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So you would be in a relationship if a high quality enough man came around… so… you’re like me then. You want to be in a relationship but you haven’t found the right person?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:33 PM
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Lol so if you have a option and remain single, you are single by choice. Hahahahaha. So if some bridge troll is into you, hey you’re single by choice, technically. By that definition I’m single by choice too, i decline women here and there. I’m not single by FIRST choice tho, I’d rather be in a relationship but I cannot find the right one yet. You are the same but are in denial for whatever reason- if the perfect man for you came swooping in, you’d date him- of course, because you are not really…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:20 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:18 PM
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This is so stupid it’s funny. I’m on a Reddit campaign to rally women to start dating so I can increase my chances to get laid what by 0.000001%? How about you look at studies instead of mentioning anecdotes. Actually the least happy women are divorced, second least happy is single and childless and third least is married. That’s a study, not ‘ I know tons of women’. Cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:30 PM
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Yes, how can I forget the super happy people with depression. Women are so happy being single they are reliant on a daily serotonin pill to get through it all. Saying you’re single by choice is a lie. You’re dissatisfied with your dating options therefore you choose to remain single. If you could get the guy you wanted you wouldn’t choose to remain single, obviously. It’s a choice out of necessity. I’m not knocking ‘women’ down a peg, I’m knocking down women like yourself a peg- women who think …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:24 PM
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Im not going to address all the slop in your comment, but I do want to ask one thing, how exactly am I coping? I’m coping with the fact that I want to be in a relationship, by saying I want to be in a relationship? Where’s the self soothing lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:16 PM
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You guys love to say that women are happy being old and single. Literally no one buys it. Single cat lady’s are not commonly happy people if you’ve ever interacted with them. SSRI and anxiety rates prove you wrong. Everyone would prefer to be in a loving long term relationship if they had the choice. Stop coping. I’m not out here telling people I’d rather be single or that I’m single by choice. It’s so obviously a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:05 AM
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You absolutely incorrect. Autism is a serious, serious hindrance to dating. Men with autism have some absurd multiplier for chance of not being in a relationship. You are talking anecdotes which mean shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:22 PM
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No man really gives a shit that a girl has or does not have D cups. That’s the difference. Meanwhile a huge number of women literally demand 6 feet or taller. It is unacceptable behavior to make these demands. There is no bulletproof defense for demanding 6 feet height, just like there’s no defense for a man who can’t date because he demands double D’s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:17 AM
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Women have a higher standards than ever in recent history judging by the lack of marriages and dating percentages in the modern era. I do not buy your assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:16 AM
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Women, just like men, have every incentive to pass down their genes as well. As such, if they cannot get any man, it’s best to pass down shitty genes than no genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:42 AM
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You are correct but it cannot be emphasized enough that what is true is so often not considered a normal belief. There might be a billion examples of this. Nothing about what is ‘normal’ or what the majority of people believe to be true has any bearing on the truth because the majority of the population is of average intellect and thus retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:27 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:48 PM
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This attitude literally blows my mind. How could you be okay with not having a partner? Life is so much better with someone you love. I don’t know if women are just bluffing/coping, or if they genuinely can act like cats and be totally fine solitary for the rest of their lives Like of all the things I rank in my life, having a loving partner is in my top 2 most important things. Well above a good career for example
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:34 PM
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Behavior is influenced by hormones but no, testosterone doesn’t by default make you murder people- it just means that if you have more testosterone in your system, you are more likely to murder someone. OP was wondering why women don’t seem to lash out when depressed but men do, well testosterone is likely the difference. It also seems to be a big factor in why males of many mammalian species are more murderous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:55 AM
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Why would you never call yourself nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:51 AM
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Very very few men would argue that violent incels shouldn’t be negatively viewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:26 AM
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So the answer to your pondering is likely as simple as… boys have testosterone. I don’t know why this is a grand revelation for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:20 AM
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Still bluepillers in the friendzone since 2016. She’ll eventually learn that my heart lies with her if I take enough showers and open enough doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:58 AM
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Yes 1000% I will admit my decisions are often led by my dick at the detriment of a million different variables in my life. You will not hear me say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:41 PM
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They want so bad to say that the dating difficulty is equal. It’s just not. It’s not really for any male mammal species across the animal kingdom lol. Hell, there’s a video of this male fish making this elaborate sand pattern over days to attract a female to mate. The female just shows up to this Mona Lisa painting in the sand and thinks ‘that’s hot’ and gets laid. Even male fish have it harder
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:37 PM
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Who is still complaining about the friendzone in 2025. Don’t we all know that the options are either make a move early and leave if she says no or stay if you want to be friends? The friendzone complaints came in that weird time in like 2016 where the red pill was barely a thing and the narrative for naive men was to romance her with a rose and be super nice and pay for dinners. These days everyone should know what the friendzone is and how to avoid it come
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:31 PM
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Women avoiding social media in general would likely make them attracted to a higher portion of men. Social media is the ultimate fuel of Hypergamy in the modern era
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:10 AM
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This is alarming no matter how you paint it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:06 PM
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Why? You make good money, who cares if your girlfriend makes good money? Want 2 Rolexes instead of one, a nicer house, a better BMW? At a certain point, you make enough money and life becomes more about good relationships. If I was making 500k+ I wouldn’t give the slightest fuck how much my partner made.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:56 PM
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It’s not 14.5% it’s more like the top 20-25% of men are dating most the women 18-29. And obviously it’s not based only on height, it could be money or looks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:41 PM
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That’s because lesbians are a negligible percent not to mention the 30% of men who are in relationships include gay men and gay men completely outnumber lesbians so the point is moot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:00 PM
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Well think about this, only around 30% of men in that same age group are in a relationship. Before you immediately say oh the women are dating older men- think about if that really is the case. Are 21 year olds really all out here dating 33 year old men en masse. I believe based on the data and personal experience and observations that women are primarily in situationships with a smaller percentage of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:49 PM
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No they’re all dating those 14% of men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:46 PM
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I enjoy having the upper hand in any dating relationship, that’s the only way I even get in relationships in the first place- most women don’t want to date a man on her level. There’s nothing inherently wrong with having more power than your partner, what’s wrong is hurting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:12 PM
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You guys are so funny.As if women don’t date exclusively men who have an advantage over them by preference
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:07 PM
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And part of compatibility is when your partner thinks you meet her standards yes? Not sure why a woman getting old her makes her better for a long term relationship. From what I can tell older women have a lot more issues being compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:12 PM
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Why are girls on here pretending like a girl with lower standards is anything but a good thing for any given man. Why wouldn’t I prefer to date a girl who is not only younger and likely hotter but also less picky and less likely to find flaws/ have issues with my baggage. A girl who is 21 has less life experience and perhaps she is less wary of finding red flags in me. Okay? This is bad for me why? Yeah let me instead go with the 33 year old who hates men after a decade and a half of dating them…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:18 PM
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Anyone who can’t meet any women’s standards would be mad, the difference is maybe 10% of men in the 50s couldn’t meet any woman’s standards where as maybe 40% of men today cannot meet women’s standards. The average man cannot get dates currently and the data shows this. Over 80% of people have married once but that’s historical, it includes men in their 60s, 70s, 80s- sure it was much easier to date and marry in say early 2000s but things have made radical shifts. The marriage rate has dropped m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:16 PM
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I’ve been noticing a rising sentiment of men whining, 6 years ago it was just fringe incels now it’s somewhat mainstream. If men keep voicing their opinions and whining- specifically about how women have gone mad with their standards/expectations, then in theory hoeflation will finally end or at least decrease. Women are far too hypergamous at the moment. The average man should be able to get dates with women. I get below average men not being able to date but the average man? That’s a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:44 PM
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Why don’t you dudes who can’t get laid find a mail bride. Why give up hope. At least try to get rich and get a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:24 AM
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I mean sure it can be important to find the reason for the problem but I think it’s likely something genetic or lack of socialization in youth. Neither one can really be fixed. Best look to how you can move forward and solve the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 08:43 PM
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So, he’s fucked- then what? Should he read the 400 page manual or give up and do nothing- what’s your solution
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:09 PM
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The answer is yes, because if someone gets abused it changes their mental state typically in a negative way- regardless of whether the abuse was brought against them or self inflicted- the damage is done. Is that fair? Absolutely not but that’s an objective way of looking at the situation. Damaged goods are damaged no matter how fair or unfair the damage was.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:31 AM
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This is so fucked to say but I’m going to say it anyway because it’s true- but I think the low class low value women tend to get abused more. Just my observation. I don’t know if it’s because of the men these women are exposed to, whether abuse is normalized in their communities but I’ve pretty much never seen a high class, parents have money, girl is hot and makes money who has been abused. Drug addict, poverty stricken women are abused and the abuse itself lowers their value even more as it fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:27 AM
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As long as a super hot 23 year old at least leaves the house sometimes she will absolutely demolish the 50 year old who’s happy in her skin and is out and about all day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:43 PM
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Romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:41 PM
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No I would saying a woman’s value is highest when she can attract the highest value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:57 PM
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My goal is to make my business grow as much as possible and to make a very good income, but only in so far as it increases the quality of women I can attract- my point stands though, imagine caring so much about a man’s wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:55 PM
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My eyeballs literally tell me if a girl is hot. Like it’s just the way you look, it’s biologically programmed. Simple and makes sense right? Women are attracted to a man’s career- how well he sucks corporate cock for example. A man who is good at sucking corporate cock at exxon mobile or something or his high power lawyer job plays a factor into how much you want his dick. Couldn’t be me, miss me with that weird shit lol imagine being attracted to that. I don’t care that you have a good job and …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:52 AM
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Being happy and comfortable in your skin as a woman honestly has very little to do with your sexual market value I know what you said sounds ‘cozy’ and sweet but it’s not really what’s being discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:39 AM
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So you had a baby in your early thirties, so presumedly you dated and married a man maybe in your late 20s, so maybe yall met early 20s? Sounds like you did what you were supposed to do and got hitched during your prime lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:38 AM
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If women don’t get married by the time they hit the wall, then they likely will be stuck with options they’re not that attracted to. That is reality. As much as us men have difficulty in dating compared to women, one thing we don’t have as bad is aging out of our physical value at such a rapid rate. A man who is 35 could easily be attractive where as I think about a girl in her mid 30s and kind of cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:33 AM
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Why do yall women always say shit like this? Literally NO ONE means ‘prime’ to be the ‘best you ever felt’ obviously. Else, someone could be 87 and be in their ‘prime’. When people say prime they mean you are the hottest and peak attractiveness, it’s not chosen by you. No one gives a shit that you have some great (soulless) corporate gig or whatever and 6 cats and you feel good. You’re not the hottest you’ve ever been. That’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:23 AM
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Imagine you’ve always wanted to date a guy who had everything, tall, hot, smart, confident. You would make a move but he would bluntly reject you every time. 10 years later he still works a dead end job, got addicted to drugs, gained weight, has 7 exs and emotional trauma and his looks have faded. All of a sudden, now he thinks you’re hot shit and wants to date you. You’d be a little bothered by that wouldn’t you? It’s like a friend who hits it big and becomes famous and decides he is too cool f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:54 AM
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I agree, it’s hard to say women or men have it better objectively- but suicide rates paint a very blatant picture imo. A man who is a loser almost certainly has it harder than a woman who is a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:40 AM
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Women will call men who are morally good but are ugly ‘nice guys’ and hate on them because they are unable to recognize that they hate ugly men not because they are evil or good but because they are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:37 AM
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I am not an incel hater, in fact I have a tremendous amount of sympathy for men in your position. I will not sugar coat it though, other men and certainly women will never care or have sympathy that you cannot get laid because evolution demands that weak genetics get destroyed. Imagine if there was endless sympathy towards men who are genetic failures and they got laid out of pity? Then their poor genetics would be propagated- this cannot stand for obvious reason- the weak genetics cause problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:33 AM
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Yes, it’s always been this way and always will. Best get used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:06 PM
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There are men who literally find your shyness as attractive. I guarantee it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:03 PM
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Looks at least makes more sense imo than money but both are not great long term traits to prioritize over everything in a relationship I would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:33 PM
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The worst people on the planet are men, but the best people on the planet are men. Men are at the extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:46 PM
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It’s ironic that you think the problem women have is that their standards are too LOW as if women’s standards aren’t the highest they’ve ever been relatively in history. Like 60% of young men are single. FDS was obsessed with acquiring men that are wealthy and quote on quote ‘high value’ but their interpretation of what makes a man high value would never make a relationship good. Your boyfriend being rich will mean shit to your happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:44 PM
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I got screamed at the other night because I didn’t buy my date the first drink (no regrets). Not even exaggerating, she started yelling in the bar. The reason men think men should pay is because women demand it in the first place. It’s a cultural norm now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:28 PM
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This is a low iq statement as esteem is often based on others perception of us whether we like it or not. For example, if I become really competent at basketball my esteem goes up. But I only know I’m competent in comparison to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:26 PM
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Money is nice but money can always be made, why would I prioritize something in a partner that I can work for myself. You should look for things in a partnership that you can’t get anywhere else. I mean you’re a girl so you biologically put higher value on resources
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:24 PM
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He was probably insecure because you clearly care very much about money and socioeconomic class lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:15 PM
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Right, yeah we are all suffering from high healthcare costs. Regardless, that man brained a dude and he is beloved by women. Women are able to compartmentalize that somehow. It’s fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:21 AM
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Luigi murdered a father of two and now is famous for being lusted after by women. I literally could come up with 10 examples off the top my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:50 AM
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Women aren’t selective based on danger as much as they are selective based on looks lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:15 AM
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Is it really that hard tho, how was i supposed to know the fully tatted violent biker gang drug dealer felon serial killer was the bad kind of masculine? I don’t think it’s that yall are too naive to determine if a guy is good or bad but that when a girl is young it’s way more fun to be bad than good. As you get older you learn all the bullshit that goes with immorality. It really puts men at a crossroads because any man with eyes can see the men with ‘darkness’ in them slay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:05 AM
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Yes they CAN have a well developed social network of course. It’s not impossible, it’s just harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:13 AM
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You made the assertion that men and women are equally as capable at developing social relationships or at least have equal opportunity which if you are a self reflecting man, you would know by now is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:06 AM
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I mean sure, just seems to be odd to consider yourself bluepill over this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:06 AM
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That doesn’t make any sense, the red pill as we know it is not anti Christian at its core.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:37 AM
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Isn’t that narrative a core tenant of the blue pill though? That being kind and a good man with a good personality (lots of showers), will get you the girl? That if you’re racist or a piece of shit or whatever you will never get women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:20 AM
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If you can fix something than you should be shamed for not doing so, you should not feel shame for something you are not responsible for. Everyone who is fat overdid it and should feel like a fat piece of shit. To go with the thread- yes social awkwardness is a death sentence for women- that’s why you drink alcohol as a crutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:24 AM
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What’s the difference between emotional labor and people pleasing? Maybe I’m unfamiliar
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:07 PM
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Sounds like the same shit lol. In honestly, if you want to live truly sincere and with zero effort to please others you have to be a fucking king. You have to be the top of the food chain. Very few get to live this way, and if you try to live this way without having the power to back it up, you will be an unemployed asshole. Imagine you go to a dealership and the salesman put zero effort into pleasing you, you’d think I’m not giving this asshole shit. People pleasing is a tool you can use, yes i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:02 PM
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How do you have sincerity when you are working a job, what if you feel like shit and you’re having to work with a client that day?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:29 PM
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Well I suppose you have no direct experience with what I’m referring to so there’s no way you’d know. But yeah, there are definitely women who love the compliments and the flirting with no intention of moving in any direction. You have to think, as men our job on social media is to entertain and engage you enough to where you agree to go on a date. It requires effort on our part and so it might be fun and flattering (if not a bit of a dick move) to get in these conversations with no end goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:27 AM
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Is this a real question? Some women love and crave attention. Look at how some behave on social media, (some men are like this to to be fair).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:02 PM
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Yeah I agree with you frankly. I know for certain thats how men work as well. You can know in seconds if someone meets your physical attractiveness threshold, and almost nothing can be done about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:19 PM
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I mean I was making a joke but women are 50% less funny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:32 AM
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Women are worse drivers and I would be 50% more terrified if a plane had a female pilot. There’s the naked truth. Am I helping your cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:59 AM
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A man might shoot far out of his league knowing there’s a very high chance he will be rejected, this does not imply delusion. Men cannot typically get women out of their league it is very rare. My other claim is that many if not most women have an inflated sense of their league. This becomes shattered when they eventually ‘settle’ with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:26 AM
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Fat women are not at all equivalent to short men. Fat women have plenty of men who will date them, primarily men with fetishes, men who are also fat, or black dudes (lol) All women have a higher standard due to the advent of social media and the internet. It used to be that women were relegated to men in their local area, now women have men all over their city, country and world competing for them. You need to put more thought into this my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:22 PM
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Are you a man? Have you asked out women? If you have you know that anytime you do there’s like a 5% -20% chance of it being yes. The vast majority of the time it’s a no. If a man does approach he does believe he has a chance, yes, that doesn’t mean he’s delusional. I might approach a model who is way out of my league for the 1% chance I get a yes. That is not delusional that’s just rolling the dice and seeing if I win big. Delusional is acting shocked when she says no. As for my last paragraph, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:11 PM
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No man is walking with the delusion that he can get women far out of his league. This is a uniquely feminine problem. Men make propositions for women all the time and get rejected. You cannot be delusional if you get rejected 5 times a week. Women don’t make propositions for men and as a result they don’t get rejected and they have hordes of men lusting for them on social media and dating apps (even the uggos).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:46 PM
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I am a man in his late 20s who fits your description to a T (minus the not trying to improve his situation) and also gets along well with college age women. Can’t say you’re wrong. Women my age have a lot higher demands and requirements for a relationship (for good reason, they are getting close to marriage age). I don’t fit those requirements very well, and these women see through me. As a result I’m relegated to dating women who are younger. That being said, while the immaturity can be annoyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:03 PM
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You didn’t really dispute my point that women find a narrow subset of men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:28 PM
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Kudos for at least acknowledging that men are more disagreeable than women. Most women would even argue that point. Men and women are the exact same in every sense according to modern doctrine. I think men are less interested in the approval of others in regards to their opinions at least when compared to women. It’s not fun to be the only guy in the room to have a certain opinion but again I think men are more comfortable in that position than women. Of course men do seek validation to some ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:39 AM
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He’s right I read a study a while ago that said that women tend to have a more narrow preference in men when compared to men’s preference for women. Women tend to like the same dudes. It is a bit lame. Like you need other people to say ‘this type of guy is hot’ to think a guy is hot ( to some extent). This is also something I have (unscientifically) noticed in music tastes. Women all like the same damn music, Ariana grande, Taylor swift, mainstream pop. No artist has as much reach in men as Tayl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:36 AM
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Literally who?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:56 PM
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Moronic, I personally benefit nothing from spreading this advice. That’s truly absurd to presume. Get a grip. You can do what you want I am just stating what I believe to be the best strategy for women to get high quality men and in return all I’ve been getting is vitriol as if what I’m saying is a personal attack on women. I have zero dog in this fight. Whether or not you change your behavior has absolutely no impact on me obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:05 AM
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I’ve been giving this advice all day and in my mind I’m giving girls the lowdown on how to get high quality men, instead it makes women like yourself truly enraged. It’s very interesting. It’s neutral advice, what are the odds the 10 people who read my comment will go out and have sex with myself by coincidence. It’s asinine to think that’s my intention
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:10 AM
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Good luck competing with the hordes of women who are willing to put out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:56 AM
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Right but who is he going to choose to pursue that connection and relationship with? Attractive girl #317 who tells him she won’t have sex until 10 dates in or attractive girl #389 who has sex with him within three dates? All I’m saying is your best shot to bag a high value man is to give it all you got quickly and early
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:38 AM
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Yes if he a man really likes you by definition he will jump through more hoops to date you. The problem with what you are saying is the men who jump through more hoops to date you are probably not the men you want to date. High value men don’t want to or more importantly don’t need to jump through hoops. You’re shooting yourself in the foot just so you don’t get ‘used’. Getting used is a risk in dating, really it’s important to get over that so you can get the highest quality partner. If you put…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:16 AM
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This is a modern dating strategy. Most women put out very quickly and sex is easy to come by with dating apps, it wasn’t like this a decade ago
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:07 AM
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Yeah that is a false narrative. Don’t give a man what he wants and he will want you more. That’s a common trope but it’s not true, that and play hard to get, make a man work for it, all of these are false notions women tell each other. Men don’t want a challenge, that’s literally so stupid it’s almost funny. Life is hard enough, we just women who bring us peace, make our lives better and sexually satisfy. No successful man who works hard in his career wants to come home and work hard to earn the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:37 AM
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What I’m refuting is that any one in this subreddit would be the woman to be able to run your strategy. I’m not saying it cannot be done, just that you’d have to be so hot and incredible that you don’t even need to have sex to captivate this man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:07 AM
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It’s quite difficult to captivate a man’s heart and mind without sex. Sex is what really captures a man and elevates the relationship to something magical and will make him want to come back for more or lock it down. If sex is not part of your dating strategy than you will be outcompeted by women who have it as a tool in their toolbox. You’d have a realllly tough time captivating a man with just your personality as charming as I’m sure you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:04 AM
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Well you really should get used to that because men will do a billion things to get laid. I’m surprised you’re surprised. Your dad should’ve told you this when you hit puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:59 AM
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You are presuming that this woman is so attractive and above the rest that she can keep this man’s attention without having sex with him, while he’s in FWB relationships with other women. This woman has to be a dime piece if that’s the case. I’m really discussing woman who are not goddesses who are trying to capture a man of higher value. Their best strategy is to put out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:57 AM
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So this high value man who has endless sexual options is going to stop having sex for a month or whatever length of time to get in a relationship with attractive woman #897? What sets her apart that she can have him end all other arraignments and novel sex? There is no world where this woman will compete
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:52 AM
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You wouldn’t date this man because you’d be concerned about the competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:41 AM
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Nope, she could blow a man’s mind
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:17 PM
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But then you’re asking men to stop having sex with none of the responsibility, exclusivity and demands of a relationship. Good luck getting men to quit that behavior. Really, it’s on women to ask the right questions and quickly remove themselves from situationships as the men are unlikely to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:24 PM
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Because he is high value-tall, wealthy, good looking, ambitious, intelligent, funny- whatever it is, he attracts many women with the traits he has. Why would you want a man who is awesome?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:22 PM
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I’m talking about a high value man not simply a wealthy man. Wealth is one variable that encompasses a high value man, I agree wealth is not enough to get women wet by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:20 PM
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That’s simply not true. Unless you’re defining high value men simply as a man that’s patient? Patient men are typically not high value by net worth, looks, etc. Patient men are patient because they have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:18 PM
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I was assuming the woman in question is of relative high value, if she is not than yes, putting out for a high value man is futile. Specifically for high value men you have to be hot bare minimum. That being said, if you want to acquire a man slightly outside of your league ( let’s say a 2 shooting for a 4), your best strategy is still putting out. Why would a 4 entertain a 2 who doesn’t put out? He won’t give you the time of day, he’ll choose the three who puts out. I know it’s not ideal to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:16 PM
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I mean I’ll speak for myself, I want casual sex with 100% of the women I find attractive right? And there’s a chance I would want to be in a relationship with any of them, I won’t know till I meet them. So, I go on the date with the intention of hey maybe this could be a relationship maybe not. After a couple dates, I will then know for sure if I want to date them. But if I’m in that deep, sex is already happening. At that point I can either cut it off because I don’t want a relationship and los…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:07 PM
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If you’re an average woman, you have no shot with a high value man, yes. But the concept applies if you are shooting for a man who is a bit out of your league. Your best option to acquire a man who is of relative high value (in comparison to yourself) is always to put out and maximize your attractiveness to him not to hold back and make him jump through hoops. If you do this, obviously you put yourself at risk for a pump and dump, but that’s literally a part of dating- you got to put yourself ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:56 PM
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Alright lady, you are not quite intelligent enough to engage in this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:23 PM
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It’s not that he doesn’t like you enough to wait, it’s that he has tons of other options that won’t make him wait. You could be his best option and most compatible partner but the fact that you make him wait ruins any chance of that happening simply because why would he wait when he could be getting laid on the daily. These type of men you simply cannot play games with, you have to give it your all or you have no chance. This is specially with top tier 1% men, not your above average but relative…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:22 PM
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Oh yeah? There are men who make and have enough money that you won’t have to work another day of your life ever again. You can pursue your own passions and hobbies care free and even better, he can help fund them. That same man might be wise, funny, intelligent, hard working, ambitious and good looking. You wouldn’t put work in for this man? You wouldn’t put effort into a man who could ensure that you never have to put effort into your meaningless job again? That just seems foolish I’m not sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:17 PM
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High net worth, tall, good looking, intelligent, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:11 PM
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Picture a young man with 5 million net worth, over six feet, good looking, and unmarried. Truly a 1% man. This guy is not waiting 10 dates to have sex I’m sorry it’s just not going to happen. He already has far too many options that will put out quickly. I don’t know if you know this but most women don’t make men wait for sex in the modern dating world. Your best option to acquire this man is to out compete all his options - that includes having sex quickly. When we are talking about a high valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:07 PM
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Again, a high value man is not going to wait. He has 6 girls he’s talking to. No chance he’s going to stick around after 10 sexless dates when most girls give it up within 3. So you’re missing out on potentially dating this man because your fear of getting pumped and dumped. Is there a chance you get pumped and dumped? Definitely, but that’s part of the game, some times you lose. Your strategy of making men wait ensures the only man you get is a man who has few options and thus will wait date af…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:55 PM
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If you employ this strategy you do screen out dudes who just want immediate sex and don’t give a fuck, but at the same time, you are also potentially screening out high value men as well who would consider a relationship but don’t want to jump through hoops. High value men can get sex from other women easily no matter what so they won’t wait. The best strategy is to find a man you really, really like and give him everything quickly and maximally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:47 PM
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What most men learn very early on is saying they just want ‘casual sex’ all but ensures that they will not get it. If a man wants sex but not a relationship his best choice is to lie or mislead about not just wanting sex. You may think that is immoral and it probably is but almost every man knows this strategy and has dangled the carrot of a relationship to get casual sex. This will never stop because men will never stop wanting casual sex and will continue to compromise their morals to achieve …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:40 PM
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Hagmaxxing is too niche for you to not be someone who browses blackpill forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:51 PM
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Not true at all, I would even say this is true in the majority of cases. I presume most men pay on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:51 PM
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A man’s ‘job’ is to fuck and produce as many kids as he can with as many women as humanly possible. I’m talking from a biological perspective not a moral one. This can get really ugly if the guy is a bad person. It is a woman’s job to identify if a man is worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:05 PM
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Bruh you HAVE to be a troll with your posts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:59 AM
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Literally 90% of your fucking job as a biological woman is to make sure the man you’re with is quality stock and will produce healthy and successful children. If you can’t do that you fucking SUCK at your job. Are some men good at deceit? Yes, that’s why women test and test and test to make sure the man is not full of shit. That’s your JOB.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:57 AM
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I’m going to continue to blame women for having children with chimpanzees thus producing more chimpanzee men. If women would stop having kids with chimpanzees THERE WOULD BE NO CHIMPANZEES The only way to stop shitty men from existing is TO STOP FUCKING THEM
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:53 AM
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Your third example is typically a court mandated decision rather than a decision made by the woman. A better example is a man marrying a gold digger in her 20s and he’s a rich old man and acting surprised when she divorces him and takes half. I typically blame the old man in these scenarios, like you should know better bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:44 PM
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Lmao no no no, nice try. If you are dating someone long enough to have a child with them, let’s say a year or two at least- there are zero surprises as to whether a man would be a good father. For one, you should at least be talking about fatherhood and his thoughts on it. My ex asked me at least 50 questions related to fatherhood in six months, I would not be a good father right now and she dumped me as a result. That’s how you fucking do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:37 PM
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How about women hold some responsibility for having kids with shitty men? I can be mad that shitty men exist, sure, but it is truly baffling when women have children with these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:25 PM
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Because, men are not going to stop being pieces of shit. Ever. Some percent of men are always going to be pieces of shit. With that in mind, women need to stop producing children with said men- it cannot be that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:22 PM
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As a man, it would take me less than 2 minutes of talking to another man to identify if he would be a good parent. It cannot be this hard for women to have children with men who are capable of raising a child. Imagine I married a chimpanzee, can I really get mad when the chimp shits on the floor and throws shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:19 PM
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Deadbeat dads are lowly trash but they can’t be hard to identify. Women need to not create literal human beings with men who can’t maintain a job for example. It can’t be that hard to not get pregnant by a felon who’s out of prison a whole 2 months in between 5 year sentences
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:16 PM
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Is that right, helping people and feeling good from helping people is all manipulation. You are a very cynical person
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:54 AM
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I don’t really disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:53 AM
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Why would you want to help someone stop doing drugs, or doing x harmful activity? It feels good and it helps the person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:29 PM
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Why would you care if a man converts a hoe? Some men find satisfaction in helping women see the light
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:55 PM
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What about this conversation is disconnected from reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:44 AM
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I’m probably solidly above average but nothing crazy. I mostly attribute any of my success with women from the apps due to lots of effort. None of this comes easy to me, it’s lots of swiping, taking good quality photos, messaging when I don’t want to, spending money on dates, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:09 AM
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Yeah, it’s weird to know that something so clearly would never work out but to miss the person so strongly all the same. Best of luck to you as well, keep putting in the effort!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:06 AM
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Yes, this is very true- I am noting things I do and do not enjoy in partners. At the same time I am concerned that every break up is taking a piece of my soul away. All three of them swirl in my mind frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:57 AM
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Not even close, I would say the quality deteriorated with each one. Hoping to reverse that trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:40 AM
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I’ve met 3 long term girlfriends off the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:30 AM
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Bro, your proof that Hypergamy is fake is just yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:17 PM
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Lady, you just got intellectually demolished
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:15 PM
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Women don’t date below though, that’s the difference. Men will interact with women below his league to get laid but that’s a special exception, women don’t have that exception for guys under any circumstances. I think it’s fair to say, men are rarely delusional about their leagues. We have to ask out a ton of girls and get rejected constantly, so at any given moment we have a good idea of our standing (relatively, not saying we’re perfect)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:43 AM
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What is the point of your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:03 AM
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I make decent money, not a ton but more than I ever have and more than most my age. Being money focused is lame, I can’t imagine choosing a partner based significantly off of how much money they make. What, the Gucci slippers are going to make you happy and fulfilled? The brand name leather bag is going to fill the empty hole in your soul? Boring…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:01 AM
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See I’ve thought about this too- I might match with a girl who is fat and seems to have a good personality, and you know would look great if she lost some weight- my immediate thought is could I just get her on ozempic? I’d be terrified of having that conversation though😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:27 AM
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Why is everyone in this thread saying 175k is chump change lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:13 AM
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The obesity. Having to have sex with a blob
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:11 AM
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Bro cmon, rizz up your patients/ staff. You’re the king of that jungle
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:09 AM
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It used to be that as a woman you needed a man to function in American society. A man was literally your primary if not sole source of resources. Women who were not partnered up were pitied. These days that’s obviously not the case. My thing is, do women really not have some base level desire for an average man? Like the primary reason women have partnered with average men in the past was due to survival and practicality, now that that’s gone it’s like ‘oh I’ll just be single then’. I’ve always …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:39 PM
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Yeah this statement is true but it completely ignores the fact that a concerning proportion of young men are single. Women and men can date who they want but it should be society’s concern to identify why so many men are unable to date women, is it because men just suck now? Is it because women make more money and are less dependent on men for resources? Is it due to dating apps? A reduction in the number of relationships is a bad thing- love is the best part of life. When there’s a problem ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:25 PM
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Yeah holy shit it’s been amazing over the past couple years to see wokeness deteriorate in cultural relevance. Kamala didn’t mention her race or her being a woman much at all for example. That was the telltale sign for me that wokeness is on its deathbed. It’s been a looooong time coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:09 PM
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The left just needs to focus more on common sense, they have gotten more and more batshit over the years- more inaccessible with their beliefs. Biological men competing in women’s sports is the prime example- it’s just so crazy to anyone who is not involved in very progressive circles. And moderate liberals need to have no issue saying ‘yeah that shits crazy’, they can’t call it out because of their fear of being a ‘Republican’. They need to start putting their foot down and say ‘alright this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:46 PM
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Nick Fuentes a notorious troll and provocateur, does not even come close to representing national discourse. And yes, the majority of Americans thought the economy was a bigger issue than abortion- that includes a large section of women as well. Remember the man vs bear debate? That was a mainstream discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:00 PM
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The female equivalent is mainstream discussion. Men are bad is the default opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:38 AM
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List one example
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:34 AM
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People just call themselves asexual if they can’t get laid and don’t want to admit it or want the attention for having a ‘unique sexuality’. I knew a guy who claimed he was asexual but he jerked off to porn and had sex- how the fuck does that even work?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:47 AM
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Looking at STD rates is far more objective, albeit it has weaknesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:11 AM
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You’re probably the same type of person who calls out men for calling women females 😂 Yes a 10 year old is obviously not a woman but he clearly didn’t intend it any malicious way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:07 AM
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It’s not fantasy nonsense, it’s real
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:13 PM
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I’m not threatening society I’m observing a worrying trend. Do people who discuss climate change ‘threaten society’?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:13 PM
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Bro if you don’t recognize the danger of a significant percentage of the male populace not getting laid (their biological imperative)… that is not a healthy thing for society. It is definitely a concern, perhaps not in the ‘revenge’ scenario he painted but more with how these incel men will interact with the world in profoundly negative ways, and generally disconnect. It’s not good that such a huge percentage of men have no love from a woman. We should try to fix that for everyone’s sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:31 AM
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She said she’s not allowed to have high standards, if I was a fat 60 year old man I wouldn’t be as ballsy to say something as ‘I’m not allowed to have high standards’ no shit lmao. No, a 42 year old woman is not allowed to have ‘high standards’
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:31 AM
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What are you a Viagra pharamceutal sales rep? Advertising is insane these days
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:30 AM
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I mean being a 42 year old woman with high standards… youth is valued by men whether you like it or not. Your standards can be high but you might be disappointed. Just be realistic, you’re not in your 20s anymore ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:26 PM
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Experts are also often insulated in weird echo chambers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:59 PM
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A man’s prime is not in his early twenties and definitely not in his teens. I mean I can only speak for myself but all my luck has arisen in my late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:25 PM
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God you’re so far gone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:23 PM
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Men who sleep with a lot of women are literally having their brains blasted with feel good chemicals from women on a consistent basis. So that makes sense. On the other hand, you lose some of the magic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:36 PM
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Him signing up for a reality TV show is the biggest sign of all time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:11 PM
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Intelligence is very genetic, look up heredity of IQ. There have been a number of twin studies done based on the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:28 AM
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Your analysis is spot on. However, I’d say things like height are being aggressively selected for. It seems like the selection process is being optimized more than its ever been. Before, in like the 50s, the selection process for men was basically if you had a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:40 PM
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Only for dates, then I go back to my goon den
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:32 PM
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You don’t want to lock down a woman for the rest of your life, odds are, you will get divorced and she will be the one to initiate it. Let’s say she doesn’t divorce you, what do you gain from marriage as a man when compared to a situationship? In both situations you are getting sex and companionship. A girl in a situationship is more likely to give you better sex because the relationship is presumably new and she is trying to earn your commitment. Many married men eventually end up in dead bedro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:46 AM
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Better for men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:13 AM
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Preach brother
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:56 AM
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Im sorry but being single because you have to have a man over six foot is ridiculous, you’ll be alright if he’s 5’10. Lowering your standards isn’t always a bad thing. I don’t think being a depressed single cat lady is ever necessary, there’s plenty of good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:14 PM
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I don’t why you’d get worked up but I can see why you’d have criticisms. You can observe and criticize behaviors that don’t directly impact you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:22 AM
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I think the fact that you live in New York definitely is the reason. I can’t think of an environment less suited to having children at a young age than New York. I think everyone in their 20s in New York is too busy hustling and surviving than breeding
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:21 AM
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Men don’t have issues finding women attractive, that’s never been an issue and never will be an issue. We are not the selective gender. And sure it’s fine to have shallow preferences, but if you are unable to attract the quality/value of man you demand, you will be single. And you will want to be certain that this is the right path you want to take, because the older you get the less value you have. If you have to have a man who is 6’2 and handsome, that requirement might literally mean you stay…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:16 AM
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Well I would say that single moms are a great example of womens’ ridiculous standards these days. Single moms often have higher standards for men than non-mothers. That makes no sense. Any man in his late 20s and early 30s on the dating apps has a ton of exposure to single moms. They are truly everywhere and they can be quite unreasonably demanding. You can’t be demanding a man be at least 6 foot when you have kids you’re trying to feed, cmon now. Their demands aren’t even based on quality of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:40 AM
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I mean yeah it can be interpreted as a revenge fantasy. Doesn’t make it less true, so why complain? If your ex got fat after he cheated and dumped you for another girl, is you pointing out that he is fat now and less valuable a ‘revenge fantasy’? Maybe, but it’s also true. ‘Plenty of men are willing to date single moms’. No, SOME men are willing to date single moms. There is not plenty of men willing to date single moms. Having to raise children that are not yours is a BIG deal, to anyone reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:07 AM
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Sure, but all of a sudden a bunch of dudes got a whole lot uglier for no reason other than women expect more now. More men are at the gym than ever, it’s basically mandatory if you want to be competitive. If I waved a wand and made everyone under 6’3 completely unattractive to you, that would be a bad thing right? All of a sudden, the group of men you could date just shrunk drastically- not good. Your standards were raised for no benefit. That’s exactly what we are seeing across society, a magic…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:59 AM
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The drastic reduction in modern dating by both genders is a consequence of women collectively raising their standards for men. This is the result of dating apps and social media globalizing the dating market and a rise in income in women. And it’s not ‘moral’ or ‘character’ standards, it’s physical standards- height and looks, and of course money - he has to make more than her. No one wins if women just randomly have much higher standards, everyone loses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:08 AM
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Every time a man tries to explain the realities of modern dating for women, it’s a ‘revenge fantasy’. He’s right, being a single mom lowers your value, so you have two choices, either find ways to increase your value, or lower your standards. You don’t get to just ‘have higher standards’ when your value is lowered.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:00 AM
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I’ve had an ‘ugly duckling’ life experience, I got fit and started to look better as I got older and I can say that the better looking you get, the less necessary red pill tactics become. So, if you are 6’4 and have been good looking your whole life, you have been shielded from needing to employ any red pill tactics or any tactics at all really. Your opinion is somewhat irrelevant when it comes to what tactics work to attract women. It’s a blessing because red pill tactics make you feel kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:52 PM
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Literally who believes that the trauma of rape ends as soon as the rape is over? You’re a liar, no one has said that in this subreddit ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:35 PM
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Just don’t wear revealing clothes and you’ll minimize the chances that some horny dude led by his dick is going to say something. He still might say something if you were wearing a trash bag, but your chances decrease. If your goal is to minimize your chances of being catcalled then the rational move is to wear prude clothes, not to tell men what they ‘should or should not do’. That literally will accomplish nothing as evidenced by the fact that society tells men that murder and rape are wrong b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:23 PM
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No of course it’s not the only reason ever in all of time. Some girls don’t want commitment and just want sex as well. These types of girls of course exist it’s just not a super common dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:33 PM
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Why do situationships exist? Frankly they only exist because the man doesn’t want to commit. Why would a man not want commitment? Because he wants the freedom to see other women. Simple. Situationships= polygyny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:30 PM
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Call out poor behavior when you see it is what I’m trying to say. If someone is behaving in a way that is harmful to others, call it out. ‘Live and let live’ is appropriate in cases of personal preferences that don’t cause harm. What percent of women are having sex thinking that or hoping it will eventually lead to commitment? I would venture A LOT. A man who is rotating women is very likely maintaining this rotation by dangling the carrot of commitment in front of their faces. Ask me how I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:58 PM
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‘Do whatever makes you happy’ in response to a guy saying he plans on pumping and dumping and rotating women. It’s okay to say that this is unhealthy behavior for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:40 PM
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Do whats right, do whats good for others and for yourself. Often times the hedonistic decision is one that hurts you and others. Stop the ‘you go girl, you deserve x, be selfish and slayy’ attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:26 PM
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Damn, rare W for women with this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:56 PM
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I mean if you aren’t going to read and just respond with a repeat of your previous comment what the fuck am I doing talking to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:01 PM
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I am an above average male. Every year I have gotten more attractive. Will I be slaying in my mid 50s? Probably not, but I likely have a good run ahead of me. My looks will likely start to deteriorate slightly every year in my 30s but by then I will be wealthy and well established and will be able to compensate. Women can’t compensate for shit, their fertility has a shelf life so evolution mandates that they become less attractive to men sooner. If you are a woman, every day past 21 or so, you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:13 PM
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Lol milk emoji. I mean look there are countless old men starring in movies with women still swooning. Leonardo the old fuck is slaying to this day with no signs of stopping. Don’t tell me that older men are ugly, tell other women who keep fucking these old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:02 PM
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We age like fine wine 🍷😎
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:32 PM
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Assertiveness is a masculine trait. I would say it’s a very masculine trait. You can be feminine but have a masculine trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:00 AM
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You have friendships, family- good. That doesn’t mean it’s okay to not have a romantic partner. It’s ‘okay’ I suppose but it’s not ideal, don’t tell yourself comfortable lies. Get to work on finding a partner like the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:40 PM
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Lol truly delusional. You have convinced yourself of a lie, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:51 PM
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Living with the intention of being a loner with no intimacy in their life. Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:06 PM
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The way to avoid it is not become a man whore and compromise your own morals, it is to become so high value you can attract a woman who didn’t waste her years getting reemed every Friday/Saturday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:34 AM
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Fat women and people in general make the conscious decision to consume more at the expense of their health. To me that constitutes a person as ‘lesser’, they are more chained to their desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:46 PM
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Are you really doing the ‘you mad bro’ routine right now. Are you negging me? Switching back to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:43 PM
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I’m not I just think your statements are goofy and not well analyzed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:34 PM
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There are numerous studies that show male bullies have more sex than non bullies. Ya know the big mean jock quarterback trope? Yeah that guy really does get the girl in the end, not the goofy nice dweeb.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:23 PM
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Lol, y’all really do though, but that’s a separate topic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:14 PM
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Behave like what? Everything points to the fact that women have just raised their standards primarily as a result of becoming more financially successful and dating apps. Men have been the same we’ve always been, it’s women whose demands have skyrocketed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:09 PM
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Congrats so you also have to deal with the insane dating behaviors of women, just like us men 😂. You played yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:08 PM
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The ratio of men to women on dating apps is like 2:1, that alone means that your average women gets to select an above average man. Not to mention women don’t even swipe right on average men, they usually swipe right on the same top men over and over again. Literally everything wrong with online dating is based on the fact that average women are selecting men above their league, leaving most men in the dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:06 PM
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Is it fair to say that a fat woman is less than a not fat woman? Or is that contraversial?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:04 PM
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😂 classic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:02 PM
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Nuked em
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:00 PM
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Do words and concepts hurt your brain? Going places bud
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:56 AM
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Y’all act like it’s so creepy and yet, y’all continue to get in relationships with older men. It takes two to tango sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:55 AM
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He must hate women and children (women under the age of 25)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:51 AM
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Yeah, my outlook on life, that you should pursue a romantic relationship, is the unhealthy one. I mean just look at the statistics on happiness, strong relationships correlate with life satisfaction, so does marriage and having kids. You should consider that your decision to give up on romance is a very risky one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:35 AM
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You should have all of those. Romantic relationship is obviously number one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:27 AM
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You mean like the kind of relationship everyone of my male ancestors had going back millions of years when my great grandpa was a shrew? Yeah, something tells me it might be important to have a romantic relationship in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:51 PM
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As a man I have the option to send a message, which if I want to actually talk with the girl, im going to have to be the one who sends the message. It was better before when women messaged because it showed interest/ made them put SOME effort in
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:05 PM
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Bro there’s like 9 male strippers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:44 PM
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Men are happy that they have to now do the work and send the first message? I don’t think so. I think it’s pretty obvious that women didn’t like having to do the initiating courtship process that men typically have to do. It’s work quiet frankly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:42 PM
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Oh yeah, you going to be happy and at peace living alone with 8 cats. We are the most social animals on the planet. Thinking happiness is found only in solitude is delusional. Work harder to find a romantic partner, actually try instead of giving up when it gets hard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:37 PM
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No, the problem women are facing with the apps, is that they are all selecting the same top percentile of men, and getting frustrated when this man hooks up with them and leaves them in the dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:35 PM
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Yes all this male strippers, onlyfans creators and prostitutes. Can’t go 5 minutes without seeing a guy advertising his onlyfans account 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:31 PM
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Jesús Christ I’ve been playing the game all wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:27 PM
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Yes men dominate in some aspects of society. Men are more willing to slave away their life/personal life in the pursuit of power. Men are more willing to go to extremes, you see this everywhere. Your emotional mind makes you think that there is some injustice because men and women make different choices that produce different outcomes. There was a study on perceptions of women vs men in power. Both men AND women preferred men in power. This preference might be one way we see such disparity in ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:19 PM
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Elements of society have patriarchal elements for sure. Thinking that there is a 'boogeyman' called the patriarchy is emotional thinking. Women have some advantages, I don't go around thinking that society is rigged against men as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:31 PM
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Bro who are your friends? How could you possibly come to this conclusion unless you have horrible male friends and have zero experience with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:28 PM
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Doesn’t matter that they make more money, they are still less valued by women. Women see them as dumb and uncultured, lower class. Even if it’s completely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:07 PM
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I would say height has a ton to do with masculinity whether you like it or not. A guy who is 5'2 will just never be masculine. At least not how masculinity is defined today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:36 AM
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Damnnn, that's a good point. I will add that masculinity has changed drastically in the past couple decades. Blue collar men are significantly less valued, and they used to be the premier example of masculinity. Now we have pretty boys on instagram taking selfies getting all the pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:34 AM
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Having done anal, I’m not really sure what the hype is, it just felt kind of wrong. We never did it again. Honestly it’s kinda gross, you’re putting your dick up a hole that literally empties shit on a daily basis. Meanwhile the vagina is perfectly lubed and cushioned for dick. Anal obsession is just odd to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:32 AM
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You’re kind of right, us white men feel the need to accomplish things for whatever reason. What a horrible thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:21 PM
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It doesn’t seem like women engage in truth like men do. This still applies today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:11 PM
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The Indians were truly savage to each other, women and children. Torture was like an art form to them. In that day and time, I could see why that statement would be rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:08 PM
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He’s right about some are destined to be ruled and others are meant to be rulers. I don’t know if that’s a defense of slavery but.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:06 PM
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If Tom Brady came up to you right now and said, hey, you're cute, let's get dinner- you would fucking MELT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:07 PM
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It’s always funny when people on the internet make fun of the best looking people on the planet, for not looking hot to them. If he looks like a piece of toast, what the fuck do you look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:01 PM
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There is a dating formula, find out what women like, generally and ravenously achieve those traits. Make money, raise status, workout, stay lean, look good etc. Then you have personality traits: don't be desperate or appear too interested, don't let them emotionally rattle you, stay calm, say less than her, pay for dinner, have confidence. The red pill starts to suck when you realize love is not some magical concept, but something you had to build and acquire. Something you had to work for. As a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:49 PM
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Taking the red pill to me is just pursuit of logic in regards to gender dynamics. I can't just tell myself lies, oh it's my personality that matters when attracting women. I can't just start believing in God. Once something logically makes sense it my mind, the only way to undo it is logically dismantling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:34 PM
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I can’t go back, literally my brain won’t let me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:23 PM
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Yeah bro, you’re married with kids lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:54 PM
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Don’t care about attracting and having children/ permanently living with the highest quality woman you can get? Got more important shit in your life than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:20 AM
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Feminism has hurt both women and men. Women are the most unhappy they’ve ever been and they’ve never had more rights/financial success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:25 AM
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Leftists literally worship Palestinians now, ya know, the most conservative religious people on the planet. Tik tok is one hell of an indoctrination drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:23 AM
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I have been on dates with 50+ women, only one outwardly expressed herself as a feminist. She was batshit by the way. She said she was a man. She looked and acted like a completely normal girl. Had all the right parts. She just randomly told me after the date she identified as a man. Literally not one single about her presented as a man. I am confused to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:20 AM
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I like financially well off women, money is nice. But there isn't a chance in hell I would date a woman for money. Fuck a vacation in the bahamas. I want to look at you and think damn, I bagged a dime. Love is so largely based on attraction. If you prioritize money, you essentially are saying you don't really care as much about the love part. You care more about the life improvements you will gain. And we know this, men care more about love and attraction, women care more about power, status and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:18 PM
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From the goodness of societal outcomes, women wanting men who make money is way better. Men who have money generally have good societal traits, work well with others, make things more efficient for the world. But a woman who just likes a dude for his money, like why? You want a nice labeled bag? Is that what strengthens your connection with a man? Your ability to have a nice bag and live in a big house? You make a good point that looks is the definition of liking someone for something they didn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:40 PM
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I think loving someone for money is wayyy more shallow than loving someone for how they look. A money obssessed woman comes across poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:05 PM
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This is so not true. 95% of men have to build something of themselves. Only true chads can avoid any self improvement. Bad mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:19 PM
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From an evolutionary perspective, women have a stronger incentive to bond with each other and defend each other from dangerous men. Women will always take the side of each other over a man, because if they didn't, men would easily just 'take' women physically. They have to stick together to prevent this. This is less important now with policing and criminal justice obviously but in our distant past it was insanely important. At least that's my theory for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:49 AM
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Women will have sex with men they respect or find attractive, not necessarily men that they 'like'. Meaning, if the man meets a looks threshold, and he garners respect (money, status, power), then that will be enough to overpower serious personality flaws. Male feminists and men who simp for women, are not respected by women. They see right through that shit. They know, that these men are playing a part in hopes that they will get laid. It's too transparent. In regards to your personal situation…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:26 PM
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Yeah well women will literally fuck these ‘misogynistic men’, he’s not fucking his friends is he? Sounds like the behavior of these men is enabled by women. I mean this isn’t news, women fuck attractive men period.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:53 PM
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Yes, I was in the situation. I’m not a Chad but the girl I was with put everything into the relationship, I was her first. I had very poor character at the time and my mistreatment of her had a lasting effect that I regret to this day. I’ve had to change course with my life to as a result of the guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:35 PM
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When a young non-jaded girl with lower ‘value’ gets in a situationship with Chad, she pours her heart out, puts in the effort and time, behaves perfectly for a long term relationship. In turn, Chad is indifferent, is only interested in sex, and will see other women (of course he will, he has 10 other hot women talking to him). He will not reciprocate any feelings, because how can he? So this young woman will start to date other ‘chads’ and they will behave the same. Overtime it is inevitable tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:57 PM
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When women decide to become a career woman, that means there is one less man who gets to be a father, a man with a family, a married man. Less men with families is not good for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:40 PM
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What doesn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:37 PM
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Yup, and the birth rates, marriage rates are all going wayyy down. There are cultures and racial groups in the US that have no issues having plenty of kids. The demographic and socioeconomic shift will be insane. One possible solution, is to boost and support men with as much vigor and scholarships and government funding as women have gotten in the past couple decades. When men get better, to the point where they beat out women in certain metrics, then women will start to date more of them. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:34 PM
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Yup, and the birth rates, marriage rates are all going wayyy down. There are cultures and racial groups in the US that have no issues having plenty of kids. The demographic and socioeconomic shift will be insane. One possible solution, is to boost and support men with as much vigor and scholarships and government funding as women have gotten in the past couple decades. When men get better, to the point where they beat out women in certain metrics, then women will start to date more of them. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:34 PM
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Yup, and the birth rates, marriage rates are all going wayyy down. There are cultures and racial groups in the US that have no issues having plenty of kids. The demographic and socioeconomic shift will be insane. One possible solution, is to boost and support men with as much vigor and scholarships and government funding as women have gotten in the past couple decades. When men get better, to the point where they beat out women in certain metrics, then women will start to date more of them. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:34 PM
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Charisma and likability are just extensions of being good looking. Being hot makes everything you say charismatic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:05 AM
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A little less? You just needed a job and you could find a woman and get married. Now all women care about is a man’s physical appearance. What else is there to care about when women are generally financially independent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:04 AM
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We are currently witnessing what happens when women have complete and unrestricted dating behavior. They all just form situationships with top level men. Not good. Does that mean we should go back to restricting them? Nah. But still, this is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:02 AM
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Women are the buyers in the dating market, buyers dictate EVERYTHING about the market. If sellers are producing bad products and acting poorly, then you look at the buyers. Stop buying shitty products. How this translates is women need to stop 'buying' the highest quality man they can get and entering his Harem of 50 women. This is not healthy for anyone. 'Buy' a lower quality man who brings other things to the table besides being insanely Tik Tok influencer hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:34 PM
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Not every woman, but women who are in the dating market (18-35 let's say), what percentage of those women use instagram? What percentage of those use Tik Tok? A LOT Social media has a similar brain rot quality towards women that porn does to men. Both need to be held accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:32 PM
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Yeah well that's correct, most people DON'T know their league. Shit is hard to pin down. I have a date with a hot surgeon tomorrow but I two days ago I had a date with a single mom. Fuck if I know what my league is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:13 PM
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Even a woman’s consideration of men ‘who would settle with her’ is massively skewed because men dangle that shit around like a carrot on a stick. In my fuck boy days I wouldn’t be afraid to say anything to get a lay. Especially promises of a future. Really, the only way you know your league, is to see who actually locks you down, from there- see how the relationship dynamic is, who has more power? That’s how you find your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:02 AM
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Finally a man who shares my views. That’s a no on that normal pussy, give me that strange pussy- the pussy that makes my head spin and I go into a daze. That pussy that makes me ponder the secrets of the world. That pussy that sucks me into a void and transports me outside the walls of the universe, where time does not exist, ascending me and giving me the wisdom of a man with a million years of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:14 PM
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With online dating you can’t ‘grow’ attraction. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:33 AM
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I think to a very slight degree men might raise their expectations but the whole thing with men is we won't marry some old bag for her money. We won't sacrifice attraction for money. It's just not that important to MOST men. I understand being financially independent, perhaps you want to hedge your risks, fine. That is different from 'career women', lawyers, doctors, etc. Career women just do not seem to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:29 AM
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Yes, a little insecurity and maybe some tension from men but usually all the tension lies with the women dating a man 'below' her. Career women confuse me. Like why? I consider myself ambitious but it's because I want to attract a beautiful woman and take care of a family. Besides those two, I couldn't give a rats ass about money. You're going to spend your youth working a stressful 60 hour a week corporate job to buy a fancy lexus and a handbag and potentially self sabotage your attraction to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:59 AM
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Exactly she is raising her own standards. She can date less financially successful men, but like I mentioned, women really don't like doing that, subconsciously or consciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:43 AM
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women have a tendency to date up in various ways. Money especially. If she makes 200k a year, she will have a hard time finding a man who is 'above' her financially. Dating a man who makes less than the woman has been extensively studied to cause serious issues in relationships. So, women literally handicap themselves by becoming very wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:27 AM
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patriarchy status: DEMOLISHED!! SLAYYYY
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:22 AM
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I checked out some of these resources, I believe these are good for maintaining 6+ month relationships. I am trying to lock attraction for the first few weeks to eventually have a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:10 PM
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Ya know, I always hated fresh and fit because they seemed to lack nuance, and are too one sided with redpilled cultish idealogy. Then I saw a video of the tall one (fit?), violently defending the other. Fresh fucked up BIG time, and fit was borderline psychotic about defending him. It was really bizarre because it almost brought a tear to my eye, how touching it was. No matter how retarded they are, I can’t hate the tall one anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:11 AM
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Yes that’s for a sure a common phenomenon. The classic is one smokes cigs and the other starts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:45 AM
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Finding a girl who is not only attractive to me and who is also neurodivergent or at least accepting of my neurodivergence is difficult but yes that is a continual goal of mine to find. The problem is, I attract beautiful women. Not me saying that to brag but to explain, sports models, Latina models with large followings on instagram. These beautiful models will go on dates with me but then be at least partially turned off by my personality over time. So I am faced with the extreme high of being…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:04 AM
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Sadly marriage is a large gamble, but I feel like the average marriage is not well thought out. Average Americans are dumb as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:08 PM
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I am a bit weird but I do well on dates conversationally, texting in between not so much. And yeah I agree the looks threshold is the hardest part
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:57 PM
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Normal texting =‘Uh he’s so boring.’ If a girl is using dating apps she has 200 men ‘healthily texting her’.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:47 AM
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Pure attraction first and foremost comes from looks, like 95%. Scheming becomes relevant after that obstacle has been passed. Creating the optimal cocktail of emotions in a woman to make her head spin and fall in love. Romance used to be buying roses and poems and shit, well that died completely. Now men have to chemically restructure a girls brain with games to ‘romance’ her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:43 AM
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Yeah you say that but as an experiment I am in a phase where I am acting ‘beta’. Extremely persistent, triple messaging, love bombing. So far I’m getting good results than my typical minimal interest game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:34 AM
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If only most girls were that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:15 AM
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Okay but in the extreme example, if I manipulate you for pure altruism, say my manipulation gets you a billion dollars and no benefit to me, the outcome overshadows the ‘inherent darkness’ of manipulation. If someone told me they are going to trick and manipulate me into positive outcomes, I would feel uncomfortable and violated maybe but if the outcome is a net positive I would 100% say okay do it. I feel like we are talking in circles. And manipulation can be used as a tool by good people, it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:58 AM
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Being able to send quality or interesting texts has never come natural to me. I think I need to reflect on that. Thanks for the advice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:53 AM
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How is it fundamentally a bad thing if you can’t feel your ‘autonomy being taken away’, it only hurts if the manipulation tactic is revealed. It’s literally painless by both the means and the ends assuming nothing is revealed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:46 AM
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You think that just because I am willing to manipulate for good that I am also willing to manipulate for bad. That is simply not true. You can consciously only manipulate for good. Of course individual ideas of ‘good’ outcomes are subjective but I don’t feel like I have a bad moral compass, I am sensitive to causing pain. The only reason I feel confident in my abilities to know bad from good manipulation is because I have literally used manipulation for wrong and the pain I caused scarred me gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:34 AM
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Okay well let me shed some of the variables and ask for your input. The girl is sort of nerdy, she really likes me, we had a great first date. She initiates texts all the time, tells me have a good night, good morning, etc. I have been trying to match that energy but in my desire to maintain her attraction for me, I am debating whether to play it cool or continue to match her lovey dovey texts. 26 year old female, kind of a desperate quality to her. Like she doesn’t want to lose me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:28 AM
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Let’s think in simplistic terms, two scenarios: I love bomb and she is attracted to that behavior= me and her are happy together. I don’t love bomb and she is not attracted= her and I are disappointed that it didn’t work out. If you manipulate someone into feeling good, is that really a bad thing? It only becomes bad when your manipulation hurts one but benefits the other. That is not always the case. Another example: if my parents manipulate me, tell me that Santa is real, is this wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:21 AM
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The end goal of this supposed ‘manipulation’ is positive, a relationship. I stated in my post that my intention is not to love bomb in the traditional sense, where you ghost at some point after blasting a girl with emotion. It is to lock in attraction and form a good relationship. In no scenario would my love bombing cause pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:07 AM
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See that’s the problem with love bombing, going back to my original topic, love bombing can easily be interpreted as clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:59 AM
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Feigning low interest isn’t really faking a personality, honestly. Not in an egrigious way. Faking a personality is only bad when it’s like your serious values are being faked. Think about it, if I act uninterested in you in the beginning but then switch to my natural state of being really interested, would that really cause serious incompatibility? It’s inconsequential long term
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:54 AM
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But were you more attracted to her when she did that or when she was in love with you consistently like I assume she was when y’all first got married?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:47 AM
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No desire for the long term input and output and investment that is a marriage? No desire to have a partner that you know loves you and will be by your side when you’re 67? No kids to shape and mold and push on your legacy, like watching a stock profile grow but 100x more fulfilling? I’m 26 and bachelor lifestyle is showing its flaws imo. It’s not bad, but it just feels more lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:39 AM
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I can’t fake myself that long so I slowly revert to being comfortably myself over a couple months, at that point she can make her decision. I’m pretty sure everyone fakes to SOME extent, at least in the beginning. No one farts on a first date. ‘Why aren’t you being yourself’
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:36 AM
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Exactly, you put it into words. How to avoid this? Dont have good interesting conversations? Focus primarily on flirting and emotionally charged talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:32 AM
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Hmm but I assume a lot of this marketing research is focused primarily on the biggest consumers, women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:26 AM
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It does kind of make the vibe more ‘feminine and gay’ and less ‘sexual’ doesn’t it? It’s like when you’re on a date and the conversation goes super well and your personalities mesh but the focus was on conversation not as much on sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:25 AM
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Acting like I am is literally not texting whatsoever, even if I’m extremely interested. Girls interpret that poorly so I adjust, just like I’ve adjusted my clothes, my hair, my income all to be ‘more attractive’
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:21 AM
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That is true, but I’d prefer to be steady on heroin than cycles of extreme highs and extreme lows. I’ve never really had experience with a girl doing that so I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:11 AM
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I’m not convinced that hot cold works on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:03 AM
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I just like being love bombed. I hate games. If I’m attracted to someone why would I want to feel like they don’t really like me? I want infatuation and oxytocin not cortisol. All my previous girlfriends essentially love bombed me hard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:02 AM
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“Good morning sunshine, I want to conceive a child with you’ then no response to her text for a week. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:40 AM
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None of this comes natural to me, too many chromosomes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:38 AM
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That’s exactly why I’m posting on a Reddit forum on how to interact with people. No denial from me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:37 AM
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The ‘fuck my shit up’ strategy, why do you girls want to be tortured? Rhetorical question I know there is no logic to female attraction lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:35 AM
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Okay, well which one do you think conveys a stronger sense of neurotypicality?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:21 PM
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This is for guys who are at a threshold where they can attract women physically through online dating, personally still matters at least a little bit. At least in my experience, I can get her number and go on a date but then carrying the relationship longer term is where I am curious which strategy is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:18 PM
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Yeah I feel the same. I’ve been in a relationship where the girl definitely should have expected more from me. I basically regressed and she had no vocal disapproval. It’s not her job to do that, and the lack of nagginess was super cool, but I would have been good for both her and I to continuously push me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:49 PM
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I’d start throwing bottles on the street for the fuck of it. Hell I would buy a pound of carfentanyl and then a pound of meth to balance out an overdose. Sniff it all and then jump off the tallest building in my city, feel like a free bird. I’d stuff my pockets with all my money cash, so my body explodes with thousands of dollars. It would create a scene of homeless people picking at whats left of my body for the thousands of dollars. Maybe I’d light some heavy duty fireworks off the top of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:15 AM
1

You bring up a good point. If you’re planning on killing yourself, a little liquid courage would go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:55 AM
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Shit well, that makes your situation a lot tougher. I have no input on how to tackle your current situation. I guess with an intense medical condition the only thing left is to appreciate the small things… sorry you’re going through that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:26 PM
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Seriously, you and I are on the same wavelength. You are not a cuck because you spent $10 on drinks. That $10 just got you a lot of social leverage with the girl for very little cost. It’s worth it literally every time to buy people drinks. I buy everyone drinks because it socially is effective for making friends. Shallow as that is, it fucking works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:10 PM
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From what I can tell a woman’s support system is literally just agreeing with all your grievances, spending time with you when you are feeling down and inviting you to social events. Not a lot more depth than that. That being said, those three things can be incredibly powerful when you are feeling down. Male support system is like dude, let’s get this shit solved. Here are my proposed solutions. Here’s how I can help. Not a lot of emotional support though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:06 PM
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If you have problems, they need to be solved. No amount of talking will get around that. That being said, therapy can put you in a mindset to solve your problems, or provide you guidance to solve your problems. In theory at least. The couple times I have been to therapy, i remember thinking what the fuck am I doing, I just talked about the problems in my life- I was facing a lengthy prison sentence and I figured therapy would help me mentally. Well, after talking about my problems I just felt li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:01 PM
3

I think a lot of the suicides really are impulsive, alcohol is found in the blood of a very high percentage of suicide cases
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:58 PM
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I could be wrong about this because I am not in your age bracket. But I think you making more money would solve your women problem. Aren’t women in your age group looking primarily for wealth and stability more than anything? I would focus on that. Perhaps that would solve 3 solutions in one- purpose, women, dead end job. Not saying making money is easy, but it might be your best move.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:54 PM
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People using you for money and power actually feels pretty good from my experience, I got a taste of it when I was selling drugs. Part of you knows these people around you don’t genuinely like you for who you are but some how you mind is still like fuck yeah this is pretty cool, I feel accepted. Don’t get me wrong I have like 2 genuine friends, that I trust with everything who like me for me and that matters more than all the fake friends, but when I had a bunch of so called fake ‘friends’, it f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:47 PM
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bro girls on onlyfans literally make millions a month and there are dudes out there getting smacked in the face by women and paying for the pleasure. Some men are fucking it up for everyone out here lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:23 PM
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Oh hell no, she’s gotta be sub 30 FOR SURE.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:46 AM
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lmao yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:07 AM
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Sounds like an amazing relationship, I am looking for this kind of woman personally. I have a little more work to do and I think I can get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:03 AM
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You are basically me, an attractive guy who went to prison with right wing views who struggled with women early in his life and now doesn’t. Neither prison nor my right wing views have any influence on whether I attract women. The attraction is pretty much exclusively based on looks. All I have to do is not be atroticious with my personality which for me is actually quiet difficult because I am decently autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:00 AM
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you're making the judgment, that judging people is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:07 PM
1

I'm going to continue to judge people who like kim kardashian.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:46 PM
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I watch neither but like I said, athletes are at least admirable. It's good to follow admirable people. So sports watchers at least have that going for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:52 PM
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idk I am rapidly losing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:51 PM
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Most women do not think like this, so it's not surprising. Women gas each other up for literally everything, even if y'all hate a bitch, you won't say shit you'll just talk behind her back. If a girl is fat, 'slayyyy'. That's not a good way to think, you are hurting someone when you enable their unhealthy decisions. There's a balance to all of this of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:47 PM
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Depends, am I behaving in a way that is harming myself or others? If that's the case, then I would like to hear judgements. That's one way to learn and grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:32 PM
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My shit does stink. I got problems... what's your point? Don't make judgements if you have problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:13 PM
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When people act poorly around me, I generally tell them. Of course, I package it in a way that is friendly, or maybe it's simple teasing. Everyone has a duty to help their fellow man correct his poor behavior, at the very least so that society improves let alone the individual. If you spend a lot of time doing vapid shit, fix that. I don't see why you're conflating judgement with negativity. Saying 'hey stop doing that shit', is not negativity in the way that you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:09 PM
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I would shit on anyone of any gender or identity who follows Kim Kardashian, I am not shitting on purely women, although women primarily engage in this behavior (maybe gay men as well). Calling me an incel is lazy. Why does it bother you that I am shitting on vapid behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:29 PM
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I am shitting on something that deserves to be shat on, if you engage in said behavior and you get defensive, than maybe it is time to self reflect on your behavior. Otherwise, who gives a shit what a random redditor thinks? And yes, I get a little bit of dopamine opening up peoples eyes to their poor behavior. Call it self righteousness, I feel like a god.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:08 PM
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If you know something is trash and vapid, and you aren't getting drug like effects from it, then why engage in it? Just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:58 PM
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There is an excuse, masturbation feels good. It’s comparable to a drug. I’m not saying it’s healthy or good by any means, but it makes sense. Following Kim kardashian doesn’t even have a drug like effect, it’s just trash like behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:28 PM
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“No, you!”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:26 PM
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No, what I’m saying is I don’t question why a heroin addict likes heroin, junkies are going to junky. But their desires are not irrational, they are trying to get high, just like a guy jerking off to only fans. Not healthy, but it is at least rational. What exactly are women getting out of reading articles about how Kim kardashian was spotted drinking coffee at x cafe? That doesn’t even make sense. You aren’t even getting high, you aren’t a junkie you are just weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:24 PM
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You can be soulless trash, I am not saying you cannot be soulless trash. There's 365 million people who follow Kim Kardashian, you are not alone. Just know that you lack an examined life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:18 PM
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Men who follow onlyfans and instagram models are chasing a drug. Sexual release. They are like drug addicts. Women who spend their time following celebrities, what is keeping them hooked? There's no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:16 PM
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Similar for sure, but at least athletes are somewhat admirable. They are admired for their talents and abilities. Why the fuck would you maintain interest in Kim Kardashian? Nothing about her is redeeming. WHO ARE THESE MILLIONS OF PEOPLE WHO WATCH HER SHIT. WHY??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:13 PM
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Nah, liking celebrity culture means you are trash. Find a real passion in life. Celebrity news is absolutely souless trash and is a key identifier that someone is a sheep who just follows. It's okay to say somethings that people like are objectively horrid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:10 PM
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Billionaire might be a stretch, but progressives will argue that wealthy black celebrities are suffering and are oppressed all the time, it is absolutely nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:08 PM
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Not only is it easy to do, with higher academia telling everyone that is not white/male that their lives are hard, it also feels good. Oh, all the poor decisions I made have nothing to do with my lack of success, it's just my skin color, something I had no control over? Awesome, that feels good to know. It's not my fault. The reality is, that being born in a wealthy family and with a high iq gives you far more of an advantage than just being white. There are a metric shit ton of poor white men o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:51 PM
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Honestly, I don't think it's that difficult to determine whether you like one gender or another. Your heart will tell you, and your hormones will amplify your feelings. I do think it is harder for woman to find attraction in men. For us men, it is inherent, we look at a woman and we feel lust/attraction, for women it's a whole cocktail of traits that a man has, physical or maybe even status wise/wealth. That might make it more difficult to determine attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:47 PM
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I think you’d be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:09 PM
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The facts don’t really make sense. I suspect foul play with the study. What about being an autistic female makes them genetically prefer women over men so significantly? It doesn’t really make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:31 PM
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A black billionaire is less privileged than a rural white trash hick apparently, at least according to progressive ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:28 PM
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Trying to be romantic with a touch of the ‘tism is a death sentence, I notice the less I talk the better lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:27 PM
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She just needs to go out and do it, it’s basically laziness. The pressure for men to get a woman is so basic and core to being a man, that it’s almost mean to pressure a man to get a woman, he already knows and it might be a sensitive thing for him. For women, it’s like what are you doing. Just put yourself out there a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:46 AM
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Women get bugged about it because men know we need to find a woman. It takes work and effort on our part. For a woman to find a man, she just has to decide she wants a man. Get on the dating apps and find a man, it’s not hard for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:51 PM
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Really this is highly dependent on the woman. You have to find a woman that is different from the rest. Obviously, not easy, but nothing good is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:55 PM
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You don't want to cohabitate with women just because they are messy? Cmon bro, that's lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:41 PM
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So going from zero to... zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:38 PM
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When you are on your death bed alone, I am sure the last thing you will be thinking is, I should have spent more time working so I could make rent. Truly a noble path to set your life towards, working, making money, and existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:26 PM
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It doesn't hurt my feelings, it's just sad that somehow you have prioritized making money over having children. The corporate machine imprinted on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:19 PM
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Feminism hurt women if anything. Y'all literally didn't have to work and could just chill at home but y'all found a way to fuck that up. Good job geniuses. Now you get to work in a corporate office and slave around for the benefit of some billionaire. So empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:30 AM
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Yeah he ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:30 AM
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More humans means more advancement. More advancement means higher quality off life for everyone. We need smart and good people to fuck a lot and have a lot of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:29 AM
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Communism would never work if the people had guns. How are you supposed to seize the means of production if people have guns? It doesn't work, that's why liberals hold the position of anti-gun, because deep down, they want the government to hold more power relatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:18 AM
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Yeah they aren't easy conversations in the talking phase at all frankly. As a man, I have to decide between saving 20k or getting laid more frequently lol. I am just annoyed that girls make such harsh judgements. I am stacking bread!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:19 AM
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I lived and worked on my own from 18-26. I can be self reliant, I can function on my own without issue. It's just a matter of wanting to save more money every year. I guess the problem is that a lot of assumptions are made without consideration of the context. Does he live with parents because of faults of his own? Is he poor? Is he lazy? These are easy assumptions to make but it might not always be the case with everyone's situation. I will say, from a relationship stand point, it is always a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:41 AM
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I mean yeah literally. Women have irrational icks and men have rational 'icks'. It's not a double standard because if a woman had an ick from a man having a kid, or being overweight, or fucking around, I would completely sympathize. I cannot sympathize with some of the things women reject men over. If you live at home, and you find it an ick that a man lives at home, well what the fuck. YOU ALSO LIVE AT HOME GIRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:02 AM
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Being overweight is a massive problem, not some minor bullshit. Having a kid is also a massive consideration. Same if she's the town bike. These are all serious problems not comparable to, he 'sneezed in a way I don't like'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:56 PM
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The same way the homeless woman living in the Las Vegas tunnels is sucking the dick of the King Rat, not the small peasant rats.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:52 PM
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I don't think guys really are turned off by petty bs, I think that's the whole criticism with dating women is that women seem to be turned off by 'icks', pointless shit. Like a dude sneezing loudly, or he tripped and fell (lol). Guys don't have 'icks' toward women because what the fuck, who cares about petty shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:48 PM
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Financially I am doing very well, I am in my late 20s, but I'd rather not spend 20k a year on rent money sent to the incinerator. I am hesitant to tell women I live with my parents because they will think I am bum who can't live on his own but the reality is it's a really smart money move to be able to save 20k a year especially when you are young. Most girls have no problems with it but some REALLY do not like it. Nothing about financial conversations are sexy but damn girl like can I not save …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:39 PM
2

It's time to make the switch to the other side bro. Transformer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:41 AM
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I mean the onus for marriage is mostly on women. Women initiate divorce 80% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:10 PM
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Divorce is at 50% anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:36 PM
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If he married you for your looks, of course he is. Men marry hot women, looks are a massive factor in all marriages. Every guy knows, however, that looks fade, that's why we try to find a hot girl with a good personality, we don't always succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:10 PM
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How is that ice cold? That's just reality. Guys looks fade too. It does for everyone. Are you out here denying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:59 PM
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Women initiate divorce about 80% of the time in college educated couples. Once a man gets married, he's not going to divorce just because your looks fade over time, men aren't really out there divorcing women for that reason. Besides, you get married at 35, and your looks will still depreciate from that age as well. Your looks are a depreciating asset but the best time to 'SELL' (get married) is when you asset peaks in value. How as a woman have you not thought about this/ been told about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:46 PM
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'Pathetic assumptions', that's funny. You don't get married to men who are 23-25, because like you said they are not financially ready, you get married to a man who is around 30 or in his late 20s at least. Or you try to find a man that has ambition and is going somewhere, it is somewhat easy to tell. This is how you want to play the game if you are thinking with more of your brain rather than your impulses. Yes a man in his 30s is probably less attractive physically than a 23 year old man, yes …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:42 PM
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A man who genuinely likes you as a partner, stable financially, and perhaps fairly handsome/tall. If you can't attract that then maybe you should self reflect on why you can't find a man like that to date you. Or you can continue to consume girl social media that is all about lying about how perfect you are in everyway, empowerment, 'change for no man' or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:33 PM
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Because every guy knows at least one guy who says that he doesn't have a girlfriend because he doesn't want one. In reality the guy just can't catch one. Having a girlfriend as a man is almost always a net positive. What kind of man would rather be sexless, and with no romance in his life over the alternative? When I was younger and a virgin, guys would ask me why, I would say 'oh, I am just not that interested', in reality every night I would beg and pray that I would get laid lol. Guys lie to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:30 PM
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Okay if you can't find a quality man when you are at your peak, what kind of quality man are you going to find when your looks fade. You gotta think about this kind of stuff hun
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:27 PM
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Those men have given up, that's not the situation you think it is lmao. Any man who says he doesn't want a girl is just coping for the fact that he can't get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:23 PM
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I am in my mid to late twenties, a lot of these hoes my age are acting like we are still in our early 20s and we just discovered alcohol, posting thirst traps all over instagram and social media, going out every Friday and Saturday. It's time to grow up, that shit gets old past 24. Tik tok and social media in general is rotting girls brains and delaying their maturity. I don't drink and I don't use social media and I feel like a grandpa with women my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:18 PM
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I mean if I was a woman I would definitely lock a man down when I peak, why wouldn't you. That's basic dating strategy for a woman, get married before your beauty fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:15 PM
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Okay kids might be acceptable, having the responsibility of taking care of someone else’s offspring, but someone having different political opinions is where you draw the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:00 PM
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'I'm kissing a lot of frogs before finding my prince'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:59 PM
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If 1.89% of the population was murdered, is that still a 'low percentage'? 1.89% can be a massive percentage depending on the context. '1.89% of the US population' was murdered last year, well shit that would be 5 million people. It's all about context.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:57 PM
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It doesn’t matter where a man’s sperm goes. A males biological imperative is to spread his seed far and wide. Women are the ones who are actually stuck 9 months with the offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:07 PM
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Women are not consciously thinking this guy would be could for my future offspring. It’s hard coded in your desire of ‘attraction’,it’s unconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:59 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:19 AM
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How many women get murdered on dates, like 200 a year? It is extremely unreasonable to make the slightest assumption that you will get killed by a tinder date. Statistically zero. It’s like me not going outside because I’m afraid of lightning strikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:22 PM
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Not even joking I’ve been on probably 75 or so tinder dates in my life, at least a third of those dates have made some joke about asking if I’m a murderer. Women really are obsessed with thinking men will kill them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:40 PM
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60% of young men are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:42 PM
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Let me see your vending machine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:59 AM
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She’s respecting your time if anything imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:29 AM
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These women aren't unwell, they just like feeling naughty and are shallow, they want a man of status, power and money. In other words they are greedy pieces of shit. THey expect to tame the tiger but the tiger doesn't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:53 AM
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Yes that's right. Men will pick the hotter chick to fuck, to lock down? Not as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:52 AM
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Do you have sympathy for the man who enters in the cage with a tiger in it and gets eaten? Not really right? Tears aren't falling when a girl dates the drug dealer with harem of 9 women and he's not the best partner to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:24 AM
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DON'T stick your dick in crazy. IDK men who prefer crazy women over a nice, compassionate caring one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:21 AM
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If all women decided that being evil is the ultimate panty dryer, then world peace would be accomplished within 7 days. Instead we have Ted Bundy getting 300 love letters in the mail lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:20 AM
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Same brotha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:39 PM
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Chad is just a top level guy that kills it with women. It keeps getting mentioned because Chad is just an easy/funny way of saying a guy that a lot of women are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:44 PM
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I am also good looking, and I have dated multiple partners. I also like being with one woman but dating others is just as easy. There is a significant proportion of attractive men who date monogamously. Possibly the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:08 PM
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Because less than 1% of women would date a man who is 4’5 inches
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:25 AM
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The frat boy is universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:26 AM
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Right, all the 'nice guys' women refer to as being so toxic and actually evil are just nice but ugly lol. If you get a nice guy who's hot he's an angel. And if you get an asshole who is hot, well at least he is upfront about being not nice unlike nice guys. In each of these statements, hot=good, ugly=bad. Never forget that one trick, BE HOT
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:24 AM
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doesn’t mean that it’s a deal breaker if you’re shorter For 99% of women, height is a deal breaker if you're too short. For a lot of women, it's a deal breaker if you are under 6 feet, let alone short. Yes being 5'6 vs 6'2 is like blonde vs brunette to most women huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:20 AM
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I literally just said women are more hive mind like and conformist than men. That was the only claim I made. I didn't say they are a monolith and a hive mind. I said they are more like those things than men. Big difference. If you were more observant of the differences of genders and 'educated' on this topic, you would perhaps understand. Instead you dismiss what I am saying as sexist. Again, boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:56 PM
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I'm more hurt that you abandoned an interesting conversation for personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:51 PM
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Agreed, these reasons are not as imperative for a Chad when compared to that of an average woman. A woman wasting time in her 20s with a situationship is actually counter productive to her desire to find a man to be long term with. Chad can fuck around til he’s 45 and then marry some 20 year old if he wants to. Or not, he can be a DiCaprio and just forever date young 20 year olds. A woman’s youth is very precious and needs to be funneled to the right man not rando situationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:37 PM
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Which gender is known for making a list of all their requirements for their prospective partner? Women are only out there dating or fucking her ideal man. He might not be perfect, but he is ideal if she's dating him. Women are only slightly pickier? Are you being serious? Have you ever been in the dating market? None of this is really relevant to being hivemind oriented. Here is a study on that if you're curious. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1111/j.1471-6402.1986.tb00747.x
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:05 PM
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Alright, since you've resorted to boring personal attacks. I mean really, I provide an opinion and you respond with 'touch grass', cmon man, lazy. I probably interact with more people in one day than you do in an entire month. I work in lead generation sales. Here's one of many studies about female vs male conformity https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1111/j.1471-6402.1986.tb00747.x I am sure you will find a way to make this study false, so that you can continue believing your viewpoint that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:59 PM
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Personally, no, not at all. Although I know a lot of men who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:10 PM
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Chads are good looking men, and almost all men are promiscuous given the option to be. Chad can be in a long term monogamous relationship but he would be limiting himself because he could also date multiple women instead. He can receive all of the benefits of monogamy except from multiple women, so there is no real point for chad to settle down unless he wants kids. Chad can be a cheater, he can be an asshole, he can be a serial killer. Chad is still a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:09 PM
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Yeah in most every case where women say, oh I know this ugly as fuck guy with my hot ass friend. Then you see the dude and he is pretty good looking, really charming, has something remarkable about him, maybe he's rich or has a lot of status, etc. Or her friend is a dog, and the guy is actually ugly. It's always something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:49 PM
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Okay you are that rare exception I was talking about. Most women don't find tall men 'lanky and weird slumped over looking' lol. Most women are like 'omg he's so tall, like he might step over me by accident tehee, I feel so small next to him!'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:42 PM
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Men do have lower standards than women on average, which makes sense from an evolutionary perspective. Men are programmed to want to spread their seed; it’s always been a numbers game for men. Women are programmed for the opposite: looking for the best possible partner to provide for and protect her and her future offspring. Exactly. But claiming that women are a hive mind is ridiculous hyperbole. They don’t all like similar music. They don’t all have similar political opinions. They don’t all l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:40 PM
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I actually think the opposite, that women's tastes HAVE changed quiet a bit recently with modern dating and the apps. I said that women's tastes can't really change, what I mean is consciously, women can't consciously change their tastes. Societal and dating trends have made women's standards for men much higher than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:33 PM
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Height might be the one trait that ALL women find attractive (with very few exceptions). How many women would prefer a 5'10 guy over a 6'2 guy all else being equal? Women tend to hive mind over all their interests, they all like similar music, they all have similar political opinions, they all have similar interest in cars, they all like similar celebrities, and they all like similar men. Of course, there are exceptions to this, just not a lot. Men like anything and everything. There is not a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:17 PM
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wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:04 PM
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Half of singles just not looking for anything is the craziest stat. Like wtf are you doing? Especially men, like did your dick stop working?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:51 PM
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I agree, at some point persistence should be recognized as futile. Some men lack this self awareness and move into the category of 'pushy or desperate'. It's a balance and you need some social awareness to play that balance well. When I was younger, I lacked these abilities simply because I wasn't as socially experienced. Everyone starts out nice, you're right. That being said, some men are just nice to their core. They aren't just nice because they want you, they are literally just nice because…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:57 PM
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Crazy stats here. What is happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:39 PM
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Men don't sacrifice themselves just for benefit of their 'gender bretheren', but for a wide society as a whole. All the time. Yes exactly, that's essentially what war is, men sacrificing themselves for the betterment of society as a whole, not just men. (of course in practice, the intentions and outcomes of war are not always aligned for the betterment of society)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:37 PM
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This is a big claim honestly. Men are more selfish than women. Got any evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:36 PM
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Sure, but if women decided, 'I am no longer going to date criminals, men who have no standards, or men who are dating multiple at women' than a lot of this would be solved. Asking men to not fuck everything that moves doesn't matter, Chad is not hurting himself when he fucks everything and anything (except maybe with STDs). Where as asking these women to stop dating men who treat them poorly, date multiple women at once, fuck around, seems to align with a woman's self interest right? It's more r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:34 PM
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Right, and women's higher standards are the cause for a percentage of men who do not get companionship. That being said, you can only 'blame' nature so much before you go, what is the point of this? Women have limited ability to adjust what they find attractive so you can't really blame them to a certain extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:28 PM
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These men are not undesirable necessarily, they are just less attractive then the options that women typically have. Women who are average have the option to select from top level guys, because top level guys have no problems going below their league for one night stands and minor flings. As a result, that guy who is average and in the same league with the average girl, cannot compete with her current options. This is a modern phenomenon, the apps make it easy for all women to have access to a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:09 PM
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That's right, everyone is playing the game in the way that you'd expect. Chad is fucking everything that moves and women are all dating the same top level men. This is nature at play. Asking anyone to deviate from their natural instincts to 'help society or single men', is pointless. Chad doesn't care about lowering his standards, why would he? Sex is sex. That being said, I would hope women would have SOME awareness that maybe the Chad they are 'dating' (being the fuck buddy of), probably is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:03 PM
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For some reason a woman's "no" is negotiable In sales, a no is a challenge. A no is always negotiable. There is a notion that women need to be convinced. A lot the older generation met in circumstances where the man was overly persistent and the woman finally was like, alright let's date. That's why a no is not always seen as a firm no. Persistence, bring her flowers every week, keep buying her stuff, keeping asking. We were told that it pays off. As far as nice guys, why don't you like nice guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:40 PM
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I mean, I don't feel threatened by rejecting a girl. I can stand there all day and say "no, sorry" over and over and over. I don't mind. I can even answer why honestly if they really wanted to know. I don't get frustrated with that situation likely because the situation is not scary to me. I suppose it's different with guys because he could be more of a threat but IDK.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:57 PM
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You really gotta throw that ew in there? Damn, that's cold. I mean I get what you are saying, how about a firm 'look I'm just not interested, sorry', that should work right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:31 PM
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Personally, I don't approach unless there are signs she is into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:28 PM
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It is never appropriate to act like a child I agree. If someone rejects me, I politely move on. No matter how harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:19 PM
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It is a little dramatic, it’s less of you as a person and more rejection of your first impression and looks rather than your deeper personality. The point still stands, rejection sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:53 PM
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I disagree, approaching women trying to sell yourself, is WAY WAY harder and puts you in a WAY more vulnerable position when rejected. You are literally asking a woman who you find attractive, hey what do you think about me? Could we work? You're not selling windows you are selling YOU. When someone rejects you in a harsh manner, they reject you AS A PERSON in a harsh manner. They don't like YOU. Just be nice out there people. And tell me more about this time share?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:45 AM
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If you have a cynical view of the world yes. Predators exist, and it is certainly safest to treat everyone like they could be a predator. That being said, it's hurtful to men who are not to treat them like they are predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:28 AM
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I was a door to door salesman selling windows, something that no one really wants. If you show some reluctance/politeness, I will persist with my pitch. But, if you show a wall of harshness, I will completely stop at once. I get it, and harsh rejection works. But I always thought the people who shut me down harshly were a bit sad. Like I get that I'm annoying and you don't want to talk to me, but you can keep your humanity while rejecting someone. Everytime I reject someone, whether it's a sales…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:02 AM
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had my ass eaten out, Damn, what kind of date did you take this girl out to? Did you buy her a car or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:03 AM
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The thing is everyone thinks they are doing what you describe. Oh we are best friends, it's going to last forever, I am going to put you first and visa versa. And yet the divorce rate is 50%. The real problem is going to be finding a women who is okay with not getting married and just staying partners through word. That is the REAL challenge here. Everyone is so conditioned to think the only way to lock in a relationship is through that awful piece of paper. Not to mention women have every bias …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:30 PM
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Honesty is always the best policy when it comes to helping someone get girls. If someone looks like shit and he has a bad personality, the looks part comes first always. Hot people with terrible personalities get laid. Ugly people with good personalities don't get laid. FIX THE UGLY PART FIRST.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:26 PM
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Yup, and why are those traits confined to marriage, you can have all of that without the piece of paper that screws you in a lot of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:17 PM
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The dude will look like a busted up dog. "You just need to work on your personality sweety"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:54 PM
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Also, aren't women depressed at record rates? Fertility in the US is like Japan now lmao. I guess y'all are strong and independent, just dependent on SSRI pills instead of men now. None of it is good. All of it is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:05 AM
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I’ve never been a slut and also Good, you are one of the few. Women are going to be fine When hordes of men are unpartnered, lonely, and suicidal- society suffers greatly. Men who have nothing to lose are terrorists essentially, in small or great ways. Crime increases. Men who have no children have limited desire to invest in society. You can not give a shit because you personally will be fine. That is a completely normal albeit selfish viewpoint but hey. Not your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:57 AM
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Most men dislike sluts because they are typically evolutionarily dangerous. Back a couple centuries ago, if your partner was a slut you didn't know whether you are investing time into a woman who is having your kid or another man's kid. This still is biologically coded within us. Men who are okay with slutty women, generally don't care because they aren't investing time in these women period. All that being said, if you are or were a slut, you will only find men who are generally not interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:42 AM
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All women know if you give an ugly guy a chance, he gets an inflated ego and treats you worse than the really attractive player men Lol is this what you guys tell yourselves to feel less bad about dumping an uggo over a hot guy? I don't buy that ugly dudes who are infatuated and incredibly grateful to be dating a woman close to his league is going to treat her like shit because his ego is blasted. All the girls who were out of my league that I somehow got the opportunity to date, I TREATED LIKE …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:03 AM
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Well, we need to define looksmatch, is looksmatch your equivalent opposite gender percentile? Like the 50th percentile man looksmatches with the 50th percentile woman? Or is your looksmatch the woman that you CAN theoretically acquire in the real world? Because those two are completely different. You seem to be saying the latter. I was referring to the former. A 50th percentile woman will have men after her that are all below 50th percentile in men (these men would all marry her), at 50th percen…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:47 PM
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Yup and it's tragic. Imagine if our biological instincts focused on virtue. We'd live in a Utopia, the best of us would have the most offspring and the worst of us would not pass their genes. Instead we have Ted Bundy receiving 300 love letters a day. That's biological attraction for you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:12 PM
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It literally does decide if certain men get laid or not. Women liking only men who are above them in value ensures that some percentage of men will never get laid, a huge percentage of below average men. I get laid because I go for women who are slightly below me in value. My looksmatch would not date me period because like we just discussed, women have some delusion as to how they compare with the average man. It's okay though, men are generally okay with dating down. It all works out, except f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:23 PM
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We were all conditioned to believe that. The fact that it isn’t is legitimately a tragedy. Because a society that rewards the most virtuous with attraction is a good society
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:50 PM
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It does reveal the shallowness of humanity that looks play such an important role when deciding a partner, that being said, straight up denial that looks play any part is far worse. Be loud and proud about your beliefs!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:20 PM
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Well, for one it's a common saying that women can't have male friends because they always end up catching feelings. That saying is true imo 90% of the time. If you were to ask all your male friends if they would have sex with you given the chance, it's going to be a lot higher than you think. So do what you want with that information.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:26 PM
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No, but when you notice your friend is starting to catch feelings and you don't reciprocate those feelings, then it's time to cut it off and not continue leading.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:14 PM
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Bruh, there have been so many studies that show women find the average man as below average. This is that study in action lmao. What that really means is that the average woman finds herself more attractive than the average man. So the average man who hits on you, is not actually delusional for thinking you are in his league. You are delusional actually. Acting like this dude is sooo ugly when he is on your level, it's comical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:28 PM
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Some men lack wisdom. The problem I am describing is mostly with young men. You should be nice to these men, they don't mean harm, they just have a strong emotion that clouds their judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:58 PM
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It's called empathy, recognizing when someone is building attraction, and cutting that in the bud. I know a lot of women who will let men who are completely infatuated with them give them gifts, perform favors, treat them like queens, knowing perfectly well that these men will never be romantically involved with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:53 PM
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We all have obligations to not lead people along.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:36 PM
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WHY IS THIS SO HARD TO ADMIT. I DON'T LIKE UGLY PEOPLE EITHER, IT'S OKAY
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:35 PM
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They weren't really free to pick you're right. They could pick which man they got but they HAD to pick somebody to survive financially. In this system, most men were paired up which is always good for society. Men in relationships and with children will work hard to provide and care for the future of society because their children will live in it. Men without companionship literally go insane. Not only were the men happier, but the women didn't have to work. Obviously, that's pretty lit. Women c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:55 PM
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The natural match is a 7 male for a 5 female in today's society. In a time like 50s maybe it was closer to 5.5 Male to 5 Female. It's getting more distanced as a result of changing culture and technology. Dating apps give girls who are 5s access to practically unlimited men who are 8s. And these men will tell these 5's anything they want to get sex and then move on to the next. All of a sudden, any man under 8 is one hell of a lot less competitive, when you have young brad pitt texting 50 women …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:41 PM
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Look at happiness rates among couples in arranged marriages. There's been tons of studies on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:32 PM
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Looksmatching is always inherently subjective. And this assumes that people can choose what we find attractive. Do you think it's a coincidence that ugly people date other ugly people? Do you think ugly people don't find attractive people attractive? Is it a coincidence that fat people generally date other fat people? Do you think fat people are only attracted to fat people? Or do you think there is something else going on here or is it all coincidence? Something tells me that fat people are att…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:43 PM
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You ever get weirded out by the fact that arraigned marriages so often work? Like arraigned marriages are more successful than self-chosen marriages. I guess what that shows is that people learn to love. You can love someone who doesn't spark a massive flame in your heart. That kind of love fades every goddamn time. The steady, hard-working love is what lasts, and you can find that kind of love with a lot more people than you can a fiery passionate flame. There are so many cases of women saying,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:35 PM
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Everything influences your perception of reality. The more time you spend in a delusion, the more warped your reality becomes. People watch hours upon hours because it's a dopamine feedback loop, it's entertaining and removes feelings of anxiety temporarily. It's not good. It's a real problem. Tik tok does give you an algorithm based on your interests, let's just say a lot of young people are interested in relationships, sex, attractive people etc. These are things people gravitate towards espec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:17 PM
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I am in the US and I spent too much time in college so I was around serious social media consumption for YEARS. College students have tons of free time and they care deeply about their social media accounts. Perhaps this is not representative of the average woman. That being said, there are billions of instagram accounts and facebook accounts. It's rare to meet someone who does NOT have an account. I would say you and your friends are an anomaly not the rule. Social media addiction is widespread…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:01 PM
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Do you honestly believe that women have nothing better to do than be glued to their phones staring at what you claim to be attractive people? Are you projecting? Have you ever gone out and met people? Yes? Have you seen the addiction rates to phones and Tik Tok? Is this really shocking to you? Fuck yeah people are glued to their phones all day. Not a lot of men binge porn all day (although there are plenty of men with porn addictions). But there is a gradient, there are men who follow instagram …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:46 PM
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I never said you hate men who you are not attracted to. No, I was wondering do you find so few men attractive BECAUSE you hate men in general. There are women who just hate men enough to where they stop dating altogether and no man is attractive to them and they buy 7 cats and live alone. I was curious if you are in that category. Sex is a lot more cost intensive for woman, I agree. We aren't talking about sex and hooking up. We are talking about general attraction. In a room of 1000 men, you'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:42 PM
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People like what they like People adapt, people's tastes change. Let's say you were somehow transformed into the ugliest human on earth, something tells me that you would adapt and find uglier men attractive. You would have no choice. It's natural to adjust when you lack options. If you look at couples everywhere, they generally are looksmatched. You get exceptions but fat people generally are with other fat people, ugly people are with ugly people and hot people are with hot people. Do you thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:32 PM
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Bruh, how do you find only 2% of men attractive, that's nuts. Do you just hate men, were you always this way? Why do so few men seem attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:13 PM
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You can fix it, that's the whole point. The 'coomer' needs to stop watching porn and lower his standards to reality. Women need to stop consuming social media and romance movies assuming that that is the standard for men. It can be fixed if you moderate the content you consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:10 PM
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There is something wrong with anyone, girl or guy, who only likes people way out of their league. It usually means they have a skewed self-perception of how attractive they are. A lot of women seem to have this problem. It's not good and it probably can be fixed with some level of self-reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:07 PM
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Because you and most women are having a very hard time finding men attractive. Are you an average women in looks? If you are, then you should find your looks match, an average man, as attractive or there is something wrong. If everyone expects someone hotter than them, then it will leave a huge percentage of men without partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:03 PM
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If I binge watch porn all day and night, then demand that any girl I date to have a massive ass and tits as a result of higher expectations from my porn consumption, that is clearly my own fault and my own problem. Women's attraction to men depends a lot on societal influence. Societal influence is partially taken from social media they consume- Tinder, Bumble, Instagram, Tik-Tok, all these sites are loaded with videos and pictures of hot tall men. All of a sudden the average man they meet irl i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:01 PM
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No, if you are under the age of 25, ‘be yourself’ is the worst advice. Be the person you want to be. Yourself as a man under 25 is probably not what you want to be forever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:12 AM
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Well I suppose it's not the required formula, but that combination gets you any woman in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:36 PM
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WDYM we don't know the formula, the formula is a strong jaw, 6'4 and loaded with cash lmao. You can't go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:29 PM
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I think your calculation on what is and isn't important on your deathbed is off. How many people on their deathbed wish they didn't have children so they could spend more time on their career? How often do people with children list anything OTHER than their children as the most important and fulfilling thing that they have experienced. I think you are taking a massive risk assuming that having a loving relationship with kids should be anything but priority number 1. To each their own but also un…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:15 AM
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A lot of dating is through dating apps, the dating apps are 95% looks and 5% personality. How much personality can you really express through a dating app. That shit doesn't really matter, it's almost exclusively about how hot you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:56 AM
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And how many of those single women who claim to be happy alone, actually believe that versus how many are saying they are happy alone as a self-affirming delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:54 AM
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I think it's so weird that a lot of women are just happy to not experience love in their life. Like your career is going to bring you more fulfillment than having a loving partner. It just boggles my mind that that's a conscious decision you would make, to ignore the work, effort and rewards of dating in place of trying to find happiness in being alone. It's a delusion that you would find happiness alone long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:51 AM
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He's probably right though, as men we are pretty honest with each other. Man you aren't the best looking, we tease each other about it. Woman will constantly gas each other up or watch videos gassing themselves up about how hot you are or how amazing you are, 'never change'. Men do not have the luxury of delusion, delusion will ensure you never get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:12 AM
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Of course there are men with absurd standards. But on average men don't have a laundry list of standards for women, because they can't. The average man struggles finding a woman for him to date. The average woman does not, thus her standards rise. Hypergamy is not cope, it's a feature of evolution. You can see why it exists when you understand that man's biological imperative is to impregnate as many women as possible where as women's is to get impregnated by the highest quality male. I don't kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:32 AM
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Hypergamy in woman make this phenomenon much more common than with men. Men don't usually have absurd standards for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:11 AM
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It's fine to have standards but at a certain point it can get ridiculous if you aren't comparatively as attractive as the man you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:08 AM
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relative to themselves and their current options. The issue is that women have hundreds more options through social media and dating apps. Women making more money also makes this harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:05 AM
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I can't say. Generally male dominated industries are far more lax. Sales is way more lax than say HR haha. In fact, I would say sales is probably the most masculine corporate job you can get, it's competitive, performance based and there is no room for bullshitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:45 AM
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You cannot speak out on topics, you always have to obey, tons of authority beaten down on you, you cannot be physical, you cannot be sexual, you cannot rough house, you cannot make inappropriate jokes, I can go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:30 PM
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I wear a tank top to the gym, mostly because I like looking at my muscles in the mirror and because I know I look good. If other people stare, I honestly take it as a compliment. I dont understand women who are hot somehow converting their hotness into a victim mentality. Oh so you wore a skin tight outfit and look hot as fuck and now people stare at you? Aww I feel so bad your life must be so hard. No it’s awesome being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:36 PM
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These days, you know that’s a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:34 PM
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Again, it's not a problem or your fault. Women's tendencies to reward certain 'masculine' behaviors and punish 'feminine' behaviors is why horrible men continue to have kids and pass their shitty genes onto the next generation. If women all decided that men who are evil, hateful, manipulative, violent and generally awful are not attractive, then their shitty tendencies would not be passed on to the next generation. But here we are with serial killers getting love mail around the clock and ex-con…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:01 PM
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No, it's not your fault at all. You don't choose what you like. Just don't be one of those who acts all confused as to why men act the way they do. We do it because we do what rewards us with sex and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:45 AM
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Yup. Working a corporate job basically demands that you have no masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:38 AM
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IDK if you are a feminist, or someone who hates 'gender norms' or whatever just know that you and most women are the reason men tend to have 'toxic masculinity' because y'all like that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:36 AM
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Excellently worded
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:31 AM
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Sure, you can rationalize in that sense. Men have been protectors among couples for centuries and even millenium if you look at our mammillian ancestors. You like male protectors because it's coded in your DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:14 AM
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Society and modern culture can tell you that gender roles shouldn't exist, but deep down it's where we feel most natural and where the genders truly enjoy each other. Our opposites fit together like a puzzle piece. If one gender isn't taking up their role then yeah, it doesn't feel right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:55 AM
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Women don't need a man to be protected. Don't you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:53 AM
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I mean literally ‘but looks tho’, are you saying looks don’t play a significant if not majority role in attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:56 AM
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If you are 6'5 and halfway decent looking you should be killing it, something is wrong. Maybe your standards are way too high? I'm 5'11 and good looking and am killing it with women on the apps, I use hinge, tinder, bumble and facebook dating. Maybe expand the number of dating apps you use? I live in the South USA so plenty of Latinas where I am at, and yes they are extremely sexy and have great personality traits. Girls who pursue you for money, are kind of in the same lane as girls who pursue …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:20 PM
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Plastic surgery to improve your looks? Fuck it right? I am not sure that you are physically unattractive, but that might be a possible solution. Otherwise, improve your value in other ways. It's clear that you are unable to meet the requirements of women you desire based on your lack of results. So the solution is obvious, raise your value in the number of ways that are available to you. Leaning into despair does literally nothing, fight that at all costs. Take medication if necessary. Do not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:48 AM
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Were these men looking for something casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:54 PM
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If you are extremely religious and saving for marriage thats a lot different than, I don't want to date or even try to date throughout my 20s. A virgin woman who is able to resist instant gratification in the name of some greater vision is insanely rare and something that is valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:15 PM
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I guess it really depends on your definition of wrong. I think someone who lacks the biological instinct to pair up is either in denial and lying about their lack of desire or just odd like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:54 PM
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Are you talking about people who have literally zero desire to date a member of the opposite sex? You don't think that's odd?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:46 PM
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Well if you want something but you don't care enough to try, there is a problem, wouldn't you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:40 PM
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Not always but 99% of the time you haven't tried hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:38 PM
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Because we all want partners, in high school and college especially (unless you have severe mental illness), if you want something and cannot get it through your efforts, something is inherently wrong. Don't you dare try to pretend you don't want a woman who loves and respects you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:23 PM
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Yes, easily. MGTOW are DELUSIONAL. They are in a mindset that completely prevents them from trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:21 PM
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I'm not, I respect a man who complains about his situation more than the man who doesn't even give a shit that he hasn't had a partner by 25
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:18 PM
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The fact that a man lacks the self awareness to complain or fix his lack of having a partner by 25 is also a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:14 PM
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The main thing is as a man you have to self reflect on your situation and think, why can I not get a girlfriend? Am I spending too much time playing video games and watching anime? Okay, well let me change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:58 PM
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Some men are genetically ugly as shit, they are fucked. Not sure why you are acting so proud. A down syndrome girl could get a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:57 PM
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If you are a woman and haven't had a boyfriend at 25, you're even MORE fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:55 PM
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So I was bullied in school when I was a kid. It is hard to avoid bullies when you HAVE to go to school. Now as a grown man, bullying is really non-existant. At least for me and most men I would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:23 PM
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I was bullied as a kid, there are men that are bullies and there are men that are good. It's easy to associate with good men and not hang out with bullies. A bully will immediately talk shit to you or be mean and so you know, okay me and him are not friends and I will not associate with him. There aren't secret bullies to the point where you never know whether a man is a bully or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:49 PM
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Yeah, low class trash who cat call every woman who walks by do that. But your average guy who went out of his way? Again, that means something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:51 AM
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Every guy who is attracted to a girl wants to fuck her, the difference is, he is willing to put himself out there and really put forth effort to get the girl. Most guys don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:00 AM
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Because the man is determined enough to approach you out of the blue to get your number. That says a lot about how much effort he would put in a relationship with you. He might be a better catch than some hunk who barely cares about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:59 AM
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Why else would anyone waste time and resources You are confused as to why the government would waste time and resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:11 AM
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I don't know how she phrased it, but it could be just a natural instinct, like dont you dare leave me or the consequences will be huge. It could be taken as a compliment honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:27 PM
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Damn, that is fucked in ways I can't describe. The one you love stringing you along to take your money. Goddamn. I wouldn't project the savagery of your ex on your current wife though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:19 PM
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I mean technically he is not wrong. Have you ever been through a break up? Shit is the most painful thing in the world. That's why I'd never mess with another man's relationship. Love is the only thing that can destabilize my life and cause me insane emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:29 AM
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Man she probably doesn't want to lose you and she was just saying that as a threat for you not to break up essentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:27 AM
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This is a really rude comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:01 PM
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I am ALL IN on the dogpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:08 PM
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One of my friends is ugly as shit and dated a beautiful bisexual woman. Bisexual women have a lot looser restrictions for the type of men they want. They seem to care more about personality, kindness and almost 'creativity' or artsiness than straight women who want tall, muscular, handsome and rugged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:02 AM
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I agree but you can consciously make decisions. You can actively decide what move you want to make to improve your life. You are not completely shackled to your genetics or parents influence. That being said, I will say genetics and upbringing play a HUGE part. At the end of the day though, lamenting about things you have zero control over (your genetics and upbringing) will provide you no benefit. It's best to let it go and move forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:40 PM
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That's good man, I wish you luck. I respect you taking life into your own hands and trying to fix your problems by whatever means necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:35 PM
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The question is, is this a positive thing? Times are changing and younger people are 'maturing' slower. Now a days you are not really 'an adult' until after you spent 4 years in college at the very least. Housing is obviously much less affordable. Do we really need to keep the 'get out of my house at 18' mentality? I am not a parent so I can't say how desperately I would want my kids to leave my house but if my children were going somewhere career wise and able to help around the house I don't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:11 PM
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I mean I used to be one of those guys who called people weird or losers who live at home but that was also at a time in my life where I was constantly getting trashed, throwing parties and being degenerate. Now that I am passed that point in my life, the stability of living at home is so undeniable and spending time with parents is underrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:03 PM
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Great point, has been applicable to past experiences in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:17 AM
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The only young guy I know making that much was basically a top percentile student at the school I went to, started an unsuccessful app in college, and was hardworking as shit. Now he works at Microsoft making 200k+ shit is impressive. I don't know who you are to think that making 200k at 26 is not impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:24 AM
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I used to live in Austin, a 26 year old making 200k is not outlandish but it is impressive. Not to mention that we are talking about 200k in general not just in VHCOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:18 AM
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It is a very impressive income for a 26 year old. Stop saying otherwise because it is blatantly untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:10 AM
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You're not wrong about the requirements, but you can do your best to hit six figures, and with money you can get plastic surgery and solve a lot of your problems. Not saying this is an easy path but it is a path that could work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:00 AM
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Nah, women will dump you if you are at a low point and do other unvirtuous shit. Parents over women always. Parents have unconditional love women have conditional love. That being said, you can love both your parents and a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:58 AM
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You are partially a result of your parents, but you have agency. Get rid of the victim mentality and it will significantly help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:56 AM
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Stocks, tutoring, I am not making a lot of money but I am in a transition period and am looking for work. I do have decent savings up for my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:50 AM
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Bro you are in the queer scene, that is completely different from the dating world of a straight man. Queer and bisexual women will fuck ugly ass dudes you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:49 AM
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This is true, if you aren't getting any women whatsoever and you are above age 25, I think plastic surgery would be a fair route for you. Just make sure you do not look uncanny, and of course, tell no one you got them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:44 AM
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I am seeing this girl while unemployed and living at my parents. I am 26 years old. She asked why I was living with my parents. I said I am saving tons of money and it's awesome, I live in a nice house, I can spend time with my parents and it feels incredibly stable. She said she understands. Guess it doesn't matter so much depending on the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:51 AM
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Depends on how dumb the girl is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:59 PM
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Even if women start to sympathize with your struggle (which they never will), why does it matter? Do you want women to start saying 'You're enough'? At the end of the day you still aren't getting laid. The truth is you aren't enough, the impetus to getting laid is completely on you as a man and you might be in such a disadvantaged position that no girl will like you despite your efforts. Nature is cruel. Seriously consider prostitution or sex tourism if you are doomed in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:40 PM
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https://th.bing.com/th?id=OIF.%2f5jaHhX2bnk45BOcwApVqQ&rs=1&pid=ImgDetMain
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:57 AM
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You are correct, what would be a good soyboy consumer product?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:45 AM
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I have never gotten laid, none of my friends are in long term relationships and I am blasting SSRI's, but did you see that new Marvel movie trailer?? https://ichef.bbci.co.uk/news/976/cpsprodpb/4D24/production/_106484791_0c1a0518-e5b9-4966-a4cd-83f76abe97ef.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:34 PM
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Yeah, that's my take on it as well. They don't WANT to be orbiters but they'd rather be an orbiter than dating a low value man as your example shows. Not my business, but I highly recommend you disclose your cheating status ASAP with that girl because it can become an ugly and hurtful situation. I cheated and it made me feel terrible when she found out. Since then I vowed to never cheat again. I recommend you do the same, but again, not my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:32 PM
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I don't care I did call you nigga, I never denied that. I complain about women but I love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:24 PM
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You're right, I don't know with certainty. I just don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:21 PM
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Unless you're a top value man, this is wrong advice. You can say, 'work on yourself until you are a top value man' but for a lot of men, this is unrealistic. At best they will only reach average value and in that circumstance, you need to be approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:14 PM
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He has multiple children with multiple women, is that also a fantasy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:06 PM
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Even more perplexing that he has a harem despite his allegations. At some point you gotta go, damn, women behave weirdly. Despite having an ongoing case for human trafficking and his 'misogyistic' takes he is dating MULTIPLE high value women who could easily exclusively date other top tier men, and yet, they choose to orbit Andrew Tate. Tell me that isn't odd behavior to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:26 AM
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brotha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:18 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:16 AM
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Nigga I said women in general in the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:57 PM
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It could be, but if they were sleeping with other men I would end it. They literally know that I am sleeping with other women and don't care that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:56 PM
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I ask because I have curiosity about what goes through women's heads when it comes to odd behavior that they have. I only bring up my own experience to say it is a real phenomenon not because I want an ego boost from strangers on the internet. Maybe I have a slight vendetta because I was an incel for a long time growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:38 PM
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Obviously not every last woman every for all time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:35 PM
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well maybe they don't want to be in a harem, they'd rather be in an exclusive relationship with the man, but they will tolerate it for a time. Perhaps in hopes that the man will lock her down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:06 PM
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Men have no idea what it’s like being with an average male I don't want to be around average women but then again I am not an average male. I try to stick with women who are at or slightly below me in terms of value. It seems that women categorically refuse to be associated with men equal to them or below in value. To the point that they would rather be in high value men's rotations than deal with a man who is their equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:03 PM
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I don't go around telling people my felony. Nor do I give off any signs that I have committed crimes in my past. I am a good looking, well-educated white boy. The girls in my rotation are not low quality trash either, they are well-educated high earners. I had a rotation when I was a drug dealer as well. All women seem to find acceptance in being in a harem, drug addicts, educated women, average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:59 PM
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I don't have friends in this position, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:50 PM
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I am not relaying this from someone who told me. It is literally my experience. Hell, if you want an extremely famous example, look at Andrew Tate and his harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:48 PM
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I just can't imagine being with a girl who is seeing a bunch of other guys no matter how fun she is or how 'high value'. It would mean I have no self-respect and would ruin the time I spend with her. I don't get how women get over this even if the guy is putting in the effort to make it fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:47 PM
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Thats ugly older men not giving a fuck and just being creepy. Women find 80% of men 'below attractive', there's no question which gender is greedier
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:59 PM
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No, I am not making this up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:56 PM
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I don't think men outwardly say, hey I am seeing other women but women know what is going on when they are not exclusive and in a 'situationship'. In my situation, I will subtly bring up that I am seeing other women to no issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:37 PM
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Pussy for sure. I meant contraversial in the sense that saying women have pussies and men have dicks is contraversial itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:24 PM
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Contraversial statement right there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:15 PM
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The 20/80 is a known phenomenon, are you disputing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:41 AM
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no, attractive, abusive, manipulative men. That's important.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:40 AM
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I think women will date the most attractive man they can get. Back then, women could not sleep with an extremely attractive man because there simply were not enough of these men around. There wasn't a way to just find these men on instagram/ on the apps. Now you can find like 100 extremely attractive men on the apps and thousands of women will flock to these men leaving many men lonely. I think this is biggest problem. I feel like women's standards are so high now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:38 AM
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The majority of men of all ages are also having sex, and after age 30, most settle down into relationships. Isn't this simply not true anymore? I thought the majority of men 18-25 are not in relationships and are not even having sex? Men in their 30s, maybe, but the new generation of men is having a huge sexless issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:30 AM
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I'm a man and I can say with certainty that a man without a woman will go unstable. It's in our biology to spread our genes. If we can't then we get desperate to change our situation. Call it disgusting or whatever, doesn't change the fact that it is reality. Significant percentages of men being single and with no interaction with women is DANGEROUS as fuck. Not saying that every incel will go out and shoot people (although that happens) but maybe they will do something as basic as treat others …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:26 AM
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Yeah, that's the downside of being sober. You miss out on the 'going out' scene. I look back on that and question whether drinking and going out was even worth it. It was a lot of fun at the time but had no long term benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:16 PM
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Thank you, thank you. I know the information I am imparting is truly revolutionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:08 PM
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Alcohol is overrated and some people really need to hear that being sober is a viable alternative. This is from someone who boozed all through college and years after. I came to the same realization that boozing is a crutch for poor social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:54 PM
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Like you missed out because you struggled during social events because you didn't drink? On the other hand you might have developed social skills while sober that you wouldn't have otherwise while drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:50 PM
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That is extremely low on what I would consider relevant to the question of how much women are supported by the state. Here are the biggest reasons why I believe women are prioritized by the government over men. Divorce settlements being much more favorable Court Punishments being much shorter Diversity in federal employment and federal loan incentives specifically benefiting women Many scholarships supporting women in tech, women in science etc. in universities No draft
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:29 PM
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It's really not hard to avoid men who have violent tendencies. If you can't notice that a man has a temper and tends to get violent and leave him or even worse you stay after he beats you, that's kind of on you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:42 PM
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The state is still largely set up to help men Atleast in America, that is definitely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:39 PM
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Just get prescribed ozempic and take it seriously. It's not that hard to lose weight. It's all willpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:23 PM
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Women don't usually risk themselves getting hurt to slap a man or pour drinks on a man. Women usually make tactical risks when it comes to violence, okay I can slap this man because he slapped my ass, oh I can do this or that because he did this to me. Women just randomly attacking people is rare to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:24 PM
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I trust my instinct and my instinct is that he didn't just randomly get slapped and a drink dumped on his head doing nothing. I don't believe everything on the internet. Women can definitely be pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:34 PM
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He got slapped not raped. Also, it very well could be his fault, we don't know the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:48 PM
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I mean women don't usually slap and pour drinks on a man unless he did something specifically crass. It's not like you were sitting there doing nothing and then all of a sudden a woman slapped you. Obviously you did something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:46 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:19 PM
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No, women aren’t receptive to unattractive and low value men approaching them. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:45 PM
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If you’re polite she won’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:58 PM
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Girl: ew noo, you’re gross, get away from me. Okay, no worries, have a good workout. That’s it. That’s literally the worst case scenario where the girl is disgusted by you, which is unlikely unless you just complimented her ass or something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:55 PM
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Look, don’t listen to the people in here telling you the gym is not an appropriate place to ask a girl out. It absolutely is, fuck what other people think. If the girl likes you, she won’t give a fuck that you’re asking her out in any location. I’ve done it before and it was totally fine. Shoot your shot whenever you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:32 PM
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I’ve also read studies that women love to be social, as a homemaker you can literally develop a massive social network with other moms. Make a bunch of friends and hang out with them. Yeah kids aren’t great conversation but you are happy to take care of your own kids because they are your own blood, you will want to spend time with them at a primal level
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:45 AM
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I mean I’ve read the studies on women who are happiest and it seems like homemakers are at the top. It actually sounds very fulfilling to just take care of a home and kids and just chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:38 AM
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Okay in that case I’d move to Utah and larp as a Mormon to prevent that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:34 AM
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Yeah well that’s something you would have to take into account. I would try to get married around 22-24 when my smv is peaked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:25 AM
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The problem is these women are not only rare but being pretty and intellectually curious is insanely difficult to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:38 PM
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That’s true but is also not a significant factor because women in relationships outnumber men in both the 18-29 category and the 30-44 category.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:48 PM
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That doesn’t explain why so many more women are in relationships than men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:06 PM
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No because you’ll lack the ability to pair bond
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:39 PM
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This probably the best comment I’ve seen on here. Pretty much sums it up. Dating is not fair, it might be getting worse, but there is no point in lamenting. It is what is, and the only thing you can really do is self improve to a point where women are attracted to you. Some men are fucked from the start and no amount of effort will make them viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:42 PM
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I don’t think they have ‘rosters’ but yeah they aren’t seriously committed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:26 PM
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I don’t think they have ‘rosters’ but yeah they aren’t seriously committed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:26 PM
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Nah, this is actually true though. I don’t know if ‘most’, but some girls are weirdly okay with just being a part of a roster. And they are willing to have threesomes, these are normal women I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:41 AM
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From biological standards, that is 100% your worth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:40 AM
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Conservative women are disgusted by liberal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:47 AM
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Bruh you're supposed to lie to get a girl to sleep with you for a night not to get a whole ass girl friend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:41 PM
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Are you getting mad because I require my girlfriend to be monogamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:14 PM
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not angry, just think social media is goofy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:35 AM
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I use porn as sparingly as possible and of course avoid seeking sexual gratification from anyone else since asking her to be my girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:21 AM
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I do yeah but I've always had paranoia about girlfriends cheating on me due to unfounded insecurities. And prison is not that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:14 AM
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She's 21 not 14. Y'all are too much. Making me out to be an abusive pedophile because I want something to change lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:11 AM
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That's perfectly phrased. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:00 PM
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I agree. It seems the best way to enforce boundaries is to not enforce anything at all and simply state my displeasure with the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:54 PM
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She is beautiful and has a great personality. She is also young and not yet set in her ways so I am not just going to give up. It's not like it would hurt for a girl to become less obsessed with social media. That's like me refusing to give up drugs because that's just something I do and who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:51 PM
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What are you insta famous? Who gives a fuck if you use an app full of 'friends' (mostly acquaintances and strangers) slightly less. Oh no, you don't get to see which bar Sarah got drunk at Friday.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:42 PM
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the problem, exactly The problem is that I am not a fan of her talking to multiple men on social media. I don't know their intentions but if I were to guess they are trying to fuck given that she's an attractive girl. If she continues to do it I am not going to do anything physical fucking obviously but it would strain the relationship. Saying 'hey, it makes me comfortable that guys are snapping you, I am going to need you to stop it' is not abusive, you are nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:36 PM
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I would dump a woman who is so obsessed with her social media that any limits placed on it would cause her to dump me. I have almost no social media so I do not understand the fascination.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:31 PM
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Trying to control your girlfriend’s actions Oh stop, is it abusive to say you can't fuck other men? The implication is if you do then we aren't in a relationship, that's not abusive. Perhaps I am being more controlling than most but calm down with using that term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:25 PM
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I like this, thanks for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:22 PM
1

I mean what if your boyfriend was getting 30 snaps from girls everyday? Would that bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:10 PM
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"women treat men as human beings" Meanwhile they select men literally like how a rancher selects cattle - how big and muscular it is lmao. Women usually have the MOST shallow reasons for dating a guy. A huge majority of women will not a date a guy who is not at a certain height. Women will have long check lists about what they want. To love a woman a man just needs her to be loyal, pretty, and kind 99% of the time and yes that's more noble IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:30 PM
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I couldn't roll my eyes harder. Young women will literally date men who are 60+ because they are walking bags of cash. They literally date men because they have power or status or literal inches of height more than the other guy. Don't act like women are extremely virtuous in how they pick men. Aren't like 80% of divorces initiated by women and a further like 90% of those divorces are for financial reasons? So virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:19 PM
1

Average is not good enough these days. You have to have something that puts you in the top 20%, get rich, get better looking, get jacked (hop on steroids), etc. You could even wear lifts at your height to give you even more of an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:56 PM
1

Then it's possible you have a busted face or you are too fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:48 PM
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Yeah, that's actually a better option, just move.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:24 PM
3

Get leg lengthening or wear lifts. Obviously these aren't great options but they are solutions to the problem. Albeit fucking expensive. No girl will take you seriously at 5'4
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 09:31 PM
1

I felt disgusted during the meet-up for using this "method" Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:20 PM
1

This is a well thought out post but for me I could never accept this fate. You should at least give it all you got just to get a taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:29 AM
1

The fact that men want their wives to be gangmaids tells me all about men's capacity for love that I need to know It's not that I need it, it's just that having a girlfriend who is comfortable with performing domestic tasks is the greenest flag of all time. You say men demand slaves, that's a little ridiculous. Cooking and cleaning is not that hard honestly and a lot of women find it cathartic. Men have a lot of unspoken things that are expected of us. Anything physical, security and breadwinnin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:47 PM
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With money you can change a lot more things than you would originally think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:45 PM
1

As a woman though I struggle to see any benefits that make it worth it. After all I might as well go work as a maid and get paid for it instead of doing it for free Yeah you don't understand this because you haven't met a man that you truly admire and want to do those things for him. That's a key component. Not saying that's easy to find either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:26 PM
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Men kill themselves 4x as much as women. Men are definitely more lonely and depressed. Most women are not worth dating, I agree with that 100% but you only need one woman to date long term and you're good. So just find one of the thousands of women in your city that would fit your requirements. Of course you 'can' go years without getting laid but it's certainly not pleasant and it will start to fuck with your head. Incels are an example of the mental distortion you can get from not getting laid…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:06 AM
1

It's frankly a stupid movement. There's almost some kind of pride that you are abandoning relationships because women are too 'toxic' when it's almost certainly a cope for being unviable. If you were Brad Pitt you would never join MGTOW. Attractive people are not a part of this movement. Become attractive and you won't have as many major issues with woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:00 AM
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To be fair you are also cherry-picking. Can't say I know a lot of men who are making threats to kill women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:12 AM
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Who are all these women who are giving up dating just because it's 'hard'. Lot's of things are 'hard' in life, you're going to give up on one of the most gratifying and fulfilling parts of life- love, because it's hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:10 AM
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Men who have all that aren't really looking for working women they are looking for hot young bimbos generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:55 AM
1

Why do Californian judges hate men when it comes to divorces? I don't understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:14 PM
2

Depends on how shredded you are. You can have abs at like 13% bodyfat which is lean but not absurdly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:27 AM
3

???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:18 PM
1

I think it really is dependent on your age and the maturity of the girl. I have met a 21 year old girl that was really stupid and acted childish and it was extremely painful to talk to her but a 19 year old who is working full time and is reasonably intelligent I can talk to all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:20 PM
1

but I think it’s odd when guys over 25 are dating teenagers. I am a man in his mid 20s, what makes dating teenagers 'weird', they are often better than older women in a multitude of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:55 AM
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Have a ONS with a guy when you know you are already pregnant, then tell him it is his This literally happened to me a couple months ago with a ONS. The bitch was already pregnant and said that it was mine. Weirdest shit of all time, I don't understand the motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:24 PM
2

You being serious? Your teacher actually told you your arm looks delicious?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:06 PM
0

I'm not conducting a study here just providing my own anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:48 AM
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My theory for this is that holding controversial opinions leads to confrontations and potential physical consequences. Something that women are less capable of handling. Better to stay low than stand out and get attacked. Also, not only do women seem to conform on opinions and politics, but also music. I swear to god all woman like the same shit. Taylor swift, SZA, Ariana Grande...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:28 AM
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Nah, as a white man, black women fucking love white men. Y'all are more forward too. I work at a job with a lot of black women and they compliment me alllll dayyyy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:02 AM
1

dilemma of the century right there
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:41 AM
1

Perhaps you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:02 PM
1

I mean it has worked for me sometimes but the girls are always massive whores. Classy women don't accept that shit. Timing is important too of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:40 PM
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Hi, I would like for you to come over and have sex with me. How do you think that would go over? Of course you have to hide it to some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:13 PM
1

If you're hoping billions of people die so you can get your dick wet Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:02 PM
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That wasn't his point at all lol We get it you're 'childfree', you're a hero
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:32 AM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:28 AM
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No, I believe you. The girl I am currently dating is stunning and modelesque and she told me she hardly ever gets asked out and didn't know why. Young men have almost certainly both lost their social skills and also are afraid of the consequences of asking a girl out at this point. The other weekend I cold approached this woman and she literally ran away when I started talking to her. For me I am immune to rejection at this point but I could see how other men would be scared as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:07 PM
3

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:34 PM
7

That is actually legit tho from personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:31 PM
7

Great argument
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:03 PM
3

Yeah, even better than listening to other men is to actually do it yourself. Go out there and make the mistakes and learn from them. There's no better way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:45 AM
3

How often does this happen? That sucks, I have been on so many dates and have been ghosted maybe once.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:12 PM
3

Bro I think 5% of the city swiped right on your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:50 PM
3

20 vs 10,000 holy shit when I read that I laughed out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:38 PM
1

It was not a representative sample of "men" back then. Alright, I can agree with that. Looks are getting more and more important as time goes on though, instagram and tinder are literally 100% looks no personality. Tik Tok is the same. These apps are like 90% of dating now and none of them really showcase your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:33 PM
3

There was a study that showed women rate 80% of men as 'below average in looks'...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:32 AM
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Right, I have always understood that looks get us men in the door. You have to meet a certain threshold of looks before your personality is even relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:25 AM
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want religious men who are virgins too This is 100% not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:46 PM
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Not true in my experience, usually it's religion or good parenting. Once the dam is broken and you take their virginity it's game on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:10 PM
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I meant a virgin, women who have low sex drives are not ideal I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:03 AM
2

lol respect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:08 AM
3

Childhood and high school are massively impactful on future development. That being said you can still change and be a legend later in life but let's not pretend that if you were a loser shut in nerd who got bullied his entire high school career that that wouldn't fuck with you later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:07 AM
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there's going to be some quirks for sure. I am noticing this with a girl I am seeing. She's never had sex or even dated someone. You can definitely tell that she's unique in that sense by the way she socially navigates 'dating'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:06 AM
1

ofc dude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:18 AM
3

women who haven't had any sex is a virtue tho imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:31 AM
1

Yeah I am looking for people who disagree with this and find fulfillment on the apps. Not circlejerking for karma.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:26 AM
1

Nah, there's no alternative that is nearly as effective at getting girls with the amount of effort you put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:21 AM
3

Yeah its definitely a dark side of humanity. If women didn't like evil men, then evil, violent men would be eradicated from the gene pool. Being a serial killer, criminal and a general dick is not a dealbreaker for a lot of women. That being said, I've been fairly successful with women being a dick but only to those who deserve it (atleast based on my moral compass) so it's not impossible to be a 'dick' but also be moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:52 AM
1

crying 3-5days per week Crying because you can't gorge? Am I supposed to feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:41 PM
1

Its easy to be shameless about something, if it makes you genuinely happy. Being fat and gorging yourself makes you genuinely happy? I mean come on, you're lying to yourself. Once you start losing weight and adhering to a strict diet it gets easier and easier. The beginning is the hardest part. Soon it becomes second nature. Put down the cupcake and go for a walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:01 AM
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No one is saying it’s okay to be unhealthy, but it’s absolutely okay to be fat yeah being fat is unhealthy though. I have a small amount of empathy for fat people- it can be hard, but people have gone through a lot worse. It's a luxury problem that is somewhat uniquely American and dare I say 'privileged'. In a lot of cases it's laziness and lack of impulse control like the commentator above states blatantly in regards to herself. there's having empathy by saying hey it's okay to be fat and ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:54 AM
1

Life isn't all about avoiding stress at all costs. In fact the best things in life require you stress over them. Being fit is worth the stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:17 AM
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How are you this shameless about being fat, I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:15 AM
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You literally lose years off your life in the name of food. Start there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:41 PM
2

Men will compete for female attention if they want to fuck them. I am sorry bro you're not going to convince me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:54 AM
1

Oh I'm certain it's a handicap. There's countless studies out there that verify that fact. Height matters. Doesn't mean you have to give up if you are short, but at 5'2 you should probably give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:19 PM
1

lol delusional redpill in full effect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:05 PM
6

Yes, SIMPs are unbearable but everyone has a little bit of SIMP in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:06 PM
1

he's 5'2
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:22 PM
1

Women prioritize money for a LTR but not for casual hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:03 PM
3

Not trying to assign blame
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:54 PM
3

Because hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:48 PM
0

I used to work as a bouncer, it was completely male dominated and essentially a frat. At one point a woman was hired as a bouncer and it hurt the dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:45 PM
14

But I massively disagree with the generalisation that women spoil spaces. Women spoil hobby spaces because men want to fuck them and so it becomes a competition about that rather than the hobby. They completely distract from the task at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:41 PM
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Older women have much higher standards for men, younger women don't. I assume older women are looking for a more mature man to settle down with. Frankly, I don't want a woman who sees me as a bag of money and a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:56 PM
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nah, I am in my mid 20s. 25 year olds can be hot but man they seem like they've been through the ringer. A lot of them are just beaten down and done with men. A lot of 'What do you do for work? What aspirations do you have?' career type questions. Zero tolerance for stupid immaturity. The relationship potential seems almost transactional. Girls in their early 20s are hotter, don't give a fuck about money as much and are generally more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:41 PM
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At the time I was getting a ton of attention from other woman, my ego was massive and so I cheated. Still loved my girlfriend but wanted external validation to feed my massive ego. Regret it to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:48 AM
2

This thread has made me realize it's hard for men to comprehend, but looking pretty makes us feel pretty, which makes us feel good. That's it. I get the concept, sometimes I'll look in the mirror and think damn I look good and that alone feels good. That being said, I never deluded myself on why it feels good, I know what looks can bring. You say it's not deep, but have you really truly thought why it makes you happy to look pretty? Is it possible that humans evolved to enjoy looking good becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:34 PM
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I never understood this, do some women not want to admit that they get dolled up for men? I don't see how there's any shame in looking good for the other gender. Doesn't everyone want to present their best self to get an attractive partner? I've always associated this type of thinking with feminism or man hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:20 PM
2

I go to the gym and enjoy looking at my muscles but only because I know it will bring me success socially and with women. If I knew that I would never see another person again I would literally never touch weights or bother with anything related to my looks. What's the point? When you put makeup on when you are alone, sure no one is seeing you, but you look in the mirror and you feel good because you know that when you do go out in the public, you will look pretty. It's like if you were rich and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:16 PM
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They’re good at saying hey that looks like shit. Which is useful. One time I got a mullet and I had 5 girls say it looks like shit where all my guy friends said it looks great. It looked like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:18 PM
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Women are good at giving advice on physical appearance, which is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:52 PM
2

I feel like everyone’s nervous the first time they have sex, love or no love
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:01 PM
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What? That’s pretty weird. There’s nothing more unattractive than an old vagina, who cares if a 21 year old is insecure. Wtf is this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:59 PM
1

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:14 PM
1

Sure it’s a low base point, but a %500 increase in chance is a significant increase Edit: just looked up a study, it’s 75% not 500, way less but still almost double the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 12:48 PM
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i agree to some extent. As a senior in college, 21 years old, I would like a girlfriend who can relate to the exsitential anxiety that is finding a job and living in your own after college. At the same time, my 18 year old girlfriend, who is fresh out high school is really fun to be around and she makes me feel the same naive feeling i used to feel when i was a freshman. To me, it's completely understandable to date someone younger than you. Younger girls are more attractive, and even tho they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 11:23 AM
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new sperm cells are constantly created as you grow older, with each division (meiosis) there will be more mutations in the DNA that you will potentially pass on to offspring. There is significant increase in chance that your kid will be autistic if the dad is over 40. I think it is 5x or 6x more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 11:18 AM
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no one goes to the club for the music
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 10:50 AM
2

She thinks my 5.5 inch dick is huge and wants to fuck all the time. Poor, poor me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:15 AM
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look up "sex count divorce rates". Also I'm experiencing it right now. IK what I'm talking about, you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:01 AM
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women are statistically way less likely to divorce you if you are their first. Virgins will become more attached to you and will fall head over heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 05:51 AM
1

not bluepill, that's blackpill. That ultimately looks, something you have minimal control over, are everything.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 05:59 PM
1

because height is a massive factor with women. I've never met a decent girl who doesn't avoid short guys like the plague.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 05:58 PM
1

your name is from louis ck right? I'm also cycling, just started 2 weeks ago. No one calls you buddy when your jacked. If your huge and don't break eye contact, you'll notice people start swallowing nervously when you talk with them. That's my favorite shit. Ik I'm autistic for noticing it tho lmao. Little shit like this helps you realize your perceived sms.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 11:42 PM
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getting called buddy is definitely mild negging, my favorite is "little man". Time to inject steroids hahahaa.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 09:41 PM
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effort needed will definitely be reduced. Better looks means lower effort required. OP will still have to put in a fuckton of effort because he would still be below average.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 06:23 PM
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