"I had no idea this would happen"

Says the man who invites his ex to plan a date for the women vying to marry him where she tells the story of all the good sex they had together. Cue shocked Pikachu face when that said ex ends up crying over him and the other women are upset.

Just a reminder that you don't have to put up with nonsense like this and be the "cool chick". If a guy displays bad judgement and has loose boundaries with his territorial ex, it's totally cool to say "Wow! I love that you guys have such a close friendship! Good for you! That doesn't work for me though. Good luck!" and walk. Never, never fight a guy about his ex. It will make you look "mean" and "insecure". Just walk!

I don't find ANYYYY of the men on the bachelor to be HVM. They are all bland, weak, all about their feeeeeeeeliiings and have as much personality as a howdy doody doll.

I do like watching the show to observe the women's hair, outfits, makeup and nails as they always have the best of the best. Also, their fit bodies inspire me!

And I also like to observe how the alpha females behave. You'll see there are a few women who come from strong families, are really self assured and confident and beautiful. They don't seem to question their worth and many of the other girls hate them. The insecure girls you can tell right away because instead of having a relaxed gaze, they seem antsy and are looking left and right, comparing themselves. They also tend to complain about other women.

I don't come from a good family and have lacked confidence in the past but I've learned how to not give those things away about me, by grooming and dressing well and being confident, friendly and unconcerned about competition. These shows are good for studying if you can survive the cringe and nonsense omg...