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Humourjajanken900/r/MensRights05/10/22 01:34 AM
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Outer Game jajanken900/r/seduction26/07/22 08:45 AM
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Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too Broadjajanken900/r/seduction21/03/21 03:07 AM
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Canada
/r/seduction25/10/22 05:39 AM
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more You must be attractive to get matches on tinder. I try tinder a lot and put effort into it for little to no resutlts. All dating apps tbh
/r/seduction25/10/22 05:33 AM
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thanks
/r/seduction06/10/22 06:22 AM
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How?
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:55 PM
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And how exactly do I do that? Sure girls are attracted to personality/vibes but only for relationships not hookups. And unfortunately he has me beat in that area too, he gives off the best vibes (fun). I may be be able to develop my personality but I objectively can't overcome him in looks
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:31 AM
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Bro women Definitely care about looks. Height, facial attractiveness, gym bod etc. You put a confident skins short guy and a tall built guy together and bring them together for women to pick. That shorter guy is gonna get some major blows to his confidence.
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:03 AM
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Why?
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:02 AM
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Already have ear piercings. Gotta get some tats. How to be more cocky/funny?
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:22 PM
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nah, taking his crumbs will destroy whatever's left of my self esteem
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:45 PM
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how the hell did you manage that? what made her pick you over him?
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:45 PM
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Can you provide a link for that children statistic?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 06:17 AM
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Can you provide a good link for that statistic?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 06:16 AM
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Typo, I meant traumatic
/r/MensRights04/08/22 06:15 AM
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Do you have any links or books?
/r/MensRights03/08/22 04:53 PM
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m*fking hansome looking tall bloke/jk but seriously dude I get why you're able to pull on tinder though. Unfortunately, i don't have those stats going for me. Will dm you abou the texitng still
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:25 AM
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any way you could put me in touch with your friend? I'm a 5'7 Indian man myself. How long did it take for him to put on that much muscle?
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:41 PM
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While that mentality is good for pick up and lays what about something more intimate like relationships? Doesn't abundance mentality kill your ability to pair bond with a girl who you want deeper connections with? Can you still catch feelings for girls and get into relationships with them? also how much success do you have from your pick ups?
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:51 AM
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Yeah it's why i kinda don't go out for apporach with him anymore, the girls just give him all the attention. I have interesting things to say but they dont seem as interested. And she wasn't a date, a long-time friend really. I thought i didn't have any feelings for her after so long, but it's a little complicated i guess. I'd never introduce a girl i'm dating to him xD
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:48 AM
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i'm average there too :(
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:46 AM
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Lmao now that you put it, it's exactly what it is. Vegeta short guy always trying to reach goku, and the constant jobbing is the rejections. Cries. But what do you mean we can get to that level, i just dont see any women being naturally attracted like that just for my looks. It'd take banter, good flirting and a lot more to get her invested. Have you had any luck recently?
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:45 AM
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ok so you have a real life mizuki then, lucky! Maybe fubuki's real too
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:40 AM
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avg looking, brown and had sex with 6 girls. Hoping to get those numbers up. How did you hook up with so many?
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:50 PM
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wow nice. Btw hello fellow one punch fan! The grind for the next release is real
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:46 PM
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i fall into the last bit, pretty good with banter
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:42 PM
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not saying i care about women sleeping with lots of men, just pointing out that the average stat is bullshit and there's a huge gap between dating experiences for men and women.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:56 AM
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i know right, it just puts our heads into confusion. you're told one thing your entire life, and you see the opposite and you just end up being confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:46 PM
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she thinks we don't see through the bullshit peddled to us, it's cute really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:45 PM
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get over yourself gaslighter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:44 PM
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nope sold the same shit in high school and college by teachers and friends as well. Everyone hated the so-called rule breakers and bad boys and they were considered bad moral examples you were told not to follow. I realized the ground reality after high school though. You're just arguing in bad faith when boys are repeatedly reinforced with wrong ideas through the media, friends, and day-to-day life. a perfect example of gaslighting. No, I won't blame just myself, society is responsible for rein…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:43 PM
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women are full of shit lol. the only thing they want to protect is their image in society as the 'oh so moral fairer sex'. But truly they're the more superficial and by far flawed gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:22 PM
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not many men in our day to day lives are raised by single moms and being sold fantasies of women only caring about a 'good heart' by mother and sisters lol. If someone was just honest about women being superficial beings who like tall big arm men with aggressive personalities over so-called 'gentle guys' I'd have joined the gym a lot earlier. We're gaslit by society since we're young boys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:18 PM
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would you be ok with dating a woman who used to be kinky and adventerous but won't do it while dating you? alright so how should i reframe the question and post it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:55 PM
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what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:38 PM
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how attractive would you say you are? Like what draws women to you? and how do you find these people to have threesomes/foursomes with
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:03 PM
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can i dm you, want to ask some questions. I didn't lose my virginity till 22 and have slept with 5 girls so far. currently 24
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:58 PM
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you seem to know your stuff on this. How many women have you been with? just curious because i face similar struggles to op, with the exception of not attracting women of any kind. Are you just naturally attractive or did you have to get good at it?
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:41 AM
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yeah i can pass for not being insecure about it, but still hurts when i'm alone. how tall are you? dozens is a lot, i'm pretty behind my peers who have slept around a bunch. any books/ videos you can suggest for better conversations with women?
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:39 PM
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oh yeah, what's your secret to being good with women?
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:27 PM
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how old are you and what's your secret?
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:26 PM
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5'7 is short for men and a little above average for women. It's short in general
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:07 PM
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i think it's because taller guys never had to deal with women's height preferences.
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:06 PM
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false, i have had girls reject me over height. i know you mean well, but taller guys seldom see the other side of women, the side that disparages men of shorter stature. When you're tall you have workable problems like personality development, getting buff. But height is something one cant change
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:05 PM
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How do you attract girls when most of them would be put off by you for the height. atleast i feel that' been my experience so far, they just gravitate toward taller guys
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:03 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction30/04/22 01:15 AM
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anytips on how to work a good game in college?
/r/seduction15/09/21 04:49 AM
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I'm not talking about a specific girl; just random girls I find cute. So a lot of them
/r/seduction15/09/21 12:19 AM
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Other than working out what else did you do? Go out and approach a lot, to get rid of that anxiety?
/r/seduction11/06/21 03:14 PM
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Have you had other guys try to block you? How do you deal with that?
/r/seduction11/06/21 05:25 AM
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You have a Point. Do you get laid often using this play? I'm nervous pulling this in social settings, what I noticed about this dude was his complete idgaf attitude about other people
/r/seduction11/06/21 05:09 AM
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It doesn't, so have to pump iron and beef up a lot. I drew the short straw literally
/r/seduction11/06/21 03:26 AM
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Lol you flatter me sir. But I would say what puts them off would be low self esteem too, I don't think of myself as a cool guy. I'm rejoining the gym; hopefully see results by next year
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:48 AM
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Doesn't she get horny too then? It's a 2 way street
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:46 AM
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I'll try the latter, i passed up some opportunities in the past because i was dumb in that regard. But i have been on dating apps for almost 2 years now, get 13 first dates in total, some second, and 2 hookups. But overall not successful. In bars and clubs, I'm competing with tall white-built guys. I'm also from an unpopular ethnicity so that doesn't help. Socialising/ meeting in perosn is my best bet, i just need some good venues.
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:38 AM
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College's reopening soon, so I'll try y luck there. But social groups/ parties also play a huge role in meeting girls there. I'm not lacking in friends, I just don't have the friends who throw huge parties or get invited to them. How and where did you mostly socialize with girls in college? I'm in my final year, but as far as i can tell everyone's busy with classes and work.
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:32 AM
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Yeah I'm pretty much done with that. I can't wait for Mrs perfect any longer. I have to play the game everyone's playing or get left behind. The last time I stated my intentions to a girl she ghosted me. I'd rather be the one ghosting than the one who's ghosted.
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:57 AM
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This i agree with
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:53 AM
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I can't do all of that without getting to know the person first, maybe after we kiss/ have sex. I haven't seen anyone do that with girls they just met
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:52 AM
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Yeah, personality and social skills are what I'm trying to work on. I'm not too unattractive, kissed some pretty girls before, and many of them say I'm cute, I'm just not manly because of my small stature.
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:51 AM
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I wonder why
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:50 AM
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I definitely think confidence and selfishness would be the two best to change. of course, if I could change height I would, but definitely not letting her know about your insecurities or lack of experience in dating and sex. Being honest and direct hasn't worked for me so far, meanwhile, guys who lie about their intentions are having fun. So I'll try other approaches.
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:50 AM
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Yeah, I have to practice that. I really wish I used high school more for this, because dating now is hard, and I heard only gets harder past college. There's a clear difference between guys who have good experience with girls and guys who don't. women can sense that and the guys with little experience get even fewer opportunities to gain experience. I'm going to try being more flirty and sexual but I have to build some rapport first. Cant be sexual with women you just met right? Has to be in soc…
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:47 AM
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first problem: Finding and meeting women and getting them: I'm not manly, have been called cute, but not manly. I don't think I'm too unattractive, gotten lucky and kissed some pretty girls too. It's more of a, you're ok but other guys are better ( Taller, more manly, more confident, etc). Have you ever been the shy introvert guy before?
/r/seduction10/06/21 11:00 PM
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Exactly, whenever I have been honest about my intentions, they turn me down but get played by other guys who simply lie. I don't like doing that, I like being direct, but everyone my age and over seems to love playing games and have drama. So I'm thinking of changing the way I go about dating, and not miss out on a decade worth of dating experience.
/r/seduction10/06/21 10:57 PM
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It's not about the sex per se, it's more about not being anyone's first choice. Picture it as more of a "picked last for the dodgeball game" in the high school scenario. I don't trust marriage, not at this point anyway. It's about my ego, I don't want to be the boring guy, I want to be the fun/ adventurous guy women have fun with. ( Picture it as the difference between Joey and ross from friends.). It's not just limited to women, but life in general.
/r/seduction10/06/21 10:54 PM
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Good advice, I just went and approached a girl on a whim after reading this, because fuck it why not. But it's making conversation that's the hard part, not the approach. Does smooth flirting come with practice or should i go read a lot more secution books?
/r/seduction07/06/21 09:54 PM
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When I'm on a date it's not a problem, It's getting a date that's the problem. But overall I feel like I a complete bore of a person. I just work/ study and watch TV. I know most guys play sports, drive cars, go to bars etc but what makes some guys more exciting than others?
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:59 PM
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I feel like of I focus too much on career and money I'll lose out on all the experiences of my early/ mid 20's. I already lost the full experience of my teen years, I don't want to lose this too. Isn't there a way to get experienced with women/ fun at my current age? A lot of guys already seem to know this stuff well
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:57 PM
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Hi dad, i'm fucked!
/r/seduction01/06/21 05:19 AM
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The game Neil strauss; models, no more mr nice guy. Start with these three. Also get rid if anxiety and neurotic behavior. Easier said than done right. I grew up around a paranoid mother who passed that onto me so I have to unlearn and relearn a lot, else I'm fucked. Also have stuff going on in your life that's not about women; they should just complement your life, not be the center of it.
/r/seduction01/06/21 05:17 AM
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I agree, atleast from my experience a lot of traditional gender expectations remain on both sides. If you take the narratives of media too seriously it doesn't bring much luck. The guys who i have seen get success are the ones who are traditionally masucline ( A combination of aggressiveness, confidence, risk taking, danger) Whatever behavoiur. Or the suave, classy guys like pick up artists. The other guys who're friendly,nice guy, easy to get along with joe get put in the friend zone pretty fas…
/r/seduction01/06/21 05:15 AM
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Online dating
/r/seduction01/06/21 05:06 AM
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Sounds something similar to what a friend went through. I tried shrooms and the trips are really good for gaining good insight and the feel stays with you for a while. Unfortunatley i'm too brokt to afford it rn, so i;m trying to build up self esteem in other ways.
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:58 AM
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Damn i want to meet this friend! He could give some pointers. My approach anxiety is almost none, i have appraoched some girls, gotten a few numbers, but no luck with dates though. Had a few bad experiences too, but i learned to shake them off. The key was once i did it, i felt accomplished and didn't care about the outcome.
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:37 AM
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So i have been on 13 first dates so far in my almost 2 years of dating, in my intitial dates i gave off a very friendly vibe, didn't know what to do etc: Was friend zoned, no chemistry etc. In my latest dates, i'm not so friendly, a bit more firm, don't hold back my thoughts and opinions, take charge of the date/ initiative, inititae body contact, recuce anxiety/ adopt a plenty of fish attitude. I have had the most success when i had an idgaf attitude, i still act sedcutive, but didn't care abou…
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:35 AM
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Well it's not too late for me to change aspects of my personality i dont like, it's not somehthing set in stone, atlease that's what i think. Your personality changes as you go thorough different experiences right, if i have a bitch personality then i just need to unbitch myself: Put myself in experiences and situations where i can grow/ become more assertive. I wouldn't say i have trouble standing up for myself, i just have confidence self esteem issue sometimes.
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:28 AM
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pm
/r/seduction26/03/21 03:26 AM
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Lol i messed this date up so bad!XD
/r/seduction26/03/21 02:12 AM
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Both!
/r/seduction25/03/21 08:36 PM
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I'm going out on a date today, my first date with a girl I met online. My current residence doesn't allow guests over at all. I really should have thought it through before signing the lease. The last time I brought a girl over after a date the landlady found out (someone snitched) and threatened to give me the boot. So have two options: 1) Ask to go back to her place 2) Go over to my friend's place, he offered to use his extra room. ( Only problem it's too far). So how should I go about asking …
/r/seduction25/03/21 08:08 PM
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I was actually getting into some group activities before lockdown happened again. Honestly tired of coming out and going back into lockdown again. I agree with what you said about being more active on campus. I tried dipping my toes in different stuff pre covid. Tried volunteering with the sports team, but they gave off a snobby vibe( I'm skinny and short). I'll be joining the gym next week. As for hot yoga, that'll have to wait. Overall very useful advice about grooming and taking care of mysel…
/r/seduction24/03/21 05:36 PM
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Thanks for the advice, I think this is going to be very useful. I need to develop that internal drive and sense of confidence, or at least emulate it. I have a couple of dates this week. Let's see how can apply this. Would you recommend being playfull too?
/r/seduction24/03/21 05:32 PM
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XD
/r/seduction22/03/21 12:21 AM
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I'll try cold approaching again once summer hits' Had some minor success. I've a good face but what turns women off from experience is that i'm skinny and short. (Also indian if that matters). So i'm hitting the gym next week to bulk up. I've tried bars/night clubs before but it's packed with better looking men pulling the same stuff or groups of friends who are hard to break into. Do you have any good channel recommendations for men's grooming/fitness?
/r/seduction21/03/21 10:16 PM
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That's a hard feeling to pull off when you're aware of how much more wanted she is in dating than you. Have to fake it till you make it i guess.
/r/seduction21/03/21 10:13 PM
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How do you have a good time? I admit i'm a boring guy, apart from smoking weed, drinking and stuff, what's a good time/
/r/seduction21/03/21 06:42 PM
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How do you show interest without coming off as 'you need them'. I'm in a similar situation to op, like listening in general, but most of my dates end with 'let's be friends'. It's frustrating.
/r/seduction21/03/21 06:40 PM
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This is where I get confused. I know most people my age are thinking about sex as much as I am, but does cold approaching random girls ever play out well? I'm not chasing after model tier looks, just my looks match and below. Am not attracted to fat girls, no offense to them, not my type. The girl mentioned in my post apparently sleeps with guys who approach as long as he's her type. So I guess a lot of it comes down to being physically attractive to get easier concessions. Are people/ strangers…
/r/seduction21/03/21 06:37 PM
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Yeah, this has worked for me sometimes. My innate temperament is nice, so once got so fed up with all the "You're nice, let's be friends instead" at the end of the date, for the next one had an IDGAF what happens with your attitude. I gave my clear opinions on things and was assertive. Made out on the first and 2nd, got laid on the third. Haven't been able to pull it off since. I wish I had an uncle like yours, but growing up I grew up in a house with all women, feminists at that. Grew up comple…
/r/seduction21/03/21 06:33 PM
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What was the steel and how did you get it?xD
/r/seduction21/03/21 06:27 PM
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Yeah, I'm shifting to a place with my close friend. Only the two of us, so it should be a better situation than living with many people.
/r/seduction21/03/21 06:27 PM
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Lol nope, poor college student. Not destitute but have to find a good job soon!
/r/seduction21/03/21 06:26 PM
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The guys who are good with women!
/r/seduction21/03/21 06:25 PM
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Nope, don't live with parents. I've read a lot of stuff in the sub. I should have phrased it better. What are some of those factors?
/r/seduction21/03/21 03:54 AM
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Bro you're 6'3, no need to worry about height when you're that tall XD. Being 5'7 sucks when you're the same height as most women. Well not that i'm going to let that get to me any longer.
/r/seduction18/03/21 08:34 PM
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OK doing more approaches once this pandemic ends! So other than style, gym, and hobbies anything else missing out on?
/r/seduction17/03/21 03:30 PM
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I'm not rowing to 6'3 at 22, unless wish-granting exists. Which means I'll grow horizontally!
/r/seduction17/03/21 03:29 PM
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Ok, i'll give it a go!
/r/seduction17/03/21 05:07 AM
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Already downloaded! Should start soon! I heard the guy uses performative tricks. You ever try any of those?
/r/seduction17/03/21 01:59 AM
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Yeah they definitely do go out with older guys, but not all of them. I have seen plenty of couples from campus and people who are in clubs get together too. Basically go to parties and the ones there are college guys. Helps if you're in a sports team or something like that ( Frats/greek life). Are you in college btw?
/r/seduction16/03/21 11:01 PM
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Yeah working on my hobbies and studies would definitely keep me busy. Not a lot of places to go out to meet women rn though, because of the pandemic. You ever cold approach in the park or stores?
/r/seduction16/03/21 10:46 PM
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Yeah you can go to bars, and clubs, but it's way harder and a lot more competition with other guys. Do you use apps?
/r/seduction16/03/21 10:44 PM
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5'7 here! Damn this gives me hope! Guess i need to work on my personality a lot more and bulk up too. Did you find that Girls showed you more interest once you found happiness elsewhere ( Hobbies), once you were more relaxed, chill and going with the flow. I can be pretty uptight/intense sometimes.
/r/seduction16/03/21 08:13 PM
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lol sorry about that! Tinder's a ghost town, guess i need to take better pics after bulking up a bit. You have any short friends who are good with women?
/r/seduction16/03/21 07:51 PM
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Yeah, I already have that. But my body type is skinny, so I seriously need to bulk up. I think what's more important is knowing the right people to get invited to parties, or just increasing networks. (Which I struggle with). I'm not bad in the facial aspect, but a bit of a nerd, so I need to do more outdoor hobbies. You look Indian too man, how was your experience in college?
/r/seduction16/03/21 07:38 PM
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Yeah i already have that.
/r/seduction16/03/21 07:35 PM
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Gyms are opening next week, going to join then. But other than working out and fashion style, what else can I do?
/r/seduction16/03/21 07:27 PM
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