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MALE DEPRAVITYjazzyjazcons/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:16 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?jazzyjazcons/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 03:47 PM
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DISCUSSIONjazzyjazcons/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:20 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYjazzyjazcons/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:27 PM
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DISCUSSIONjazzyjazcons/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:20 PM
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FIELD REPORT jazzyjazcons/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:41 PM
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KEANU jazzyjazcons/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:22 AM
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KEANU jazzyjazcons/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:08 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEjazzyjazcons/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:19 AM
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DISCUSSIONjazzyjazcons/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:20 PM
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KEANU jazzyjazcons/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:57 AM
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#JustLVMThingsjazzyjazcons/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 01:28 AM
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Report me for what exactly? When you are the one hurling insults left and right, beginning with your first response to me. You seem to not be able to discuss abstract phenomenons without resorting to insults. I don’t know if it’s because I’ve striked a chord or if it’s an intimidation tactic. Either way, it’s an extremely LVW trait, you should subscribe to r/femalelevelupstrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:06 AM
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First of all I didn't use your wikipedia card because it isn't accurate! :) Sis, when you’re reading Wikipedia, look at the references. The map wasn’t constructed by Wikipedia. Look at the reference page. The map is a part of a study by UNICEF. It’s the same data/map that others rely on. You can find different sources that occupy that FGM is practised in over 30 countries, mostly africa like I said. NO. It’s not true that FGM is only practiced in 30 mostly African countries. The truth is that th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:53 AM
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The context in Arabic refers to abnormalities. Fixing an abnormality that affects someone’s quality of life is not mutilation. If a girl is born with closed vagina, they should open it. If the clitoral hood is abnormal they should adjust it (hence the do not cut severely is referring in that hadith to not cutting into the clitoris itself). Don’t you just love cherry picked lines that leave out context. Show me the context then! Show me the verses after or before that shows the context of abnorma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:09 AM
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Data is data, sis. It doesn’t change form subject to subject. It’s numbers, numbers are universal 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:05 AM
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Aw you really thought you did something. That’s cute. But Girl you wouldn’t know what data analysis was if it slapped you on your face. Um, I’m literally a CPA, that’s literally what I do for a living. My state, the federal government by proxy, the brightest mind on Wall Street, all recognize me and rely on my work. You don’t know it, you probably have relied on my work too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:41 AM
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You just keep lying. Fixing an abnormality in rare cases is not mutilation and that’s the only thing Islam states. First of all, I thought islam didn’t approve any FGM? You’re contradicting yourself. Secondly, that whole sentence is made up. There is nothing in Islamic texts that says FGM is exclusive for abnormalities. Show me the Quranic verse. Show me the Hadith. Something! Anything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:35 AM
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Listen to yourself, you sound foolish. I know basic data analysis sound like foolishness to those who don’t have the functions for it. So, it’s okay I won’t hold that against you. I also know that whenever people start hurling insults, it’s because I’ve striked a chord. 🤷🏾‍♀️So good luck to you, I hope you find a way to sleep well tonight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:27 AM
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Again, there is literally no data that support your false assertion that “most Muslim countries” don’t practice FGM. None. As you can see, the data simply isn’t collected for the vast majority of countries. Anyways for those who believe in this particular narration it is referring to removing abnormalities You continue to spew unfounded data. There is nothing in that Hadith that implies FGM is reserved only for abnormalities. Absolutely nothing. Nothing in any Islamic texts. You made that up too…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:19 AM
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“Umm Atiyyat al-Ansariyyah said: A woman used to perform circumcision in Medina. The Prophet said to her: Do not cut too severely as that is better for a woman and more desirable for a husband.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:35 AM
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None of both religions approve of FGM - So I don't see the problem here at all. That is literally a big fat lie because there is an Hadith in Islam that approves of FGM. Muhammad did give his seal or approval on this barbaric act. Here it is: “Narrated Umm Atiyyah al-Ansariyyah: A woman used to perform circumcision in Medina. The Prophet said to her: Do not cut severely as that is better for a woman and more desirable for a husband.” Secondly, when reading data on a map, it’s important to read t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:34 AM
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Here’s a map of prevalence around the world. One thing you’ll notice is that all of the countries with significant prevalence are in Africa and Asia, so not an African problem at all. Secondly, do some quick research to find out what all those countries, across different continents have in common? Islam. Islam is the common denominator. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prevalence_of_female_genital_mutilation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 08:55 PM
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I get so annoyed when people associate this barbarism with Africa 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 07:50 PM
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Thank you! It really means a lot. But I will get through it. I’ll figure it out. Xoxo to you too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:15 PM
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This is taking such a toll on my mental health! I actually don’t know how I am going to get myself out of this. I am just so afraid to make the wrong move. I feel paralyzed. This is something we don’t talk about enough in the community or the larger national conversation around racism. All the talk about racism and police brutality has me looking around like, ok, so when are we going to talk about other forms of racism that can be just as deadly and destructive to people’s lives? They may be non…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:39 PM
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women were told it wasn’t cause we were women but because we were “quieter” than the guys. All the talk was about sports or stupid things so none of us even wanted to chat! In this environment all the women either didn’t feel comfortable not that we were “quiet.” OMG! The whole “quiet” thing!!! This is one of the main tools the firms use to push people out. It’s just so convenient because it’s subjective and they control the conversation anyways, so they can keep you out of the loop if they want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:20 PM
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I am a CPA. I work for a top 10 firm. If I could go back and change my major, I would. I wish I had know just how incredibly sexist AND racist this industry is. Let’s begin with the sexism. My office’s new hires are 80% female. We actually struggle recruiting males. But somehow by the time you get to the manager level, it’s about 40% female. By the time you get to partner, the total inverse, less than 20% female, with the rest males. Public Accounting is also very racist. I am the only black per…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:28 AM
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“Genetic influences” to cheating and abusive behaviors? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:25 AM
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Love and strongly agree with all of them with the exception of 1 and 2. Where people come from (divorced parents and lower socioeconomic backgrounds) are irrelevant to their quality as a partner but the rest a really good. Your mom sounds sassy, love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 12:36 AM
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I don’t even know what you originally wrote but it sounds like it was controversial....lol Idk, whenever posts about n count come up on the sub, I always feel excluded because I too care about my partners past sexual history, including condom use, casual sex, frequency of said casual sex and yes, n count. I actually have a max n count I prefer. It’s my preference. I once dated a guy who said his count was over 50 but below 100. He said he didn’t remember the exact number because he lost count. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:50 PM
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*affect but okay 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:09 PM
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And that’s why you should never share, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:00 PM
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No, you might survive it, assuming you’re young but your parents? Unlikely. And you won’t be able to live with yourself if you brought it home to them. Honestly’ my parents are the only reason why I am taking this seriously. I’m fairly healthy and I think I will survive it but my parents, in 60’s and 70’s with pre-existing conditions, will not survive this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:29 AM
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Story of my life...(Rihanna’s voice)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:53 AM
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You really don’t like her..lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:30 AM
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Nah, just a right wing nut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:41 AM
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Yep! I know a guy who likes curves but won’t date this one girl because she’s too curvy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 07:32 PM
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Also, dating a HVM, that’s your choice, dating a LVM is also your choice. Just don’t expect people on a female dating strategy forum to endorse the choice that least benefits women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 08:53 PM
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I personally hate this idea of masculine women! Ugh! What the f does that even mean? I think even the most “masculine” woman would be more feminine than the most feminine man. Also everyone has a type. A few weeks ago, there was a post here where a girl was arguing that she preferred more feminine men. Similarly, there are plenty of men who appreciate your brand of femininity. I don’t know, I disagree with the premise, the inferences, the whole thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 11:12 PM
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Lmao. I won’t say they freak me out but I do avoid the deeply religious kinds because we aren’t typically compatible due to views on abortion and so on. The moderate kinds, I have no issues with. But I’am a bit different from you though. I grew up in a conservative Christian family. I don’t really go to church anymore but I still believe there is a God. And I am very much interested in exploring spirituality in a relationship, so I won’t mind a moderately religious man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 11:03 PM
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Ok, so you mean women don't necessarily want millionaires, just guys that are financially stable. Yeah I agree. Yes! Financial security! Glad we agree. Ah, ok I see where my thinking was wrong. I'm upset with this saying because it describes only low value men. I found what bothered me! We’re getting there. Well, these particular responses were directly to respond to your argument about all the LVMs who want sex and emotional labor but aren’t willing to commit. But in general, the premise securi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 10:27 PM
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Financial security = money. Not quite. I would say financial security ≈ money. I don't see what calling it a different name changes. If we're talking about financial security It does change quite a bit actually. I think it ignores a lot of the nuances. Security implies there is going to be enough and healthy food on the table vs money means there is going to be an 8 course meal, served at the most expensive restaurant in town. Security implies comfort, while money implies excess. all the women I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:03 PM
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The idea that women care less than men about sex is outdated but men refuse to face it. I responded to this above when I said I don’t think you can necessarily make comparison across genders. As I think the two are fundamentally different. It’s not that women care less about sex than men, it’s just that women care less about sex compared to security. So I think it’s disingenuous to continue to make this point. The idea that women care more about money than anything else is every delusional rich …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:18 PM
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SOOO much of the modern dating BS that everyone complains about, whatever their worldview is, has a lot to do with a complete lack of understanding of how critical a sense of security is for women to give our very best. To be our best, warm, caring, sensual selves. For all the talk that femininity is supposedly lacking in modern women, if there’s anything to that, there’s little questioning about why. Are people creating - are we as a society creating a world where femininity is respected and gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 02:48 PM
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Definitely the conversation is nuanced. And also, we talking “in generals”, there are all types of exceptions but the main idea remains. But about the ranking.....I really think there is a ranking. It’s not necessarily across the genders(i.e women want sex as much as men), just priority ranking within the gender. If that makes sense? Yes, I agree men want emotional connections, and yes they seem incapable of getting it from their friends; women and children are their only way of getting emotiona…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 01:46 PM
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Why won’t Reddit let me upvote this twice? Financial security is important to women in order to provide for our offsprings, keep a roof over our heads when unable to work due to pregnancy and child care, and to keep us on par with our peers when we have to miss months/years of work to bear children. There is no shame in admitting it. It doesn’t make us gold diggers. It makes us good mothers. The same way men can go around saying how important sex is to them, women need to shamelessly say how imp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 01:17 PM
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I feel like I need to do another edit...lol. So let me expand a bit more. Ok, because women can often get financial security outside of a man, then the goal evolves from obtaining financial security to maintaining it. At the end of the day, financial security is still important because you wouldn’t date a guy you thought would jeopardize your financial security. I am not saying all that a man wants is sex and all that a woman wants is security. I think women also want sex and men also want emoti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:46 PM
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I made an edit to expand a bit on what I mean by security (for whatever reason, I thought people would automatically understand what I meant by security...lol). Anyways, I think women want both financial AND emotional security. Commitment is just an expression of emotional security.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:34 PM
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My perspective was more in the lines of "I can't force other women to be hvw". As I said above, it’s disingenuous to frame the conversation in terms of “forcing others”. No one on the internet can “force” one to do anything. We’re discussing dating strategies. Whatever happened to expressing our point of view on a topic du jour? But I have to say in most posts here when casual sex is mentioned, people are quick to advice NOT to do it. It is very clear in the handbook too. I think maybe 70% perce…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 11:56 AM
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They are delusional. They think it’s completely normal for them to pursue women for sex but if a woman wants any kind financial security/investment, then that’s abominable! They so want to believe that their dick is special! Ok, 3.5 incher!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 11:35 AM
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Ugh...why everyone always turn this convo into “forcing value on others”. No one here is doing that. We’re all grown women here, discussing dating strategies, their pros and cons. We give our opinion and values on all the other aspects of dating, then why not this very important aspect? It’s my opinion that casual sex is disadvantageous for women, both individually and collectively, hence, based on those grounds, I think women shouldn’t engage in it. Also, I honestly always give women advice as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:57 PM
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Don’t be like that, you know what I mean. He isn’t outwardly disrespecting you or anyone else who sees his profile. And supposedly, he is being ethical so the other person presumably agreed to this and isn’t being disrespected . I think this could have been censored, at least the eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:32 PM
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I have seen dozens of polys(both in IRL and media). Only 1 was objectively beautiful. She was drop dead gorgeous! Then again, she was a sex therapist for a living.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:14 PM
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I thought the sub agreed to censor, unless they have done or said something disrespectful. In this case, he hasn’t really said anything disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:12 PM
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I think anyone should know they have this option and not be looked down if they chose to do it. I don’t think anyone here is looking down on you for having had casual sex. I would say a good 80% of us have had a casual encounter at one point in our lifetimes. So, that’s not what this conversation is about. Now that we’re older, enlightened by maturity, experience, FDS, the question becomes: is this something we should continue to engage in? Is this beneficial to women? What should we advise the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 09:44 PM
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I think I didn’t quite follow the point of your analogy. If you’re saying that casual sex is not good, then we agree. Casual isn’t good. It’s not good on day 1, it’s not good on day 5. It’s not good when only 1 percent of the population practices it and it certainly isn’t good when it’s rampant as it is now. Freedom of choice is always good. However, the casual sex conversation has nothing to do freedom. The point of the post was to point out how culture, upbringing has successfully, but decepti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 05:28 PM
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Wrong analogy, sis, because cake is never “good”. It’s not good on the first day or day 5. It’s just the amount of damage that varies. Are you going just get the sugar crash or are you going to get diabetes and die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 05:11 PM
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Ok, if I understand you correctly, in your ideal world, women would still have the freedom (I’m guessing by freedom you mean not socially frowned upon) but the practice would be not as rampant. You just take exception to the pervasiveness. But if it’s something good, why would you have a problem with it being the social norm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:07 PM
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I think you might have missed the point. The point is do you really want casual sex or has the culture conditioned you into thinking that casual sex is freedom or something that you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 02:54 PM
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She’s not ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:25 PM
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You’re so courageous. I’m glad you got out. You’re truly one of the lucky ones because so many didn’t even make it out. You’re my hero of the day. Virtual 🤗 and 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:01 PM
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To be fair, the meme doesn’t say or even imply that “taking care of yourself” is high maintenance. Rather it implies that doing the things listed were high maintenance. It’s obvious you took offense to the meme’s implication that those things are high maintenance. Ok, fair. However, your response didn’t need to counter by implying the extreme opposite, that doing those things are simply “taking care of yourself”, because then the implication becomes: not doing those things=not taking care of you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:16 AM
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In terms of beauty, being a healthy weight and having clear skin and healthy hair is 95% of beauty IMO. Omg, I do agree! So much of beauty are those three things. I’ve always felt that when one of those is off, the rest of my efforts seem futile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:54 AM
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I think people are objecting to your title. Where you said “I didn’t know taking care of myself was..”The implication of the sentence structure is that people who don’t do those things don’t “take care of themselves” I am pretty sure that’s not what you meant, then just say so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:39 AM
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LVM talking about how he (31M) splits everything half with his 22 year old “poor college student” gf because he doesn’t want her to use him for his money. Like men don’t use women for sex, child bearing and care, cooking and cleaning...etc. What guarantee does she have that he isn’t only using her for sex? How about we ladies start splitting sex 50/50 too? For every orgasm he gets, he must also give her an orgasm (something most guys can’t do).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:21 PM
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To be fair, the porn stars don’t get $18,000 either, more like $800.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:12 PM
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Domestic sexual harassment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:47 PM
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I disagree. I think it should read: “it’s less degrading to be a porno actress in a bukkake movie than to be some LVM’s wife, especially after he is shown he is LV”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:13 PM
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This is very unhealthy, sis. You’re getting worked up over things that might or might not happen, laid out an elaborate timeline, anticipated how others are going to react...etc. I think it’s unhealthy, let it go, it doesn’t accomplish anything, other than destroy your mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:16 AM
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Biden will lose to Trump regardless of how many people vote for him, just like Hillary lost with 3 million more votes in the popular election. What? Regardless of how many people vote for him? Are you even American? Do you know how American elections work? It does matter how many people vote, just have to make sure he wins in the “right” states like Wisconsin, MI, PA, and OH. The fact that you can go through your life, casually not knowing this is peak privilege. Also, more importantly, Hillary …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:05 AM
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Yeah, I agree precisely the sub shouldn’t push a particular brand of politics. That’s why I think it’s important that insincere posts that purport to be FDS when in actuality, they have a goal to push a particular brand of politics, should be removed. For instance, a couple of days ago, someone posted about this whole Biden incident. Okay, not necessarily bad, but in the comments, she was encouraging others to find critical videos of Biden to post here because she didn’t want him to “be the demo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:54 AM
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imagine having to choose between three sexual deviants for the most powerful politician in the world. This!!! Enough people aren’t talking about it, but Bernie too is sexually deviant. I think his only problem, is that he never had the cash, looks, power to be as careless as the other two. But his writing reveal a perverted mind. From the rape fantasies, to maybe we should let kids touch each other genitalia, and the whole being sexually conservative causes cancer, so parents let your kids f*ck …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:26 AM
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I think we agree on the hypocrisy front. Everyone is being hypocritical though, Trumpsters, Bernie supporters and Biden supporters. I personally don’t believe Tara, as I presented above, but I laugh at Biden supporters who make the “why didn’t she come forward earlier” argument. It shows they didn’t do the homework. They’re just having a knee jerk reaction to back the candidate. You can’t make the argument about coming forward earlier against Tara but also believe Dr. Christine Blasey Ford. With…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:07 AM
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It’s oppression for us, not privilege, but I wouldn’t expect you to understand the difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:14 AM
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Being a black woman yourself, then you should understand that for most of us, being a black woman isn’t an access card that gets pulled when convenient. It’s my life, it’s my reality that I can’t escape and it does inform my politics, define my dating experience, career decisions and so forth. I don’t pass, I am dark skinned and have kinky hair. So, your characterization is inaccurate at best, at the moderate level, it’s reductive of the black experience in this country and at worst, it’s insult…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:13 AM
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Must be nice, I aspire to have your privilege in my next life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:48 AM
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I don’t like Krystal Ball, I just don’t respect her brand. Her hypocrisy here is laughable, complaining about “believe all women” when just a few weeks ago, she did a whole segment, kicking and screaming about how she didn’t believe Warren. She’s right though, it’s all political, for her too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:38 AM
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As a self-proclaimed liberal AND a feminist(not to be confused with a liberal feminist), I feel a bit personally attacked by the title. With that said, I do not believe Tara, for 3 main reasons. The first and most important is that her story has changed, not just expanded but actually changed, and I think this is the reason why a lot of the major networks are avoiding covering it. Previously when she came out, she insisted that the encounter wasn’t “sexual.” Now, the story has changed to digital…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:24 AM
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This obviously wouldn’t go well on every woman. So, I can only hope based on the relationship, he knew she wouldn’t mind. But I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with this, IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:17 AM
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I agree with the other comments that wanting to spend time with your friends isn’t LV. As far as partying, I too like to go out with friends, have a couple of cocktails and dance. As far as the weed is concerned, though it’s not my cup of tea, lot of people do it in the casual way other consume alcohol once in a while. As long as it’s not an addiction. And it’s legal in a lot of places now:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:09 PM
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This conversation is always so hard to have. There is so many things to balance. One on hand you don’t want to lead him to the right answer, on the other hand, I think a woman initiating the convo takes away the allure and mystery that men seem to like. It’s like asking “what are we?” The moment a woman says that, it’s over. I would very much be interested in a strategy on how to approach this convo, effectively, but also in a way that maintains intrigue and mystery so that he doesn’t get the im…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:08 AM
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Because I don't know anything about it. So you’re an uninformed voter, yet you’re pushing a candidate that you haven’t even done basic google searches on? Should tell everyone here, how much credibility to give to your whole scheme. If you feel so strongly you should post about it. I saw something I felt strongly against so I shared it. It really is that simple. I am not unethical like you. When I see something, I would post it to an appropriate political community where the content belongs. I’m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:21 AM
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I asked you first. Please tell us why you didn’t post about Bernie’s LVM rap sheet? Like being a dead beat father, or his rape fantasies essays or how he condones children touching each other genitalia or how he thinks that being sexually selective (a position supported by FDS) causes cancer? Or that out of all of congress, he has the worst gender wage gap for his female staff? There are so many! Why didn’t you talk about any of those LVM chronicles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 06:20 AM
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Exactly sis, this whole post isn’t about FDS, it’s all to milk the 60k+ membership of the sub to promote your political preferences. Unfortunately, this is not what this sub is for, r/Sandersforpresident already provides a platform for your political marketing. Also, It’s over, sis. Black voters and suburbia women have spoken and they don’t want your candidate, give it up! But thank you for admitting your intentions though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 11:36 PM
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Bernie too is a LVM. He’s a dead beat father. He got his college girlfriend pregnant but instead of stepping up and taking care of his child, he continued to work odd jobs, despite a bachelor’s degree, from an reputable college and a relatively decent economy, he irresponsibly couldn’t bother stepping up. Then, he started to endless run for public office, all while his child and the mother were living in poverty and even had to go on welfare. A man who can’t take care of his own flesh and blood,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 11:27 PM
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Cute but fake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:15 PM
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Stop using the sub to promote your candidate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 10:23 PM
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Sis, we ‘re already on to you,. Your goal is to take advantage of the sub’s subscription to promote your candidate, under the guise of LVM and concern for women. I find it dishonest and disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 10:21 PM
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Part of that’s an optimism that the race isn’t just Trump v Trump Lite though. It is though, to say otherwise is to be in denial. Biden wasn’t my choice either but here we are; the writings are on the wall for anyone objective enough to not let their emotions cloud their judgment. This isn’t going to stop Biden from the getting the nomination, it would certainly stop him in the GE. At that point, we can forget about this country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:12 PM
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Their motivation to showcase the perversions of the left isn't due to some deep-seated respect for women. Yes! Anyone pushing this video(LEFT OR RIGHT) isn’t doing so because of some concern about women, as you’ll always find that the criticism is unbalanced. The true motivation is to push a certain narrative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:07 PM
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They’re both LVM. One is a LVM who would make that child free preference of yours impossible, while the other would let you live your life your way. Seriously, read my comment again, you missed the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:46 AM
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Seriously! If this was anytime before Super Tuesday, then I wouldn’t have any objection. But it’s not. It’s end of March and we basically have 2 choices. One is objectively a lot worse than the other. I can’t believe that 4 years later, and we’re still have to freaking say this!!! Where have people been over the past 4 years?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:31 AM
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Ok, I am probably going to get blow back for this but here we go... For one, I think political stuff like this, especially leading up to an election, should not be allowed in this sub. I see it on other subs, especially on r/gendercritical where people hijack the sub to advance their own political narrative. Most importantly, Politics is unfortunately very nuanced. It’s not about finding the best candidate but finding the less of three evils. Comprehensively, many would argue that Biden is that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:01 AM
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Even when I was young and an idiot, I always used to respond with “You go first”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 02:44 AM
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Something casual HS Diploma. “The school of life” or something making it obvious they didn’t go to college. Have kids, don’t want any more Have kids, want more Muslim Bald head 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:41 PM
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Gosh I was about to write the same thing. You’re doing it wrong, u/finance_lady From a man’s perspective’s, those attributes are nice to have, but men aren’t really looking for those things. Those things are not what’s going to spark an initial interest. An OLD profile is to spark an initial interest. I personally don’t have a bio. From my own experience, a bio is the last thing I look at. Also, I rarely see good bios. I’ve actually liked guys, only to read the bio and be turned off. Bios are ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 03:20 PM
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Gosh there is so much to unpack here. If you want to be a SAHM, it’s not necessarily bad. You just have to take certain precautions. First make sure you marry someone who can provide for you and your kids while you run the household. You don’t want to live in poverty. Poverty is the precursor for so many problems in children, so please be wise and avoid giving poverty to your future children. Secondly, the successful SAHM I know, the woman is smart, educated (she has a BS in Chemistry or Physics…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 11:37 AM
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Does it even matter if he is lying about other things? You already know that he lied about what he looked like. That’s more than enough grounds to unmatch. I mean, he used a whole other picture, that is crazy territory. So here you are talking to someone you don’t even know how they looks like. Please sis, don’t be that naive girl, unmatch ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 12:49 PM
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I don’t mind supporting a man and/or investing in his trade for the benefit of our family, as long as the dreams are realistic, attainable and he has the talent, work ethics and proven track record to accomplish it. What I can’t stand are bums like your ex, who are obviously fantasizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:32 AM
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Ok, sorry if this come off too strong but here we go.... FDS is first a dating strategy sub and not a substitute for therapy. If you think your irrational and self-destructive mentality is a result of emotional issues, then seek the proper help through a therapist. I mean your ideal relationship is one in which you give and get nothing in return, that is unhealthy. If you are not a troll, then what you need is therapy. Either way, FDS is not the place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 12:54 PM
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Gosh, I thought I was the only one...some of her comments are just ridiculous: How do I earn a man I was lucky to have them In a relationship I planned on being the one caring for the children, cooking and cleaning AND working to financially support myself through it while in return I just want him to financially support himself GTFO, that is literally against human nature to give and receive nothing in return. It’s one thing to find yourself in such a situation but to plan and aspire to it!?!? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 05:15 AM
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Every time I see a dude in a huge truck with oversized tires, I always assume they have a micro...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:51 AM
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I would NOT change my gender. Feminine energy is a hella of a drug that I don’t ever want to let go off. But I will change my race though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 06:18 PM
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I think Blake Lively is drop dead gorgeous. But I haven’t been a fan of their relationship since the beginning because of their 11 years age gap. They started dating when she was 22 and he was 33. Other than that, they seem pretty solid, which has surprised me because I didn’t expect them to last very long. With that said, neither the quote nor the gender rumor scream LVM to me. I know women who have said they love their kids more than their husbands. It’s completely normal. Also, everyone, incl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 05:48 PM
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The OP is right. Men who have sex with men(gay and bisexual men) have higher rates of HIV infections due to anal sex. (Another reason why people should avoid anal sex). Interestingly though, lesbian sex has the least rates of HIV infection. So anal sex is the problem, not necessarily sexuality(which I think is how you took it). Here’s a excerpt from hiv.gov: Gay and bisexual men are the population most affected by HIV. In 2018: Gay and bisexual men accounted for 69% of all HIV diagnoses in the U…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:26 PM
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Is this the dude that talks so much sh-t on Twitter?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:08 AM
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Well, the woman you were replying to and agreeing with said it was short sighted and uninformed to do that. I did. I think the statement “don’t date people who are mentally ill” is incredibly short signed and uninformed. The OP made a very broad statement, with no caveats for the types of mental illness, manageability, triggers, severity...etc. Mental illness are not a one size fits all. Any serious discussions need to be accompanied with small prints that all mental illness are NOT the same. Fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:21 PM
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That’s why I said it’s relative. You obviously think she’s “showing of her tits” I am think she’s wearing warm weather clothes. Now, if she was in bikini or shorts up to her ass or something, then I would have maybe come to your conclusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:06 AM
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I have no problem with her outfit. Then again, I grew up in places where this is a “normal” outfit. She’s probably breaking down the norms over there. It’s all relative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 01:40 AM
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Well came here to ask the same question. Do tell me. Afraid of what I may find if I google it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:41 AM
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How do you know you’re still saved in their phones?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:08 PM
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I am curious, which sub she’s advertising? The one that just started about a week ago by disgruntled former FDS members?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:54 AM
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I wanted to agree with a couple of point you made: For one, I too am just as perplexed about black men’s odd and obsessive interest with black women’s hair. It’s border line too feminine, metrosexual and kind of gay (for lack of a better word). You do not see white men or Asian men this vested in their women’s hair. How many times have you heard white men talk about a white women’s bad roots? But it’s routine for black men to talk about black women’s lace fronts and manicures (Your nails aren’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:16 AM
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“Maybe he got eaten by a lion” Absolute favorite line!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:32 AM
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I knew this post would be controversial. So I exited and came back for the comments, they do not disappoint! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 12:07 AM
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Basically, the patriarchy is terrible everywhere but in different ways. Yep! Patriarchy is the problem, it manifest in different ways in different culture. Saying that one culture gets a certain aspect right, doesn’t mean the culture is without reproach in other aspects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 08:02 PM
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Good for you, for recognizing your worth. I am not without reproach myself. I truly feel like women hold the key to fixing the dating scene. If we start recognizing the enormous value men put on our bodies and start acting accordingly and treating our bodies like the high commodity men think they are, men will quickly fall in line. But we have devalued our bodies to the same level as abundant low value dicks. We share our bodies for very little in return, no commitment, no love, not even securit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 07:55 PM
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Ok, good they banned her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 07:01 PM
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they have few fwb and like I’m starting to wonder why those girls accept these shitshow guys. I always question what precipitated the culture shift to casual sex. But I will say the reason why it continues is because young women entering the dating scene are led to believe that casual sex is the norm, healthy and the way to start a relationship. Imagine being a naive 18 year old girl in the college dating scene with zero experience and all the insecurities that age brings. You look around and ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:58 PM
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The national enquirer? No, sis, no need to slander Rachel Green based based on this nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:03 PM
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Why are the mods just removing your comments and not straight out banning you is beyond me. This stuff is dangerous, it advocates grooming and it is actually grooming any young women lurking on this sub that the 20 year old hitting on them is actually healthy. Not to mention it is CP as it lays the sick fantasy of 13 year old kissing a grown man and being love sick for him because when you know, you know. FDS should not be used as a platform for such depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:58 PM
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Your comment stood out to me because I didn’t remember that from the interview and don’t get the impression from Trevor that he is a creep. So, I rewatched the interview, he didn’t hit on her, sexually harassed her, not even a single time. You really must be confusing him with some one else. We can criticize his judgment on the OP’s video but he is not a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:37 PM
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“This is the 90’s!” Lmao Great video, and Beth is a flirt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 08:35 AM
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Are you talking about Amanda Stanton? https://images.app.goo.gl/ifdHczXycF8FWKmLA She’s the one with the hat. Also the other girl in the pic(her name is Lauren I think) also appears to be unhealthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:15 AM
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He did? Edit: he did not. You must be confusing him with someone else. Trevor isn’t a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:19 AM
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Do they have a US branch and where do I sign up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:28 PM
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No, I haven’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:15 PM
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I am glad they decided to get someone a bit more mature but Clare ain’t it. She’s a major pick me. On the original bachelor season she was on, yes Juan Pablo(JP) was a douche, but Clare didn’t help by having sex with him, too early. They had sex in the ocean, within view of the entire cast an crew. From the looks and talks of things, she initiated. She did it purposely, to get a leg up on competition and generally being a pick me, thinking sex will land her the man. But it backfired majorly when…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:25 PM
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Therapy is the most practical and effective. Learning coping skills. Looking after yourself: taking care of your skin, hair, nails, your body (hit the gym). But taking care of yourself is only like 1% of it though. You can do all of this, but if the therapy isn’t being done, then you would still feel horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:36 AM
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All the married men in those comments revealing themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:07 AM
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That is not what you expressed. You told her that her picker was wrong because she isn’t going to sleazy older men with money. And if you’re new here, that’s fine. But FDS doesn’t generally advocate for May December relationships, because of all the reasons people have presented in these comments. Continue reading the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 11:56 PM
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Come on, be honest. You weren’t just stating your preference, you were giving advice, to a 19 year old! If you had presented your argument in terms of “I actually find older men attractive”, you wouldn’t have gotten the pushback. I think for most people there is so many red flags and maybe even some triggers with this picture. The fact that you looked at this picture, didn’t see all the horrible things everyone else saw, rather your reaction was that OP’s picker must be off and she needs to chan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 11:39 PM
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Make sure you tag her, sis so she can see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 11:09 PM
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Bye troll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 11:01 PM
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Why did you immediately associate old age with “security”? Where did she say that this dude could provide her security? But your thoughts immediately went there. You’re acting as if men her age who can provide security don’t exist. As if she has to give up physical attraction for security. I probably will also get downvoted for this but there is a difference between wanting a HVM who can provide, and using your youth to target the obviously insecure mid life crisis dude with money. The latter is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 10:55 PM
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I personally don’t really use it, because I just don’t think I need it (thanks to years of therapy). So I really wouldn’t be able to give you much insight into why they use the language they do. But I think if OP needs practical advice on what she can do to help with things like her acne scars, she may be able to find some useful pointers there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:32 AM
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I think this question is better suited for r/vindicta maybe? Also, therapy. Also, read the handbook for some insight male logic and how a woman should act and respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:41 AM
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I think you will regret if you do it. And it’s one of those things where you can’t put the toothpaste back in the tube. Invest in a vibrator. There are a bunch on Amazon for cheap, I am talking less than $20. And a vibrator will always give you an orgasm and never give you an STD. You can’t go wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 11:42 PM
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Here’s a summary: Call him first Offer to pay Look too available * Look too glamorous👎 Only dating one man at a time Upload bikini/trashy picks on OLD Hold your personality back *I realized a few months ago that I was making this mistake. So now when I see other women do it, I can pick up on it so easily. If I can pick up on it, a guy certainly can. Always be and look outcome independent. I don’t really agree with 4. I think it’s a matter of which type of glamorous you are. If you are Hannah Nic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:49 PM
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Yikes! I didn’t know this, definitely will not be dressing my kids in pig tails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:44 PM
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I have. I stopped after someone tried to recruit me to be an escort. Be careful on that side too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:41 PM
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Good job setting your expectations in a lighthearted way. He got the point. Let’s see what he comes up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:13 PM
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Oh my god, I was going to make a post about my experience this weekend. So, I was lazy and didn’t wash my hair. To kind make it through the weekend, I decided to wear my hair in low maintenance pig tails, you know the staple little girl hairstyle. The goal was to delay washing my hair for a couple of days. What I did not anticipate was men’s reaction to me. The amount of attention I got from men this weekend honesty frightened me, that they would be so attracted to a woman in little girls hair! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:03 PM
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Yes, plenty of studies/survey done on this. But I would rather be successful on my own. Than be the bum bitch, that needs to ask her LVM $40 to get her nails done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:55 AM
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Do you really need help to answer this? Who cares what it means? What matters is what you’re gonna do about it. Read the handbook, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:52 AM
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I think this was a joke? Cause higher PH? I don’t know, maybe I missed something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:38 PM
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FGM is such an awful practice. Its main purpose is to control women sex lives. You can argue that male circumcision diminishes sensation, but that’s not its main purpose. So, not the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:35 PM
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My people! Finally! Yeah, I like it circumcised. I live in the US where I ‘ve had the fortune to have only seen circumcised men. I love it, they look beautiful and actually makes me want to interact with it. Uncircumcised dicks just don’t look appealing to me. Plus, I have heard horror stories about dirty uncircumcised dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:24 PM
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It sounds to me like that’s a bias you need to work on, heck, we ALL need to work on. I think as black women, we are so accustomed to being treated like the bottom of the dating pool, that we have subconsciously accepted and internalized the idea, so much that whenever we see a white man with a black woman, we immediately get suspicious: like this can’t be right, there’s gotta be something wrong here. That’s not usually the case. Sometimes people just have a type or this radical idea, some men a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:18 AM
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Haha, I literally just made a comment about the pseudoscience. I find these kind of posts so embarrassing. They reflect poorly on the whole sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:22 AM
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I also do see some posts that are just ignorant about basic biology and science. Those irk the living soul in me because it paints us as idiots. Patriarchy already perpetuates the myth that women are less intelligent; we don’t need to provide the material and contribute to the sexism. Like earlier this week there was a post suggesting male pattern baldness was a result of laziness or not taking care of oneself. Another upvoted post suggested that you can reliably predict penis size by the size o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:13 AM
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I saw your last post. I read until I got to this paragraph: The typical advice of needing to wait X amount of time to have sex is misguided. By waiting unnecessarily you're not just denying him but also denying yourself.... At that point, I realized it wasn’t for me and exited right out of there. I didn’t report you though. I think that paragraph is probably the reason for the response you got, as it goes directly against the 90 day/commitment rule that’s in the handbook. Also, I think it was to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:26 AM
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So I actually posted him here last night, using the Keanu flair, basically saying he is HVM. My post was apparently reported, ended up being removed after a couple comments saying he wasn’t HVM because he seemed too “clingy”, “hovered over her”, “smothered her” so he must be “controlling” off screen. Like!?!? I think he is HVM asf! I feel like people think HVM=perfection. It’s not! We all have quirks and things about ourselves we’re working on. So what he comes off a bit socially awkward!? Some …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 01:02 AM
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Here’s a link to the post: https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/fan7lo/dick_shaming_should_be_taken_as_seriously_as_all/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Oh, the comments!! Men taking the opportunity to air out their grievances that they expected to maintain an erection and last more than 2 minutes! What the fuck is this app!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:18 PM
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😩 at vagina haver
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:47 PM
1

I say let him take you out on a few dates, so you at least get experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:23 PM
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The way I put it is this: yes, I am independent and can pay for my own shit, including a $50 meal. But I do want(not need) but want, a man to pay as a way to show investment and interest in me. And even if you look at it from an equity stand point, women invests a lot more in date prep than men do. A man takes a shower and shows up. For a woman, well we all know how much time and cost is required to be considered presentable in today’s society. So to bring things to equal footing, the least the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:15 PM
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The part with the hands high fiving him after sex, world’s best dad just for picking up the baby and the 50 years later when he married his grand daughter age mate, were so on point. Smh, Fuck patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:16 PM
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Wow, really good stuff. I almost cried (Fuck Auntie Flo). She really captured what most women feel deep down: you should “only fuck with feelings”. But at some point, we all fell for the patriarchy lies that sex on the third date or somewhere around there is how relationships start. He’s got to check you out as FWB first before he “gives you the title”. Sex is the only way you show interest, otherwise he would assume you don’t like him and leave. Casual sex is liberating. Sex needs to done ASAP …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:52 PM
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Another FDS reminder to not be the pursuer in a relationship with a man. Rarely(if not never) ends well. So sis, don’t ask that dude on a date, don’t confess to your crush, dont break the ice, don’t initiate communication when he goes MIA. He will always say yes, but then will never take you seriously. It’s better to be single than to end up getting heart broken like this woman was. Be patient , wait for yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 05:59 AM
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Haha, it never seizes to amaze me when dudes get upset when you tell them about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:04 AM
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Well, with that grammar, she probably thought you were 13 too.🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:57 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/f8fe1e/my_29m_gf_24f_of_six_months_is_upset_that_i_dont/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:03 PM
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Balding is genetics and age related though, they can’t really help it. I still like my men with hair though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:03 PM
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The term is "intact" or "uncut," not "uncircumcised." Statements like this are why people are downvoting you. That and all the red flags in the study that point towards it being unreliable. The sample size is too small, all participants were Korean, all were urological surgery patients(HELLO!), the r value is kinda shitty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:12 PM
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Just wanted to let you know, no he can’t fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:47 PM
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First, I think we need to separate HVM from looks, money, height or whatever subjective measure that have no bearing on character. One can make 40k a year and be HVM, be a Barack Obama type husband but strike out on the genetics lottery. Attraction is relative and thus a complete separate issue. But on attraction, I would say of course you shouldn’t COMMIT or MARRYs someone that you’re not COMPLETELY attracted to (notice I didn’t say “go out on date with” and the use of “completely”). That is be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:38 PM
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Liz is probably the single most intelligent candidate on the stage, but everyone is over looking her. So was Hillary, accomplished in her own right but here we are. Too masculine in ‘08. In 2016, she was simultaneously too meek/“indulged too much on the woman thing” and the devil wears pantsuits. Now? Oh the previously meek woman now talks too much, needs to go away. I have literally never heard of a previous male candidate be told to shut up and go away. Fuck misogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:59 PM
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Spoken like a true Karen! What a interesting way to answer yes on both questions. I was honestly trying to see your side and maybe help you see the 19 year old point of view. But no, you’d rather be a Karen. So, go on let’s see how far that gets you. Might just end up seeing you after you make it famous on one of those viral videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:59 PM
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The 19 year old cashier is the more privileged person in society that you talk about? Why are you so invested though? Has anyone ever called you a Karen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:43 PM
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? Edit: Mods need to take this post down. It’s honestly stupid (for lack of a better word). It’s obviously bait for infighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:49 AM
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You must have seen a different article because this family wasn’t black and “driven too far” wasn’t a reference to white supremacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:23 AM
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Grabs 🍿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:44 PM
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First of all, it sounds and looks like you’re new, so welcome to FDS! I get paranoid....they’ll end up loosing interest one way money pit Over a $50 dinner/drinks? I think this may be above FDS. You should may be look into therapy. There seems to be some deep rooted issues at play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:15 PM
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I would have overlooked the behavior for early to mid twenties. At her age, she should have been wiser. But she said she previously dated athletes, can’t even imagine the trauma. I haven’t watched the episodes that came out last night. Can’t wait to catch up on her LVW tendencies tonight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:50 PM
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Yep, Amber is a major pickme!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:45 PM
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I knew he was bi the moment he came on screen. My radar was going all the way off. Secondly, I wouldn’t date a bi man either. It takes a lot of strength that I would I admit I just don’t have. Going through the relationship knowing that I can’t give my man something he likes would have me feeling very insecure. It’s not just hair color, eye color or even the color of the skin. It has to do directly with sexuality, a very important, if not the most important aspect of a romantic relationship. Tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:43 PM
5

Oh nevermind, when you said billing hours and things suddenly getting hot, it sounded way too much like a public accountant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:17 PM
10

Dark triad sounds like the place to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:01 PM
3

Public Accounting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:58 PM
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I don’t know why society can’t grasp that the one thing all these terrorists have in common is misogyny and poor relationships to women. Yeah, there are religious extremists of all kinds, racists...but their contempt for women is the glue that hold them together. It always start with misogyny, the rest of their ideologies are just proxies. We begin addressing the misogyny, we’ll go along way at preventing the loss of life. To the male lurkers out there, don’t let this become you. Get off your ec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:38 PM
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For a 34 year old Jessica is very naive. Like you still haven’t kicked out that bad boy/LVM addiction at your age? Someone needs to invite her to the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:26 PM
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Mariah is the queen of petty. Hail to the queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:22 PM
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We have, it’s called Female Dating Strategy And membership is free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:33 PM
10

Congrats, sis! Stay strong! Rooting for you :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:23 AM
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🤔Me doing the math in my head 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:31 AM
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Oh ok. Yeah I’m also speaking from experience. I also grew up in a religiously conservative family where we had to keep our boyfriends secret. The attitude is always me and my SO against my family. Whenever mistakes happened, it was never me getting mad at my SO, rather putting our brains together to figure out how to finesse my family. This doesn’t seem to be the attitude here at all. And that’s the concern. It seems to be him and his family vs her. Just my perspective. We can agree to disagree…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:19 AM
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I had an open mind until he got mad and apparently continuing fighting over the thank you gift. There is nothing to be that mad about. Unless he is planning to never bring this girl out of the shadow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:51 AM
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I was going to comment the same thing. Likely using her for reliable sex and the experience. Whenever he’ll be ready for marriage, he will promptly dump her for the nice Muslim family friend that his family approves. And this doesn’t happen with only Muslims. A lot of non-Muslim eastern hemisphere immigrants also do the same. They would LTR date but when it comes time to marry, they get the woman from the same culture, country, tribe or whatever. Stay woke, sisters!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:47 AM
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....my inexpensive skin care routine, something he had no clue about and it showed. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:00 PM
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Oooh the ratio on this post! To the women who may feel uncomfortable with some parts of this post, maybe you have ADHD or deal with depression/anxiety. I just wanted to list you some really cool people who suffer with one or both of these: -Will Smith -Jada Pinkett Smith -Rachel Maddow -Winston freaking Churchill, the man help saved humanity from Hitler. There are actually papers that suggest that people who are more successful, intelligent, high morals are more likely to suffer from ADHD or dep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:31 PM
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So the line about Napoleon Complex? Well I had an ex who was short. Long story short, he was a major fuckboy who’s been in my life for over a decade now. He recently tried to get back in my life (again). Of course I said no. I was looking for a way to low key insult him on his height, so I used the “last man on earth still couldn’t get this” I hope he got the reference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 03:40 AM
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I don’t shave for anybody. No, thanks to the ingrown hair, clogged pores and acne. Pussy has hair. I trim it down to a low level using scissors. That way there is enough hair for the protection role Mother Nature created pubic hair for, yet it’s low enough that I feel clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:25 PM
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Why men think that them finding us attractive or wanting to fuck us is a compliment? Like dude, do you know how many men are trying to fuck me? That’s the specialty you bring to the table? Well the table is full, not taking anymore applications, go away! I once had a dude basically tell me he didn’t want to be with me, rather he wanted to dump his FWB (cuz she was using him for money) and to give me the much coveted first spot for his 3.5 incher! 🤣🤣🤣 Days later, I basically told him no thanks, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:13 PM
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I first tried to maintain an open mind until I saw the “I have some nice things..” quote. Manipulation! My ex used that all the time! Even the whole “i am such a good person that I am owning up to having treated you badly in 2018 so you shouldn’t consider that in your assessment of me as a life partner” Run the other way, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:51 PM
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They can do that in the U.K.? In the states, that’s the easiest way to get hit with a slander/libel lawsuit. Can her family sue?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:43 AM
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This pic is kind of triggering my Trypophobia but it kinda helps drive home the point in weird way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:34 AM
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Sis, this was funny as hell. I literally laughed out loud. But I consider myself one of the positive content squad just because I think we should avoid content that could get us banned. We have too much to lose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:23 AM
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Gosh, I miss my nose piercing! It was so cute! Fuck corporate America.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:08 AM
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Same here. If a date voted for Trump, whatever the reason, he is getting nexed! Him and I can’t be spouses, boyfriend/girlfriend, friends, acquaintances...NOTHING. Check out this article, I always thought it was funny: https://time.com/5017535/woman-ends-date-with-trump-voter/?amp=true I would do the same. 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:34 AM
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Most recent: Insecure, manipulative. All of his actions can be traced back to these two characteristics. Hell, even the manipulation came about as a defense mechanism from his insecurities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:38 PM
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“Conservative” is the quickest way to get a swipe left from me on bumble 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:38 PM
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No, you don’t. You don’t reveal anything. You don’t reveal you have a 90 day rule or that you require commitment or whatever your threshold is. I usually tell them it’s till I catch feelings or «it feels right » or i build an emotional connection. That way he knows it’s completely outside his control. If you tell him your threshold , then he will put on mask and pretend to meet your threshold, to get the cat. Men will do anything for the cat, even fake a girlfriend proposal and pretend to be HVM…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:20 PM
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I think this is great question: how to keep cool around a guy you like. A lot of girls probably find themselves in this same situation to varying degree. I think you should post it on the sub. You’d get more visibility. But for me the best way to get over a guy is to get under another, not literally of course but the point is talk to other guys. it’s gonna be a great distraction from him and you may actually find another guy you like that will make you realize just how much more fun it is when y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:54 PM
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The poster didn’t necessarily say «you can’t have a crush» rather, she presented a case that there is little to zero benefit to having a crush, which I agree with. I can only think of cons. Crushes can easily get unhealthy-the fantasizing and daydreaming of someone who may not even like you romantically. What a waste of time and energy that can be spent on something more productive like working on one self, working out, learning something new...etc. Certainly there is a difference between 1. fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:40 PM
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Lmao, petty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 02:52 PM
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FDS 101: let him chase you. Don’t initiate, don’t make the first move, let him come to you; you’re the prize, sis. Take a look at the handbook for more. Here’s 1 strategy from the handbook to start with: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dl57z2/there_is_zero_benefit_to_having_a_crush_eliminate/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 02:33 PM
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Feel free to start sis, this is a safe place :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:16 PM
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What is up with black men talking about women’s weave? It’s so weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:49 PM
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That’s basically what the doctor said, essentially there is no need to ruin one’s day over it, the mental anguish from knowing is more serious than the virus itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:01 PM
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I’m glad you finally figured out which username said what. But you’ve now moved from me «shaming and gaslighting you» to «justify shaming and gaslighting »!? First of all, should I expect an apology for your error? Secondly, I haven’t deleted any of my comments to you, so it’d be nice if you can quote the comment where I justified shaming and gaslighting!?!? Seriously, are you okay? The discussion about that quote from the wiki have already been had in the comments over the past two days. Look a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:56 PM
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No, a socialist! It’s not the same thing...lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:01 PM
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The scary was more referring to the control aspect or lack thereof. I can pretty much prevent getting HIV, a cold, or obesity. But with Herpes, it’s like you either have to isolate from all humans or go out in the wild and cross your fingers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:52 PM
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That being said, I fully expect to get type 1 by the time I'm older - also, not having type 1 can make you more susceptible to type 2 I heard. So, there's some benefit to having type 1. That’s the scary part of it all. It’s just a matter of time. I’ve read that prevalence is higher with age. Like people over 50 are at like at 90% or something ridiculously high, under 50 are a bit lower and under 30 and so forth. Like you can avoid sex with untested partners but you can also get herpes from kissi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:42 PM
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Well, that makes sense. I didn’t know that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:21 PM
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Are you okay? You seem flustered. For the second time: go back and read the username above each comment, you’ll notice that I never said someone «used your body» and I am really not out to gaslight you!?!? No sex before commitment, means no sex before commitment. Stop the mental gymnastics to make it fit your narrative. And this is FDS, a dating advice sub so women are advised what to do with their body and their heart. Secondly, it’s a DATING sub, it seems to me if you want to advocate the bene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:13 PM
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I think Herpes is like the big éléphant of life that no one in society talks about and it frustrates the hell out of me. I discovered the truth about herpes a few years ago when I made an ex get STD testing. We both came back with our results, I was satisfied with his. He looks at mine and and noticed they didn’t test me for herpes. I ended up going back to the doctor and she basically told me that it’s a policy at the hospital not to test for herpes because it «always comes back positive» as so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:51 PM
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Sis, you’re invalidating your comments all on your own. Which one should we believe? Serious question. Because just 17 days ago you said: I can’t think of a SINGLE time a guy has made me cum from sex..I am left unsatisfied Now today, in 17 days, you’ve had successful sexual relationshipS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:11 PM
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For 1, my statement was a direct response to your comment about “not telling women what to do with their bodies”, FDS’s no sex before commitment rule definitely does tell/advise women what to do with their bodies. It’s nothing new. Secondly, because commitment will likely never come from a sexual arrangement, is why sexual arrangements do not align with FDS ideology. Thirdly, you’re confusing me with someone else. I did not «shame you» I think what you need to do is be honest with yourself, it s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:01 PM
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I have absolutely had successful sexual relationships Have you though? Here’s a popular post you made on this very sub not long ago: Sex isn’t worth it for women I can’t think of a single time a guy has made me cum from sex. So not only am I left unsatisfied, many women deal with the following after sex: -pregnancy scares -STD scares -bacterial vaginosis -UTIs All so that a guy can shoot his load in us (or in a condom that’s inside us, whatever). To me, sex comes with too many repercussions even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:53 PM
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FDS does absolutely advise women on how they should use their bodies. Refer to the no sex before commitment rule in the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:49 PM
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FDS does absolutely advise women on how they should use their bodies. Refer to the no sex before commitment rule in the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:49 PM
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FDS does absolutely advise women on how they should use their bodies. Refer to the no sex before commitment rule in the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:49 PM
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Matthew Hussey does make some good points at times. Do you have a link to his comments about casual sex? I would love to hear more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:24 PM
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I understand how if you’re into FWB, to be in a community that frowns on that, can be difficult to deal with. But hear me out, FDS has a lot of strategies that we may not all agree with. No one here follows FDS 100%. For instance, the handbook advises against coffee and drink dates, I personally think coffee/drink first dates are better suited for my current dating scene, so I still go on them sometimes. When people posts here about how low effort those dates are, I don’t get offended, I don’t e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:15 PM
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This is literally the 4th thread I have seen on this topic, just TODAY! It’s a reoccurring discussion in the sub and comments usually get heated. It’s getting exhaustive, tbh. The last time I tried to bring up that there may be a need to clarify, I was scolded by a mod, with yet another ambiguous answer. Not to mention, mods have contradicted each other on this topic, on various posts. The mods need to decide, either FDS is anti-FWB, pro FWB, or FDS doesn’t take a position(which would be a disas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 08:10 PM
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For one, I asked the question of ALL Christians, not just Catholics, so you could have saved yourself the self-own. I am honestly trying to engage logically and ideologically with you, the snarky comments are unnecessary for someone who is confident in her position. My question was directed to Christians because the fact is - there is a lot of Christian activism against abortion. From voting for freaking Donald Trump, to decade long efforts to repeal Roe v Wade, to anti-abortion orgs and online …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:40 PM
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Thank you for the definition, though I do not agree with it. But that wasn’t the question I asked though, if you’re such a Christian activist advocating against sin, why single out abortion? What about adultery? that too destroys lives! What about kids who don’t “honor their parents”. The Bible especially seems to highlight this commandment, it’s only one of the two in the affirmative and only one “accompanied by a promise”. Where is biblical basis for singling out abortion? When was the last ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:39 PM
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Serious questions for the pro life nuts. Before I asked though full disclosure: I grew up catholic, went to catholic school and the whole nine yard. Today, I’m still Christian, still believe in God, still go to church (when I get a chance). All to say that if there is anyone who can understand the religious case against abortion, I am one of them. The question is this: Don’t most Christians consider all sin as equal in front of God?! So even if abortion is a sin, so is adultery, lying, saying th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:55 PM
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I honestly started for me, as a way to get some revenge, to make him feel as small and unsure as he’d made me feel. Also, he was going around essentially saying that the reason things weren’t working out between us was due to me being «difficult», nagging him, and being «crazy». I wanted to change the narrative from that to: it didn’t work out because I lost interest. Taking the power back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:04 AM
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No more fretting, debating, being confused over mixed signals, over analyzing This 🙌For me, I’m honestly happier, I think it’s from eliminating the emotional toll. It’s amazing! Also, I feel more emotionally intelligent and socially aware. I’m much calmer from knowing that I can exert so much control over how things go with a guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:52 AM
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What is wrong with men!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:41 AM
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Omg, yes! Don’t you just love it? It’s so empowering! Like instead of sitting there like a lame duck, you’re active and fighting back, using his own rules! It’d be 7 o’clock, and I would stop texting and then text him back 2 days later, nonchalantly like “I fell asleep”, which is also absurd as he knows that I do not go to sleep before midnight. Or I would say “call you back” and not actually call back 4, 5 days later, asking for a favor, establishing that if I hadn’t need the favor, I likely wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:19 PM
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Ok, good...I first saw it here but I was too lazy to go looking for it in the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:01 PM
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And I thoroughly enjoyed doing it 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:00 PM
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I started seeing results within a couple of weeks and it got progressively effective. I do agree it may not work with a new guy or take much longer but this dude I had known for awhile and he knew my regular habits and tendencies, so it didn’t take long for him to pick up on the shift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:58 AM
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I don’t know if it’s in the handbook but it’s essentially that, investing as much as he invests in you but also apply it to day-to-day behaviors aka give him a taste of his own medicine. So if he has a habit of doing A, start doing A as well. It’s usually for a behavior you don’t like and/or wanting to change. For me, I’ve mirrored on both guys I like and f*ckboys before I drop them. Gosh it’s been so satisfying! I had a breadcrumber who was never available. So I started declining dates, taking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 09:48 PM
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If he isn’t chasing you, giving “mixed messages”, he is not into you, walk away. Behavior mirroring. I’ve found both of these so empowering!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:48 PM
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I am actually really embarrassed to admit it, but I am so guilty of gender favoritism. I have 3 nephews and a niece. They boys are all older than her. Their mom didn’t trust me with a toddler or watching all 4 together..lol. So she would let me baby sit the boys and let someone else baby sit my niece. Anyways, I love to cater to the boys, whatever they need; I get it for them. I treat them like little spoiled Kings. About 2 years ago, I was finally trusted to babysit my niece when she asked me f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:48 PM
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Mama, we made it! LOL On a serious note though; queue Incel tears and boycott of the WSJ in 3.2,1.... But who cares? The publicity, means more women will join and leave their LVM to the dustbin of history. And that makes me very happy! The revolution has begun!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 10:46 AM
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Yeah immigrants are the reason why you can’t get laid, not your horrible grooming habits or your violence and homicidal ideation. Y’all are too nice for censoring him, any woman who lives within a 5 miles radius of him need to know who he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 10:28 AM
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I think this pretty much sums in up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:30 PM
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1 issue women debate a lot on the sub is the issue of casual sex. Specifically whether FDS is fundamentally for or against casual sex. There are strong opinions on both sides. I feel like the mods need to do a strategy post and settle this once and for all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:01 PM
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It’s definitely a tight rope to navigate. I do think in the course of dating in this day and age trans issues do organically come up. For example a while back, someone posted here that a trans man she had been seeing for months misled her about his sex. It’s definitely possible to apply FDS ideology to the situation. Another example, I’m personally not attracted to trans men. And there are a lot of straight, bi, lesbian women who prefer to not date trans. Most posts I have seen here is bi and le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:48 PM
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Not an ex but my dad is one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:40 PM
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Great, it looks like your post is down!!!!! Next time, you try avoiding this sub and go troll another sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 04:06 PM
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No one is assuming anything. It’s abundantly clear by your post and responses to others who have offered you some great advice here, that you’re more interested in discussing the second amendment and justifying the use of violence when it’s objectively not warranted. Either you have serious issues or you are a troll trying to polemicize this sub and get us banned. Either way, this type of content is not what this sub is for. Your question is more suited for r/legaladvice or something, not here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:57 PM
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Out of all the great points she gave you, the one point you chose to focus on is the 2nd amendement part. You responded the same way with u/m4dam3x . There seems to be some nefarious intent behind your post. Anyways, I don’t think FDS is geared towards answering this kind of question, it’s beyond the scope of the sub. Go to other relationships subs. I’ve also reported your post so the mods can it down. I’m sorry but I don’t think this sub can provide the kind of help you need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:43 PM
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r/purplepilldebate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:00 PM
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I don’t like the ones that are just basically “look how ugly he is” or just “receding hairline”. Like except for not winning the genes lottery, the man hasn’t done anything wrong. Besides, attraction is relative. However, I think I’m fine with exposing the inappropriate DM’s/openers/messages and what not and I’m fine with those being accompanied with uncensored pics. I think if someone is disrespectful, they loose all considerations for decency and privacy. Just my opinion. I’m also not a fan of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:54 PM
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Up top, go to menu: you’ll see the FDS handbook and FDS wiki.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:00 PM
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Good for her! Not gonna for me though. Will probably die from the allergy attack all that pollen is going to cause. Heck, I am already feeling a sneeze coming out, just by looking at the pic 🤧😪😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:49 AM
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I think you’ve hit the nail right here. Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. What one may consider a flaw, someone else considers a feature, yet a another may not even notice or care about. There are men who probably wouldn’t find her attractive because of it, while others may specifically seek out her stomach and there both men and women who like the hourglass figure, top heavy, curvy hips, so they won’t mind the stomach because, it sorta comes with the territory. Especially the last sce…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:19 AM
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Yes, he is telling you he can’t meet your standards. There is no need to play games here. Tell him you know that your standards are high, not a lot of guys can live up to them, but you are firm on what you want. So, thanks for chatting and good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 09:19 PM
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VP of Sub Development 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:55 PM
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I am sorry but just one look at this guy, he has low T written all over! Yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 06:03 AM
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Intercultural relationships? Definitely yes! They are great and are so enriching as you get to learn the other person’s culture and get to think about your own customs and traditions as you teach your SO. I would highly recommend; if you can’t find a SO from a different culture, then befriend someone. Life changing! Inter-religious? Mostly no. I think it depends on how close the religions are. For instance, an evangelical Christian and a catholic-I actually know one such couple. Both religious, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:52 PM
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So this guy, let’s call him LC, wasn’t actually bad to me, he was a pretty good boyfriend to me. We were in our late teens. Anyways I broke up wit him due to peer pressure and decide to date another dude that my friends approved of. New dude ended up being a total LVM some years later. So for the longest time I thought LC was the one that got away. One day I finally decided I was going to find him and try to rekindle the romance. So, I googled him, only to find two arrest records - for failure t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 03:10 PM
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In what way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:47 PM
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Honestly, I wouldn’t give too much credence to what AMI says given their admission (in court) for burying Trump’s bad press in 2016.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:10 PM
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Well that’s why I am little confused who to believe because just this week it was reported that the culprit was a hack by the Saudi Prince and then this stuff about the girlfriend comes out a day or two later. It’s possible the Saudis paid/planted this article on the girlfriend, to cover themselves up. I think it was some firm that Bezos had hired, who issued the report taking the Saudi prince angle. The firm in question issued the report and put their name on it. So, I don’t know why they would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:01 PM
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The accuracy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:24 AM
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You could tell she really feels like a princess. So cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:31 AM
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Watching the show, right off the bat you pick up on strategies that definitely don’t work: girls coming in ridiculous outfits, acting extra, overtly sexual don’t generally do well. For me as someone who has a tendency to do too much, this has been a good place to see just how detrimental it is. Front runners are usually open but very sober and realistic about the entire thing, sorta hold cards a bit closer to their hearts, which is in agreement with FDS to let the man lead the chase. They tend t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:56 AM
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Dating skills-the bachelor. You’ll notice certain common grounds/themes among the front runners/couples who ended up lasting a bit longer vs. the ones who broke up soon after the show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 07:56 PM
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First you have to realize that he is not that into you. That’s can be a really hard reality to accept, but once you make your peace with it, it’d be easier. You’ll then figure out yourself what exact technique works for you. And this alone will be a good deterrent in moments of weakness. Mixed messages, disrespect = he is not that into you. It will never go anywhere. It’s not going to get better, only going to get worst. You will wake up months, years later only to regret how much time you’ve wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 12:45 PM
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Aaaah And to answer your question, I know of no good terms that would be beneficial to you, because they don’t exist, IMO. There are more cons than pros in a fuck buddy situation. Some of cons: STD, pregnancy, opportunity cost of time and effort, your reputation (men talk)...etc. Not to be an alarmist, but one of my close friends from college had a reliable fuck body for maybe over a year. Anyways, she ended up pregnant. Sent dude a DM to inform him, he didn’t respond, but blocked her on all soc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:00 AM
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He’s already in your “bc”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:36 AM
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I just have to say, the make up is really well done 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:24 AM
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Thank you! Two of the best decisions I have ever made
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 03:16 AM
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Yes, block and delete! IMMEDIATELY. It’s creepy. Why would he be talking about your sis, in the middle of foreplay with you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:23 AM
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Yep! A lot of escort profiles too. The escorts tend to be a little more mmmh explicit too. Here are a few bios that are obvious escorts: intimate beneficial partner or time and companionship for donations 🤣🤣🤣Okay, so many words just to say prostitute Cash app [insert cash app name] if you want me to open your messages. Cash app $25 [insert cash app name] for 3 pics Aaahh the things that I saw, smh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:16 AM
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Awww...you’re so sweet 🤗😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:47 AM
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Go on r/tinder you would be suprised. Also, a while back, I made a fake male profile when I first got on OLD, because I wanted to see how girls were building up their profiles. So I saw quite a good sample of profiles. You would be surprised how many women lead with sex. Either in their bio or the pics. By pics, I don’t mean cleavage or a little legs, done in a tasteful way, I mean, legs open showing their underwears, multiple bikini pics (I think any bikini pic is desperate), amateur playboy st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:20 AM
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For 1, there is this dynamic with my brothers: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ejo9nm/to_the_women_that_find_themselves_chasing_after/fczk6j1/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Also, as evident, I didn’t grow up in a nucleus family. I have more step siblings that I can count. The Brady’s bunch have nothing on my family. In blended families , loyalty is as scarce resource. So, my whole life I have been so desperately searching for the real family, real lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:01 AM
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I mean do y’all got time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:48 AM
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Same thing happened to me on a dating app. He obviously had his initials. So within the 3rd or 4th text I sent him, I asked his name, he responded with «call me zaddy». I never blocked and reported so fast! I really hope he got banned from the app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 11:42 PM
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Humans will never get past tribalism, colorism, racial biases (whether conscious or subconscious). Black women also get ostracized by black men for dating outside of their race. In fact, my two best friends(one black and one Culumbian) and my sister (black) are all married/engaged/in LTR relationship with very HV white men! So, I think the moral of the story is to not box yourself within your race, nationality, ethnicity. At first it might feel scary, but HV are so far in between that expanding …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 11:07 PM
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Someone send her a link to this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 06:31 AM
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Coming from a dude in a car selfie on a dating app! low effort from the go. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 06:26 AM
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An exclusive FWB!? What a paradox!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 12:02 AM
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No. A cheater isn’t HVM. The thing is that the majority of men cheat. That doesn’t mean,we women, have to deal with it. You mentioning this reminded my of ex’s best friend, let’s call him P. P is so good looking (even models in his spare time), smart and everyone I talked to bragged about what a great guy he is. He had a long-term girlfriend who has a chronic disease and P has stayed with her through thick and thins and even married her last year. He constantly posts her on his social media, bra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 11:55 PM
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So here’s how I look at it. Best case scenario, he really is dealing with emotional stuff that are making him emotionally unavailable and can’t communicate. Worst case scenario, he’s lost interest or it was all for sex from the beginning. You’ll never know the truth. Accept it and move him, there are other men on Tinder. You got this one, you can get another. Whatever his reason, why would you want to deal with that? A man who is emotionally immature and can’t communicate isn’t worth the headach…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 11:19 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:20 AM
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All countries have imperialist ambitions though. The US just seems more prominent, because we’re such a rich country, we can be “more effective” with our objectives. But all the nations are doing it at some scale. Even third word countries fight and invade each other. On the world stage, you have to look at things through very different lenses. You see, everyone is fighting to be first place, at least better placed than your sworn enemies and neighbors. Because in the event, sh*t hit the fan, yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:47 AM
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Children? I doubt it. Source please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:34 AM
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“Oh, other people have different opinions, no fair! I should be allowed to say everything I want without people disagreeing with my content or delivery” Girl bye! ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:42 AM
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NSFW While I feel for trans people that disclosure is difficult, they have to disclose. I’m sorry you have to deal with this, but you can’t go around, hurting and wasting other people’s time. Not all straight women have sexual interest towards trans men. As a straight woman, I do not desire to have sexual intercourse with a vagina or skin that used to be a vulva. I just think it’s gross, it’s okay because it’s exactly what makes me straight. Also, for me ejaculation has always been a big part of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:34 AM
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👏👏👏And to expand on your last paragraph about the casual dater who is ready to settle down, the men will probably view her as low value because of her high n count or if he ever finds out that she had a FWB. I know! Not fair! But it’s true. I feel like FDS needs to take out ads to tell the collective: you’re f*cking up the game for everybody! Stop and 50% of our issues with men, will end!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:45 PM
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Yeah, FDS doesn’t appear to be the place for her. I mean you can abandon some of the FDS rules if you want but I think no sex until commitment is pretty fundamental.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:18 PM
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I ultimately do want commitment but it either develops or it doesn't Great! We all want the same thing. I asked because you seem to associate commitment with all these bad things like being desperate, chasing or clingy. If you can fanthom, that one can want commitment without being desperate or clingy, then what’s the argument you’re trying to make against our side? Because women can walk away nowadays and not every man likes that. It is also unlikely that an independent woman plays mommy for he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:14 PM
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How is women being more financially independent make men not want to settle? I would argue the opposite. A woman with enough finance to contribute to the house, is actually beneficial to the man, more money for him to buy all his toys! And if you meant child support/alimony. These are fairly recent phenomenons , so you can’t really use them if you’re trying to make a comparison between then and now. Plus, child support and alimony came about because of casual sex! I would not call commitment or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:10 PM
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But you forgot to mention that thanks to civil rights/suffrage..etc. Women no longer have to be tied to the house and be exploited. We all can get jobs to provide for ourselves. And in accordance with FDS, if he cheats, the woman can walks away, which is less economical for him and more economical for her, in the form of child support and alimony. So this argument is no longer valid. Also, the opposite of opting out of casual sex isn’t settling for LVM. Besides the casual sex culture contributes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 09:37 PM
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The issue with this kind of thinking is that then when women meet a man they want a relationship with he wants casual sex because women are giving men sex for nothing so they offer nothing. Haha, laughing ‘cause I just made a comment arguing this. The availability of casual sex is exactly why men won’t commit. So, have all the casual sex you want, then don’t complain that the dating game is spoiled by men who want husband treatment for nothing in return. You helped create the monster, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:59 PM
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Can we have a discussion on what the casual sex culture has done to the dating game/relationships. I personally loathe the casual sex culture as I think it’s exactly what’s ruined the dating game. This may rub some people the wrong way, but I truly believe that ultimately men have an evolutionary purpose to spread their seed. In real life though, this evolutionary need just translates into an extremely high libido, lower-self control..etc. FDS recognized that relationships require a man to make …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:48 PM
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Not to hijack your convo....but I agree. Sometimes, I wish all posts would get moderated, just to avoid some of the posts that are too out there. But I don’t think there are enough mods for it. I think some of the flacks the sub gets is from individual comments and posts that are actually in disagreement with the side bar or really bad interpretation of the original materials. That’s why, IMO, we need more mods or higher flairs commenting on posts/comments that are out of line. Leaving them unch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:49 PM
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BABES, Calm down! I am not talking about the dating and life advice. I am talking about the stuff she does on celebrities. It’s all garbage. She’s doesn’t know any of them nor is she even a licensed therapist/psychiatrist. But here you were acting like because Shannon said so, then that’s the evidence that Markle is a narcissist and truly employed these tactics to get Harry. She wasn’t there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:00 PM
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Michelle Obama is definitely what I see when I hear HVW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:45 PM
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Oh god, I couldn’t make it past 9.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:41 PM
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Babes, it’s fine if you don’t like them. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. But please stop billing Shallon Lester’s opinions on people she’s never met as legitimate psycho analysis profiles. No HVW watches that garbage. Not to knock Shallon as a business woman though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:17 PM
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Lol, I think it’s just differences in culture. But you didn’t answer the question about Americans/Markle’s involvement in the affair allegations. I am really curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:59 PM
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True. I found my ex on an app where he listed himself as taller than he actually is. Also a hat as the main picture, typically means a receding hair line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:43 PM
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I believe these allegations were conveniently planted by an American source. I am honestly curious what led you to this conclusion? Also, about their relationship, I am from the states, perhaps I’am biased and perhaps I don’t understand the nuances. But I know a lot of people with her type, so I find nothing wrong with Markle’s behavior. So to me, it’s a red flag if they don’t get along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:27 PM
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I agree with the last portion about the difference in “catfishing” between men and women. Men are extreme. I think with women, it’s mostly filters and a lot of them are snap chat filters though, so if you clicked on that, you gotta take ownership ‘cause no one looks like their snap chat pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:19 PM
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So the allegations were planted by Markle & co.? And what do you make of reports that he’s called Markle names and the two don’t have a good relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:09 PM
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I always wonder how successful they are on the apps/dating, given that for most people (especially women) the hat is a non-negotiable deal breaker. And a lot of them seem to use it as a feature on their profiles. For instance multiple photos on the profile, mention it in their bio/questions. Also, I too read your title and was thinking to myself,: “uuuum, we’re not gonna talk about the hat?!?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:00 PM
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I think you meant to ask your question to u/thewetdog_
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:30 PM
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I always got that impression that he didn’t really want to marry her. She basically became a forever girlfriend and had whole break in the middle of that. Not to take anything away from Kate, she seems HVM asf. But she deserves better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:49 AM
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Loved that as well! He was determined!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:22 AM
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I don’t find him attractive but everyone has a type. So do you. But about the edit, aren’t there allegations that he cheated on his wife? And for whatever reason he doesn’t have a good relationship with his new sister in law?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:46 AM
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I honestly think he just added the nonsense about being a vegetarian as humour to soften the very offensive stuff he said up top. He is fully aware he’s crossed the line. He’s hoping you take the bait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:41 AM
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Yep! Men are innately wired to work and earn our affection, it’s an ego boost for them to know that they wanted a woman, worked and earned the prize. Partly they enjoy the game, like a sport complete with strategic decision making and all. And I think part of it is just human nature, we all value things we had to work hard for. Making ourselves too available communicates to them that the prize isn’t all that great and they don’t feel good because they missed out on the ego boost/pride that comes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:29 AM
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Yikes. That is so disgusting. I’m so sorry you have to deal with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:33 AM
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Lmao! I love it! And the close with the emojis! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:10 AM
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Ewwww! Yeah, after I peg you. /s Well, someone of them would probably agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:07 AM
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I agree mostly and I too was thankful for the honesty, given that Hinge doesn’t have a designated placeholder to say what you’re looking for. So this convo has to be had sooner than later. But what do you think about using that as an opener though? You wouldn’t walk up to a girl in a bar and use that as an opener. Why is it okay to do it on OLD?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:10 AM
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I agree, wisdom is such an important trait for a woman. But wisdom about a complex topic such as dating can only be learned. But you are right, a lot of them tend to be pick me, but I think there is a difference between being a HVW with some pick me tendencies and being LVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:05 AM
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Here’s my recommendation since it appears you’ve already made up your mind to go. Be outcome independent. Since you don’t really like him, it would be easy to do. Just go enjoy the free dinner. Great opportunity to test out FDS, like letting him pay/not offer to split, initiate the end of the date..etc. The secret to male attraction is class/femininity. So know this and just practice being in tune with your femininity. You are the prize, you are the queen, let him work, let him chase. Be convers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:59 AM
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I like a beard too, as long as it’s a good beard. See, there are good and bad beards. A good beard is freshly lined, short and doesn’t extended more than half an inch from your face (think Idris Elba) but the majority of guys, especially on OLD have these long, ungroomed beards that will likely poke you and cause irritation, itching after making out. Like dude, are you trying to find a mate or auditioning for Duck Dynasty!? Also, it tells me that you likely don’t have professional job as most co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:43 AM
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He sure did! My friend who must have been an FBI agent in her previous life, found out that he was an attorney, his linked in, where he worked..etc. Without this opener, you would have never thought he was LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:30 AM
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See I respond, but only to invite them to initiate the convo so they still have to make an effort to pursue/make the first move. But, I never like a guy’s pic first though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:25 AM
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I think there is a certain class of women, especially those with privileged backgrounds, who grow up sheltered, with this Disney fairy tale view of men and relationships, especially when they are still young(teens and early twenties), and haven’t had enough experience. They can still be high value, meaning educated, classy, money and time for hobbies, being well traveled, speaking multiple languages, charitable donations, volunteering, plenty of friends...etc. But the true nature of men, hasn’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:19 AM
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My god, so gross! I feel like these scrotes continue to do it because they are getting some success with pick me’s on OLD. I did an experiment about three months ago when I first got on OLD. I didn’t know how to do a profile, so I figured make a fake male profile with no picture/ (I never liked anyone picture or responded to messages) so I can see how girls are building their profiles. OMG, the amount of pick me behavior I saw! Girls straight out talking about sex, saying they want casual sex(ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:12 AM
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It seems like you have better experience, so please make a post so more people would see. Not only do we have to avoid approaching, we also have to avoid any appearance of it. Men are so deprived of attention, that whenever they get it, it goes straight to their head, they start fantasizing about being a Chad. When I actually found out why he had ghosted her, I actually called him and grilled him, Like dude, her first priority was to travel and see a new city, you living there also provided a fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:46 PM
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So many HVWs are completely oblivious to the male psyche. Now, I don’t give advice anymore, I just send links to the sub, come see for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:11 PM
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So true. A male cousin also told me the same during a conversation about why a mutual male friend of ours lost interest/essentially ghosted a female friend of ours, after she offered to take a 45 minute plane ride to go see the guy. Thing was this was a girl with a net worth of about 400k, so money is no problem, she was already on the other side of the country visiting another friend, she loves to travel and had never been to this particular famous city where the guy lived. To her, she was only…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:23 PM
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You are not the evil one here! You need to be firm, strong so that you can start collecting evidence. Cases where the victim and perpetrator know each other don’t usually go anywhere because the guys always claim it was consensual and the male detectives who likely have done the same to their girlfriends will side with the defendant. So be ready to be attacked, for attacks on your integrity, you mental health, your finances, your sexual history. You would be grilled more than he will because the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:56 PM
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“My love language is physical touch” “Good vibes only”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:13 PM
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When everybody was pushing for him to be the bachelor, I was rolling my eyes all the way back. Nope! He apparently went out with one of the girls from this season and he was already out in the press talking about it. 🙄I guess he hasn’t learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:27 AM
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Josiah! I remember him! Well, I hope he’s grown since the show because he was low value and immature asf. Prime example of how an educated man can still be low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:19 AM
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He dated Gigi Hadid for a few weeks and never once ~spilled tea~ during or after their fling. I think that’s a good quality since most men would probably LOVE to yap Aka Mike. Smh. He is so good looking but I get low value vibes from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 11:51 PM
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She dated Ricardo after Serge. The break was kinda messy. They exchanged a bit of words on social Media where she hinted at him having done something to cause the break. So I think this is likely about Ricardo. But I really used to root for her and serge. Too bad it didn’t work out cuz he is beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:37 AM
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I saw the downvotes. I am getting them too. I think she had the courage to post this, counting on this exact dynamic. That the racists and oblivious ones alike will downvote dissenting views, resulting in an echo chamber of her filth going unchallenged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:48 AM
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She mentioned race Oh now she mentioned race! I thought she didn’t mention race? because minorities in general tend to have low socioeconomic backgrounds. And believe it or not, this includes white people (i.e. middle easterners; yes, they’re considered racially white in the US). Again, a post that purport to talk about poverty in relationships does not require to disclose one’s race. Look at my original comment that you responded to, where I talked about poverty and relationships. Do you see th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:38 AM
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I mean the dog whistles aside. Even the other parts of her argument are meritless. Just because someone grew up poor or raised by a single mother, doesn’t mean they grew up without love! WTF? There is no correlation whatsoever! Just because someone grew up without a parent doesn’t mean LV. In that line of reasoning, orphans are inherently LV. Then you add the racism. The whole post is just a cluster f-word!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:05 AM
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She didn’t mention race. Read her last paragraph. She literally uses the word race. In terms of context, she clarified that she’s a minority race because she knew what the implications of her post were. Why else is it important to to qualify with your race, on a post that purport to talk about poverty? All the terms you’ve used can be applied to anyone who comes from a low socioeconomic background. Yet they are not. All those terms are used in academics and every day use to refer to 1 particular…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:36 AM
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Um, where exactly did I say I was offended or that this is offensive? Guess what? No where, I didn’t. Yet here you are saying that I was offended and implying that there is something to be offended about. 🤔 Babes, don’t fight it. Listen to your heart. With every sentence you write, it’s trying so hard to talk to you and you won’t listen. I am just the messenger, your heart is doing the talking, listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 03:53 AM
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No one is looking to « see race ». You’re the one who brought race into the conversation, by name. Read your last paragraph! Why did you feel the need to clarify that you’re a minority, which is completely irrelevant, but somehow you felt the need to qualify your post with this? WHY? Think about it! And I didn’t say anything about race. I only mentioned «race» to quote you. And you got all defensive! Why? It’s your subconscious; it’s talking to you, listen! Some introspection would go along way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 03:32 AM
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Ugh I don’t know how I feel about this. Growing up my mom used to tell me: make sure you pick a man who can provide for you and your kids. The majority of women dating are looking for the comfortable married life and/or having and raising kids. Then a man who can’t financially provide these values, is by extension low value. In simpler terms, broke men are low value for women who want kids and want a comfortable life (most women). There isn’t anything wrong with this line of thinking, imo. Nor i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 03:07 AM
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No problem, babes. I didn’t explicitly nor implied that thousands of dollars were required in order to look « presentable » or « exist in the world ». Rather my original comment was to highlight that in order to look « presentable », women have to pay more due to the very real concept of « the woman tax ». Also, I wanted to highlight the inconsistency between men’s expectations and reality. The comment you responded to was to further expand on the irony of it all and highlight the also real, dis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:43 PM
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Ah, that’s horrible. I’m sorry babes. Glad she’s out of your life. We need to not only kick him out but also #kickherout2020 for the LVW friends who are polluting our lives and refusing to change their ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 11:53 PM
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It’s so sad. And it’s usually girls who think they don’t get enough attention from guys. So they carry that insecurity around. So, the second they get male attention, they view it as the affirmation they’ve been waiting for their whole lives. Are you still friends with her? Like I said I decided to not be friends with them. It was honestly hard because it happened around the same time. I had gone to high school with the two of them and had been friends for years. But I just don’t want that kind …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:11 PM
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Ugh, who knew our chosen profession would become a cock- block?!? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:00 PM
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Oh I see. Yeah, people just don’t get how draining public accounting is. A good support system is a must. I am honestly thinking it’s best to date people in the field as they understand. Have you noticed how most people in the office who are in relationships are either with other public accountants, or other demanding jobs. And all the partners have stay at home/work from home spouses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:33 PM
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What? who has time to cheat 5 days before tax day/deadline!?! I don’t even have time to properly chew the food! Anyways yeah, it’s a blessing. You don’t need that kind of scrote behavior during busy season!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:21 PM
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Omg, public accounting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:10 PM
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Oh my god! This is probably my biggest pet peeve! I can’t stand insecure women who always think a single woman giving them advice is bitter, jealous of their relationship. I’ve actually broken up with a couple of girlfriends because of this. Like if you think I am such a bad person as to give you bad advice and break up your relationship, why are you even friends with me? You can’t have it both ways, want to be friends and at the same time think I am the bitter woman who is working to ruin your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:09 PM
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Like objectively speaking, I think the cost of just the things you said is actually more close to 5k. I went to college so I make more than average income. My make up collection alone is at least $500. My skincare collection is over $1,500 (Biologique Recherche, Skin ceuticals and prescription tretinoin aren’t cheap). This is before we talk about the more frequent maintenance like eyebrows, mani and pedi..and the outfit. I recently went on a date and the guy mentioned how much he loved my dress.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:10 PM
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You misunderstood me. I am not saying that women are required to look like an Instagram model to get dates(heck, the Instagram models don’t look like Instagram models). Nor am I trying to say getting dates is a reason to aim to be financially well-off ( I am not even sure where that’s coming from?!) I brought up the Instagram models to point out the irony. A man sees an Instagram model in the “no make-up, make up look” and goes: I like girls like this Instagram model because “she’s natural”. He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:29 PM
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Someone private messaged me-(Thank you for sharing the tea, you’re the real goat 🤗). So I thought I’d share with the sub. u/feather716 responded to the comment earlier and essentially confirmed it as true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:26 PM
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So, I got some tea on u/feather716 who’s all over these comments complaining about how she feels personally attacked that this sub won’t let her be a pickme in peace. So, “sis” made a comment here that unlike the rest of us, she’s “a queen who didn’t need to do the pick me dance” to find her King. Well it turns out, not only did she dance, she pickme zumba danced her way into her current position as her king’s forever girlfriend of 5 years! The pickme love sad story began when the king met anoth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 11:36 AM
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It’s literally a life goal for them, to land a man. They think it’s an accomplishment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:55 AM
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Keyword: “claimed”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:47 AM
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Still not getting it. Whew! Who knew humor was such a hard concept to comprehend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:31 AM
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OMG, I was actually thinking about making a post about the private messages. It’s craaaazzy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:25 AM
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I think I’m actually being HVW asf by jumping in to help you, since you’re too intellectually challenged to recognize humor when you see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:20 AM
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You know darn right you looked and didn’t find 1 sexist strategy. That’s because there aren’t any. This should tell you more about the sub than any 1 individual out of 45,000+ users. Now about that single post you could come up with. You’re either purposely being obtuse or are maliciously refusing to admit that it was an hyperbole, for the purpose of being humorous. That’s usually how jokes work, you take a real life situation and you exaggerate it. And someone already told you in that post that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:04 AM
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I tell you, it’s always the Dylans🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:49 AM
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I saw your comment history and we can discuss that. But first, I want you to name 1 FDS strategy that’s sexist. Thank you for admitting that there wasn’t anything sexist about this post, though it’s not mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:42 AM
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What’s sexist about this post? Or easier, name 1 sexist strategy on FDS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:27 AM
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I too am just dumb founded by the hate this sub gets. I have to admit that I am actually a bit over protective of the sub but that’s a whole different story. But objectively speaking, what’s there to hate about FDS? That women should level up and exhibit HVW behavior? Don’t drink too much on dates as that would compromise your judgment? Be selective about your sexual partners ‘cause STD’s and pregnancy? Stand up for yourself? What’s toxic about any of this? Most of the complaints I see are about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:10 AM
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Yeah, I think he is HVM. His name is Brian. They got married last year. After about 2.5 years together, they didn’t rush, which I thought was neat. He is was my fav from episode one. He was age appropriate, they had tons of chemistry and he had a regular job. She seriously needs to teach a lesson on how to pick a HVM because of how she handled her last 3 guys. Second runner up, was a black guy who would have been the safe choice, but it was obvious he was pretending. So, she recognized and dropp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 05:36 PM
3

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 05:17 PM
6

So lame, go away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 04:28 AM
11

I agree, your comments are indeed ironic, especially after admitting that you understood the context. Now, get lost, you’re dismissed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 04:19 AM
14

You do know that part of being an HVW is recognizing when you may be in the wrong and walking away? Also, if you’re gonna attempt a clap back, at least be original! Pathetic! 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 04:06 AM
10

So, you understand the context but you’re still acting as though I picked a random profession out of hat? If you feel that some people discuss “random professions”, that’s fine! Bring up your concern under those posts or better yet make a post about it. By your own admission, this wasn’t one of those posts, so what was the point of your comment? You don’t wanna be talked to a certain way? Well then bade, don’t dish it out.... Nor harm, no foul. Have a fabulous night!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:49 AM
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I know! There are so many things wrong crammed within so little space, I don’t even know where to begin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:18 AM
14

I didn’t think I needed to set up the context here but I should have known that not everyone gets out of their bubbles. So, It’s okay, I will be happy to explain. I never thought about dating a trucker either until I was approached by one through my social circle. When he laid out his work schedule, that’s when I knew he would never be home long enough in order to nourish a fulfilling relationship. Also, the profession has a reputation for exactly these kind of shenanigans, maintaining multiple …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:15 AM
27

Forward isn’t that way to the mansion, forward is that way outside of it...Thank you! Savage! I love me some Rachel Lindsay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:09 AM
3

Yes! Not only is it visually shallow, more importantly, it’s intellectually shallow. Ugh, nothing irks me more than when a woman sounds uneducated. But as someone said above and looking at the OP history, I am comforted by the fact it’s likely not a woman or as you’ve suggested, possibly a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:12 PM
3

I wasn’t offended, babes. I was just saying that the way it was written, it just didn’t look scientifically sound. But you said it was just an hyperbole. So... But I agree on the Napoleon complex and wouldn’t doubt that a good number of incels are probably short. It’s socialization to think that their lack of success in dating is due to their height. When in reality, it’s really the way they chose to handle the resulting insecurity that stems from buying into this belief, since as you and other …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 09:24 PM
5

Right! Don’t wanna build up the short guy (understandably) but doesn’t realize she’s building the tall guy at the gym. Such contradiction! Just to tell you that height is bad indicator of quality of the human. Find you an HVM you are attracted to and live your best life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 09:05 PM
5

This is such BS! How does a person’s height determine their propensity to mental illness? What’s the science? The only thing I would agree with in this entire post, is that they’re socialized to be insecure about their height. But who isn’t insecure about a certain aspect of their physique? Even Beyonce has talked about her physical insecurities but by most standard the woman is still pretty high value. This is such bad advice. A person’s height doesn’t determine their value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:59 PM
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True. I had a teacher in high school, Mr. Cauley, explain to us how it was completely normal for a man to be attracted to underage girls as long as they exhibited secondary sexual characteristic. Come to find out, he married one of his students a few years prior. They started dating while she was in his class, I believe 15. Compared to women, when we see teenage boys, our brain immediately goes oh a baby, not a potential partner! Men are so perverted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:59 AM
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*inserts gif of the stick figure standing looking around while the point literally flies past him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:37 PM
10

His response: https://mobile.twitter.com/RoblesTeonna/status/1214272553805463552/photo/1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:31 PM
10

Here’s the thread; https://mobile.twitter.com/RoblesTeonna/status/1213651177042132993
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:16 PM
-1

Lmao at «bravery» BBQ Becky, is that you? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:02 PM
-4

Affirmative action is a delicate, nuanced subject and should not be equated to the evil of patriarchy. Your comments is very tone deaf, hence the cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:16 PM
-2

*cringes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:06 PM
3

Thank you love, best of luck to you as well! We’ve certainly accomplished the big step, which is recognizing the pattern!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 08:35 PM
6

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 04:38 PM
4

Yep! I did that 💁‍♀️ Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 03:36 AM
8

I feel your pain. The hurt hits different when it’s family. It’s so much deeper and raw and really tears at your core. I just take it day by day. Whenever I get weak, I find so much comfort in remembering that I have the moral high ground and had been the best sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 03:26 AM
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This is so true. I actually came to this realization earlier last year. See, I grew up without my dad for reasons outside his control. So, in my head I made my half brothers fill this void in my life. Though they never accepted the responsibility. They’re not bad people, they just didn’t care to fill this void for me, they had their own full sisters to take care of. The best way to explain my relationship with my brothers is “one-Itis.” While, I held them in high regards, they would breadcrumb e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 01:57 AM
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Patriarchy is the disease. All cultures have it, some more than others. That’s why I am a proponent of criticizing culture. If a certain aspect of a culture sucks, it must be called out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 11:14 PM
11

I also love condom free sex. Yes, it feels better, anyone who denies it is lying. I had it with 2 previous LTR/committed boyfriends: one was after he got tested, the other a condom broke and we didn’t realize until later. So we both got tested afterward and were in the clear so we continued on our merry way having condom free sex for the rest of the relationship. With that said, I find out after the end of the relationship that one my exes had cheated on me during the course of the relationship.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:10 PM
2

I wonder which guy she’s talking about? Serge Ibaka or Ricardo Lockette. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 04:33 AM
9

I have heard professional orgs are good. For instance, if you’re black accountant, the NABA (National Association for Black Accountants) might be good. And if going out to dinner/drinks with girlfriends, instead of Chipotle or the club, hit up the fancy spots in town. I still have to test these out in real life, but appears legit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:54 PM
1

Hey babes. Well, I focused on him because I know my behavior was just that a mistake, has no bearing on who I am, my character, my past or future behavior. I know that his behavior is a consequence of my behavior but I can’t go in the past and change any of what happened. So, no reason to dwell on it. Also, I am not sure where you got that I am angry about the whole thing. I am not angry or even feel hurt or used. I don’t think I expressed even 1 iota of those emotions in my OP or responses afte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:16 AM
5

Hey babes thank for the feedback. I agree with so much of what you said. But I don’t believe my behavior that night is a reflection of me. I have never done anything even remotely close before. It was just as bad decision fueled by alcohol, hormones(I was likely ovulating), the roller coaster of getting out of an emotionally abusive situation and being very horny (I hadn’t had sex for 3.5 years prior to that night because I told myself, third time is a charm, the third guy I have sex with is the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:38 PM
4

Thanks for the honesty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 02:23 PM
2

That was the fear, but all signs were pointing there :-(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 02:19 PM
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I’ve only been on OLD for a couple of months. I just can’t help but think he could have been great, if I wasn’t such a pickmeisha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 02:08 PM
6

I know babes, I was sloppy asf! But can you please finish reading the rest and give me your perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 02:05 PM
2

It sounds like you’re saying to start FDSing him now, and see how things go?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 01:57 PM
5

The crazy part is that’s not like me at all. I am in my late 20’s and he is only my 3rd n count and my first time putting out on a first date! But from his point of view though, I probably do this often. No men wants that kind of girl for a relationship! I just got out of an emotionally abusive situation-ship and have only been dating for about 2 months. I wasn’t in the best mental space. I think that’s what contributed to my lapse in judgment. That and the alcohol. To make things worst, the pre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 01:53 PM
4

I wanted tough love and truth, that’s why I came to you ladies. But that’s what I got out of his texts that Friday was that to either 1. he was trying to blow me off after I signaled that I wasn’t trying to hook up again or 2. Push the meet up time so late that most establishments would close and we’d have to go to his place. That’s why I thought I should just take myself out of the equation. Anyways, what do you think did I f*ck up beyond repair? Or should I try to turn this around.?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 01:42 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 01:34 PM
3

I didn’t realize how poor of an excuse football was until you ladies alerted me to it. Now, I am sure there was something sketchy going on, but football was all he could come up with on a whim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:15 AM
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Understood! Will be ruthless next time. But can you imagine this looser! Date with a beautiful woman or football and he picks football. And wants ME to accommodate him! No, thanks! 🙅‍♀️ Football can keep you warm at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:05 PM
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Understood! Will do better next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 09:51 PM
5

Hahah I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 09:49 PM
12

I think I will use your line next time, if I am still interested. But basically with this guy, all signs were pointing to LVM. So his cancelling was the last straw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 05:59 PM
16

Thank you for the feedback. There are a couple minutes between each text. I was getting increasingly angry....lol. Next time, I will keep it all in 1 text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 05:53 PM
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He did respond but it won’t fit in 1 screen but he basically called me flaky because according to him I had cancelled on him before. I scrolled up the texts feed and captured screenshots that I sent him, showing that I never agreed to his original offer, so I can’t be flaky on a date I never agreed to. His response after that was “fair enough”. Anyways, I ghosted him and ignored his subsequent texts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 05:20 PM
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His explanation was....football, he wanted to watch football. It was supposed to be a Sunday brunch date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 05:09 PM
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