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jaraf540/r/seduction16/10/18 12:25 AM
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That's between you and her man
/r/seduction20/10/18 10:08 PM
6

You fuck her.
/r/seduction17/10/18 09:49 PM
2

Don't put her on a pedestal and date other girls.
/r/seduction17/10/18 05:29 PM
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I want an update!
/r/seduction17/10/18 01:33 PM
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Maybe just try getting to know her more and if you still don't like her you can just hit it
/r/seduction16/10/18 11:06 PM
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Use texting to setup dates man
/r/seduction16/10/18 03:57 PM
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I want an update on this..
/r/seduction16/10/18 03:54 PM
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Thanks, I would say if that works for you then there shouldn't be anything wrong with it, but on the other hand you can't really make a girl like you by simply talking because there has to be some physical attraction. I also dont mean to sound cocky but I've been told by a few people I could do it easily as I'm tall and fit basically all in have to do is not fuck it up socially.
/r/seduction16/10/18 02:09 PM
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Online dating in my experience definitely just makes me feel more lonely and low key sleazy (idk if that's just me). I get much more of a thrill going out and talking to girls in person because it's scary but it also makes you a much more stronger person.
/r/seduction16/10/18 05:22 AM
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Maybe casually chat her up in class, and before leaving the conversation let her know you tried texting her and don't make it a big deal.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:59 PM
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Just treat them like any other person and keep it respectful. No extra steps needed imo.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:03 PM
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What are you looking for with this girl? If you're trying to be her bf remember she's a cheater
/r/seduction23/09/18 05:36 PM
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I say stop talking to her. Maybe she will say something back, but your time is valuable to so maybe just go meet other girls in the meantime.
/r/seduction23/09/18 01:29 AM
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I forgot to mention that you should be in the right mindset, even if you have to kind of fake it. Similar to "I just got an A on an important exam and I feel fucking great!"
/r/seduction23/09/18 01:25 AM
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Where did you go? I'm kind of in a similar situation, but I am finding it's really all about getting outside your comfort zone and then it just gets easier once you realize it's not so bad. At least start off doing something really innocent like asking for directions. Don't forget to get attention first saying something like "excuse me".
/r/seduction23/09/18 01:00 AM
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It did seem like an interview. I'd use text (preferably call) to setup a date first
/r/seduction22/09/18 08:31 PM
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10 years from now, are you going to look back and wish you didn't give a fuck 10 years ago?
/r/seduction22/09/18 08:25 PM
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Idk isn't there a stigma about guys who go to the store to pick-up women? I don't know why, but the thought is there and the whole what-if they see me again and think "oh, THIS guy". When will security/loss-prevention begin to wonder?
/r/seduction22/09/18 03:31 AM
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Ever think about how it would make her feel to deny her for a change? Also, do you foreplay and does she orgasm?
/r/seduction22/09/18 12:45 AM
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How is sex in general with her?
/r/seduction21/09/18 06:58 PM
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He also didn't think the internet would take off.
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:00 AM
5

Call, don't text. You should have asked what is a good time for her, maybe give her shit for cancelling last minute
/r/seduction20/09/18 05:05 AM
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I think you might have displayed low confidence. I wouldn't worry if she is nervous, it's perfectly fine, you need to take charge and lead. Most girls want to be led.
/r/seduction20/09/18 04:57 AM
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Also socially awkward here with very very few close friends (quality/quantity?), but that hasn't stopped me from meeting, hooking up, and dating girls. When they first see you, they know nothing about you or your condition, with that in mind you should be ok and even better with the benefit of being attractive. I personally play it off like I'm just introverted (not shy, shyness tends to put others on a pedestal which can make others uncomfortable, which you could also be doing idk). My brother …
/r/seduction20/09/18 04:46 AM
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Talking on the phone is generally better, and text when you are unable to have a conversation like if you are busy
/r/seduction20/09/18 01:50 AM
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Go to a bar with games like darts, pool, etc and ask a girl to play with you. If you vibe really well with her you don't even have to finish the game before making out. I don't think paying for sex is a good idea l
/r/seduction19/09/18 05:27 PM
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I think if I were in your situation, I would try to ignore it until you do see her again and in the meantime continue to chat up other girls. For 1, girls rather be called than texted and 2 if you actually called her that might be weird if it's coming from an employee. I think if she wanted to see you she would come in again. That's just me though, do whatever you think is right man.
/r/seduction19/09/18 05:19 PM
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I say don't make it a thing, just continue being yourself at work and maybe interact with other girls in the meantime
/r/seduction19/09/18 02:15 PM
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I just did my first mall approaching last night after a week of constantly psyching myself out. Although I didn't go far enough to get a date/phone number I still consider it better than not doing anything. Easiest way I found to open up is to be inside a store, and when you find someone interesting go up to them and first get there attention by saying something like "excuse me" then when you get there attention ask a random question such as directions to a particular store, etc can be anything …
/r/seduction18/09/18 02:44 PM
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Thanks man, it was a rush. With the girl in Target there was a moment that felt like everything around us kind of faded and she seemed really sparkly-eyed before basically repeating what she was saying and touching her hair
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:09 AM
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Good comment
/r/seduction17/09/18 07:52 PM
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What's there to think about well, I'll throw a bit of a curve ball detail and admit I'm not completely over my ex, but if I'm not going to put myself out there my mind just goes to a dark place, I also feel a little bit guilty for attempting this but that's a whole other topic itself (there were actually good things I learned about myself from the whole thing that should help my game). But my confidence is definitely lacking for different situations. I have made out with different girls at pubs …
/r/seduction16/09/18 08:19 PM
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It probably had nothing to do with you, sounds like she is into you but maybe the timing just wasn't right for her for whatever reason. If she didn't want to hookup after your first hangout she may actually be girlfriend material.
/r/seduction16/09/18 07:12 PM
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