Summary: I talk about key aspects that the red pill sub leaves out when it comes to attracting good looking women and why this is problematic to a lot of newer guys on here. As a guy who has been with a lot of good looking women before, I feel that I have a lot of credibility here.

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I write this as a guy who tried the whole cold approach thing for years with minimal results and tried online dating where he wasn't having much luck. It was only through making major lifestyle changes that I had a lot of success in the game.

The problem with the sidebar and a lot of red pill's material is that it only gives maybe 70% of the important advice that guys need to hear, it doesn't elaborate on the remaining parts of the game that are crucial.

Don't get me wrong, you MUST be the best version of yourself in order for the rest of this to work, or else you'll just get rejected anyways.

Looking your best (lifting), holding frame, knowing how things are in today's society, and being aware of what women are capable of are all important things that all men need to know. The problem is, they aren't going to get you a date with that good looking woman and just knowing that part of the game, you might spend a lot of lonely nights locked up in your apartment. The messed up part about all of this? Guys in the same country with a lower "SMV" than yours will be getting better looking girls than you. Why?

Because he lucked out in factors of the game that are important but largely ignored by a lot of guys in both the red pill and seduction community. What are these factors?

Location, and it is pretty big!

Lets say you have a guy who on the 1-10 scale, has an SMV of 6, another guy has an SMV of 8. The guy with the SMV of 6 lives in an area where: there are more single women than men, people don't get married very young, and there is a lot of fun shit to do. The other guy lives in an area where people get married young, people are religious, and the dating market is awful. The guy with the SMV of 6 is going to have a better chance at getting cute girls than the guy with the SMV of 8, why? Because he made the right decision and landed in the right area!

We never talk about what places men should avoid and what places they should go to. SMV is great but you need a chance to put it to work, a high SMV guy in a crap location is going to have a bad time. Even if he somehow manages to make those married women sleep with him, you can bet that he will have a lot of uninvited trouble at his door. Yet we never talk about a crap location vs a good location for men.

Activities and the social cliques

Unfortunately, a lot of us are no longer in college. No more fraternities to help us meet girls and get laid, we are now in the big bad world. From years of experience in the game, I have found that most guys that meet and hook up with attractive women often ran in the same circles as these girls. Now being that these guys were in great shape and had things going for them in life, the girls who knew these guys from a group they were in or activity they used to be a part of, well they picked up on this and ended up hooking up with them. This is how a lot of people hook up in the real word, it is rarely done through "cold approach" and online dating is extremely competitive.

Of course some idiot is going to say "do yoga classes to get laid bro!" and that idiot has no fucking idea of what he is talking about. Male in yoga class? Low SMV and women there will be aware of the fact that you have come to pick them up. In fact, some yoga classes are full of guys there to do the same thing, women have their bitch shields up in these cases.

Yet we never talk about these kinds of activities or ways to actually meeting women through them. Fuck the whole "do what you enjoy" nonsense for this, have fun meeting hot girls at your local Call Of Duty videogame club or "manly hobby" meetup.

Actually building social value and "status" rather than just talking about how important it is.

Social value is very important when it comes to getting hot girls or just above average looking girls in general. In order for you to be good with some of the better looking women, you MUST learn to be respected by groups of cool guys that also get these girls. Being a creepy pickup artist in public does not help your status, it actually lowers it if you do it enough. We never talk much about how to actually build your status to where it helps you get hot girls.

The truth is, a lot of guys out there that are getting hot girls are doing so because they have some sort of status working for them, they aren't doing it through "cold approach game". Frat boys in college are good examples of this sort of status, we never talk about their real world equivalents though.

In general, you have to make the circumstances favor you or else, you're going to have a rough time.

But we never talk about creating those circumstances for guys, things they can do, cities that are favorable for them, and types of activities that can help them meet women. All we say is online dating and cold approach, both of which are LOW SUCCESS activities that will net plain average looking women at most unless the guy looks like Henry Cavill. Then again, if he looked like Henry Cavill he wouldn't be on here.

Lessons learned

This sub misses out on some very important parts of the game.