14/12/18 09:22 PM
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It shouldn't. Our community is in such a shitty state right now due to almost no vetting/TRP going mainstream; the quarantine is the only way of keeping even a small sliver of quality
/r/askTRP14/12/18 08:54 PM
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god what a cringy 13yo shitter some people appreciatr healthy relationships go back to the fortnite sub, kid
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:24 PM
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Thrombosis, liver cancer, structural heart changes, infertility... But is it worth living a shitty depressed low T life over some increased risks? med student here and I'll probably self-prescribe once I am a doc
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:16 PM
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kinda agree with you ​ I don't think I would fit in a conventional setting
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:56 AM
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I envy your sanity
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:56 AM
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hope so
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:55 AM
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I actually used to be cringe ​ anyways, ty for your input, what a nice person
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:55 AM
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used to
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:49 AM
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I don't care about them per se problem is I walk on eggshells as I have been forced to work with these people for the last 5 years and all this time really sucked what I care for is my sanity they seem to hate me as well since I don't really sync with the group image
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:07 AM
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It’s a tool set to help men better themselves in the right way considering the cultural situation we are in. It does give a fuck about the “suffering losers” out there, as it’s entire existence is for the purpose of helping them become something else than suffering losers. We CANNOT save everyone. Some people are just meant to get fucked in the asshole; it's the way of nature and every.piece.of.theory we discuss acknowledges this. AF/BB; the Pareto principle; men being expendable; you name it. T…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:58 PM
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Men's day? TRP? This community which helped you so much? Fuck off faggot ​ Bro, men by definition add value to whichever endeavors they choose to engage and most of those great ECs and pointed users - great, creative and most of all valuable men - have already left this community due to its sorry state nowadays ​ We've essentially become a community of sad betas, horny preteens and trolls and if I haven't left this shitty group it's because our sidebar and some posts are fucking gold ​ It's the …
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:52 PM
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You don't even seem to know what TRP is all about lmao It is just a toolset to be used in this social and cultural situation of ours, just like that Therefore, it doesn't GAF about the suffering of any loser out there Get out of here with your faggot tea party mentality
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:42 PM
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they aren't doing anything about it then he's just sucking your money away and you should find a new trainer ​ exactly
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:29 PM
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nope ​ I usually do the same sucker lifts I used to do in the beginning ​ and even if my form sucked he's paid to correct it
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:29 PM
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my finances thank you and your insightful comment ​ gonna get a good look at that routine
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:53 AM
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are you really on the right sub? guys here are usually the passive-aggressive or straight up cunts few people take the time to write good answers on askTRP, I thank you for that
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:58 AM
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I have been doubting him for some months now actually He kinda helped a newbie achieve a intermediate level I believe I'm at right now But I feel weak, out of gas to keep going and I'm not really getting closer to my objectives I have been reading so much about really efficient routines and how machines/curls overall suck when compared to compounds so I can't really trust the guy
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:41 AM
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I have seen this girl maybe 2 or 3 times actually
/r/askTRP15/10/18 02:38 PM
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It's not fear of rejection, I really do forget about escalating since our interactions take about 1 or 2 minutes in the elevator and I am either really sweaty from gym or in my work mindset - am a doctor I don't know about you, but I workout really late at night and I only want to rest after doing some good deadlifts
/r/askTRP15/10/18 01:43 PM
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I get where you come from The truly best way would be to ask for her number directly, I agree The problem is I think I won't be seeing her for some time though
/r/askTRP15/10/18 01:40 PM
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surprisingly enough your answer was the best I know about hypergamy and shit but disrupting relationships is not smth I'm really comfy with
/r/askTRP14/10/18 07:25 PM
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> Medical student = the very time you really need to fucking focus on your tradecraft ​ I'm pretty much focused but I still got some free time in between classes, surgeries and other activities I was thinking about the hordes of nurses who work with me and I could simply game without much of a problem
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:52 AM
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wow thanks
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:50 AM
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> sounds like you have much more important things to be focused on ​ I'm focused bro ​ I was thinking about the hordes of nurses who work with me ​ fortunately due to my working conditions gaming one of them would not pose a risk to my job so I could do it freely
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:49 AM
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nice idea
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:04 AM
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oh, man ​ where has all that golden bullying gone ​ it seems that all we have are faggots nowadays
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:03 AM
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LOL ​ a literal cuck who is probably bullied in college
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:02 AM
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awww I'm so mad at a random user somewhere I don't even fucking know telling a story
/r/askTRP27/09/18 08:51 PM
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grow some pubs first before you try to get a sniff at some random pussy
/r/askTRP27/09/18 08:50 PM
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That's why I think shitty kids shouldn't be on TRP
/r/askTRP26/09/18 11:59 PM
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U are just an orbiter brah Stop shitting yourself
/r/askTRP26/09/18 11:58 PM
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well, those hepatic adenomas don't appear out of nowhere now do they
/r/askTRP23/09/18 12:51 PM
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why are you even at TRP then bro
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:30 AM
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I can agree with that My main problem is that some of these shitters backstabbed me once when my SMV sucked Now those gainz speak through my clothes and everyone is being so tryhard around me
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:59 PM
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just close the deal and you'll see a change of tone
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:54 PM
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don't deal ​ that's when girls think attractive men's traits are supposed to be attractive on them as wel ​ but that shit is fucking annoying
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:34 PM
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Both
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:10 PM
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He's a kid Probably expecting results to fall in his lap
/r/askTRP12/09/18 03:37 PM
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try fixing that cotton frame of yours and lift
/r/askTRP30/08/18 01:11 AM
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catch hanseniasis
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:09 PM
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young men young men aren't children
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:03 AM
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well, you could always go to places with a smoother perspective, like /r/relashionships or /r/lifting kids can't really understand how deep this content is
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:38 PM
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both unfortunately
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:35 PM
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There are still posts worth reading on here of course It's not dog shit there's just an influx of people that haven't fully swallowed the pill. Good. They're in the right place kids don't fully mature physically and psychologically until they are around 21-22 I know this because I also study this let those guys live their lives first and mature without the shitty lens TRP gives
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:34 PM
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There are still good posts, they are just hidden I agree hidden beneath an evergrowing pile of dogshit
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:31 PM
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I would kill to have had TRP at his age I was only introduced at 24 he is a kid bro a child do you understand it? do you understand we do not allow them to drive for the same reason?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:31 PM
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what? did you even read what I wrote? bro, I'm a doctor and I still manage to lift 5 times a week that already puts me ahead of 95% of the chumps - including you - on the SMV surely I work on TRP's fundamentals but do not think the same standards apply to everyone if you think everyone can go cold approaching 2 hours a day because they have a 20-hour working week like you then you are a loser
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:30 PM
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if you think age isn't a factor and we should we have unrestricted access then I have nothing else for you
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:27 PM
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It's not necessarily bad, just bad for you specifically not only for me it seems
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:26 PM
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unfortunately everyone can lie about their age on the internet
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:25 PM
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what?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:24 PM
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I am not even looking for sex. If it comes, it comes and if not I don't care. See my problem? Look at your age
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:24 PM
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o shit didn't even see your post history
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:40 AM
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unfortunately, that's not what bothers me I'm from a non english-speaking country and maybe one person in a hundred or two knows about TRP/manosphere/game overall. Brazilians are really lazy to leave their comfort zone and couldn't bother seeking this shit I'm just bothered by the quality of the forum I visit since mid-2016, that's all
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:39 AM
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Vexing about the state of an online community is a waste of time agreed, I shouldn't bother this much
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:48 AM
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sorry, I'm not really into internet culture I use it mostly as a meme
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:46 AM
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HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:25 AM
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chill you probably have already been exposed
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:24 AM
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Unfortunately I’ve had it since I was a baby, some dirty cunt must have thought it would be cute to mouth kiss the baby.. HAHAHAHAHA we are used to say that half the infected people got it from nurses talking over the babies
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:23 AM
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nooooooise
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:19 AM
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oh shit great memes this is a fun community regarding your comment, functional and health communities have their own access restrictions TRP should be one but we are as beta as any mofo out there in this regard
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:13 AM
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you have a good head my main problem with TRP is that it makes you a fucking skeptical mofo it can and will deprive you of some beta although good experiences like genuinely falling in love I absolutely don't regret finding TRP and neither should you, but take care if you choose this path
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:10 AM
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nope you're too immature live life first and embrace the bad experiences, they'll sharpen you just don't get anyone pregnant and don't go to jail
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:01 AM
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I was just asking man relax I'm not even mad, just sad because the community's got to this point nothing personal though, I just believe boys will be boys and each and every experience in life is worth it there's a dumb hoe over here saying that you "shouldn't waste your years being a blue beta bitch" well, I absolutely don't regret the oneitis I got and the times I got spat on by people, they made me the man I am
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:57 AM
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If this community needs more posts the teacher will appear when the students ready. unfortunately life doesn't work according to cringey instagram quotes this community is getting way worse every day
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:30 AM
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go back to playing COD bro you probably got a huge testosterone/dopamine boost after asserting yourself as alpha right just 16 btw
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:29 AM
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then leave the community you just contribute to noise part of the noise-to-signal ratio
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:28 AM
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what experience are you talking about Overall life experiences? Getting dumped and spat on by other people? Those thing build character and grit - needed to understand and apply TRP - and a spineless 17-year old kid who just recently began to masturbate does not have those You want them to waste a few years being bluepilled rather than take initiative now? Bro, those kids are not being raised to be a TRP-enlighted king like you think they are There's a reason kids can't drive and normies aren't …
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:26 AM
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hey, bro, keep up the good work! your posts are great, showing a good overview and management of everlasting problems men face I personally loved that mental stimulation post and plan on putting that to good use What topics do you personally want to read about? Just write what you feel like writing - you've already helped many people that way. I just hate dumb kids trying to join the discussion about shit they have not lived yet My last post last week was about ADHD which got 3 Reddit gold three…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:21 AM
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And then there are the "I know 'don't shit where you eat', but..." posts those are the worst
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:59 AM
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that's not the point TRP's not meant for kids to use the same way they shouldn't drive technically there shouldn't be much of a problem but kids are dumb and have no decision-making skills whatsoever they need some experience first before they try to be men
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:58 AM
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I don't know normies arriving outnumber waaaay harder those who leave
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:44 AM
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feels bad man
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:43 AM
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we have very few good posts nowadays
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:42 AM
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I don't know bro we have many talented people here leaving because of all the bullshit brought by shitty members this community is a gem to many people - including me - and it is truly sad to see it become dogshit like this
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:42 AM
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Who'd want to work for a company, where project managers make their decisions like females, based on feelings and taste, instead of using logic and hiring people based on their skills, not their looks? ohhh I'm sorry if people judge each other based on appearance and your sugarcoated world doesn't align with reality
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:53 AM
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the masses are dumb
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:50 AM
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Tattoos nowadays = low-T boy with self-esteem problems trying to show how edgy he is they used to have true meaning in the past, but this is long gone the rest is just rationalizing
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:49 AM
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Some people are simply followers Trying to change it will make you unhappy "Freedom" as you say it is for the truly strong ones and unfortunately we have almost none of those nowadays
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:44 AM
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Go live a life first before you try TRP Seriously
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:43 AM
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shieeeet whatever, let's see where this can go
/r/askTRP03/08/18 11:54 PM
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here goes mine: civil rights should be earned, not born with most people suck ass
/r/askTRP03/08/18 11:53 PM
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I can only talk about public education here in Brazil (you don't even pay to go to uni) and it really sucks
/r/askTRP03/08/18 11:49 PM
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why do you say so?
/r/askTRP03/08/18 11:49 PM
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this is not really that unpopular bro
/r/askTRP03/08/18 11:48 PM
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wow if you say so
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:36 PM
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stop hamstering faggie Ever since I was a kid, it was always me initiating. I have a solid group of lifelong friends and I continue to make more lifelong/childhood friends are representative of nothing since kids do not know SMV of course being a leader with assertiveness helps but i believe 99% of your so called "friends" will flake on you at the first sign of real distress
/r/askTRP11/07/18 06:53 PM
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bro, ignore 90% of the answers here remember when we discussed at the main sub that the SMP became cancer around, what, 40 - 50 years ago? that does apply to men as well - most of them are cancerous branch-swinging maggots who only hang with you while you provide satisfying value to them. of course I will not deny true friendships as they exist but I have the opinion that only some special friends - like those from childhood, military, school or other special situations - stay with you long term…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 06:51 PM
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and it's not that small of a problem bro I've already lived through and read a lot here and at TRP to know AWALT but being this cynical can f*** up some good relationships
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:07 PM
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good point
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:02 PM
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I see dudes who don’t workout at all with flat normal nipples and it pisses me off. I can’t wear certain shirts because of it. This in particular sucks A LOT. I have it as well What can/should I do, and how noticeable is it really or is it all in my head? You'll probably have to seek plastic surgery. It ACTUALLY IS noticeable In the meantime just own it and bulk, you're pretty small - 163 - actually
/r/askTRP01/07/18 12:09 AM
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I agree in the end we can only work so hard to change ourselves society is fucked
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:48 PM
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SHIEEET gotta get some reading comprehension going mate it's a good skill on this readers' world
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:44 PM
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So, my brother, there is no escape. But if you think about it, a bunch of people like that at a gym only highlight you; make you look better. Remind you of your own achievements. It's much more about them not taking such activity seriously than about being shitty in general I weigh about 200lb and no one there could lift me from the ground when we were doing such exercises It's ugly and pathetic
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:40 PM
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well, english is not my primary language and I'm sorry if this was misunderstood in such sort of way I do understand that some gay guys are hella manlier than the ones I was talking about
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:37 PM
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of course I can it just sucks that the closest to my house is like this
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:57 PM
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faggot = feminized men well, I'm seeking a new place to workout never said I wasn't
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:56 PM
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The entire next generation is going to be raised by 50 n-count single moms. This is frightening
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:13 PM
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simply having to deal with that was too much for me and I was looking forward so much to learn how to kick and strike with technique only lifting gets boring after a while
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:27 PM
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99% of
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:55 PM
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Chill Unless you're clearly symptomatic (which you could lie about and simply say you've some mechanical joint problems) you shouldn't disclose your condition to anyone you're seeking to date short term And 99% bitches don't understand shit about your disease and other rheumatic conditions
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:54 PM
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well, things seem fine after we talked a little and I recognized I went a little overboard when being a prick in our previous fight we both lost access to each other's phone but I still can check all her shit regularly. there doesn't seem to be any bullshit going on right now AWALT, still. I shall keep my eyes open
/r/askTRP28/06/18 10:22 PM
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Because in spite of all the good advice at this sub and at TRP most guys here are losers who mentally masturbate to their false alpha self-image I mean, it's easy to be the ultra-AMOG guy when you are behind your screen and can't be roundhouse kicked in the ribs right
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:18 PM
2

My opinion is that you shouldn't expect much from this LTR. exactly what I've been thinking. this sucks though
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:29 PM
1

I'll probably bang one or two hoes before taking any real decision actually. Scarcity is real when you enter an exclusive LTR
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:26 PM
1

yeah ty for your input and time. I do mean it
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:23 PM
1

I agree I began this relationship in a right way and slowly descended into this beta shit
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:14 PM
1

in this specific week I've had some problems to deal with and couldn't bother seeing her. Well, she wanted to watch the World Cup with me and I ended up being a little more of a cunt than usual and BOOM there's our situation
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:09 PM
1

well, things were wonderful until we really began pissing each other off a few days ago
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:04 PM
1

we are both very cold to each other right now
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:59 PM
1

Trust your gut feeling My gut is saying there's about 30% chance there's another dude
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:59 PM
1

I don't know, dude. I don't want to delay the inevitable, if it's over it's over
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:58 PM
1

Should I even bother checking?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:58 PM
1

On your actual topic: I'd treat it as a warning sign. Be prepared for something to happen, just don't act as if it already did happen. Gotta open my eyes then
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:58 PM
1

We were really about to breakup
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:57 PM
1

could be venting to gf or fam about you this is what she told me - there are family/gf things she'd like to keep from me. What are you doing to make yourself lower value? Are you failing shit tests? I don't really know. I really felt like I was handling this relationship right from the beginning (especially because I'm on TRP for almost 2 years). Could this be the natural course of the relationship? If you GOTTA KNOW, flat out ask her in an extremely matter of fact tone if she wants to part ways…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:57 PM
1

still plugged in some ways I believe
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:55 PM
2

we all have
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:54 PM
3

to no one's surprise my gut is screaming right now
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:53 PM
2

well, you either believe in a random internet stranger or not the fact is that I've been lifting for almost 2 years now (while she is a sedentary fat slob), I'm considerably smarter and my future is brighter but she can score sex with other guys far easier. it's not a competition unfortunately, it is what it is
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:53 PM
1

which isn't a measure of value
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:51 PM
1

It sounds to me like you’re on the verge of a breakup. We actually were and her emotional disarray can be reason for any bullshit to happen. "Because she was mad and it was not her fault". I've personally not lived through this yet but I read this a lot of times in TRP and askTRP. Some trust was probably lost because of this movement and I feel like in the next couple of months there may be something major for me to keep my eyes on
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:04 PM
1

I'll probably take that shit out though
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:57 PM
3

yea
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:57 PM
3

I don't know if this will change your opinion, but she obsessively checked my phone as well. Even discovered some old chats with escorts lmao I actually read on TRP about some guys with an "open phone policy" and I really liked that. I'll probably just check for shit once a month since I know her numeric password
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:56 PM
-10

that's true, there's always someone swole with a bigger dick
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:53 PM
4

somebody has to point out those shits let me bitch in peace please
/r/askTRP25/05/18 10:22 PM
5

shieeeeet
/r/askTRP25/05/18 10:21 PM
1

pay for sex which is beta af agreed to slowly reattain my position of power then
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:16 PM
0

And there's a basal level of dread in the relationship since she knows some attractive girls openly hit on me once in a while. Will spiking dread like this lead to bullshit?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:08 PM
1

You should not be concerned about her cheating on you in the first place. That don't matter. The only thing that matter is that she is on her best behavior for you. If she isn't, demote or next. If she is, reward intermittently Surprisingly enough our relationship is great I'm just the one being a paranoid fuck it seems
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:45 AM
1

You sound like a wounded child who discovered unicorns arent real That sums up pretty well my mental state right now
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:43 AM
1

of course
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:43 AM
2

Yea Most guys' opinions align with yours I'll just watch for a while
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:42 AM
1

I know this is been asked already but to be clear, was she sending these messages AFTER you two were exclusive? Yes! This was probably a doubt of many people here
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:42 AM
1

I don't usually like to sext but I've received some of those messages The problem is the emotional investment coming in the way of my rational thoughts
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:41 AM
1

true
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:40 AM
0

what did she lead you to believe her guy count was and how much do you think it might be now that you've read her messages I can't honestly even estimate that I'm just afraid I might catch a STD or two from her
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:39 AM
1

This is probably a ego problem, I've already noticed that But I don't know dude I know AWALT and hypergamy but some women do have some understanding of self-respect Not all of them would engage in such low-value behavior, that shit is for creeps I dated from virgins (whose first kiss was mine) to sluts and this kind kind of behavior is only seem on the latter half of the spectrum I mean, I also used do DM girls hoping to hookup when I was 16 and unaware My bitch is 22 now
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:48 PM
1

I don't know dude I know AWALT and hypergamy but some women do have some understanding of self-respect Not all of them would engage in such low-value behavior, that shit is for creeps I dated from virgins (whose first kiss was mine) to sluts and this kind kind of behavior is only seem on the latter half of the spectrum
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:47 PM
2

I don't know dude I know AWALT and hypergamy but some women do have some understanding of self-respect Not all of them would engage in such low-value behavior, that shit is for creeps
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:46 PM
5

that's right I dated from virgins (whose first kiss was mine) to sluts and this kind kind of behavior is only seem on the latter half of the spectrum
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:45 PM
0

I actually have some other women that do want my D but the emotional investment is what hurts the most I know I'm just being a faggot tho
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:44 PM
1

so it is unfeasible
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:43 PM
1

thank you for the answers and for the input I truly appreciate it
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:43 PM
1

hard-nexting becomes kinda hard when her family likes you a lot and you start to get attached to them as well I got quite a situation it seems
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:23 PM
3

Red flag city if their profile isn't private you got it right
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:21 PM
1

do you even think this relationship is viable as it is after reading the messages' content and after what I exposed here? I'm starting to doubt that
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:20 PM
1

I'm pretty sad right now actually
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:10 PM
0

Keep options open elsewhere. DO NOT BE BETA Would it even be feasible to keep her as a LTR right now? she'll probably be mad AS FUCK if she loses a catch like me if I demoted her but whatever
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:09 PM
4

I know I just feel a little embarrassed and humiliated by walking with her by my side now
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:08 PM
3

this is one of my plans she'll probably be mad AS FUCK if she loses a catch like me but whatever
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:08 PM
3

1) Do more reading. You'll find that what you're experiencing is not all that surprising nor unique. When you understand the current social environment, personal incentives, and evolutionary biology, you understand why these things happen. AWALT. what's even worse bro is that I'm reading TRP since 2015 I should've known better
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:06 PM
1

thanks for the great advice and dont ever fall for a bitch again before you learn how to vet people this was maybe the biggest problem in this situation
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:05 PM
1

I just thought I found myself a nice snowflake despite being here since 2015
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:04 PM
1

I'm already paranoid it seems
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:02 PM
1

thanks for the input I guess I'll take it easy but still look for real signs of bullshit This relationship is still inside my frame and she's the one who's usually afraid of me leaving
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:02 PM
3

We're all the problem
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:59 PM
3

damn I feel you man I kinda can handle that but it still sucks
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:59 PM
2

to sum it all up, she was basically saying "I miss you, I miss you in my bed, I miss your D" to some guys who would obviously never commit to such an easy catch and also actively hitting up some social media randos with "your handsome and I want to know you"
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:58 PM
5

this is the answer I needed actually
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:57 PM
7

yeah, should've expected that when she was that easy to game
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:57 PM
16

that's true
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:55 PM
17

yeah, she's acting right and exactly how I want her to act I just find it amusing that the moment she finds a guy with the right amounts of AF/BB (I'll be a doc in like 2 years) she starts saying she wants to marry me with such a slutty background you wish
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:55 PM
2

If she's sucking your dick at every opportunity and constantly trying to impress you, don't worry about it. Just do you. And surprisingly enough the relationship is great right now Not only do we have the sex I want when, where and how many times I want it but efforts were made for me to meet her family and get along I guess the best I can do right now is to chill and if things begin to slip (like you say) it won't even be worth it to prevent the worst
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:52 PM
2

fair enough
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:49 PM
0

she's not cheating lol what I've described are past conversations of her with guys
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:42 PM
5

pathetic right
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:30 PM
3

usually if you feel the need to do that, things are already fucked This is mostly myself being paranoid Got out of a HORRIBLE relationship last year and I'm still somewhat scarred But my now-GF has not shown any red flags during the 4 months we've been exclusive. I just feel the need to check things and when I find nothing I feel horrible afterwards
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:29 PM
8

fuk
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:25 PM
7

to sum everything up saying "I miss you, I miss you in my bed, I miss your D" to guys who would never commit to her and she was actively hitting up some randos with "your handsome and I want to know you" this shit at 21 is actually pathetic
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:13 PM
5

If she tries to look less slutty for you then at least you have some hamstering in your favor Maybe I just do not want to set myself as a BB so early in the game
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:10 PM
2

probably check myself for any STDs and next
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:01 PM
3

well, she did it in the past that's why I put the word "would" in my post I checked everything and there was no bullshit after she met me (or she's hiding it very well)
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:56 PM
7

21 yo I would love to spin plates but I'm already loaded with med school. Plate management is too much trouble for me and I have my career to care about Secondly, if you feel the need to go though her phone, neither one of you are LTR material (at least, not yet). Do you think so? There was recently a discussion at r/TRP about it and most endorsed agreed with "trust, but verify" That's something I do as well, I don't want to waste my time demote her to plate That's the thing, I have everything I…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:55 PM
20

Having sex with more guys than what she told me about Being a s-word with no self-respect who messages guys seeking attention and maybe D Typical low-self-esteem millennial who couldn't keep her hypergamy in check I gamed her with RP tactics and it was easy AF, but I never imagined it was thanks to her being a s-word
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:50 PM
0

This is the thing She's not a cheater neither a bad person Actually I haven't seen any problems ever since we began dating exclusively Maybe this is an ego problem
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:43 PM
5

sexting people is an issue to you Not too much, I just feel like a chump for LTRing a slut who hid well enough her things from me She will get attention elsewhere if you haven't provided enough I do provide the attention and the D, she doesn't need it from anyone else think you suddenly became the man she needs I was probably indulging in some BP fantasies of taking things further with her
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:28 PM
18

I'm reading this shit right now FUck me
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:22 PM
63

And I even used some of my money to buy her a fucking necklace recently Fuck me
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:19 PM
1

then the time between her getting it and you showing symptoms was 4 months?
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:38 PM
1

this sucks
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:28 PM
1

bro I'm afraid STD claims would damage the relationship Or me talking about it would show that I'm faithful and therefore can only have gotten from her?
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:27 PM
1

feelsbadman
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:14 PM
0

Sorry bro
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:14 PM
1

You know she can be a carrier without symptoms, right? That's a possibility as well Unfortunately I can only handle the fact that I myself have those symptoms Not sure it would take this long to develop if you caught it October I don't think so as well Do you suspect she's been unfaithful or that she had it previous to you I have no reason to suspect her and she's invested herself A LOT into the relationship (I met her family and she met mine; I sleep at her parents' house a lot etc.) You also n…
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:14 PM
1

Also for how long have you guys been having sex Since the beginning of December do you have any partners besides her I don't This is very sketchy territory imo you should be a little more skeptical about her. That's my plan I will investigate her phone a little better now
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:11 PM
1

Should I even bother talking about it with her?
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:10 PM
-1

Yeah I turn into a MD in two years and have plenty of material at home
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:08 PM
1

I even thought of that And surprisingly enough we bang > 4x a week Care to share more of your experiences? Would be grateful
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:05 PM
1

chill dude I meant that it can either be gonococcal or non-gonococcal speaking of etiology not that there are only two possible bacteria that cause urethritis fuck, even H. influenzae can cause it
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:04 PM
-2

bro, this is bothering the shit out of me I'll study it today but I don't think most of those bacteria would have such a high incubation time I had unprotected sex with another chick in October but only there
/r/askTRP07/03/18 04:17 PM
1

neither do I
/r/askTRP03/03/18 08:54 PM
1

I got in at 17
/r/askTRP03/03/18 08:47 PM
1

yeah, I'm from Brazil
/r/askTRP03/03/18 08:47 PM
1

I got inside pretty early actually
/r/askTRP03/03/18 08:45 PM
1

In my experience they will usually bring that stuff up on their own. And most often it is a covert way of trying to get me to open up about my own past, since that is something that I never discuss. interesting I'll try talking about previous relationships and allow her to talk then
/r/askTRP02/03/18 07:46 PM
1

doing so will change your perception of her big time and crush any BP expectations I still harbor she actually hasn't any red flags I'm aware of (other than a sexual history I'm itching to know)
/r/askTRP02/03/18 07:45 PM
1

k boss
/r/askTRP02/03/18 07:43 PM
5

both actually
/r/askTRP02/03/18 07:42 PM
1

surprising enough she's on med school as well so she wouldn't have much of a need of a provider damn
/r/askTRP02/03/18 07:16 PM
4

shieeeeeet gonna be looking into her eyes differently today
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:48 PM
1

hahaha thanks dude
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:47 PM
-7

I'm a cunt though seriously
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:43 PM
1

this is deep
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:39 PM
2

n-count ONS number depravity things I can use to assess how healthy is her vision towards sex
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:38 PM
-2

I can't really spin plates since this is a LTR situation I know how must girls nowadays are dirty and damaged sluts though
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:36 PM
3

fair enough
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:30 PM
-3

I'm somewhat of a cunt or a sociopath I don't know
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:27 PM
1

And what if I'm already on a LTR with her (fuck me, right?)? I've already lost the "alpha chad who won't give a shit and judge anything" card because no sane girl will talk about a promiscuous past to a bf I'm even able to get an accurate estimate of her n-count?
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:27 PM
1

How do I even enter this kind of conversation?
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:24 PM
-2

yeah I've already been on a LTR with a girl who was a virgin before me (even her first kiss was mine) and the difference you notice on their adoration to you is HUGE She even had a wonderful and stable family However I got bored and dumped her to play the field lol
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:24 PM
1

Yeah My argument towards this it LTR is that I don't really have the time to be spinning plates I live alone and 1200km away from my family and med school is already taxing enough on me However to enter a LTR nowadays is a basically a punch to the stomach when you know TRP this sucks
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:22 PM
1

I'm probably trying to be captain-save-a-hoe now your focus cannot be on this girl when you have an opportunity like this in front of you Funnily enough I've spent about 75% of med school in LTRs
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:20 PM
5

what's even funnier is that she's even planning on it I'll finish med school in about two years and she's saying she can finish her major while pregnant
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:19 PM
1

She's not the one, she's not special, its just your turn. It's hard to understand this one since she's been the healthiest relationship I've had ever since I met TRP
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:05 PM
6

unfortunately there are no serological or blood tests for diagnosing HPV, you can only detect it by searching in active lesions (like warts or ongoing cancer)
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:51 PM
2

hahah maybe this wasn't clear enough I've stopped seeing this plate BEFORE I began seeing my now gf
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:35 PM
3

shieeet dude what's done is done
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:32 PM
1

I know man beta tendencies just creeping in I guess
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:49 PM
1

shieeet
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:48 PM
1

A lot of alphas die young and very lonely. It's not just about alpha/beta and faking it always. It's about reaching out to better yourself a little bit more each week and finding limits and learning from them. TRP isn't about alpha or beta, it's about bettering yourself beyond your current artificial limits. Fake alpha if you need to, but if you're a beta, be the best damned beta you can be. Thanks for this I'll read things on a new perspective
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:51 PM
1

And what do you think about those guys who manage to check their girls' phones and maybe discover something?
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:28 PM
1

If you're powerful in ten years, love magically appears constantly at every angle. How your value determines everything is eye-opening and saddening at the same time
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:27 PM
1

I don't know. I've fallen in love with my profession after seeing people with lives so much shittier than ours but who go on day after day with a smile (even if they are been taken care by the 90% of bad doctors) I'll probably save some money when I start working to invest and open a business so I can have less worries with alternative incomes
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:25 PM
1

Sex isn't a good reason for dating, sex is easy. I date for consistency and having someone to hold up the camera for the instagram photos. I need this mindset. The problem is that I was a beta cuck for almost 20 years and this created huge sexual scarcity for me
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:19 PM
1

Thanks for giving me a new insight on things I really appreciate the teachings of someone who has more than twice my experience (I'm 21)
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:17 PM
1

Most guys who want to dominate do so as a projection of low value elsewhere in life, so be more concerned about figuring out where it is you feel low value. Hate your boss? Dad still treat you like an idiot? Owe more than your bank balance is worth? Fix that shit. Maybe you just described me I'm at med school but I feel unaccomplished and forced to be with people who do not love to care (which I think is a prerequisite for medicine) I was also at a state of quasi-depression for 2 years because o…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:16 PM
1

Bro, this paranoia of mine actually saddens me so much. This girl really likes me (I like her as well) and I agree with you when you say I'll eventually drive her away with all this bullshit I've been digging for signs for quite a while and I haven't found anything worth more than my own shitty hamsterings Any tips on letting the past go? I do know that what hurt me before was not a neurotypical woman but it's hard nonetheless
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:12 PM
1

I feel like I've been teached by western culture (mine specially, I'm from Brazil) to overvalue sex. Recently I've been thinking about sex not as means to have pleasure (since I can do that better by myself or with professionals) but as a way to assert dominance and have fun with the woman I'm with. Just gotta take out this hardwired sex addiction
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:06 PM
1

I felt it when I was single. No shit from women could bother me when I had 2 or 3 others I could call and hang out with I just feel bad for cultivating backups - meeting girls on campus and other places - on a LTR, but it seems like the only option for me
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:02 PM
1

It looks like I'm on real and self-created dread Going sidebar once again
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:59 PM
1

My frame is what is holding me back, it seems
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:58 PM
0

The self-improvement levels: I lift 5 times/week and keep a good wardrobe. I just began studying game
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:57 PM
1

I think she's dreading you We both dread each other, it seems. She stalks my social media compulsively and just got "mad" that some girls began following me on IG yesterday, lol This dread game of hers is probably based on my insecurities
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:56 PM
1

You're insecure and you don't trust her I've been played HARD by a BPD girl some months ago. REALLY hard. I even lost some 8 kilos because of that. Funnily enough, I was just at the end of a bulking phase and have increased maybe 2 points on the looks scale because of that lol Couple that with regular TRP reading and there you have it: crippling trust issues. This is a girl I feel I can trust (lower SMV, poor but self-sufficient family, treats me really well and doesn't deny anything, I'll be a …
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:55 PM
1

And she's already noticed some girls giving me the lustful eyes when we went out some times
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:40 PM
1

How's the dread side of things in your relationship? If you're in an LTR, you're following the 12 levels of dread, right? You do know the 12 levels of dread are the ONLY rules for a relationship, right? My dread with her is limited to my own self-improvement (that's up to level 5, right?). I am studying some game, lifting for over 2 years and my wardrobe is pretty nice. I haven't going as far as flirting with other girls in front of LTR, though. I'm pretty social and outgoing when we go out toge…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:39 PM
1

You're going to make a girlfriend out of the first girl you've dated in 2 years? I've dated others. What I meant was that I ended my previous LTR 2 years ago and began plate-spinning and closing girls on Tinder and personally. This girl I'm seeing right now got her GF upgrade 3 months ago, I've seen her for some time before that
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:36 PM
3

Would apologizing hurt my image even more?
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:31 PM
2

Should I even apologize or would it hurt even more my image? she has to earn those fun things by providing for your needs happily and enthusiastically the great majority of the time She does. She's extremely happy with me nearby and has introduced me to most of her family Public sex is fun and all but it isn't really something I fantasize about I'm probably addicted. I was not feeling good because the last we had sex was Wednesday
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:31 PM
-1

If she denies you sex in your bedroom, that's a totally different story. That's the thing - this is the first and only time I've been denied sex. I feel like that was a valid concern of hers and I was just a rude cunt Do you think it can change her perceived value of me?
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:05 PM
1

and you should, you're damaging yourself staying in that environment That's a huge problem. Med school is very time consuming and I find very little time to join other groups and meet people (the most I can handle right now is going to the gym and training muay thai, some great people there) And it only gets harder to find people worthy spending some time with
/r/askTRP23/01/18 04:43 PM
2

nice
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:42 AM
4

I thought a little about it later and came to this conclusion as well One cannot hope that a 20-something western woman won't do this shit on social media nowadays Insecurity sucks
/r/askTRP17/01/18 11:57 PM
1

paranoia, maybe
/r/askTRP16/01/18 07:13 PM
0

it isn't
/r/askTRP16/01/18 07:12 PM
1

dread does wonders doesn't it
/r/askTRP10/01/18 10:36 PM
1

unfortunately there are very few women whose personal worth goes beyond sexual release
/r/askTRP10/01/18 10:36 PM
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fair enough
/r/askTRP10/01/18 10:33 PM
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She's 22 and lost her v-card at 20. She also does not seem to frequently bang others (it was mentioned that before me she only got laid at May). Well, her being low n-count is just an assumption and she may as well be lying to me. If you are not comfortable with this, you should leave. Plenty of women out there bro. Yeah, she was extremely easy to seduce and I can replace her within a few days. Dating is such a pain in the ass though. My greatest problem right now is because I was having a lot m…
/r/askTRP01/01/18 05:19 PM
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just said "you know the answer" and then ignored
/r/askTRP21/11/17 08:49 PM
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just said "you know the answer" and then ignored
/r/askTRP21/11/17 08:49 PM
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yeah, I do
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:10 PM
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Your apparently a Dr you can't be this ignorant in other aspects of life cmon man As you say, I'm actually pretty ignorant when it comes to interpersonal relationships. I didn't have a father, grandfather or even an uncle to teach me these things so I end up resorting to TRP
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:21 PM
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I have to
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:01 PM
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Yeah, maybe I'm just being an ignorant little bitch Over-invested my ego on one person and now this is biting me
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:01 PM
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it’s your fault for allowing them to be shitty Can you ever hope to shape someone's behavior like I am used to see here on TRP? I mean, the chick was prone to being shitty due to all the red flags
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:57 PM
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You're in scarcity Yeah, I am Read the sidebar & the first rational male book then reevaluate your situation. What's even funnier is that I have been here for well over a year and have a pretty good understanding of TRP. I can even imagine a narrative that explains all that has happened between me and the chick (starting with the red flags and going through my neediness, scarcity and ending with the branch swing) The real problem is the scarcity
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:55 PM
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You're bonding to chicks because they have pussies And I've agreed to be exclusive (fuck me, right?) with this chick. Even though I still managed to score other chicks during this time, I was still in a huge scarcity mindset
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:53 PM
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Dude, you shouldn't be on asktrp if you came here to be a rude cunt with nonconstructive criticisms At any rate, let's clear some things He won't read the side bar I've been here for well over a year and I have a good theoretical understanding of TRP. My problem is lack of experience with women since I had a 8-month dry spell because of monk mode (I couldn't approach anyone before) If you want to help me, talk about how much scarcity mentality I had during these weeks
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:50 PM
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You're a doctor and your self esteem is so abysmal that ONE woman can destroy your confidence? I had, have and will have more impact on people's lives than this little cunt. Yesterday I saw a patient I've talked with 1 year ago and he remembered my name and willingly came to thank me for who I am. My self esteem is still unstable, though - pathetic, right? I've been used to worshiping female validation since I was a boy and I let my old tendencies take over even though I have a very good theoret…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:46 PM
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turns out to be OP's first lay in a long time sadly you're right I was on monk mode for most of the year and she was the one to end my 8-month dry spell scarcity mentality is a true thing
/r/askTRP02/11/17 06:25 PM
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there even was one time she told me how "she didn't feel security to go any further in the relationship with me" and I tried explaining to her how well I cared about my patients and how I had the same feelings for her (I'm a physician) I really nexted myself, it seems
/r/askTRP02/11/17 03:32 PM
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but you read my previous posts, I think why do you have to be like this, brah
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:59 PM
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Was her mouth broken? I guess she liked it when I did it inside her (?) and didn't immediately think about any that might've concerned her And you think sticking your cock in this crazy bitch is a GOOD idea? She's being nexted, actually. I painted her somewhat as an unicorn but she did so much shit to me in the past weeks that I simply can't feel well around her anymore And even her thought of killing eventual children of mine is something that disgusts me
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:31 PM
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I still have some hours to think about it
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:48 PM
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I shall update you guys tomorrow
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:25 AM
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what you are bringing to the table this is not the problem, actually. I'm not even trying to blame her I invested myself too early and too intensely at this relationship, even going as far as trying to promote to LTR with 1 month So I agree, I was pathetic
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:07 AM
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the more you try to force the relationship back to whatever state you want it to return to I'm afraid my shitty beta side will scream "let's try to work this outttt" when I meet with her tomorrow either one of the main reasons, or the main reason, why she wants to part ways with you I agree. There were moments of huge neediness and insecurity in the relationship and this probably was a huge player in this whole ordeal At this point, I simply wouldn't text her anymore, ever again We are meeting t…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:53 AM
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you mean that by dumping her first I will retain some value and still be a sexual prospect when her next flings inevitably end?
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:48 AM
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this hits deep and reminds me that it was only my turn to begin with as a rational and RP man I know the reason for all this drama is the emotional/ego investment I accumulated on her my problem is the coming back of my old beta tendencies fuck
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:41 AM
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oneitis sucks, bro turns men into useless faggots
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:20 AM
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I already know that all she said were empty words - she's not looking for a "romantic and serious guy", she's looking for a higher SMV chad I thought about doing beta shit because I've painted her as my unicorn and this potential breakup is stinging a lot right now Do you think pulling back will be better than tryharding when we meet on the long run? We'll probably meet tomorrow
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:20 AM
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yeah, I probably know all that's happened and is happening: a combination of myself showing genuine affection for her + a red flag of a girl + chad showing up at the right time this sucks though - I probably tried to make her my unicorn and my inner beta is screaming for me to try hard when we meet I will meet her tomorrow. Do you think I should straight next her? I wanted to keep her at least as an unreliable booty call
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:16 AM
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I'm just trying to gauge your psychological response to it
/r/askTRP22/10/17 01:26 PM
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it's actually pathetic to message randoms at FB just looking for some cheap pus** what surprises me even more is how people don't notice this
/r/askTRP20/10/17 03:07 PM
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those really are random guys
/r/askTRP20/10/17 03:03 PM
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I am probably going further this path on my curiosity's behalf it's actually the first time (I'm pretty young) I see a chick actively interested in BDSM stuff (contradicting common sense). I may get interested into that as well
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:26 PM
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will check. thanks for the tip! I'm actually pretty interested in having more fun that way. vanilla sex doesn't get much better after a while and only doing so has already led me to actively drop some plates I got bored of
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:23 PM
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no, it wasn't
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:43 AM
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bro, you are mistaken if you think you know how big of a red flag she is this girl has already talked about previous abusive relationships and she even tried suicide one time to say she is a red flag is an euphemism
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:34 AM
1

nice feedback
/r/askTRP05/09/17 09:18 PM
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ok
/r/askTRP04/09/17 11:20 AM
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LOL I'm starting to think it may actually be some mild oneitis hahaha thanks for the insight
/r/askTRP04/09/17 11:20 AM
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Yeah, it's extremely hard. It gets even harder for me since she's one of the first girls I fuck after finishing my 6-month monk mode I've been pretty much lazy on my RP readings so that's why control was lost I am probably gonna soft-next this one and see others, my frame in this relationship is crumbling
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:11 PM
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you're right, I'm not thinking clearly about this situation and this may as well be a mild oneitis i'm actually thinking about soft-nexting this rude bitch for some time and I'll probably fuck on Saturday a girl I haven't seen for months so do you think this relationship is done for? the sex is pretty good and all the girls I've banged besides this one (n=12, I'm 20) couldn't even give a proper bj I'll feel kinda bad probably
/r/askTRP30/08/17 12:34 AM
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yeah, it may be pretty early to think about it strictly on RP terms however, I can't go all out on spinning/replacing plates simply because I don't have the time to do so - I'll soon start an internship as final part of my physician training am I fucked?
/r/askTRP27/08/17 08:43 PM
1

That is actually really AMAZING Did you manage to score with the chick that way? Was she OK with having her pubic hair shaven at your place? It maybe would've worked with me Gotta study that amused mastery, I guess
/r/askTRP16/08/17 11:13 PM
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Did you watch or read any specific material? I plan on reading some Roosh before actually starting approaching at my college. What do you think?
/r/askTRP30/06/17 10:18 PM
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"Attention grabbing behaviors will get attention. In the age of social media, you can and will be identified." well, this sucks Am I bound to expect this kind of behavior even with a high SMV? And how is cold approaching seen by most 20-something years old nowadays, men and women?
/r/askTRP30/06/17 10:13 PM
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you're on point, my dude what's even funnier is that the hottest bitches I managed to hook up with probably only did so because I'm a medical student at a great college And I was kinda fat as well
/r/askTRP30/06/17 10:11 PM
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yeah, I have shit game I am leaving college in 2,5 years, gotta make the most out of this time there. I finished my 6th month of monk mode recently, my previous state was awful
/r/askTRP30/06/17 10:09 PM
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LOL There must be a problem in your cognition if only u complained about my punctuation Also, there is also PLENTY of data linking TRT to cardiovascular and thromboembolic risk, as was stated by others in the post. It's not something up to discussion - at least not here, with uneducated shits such as yourself shitting on their keyboards
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 08:10 PM
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"lawless, 3rd world country" Yeah. The internet get big props for allowing me to update myself with the latest changes in practice. Already heard of NEJM, JAMA or the Lancet? Yea, they all are online journals, living in this shit country doesn't matter at all "lawless, 3rd world country" I am still going to have more influence and power to positively change people's lives than the last three generations of men in your family "female" I'm a man, actually. just said "irrelevant" because I guess my…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 10:40 PM
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"Probably a real asshole doctor that your patients hate" all my patients love me for how much I actually care about them, thanks for your concern "I less you are female" irrelevant "A fact is a fact, no matter who says it" True. Big opinion makers shouldn't be enrolling in those matters if they aren't capable of explaining ALL the risks associated with something, though "For instance, I take Suboxone for chronic pain management" "I educate him more than he does me" Congratz, you are a special sn…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 09:52 PM
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When did I criticize this post for diagnosing/prescribing? LOL In the sense of info sharing, I praise you if you can see this post as what it actually is: shitty and inaccurate pseudo-medical rant. However, many guys here - and especially big names like GLO and illimitableman - are opinion makers and deal with a lot of people, a good chunk of which are vulnerable (one of the main reasons TRP was sought). Therefore, responsibility in their positions IS necessary and it is something this post lack…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 09:37 PM
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"You doctors don't even know what you're doing most of the time" "The vast majority of you are vastly uneducated in TRT, misdiagonise, and run horrible treatment protocols" "Maybe if you were more competent in your jobs" God, how I love those generalizations fallacies... Even though I actually agree that a good chunk of doctors are shit nowadays, the medicine practice is still entrusted to us and ONLY us - not to reddit warriors like yourself. "You are ignorant flouting your alleged professional…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 08:49 PM
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I guess the op and downvoters will take full responsibility for any thromboembolic events associated with inappropriate TRT usage, right? How could I be so naive
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 08:37 PM
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this shit is so dumb could you PLEASE stop disseminating this horrible pseudo-medicine culture that's so common in the internet and here? this just makes the clinical practice harder for us doctors. it's not your duty to educate people (especially on such a delicate topic like hormone therapy) if u didn't study a good chunk of your life to do so wisely
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 08:21 PM
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This "alpha/beta" dichotomy guys here are so obsessed with is actually counterproductive
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 05:58 PM
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well, it's this kind of profile https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/4pqztc/a_comprehensive_slideshow/
/r/askTRP03/02/17 06:02 AM
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you're not wrong, this post can be seen as a textbook ranting one even though I dressed it in a way to get the opinions of you guys, in essence I'm just mad for using a shitty beta strategy - Tinder slideshow - for as long as two months ty for your input, I appreciate you taking your time to answer me
/r/askTRP03/02/17 05:47 AM
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Why don't YOU stop being such an asshole and actually try to help someone in need?
/r/askTRP18/12/16 05:02 AM
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love
/r/askTRP28/11/16 11:27 PM
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Well, there are well-intentioned comments pointing that out and I do agree with you. The whole purpose of this post was to discuss the idea behind doing so, but it seems like most guys here are random illiterate goons who cannot comprehend four lines of text
/r/askTRP28/11/16 11:27 PM
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Yeah, it is. The problem lies in convincing both my dick and ego that getting anywhere with that bitch is highly unlikely Anyway, it's my obligation to thank you for the polite and rational conversation. Those random goons attacking me instead of the idea I proposed are only ashaming themselves and denying this sub's purpose, which is to help fellow men
/r/askTRP28/11/16 11:20 PM
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TY for your input on this
/r/askTRP28/11/16 10:11 PM
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It doesn't seem your parents taught you to stay silent and not be a retard when whatever you say will not contribute to the discussion Again, it seems like you can't hold a decent conversation and actually discuss with people in a /r with "ask" in its name. Good luck with being the cool guy who judges people through 3 or 4 lines of text
/r/askTRP28/11/16 10:02 PM
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There's no way I can disagree with you. Some of the rp's cornerstones include forsaking online interactions and increasing your personal valor so you can showcase it - disagreeing would go against everything I already read Recognizing and applying those principles, however, will not help me with the situation above-mentioned: there's a huge routine difference between me and the bitch I told you about. Without entering the "oneitis" and "abundance mentality" discussion (specially because no fucks…
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:58 PM
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You know people here are supposed to help others, right?
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:43 PM
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Maybe because you haven't got the chance to meet her personally and messaging her directly would be even creepier? Another plus being the ability to discern her current relationship if she gets to answer the anon message You're forgiven tho, did not get the true purpose of my post
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:42 PM
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Well, the whole purpose of the page is to help you meet people you wouldn't be able to otherwise. This is specially clear when you take someone like me as an example (I live alone and spend almost 50 hours/week at the university hospital. There's almost no time for shit if you have objectives other than meeting bitches). I shall give you an example. There's this random slut who is friends with one of my exes and studies architecture at night (while my studies take time during during the day). I …
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:39 PM
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LOL It doesn't seem your parents taught you to stay silent and not be a retard whenever what you say will not help anyone Well, I guess it's pretty easy for special people to access rp forums after all
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:30 PM
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Well, I do plan on leaving Brazil sooner or later. This country is faded to nothing more than failure at the hands of its people. Maybe the problem I mentioned in the post is me just being a shit spoiled guy who can't handle frustration - it's extremely frustrating nonetheless
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:28 AM
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