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| 22 | this sub seems dead what happened?now see redpill as cope and people who dont understand the true nature of women which is purely about looks, It's not; if you think it is you've been reading the sidebar backwards. It's about having some confidence, self-respect and holding yourself to high standards. Things like "get down the gym, sort out your diet, hygiene and attitude" are all part of doing that. Yes, you will become more physically attractive if you do that, but that's merely a side-effect and isn't the whole story. The pro… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/01/26 12:47 PM |
| 34 | Field Report: Give that bitch nothing to do but fuck youSome might say this is still choreplay. You're still washing dishes and doing the yard, does it matter why? And the answer to that is "of course it bloody does". If you're doing it because she's hassling you about it - or because you think it'll get you laid - you're sending a message to your wife that says "You've got another child you need to badger every minute of the day". If you're doing it for yourself - because you want to live in a clean and tidy house, because you want to look out into … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/03/22 11:27 AM |
| 7 | Fuck emThere's another, more practical view: Allowing people to weaponise the criminal justice system - regardless of what crime they use to do so - is incredibly dangerous. It wastes time, it ruins innocent lives and it clogs up the system while genuine victims go unheard. It absolutely must be punished to the full extent of the law, because it's a serious crime. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/01/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Fatherhood And The Red Pill--If Your Woman Isn't In Line Your Kids Won't Be EitherIt's not unusual to find strong women seeking out weak men, because they think a husband who's easy to walk over will be easy to be married to. And she's probably right for a few years. Then life gets harder. Perhaps it's finances, perhaps it's kids, perhaps it's health-related... whatever. The reason is neither here nor there. Naturally, when the shit hits the fan she wants practical support from her husband. He has to step up to the plate. And he can't. Because he doesn't have the self-discipl… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/21 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Woman gets friends to drown autistic man because he confessed his love for herWe'd like to believe that few people - even murderers - are beyond redemption. On the whole, that isn't far from the truth. I'm pretty sure the re-offending rate for people getting out after a life sentence is pretty low. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/06/21 12:36 PM |
| 7 | Woman gets friends to drown autistic man because he confessed his love for herI wouldn't recommend it; that poor chap did fuck her and all it did was land him face down in a river somewhere. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/06/21 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Woman gets friends to drown autistic man because he confessed his love for herThat's not how life imprisonment works in the UK. In the UK, "life imprisonment" means "You're going to prison for a very long time, and if we ever let you out we're going to keep a damn close eye on you. Step out of line once you're out, and you'll be back in so fast you won't know what's hit you". The "17 years" bit is a minimum term set by the judge. She might be out in 17 years and a day; she might never get out. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/06/21 12:24 PM |
| 2 | I decide to get divorcedGet yourself proper legal advice. Immediately, not in a couple of week's time. I mean that. Step away from Reddit, find the details of a few local divorce lawyers and get on the phone to them. If you're still reading this - which you shouldn't be! - how marital assets and childcare are divided in a divorce varies massively from one country to another. You really need to speak to a local lawyer who knows all these things and can explain it to you clearly rather than taking advice from random stra… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/06/21 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Nice Guy ExperimentI’ll try not to Rambo but it’s very enticing It is, but you have to understand it comes from the wrong place. When we say "don't take shit and have some self respect", we don't mean "fly off the handle as soon as she says or does anything slightly wrong", nor do we mean "order her about and get arsey when she doesn't follow orders". We mean "develop the self confidence that she can do whatever the fuck she wants and you act like you DGAF because (surprise surprise) you really, genuinely DGAF. Wh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/02/21 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Nice Guy ExperimentYou've been taught a very simplistic view of the world. A very transactional view, almost like the world is a vending machine, and you just have to insert (behaviour) to get (result) To be fair, this probably worked okay for much of your life. The problem is it doesn't work so well with human relationships, and even less so in LTRs. You need to demonstrate some self-respect, and getting arsey when she won't sleep with you is the complete opposite of this. Be warned a lot of noobs skim read some … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/01/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Should I expose my dad to Red Pill?You hate your dad? You think he's a bad man? Then what's he done to you that you should hurt him so? | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Women lose state pension age appeal against government - BBC NewsIt is possible - if you're so inclined - to top up your NI contributions. It might be worth you paying your wife's if that's a concern. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/09/20 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Women lose state pension age appeal against government - BBC NewsIt was 65 for men in those days, but apart from that you're spot on. The law was changed 25 years ago but was written so the actual change in retirement age didn't happen immediately - it'd be phased in over a long period of time. The government pension in the UK is partly based on the amount you put in over your working life, which is one of the reasons why they gave plenty of notice. It's only started to affect people in the last 5 or 6 years, so they had something like 20 years' notice. The s… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/09/20 07:58 PM |
| 11 | Ladies get the equality they demand, then shit their diapers because what they really wanted was pussy privilege.It's actually worse than you think. The UK has had a government-provided old age pension scheme for over a hundred years. It was originally meant to be subsistence living set up in a time when people typically died very shortly after they might have retired anyway. It used to be the case that women could claim their pension at the age of 60 and men at 65 - this was because men often marry someone slightly younger, and was intended to allow both partners to retire at roughly the same time. This w… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/09/20 06:26 PM |
| 11 | "My Boyfriend is Upset I've Destroyed My Ability To Pair Bond by 21, AITA?"That’s just a rule of thumb. The reality is that women will invent reasons why particular encounters “don’t count” and deduct them from the total. Didn’t orgasm? Doesn’t count. Regretted it the morning after? Doesn’t count. Was looking for more than he was? Doesn’t count. Wasn’t looking for as much as he was? Doesn’t count. Sucked off, pulled off but didn’t have vaginal sex? Doesn’t count. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Forgiving Your FatherIt isn't my father I need to forgive; it's my grandfather. He was the one who wasn't present when my dad was growing up; he was the one who let my dad grow up without a strong male role model; he was the one who realised far too late this his son was only a man because there wasn't a word for a grown man behaving like a young boy. But he was earning a good living. It probably never even occurred to him he could be doing damage. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What exactly makes men so squirmy about TRP?Everyone - men, women, aliens from the planet Zog - has their own mental picture of the world. Every interaction we have with the world, every action we take, every word we say, every thought we have is coloured by this mental picture. Having to completely redraw that mental picture is difficult, and a lot of people can't handle it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/20 09:36 PM |
| 11 | "Your" woman likely has strange cock in herFamiliarity breeds contempt. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Fucking a chinese virginAre you for real? Women - well, girls, more accurately, at the age I'm talking about - have men hitting on them more-or-less constantly from early in their teens. A girl figures out early on that she can pretty well pick and choose when she wants to lose her virginity. If she's got to the age of 28 and has not yet chosen to do so... to me, that's barely believable. She's either got a list of problems a mile long or she's lying through her teeth. Even if she comes from a culture where sex before … | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Fucking a chinese virginMate, if she's 28 and genuinely a virgin (rather than a liar) then this ain't gonna be a plate worth spinning. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond in a cool witty way when people (especially women) mock you for being single?I think you need to get out of the "defending myself" mindset. You're hearing "why do you not have a girlfriend", and you're putting implicit assumptions in that question, such as: Any real man would want a girlfriend. Any real man would have a girlfriend (or if he's single, only be so for a very brief period). You do not have a girlfriend; you are therefore not a real man. If you accept those assumptions, there aren't very many good answers to that lot. There are none if you've been single for … | /r/becomeaman | 03/06/20 05:35 PM |
| 3 | To determine if marrying will help me gets needs met (mostly high quality great sex), hurt it, or have no differenceHave you read and understood any RP books at all? All human relationships involve a balance of power, and the balance is usually tilted slightly in favour of one person. And in a sexual relationship, you absolutely must ensure that the balance is tilted in your favour. That's what all this "stop giving a fuck" advice is all about - you have to internalise that if you split up tomorrow, you'd be banging someone else the day after. Women find it a massive turn on to be with someone who could easil… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 05:20 PM |
| 14 | Girl bit me during sex, then afterwards completely denied it. She rationalized in her mind that it was another girl. What should I do?The weirdest part is I think she knows she did it, but she can choose not to believe it to feel better. She doesn't. The thought process goes something like this: Something bad has happened. Good girls do not do that "something". I am a good girl. Therefore, it had nothing to do with me. She mentally re-wrote history the minute she realised you weren't into it. How should I deal with this? Give her a reality check and remind her what really happened? Complete waste of time. She has been pulling … | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Opinion: Should we celebrate the Weinstein verdict?This, exactly. I'm extremely worried about this blurring of the lines of what constitutes rape. Nobody's disputing the man who drags a woman into a dark alley at knifepoint needs locking up. But what about the man who goes out with a friend and they both have a couple too many to drink? The man who misjudges how drunk his date was? The man who's hinting at a step up the career ladder, but doesn't deliver? The man who's offering fame and fortune, does deliver, but in hindsight probably wasn't nec… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone else realize how beta and blue pulled their fathers are?My dad died over 20 years ago; I was 19. Red Pill wasn't a thing then, of course. Shame, really, because in retrospect I now recognise how much he epitomised the beta stereotype - possibly more than most on here could ever imagine. He was the baby of the family; when he was growing up, his dad (my grandfather) spent a lot of time away from the family home and my own dad was therefore mostly brought up by his mum. I don't think he had a strong male role model. My dad would have been around 17-18 … | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 08:37 PM |
| 3 | New here. Partner may have BPD. She has violent outbursts and hits me. I know about RSD, David Deida, John Wineland and BPD. Totally new to married red pillI'll tell you what is beta - giving a fuck what other people think about what you want. But forget about that for now. Right now you need to concentrate on becoming the best possible version of yourself, and that means reading everything in the sidebar as many times as you need to for it to sink in. If that means reading it five times, so be it. Be warned it is very common for newbs to misunderstand - and hence fuck up - in their first few months. This is a marathon, not a sprint, and it could e… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/02/20 07:24 PM |
| 3 | 4 years in to find I have an asexual wife. The missing link?There is another possibility. It's possible your wife has aspergers. It's often under-diagnosed in women - for years, it was thought that women just didn't have aspergers. In other words, dread doesn't affect her not because she's asexual, but because she doesn't have any strong emotional connection to anyone or anything. Not to you, not to her parents, not to your pets. Nothing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/11/19 08:47 PM |
| 12 | The Underhanded Nature of Covert ContractsThis comes to something I think women understand more than men - doing something not for someone else, but for yourself. You are not lifting to get laid more often. That's a covert contract with the universe. You are lifting to improve your physique. You are not working on your career to get your wife wet. That's another covert contract. You are working on your career because you don't want to be a bus driver all your life. You are not buying nice clothes to pick up women. Again, covert contract… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/08/19 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Knowing what you know now, would you get married/have kids again?Because the world is not black and white. It is very easy to read and learn about things (like RP ideas) and mentally digest them by categorising them the same way we do everything else in life. Techie people in particular are quite prone to this - we think in terms of black and white, true or false, yes or no - and so therefore everything we learn gets processed in that way. Problem: our mechanism for digesting things works brilliantly for things that naturally work in that fashion (such as mat… | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 07:38 PM |
| 5 | I fucked up due to lack of assertiveness. How do I correct this character flaw?Read "When I say no, I feel guilty". It's full of extremely good advice for men who have trouble with assertiveness. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Why work on yourself, why be healthy, why have relationship, why chase women, why chase wealth?I think you've inadvertently touched on the reasons why millennials are (apparently) having less sex. 20 years ago (and yes, I'm old enough to remember), false rape accusations weren't really a thing. Oh, sure, sometimes you'd have sex and one or both of you would think "that wasn't such a great idea". But that didn't mean one of you started posting to Instagram that you'd just been raped, nor did it mean you reported it to the police. It just meant you thought a bit more carefully about it in f… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I punish this behaviourRather than seeking out and punishing bad behaviour, you should be seeking out and rewarding good; ignore bad behaviour. Why? Well, I don't know about you, but in every relationship I've ever had, if you look hard enough you can find something bad in everything. Training yourself to seek out and punish the bad is going to make you a miserable bastard. | /r/askMRP | 09/06/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Fiancé lost respectBoth. I assume there are no kids involved at this stage? You get married, you're both going to be miserable and it'll be ten times harder to unravel everything. What's happening is this: You are not the man you think you are; your fiancé sees this even if you don't. Realistically, it is going to take you a minimum of 1-2 years to un-fuck yourself - possibly longer - and that assumes you dive right into all the reading and work you need to do this afternoon. Calling off the wedding will prevent y… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/19 03:03 PM |
| 1 | DEER is exclusive to females.It's about context. Some discussions invariably have an emotional element - buying a new car, for instance. Buying a brand new luxury car is never going to be a particularly practical thing, and yet Mercedes, BMW and Jaguar are all still in business. DEER is strategy built around arguments that are entirely driven by rationality. It doesn't work so well in a discussion with both emotional and rational elements because few people want to admit their position is driven by emotion. So when they are… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/04/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | My lifting has caused a shit stormWhich is why you need to internalise all the various options in MAP and MMSLP. You cannot rely on just one or two for exactly the reason you describe. | /r/askMRP | 17/04/19 09:15 PM |
| 2 | When does it get better?Fuck. Me. Sideways. I'm going to lose so much karma on saying this, but it needs saying: You are lifting more than me in every way, shape and form. You're working twice the hours I am. And you're doing all this while fighting a serious illness. Does that sound like the action of a weak man? Because to me it sounds like the action of a strong man, both mentally and physically. Does your wife understand this? Whether she does or not, there's no words you can say to her that will persuade her of it… | /r/askMRP | 17/04/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | My beginning - What am I doing wrong?It sounds like you've found this sub at a good time. Lots of men (myself included) don't find it until things are so bad there's years of fuckups to undo. And you can't undo years of fuckups in a few weeks. Now, back to the matter in hand: Read the /r/marriedredpill sidebar. All of it. Buy the books, read them. You don't have to agree with every word, you don't have to like every word (I promise you, you won't like every word!). But read them all the same. When you've finished, read them again. … | /r/askMRP | 29/03/19 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Finding out women are brain dead, making me depressed.Suggestion from someone a bit older: Eighteen yers ago, I was fucking the girl who's now my wife pretty well every night. I remember at the time thinking "If we split up tomorrow, I'd be alright. Don't know about her...." This thought bothered me. It didn't strike me as terribly equal. In retrospect, that thought was the reason I was fucking her every night. It shaped our every interaction; why would I care what she thinks if I could replace her inside 48 hours? It was when circumstances changed… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Giving redpill advice to Male employeesNo, no and for the third time no. Any mention of RP - at least using those words - has an absolutely huge risk that the person you talk to might look into it further. Yes, they might see the better bits. The bits that say "make yourself a better man and to hell with what the rest of the world thinks". But they might also see how the gynocentric world paints it - and let's face it, that ain't good. If you're going to introduce those ideas at all, do so subtly and by example rather than by overtly… | /r/askMRP | 16/03/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do women think they can get whatever they want with their vagina?You would, if you were told every waking minute of your life that you were somehow special and valuable, more so than other people. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Plan A or B, MAP, or something different?Agree with /u/SBill: it sounds like you haven't really understood RP properly. You've covered the physical aspects, but have you covered the mental aspects? It's all well and good having positive interactions with women that you think could go further, but does your wife know you're capable of this? If you're just going home and staring at the walls with her, how could she possibly know? | /r/askMRP | 15/03/19 10:50 PM |
| 8 | International Feminists Go Nuts About 12 Step Guide to Being A Beautiful Woman10:1 on she's eating shit but not eating large quantities of shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | so let me get this straight women only care about looks, frame and money. And they will all inherently cheat if given the chanceThere is an awful lot more to RP than just skimming a few bits of the sidebar and getting the gist of it. You have to read, learn and inwardly digest the lot. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 05:18 PM |
| 3 | How to Handle Feminist Teachers?A lot depends on context. You're still in school? That's exactly what would happen. Keep your head down; you're not there forever. You're in university? Difficult. It's possible to get her out of your hair - I've heard of it being done - but it relies on a lot of stars to be in alignment: She mustn't be in a position of any seniority. You must be able to get other students to tell the same story. You must be able to provide irrefutable, documentary evidence that she's doing something objectively… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Wife Went Full Bitch ModeThis! While there is no harm in using just one or two evasion tactics when you get started - largely because you previously had no way to deal with her behaviour - you absolutely must work on building up further tactics in your arsenal because sooner or later your wife will find a way to re-frame the two things so they're a beta move. Always leaving the house? You're "flouncing out". Always AAing? You "don't take her seriously". Before you know it, you're back where you were. She's got you in a … | /r/askMRP | 28/02/19 09:04 PM |
| 8 | Exposing How Women Manipulate MenThe word "manipulation" has unfortunate connotations, and much of that comes from it being used as a sort-of intellectual argument-killing shortcut. One small problem: 40% of human communication could technically be seen as "manipulation", simply because the word is routinely defined as "trying to persuade someone to do something they didn't necessarily want to do" Ever chatted a girl up? Taken her out on a date? Were you hoping to get your dick wet as a result? Was she gagging for it before you… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/19 09:43 PM |
| 8 | How to get LTR/Wife to dress better?The covert contract is a huge dichotomy in RP ideas. We teach "unfuck yourself and she will follow", while in the same breath teaching "don't go around expecting specific behaviour then getting upset when you don't get it". There is a way to resolve it: you radically change your mindset. Put any thought of what she is doing out of your mind. Think only of un-fucking yourself. She is free to join you in this un-fucking exercise; she is free not to. And it is vital you internalise this. | /r/askMRP | 23/02/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Alpha terrorist fucks and beta government bucks: When cuckoldry goes international.Well, her family is going to appeal. But the way I see it, even if her appeal is upheld, she will be entering the country on the most watched passport in history. She will be arrested on arrival and they'll look for any excuse possible to throw her in prison for a very long time. I have a very hard time seeing a problem with this. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/19 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Alpha terrorist fucks and beta government bucks: When cuckoldry goes international.Well, that didn't take long. Her citizenship's been revoked. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 10:01 PM |
| 2 | UK shuts the door on runaway Isis schoolgirl who wants to come home to give birth - ‘My message is clear – if you have supported terrorist organisations abroad I will not hesitate to prevent your return.How about a nice pair of caring Jewish parents? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/19 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Alpha terrorist fucks and beta government bucks: When cuckoldry goes international.The wheels of justice grind slow; she'd be investigated, charged and prosecuted in whatever time it takes. She probably would get a comparatively light sentence on account of being a woman, but I doubt she'd get off scot free. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Wage War on InactivityAssuming "few months" is 3-4 months, you've eaten on average about 6-700 calories more than you're using. Every day. You're going to have to do a lot of cardio to work that sort of excess off. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Unknown dreadgame leads to affair vs open relationship??!/u/SBill has put it the best: You made a series of mistakes with your wife that put your marriage where it is. You probably don't even know what those mistakes were - which means you cannot possibly learn from them. And if you cannot learn from them, then sure as eggs is eggs you'll repeat them with this new girl. And while you're making these same mistakes - and separating from this new girl within a year - you're going to be around your kids a lot less. Which is going to make it a hell of a lo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/19 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Alpha terrorist fucks and beta government bucks: When cuckoldry goes international.She is a British citizen, and isn't thought to hold dual nationality. Which means that it's illegal for us to just revoke her citizenship. I actually think getting her back here could be a good thing. It'd mean we'd know where she is, for one thing, and can stop her doing any more harm. We can also have the child taken away before she's had a chance to have any influence on it. Couple of big policemen arrest her the minute the plane lands, prison for a nice long time, by the time she gets out - … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Fuck The Red PillFair point. In any case, I don't think it's useful to label Forrest alpha or beta - I think his intellectual disability makes a lot of discussion of alpha/beta traits irrelevant. He doesn't really have anything like the necessary comprehension of action and consequence, and while he does understand that some things in life aren't particularly fair or good, he's mostly unaware of his impact on the world. As far as Gump is concerned, the biggest thing he did was buying Jenny's childhood home and d… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/19 06:55 PM |
| 8 | Fuck The Red PillForrest was an alpha by mistake, if anything. He sure as hell wasn't an alpha in his interactions with women. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/02/19 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Alpha terrorist fucks and beta government bucks: When cuckoldry goes international.We don't have the death penalty in the UK, but even if we did, I'd point out that this would make a martyr out of her. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/19 06:21 PM |
| 14 | Fuck The Red PillI'm half tempted to report this on account of the fact that I think it's low value and adds nothing that we don't already know. Before I do that, however, I'd suggest you re-watch Forrest Gump. I promise you what you once might have thought of as a great movie doesn't look so great any more. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/02/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | She Picked Out My ClothesWomen want the men they love to become weak I know full well you're being sarcastic here, BPP, but some of the noobs might not. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/02/19 05:01 PM |
| 15 | Your wife didn't make you beta; YOU didThat's the wonderful thing about RP praxeology if you make the effort to understand it properly (which a lot of people don't). If it is you who fucked yourself up, it follows that you are responsible for un-fucking yourself. It also follows (and this is the good bit) that you have the ability to un-fuck yourself. You just need to learn how. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/02/19 04:56 PM |
| 17 | Reasonable Requests versus Testing - False PositivesYou're discovering the same thing as I did. A lot of shit tests aren't shit tests. They're a clumsy attempt to bond using sarcasm and banter like men often do. We misinterpret them because when a man does it, his tone is totally different. A woman will often use the exact same tone of voice for friendly banter, a shit test and for when she's genuinely having a go at you. You think she's being a complete bitch who literally cannot get a single sentence out of her mouth without having a go at you,… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/02/19 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Gender WarYou’re absolutely right, and I’ll tell you why. What it boils down to is society telling a group of people “your natural instincts are wrong, you should be ashamed of having them and you must suppress them at all costs”. We know what happens when you do that because society has done it before. In the past, it was gay men; the result wasn’t fewer gay men, it was gay men who were afraid to admit to being gay and wound up living a life of misery - or even committing suicide - because society wouldn… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | I was curious on MRPs take on the website Ashley Madison?The data leak they had a couple of years ago suggested there wasn't a single woman on the site; the only "women" were bots set up to encourage men to subscribe. Which makes perfect sense from an RP perspective. I don't imagine there's a woman on this earth who needs a site like that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/19 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Been going RamboSpeaking as someone in a similar position to yourself: It sounds like what you need is a fresh perspective. What has happened is in the past; you cannot control that. Nor can you control how your wife responds to that. Focus on the things you can control. You can control how you respond to this. So try to think about things in these terms. | /r/askMRP | 11/01/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I not turn cynical?Perfectly normal. It sounds like you're still in the process of unplugging. We say "lift" for a reason: the process of going to the gym and lifting releases chemicals (no I don't understand it all) that help clear your head. Putting on some muscle and (hopefully) making yourself more attractive so you can get laid more easily in future is an added bonus. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How fast you can get setbackYou sound like me five years ago. This is a marathon, not a sprint. If you haven't already, read MAP (it's on the sidebar and there's no excuse for not reading it; it's a lot cheaper than a divorce) and put together the list of things you're doing wrong. I wouldn't be surprised if there's a great big list of things you're doing wrong. You are NOT going to resolve all these things overnight. You must learn how to cultivate self-discipline, you must prioritise things and you must recognise that it… | /r/askMRP | 06/01/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?It doesn't work that way; if it did life would be a lot easier. The female mindset would take a multi-layered approach: "What sort of sicko demands his partner sign a contract before he fucks her? The kind who doesn't know the difference between "Stop spanking me, Daddy!" and "Stop spanking me." "He's 50% bigger than me and could easily overpower me. What am I going to do, refuse?!" Before you know it, your written evidence isn't evidence that everything was agreed. It's evidence that you're som… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/19 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Reputation as "misogynistic" -> Learn from my mistake -> Heed Law 38Because the non-misogynistic comment is that the couple decide between them who of them should work based on practicalities rather than an outright "she must/must not work". Of course in the real world it isn't like that, because a woman is far more likely to decide unilaterally that she's not going to work any more and there will be no reasoning or discussion over the matter. Which sort of limits the man's options. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/18 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Giving wife a book recommended by RedPillWomen?Nice idea, and one I've tried myself. One small problem: it cannot possibly work unless your wife is open to RP ideas. We already know that 90+% of the population isn't. In fact, they're so "not open" to RP ideas that they find them downright offensive. That's why "don't talk about RP" is repeated over and over. Why do you think your wife is any different? Hint: If she was, you probably wouldn't be on this subreddit in the first place. | /r/askMRP | 01/12/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill will one day become mainstreamI think it's already happening. It's slow - societies don't change overnight - and being as the mirror that the media holds up to society is often biased towards the feminine, it's heavily watered down. But I still think it's happening. As long as you don't mention the words "red pill", most of the core tenets are pretty safe to discuss in open company. You run the risk of being considered slightly old-fashioned, but that's about the worst of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/18 06:23 PM |
| 30 | [FR] When the masks fall, will you dare to see the truth?Okay, gmow_dad, listen up. You've clearly not read any of the material, or if you have you haven't absorbed it. None of these questions I'm writing are rhetorical; if you give a fuck about yourself you'll answer them all here in public (and take note of how people respond to your answers). How long have you been working on this? How have you raised your SMV? Where do you think it is now? Where do you expect dread to come from? "Dread" doesn't arise spontaneously, it comes from a perception that … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/18 06:06 PM |
| 7 | Just me or do so called “feminists” like being owned in bed?Hence why society is screwing over both men and women. Women have been taught from as long as they've been old enough to discuss sex that it's physically impossible to have enjoyable sex unless you've both spent hours discussing consent, contraception and what you both like. And then someone throws all that out the window and she has a great time. WTF?! | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | What Is Your Most Harsh Example Of Female Nature?I'm not sure I'd use the word "harsh", though perhaps "eye-opening" is the right word. I was - ooh, must have been about 20 years old. Every year, my old school held a reunion, and every year it attracted two main groups. Those who are still in touch (or want to be in touch) with their old schoolfriends from a couple of years ago and those who are in their 40s and older who haven't mentally moved on from the fact they left school 25+ years ago. With very little in between. In school, I'd been th… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Gonna try and plate this prostitute.. thoughts?Are you serious? This girl might say a million things. Look at how she behaves. Is she giving you more for your money - but still expecting your money? You're getting a "loyal customer discount", not "I really really really like you". | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?Christ, where does this leave fathers of girls? Obviously you want to protect your daughter, and you want to ensure that she's comfortable saying "no", and knows what to do if that "no" is not respected - but at the same time you're doing her a massive disservice if you let her think that society will ruin a man's life on her whim. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/18 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?Actually, I suspect this is where reports about teens having less sex comes from. When you've spent your formative years being taught that women must and will gladly and enthusiastically reciprocate any sort of approach otherwise it's rape, where does that leave the slightly-nervous young man who desperately wants to get his end away but isn't sure if the object of his affections is interested? I reckon it leaves him erring on the side of caution. Who wants to get accused of being a rapist? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/18 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Show a slutty girl true acceptance, and she'll be slutty for you, tooSee, this is where I disagree with you. There was no shortage of young lads masturbating when I was a kid, but it's not the same. If we follow the logic that women want - need - a man to take the lead before they'll jump into bed (though once led, they're happy to make the jump), then what's the logical conclusion to a society being told that under no circumstances should any man ever do anything that might ever be interpreted as pressuring a woman into sex? I can think of one logical conclusion… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/18 08:54 PM |
| 4 | Show a slutty girl true acceptance, and she'll be slutty for you, tooI'm actually wondering if news reports of teens having less sex is related to this. It isn't unusual for teens to be hyper socially-aware compared to their parents. Combine that with a society that says that if she isn't basically on her knees demanding sex, it isn't consent.... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?And it has not escaped women's notice that the world will protect them and not investigate the facts. She knows the police are unconditionally on her side. Actually, I don't entirely agree with this one. Time and again we hear from women who did come forward and weren't happy with how the crime was investigated. However, every interview I've ever heard basically boils down to "I complained to the police and they had the audacity to ask me detailed questions about what happened! Then when it went… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/18 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?This tendency of blaming everyone except yourself -- blame society, daddy, Donald Fhlumpthf -- is becoming increasingly prevalent among women and leftists. It's one of the most dangerous traits in a person in my opinion. And it goes to the core of pretty well everything RP stands against. Instead of encouraging self-improvement, it provides a comfort blanket of "it's not your fault" and an implication of "changing it is utterly out of your control". Fat arse? Society's fault for making it diffic… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?There's a hell of a long way between a false rape claim and a man falsely convicted off the back of it. Somewhere in the middle of that lies loss of social status, loss of job, appearing on police record checks, loss of cash paying for a defence you shouldn't have to - to pretend that you can be publicly accused of rape and just walk away from it as if nothing had happened is plain naive. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?I don't think that's the case. I think that women are running around absolutely convinced they've been raped when any objective outsider would say "No you haven't, love. At worst, you've had sex you shouldn't have". | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/18 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?See, this is where I disagree slightly with RP ideas. I think it's perfectly possible to be friends with women without harbouring a desire to take them to bed. But I also think it's necessary to recognise when you want more - which you're not going to get - and cut the friendship entirely for the sake of your own mental health. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/18 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?Dicey. The alternative is she'll dig herself in harder, decide it definitely was not consensual - and remember she honestly believes this. In her world, she's not lying. Before you know it, you don't need an attorney to sue someone, you need a criminal defence lawyer. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/18 11:35 PM |
| -1 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?The world is not the USA. Not everywhere has to care about that. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/18 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?That's wrong on several levels: It plays into the female imperative by removing agency. The only real difference is that women abdicate agency when it suits them, your proposal removes it unilaterally. Women are emotion-driven. In other words, the conclusion that she has been raped is not based entirely on objective fact, but on how she feels right now. Which might be totally different to how she felt immediately before and even during the encounter. Hence why women are often better liars. They … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/18 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?Exactly - I've got my own share of stories like that where maybe the sex wasn't earth shattering, maybe the circumstances weren't perfect. I think everyone does. It's almost as if society is deciding it's perfectly okay for a woman to attach conditions to her sexual consent, willingly jump into bed and then decide afterwards whether or not those conditions were met. And these women are absolutely convinced that this is normal. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/18 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?That's exactly my point. By that definition, I think everyone on the planet has both committed rape and been raped at some point in their lives. It's a definition that I think the SJWs of the world seem to be intent on pushing - and then they can't understand why their allegation wasn't taken seriously. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/18 02:10 PM |
| 6 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?This is just it. Back when I was in uni, I was beyond BP like you wouldn't believe. I had a good friend who was a girl and honestly, the thought of having sex with her didn't even cross my mind. Anyhoo, one night we had a few to drink, went to bed in the same room - not for sex, I hasten to add. I complained of the cold, she invited me into bed and 3 minutes later I was licking that pussy like it was ice cream. I (foolishly) piped up "Do you think it's possible for friends to have sex?". You hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/18 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?That's the whole problem. You can get what you like in writing, if she later decides you weren't a suitable partner - for whatever reason - she'll say that it was "rape" and anything in writing was put down "under pressure". It may or may not survive a court case - the justice system is explicitly designed to spot people making it up - but that won't help you in the court of public opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?I don't think it's that simple. Let me be clear: I am not talking about false rape accusations made out of malice. The women doing that can burn in Hell. I am talking about situations where - for whatever reason - the woman (not the hamster) honestly believes she's been raped. She believes it because society has told her "she should be enthusiastically signalling consent throughout the whole process" and she didn't. She believes it because he was a massive disappointment. She believes it because… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/18 06:50 PM |
| 12 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?There's others I've seen - as best I can tell, a common trope is "a beta orbiter got me drunk". Well and good, but note: Nobody knows - or more accurately, should know - how you behave after a few drinks better than you. If you know you have a tendency to do stupid things, maybe don't drink so much? Or are you regularly going about getting completely plastered and trusting that every person you ever meet in that state has your best interests at heart? Bearing in mind you only have to be unlucky … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/18 06:38 PM |
| 16 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?Solipsistic self preservation is inherent to female nature. Taking responsibility for their actions is about as likely as spotting sharks on the beach. This, I think, hits the nail on the head. There's a British judge - a woman, to boot - who has openly said that if women didn't drink so heavily there would be substantially fewer rape cases in front of her. Now, there's a massive grey area between "blackout drunk" and "no chance of remembering much but broadly able to function - certainly able t… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/18 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?Maybe I did; as much as anything else I was hoping that there could be a useful discussion around it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/18 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Odd test from my wifeI wanted to talk about it at all was to demonstrate that I have a practical perspective on the marital contract. You really don't need to do that. Your wife will easily be able to pick up how strong your perspective is without you saying a word. | /r/askMRP | 04/11/18 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Starting University in 10 months any advice for meWork on yourself. Between now and then, talk to as many girls as you can about anything you can think of, flirt with girls, get over any fear you have for it, learn to eat well (that's going to be a challenge at university, where most of the sources of calories you can afford are going to be stodge). Basically, by next September, your default reaction on seeing a girl you'd like to fuck should be "Hey, let's go say hello", not "ohshitohshitdon'tfuckitup". | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Got a Shit Test thrown at me todayShe's saying "divorce" because you've already made clear that you don't want to do that - and indeed think you probably could not replace her. In other words, she's not saying it because she means it, she's saying it because the words give her power. Who gave the words power? You did, when you agreed to go for counselling in the first place. You demonstrated that you really did not want to divorce her. And so - because there's no way she can win a physical argument with you - she's instead argui… | /r/askMRP | 03/11/18 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Do you know any women who agree with TRP and their hyperhamy?Roughly? All of 'em. See, (if you'll pardon the slightly wanky terminology) there is a difference between how society says one should behave and reality. Women learn to spot this difference at a very young age. They quickly learn to understand and accept the idea that "While I might want to do (X) for best results, I obviously can't tell the world that's what I'm doing. So I tell the world something completely different." Much of the reason for spotting this difference is the obvious physical di… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 11:26 PM |
| 10 | Google Executives Fall Pray to False AccusationsYou missed out something. 30,000 single, young thirsty men who wouldn't know how to approach a woman if they were given extensive training. And you put them all together, giving them the confidence to know that even if they screwed up badly, they were in an environment that would look after them. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/18 11:02 PM |
| 14 | Google Executives Fall Pray to False AccusationsThe article in The Register suggested that they had four women bring examples of sexual harassment in San Francisco. One of those was "a manager showed off a new cigarette lighter he'd bought which was in the shape of a naked woman". Now, we can discuss whether or not that was a good idea to share in a workplace in California (personally, I think probably not) - but sexual harassment? Enough to merit firing someone and screwing up their career for years to come? Come. The. Fuck. On. At this poin… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/18 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Women Are Like Children, With ExamplesThe problem with calling out a woman too often is you're also subtly indicating that her behaviour gets to you. I've heard an idea lately that I'm looking at trying more: ignore bad behaviour, reward good. The idea being that you don't really want the person associating bad behaviour with any sort of attention. Interestingly, you follow a similar process when training dogs. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/18 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Post wall, carousel riding woman is confused why she can't find a good manI think it's far more likely that her opinion of her own attractiveness needs drastic recalibration. It's not unusual for women to barely notice that men who are too far below them in relative SMV terms exist. Should such a man dare say anything (beyond "You want fries with that?") to her, shooting him down will be so automatic she'll have completely forgotten she did it just ten minutes later. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/18 09:09 PM |
| 6 | More Silence from Reddit Administration - A Failure for Community Managers to... Manage?Except they framed the terms of the negotiations before it even started. And the terms were simple: we've already decided you've sinned, that isn't up for discussion. The only thing up for discussion is how you're going to prevent such sins from recurring. Without any idea of the sort of "sins" they're talking about, it's very hard to know what aspect of TRP needs to be changed to accommodate it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/18 08:59 PM |
| 2 | When she is interested YOU'LL KNOW.I don't think "freaked out" is the right word; I think it's possible a lot of women have wound up being drawn into a great big long conversation about why she's not interested. A conversation she doesn't really want to have because it'll wind up going around in circles and the only other way to end it is to say "Look, I can't help who I find attractive". Easiest way to stop that conversation going around in circles? Don't let it start. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/18 08:50 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck have I gotten myself into?It will, but FFS get a personal trainer for a couple of sessions to show you how to use the weights properly. All the online videos in the world won't correct your bad form, and if you don't correct that you'll be injuring yourself pretty regularly. | /r/askMRP | 07/10/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Helping my son take the pillThe girl is not a lawyer. She is a congressional staffer that "went to law school", whatever that means. It means she dropped out, is my guess. | /r/askMRP | 07/10/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Helping my son take the pillWhich is exactly what my mum did with my dad. I don't think she continued riding the carousel when she was married - frankly, I think that ship had sailed by then - but it did mean that she was forever nagging him and he basically gave up. He could never be her Mr. Perfect, because in his mind he had to do everything she demanded right now to achieve that - and balancing her demands with actually getting some enjoyment out of life was basically impossible. | /r/askMRP | 07/10/18 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Our Appeal of the Quarantine to the Reddit AdminI think society has reached the point where a lot of interactions are pre-cooked to manipulate a specific outcome. And the people doing the pre-cooking don't even realise that their behaviour is manipulative. This is one of the reasons it's dangerous to talk about RP. Few people appreciate being told that they're displaying classic manipulative traits. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/18 09:16 PM |
| 19 | Our Appeal of the Quarantine to the Reddit AdminThey do, but the first rule of RP is you don't beg for anyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/18 09:26 PM |
| 30 | Our Appeal of the Quarantine to the Reddit AdminThat was pretty obvious when an accusation was made with no evidence, and the tone was very much "we expect your appeal to explain how you're going to avoid sinning again" (as opposed to "Here's the evidence you've been sinning. What do you have to say to that?"). | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/18 09:23 PM |
| 5 | Why is it so damn hard to redpill other men?My own brother's just as bad. Morbidly obese, in his 30s and I don't think he's ever had a girlfriend - I wouldn't be enormously surprised if he was still a virgin. I think he's more-or-less given up on the idea of women - he has an excuse for every single aspect of his life that isn't perfect, and (surprise surprise) every single one of those excuses boil down to "it's not my fault and in any case I'm powerless to do anything about it". His entire outlook on life - his identity, his very existe… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Is this it?I doubt it. At the risk of going straight to hell - TRP has always had a hint of "still in rambo mode" to it. The mods would love to pretend otherwise, but at any given point in time (before this issue basically took over that sub), 30-40% of the visible posts were fairly obviously made by noobs who had read just enough to be dangerous and were essentially posting a "Shit, this is all true! Aren't women a load of shits?!" puke. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/18 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Is this it?What evidence do you have for that? The quarantine remains; the article they linked to was later found to be written by a man who's been accused of sexual harassment. I think that probably has more to do with the article being removed than any belief that maybe this might be counter-productive. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/18 09:12 PM |
| 2 | The Reddit Administration RecantsIt's way too late. Reddit's already framed any appeal in terms of "you're guilty; persuade us that you're going to change your wicked ways". | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 09:09 PM |
| 8 | The Reddit Administration RecantsThing is, in their world the mistake wasn't pointing potential readers at the opinion of someone who thinks there's no such thing as domestic violence against men. Their mistake was pointing potential readers at the opinion of someone who's been accused of sexual harassment. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | 300,000 Subscribers. The Reddit Administration Tacitly Endorses Male Abuse and Denies its VictimsNote how they've framed it. The appeal should also offer evidence of sustained, consistent enforcement of these changes over a period of at least one month, demonstrating meaningful community transformation. "We've already decided you're guilty; there is no avenue of appeal or discussion on this point. The avenue of appeal is to explain how you're going to change your ways". | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Can you keep frame if you’re wrong?This is an absolutely beautiful question, because in one question it demonstrates a combination of thorough BP conditioning and only the most superficial RP understanding. The BP conditioning comes from the "is it possible to keep frame?". Your default response for being wrong over the smallest thing necessitates an immediate apology, begging forgiveness and hoping you get it. The superficial RP understanding comes from the fact you've recognised that your response is wrong, but you don't know h… | /r/askMRP | 27/09/18 05:38 PM |
| 7 | Wife pulled a knife on me last nightMate, all joking aside - I agree with everyone else. This sort of shit is how domestic violence happens. If you are very, very lucky, it ends with you in jail for a few days/weeks and neither of you seriously injured. If you're unlucky, one of you winds up dead. So, do you feel lucky? Well, do you, punk? | /r/askMRP | 25/09/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Wife has some type of access to my phone?That number's being sync'ed to an account that she has set up on her phone. Some of these services don't automatically sign out other devices (eg. other phones) just because you've changed your password. | /r/askMRP | 24/09/18 09:35 PM |
| 2 | I think it is time to leaveREAD. THE. DAMN. SIDEBAR. Those books listed down the side are listed for a reason. I guarantee, if you don't see an awful lot of yourself in WISNIFG and No More Mr. Nice Guy, you're delusional. Regarding this relationship: I agree with others. Eject this relationship; you're getting very little out of it and if you don't you're going to be hating yourself 5 years from now. But still read those books because otherwise your next relationship will be equally dysfunctional. | /r/askMRP | 24/09/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Why Using Low N-Count To Vet Women Is UselessShe was 17. Don’t expect top-class philosophy discussion with 17 year olds. (Though you can expect her to change her mind more often than her undergarments). | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 03:57 PM |
| 3 | FR--Woman's Post on DeadBedrooms Confirms EVERYTHING We're Working Towards Here in MRPThis x1000. I see it in my own brother and I have to bite my tongue. I haven’t always succeeded; as a result he’s decided I hold some archaic views. Just to make matters worse, he works in theatre - and you’ve never seen a more feminist-brainwashed group. If I succeeded in talking him into any RP belief, I’d probably destroy his career. This actually makes interaction really hard. I find myself having to police what I say like I’m talking to a woman because he will twist every word to suit his a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/09/18 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Why Using Low N-Count To Vet Women Is UselessThe argument at the time was that she’d found every dick far too big to finish the job off. Personally, I don’t believe that. Knowing what the average teenage boy is like, I think it’s far more likely that she had a good share of 2 pump chumps and had to invent a reason that explained why she barely registered there was a cock inside her before it was all over. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Why Using Low N-Count To Vet Women Is UselessI wouldn’t pay too much attention to any of those surveys. Every woman on the planet has a bunch of reasons why it “didn’t count”, and - this bit’s important - in her mind, those reasons are 100% valid, correct and result in a figure that is guaranteed accurate. We shall gloss over the fact that depending on who she’s talking to means the number is going to vary massively. Her best friend she’s known since she was a teenager thinks it’s one number, her mum thinks it’s another number and her boyf… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 09:22 AM |
| 4 | FR--Woman's Post on DeadBedrooms Confirms EVERYTHING We're Working Towards Here in MRPIt’s offensive because in essence, it says “everything society tells you about sex and relationships is wrong. Everything you’ve ever been told, everything you’ve ever believed, everything you want to believe is complete cobblers”. That’s where the anger phase comes from. Men who have believed this horrific BP idea for 20 years or more, read a few RP things and with practically every paragraph they read, they see a new truth: “That explains how Chad had all the girls growing up!”, “No wonder Sta… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/09/18 09:08 AM |
| 65 | Why Using Low N-Count To Vet Women Is UselessDon't sit exclusively on RP-type subreddits. Look elsewhere, and you see trickle truths appearing. Girls admitting to being on Tinder for a couple of years, having 15 dates off it and 10 of them ending in sex. Hell, my first LTR (we were in our late teens) she admitted to losing her virginity at about 14 - though had never had "full sex". "Full sex", in her mind, meant "sex in which at least one of them has an orgasm". Six months later, none of those previous encounters counted and she'd "lost h… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Is TRP really that bitter?For the record: I'm married and over 30. I discovered RP a few years ago when I was > < this close to divorcing my wife. I won't pretend things are 100% perfect now - they're not - but RP has helped me more than anything else. The way I see it, RP is comprised a number of components: "This is how women, on the whole, behave" "This is how many men interact with women" "This is how you can interact to your advantage" I don't see any part of that as being bitter. I see it as very dry, factual infor… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Do girls tell their friends when they fuck a guy or keep it secret?See, here's the thing: I don't think it's that subtle. I had a gf when I was in my teens who clearly couldn't see it at all. The way she saw it, you'd think I was in some sort of abusive relationship with all my mates. I know who I'm still in contact with twenty years later, and it ain't her. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 09:35 PM |
| 8 | LTR never initiates sexDoes the bull complain that the cows don't initiate sex? Of course not. He just carries on fucking. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 08:41 PM |
| 17 | Do girls tell their friends when they fuck a guy or keep it secret?Nail. Head. I'm absolutely certain that 80% of my wife's shit tests aren't shit tests at all. They're amateurish attempts to bond by using more masculine banter-type talking-shit-together interaction. They don't work because when men talk like that to each other, there's a subtle change in body language and tone that says "Only joking, mate". My wife doesn't do that. It's taken a lot of work to realise she doesn't mean half the crap she says. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 08:33 PM |
| 2 | When the Blue Pill Lens ShatteredA few years ago, I was at crisis point. I was just about ready to divorce my wife, who had been adding conditions to pretty well any sort of sexual contact. Of course, the traditional relationship advice says you can talk anything over. So I tried that. I'd tried asking her what the problem was; the answer was invariably something useless like "nothing" (well, there is for me), "I don't know" (what the hell am I meant to do with that information?) and my personal favourite "doesn't bother me so … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/09/18 08:21 PM |
| 1 | The NMMNG / Red Pill contradictionWomen are fundamentally manipulative. They haven't got a lot of choice in the matter. Throughout history, they've had substantially fewer resources at their disposal. Manipulation is a way to get access to the resources they need. The upshot is that telling your wife too much is fundamentally dangerous - you're explicitly telling her how best to manipulate you. Don't be too surprised if she takes full advantage. | /r/askMRP | 02/09/18 08:55 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Duty Sex Doesn't ExistThis is a variant on a theory espoused elsewhere - I'm pretty sure Kay discusses it in MMSL. Women are emotional mirrors - they pick up on their partner's mood and reflect it. This is why it's so hard to get out of the vicious circle that is a constantly moaning wife once you get into it. It's damn hard to keep the smile on your face when you get home and get an earful of abuse, but you must do so for however long it takes for her to start reflecting you. It's also why the traditional BP advice … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/08/18 06:57 PM |
| 6 | Young man looking for hobbies, nerdy shit encouragedI would think very, very carefully about picking up something that's too nerdy to do, simply because if you are to improve as a person, sometimes you need to be taken out of your comfort zone. Have you considered learning a musical instrument? There's a substantial amount of theory to this (you can't just play any notes you like in any order and expect them to sound good - music theory teaches you what notes work when), there's an opportunity to be nerdy (you would not believe how many doodads a… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Swallowed the pill...You aren’t going to fix 26 years of fuckups in 26 days. Or, for that matter, 26 weeks. This is going to be a long, hard slog and there is no guarantee your wife will come along for the ride. Your call. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/07/18 09:51 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The things you see once your eyes are openDon’t even need to do that. Depending on your age and the women you know, you can practically write up a list of women you know and predict how their sex life goes with 80+% accuracy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/07/18 10:38 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Midlife Motorcycle BlowupI think the biggest mistake you made was discussing this at bedtime. You can’t walk into another room or leave the house without it looking like you’re storming off in a strop. Why else would you be leaving when you need to go to sleep? Whereas during the day you can easily say “Look, I’m doing this for myself, and that’s the end of it. Now, if you will excuse me I have better things to be doing than arguing with you” - and just walk off. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/18 12:54 PM |
| 2 | A Doxxionary Tale.All joking aside, have you considered reporting this to the police? It's blatant harassment. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/06/18 09:47 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Calculate your "cost per fuck"You mentioned getting angry. I don't know if it helps, but I worked out long ago what - at a very basic level - causes me to get angry. It was quite interesting to learn that about myself: There's no point in getting angry about things I can do something about. Makes more sense to dedicate my energy to doing something about them. Neither is there any point in getting angry about things I can do nothing about. What will it achieve? What does that leave us? Not an awful lot, as it happens. Usually… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/18 07:21 PM |
| 2 | IncelsIt isn't just that, though that goes a long way. What you describe also fosters another form of behaviour in young men: unrequited one-itis and inability to recognise flirting. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Appearing butthurt when I'm notThe mistake you made was putting yourself in a situation where the outcome was likely to result in you looking butthurt. Specifically, you tried to initiate sex late in the evening. Very dangerous move - particularly early on in your journey - because there is literally no way to recover from a refusal that doesn't look butthurt. Roll over and go to sleep in silence? You're in a mood. Go downstairs and do something else? You're in a mood - and you're going to be marked as still "in a mood" when … | /r/askMRP | 17/05/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Dorst time @ the nightclub after TRPYou can't fix years of conditioning with a few hours reading; it takes a long time and a lot of hard work. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Why doesn't incel tears call themselves beta tears instead?The clue's in the name. Incel. Involuntarily Celibate. The "involuntary" implies that the "not getting laid" isn't their fault. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | If Your Mission is a Business Mission and It Fails, What Next?This is actually something that strikes close to home for me because around the same time as I discovered RP, my business was on the verge of closing and I had a lot of my identity tied up in what I did. I think the RP view is less "what happens to you" and more "how you deal with it". The strong man has the spirit to deal with that sort of thing and the gumption to move on and find a.n.other source of income rather than letting his family starve because things will get better Real Soon Now. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/02/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | 2 Months in But Appearing ButthurtI've seen this advice elsewhere, and FWIW I think there's some sound logic to it: Do NOT try and initiate last thing at night while you're both in bed. Why? Because it is more-or-less impossible to fuck off and do your own thing without coming across as butthurt. It's nearly midnight; you've got to be up at 05:00 and you're massaging her arse? Let's face it, you're only doing that for one thing and if you're not getting it, there isn't a way to say "Oh well. Never mind" without coming across as … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/18 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Men and SuicideI think it left a lot open to interpretation. My take-away was that male suicide is a societal problem that really we should be tackling at a societal level. But a typical female response is to push responsibility back on to the individual man: "it was his decision to end his life, nobody else's". If the tables were turned - if female suicides were through the roof - there would be outcry. Women would unite as one in calls for improved services, hotlines, free (ie. taxpayer funded) counselling; … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/17 04:24 PM |
| 3 | [FR] A Failed Branch SwingIf anything, it's an absolutely cracking example of how society is failing men today. Logically - and without the benefit of RP insights - Jack made a smart move. A secure job with a career path that doesn't require a degree; by any traditional measure he should have been as happy as a pig in shit. The problem is that a combination of rocketing house prices, stagnant wages and junk food being cheap and easily available mean that for your average family man, the traditional work-life balance of 8… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Julian Assange on Male feministThe problem, as I see it, isn’t with your beliefs. It’s with those who profess to share them. Now, an RP answer to that is obviously “I don’t give a fuck who shares my beliefs”. But the problem is that everything - all men, all women, all vaguely intelligent animals - make assumptions based on past experiences. And a lot of women have past experiences that tell them “he’s saying what he thinks I want to hear to get in my panties”. Now, I happen to believe that there’s an awful lot of men out the… | /r/becomeaman | 25/10/17 06:00 PM |
| 0 | My plates broke. Any tips to keeping abundance mentality?Sexual market value; what you bring to the table in a sexual relationship. You obviously have much to learn. Read the sidebar, it was not composed for the good of the moderators health. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 10:38 PM |
| 3 | How do old guys start over?I feel your pain. I’m rather younger than you but facing similar issues: looking to build a social life and I don’t know where to start. I can’t drink like I used to, nor do I wish to; coworkers are mostly busy with their own lives. I’m lifting and while it helps clear the head and I’m in the best shape I’ve been in years, it isn’t going to give me a social life on its own. Right now, my focus is: take up a couple of hobbies that can be done socially and meet local people who are also doing thos… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 10:33 PM |
| 16 | Today I finally managed to hit it off. It changed my view over pussy..It would be a shame if this sub got banned as something that promotes “hate speech”. That's been a worry for years, and it hasn't happened yet. If anything, I'd say the politically correct pendulum is starting to swing the other way and it's slowly becoming less toxic to admit that men and women are different. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/17 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone come up with a charitable explanation?Fix your shit though regardless of what you do with this snowflake. Exactly the line of thinking I'm following right now. I have a mortgage; if I eject right now without planning this through, I'm either on the hook for the mortgage until such time as she can be persuaded to sell the house or I watch my credit go to hell as it goes into arrears. I don't think she can cover it alone. I also need to sort myself out so any future relationships don't go down the same path. Any "get out" plan therefo… | /r/askMRP | 24/09/17 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone come up with a charitable explanation?The default advice in this sub is almost invariably "divorce her" - though remember it's coming from men who have only heard part of the story. You mentioned getting my own hamster under control and I think you've hit the nail on the head there. Regarding the issue at hand - she did eventually come up with a sensible explanation, though it took her 24 hours. She promptly tried to gaslight me into believing that she tried to say it straight away but I wouldn't listen - I told her to cut that shit… | /r/askMRP | 24/09/17 02:34 PM |
| 4 | Can anyone come up with a charitable explanation?This is just it. Innocent explanations do exist. But dammit, that woman is doing everything in her power to drive me away from believing them. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/17 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone come up with a charitable explanation?I'm pretty damn certain divorce in this part of the world doesn't work like that. That aside, though, that was exactly my thinking. If she cares, she'll come around sharpish; if she doesn't then it's for the best. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/17 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone come up with a charitable explanation?I wasn't, as it happens. And that wasn't something I'd thought of. But I'm not sure I want to be married to someone who considers having my baby to be such a disaster. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/17 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone come up with a charitable explanation?Precisely my way of thinking. I can come up with one perfectly good innocent explanation; there may be others I haven't thought of. But I haven't heard one. I'm the one who is apparently crazy by thinking it's evidence of cheating. Dictionary gas lighting is what that is. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/17 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone come up with a charitable explanation?A. You do with plan b, it's a single dose pill. It literally comes in a pack of 1. Though you can get discounts by buying several at once. B. Agreed. C. Already done. I have photos of the packet with pharmacy labels on; those labels have her name on them. Tried to purchase online myself, you need to fill in a form before you can buy. Bottom line: It is definitely hers, and it's definitely not a simple "oops, clicked on the wrong item". | /r/askMRP | 18/09/17 02:35 PM |
| 4 | Can anyone come up with a charitable explanation?An unused packet that is impossible to buy by clicking the wrong button online. An unused packet sold by a pharmacy - the sort of business you'd think wouldn't make mistakes because it could kill someone. An unused packet of something you simply wouldn't buy unless you had a damn good reason to. Good explanation? Yes, there is an outside chance of one. But I'm not hearing it. What I am hearing is typical behaviour of someone who's been caught out and is now trying everything they can think of to… | /r/askMRP | 18/09/17 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Can anyone come up with a charitable explanation?Here's the thing: The inside knowledge makes me think it's unlikely; the date on the packet is between Christmas and the New Year when we're together pretty much 24/7 anyway. I can think of a very good, innocent explanation. Her family live in a country where such easy access to the morning after pill isn't guaranteed. Having it ready for an "oops" while we visit her family would be perfectly reasonable. But I thought of that myself. She's not come up with it at all, and I don't intend to give i… | /r/askMRP | 18/09/17 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone come up with a charitable explanation?Thank you. It's good to get a view that isn't the usual echo chamber. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/17 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone come up with a charitable explanation?Her explanation this morning is to maintain she has no idea how it got there(!!) and blame her existing health issues for her ordering it. Apparently me interpreting it as evidence of cheating is reading far too much into it, and descends into conspiracy theory territory. Bloody strange health issue. If I didn't know any better I'd say it was a cock issue. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/17 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone come up with a charitable explanation?No kids. Your explanation is the only one I can think of. But that doesn't explain having "no idea" what it's doing in the house. Who the hell orders something like that online then completely forgets about it? | /r/askMRP | 18/09/17 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone come up with a charitable explanation?No kids. Married since 2009, difficulties for some time. No lapse in normal birth control. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/17 05:09 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill Has Now Become MainstreamMaybe not entirely mainstream, but the days when any discussion that did not fit the feminist agenda were strictly verboten are clearly numbered. For instance, that Google engineer a couple of months back who wrote a discussion basically admitting that men and women were different. If you actually read it (rather than reading the reaction to it), there was nothing in there particularly eyebrow-raising. Clearly we're not there yet - he was fired for his trouble - but ten or even five years ago I … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/17 03:45 PM |
| 1 | If what everything TRP/MRP says is true. How aren't 100% of married women cheating on their husbands who don't have this information?Most RP works paint a very black and white picture of the world. As you've worked out, the world isn't quite like that. There are shades of grey everywhere; in reality, life is a statistics game. Work on your body and personality, your chances of keeping a woman interested go up. Neglect it, and those chances go back down. Regardless of what you're doing, there are always other men out there who don't care whether or not a woman is married or in a relationship, if she's prepared to offer a hole … | /r/askMRP | 02/09/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Where can I get No more Mr Nice Guy?Okay, I was not aware of these things. Well done on what you've achieved so far. Be warned, though, that you're taking on a marathon. It is damn hard work, and you will need to re-evaluate a lot of things you thought you knew. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/17 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Confidence. Why do men lack it and want it so bad?It's a societal thing in general. The things you're talking about are true, but they apply in every walk of life. At school, there's a constant balancing act between getting work right (so as to avoid the hassle from teachers) while not appearing too clever (to avoid classmates making your life hell). Under-confidence is actually rather more dangerous than over-confidence here, but many young boys never figure this out. And so it continues. At work we're encouraged (by crab bucketing colleagues,… | /r/becomeaman | 02/09/17 04:30 PM |
| 1 | You fuckers are awesomeYou'll get it when you've done something that deserves it. Post back in 3-6 months with an update. | /r/askMRP | 22/08/17 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How not to show butthurt when turned downMe: ~crickets~ And I go do something on the to-do list, or I'd actually leave the house and go out for a bit. THAT gets their hamster going, but I went to a bookstore/coffee shop and just talked to women. Okay, can I get something straight? Where do you live that there's anywhere worth going to open when you're taking her to bed? The only things in this area are all-night supermarkets and petrol stations. | /r/askMRP | 22/08/17 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Is redpill for me? I am kind of guy who is not into fucking many women. I think fucking different people actually degrades your value. Don't we call girls a slut when we see her changing her partners?If it bothers you, unsubscribe from all redpill subs and go about your life. We can't tell you how to live. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | How to socialize without alcohol?Make sure you're driving yourself home. Most people grew out of caring who's drinking and who isn't in their teens. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Found out my unicorn will always be an alpha widow... The Pill HURTSThe good news: You can become a better man. You can be the man whose cum tastes better than chocolate with almonds. The bad news: Not with this woman you can't. She's already put you in a mental box that says "beta"; getting out of it now will be all but impossible. Look very seriously at cutting your losses. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Where can I get No more Mr Nice Guy?Are you serious? If you'd taken any of the advice you've been given, you should already have joined a gym and taken on at least one hobby of some sort. If you're prepared to spend money on those things - which probably cost a hell of a lot more than a book - to improve yourself, why aren't you prepared to buy the book? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 08:59 PM |
| 6 | high SMV girls chase me, but low SMV girls dismiss meCrab bucketing. The girls you find interesting don't want to make themselves social outcasts amongst their group of friends. They're afraid to become known as "Miss Too Good for her poor friends" if they go with you - and I suspect they probably have a point. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 04:35 PM |
| 2 | The Feminine Imperative in Corporate CultureAgree entirely. The anti-diversity bit was added by others after the fact; that others added it probably says more about them than him. In my view, it highlights two things: Ideas that run counter to the feminised ultra-PC imperative are becoming more acceptable. The very fact he felt able to write and disseminate that memo, and that it hit the news and that it had apparently gone viral within Google bear that out. No way would anyone working in Silicon Valley have said anything like that five o… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/08/17 04:38 PM |
| 14 | The Feminine Imperative in Corporate CultureWhich is exactly what's happened with Google just this week: https://www.gizmodo.com.au/2017/08/exclusive-heres-the-full-10-page-anti-diversity-screed-circulating-internally-at-google/ Summary: Google engineer writes 10 page document saying "men and women are different. There's nothing wrong with this, but corporate culture forbids us from acknowledging and accepting it, instead shaming and bullying anyone who dares raise it" He was sacked for this, proving his own point beautifully. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/08/17 08:27 AM |
| 1 | The dating site avalanche effect. What if married women start finding out about this?They do, but they tune it out so effectively they literally don't notice it. The old canard about "she doesn't know I exist" isn't too far off the mark; she can literally turn on or off the ability to see the man as a being she might have sex with at will. When you're not a man she'll have sex with, you might as well be a piece of furniture because she honestly will pay no more attention to you than the chair she plonks her arse down on. Can't tune it out anything like as easily when the first t… | /r/askMRP | 05/08/17 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Is It Ever Too LateI'm not going to lie, trying to turn it around has been the hardest thing I've ever had to do. By the time you get to our point in life, there often isn't a father figure who can act as a role model and mentor - if you'd had a reasonably alpha father figure you wouldn't be here in the first place! The nearest thing you have to a progress barometer is your wife, and she's so used to you being frankly pretty crap that she sees everything you do through shite-tinted spectacles. The thing I've found… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/07/17 07:57 PM |
| 6 | Do any of you get sick of doing it all?You have a huge covert contract going on. In your mind, you've written a contract with your wife that says something like "I will earn good money, ensure I look good, arrange excursions and do things you physically can't around the house. In return, you'll cook, clean and iron my shirts." She's not upholding her side of the bargain, which is what's upsetting you. I can understand where you got this from. RP theory basically says "once you're doing everything right, with any luck she'll fall into… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/07/17 09:15 PM |
| 4 | More Whining about Sex Robots from the Gynocracy- They are Starting to realize that bitchy, sex denying harpy's can't compete. Time for shaming!If you're looking for a male sexbot as opposed to the current status quo of ever-more-sophisticated vibrators - I think that's going to be a lot more complex to build than a female one. 70% of the "make yourself a better man and turn women on in the process" advice in RP is stuff you're not going to get robots doing any time soon. Understanding human emotion. Earning a good living. Kino. Knowing when to reel it in and when to push it. Essentially, it needs to know how to start the turning-on pro… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Why do some people hate the red pill, such as the blue pill?I think it's rather more disappointing than that. I think most people are downright lazy. They never bother to properly understand RP ideology (let's be honest; there's quite a lot to learn). They just read a few of the headline posts on this sub and make their decisions off that. And those are the hardcore researchers; everyone else is getting their opinion from the hearsay of the hardcore researchers! To be fair, if that's all the research they're doing, can you blame them? Just taking a quick… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 09:39 PM |
| 5 | Why do girls always complain they were 'used for sex' when they get dumped?Amazing how many virgins pretty well every man on Earth has fucked, isn't it? | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls always complain they were 'used for sex' when they get dumped?It's a rationalisation used to make them feel better. 80% of relationships are ended by women; women are naturally very good at finding things wrong with their partner and blowing up the relationship. So when the tables are turned and she gets dumped... well, hang on a minute, when she does the dumping it's because there's something wrong with her partner. So if her partner's just dumped her, it follows there's something wrong with her.... Ouch. The hamster won't let that line of thought continu… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 09:29 PM |
| 2 | On momentum and self controlIt sounds like what's happened is you've got a list of a dozen things that are really, really fucked up and you're trying to tackle them all at once. Trying to do this is overwhelming you. There's a number of ways to deal with this; I'm going to give you two and let you choose whichever works best for you. First option: Stop trying to do everything. Prioritise. Do just one thing, but do it well. And once you've got that thing done, start looking at the next thing. Your alternative option is stil… | /r/askMRP | 30/06/17 09:41 PM |
| 2 | "I can do drinks if it's as friends."Very, very seldom will a woman explicitly say "sex is on/off the table" - seriously, do I need to explain that? But "... as friends" is as close as you're ever going to get to an explicit "sex is off the table". If that's what she's said, a simple "That's not what I'm looking for; see you around" and move on is quite sufficient; anything else is a massive DLV. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 09:16 PM |
| 2 | "I can do drinks if it's as friends."Stop right there. What you have described is the beginnings of a covert contract. In fact, it's worse than a covert contract because OP would be taking her out for a drink with a view to getting laid even though she's explicitly said that's not on the table. I honestly can't think of anything more neckbeard-y. That's beyond beta and into creepy omega territory. I think OP did the right thing. Blow up the shit test first; if she still agrees to drinks knowing that her condition isn't accepted, th… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 09:41 PM |
| 1 | FR: The ConclusionI'm not sure you understand everyone's concern. You haven't told us how long you've been working on yourself, but unless it's well over a year, you come across as someone who's not been going that long and is at the point where he thinks he's got it all cracked. This is a very dangerous point, because men at this stage are typically pretty cocky. There's even a term for it - "Rambo" - it's characterised by thinking you know everything and taking rash actions. By all means leave your wife if you … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/06/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | 17, afraid of being single, want to break up with ltrI'm not very well placed to answer that one, so take what I say with a pinch of salt. One thing I would say is to be very cautious of DEER'ing. Laugh off any allegations, rise above it, but for heaven's sake don't get involved in a lengthy debate about why you split up. Not with her, not with anyone. It wasn't what you wanted, that's simply the way it is, you wished her well and went your separate ways. End of. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Women taking lie detector tests on TV (Jeremy Kyle Show). Pure gold!Women communicate totally differently to men. A man will say "I did not have sexual relations with that woman", and as far as he's concerned he's either lying or telling the truth. There isn't a middle ground. Women will put layers between reality and what they say, and in those layers you'll find middle ground, half-truths and rationalisations. If she was pushed (probably in private by another woman - she'd never admit it to a man), she'd probably say "Yes but it doesn't count because we'd just… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/17 07:31 PM |
| 14 | My encounter with a sloppy pickup artistMost of the "RP is all about..." brigade are people who've glanced one or two posts and made their judgement on that basis. Myself, I take the view that it's more a sort of adult education course in lifestyle and social skills to make you a better man. Getting laid is a significant part of that, but by no means all of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Am a 16 dweed. Can't get girls interested for shit.Honestly, the absolute worst thing you can possibly do - which it sounds like you're doing - is to take yourself too seriously. You do that, every woman in a 30 foot radius is going to find their fanny dryer than a desert. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | 17, afraid of being single, want to break up with ltrThere are several aspects to this: ASPECT 1 You've read a little RP literature, you're thinking to yourself "This sounds easy! I could dump her tonight and have someone else sucking on my cock by tomorrow evening, without any of the effort I have to put into this LTR!". Be vary cautious here. You wouldn't be the first young man to go all Rambo on reading a few bits of the sidebar only to realise it's not as simple as that - about a week after dumping a perfectly good hole to warm his cock in. AS… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Well, its over for meExactly. And if they're at the divorce stage now, all he's doing is inviting her to come up with something juicy to tell her lawyer. This cannot possibly do OP any good. At best, it will be ignored. At worst, it will be aired out in front of a judge who secretly disagrees with non-fault divorce settlements and is looking for an excuse to mete out some revenge on behalf of the poor wronged woman. | /r/askMRP | 25/06/17 06:43 PM |
| 4 | Well, its over for meHold frame and demand her reasons for the 8 years of rejection, or not .... I'm sure she will play the story of "not me". I disagree with this piece of advice. Her hamster will gladly come up with a way of explaining away anything to make you the bad guy; by demanding an explanation all you're going to do is encourage her to make you look worse. From what you've said, the marriage is over anyway. Rather than focus on what led to you being in this state, just focus on what you're going to do in t… | /r/askMRP | 25/06/17 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Women taking lie detector tests on TV (Jeremy Kyle Show). Pure gold!Even if they are (which is entirely possible), we've all had discussions with women where it seems they're blatantly gaslighting us. The thrust of my argument is that in such arguments, women are not gaslighting - or at least, not in the sense you or I would imagine it. Instead, what happens is they've decided that reality is uncomfortable so they've invented a more comfortable reality, packed up and gone there. So emotion driven is the female intellect that this new reality is - as far as she i… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/17 05:54 PM |
| 1 | IntroQuite possibly, though at the time I had a much more active social life. Sadly, it was more-or-less entirely a product of the place I was working, which has since closed down. Of course, RP philosophy does explicitly tell you to get out more... | /r/askMRP | 24/06/17 07:46 PM |
| 1 | IntroNow if all of our time together was spent with something in her mouth... that might work. LOL. Why shouldn't it be? If you were to split with your wife, you're not under any obligation to jump into an LTR with someone else. No reason you can't play around with whoever you can get into bed; let's face it, a 22 year old isn't going to expect to marry you anyway. | /r/askMRP | 24/06/17 04:36 PM |
| 1 | IntroOne of the main things I think that separate betas from alphas (or Vox Day's Sigmas) is being able to look yourself in the mirror and KNOW with absolute certainty that if the relationship went sideways, you'd still be just fine. Funny you should say this. When I first met my wife, I had this thought running through my head fairly regularly. (More accurately: the thought was "I'd be just fine; not sure about her!"). We had sex pretty well every night and any way I wanted; we seldom argued. I coul… | /r/askMRP | 24/06/17 04:34 PM |
| 6 | Women taking lie detector tests on TV (Jeremy Kyle Show). Pure gold!I actually don't think it's madness. I think it went something like this: She had an argument with and subsequently cheated on her boyfriend. Before she'd even got her knickers back on, her hamster was warming up. By the time she was dressed, it had rationalised a way to say that it "didn't count". She totally believes the hamster; yes she fucked another man but because it doesn't count, she feels perfectly justified in answering any question about her having sex with someone else with "no". The… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/17 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with reoccurring angerAnger is part of your mind's mechanism to deal with the issues you meet on a day-to-day basis. For things you cannot possibly have any influence over, it's easy to let them go. After all, if you can't do anything about it, why get worked up about it? For things you know exactly how to deal with, you don't need to worry about them. You've got them under control. So you don't get worked up about it. Where anger is borne of frustration - which it usually is with newly-RP'd married men - the anger y… | /r/askMRP | 20/06/17 10:30 PM |
| 6 | FR: Always respect Iron Rule #7; know when your relationship is finished, don't dig the garbageYou ever see "The Princess Bride"? You know the scene where Vizzini ties himself up in knots over which of the two wine glasses contains iocaine powder: "I am not a great fool, so I clearly cannot choose the glass that is in front of me!...." I honestly think women's brains operate like this 24x7 in order to shield themselves from the cognitive dissonance when a relationship is on the rocks. Example: "Only a terrible wife would refuse her husband sex. I am not a terrible wife, therefore I have n… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/06/17 09:22 PM |
| 9 | Monk Mode StrugglesWelcome to reality. Your BP ideas are the product of spending your whole life being brainwashed into a fantasy that does not exist. You cannot shake off that fantasy in a few months of going to the gym. It takes years of hard work. There is no shortcut. We say "the red pill", but the truth isn't quite as close to The Matrix as you'd like to believe. Yes it does open your eyes to a reality you didn't know existed, yes you can't un-take it. But to fully appreciate, understand and take full advanta… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/06/17 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Everybody gets oneUsed it as a buffet. Take what I want, left the rest. This, to me, is an immediate red flag. 9 times out of 10, what it means is "Some of this RP stuff looked difficult and I wasn't sure how to do it. So I didn't bother". Well and good, but the whole point of RP ideas is that women are looking for the complete package - or as close as they can get to it. And while no man can tick every box completely, you don't want to be the man who's barely making an effort to tick any. This is what is meant b… | /r/askMRP | 28/05/17 10:13 PM |
| 2 | A clean example of "real stupid bitch" (self-labeled!) logicWomen think eating a bunch of tic-tacs and drinking a glass of vodka is gonna kill them. Just pathetic and retarded. It's actually beyond pathetic and retarded. While it's unlikely to kill them (very few drugs you can get OTC are fatal at any less than a whacking huge dose; regulation sees to that), it is very easy to do yourself permanent, non-fatal damage. So, not only is it a cry for help, it's a damn dangerous one. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Took advice of TRP, tried to be a slayer, broke off LTR, now am miserable and suicidal.Yes, there is a huge cognitive dissonance here. Perfectly natural. Were I in your shoes, I'd be fuming. What's the point in all the work in the gym then? So is TRP a lie then? TRP says increasing SMV is the way. It's not that it's a lie; it's that it requires you to adjust your worldview to properly understand. Something I don't think you've done. Let me put it like this: All your life, you have been fed simple equations for how the world works. When you were a kid, your mum said "Be nice to Sal… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Took advice of TRP, tried to be a slayer, broke off LTR, now am miserable and suicidal.Literally 95% of the time I post anything online I am first accused of being troll, just WTF people? Simple. Let's be honest, RP has a bit of a toxic reputation. Losers giving losers bad dating advice, if you will. Your post ticks virtually every checkbox for this; it's almost too perfect. I'm going to continue giving you the benefit of the doubt, but that's on a strict understanding: that you carefully read the advice you're given and try to digest it, even if you don't like what you read at fi… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Negotiation for BJNegotiation and sex should be seen as a massive red flag. The reason I say this is the terms always change, and seldom in a positive way. This is the thin end of the wedge; if she thinks this is okay then before you know it, you'll be negotiating literally any sexual contact at all. Shut it down right now, and have no mercy. I don't care how you shut it down - plenty of wiser men than I have already offered perfectly good suggestions - but FFS shut it down. | /r/askMRP | 16/05/17 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Took advice of TRP, tried to be a slayer, broke off LTR, now am miserable and suicidal.Initially, I downvoted this because I thought it was an obvious troll. But then I thought: What if it's not? What if it is a genuine question from a man who's near the end of his rope? Okay, listen up: What you are feeling sounds like a combination of desperation and depression. Women can smell this a mile off; it will scare them away. You are going to have to deal with this; it won't go away on its own. I'm going to do a little exercise here; I want you to join in with me. The exercise works li… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 09:46 PM |
| 2 | The smartest dogs are easiest to trainI have a schnauzer. He does not piss on the floor at night. Crated every night for ages; he's had an accident maybe twice. And that was when he was about 10-12 weeks old. So don't come in here saying "oh, it's because they're a small breed". | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/05/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | What are the best ways to turn fat ass and thighs into tight ass and toned thighs?Cardio wise: cycling is very good. It's not as hard on your joints as running. Weights: Squats are, I believe, the generally recommended free-weight exercise. Alternatively - if you'd rather use a machine - the leg press is very good. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/17 01:53 PM |
| 3 | The effects of Feminist Rape propaganda going overboardI'm owning my actions. Why can't women do the same? Because if they did, they'd be men. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/17 09:27 PM |
| 12 | The effects of Feminist Rape propaganda going overboardThis is why women are "afraid to report rape" and "think they won't be believed". They don't want to admit it, but they know damn well that they won't be believed because there's plenty of women will make shit up. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/17 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Having trouble understanding the concept in this article about female submission. Can anyone provide actual daily examples in practice?Okay, here's a simple example for you. A few years ago, my personal situation was this: My wife would NEVER prepare dinner. (I'm not a complete dinosaur - I don't mind sharing chores but I was cooking 7 nights a week. That ain't sharing). Left to her own devices she'd get to 9 or 10 o'clock at night and suddenly realise that she ought to get dinner. At which point she'll throw a pizza in the oven because basically everything else in the house needs preparation. I was sick of this - and a change … | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 05:34 PM |
| 7 | I stood my ground with a woman at work and she attacked me behind my back to the others all day... how can I respond to this now?You are still DEER'ing. Literally every poster on this thread has told you to STFU and yet for every single person trying to find an angle which will have you understand why you should shut up, you have a reason why you should not. There are some conversations you must not engage with, because if you do, they will draw you into their insanity; this has become one of them. I'm out. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 09:55 PM |
| 12 | I stood my ground with a woman at work and she attacked me behind my back to the others all day... how can I respond to this now?If I were your manager, I would read that as: "Here is a man who has so much trouble controlling his emotion that he expects me to do it for him by not making him work with someone he doesn't like". | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 09:47 PM |
| 13 | I stood my ground with a woman at work and she attacked me behind my back to the others all day... how can I respond to this now?What ticks me is other poeple treating me differently because of her fucking puss... You knock that off right this minute. They're treating you differently not because of her shit, but because of how you respond to it. Had you just shut your damn mouth, she'd either have burned herself out fairly quickly or made herself look bad. You could easily have risen above it, but you didn't. That isn't on her, that's on you. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 09:41 PM |
| 7 | I stood my ground with a woman at work and she attacked me behind my back to the others all day... how can I respond to this now?Let her. If the people you work with are so easily influenced that her poison will harm your career prospects, you have no future there anyway. If they are not, they will see through it without your help. Right now, all you are doing is proving her correct. Stop doing that. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 09:34 PM |
| 11 | I stood my ground with a woman at work and she attacked me behind my back to the others all day... how can I respond to this now?And now you're doing the same thing here! She was hitting you from behind, you say? Let her! Your response is the fuel for this fire; you must stop giving it. What is it they say? "It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all possible doubt". | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 09:30 PM |
| 6 | I stood my ground with a woman at work and she attacked me behind my back to the others all day... how can I respond to this now?If you're not there to play stupid games, why are you letting a few text messages blow up like this? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 09:22 PM |
| 28 | I stood my ground with a woman at work and she attacked me behind my back to the others all day... how can I respond to this now?God help you. Are you for real? I've read all your responses and I've never read anything so pathetic in all my life! At every single step of this discussion, you had the opportunity to end it simply by refusing to engage. But you never took it; instead you rose to every single little thing she did. That is not "standing your ground", that's descending into childish bickering. And now you're asking us to give you the magic sequence of words that you haven't been able to come up with that will so… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 09:18 PM |
| 7 | I stood my ground with a woman at work and she attacked me behind my back to the others all day... how can I respond to this now?Basically, anything that constitutes DEER'ing. No matter how much you justify yourself, she'll twist your words to make you look bad. And I'll tell you how she'll do it: "if /u/alysk3 was so bothered about responding while on holiday, why did he respond?" You've already lost this one, and I don't think anything you can say will recover it. You're in a hole, stop digging! | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 08:52 PM |
| 11 | I stood my ground with a woman at work and she attacked me behind my back to the others all day... how can I respond to this now?She's in a hissy fit because you kept trying to have the last word. There's no law that says you need to; in fact, trying to do so is often counterproductive. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 08:44 PM |
| 16 | I stood my ground with a woman at work and she attacked me behind my back to the others all day... how can I respond to this now?You can't change what she's said already. You can only change how you deal with it. You made a mistake by responding in the first place - holiday means holiday, not work. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Shit test helpThere is something pretty huge missing from here: dread. You can look like Arnie in his heyday. You can be bringing home more cash than either of you know what to do with. You can lay down house rules until you're blue in the face. But unless and until your wife honestly believes you have options (ie. other women) that you're prepared to exercise (ie. fuck), you are wasting your time. Note that you don't actually need to have other women lined up outside the door. She just needs to think that yo… | /r/askMRP | 25/04/17 09:06 PM |
| 3 | FR: A Sensitive ManFunny, I've been working on a similar hypothesis in my own head. Broadly speaking, what it boils down to is this: Women will be straight, they are truthful when they talk about what they want and while they will tell the occasional fib to make you feel better, most of what they say about what they want is correct. HOWEVER: Women empathise and socialise with each other in a totally different way to how men do - it's like there's another layer in between the words they say and what they mean by th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/04/17 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Dread Level 11: Advice for when this actually works?This...is the whole point of my post. How to deescalate from 11 properly. You can't. That's why you're explicitly recommended to go to that point not in anger, but after a calm decision to do it (and acceptance of the consequences) has been made. The reason is simple: She'll judge you by your actions just the same as we are taught to judge her by her actions. And if you try to de-escalate, your words say "shape up or ship out" and your actions say "... but honestly, I don't really want to do the… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/04/17 05:12 PM |
| 1 | For noobs: Not everything is a shit test.but guys saying nasty shit they don't mean is a shit test. Maybe it is, but I've always found the tone to be clear: this is not meant seriously; don't take it as such. My wife doesn't do that. She simply cannot do the "this is not serious" tone. Then she used to get pissy that I'd take her shit seriously... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/03/17 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Are night clubs just not worth the trouble for some guys?Most clubs are, let's face it, meat markets. But they're meat markets for both genders, and as a man, the thing you are most likely to do is blend in. In my day it was a Ben Sherman, black trousers and black shoes; we all dressed like that, and while we looked okay, we all looked the same. This is an absolutely cardinal sin. Women are looking for fun when they're in a club, and if you look the same as everyone else, you look dull. Unless you sweat confidence around women (which - let's be honest… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Man immediately breaks up with his girlfriend of 5 years after she suggests an open relationship. She doesn't understand why and is "heartbroken."He did. He told her to have a nice life then left. Anything beyond that is simply enabling her behaviour. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 08:39 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First date f-closeEverything's just a little too perfect. HB9. Good looking. In the military, comp sci major. Can look after herself. He lives literally across the road from a venue with bowling alley, laser tag, bar - the whole works. He tells the bartender to make her drinks doubles while his date is in the toilet. The bartender giggles and goes along with it. He gets "sweet wine" out. (I seriously hope he's using "sweet" to mean "good". "Sweet" as in "tastes sweet rather than dry" is usually served very cold i… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/17 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Found a unicorn and let her go. Now regret it.The key words I see here are "dated on and off". Live with her for a few years - by which time any dread she feels will have well and truly evaporated - and tell us if she's still a unicorn. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/17 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Before and now... small things that I'm doing better thanks to MRPAre you my brother ;) ? MRP is chock-full of men who are essentially recovering second generation BPers. It's terrifying; if my dad had had someone to give him the kick up the arse he needed in the 1980s, he'd still be alive today. | /r/askMRP | 12/02/17 10:11 PM |
| 1 | How to fasten body progress?Whoah, cowboy! Changing your body like this is a marathon, not a sprint. With this in mind: Examine your diet, particularly macro intake (ie. fat/carbs/protein). Most people get far too much carbs and rather too little protein. Get down the gym. Most gyms have personal trainers working out of them; pay for a few sessions before you commit to anything long term. While you can learn most of what you need online, the devil is in the detail, and there's quite a few details you won't learn without gu… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Told my Oneitis to get the fuck out of my lifeYou're very new to this; your natural reaction is likely to be "this can't be right.... can it?" because if it is right, you basically need to re-evaluate everything you thought you knew about women. It follows that your thinking is still very BP in nature - you think you're seeing a truly good woman give you, the undeserving, a second chance. At what? A second chance at being an orbiter? Gee thanks. That's not what you're seeing at all. What you're seeing is her reaction to you suddenly demonst… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Should I do a school presentation on why Islam and ultra-liberalism will ultimately give rise to the far right in the EU?A dangerous game. A lot depends on your tutor (and, for that matter, the group and how you feel about your social standing within it). Things to consider: A good tutor will try to look as objectively as possible at what you present, and will mark someone who presents a well thought-out, meticulously researched presentation they disagree with rather more highly than someone who presents themes they agree with but doesn't demonstrate any effort to research or understand and just regurgitates a few… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 08:55 PM |
| 4 | FR: female manipulation, shaming.They look at me in total disbelief but still don't drop the charade even though called on it. Look at it from their perspective. Realistically, they've got three ways to get what they want: co-operation, manipulation and physical force (or the threat thereof). Pretty well all social interaction boils down to some combination of these three. Physical force is out; they don't have the brute strength for this. Leaving co-operation and manipulation. And you've just told them not to use manipulation.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/17 08:40 PM |
| 11 | A different opinion on marriage and the red pillI personally do not think you should need to be jacked just to get your bitch wife to fuck you. What you think doesn't enter into the matter. What's important is what gets results, not what you would like. So long as you are in reasonable shape (and this would include having a dad bod in your 40s), and she is not 2-3 points above you in SMV, you have every right to expect sex. Spot the covert contract. I bet you haven't told your wife that you believe you have every right to expect sex. If you a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/02/17 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Some overt disrespect from my "friends". Do I drop them?I couldn't really determine whether you think this infraction is over the line or not. I haven't commented on that for a number of reasons: I'm not entirely clear what infraction you think took place. There's two sides to every story; we haven't heard your friends. Being as you've been pretty vague, I'm wondering if there's more to this than meets the eye. I've had friends who were the clear top dog in a group; I've been the butt of the jokes. Bluntly, the way you come across doesn't make me thi… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | BREAKING NEWS: Watch "trickle truth" happening in real time on the Tinder subreddit!... which is why she's cashing out at 24. If you're on Facebook, look up all the girls you knew at college/school. I guarantee the weddings come in an avalanche from the age of 28-32. A few hit the wall like an express train at a young age; they tend to cash out unusually early. A few were blessed with remarkable looks and were able to hold off the wall rather longer; they'll be the ones to marry late. You can practically predict these things in advance when you know how it works. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Some overt disrespect from my "friends". Do I drop them?You're 18 years old. You're either coming towards the end of your career at high school or you've just started college. The only reason you're in touch with these people is because you've all been thrown together in the same place; from the sound of things, you wouldn't have chosen them as friends if circumstances hadn't thrown you together. A few years from now (if you're in college)/next year, you'll have moved on. You'll stay in touch with the people you want to stay in touch with and lose to… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 10:23 PM |
| 1 | All Women Lie About Rape - Part TwoFeminists, in my experience, don't even understand what evidence is. They will invariably give exactly the same credence to some nobby nobody's blog as they will to peer-reviewed science. Trying to get anything that constitutes genuine evidence for any of their assertions is like trying to get blood out of a stone; they'll listen to anyone who agrees with them and ignore anyone who disagrees while paying no heed at all to the credibility of assertions they're agreeing with. I honestly think they… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/17 07:52 PM |
| 3 | FR: Eject ButtonIt is, but I get what he's getting at. Losing access to your bank account when it's your only account is a Big Deal. Yeah, sure, the lawyers will have their day in court and it'll all come out in the wash, but you can't rent a bachelor pad or buy your own groceries on that basis. You need the cash now. And with the bank account in his wife's name, one call from her to the bank could have blocked him from that account. There's relinquishing power to your wife, and there's cutting off your own bal… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/12/16 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Feel like I am choking on the red pill. What am I doing wrong?How would it be different if you were single? I'd be able to exercise some control over the mess that gets made in the first place. This one has the caveat of "I realize that even after setting the example, and attempting to lead her to a clean house, she won't follow, but I've decided to keep her as a wife." You improve you. You lead her to where you want her to be. If she doesn't follow, you either accept that she won't provide that value (and stop bitching about it), or find someone who will.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/16 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Feel like I am choking on the red pill. What am I doing wrong?Cut that umbilical cord that connects you to her in any way. Pretend she died and now it's just you in the house. Would the dishes pile up in the sink? Would you sit around twiddling your thumbs in down time? My wife literally cannot see mess in front of her unless it's pointed out. I used to think she didn't care; I am now absolutely convinced that her brain blanks it out. She cannot see what she doesn't want to. I work; she doesn't. If I follow your advice, I will have: A reasonably clean hous… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/16 02:13 PM |
| 7 | MRP Truth from Wife of Robert Greene, Author of "48 Laws of Power"I have a problem with the word "manipulative". By the straight definition of the word, 60-80% of human interaction is manipulative. Most sales and marketing is; so is the media in pushing BP ideas. Hell, arguably its manipulative to take a woman on a date. I think the problem society has isn't with manipulation per se - it's with crude manipulation. Subtle manipulation is perfectly okay. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/16 10:10 AM |
| 1 | What is the point of a girl to become a plate?You think men are any better? Before you answer, remember this is a sub that is dedicated more-or-less exclusively to helping the average man get laid more. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/16 10:07 PM |
| 5 | What is the point of a girl to become a plate?Sperm. The biological imperative has evolved and refined over millions of years, and it says just one thing: Make the best possible babies you can, and keep them alive long enough to have kids of their own. It neither knows nor cares about your contraceptive plans. As long as she believes: Your kids would be strong and healthy. There is a fighting chance she might at some point get to bear them. There aren't any better options on the table. she's happy. Note that exclusivity, LTRs, marriage etc.… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/16 10:01 PM |
| 7 | New guy stuff and some FRThis guy has it 100% right. MRP gives you a list of things to do; the most important aspect however, is that you actually do all of them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/11/16 07:36 PM |
| 8 | New guy stuff and some FRWe talked about it and we're going to try to have some evening romance after dinner. I foresee this as a problem because there's usually other shit going on that early. We'll see how it goes. WARNING: Here be dragons! I tried exactly this in my beta days. I honestly believe it has set me back by at least a year because I set a precedent that I was prepared to negotiate the terms of any sex. What winds up happening is the terms get steadily worse and worse to the point where you're still carrying… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/11/16 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Started Stronglifts - 1st SessionWork out the amount of protein you're getting. You should be eating (roughly) 1g of protein for every lb of body mass. I know I was massively under this! | /r/askMRP | 26/11/16 10:44 AM |
| 1 | If I STFU, aren’t I just tolerating disrespect?That's exactly what it is. You've been treated fairly gently on here, largely because you've only been around a month or so. Personally, I don't see a big problem with talking about it; that's what the various MRP subreddits are here for. But I can tell you, the mods do keep an eye on posting history and if it looks like you still Don't Get It after a long period of time and regular posts, the gloves will come off and you'll get much stronger replies. Either that or banned for trolling. However,… | /r/askMRP | 26/11/16 10:35 AM |
| 1 | If I STFU, aren’t I just tolerating disrespect?Right, here's where you're going wrong. You're taking her far too seriously. By taking every single word she says 100% seriously, you are ceding an enormous amount of power to her. You're basically giving her the power to decide everything about your life on your behalf. She doesn't like your clothes? You change them for her. She doesn't like your hairstyle? You go to the barber. But it goes beyond boring stuff like clothes or hairstyle. You've ceded your own emotional stability to her whims. Yo… | /r/askMRP | 21/11/16 11:12 PM |
| 1 | If I STFU, aren’t I just tolerating disrespect?Go some of the sidebar material in the main MRP subreddit - MMSLP, WISNIFG and No More Mr. Nice Guy immediately spring to mind - you will learn not to take yourself so seriously (which is exactly what your wife wants) and you will learn techniques to deal with her shitty behaviour that DON'T require you to repress feelings. In short: The tone of what you have written leaves me thinking you have read and understood approximately none of the recommended readings. | /r/askMRP | 21/11/16 10:58 PM |
| 4 | If I STFU, aren’t I just tolerating disrespect?Women will hide meaning all over the way they communicate. Not only do they do it without thinking, they process other people doing it without thinking. So when a woman's getting pissy with you, as often as not her plan is to gauge your reaction to see if you get wound up. As soon as you say "I don't like you talking to me like that; don't do it", you've communicated something very important. You've communicated that she has indeed got you upset. The stronger your reaction - for instance, if the… | /r/askMRP | 16/11/16 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Consequences needed: To divorce or notYou have made a huge tactical error here. Your tactical error was this: Your wife has found a way to leverage power over you: deprive you of sleep. In the past, your solution to this has been to make threats that you either cannot or will not follow through. The problem is, she's already decided your threats are meaningless. You have recognised that she believes your threats to be meaningless, and you ask us to advise you on one of the following: A threat you can follow through and make stick. S… | /r/askMRP | 15/11/16 09:03 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with a fat wife?Abso-frigging-lutely. All the diets in all the world are fundamentally doing the same thing - reducing calories going in. How you do it is neither here nor there. It is not normal to tbe able to eat to your hearts content any time of the day or night - that is purely a side-effect of modern Western lifestyles. That's why the human body is so good at consuming more calories than it uses; it's a necessity of evolution. | /r/askMRP | 15/11/16 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Took the red pill a month ago. Wife already pretty alpha. Been doing the MAP, and SHIT. HIT. THE. FAN this morning. I need some reassurance I am not permanently fucking up my marriage.You have barely scratched the surface of understanding MRP ideas; you've read a few books that say "Show some self-respect! Show some backbone!" and you think that's all you need to do. Others have described you as being a "red pill rambo" and I'd say they're on the nail. As you've found, putting your foot down with a firm hand will get very good results. But it is also phenomenally tiring for both you and her; the whole point of MRP is you don't have to do that, so you really want to limit that… | /r/askMRP | 13/11/16 03:19 PM |
| 1 | When does DEER apply?"Why did you leave home so early?" is a simple logistics question. "Why did you leave home so early? Are you having an affair?" is a shit test. Learn the difference. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/16 11:54 AM |
| 1 | AWALT from a Shameless GirlOooh, now that's good. She'll spend the entire relationship totally unable to understand why it is that this beta - who on paper should be a perfect match for her - simply doesn't turn her on at all. He'll be trying to negotiate desire to resolve their dead bedroom, and she will be honestly participating in the negotiation - totally flummoxed that she simply cannot bring herself to jump into bed with him. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/16 08:29 PM |
| 1 | FR: Recalling an event from the past -- I think this is how Red Pill works.she's joked that she stays with me or keeps me around because she needs my money. Again, her words, and I don't think she was joking. Threaten to cut her off financially and see how quickly she threatens divorce. Bet you it'd be minutes. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/11/16 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Can I become Alpha without becoming someone I don’t like?TRP tends to discuss things in fairly cartoonish stereotypes - we discuss hypothetical people like Chad Thundercock. This doesn't mean you have to literally turn yourself into Chad Thundercock. Instead, I'd invite you to consider how you feel in the early days of a relationship. It's fun, you're confident to the point of being cocky, you feel you could take on the world, your woman hangs on your every word and you're banging her three times a day. You never ask for a blowjob, but you get them an… | /r/askMRP | 30/10/16 08:31 PM |
| 2 | The Beta on a Tinder DateThis fact plus Jason’s decision to voluntarily relinquish his masculine polarity (which is supposed to counter-balance the fact that women are the gatekeepers of sex) means that power shifts to the woman. All human relationships - friendships, business, sexual - involve a balance of power. And it's called a balance for a reason - it's phenomenally difficult to get it 100% equal on both sides. In fact, you don't usually want it 100% equal on both sides. Sexual relationships work best when the bal… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/16 08:19 PM |
| 15 | AWALT from a Shameless GirlThe revenge fantasy usually involves the girl living on her own, lonely and surrounded by cats. There are several reasons this seldom happens: No matter how well-exercised the hamster, all women secretly know full well how attractive they are and what sort of male attention they should be expecting. There is ALWAYS someone thirsty enough to pay her attention. If push comes to shove, she can always "forget" to take her pill as soon as she finds someone whose genes she'd be prepared to make babies… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/16 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Girl told me she couldn't get pregnant so I would bareback her.Moral of the story is that females claim they can't get pregnant because they've had heaps of sex before and haven't gotten pregnant YET, or are simply lying for various reasons. My cousin said exactly the same thing. Swung branches like a chimp, then as soon as she met a man who was sufficiently well built and had something approaching stability she was preggers within 3 months. AFAIK they're still together and she's loving being a mum, but I can't help thinking this bloke was tricked into bein… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/16 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Donald Trump's statement is really more about women being whores than him being a sexual predatorThere's an untold story there. Gawker did something to piss off a lawyer (google for Charles Harder), who has since made it his life's work to destroy them. Which meant Hogan got quality legal representation at a knock-down price. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/16 09:18 AM |
| 1 | New Guy Here - Try to Keep it Short - A Field Report of Sorts and A Request for AdviceWomen use sex to get what they want. When they have what they want - and they're reasonably sure there's no risk of it walking away - they turn the sex off like it's a tap. The irony is that once this happens, they get bored and decide they don't want it any more. Which is exactly what your wife is doing now, and would do if you were to live together again. There is no way you can make this work unless you get to dictate the terms - and when I say "dictate", I mean "engineer the situation such t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/10/16 08:20 AM |
| 7 | FR: my son, the white knightIt sounds to me like you haven't so much diffused the situation with your wife as negotiated an uneasy peace treaty that will probably last a day or two, max. And the strategy you used to negotiate this could very easily have blown up in your face. You said yourself: She took that rather better than I had dared hoped. - to me, that sounds like you were half-expecting it to descend into a full-on shouting match and you're relieved it didn't. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/10/16 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Donald Trump's statement is really more about women being whores than him being a sexual predatorAssuming you're speaking the truth and not trolling us: I wonder if it'll be the same ten years from now with 2 kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/16 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Donald Trump's statement is really more about women being whores than him being a sexual predatorThere are plenty of adult women out there. Show me one. Show me just one occasion where a woman has taken responsibility for her actions. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/16 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Trumps latest "lewd" remarks about women have the talking heads abuzz and the wominnns are offended....I don't know if it's my upbringing or what but that never really registered with me. There were plenty of girls who basically ignored me as a teen, but there were also plenty of girls who I ignored. The one or two I liked (I basically had serial unrequited one-itis as a teen, chasing from one crush to another. Probably embarrassed the hell out of the girls involved!) generally at least had the manners to say "hello", but that was about it. The old "she doesn't even know I exist!" canard was simp… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/16 10:24 PM |
| 13 | Trumps latest "lewd" remarks about women have the talking heads abuzz and the wominnns are offended....RP suggests that if you're not sufficiently attractive, women literally filter you out, making you invisible. I found out this was true when I picked up a hitchhiker maybe a year or so ago. Young girl, maybe 19-20. In any other circumstances, she'd have mentally filtered me out as if I was a piece of furniture. With the pill swallowed, it was something to observe. I had this girl in my passenger seat who in any other case would have seen me in much the same way as a side table. Only now the side… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/16 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Plate sent me "it's over" text, QuestionsYou're over-thinking this. She's a plate. The whole point is you don't get overly-attached to plates - if they want out, fine. Off you go, sweetheart, and don't let the door hit your arse on the way out. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/16 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Urgent and serious: my dad just broke downLet her die alone, your dad needs to change quick. If he doesn't, ditch him too. It's his fucking dad, FFS. Yes, okay, he may be BP beyond help, but that doesn't mean he has to cut his dad entirely out of his life. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/16 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Urgent and serious: my dad just broke downI think that's the point. A man shaped by RP won't reach the end of his rope at the hands of a woman. He'll walk away first. A man shaped by BP will have a childlike view on life. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/16 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Even if you're Brad Pitt...A relationship works best when the balance of power is ever-so-slightly tipped in favour of the man. This is why Hilary didn't leave Bill Clinton when he very publicly got a blowjob in office. You or I get a BJ from the office intern, we're quite possibly looking at a divorce. She, however, was married to the president, FFS. Who's she going to branch swing to that would be a better offer? I don't think Pitt/Jolie had that. They're much more equally matched; she could probably find some other abs… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/09/16 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Main Event Follow UP: Return HomeI have noticed that getting firm with my wife and telling her something similar to OP tends to get remarkable results. They key is that the tone absolutely must not be whiny; it must be clear and firm. You don't whine at your dog when it doesn't behave, you tell it firmly. Those results don't last very long, but they're definitely there. I would think that if you've done enough background work on yourself, the results will last longer. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Hypothesis: 80% of RP theory is learning to deal with stress. Discuss.The reason for me making this point is simple: I think a lot of newbs don't really understand why all the things that appear in RP theory are there. Historically, the RP answer has been "don't worry about why, just do it!". I don't think that's a very helpful answer. A lot of men (myself included) don't like this sort of answer, they itch to know more. "Don't worry about why" doesn't cut it; it's discouraging when you don't really know what the end goal is. Particularly not when a lot of theory … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/16 06:47 PM |
| 3 | If you get married.. you might not lose 50%. You might lose 150%."No extradition" just means there is no treaty in place to make the extradition process quick and easy. Doesn't mean it's impossible. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/16 11:37 AM |
| 0 | If you get married.. you might not lose 50%. You might lose 150%.Yeah. Go and live in a country that doesn't divorce rape men. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/16 11:34 AM |
| 0 | If you get married.. you might not lose 50%. You might lose 150%.Boys have concepts like honour, morality and generally being "good" drummed into them from about as soon as they can walk. By the time they're in their teens, it's second nature. Girls get absolutely none of that. The most they get is "don't sleep around", and even then they'll scream blue murder that they shouldn't be held to that level of common decency. By the time she's grown up, you have something with all the self-control of a two year old making demands and she has the law on her side. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/16 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Maintaining OI after rejectionIt's much easier for her hamster to accept your behaviour if she frames it in a way that makes you look butthurt. Even if you're not. My wife does the exact same thing. If she decides I'm upset because I'm not going to get laid, literally anything I do is interpreted in that way. You can't contradict it, because she'll interpret that as proving her right. I think for this we have to look at "When I say no, I feel guilty", and try a little fogging. This is absolutely hilarious the first time you … | /r/askMRP | 03/09/16 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Wife went nuclear, struggling with my options.3 weeks into MRP. 1/2 way through MMSL, NMMNG, WISNIFG. Reading all the top posts, sidebar stuff (Rational Male, FamilyAlpha, etc.). You are the man you are because of decades of social conditioning which has been going on since you were able to walk. Why do you think you can overturn this in three weeks? Most experienced RP men on here report a minimum of 1 year; we had an FR last week from a man who took four years to get to a place where he was happy. According to our counselor, and the Bible… | /r/askMRP | 03/09/16 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Early gains, drive to improve fading with angerGordon Bennett, is it "battle of the cliche posts" tonight? Your story is not unique. Hell, it's not even particularly unusual. You've spent your entire life chasing pussy, and now you think you've figured it all out it's not interesting any more. I'll tell you exactly what happens if you carry on down this path. You'll say "fuck it I can't be bothered" and within 3-6 months, you'll be back where you were. | /r/askMRP | 02/09/16 09:01 PM |
| 1 | My wife has no interest in sex anymore and its driving us apart.If I hadn't been through exactly the same myself (complete with wife who "doesn't think it's a problem", "will come to me when she's good and ready" and "would happily take female viagra if it only existed"), I'd have described you as too perfect; a troll. Go read the MRP sidebar. Specifically, the prerequisite material: When I say no I feel guilty. Married man sex life primer. No more Mr. Nice Guy All of these are available as ebooks on Amazon, so you don't need to have a paperback on your nigh… | /r/askMRP | 02/09/16 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything in TRP that doesn't apply in the UK?I don't know if I count, being a little older than most of Reddit's demographic and married to boot. Though I am in the UK. On the whole, I'd say it's on the nail. There are a few subtleties here and there, but the general ideas seem to apply pretty closely. You can check for yourself if you're interested and not above a little light facebook stalking; will elaborate if there's enough interest. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 08:00 PM |
| 1 | About managing platesbut I am a relatively young guy (23) in an environment where neither men nor women are really interested in having kids until their 30th birthday. AWOOGA! AWOOGA! DANGER DANGER ALERT ALERT!! I can think of half-a-dozen ways you could come unstuck here, and you wouldn't know until it's too late: She is somewhat forgetful about her pill. Some of these contraceptive pills need to be taken within the same 3-hour window every day to be effective, so "forgetful" is not a good thing. She has been lazy … | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.I have the exact same problem: the wife knows exactly how to push my buttons to wind me up and she does it entirely subconsciously, without thinking. She will swear up and down she's not trying to wind me up yet she behaves in a way that she should know full well will drive me up the wall. I've recently come to the conclusion that letting this anger me is insane: it amounts to me outsourcing my mental stability to someone else. Someone who has very little reason to care about my mental stability… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Can't believe this just happenedMost of the alimony/child support laws are rooted in Victorian times when a woman would basically retire on her wedding day - and it was totally unthinkable for her to ever work again. Nonetheless, my point was that if you're sufficiently wealthy or influential, divorces that involve you getting screwed over are a LOT rarer. Which is going to drastically slow down any new legislation getting passed. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 07:16 PM |
| 1 | But..then..what the fuck are all the romance novels about?Remember, this is speculation based on RP theory. Like all RP theory, it'd be dead easy to test: buy half-a-dozen "romance" novels at random and read them through. It'll soon be pretty obvious if I'm right. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 07:06 PM |
| 1 | She said, "If you gained 30 pounds and got abs, you'd be fucking hot."She didn't mean 30lb fat, she meant 30lb muscle. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Can't believe this just happenedUntil wealthier men push their legislatures to enact alimony cut-offs and child support limits most guys will have to protect themselves by using the threat of family abandonment and boycotting marriage/cohabitation. Bill Clinton got a blowjob in office and was publicly humiliated - but he was still the President. His wife hung around. Gordon Ramsay was having an affair for seven years but he's still a millionaire. His wife has hung around. Katy Perry and Russel Brand got a divorce, but she's wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 11:46 AM |
| 28 | But..then..what the fuck are all the romance novels about?I'm going to stick my neck out here and say that you've never read a trashy romance novel; instead you've speculated as to the contents. (Nor, as it happens, have I, and I'm not about to go out and read a whole lot of them for research purposes). And your speculation is that the male hero volunteers down at the local cat shelter, the "romance" is chapter after chapter of dinner dates, movies, walks by the beach and the sex - which will be very much second to the storyline - will comprise four ho… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Relationship issue because of my girlfriend's past. Asked r/relationships how to save my relationship and got flamed for slut shaming.I'm not afraid I won't get laid, I'm afraid they are all the same. Sleeping with everyone I mean. On the whole, they are. There are exceptions. Many women find they battle with their weight at some point in their life; some have already started that battle. They will be exceptions. Some women fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down. They will be exceptions. Some women will be lazy with contraception and have kids at a young age. They will be exceptions - or at least, they … | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 08:37 PM |
| 8 | Man in deadbedroom asks for advice, gets labeled a narcissistIt wouldn't be difficult to test. Dig out an old column, rewrite it with genders reversed, post it in one of the female-friendly subs (which I won't name here or I'll probably get autobanned) under a throwaway and see what happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/16 07:39 PM |
| 14 | Relationship issue because of my girlfriend's past. Asked r/relationships how to save my relationship and got flamed for slut shaming.You, dear chap, have one-itis. You have found yourself a girlfriend and a little voice in the back of your mind is saying "don't lose her don't lose her don't lose her". That little voice has convinced you that your girlfriend farts rose petals, which I promise you she doesn't. That voice is borne out of a fear that you'll never get laid if you lose her. The thing that's upsetting you is that since reading that note, another voice has piped up. A voice that says "Whoah, hold up, what sort of a g… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 07:34 PM |
| 2 | One more woman that falsely cried rape after getting a cold shoulder, gets sentenced to 9 monthsFor whatever reason, women do lie about rape. Society would have us believe women are perfect. That they never lie, never cheat, never hurt someone (at least not intentionally). It is often a complete shock to find this is not true. | /r/becomeaman | 20/08/16 07:16 AM |
| 8 | Neck Beard Basics: 4 rules for Low SMV MenThis is 100% accurate. We are at pretty much the first point in human history where there is literally no need for anyone in a first-world country to ever feel even slightly peckish. Which is completely unnatural. Your body has spent millions of years evolving in an environment where even if there's plenty of food today (just killed a wooly mammoth! Gather round, everyone, it won't keep!), there's no guarantee there will be plenty of food tomorrow. Modern farming, food preservation and storage m… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/16 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Turned down the wife for sex last night. Right move?See, I get the same thing from my wife. She demands I negotiate sex hours in advance - and if I somehow fuck up the negotiations (the terms of which are not known to me), for whatever harebrained reason she comes up with, it's off the table. The only piece of advice I can give you is this: do not, under any circumstances, get drawn into it. Once you do that, you send a message that you're perfectly prepared to spend hours negotiating terms for sex. | /r/askMRP | 19/08/16 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Death, grief and MRPI think you're looking through your own spectacles. Women's emotional feelings are very strongly driven by the environment they're in. If the environment says "Grieve away; it's perfectly acceptable", she'll do so for as long as the environment sends that message. If you tailor the environment to send that message for 1, 2, 3 years - that's how long she'll grieve for. If, however, her environment says "Look, I know it's hard. But you have other things that you must be strong for. Pull yourself t… | /r/askMRP | 18/08/16 10:15 PM |
| 3 | The hamster is on overdrive, and it's time to put it out of its miseryWhoa dude. Steady on. Let's get a couple of things straight: You're only a couple of months into this; it's tempting to think even at this stage "Hey, now I know the code, I can blow this relationship up today and be plating women by the weekend!". Thing is, if you're a married man, chances are you're at least in your late 20s. Likely your 30s. Your personality has been moulded by decades; you simply cannot throw that off in three months. Most report it taking a year, minimum, and that's assumin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/08/16 08:23 PM |
| 1 | The Sexodus in action: millennials are having less sex.The 80/20 is basically the Pareto principle. It's very much rough numbers, so you mustn't read too much into it if in the real world you see more like 70/30 or 90/10. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 02:02 PM |
| 1 | The Sexodus in action: millennials are having less sex.You don't need to read a few comments and see if they make sense; you can test this out for yourself if you're on Facebook and you're not above a little light stalking. The way you do it is this: Predict the sort of behaviour you'd expect to see and write it all down. At a very rough guide, I'd expect to see the women who are either young enough or pretty enough to continue riding the CC will have lots of photos of themselves with female friends, wine, exotic locations and no sign whatsoever of … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Your wife is going to leave you because she thinks she can do better. How do you react?I don't think I'd be able to stop laughing for days. She lives in a world where we're on a fairly even footing. We might have been five years ago, but a series of events (that I won't discuss here because they'd identify me) have drastically altered that to the point where the only thing she can bring to the table in a new relationship is her vagina and half the equity in our house. Not even her uterus; she's adamant about not wanting kids and besides, she's 36. I would wish her well, find mysel… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/08/16 01:07 PM |
| 1 | How am I supposed to be a man if my happiness depends on women?Find something you get pleasure out of that isn't shagging nubile young women. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/16 08:22 PM |
| 1 | I didn't found No More Mr Nice Guy very practical...Did we read the same book? I found it enormously helpful; every behaviour he identified was followed up with a series of exercises for how to deal with. Never mind. There is a reason that lots of books are recommended. RP praxeology is a way of thinking that you can't absorb fully from reading just one book. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/16 08:19 PM |
| 1 | VR will diminish the beta bux optionA few thoughts that occur: We assume a certain number of men will check out of even trying to have a relationship. This is probably true, but what percentage? 5%? 10%? 80%? The likelihood is the bottom 5% aren't getting laid AT ALL anyway; nobody will miss them voluntarily leaving the gene pool. It's safe to assume that - socially speaking - taking this path will be considered shameful. This will be driven by women, who will deride it for the same reason they deride prostitution and male sex toy… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 08:15 PM |
| 3 | VR will diminish the beta bux optionI don't think anyone's really claiming otherwise. The thrust of the argument, as far as I can gather, is this: Were the sexual landscape allowed to follow its default, the top 20% of men would be doing 80% of the breeding. For people in their late teens/early 20s, this is more-or-less what's happening. But as they get older, Western society has suppressed this in favour of a status quo that encourages monogamous LTRs and enshrines them in marriage, providing stability for the women and at least … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 03:54 PM |
| 1 | VR will diminish the beta bux optionForeigner = exotic choice. There's some evidence to suggest that people often do better in a foreign country. I daresay there's some evolutionary reason for it going back millions of years. Likely to have quite different genetics giving stronger offspring, probably. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 03:09 PM |
| 20 | VR will diminish the beta bux optionmaybe this will spark a generation of Herbivore men Read that. Fuck me, up to 70% of Japanese men consider themselves herbivores? Now I think about it, that makes a lot of sense. There probably are that many men in the world who would happily give up on women tomorrow if they could get their rocks off some other way. Even if it is basically advanced masturbation. A mischievous part of me wonders what the women think of all this. Torn between "well, I wouldn't want to fuck most men anyway" and "w… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Alpha by Birth, Beta by Choice.You are probably in the top 5% of men here. You already know what it's like to be confident and well built; clearly you were near the front of the queue when basic physical characteristics like height were being handed out. Which means that I'd think most RP stuff would come pretty quick and natural to you. Don't let yourself get complacent. It was complacency put you where you are now; it was your natural thirst to solve your own problems that led you to discover MRP. Don't let that flame go ou… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/07/16 08:51 PM |
| 1 | When in an LTR, what is the best move when advances for sex are deniedFunny you should say that, I've bought a guitar and I'm learning that. Maybe it's crass, but it's fun and it's a hell of a lot more productive than slobbing out on the sofa. The wife - after initially encouraging me - has openly said she "gives it two months". (Given my past history, she has a point, but I think I can power through it). | /r/askTRP | 23/07/16 08:47 PM |
| 2 | When in an LTR, what is the best move when advances for sex are deniedI am in exactly this position - and /u/archwinger is absolutely on the nail. Through my actions, I have taught my wife that she can shut down sex any time she likes and while I might moan and pout a bit, she'll still get my time and resources. She's become so comfortable in this she's been known to carry out atomic shit-tests while having sex. I have worked like buggery to improve myself, but fundamentally I haven't really done anything that takes me (and hence my time) away from her. This, ther… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 08:55 PM |
| 2 | After going on DeadBedrooms, a kind fellow sent me the link to this sub.Caution: Here be dragons! You are the man you are from decades of social conditioning. You cannot throw this off with a week down the gym. Lots of men report great results after a week; I'd be more interested to learn your progress in 6 months. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/07/16 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Everyone knows...even if they don't know they know. Just heard this J-Lo song. What other MRP references have you heard/seen in poular culture?We get threads like this every few months on RP subreddits. Short answer: You're absolutely right. Popular culture does occasionally admit RP truths, though it's almost invariably in passing - a 3 minute song, for instance - rather than anything too overt. | /r/askMRP | 26/06/16 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Response to the statement that "All redpillers are fedora wearing loners"?Let them. They're providing advertising for us and they don't even know they're doing it. Some people are bound to think "Really? This I have to see...." | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 07:30 PM |
| 1 | I just left my wife in another city because she couldn't stop verbally abusing meAs promised, a separate reply. All human relationships - not just sexual ones - involve a balance of power. The secret to having things go well for you is to tip the balance ever so slightly in your favour. You don't want to tip it too much - people tend to resent a grossly unfair relationship - a gentle tilt is all you need. Virtually all RP advice - even though it seldom expressly says it - is centred around cultivating power so as to give yourself a subtle advantage. The word "balance" is use… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/06/16 08:44 PM |
| 1 | I just left my wife in another city because she couldn't stop verbally abusing meI'm going over your post and I see missed opportunity after missed opportunity. You put yourself in a fantastically weak position - where your options were severely limited - and (quelle surprise) it all blew up in your face. Let's look at every place you went wrong: I was in a good spirits due to the imminent of seeing what was once the coolest band ever to me. So I left work early. You'd already told her you wouldn't do that unless she produced a written agenda. In leaving early, you sent a st… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/06/16 08:25 PM |
| 1 | I just left my wife in another city because she couldn't stop verbally abusing meSeems weird to me. If the event is going to hell seems like the thing to do is just say fuck it and turn around. He couldn't; he wasn't driving. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/06/16 07:54 PM |
| 0 | How prevalent is cunning (mach) in the world?How prevalent is cunning in the world? It happens, though not as much as you'd expect. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend calls me a total fucking bitch after I refuse to get involved in physical altercation that doesn't involve me"I'm a girl, he's not going to hit me! We have to stop this." This, gentlemen, is how women get beaten. They assume that literally no man on earth will hit them and they can provoke all they like with impunity. Then one day they get it wrong... | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 07:40 PM |
| 1 | My blood is boiling right now. What about vengefulness?Properly focused, it's useful. Without a focus and a plan, it's likely to result in lashing out. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 07:34 PM |
| 20 | Reason not to get Married #7,382: Millionaire tycoon's ex-wife awarded six figure payout even though he made his fortune a decade after they split [UK]At least, she hasn't actually won any money as yet, She has, actually. £300,000. That's about, what, half a million US$? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/16 03:53 PM |
| 12 | My blood is boiling right now. What about vengefulness?Anger is one of the biggest problems faced by young men discovering RP for the first time. You've been lied to by society your whole life and you've now got to reinvent yourself and re-imagine everything you took to be true. But here's the thing. That lie wasn't malicious, and in some ways it wasn't a lie at all; it was a series of misunderstandings that nobody realised you had made, and hence nobody could correct you on. Women and girls lie about what's attractive all the time. They will very s… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/16 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Marriage horrors: unemployed ex-wife grabs another half a Million british pounds of a man's wealth, 20 (TWENTY) years after their divorceTheir fairly obviously isn't one; the law is the law and the law is an ass. Personally, I don't see this changing until a lot of very rich and influential people - perhaps politicians themselves - get taken to the cleaners by their ex-wives. And while I have no evidence, I'll hazard a guess that wives of rich and influential people seldom demand a divorce. | /r/becomeaman | 11/06/16 02:36 PM |
| 8 | Another 7 excellent reasons why good men don't get marriedInteresting to see the female responses all fall into one of a couple of categories: "My parents have been together 30 years" : That's nice, sweetheart. How many of your friends can say the same? "Not ALL women" : If I offered you a case of beer and said "oh, by the way, 50% of the bottles have been poisoned. I'm not telling you which 50% and you can't tell by looking at them", you'd throw the lot out, right...? "You have no idea what a healthy marriage looks like!" : If it were as simple as "kn… | /r/becomeaman | 07/06/16 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Cancer is taking my wife; MRP has helped make things better, but where now?Thoughts from someone whose wife has a number of health issues, but none are anything like as bad as yours: Most RP theory assumes you are both reasonably healthy. Much of it completely falls apart when one of you isn't. However, I think there are still some useful lessons to be learned for an RP-in-training man: I can't tell you what to do about your current sex life, nor your marriage. FWIW, I think you'd be a complete bastard to fuck off now, but I'm second generation dyed-in-the-wool BP, so … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/06/16 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Welcome 8,000 Subscribers to Married Red PillIMO, the general tone on TRP has, if anything, strengthened over the course of the last couple of years. Any attempt to discuss or critically evaluate the accepted groupthink is shot down as being "blue pill"; the groupthink seems to be less "this is how you make yourself a better man" and more about "girls are icky". (That being said, MRP has also been getting a bit worrying, with trolls and BP comments starting to become more and more noticeable. Hopefully the injection of new blood in the tea… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/06/16 06:39 PM |
| 1 | My brother about to crash and burn his marriage.I'm in a similar boat. My brother is 30 and the absolute epitome of neckbearded whiteknight stereotypes. He looks a lot like this. He's never had a girlfriend; it wouldn't surprise me if he's still a virgin. I would dearly love to help him, but he's convinced himself that "society" is to blame for all his issues (seriously, the man's morbidly obese and it's "society's" fault). He is slowly, slowly starting to take responsibility for his own life, but it will be a long time before he's ready to a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/05/16 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer Consequencesbut can't express that desire due to feminist intellectual beliefs contradicting their hindbrain desires Actually, I think modern feminism (outside of tumblr) has found a way to hamster away its own beliefs. The logic goes something like this: The whole point of feminism is that women can do anything they damn well want. It follows that it's perfectly okay for a feminist to dress in a feminine manner as long as it's what she wants to do. It's perfectly okay for her to chase after the rugby playe… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/05/16 11:11 AM |
| 1 | "Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer Consequences"Not entirely true. Rape has been "unwanted penetration of a girl" - certainly in British law - since Victorian times. And lots of countries around the world imported their law from the Brits. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/16 11:02 AM |
| 4 | "Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer Consequences"They're not faking a single thing. The hamster is so incredibly efficient, it's found a way to justify her behaviour as perfectly acceptable long before her knickers hit the floor. If she ever thinks "I shouldn't be doing this" (which, frankly, I doubt), the hamster shuts those thoughts up quick. By the time she gets home to her husband, she didn't have sex with another man and even if she did, he's such a piece of shit that what else could she be expected to do? She honestly believes this to th… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/16 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Two Steps Forward, One Step Back.I don't believe you. The reason I don't believe you is that if your wife's response to that is not an immediate getting into line, you should have had papers ready to serve within a week. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/04/16 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Two Steps Forward, One Step Back.It was a smallish version fuck me or fuck you. She thought I was leaving her (I don’t know if I am or not what I do know is that she is replaceable). I've made this exact mistake before. And it is impossible to understate how much of a mistake it is. You absolutely, categorically must not make this speech unless and until you are prepared to serve divorce papers and follow the whole divorce process through the minute she fails to meet her end of the bargain. Your "I don't know if I am or not" de… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/04/16 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Is there hope for single young men? Please convince an MRA to defect back to the wife hunters tribe.MGTOW seems very defeatist to me. "I'm not getting anywhere with women, I'm never going to get anywhere, why bother trying?" The way I see it, that's a self-fulfilling prophecy. And it's one that you have to talk yourself out of - we can't. THAT BEING SAID.... The only way I can make sense of such an attitude is if it stems from an incomplete understanding of the logic that underpins RP ideas. Yes, you've read about sorting out your diet, lifting weight, sorting out your career and it all seems … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/04/16 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Book suggestion: The Magic of Thinking Big. (Schwartz)Know where to draw the line. Like many of these "get better at work/in business" books, a lot of it is about building confidence. But there's no harm in that, and possibly a lot of good. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/16 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Theory: Women mean something totally different when they say "a nice guy".Not me. This post shows up when I'm not logged in, so if I've been shadowbanned it's based on IP address rather than username. If you can see this, of course... | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 06:59 PM |
| 8 | It's been a month of trying to improve myself, and I feel just as miserable as I did before.Were you expecting instant results? It doesn't work like that. It's a marathon, not a sprint, and if you've been neglecting yourself for years, it will take a while to sort yourself out. Go out and buy - and read: When I say 'no' I feel guilty, M. Smith No more Mr. Nice Guy, Robert Glover Zen and the art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Robert Persig How to win friends and influence people, Dale Carnegie None of these - on their own - will get you where you want to be. But all of them together will he… | /r/becomeaman | 19/02/16 08:24 PM |
| 1 | "You do you" is "just be yourself" with lipstick.And it's a huge lie. IMV, like many things girls say, it's been shortened to the point that most men will take completely the wrong meaning away from it. For instance: "I'm not wearing make up for you, I'm wearing it for me" (so that I look good, so I can attract a man who's a lot better looking than you are, pal. Now fuck off and masturbate in a corner somewhere) "Of course it's okay for a man to be sensitive!" (and it's also okay for both me and everyone I know to decide that such a man is com… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/02/16 01:03 AM |
| 1 | "You do you" is "just be yourself" with lipstick.I disagree. I think "just be yourself" is essentially "Many men adopt a fake persona in the hope it'll get them laid. Don't do this." Which is perfectly true, and is in fact what RP is a reaction against. But so many men have spent their entire life shaping their personality around what they hope will get them laid that their persona is anything but fake. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/02/16 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Ex girlfriend drove her husband to suicideYou were expecting her to be dressed head to toe in black, beating her chest and screaming "Woe, woe is me!"? Yeah... women don't work like that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/02/16 11:53 AM |
| 10 | Posted here 7 months ago, here's an updateThere are many posters looking for a cookbook approach to life. Because that's what they've been conditioned to believe is appropriate. Mum doesn't lecture her 5 year old son in the ins and outs of human interaction, she says "Be nice to Jessica or she won't talk to you!". In his simple 5-year-old mind, he learns "nice behaviour=talking to girls". And she continues this overly-simplistic approach throughout her child's life. He has to figure out for himself that it's far too simplistic; as often… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/02/16 11:31 AM |
| 3 | Motherfucker. Wife's 911 call and I'm now in a hotel by the highway.There is nothing that he could do for her. You cannot save an alcoholic, you cant reason with it, and you can't change it. Replying to back this up. /u/bogeyd6 is absolutely right. If you could, there would be no such thing as loving parents with an alcohol problem because having kids would sort them out overnight. By all means, give her an ultimatum - "booze or me" - but don't be too disappointed when she chooses the bottle. It's an addiction, same as any drug addiction, the only real differenc… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/02/16 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Was Referred Here - Sidebar Read And Wanted Some RecommendationThis guy has pretty well nailed what I was going to say. Listen up: You've been conditioned by society to believe that your relationship can be treated like a vending machine. Insert the right behaviour, get sex. Simple, right? When that stopped working - which it always does - your first reaction was almost certainly to insert more of what you thought the "right" behaviour was. That didn't work. So you've come here, and the tone of the question you're asking is "what sort of behaviour should I … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/01/16 03:50 PM |
| 2 | So long, MRPMemo to newbies: This guy has been on here three months. Let that sink in. Three. Months. RP is a marathon, not a sprint, and you have precisely zero chance of getting where you want to be in three months. If you try and do it all in three months, it is almost guaranteed you will screw up. Partly because grown adults simply cannot change their entire life philosophy that quick, partly because those around them cannot process such a change. You're looking at more like 12-24 months. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Well, aren't the brigades fun...Given how toxic the term "red pill" has become, I'd hazard a guess that the mods want to keep their heads below the parapet. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/01/16 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Well, aren't the brigades fun...TRP and MRP are fundamentally at loggerheads. TRP is fake it until you maybe burn out. MRP is fake it until you make it. IMHO this is obvious from the "keep the blinding hate for life, dudes" and "avoid LTR like el plague" innovations--it's all designed to protect their fake it all to get your dick wet cognitive bubble. Yup. Discovered this the hard way when proposing an idea that was closer to MRP in philosophy than pure RP: that the "ideal man" isn't a nice guy, he's a "good" guy. (Where "good… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/01/16 04:33 PM |
| 5 | Unplugged & Reborn. 48 Hours In: "I'm Disgusted By Your Disrespectful Behavior."Extreme caution is advised. Even the best, brightest of us has screwed up many times, particularly in the early days. One of the easiest, commonest ways to screw up is to get over-confident, think "ah, so that's where I'm going wrong!" then jump in at the deep end - before you've had a chance to fully absorb and understand everything and before your partner has come to accept that her shrewish ways don't work any more. And it sounds like this is what you're doing here. Work on yourself and how y… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/01/16 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Theory: Women mean something totally different when they say "a nice guy".It was vital to explain that when women say they want a "nice" guy, they are telling the truth. The issue is the female definition of a "nice guy" is a hell of a lot closer to Chad than the male definition of "nice guy", which usually means "doormat". Combine that with adopting a persona to get laid (women can fake orgasms, men can fake entire relationships), and you have a recipe for an awful lot of frustrated men who have grossly misunderstood human nature. As I say, it's a thought experiment.… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Theory: Women mean something totally different when they say "a nice guy".Not as such. The "good" guy is - in terms of his actions and beliefs - much closer to Chad Tundercock than the "nice" guy. He will openly admit to wanting sex, he is constantly trying to make himself a better man, he is neither lazy nor manipulative. He will not put up with people walking all over him. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Theory: Women mean something totally different when they say "a nice guy".That's my point - the "nice guy" as defined by a woman is much closer to the "good guy" in my definition. The male "nice guy" isn't much liked by anyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Theory: Women mean something totally different when they say "a nice guy".That's more-or-less my point. A "good guy" - at least following my definition - is much closer to Chad than he is the "nice" guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | LTR cheats. She doesn't know I know. Is there something wrong with continuing using her for sex, while looking for next?Yes, everything. The whole point of RP is you have some dignity. You are a man with needs, that's true, but you're also a man with standards. Think of the unspoken message you are sending while you fuck your LTR: "I'm a fucking chump who has no idea you're getting cock elsewhere". Dump her, and make it absolutely clear that it's because she can't keep her knickers on. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 10:23 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do you keep a woman loyal?The real world is not black and white. My advice will, I hope, subtly tilt the odds in OP's favour, but that's all it is - a subtle tilt. As you say, even if he can pull off all the above (quite a feat; there's a reason most men can't manage it), he can still lose it all. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 08:48 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do you keep a woman loyal?Note it's not perfect. Women are women; there's no getting away from that. The "ideal" man is unrealistic. He has 5-10% body fat, he has clearly defined, big muscles (but probably doesn't quite look like Arnie in his heyday). Think "old spice commercial". He's well-educated and holds down a well-paying job - possibly a surgeon, a lawyer or a business owner. Think Uncle Phil in the Fresh Prince of Bel Air. He can exercise a firm but gentle discipline, but also buy the ice-creams when all the kidd… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 08:37 AM |
| 4 | How the fuck do you keep a woman loyal?All human relationships - whether personal, business or sexual - involve a balance of power. In a sexual relationship, the single most important thing you can do is ensure the balance is tilted ever-so-slightly in your favour. Not a huge amount, you understand. But enough to be noticeable. So of the two of you, you must be the one with a better social life. More interests. Better income. If you're young, better prospects. A slightly nicer car. Ultimately, it adds up to an unspoken fact (I hesita… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 08:52 PM |
| 1 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?On your birthday, SMV increases automatically, you're AMOG unless you're a total retard. Sorry, what?! Maybe if you're in your late teens/early twenties and you go out with a group of friends where you are the centre of attention. But this is marriedredpill. We're mostly past that; your wife being a "bitch on your birthday" should be treated the exact same way as any other day. One or two bits of bitchiness? A&A, pressure flip etc. Constant? Go nuclear, then walk out before she has a chance to r… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/15 08:18 PM |
| 3 | PSA: you can now be found guilty of sexual assault for being GIVEN a blowjob while YOU are blacked out outThey'll be banned. There's already been talk about devising a set of "rules" regarding what a robot can or cannot be designed to do, and I bet you anything you like that sex will go on the list of "things it cannot do" the minute some factory in China announces availability. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/15 12:32 PM |
| 2 | I'm swallowing the pilland here's the kicker, she says that it has NOTHING to do with my broken leg. See, the thing is that women are inherently social creatures - by which I mean they need to belong to a society, and need to be approved by that society. Now, it's pretty obvious that in modern society she can't very well say "Actually, I am dumping you because you've broken your leg" - how much of a bitch would that make her?! But at the same time, she can't get away from the fact that you're no longer giving her ting… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 05:37 PM |
| 5 | I'm swallowing the pillI've had a few of your theories proven to me so now I can trust this mindset. Welcome. Thank Christ you didn't learn this a couple of years down the road with a marriage and kids to deal with, eh? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Field report, active dreadWonderful when that happens, isn't it? I made a jokey innuendo-filled comment to a cute waitress when we were out for dinner a few months ago. My wife had managed to get one syllable of "shut up..." out when the waitress giggled like a schoolgirl. I've never seen anyone shut up so fast in my life. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/15 09:00 PM |
| 1 | You will never have your bluepill dream girlThis holiday season, as an experiment, see how disproportionate your gift to your LTR, GF, or SO is compared to what you get back. You'll be so pissed off that you'll laugh at how meager, thoughtless, and unimaginative her gift is compared to yours. I suddenly feel very blessed. Exactly this happened last year - I didn't care that much because I'm not a hugely materialistic person, I've got all that I need and more besides. Though my wife at least had the decency to look somewhat embarrassed. Th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/15 08:57 PM |
| 8 | You will never have your bluepill dream girlIt's worth explaining some of the background for this to the newbs. Some of this is based on observation, some on impossible-to-test hypotheses. You don't have to accept the hypotheses as being correct, but the observation is something you can do today. Women absolutely need to be accepted into a social circle. The theory behind this is admittedly cod science - that being physically weaker and having an unusually long and taxing pregnancy/raising kids process during which they are more vulnerabl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/15 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with shame/guilt about masculinity/assertiveness/successGood man. It's not easy; nobody's telling you it is. But it's a change you have to make, for your own sake. That little voice you need to take upstairs for a nice warm bath. Then you need to hold it under the warm water. Hold it until it stops struggling. It's the kindest thing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/12/15 10:15 PM |
| 7 | Dealing with shame/guilt about masculinity/assertiveness/successI had exactly the same problem when I first met my wife. I was certain that I was getting more out of the relationship than her and that I was in a much stronger position - I could leave her and be nailing someone else very quickly. Experienced RP'ers won't be surprised to learn that at the time, our sex life was pretty damn good. A bit like yourself, there was a little voice in the back of my head saying "that's not very equal". I've heard it called the "beta shit goblin" before, which just goe… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/12/15 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Girls will protect their own image above all elseYou've been ripped to shreds here - partly your own fault for DEER'ing in places - but I think this is a very mature way to look at it. Some people learn to wrap it the hard way - they become a dad or they get something incurable. You didn't. Perhaps your experience will encourage some other young blood to wrap it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Girls will protect their own image above all elseAccording to the women I've fucked, I've taken three girls' virginity. One openly admitted to starting to have sex four years before we first slept together and two were second-year university students. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Girls will protect their own image above all elseOooh, dear. DEER'ing. You really should know better, on this sub of all places. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 08:43 PM |
| 4 | Girls will protect their own image above all elseShe maybe can, but the thing is, women are genetically programmed to want sex with high-quality men. The "high-quality men" bit is vitally important; those tingles don't register if the men chasing her aren't high quality. Hell, if the man is sufficiently low quality, his very existence is mentally filtered out - she doesn't even register his existence unless she can't really avoid it. She certainly doesn't even record the idea of him being a sexual being. And I defy you to find a woman who does… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Am I not supposed to EVER GET MAD?That, and the dichotomy you get when you have a situation you think you should somehow be able to manage - but you can't. Let me put it like this: If you can manage something, you have a plan and you know how to cope. No problem. You've got this under control. If something that you cannot possibly be expected to have planned for or manage, there's a whole bunch of things you might feel but anger is unlikely. The frustration - and ultimately anger - comes from being in neither one place nor the o… | /r/askMRP | 08/12/15 09:32 PM |
| 11 | Your wife doesn't need to see you flirting or approaching other women for it to workOh. God. I think you've explained why I (used to) have a reasonable sex life. Ten years ago, I remember thinking to myself "I'm in a strong position here. Stronger, probably, than my LTR. I could move on from this relationship any time I like and I'd be doing okay very quickly indeed". Sex was frequent; arguments rare. I haven't thought that in a very long time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Highschool beta trying not to be beta.My God, what I wouldn't give to have discovered RP at your age! Okay, here's some advice from a recovering career beta in his 30s. Take it with all the salt you think it needs: You are where you are with your current high school and reputation. Don't lose too much sleep over it; when people leave school they tend to go about their separate lives and while some will stay in touch, many won't. There are people who you get on really well with now who you'll have practically forgotten six months aft… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 09:17 PM |
| 8 | Let's say a potential LTR shows a bad behavior. Is it any use to scold them? Or simply observe and keep/drop as appropriate?You try asking that on /r/askmrp - (ask married red pill) - and see how far you get. Hint: Scolding may be your first instinct, but it is absolutely categorically the worst thing you can do. You're playing into her frame by acknowledging her behaviour - and you're giving her attention. Second hint: She's not enormously bothered about the sort of attention she gets from you; obviously she'd like nice attention but she'll take bad attention over ignoring any day. You should absolutely punish bad b… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 08:49 PM |
| 1 | [Opinion] - Blog Post: The "War on Men" Needs to f**king stop - International Man's Day SpecialMental health. It's just come to me in a flash of inspiration, but I have no idea how I would go about researching it further. Let me explain where it comes from: I once knew a man who had a very odd relationship with his wife. She spent much of her time in and out of some sort of mental health institution - sectioned, in other words - but he was okay with having her living with him when she wasn't. They had children; by the time I knew him they'd both grown up and left home. I did not know him … | /r/PussyPass | 05/12/15 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Direction NeededSounds like you're not doing too badly! My thoughts - in no particular order - are: Strip naked and stand in front of a full-length mirror. Be honest with yourself - do you look good? Or lumpy? While naked - and don't cheat by breathing in! - can you see your genitals? Get on a scales. Work out your BMI and if you're coming in as overweight - and your answer to #1 above is "lumpy" and #2 is "no" - get on a diet. Your body fat %age should max out at 15-20% tops (Google for this, there's plenty of… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/15 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Hooked up with my ex-unicorn to prove AWALT to myself. Cognitive Dissonance abounds!And you're a college junior, presumably in a successful major? That bit's the truth, right there. I went back to my home town around the time I graduated - some years ago now. Degree in Computer Science; quite a few of my former classmates were learning the hard way that the cotton wool school wraps you in comes off fast. All of a sudden, girls who wouldn't even have spoken to me while I was there - I was far too geeky for them - were all keen on talking to me. AWALT, friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Just can't make a beta learn.Betas will always be betas till they finally swallow the red pill. Yep. It particularly sucks to see when they're close friends or relatives, but TRP is called TRP for a reason. You have to see it for yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Little piece of advice if a girl isn't interestedFine. Then use a very quick 'DTF?' line on them and see what happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Divorce and CustodyIANAL, but I would take this view: Your wife (finally) finds someone who can represent her. He says "Why did you come all this way to me? Wasn't there anyone close by who could represent you?" Obviously, she says "I tried. They all said they couldn't - something about a conflict of interest". He's seen this happen a dozen times. It's not illegal in itself, but it demonstrates character. And as family courts are often going to be heavily emotion-driven, then using it against the ex-husband is a g… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Flashback Post #2: Women are Children & Treating Women like Children by redpillschool, GayLubeOil"I wonder, though, if there's any real difference...?" | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Flashback Post #2: Women are Children & Treating Women like Children by redpillschool, GayLubeOilJust to clarify something: when you say feeding women, are you talking metaphorically, or literally "she's cranky because she wants to eat something"? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Flashback Post #2: Women are Children & Treating Women like Children by redpillschool, GayLubeOilShe is still useful to her boss. Promote her and give her some beta-child-keeping-nannying duties and she will be a cold-blooded slave driver. She will just not be useful anywhere higher. Unless she fucks up something major. And then wonder why she seems to hit a glass ceiling at middle manager level. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 10:57 PM |
| 1 | No I don't want to have sex with your fat belly, your lack of enthusiasm and your stretched out pussy that I can barely feel.....You know, I'm in two minds how to react to this. On the one hand: RP theory would probably say that losing your temper has set you back an enormous amount, you dun goofed etc etc. And from BPP of all people! On the other: Anger is a natural reaction to a situation that makes you angry; it's silly (and arguably BP/"nice guy" bullshit) to argue otherwise. The important thing is how you channel it - and (unless I'm reading wrong) it sounds like you handled it in a calm "fuck you" manner. Which is p… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/15 08:53 PM |
| 11 | Just need some validation/confirmation from MRPWarning: Extreme caution. Unless you were a natural alpha and you just needed a brief kick (hint: 80% of men don't fall into this category), you are in a "honeymoon" phase. You've tried a few of the "RP-for-idiots" ideas and they've had instant results; you're thinking "My God, is it really this easy?!". You can't solve years of screwups overnight. It can take months, if not years. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/11/15 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Locus of Control and Attribution Theory: the psychological bases behind Owning Your ShitVery wise words. A variation I've heard - which is basically the same thing but with slightly different wording - is accepting that some things are within your control, some aren't, and you focus your attention on things that are in your control. Example: Wife has a screaming fit about something totally inconsequential. Her choosing to behave like this is out of my control. However, how I react to it is absolutely within my control. Get passed over for promotion at work. I can't force my manager… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/11/15 07:25 PM |
| 3 | confused and bitter 20year old Nigerian male. DON'T WANNA DIE THIS WAYWhen we say gym, we mean lifting weights. Not running on a treadmill. If you can look skinny after 6 months of lifting weight and eating properly, you need to see a doctor. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Female Head of Diversity and Inclusion disregards International Mens Day because it is for menMaybe the local news will run the story on the local company that doesn't care about discrimination. Tell me, when was the last time you saw a news story about a company discriminating against men? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 09:08 PM |
| 3 | The amount of harm done by white knightsEvery single one of those quotes would make excellent advice for a man just as much as a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Girl stopped having sex. Wants to wait until marriageJesus Christ man, is this serious? Do you honestly think that if you propose to her today and marry her in six months she'll be a sex kitten in the bedroom overnight? You know that's not true. She's already decided you're a beta; the only question is does she want to be tied down to a beta the rest of her life (or, more likely, tied down long enough to have a couple of kids then divorce you). It is incredibly difficult to change a woman's opinion of you once she's decided you're a beta. 9 times … | /r/askMRP | 16/11/15 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Book Review: "First Kill All the Marriage Counselors" by Laura Doyle (author of "The Surrendered Wife")Hence why it's compatible with feminism if you're doing it "for yourself". It's a baby-step - test the waters, if you like - to see if they can get away with it. That would be absolutely hilarious, though, wouldn't it? Twenty years from now a new book comes out and it immediately becomes a bestseller, hyped up by feminists everywhere as the answer to all their prayers and it basically says "Be feminine". | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/11/15 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Is this girl who I banged, trying to make me a beta orbiter?No, she's trying to tell you she's not interested in a relationship or a FWB situation. The only person who can make you a beta orbiter is you. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Is this girl who I banged, trying to make me a beta orbiter?Except being a little pissed off that I'm not getting sex. She can smell that a mile off, no matter how good you think you're hiding it. It smells of desperation. Like /u/stories_of_red said, move on. If she's interested, she'll chase soon enough. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 07:41 PM |
| 3 | The ignore game? How do you handle when she ignores you?(I want you to imagine you're watching a documentary filmed in your house. It is narrated by David Attenborough.) And here we have Homo Henpeckidus. This chap's forgotten to take out the rubbish for two days - and his wife is not impressed. Note how the female responds to this simple mistake: I missed 2 days and she freaked. "I don't trust you." "You can't even handle taking out the trash." A classic shit test. She could have mentioned it like an adult, but she didn't. She chose to fly off the h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Book Review: "First Kill All the Marriage Counselors" by Laura Doyle (author of "The Surrendered Wife")Might not be as far coming as you think. I'm starting to see hints - just hints, you understand - of self-confessed feminists deciding that it's perfectly okay to be a feminine woman - in fact, it's perfectly compatible with feminist ideology - but only on condition that you're doing it of your own volition "for yourself". | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 07:22 PM |
| 4 | A beta and a rapistRemember every time you fucked your wife after you showed low value behaviour, she’s going to feel like shit. In some case she’s going to feel like she’s been raped. And this, gentlemen, is how women decide they've been raped after what the man thought was consensual sex. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/15 09:24 PM |
| 1 | So she filed for divorceAs others have said, get yourself a lawyer, particularly if there are kids involved. Otherwise you're just begging to be screwed. The dear sweet girl you fell in love with doesn't exist any more; her body's still there but her mind is no longer dear or sweet. Even if the initial split was relatively amicable, she's going to be speaking to lawyers and to divorced friends, and they'll all say the same thing: You're cutting this man out of your life and you want the bare minimum to do with him from… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/11/15 09:10 PM |
| 3 | So she filed for divorceSounds like you're in a stronger position than you give yourself credit. Negatives: You are going through a divorce. Positives: You know why you are going through a divorce. Thousands of men find themselves in your position every year; most never have the slightest inkling as to where they went wrong. You, however, do. Which puts you in a fantastically strong position. Personally, I'd exploit it for all it's worth. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/10/15 10:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Shutting down a girls weekend and being totally OI about it.Vitally important you internalise that. As soon as you're DEER'ing, you're in someone else's frame. You're conceding that they may have a point. Really what you should be doing is ignoring them entirely and pressing on regardless. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/10/15 10:40 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] How much does amazing sex impact a girl's view on a man? If a man is low value or beta, will she respect him and want commitment if the sex is the best she's ever had?Nope. Basic RP theory says this is impossible for a couple of reasons: Women are sexually passive; they get turned on by a man who is high value and turned off by a man who is low value. It follows that she won't want to have sex with a man who's too low value to push her buttons. She may enjoy the experience if he's able to persuade her he's worth jumping into bed with, but it won't last. Women are looking for the whole package. The looks, the muscles, the personality, the income (both current … | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Gatekeeper questionI suspect - but I have no proof, it's only a sneaking suspicion brewing in my mind - that divorce spreads like a virus. One woman divorces her husband for whatever reason. Maybe it's infidelity, maybe she's finally sick of him being a career beta. Anyhow, she does this, and obviously she stays in touch with her friends (who are all married) while she's doing it. To a woman, they all notice the same thing: He moves out. She stays where she is. He winds up paying for her mortgage/rent. She keeps t… | /r/askMRP | 17/10/15 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Do you regret getting married?I'm practically a career beta. And yes, I do regret marrying. If I could go back in time, I would go back to when I was 15 and still in school. I'd act as my own mentor. I'd tell myself to get over my collection of one-itis-is (who were invariably either way out of my league or simply not interested), and point out all the girls who were flirting with me like their lives depended on it (which there was never any shortage of, dammit!). I'd explain that there's no harm in having a sniff around the… | /r/askMRP | 17/10/15 08:00 PM |
| 5 | Shit tests keep failingThere's lots of ways to answer shit tests. If you rely too heavily on any one way, it will lose effectiveness. There's an "Idiot's guide to Shit Tests" on the main RP sidebar: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/22qnmk/newbies_read_this_the_definitive_guide_to_shit/ HAVING SAID THAT: Read WISNIFG. It's chock-full of techniques you can use to deal with argumentative, manipulative people. You didn't A&A sufficiently. The whole point is you agree first: "You're right, dear, I did take a lo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/15 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Just an observation: All of Taylor Swift's songs pretty much reflect the ultimate Female fantasy and a lot of TRP truths.Megan trainer is the archetypal modern woman. "You need to be Mr. Perfect before I'll go within a mile of you. But I'm not expected to bring anything to the relationship." | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 10:50 AM |
| 4 | Just an observation: All of Taylor Swift's songs pretty much reflect the ultimate Female fantasy and a lot of TRP truths.Taylor Swift's not the only singer making social commentary like this, though she does it very well. It's been going on for decades, and more often than not it's women singing these songs. "All I wanna do is make love to you", Heart: My BB is firing blanks. You look like you've got good genetics, you can be the biological dad. "Special", Garbage: You used to be all right; since you've beta-d up I despise you. "U + Ur Hand", Pink: You, pal, are blatantly a wannabe-alpha. Fuck off and masturbate i… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 04:19 PM |
| 2 | CliffNotes version of WISNIFG?He's not; you are. Now, I grant you that some of the RP literature is heavy going and could benefit from professional editing. But very, very few bits of RP praxeology would benefit from being summarised. Most of them would lose so much vital detail that the summarising process would do more harm than good. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/15 08:36 PM |
| -1 | CliffNotes version of WISNIFG?I disagree. I think there is so much to understand and internalise that any attempt to summarise it would by necessity omit vital detail. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/15 08:33 PM |
| 2 | I was horrified when I first learned about this community/concept......and then I realized you are absolutely right!That's because RP praxeology is not something you can understand in a 3 minute browse of the sub. Do that, and you're going to get completely the wrong end of the stick. Which is exactly what happens when all the white knights bang on about us being woman haters. We're not - quite the reverse - but if you spent 3 minutes quickly browsing the sub you'd see so many men still in the anger stage that you'd assume it was a sub for men to vent about what terrible people women are. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Not Applying Anything?Right, well in that case, you're just plain lazy. Get off your arse. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 06:27 PM |
| 3 | CliffNotes version of WISNIFG?This one comes up so often it really should be in the FAQ. RP is a fairly complete praxeology covering human relationships, particularly inter-gender relationships. It is big, it is hairy, it is complicated. It is basically a female yeti on her period. It is everything your dad should have taught you from the age of about 7 or 8 onward. For 90% of the men in here, he didn't. (The other 10% he did, but they forgot most of it. It doesn't sound like you're one of them). There are no shortcuts, no e… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/10/15 06:26 PM |
| 2 | All Men Must Have A Purpose, Even If That Purpose Is Becoming a Mass MurdererBoys raised by single mothers are starting deep in the hole. Yup. My parents divorced when I was 11; I'm in my 30s and having a hellish time sorting myself out. But at least I can see a way out. My brother is seven years younger. He was four. He is the stereotypical white knight - morbidly obese, puts women on a pedestal, has a chinstrap beard, I have a terrible suspicion he's still a virgin in his late 20s. Hell, he even asked me to buy him a fedora for Christmas a couple of years ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 07:29 PM |
| 10 | All Men Must Have A Purpose, Even If That Purpose Is Becoming a Mass MurdererGay men have been calling women on their shit for centuries. And like the breaking of a new dawn, I suddenly realised. This is why women so often love gay men. A gay man won't put her on a pedestal in the hope of fucking her. A gay man won't sniff her farts and tell her they smell of roses. A gay man won't mentally filter every word he says for fear of putting her off having sex with him. All that shit bores the hell out of her. She gets it from virtually every man she sees, it's dull. A gay man… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Not Applying Anything?TRP doesn't just try to change your body, it also tries to change your personality. Well and good, but past your teens, this is phenomenally difficult. You simply can't do it overnight; you've spent 20+ years becoming who you are. You might be able to put a few things into practise every now and again when you remember, but for the changes advocated by RP philosophy to become habit, this takes a long time to sink in. Personally, I find it helps to force myself NOT to make a knee-jerk reaction to… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/15 08:50 PM |
| 0 | NMMNG is giving me dissonance.There's no harm in letting the things that upset you out. BUT... you do not, ever, under any circumstances, let them out to your wife. She is your wife, not your therapist, and while she will make cooing "you can tell me anything" noises, she says this because society says she should, not because she honestly thinks it. | /r/askMRP | 06/10/15 08:40 PM |
| 4 | Ignore complaining?Women solve their problems completely differently to how men do. Most women will talk something over but - and this part is incredibly difficult for most men to understand - they're doing this to try and get their thoughts in order rather than to ask advice. They don't want advice, they just want somebody to nod and coo sympathetically occasionally. The upshot is that her man will wind up being on the receiving end of a never-ending barrage of petty shit, a sort of stream of consciousness that o… | /r/askMRP | 06/10/15 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Women Have Dating/Sex Problems Too. They're Just Not YOUR Problems.Maybe. But in most Western countries, "average" these days doesn't just mean "a weak physique with no visible muscles". It means "a weak physique with no visible muscles and at least 3 stone (42lb) of excess fat". I'm hazarding a guess here as I've never really spent time in an unstable society, but I imagine there are relatively few men in such societies - however betafied - who could do with going on a crash diet. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Women Have Dating/Sex Problems Too. They're Just Not YOUR Problems.It's worth noting here that "beta" in the context of an unstable society does not mean "overweight with no muscles", because such a man cannot offer the safety bit. It follows, therefore, that letting yourself go to the point of being overweight with no muscles isn't beta behaviour. It's omega. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 09:45 AM |
| 1 | I'm in an LTR, don't want to cheat but i want to work on my gameThe only person stopping you doing that is you. Restaurants are really, really easy because you're already there in a relaxed social situation. I was at a restaurant a few months ago, made a suggestive comment to the cute waitress and in the background I could hear my wife starting a typical whiny "shut up jcrpta"-type moan to bring me into line. She cut it immediately when the waitress giggled and was charming the rest of the evening. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/15 06:47 AM |
| 2 | How do you handle a lazy wife?I'm sure she knows I'm not leaving. There's a number of issues going on here. If you're not prepared to walk out - and I mean literally perfectly prepared to make arrangements right now to get out, not just "very unhappy" - then you've just taken the strongest threat you can make off the table. Why the hell would you do that when you're this unhappy? Dread doesn't have to be "Get your act together or I'm off". In fact, you're better off if it isn't - threats like this are crude, ineffective, ten… | /r/askMRP | 28/09/15 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Wife [31F] hates my [30M] parents. Doesn't talk to them for 2 years. Flips the shit anytime the topic is about her mother in law.I thought the RP way of not giving in, meant arguing it out. We've all made mistakes early in our learning. This is yours. Hint: RP does not mean being an argumentative so-and-so. It means knowing how to diffuse arguments rather than escalating them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/09/15 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Wife [31F] hates my [30M] parents. Doesn't talk to them for 2 years. Flips the shit anytime the topic is about her mother in law.Come on, we get the odd moron on here. Mercifully, the response is usually fairly robust. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/09/15 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Wife [31F] hates my [30M] parents. Doesn't talk to them for 2 years. Flips the shit anytime the topic is about her mother in law.I hoped to avoid reading, since I have enough business materials to go through, but I think I do indeed need it. With what should I start? Dear God, man. Right, let's get a couple of things straight: Shit tests are one of the biggest things we have to learn to deal with. You, my friend, are still failing them with a vengeance. Your marriage will continue to suck until such time as you learn to recognise them and deal appropriately. I'm not going to give you a potted explanation of everything you… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/09/15 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with rude behavior from wife.If you ever figure this out, tell me how, because my wife is exactly the same. She is physically incapable of holding down a civil conversation when she gets like that; the best solution I have so far is just to put the phone down on her or walk out of the room. Which shuts her up, but is invariably hamstered as me "flouncing off". | /r/askMRP | 18/09/15 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Stop muttering.I'm less bothered about talking to myself if I'm alone in the car. But the throwaway, passive-aggressive "...perhaps you didn't want me to hear" was a big wake-up call. It tells me that I haven't even identified all the beta shit I'm still doing. On the plus side, I have noticed that when I take definitive action and STFU, on the whole I see better results and have more positive interactions with other people. People simply do not respond terribly well to a miserable whinging auld bugger, which … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/15 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Stop muttering.They'll pick that habit up too. Cut it out, for their sake. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/15 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Stop muttering.This was at work, rather than at home, so repeating myself more loudly was more appropriate than treating it as a shit test. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/09/15 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Women don't care about men's interests and preferences at a fundamental neurological level to the point where it can be called a disabilityI agree broadly with your thesis, but your evidence is flimsy. You aren't someone who's discovered some amazing new truth, you are a butthurt little kid who's decided to ascribe some tiny little mistake that anyone could have made to "AWALT!!11oneone hey aren't I clever guys?!". Wannabe RP flimsy shit like this is precisely why RP is so looked down upon; the only correct response to this is "go back and read the sidebar. Twice. Then think about what you've done." | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Why sexbots won't be made illegal no matter how hard feminists try.You're on here. It follows that you are almost certainly trying to do something about your success rate with women. Sure, you might not be in the top 20% of men SMV-wise, but you're probably not in the bottom 20% either. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 06:41 PM |
| 3 | How to bring up my RP ideology to the family?She understands the importance of setting boundaries and eliminating covert contracts. She probably sees through men who don't do this all the damn time. But few women hold such a qualification. Their feels say you're wrong and must be shamed, you're therefore wrong and must be shamed. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/09/15 06:37 PM |
| 2 | How to bring up my RP ideology to the family?Agree entirely. You can tell the world that you're a thoroughbred alpha who won't entertain covert contracts and will establish boundaries OR you can be that alpha. But you can't do both; as soon as you discuss it you're effectively implying that it might be open to discussion. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/09/15 06:35 PM |
| 3 | How to bring up my RP ideology to the family?Don't. In fact, if you're even thinking about it, I wonder if you've understood quite how deep the rabbit hole goes. Women naturally understand RP theories perfectly well. They are also fully aware that 80% of men do not, and 80% of men have swallowed the feminist lies hook, line and sinker. You'd think they'd be delighted to find a man who has finally got the idea and openly admits to it. Not so. See, they're wanting a man who is naturally an alpha to father those babies. Not a recovering beta.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/15 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Why sexbots won't be made illegal no matter how hard feminists try.Yeah. But these guys can just go fuck a quality prostitute for that amount of cash. Or get a sugar baby. On the whole, they can't. Reason? Oneitis. Oneitis for someone they've only ever orbited. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Let's make sure I understand thisGotcha. In that case, I would say you've pretty well summed up TRP in a nutshell. The angry posts you see on /r/theredpill are the result of men who have misunderstood society's mantra of "Be happy with who you are. If people don't like you that's their problem" to mean "Why should you put any effort into improving yourself?". Our theoretical man has spent maybe a couple of weeks trying out some of the more basic RP ideas and is seeing results almost immediately. Suddenly, the scales fall from h… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/15 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Don't Talk or Write, but rather - DO.Very true. I'd forgotten this lately and slipped back into talking through basic household chores with my wife - and then got wound up when it ultimately became "anything we like as long as we do it her way" (which, considering "her way" has been known to take several years for something that should be resolvable in twenty minutes, can be more than a little frustrating). I snapped this morning and simply ignored her. Did it my way instead. Did she get upset? No, actually. She was absolutely fine… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/09/15 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Let's make sure I understand thisYou were doing so well until you got to the last point: At this point you've made it? Yes, but that doesn't mean you can afford to lie back and relax. Do that, and you will ultimately descend into beta ways and we'll find you on /r/marriedredpill ten years from now. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/15 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Woman accuses bar employee of raping her. Video shows them dancing and going to the bathroom together. Video also shows her smiling with friends after the 'attack'.With how many of these "victim" claims make to the the news, I'm sure the police are hearing about an order of magnitude more. I'm absolutely certain of it. It would explain perfectly why the feminist media bangs on about how women are frequently not believed when they make rape allegations. I wonder how many men are walking around totally unaware that their life has been saved by a savvy police officer who took a girls' statement and was mentally filing it in the bin before she'd even finished … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Hot Co-worker Trying to Ruin My MarriageYou are exactly the sort of person I was talking about when I wrote this: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3j399t/a_message_to_newbies/ TL;DR: You cannot fix years of fuckups in a few weeks, or even a couple of months. Every single one of us has read a couple of the books, jumped in with both feet and promptly screwed up in one way or another. We see it over and over again on here. Screwing up the way you did is unusual, but not inconceivable. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/09/15 07:49 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with misbehaving 2-year old & contrary wife in restaurantGood to see I'm not alone. My wife is exactly the same - so much so that when we went into town together last weekend (something I can seldom be bothered with), she expressed astonishment at how quickly we were done. Put simply, I don't fuck around. She does. I learned a long time ago that there are some things that are worth fighting over (because it WILL turn into a fight; she has no concept in her head that she is doing anything wrong and will interpret your criticism, no matter how cleverly … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/09/15 09:49 PM |
| 3 | On the very liberal Quora site, we have a Red Pill discoveryI'm not sure I entirely agree with this. Think back to when you were in your teens - practically all teenage boys are horny buggers. Girls, I have no doubt, figure out very early on - probably long before they're even 14, 15 years old - that the "nice" boys are just as horny as all the others; they're just hiding it as a form of sexual strategy. And if the boy is lying (albeit by omission) about his interest, what else is he lying about? "Sure babe, I'll wear a condom"? "I'll pull out"? If you r… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/09/15 03:44 PM |
| 2 | [Noob] shit tests in the kitchenThere are many ways to deal with every shit test. Here's the important point: Choose the wrong way, and you fail the test. Choose the same way every time, and you fail the test. There is, however, little harm in switching tactic if the first one you try doesn't work. The basic stock responses are: Agree and amplify to absurdity. This might work quite well here. "Oh, my dear princess. How will you ever manage when your husband cannot even be trusted to scrub a pan?! Oh, woe woe woe!" Change the s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/09/15 08:13 PM |
| 1 | My mission to leave the friendzoneYou have serious one-itis for this girl. She is keeping you around as an orbiter, and if you can't see this you are still very much plugged in. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/15 07:19 PM |
| 1 | A disposable maleI'm pretty sure I'm her beta and she's just here for the security. Welcome to my world! You can cajole, you can beg, you can threat - you probably did all that and more in your more beta days - and she'll do damn all. Why would she? You've been hanging around for 29 years despite the status quo! You want to see sparks? Threaten to cut off the cashflow. | /r/askMRP | 01/09/15 07:14 PM |
| 1 | A message to newbiesYep, I get that entirely. To be perfectly honest, I didn't write this for the benefit of the men who were able to fix things up in a couple of months. Those guys are okay; they'll read a few things here, realise immediately where they have been going wrong and they'll have broken the back of their issues in a few months, tops. I wrote it for the benefit of men like this chap here: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3j399t/a_message_to_newbies/cum0ydb If this chap sees nothing but p… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/09/15 07:05 PM |
| 2 | A message to newbiesThat sort of post was one of the reasons why I wrote this. "Instant success" may well be possible for some guys who were never that far behind where they needed to be in the first place. For the rest of us, it's a complete impossibility and just makes us think we're doing something horribly wrong. We're not; we just happen to be so far gone that we're practically over the horizon and even going full pelt, it's going to take some time to turn the ship around and get back to land. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/15 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Wife has past sexual issues that impacts the results of MRP25 years! Strewth. Your wife is a very patient woman to have hung around that long; either that or you've only really let yourself go relatively recently. Do you have (or have you ever had) a dog? | /r/askMRP | 30/08/15 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Wife has past sexual issues that impacts the results of MRPNotwithstanding physical issues (many drugs can hammer female sex drive), your very tone suggests to me that you're still thinking about it backwards. You have in your head a covert contract that says "if I MAP enough, she'll have sex with me". This manifests in you wanting to point her at a book or a blog that explains what you're doing. It's a way to try and make the covert contract ever-so-slightly-less covert, while still very much keeping the contract part of it in play. There's only one pr… | /r/askMRP | 30/08/15 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Wife wants me to wear a condomIf you were Chad Thundercock when your current relationship started, that's probably right. If you are a second-generation career beta, it's probably a tad optimistic. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/15 09:40 AM |
| 1 | [Early phase] Negotiating sex?Doesn't surprise me in the slightest. I tried explaining to my wife that was all she needed to do way back in earlier times (I've more-or-less given up now; her hamster has far too many ways to pretend to have sex without actually having sex). Anyone would think I was suggesting she do a triathlon every evening before bed. | /r/askMRP | 27/08/15 06:22 PM |
| 8 | The Unknowing Chad."Why did you come to my house? Why didn't you text me first? My husband's gonna kill me!" Ah, so now she's cheating on her husband and she wants to make it somehow your fault. Hamsters gonna hamst.... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/15 06:18 PM |
| 5 | Wife wants me to wear a condomThe last three months I have slowly started changing. There's your problem. Your wife will take a few months to notice your changes. And she won't notice them until they're staring her so hard in the face that every other woman you meet on a daily basis is noticing them too. Reports on here vary for how long it can take, but a year of self-improvement is not unusual - and if you're a career beta it can take longer. | /r/askMRP | 27/08/15 06:13 PM |
| 1 | NMMNG - "coming out"Welcome. You are going to have a lot of questions, a lot of things you don't understand and - likely as not - a lot of anger over the coming months. All of these things are perfectly natural; we've all been there. This is a marathon, not a sprint, and you won't solve all of these issues overnight - it can take well over a year to get over the worst of it. But you'll get there. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/15 06:34 PM |
| 2 | What is fog/fogging?Have you read WISNIFG? Do so. It can explain this much better than I. | /r/askMRP | 25/08/15 10:42 AM |
| 9 | What is fog/fogging?"Fogging" is basically agreeing with everything the other person says. You use it when someone is picking a fight by accusing you of things that they'd expect you to get defensive over. It stops them in their tracks because it's impossible to pick a fight with someone who agrees with everything you say; it's like punching fog. (It's also absolutely hilarious the first few times you use it with a partner who's always been able to wind you up like that before. She can't very well demand you get up… | /r/askMRP | 24/08/15 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Career Beta Success Stories?Found the RP in Athol Kay's books around Christmas 2013. I was in a pretty bad place - frustrated, I think, would be the best word. I felt like a servant in my own home; not only was sex rare, my wife wouldn't even cook dinner without a huge fight. [For the record, I am not suggesting that I got married so I would never have to cook again; I actually enjoy cooking. But that doesn't mean I want to prepare every meal in the house 7 days a week, 365 days a year, which is basically what was happenin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/15 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Some doubts going into my MAPI've realized I'm already at least a couple of SMV points (if not more) above my wife. Men are simple creatures. A reasonable body and a personality that doesn't leave us wanting to commit murder and we're ready to go down on one knee. Women are much more complex. They want the whole package. They're prepared to make compromises - they pretty much have to - but if you want an example of the ideal man, you probably need to be looking at someone like David Beckham. Good looking, fit, stupidly high… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | An article states im AbusiveWhen you go Red Pill on your wife, divorce is a very real possibility. You don't go all Red Pill to try to save your marriage. You do it to save yourself. To have a chance at real happiness. Your wife can choose to be a source of happiness in your life, or she can choose otherwise, but you don't have a lot of room in your life for people who don't add to it. That right there is sidebar material. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/15 06:43 PM |
| 6 | [FR] First time ever... Thank you MRP.Yep. It's a little more subtle in our household, but the cues are there if you know where to look. My wife measures her weight in metric, I use imperial. We have a digital bathroom scale that requires flicking a switch to change units. The last few weeks, I've gone to weigh myself and got a result in kg. That can mean only one thing: she used it last. That never happened in the first few months of my diet. Lately, however, it's been a fairly regular occurrence. I don't think that's a coincidence… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/15 06:35 PM |
| 1 | AWALT is making my female cousin sad and she doesn't know whyShe's wholly and exclusively reactive, and refuses anything but one position. Having said that: On top of the aspergers she has a physical condition (which I won't name here because the two together would probably identify her) that makes a lot of movement uncomfortable. So there's a practical problem there. Since I've been losing weight and improving myself, she's slowly coming around and working on her own issues (which she's never open voiced, but there are enough subtle cues that I can tell)… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Abandoning my most consistent "friend"/confidantI realised I was that friend. I'm finding it easier as I grow into a greater understanding; the problem is I took (still do, though not as much) myself far too seriously. This might go some way to explain why I always found it hard to form friendships. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/15 06:13 PM |
| 2 | AWALT is making my female cousin sad and she doesn't know whyDon't worry about it. Part of the reason I hang out on this sub is because hearing things that challenge me is better for me as a person. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 03:06 PM |
| 2 | AWALT is making my female cousin sad and she doesn't know whyI'm a little older than most of Reddit's demographic. So I've probably seen a bit more. What I can say is I dearly wish I'd learned all this twenty years ago. It would have been a real help back in school to have this resource as a sort of virtual mentor, if you like. Ah well. Too late now. Would be ten times more annoying to learn it in my fifties. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 02:50 PM |
| 3 | AWALT is making my female cousin sad and she doesn't know whyI'd wondered before I die, how I'd keep my family and friends from falling apart, at least when you die, you won't have the worry you're ruining her life, Shit. I never thought of it like that. I don't necessarily want my wife completely losing it when I die, but it'd be nice to think I'd be at least missed. Not have her think "damn, that's annoying, I needed someone to put the bins out" then get on with her life. Which is basically what would happen now. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 02:44 PM |
| 7 | AWALT is making my female cousin sad and she doesn't know whyIf she has no feelz then what are you doing to keep the relationship stable? That's the thing. I don't need to do anything. She's perfectly happy in the most boring relationship in the world. Others on here might talk about women getting bored with a stable relationship; this woman positively loves a stable relationship. She just doesn't love it sexually. What is some of the most frigid acts she's dished out? It is incredibly difficult to flirt with someone who simply doesn't respond to anything… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 09:14 PM |
| 7 | AWALT is making my female cousin sad and she doesn't know whyI appreciate your attempt at tough love, and I know you are quite correct. What I haven't said - what I can't really say without writing a book - is that when I started learning all this, I was in probably the worst place possible. I had a list of issues about a mile long. So much so that it's not physically possible to do them all at once. I will get there. But it'll take a while. Doesn't bother me. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 08:59 PM |
| 2 | AWALT is making my female cousin sad and she doesn't know whyBe very, very careful my friend. The big hint with my wife is that (I don't know if it's still a problem; she was never aware she did it herself and I haven't had a chance to ask someone who doesn't know her well lately) she could never look someone in the eye until she'd got to know them well. Before she'd got to that point, if you tried holding a conversation with her she'd look just past you. Every time. I never really thought anything of it; in retrospect that was a mistake. I can look past … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 07:58 PM |
| 5 | AWALT is making my female cousin sad and she doesn't know whyI refer the honourable gentleman to my reply elsewhere: But I know for a fact that if I divorce her without working on myself, I'll wind up in some shitty bachelor pad living on pizza, weighing 280lb and becoming involuntarily celibate. I'll give up on shaving (and I don't have the face to get away with the designer stubble look; I'm too clean-cut) and wear a fedora. There's more than a glimmer of truth to this statement. I was already 80% of the way there; I was well over 15 stone (which is 210… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 07:56 PM |
| 26 | AWALT is making my female cousin sad and she doesn't know whyHonestly? I am (well, was. I'm working on it!) as beta as they come. Second-generation beta, if you like. So much so that I'm almost embarrassed to admit how I wound up where I am. The trigger for me marrying her wasn't because I was madly in love. It was a combination of two things: The girl I'd fancied when I was a teenager got married. (Facebook is great for stalking these girls!). Brought home the fact I'd never get with her. (FWIW, I was 30 at the time and hadn't spoken to her in 15 years. … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is in trouble, ready to leave, need a crash course to handle a big talk tomorrow.Look at it this way: You have nothing to lose. Your marriage is already in the shitter; divorce is going to be expensive and a hassle whichever way you cut it. I bet you've tried talking it over many times already. How many times has that achieved what you wanted? I'd hazard a guess that the answer to this is "none". RP theory has a simple thing to say about where you are now. Dump her and find someone else, and you'll be in the exact same position sooner rather than later. It also says that if … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/08/15 07:15 PM |
| 18 | AWALT is making my female cousin sad and she doesn't know whyYou are so right. My own mum is a very headstrong woman. She married my dad (who was a very weak-willed man), presumably thinking she'd enjoy being with a man she could walk all over. Needless to say, that didn't work out. After they divorced, I'm thinking back to the other men in her life. Two in particular stand out. One chased after her like a puppy. She had no interest in him whatsoever, and in fact openly used him to the point where she'd encourage me to call him up and ask him to come over… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 07:06 PM |
| 31 | AWALT is making my female cousin sad and she doesn't know whyI think most men think they essentially want "a man in a womans body". My wife has aspergers. Emtionally, she's as cold as they come. Most men hear this and think it means "frigid". Well, that's not entirely true, but it does mean "affection" and "attention" as far as she's concerned are words in roughly the same part of the dictionary. You do NOT want this. In fact, if you ever find yourself involved with such a woman, run away as fast as you can in the opposite direction, screaming like a litt… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 06:46 PM |
| 22 | AWALT is making my female cousin sad and she doesn't know whyShe wants an alpha to pass on his good genes. Which might not be so easy to find when she's a 7. And when was the last time a woman said to another lonely woman "What would you bring to such a relationship?" | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.They are if you use them right - pinch out the air, hold it as you pull out (which you do as soon as you've finished), don't put your cock near her until it's covered, don't use fingernails to open the packaging. Lots of people don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.A contract - any contract, no matter how cleverly worded - can be rewritten or torn up at the whim of a judge. Doesn't matter how many clauses you put in that basically say "No backsies!" - for all practical purposes, that's exactly what happened here. That's why I was thinking a clause that explicitly accounts for kids. I've heard of similar things going into a will to drive home the message: "Yes, I have thought of this eventuality and here are the terms"; I was wondering if it could be used t… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 09:37 PM |
| 13 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.Oh, they'll get the kids all right. Same way women have always got the kids. "Forget" to take the pill and/or go fuck Chad without protection while making sure to use protection with Dave the Provider. "Oh, I'm pregnant! Damn, condom must have failed!" (meanwhile, Dave is thinking to himself "strange, I check it every time.....") | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 06:23 PM |
| 11 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.Doesn't matter two hoots. Her argument was "he agreed verbally we'd throw it out if/when we had kids". Myself, I'm wondering if it would have made more sense to account for any children in the pre-nup itself. A clause, if you like, that says "this is how much you'll get if there are children". It'd be a lot harder to claim such an agreement existed when the contract plans for such an event, but IANAL. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 06:15 PM |
| 2 | How to reduce hostility towards women caused by a lack of success?I feel you, the anger phase lasts far beyond people thing it does. You see the problem with the fantasy, and it disgusts you. This. You are still in the anger stage. There's nothing wrong with this; it's perfectly natural. About all you can do is grind through it, until you've come to accept women for what they are, they'll be able to tell there's something not quite right from a mile off - it's something women are naturally extremely good at and one of the big reasons that shit tests exist. I c… | /r/becomeaman | 10/08/15 06:02 PM |
| 1 | If given the chance, post-TRP, would you "get with" your oneitis?We're married, and have been together over 15 years. So it's not an easy question to answer. I think it depends on where we were in the relationship when I unplugged. 6 months before we met? No chance. I was a university student; I'd be taking my new-found knowledge and nailing anything that walked. Right at the beginning? Might have given her a chance, but I'd have known to shut down any shit before it became too much. When things first started to go south and I was at my worst? Absolutely not.… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/15 01:50 PM |
| 1 | MRP updates..roughly 2 months inHobbies are actually the hardest part. Between work, kids, and keeping the house running, there honestly isn't much extra time. That is the exact problem I face. Between a 75-minute long drive to/from work, by the time I get home I'm barely sane enough to remember my own name. Taking time out for hobbies is very difficult. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/08/15 01:21 PM |
| 6 | [Theory] How to build your road to safetyI never understood what women meant when their stock response when asked about hair/makeup/clothing was "I'm not doing it for some man, I'm doing it for me." Now I do. That sentence is shorthand; what it actually means is "Of course I'm doing it to improve my chances with some man. I may or may not have a specific man in mind, but it certainly isn't you." I see RP philosophy as exactly the same thing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/08/15 07:14 AM |
| 6 | Here's why I'm getting annoyed with marriage (and the Captain analogy is flawed)The exact branch of the military is neither here nor there; the point is that once one reaches the position of captain of a ship (which is only going to happen with a great deal of training and a certain degree of innate ability) there is an entire culture which ensures that - short of the captain proving himself to be amazingly damn stupid - his word is law. The first officer doesn't need to be constantly reminded who's the boss because that's intrinsic to the role. None of that's the case in m… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/07/15 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Recently called the cops on an exMy GF is older, insanely rich gets whatever she wants (works hard though for her dad's company) but wants to marry me. She wants what she doesn't already have. She doesn't need to worry about finding a beta have babies with; there's more than enough family money to cover that. Which means she can concentrate more-or-less exclusively on the alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 12:34 PM |
| 16 | I'm in the bottom of the social hiearchy, how do i change this?To those people, you will always be the kid they bullied in school. Very little will change that. So, rather than trying to be a big fish in a small pond, I would suggest you get out. See the world. After that, if you go back you're the interesting bloke who's been all over the world. And if you don't? No biggie. | /r/becomeaman | 26/07/15 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Well fellas, I might have been way too late for MRP...Sounds like you're making the exact same mistake I did starting out. You're interpreting "don't take shit from her" to mean "remain calm and give a firm, no-nonsense answer to everything that comes your way". As you've found, this is phenomenally difficult to keep up and sooner or later comes across as petty and pissy. There are many strategies to dealing with her shit, and it is a mistake to rely too heavily on just one of them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/07/15 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with BBs. Now it's affecting our marriage.It's said that money fights and money problems are the leading cause of divorce. (MRP theory may dispute that, of course.) MRP looks at the underlying cause. Wild speculation, but I'd imagine money fights are much less common in marriages where the woman isn't pushing her husband to keep up with the Jones' every day. Superficially, yes they did divorce over money fights. But scratch beneath the surface, and the money fights happened because hubby didn't shoot that shit down the minute it came up… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/07/15 08:21 PM |
| 7 | This is the future you chose male feminists - stay at home dad is cucked and terms it as enlightenment.Your daughter learns that behaving like this is perfectly acceptable? GREAT! Your son learns that he should accept this behaviour? WONDERFUL. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2015The diet is going well, overall. I'm well over half-way to my target weight, and you can make out the shape of my body under the fat in places. Nowhere near where I need to be, but I'm getting there. Frame control, however, is poor at best. Partly this is because my wife has the most amazing nuclear-powered hamster which will spin my actions in the worst way possible. Ultimately, however, her hamster is so strong because I've allowed things to fester for many years; I still lose frame far too of… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/15 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Does being alpha really mean anything other than being good-looking?Being good looking isn't the be-all and end-all. It helps, because people are naturally drawn to attractive people and so you wind up with a self-fulfilling prophecy. Someone good-looking is used to having people hang off his/her every word, and so their interactions are invariably based on a self-assurance that everyone will look up to them. Now, human interaction is a strange animal. In a given situation, people behave the way they have been socially conditioned to behave. This is how people b… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/15 09:19 PM |
| 6 | BBC reports David Cameron is ready to "tackle gender pay gap" by "pressuring firms into boosting women's wages". Public comment section absolutely rejects gender gap as myth.Can you honestly see a man jumping to the conclusion that his application's been rejected because he's a man and suing them? Or a female recruitment agent refusing to take on the assignment to find only women? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/15 09:02 PM |
| 8 | BBC reports David Cameron is ready to "tackle gender pay gap" by "pressuring firms into boosting women's wages". Public comment section absolutely rejects gender gap as myth.Not to mention, it doesn't even stand up to the slightest bit of intellectual scrutiny. Picture the scene: Hiring manager, budgets are tight this year, a man and a woman apply. Both are equally qualified and would be a good fit with the team. But I can get away with paying the woman less. Who do I hire? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/15 08:54 PM |
| 6 | Marriage Game: Why so Many Men FailIf you can count to 2,000, you can keep on top of your weight. There's even less excuse in these days of smartphones and calorie-counting apps; anyone who thinks it doesn't work is either delusional or can't count. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/07/15 07:46 PM |
| 2 | You know how I know this shit is legit? The people that attack us continually confirm what we say.Her entire argument to debunk the SMV theory was that women's fertility lasts well into their 40s/50s, which completely misses the mark as SMV has nothing to do with procreation. But it doesn't. Yes, women are physically capable of making babies well into their 40s. But female fertility isn't a simple on/off switch. After the age of 35, the ease of getting pregnant plummets and the likelihood of complications soars rapidly. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/15 09:27 PM |
| 1 | How long does it take to go from a higher Beta to lower Alpha?I saved up enough money to buy 2 rental properties. I quit my job to go back to school (short 8 week program) and am moving out of my parents house at the end of the month. Sounds like you are - or will be in fairly short order - in a reasonably good financial position. Keep it up. I have a gut, perhaps 20 pounds heavier then I'd like to be. If you're basing that on the people you see around you rather than a full-length mirror and a weighing scales, chances are you underestimate how much you ne… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | I ask a girl out, she rejects me. 6 months later, she asks me out. The tables turn.Right... but unless you're only ever-so-slightly overweight (hint: given average obesity levels in most Western nations, you're not), 20lb won't make an enormously noticeable difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/15 07:38 PM |
| 2 | I've desperately wanted a GF my whole life but honestly sex has been less of a concern for me than being accepted, appreciated, cared for, and maybe even loved. Now that I know that's all bullshit I feel lost and beyond that I fear I'm broken.Let me guess. Your dad was never a big part of your life, growing up. In fact, no adult male was; you had to learn to be a man by listening to what the women around you said they expected of one. I didn't do anything wrong and yet that means I did everything completely fucking wrong. Why did everyone lie to me? "Lie" is the wrong word, in my view. It implies some sort of malice. You were taught the ways of the world in completely the wrong way. Young men, on the whole, are simple creatures and d… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/15 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Suicidal lonely guy is frustrated by women, reaches out for help. R/AskMen decides the REAL problem is that he's a shitlord misogynist!Thank you for joining us. Let me give you a quick idiot's guide.... You're going to hear a lot of things that challenge what you thought you knew - about life, about women, about relationships (both with men and women). Rather than dismiss them out of hand, take a while to think about them. Do they make sense? Can you test them? You will become angry as a result of what you hear. This is natural, it is normal and we have all been through it. Many of us are still going through it. The purpose of … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 07:59 PM |
| 4 | Prepare for sabotage attempts & how to keep this sub up and running by reddit's new bullshit policy.Patience, young grasshopper. We will lose the best marketing machine we could ever hope for if we drop Reddit altogether. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 07:42 PM |
| 2 | A program that trained first-year female college students to avoid rape substantially lowered their risk of being sexually assaulted, researchers reported.Probably quite a few angry white knights too, I would think! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Suicidal lonely guy is frustrated by women, reaches out for help. R/AskMen decides the REAL problem is that he's a shitlord misogynist!Is it worth reaching out by PM, I wonder? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 08:29 PM |
| 6 | Suicidal lonely guy is frustrated by women, reaches out for help. R/AskMen decides the REAL problem is that he's a shitlord misogynist!Don't forget that he also manages to find the time to give her all the attention she could ever desire in between all the training he'd have to do to maintain his position. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 08:24 PM |
| 1 | A program that trained first-year female college students to avoid rape substantially lowered their risk of being sexually assaulted, researchers reported.If you count every single instance where a woman has woken up either in a strange bed or with a stranger in their bed, turned to look at their partner and thought to themselves "Jesus Christ, how drunk was I last night?!" then it's probably perfectly accurate. TBH, I suspect this is also where the old canard of women claiming they don't think they'll be believed if they go to the police comes from. I would dearly love to see an AMA by a desk sergeant at a police station - I'd like to ask him how… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 08:10 PM |
| 4 | A program that trained first-year female college students to avoid rape substantially lowered their risk of being sexually assaulted, researchers reported.Rape has been considered wrong for centuries, and yet it still happens. If "teaching people not to rape" was going to work, it would have done so by now. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 08:04 PM |
| 9 | Verify your username on PuerarchyFatpeoplehate was pretty specific and they were pretty close to brigading. Did the mods ever mention this subreddit? Thing is, FPH didn't brigade. They had rules like "don't post links, post anonymised screenshots", don't dox and these were enforced with an iron fist. FPH was squarely shut down because it said something that hurt someone's feels. Apparently in the last few weeks, it was common for something from FPH to appear on the front page - I gather there's an option mods can set to prevent… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 07:59 PM |
| 20 | Females think Owen Wilson dating 21 year old tennis star is grossFind me an HR department that isn't staffed 95% with post-wall women. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 08:05 PM |
| 7 | [META] Reddit rolls out first ban wave of "Harassing Subreddits"Why do people hate this subreddit so much anyway? Most of it is geared towards improving men's lives, which in turn makes them better prospects for women as well. The men who hang around on here are usually in a fairly desperate place (yes, that bit about what the rest of reddit says about us is true); many are still in the anger stage. The upshot is that at any given point in time, a lot of the posts on the frontpage of this sub are very much young men venting their anger. You have to dig deepe… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 08:00 PM |
| 3 | [META] Reddit rolls out first ban wave of "Harassing Subreddits"There's voat.co; a rp subreddit already exists on there: https://voat.co/v/theredpill | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 07:50 PM |
| 3 | [META] Reddit rolls out first ban wave of "Harassing Subreddits"Does Reddit's advertising platform not allow for blacklisting/whitelisting subreddits for your advert to show on? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | So, apparently, I'm the abuser.You know something? Your posts read like what you'd get with someone who's read just enough MRP text to get yourself in trouble - but hasn't internalised it enough to get out of it again. You do occasional RP things but your BSG is still sitting heavy on your shoulder, telling you to send passive-aggressive text messages in the hope that it'll somehow push your wife into improving. I'm sure you've used this passive-aggressive technique in the past, very likely with other relationships beyond jus… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/15 08:19 PM |
| 1 | What's your response to this?And, then, another part says "well, if I had just checked, myself, instead of trusting that she had been thorough..." Your wife made a mistake but has taken appropriate steps to correct it. Personally, I wouldn't offer to get it - you're sending a message that says you'll pick up the pieces if she makes a mistake. This is unrealistic - you cannot possibly do that every time - and will only cause you mental anguish. You'll blame her for the time it takes out of your day (and the petrol... you use… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/15 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Hit the Reset ButtonThere's nothing BP about solving a problem in a way that makes you both happy. Where marriages fail is when the man gets it into his head that bowing down to his wife's every whim is the best way to do that. You don't do that with a dog. You don't do that with your kids. You don't do that with your mates. You don't do that at work. So WHY THE HELL do you do it with your wife? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 06:44 PM |
| 1 | AWALTAgreed, but I think this would be better framed as a FR rather than just a PSA. An eighty word example is worth an eight hundred word "AWALT" rant. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 06:39 PM |
| 1 | If you're only reading r/marriedredpill without reading r/theredpill, you're doing it wrong.They're not stupid, they're young. The overwhelming majority, I suspect, are in their late teens. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 03:49 PM |
| 2 | the utility of having a traditional mindset on how relationships work?Of course it's correct. Here's another example: Society would have us believe that "Attraction is some strange thing that doesn't consider looks or income. When a woman loves a man, it doesn't matter what he looks like or how much he earns, she'll love him and stick with no matter what". Yet how often do you see ripped bodybuilder types or professional athletes hanging out with hamplanets? How often do you see stunningly gorgeous women shagging the fat middle-aged bloke who works behind the coun… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/15 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a bluepill white knight ("friend") constantly destroying my SMV?Crab bucket mentality. He is dragging you down, and the direction you are headed, your every interaction is going to wind up with you reframing every word out of his mouth. Walk away before it drives you mad. In five years time your set of friends will have changed so radically that losing one or two won't make much difference. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/15 01:41 PM |
| 4 | The Keyloggers: A forbidden glimpseJust to back this up: You'd think nothing of paying for a gym membership, a personal trainer, a set of weights or a squat frame. You don't intrinsically need any of these things; you'll still have a roof over your head and food in your belly whether or not you buy them. You buy them as an investment to help you become a better man. Why is a book any different? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/15 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Why men won't get married anymore: Women complain chaps today won't settle down. Sorry, ladies, but it's all your fault, argues a wickedly provocative new bookIt gets even better. He's a footballer. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Why men won't get married anymore: Women complain chaps today won't settle down. Sorry, ladies, but it's all your fault, argues a wickedly provocative new bookProbably mostly men who had a strong father figure and know how to be a man. 100, 150 years ago, far more people worked as farmers. Boys helped out on the farm when not at school, they had no shortage of male role models. Girls helped mum in the kitchen. Then, in a world fuelled by changes made possible by the Industrial Revolution, a whole new class of jobs appeared out of nowhere. The white-collar worker. This had a huge impact on family dynamics, as millions of families adopted new lifestyles… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Why men won't get married anymore: Women complain chaps today won't settle down. Sorry, ladies, but it's all your fault, argues a wickedly provocative new bookIt will take longer than you can possibly imagine to recover. Why? Simple. The impact of not having a strong male role model isn't really felt until you've grown up. And the way it manifests itself results in men who are far too spineless to ever get a serious role in politics. The rulers of today, I bet you anything you like, mostly had strong father figures. They have absolutely no idea of the damage they're doing to the boys who don't have that because neither they nor anyone in their social … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Why men won't get married anymore: Women complain chaps today won't settle down. Sorry, ladies, but it's all your fault, argues a wickedly provocative new bookThe question is, why? Save the welfare state from having to cough up. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Why men won't get married anymore: Women complain chaps today won't settle down. Sorry, ladies, but it's all your fault, argues a wickedly provocative new bookThere was a good reason for it. It was to allow married couples to retire at about the same time. Men typically marry slightly younger women. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Why men won't get married anymore: Women complain chaps today won't settle down. Sorry, ladies, but it's all your fault, argues a wickedly provocative new bookIf a publication like Daily Mail confidently ran this piece, The Daily Mail is a famously conservative paper which aims squarely at a group of people who long for the good old days when people didn't get divorced left and right. The general thrust of this article is right up their street and has been for decades. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:27 PM |
| 9 | Why men won't get married anymore: Women complain chaps today won't settle down. Sorry, ladies, but it's all your fault, argues a wickedly provocative new book"No fault" divorce laws don't mean "You can have your divorce and it does not require one of you to be at fault". They mean "No consideration is given to whose fault it is when assets are divided up". So if your wife asks for a divorce because she's been banging her personal trainer for the last six months, she still gets half your stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:22 PM |
| 13 | Why men won't get married anymore: Women complain chaps today won't settle down. Sorry, ladies, but it's all your fault, argues a wickedly provocative new bookhow a strong independent woman doesn't need her man, and how she would be just fine without him, Ah, then she won't mind if divorce laws are re-written to abolish alimony? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:19 PM |
| 2 | What's your response to this?You sound like you're relatively new at this - or if not new, then at least seeing very slow progress. Let me clue you in on a few things which I hope will speed up your comprehension: RP philosophy is a big, complex thing full of nuances and subtleties. It's mostly written about by men whose writing style is about as subtle as a 13lb lump hammer. You will misunderstand things, those misunderstandings - unless rapidly corrected - will set you back enormously. Don't be afraid to ask on here for h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/06/15 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Media interviews on MRP?The biggest issue I can think of is that if you use the term "red pill", you're going to have people googling it. And that is going to be a disaster of epic proportions. I would note that Athol Kay - the man who practically invented MRP philosophy - doesn't use the term himself! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/06/15 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Women are naturally RPI disagree. Women naturally operate with abundance mentality. Largely because - with very few exceptions - women really do have sexual opportunities in abundance. Much more so than most men. This is why being a "nice guy" is such a turnoff. Women figure out in their teens that most of these "nice guys" are only being nice to get laid; it doesn't take long for even the most stupid of women to figure out that she can take full advantage of this without ever having to fuck such a man - after all, t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/06/15 07:42 PM |
| 3 | The truth is what it is, accept that and you'll have the advantage.While I'm sure females have these traits engrained in their lizard brain, I refuse to believe that women are so weak willed that they will engage in the behaviors as much as RP would have us believe they do. The thing you have to remember is that while men are relatively straightforward in what they want - a half-decent body, willing to have sex and a personality that doesn't leave you contemplating extreme violence and we're ready to get down on one knee - women have a much more complex set of … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/06/15 05:58 PM |
| 1 | LIFT vs. don't be a fat guyThe "traditional" (if you like) way of putting on muscle is to eat lots of calories while lifting lots. The rationale is you can't put on muscle when you're on a calorie deficit. Obviously, you're going to put on some fat in the process. This is called "bulking"; when you've bulked up enough you then go on a diet to lose the fat while continuing to lift in order to maintain muscle mass (you'll lose muscle as well as fat on a diet). The losing weight part is called "cutting"; it's important to no… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/15 07:05 PM |
| 2 | When to next your wifeVery wise words. Before even thinking about divorce, take a good hard look at yourself. If you aren't fighting the girls off with a shitty stick when you're out and about, then divorcing will not lead to you spinning half-a-dozen plates within three months of moving out. It will lead to you going to bed with nothing but Youporn for company for the foreseeable future. Note that the year timetable proposed depends on you pulling out all the stops and working hard every day for a year. If you get f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/15 04:44 PM |
| 5 | TRP and my dead brother.Welcome to the world, kid. When my Dad died, my gf at the time was talking about "when I was grieving for him" only a couple of months later. She honestly had no idea I still might be. A good (male) friend of mine was frankly a hundred times better. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 09:57 PM |
| 5 | Telling A Woman You Earn More Than You Do Could Soon Be Rape (These wheels must power all of Paris)Using the word "Ungallant" here is a shaming tactic. In this context, it's not so much being used to shame Jude Law personally as it is to further cement the idea that anyone demanding a paternity test should be ashamed of themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Telling A Woman You Earn More Than You Do Could Soon Be Rape (These wheels must power all of Paris)Ah, but that's not quite what they want, is it? They want a man who's prepared to better himself - but only on condition he's doing it "for himself" (whatever that means). If he's doing it to get laid, that's not on! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Monitor her needs to get better resultsIt isn't the captain's job to make sure his first mate has a glass of water to hand - the first mate is perfectly capable of dealing with that herself. It is the captain's job to steer the ship. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/05/15 10:30 AM |
| 2 | Monitor her needs to get better resultsGo read NMMNG. Then read it again. Your entire post basically reeks of "I know why my wife refuses sex - it's because I'm not meeting her needs properly! If I do, she'll be all over me like a rash". There's a few problems here: You've created an enormous covert contract covering every aspect of your interaction with your wife. It is impossible to know and anticipate every aspect of a woman's needs in this way. You're setting yourself up to fail and you'll fall that much harder when you do. 99% o… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/05/15 10:26 AM |
| 1 | [24m] Need help in how to negotiate for a raise.Confidence will get you a long way, but it's a lot easier to be confident when: You know (and can prove - maybe with a job advert?) that you're doing work that would be paid that much more anywhere else. You can get an interview and a job with such a company. | /r/becomeaman | 25/05/15 08:46 PM |
| 4 | What if you're the bread winner?You're in the anger stage. This is perfectly normal; we've all been through it. Grit your teeth at her bullshit, lift and read. You'll come to accept it in time, though this isn't an overnight process - it takes months. Meanwhile, don't do anything you can't undo. Blowing up your marriage out of anger will only set you back. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/05/15 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Women will use any low arguing tactic, but can't take it.Better he does that here than at home. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/05/15 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Women will use any low arguing tactic, but can't take it.I immediately thought he lost his frame the second he started arguing with her. It's more-or-less impossible to maintain frame while arguing with a woman on her terms. And in any case, why would you want to do that? You won't win the argument with logic - women don't really listen to logic - and you probably can't win it on feelings because she's got a lot more experience in arguing like that than you do. Best-case scenario, she'll eventually cave and just answer everything you say with "yeah wh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/05/15 08:19 PM |
| 1 | THE WALLIME, they put the wall off, maybe for some years. But sooner or later they face the inevitable. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/15 08:30 PM |
| 1 | For all you guys that ask for advice and then get pissy, or delete your account read thisThere are some valid points here. But it you deliver criticism while sounding like an asshole, people quit listening. That's a risk we're going to have to take. The world as it is is chock-full of people who sugarcoat a harsh truth. It gets sugarcoated and sugarcoated some more and by the time you read it, the harsh truth has been diluted to homeopathic levels. We don't need that here. RP philosophy is a big, complicated enough beast that's very easy to misinterpret and misunderstand as it is - … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/15 08:15 PM |
| 3 | How do you ignore without looking butthurt?Just to give some context as to why "Agree and amplify" works: If someone is making fun of you to see what sort of a reaction you get, pretty well any other sort of reaction marks you out as being a miserable bugger. Who wants to hang out with someone who's miserable? But agree and amplify solves that on more levels than you can possibly imagine. People who are trying to get a rise out of you for their own entertainment fail miserably. It's impossible to take the piss out of someone who's doing … | /r/askTRP | 17/05/15 09:46 AM |
| 4 | Can't believe I'm even asking this question but should I fuck my boss's girlfriend?This is not a permanent job. Be that as it may, I don't care how well interviews are going, until you have an offer in writing from someone else, you're stuck with it. Chick is a slut. Has an ass that makes the potential trouble possibly worth it. So do a million other women. Her relationship with boss is essentially at an end. That's between her and your boss, nothing to do with you. If it's not me, it's going to be somebody else. Then let it be someone else. This will be one of the worst thing… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/15 09:47 PM |
| 1 | THE WALLMale SMV isn't just looks, it's a whole package deal. Facial looks, body, attitude, sense of humour, income, projected income, ability to gently but firmly discipline the kids all play into it. Many of those do tend to improve as you get a bit older, but a lot of them stay firmly where they are unless you actively do something about it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/15 06:16 PM |
| 1 | THE WALLPretty much describes my own compatriots to the letter. There will always be a few outliers who (through a combination of genetics and clean living) can put off the wall for an astonishingly long time, but the rest the rate of decline is quite remarkable. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/15 06:10 PM |
| 4 | My Wife Is An AlcoholicShe sees a counselor, but not often. The way I see that, she doesn't think that she has a problem. And if she doesn't have a problem, why would she seek help? And yeah, I know. The LAST time she got in a drunken wreck, I got sued. MY name was on the car title. Apparently, under the law, since I "let" her drive "my" car under the influence, I was liable. The only reason I have a retirement fund is that the victims failed to maintain their suit. Right... so you got lucky. If you're to continue thi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/15 06:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I reach my brother?You know something? You're quite right. I've already damaged our relationship with relatively tiny bits of what ultimately is criticism, no matter how gently I word it. The more I say, the deeper he seems to go. I think all I can do is be there if he ever tries to turn things around. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/15 05:30 PM |
| 1 | "I hope you know we aren't having sex"Ignore it. You've got the hamster spinning in a way that works in your favour, let it continue to spin. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/15 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Breaking my promise and saying no to a 3rd childI was also thinking more about the parallels of "if i do x,y,z, then she will 1,2,3". I think it's very easy to read NMMNG, see the bit about covert contracts and decide that removing the "covert" bit suddenly makes it all alright. Personally, I don't think it's that simple. Partly because I'm not convinced bargaining for sex is a particularly attractive trait, partly because I think if you go down that road, you need a hell of a good memory because you're going to get into all sorts of trouble … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/15 05:28 PM |
| 1 | THE WALLI am doing my best to bust the divorce, but she is pretty set on it. If she's already made up her mind, there's every possibility she's already eyeing someone else up, if not actively fucking him. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/15 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Breaking my promise and saying no to a 3rd childNot really covert if you openly demand it. To me, it sounds rather more like desperate bargaining. She'd have been all over him while trying to conceive then turned the sex off the minute the test came back positive. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/15 05:08 PM |
| 3 | THE WALLWhile I don't want to impose on your personal life, look out. Your wife will screw you over for child support and you're going to be getting all of the bad bits of being a dad (paying through the nose for the next eleven years) with very few of the good bits (watching her grow up). Work on your SMV like hell. Cut those calories, lift those weights, learn dread. If you can keep on top of it all (which is damn hard, but that's life), then (at least in theory) your wife will start to drop into line… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/05/15 07:06 PM |
| 1 | how to get the hambeast to lose weightNo harm in being blunt, but for God's sake don't get drawn into an argument. As soon as you do that, you're in her frame. Before you know it you're apologising and buying her a box of chocolates. As others have said, though - work on yourself first. If you could stand to lose a few pounds - then you deal with that before you even say a word to her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/05/15 06:46 PM |
| 3 | THE WALLThe girls who aren't getting married right this minute were by and large genetically blessed with good looks and clearly don't stuff themselves with pizza every night. Give them another 3-5 years. Mother Nature is a particularly cruel mistress; female fertility plummets after 35 and doesn't care how attractive you are. A few of these girls are going to be devastated when they can't get pregnant. I'm a bit older than you. In theory, I should be starting to see the divorces within the next few yea… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/05/15 06:36 PM |
| 7 | THE WALLLet me guess. The girls are marrying so quickly it'd make your head spin. A girl who was happy to bounce between boyfriends only a couple of years ago is now marrying a man within 12-18 months of meeting him. On the whole, they're marrying men a little older, and the men have a job title that reeks of stability and a good income - at least compared to their own qualifications. They'll start having babies next. Some will get pregnant almost as soon as their bloke proposes (might as well if you're… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/05/15 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Why College is not a democracyThe level of self-delusion required to truly believe and maintain a BP mindset in the face of evidence to the contrary that the world puts in front of you every day is astonishing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/05/15 06:03 PM |
| 1 | The Covert Reason Women Hate Male SpacesYou know the honest truth? I don't know how. We live separate lives now; he lives some 500 miles away so I can't exactly bang on his door every weekend. He has decided his shape is a product of society, not of his own laziness. I have no idea how I could go about dissuading him of this. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 09:48 PM |
| 2 | When a soft "fuck me or fuck you" doesn't quite workYou're taking things too fast. You can't turn around years of neglect in a few months; for an LTR like yours it's a minimum of a year before you'll see real results. Regarding "the ultimatum" - it does not mean bugger all unless and until you are actually prepared to follow through. If you are not yet prepared to either sleep in the spare room or force her into it, if you are not yet prepared to contact a divorce lawyer, if you are not yet prepared to separate your assets and go it alone, if you… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/05/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | I'll keep this short and sweet- Woman's definition of love...Smart men control violent impulses they have. Dumb men give into it and end up in prison. Very well put. Now, what do we suppose happens when a woman who's prone to outrageous shit testing finds herself in a relationship with a dumb man who doesn't know how to handle her shit tests? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 08:25 AM |
| 1 | I'll keep this short and sweet- Woman's definition of love...Thing is, she honestly believes what she says. If anything, "believes" is too weak a word. It's so core to what she is that nothing can shake that belief. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 08:23 AM |
| 1 | To gain confidence, is it OK to spend a bit of money on a date, knowing full-well that the act of spending is an outright blue-pill act?You are buying tickets to amuse yourself and bring her along for the ride You absolutely MUST internalise this. If you are entertaining any ideas of taking her out because it's a good way to get in her panties: you're still plugged in. By all means make cheeky suggestive comments - you want to get her thinking about having sex with you fairly early on in the proceedings - but don't lose sleep over it if it doesn't happen. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/15 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Shit test: only if you promise to marry meLogged in just to upvote. I would put another spin on this: What she is offering amounts to conditional sexual consent. Let's say in a hypothetical universe you say "Okay then". And then break off your engagement a few months later. From her point of view, you've just broken the condition that was a prerequisite to anal. Which means the sex wasn't consensual, which means at best you get arrested for rape (good luck clearing your name after that one, even the accusation is poisonous). At worst, w… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/15 07:56 AM |
| 3 | I was fat shamed and I'm here to speak how the women on Dr. Oz were full of shit. (Part 1)Being fat as a guy drops your SMV but not as much as people on red pill think Cross-purposes. "Rugby player" or "power lifter" fat - where there's a lot of muscle there as well - yeah, you're probably right. "Sumo wrestler" or "too fat to qualify as skinnyfat" - that's a huge SMV killer. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 09:25 PM |
| 5 | I was fat shamed and I'm here to speak how the women on Dr. Oz were full of shit. (Part 1)How is it the worst? It's a hell of a lot worse than being a fat girl. Fat girls have an entire support network of SJWs who will mercilessly beat anyone who dares suggest they've made poor life choices. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Wife drinks too much.Let me tell you where I am with this. My wife and I could happily drink - though probably no more than about 2-3 pints - 5-6 nights a week. In many ways we'd encourage each other: think "fancy a drink tonight?". I put a stop to that just over a year ago when it became obvious that I could no longer drink like that; I don't really get hangovers as such but a month without booze (ostensibly for charity, though we never bothered getting sponsorship) drove home the fact that hangover or not, I was s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/15 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Update - Progress - Slowly progressingYou're meant to use the anger to focus on improving yourself, not to moan at your wife! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/15 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Update - Progress - Slowly progressingDear God, man, if that's what you think redpill philosophy is about, you've been reading it backwards! Right, if you actually want to be married at all - to this woman or another - you're going to do a couple of things: You're going to apologise to your wife. You've unloaded a lot of shit onto her that was totally inappropriate. That's your fault, not hers. That little voice that's telling you to act like you are? Ignore it. It's speaking bollocks. Spend 6-12 months doing the following: Keeping … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/15 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Women rage against "body-shaming" Protein World ad campaign.Thing is, the women trying to change the definition of "beauty" don't know what beauty is or why it's beautiful in the first place. They've decided it's entirely arbitrary (it isn't), that it's defined by the media (it's reflected by the media, not defined) and that media can redefine it (that one's more open to discussion). | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Women rage against "body-shaming" Protein World ad campaign.There must be a cultural element to it though- because throughout history men haven't always been attracted to skinny as opposed to plumper women Men have always been attracted to women who look like they'd bear healthy children. That has never changed. What has changed is society's perception of "likely to bear healthy children". Go back in time 400 years where there wasn't vast amounts of calorie-laden food around every corner - or for that matter head out to a society where there isn't a grea… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Lost frame and called wife a cuntI think it's not so much "don't get angry" as "don't get angry without a damn good reason". Many of us have been ground down to the point where it seems every other word out of our wives' mouth is some sort of bitch fit, and at that point it's incredibly hard to avoid becoming a very tetchy, defensive person - simply because she's on the offensive 90% of the time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/04/15 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 14, 2015I realised I'm still (at least partly) in the anger phase over the weekend - had a fight with the wife and completely failed to hold frame. On the plus side (if you can call it that), she inadvertently demonstrated that she's no unicorn. When I threatened to cut her off financially, she immediately announced that if I did that, she'd contact a solicitor. This is the first time she's ever said anything like that - I could do practically anything and she wouldn't threaten divorce. But cut off the … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/04/15 08:18 PM |
| 1 | You're fatter than you think. Do something about it."Deployment" is the key word here. I assume you're in the military - in which case, I would expect your fitness levels are way above average. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 07:58 PM |
| 2 | You're fatter than you think. Do something about it.Those numbers are calculated based on BMI. If you are that height and weigh that much, your BMI is pretty well on the nail of 30. A lot of people have replied that they think it's a load of rubbish. Well, if you've been lifting hard and you look like Arnie in his heyday, then yes it is. But most of us don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 07:00 PM |
| 2 | You're fatter than you think. Do something about it.It's purely based on BMI. And BMI measurements go Underweight, Healthy, Overweight, Obese, Morbidly Obese. FWIW, the wake-up for me was when I weighed myself - knowing I could afford to lose a few lb, but I didn't think I was that bad - and discovered I was right on the overweight/obese threshold. I'm hoping this post will have a few other men weigh themselves, look in the mirror and think "Fuck". | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 06:57 PM |
| 1 | You're fatter than you think. Do something about it.Right, the thing about that chart is it's based purely on BMI. Now, BMI is - for 95% of the population - a perfectly valid measurement. But it doesn't take any account of body fat/muscle proportion. So for those of us who really are stacked with muscle, it's complete rubbish. So if you've been lifting and you're reasonably ripped, don't pay too much attention to it. I'm far too early in my journey to advise you on an exercise regime. There are plenty of other subs with people who are far better … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 06:55 PM |
| 1 | You're fatter than you think. Do something about it.It's based purely on BMI. Obviously, if you're very athletic, the BMI index is misleading. But for most people, it isn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Birth control failure rates over time"Vasalgel is now estimated to be on the market by 2020." I shall be intrigued to see what pans out when it hits the market, because it will completely upset the balance of power in contraception. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Reddit CEO bans salary negotiations because women are poor negotiators.Well, considering the Bay area is chock-full of high tech companies and the tech industry is nowhere near as big as you think - lots of people know each other and bounce around employers all the time - I imagine Step 3 is "watch all your good staff walk". | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/15 09:06 PM |
| 20 | The Covert Reason Women Hate Male SpacesThe hold of The Narrative is such that they are self-policing their own crimethink. Yep. My brother exemplifies this to a tee. Wouldn't dream of saying anything even remotely un-PC about a woman, let alone to one. The joke is he's 29 years old, easily weighs 250lb and I don't think he's ever had a girlfriend; the closest he's come is a girl he fancied who told him she "wished he was her brother". I wouldn't be surprised if he's still a virgin. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/15 08:58 PM |
| 4 | [FR] A few weeks ago I went to level 10 dread: updateThank you for posting this; it's inspirational. I'm about 15 months into my journey, and the deeper I get into it, the more I realise how this is NOT a quick fix - that you have to break out of decades-old habits, changing virtually every aspect of your own psyche in the process. Learning that it took you three years to get to where you are now tells me a number of very important things: That there really are no shortcuts; you have to do everything or you might as well not bother. That I'm not c… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/15 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Help swallowingI think everyone should be allowed one victim puke to get it out of their system. You've just had yours. Read everything on the sidebar. Twice. Make sure it's all sunk in; there are no shortcuts and no TL;DR summary. Now, the learning curve. You're going to find it hard going; you're going to completely misunderstand ideas, screw things up and sometimes it'll feel like you're taking three steps back for every one forward. But as you work on yourself, it'll get easier. It will take time. You cann… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/15 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Do I use a condom?I know she has an implant so I don't use them with her, Dear God man, have you learned nothing? The power of the hamster knows no bounds. The minute she decides she wants you to be her baby daddy (and very, very few women have the remotest idea of how significant that decision is until the first sleepless night), her hamster will get to work. Maybe it'll "forget" to get the implant replaced (those things don't last forever). Maybe it'll let the doctor take out the old implant but not put in a ne… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/15 05:48 PM |
| 2 | I think I am in denial about not being in the anger stage.There are a number of reasons I haven't. One is personal; I won't go into that because it would identify me. The second is RP journey related. I need to lose quite a bit more weight (in fat) and gain quite a bit more (in muscle). I'll get there; it's just there's a fair bit of work involved. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/04/15 05:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Last night I realized just how lucky I was to have found this site. (Hanging out with bluepillers at a club.)Is this a real thing? You can pay to be put on some list that lets you skip the line? Just curious. From past experience: Totally unnecessary. There are all sorts of ways to skip the line. Call up ahead and tell them it's one of your group's birthday. Dress up (I guess you'd call it peacocking in game terms) and blag your way in. Human interaction is based on people doing what they're socially conditioned to expect. You are socially conditioned to get to the back of the queue, wait your turn to … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/15 05:23 PM |
| 1 | [TRP repost] 99% mother, 1% wife - How does MRP avoid this?Newish to MRP. I still the see the "don't ever get married" comments often. Anyways... Dread game. Got it. Will keep it up. Then there's every possibility you haven't yet grasped all the subtleties. "Dread game" means "regular hints - subtle ones - that you're still attractive to other women". | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/04/15 04:39 PM |
| 2 | I think I am in denial about not being in the anger stage.You and me both, mate. It's called the red pill for a reason - you can't un-learn these ideas, and once you know them, much of your life will never be the same. In theory you can indeed use the knowledge to sort out a damaged relationship; in practise it doesn't work like that 100% of the time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/04/15 04:27 PM |
| 1 | One of the most clear cases of entitlement I've experienced over the weekendYou're quite right, you can't go full RP in a few nights. It is months, if not years of work. But you sure as hell can try a few of the ideas espoused in RP theory without having to commit yourself to a 12 month gym membership and unlearning everything you ever thought you knew. You can try them and see if you get different results to what your usual strategies would achieve. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/15 04:23 PM |
| 17 | One of the most clear cases of entitlement I've experienced over the weekendI've always had my skepticism of this sub. Some of the posts seem like straight sexism sometimes, but I made sure that I looked at enough cases so that it wasn't just bias. 90% of the ideas espoused on here are dead easy to test to see if they work. Why don't you give them a go - maybe just for a couple of nights out - and see how you get on? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 08:50 PM |
| 4 | Story I heard today from a girlIn many Western countries, acting like you're the dad for any length of time is enough to ensure that in any subsequent court dealings, you'll be stung for child support. Even if you subsequently discover you're not the biological dad. So yes, paternity testing is definitely wise. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Story I heard today from a girlIts a case of I'm going to protect me and mine and ensure they have the best provider I can secure. That doesn't make it right. A man would automatically include his SO in the category of "me and mine". A woman, rather less so. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 08:26 PM |
| 6 | Story I heard today from a girlI've read stories on here even of guys who are said to be alpha but got duped. AF/BB breeds a false dichotomy, artificially splitting men into one of two camps. There are levels of alpha, and there is ALWAYS a man who's a bit more alpha than you around the corner. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 08:25 PM |
| 12 | I finally told the girl who used me all year for school work I wouldn't help her anymore.TDLR: girl strung me around for almost a full school year and used me for school work, wouldn't take her shit anymore. Women's brains are wired totally different from men's. She didn't see a problem with her behaviour - if she could get away with it (which more often than not she can because betas like you let her) it was OK. Count yourself lucky you learned this at a relatively young age. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 08:15 PM |
| 1 | What's the MRP solution to gift-giving?I see there's two possible explanations for this: It's a shit test that you're failing. She's trying to find a nice way of telling you that you suck at giving presents. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/03/15 09:13 PM |
| 3 | [FR] "we'll leave in a minute" 5 minutes later I leftYou know something? I had a similar conversation with my wife only this morning. Going to the vet to get painkillers for our (dying) cat, she insisted she wanted to come but had obviously decided to leave it to the last minute before they closed. Never mind that the traffic in this town can be unpredictable. Never mind that leaving the poor bugger without painkillers was tantamount to animal cruelty. No, sitting on her arse was more important. I just went without her. Got home half-expecting a s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/03/15 09:06 PM |
| 6 | Might be leaving MRP soonShe can't/won't commit to saying she wants it to work out. She just says she doesn't know what she wants She won't at this stage. Go read MAP. You shouldn't be giving your wife ultimatums right now. You should be taking a good hard look in a full length mirror, both naked and wearing the best clothes in your wardrobe. You should be examining your diet and exercise regime. You should be learning about what frame is and how to maintain it. You should be learning what shit tests are and how to hand… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/03/15 10:39 AM |
| 6 | Might be leaving MRP soonA week? Are you trolling? Let's get a couple of things straight: It isn't physically possible for the average beta to make all the changes necessary in a week. A year or more is more common. Even if it was possible, your wife would have such an almighty shock that there's no way she could process it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/03/15 09:51 PM |
| 7 | How to lead a wife that doesn’t let you"How would you feel if I went out and did?" I said, "You did, you bought the baby's stroller without me." NEVER ever under any circumstances engage a woman who's picking a fight. What do I mean by engage? I mean respond directly to questions or accusations. As soon as you do that, you lend a certain degree of legitimacy to her complaint. She didn't listen to the wording of your response, she listened to the fact you engaged with her - and in so doing tacitly admitted it had legitimacy without ap… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/03/15 08:12 PM |
| 7 | If a girl won't be honest when you ask her how many men she's slept with, but it's so important to know that (as you guys say), then what should you do?Yep. My first gf lost her virginity young - she openly admitted she wasn't a virgin when we met. Six months later she informed me she lost her virginity to me. Her logic? She'd never had "full sex" - by which she meant "in which either party has an orgasm". | /r/askTRP | 23/03/15 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Anyone with a medicated wife?My wife has a list of medical issues a mile long. They aren't going to be fixed, but at least I can learn how to deal with them. IME, RP works a treat, but it has a number of caveats associated with it: It's incredibly easy to misunderstand some things, pat yourself on the back thinking "aren't I clever, I know all this stuff" and it's only later you realise you were fucking up spectacularly - and that's why you weren't getting the expected results. Part of this is because a lot of individual pi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/03/15 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Even feminist shithole Slate agrees: "choreplay" doesn't get you laid.if both parties act in logical manner and in good faith. This is the basis of pretty much all relationship advice in the Western world today. And all it does is breed frustrated couples who don't even know how to have sex without fighting for half an hour first. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 08:35 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Men, don't let your wives raise your boys.Gents, raising your boys to be alpha is your job, not your wifes. Don’t let her teach your boy how to fail a shit test. Don’t make her a single mom even when you are home. PRECISELY what happened to my dad. Raised by his mum, he's getting to school leaving age at about the same time as his dad (my grandfather) is retiring. Grandfather's spending more time at home now he's retired, sees more of my Dad and thinks to himself "dear God, what sort of a man is this?!". Packs him off to join the Navy. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/03/15 08:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Perspective change, immediate results ensueWomen always use our honor against us which is why the founders made it clear that Red Pill strategy is amoral. That's why BP brainwashing is so effective. It invariably uses an invisible code of honour to tell men how they should behave, while quietly glossing over the fact that most such behaviours are absolutely sickening to most women. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/03/15 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Man becomes a millionaire 20 YEARS after his divorce, ex-wife has just been awarded a cash settlementThe question being asked of those judges isn't "Can I have more money?". It's "Even though the divorce was done and dusted years ago, please may I have permission to go back to the family court to get the settlement re-appraised?" Their job isn't to say "You don't deserve it". It's to say "Given matrimonial law, is it reasonably likely that a family court would award support?". The answer to that question dictates whether or not they grant that permission. What the judges actually think of matri… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Man becomes a millionaire 20 YEARS after his divorce, ex-wife has just been awarded a cash settlementMaybe I didn't make myself clear enough. Based on how much her ex is ordered to pay, she could wind up having those benefits taken away. But - and here's the important thing - it is entirely possible that the net amount she has left to live on once those benefits are taken away is actually somewhat less than what it was before she took him to court. It is absolutely vital to her that she gets either nothing or a sufficiently large sum that she doesn't wind up in this position. She absolutely doe… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 08:49 PM |
| 1 | The most hateful things wives say during transitionOh God yes. I don't generally get "divorce will make things better" blowups like you've had, but when my wife gets in a mood it's more a constant low-level of snarkiness where literally every word out of her mouth is some sort of insult. This can carry on for hours at a time. Be warned that not everything is a shit test. Indeed, this isn't. What it is is my wife gets tired and she gets cranky - but she's not sufficiently self-aware to realise it. This took me ages to figure out; now I know it I … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/03/15 09:07 PM |
| 2 | How do I respond to my girlfriends new argument technique?You are trying to negotiate with a woman using cold facts and logic. Women minds simply don't work like that. She's seeing it as a game. Personally, I think you need to think long and hard about your relationship - you don't want to be putting up with this shit years down the line, and it's incredibly difficult to turn a relationship around once the dynamic has swung against you for any length of time. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/15 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Man becomes a millionaire 20 YEARS after his divorce, ex-wife has just been awarded a cash settlementThere are a few things to bear in mind here: This woman hasn't been awarded a damn penny. What she has been awarded is the right to go to a family court - with a totally different judge presiding - and ask for money. That judge may still turn her down. It has happened at least once in the recent past that a family court judge has told a woman to get a job - and that was upheld by the court of appeal. So I can see her spending a hell of a lot more time in court. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Man becomes a millionaire 20 YEARS after his divorce, ex-wife has just been awarded a cash settlementThey are today. I understand that wasn't so common ten or fifteen years ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Man becomes a millionaire 20 YEARS after his divorce, ex-wife has just been awarded a cash settlementWith any luck, she'll be in for a hell of a shock. Why? Simple. Under British law, the welfare you can claim varies based on your net worth - if you have savings or a regular income, for instance, it's much harder to claim jobseekers' allowance. The big killer, however, isn't so much the welfare you can claim - it's the discounts you're no longer entitled to. A number of taxes effectively cease to exist if you're on benefits. Thing is, the way it's worked, there's a sort-of black hole at around … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Man becomes a millionaire 20 YEARS after his divorce, ex-wife has just been awarded a cash settlementBasically if you are rich and you have an external income that doesn't depend on the situation here you should be more than ok living here. What's "rich" by Bulgarian standards? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Did you do cardio on/between 5x5 lift days?What he said. It is a hell of a lot easier to not eat the crap in the first place than it is to walk it off. Calorie counting - despite what you may have read elsewhere - is your friend. It's much easier than it was ten or fifteen years ago as there's plenty of websites and apps that do 80% of the hard work for you - just get into the habit of weighing out what you eat, punch it into the website and make sure the number at the bottom doesn't go above your target. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/03/15 08:47 AM |
| 2 | I believe the term is "nuclear"The fact that she just could. not. internalize what was going on with me was mind-blowing. My God, my God. You've explained in one sentence so many things it's unreal. When my life has been going all to shit, the one person you'd expect would be there - the gf/wife/mum - has invariably made a complete ballsup of it. And that's been the case every single time that's happened with every woman in my life. Dad died suddenly when I was 19? Mum suggested making the scattering of his ashes a grand day … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/15 10:59 PM |
| 2 | The growth of /r/TheRedPill from 0 to 100,000 subscribersPeople who think you can have relationships without having any kind of strategy or "game" are naive and don't get it. AT ALL. That sort of thing is invariably described as "manipulative" - a word that society has told us has all sorts of negative connotations, and something no white knight would ever admit to. The biggest problem I have with this attitude is - what does the word "manipulative" actually mean? To me, it means "using covert means to persuade someone to do something they might other… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 10:32 PM |
| 1 | The growth of /r/TheRedPill from 0 to 100,000 subscribersCan we do something about NOT automatically deleting links if they come from a bot that detects when a thread is linked from elsewhere in reddit? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 10:17 PM |
| 3 | possible to unplug yourself? side effects of unplugging?This man tells the truth. The only problem I have with this sub is that you get a lot of field reports from chaps in their teens who are at a point in their life when they can try out a few ideas on a night out and subsequently swivel their entire worldview in a couple of weeks. The slightly older man who's in an LTR and has spent more than ten years post-puberty believing BP bullshit doesn't have that luxury. He has a LOT of work to do; he can play around with a few experiments to see how his L… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/15 10:16 PM |
| 31 | "Then you're a feminist!" an illogical tactic feminists constantly use.If feminists want to spread their ideology, they'd be wise to learn that genuine empathy sells better than immature bullying tactics. The day the world's women are capable of that, Satan shall be going to work in a snowplough. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 09:21 PM |
| 3 | I believe the term is "nuclear"It's tempting - and if your wife was prepared to behave like a mature adult, perfectly reasonable - to demand one. But she's not behaving like a mature adult, she's behaving like a little child. By demanding an apology, there would be a subtext: "You have the power to wind me up by refusing to apologise". And you're quite right not to let it bother you; if it did you'd be handing her power. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/15 09:13 PM |
| 3 | I believe the term is "nuclear"It is damn scary to read the comments on that thread and realise that is precisely what I used to think. Not on the strength of any evidence, you understand, but on the basis of society telling me that any relationship can be fixed if you just talk to each other enough. Of course, that doesn't work so well when your spouse is absolutely certain that there's "nothing the matter" and simply refuses to entertain a discussion of any description. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/15 09:06 PM |
| 2 | If You Could Do It Over, Would You Still Get Married?It isn't about financial reasons for me, it is the power dynamic that marriage nowadays gives a wife. This sums up RP philosophy so beautifully in one sentence. My own marriage worked a hell of a lot better back when there was a slight power imbalance in my favour. It didn't need to be huge, and I didn't need to make a big deal of acknowledging its existence. But it certainly needed to be there and we both needed to know it. Things went wrong once that balance started to swing in my wife's favou… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/02/15 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Wife cheating - is it worth a divorce?Good point. OP: I honestly don't see how you can recover from this one. You are forever going to the man who announced he wanted to stop swinging - and then turned a blind eye to his wife averaging just over two new cocks a month for four months. (And not walking out after cock #1 most definitely is turning a blind eye, I don't care what you say). I wouldn't be too surprised if your wife has brought back a few surprises - get yourself STD tested. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/15 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Wife cheating - is it worth a divorce?Get yourself Athol Kay's books and work on your MAP. The idea is you improve yourself to the point whereby your wife has a simple choice staring her in the face - shape up or ship out. And if she ships out, you will be in a much stronger position to find someone else. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/15 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Wife cheating - is it worth a divorce?Depending on where you are on the world, there are two financial elements involved in a divorce. The first is child support. Obviously she only gets that if there are kids. The second is alimony. This has nothing to do with kids; it's arguably a throwback to a hundred years ago when a divorced woman would be unlikely to be able to remarry, couldn't work because women simply didn't work and there was no such thing as social security. I understand alimony quite often ceases when the woman remarrie… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/15 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Wife cheating - is it worth a divorce?Nothing wrong with it in principle, but you absolutely categorically HAVE to have step 2 planned out in advance - personally I would say that you make sure you have enough cash saved up that you can put down a deposit on somewhere to live (rental is probably quicker than buying) so you can put the wheels in motion to move out properly the day after you've moved into the spare room. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/15 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Wife cheating - is it worth a divorce?Keeping frame has to come from a position of strength. The tiniest, tiniest speck of weakness in your position - whether it's in your tone, your actions or whatever - and your frame is jeopardised. Suddenly you're not being the strong man, you're being pathetic. It is incredibly difficult to fake because women can sniff that out a mile away. So if you're faking it - sorry, but she almost certainly knows full well. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/15 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Medical Misinformation to disguise paternity?Women are not out to get you by purposely skipping pills. They don't need to. The hamster will do it for them. A common rationalisation is "I thought I was sterile! (because I knew I'd made one or two mistakes with the pill occasionally yet didn't get pregnant; I became more lax and subsequently pregnant)". Strange how this seldom happens with girls who genuinely wouldn't be likely to want a baby. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 08:34 PM |
| 18 | Married woman goes out with male 'best friend' while husband is out of town, gets drunk and takes him home to 'hang out'. MIL calls her out. r/relationship's tells her, her behavior is fine.My husband would tell me that if he came in and saw me naked with another man he'd know I'd have a good explanation for it...that's the relationship we had. Yeah. They were having sex. It's a perfectly good explanation. Might not be one he likes, but she didn't say anything about that. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Girl acts like she's into me yet States; I Like You, Full stop.You, old chap, have oneitis for this Rosie girl. Get over that. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/15 07:25 PM |
| 19 | Man wins right to sue rape-accuser for defamation after he was cleared of rape charges.You're missing the bigger picture. She's a minor. Not sure how Canadian law works, but were I to hazard a wild guess, she won't own a house or any other significant asset he can take. BUT.... I can think of a few possible benefits. Legal precedent, demonstrating in a public forum that he's innocent to name two. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/15 08:41 PM |
| 1 | How to build boundaries during your transitionFantastic advice. But one question: My wife has developed an extremely effective way to fuck with my ability to enforce any sort of boundary. How? Simple. Everything I have tried has worked just once. After that, she'll reframe it in a way to make me (at least in her mind) the pathetic beta. Leave the room? I'm "flouncing off". Silence? Did that this week; her boredom threshold is sufficiently high as to be able to cope quite happily. I kept it up for three days and achieved damn all. Lose my te… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/02/15 08:19 PM |
| 1 | The straw that broke the beta's back.Thanks for your kind words. The big problem is I'm coming at this after 35 years of beta with precisely zero clue how to attract women and a 15 year LTR/marriage. To put it into context: I lost my virginity relatively late in life and then because my best friend at the time set me up with a friend of his girlfriend. I barely knew what flirting was until I was in my early twenties. I had absolutely no idea about the process of meeting and mating worked. Not a fucking scooby. My parents divorced w… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 07:55 PM |
| 2 | The straw that broke the beta's back.It's not the marriage I'm improving. It's me. The whole point is that if it doesn't work out, I can move on relatively easily. If my wife wants to come around, that's up to her. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 07:15 AM |
| 13 | The straw that broke the beta's back.I was the Ultimate King of Betas. Warning: truly pitiful story ahead. I used to have a strong relationship with my LTR with lots of sex. The main driver for that, I now know, was the fact I had a strong social life driven primarily by my workplace - there was ALWAYS a reason to go out after work, be it someone's birthday or someone leaving. I had a habit of not telling her I was out at all until she called asking where I was. All that fell apart when my employer closed down and we were all made … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 07:04 PM |
| 7 | The straw that broke the beta's back.Still I never understood why she was so heavily affected by my leaving her, she never once seemed to need me this much in three years. Because women are usually the dump-er, not the dump-ee. She'd probably said the exact same thing to many men before you and never once had they taken her offer. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 06:44 PM |
| 7 | How do you explain out-liers that go against the rules of red pill?There's a number of issues at stake here: RP is a general philosophy, and hence deals almost exclusively in massive generalisations. Every generalisation I've ever seen has exceptions here and there; they don't invalidate the generalisation at all. Men and women have totally different ideas of what constitutes high male SMV; BP men and men who've only just started looking at RP ideas and haven't really taken it in are particularly bad at this. Women's idea of what constitutes "sufficiently high … | /r/askTRP | 10/02/15 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Shit test during sex...Suggestions?You don't have to respond with a 100% gospel truth answer every time - in fact, it can work against you. As you (rightly) spotted, it was a shit test. Remember, there are 6 basic responses to a shit test: Agree and amplify ("Yeah, I was thinking of the noise it'd make as my balls bounced off the blonde one's arse"). Change the subject ("Yeah, you like it like that...") Ignore. (Bit difficult to do that when she won't let it go, and you can't really leave the room mid-thrust without losing frame)… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/02/15 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Own place or savings?Good question. One I wish I had an easy answer to. My understanding is that the great majority of stockbrokers seldom beat the market average - and any fund that they actively manage will have considerably higher fees. If you're interested in stocks, you're usually better off investing in something that tries to track the stock market; there's plenty such products out there and many can be packaged as a stocks and shares ISA. Long-term, personally I'm interested in property. Why? A number of rea… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/15 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Own place or savings?Keep enough in instant-access savings so that if you walk into work on Monday and find you no longer have a job, you can keep your head above water for 3-6 months. A cash ISA is ideal - I'm sure I don't need to tell an accountant why! If you're still living with your parents, you've probably already got this. Don't keep much more than this in your cash ISA. Put the rest into something that will grow rather better. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/15 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Older red pillers, advice for an 18 year old?I had serial one-itis as a teen. Usually for girls who were so far out of my league we weren't even playing the same game. I'd ditch that attitude altogether. I would spend serious time practising how to flirt. I honestly couldn't do this when I was that age; I was so hung up on getting laid that I had absolutely no fucking idea of all the other parts of the process that go into getting laid in the first place. (You can probably imagine how well that worked). I would stop worrying about what oth… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/15 05:57 PM |
| 9 | 18 Things Every 18 Year Old Should KnowMany times we tend to look just at one source. The internet is much bigger than this site and of course is useful, but for younger people I would recommend /r/becomeaman. Just to echo what /u/PurSang_ says: You cannot truly understand RP ideas by spending time on this and related subs. You cannot truly understand RP ideas by reading one or two books. You cannot truly understand RP ideas by lifting some weights. You have to do all of the above. There are no half measures, no shortcuts, no TL;DR s… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 11:57 AM |
| 1 | ... whereupon he reaches his limit.My biggest challenge right now is to fight the urge to get each of them in bed (WARNING: AWALT but also AMALT. Don't let your body urges ruin your life with a stupid affair) Believe me, I don't intend to. I suspect there's a chance we could split the assets reasonably amicably if we were to split up now. Problem is,there's nothing I can do to stop her spending every penny of equity in the house on legal fees. Which is a LOT more likely if I'm nobbing someone else. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/15 11:36 AM |
| 2 | ... whereupon he reaches his limit.Thanks. The biggest joke? I can pinpoint the time everything fell apart almost to the day; I even know why. I just haven't yet completely figured how I'll fix it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/15 11:31 AM |
| 1 | ... whereupon he reaches his limit.Funny you should say that, I was flirting with our waitress when we went out to dinner last week. One cheeky comment, I heard my wife start one of her typical "shut up jcrpta..." bitchy sentences she usually uses when I say something like that - and she was cut off by the waitress giggling. I've never heard my wife shut up so fast. That certainly got my own mind whirring. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/15 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Discussion about household choresIndeed, and it also gives you something to withhold that isn't a particularly big deal, at least as far as you're concerned. Incidentally, don't for goodness' sake offer a carrot that she can easily get for herself. She can't buy your company for the evening, so make sure it's worth having. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/15 11:29 PM |
| 1 | ... whereupon he reaches his limit.I've learned something over the last couple of weeks. Any sense of fun, flirting or what have you was long ago sucked from the marriage. "Chase me"? Can I really be bothered? I can flirt with girls at work a hundred times easier, many of whom have a drastically higher SMV than my wife. I can barely bring myself to even make a cheeky comment to my wife (who I know for a fact won't respond). I'm not stupid enough to shit where I eat, so I plan to restrict it to harmless flirting. But frankly it's … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/15 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Discussion about household choresRP philosophy bangs on about things which are basically punishments - withholding affection, money etc. These things probably work if you're providing a lot of money, affection, treats, quality time together and so on. But let's be blunt, you probably aren't. And you can't take away what you're not providing in the first place. You need a carrot as well as a stick. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/15 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Discussion about household choresshe hasn't adopted my standards despite having ample time to do so. That said, I was going about it all wrong: anger, whining, passive-aggressive BS, etc. Basic chump stuff. My approach will be completely different now. BTDT. My own wife's exactly the same. The tidy house thing clearly doesn't bother her; if it did she'd have sorted her act out years ago. It might bother you, but were I to hazard a guess I suspect the fact it bothers you doesn't concern her in the slightest. Has she, by any chan… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/15 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Male Feminist Accused of RapeI don't think it requires smarter women. Consider that most women will be hit on so many times that they can basically pick and choose which dick to hop on - and this will start more-or-less as soon as they hit puberty. There's no shortage of BP teens out there; it doesn't require a vast amount of brain power to figure this out. I honestly reckon most women figure this out while they're still in school. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 09:46 PM |
| 13 | Male Feminist Accused of RapeThis is one of the biggest, most important RP truths. Even if you honestly are a genuine nice guy. Even if you have no plans to get in her knickers. Even if you honestly believe all the bullshit society feeds you about how it doesn't matter what you look like as long as you are "yourself". Even if all of that really does apply to you - it doesn't matter. You are FAR too late. The well was poisoned years before you even learned what your bollocks were there for. Most, if not all women have seen i… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Help me, I am Michael.Once you've done that, read everything else on the sidebar of /r/theredpill. No exceptions. While reading them, you will likely feel a combination of bewilderment ("Who is this author and how come he knows me so well?") and anger ("I've been fed a series of lies all my life!"). Possibly with a little excitement thrown in ("Hey, half the things in here sound easy! Must have a go! I've got nothing to lose!"). This is a marathon, though, not a sprint. If you try and do too much at once, you'll do a… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/15 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly [Feb 3, 2015]Just to followup: A few dirty plates out when I got home this evening; reminded my wife that I said KEEP it clean. A giggle, "oops I forgot" and five minutes later the dishwasher's loaded. No fights, no arguments. Never seen that in my life and we've been together fifteen years. (I've since discovered there's damn all I'd want to watch at the local cinema! That was a tactical error, but I made a promise. If I renege on it, then I'll have taught my wife I can't be trusted. So we are going to the … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/02/15 06:48 PM |
| 2 | The following comment was upvoted to 1000+ in mainstream reddit, gilded x3. Can you spot the subtle redpill?Believe me, if I had a time machine... | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Hate is the new loveI'm absolutely certain it isn't possible. The absolute best you could do would be to explain that RP is a philosophy that tries to help men enjoy greater success in life - particularly their sex life - by adjusting their behaviour to account for how the world actually works, not how the movies would have you believe it works. RP ideas are never presented in a sugarcoated form or diluted in any way, simply because the target audience actively does not need that. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly [Feb 3, 2015]I have acquired a lazy habit of providing neither strong incentive nor disincentive for my wife to do anything. We seldom go out, our finances are worked such that only essential joint expenses come out of a joint account. Either of us wants a treat, we treat ourselves. I can't "stop paying for all but essentials"; that's all I'm paying for now anyway. I can't withold a reward because I'm not offering any rewards. If I want my wife to do anything domestic - clean the house, run a bath, cook dinn… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/02/15 07:33 PM |
| 4 | Hate is the new loveI'm reading every word. The problem is you can't point at just one short article that says it all because there's no such thing. You can't even point at one short book, for the same reason. There's no TL;DR simply because you'd lose so much detail it'd be meaningless. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 06:51 PM |
| 2 | What is the purpose of women taking middle finger selfies?They've forgotten, that the only thing that keeps a man from chastening them is social norms and his own morals and will. From time to time some of them are reminded, if they meet the wrong guy, who's got no self-control, and I've got no sympathy at all for them. I've been saying this for some time. We've all seen a woman reacting badly to a man showing signs of losing his temper. Does she try and calm him down? Does she walk away? No. In fact, quite the reverse. She'll taunt him ("Go on then, h… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/15 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Hate is the new loveWell, partly that. But I'd say it's more complicated than that: There's a dearth of written material that explains redpill philosophy. There's precisely nothing that covers everything in any real detail; I suspect such a book would wind up being about a thousand pages long. The internet has fostered a tendency to always look for the TL;DR version. Problem is, RP ideas are so extensive that a quick glance through the sub is pretty well guaranteed to give a warped view. There isn't much of an emph… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 08:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] RP newbie-Getting more sex, but need better sex-how do I increase her desire?I think quality and quantity of sleep is a huge factor; it's something I need to get my wife to accept (which is going to be an uphill struggle, she hasn't quite figured out she isn't 23 any more in that respect). In short: Make sure your bedroom is dark - fit blackout blinds or curtains if you have to. Ensure the temperature is a little cooler than the rest of the house. Keep the electronic devices out of there. The odd book is okay but the backlight in something like an iPad fools your brain i… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/02/15 04:39 PM |
| 2 | [FR] RP newbie-Getting more sex, but need better sex-how do I increase her desire?We talk about shit tests and LMRs, but to me it sounds more like your wife has developed a new form of contraception - cultivate a personality so terrible you don't want to have sex with her. Mine's the same; I'm 90% certain it's neither shit test nor LMR but she's simply tired and cranky. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/02/15 01:59 PM |
| 4 | Fuck this placePatience, young grasshopper. It sounds like you're still in the early stages - you've read a few things on here and you're thinking "yeah, I know it all now...". The problem is that RP is a fairly complex philosophy that you cannot hope to understand properly by browsing through here for a few hours - do that, and the likelihood is you'll see enough to realise there's a glimmer of truth to it but nothing like enough to fully understand. You cannot un-see what has been seen. But you can make your… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/15 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Advanced LTR - experienced help onlyGet yourself onto /r/marriedredpill - it's generally a lot more level-headed and a lot less bitter than other redpill subs and is full of men who can help. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/15 12:41 PM |
| 1 | You are no longer innocent until proven guilty and must now prove you didn't rape her.this is a great point. the media are always saying the conviction rate for rape is very low (which it is, UK at least). They never mention what fraction of those cases are made up though. A retired UK judge recently said the conviction rate would be an awful lot higher if women didn't drink so much - most rape cases in court boil down to "he said/she said". | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/15 10:02 AM |
| 20 | The following comment was upvoted to 1000+ in mainstream reddit, gilded x3. Can you spot the subtle redpill?That's why the "you're not entitled to sex" meme is so prevalent among feminists. It is of course almost exclusively said to low-value betas. The frustrating thing for the average beta is he's basically spent his whole life being told that women go weak at the knees for "nice guy", that a woman "doesn't care what the man she loves looks like"; he buys into it completely. Some time in his twenties or thirties, he finally registers that what he's seeing in real life doesn't quite marry up with the… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/15 09:52 AM |
| 9 | The following comment was upvoted to 1000+ in mainstream reddit, gilded x3. Can you spot the subtle redpill?Their view having been distorted, they then start riding what we think is the CC (but to them is a desperate and unsatisfying attempt at trying to get a guy well beyond their station) to try to land one of these guys for at least long enough to post a few pics to facebook about him so the other girls will think they are in the top 20%, as opposed to just getting used. It's not like they all want to ride the CC, they do it because those 20% they want, trick them into riding it. This, I think, is … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/15 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Not arguing back is surprisingly hardMy natural inclination is to not take crap from anyone, and argue back, not always necessarily loudly, but always. Keeping solemn and maintaining frame is not what I was brought up with. Tell me about it! My original interpretation of RP philosophy was "don't take shit from anyone", which isn't quite what I think is meant. I now think a more accurate interpretation would be "don't be defined by shit others give you". By reacting to it (and yes, always thinking you have to have the last word is r… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/15 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't matter if you've provided for her for 30 years, women aren't loyal.True, true. When did you last hear about a woman writing poetry to her lover? Or singing a song about how much she missed him after a messy breakup? Writing about how big an arsehole her ex is, yeah, sure, happens all the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 09:25 PM |
| 2 | [FR] So proud of her todayShe later confided that this has been a difficult transition for her because her conditioning (her word) if keeping her from letting go of the control, but she really wants to make the new dynamic work, and she likes the idea of bragging about her Man. At what point did you tell her about what you were doing? Was she always okay with it? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/15 09:07 PM |
| 3 | "Why are you so afraid of marriage?"There's at least signs of a little discord - every few years someone rich and powerful gets divorced, gets the shock of their lives when they learn what divorce means and makes a big song and dance about it. Problem is, right now the number of rich and powerful people getting divorce raped in this way is frankly far too low. It needs to go up drastically. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't matter if you've provided for her for 30 years, women aren't loyal.For an emotion-driven gender, women sure are coldly logical when it comes to picking and staying with a partner. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 07:05 PM |
| 9 | Doesn't matter if you've provided for her for 30 years, women aren't loyal.Don't blame them. I'm 35; if I divorce my wife there is no way I'm going to be dating 35 year old women. They'll likely already have kids and the kids will be their life; I'll always be second place to them. Any woman in her mid-30s who doesn't have kids likely has baby rabies so hard that any mention of being on the pill should be taken with a pinch of salt; either that or issues (mental or physical) that will combine make her thoroughly twisted. Avoid at all costs. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 07:03 PM |
| 18 | Doesn't matter if you've provided for her for 30 years, women aren't loyal.Because RP is a philosophy, and as such it deals almost exclusively in enormous generalisations. Are those generalisations sometimes wrong in specific cases? Yes, of course they are. All generalisations are. Are those generalisations - at least broadly speaking - more-or-less accurate? Our experience is that they are. But don't take an echo chamber that is pretty much any subreddit's word for it - carry out your own research to find out for yourself. That's strongly encouraged. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit [weekly thread]I still sometimes fall into the trap of talking too much and explaining things away rather than either shutting the hell up or owning my issues. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/01/15 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Are sluts happy riding the CC? Is the CC intentionally ridden?I dunno, I can see his argument: that the cock carousel is less to do with "being told to go out and have some fun" and more to do with "a biological urge to hump every alpha you can find in a desperate attempt to lock one down". | /r/askTRP | 25/01/15 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Follow upThese are wise words. Your wife is using the silent treatment on you for one reason and one reason alone: to control you. We all know what happens if you let a woman control you. It follows that the absolute worst thing you can do is let her silence get to you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/01/15 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Quick Question / Confirmation of Strategy for New Married Red PillerTBH, it was less to do with spotting the tone of your advice (which has become noticeably more like snippets from a book and less like relatively off-the-cuff comments lately) and more something I've been meaning to say for some time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/15 10:22 PM |
| 4 | New Redpiller here. Howe much and what sorts of things do you keep from your wife?I won't mention the words "red pill". Too much chance she'll google it and get a tumblrina'd version of it. However, she is starting to cotton on to changes, and she often seems to be annoyed when my reaction to her shit tests isn't quite what she's used to. My plan is to simply tell her that I've taken the decision to review every aspect of my life that's wearing me down as I had become lazy. Clothes, job, weight, everything. I shall let her hamster do the rest. Regarding other aspects of life:… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/15 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Quick Question / Confirmation of Strategy for New Married Red PillerRemind me to buy your book when you release it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/15 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Quick Question / Confirmation of Strategy for New Married Red PillerDo not try and do it all at once. You'll wind up doing a lousy job of everything. Focus on one or two things at a time and don't change focus to anything else until you are sufficiently good at them that they no longer require so much effort. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/15 09:40 PM |
| 8 | Overheard an all female conversation, seems to validate much of what is said here.Yeah you can work out and get "ripped" but who's going to see that you're ripped when you have clothes on 99% of the time? I suspect women probably get extremely good at guessing whether or not you're in good shape even fully clothed. Choose slightly tighter clothes that accentuate that and bob's your uncle. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Discussion of Blue Pill Trolls in /r/marriedredpillWe absolutely MUST be firm with the trolls. Men come here at all stages of swallowing the pill - many are still finding their way and are in a difficult place. That doesn't mean we have to be all walking on eggshells with each other - firm, constructive criticism is what this sub does best - but it does mean that snark, rude remarks and unconstructive abuse must be deleted and the posters banned. Sometimes a little light BP behaviour is in order, and I don't see any harm in letting such comments… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/01/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Am I being firm to the point of boring?If you've done your MAP. All your ducks are in a row, including she feels financially secure, and she's not giving you the sex you want? It's time to tell her she in danger of being replaced by a better model. Just to add: This is basically what I have in mind. I tried being blatant yet firm; she just poured scorn on that. She obviously isn't going to take the threat of me leaving seriously until I've moved out - at least, not at this stage. (This isn't terribly surprising; a tactic I used to us… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/01/15 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How did you handle your anger phase?There was a post on /r/theredpill a few weeks ago about stoicism which I think you could benefit from. It's pretty simple, really: There are things in life that you can do something about. No point in getting worked up over them because you've got them under control, right? There are things in life that you can do nothing about - your parents' divorce, for instance. Where's the point in getting worked up over them? How will it help you become a better man? Not as if you can do anything about it.… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/15 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Am I being firm to the point of boring?If you've done your MAP. All your ducks are in a row, including she feels financially secure, and she's not giving you the sex you want? It's time to tell her she in danger of being replaced by a better model. Working on it. It's taking longer than I'd like, partly because I've hit a few plateaus, partly because I have over twenty years of post-puberty behaviour and about eight years of relationship fuckup to correct. That's nobody's responsibility but my own; I'm grinding through it. But she le… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/01/15 07:42 PM |
| 10 | The Sun (UK) bows to pier pressure from feminists to drop topless modelsWomen want to make the rules so that men need to defer to them for any sort of approval or contentment. And yet when they meet a man who behaves like that, they're disgusted. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Is the blue pill just a big shit test?For every question, there is an answer that is obvious, simple and wrong. This is one of those answers. The reason humanity has done so well is because we have advanced societies that set down rules of how such a society is supposed to function. Some of these rules force people to operate against their basic instincts. A thousand years ago, those rules were religion. In many parts of the world, religion still either lays down the rules or at the very least has a strong influence on them. More se… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/15 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Just stop taking the pill she told her friend!by now most women have seen friends/aunts/mothers do the single mother thing and have seen that it's not glamorous. If a woman truly puts her own happiness first, she wouldn't do this. Anecdotal, but I have an ex who came from a large, poor family. Every damn one of her sisters was pregnant and living in a council flat by the age of 19. She was the youngest and the only one who showed no signs of wanting to follow their example. I still reckon they saw each others example and decided it was the … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Just stop taking the pill she told her friend!"Why are you upset, you don't have to have anything to do with it! I was going to raise it by myself" - whether she's honest or not has no importance. She can't be honest, because the law won't let her give up this right and it'll always be over your head. This bears repeating. Yes, it is perfectly possible for a woman to say that, have the baby and walk away without demanding money from the man and he would not be paying for it. Nobody is going to demand the man pay up unless mum puts the wheel… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Secondary explosions [update of Nuclear shit test]My dear chap, you've covered in six weeks what took me six months. I am in no position to criticise. What I would say is: Stay strong. You ARE going to face shit tests, they ARE going to get worse. Neither of us can do much about that. But you can decide how it is you react to them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/15 10:13 PM |
| 1 | how to be more of a positive person?I wouldn't say you're a negative whiny little bitch. Whyever not? I don't know you, I've never met you. I have no reason to doubt what you say. So let me tell you what I see. I see a man who recognises he has a problem, and rather than hide it away and pretend it doesn't exist, he openly admits to it and asks for help in dealing with it. Does that sound like the behaviour of a whiny little bitch? Because it doesn't to me. It sounds like the behaviour of a man who is actively trying to get his sh… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/15 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Get over your relationship PTSD and focus on the NOW & where it is you want to go.But how do I go about keeping this up and getting better with it. Get your wife out of your head. You're not doing anything for her. You're doing it for you. If it works out, you don't need to go through the hassle of a divorce and you turn your marriage around. If it doesn't work out, you'll be in a good position to move on. Your wife will be left with a stark choice. She either shapes up or ships out. It is FANTASTICALLY hard work. Your wife has spent 15 years seeing you as a beta schlub, she … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 09:11 PM |
| 0 | Fat Loss ChecklistOkay, all these diets you've read about where they recommend "high protein, low carbs, don't eat bananas"? All cobblers. Every diet - no exceptions - is basically a proxy to calorie counting, simply because calorie counting is a PITA. Much easier to say "eat this, not that". Now, different foods have a different impact on how full you feel (protein makes you feel full, carbs less so, fat less still), so your calorie consumption doesn't necessarily have much of an effect on how full you feel. The… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What makes intelligent men stay blue pill?I think a lot of people never even think to apply a modicum of scientific method to their own experience. Despite never quite managing to get the girl, despite being ever the shoulder to cry on but seldom the cock to suck, most men simply cannot figure out why this is the case. You can't ask your friends why for two reasons: first, it means you have to admit to having trouble getting laid, second the chances are you're all in the same boat so few are able to offer serious insight. You can't ask … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Secondary explosions [update of Nuclear shit test]Well done. It's damn hard, particularly when you get started. But you'll get there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/15 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Short and Sweet Proof of TRP at WorkOf course, the top 20% of males are so alpha that they are probably cheating on their wives and stealing money on Wall Street, so they have divorces and unhappiness too. I wonder how many women married to sufficiently alpha males divorce them when there's infidelity - and how that figure compares to the general population? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Short and Sweet Proof of TRP at WorkWell... no and yes. 20% of men are probably having 80% of the sex; fortunately there's quite a lot of sex going on so that doesn't mean the other 80% are failing to get laid at all. I suspect it's more likely that maybe 1-2% are failing to get laid at all. The other 78% of men are either getting dumped on a depressingly regular basis and/or spending much of their time in an LTR wondering why the sex dropped off so very quickly. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 07:12 PM |
| 28 | Short and Sweet Proof of TRP at WorkWe can be harsh and literal here, but the same language we enjoy as men amongst ourselves depresses women and dims the spark in them we love so much. Men bond by saying rude things to each other's faces that they don't really mean. When talking about people who aren't present, men are far more likely to talk someone up than down. Women bond by saying nice things about each other they don't really mean. When talking about people who aren't present, women are far more likely to talk someone down. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 07:09 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend occassionally drops in the fact that she's done stuff with other guysHow would you agree and amplify though without looking like an angry beta? I think there's two aspects to this. First, the amplification has to be "turn it up to 11 IMMEDIATELY, do not pass go, do not collect £200". So you don't respond to "Never have I ever" by saying "I bet you have taken it up the arse", you respond with "Nobody wants to hear about what you did with the donkey!" The second aspect is in the tone. There must be no frustration or anger audible in it. A serious tone is okay if yo… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How I Got Here, 3 Cautionary Tales for MRPYour experience probably helped you unplug. I looked up all the girls I could think of that I vaguely knew on Facebook and chased back to figure out what path their life had followed. Almost every damn one of them proved RP theory to a tee - met, married and pregnant within a year or two of their thirtieth birthday, the whole "meet, marry, preggers" process complete within two years. Usually to a man a few years older who seemed to have his career pretty well sorted out. The outliers could almos… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/15 08:02 PM |
| 4 | Your Girlfriend WILL Cheat On You! Unless...Let's look at this from another angle. People who are happy in their relationships seldom cheat. It follows, then, that the woman who cheats is in some way unhappy. It'd be nice to imagine that the unhappy woman will recognise this and try to do something about it - something less drastic than cheating, perhaps. Alas, experience tells us this doesn't really happen. It is the mans job to take the lead here as elsewhere in life; if the relationship isn't really working, it's his job to take the le… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/15 10:16 PM |
| 2 | help... gave my buddy the pill after he was dumped, now I don't know what step to tell him next.I don't think he should plate her - at least, not yet. I suspect if he does he'll catch feels, be back as a beta within a month and dumped again within six weeks. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/15 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Proud of Nephew / How To Deal With Rumors and Gaslighting?How is she automatically entitled to have him back? Check your privilege. (Not often you get an opportunity to say that) | /r/askTRP | 12/01/15 09:55 PM |
| 13 | Popping the Misandry Bubble: Awakening of the Beta MalesA Beta attempting to court an attractive woman is an absolutely repulsive notion to the feminine imperative, because it implies that a man is the one doing the choosing. The logical response for any beta teenage boy who has got this far in figuring out society is to wait for girls to ask him out. 'Course, we all know how well that works. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 09:36 PM |
| 6 | Popping the Misandry Bubble: Awakening of the Beta MalesSounds like the anger stage. Either that or you're reaching the end of the bargaining stage and you realise there is no bargaining to be done. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 09:32 PM |
| 7 | Popping the Misandry Bubble: Awakening of the Beta MalesSocieties don't tend to change terribly quickly. The more rabid feminists will gradually find it harder and harder to get airtime; men will be allowed to be men but it'll be a long, slow process. It'll take at least a generation, possibly two or three. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Woman tries to frame cop for sexual assault. Too bad he was wearing a body cam.She is the reason we'll never have actual debate, just a bunch of harpies screaming at the man slaves who are too cowed to do anything other than their bidding. The blame isn't wholly at her door. A society that has left very, very few men with the assertiveness to effectively engage in such a debate - and the few that are aren't stupid enough to do it on national telly - is just as much to blame. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 09:22 PM |
| 50 | Woman tries to frame cop for sexual assault. Too bad he was wearing a body cam.If these allegations are becoming more common to police officers it heavily explains their intuitive distrust of sexual assault and rape claims towards other men, and why feminists are so butthurt that police let fishy rape claims die A (female!) UK judge recently said that if women didn't drink so much, there would be an awful lot more rape convictions. You can see the press article here. Naturally, all the SJWs of this world accused the judge of victim blaming. But if you read the article, you… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/15 09:00 PM |
| 25 | If you don't know, with absolute certainty, that she is girlfriend/wife material, then she isn'tWomen can't count or measure for shit. Oh, they can. But the hamster's power knows no bounds. What about Dave? "Oh, I never had an orgasm with him. That doesn't count". What about Gary? "I was really drunk. That doesn't count". What about that boyfriend you had for three months? "He had a really small penis, that doesn't count". What about Neil? "I kept my knickers on throughout. It's not my fault he pushed them to one side! Anyway, because of that, it doesn't count". What about Adam? "He came a… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/15 11:14 AM |
| 2 | She wanted different dick, and her exact words were "It got boring between us and I wanted something new, I knew what I was doing."The hamster can usually be shut down if you're firm enough and you act quickly enough, and it sounds like he was extremely firm once he figured out what had happened. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/15 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend makes new years resolution to revert to celibacyWith every discussion there are choices; for every choice there are pros and cons. Your choices were: Physically take her to bed while saying "I understand what you're saying, love, but I need to have sex." Pro: You'll know immediately if this is a shit test or if she's being serious. Con: I honestly can't think of any. If she demands you stop straight away, obviously you don't rape the girl. In fact, if she demands you stop straight away my inclination would be to go to option two. Verbally res… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/15 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Ched Evans - UK footballer wrongly convicted for rape, finished serving his time, leftists working together to prevent him from continuing his career.If you don't have any fucking punishments for lying about rape, then guess what geniuses, there's no reason for girls not to do it. We have plenty of punishments. Perverting the course of justice immediately springs to mind, and as you say perjury. Both are treated as serious crimes and can get you prison time. The problem isn't a lack of punishment in law, it's a lack of will to enforce it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/15 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Ched Evans - UK footballer wrongly convicted for rape, finished serving his time, leftists working together to prevent him from continuing his career.Since he can't play football, he should have grounds for an ENORMOUS, whopping, law-suit. The state should pay out of the fucking ass for all his lost wages. Period. The state can take a back seat. In this case, the person who would be held culpable (if she is, which seems unlikely) is the "rape" victim, not the state. What will he get out of her? A three-bed ex-council semi? BFD, that's about three weeks wages to a premiership footballer. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Survey Reveals 85% of Women Have a "Plan B" Option (Beta Orbiters)and hopefully Beta-Bitch did too. He didn't, that's why he's still hanging around. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 10:35 PM |
| 1 | 2015, The Future and Direction of TRP, and a new announcement.And in such countries, it would do you damn all good. A law court can decide who the father is for legal purposes. It is under no obligation to consider who the biological father is; it can base its decision wholly and exclusively on circumstantial evidence (i.e. "She was your fiancee at the time"). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 10:19 PM |
| 2 | 2015, The Future and Direction of TRP, and a new announcement.Manipulating people is wrong. You see, back when I was BP I so thoroughly believed this I refused to participate in anything that might be interpreted as manipulative. I was running my own business at the time; it's since failed. Draw your own conclusions. I digress. "Manipulative" on the face of it means "persuading people to do things they might not otherwise do". Which sounds really nasty to a bluepiller until you realise that it's a huge portion of how humans interact. Virtually all social i… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 10:14 PM |
| 4 | 2015, The Future and Direction of TRP, and a new announcement.That's what our detractors don't understand. TRP is about leveling the playing field between men and women. They don't understand it purely and simply because the female mentality explicitly works against it - the feminist imperative only works if women can be portrayed as "oppressed but we're making positive changes!"; it follows that any attempt to shift the balance is making women more oppressed. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Dead Bedrooms right after marriage?My wife was exactly the same about a year ago. Never cooked, never cleaned, never lifted a finger. Always with some paper-thin piddling excuse for it. I wasn't a husband, I was a butler. Took a new job with a long commute and after a couple of weeks I just said straight - firmly - that I was doing this for both of us and it would not kill her to do dinner during the week as she had no such commute. Amazing the difference it made. I don't think I've cooked during the week since then. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/15 08:23 PM |
| 6 | From Love to Hate in 3.5s -- Female ScornThis, if I'm honest, is the main reason I haven't dumped my wife yet. My SMV needs serious work, and right now if I dump her I stand to lose too much. The theory is that with enough work, best case scenario I'll fix the marriage. Worst case scenario I'll be in a strong position to move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 08:11 PM |
| 4 | From Love to Hate in 3.5s -- Female ScornWhen can he? He probably can't. There will always be a white knight who believes he can save the whore, always an alpha who's quite prepared to dump her long before she has her claws in deep enough to do serious damage. Should he if he could? Even if he could, what would he gain from it? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 08:03 PM |
| 18 | From Love to Hate in 3.5s -- Female ScornFuck. If ever you needed proof that the red pill is the real deal, that is it. I bet she was all over him like a rash before things turned sour. And yet society still insists that "when a woman loves a man, it doesn't matter if he becomes dirt poor overnight!". Yeah, except the love that society is describing doesn't exist. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Wife turned down sex, we had a fight, she told me that if I 'improve my mood' this evening 'maybe' she will have sex with me. Should I reject her?I may be projecting here because my own marriage is in a similar position. So take this with all the salt you think it needs. But I reckon that sex in your relationship is as much to do with power as it is pleasure. By letting your wife dictate the terms of how and when you have sex, you're handing power over to her. You're essentially saying "Yes dear, if that's what I have to do to have sex, that is what I shall do" - the implication being if you don't, you're never getting laid again. This is… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/15 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Why do women know so little about their fertility?Never mind the fact that a 50 year old woman having a baby is big news; if it was an everyday thing she wouldn't have heard about it in the first place. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 07:36 PM |
| 1 | New Red Piller. Advice required. (Friendzone)When I said validation, I meant you giving her validation, not the other way around. You can't fully understand RP ideas from one book. Right now, you're at a very early stage - you barely understand what it's all about and you're still, by the sound of it, somewhat angry. You can't make rational decisions at this stage; you probably can't be trusted to hold down an LTR or keep a plate spinning for any length of time right now. This is only natural, and the sooner you accept it and deal with it,… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/15 07:35 PM |
| 39 | Why do women know so little about their fertility?Because there is ALWAYS some friend/relative/newspaper article about a woman who became pregnant at 45. From this point, the hamster barely has to spin the wheel for her to say to herself "See? I'll be fine!". | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 11:52 PM |
| 1 | New Red Piller. Advice required. (Friendzone)Have you got any self-respect whatsoever? The whole thrust of NMMNG is that self-described "nice guys" are normally bitter individuals who don't come across as even remotely nice. They have not the balls to tell a girl they're interested, instead they sycophantically spending time around girls they're interested in in the hope of that sooner or later one of the girls will make the first move. This never happens. When something happens that makes it abundantly clear that the girl isn't interested… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 11:07 PM |
| 2 | My wife seems to have less respect the more successful I getThree things I'd suggest you do - in order: Get onto /r/marriedredpill. /r/TheRedPill is perfectly correct in what it says, but has a high proportion of younger men enjoying the single life and their stock answer to any serious difficulty tends to be "dump her". Read, learn and inwardly digest every single piece of reading material on the sidebar on /r/marriedredpill. You won't understand everything straight away but as you read more and learn more, it'll start to come together. Follow the exerc… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/15 09:00 PM |
| 3 | $100-300 Prizes for comprehensive MRP FAQsIt sounds like you're asking for a TL;DR summary of MRP ideas. There is a reason no such thing exists. The sheer number of things that you would need to cover in even the briefest of summaries would be monstrous. Any FAQ that is brief enough that anyone would be prepared to read it is almost certainly going to omit so much vital information that it would do more harm than good. Any FAQ that is sufficiently comprehensive as to avoid this is going to be so long, the whole point of such a document … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/15 10:42 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - OI and Holding Frame does work, it takes practice and the outcome may not be what you are expecting.Yep. I've been fogging my wife this evening - I've been reading "When I say no..." and figured she's usually a really draining nag. I'd been letting it get to me every time and it's a large part of the reason I'm here. So, change of plan. Instead of silently building resentment - or occasionally saying straight out "Stop criticising me" (which I think comes across as testiness), I'm trying a different tack. Every little "You're terrible!" gets a "Really? Well, yes, I suppose I am" response. I'll… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/15 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Had to soft next a plate to prevent her from leaving her husbandTo me, a large part of being your own man is about doing what's right. Not because you might get something out of it, but because it's the best thing to do. Sometimes, that might mean that you lose out - say, because you have to next a plate before she does something incredibly stupid. To pliagiarise shamelessly - You cannot be bidden. You cannot be forced. You will only do that which you know to be right. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/15 10:02 PM |
| 0 | At dinner party over the weekend, women says she only dates tall menThat's passive-aggressive. Which is how women fight each other. I got news for you, Buckeye. Women don't want to date other women for a reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 09:49 PM |
| 5 | Single Mother Snags a Rich ManGoing off topic, but I was thinking of hiring a personal trainer myself. Have you any recommendations for what I should look out for? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 07:15 AM |
| 1 | 17 No facial hair, what do?I didn't have to shave regularly until I was about 19, 20. It does happen. Don't try and fake it with what little bum fluff you have - shave it off and cultivate a look that doesn't require stubble. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 08:36 PM |
| 0 | false rape claims, men falsely accused of sexual assault, and the system against these men. This Reddit comment sums it up nicely.most large metropolitan police depts indicate that about 40-45% of all rape reports are false. Really? No bloody wonder rape clear up statistics are so terrible and women consistently report they're not taken seriously. The 45% are ruining it for the rest of them. Of course, we don't know if that "6 in 1000" figure is based on reported rapes, or reported rapes where there is no evidence to suggest they're bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 11:44 PM |
| 2 | false rape claims, men falsely accused of sexual assault, and the system against these men. This Reddit comment sums it up nicely.I love the way that we're accused of treating women like kids with absolutely no agency, but it's not us that decided that women are basically incapable of giving meaningful consent 99% of the time and so that decision should be taken from them. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 05:51 PM |
| 19 | false rape claims, men falsely accused of sexual assault, and the system against these men. This Reddit comment sums it up nicely.TBH, I suspect the truth goes more like this: The majority of those 6 in 1000 are genuine. So where did this "1 in 5" number come from? Well, were I to hazard a guess, I'd say a survey that was engineered to generate as many claims of rape as possible. Hell, I could think of a few ways to fudge the figures without even trying: "Has any man ever attempted to persuade you to have sex when you didn't want to?" (Every girl who's ever had a relationship for more than a few months is going to say "yes… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 02:36 PM |
| 5 | Contemplating Divorce: At What Point Is It Not Your Fault?And the marriage is way healthier now, but the more RedPill work I do, the less value I see in this marriage, even though the marriage is functioning better than ever. I assume you've read MMSL and MAP? From what you've said, I'm not terribly surprised. Your wife is coming around, but I think the question you need to ask yourself is "is the damage already done?". To me, it sounds like it is. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/01/15 11:38 AM |
| 7 | The female perspective and some reasons why they are how they are:I'm not convinced he isn't a young woman. He's probably what most BP men would become if they had the money and celebrity. They'd have women fawning over them for the money and celebrity but you can take a pretty good guess that they'll go through a number of high profile expensive divorces throughout their life. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 11:25 AM |
| 5 | Guy is best friend with girl for 10 years. She has a new boyfriend that threatens to beat his head in. Guess who she sides with?I don't think the problem is "women don't like nice guys". Having read NMMNG, I think the problem is that men have a totally fucked up view of what a "nice guy" is. So both genders are using the same terminology, but it means completely different things. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers Over 30: What Advice Would You Give A 20 Year-Old?Not only that, it's incredible danger masquerading as safety. Why? Because there's no such thing as a job for life any more. Work in the same role too long, and when the company closes or it gets restructured, you can find that basically the only job you know how to do is a very specific position in a very specific organisation that no longer exists. You're getting a rude awakening on that day, I can tell you. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/15 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers Over 30: What Advice Would You Give A 20 Year-Old?Well, let's see. I'm 35, but only came to RP a year ago. I think if I had one piece of advice for myself at your age, I'd say this: It is fantastically easy to get to a certain point in life and once you hit that point, you just drift. You've got your qualification, you've got a few years work experience, you're being paid reasonably well, you've got your LTR/wife, you've got your house and you just.... take your foot off the accelerator. It creeps up on you - and before you know it, your last p… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/15 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Update and New RP-Push Back from Wife - How to Handle?Sounds like you tried to engage with a woman who was throwing a temper tantrum. This, I suspect, is where you went wrong. Look at it this way: For whose benefit is she throwing the tantrum? If she was all alone in the house and something minor went wrong - let's say she broke a glass or accidentally stubbed her toe - would she be throwing such a fit? No, of course not. She'd probably shout "Damn!" a couple of times, tidy up the glass and get on with her life. She's throwing it because she wants … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/01/15 08:37 PM |
| 1 | PSA: To all of the guys out there with a pregnant woman unsure about paternity... Find a Red Pill doctor!Because what you wrote is straight out of Freeman on the Land-type arguments. I understand exactly how a contract works and it has absolutely nothing to do with who the legal father of a child is. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 03:20 PM |
| 1 | PSA: To all of the guys out there with a pregnant woman unsure about paternity... Find a Red Pill doctor!you are saying you are the father under contract Been reading Freeman on the Land stuff, by any chance? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Bought brother-in-law NMMNG and MMSLP for x-mas, pretty sure he's not going to read them...It's enormously tempting when you first swallow the pill to feel like you've suddenly learned this amazing truth - one that 90% of men are totally unaware of. It's only natural to respond to that by wanting every man you know to learn of this amazing thing - taking to the streets shouting "Eureka!" like a modern-day Archimedes. Problem is, life doesn't work that way. On the whole, people stick to what they know. For any sort of message to get across, it needs to be repeated over and over again f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/14 10:58 AM |
| 2 | The Modern Woman's Sexual StrategyI'm 35 and all my friends are married. Most married at about the age of 30 and they've just had the second kid. The first divorce was a year or two ago, but they married rather younger. I imagine the rest will follow soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 09:38 AM |
| 2 | The Modern Woman's Sexual StrategyIt is not our responsibility to worry about that. If we find a woman who genuinely is happier that way, good for her! But don't hold your breath, society has spent the last forty years telling girls that women in the 1950s had no opportunities, were frequently abused and on the whole a miserable bunch. By now, pretty much every woman under the age of 40 is utterly convinced it's true. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 09:31 AM |
| 5 | The Red Pill is even tougher to swallow for girlsHappened with my (female) cousin. Her hamster told her she "couldn't get pregnant" (which I think means "... so you don't need to bother with taking your pill!"). Amazing coincidence that she was about 31 at the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 10:34 PM |
| 15 | The Red Pill is even tougher to swallow for girlsRP isn't about PUA tricks; it's about genuinely seeking to be the best man you possibly can be. A lot of the time, the ultimate goal is "in order to get laid more often", but it's trying to get laid by being the sort of man that women are attracted to, not by faking it long enough to get the girl separated from her knickers. You can't do this without understanding what makes women interested in the first place - while we may not agree on everything, most men will agree that what gets results and… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 05:12 PM |
| 11 | The Red Pill is even tougher to swallow for girlsI think I understand you, but I also think that was worded a little clumsily. IME, most girls will ride the carousel until they're about 29-31 - then they'll get married and have babies so fast it'd make your head spin. I can't count the number of girls who were happy to bounce from one boyfriend to another, each relationship lasting maybe 10-12 months, then suddenly they meet someone and they're married with baby #1 on the way within 18-24 months. Some won't bother with the getting married firs… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 05:03 PM |
| 7 | You all know that women don't know what they want, right? Turns out they don't even know what they're aroused by.Go look up incidences of women having orgasms while being raped (genuine, stranger-in-a-dark-alley stuff). You'll find it's surprisingly high. Not a lot of women want to admit to it happening to them, of course, because society says it's not physically possible for a woman to have an orgasm unless it's with a partner who cares deeply for her and is prepared to spend an awful lot of time learning about her body. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 01:48 PM |
| 7 | You all know that women don't know what they want, right? Turns out they don't even know what they're aroused by.Essentially, yes. You ask a woman to back up her views - whether face to face or online - and as often as not she will trot out a list of things she thinks back her up, but a moment's objective review would show are completely meaningless. Things like articles in a magazine, popsci books (remember Random House don't work with editors who are going to ensure that every assertion is backed up by peer-reviewed research, they work with editors who will ensure that the book will sell well), blog post… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 01:43 PM |
| 4 | You all know that women don't know what they want, right? Turns out they don't even know what they're aroused by.Indeed - I was thinking a few months ago about finding a hobby that is reasonably masculine but will also include a good number of women so as to get my wife's hamster going in my favour. Then it hit me. Women are more likely to look at having children than having hobbies. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 01:32 PM |
| 7 | You all know that women don't know what they want, right? Turns out they don't even know what they're aroused by.Did you even read the summary? All these women were saying what they found attractive, but their vaginas were saying something else entirely. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 01:28 PM |
| 7 | You all know that women don't know what they want, right? Turns out they don't even know what they're aroused by.Don't try to do everything all at once; that way madness lies. Just concentrate on one or two things at a time, max. That's all you're going to do. One or two things. Once you're confident you can do them without thinking and they've become background tasks, as it were, then you move on to doing something else. Review your progress periodically to make sure you're going in the right direction. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 01:27 PM |
| 24 | You all know that women don't know what they want, right? Turns out they don't even know what they're aroused by.Oh, it's more than that. So much more. You know what women really want? The hypothetically perfect man? A well-honed body. On someone who is running their own successful business that brings in a strong income. But who only has to work 35 hours a week. He isn't afraid to assert himself - and can get his way without losing his temper. Who can treat the kids when they're well behaved, and instil a firm but gentle discipline when they're not. And has a couple of good manly hobbies to keep him occup… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 01:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys react/handle when something you say hurts your wife (when you didn't mean to hurt her)? Do you apologize? Examples would be nice.I'm using Nutracheck, which I'm very happy with, but it's a UK-centred app and I don't know if they have a US version. You really want to find something that's localised to your country because if it's done properly, it'll have a whacking great list of both common foods (eg. apples, potatoes, bread) and commercial foods (eg. Ben & Jerry's Phish Food); just punch in what you've eaten and it'll do the rest. For all you or I know, Phish Food is made to a totally different recipe in the US so the nu… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/12/14 11:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys react/handle when something you say hurts your wife (when you didn't mean to hurt her)? Do you apologize? Examples would be nice.It is, isn't it? Amazing how it creeps up on you and you realise that just to reset the scale to top-end-of-healthy, you need to lose 30lb. To be somewhere in the middle of "healthy", you need to lose more like 45lb. Count calories with a food diary. It takes a surprising amount of effort to burn off 200 calories; it's much much easier not to eat them in the first place - and if you're keeping a diary of everything, you have to think "do I really want to eat this?" There's plenty of smartphone a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/14 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys react/handle when something you say hurts your wife (when you didn't mean to hurt her)? Do you apologize? Examples would be nice.I'm not obese (5'8" @ 200#) Unless it's mostly muscle, you are. Well, borderline overweight/obese according to a BMI scale. (So am I. That was an eye opener). Thanks for that self-reflection. Though not comprehensive, its a good start to seeing where I need to improve. I wanted to cover most of the basics without going into too much detail. It's fascinating to see that we all have our strengths and our weak points. I was worried that my progress had hit a wall long before I'd got to where I want… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/14 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Stood up to my wife, she submitted, but now I feel bad.To my eye, this is clearly an abusive relationship and you are the one being abused my brother. He's being abused because he lets it happen. The little nibble of RP truth has helped, but I don't think our protagonist has realised quite what he's in for. I don't know if there's a cultural difference or what, but the other significant issue that I don't think we have really got across is this: You are expected to do most of the work for yourself in learning this stuff. Whether that's research onli… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/14 06:20 PM |
| 4 | RPers in LTRs - What made you settle?I was BP as hell when I settled. I'd never had much success with women (not because I was a particularly ugly teen but because I was a spectacularly oblivious one with oneitis for a girl who wasn't interested. The sheer number of girls who were showing an interest who I ignored makes me cringe today; if I could go back in time I'd probably spend several hours kicking myself around the room), so when this LTR went from weeks to months to years to where we are now (14 years), it just sort of happe… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/14 05:40 PM |
| 3 | After taking the red pill, cant enjoy favorite movies "It's a wonderful Life" or "Princess Bride"Now, who winds up galloping off into the sunset with the girl and who finishes the film tied to a chair? Who would most men rather be? If "The Princess Bride" isn't pretty damn close to the perfect RP movie, I don't know what is. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/14 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Totally blue pill, pussy whipped, Nice guy beginning to build myself, and seeing glimpses of a happy, Red Pill life. Thanks guys, and a special thanks to /u/jcprta! I owe you so much!By George, I think he's got it! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/14 03:55 PM |
| 11 | After taking the red pill, cant enjoy favorite movies "It's a wonderful Life" or "Princess Bride"Arguably, Westley was the perfect alpha. About the only mistake he made was not to make the first move on the princess - but the whole point of the movie was that they were from two very different social classes which pretty well precluded that anyway. Once you look past that, he's pretty well on the nail: Mastered sword fighting with both hands. Developed sufficient hand-to-hand combat skills as to beat Fezzik. Can be sneaky when he needs to be (iocaine powder in both cups). Is constantly learn… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/14 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Totally blue pill, pussy whipped, Nice guy beginning to build myself, and seeing glimpses of a happy, Red Pill life. Thanks guys, and a special thanks to /u/jcprta! I owe you so much!Well put. /u/LifeChoiceReflector : You're getting there, but it takes two people to fight. If you stop enabling your wife's fighting by simply going silent, she's going to have to find another way to engage with you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/14 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Totally blue pill, pussy whipped, Nice guy beginning to build myself, and seeing glimpses of a happy, Red Pill life. Thanks guys, and a special thanks to /u/jcprta! I owe you so much!On the contrary, I know things WILL go back to the old ways pretty easily if I don't build my frame quick enough. I'm working completely on changing myself. That's the spirit! That she's changing is completely a byproduct. Absolutely right. And remember outcome independence - the change in how she reacts is nice, but ultimately it isn't the end of the world if it doesn't quite work out how you'd like. Pop quiz - why is this? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/14 10:04 AM |
| 5 | Totally blue pill, pussy whipped, Nice guy beginning to build myself, and seeing glimpses of a happy, Red Pill life. Thanks guys, and a special thanks to /u/jcprta! I owe you so much!The first steps toward being a better man is to understand the aspects of your life that you need to work on, accept them and face up to them. If you don't accept them, how can you possibly deal with them? Now, if I may make a constructive suggestion? Going RP is an ongoing process, it's not a simple "read this book, you're fine forever". An important part of that process is how you look at yourself and the issues you face - this has to change. Far smarter people than I have written about this s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/12/14 09:05 PM |
| 3 | I want my girlfriend to lose weight, what should I do?This is the correct answer. Listen up, OP: When was the last time you saw a fat woman on the arms of a professional footballer? When do you think Emma Watson last opened her legs to a fat man? Doesn't happen. You tell her directly to lose weight, she's either going to look at you and think "why bother?". Or she's going to lose weight, look at you and think "Why am I still hanging around with this loser?". Neither of which are what you want. You need to take the lead. Once she sees you're rapidly… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/14 10:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys react/handle when something you say hurts your wife (when you didn't mean to hurt her)? Do you apologize? Examples would be nice.Ah, with you. I misunderstood your post. Agree entirely. There's a reason I didn't try and put words in his mouth - OP is not well served by that right now. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/12/14 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Redpill and Improving the WorldOne thing at a time. This subreddit is about 1,500 redditors. To put it into context, /r/spaceclop (a now-defunct subreddit that was a cross between /r/spacedicks and /r/clopclop) is around 3,000 redditors. Two X (which I won't dignify with a link) is 1.7 million. Some of the views regarding redpill ideas aren't popular. Largely that has more to do with the association with the subreddit than the idea itself - take them out of context and you'd be surprised how quickly people agree with you. As … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/12/14 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Beta virgin here. I lied about my SMV and now 3 girls want to sleep with me tomorrow morning. I'm confused and need help fast.Would you give a super rich guy a hand job for $15 million dollars? I think a lot of people would. I'd be going ballistic if he tricked me into giving him a hand job by pretending to be really rich. But I'm a man, there's a real limit on how much I could actually do to him. That wouldn't be true if I was a woman. For the accusations, how would they even know who I really am? I didn't give them a real name. You are right though, this feels dangerous. Okay, let's try a little thought experiment - … | /r/askTRP | 27/12/14 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys react/handle when something you say hurts your wife (when you didn't mean to hurt her)? Do you apologize? Examples would be nice.Christ, I've got some work to do! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/12/14 06:23 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys react/handle when something you say hurts your wife (when you didn't mean to hurt her)? Do you apologize? Examples would be nice.However, I can see you have been trying to get this persistent OP to convince him to start this process of self-examination. Clearly he isn't interested in it. This is why he will keep coming here over and over asking for advice about how to fight with his wife, instead of owning his shit. Until OP takes that brave lonely step and becomes an honest judge of his own shit, he is a lost cause. We can't make him do it. If he decides to do it, we will be here to hear him, and share how we did it, our… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/12/14 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Beta virgin here. I lied about my SMV and now 3 girls want to sleep with me tomorrow morning. I'm confused and need help fast.These are not prostitutes at all.... Yet they said no to $3k, maybe to $10k and yes to $15k. They might not be the crack whore who will give you a gummy blow job and your choice of STDs for $50, but they're still offering sex for money. It's an old joke, but it's relevant here: if you have sex with a prostitute then run off without paying, is it rape or theft? How will these girls see it? Assuming you are not trolling (given some of the threads which have been just TOO perfect on here lately, I'… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/14 10:55 AM |
| 4 | Field report: Funny MRP moment with my Grandma at ChristmasAmazing, isn't it? You spend most of your life afraid to speak up no matter what the provocation, then at some point you learn that you've been lied to your whole life - people will, on the whole, behave the way the situation demands they behave. Which means that if you control the situation, you get to control how they'll behave toward you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/12/14 08:25 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys react/handle when something you say hurts your wife (when you didn't mean to hurt her)? Do you apologize? Examples would be nice.Indeed, but this guy's been on redpill subreddits for a few days, basically outsourcing his balls to reddit. He needs tough love. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/14 09:50 PM |
| 7 | How do you guys react/handle when something you say hurts your wife (when you didn't mean to hurt her)? Do you apologize? Examples would be nice.I asked you those questions because you're obviously not asking them yourself. You should be. Nobody in this sub is perfect. In fact, to demonstrate this, I'm going to answer them for myself - and I invite others to do the same. You mentioned in an earlier post that your wife has been known to fawn over movie stars and the likes. Tell me, do you earn movie star wages? Very good wages? Average? Below average? Well above average, but not what I'd call "very good". I need to apply myself quite cons… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/12/14 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Do Emotionally Stable Women Exist?That would explain why my mum liked my dad. He was BP through and through and she's very headstrong; perhaps unsurprisingly it ended in divorce. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/14 07:44 PM |
| 6 | How do you guys react/handle when something you say hurts your wife (when you didn't mean to hurt her)? Do you apologize? Examples would be nice.You again? Let me ask you a few questions. Some are very personal, but I assure you they're being asked for a reason. Answer all of them honestly. You mentioned in an earlier post that your wife has been known to fawn over movie stars and the likes. Tell me, do you earn movie star wages? Very good wages? Average? Below average? Following on from this, tell me about your expenses. Have you, at any point in the last two years, had to worry about how you're going to pay the bills? If the answer is … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/12/14 06:20 PM |
| 0 | One day you'll find that one girl . . .TBH, I think women figure this out at an early age. Look at the dynamics between Lisa Simpson and Millhouse for an example in the media - he'd do anything for her but the more he fawns over her, the more she's driven away. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/14 11:44 AM |
| 3 | [UPDATE 2]: [UPDATE] Shit tested by wife abroad. Ended in her hanging up on me and bitter voice messages between us. How did/do I handle this?Just to add: There are two extremely good reasons why you're supposed to work on yourself before you start demanding respect from the women in your life. When your wife has mentally seen you as a "good little beta" for years, it takes a while for her attitude to shift to the Captain/First Mate dynamic. If she sees you starting to do Captain-y things for a while and treating her as a first mate, she should naturally drop into place. Sticking with the nautical theme, right now she sees you not as … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/12/14 11:37 AM |
| 4 | [UPDATE 2]: [UPDATE] Shit tested by wife abroad. Ended in her hanging up on me and bitter voice messages between us. How did/do I handle this?Agree entirely. I've been trying to push him in the direction of reading up but at the end of the day..... Horse, water, drink, anyone? To OP: I stand by everything I have said. You do not have the SMV to behave the way you are with your wife. She is not seeing an alpha taking control, she is seeing a beta playing up. Her natural response is going to be to go nuclear - were it not for the fact her culture frowns strongly on divorce, SHE would be the one divorcing YOU. You are using this subreddi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/12/14 11:27 AM |
| 1 | One day you'll find that one girl . . .Free hint: Disney doesn't just lie to us,. It lies to women too. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 11:23 PM |
| 2 | [UPDATE 2]: [UPDATE] Shit tested by wife abroad. Ended in her hanging up on me and bitter voice messages between us. How did/do I handle this?I have already listened to No more Mr. Nice guy. It's an amazing book describing exactly me, You and me both! but I've not been successful in putting the book into progress, mainly because I'm not ready yet. I tried to assert what I want to do, but obviously I need more than just that realization. I started about a year ago. I was fed up with having a terrible sex life and I was quite happy to give £5 to someone who reckoned he could tell me how to fix it. That was my introduction - MMSL (marrie… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 09:20 PM |
| 2 | [UPDATE 2]: [UPDATE] Shit tested by wife abroad. Ended in her hanging up on me and bitter voice messages between us. How did/do I handle this?I don't know your wife. I don't know how best to deal with her. Personally, I think you're better served with a quiet life, so do whatever will get you that. Why do I say you need a quiet life? Simple. You have a HELL OF A LOT OF WORK TO DO. More than you can possibly imagine. I suspect you're doing things backwards, it's the most logical explanation for the trouble you're having. If you do them forwards, you shut up until such time as you've internalised everything enough to deal with the resul… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 05:09 PM |
| 2 | [UPDATE 2]: [UPDATE] Shit tested by wife abroad. Ended in her hanging up on me and bitter voice messages between us. How did/do I handle this?I had a handful of female friends, but she made me cut contact with all of them. I should have broken up right then, 6 years ago. But I didn't. I was too addicted to the first girl who was in love with me, Sounds like she was your first girlfriend? Every teenager on Earth goes through this addiction stage with their first love, this idea that it's worth sacrificing everything to be with her. Usually what happens is you learn a very important life lesson six months later when you've split up and … | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 04:56 PM |
| 3 | [UPDATE 2]: [UPDATE] Shit tested by wife abroad. Ended in her hanging up on me and bitter voice messages between us. How did/do I handle this?You know what I think your problem is? I think you have read a few things on the sidebar and a few posts and decided you are ready to start putting some of these things into action - when you're blatantly not. I also think you need to read something a bit more structured - something that helps you understand all the places you're going wrong and put together a nice, easy to follow list of what you need to do to improve. Go read "Married Man Sex Life Primer", "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and "Does my a… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 04:23 PM |
| 1 | [UPDATE 2]: [UPDATE] Shit tested by wife abroad. Ended in her hanging up on me and bitter voice messages between us. How did/do I handle this?Guys, don't downvote him simply because he's posted a very BP response. He's the OP, he's here for help. He's not going to get that if all his replies are downvoted so low that nobody sees them. To /u/LifeChoiceReflector: You say you love her. There's 3.5 billion other women on this planet, what's so special about her? Does she fart glitter? Maybe her pussy tastes of prime steak? There must be something. Are there any kids? I assume not. In which case, you need to make a decision FAST: Do you wa… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 03:38 PM |
| 2 | [X-Post from /r/asktrp] Shit tested by wife abroad. Ended in her hanging up on me and bitter voice messages between us. How did/do I handle this? (Wall of Text, sorry)That kind of talk would repulse her. Let it. Did you have some idea in your head that as soon as you started trying to stand up for yourself, it'd be all easy? That your wife would shut up, become compliant and give you a blow job straight away? It doesn't work like that. You have to take charge. There will be push back; you need to be the firm rock that she can push back on all she likes, it won't get her anywhere. Agree and amplify results in a pushback? Try changing the subject. Changing the … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/14 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Can we establish a clear objective for this sub? Are we a safe place for men to discuss marriage or should we move over to /r/trp?Where do you draw the line, though? I daresay MMSL forums had a similarly lofty goal in mind... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/14 07:10 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Failing a Shit Test - LongI am so sick and tired of this horse shit. I wish there was a red pill switch that I could flip to do all of the things right... We all do. Couple of tips: Accept this is going to take some time. You can't change ingrained habits overnight. Just focus on two aspects of yourself to improve at a time. No more, no less. If you're anything like most of us, reading something like MMSL or NMMNG you wound up with a list of well over a dozen things to sort out. It isn't possible to do a dozen things sim… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/14 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Strategy suggestions - how to move forward?Stop calibrating your life to her behaviour. Thank you. You're absolutely right. I need to stop that. I also need a good regular kick up the arse, which I've had here. I just need someone to do that more often. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/12/14 07:17 PM |
| 12 | When Women Have a Taste of Their Own Medicine.So then, would you say that an LTR is a bit of a tightrope, between dread game on the one hand, and passing her comfort tests on the other? It's actually harder than that. Because not only is it a tightrope, it's one you absolutely categorically HAVE to be aware of and HAVE to walk. It's one that's only too easy to fail at horribly. If you relax and let up giving her too much comfort, two things will happen: Firstly, you'll wind up taking root in the couch, the telly your only form of entertainm… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 06:25 PM |
| 1 | I've figured out where my own BP mindset came from. My own Dad.Thing is, NMMG hurts. It hurts because everything it says rings so beautifully true. It hurts because you read it and think "Shit, it's like this guy knows me personally. I wish I knew this 5/10/20 years ago; how much better would life have been?". But if you're young enough, you can deal with it because you can always work to improve yourself and improve things. I can't help but think if you're in your 50s or 60s, it would be a LOT harder. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Women used to be just like youFor instance, I see often on instagram such things as "Strong is the new Beautiful". No sorry, beautiful is beautiful. Men don't want a woman that's like a man. Why do they even think that? It's not just men who are lied to. Women are too. The feminist lie is enormous and it pervades society at every level; so much so that to deny it publicly is to become a social pariah. It's not like it's some huge conspiracy that all the women are in on - quite the reverse, it would never work that way. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 10:54 AM |
| 0 | Women used to be just like youNot really. The sluts pussies would dry up like the sahara within minutes. You don't honestly think they'll be up for fucking betas now, do you? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Women used to be just like youWe should point out the role of the birth control pill, Plan B, and abortions. These changed the game for women. It gave them absolute control over reproduction, and are directly responsible for "their now unrestricted sexual nature". I have a cousin to which this applies perfectly. Lost her virginity young, her mum took her straight down the doctor to get her on birth control. As if by magic - she hits about, ooh, 30, 32 - and her boyfriend-at-the-time (who she'd known for a couple of months) i… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Fucking years...Well said. You spend a few months on here, it reads like everyone read a few things and their life was changed overnight. Well, that may be true for some very lucky men, but for most of us it's the beginning of a long, arduous process. It's thankless and you're often left thinking for every two steps forward you take, you're taking at least one back. I'm sure it's worth it in the end - a little light application has shown that RP theory has been more-or-less on the nail so far - but my God, if y… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 11:32 PM |
| 1 | GF threatens to call the cops. BF disappears off the planet. GF wonders why and if this is a deal breaker with guysYou'd be wrong. About 55-60% of all domestic violence is initiated by women. I guess it probably depends on where you draw the line between "shit test" and "outright violence". In my view, the one progresses from the other. Let me explain: Shit test failure is based on "how much shit will this man put up with before he puts an emphatic stop to it?". Note that "asking her nicely not to do it" is not an emphatic stop. Losing control is not an emphatic stop. Whining is not an emphatic stop. "(NAME)… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Remember, you are here because of a lack of male role models in your lifeDeeper than that. I'm here because of a lack of male role models in my Father's life. I looked up to him when he was alive, and I still miss him. But dear God did he need to know all this. He needed to know it twenty years before I was born. His dad was away on business most of the time he was growing up, which meant he had a pretty lonely childhood, raised by his mum. He joined the Navy at the age of about 18; the "official" view within the family doesn't really consider why. But I have a prett… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 09:25 AM |
| 1 | I took the redpill and, goshdarnit, it worked!We know. Why is something that's been speculated over and over - some say when think we're being nice, we're not so nice (see also NMMNG); some say that from a biological perspective, being a nice guy is a complete dead-end (see also MMSL). But I'm not sure that's terribly important. What is important is that BP behaviour simply does not work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/14 10:30 PM |
| 2 | GF threatens to call the cops. BF disappears off the planet. GF wonders why and if this is a deal breaker with guysYou learned an important lesson. When neither will back down, the one who wins a fight is ultimately the one who will inflict the most violence. Nobody likes to admit it, but it's ultimately true. And any woman with half a brain will, when confronted with even the slightest sniff of violence, respond in kind. Chances are she can't inflict the same violence herself, which is why she threatens the police. That's why RP is vitally important to a modern relationship. It teaches you to handle yoursel… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 09:27 PM |
| 1 | GF threatens to call the cops. BF disappears off the planet. GF wonders why and if this is a deal breaker with guysRun away from any display like this. They are the same ad the guy that punches his wife every night. Your apology will do nothing and it will happen again. At the risk of going a step too far: after spending some time on here, I'm rapidly reaching the conclusion that 80% of domestic violence is caused by BP men who don't know how to deal with shit tests. Let's face it, many of us have been on the wrong end of a shit test that went too far. Most of us would shout or walk away before we do somethi… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 09:19 PM |
| 1 | The Herbivore's Dilemma: Japan panics about the rise of "grass-eating men," who shun sex, don't spend money, and like taking walks.I think there's every possibility that will work. My wife had to give up work for health reasons; I told her in no uncertain terms that if she wasn't earning money, she could look after the house. She's made a start on it but one thing I have noticed is you have to stay absolutely on top of your frame, particularly in regard to shit tests - when you're married, they take many forms. They're not just throwaway comments, they can be in actions, in constant nagging - the list goes on and on. The th… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 08:38 PM |
| 1 | The Herbivore's Dilemma: Japan panics about the rise of "grass-eating men," who shun sex, don't spend money, and like taking walks.I have a feeling though that the kind of guy who ends up in that situation is also the kind of guy who doesn't lawyer up well, or fight these things to win. You've never looked into divorce under UK law, I can tell. Hint: The man is usually earning an income (though he's moved out and is now paying rent on top of the mortgage, which he's usually advised to continue to pay). He doesn't qualify for legal aid. This is precisely the situation I'm in. The woman is often not earning an income (which i… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 08:20 PM |
| 1 | The Herbivore's Dilemma: Japan panics about the rise of "grass-eating men," who shun sex, don't spend money, and like taking walks.Funny you should say that. I realised after I wrote this that this nagging is a form of shit test. A different form to the types usually discussed - most of the types discussed expect a shit test to be a one-off throwaway comment, not a constant low-level whinge. And I had missed out one of the methods listed to deal with it: "Take command". So I did that when she woke up this morning and immediately jumped onto the nagging. Firm voice, "I am working hard to pay the mortgage on this house. You c… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 08:08 PM |
| 1 | The Herbivore's Dilemma: Japan panics about the rise of "grass-eating men," who shun sex, don't spend money, and like taking walks.Good question. Thing is, she's perfectly okay when she's good. It's just the good bits have become fewer and spaced farther apart. There's a few reasons I haven't left. First, I understand now that most of the reason things are bad is actually my own fault - I read through NMMG, highlighted the bits that sounded like me and now about 40% of the book is yellow. Something similar happened when I read MMSL. This means I have a LOT of work to do to become a decent catch myself. At the rate I'm going… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 07:21 PM |
| 39 | The Herbivore's Dilemma: Japan panics about the rise of "grass-eating men," who shun sex, don't spend money, and like taking walks.I'm not surprised. I'm a married man, mid 30's. And frankly, things aren't that great. The shit tests are there, but they're not the occasional little things you can ignore. Nor are they the occasional big thing you can blow back with A&A or pressure flip. Instead, they're a constant stream of low-level moaning - literally every 5-10 minutes. Ignoring does not work, any sort of response is hamstered into a beta whine. Even walking away is "flouncing off". Kino? Drag her into bed like a caveman? … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 10:02 PM |
| 3 | [Update] From crisis to crisis, making it impossible to redpill. Now marriage is the lowest it's ever been and it seems divorce is looming!Right, you had sympathy last time. Fat lot of good that did. So what you're going to get now is tough love. You may not like what you're going to read, but you need to hear it. So much so, I'm going to put it in bold type. You cannot control what other people think, what they do or how they react to you. Stop hoping your wife is going to magically start behaving in a particular way, because that's not how it works. Yeah, yeah, I hear you. Waah, that sounds difficult! I want a quick fix! You know… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/14 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Strategy suggestions - how to move forward?As far as that goes, my suggestion is to pick 2 things to work on and start small so they becom a habit and expand from there. If you do the stuff I suggested above without starting to improve on yourself it won't make your wife anymore receptive to you. The MAP portion of MMSLP is what you need to focus on. Been doing exactly that, the only problem was that I found so many things to deal with it was impossible to do a good job of them all at once. I'm doing one thing right now - sort out my die… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/14 10:38 PM |
| 2 | I think my current SO of 4 years has me pegged as a 'nice guy.' I don't want to be this 'nice guy' but I feel like it's just who I am regardless of whether I'm interacting with women or not.I am generally a stand up guy. I give a shit about my friends, treat them with respect, and expect them to do the same. Same goes for my relationships. I am fit, smart, working to better myself professionally, physically, mentally, and so on. I have a good job (2 actually, of which I enjoy both). You sound like the stereotypical "nice guy". Many of us fall into this trap. The problem is that genuinely nice guys in the way we perceive ourselves are as rare as hen's teeth - as often as not our att… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/14 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Strategy suggestions - how to move forward?Your description was cringe worthy. The exhausted Beta guy laying in bed waiting/hoping/praying that his wife will come to bed and give him some attention. I know, that's why I'm here! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/14 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Keep TRP to yourselfThat is why I attack guys here who want to evangalize. It will bite them in the ass, it bit me in the ass many times. It's typical "nice guy" thinking - thinking you can make everything better for everyone. Something plenty of BP'ers (and no shortage of new RP'ers) are guilty of. Not only can you not do that, you're more likely to cause resentment in people than gratitude. Far better to expend your energy on making yourself better than someone else. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 10:38 PM |
| 4 | After 3 months of marriage, woman is no longer in shape. Husband admits he's not turned on anymore and begs her to go to the gym. Instead, she drags him to "counseling".He offered to watch the baby while she worked out. She has no excuse. Well, she does. She could divorce him and find someone else. It'd be nice to fantasise that she'll have a helluva job doing this as a single mum, but there's no shortage of white knight men out there looking to be a dad without having to have sex first. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 10:32 PM |
| 9 | After 3 months of marriage, woman is no longer in shape. Husband admits he's not turned on anymore and begs her to go to the gym. Instead, she drags him to "counseling".I find it amusing that married women whine and blame men for being judgemental. Women - well, people in general terms, to be fair - are lazy creatures. It doesn't make much sense to waste one iota of energy in a world where you don't know where the next meal is coming from - which pretty well describes life for 99% of humans for most of our evolution. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 10:30 PM |
| 0 | After 3 months of marriage, woman is no longer in shape. Husband admits he's not turned on anymore and begs her to go to the gym. Instead, she drags him to "counseling".That will either trigger improvement or divorce and it seems like she already is set on divorce.... talk about cheap.... In which case, he's got absolutely nothing to lose. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Chinese man moves to Ukraine and lands a 17 year beauty.I thought most countries don't force you to marry a woman you impregnated any more? They can still force you to pay for the sprog. So you get all the responsibilities of being a dad with none of the benefits. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 11:57 AM |
| 6 | Princeton Mom: Learn from mistake sexThe typical underlying act is violence (or, in some cases, trickery). The sex is just the prize, for lack of a better word. You wouldn't defend a bank robber by making the claim that money is normal and non-criminal. Not entirely true. The law (and for that matter the feminist agenda) in many western countries is very simple: sex without consent is rape. The problem is there's all sorts of grey areas. Which of the following is rape? Woman is walking alone at night, goes down a dark alley. A man … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Princeton Mom: Learn from mistake sexI'd like to see Russel Brand take on this topic. I suspect Russell Brand values his career far too much to get involved in that particular battle. He's not usually afraid of putting his foot in it but I think he'd draw the line there. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 11:29 AM |
| 3 | (Daily) [UPDATE] The neverending narrative of the headstrong hamsterYou being an unsupportive child is going to drive her and your daughter away. That right there is a shaming tactic. Our OP is trying to be a better man and has come on here looking for constructive help. Calling him an "unsupportive child" is neither helpful nor constructive | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/12/14 11:22 AM |
| 2 | (Daily) [UPDATE] The neverending narrative of the headstrong hamsterOr tell her it is a good idea. Encourage her to go. Heya babe maybe you should go to your mom's house so you can have some woman talk. I have not been the most sympathetic guy lately etc. Is this wise? Two hamsters can spin a lot faster than one. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/12/14 11:19 AM |
| 3 | 70-year-old man accused of rape for having sex with wife when she had Alzheimer'sAll the more reason to disgrace him now and avoid a lengthy battle over who gets what when Mum dies. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 11:17 PM |
| 1 | [UPDATE] The continuing saga of the headstrong hamster.You have to look at the bigger picture. The idea is NOT to have a quiet life. If you think there's some magic formula to having a nice quiet easy life with lots of sex and little fighting - that's "nice guy" thinking. It's complete rubbish; the world doesn't work that way. Sometimes things are easy, sometimes they're not. The idea is to have a good, fulfilling life. And to do that, you have to take charge of your life. Challenging? Yes indeed. But you're a grown man, you're meant to be able to d… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/12/14 10:09 PM |
| 1 | [UPDATE] The continuing saga of the headstrong hamster.That, old chap, is not a decision anyone else can make. You have to decide for yourself. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/14 10:36 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with constant, tiny little corrections that are valid, but don't really matter?Read Shit tests 101. This is a relatively easy one - you could use more-or-less any of the options in there to deal with it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/14 10:20 PM |
| 2 | [UPDATE] The continuing saga of the headstrong hamster.This stuff seems like it will land you in divorce court faster than a speeding bullet. In reality the new strong man drives women wild with turbulent passion. TRP comes with a warning. Sometimes, it really will land you in divorce court. TRP is not for men who are perfectly content with their lot, it's for men who are sick and tired with saying "yes dear, no dear, three bags full dear", still arguing and still not getting laid. So much so, they're probably within 12 months of divorce court anywa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/14 10:06 PM |
| -3 | /r/science suddenly becomes aware of Dread game and is amazed and wants to explore moreBut that's just confidence because you love her so much and are so emotionally available! Dread game doesn't real! I know you were being sarcastic, but they're two sides of the same coin. The man who's confident he can get laid whenever he wants and doesn't have to worry too much about finding a woman is going to behave rather differently to the man who's terrified to fart. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Tantrum Tuesday - 12/09/14 - In your anger phase of swallowing the pill? This is your thread.I'm still hating the fact, not that men are oblivious to all this, but that women act oblivious to it while living it out! Self-awareness at that level is a rare trait, in both men and women. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Did I do this right? Shit test.Right. Go to Amazon.com. Buy yourself a copy of "No More Mr. Nice Guy". I don't care if you go for the kindle version, a hardcopy or what but FFS buy it. Read it no fewer than three times. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/14 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Did I do this right? Shit test.You sound exactly like me (except for the wife being pregnant bit). You NEED to spend time apart. Her hamster is shit-testing you constantly. If you're not there, there are two immediate benefits: The hamster can't initiate shit tests. The hamster is going to start thinking "I wonder what he is doing....? Someone else, maybe?". In short, it'll be working for you, not against you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/14 10:14 PM |
| 5 | Guy finds out that his wife cheated on him, yet forgives her, but then finds out that she is pregnant.This guy is setting himself up for more grief than he can ever imagine. Why? Because (assuming he's in a Western country), many Western countries don't care about who the biological father is when deciding about alimony after a divorce. If you were married when the kid was conceived and you behaved as if you were the father, you can be held liable for paying after a divorce even if you're not the dad. It's an extreme example, but it could very easily play out that they divorce a year or two afte… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Guy finds out that his wife cheated on him, yet forgives her, but then finds out that she is pregnant.Females are genetically programmed to be with as many mates as possible. Not entirely true. Programmed to be very selective over their mates but drop one like a hot potato when they get a better offer. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Woman talking about not treating husband fairly enough, respondents hamster is so fast, it goes backwardsITYM chores. Choirs are a group of people singing together. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Woman talking about not treating husband fairly enough, respondents hamster is so fast, it goes backwardsMost upvoted comments are either congratullating her on her new awarness and telling her to keep it up or outright telling her she is an abusive person and she needs to start by apologizing to the husband. Point is, TwoX is usually full of women circle jerking about how they're wonderful and men are terrible. That entire thread would frankly make more sense on this sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Urgent question about trpI think there's a few things to bear in mind. Most of the writings on the sidebar are by men who have long learned to accept TRP teachings and are happy with who they are. The same, alas, can't be said for many of the men posting on here. This sub is absolutely chock-full of men who are more than a little bitter. They've been told for as long as they were old enough to understand spoken language that women want someone gentle, sensitive, thoughtful. They've spent years suppressing natural instin… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/14 08:25 PM |
| 3 | RedPill awakening is contagious!If you haven't, read "No More Mr. Nice Guy". Get an electronic copy (pay for one, tightwad!) and highlight every sentence that rings true. Then come back and tell us how much of your copy is yellow. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/14 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Ultimate dread: Tell your wife you're going to have an affair.Every two xer in the world would tell you it was wrong , and manipulative ...clearly skirting the facts that Also skirting the fact that "manipulative" is a massive weasel-word, not to mention a double standard: If we define "manipulative" as "any behaviour engineered to persuade someone to do something they might otherwise not do" (which, at its core, is precisely what "manipulative" means), wearing sexy underwear is "manipulative". Women use manipulative tactics all the time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/14 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Woman from Norway sentenced to pay $50.000 for false rape accusations, after the man recorded their whole date.That's an extremely good question, and not one I'd considered. ISTR a low rape conviction rate has been a problem for decades - at least that's how it's portrayed in the media. Maybe it's not so simple you can point at one thing and say "There. That's why there's a low rape conviction rate". | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 08:07 PM |
| 3 | AWALT: GF that thinks 'porn is disgusting' except for the shemale / anal / pregnant gangbangs in her browser history.I don't have any peer-reviewed journal-type things, but if you google "women orgasm rape" you'll find all sorts of interesting articles: http://www.popsci.com/science/article/2013-05/science-arousal-during-rape http://www.net-burst.net/hope/rape_orgasm.htm http://www.pandys.org/articles/arousalandassault.html HAVING SAID THAT: I would agree with /r/Dokkobro. Unless you take a very, very concerned "... and this is just one of the terrible things that make rape hard for women to deal with" view (w… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 09:07 PM |
| 10 | Woman from Norway sentenced to pay $50.000 for false rape accusations, after the man recorded their whole date.Keep yelling false rape ladies because eventually, just like in the fable, the wolf does show up and your crying will be in vain. You know something? I think it already has, at least to a certain extent. Here in the UK, stories abound of police forces "failing to get a conviction" for rape. And a female (female!) judge famously said that rape conviction rates will not improve until women stop getting drunk. The "problem" (if indeed it is a problem), I think, can be summed up in a few sentences: … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 08:39 PM |
| 22 | AWALT: GF that thinks 'porn is disgusting' except for the shemale / anal / pregnant gangbangs in her browser history.Not sure it's quite that simple. Myself, I think it's an extension of wanting a man who has the confidence to take what he wants - a hark back to caveman times where the alpha male didn't really care much if the woman he was interested in wanted it. Incidentally, if you search around you'll find a lot of rape victims had an orgasm when they were raped and had a lot of mental issues afterwards - because society has told them it's physically impossible to have an orgasm unless you're with a man wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Looks don't make up the majority of a man's SMVI think you've over-simplified it. I agree that looks aren't necessarily that important, but I also think you need to take a step back and look at the bigger picture. A man's SMV comes from a number of places: Facial features. Body. Personality. Capital (ie. disposable cash you can lay your hands on right this minute). Earning right now (how much you'll bring in over the next 12 months). Earning potential (how much you could be bringing in a couple of years down the line). Power over other peopl… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 11:09 AM |
| 5 | FR: I want a divorceGet yourself onto /r/marriedredpill No disrespect to the people on here - the ideas are by and large pretty sound - but it's mostly oriented towards men who are neither in nor interested in any sort of LTR. Too much of it is poisonous, you'll wind up wanting a divorce more than you'll want to patch things up. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 08:38 PM |
| 10 | Is "muscle shaming" common?It's a form of crab bucket mentality. There's only one way out of the bucket, and that is to ignore the crabs that are pulling you down and just carry on regardless. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 02:14 PM |
| 1 | "Yes means Yes" App for consentVirtually everything RP-esque makes perfect sense viewed through an evolutionary psychology lens. Granted, it's more wild speculation than it is proper science, but in a universe where sex leads to babies and making and raising babies is a very risky activity (remember, evolution takes place over millions of years, it knows damn all about modern society and healthcare), you sure as hell aren't going to hang around a man who'd make a lousy dad. Ideally you want a big, strong man who will tear apa… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/14 09:57 PM |
| 2 | "Yes means Yes" App for consentAt first I would hit her pretty softly, and ask again - give it to me. Then a little harder - again, give it to me. She would NEVER give in. Never. Even though she was really getting hurt. My wife does the same thing - escalate an argument ad infinitum, no matter how firmly I tell her to knock it off - and I think it's for the same reason. You were failing the shit test. There is a theory - I've seen Athol Kay espouse it, and FWIW I think he may have a point - that says shit tests are there to s… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 09:28 PM |
| 21 | Man Goes Redpill, wife asks if shes being petty about about it. (xpost from r/relationships)The spreadsheet husband is what happens. The femisphere exploded with outrage for not respecting a woman's right to a dead bedroom. I recall that, and I also seem to recall that it wasn't as one-sided as that. Quite a few women took one or more of the following attitudes: "Jesus, girl, exactly how difficult is it to have sex with the man you love?!" "I hope I'm having sex with my boyfriend/husband enough that he doesn't feel the need to do the same thing. How embarrassing!" Must say I was pleasa… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 09:53 PM |
| 1 | "Yes means Yes" App for consentafter-the-fact feedback/rating system. Hahaha! That's fantastic! I can just see an ebay-style set of ratings and feedback that people would gladly show prospective partners. "You're okay with me, love, four and a half stars and recent feedback including OMG FANSTASTIC ORGASM!!11oneone" | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 07:07 PM |
| 3 | "Yes means Yes" App for consentWon't work. The law does not care about any of that. The law only cares about the resulting child and what it needs. How the child wound up getting conceived is neither here nor there. And the child needs feeding, clothing and housing. Neither partner can easily relinquish their financial duties - they certainly can't do so with some home-cooked quasi-legal document. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 07:03 PM |
| 3 | "Yes means Yes" App for consent"18,271 people checked in here". | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 06:59 PM |
| 3 | "Yes means Yes" App for consentEven if you showed them a news report from the future, in which all men had sworn off women due to draconian laws, they would do the same thing. There will be a new form of rape defined, in which a man refuses to have sex he's committing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 06:57 PM |
| 13 | Taking the pill makes listening to pop music not only tolerable, but interestingNot at all - I've commented it on here before myself. Doesn't even have to be pure bubblegum pop type stuff. Britpop, indie, grunge, punk, rock; pretty much every genre has at least a few examples of RP wisdom set to music. Off the top of my head: Heart, "All I wanna do is make love to you": girl has a beta provider who's firing blanks. Finds an alpha to get her pregnant and then runs straight back to the beta. Cyndi Lauper, "Money changes everything": "You were a perfectly good beta provider, b… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 06:49 PM |
| 1 | "We're going to get married when we're 35." My wake up call.It's not as simple as that. There's a dirty little secret that they don't tell you when you go self-employed. 90% of people who do that are woefully under-employed and could earn a hell of a lot more as an employee. There are exceptions - people who are highly qualified and experienced in a particular field and become consultants, for instance - but they're in the minority. He's not beholden to a 9-5 job but he's in the theatre - so instead he's beholden to unsocial hours and having little choic… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Emma Watson says, "Gender equality not only liberates women but also men from prescribed gender stereotypes" as she dates an alpha male jockI don't think it's anywhere near as thought through as that. Women are very social creatures (by which I mean "they crave to be accepted as part of a group", not "they like to go out drinking with their friends every night"), and as such very much aware of what society thinks. We know what happens when someone publicly dissents from the socially acceptable view - hell, we see rp ideas absolutely buried and proponents crucified if they so much as breathe the word "red". And society is very clear … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Both of us make ~$350K/yr. Why not marriage?You're both making $350k now. Who knows where you will be five, ten years down the line. There is every possibility that after a couple of kids your wife won't want to go back to work - or if she does, she'll intentionally seek work with reduced responsibility, hours and pay. Before you know it, you're on the wrong end of a divorce. Which in simple terms means all the financial responsibility of having a family but none of the benefits. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/14 03:45 PM |
| 2 | "We're going to get married when we're 35." My wake up call.This delusional and undeserved entitlement only exists because of men with low self-esteem that DO go for the used up trash that any other self-respecting man would disregard. I can see my brother heading in exactly that direction. He's 28 and I don't recall ever having seen him with a girlfriend; he's a very big (read: fat) chap and I think that's seriously dented his confidence in terms of approaching women. He's also not earned much historically - he's self-employed and it's only in the last … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/14 02:43 PM |
| -5 | "We're not going to have sex every day any more."If you're coming to RP after many years of being a beta, initially it will be inauthentic. You can't change years of ingrained behaviour overnight. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 09:03 PM |
| 2 | FR: "Why did you dump me?" "Because you wouldn't fuck"My first gf was like that. Lost her virginity at a young age, then six months later decided all those other dicks didn't count and she'd lost it to me. Had I known then what I know now..... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 08:57 PM |
| 1 | A 35 year old woman throws a tantrum on TXC because her boyfriend realizes he wants to be a father and that 35 is too old for a woman to give birth to a healthy childBut the temptations for her are greater also. Use her looks to delay getting serious til 35 and the skin starts to lose elasticity, makeup like crazy to get a guy ... and then the womb doesn't work any more. Oops. Which is exactly what I'm seeing being played out in slow-motion. There are a handful who got pregnant young and subsequently married someone - not necessarily the father of their children. The man they married was usually several years older (further down his career path, earning more… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/14 07:28 AM |
| 1 | A 35 year old woman throws a tantrum on TXC because her boyfriend realizes he wants to be a father and that 35 is too old for a woman to give birth to a healthy childBut what was she doing during her fertile years? I sympathize with her thoughts, now that it may be too late. Try a little social experiment. There is a point to this, so bear with me. This works particularly well if you're in your 30s and you have a lot of old school friends as friends on Facebook. Make a list of all the women you're friends with on Facebook. Okay, now follow their Facebook histories back and work out when they got married and when they first got pregnant. This is usually very … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 09:30 PM |
| 12 | How NOT to behave: An AFC takes out his frustration in a dating app.There are PLENTY of people on this very sub who can attest that this is exactly what happens when you fuck up with women often enough. You get so sick of hearing "no" that your natural reaction becomes one of sour grapes, probably to try and convince yourself that you weren't interested in that woman anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 08:21 PM |
| 34 | How NOT to behave: An AFC takes out his frustration in a dating app.It's worse than that, now I think about it. Everyone's shaped by their experiences. Let's look at the girl's side - she just politely said "no" and for her efforts she gets basically harassed. Any women who see that thread will think "so that's the thanks she gets for being straight with him?". The upshot is she's going to go to radio silence for anyone who isn't interesting. Why bother with a polite "no" when it just results in abuse? This is why women don't "see" betas - it's not that they're … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 08:10 PM |
| 10 | Alimony Helped Kill Robin WilliamsDepression, officially, and it seems quite common that people who are that smart are also slightly mentally unstable. All joking aside though, you take someone who's slightly mentally unstable and put them through a legal system that essentially makes them slaves to their ex-wives while having to live on the breadline themselves - and you think they're going to come out of it with a smile on their face?! | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/14 11:13 AM |
| 3 | Alimony Helped Kill Robin WilliamsIn many parts of the world, they do very little or nothing - laws have been drafted to ensure there's very little you can write into a prenup that's binding. When you're looking at divorcing someone with that sort of money, it wouldn't be too hard to find a divorce lawyer who's only too happy to make the case that the prenup should be thrown out. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/14 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Everyone who swallows TRP always says this.A big feature of my teens is I'd develop serious oneitis for a girl who was not even remotely interested and then I wouldn't have the balls to say or do anything about it for fear of the inevitable rejection. So much so that I was utterly unable to tell when a girl who wasn't my intended was interested in me. This combination kept me from even getting to know a girl properly, much less getting laid for far longer than was healthy. Hell, I didn't even know what order things went in when a relatio… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/14 11:00 AM |
| 13 | Oh AskHamsters... you're always good for a laugh.Despite what any SJW says, there's two issues at stake regarding commitment: ISSUE 1: It's a heck of a lot easier to raise kids when you don't need to worry about money coming in; you have a man providing regular income. The social safety net ain't that great in most Western countries, it certainly does not compare to a partner who can help out practically as well as financially. No-fault divorce means that if the man isn't providing the dream relationship the woman wants, she can divorce him an… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/14 10:36 AM |
| 1 | I am never EVER getting married!They're probably worse, if anything. The way it (usually) works - and how I think it worked in this case by the sound of things - is simple: The woman approaches a solicitor to arrange a divorce. She isn't working and so qualifies for legal aid. The man has to get a solicitor himself. Of course, he's the breadwinner and is working so he does not qualify for legal aid. Legal aid doesn't mean you get a solicitor free of charge. It means if you have any big assets (such as a house), a charge is pla… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/14 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Put a fork in it: MMSL has officially sold out to the feminine imperative. Stay strong Red PillI haven't spent too much time on the forums for the very simple reason that they don't really add much value - if anything, they take away from it. Why? I've read the MAP book - and it's actually pretty damn solid. It gives a simple, easy to follow structure for how to sort out every BP aspect of your life with the endgame being that if your wife doesn't step up her attitude pretty drastically, you're then in a much stronger position to give her an ultimatum: put out or get out. Most of the "sor… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/14 03:58 PM |
| 7 | Utopian dream of all female production company self destructs. Hilarity ensues and provides further evidence tending to support Red Pill Theory about the nature of women.Bet you anything you like not a single job was advertised anywhere. She found her staff by asking people she already knew, neatly sidestepping having to deal with applicants being rejected because of gender. There were never any applicants. Either that or it simply never occurred to any male applicants that their CV might be binned because of gender. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/14 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Figured out something important about sexual withdrawal and the nature of women. Why you MUST not lose frame in the face of continual sexual denials....I think it's probably more about control. Women only really have one powerful tool open to them to get what they want - manipulation. Most girls have become absolute masters at this by the time they reach their late teens - much more so than any man will ever be. And that's precisely what orgasm denial is a form of - manipulate your man into doing precisely what you want in the hope of getting laid. 9 times out of 10, it works beautifully - men are so keen on getting laid that by the time they n… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/14 09:02 PM |
| 4 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."I think that that is what the author of the discussed post is saying and is confused as to the nature of trp or maybe doesn't accept that its a small community and that some posts may not summarise the community's view. Can you blame him? trp is supposed to be about making yourself a better person so as to ultimately make you more sexually attractive. Yet a quick look on the front page of /r/theredpill right now shows: "Women in the workforce are a net zero" - Cod science with little to back it … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 09:29 PM |
| 0 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."IME feminists seem to consider citing a book as being equivalent to citing an article in a peer-reviewed journal - yet can never cite anything in any peer-reviewed journal. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Got slapped by a fat girl last night and got told to leave. What do?Faking the call would be a bad idea. She has literally never seen a man call her on her shit. That, after all, is why she was slapping him and laughing that he "didn't do anything" - she felt comfortable that she could get away with this. The minute he pulls out his phone, the hamster is likely to be screaming "HE IS FAKING, THERE IS NOBODY ON THE OTHER END OF THE PHONE!!1ONEONE". You're going to look like one helluva pussy when the hamster turns out to be right. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Give her the Red Pill ultimatum.Warning: Huge potential for a DLV if you take her back. Think about the subtext of your actions - because she certainly will. ln this case, I read them as "I may not come chasing after you - but I'm perfectly happy to take you back if you fuck off then have second thoughts a few days later". | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/14 03:39 PM |
| 3 | There's a petition to get the youtube channel 'simple pickup' removed because talking to a woman, any woman, is 'street harassment'Not entirely true. They want it, but they only want it from the natural alphas. They certainly do NOT want some pansy beta to fool them into thinking he's a better catch than he really is. That'd be downright dangerous - what if he knocks her up? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 04:58 PM |
| 3 | There's a petition to get the youtube channel 'simple pickup' removed because talking to a woman, any woman, is 'street harassment'There's a glimmer of truth to this. Right now, the Western world is essentially exploiting China's amazing ability to produce consumer products incredibly cheaply on the assumption that we can "carry on doing the design - the expensive, difficult bit that's highly paid - in the West and just let the Chinese do the manufacturing. We'll make shed loads of money; everyone's happy". As if there is never going to be some clever chap in China think to himself "hang on a minute.... if we do the design … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 04:56 PM |
| 1 | There's a petition to get the youtube channel 'simple pickup' removed because talking to a woman, any woman, is 'street harassment'What ive seen are more of challenge pickups, i.e. dressed as pikachu etc... proving everyday Joe's that you dont need to look like Tom Hardy to get a girls number. I'd go a step further than this. I'm a bit old for it all (and married) now, but I am not, nor have I ever been Mr. Universe. I think the best way to describe my body would be "Not enormously fat. Could do with losing a few pounds in belly fat, but would also need to put on muscle or I'll look like I'm made out of string". You know wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 04:45 PM |
| 1 | My last desperate hope before acceptance?You've got the wrong end of the stick. It's not so much that women lie/are full of shit/can't be trusted. It's that women's sex drive is both reactive and hypergamous - and women (to be fair, most people to a certain extent) tend to project their thoughts and feelings onto others. The lying/full of shit/can't be trusted is simply a natural consequence of this. What do we mean by this? Well, it's probably easiest to look at a man's sex drive: very strongly proactive. In other words, a man doesn't… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/14 06:26 PM |
| 2 | I don't like my wife.I'm new to this myself. Started learning about it all last Christmas, when I was really hacked off with my wife (for very similar reasons to yourself) and just about ready to say "fuck it". Six months I've been working on this, and I'm only just now starting to recognise shit tests with any degree of reliability (hint: if she says something that you feel a gut reaction to, whether or not it's a shit test doesn't really matter. How you react to it does). You said yourself you're new to this. If y… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/14 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Guy and his wife living in bliss until she gets pregnant, then he finds out what he's really married toI think the last point I made is one of the most important. Do not underestimate the power of the hamster. Taking a somewhat contrived example (but one I have seen in real life): if she's pregnant at a time in her life that you wouldn't immediately consider optimal (in a relationship that's been going all of four months, for instance - but she's 32 years old), it's probably safe to assume that she was more concerned about her age than she was about the future of the relationship. The hamster wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 08:49 AM |
| 8 | My friend's response to his parents "you gotta lock her down and put a ring on her"Doesn't work like that. People are naturally drawn towards a partner who can provide things that they can't. Traditionally, this meant that marriage was a dead simple transaction: the man provides income and stability, the woman nurtures kids and looks after the house. Both are better off because both get things out of the relationship they wouldn't otherwise have. The problem that society is facing now is that a career woman doesn't need a man for a stable income. But a man can't provide kids a… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Is there anything more privileged and entitled than a beautiful woman?Tell me about it! I can think of a few examples myself - Facebook is full of 'em. The girl who was never stunning but very attractive in a girl-next-door kind of way. I admit I had a thing for her myself when I was in my teens - though I was far too BP to do anything about it. She's married to a chap who works for a merchant bank. I don't know what he does there, but seeing as they're famous as an industry for high-pressure, high salary jobs, I think she's made out like a bandit. She's no superm… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 09:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Day 2 with a slut and the importance of your presence."I know I can't do this forever, but I still have 8 solid years in me to make bank". HAHAHAHAHA! Unless she's a supermodel (hint: if you're not in New York, London or Paris, she ain't), no fucking chance. She can divide that by four. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Who Knew I Was Not the Father?https://www.gov.uk/dna-testing-parentage-disagreements A few very salient points here: The person named as the parent and the parent the child lives with (which, let's face it, will usually be their mum) need to agree to the tests. If anyone refuses to be tested, the CSA or Child Maintenance Service can ask the courts to decide if someone is the parent. The test must be carried out by an approved lab following an approved process. A test from a high-street chemists might sow enough doubt that yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Guy and his wife living in bliss until she gets pregnant, then he finds out what he's really married toBut modern birth control? The only negligible failure rates are there only to account for dumbasses who won't be honest about their precision in using birth control! There are two failure rates associated with birth control. The one we all know and hear about - the published one, if you like - assumes 100% perfect compliance. If we use the pill as an example, that means the woman: Always takes it at the same time every day. Never forgets. Is religiously careful to ensure that any potential inter… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 06:24 PM |
| 6 | Who Knew I Was Not the Father?Take France for example, paternity tests are fucking banned in France, LEGALLY BANNED. It's one of those things that makes you say "are you shitting me?". The UK isn't much better. A paternity test that "dad" arranges himself holds precisely no legal weight. The only one that holds legal weight is a court-ordered test. And while the court can order the test, the impression I get is even with a court order the child's mum can refuse. In which case it goes back to "were they married? Has he ever a… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/14 07:38 PM |
| 1 | An outsider observes how disposable the average male appears to be in American weddings.Actually, you've got me thinking. Follow bride and groom around with a television camera showing the process of making arrangements. Both appear to be enthusiastic. When outfits come up, use some careful shooting so it's not immediately obvious that the white outfit belongs to the groom and the black outfit to the bride. Bury the ceremony itself in the last ten minutes. Make a big song and dance of all the guests coming in (they're totally unaware of what's going on) and don't cut to the bride u… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/14 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Guy makes payments on car in wife's name. Wife won't ever let him drive it without chaperoning him.Bit late for that in this relationship, I reckon. He stood his ground and took the keys. Unless he's not telling the whole story, he didn't lose his temper or get violent; simply asked that he be allowed to drive the car he's paying for. His wife's reaction? Sit in the car for four hours then call the police. Frankly, I'd say the very best thing he could do would be to divorce her then find TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/14 07:00 PM |
| 5 | Men are not happyThey want everything. Able to take control, good body, can make them laugh, well-paying job, can find the time to indulge her and their family. Basically, they want the bloke in the Old Spice adverts but on top of that they want him to be a qualified lawyer with his own thriving practise(!) working 35 hours a week(!!) and taking four weeks holiday a year(!!!). Oh, and he needs to be good with kids. Firm but fair. Able to buy the ice creams when a treat is in order and instil discipline when nece… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Men are not happy"I'm a huge animal lover." - There's laws about that, you know. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Men are not happy3) Are there other laws that make it more likely that the man won't have a good case such as automatically giving the baby to the women early on or something similar? It depends on where you are in the world, but I'm given to understand the way it usually plays out in the UK is: Married couple, living together with kids. Mum works part-time or not at all, dad works full-time. He moves out. One of them files for divorce. At this point, Mum has a very low or no income so she qualifies for legal ai… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Please tell me not all women are like thisAt the age of 15? Christ, kid, go out and get your dick wet. If you really are looking for a satisfying LTR as opposed to plate spinning, I suggest you go read the Married Man Sex Life blog and pick up Athol Kay's ebooks. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Kirstie Allsopp tells young women: ditch university and have a baby by 27Oh yes, you'll find a few like that. Some girls nurse fantasies of being a mum, others simply cannot get their head around the idea that for contraception to work reliably, you need to use it reliably. My own numbers suggested: 27 women. 18 proved RP theory to a tee - partying until late 20s then getting married - often to an older man who one can safely assume is a little further along his career path and thus earning more money - pregnant and in at least one case divorced so quickly it'd make … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Married guys of the group who have been transitioning to TRP or swallowed it a while back...how long did it take for you to start seeing results?Bit late to the party but I'll share my thoughts. I've been following Athol Kay's guide since January (do so, it gives you a nice easy structure to follow) and I've gone so far as to keep notes: I've taken a firmer "get your act together" attitude in bed. Result: She grabbed me out of the shower and dragged me back to bed. First time this has happened in fourteen years together. A strong bone of contention in this house has always been eating. To put it bluntly, I cook dinner from scratch regula… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Kirstie Allsopp tells young women: ditch university and have a baby by 27True, but as soon as you graduate you're more-or-less sucked into the "build a career"-idea of modern society. Doesn't leave much time for kids, and by the time you think about it, time is typically running pretty short. Which explains why so many women who have been happily bouncing from cock to cock for years will suddenly and without warning meet, marry and make babies in the space of 18 months - two years. Want to try an experiment? If you're in your late 20s - mid 30s, connect on Facebook w… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/14 08:32 PM |
| 2 | just got flaked on and I need to vent.but how will she learn her lesson? What can I do to make sure she will never pull some shit like that again? Reward-based training. She will learn her lesson when she starts to see undeniable evidence that continuing to flake on people means she does not get the reward. The reward, in this case, being the attention of a man who she's interested in. The problem is most pre-wall women get so much male attention that they can afford to flake if they have the slightest inkling that the man in questi… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/14 11:28 AM |
| 5 | The Ultimate Shit Test: Feminism and the female mating strategyYet if you call her out on it... "Hang on a minute. Men are supposed to act all supplicating but you wouldn't touch a man like that with a ten foot pole?" - you know what the reaction would be. WAAH WAAH HOW DARE YOU I CAN SLEEP WITH WHO I WANT!! | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/14 12:17 PM |
| 5 | Slimmer women's waist is associated with better erectile function in men independent of ageSomewhere, a fat feminist weeps softly as she writes an opinion-laden counter-argument for her sociology class. Strangely, those counter-arguments never discuss articles in peer-reviewed journals. They discuss books published by vanity presses and magazine articles that are printed alongside articles like "Is your boyfriend giving you enough orgasms?" | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy and Pornography Driving Up Beta StandardsIt's easy to see a conspiracy - but I honestly don't think there is one. The fact is, our understanding of the human body is nowhere near as advanced as we'd like to believe. Many areas of medicine, we're still at the stage of banging rocks together to see which ones spark. Very few doctors will openly admit it, but anyone who's sick with something that can't easily be cured knows exactly what I'm talking about. It doesn't help that so many things are confidently presented as fact when in actual… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/14 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Girl: "What do you think of opening your relationship?" AskMen: "FUCK THAT NOISE." RP insights inside.It just cannot work for any future purposes of the relationship like children, unless the guy is a massive brainwashed beta (no self-respect, anything for the lady's happiness). Even then you'd have to be mind-bogglingly stupid and/or ignorant. Hint: Under UK law (and, I understand, many other countries), if a man denies being the dad a court can choose one of two things: A DNA test. To unilaterally declare that biology doesn't enter into the matter, you're paying. If the woman refuses the DNA t… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/14 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Male sexual fidelity is the ultimate shit testI don't think you can turn everything into a shit test (even though it feels like it sometimes!). IMV, in a LTR you need the odd bit of beta behaviour. The tricky bit is getting the balance right. Too much and she'll lose all respect for you, become unhaaaappyyy and leave you because you don't give her tingles any more. Too little and she'll get pissed off. Playing mind games is no fun if you always lose. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/14 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Divorce Horror Stories: Be very careful of who you marryShe started vehemently defending her mom's behavior and actions when I said what her mom did was horrible and gold digger-ish. Yeah...we broke up over this. Didn't you know, when a woman cheats it's because her man drove her to?! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/14 10:31 AM |
| 6 | Divorce Horror Stories: Be very careful of who you marryThere are very few tax breaks in the UK, and I'd reckon the risks are far higher. Apparently (don't know how true this is), the way a divorce often works is this: Woman has given up work/is working part time to look after kids. Man is working full time. They split up. Woman now has greatly reduced income which means she qualifies for legal aid in arranging a divorce. Meaning her solicitor knows he can bill more-or-less as much as he likes (albeit at legal aid rates) - he doesn't have to worry ab… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/14 10:26 AM |
| 3 | New idiotic reality TV show proves hypergamy.That's another level of stupid altogether. These girls honestly think a royal: Has trouble meeting women. Would have the remotest interest in taking part in a reality TV show like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/14 09:13 AM |
| 26 | Woman gets fat after marriage and wonders why her husband needs boner pills. This would genuinely upset me if I were new.Reminds me of an old joke. A man visits his doctor and says "Doctor, I can't get an erection with my wife any more!". This is in the days before viagra, so doc couldn't just write out a prescription and send him on his merry way. Instead, the doctor instructed our man to bring his wife into the surgery. The next day, man and wife arrive at the doctor's as arranged. "Get undressed", the doctor tells the wife, which she does. "Okay, let's see. Turn around for me? Bend over? Lie on the bed? Get up?… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/14 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Woman gets fat after marriage and wonders why her husband needs boner pills. This would genuinely upset me if I were new.Reading between the lines, I'd say he made more than one mistake. I'd say any confidence he may have had when they started dating (which, let's face it, is easy to maintain when you've just started dating someone hot and you're getting regular sex) has long since drained away; all that's left is a shell of a man who doesn't know how to tell his wife something she might not like - so he doesn't tell her at all. And when he does, he coats it with so much sugar she's able to use the nice things he … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/14 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Woman on r/askreddit talks about her relationship with an alpha, hamsters away. "I slept with him the first time we met...about 2 hours after meeting him. He didn't hold me down and force me. But I remember feeling so dirty and awful about it. I think it could be considered date-rape."This is a 22 year old girl that says these things. She talks about how he didn't know what "real sex" was and how manipulative he was. She openly admitted to losing her virginity to him. So my guess is her idea of "real sex" was guided by a romantic fantasy. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/14 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Woman on r/askreddit talks about her relationship with an alpha, hamsters away. "I slept with him the first time we met...about 2 hours after meeting him. He didn't hold me down and force me. But I remember feeling so dirty and awful about it. I think it could be considered date-rape."I don't think it's a conscious lie; my wife used to do the exact same thing all the time. Not in a flirting-with-other-guys way, but in other, more subtle things. If there was the slightest hint of anything happening in our domestic lives she didn't like, she'd mentally rewrite history to make it my fault, tell me why it was all my fault and then swear blind that I was the one who was imagining things. It's enough to make you question your own sanity, it really is. But it's become rather less co… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/14 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Look Sharp, Avoid the Chump FilterPeople judge by appearances. See some guy who hasn't washed his hair or shaved in months, looks filthy and is wearing a dozen layers of clothes, most of them seriously worn out and equally grubby? You'll assume he's homeless. And the same instant assessment and judging is happening on a much more subtle level every time you say "hello" to someone. Oh, they may not think to themselves "he's homeless" - they may not even think very much on a conscious level. But they're certainly making basic asse… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Carousel WatchersWives of hugely successful men seem to be remarkably forgiving of things that wives of rather less successful men would consider insta-divorce. Funny, that. I wonder why that is? </sarcasm> | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/14 10:12 AM |
| 6 | Just got out of a major meta, now have alpha roommate...Why is it that society demands me to be an asshole? Society is more subtle than that. It needs you to be a man, but it tells you to be some sort of androgynous thing, in possession of balls but not actually prepared to use them. A man doesn't take shit from anyone and would never accept a relationship where he's walking on eggshells the whole time. He'll get stuff done because it needs to be done, even if it's not nice. And if a woman tells him the sky is green, he's not afraid to tell her it's … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/14 09:51 AM |
| 5 | Husband loses job. Wife writes down a list of demands to reprogram the guy and asks if it is too much (TWIST: it is too much.)It'd be too much if her husband was actually stepping up to the plate and making an effort. But by the sound of things, he isn't. I'd say it's about right - he clearly needs some tough love and his wife is quite prepared to make sure he gets it. Bit of a shame he's too much of a pussy to pull himself together (I mean, come on. 7 jobs in 5 years and 26 months of either unemployment or underemployment? Nobody's that unlucky. Either his skill set is totally unsuited to the area they live in or he d… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/14 09:35 AM |
| 3 | If she has a few drinks, you are a rapistWomen should have the same rights as men in society. Especially leadership roles in companies and in government. Funny, because all the men I can think of who hold leadership roles in big companies have spent decades (plural) consistently working to get where they are. They certainly didn't take a 5 or 10 year break to have kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/14 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Prediction: feminists' next "big cause" will be to de-stigmatize polygamy.To a certain extent they already have this. Look at what happens when someone cheats in a relationship. The man cheats: What a greedy bastard he is! Not content with getting it at home, he wanted to get it elsewhere too! (never mind the fact that he may not have been getting much at home, we'll gloss over that...) The woman cheats: What sort of a selfish bastard was the poor woman stuck with that she felt driven to that?! You're only a hop from here to: The woman cheats: Good for her! What sort … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/14 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Beta bucks fails a shit test. Loses his girlfriend, house, and dogs.I dunno. If it was bought with little or no deposit in a falling market in a country where there are typically a lot of fees involved in selling a house, it may well be true. But it does sound a bit odd - you'd need all the stars to align in a particular way. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 07:20 PM |
| 2 | "13 Very Specific Types Of Guys That Are Incredibly Hot" Movielike fantasies, dark triad traits, aloofness, and cockiness. Not a blue pill value in sight.Admittedly two on the list are fathers, which is odd, but perhaps that's just a fetish or this particular blogger. Not at all. Remember what the biological purpose of sex is; doesn't it make perfect sense that a woman would find evidence that a partner would make a good dad attractive? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/14 12:19 PM |
| 2 | How much is a girl's virginity worth?She just has no interest in it! Come on, we've all met women like that. Though I wonder why anyone would want to have sex with a woman who's reached that age with no interest in it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I hate that women intimidate me. How do I stop putting myself down and putting them on a pedestal?Call me intuitive... but I'd hazard a guess that your experience with women is pretty thin on the ground compared to others your own age? Personally, you know what I'd suggest? Don't worry too much about all the plate spinning talk. You won't have the confidence for that. Concentrate on getting to know girls better; sooner or later you'll internalise the fact that ultimately, they're not the princesses they make out to be. You will realise that women poop. Once you've come to accept this, it'll … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 07:59 PM |
| 2 | White House wants victims to be able to report sexual assault anonymously. Accused persons would not have the right to cross-examine their accuser.And this, gentlemen, is how the human species will split in two. A number of men at the bottom of the curve will breed because they are too stupid/ignorant to perceive any risk. Let's face it, though, they won't be making babies with the likes of Emma Watson. A number of men at the top of the curve will breed because for them, the risk is negligible. The men in the middle - the ones at highest risk of having their life fucked over and who are well aware of that risk - won't breed. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Learn From My Mistake: TRP WorksHow do you handle it? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming a history of beta-ness?Mate, you've spent 19 years being shaped into the person you are today. Expecting to be able to change that overnight is unrealistic. It will take months, and it will be hard work. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/14 05:35 PM |
| 2 | In what ways does "society" truly, clearly advantage men?Simple. A hundred thousand years ago, there was no such thing as marriage. Women could fuck more-or-less whoever they chose, and naturally they'd choose the men who were bigger, stronger, more assertive and more likely to have good genes. After all, if you're trying to continue your genetic line, it makes sense to do so with the best pairing possible. If you weren't a particularly big or assertive man, you were at a huge disadvantage. Women would be less likely to voluntarily have sex with you, … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/14 05:09 PM |
| 5 | A Woman's Perspective on Getting a BlowjobYou did, in this case. But you weren't asking for sympathy (as in "I'm a girl, stop giving me this shit!"), so "Tits or GTFO" doesn't apply. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Is your dad blue pill or red pill?Blue, through and through - but I think that had more to do with his own personality than it did from social conditioning. He's dead now, and though I loved him very much (still do), I can see his faults. He had so little self-confidence that he basically screwed up his own life from the age of 18 right up until his premature death from the bottle. I suspect he married my mum because she was the first woman who'd give him the time of day; the photos I have from the early years of their marriage … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 07:42 PM |
| -1 | A Woman's Perspective on Getting a BlowjobNot really, it's just that 9 times out of 10 when a woman says she's a woman on the Internet, it's because she's trying to play the sympathy card. "Tits or GTFO" is shorthand for "You are being treated exactly the same way as any man would be. Why should we give you any sympathy? None of us are likely to have an opportunity to have sex with you, and let's face it, it's the hope of sex is why you get that sympathy. At the very least, if you want sympathy you can have the good manners to show us y… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 06:00 PM |
| 6 | I dropped a piece of TRP insight on my friend; he didn't like hearing the truth.Exactly. When your every interaction with women is (if you're lucky) a polite "Sorry, I'm interested". And the more common interaction is "Oh yeah, I'd love to go out. Oh, but I'm busy next week. And the week after. And the week after that. In fact, I'm busy for the next year or so...". When the term "getting lucky" really does mean getting incredibly lucky. When you can go out every night for a month and not even get a kiss. When you can do all of this, I defy you NOT to put the pussy on a pede… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Religion makes senseAh, like Ireland? Contraception was actually illegal there until 1979; it's still a very rural country outside of Dublin and frankly the only reason it has a functioning economy in many parts of the country is the low corporation tax rate which encourages foreign companies to invest. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Social worker makes baseless allegation of child abuse as "revenge". She retracts it, he wins damages, she gets sacked. But is she prosecuted? Take a wild guess...Nobody said they didn't. The issue isn't with them investigating an allegation of abuse, it's the accuser not facing criminal charges when they admit to making it all up. Having said that, perhaps there is some sense to letting her off. A prosecution when she admitted to what she did within 24 hours would send the message that "if you lie to the police, you're fucked whether you admit to your lie or not. But if you keep your mouth shut, there's always a chance you'll get away with it". | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/14 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Social worker makes baseless allegation of child abuse as "revenge". She retracts it, he wins damages, she gets sacked. But is she prosecuted? Take a wild guess...Police in the UK don't decide whether or not to prosecute. That decision is made by a nominally-independent body called the Crown Prosecution Service. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/14 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Inside the mind of a female CEO. Hint: much hamsteringI think I recognise the symptoms here. Company has employee and a certain amount of work for employee to do. Over time, the company (and work available) changes; the employee is not able/prepared/interested in any role he might be suited for now things have changed. He's not a complete idiot - he spotted this coming some time back. For whatever reason, he was clinging on in the hope that something would change. He accepts it stoically when he's given his notice - after all, it's pretty obvious h… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/14 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Article: Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You AnymoreOr, for that matter, hamstering away an instinctive "not attracted" reaction that never had that much thought go into it in the first place. Nevertheless, the underlying reasoning isn't all that important. The important thing is that the man who doesn't seem to bothered about getting the woman into bed is the one who's getting laid. The subject of the blog post seems to be having a great time with women now he's that bit older - I guess now he's not having to put so much effort in, he doesn't co… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/14 09:03 PM |
| -19 | Article: Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You AnymoreI dunno - the "nice guys aren't that nice" bit has a glimmer of truth to it. The stereotypical BP guy is - whether it's true or not - frequently seen as being "nice" in an attempt to manipulate women into bed. This blog post obviously has a glimmer of RP to it: "I've just figured out that I have developed real value over the course of the last ten years. Which is more than can be said for the girls who wouldn't give me the time of day when we were in college together." | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/14 08:45 PM |
| 16 | Guy conducts Tinder experiment with photos of model, average guy, and ugly guy. Reaffirms invisibility of bottom 90% of men.Just to add to this: Look at the photographs. The photo of the underwear model is fairly obviously professionally done - the background is out of focus implying a wider aperture, something which is physically impossible with a camera phone - and for that matter most compact cameras. It's also very well lit and the background contrasts with the model and his clothing - he's well posed and is obviously well used to posing for the camera. As you'd expect for a model. Compare the ugly guy. It's full… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/14 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Guy conducts Tinder experiment with photos of model, average guy, and ugly guy. Reaffirms invisibility of bottom 90% of men.Of course, this is based purely on looks - pretty well inevitable on a site like Tinder, which is based purely on hooking up. I wonder what the results would be like if you were to add other variables to the mix? Things like "Area he lives in", "job title" and "car he drives". All efficient proxies to "disposable income", but perhaps a little more subtle. "Education" and "Ambition" as a proxy for "Potential future income". Then throw in "Is he a smoker?" and "Does he regularly attend a gym?" as … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/14 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Son asks mom how do I attract girls? JBY advice is rejected and hilarity ensuesAre you seriously telling me that the best advice you can give to a slob who's earning peanuts and hacked off with the world generally shitting on him is "be content with life as a slob earning peanuts who regularly finds life shitting on him from a great height"? Bull. Shit. The best advice you can give to someone in that situation is tough love. He may not like it very much, but sitting on his arse eating snacks and feeling his stomach grow ever larger isn't going to solve anything. The RP adv… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/14 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Finding a fellow RedPiller in real life and why TRP doesn't necessarily make you angry at womenNo point in being angry at women for being women. You might as well get angry at your dog for being covered in fur and walking around on four legs. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/14 02:45 PM |
| 2 | A RP turnaround story, or how I got my wife to give away a cat.If I keep up my RP development (read: personal development from child to man), the marriage will improve. Nope. If you keep up your RP development, hopefully your marriage will improve. But there's no guarantee of that, and even if there was, you've got years of ingrained habits to drop. By threatening divorce at this early stage, you've painted yourself into a corner. The moment your wife goes back to her lazy ways you pretty much have two choices: Divorce her immediately. (This may be what you… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Son asks mom how do I attract girls? JBY advice is rejected and hilarity ensuesDon't split hairs. Obviously it's a made up statistic. But - and here's the important point - it doesn't matter if 10% or 90% of men fall into this category. All that matters is that some men fall into this category. It's precisely those men for whom "just be yourself" is appalling advice, and it's precisely those men that /r/theredpill is intended for. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Son asks mom how do I attract girls? JBY advice is rejected and hilarity ensuesBe yourself, because you're a confident and attractive person 80% of men (and I freely include myself in those 80%) are either not particularly attractive, not particularly confident or both. For those men, "just be yourself" will be interpreted to mean "stand quietly in the corner not making any effort to engage anyone of the opposite sex in conversation". It's incredibly difficult to sleep with women when you barely even talk to them in the first place. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/14 07:41 PM |
| 6 | A RP turnaround story, or how I got my wife to give away a cat.Caution: extreme danger ahead! You've said "Sort it out or we're divorcing" at a very early stage in RP development, and that's had a drastic effect. The risk is that you must be be prepared to follow that through. Because if you don't, the minute she goes back to her old ways and sees the threatened consequences don't materialise, you're completely stuffed. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/14 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I want an attractive virgin girlfriend, am I being too unrealistic?Don't get too excited, I've been with my wife since we were in our early 20s - it was a desperate attempt to do something about our sex life that led me to the MMSL blog and ultimately here around the beginning of this year. (And it works. I've noticed a distinct pattern: demanding what I want in a firm, no-nonsense tone of voice that is assertive but not aggressive is considerably more likely to work than suggesting, asking nicely or negotiating. And don't even bother begging, it doesn't work a… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/14 09:29 PM |
| 4 | "I Would Never Have dated You When I Was 25"Do they really believe that? Whether they really believe it or not is neither here nor there - political correctness demands one claims to believe - certain things and failure to do so is to invite shaming and ultimately becoming a social pariah. Those things include such ideas as: Women and men have virtually no differences between the obvious physical ones. Any apparent differences are more to do with social conditioning than real differences. True love conquers disease and disability, earning… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/14 09:12 PM |
| 1 | I want an attractive virgin girlfriend, am I being too unrealistic?Why d'you think we split up? (That, and I stupidly listened to her demands for more beta-ness). | /r/askTRP | 04/04/14 05:33 PM |
| 5 | You guys are so rightIt's got to have a latin name to be a logical fallacy. Argumentum ad vagina? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 07:46 PM |
| 1 | I want an attractive virgin girlfriend, am I being too unrealistic?Possibly. My first gf lost her virginity at 13 (she was 17 when we met). Six months later she proudly announced she'd lost her virginity to me. She'd spent the intervening time hamstering away all the other cocks. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/14 07:54 PM |
| 18 | Women Are Pickier Than MenOf course they are. Remember the whole point of having sex from a biological point of view is to make babies. While modern contraception may have done a lot to reduce unwanted pregnancies, it takes a bit more than that to overturn millions of years of evolution. And millions of years of evolution says for God's sake, do NOT chance getting pregnant with anything less than the absolute best man you can get your hands on. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Uncomfortable old song gets even scarier through the RP lensSo men hit on them, because WE ARE CONSTANTLY being told we need to make a first move, but then we do and are nice and respectful and they shit all over us. The problem with "nice and respectful" is that it is invariably interpreted as "a rather transparent attempt to manipulate her into bed". Assuming, of course, that the woman thinks about it at all; I'm quite sure decisions like that are made at an instinctive level without thinking and the idea that it's manipulative is just hamstering. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/14 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Uncomfortable old song gets even scarier through the RP lensYou're thinking of the Los del Mar version. Basically the same tune, but without the woman singing "My boyfriend was out of town and I'm bored of him anyway so I fucked his friends" over the top. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/14 07:45 PM |
| 4 | Uncomfortable old song gets even scarier through the RP lensMate, the number of songs that make a hell of a lot more sense once you've swallowed TRP will make your head spin. Off the top of my head: Garbage, "Special". Formerly-alpha male has been pussified by listening to his girlfriend's demands for him to be more beta and she's dried up like a desert. Lush, "Ladykillers". Girls out for a night on the piss, meet a "nice guy" (in the extreme-BP sense of the word) and the girl he targets isn't impressed. She can see straight through him. Los del Rio, "Ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Feminist Calls For Male Population ReductionYou've mixed up "feminist" and "mentally ill person". One of them can be laughed at. The other needs help. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 08:11 PM |
| 5 | I've fucked up since the beginning, fixed it, and I've learnt to love myself and I want you to love yourself too.Do you think TRP could be the way to go for me? Are you being serious? Look, as far as you're concerned, at this stage there's only a handful of things you need to accept: Women are not men with tits and a vagina. There are psychological differences as well as physical; whether this is because of innate nature or society or some combination thereof is neither here nor there. The best thing you can do for yourself - both in terms of success with women and success elsewhere in life - is to work on… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/14 09:04 PM |
| 0 | "I can't get pregnant"My own cousin did this to a guy. I thought she was on the pill; she said she "thought she couldn't get pregnant". She's always been a bit scatterbrained. My guess is she'd been a bit careless with the pill, not got pregnant and assumed - with no medical evidence - that she could not get pregnant. Her hamster then assured her that it therefore didn't matter if she was regularly careless. By a curious coincidence, she was in her early 30s when she fell pregnant to a well-built chap after averaging… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/14 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Ventriloquist Terry Fator dumped his wife, a "self-aggrandizing, hen-pecking control freak who alienated him from his family and refused to bear him children" for a 22-year-old model after signing a multi-million dollar Vegas show deal.rejection of her bullshit and tantrums. Very difficult, though. She'll pick her moments - women like that always do - and time it so he can't leave the room. Then she'll take the typical female approach - wind him up so far that it'll be a minor miracle if he doesn't explode. She's been married to him for years, she knows exactly what buttons to push to get a reaction. When she eventually does get a reaction, naturally it's all his fault. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/14 09:00 PM |
| 5 | You ever notice how there is no male fat acceptance movement or short acceptance movement it is because women and society do not care about you.Think of it as a sort of combination of explaining RP ideas and support network dedicated to helping individuals help themselves rather than trying to change society. I'd hazard a guess that most RP'ers are here because we're not getting enough sex. If RP theory were more socially acceptable, it wouldn't help any of us one iota. If anything, it'd make things worse because it'd be acceptable for the "best" men to have a harem of women; women would compete to be part of a desirable man's harem and… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/14 10:28 PM |
| 9 | Girl uninterested until I get attention from three other girls at bar.She'll still have his sperm ferreting around inside her, with any luck making her pregnant. That's the whole point of hypergamy - not to find a loving companion but to find good genes to pass on. The reason why women complain about it being hard to find a good man is because ideally they'd like both loving companion and good genes in the same man. You know something? I'd like a woman with a good figure who doesn't age, who's capable of intelligent conversation, who's enthusiastic in bed, who can… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 08:49 AM |
| 1 | I had no idea how alpha carlton was compared to willIt might have been white knighting the waitress if that was the first bit of snappiness that Carlton reacted to. But it wasn't. Realistically, there's only a few ways to handle such a situation: Sit down, shut up and take it. No way that woman's behaviour is going to magically improve if you do that; she's going to ruin the evening for everyone. Call her out on it discreetly. Carlton had already tried that several times; it clearly wasn't going to work. If she's going to behave like a child, she… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/14 10:54 AM |
| 1 | I'm a British man - is the red pill necessary?Oh yes. I'm a Brit; married and until recently quite prepared to accept the modern idea that an equal marriage is possible. I don't believe that any more. I won't go into detail - it'd be pretty easy to identify me if I did - but my marriage is in serious trouble and my wife is utterly unaware of how destructive her behaviour has become. RP teaches that her destructive behaviour is basically my fault for putting up with it; the natural behaviour of women is to do such things and if you put up wi… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/14 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Quick success storyIt isn't arrogance if you really are the best. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/14 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Solomon II's intro speech to TRP [What would you tell your younger self about women if you could?]God, 18-year-old me was not so much beta as omega. Hell, I was still a virgin until 19, mostly because I didn't have a clue how to even approach a girl. I wouldn't need an introductory speech, I'd need full-on mentoring. I think I'd start with: Women do want sex. But their sex drive is wired totally differently to men's; they're much more reactive. You absolutely have to make the first move for her to be interested. There's a reason girls seldom do the approaching. What women find attractive is … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/14 07:44 PM |
| 2 | The screaming of the Hamsters. "Wealthy women shouldn't marry!" Pissed because she has to pay her ex husband.check out statistics darling, you will kill yourself when you learn how much men are paying to gold diggers and regular sluts/whores or ex's because she got bored... Guaranteed her hamster would find a way to justify that. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/14 11:48 AM |
| 2 | The screaming of the Hamsters. "Wealthy women shouldn't marry!" Pissed because she has to pay her ex husband.To be fair, what I described is child support rather than alimony. Alimony makes sense in a universe where a woman coming out of a divorce is going to be financially crippled until such time as she can find another husband - IF she can find another husband. After all, she can hardly be expected to work to stay alive - and who's going to marry a 35 year old woman with two kids? I can also see some logic where husband and wife worked together and built a successful business which neither of them w… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/14 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Women have been trying to tell us about their sexuality for years in musicExactly the sort of thing I'm talking about. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/14 10:40 AM |
| 1 | The screaming of the Hamsters. "Wealthy women shouldn't marry!" Pissed because she has to pay her ex husband.Usually the reason is "for the childruuun" - the kid didn't have any say in the matter of being born and still needs to be provided for regardless of whether their parents are together, why should the child(ren) suffer? Of course, the children are going to suffer anyway - boys certainly need a strong father figure in their life. Probably doesn't do girls any harm either. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/14 10:38 AM |
| 4 | Cambridge student complaining about sexual assault risk. Halfway through the article she talks being sexually assaulted by a fast food worker. After reporting him police find CCTV footage of them just kissing for about a minute. Then compares herself to rape victims and questions society's motives"...including sexual violence other than rape, psychological aggression, coercion and control of reproductive and sexual health." My emphasis. So, when her boyfriend tries to initiate sex and doesn't immediately roll over and go to sleep when she says "no", that's rape, is it? By that definition, I'm amazed the statistics are as low as 1 in 3. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/14 10:18 AM |
| 5 | The screaming of the Hamsters. "Wealthy women shouldn't marry!" Pissed because she has to pay her ex husband.Not, however, terribly surprising. There's no basis in English law for prenups at all; it's pretty much at the judges discretion to decide how much, if any, attention should be paid to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/14 07:36 AM |
| 2 | "If it weren't for the amount of money you make, I would have divorced you a long time ago."I dunno you know. I don't think it needs to get to that point in the first place. A tiny example, perhaps, but a few months ago, getting my wife to do something as simple as make dinner was invariably an uphill struggle. I'd regularly cook us both a complete meal from scratch single-handed so she could sit back and relax; if I asked her to return the favour she invariably demanded I help. Upshot: I was doing 90% of the work in the kitchen, and the other 10% was only getting done by her because I… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/14 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Talking to FemenistsI'd love to peak inside her brain to hear how her hamster justified deleting your posts. I think we already saw that. She wanted to end the conversation so she could go to sleep. The fact that she could do that simply by not responding didn't occur - probably out of an innate desire to always have the last word. I would like to see how the hamster would respond to that as a followup question: "why not simply not respond?" | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/14 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Tips For Passing On TRP Knowledge To Younger Siblings?If you find an efficient way to tell your younger sibling when you're both grown adults, tell me how. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Women call weak guys "creepy" because they are genuinely sketched out by them.I just want to be friends with her, I still care about her a lot. It really pains me to see all the damage I can't clean up because she is ignoring me. Get over your oneitis. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 10:14 PM |
| 3 | This is getting out of hand.I'm all in favour of not backing down. But pick your battles. Purely out of curiosity, how do you think it'd go? Assuming you retain frame, there's basically two ways: You never hit back, let her punch you until she's blue in the face, maybe doing no more than physically restraining her from punching while trying to avoid causing pain to either of you. She winds up being charged with assault, you get free drinks for the rest of the evening. You never hit back, let her punch you until she's blue … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 09:26 PM |
| 4 | This is getting out of hand.This might sound non PC but it's like training a dog or a child. There is no shame in saying something that sounds non-PC in here. Hell, by most societal standards the very concept of the redpill is non-PC. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 09:18 PM |
| 5 | I think this worse than death. A lifetime of unhappiness.To be fair, there are some medical issues that can make sex difficult or impossible and it sounds like this could well be going on here. Be interesting to see if it were half as much of a problem if someone showing enough alpha traits were to show an interest though. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/14 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Why Engagement Rings Are a ScamGot one for my own wife secondhand, I think it was about £450. The original sales receipt shows it sold for about £1,000. The hilarious thing? The diamond itself originally had a ten year guarantee. Hardest substance known to man, and apparently the jeweller didn't rate the chances of it lasting more than ten years. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/14 07:40 PM |
| 2 | The Exploding Hamster Part II: Hamster goes NuclearI dunno, $2 with a note along the lines of "This is how much I reckon the sex was worth" should be entertaining. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Do feminists even realize what they believe in?The keyword here is "book". Any idiot can publish a book - if you can't persuade a reputable publisher to take it, there's no shortage of vanity publishers. Now, if the book references peer-reviewed journals and the claims made in those journals stack up, that's a different matter. But I can't count the number of pseudoscientific books, articles etc. that have been well structured, full of references - and not a damn one of them is even remotely respectable. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/14 08:21 PM |
| 5 | Shame: how women try to shame you into doing what they wantso what do women do when they don't get what they want? They become angry. Which, let's face it, isn't too different to a typical blue pill male response. I'm sure many of us have been there at one point or another. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 08:07 PM |
| 1 | [Theory] What if women in relationships and marriages with a beta suddenly become vanilla in bed not because they're not just not attracted to them, but by doing so their body actively tries to reduce the change of pregnancy.This is basically the argument given by Athol Kay in his married man sex life blog; viz. human sexual behaviour has evolved over many millions of years yet society as we know it (with all the associated trappings such as monogamous marriage) is only a few thousand years old and that's why so many men (who, pressured by feminism and well-meaning but ultimately delusional female friends, have become spineless betas) find themselves with dead bedrooms. Thirty thousand years ago, with no modern medi… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/14 10:21 AM |
| 15 | Get a load of this shit. Guy finds out his wife has cheated with at least 25 male and female Craigslist hookups. r/relationships responds by lighting up the Knight Signal and rushing to the Chivalrymobile.She managed to keep her sexual habits a secret for three years of marriage (and who knows how long before then). Exactly how much care is he supposed to exercise? Lock her in the house while he goes out to work? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/14 11:26 AM |
| 25 | Get a load of this shit. Guy finds out his wife has cheated with at least 25 male and female Craigslist hookups. r/relationships responds by lighting up the Knight Signal and rushing to the Chivalrymobile.Okay, maybe you'd like to hear the more toned down politically-correct version: "Never get involved with a woman who has more problems than you." It's saying the exact same thing but with slightly less force. So, why does this sub insist on using the less-PC version? Well, once you start going down that route: "This is a load of horse shit" becomes "This is a load of fertiliser". "This is a load of fertiliser" becomes "This is the stuff that helps things grow". "This is the stuff that helps thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/14 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Girl: "Part of me says: 'You're young, pretty, and can find a guy who will satisfy your needs within minutes of walking into a bar/club/show'"When she meets someone new, she will NEVER make eye contact with them. She'll look just past them, or at their nose or their forehead. She does get over this, but I honestly don't think she's aware she's doing it. Not only does she not understand some things, she often doesn't even recognise that she doesn't understand it. Either that or she'll bury her head in the sand and pretend it's not happening. This might be more a maturity thing than an autism thing, but it's very frustrating because she… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/14 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl: "Part of me says: 'You're young, pretty, and can find a guy who will satisfy your needs within minutes of walking into a bar/club/show'"My wife is on the autistic spectrum. It can be incredibly frustrating sometimes, she's perfectly intelligent but she has a lot of difficulty grasping some ideas when you're trying to hold down a conversation, a lot of difficulty conversing with people she doesn't know. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/14 10:50 PM |
| 4 | Girl: "Part of me says: 'You're young, pretty, and can find a guy who will satisfy your needs within minutes of walking into a bar/club/show'"There is a large truth in this, and it's the only viewpoint that's useful in driving/guiding us forward as men, but it disturbs me how it implicitly absolves the women from all responsibility. Because men are meant to lead and women follow. If she's expected to lead it, she'll flounder. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/14 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Girl: "Part of me says: 'You're young, pretty, and can find a guy who will satisfy your needs within minutes of walking into a bar/club/show'"She isn't, I assure you. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/14 10:20 PM |
| 4 | Some musings about my experiences with female shopliftersProblem is too many and the message gets drowned out in the noise. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/14 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Why do women always see men's relationship preferences through black and white goggles?Good point, well made. Nevertheless, the general concept - "the attractive man is the man who has his shit together" stands. There's been some slight changes to what constitutes "having your shit together" over the millennia, but the concept stays the same. Today, a man who evidently can't look after himself raises questions about the kids - would they be able to look after themselves? Would he be able to fill his role as provider and protector? (Of course, this is where cuckolding comes in. If … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/14 08:55 AM |
| 20 | What is up with "horse girls"?You seen the size of a horses penis? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/14 09:21 PM |
| 9 | Why do women always see men's relationship preferences through black and white goggles?Try a little thought experiment. Forget everything you know about society today. Forget any preconceived notions you might have about redpill philosophy. The most basic thing any species needs to do in order to exist is to successfully reproduce. And most do it without any help from humans, without any sex education, without Barry White playing in the background. Homo Sapiens has existed for something like 100,000 years and spent a hell of a lot longer than that evolving to become H. Sapiens; ci… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/14 10:44 AM |
| -1 | You're new here? Welcome! Now shut up. Read this.If we want accurate results, we really need to prove how the analysis works rather than asking people to go on what they remember. I may have an idea about this... | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/14 05:28 PM |
| 3 | What was the event that led you to take the pill?My wife hasn't gone off sex altogether - but she went from willing (if not enormously enthusiastic) partner several times a week to starfish once a week on either a Saturday or Sunday morning but never both. I must fill a number of preconditions first, or no sex. It's not just that, though. The whole relationship feels like I'm running a hotel. I can't remember the last time she voluntarily cleaned up any part of the house (I don't mind doing my bit but I didn't enter this relationship to be her… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/14 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Update from the guy whose fiance wanted to "end their relationship because of his dick size"That self-involved cooze needed an eject button, so she decided to poison his self-image about the physical seat of his masculinity. That or her hamster told her that so she'd have a reason to dump him. In any case, agreed it's a shitty thing to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/14 07:48 PM |
| -3 | You're new here? Welcome! Now shut up. Read this."Lookie here at this mundane redpill example" (cool story, but some analysis would be nice if you insist on posting such things). I have one of these, but I don't know if it's too mundane. Made a list of all the female Facebook friends I have, looked at when they got married, how quickly they got married after meeting their husband-to-be and how quickly they were popping out babies. About 70% proved RP theory to a tee - of those that didn't, 85% were sufficiently good looking that they could rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/14 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Just now opening my eyes to the pickup world.I am in denial..Not by fear but disappointment... Are women able to be read and "tricked" just like that?OK I got a lot of points cleared out but one. Before that whole pickup art thing became prominent , we all thought about the nice guys yeah but there WERE people and thoughts on our heads about the "bad boy" personna that always attracts women for more than a decade now. I really don't know. I can only answer for myself - I was far too busy deciding that I didn't like the classic "bad boy" people I met that I never even thought to consider "What is it about that persona type that attracts women … | /r/askTRP | 14/01/14 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Just now opening my eyes to the pickup world.I am in denial..Not by fear but disappointment... Are women able to be read and "tricked" just like that?And that is , being nice , chivalrous loyal? I mean , you yourself are in a LTR(loyal) like you said , what do you do now that you know about TRP that you wouldn't do before?What lies did they teach us? The classic "blue pill" view - that promulgated by media - is that women are looking for a "nice guy". Now, the definition of "nice guy" isn't really written down in any one place, it's more that we're bombarded with little bits of him every day. You probably won't find a single man in the media … | /r/askTRP | 13/01/14 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Just now opening my eyes to the pickup world.I am in denial..Not by fear but disappointment... Are women able to be read and "tricked" just like that?But what about the part where some of the bloggers argue that no matter what women (especially) will lose interest in a long term relationship?Do you believe that?If so , what does somebody do about that?It is a sad truth if it is so. I hope that's not true, because otherwise I have an expensive divorce to look forward to! It is, however, true that the initial rush of a new relationship doesn't last forever. A couple of years is usually the most you can hope for - in biological terms, enough tim… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/14 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Just now opening my eyes to the pickup world.I am in denial..Not by fear but disappointment... Are women able to be read and "tricked" just like that?That women is not attracted to the nice guy but to the "bad boy"? Not quite as simple as that. Only just started down this journey myself - and I'm married so I'm more interested in "maintain a strong marriage" than "lay a different girl every night" - but my take on it is that women aren't attracted to the nice guy, they're attracted to the alpha who has his shit together. Think "What would have been desirable traits in a mate in caveman days? Back then there was no such thing as contraception;… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/14 08:30 PM |
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