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I think lesbian porn is kinda weird. I don't really understand the allure of it. Could you explain it to me? I'm a big fan of penis-in-vagina porn along with really sensual porn. Group sex is cool to watch for the social dynamics. I should be clearer. I tend to lump together cuckold porn with interracial porn. I'm convinced there's a psychological overlap there. There is a white fetishism in minority cultures. I don't think of it in terms of genetics though. It's more of a culture of power and s…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:56 PM
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Mexican women tend to bloat up after a certain age. Metabolism just drops drastically. It's pretty shitty.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:50 PM
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Hold up there. What I'm saying that privilege is passed down, usually in the form of wealth and status ("Don't you know who I am?! I'm the son of the richest man in Manhattan...") The forces of history are what yield forth culture. Those in power determine good and evil (that's Nietzsche's argument). And so you could frame it in terms of sin. I'm more of a Hegellian in that sense that I believe that people are products of the historical background. Returning back to the argument of "dirty hands,…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:29 PM
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Don't have any factual evidence with Elliot Rogers, closeted homosexuality is just something that manifests pretty clearly in some men though. For instance his weird narcissism, resentment towards heterosexual men, slender physique, and mannerisms point to homosexuality. Cuckold fantasies are weird. I think the most interesting argument is that men fantasize about cuckoldry (be it racial or not) because for them they feel that on a biological level women are more likely to get impregnated by an …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:18 PM
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Totally don't know that. That side of the family is EXTREMELY mixed and everything is super convoluted. Just some small towners.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:08 PM
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SORTA. 1) I'm descended from Spanish crypto-jews that fled from Spain because of the Inquisition. Hard to say I'm a colonizer in any capacity. 2) Indigenous violence was typically on a tribal level, sure. But to compare that to the genocide that the Amerindians faced from Europe is a huge mistake in scale. 3) Look, I get it, everyone has dirty hands. That's fair to say. What's important to keep in mind is how that influences equity across race.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 10:57 PM
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I think we're dealing with totally different data sets, hombre.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 10:55 PM
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Black chicks are straight up just rude and nasty. They're the types to straight up just make fun of your dick size. It's all about direct verbal castration in that culture. It comes off as petty and dramatic. They're super quick to make a scene. Latin chicks are the type of women to make you jealous by sleeping with your friend or holding out on sex completely. They use sex as a means of manipulation. As a Latin guy I see it constantly. Usually when a Latin girl is mean it's pretty soul crushing…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 10:29 PM
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TRP has largely been a platform for white men like Roissy (Heartiste) to promulgate their xenophobia onto sexual dynamics. Some of it is really insightful albeit super taboo, like how lower status women tend to be more sexually accepting of minorities. Heartiste calls that "mud sharking". As a handsome Chicano guy with good game I see what he's talking about. Rich white girls tend to look down on me or even just ignore me, whereas white trash girls tend to think I'm hot shit. In the case of Elio…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 10:06 PM
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You're colonized. I'm that way too except it manifests in different ways. So being colonized means that you adopt some of the cultural identity of your oppressors. My coworker is like you. He's a cool dude but he's really into more red neck culture. I'm guessing you grew up in a small town? I'm a Mexican and I grew up in a big city. I like postmodern literature, rock climbing, and art. Chicano hipster i.e. Chipster.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 09:33 PM
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I feel like I've spoken with you before /u/archwinger Your handle looks mighty familiar So I'm going to engage purely from the perspective of devil's advocate because I from what I remember I admire your line of reasoning. Consider this comment as an invite for a healthy debate. So when a girl dumps a guy it's because she's attempting to pluck his emotional heartstrings as a way to manipulate him into compliance and submission. No girl ever wants to be alone; being single for a woman is monument…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 08:28 PM
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In times of macroeconomic financial crisis two groups of people tend to lose their jobs: women and working class men. A degree for a woman ensures that she'll be interesting to (or perhaps be able to manipulate) a rich, successful beta provider when her looks fade and her children have grown, or if neither of those function that she'll be able to provide for herself. This is why you see women in nursing, psychology, education, and communication & journalism. Bitter truth: after about age 21 wome…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 04:41 AM
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Starting off a negotiation with a partner with brusque commands shows a severe lack social skills. You should start off negotiations with more passive comments and slowly move to become more assertive as the other party becomes more resistant. That being said, I'm not telling you to explicitly give the ultimatum "Leave him or leave me." My advice essentially boils down to start expressing your needs slowly yet persistently and continue to amp up the clarity the more she resists.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 10:29 PM
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Just drop hints that that behavior is unacceptable. Say stuff like, "That guy obviously wants to be with you" Ask her why they broke up "He's sort of a creep. I don't like him being around." A good woman will catch on quick that you're giving her the choice between "leave him or leave me".
/r/askTRP16/11/16 08:26 PM
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/12/29/its-easy-to-identify-a-slut/
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:43 PM
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/u/The_Turbinator is correct. Your own inner craziness will attract other crazies. The sooner you make peace with this the happier you will be. Also, as with all relationships, with crazy people you basically have to use an extremely strog frame to forcefully shape them into functional people. Very "Taming of the Shrew"
/r/askTRP14/10/16 01:11 AM
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It does on occasion but there are far more effective measures.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 02:30 AM
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Women are taught from a very young age not to readily sleep with men; their chastity is something of value. So over their lifetime they devise a myriad of ways keep men from fucking them: shit tests, bitch shields, and ignoring guys, just to name a few. Don't take it personal. They're intentionally testing you. It's really childish but also genius on a certain level. Once you see that behavior for what it is you'll be able to anticipate it and deal with it appropriately. With women you have to f…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 09:47 PM
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You can use subtext, sure. But it's also normal for people to communicate directly though. It's ok to say beta things or say things in a beta way sometimes. Vulnerability game is based on that. Being alpha is very different from just stubbornly bullying people around and calculatedly giving cold, terse statements and overall just acting like an angsty teenager. Now for the OP it's clear that his lover already thinks of him as ALPHA. In fact, it's pretty obvious that she's demanding him to essent…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 04:45 PM
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Here's my 2 cents: Women hate, hate, hate the feeling of being abandoned (real or not). They require an immense amount of emotional/financial support to compensate for their lack of ability to be self-sufficient (a lack in physical strength). With that in mind you should always be skeptical when a woman breaks up with you. They're much needier than they lead on. In western societies women tend to be taught that they're not supposed to be direct or aggressive. So how do women try to get what they…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 01:46 PM
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Women are valued for their youth, beauty, and fertility. Men are valued for a few different factors: looks, wealth, social adeptness and status. For instance, here's a reason why Donald Trump marries supermodels. He's a rich, charismatic, high status man, clearly his body isn't all that he has going for him. Confidence matters. I once knew this guy in college named Lewis. Lewis was over 6 feet tall and weighed perhaps 300 pounds if not more. Really obese guy. I had moved away for a year and when…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 07:42 PM
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Alcoholism is really complicated. Like people tend to turn to substance abuse because they feel unhappy with their lives and want an escape. Usually it's a case of too much pressure and responsibility. Typically the SOs of alcoholics are enablers but also tend to have their own deep seeded insecurities. Often those SOs will take out a lot of problems on the alcoholic.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 03:43 PM
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Did she suspect his homosexuality before having the kid?
/r/askTRP24/09/16 03:38 PM
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This is a pretty fair answer. Thanks!
/r/askTRP21/09/16 07:39 PM
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Good advice. I definitely have choked one or two guys back a few years ago. I was my most drunken and violent. Some dudes are just insanely passive aggressive and it's like, "Motherfucker, I'm tired of your shit." Fuck those dudes. I'm not condoning that action NOW but I definitely understand why ANYONE would do it.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 01:44 PM
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I totally agree with you that hypergamy is rampant and replete in western society (thanks feminism, ugh). But I feel like there needs a be a more rigorous threshing out of what hypergamy ACTUALLY looks like, instead of the exaggerated Miranda Kerr-esque caricatures. There's usually a few cases of how hypergamy works in relationships: A woman will emotionally "cheat" on her boyfriend with a lower tier man. A woman will spend less time with her unavailable alpha boyfriend, instead opting to hang o…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 11:32 PM
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It's not as pressing of a need for them, but it's certainly a need. Sex is pretty innate and natural.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 09:39 PM
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Probably the biggest thing to consider is whether or not you ACTUALLY like this girl. If you enjoy her company and are sexually attracted to her then you should be fine staying with her. If you don't like her personality then you should dump her. Same if you find her completely unattractive sexually.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 09:51 AM
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LOL they hate it SO MUCH, it's hilarious. Definitely agree with you on that one. I was once stuck in a traffic jam with a great friend. We saw this bored little girl in the backseat of an SUV. Bored too, I started making faces at her. She would get scared of being so directly acknowledged. However when I would turn away she start making really overt attempts to get my attention. The cycle would've continued but I lost interest in entertaining her. The point of that story is that women crave ackn…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 03:55 PM
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Hot girls only befriend men for validation and support OR for access to whatever privilege and status his attention can bring her. Women are sort of shitty in that way. You certainly WILL benefit from pre-selection but these women will also typically be pretty huge cock blocks. It's not in their interest to have you fuck another woman; they could potentially lose your support. That being said, girls can also sniff out a thirsty dude from a mile away. Most guys flirting is just extremely clumsy a…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 04:38 AM
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I've been thinking about this a lot myself. The philosopher John Searle has this thought experiment called the Chinese Room. In the thought experiment, a person in a sectioned off room uses a book of codes to respond to messages (written in Chinese) that have been sent from the outside. The point is that there is no active thinking going on, it's simply INPUT and the OUTPUT. I have a co-worker like that, and he's constantly overcompensating for his low self-esteem. He's a great guy, goes to the …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 04:25 PM
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Essentially, it allows you to understand what your own intrinsic value is as a person. Essentially, we create a lot of our problems. We allow others to walk all over us. Or we are unhappy with our version of ourselves. Healthy self-esteem means finding serenity in your own life. It's part of self-actualization. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlq7a/notes_on_the_six_pillars_of_selfesteem_by/
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:54 PM
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The first TRM is basically just a cleaned up collection of blog posts. There's some really great entries there. I do recommend it, but it's a slog to get through when you're reading more than a few pages at a time. The second is just leaps and bounds better. Basically, Heartiste wrote a really important post about how to seduce women at different age ranges. Rollo devotes his entire entire book to the subject. It's literally the best TRP theory book I've read. I'm actually going over it again ju…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:29 PM
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Here are the books that I've found super useful: The Rational Male II: Preventative Medicine. It's more polished than the first book and has a more comprehensive structure. The book describes how women's sexuality changes due to social pressures over time. It's fair and levelheaded analysis and a good summary of a lot of red pill truths King, Warrior, Magician, Lover. This is a Jungian examination of the archetypes of masculinity. Written in a very accessible language, this book really focuses o…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:46 PM
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Here's a good thought from Slavoj Zizek https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U88jj6PSD7w
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 10:14 AM
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It's probably a comfort test. She's telling you to shit (commit) or get off the pot. If you really like her go ahead and talk to her. If not then things will be ok.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:52 AM
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The situation is lost. For future reference, you should give girls a time when you're free. This is what's known as taking the lead. Instead of asking: "Hey so when are you free?" You should be saying: "I've been craving Pizza. Let's go to Farina's Pizzeria on Wednesday at 7." With Tinder, the hotter the girl the more she expects alpha (leadership) qualities from a guy upfront.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:42 AM
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What's a guy's life: Constantly fucked in the ass by circumstances. I'm sorry for your friend
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 06:35 PM
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Damn that's a terrible story. If he's that good at Football then he should apply to another school that will give him a scholarship. Or he should just focus on his studies.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 06:03 PM
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Here's some Lacan for you guys. There are typically two levels of communication. First is the overt direct (Aristotlean) form of communication. Like when someone says, "I want to talk to you" it means, "I want to talk to you." The second level is called sub-communication. This is what's not being said implicitly: For instance: "Leave me alone" or "I hate you" or "I'm breaking up with you" usually means, "Pay more attention to me." "Are you seeing anyone?" usually means, "I am sexually interested…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 08:31 PM
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Some more to add for you 25-34 year olds: You can still wear graphic tees but you will be judged more heavily for them. A Jack Daniels t-shirt screams trashy while a Jim Beam t-shirt discreetly conveys a bit more sophistication. Your metabolism is going to start slowing down at this age and you're going to start putting on man weight (both muscle and fat). Start buying clothes that account for this. Higher waisted pants and shirts made for broader body types. With sneakers, you should either opt…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 05:32 PM
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Women biologically have a huge peripheral range of eyesight. Typically if they like you they'll keep you in their peripheral line of sight. If they don't like you they'll usually turn away from you completely, and have very closed off body language. Also, here's a crib sheet of eye contact rules.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 06:31 PM
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Building relationships out on the east coast just takes time and a certain level of assertiveness. People are just super isolated from one another.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 01:39 PM
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Well, consider how hurt you've felt when a girl rejected you. Girls are just way more likely to feel rejected just out of regular female insecurity. It's fairly immature. The best remediation is just to start gaming them slowly.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 01:36 PM
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Real talk, real IOIs are often WAY more subtle than you'd expect. Instead of staring at you, a girl will desperately try NOT to make eye contact. She's so nervous and filled with attraction she simultaneously wants and yet dreads your attention Girls negging guys. This is usually a sign of an older woman that's been banged out by alphas and has lost or just lacks a lot of her socialization skills. Women and gay men will touch you WAY more. Like they get more physically aggressive and invade your…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 08:37 PM
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Really? I've actually only noticed women will break up with dudes for two reasons: They realize they don't have the set of tools to be able to deal with you and your. This usually goes hand in hand with them preparing to swing branches They fake break up with you to try to get you to commit to them more. It's really manipulative and immature, but it often works. Women are physically weaker than men. That's just pure biology. Plus there's also a lot of social pressure for them to be extremely una…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 09:16 PM
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TBH, in that situation it doesn't really matter WHAT you say so much as HOW it's delivered. Just show her that you're comfortable with your sexuality and that you're savy enough to read the signals that she's sending you.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 08:48 PM
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Think about it this way: God could reach down from the sky and plop you down somewhere completely foreign and chances are that you'll end up fine. However women aren't able to do that. They're heavily reliant on their social networks for survival. For a female, getting dumped is about the worst punishment they can go through. That being said, if you're breaking up with a chick, chances are she probably deserves it. Don't get me wrong, she probably has something mentally wrong with her that merit…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 08:27 PM
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They store them for a very limited amount of time. It's really inconvenient evidence
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 07:52 PM
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You think so? Girls really like when you alternate between building attraction and building rapport. You can say nice things to girls sometimes.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 07:34 PM
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Pull back, smile, and say, "I'm having a really good time." If a girl is backing up like that it's because she feels really uncomfortable moving that quickly. Let the chemistry cool down a bit. You don't need to touch her or tease her at all at this point. Instead, focus on building rapport. Women have a pretty strong radar for being pumped and dumped, so sometimes you have to build up some trust and familiarity.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:08 AM
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My two cents. The world is going to push you down. It's only natural that it's going to hurt; that's simple cause and effect. Sentimentality is a real thing, and the fact that you can feel love or emotional pain is proof that you're human. In order to grow as a person you need to acknowledge that you have emotions, that they form a core part of your identity and hence are valuable. Part of inner game involved able to bounce back after experience pain or trauma. You're now finally confronting the…
/r/seduction04/08/16 06:50 PM
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THIS. Krauser is pretty step by step, and a household name in the Manosphere. I really recommend it.
/r/seduction03/08/16 06:38 PM
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5HTP is a natural supplement. It's a form of tryptophan that also has melatonin and serotonin. There have been no side effects. I sleep great and I feel less bummed out. No bad side effects for me!
/r/askTRP01/08/16 10:18 PM
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Start by dropping hints, like asking her what sort of exercise she likes. Then you should start inviting her to go to the gym with you. If she still resists then you're allowed to tell her something like, "I'm concerned for you. I think that you haven't been keeping yourself in shape. I want you to be healthy. Let's go to the gym, babe." Do that for about a week. If she still resists then threaten to dump her. Then dump her.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 07:52 PM
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Most of the answers you're getting for this question, while good, are pretty involved. Let me break things down: The point of small talk is to find common points of interest. Music, movies, fashion, books, cars, sports, etc. Try to actively connect with others more. Try to figure out what sort of childhood they have. What are their passions and insecurities? You should also be sharing some of yourself. Talk about the things you enjoy talking about. Finally, start practicing "push pull". Make fun…
/r/seduction25/07/16 11:10 PM
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Day Game Mastery by Krauser is a masterpiece. It's detailed and incisive. Definitely not for a beginner, but once you reach a stage of being unplugged it'll make getting laid so much easier. Very expensive but so wonderfully detailed. The Six Pillars of Self Esteem by Nathaniel Branden is wonderful. It's all about finding value in yourself and learning how to fully embrace your own identity. You'll learn a lot about how low self-esteem contributes to self sabotaging. King, Magician, Warrior, Lov…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 06:15 AM
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The Stranger is all about coming to grips with the absurdity of being alive. Meursault, the indifferent protagonist, lives his life never fully embracing the central sensuality of being present in the moment, instead just going through life in a detached manner. His mom dies. He helps a man try to attack the man's wife. He even kills an Arab (the brother of the wife who was attacked). Meursault is arrested and then executed, fully embracing the fact that the universe is indifferent to blights of…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 06:04 AM
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I totally understand what you're saying. I once dated this girl, she was around 28, who demanded that I enter into a monogamous relationship with her before we had sex. I really enjoyed spending time with her but I felt that that kind of request was immoderate (especially since I had found out she had banged a bunch of guys that I knew and was basically preparing to get off the cock carousel). The breaking point was just how many head games she played with me, trying to get me to commit. Everyth…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 06:02 PM
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So, one of the basic laws of seduction (taken from the Mystery Method) is that it takes about 8 hours of face time to have sex with any girl. There are a few ways that you shorten that time: alcohol, social media, and time dilation on dates. Time dilation means that you go to multiple venues with a girl so it builds this false sense of familiarity. It's insanely effective. Proper seduction (and basically all relationships) usually will recquire you to be both alpha and beta. Stick to the rhythm …
/r/askTRP23/07/16 06:15 PM
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She likes you a lot. Just keep at it for a few more dates. Try building some comfort by telling her about your life.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 09:18 AM
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Here's a post from the AskWomen subreddit that accurately describes what confidence looks like: Physically, confident guys are much more calm or deliberate in their movements. There's not tonnes of figiting etc. They just seem to be able to settle into a position and become relaxed. This also goes for walking - which comes across as more deliberate and natural. They're also not generally concerned about how much space they occupy. Not like, randomly sprawling, but just able to keep square should…
/r/askTRP23/07/16 07:37 AM
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Only insecure women will suggest bringing a friend along to a date. Most people know that a first date is the romantic equivalent to a job interview. There's some real hamstering behind "bringing a friend". Often, they're a bit scared to meet up with JUST you. Younger girls (15-25) do this because the pressure of sexual intimacy is too much to bear. Typically these girls have been alpha widowed by a some pool boy or dude in a band. Older insecure women that have been banged out more will replace…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 10:37 PM
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IMO once you learn to read the signs that a woman is a slut you can easily adjust your game and your goal
/r/askTRP10/07/16 02:05 AM
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Good. The best thing to remember is that with seduction, as with life, you get what you think you deserve.
/r/seduction30/06/16 06:27 PM
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I'm a lot like you. Let me give you some general advice: You don't need to say hi to every woman you see. In fact, since you seem like an introvert, doing that will be really counterproductive. You should talk to only two different women: Women that give clear signs of interest and women that you're familiar with. Alos here's a Venn diagram I made about my romantic relationship to women. Realize that all women will fall into these categories. In high school I was really into theater. What helped…
/r/seduction29/06/16 11:58 PM
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Especially attractive women rarely get hit on properly. Most dudes are just really awkward and haphazard in dealing with them. But they do get a lot of attention. Dating one of these girls always feels bizarre. My advice is to just practice a natural line of pick up conversation on multiple girls and see what works.
/r/seduction29/06/16 09:21 AM
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Once you show someone that you don't respect yourself they're not going to respect you either.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 09:42 PM
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I feel like positions are probably determined by both productivity as well as social status. Productivity tends to vary between the job and the person, considerations of social status is where discrimination typically take place, although productivity tends to be where higher ups cite.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 06:22 PM
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There's a big difference between labor value and discrimination. I mean, if a woman does less work than a man then she deserves pay. This is typically the case in labor intensive fields like construction. Just like men can't as easily make a living wage from stripping (there are fugly women at the strip club in my town, ugh). Systemic oppression (is more like, the system itself prevents women from succeeding. Like colleges not admitting women, or the OP not being able to get a promotion because …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 02:42 PM
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You're doing what you have to do to get ahead. You're crafting a good skill set. You're making money. That's good. I'm glad you're doing those things; that means you have your head in the game. I re-read what I wrote and realized the tone was way too harsh. Yes, women will get some jobs easier. Their value in those position is determined by looks. That's your observation (which you cite as something as neither new or insightful). What I'm trying to point out is that you need to frame your proble…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 12:16 AM
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Why not become a contract worker?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 11:01 PM
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YOU'RE IN MARKETING. How is this any surprise at all? Just this post alone shows your lack of marketing skills and experience. As /u/Snazzy_Serval pointed out, your value increases more slowly over time. How does it do that? Because you have more experience. Just think of it in terms of management in the service industry. Hot bartenders and servers are a dime a dozen. Their good looks make them people of relative value. However this small amount of value makes them passive aggressive, entitled, …
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:35 PM
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This is pretty hilarious. They're probably just yanking your chain. I feel like as a dude, if you're about to get laid you take compulsory note of it, if only to make sure you're aware of your notch count. She's just trying to guilt you so she can win the argument. Just imagine the rest of your life going like this.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 01:14 AM
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Yeah man, you can be friends with whoever you want. Just don't expect her to be an especially good friend. Once women hit their 20s their self esteem goes through the roof. It's justified since they're at their prime fertility and hotness. But if you're not fucking ten or trying to fuck them or even date them they'll have very little use for you. It's retarded
/r/askTRP02/06/16 05:10 AM
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I've never heard that expression about the camel's nose. What does it mean?
/r/askTRP24/05/16 03:28 PM
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IMO there are a few routes that a first date will take: There's no chemistry. No kissing. No touching. The conversation wasn't bland and inoffensive like eating cornflakes with water. This girl has probably been alpha widowed, is probably really smart but outwardly acts stupid, and is into a superficial lifestyle of posting stupid shit on social media, cute animals, top 40s pop music, and has severe communication problems in general. They tend to have careers in finance or business, love playing…
/r/seduction19/05/16 09:38 AM
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Part of the courtship and seduction process involves, at it's core, a pushing of boundaries. You don't ask girls to kiss them, there's no forthright agreement to have sex. She decides what's ok and what's not. Abuse is a lot like that to. Constant violation of boundaries. The difference is that with abuse there's usually this feeling that you're not able to walk away. That you're trapped and that's a bad thing. In a healthy relationship you should feel that you're able to leave. But you also fee…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 02:17 PM
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Everyone has their own sense of humor. Humor is basically a coping mechanism. That's why comedians tend to be so neurotic. They're coping with some deep emotional neurosis through their jokes. When you're interacting with a girl your main strategy should be to entertain yourself, not them. Although definitely try to make your humor accessible. Try watching some of your favorite stand comedians and emulate them. Other than that, don't push yourself to fit any one mold. Figure out what suits you b…
/r/askTRP16/05/16 07:03 AM
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Knowing the problem is the first step. You've got this. Here are some basic tips: Try to get her to talk about herself. People love talking about themselves Try to show her how you to have things in common Older women want to feel hot and like you're interested in them; they tend to have really low self esteem Physically lead, like literally walk in front of her Plan your date out in stages First meet somewhere out in public like in a park or a plaza. Then progress to a busy coffee shop. Keep th…
/r/askTRP14/05/16 07:27 PM
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Men's sexual market value (SMV) is largely determined by either their actual accomplishments and/or their perceived potential. Potential/Accomplishment is largely determined by either your ability to lead, earn, or produce. Examples Hierarchy is an important determining factor. A movie star is more attractive than some schmuck acting in a tv commercial, however both are more attractive than an unpaid acting intern. Politicians like Bill Clinton get mad pussy. Leaders of men are seen as strong an…
/r/askTRP14/05/16 07:08 PM
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Women experience orgasm from a lot of different stimulation that sets a mood. Dirty talk, sweet talk, physical dominance, physical intimacy. Everyone has had pretty good answers so I'll just add my two cents: Be receptive to what signals she puts out. If she's laying there like a cold fish it means she wants you to be more proactive during sex: move her body around, hold her closer to you If she seems responsive to your touch that means she likes what you're doing. Girls love being touched all o…
/r/askTRP14/05/16 06:57 PM
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Really short term advice: Draw boundaries for yourself. If they step over those boundaries then either you confront them or just minimize how much time you deal with them. I see this dynamic all the time. There's always one really insecure guy trying to be top ape. The problem is that he doesn't really understand the responsibilities of being top ape: Deciding what to do at crucial times, confronting danger, inspiring and motivating people within his group. He's the kind of guy that likes to tal…
/r/askTRP14/05/16 06:31 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=88&v=j1UZe5Z62X4
/r/askTRP11/05/16 06:05 PM
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I'm sure you know this, but a lot of TRP principles are basically just a behavioral economics approach to sex, which Daniel Kahneman is ALL about. It's a pretty great read and will helps bolster some TRP knowledge
/r/askTRP11/05/16 06:01 PM
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Think of it like the dentist. The dentist will send you birthday cards and reminders for teeth cleaning. You most likely ignore them. Women are the same way. Don't text them frequently. Just once in a while like every other week or longer. They'll usually come around.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 07:00 AM
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I understand why you'd say that. You want things to be an open or shut case. I'm the same way. However, the dynamics that are at play are very complicated. The language of mind games is powertalk. Women's motivation for playing mind games is to procure your commitment (i.e. your time, attention, support, etc). For women, their source of power comes from playing mind games (flaking on you, making you jealous, etc). If you signal to them upfront that their sexuality has no power over you then you'…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 09:09 PM
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It's part of being a person. Women avoid those responsibilities because society lets them. Men HAVE to face reality
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 03:25 PM
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Say it like you'd say, " That's called a double bacon quarter pounder." It sounds awkward because it IS awkward. That's how new turns of phrase always sound at first. Consider that line "You used to call me on my cell phone." It's extremely awkward but now it's become commonplace. Technical writing and giving speeches is part of my job. All that aside, women's mode of communication doesn't revolve around literal, straightforward coherent messages. They speak Powertalk. I once saw a girl on the d…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 03:20 PM
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Lol Good advice. My mo used to cheat on my dad all the time. He'd get drunk and beat me. So as a result I hate cheating
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 03:08 PM
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Do whatever you want to do. Be prepared for the consequences
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 03:40 AM
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Trust me, I know. I used that very same move to get used out of a tight jam- a false sexual assault charge at my college. It's better to just steer clear of troubled waters. Don't put your dick in crazy
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 03:40 AM
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I used to be the same way.This one time I had a girl spread a sexual assault rumor, and a few other girls I had dumped started spreading them too, including a girl I turned down like that. Now I stick to powertalk
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 03:07 AM
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Girl IS interested, I asked her out discreetly. I know what I'm doing
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 12:53 AM
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That's why I said it's a good one
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 12:44 AM
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It's more like saying, "I don't care."
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 12:44 AM
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I feel like the common objection I've gotten from this post is just, "Why don't you plate her? Or use her as a pivot?" I don't plate girls with boyfriends. It's an uphill battle that's NEVER worth the effort. Not only does your game have to be on point, it's just a huge emotional sinkhole, AND it's never ending. Like you have to continue to try to fuck several other women concurrently (which for me is just draining, but if that's your style then go for it, I have a hard time believing most TRP g…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 12:40 AM
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You do your thing. I'll do mine
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 11:02 PM
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Some girls get really hurt by the "No thanks". But it's a good one
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 10:06 PM
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Did it. It sucked. Not worth it
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 10:03 PM
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I know. Not interested. Doing that successfully requires living a lifestyle of constantly plating women (puerarchy). I'm traditionally more of patriarchal type. K rather than r selection
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 09:20 PM
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I've tried it once or twice. Made me feel like a dick. Plus they'll just continue to play mindgames and start drama even if you plate them. It's a huge emotional sinkhole. If that's what you want then cheers
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 08:57 PM
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Women aren't dumb. They are raised to use powertalk. Saying "LJBF" is powertalk. They understand what all the responses indicate
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 08:49 PM
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Let's refine this discussion: Your target should be that you should game the woman you find most attractive. This is what I mean by gaming a girl. I understand that you're trying to say make her jealous. And it's good basic advice. I believe that this is what you meant by gaming/sleeping with her "hotter" friends. The mistake you're making is a semantic one. By "hotter friend" you just mean "friend". As someone that has actually done that, it sort of works. It alienates you from the girl you rea…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 08:48 PM
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I personally hate being a branch swing. I'm sure a lot of guys are the same way. It's a boundary and a value judgment. I'd rather date a million ugly single women then waste time pursuing one hot chick that's going to fill my life with endless drama.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 08:48 PM
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Sure. That's how one builds attraction on an initial cold approach. The powertalk I'm listing here is in that same genus of social interactions: "Everything-Is-Normal-But-We-Both-Know-It's-Not". But the circumstances here are way different. LJBF rejections tend to come from women that are familiar with you. In power talk terms it means: I genuinely like you as a person "I'm still undecided about you" or, sometimes, "I definitely do NOT like you romantically". I don't want the pressure of having …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 08:19 PM
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I see what you mean. But what about the case if SHE is the hottest girl in her social circle? You should be gaming the hottest girls in the first palce
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 07:50 PM
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Hah, I used to go to UMass Amherst! The political climate in that area is weird. Being sandwiched between two all-girls schools, a stoner liberal arts college, and a rich/smart kid school really makes UMass stand as sort of just a generic state party school. The weird, struggled breathes of Feminist hostility sometimes can be heard at UMass Amherst but mostly I'm just surprised anyone hears it at all. College kids are weird and confused, but I think most people distance themselves from any belie…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:27 PM
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Here is a list of iois. If in doubt, if a girl puts herself in your proximity that means there is some interest. Work on recognizing these signals, but also just work on some 30 day challenges from the MAIN /r/TRP forum. Monk mode is basically just forsaking socializing to work on fitness, fashion, psychological and work related goals. However social is just as important. As any adult will tell you, jobs and lays come from networking as much as it does from perseverance
/r/askTRP18/04/16 05:10 PM
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The driving force of hypergamy is female entitlement. Women feel entitled to "have their cake and eat too". There are many factors that determine entitlement: Inflated ego. Women that it get hit on constantly tend to perceive their own value as much higher than it actually is. Patriarchal vs. feminist upbringing. Women with patriarchal backgrounds tend to be way more conservative/repressed sexually, and so typically aren't likely to cheat. That wing said, the generally only date the most generic…
/r/askTRP18/04/16 02:01 AM
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TL;DR Do both My biggest fashion advice to a newbie is to just update your wardrobe with a few basic pieces: Two pairs of jeans that fit. Old Navy offers good options for a really low prices. $20 x 2 = $40 Some plain t-shirts, polos, etc. free from holes or stupid logos/designs. H&M and Target have tees for $7. So lets say you're buying 8 (for every day of the week). $7 * 8 = $56. Let's round up to $60. A hoodie or light second layer. $15 A light nylon rain jacket. $15 A nice jacket for cold wea…
/r/askTRP16/04/16 10:47 PM
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TRP tends to focus more on the sexual strategies of women. Stuff like "Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks" (women tend to sleep with hot guys to get his genetic stock while trying to keep rich nice men to help provide a sustainable environment for the kiddo). It's more theoretical in its approach PUA is more about praxis (practical application). Here you'll learn routines, lines, and the basics of body language. It's considered the founding branch of TRP. Has a bunch of goofy lingo like "Going sarging with …
/r/askTRP15/04/16 10:38 PM
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Depends: If you want to be in a relationship then go to the party. Expect that she'll show you off and be prepared to grease the palms of her friends. She's welcoming you into her world If you want to keep her as a plate then just hang out one on one.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 10:26 PM
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I mean less of the actual compliment and rather more of how they treat you
/r/askTRP15/04/16 03:17 AM
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I personally think you should try it just for the experience. The whole red pill mantra AWALT (all women are like that) basically means that women are always looking to jump ship for a more alpha guy, much like guys' attitudes towards jobs. Go in with the expectation that if she gives in she's probably going to cheat on you if you start fucking up too much OR that she may or may not sleep with you, stick with her beta, and stone wall you until she's single
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:51 AM
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Ok, first, women's n-count is determined by the equation: real N= (stated n)*1.2, with a rounding error upwards If a girl says 9 she means 11. Second, women are long term material up until 10 partners. Anything greater than that means that they'll be unable to form a meaningful relationship with a man, and it becomes incrementally harder when they have more partners. Here's a good article that lists out the sociosexual hierarchy for women http://voxday.blogspot.com/2010/07/mailvox-hierarchy-of-f…
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:45 AM
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HAH, the "weird" reasoning. Have you ever noticed that when you hook up with a chick they project all these weird fantasies on you? Like they're totally fixated on weird stuff like you being the "hot bad boy at the bar"? Or like, "the tough guy that lustfully goes after them"?
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:22 AM
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I imagine there's a profound UNHAPPINESS in being a sigma male. They must have a high degree of internalized alienation
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:16 AM
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Easiest way to think about it, Sigma males are alphas that happen to be extremely independent. There are two big dimensions that determine where you stand in the hierarchy: Status. Status is defined by the three P's of social stratification (Power, property, and prestige). A quarterback, politician, and rich businessman all have a high degree of status, all bolstered by their ability to produce, control, and achieve. This is a result of external referencing (always checking outside oneself befor…
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:15 AM
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I thought he was gay...?
/r/askTRP15/04/16 01:34 AM
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That's pretty hilarious, but yeah not especially involved or interesting. Just downvote it. I mean, I get up and downvote a for being a bit more middling in my posts (advising people to strike a happy balance between red pill knowledge and bro able to operate normally in society). Not worth getting too upset publicly over. If anything you should think of it as motivation for making GOOD posts
/r/askTRP14/04/16 06:38 AM
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All manipulations just require some response of frame control and agree & amplify. Example: If a girl flirts with another guy the best responses are... Flirt with another girl in front of her Tell them they look cute together Ignore them Leave
/r/askTRP14/04/16 06:21 AM
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I don't consider this trolling since /r/asktrp is more for asking advice. That being said, a lot of the guys that post haven't really read enough TRP theory in the first place to get a well rounded understanding of it. This is a bit more of a shit post. But again it's not the main forum anyway. If you don't think the question is useful then just downvote it
/r/askTRP14/04/16 06:12 AM
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Honestly, I suggest reading The Rational Male II. Best book on sex and human relations out there
/r/askTRP14/04/16 06:08 AM
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Most people are telling you to leave the job but not telling you why. You should leave because they're treating you as though you were a clueless loser. By forcing you to play by their petty rules they're trying to marginalized you into a very limited role. They receive your skill set without giving you anything in return that would help you further your career in life. You have two options: Gun for the leadership position Quit for a new job I really suggest reading this series on the Gervais Pr…
/r/askTRP14/04/16 06:06 AM
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Could you give an example??
/r/askTRP14/04/16 05:54 AM
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Insecure people suck and fuck that soon after getting out of a relationship. If you're dating someone that insecure then the relationship was bound for failure anyway Although it does need to be saying, if a girl is leaving you for someone else then she'll usually be honest with you about it. And that that isn't a comfort test. Also, the extent of betahood should be balanced with equal alphahood. If you forgot her birthday then take her out on a nice date. If you cheat on her regularly she'll pr…
/r/askTRP13/04/16 03:02 AM
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False. Being extremely beta would mean becoming needy and possessive. I'm not advocating that at all Good relationship skills means balancing alpha behavior with beta behaviors. Even Roissy advocates for this. It's just a common sense approach. Remember, a comfort test is basically the inverse of a shit test
/r/askTRP13/04/16 02:16 AM
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Good response from /u/touchingsound Girls throw out comfort tests because they're feeling insecure. This could be because of your elevated SMV, jealousy plots, or a shaky relationship due to lots of fights. They're a form of shit test that you're basically SUPPOSED to fail in a certain sense. Example: A really big comfort test is when a woman breaks up with you. They don't actually want to leave you behind. Why would she shirk off the resources you bring them? The only time they will do that is …
/r/askTRP13/04/16 01:39 AM
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You'll have to explain the break up in depth before we can pinpoint what the real problem is
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:40 PM
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Yep, I'm from New Mexico. To be honest, I didn't know I was a cryptojew until I took a genetic history test. Cryptojew heritage is actually really prevalent all over the southwest. Basically just look for anyone with a squash or hook nose, lighter skin, and facial hair. It's likely that that person is a descendant of a Jew the fled from Spain during the Inquisition. It comes from my dad's side of the family. For visual reference my dad looks like a cross between Jacques Derrida and The Dos Equis…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:02 PM
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Training is really important to me. I hate jobs where I have to jump into something in the midst of action. Big corporations are really good at this. Smaller businesses tend to lack the resources for it. I imagine this will change as I gain more experience, but for now I definitely require it. Supportive coworkers. I once worked with all women, all self centered, all gossip, all sass. Never once did ANY of the offer to help me on anything, rather just using their seniority to bully me into doing…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 06:51 PM
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Nah
/r/askTRP12/04/16 05:14 PM
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Think about the last time you went grocery shopping. Did you talk to anyone new or did you just go about your business picking out a giant tin of biscuits and some bed time tea. Imagine the latter. After graduating your life quickly starts to resemble these solitary, mundane outings. It's depressing. So how do you meet people? Anyone who has practiced pick up artistry knows that it's REALLY hard. So you have to be realistic about meeting new people Approach anxiety will always haunt you. It's wo…
/r/askTRP11/04/16 04:10 PM
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Journaling. Talking to friends. Translating your thoughts and feelings Ito words is the first step to dealing with them. A therapist helps the most because they offer a different perspective and a wealth of professional knowledge
/r/askTRP11/04/16 02:32 PM
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It's just an example of using humor to deflect questions. Most girls don't actually care enough to persist as long as they think they're screwing an alpha male
/r/askTRP11/04/16 02:29 PM
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Long story short, yes. Status (which is determined by power, property, and prestige) really only gets your foot in the door with most women. Keeping them around is a matter of keeping them hooked emotionally. That's the missing dimension of Briffault's law. Not enough emphasis on emotional engagement. I'm sure you've known couples where the dude is total burnout scumbag, but the woman stays because she's happy with her little shitlord. That said Women will typically cheat for a few reasons: to m…
/r/askTRP11/04/16 06:53 AM
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All the time. Miranda Kerr is the best example of an extremely hypergamous modern woman and the Mano sphere has dissected her at length.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 06:27 AM
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It's interesting. I'm an introverted 25 year old and have been experiencing post grad life for a few years now You start to really confront the big existential problems more seriously. What you want to do with your life, what kind of job, friends, lovers you choose keep around, where you want to love etc. It's a pain but you get to experience life in all it's richness at this age You have to actively socialize more. Classes are an easy way to meet people. Once that's gone you have to learn how t…
/r/askTRP11/04/16 06:17 AM
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There's a really great article in the sidebar about PowerTalk. Basically, women communicate based on subtext/nonverbal cues rather than just straightforward talk. Basically they're always fucking with you, testing to see if you have big cojones. It's kinda petty and immature, but once girls trust you and are attracted they'll drop the bitch shield
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:59 AM
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Emulate the socially successful. Get in shape get a nice hair cut shower learn some jokes and stories learn to have a conversation get broader interests so people can relate to you when courting a girl don't be too pushy practice good body language
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:55 AM
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It's an evolutionary thing. We tend to find women attractive base do if they're genetically different from us. As a Latino(1/2 Mexican 1/2 Spanish crypto Jew) I have a high attraction to tall thin white women and curvy Latinas (so fucking fertile). But Asians, blacks, natives, and some middle eastern women are typically unattractive to me. The other factor of attraction depends on just your history with another race. Like when I was a kid the white girls thought I was safe and endearing (beta or…
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:50 AM
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Typically you never want to give a girl a direct answer to any question unless she presses. Example: HB10: "How many women have you slept with?" Chad Thundercock: "68. Wanna be number 69?" HB10: "No seriously" Chad: "Aren't you nosy! I'll have to check the ledger" HB10: "C'mon. You're telling me you seriously don't know?" Chad: "Why are you so interested? What a perv haha!"
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:42 AM
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I like your response. Full of wisdom and empathy
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:35 AM
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It really just depend on how good your game is. At a certain point your game gets so good (you've internalized enough alpha behaviors and believe in yourself) that keeping around a hot chick (or even multiple hot chicks) around becomes easy, and it doesn't matter you either way. Many celebrities and athletes are this way. It's a nice goal to shoot for but it's realistically hard to reach
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:33 AM
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I used to date a Swiss model. I understand your pain. A common saying is "Beauty fades". It's meant to comfort people who have been dumped by a really attractive person. It puts things in perspective that eventually your lover will grow old, ugly and all that's left is their personality. It's a nice bit of wisdom but doesn't make you feel any less bad for losing a nice sexual commodity. This is also why we say "there are plenty of fish in the sea". Meaning, you'll be able to have other relations…
/r/askTRP11/04/16 01:27 AM
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Shooting them random texts is pretty low investment. Most girls will understand if you're busy so long as you communicate with them well. If nothing else at ok to let them drop. There are always other women
/r/askTRP10/04/16 03:43 AM
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General tips if you've been accused: Don't talk to anyone unless you absolutely trust them Don't have any contact with the accuser Get a lawyer. Your state or city bar should have a referral service Your immediate goal with anything legal is to prevent things from becoming overblown. If you can stop things at the pre-indictment phase (I.e. Before going to court) then that's your best bet. It's never worth the risk of being registered as a sex offender Save all the evidence you can. Rest assured,…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 03:38 AM
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It shows you don't discriminate against women. It's a really effective strategy, having had used t myself when I was accused of rape/sexual assault
/r/askTRP10/04/16 03:28 AM
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The whole thing about the red pill is that you should be re-orienting your entire life around yourself. Your health, wealth, aspirations, and happiness. Anything less than that is bullshit. What is your goal in life? Invest your money into that. For instance: If you want to be a painter then invest your time and money into painting, buying paint, etc. If you want to start a restaurant then invest some money into taking business and culinary arts classes If you have mental or dental problems that…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 06:10 PM
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Some general tips: Hang out with each plate less frequently. Once a week max. No sleep overs Tell them, "I don't believe in labels like boyfriend or girlfriend. What matters is if you're happy when you're with me" No meeting friends or family
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:10 AM
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The best lines are the most simple. Ok I don't care Word That's cool A picture of a cat with a birthday cake Some pick up sites say "Good, I don't want you to have my kid" is a good line. I've used it to success but it's kinda brutal and will make you feel sleazy. Anytime you hear that line there's an element of a shit test. If she seems resistant at all then back off and re-engage after a cool off period. Rinse and repeat until she either wants to have sex or leaves
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:01 AM
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Best answer
/r/askTRP03/04/16 08:04 AM
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I'm ok in that area. I'm asking for an answer (which was a good answer), not hostility. I don't understand why you're picking a fight
/r/askTRP02/04/16 10:21 PM
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And so if asktrp isn't for asking question about TRP then what is it for?
/r/askTRP02/04/16 10:18 PM
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Relax man. Jeez
/r/askTRP02/04/16 06:31 PM
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FWIW people from TRP generally give great advice. Masculine and logical. My objection is the accompanying hostility. I'm just asking for advice, but for some reason I get all this accompanying disrespect
/r/askTRP02/04/16 05:45 PM
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I believe this is why I'm "asking" TRP. Jeez
/r/askTRP01/04/16 08:47 PM
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Woah man, that's some pretty hostile passive-aggression. What's wrong?
/r/askTRP01/04/16 08:21 PM
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Text her something to the effect of "Did a mad scientist steal your DNA? I thought I saw you at the mall the other day
/r/askTRP01/04/16 08:04 PM
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I once knew this philosopher from Montreal. He once shared this insight with me about teaching: You have a choice which students you can help. There are the brilliant who will go on the shine brightly with or without you. There are also the lazy ones, those who will make your aid absolutely useless whether they're intelligent or not. Then there are the hard workers, those without stellar talent but tons of motivation. The hard workers are the ones you should spend your time on; they will make yo…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 03:27 AM
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Haha oh yeah the Pareto Principle. I remember that from Econ classes. So the correct way to think about about that dispersion is: 20% of men have access to 80% of all women. Basically, the bad boy in a shitty local band is in the same 20% as guys like Obama. These guys are in that upper echelon of "alpha-dom". These guys are alpha because they have game, and they have game because they are alphas. It's a nice virtuous cycle of affirmation. Also 80% of your overall lays will come from 20% of the …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 11:28 PM
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All men have an idea of what game is. For instance, many betas think that white knighting is game. Others think that dressing extremely foppish is good game. Some work out like crazy. Others tell way to many jokes without closing. These men sort of have the right idea. Good game is a having an abundance of all those traits and using them as selling points during a date. Think of real estate sales. A good real estate agent knows exactly what their client is looking for and what their deal breaker…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 09:39 PM
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In an analogue way, if a woman that REALLY likes you then she will basically tell you how to game her (how responsive she is to negs, how she wants you take her sexually, to tell her that you play guitar, etc). On some level they KNOW what game is
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 09:07 PM
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Relax. I just said we're on the same page about marriage. On the subject of choice and motivations: Motivations are determined by our values (For instance, I value the journey of finding truth, hence I decided to study philosophy). Our values are determined by our feelings (Truth makes me feel as though my world is oriented correctly and thus more stable and same) Our feelings are determined by our history and our attitude. (I pursue this "correct orientation" because I grew up in a really tumul…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 05:45 PM
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We've spoken before on here. You're the guy who's REALLY anti-marriage. We agree on this point that marriage is a broken institution. So what you're talking in your comment is one-line summary of utilitarianism. The thing is that people violate this rule of utilitarianism all the time. Like, people continue to get married despite it being the worst idea for a man to do. I think the more refined way to think about things is that people choose what action that benefits their motivations. For examp…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 04:53 PM
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So that's what's called "Behaviorism" and is really good for understanding most or the inner workings of people. However it's important to remember that as human beings we're MORE than our actions. That's what makes us MORE than animals. That's how we have art, architecture, religion, culture, etc. There's a really famous movie that highlights what's wrong wrong with behaviorism in a psychiatric context. It's called "One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest".
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 04:16 PM
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I'm a compatibilist, that our behavior is determined by both nature AND nurture: We're determined by what social forces we are apart of (including our gender identity). In other words, if you're going to choose to be a red piller, blue piller, man, woman, etc. you're going to take on the attributes belonging to that group That being said, We have the freedom to choose what social groups we belong to. For example, you don't have to be a feminist if you don't want to. And many men and woman choose…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 04:07 PM
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Kierkegaard writes about how the humdrum of human existence is absolutely unbearable and that all of efforts to do anything are merely forms of escapism. Fucking lots of girls or making lots of money are good examples of this. These attempts of escape are all ultimately failures. What DOES work is finding some sense of higher purpose. I think finding that passion and pursuing it is of dire importance for each singular person as well as society as a whole. Just think about Jonah Salk curing polio…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 03:12 PM
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It's obvious you didn't read what I wrote at all and are just nitpicking to sound intelligent
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 09:37 PM
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A woman leaving her husband is generally filed under "not getting needs fulfilled" since she's basically looking for a new partner. In general, women like men have basic criteria that they want fulfilled. The thing is that they're not privy to that information thanks to internalized hypergamy. For us guys the basic criteria is generally not fat, not mean, and gives good head. And even then, for short term flings even that's flexible. For women their criteria is determined by: Fun (knows who to l…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 07:28 PM
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Just as a refresher for /u/cruelironage , /u/1v1crown , /u/PemBayliss , and /u/MattyAnon Men cheat because our lovers have turned icy and/or because we meet a woman that inspires us to fuck them raw Men typically put up with a cheating wife because they have low self esteem. They believe that their wife is the best pussy they'll be able to get and that she's so high quality that they're willing to share Women typically cheat either to make a man jealous into staying with them, because they're no…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 07:03 PM
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OP is using the 10,000 hour rule as a rhetorical heuristic. It's just to prove the point that mastery takes time. I get what you're saying about journeys and destinations. In essence, the journey IS the destination. OP seems to be encouraging people to put their time into something meaningful as a way to fulfill that journey-destination idea
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 01:01 AM
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Just don't answer the phone
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 05:24 PM
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You're going to have to determine what kind of girl you're date is. Independent women would rather go Dutch, more feminine women that believe in gender roles are going to expect you to pay. For a first date, start off going to get a coffee and make her pay for her own drink. Then, if you're of age go out for a beer and order her the skunkiest beer, and if she finishes it then pay. By the third venue venue or the second date you should know what kind of girl she is
/r/seduction22/03/16 03:10 AM
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The best blanket advice is to treat her like a normal person/like your dorky female relative. On a more technical level: Don't ask her too many questions, just talk about the stuff you're interested in Make good eye contact Tell her the first non-sexual thing you Notice about her Ask for her number
/r/askTRP21/03/16 02:50 AM
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Let me share a quote by renowned philosopher Slavoj Zizek "There is no seduction which is not in a way an "incorrect" intrusion or harassment — at some point, one has to expose oneself and "make a pass." So does this mean that every seduction is incorrect harassment through and through? No, and that is the catch: when you make a pass, you expose yourself to the Other (the potential partner), and she decides retroactively, by her reaction, whether what you have just done was harassment or a succe…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 08:24 PM
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Yes, a few times just by chance. She will see you as a confirmed beta loser and hence you will have to go through TONS of effort to get her back. Like, you'll have to have PERFECT game Because she's going to shit test you in EVERY SINGLE WAY POSSIBLE. But even then that's hardly enough. You'll have to play jealousy game with her. It's a tremendously tedious and you'd be better off fucking someone else
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:46 AM
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All woman work environments are brutal. It's almost entirely predicated on social standing. So unhealthy. Also, I agree with you on tying to fly under the radar. It's impossible. From what I've read I this AMA is that you have to be extremely careful on who you sleep wth
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 12:37 AM
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One of the stories you recounted (girl cheats on boyfriend, files a sexual assault claim on guy) weirdly resembles what I went through last year, except she had her boyfriend attack me and spread a bunch of rumors. She immediately ceased contact with administration and the campus police detective (ending at the small "i" investigation phase). I'm currently trying to get my phd in philosophy. Would something like this affect m chance of getting a teaching job at another school? Also, since she br…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 08:31 PM
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You bring up a good point: don't rely on the opinions of others. So let me expand. One should strive to be so exemplary that he forges a brand new standard of greatness, creating a NEW perspective for others to aspire towards and thus rhapsodize. These future people are purely hypothetical, shaped by your actions. Admittedly, it's a silly standard but enough to demonstrate my point. Life is inherently meaningless in itself. It's YOU that attaches meaning to it, make it worthwhile
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:33 PM
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It still bears repeating regardless
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 08:08 AM
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OP makes a good point that monk mode can be a way to rationalize antisocial behavior. HOWEVER, it's a bit more complicated than he wants to admit. It's good to focus on yourself and the direction your life is going. If you want to fuck a slew of women then go right ahead. If you want to build monumental buildings or amass a small fortune that's also good too. Pussy is attracted to success and strength. Just remember the red pill is used to condone this. But for god's sake, you should never forge…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:13 AM
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I think one thing worth emphasizing is that in order to be truly actualized you should fully embrace yourself (this is ALL OVER Nietzsche's corpus). Learn to be constantly struggling to become your own man. Learn to value yourself, this goes hand in hand with changing your values. Don't strive to fulfill some ideal. Strive to become the kind of man that people will surely someday rhapsodize
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:05 AM
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As a non religious man, I think serenity is an extremely high virtue and a sign of a stable, mature adult. It's weird how religion can be such a great resource for some good life lessons.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 03:59 AM
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There's never going to be any legislative changes. Let this be a lesson: Always save evidence of courtship. Texts, Facebook messages, everything. Keep enough to save your ass and then some If you're going to fuck a girl then learn how to properly dump them. Schedule and flake and dates for a month or so. Then just stop communicating with them. Give them the dick if they want it. If they ask explicitly for a relationship just say you don't "believe in labels" and that "it's hard for you to commit…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 03:55 AM
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Say hi. Tell them your name. Ask them where they're from and what they like doing (other than hw). Ask if they're free
/r/askTRP13/03/16 07:20 AM
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Depends on what relationship these women have to your life. If these are just street stops then most likely you just haven't built up a lot of both rapport and attraction to get a date. Don't feel bad, this is normal. Just text them less frequently, even if you don't get a response. The way it goes should be: First you get her number. Text her later that same day. Something light like, "Hey crazy, it was nice running into you at ______". If she seems really receptive to this then you should try …
/r/askTRP11/03/16 06:18 PM
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Learning how to seduce is the major basis of properly taking the red pill. Once you know how to seduce women you'll learn to see where your own personal problems are Women are somewhere between adult and children (the most mature teenager in the house). They're this way because it helps raise kids. There's no such thing as "the one". It's best to jump ship if you see dark storms ahead, unless you have a valid reason to stay that relates to your own life goals, like children, work, etc. Everythin…
/r/askTRP10/03/16 06:25 PM
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Best way to think about it, is to remember Seth Rogen's advice from 40 Year Old Virgin TL;DR Plant the seeds of intrigue and let them do the chasing
/r/seduction09/03/16 11:40 PM
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No one is holding a gun to your head, telling you to try to fuck everything that moves. I've been in several situations where girls wanted to fuck (girls from my blue pill past) but the patience and level of alertness required is just so tremendous that it wasn't worth my time, not to fuck someone that makes me feel like shit. I once read that what's going on here is that men can fulfill three different roles in a woman's life: Friend. This is the guy who's basically a tampon for women's emotion…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 08:49 PM
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See a therapist. It sounds like you have something mental that's keepi you from being the best version of yourself
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:52 AM
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Like, I understand why so many TRP guys are into plate theory (harem building) and non-exclusive relationships. It boosts confidence and gives you an abundance mentality. But for guys who typically like LTRs and stability that can be unappealing. But like the easiest solution is just to go out and flirt with other women. Then, when you go back home, fuck your girlfriend but pretend that she's those other women. It's weird but it works
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:41 PM
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This is perhaps the best intro guide to reading body language
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:26 PM
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I'm really introverted. What that means is that it takes me a tremendous amount of energy to communicate my thoughts to people. That being said, I put a lot of thought into what I have to say before I say it, just to get things right. People notice this about me. As a result. they pay more attention to what I have to say whenever I choose to speak up. If people are telling you to shut up it's usually because what you have to say isn't worth listening to. Put more thought and consideration behind…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:24 PM
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See a therapist for your self esteem issues
/r/seduction01/03/16 11:08 PM
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They simply see you as a big teddy bear, not as someone sexy/sexual. You're obviously lacking confidence and aggressiveness. Practice telling girls that you want to sleep with them.
/r/seduction01/03/16 08:14 PM
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I think it's good that you're getting used to interacting with women! However it's important to remember that there's a difference between building rapport vs. building attraction. If you're getting rejected it's because they're not attracted to you. What builds attraction is emphasizing your more masculine traits. Physically this means your size and strength. Mentally this means your independence, humor, courage and determination. Basically, make fun of the girls you are attracted to. Something…
/r/seduction01/03/16 07:40 PM
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For me, I learned a small set of game and pua techniques from the internet as a teenager. I fucked a few girls in high school, but I had never had an ideal relationship, and in a way I perhaps felt undeserving of one. At the same time it came to pass that my mother was cheating on my father. Went to college and was dating a girl named Tina, although secretly pining to fuck other girls, including her best friend. I spent two years in a relationship with Tina. Ultimately I was VERY unhappy. I deci…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 06:48 PM
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Wrong. Dark triad traits -narcissism, Machiavellian-ism, and psychopathy- are just basic traits that help someone make their game much better (they basically entail that you'll do whatever it takes to survive. Just like autism spectrum disorders, low self esteem, and bad hygiene make your game WAY worse (tells of bad genetics, low initiative/self-esteem, and squalor). Game outside of TRP is essentially about inner game, developing yourself to the point where you're emulating dark triad traits. I…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 01:31 AM
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Women are pragmatist. They're looking to maximize their hypergamy. Find the hottest guy to give them babies, retain a supportive guy to help raise those babies. She knew intrinsically that if she were to tell you she was going to cheat that you would leave her for another woman, one that's more faithful. In psychoanalytic terms, this is what's castration is for women. (For men, the friendzone is castration). It's important to understand that you need to make Briffault's law work in your favor. Y…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 07:00 PM
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I try to be a bit more understanding. Some girls are just ignorant; they think that being manipulative is better than straightforward communication. I just directly confront them gently about it. Then if that doesn't change anything then I just slowly edge out of their lives.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 10:02 PM
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I've only witnessed a woman doing that once, and it was to get her baby daddy to marry her. Twisted, right?
/r/askTRP27/02/16 06:16 PM
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Lifting is a good short term way to build up testosterone and strength but that's really just the tip of the ice berg. first you need to practice being more assertive. Put yourself and your opinions out there. Make statements. Start believing is yourself more. Understand what makes you a person worth value, who deserves happiness. All you have to do is reach out and grab it. if you're gay or straight you'll still have to do this Find a confident male role model that you can model yourself on. I …
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:53 AM
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Always kiss on the first date, or at least try.
/r/seduction26/02/16 06:38 AM
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Stop being stubborn. Talk about shit that people will be able to appreciate. Once they think you're normal then you can open up about being a weirdo
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:37 AM
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Yoga is the biggest one. Painting classes. Nonprofit volunteering. Spin classes. Going to like museums and art fairs and shit
/r/seduction26/02/16 06:35 AM
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Talk about Kanye or Bruno Mars. Maybe Metallica or something. Just make shots in the dark, eventually you'll be able to calibrate the type of music with the type of girls you're going after. Practice man
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:33 AM
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Kino talking overtly about sexual things: "you're lips look so soft" teasing
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:15 AM
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Exactly. Girls think puttin pressure on a guy will Make him like them more. It doesn't but they're trying to communicate "shit or get off the pot". In all likelihood she hasn't fucked the guy at all. What the OP should do is act nonchalant but give her more attention. Or just disappear
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:12 AM
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Just say, she's cute but nothing to worry about. You don't need her hamstering too much
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:09 AM
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I think there's something to be said about long game and short game. More impulsive women really would rather fuck an alpha immediately than wait it out. Others require more time to build trust and rapport. Think of it like buying a car or a pair of nice sneakers. Sometimes you'll buy something just based on the image and the features. Other times you'll buy after doing your research. Part of good game is calibrating for either scenario
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:07 AM
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I personally find the street stop intro conversation to be a nice time to screen girls. When your social skills are on point you'll be able to read what people are all about, gauge compatibility, and build attraction and rapport very quickly. But that knowledge comes only from firsthand experience. I live in a town that idates aren't feasible, especially working a regular 9-5. Probably the best advice for most dudes is to just make friends. Getting laid is the easiest when you just broaden your …
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:04 AM
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You're not a music geek if you can't talk about popular music. You cat talk about obscure music, you have to introduce people to it
/r/askTRP26/02/16 05:59 AM
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Yes
/r/askTRP26/02/16 05:57 AM
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You sound like me when I was your age, heh. If you got a second date invite that means you're doing well. I personally wouldn't bother with this girl. Doesn't sound like there was a connection. If you run into her just be friendly. First date game (much like small talk) is all about finding mutual points of connection. An easy go to is music, TV, and movies. For instance, I've seen my best friend -who happens to be a big music geek- hook up with girls simply by bringing up a band names. TIPS: Co…
/r/askTRP26/02/16 02:10 AM
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How'd the date go? This is more of a seduction question but I don't mind answering: There's a technique called "time dilation". Basically, you bounce a girl to different venues to build familiarity rapidly. That's the whole point of a good first date. You should learn some self control while drinking. You don't have to be an idiot after drinking ONE beer or mixed drink. It's extremely uncomfortable to go on a date and be the only one drinking. In response to the food fight in the comments sectio…
/r/askTRP25/02/16 11:27 PM
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What I'm saying is that working on seduction the way to NOT be a creeper. It's part of appearance. Also, you'd be surprised how many girls like older men ;-)
/r/askTRP25/02/16 12:31 AM
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A really good rule of thumb is to never answer a question directly, especially if it's posed by a woman. Instead you should respond to them as if you were a 12 year old girl. HBTexter: "Why do you want to go out with me?" ConfidentMale: So I can push you into the mud HBTexter: You're so weird ConfidentMale: I thought that sounded better than "I want to spank your butt"
/r/askTRP24/02/16 05:09 PM
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Lol asking "look, I want to get laid" wouldn't even work if you're high SMV. A lack in seduction skills demonstrates lower value. Basically, seduction skills are directly correlated with social status and SMV (sexual market value). I suggest practicing seduction skills just so you can get comfortable with the whole courtship process.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 05:03 PM
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What makes you buy a Lamborghini over an Audi? It's what's under the hood as well as the rad attitude. Shit testing is the female equivalent of us ogling a woman's body. Women will do it more often when they have more options. It's an innate behaviors that varies due to external circumstances (being hot or not) and internal (self esteem).
/r/askTRP23/02/16 09:50 PM
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If she's shit testing you it means she likes you and wants to see how manly you are. You redirected and maintained a strong frame. Good job dude! You're doing fine. These are what's known as passive shit tests. She's asking you to give HER validation in the first one, in the other she's trying to press you into her schedule instead of the other way around. The advice (playing along) that /u/2ndLion is really useful when you've actually have started an "official" relationship. Y'know, where you t…
/r/askTRP23/02/16 08:24 PM
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In psychoanalysis there's a really basic equation that defines us as people: Demand - need= desire Think of a little kid throwing a tantrum in the grocery store, eyes full of tears, thrashing on the ground, demanding some trinket or candy from his mother. But the kid doesn't truly need the little goodie. Were it the case that he wanted for for sustenance I'm sure he could find it somewhere else. Rather, he desires to know that he is cared for and loved by his mother. In a way I see this as a ref…
/r/askTRP23/02/16 08:13 PM
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I want to first start off by saying that Game is just an applied subset of what's known as "Social Skills". Improving your game even just by a little bit will improve the rest of your life substantially. Women are women. You can have sex with them if you want. You can be friends with them if you want. Understand that selling yourself as a lover is a much different game than selling yourself as a friend. The whole point of learning game is learning how to do the former. Looks are only one dimensi…
/r/askTRP19/02/16 12:06 AM
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It really depends on how one "approaches" girls. Think about it logically. It must be extremely flattering to have a guy flirt with you and make you have fun, feel good about yourself. It's exciting for them if you're game is on point. Basically just think of all people (including women) as just kids in adult bodies. The more you entertain and engage a child the more that that child will want to be around you. So I mean, if you're a sperg with no game and no boundaries you can end up offending a…
/r/seduction18/02/16 09:58 PM
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Read the first comment of this question from AskMen
/r/seduction18/02/16 07:58 PM
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There are quite a few guides online but let me give you the basics: FWB relationship are usually established between exes and people who have hooked up previously. Basically, it's easier for a women to fuck a guy she's familiar with. As a part of this familiarity thing, you'll find that you'll end up fucking random girls you've seen around school quite a bit easier than girls you cold approach. These girls will give you clear signals (read the first comment) If you're going to fuck an ex then ma…
/r/seduction17/02/16 07:00 PM
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/u/PUAgrey and /u/AlphaSymposium both make really compelling points. Watch your tone and how you frame such a neg The amount of rapport and attraction you've built with a girl will determine how strongly you can use negs. With high attraction you can use stronger and more inconsiderate negs. My thoughts: Negs are used as a way to break rapport, forcing a girl to re-establish the rapport or to dislike you. It's really only useful if you're trying to build sexual tension. Think of it as a part of …
/r/seduction17/02/16 06:41 PM
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Mostly you'll start off by helping out your friends informally. You teach them basic body language first, then a bit about opening and conversation. From there you move into routines and in-field practice. Clients learn best by seeing you in action, now that they've been alerted to what to pay attention to Starting off you don't get paid very much except in like drinks and meals. It's really just a good way to make friends and to help consolidate your own knowledge. Like any sales job, the harde…
/r/seduction17/02/16 05:50 PM
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Thanks for the empathy man. I'm glad you understand. Also great advice
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 05:43 AM
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He seems to mean well. I think he needs to think through some things though
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 04:38 AM
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Big words from a dude on the internet
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 04:36 AM
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This is excellent advice. I appreciate the feedback
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 03:44 AM
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I spoke with a few different lawyers about my options. Filing lawsuits would only blow open a bigger mess that I'd have to deal with. All I want is the american ideals of "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness." I have that. Now it's time to move on.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 03:43 AM
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I get why the guys are being critical. It's a "toughen you up" sort of thing. I guess the mistake they're making is underestimating the psychological damage a FRA can actually cause a person. It's basically a form of torture. But I did get a lawyer and we spoke with the school. It's all cleared up, thank god. I'm currently working on applying to graduate school somewhere else. Definitely need to move on and away.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 03:23 AM
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You make a good point. Elaborate on the statement. "You must fight weakness with strength." I'm not really responding to the rest of the macho-shame rhetoric.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 02:55 AM
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Yes, I know how to fight. Yes, I have gotten into fights. Fighting is the last resort to any conflict, a resort which I'm prepared to face. My pacifism is more about self control than anything else.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 02:37 AM
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Fighting isn't the answer. There's nothing wrong with being an introvert. I already lift. You can't bandage everything with machismo. I already tried that as a solution and it didn't help. It's just another form of repression and I'm already suffering the aftereffects of that.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 02:33 AM
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I guess everyone is suspect, but living life filled with mistrust is hard
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 02:18 AM
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I think that might be the best move, long term. It's already in the works but in the meantime I still have to work through things here, where I am now.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 02:14 AM
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What, why? It ended up saving my ass
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 02:13 AM
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Some would say that true justice would be served if I did rape a girl, specifically the one accusing me. But I'm going to stay away from that entirely. Good point about the subconscious thing though
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 02:13 AM
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If you want to a keep a girl like that then you more or less have to treat them TERRIBLY. Fuck the girl at her place, then in between fuck sessions text a side-plate to park in front of the girl's house and then leave for a bit to fuck your side plate. Then go back back and fuck that girl again. And then don't stay over. THAT'S how you keep 'em hooked.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 10:37 PM
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IMO almost all women one's age should be treated as sluts (mostly because they ARE sluts). Shoot for younger women. They're sweeter, have less baggage, and are more marriage-worthy. Also you'll be in a better position to attract those women as well as provide for a family
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 09:09 PM
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It's funny you bring up the horse metaphor. I usually think of the polarization game like how cowboys riding a bucking bronco. Women will throw shit test after shit test, the guy just has to weather the storm until she runs outta juice. That's when a proper relationship can begin. And as you say "The slut or the wild horse doesn't have much value in its untrained state."
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 09:05 PM
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I agree with your point that sluts aren't worth relationships. That being said, a relationship with the correct person can be extremely rewarding. Like, it'll help you mature as a person.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 08:56 PM
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It's simply part of red pill awareness. Most men should have a high enough self esteem not to waste a large majority of their time on loser women
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 08:35 PM
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This post should have just been a pros and cons list about sluts. Pros about sluts: Easy sex Good at sex Helps you learn how to be good at sex and interactions with women Fun and generally laid back Will improve your self esteem Cons: Can be a waste of time Chance of getting an STD "Accidental" pregnancy Loves drama Unstable Will probably cheat on you Are extremely manipulative Have a messed up sense of intimacy In summation, sluts are good as plates or one-night stands. Not relationships. Be sm…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:11 PM
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Your post lessons are really great! I'm in total agreement. However I have two concerns about this post that need more explanation. The most boring yet most didactic part of the story is missing. What happened between the couple that caused Suzie to turn hostile towards him? Typically what happens is that women get sick of the beta bux because they're not getting satisfied sexually; It's hard to have good sex with someone that let's you walk all over them. But the normal narrative pushes things …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:03 PM
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This is the sort of posts you'd see on the PUA forums. If you want to get good at approaching women there are two things you should do: Practice walking up and talking to new people in general. The more you practice the easier it will become, just like riding a bike or any other skill/talent. Learn to believe in yourself and to love yourself. The more self-esteem you have the easier all socializing (and just about everything in you life) will become
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 11:17 PM
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Fat chicks, ugos, and damaged goods use negs (passive aggression) on men because they think that dominant egos are the key to making guys horny. They think that because that's what THEY are attracted to. Men are not attracted to this. Not Even submissive beta chumps don't get turned on by this. This works only because men have such a low self esteem and so expect to be treated poorly and are just weathering the storm in the off chance that they'll get some pussy (i.e. impregnate a woman with the…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 06:43 PM
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So I'm going to copy and paste another post for the PUA Forums that details the Mystery Method (a staple in seduction literature) (https://www.puaforums.com/approaching-running-sets-building-attraction/2235-mystery-method.html) Romance happens in phases, and each phase builds on top of the previous phase. If sex is going to happen at all, typically it will happen within the first few handful of dates. More specific time breakdowns will be added later for each phase. { ATTRACT -> COMFORT -> SEDUC…
/r/seduction30/12/15 02:24 AM
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The secret to living that sort of life comes down to your social network. The more people you know and are on good terms with the more likely you'll be invited to parties, and the more chances you'll have to meet horny women. Money only helps attract women that are attracted to money. It doesn't matter if you have a great job if you're charming and socially adept. Just keep charming everyone you meet and you'll find your place.
/r/seduction30/12/15 12:51 AM
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There are quite a few circumstances that can change what your game plan will be. So for this thread I'm going to assume that this is an ideal situation where you meet an attractive woman for a date (nothing about cold approaches or alpha lifestyle): When meeting a cute girl for the first time you're goal comes in two parts: building rapport (i.e. getting to know one another- this is the "pull" in "push pull") and sexual tension/attraction. Building intimacy is pretty easy, all you do is ask ques…
/r/seduction30/12/15 12:48 AM
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Look, a woman will stay with you if she likes you. She obviously liked Mike. Mike didn't like himself. It doesn't matter if he was in school or not. He was just wasting his life away.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 03:27 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iNSt3wJXZk0
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:15 AM
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I agree with your complaints, but I think I've found some form of a solution that I've been working on. Have you guys ever read "Taming of the Shrew"? Basically a dude reforms a domineering woman through persistence, charm, and maintaining a strong frame. She finally breaks and becomes more loyal and subservient than any of her sisters. A woman will become a real woman if you show her that you're a strong man.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:34 PM
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Bill Burr has a whole red pill bit about female entitlement. It's entertaining and is fairly poignant. But I'm really glad you referenced his bit; it's probably one of the most basic things you'll have to deal with in any relationship and even some friendships.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:28 PM
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Dennett's view on the mind is pretty important since it's essentially the backbone of American philosophy of mind. The easy metaphor to think about his thought is that the human mind is like a computer: There's hardware and software. However there's quite a few problems with his views, one being uncomfortably submissive to scientific theory (a mirror to how much of pre-Kantian modern philosophy was insanely submissive towards Christianity). For my on why this is a HUGE problem I suggest checking…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 10:37 PM
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Philosophy Time: There's a really old question that dates back all the way to the pre-Socratic Greeks about what's called "Determinism". Determinism is the belief that factors outside of our control (the will of God, the ills of the society, a bad economy, etc.). The details of this has heavy impacts on the status of our own personal self. It boils down to one central question: How can I be truly free if everything around me has already been decided? In very RECENT philosophy (Zizek's book Less …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 07:12 PM
1

I recommend anything from the Red Wing Heritage Collection. Highest quality and will last you YEARS with proper care. http://www.redwingheritage.com/USD/footwear As a man, you'll rarely find high quality shoes on sale. They're worth the investment.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 09:00 PM
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I've tried this and it's worked wonders. Although it should really only be used on women with huge egos (I.e. The kind that shit test at the last minute). If you want something more simple just say "I don't care."
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 06:45 PM
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Let me give you the 100% best line of response to "I'm not having sex with you tonight": "Good. I don't want you to have my kid." Then continue where you left off on your escalation ladder.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 12:40 AM
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You should supplement your idea of "weak" with the definition of frail (adj): easily damaged or broken; fragile or insubstantial. If you're looking like you're going to break then you're obviously doing something wrong.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:38 AM
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It's just a cultural thing. Some guys like it. Some guys like other types of seductive dances
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 01:38 AM
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And here we find an age old question: Why are feminists so unfeminine?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 11:16 PM
1

The last line is also the most important to interpreting this story. Sammy "[feels] how hard the world [is] going to be to [him] hereafter". He leaves his job because he'd rather be hanging out with girls than scanning groceries. Once he realizes that chasing women is no easy feat either he realizes that gravity of his actions.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 11:13 PM
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I'm with HungryGeorge. He goes out there looking to hit on them. Not expecting to be blown
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 11:09 PM
1

Y'know how some (most) guys get turned on by watching girls do yoga or dance seductively? That's how women feel when they see a man lifting or doing any manual labor. They're not so much concerned about the amount you lift so long as you're doing well (i.e. not looking weak).
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 11:03 PM
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About a year ago a great friend of mine was visiting town with a girl he had been seeing. Showing her the sights and whatnot. He invited me out to join them for drinks. They're both from Mexico so the conversations were mostly in Spanish- a language I grew up with but have a very tenuous hold on. Regardless, I had asked her why they weren't "official" and I sung his praises like a drunk girl singing Nikki Minaj, calling him "one of the greatest guys I know." Fast forward a few months. I had quit…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 10:57 PM
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Oh cool. But I was asking a literal question.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 07:12 PM
1

It sounds like you're coping with a certain amount of isolation and a sense of ennui (a feeling of listlessness and dissatisfaction arising from a lack of occupation or excitement). To give you some advice, spend some time thinking about what you want from life, what makes you happy, what type of skills and weaknesses do you have, what are your values and beliefs, etc. This is the basic lesson of existentialism. What you do with the life you've been given defines who you are. I'm an atheist but …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 07:07 PM
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Xanax is ok if you need help with anxiety. Doing it recreationally kinda sucks.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 06:11 PM
1

Wait... are you a red pill gay man?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 05:10 PM
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Send me a pm. I am interested to read more.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 06:44 PM
1

Just go to where people are at and talk to everyone. People tend to go out when they want to meet someone new.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 10:21 PM
1

I do a lot of different things freelance, mostly technical writing (grants, speeches, ads, pamphlets, contracts, proposals, etc.) and public speaking (usually educational) although with plenty of political organizing experience and graphic design. Lately I've been doing work as an industrial chemist - that was my job in college so I have a lot of experience. I plan to go back for a Ph.D. in a year and a half, in philosophy. I wanna teach college classes.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 05:19 PM
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Modern day Petruchio https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Taming_of_the_Shrew
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 10:15 PM
1

We currently have marriage 2.0. There is no marriage 3.0 There's no direct, one way, causal relationship from social to economic. Capitalism develops "dialectically" with the social order. It's an interaction. It seems like you're thinking that there's some patriarchal overmind coordinating all the moving pieces. Our social and economic interactions are more like an ecosystem in that it strives to find an equilibrium (sort of). (To get REALLY abstract, the world we live in seems to be searching …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 07:05 PM
1

TL;DR Maintain frame and don't give a shit about what other people say. Let the legal process take its own course.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 06:53 PM
1

I'm so happy you used the term "Kafkatrapping". I was accused of false rape and it felt exactly like that story.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 06:51 PM
2

They say the road to being alpha is faking it until you make it, so just keep at it. It takes years to figure out what you're passionate about. For instance, in college I started off as a nuclear engineer but was so bored by the whole thing. I ended up triple majoring in philosophy, economics, and fine arts with a minor in chem as a result. It took me an extremely long time to reach that point where I felt happy with what I was doing. LTRs are pretty easy once you get into one. Here's a quick ru…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 06:48 PM
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TL;DR Surround yourself with pussy Work on social status (which is defined by power, property, and prestige ) Make friends and learn to network
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 06:37 PM
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Although I'm not big into his body of work, Richard Dawkins has a really famous book explaining the mechanics of why this works. It's called "The Selfish Gene". To summarize: there is no telos behind evolution and genetics. There are only traits that we have that make us more/less adept at surviving and passing on our genes. This is why, for instance, the average women's breast size has increased over the past few years. The more interesting discussion is whether there something historically tha…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 06:12 PM
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You're getting too caught up in the politico-historical aspect of social influence on sexual dynamics, which is as mired as a discussion as it can get. Let's focus on the contemporary western world: We must ask ourselves, are we living in a playa's paradise? https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/07/07/are-we-living-in-a-playas-paradise/
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 05:49 PM
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I'll take up the request: Ok, so pre-3rd wave feminism the western world looked MUCH different. Women's reliance on men was much more pronounced and socially advocated, and hence subservience was a cultural norm. Thus in the 1950s being a homemaker and a housewife were terms completely lacking any pejorative sense. What bolstered this was a very heavy risk involved in sexual relations: pregnancy. Thus in the 1950s if you were going to have sex with a woman there was an implicit necessity of "bet…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 08:08 PM
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Woah, this post and a lot of the comments are full of misogyny. Women have a lot to offer just by merit of being another person with a unique perspective. You don't have to fuck them if you don't want to.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 05:54 PM
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Your goals. Your accomplishments. Your failures Your memories. Your strengths. Your weaknesses.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 05:44 PM
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Mine is if she can cook, talk about my interests, is taller than 5'4 but shorter than 6', thin waist, big butt, and lets me anger-fuck her when I'm having a bad day.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 11:43 PM
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Ugh, SERIOUSLY. Broken broken women
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 11:40 PM
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So the shit test, in abstract, is meant to test your leadership. And so with that said you have to consider the reason WHY one would want to test your leadership. Women shit test the most during two phases: initial attraction phase and when a relationship is on the rocks (i.e when they're unhappy). RULE OF THUMB: Women typically like to be teased and subtly and not-so-subtly dominated, men like to be pleased and treated sweet with affection. There is one distinct deviation that people need to be…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 09:45 PM
1

I doubt it'd require anything so drastic, to be quite honest.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 08:42 PM
1

A non-profit can get funding from anywhere, not just foundations or the government. So basically from RPers from the internet
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 08:11 PM
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That's the plan. Maybe the pacific northwest. I live in a desert and I'm tired of feeling hungover all the time.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 04:24 PM
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Just have sex in a car or in a park, I imagine. Make due with what you can
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 04:20 PM
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I think sexbots are becoming a much more appealing option these days
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 12:16 AM
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You bring up a valid point. Given the fem-centric climate of social justice it definitely COULD be spun as some sort of weird, depraved male sex den. But isn't that what MRA, TRP, and PUA is all villainized as well? I guess that becomes a job all about rhetoric (i.e. how the whole thing can be represented in a good light). To me it just seems that this issue has obviously become a bigger problem and it's something that we should take seriously.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 11:56 PM
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totaly going to be ju I would love to see picket signs that say stuff like "Negs are Unconstitutional" or "Legal Advice is Rape Culture"
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 05:42 PM
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Just FYI, AFBB came from psychology. It revolutionized pick up artistry and game turning into the Red Pill (mainly thanks to Heartiste)
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 05:05 AM
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A woman's love is "opportunistic". An ideal mate choice for a woman is a combination of Alpha Fucks (good genes) AND Beta Bux (good provisions for her and her offspring). To put it succinctly: She'll fuck you if you meet her alpha standards (tall, ripped, confident, witty, etc.), she'll stay if you have good resources and/or the potential of having good resources (high paying job, relative success and status such as being a professor or actor, etc.) Thus "POTENTIAL" factors in during a relations…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 03:41 AM
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