I went to a state university that had the party school status and everything. Looking back at it, I was in slightly better shape during college and I was a fairly outgoing guy as well. Overall, I would say that I am a good looking guy even though I might not fit the American ideal of a 6'2 blonde hair blue eyed jock.

The thing is, during college I noticed that I was not having much luck with girls.

  1. Girls flaked more.

  2. Girls were not as warm to my approaches (my college did have a lot of sorority sisters).

  3. I constantly lost out to the guy who was in a fraternity because he met the girls I liked at some of the social events.

I can't make sense of it. Ever since I moved from going to college in a college town to living in a big city, my results have skyrocketed. What gives?