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Sorry, I should have been more clear in my post.
/r/seduction16/05/17 10:02 PM
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I want to be clear, we work for totally different companies, that have nothing to do with each other.
/r/seduction16/05/17 09:53 PM
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I don't work with her, lol, jesus I'm not an idiot. We work in the same building but different offices. I don't hit on women I work with, too many others out there.
/r/seduction16/05/17 09:53 PM
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Here's the thing dude, she approached because you obviously never paid much attention to her that she saw, and you didn't approach. You worked on your shit and left her alone, of she's as smoking hot as you say then you've done what most won't and that hurt her ego a bit and that's why she came to you. Now, you went a little too far with the text by asking about the parties but you can still salvage this. Go completely cold on her, don't approach by text or at the gym. Go right back to what you …
/r/seduction30/03/17 11:14 AM
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I didn't say breaking it was the best indicator, I said holding it was. But yes some have trouble maintaining, thy're too shy or nervous so they won't hold it as long as you but they always come right back to it within a few moments.
/r/seduction06/12/16 11:44 AM
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You can usually tell when there us real sexual tension between two people, and it's in the eyes. When it exists, two people cannot break the eye contact, or if they do its not broken for very long. They will continually focus on each others eyes. There are also body language indicators, if she starts caressing her own skin while looking into his eyes, or playing with her hair, she'll often turn her body towards him more. The man, will often stand up straighter, try to move closer, almost stand o…
/r/seduction05/12/16 11:30 PM
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Depends on the girl - if she's really playful and loves joking I always go with "Willing"..they love it for some reason.
/r/seduction31/10/16 02:19 PM
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lmao, no, two was bad enough for me, not doing it again.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 07:38 PM
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MAKE ABSOLUTELY SURE YOU GO BACK FOR THE CHECKUP - I cannot express that enough, as I've had two vasectomies now you must do it and congratulations.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 03:42 PM
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Awesome, glad it went so well..advice: on the second date do the same thing, don't overthink, don't overact, just be in the moment. Be confident, she obviously likes you..go for some light touches, arms, small of her back when the opportunity arises and if you even feel the slightest urge, go for the kiss..if it seems akward, just tell her "I'm really fighting the urge to kiss you right now" and laugh.. Good luck!
/r/seduction03/10/16 02:05 AM
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He's already made his interest know, several times. Girls are weird about this shit. There is no need to contact her again, if he does and she responds he's basically telling her she can flake on him whenever she wants and he'll keep coming back for more. That's some basic beta male shot right there.
/r/seduction30/09/16 07:30 PM
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Don't contact her again. If she regains interest and contacts you be very cool about it. By cool I mean don't act all fucking grateful, she blew you off, remember that. Act like you couldn't care if she contacts you again no matter how hard it is. Don't be a needy bitch man, calm your shit down.
/r/seduction30/09/16 04:23 PM
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Just have fun, age is only a number dude, don't stress over it, don't even think about it. Treat her like you'd treat anyone else. Relax, HAVE FUN.
/r/seduction23/09/16 10:48 PM
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Great job, really well done for your first attemt. As the other replies stated work on your tone, and try to hook her into a convo. Try thinking of questions that don't have yes or no answers, you did that a lot. Ask questions that get her talking, the more she talks the more she's getting invested and she'll actually slow down and possibly just stop and talk to you for a bit but still a great first run, keep going dude.
/r/seduction03/09/16 11:35 PM
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I'd tell them I'm one of the idiots responsible for causing all the traffic problems in whatever area you're in and then follow-up with a "your welcome" lol Might be a good lead-in to what you actually do, generate interest and such.
/r/seduction01/09/16 01:45 PM
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PS - Paul Sebastian - Haven't met a women yet that doesn't absolutely love it. I get compliments from both sexes when I wear it.
/r/seduction01/09/16 01:42 PM
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Absolutely, good job. No regrets for asking at least you know now.
/r/seduction21/08/16 12:03 PM
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You didn't do anything particularly wrong but what happened after that? Anything? Any more eye contact? No approach? Kind of hard to say what the heck happened when that's all you're giving us but maybe they were just having bitch day. Who cares? :)
/r/seduction17/08/16 07:39 PM
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What in the hell are you thinking about all the time that makes you have that face? Don't worry, I know and I know how to fix it. The same way I did. You have to change your mental attitude, you have to remind yourself constantly to smile, keep your head up, make eye contact with anyone that will look at you and smile. It doesn't have to be a big goofy stupid grin, just simple smirk or slight grin is fine. The trick is every single time you find yourself not doing, start immediately. Focus on it…
/r/seduction17/08/16 06:54 PM
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Next time, try giving her a little smile and she if she smiles back. Staring at you is hard to determine, smiling is a sign that there is some sort of base attraction.
/r/seduction10/08/16 11:55 AM
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You're ignoring rejection because there is no rejection. You're either gonna meet people you like who are similarly interested in you, or people you don't like that have no interest in you. Welcome, glad you could make it here :-)
/r/seduction08/08/16 08:29 PM
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Let this week go, and keep contact to minimal amount. Don't feed her your attention. Late next week sometime, tell her "hey, there's this great thing going on (whatever it is) and I'd like to take you". Find something specific and interesting, no movies or stupid shit where you can't talk to her. A walk in an interesting place, a museum, anything where you can talk to her. Don't invite her, tell her you want to take her and she how she responds. If she's interested she'll make time for you, if s…
/r/seduction08/08/16 08:26 PM
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Practice humming as low as you can, humming comes from deep down, that's the feeling you should be getting when you speak. In terms of attraction, women love a good deep voice. It's not the end all though so don't worry about it. Being confident is more important, speak with authority and dominance and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction08/08/16 08:22 PM
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Thanks for that, I was thinking about getting the game but now I may start with models. This part right here: "The man who is not needy, who cares less about others’ perception of him than about his own perception of himself, will be attractive" This is where I' kinda at right now. I'm having some successes in the whole attraction thing, I knew most of it was coming from confidence but that statement truly defines how I've been feeling. In my plain words I simply state "I don't give a shit what …
/r/seduction02/08/16 07:04 PM
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Awesome, keep practicing and that awkwardness will go away. You've done more that a lot of people, you're making steps and that's the biggest thing you can do.
/r/seduction30/07/16 11:50 PM
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She's an adult, free to make her own decisions. If a tight hot bodied young woman wants to throw it on me then who am I to deny her and shit is it ever fun lol.
/r/seduction30/07/16 02:09 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about the divorce but man I'm telling you there are an unimaginable amount of young women out there right now that are into older guys. I get more looks, and have more fun conversations with them than anyone close to my age. It's all about confidence & domination (not in the kinky sense lol, in the sense that you take control of the space you're in). I am not some "stud male model" type that women just swoon over at the sight of me. I'm an average looking man, in decent shape b…
/r/seduction29/07/16 02:32 PM
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Mine goes beyond just the "Father-Figure". I grew up with very alcoholic people all around me, and several abusive step-fathers. I distinctly remember telling myself from about the age of ten and on that "I am going to be nothing like these people, I will be a better person" I used that to survive until I could leave home at 15. I think it was my very 1st lesson in making myself believe something if you just keep saying it over and over in my mind. I know if I set something in my mind, and say I…
/r/seduction28/07/16 08:08 PM
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I'm going to be honest, I'm not a believer in the whole "One True Love". There are too many people out there for you to only have "one true love" and if that's what you're looking for you're probably going to be very disappointed. I know some people believe it, but I just don't. What you should be really looking for is someone who balances you. Someone who gives you the same love and respect that you give to them. Someone who doesn't take advantage of you, someone who gives as much as they recei…
/r/seduction28/07/16 07:51 PM
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why would say that is sad? That's kinda awesome when you think about it.
/r/seduction28/07/16 07:38 PM
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Yeah don't feel bad. That's how most of us thought it's supposed to be: dating>sex>relationship, in that order only and now we're finding out that's not the case lol.
/r/seduction28/07/16 05:58 PM
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If I was a young man, and starting over again and I had the wealth of all this information in front of me. I would start by learning to be extremely confident, and learning how to read the signals women give. I am not saying you should try to seduce every hot woman you meet (unless thats just what you want to do) but when you are truly confident, and believe that you can seduce just about any woman you want, wouldn't that make finding a potential romance that much easier? Wouldn't you be able to…
/r/seduction28/07/16 05:06 PM
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A someone who has been guilty of that, I'll be the first to apologize. I'm sorry for that. Want to get married?? lmao ;-)
/r/seduction28/07/16 12:15 PM
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Keep going, and good luck. Let us know if you score! lol
/r/seduction28/07/16 11:27 AM
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Awesome, and it's not just saying hi it's how you did it. The key word is confidence.
/r/seduction28/07/16 10:52 AM
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What does your mother look like? lol
/r/seduction28/07/16 10:51 AM
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I would, yes. I don't want to be talking about anything negative. If the intent is to sleep with them I think keeping them laughing, smiling & engaged is key. But that is picking up women for sex, not dating. That is different.
/r/seduction28/07/16 10:50 AM
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Well, I never had it until I met the 24 yr. old but it's a great tool for certain. I like the idea of being able to communicate with someone of the opposite sex without having to give any personal information such as your phone number.
/r/seduction28/07/16 10:48 AM
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Wrong - I'm telling people like me to quit obsessing over a girl. Feelings are what drives you, there's nothing wrong with feelings at all and I'm not telling any to try and stop having them. Some people will not understand what I'm saying, obviously you don't, you may not suffer from this so that's why you can't relate to what I'm saying.
/r/seduction28/07/16 10:47 AM
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lmao..thank you for defending my honor.
/r/seduction28/07/16 12:06 AM
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You are so much better at words than me lol..thank you.
/r/seduction28/07/16 12:05 AM
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Then this post wasn't meant for you. This was meant for the ones out there who get fixated and obsess over every girl that is nice to them. That is pretty common especially in today's society. If what you're doing works for you, then great! Seriously, I'm glad for you. Have you posted any suggestion for people like you?
/r/seduction28/07/16 12:03 AM
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I would say by all means strike that balance with the ones you really like if the intent is future dating or possible relationships. Life is about balance is it not? We each have to find our own balance in everything we do. You complained that you had to many women are using you as a sounding board for advice were you not? I was just offering you an opinion on how to stop it.
/r/seduction27/07/16 11:58 PM
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Well you say it a whole lot better than I do for certain. Thank you!
/r/seduction27/07/16 11:54 PM
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That all comes from practice. If you're already good at casual conversation then you should pick it up fairly quickly, just get working on it now. I will say something else, if women are always doing this too you, you've got to put a stop to it seriously. If you cannot redirect them, excuse yourself from the conversation. I mean it, make up an excuse and get out. Just say something like "Oh crap, I completely forgot I have to take care of something, I'll catch you later" and leave. Do not tell t…
/r/seduction27/07/16 08:54 PM
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Dude, you missed a golden opportunity. You took that shit personal, she said it jokingly all you had to do was say something stupid like "I dunno, guess my mom dropped me or something" and start laughing and I guarantee she would have laughed along with you. Ask the girl out, who gives a crap what day it is.
/r/seduction27/07/16 08:35 PM
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Man I'm telling you, I would never have believed this when I was younger. I heard it but never believed it and I was wrong, it is very accurate. Understanding women is not really why we're here and if you're trying to understand women your screwed. We are not here to "understand" them, that will never happen. We're here to seduce them, thats what they want, it's what we want so stop trying to understand them.
/r/seduction27/07/16 08:30 PM
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I am big on mind challenges, that is challenging yourself to change your thinking. I started this late in my 30's, maybe into my 40's I don't know. I did it for career reasons and it's probably the biggest improvement I could make on my self. For No. 1 - One of my biggest mind challenges was to forcibly make myself stop thinking about whatever it was I didn't want to think about. Anytime I found myself thinking/stressing about something I shouldn't be thinking/stressing over I forced myself to c…
/r/seduction27/07/16 08:27 PM
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I have no idea, who cares??? Neither her or I are on it anymore, it did suck though. I just thought I'd try it and for some reason she did too I guess. Maybe you're one of those guys who thinks a hot 24 year old (or any age) and pretty much get it from whoever they want and they don't have to try. Is that you? Because if it is you're wrong. There's a shit-ton of them out there with social anxiety just like us and the majority of guys that approach them are douche-bags. Or maybe you're one of the…
/r/seduction27/07/16 08:13 PM
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Met her on Adult friend finder believe it or not. We sent a couple quick messages back & forth, moved the conversation kik for a couple weeks, then she's inviting me to her place to fuck. It wasn't an over-night closer type of pick-up but I'll take it lol.
/r/seduction27/07/16 07:56 PM
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READ & PRACTICE - It didn't come naturally to me either. Did you miss the part about me sucking at it most of my adult life? It comes naturally to few people. You have to study & read, then practice like anything else you want to do well. You can't pick up a guitar and just play can you? No, it takes real practice to master. This subreddit is a HUGE resource for you. Keep reading this stuff and start thinking about it when you're out in the public. Don't just apply it to women, start talking to …
/r/seduction27/07/16 07:48 PM
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Well thank you for your insight lol?
/r/seduction27/07/16 07:43 PM
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lmao..Now just remember it young man. If this is something your truly guilty of it's not going to go away easily but keep hammering it into your brain - THERE ARE OTHER WOMEN OUT THERE WHO WANT TO BANG. Keep moving forward!
/r/seduction27/07/16 07:41 PM
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Abso-frikkin-lutely! I am not wasting time thinking about all the women I didn't get to bang in the last 25+ years or so (fuck that's depressing lol). I am thinking about all the women out there right now who want to have some fun. I'm blown away by how many young women out there are really into older men, it's quite amazing actually.
/r/seduction27/07/16 06:50 PM
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It took some time for me, but I just own it now. I wish I could tell you exactly how I did it step by step, if I could I would but it's just something you have to work on daily. When I walk into a room, or hell when I walk, I walk with a purpose. My head is up, my eyes are looking for anyone else to make eye contact with. I smile at everyone, and I don't break eye contact until they do. I assert my dominance as quickly as possible. Believe it or not, most men will look away very quickly, women -…
/r/seduction27/07/16 06:47 PM
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Really? I'll have to check that out, I haven't read it.
/r/seduction27/07/16 06:34 PM
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Another good one "Really? Are they hotter than yours cause yours are driving me crazy" with a little laugh & sly smile/smirk..
/r/seduction27/07/16 05:51 PM
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I would wait longer than Friday, dude you're sounding desperate on here I can't imagine what she's perceiving you as. You need to back off and give this some time. Wait at least SEVERAL weeks then use some playful SHORT reintroduction and she how she responds. You may not be able to recapture this one, so get over that right now.
/r/seduction27/07/16 05:48 PM
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to me (and this is just my opinion) I say always remain in the seduction mode. That will lead you too more women, and more experience. You will find someone at some point you're probably going to really like, and she may reciprocate and that's when you'll have to decide if you want to go to the dating mindset with her. I really believe the seduction mindset can lead to other things, (dating, love, marriage ect) however the dating mindset will severely limit your ability to pick up random women. …
/r/seduction27/07/16 05:38 PM
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What is your end game here? Are you trying marry this girl? Why are you so worried about it? This is a seduction forum, not a relationship forum. The only advice you're going to get here is find someone else to fuck. I'm not trying to be rude but that's what it is. If you're only trying to fuck her, well you've had her. Move on and find other girls to do it with. If she wants to hook up occasionally great! My advice to you right now is quit trying to make dates with her, fuck her when she wants …
/r/seduction27/07/16 05:33 PM
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"Helps" is not the word I was use. Confidence is a must, if you don't have any, get some asap. Every environment I walk into now is my damn space, and everyone else is in it.
/r/seduction27/07/16 05:22 PM
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My age? Age is just a number dude. I'm currently banging a very hot 24 yr old and walked away from an HB8.5/9 I could have had last Thursday. There are women every where who just want to have fun & fuck, all you have to do is open your eyes and see them. The 24yr. old I met online, the one I walked away from was a hostess at a restaurant I went too.
/r/seduction27/07/16 05:20 PM
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I wish I could have. The downside to my age: We didn't have resources like this to help us.
/r/seduction27/07/16 03:25 PM
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Anything other than hey lets go fuck. "It's too loud in here, wanna go where we can talk?" .."Hey I've got some great music at my place if you're in to new things?" If you've already seduced her there's something you've discussed you can use an an excuse to get her out of there.
/r/seduction27/07/16 01:51 PM
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It really depends on the context. If it's ust a general compliment, with no flirting involved then just say thank you. If there has been some flirting between you, I would go with something like "Thanks, you should try them sometime" and then smile. If there has been heavy flirting, and some know then go with something heavier and sexier "Thank you, I bet they'd feel amazing all over your body" or something along those lines.
/r/seduction27/07/16 01:48 PM
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You're thinking you have to treat them differently and that's the problem. Once you realize THEY ARE ALL THE SAME your problem should go away. Attractive women want to be fucked too ya know now knock it off!
/r/seduction24/07/16 06:20 PM
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When a girl says that to me I ether simply say thank you or don't even acknowledge most times and just keep moving on. That type of statement is not something you really have to feel like you need to respond to. Just keep being you.
/r/seduction24/07/16 06:10 PM
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Dude, really? Why would you tell someone that right off the bat unless you're intention is to play the pity card? Don't use shit like that, do you wanna fuck girls or not? Women are not going to be interested in someone who starts talking about their physical limitations in an opening conversation. You're projecting a relationship onto them right off the bat with no chance for them to form their own opinion of you. Take that shit off your profile, immediately. It's tinder for cryin out loud, you…
/r/seduction23/07/16 10:21 PM
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Understand the basics of body language first. Arms crossed in an adversarial position, it's basically telling anyone around you that you are not interested in anything they could say or do. NOT something you want to be doing in a club. Hands in your pocket, although not adversarial, isn't good either. Why are you there? If you don't open yourself up to opportunities who in the world is going to approach you? You have to learn to own the space you're in, and learn to enjoy every moment you're in.…
/r/seduction23/07/16 10:15 PM
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I agree, there's something fuckey here... unless we know exactly what happens its almost impossible to give advice.
/r/seduction23/07/16 08:47 PM
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Thanks, glad you like them and GL!
/r/seduction23/07/16 04:55 PM
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I'd ask her 1st before just showing up with some random dude, that could go very badly in a hurry. If you have someone willing then shoot her a text and just say something along the lines of you have a really fun friend who'd like to join as well, is that cool? Don't just show up with someone, that could be very award for everyone.
/r/seduction23/07/16 01:43 PM
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Congrats man, glad it went well for you. I want to address you fear of developing feelings: Stop it...not the feelings, stop the fear of them. There's nothing wrong with having feelings for someone. What we get hung up on are the "goodbyes" and the feeling of loss. Get over that. Feelings are ok but keep them in perspective. Understand that you may have feelings for her, and you will be slightly saddened by the separation but don't focus on it. This is what you should be focusing on: Do you real…
/r/seduction22/07/16 01:47 AM
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As long as you keep telling yourself that you must work on it you're on the right path. Be who you want to be, just keep telling yourself that. I know it's weird but eventually you will start believing it and that's the most important thing you can do.
/r/seduction22/07/16 01:14 AM
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Thank you, and yes it is.
/r/seduction22/07/16 01:12 AM
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Follow-up after the 1st date depends on how it goes. If it went REALLY well I would say very soon, just a short text telling her how much fun you had and thanking her for the evening. Don't get carried away. Being a "romantic"" guy could actually hinder you believe it or not. Yes, it can be too much. Don't impose your romanticism onto her. Are you trying to fuck this girl or date her for a serious relationship? Those are two different things but one can definitely lead to the other vs. trying to…
/r/seduction22/07/16 01:09 AM
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Sorry it didn't work out. Next time stay away from that "Want to go to town" generic stuff. You really didn't ask her out did you? Be specific, have a date in mind and ask for that.
/r/seduction21/07/16 11:23 AM
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The point you make about humor is spot on. Guys think "coolness" wins over anything but it's simply not true. The guy that can get the girl to laugh, and enjoy herself is going to win every time.
/r/seduction21/07/16 11:18 AM
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Slapping the ass, yes is for when you've been a bit more intimate lol..Study pickup lines, cheesy jokes, short quick witted statements, anything like that. The line would have worked without slapping her ass wouldn't it?
/r/seduction21/07/16 11:15 AM
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If you don't own and accept how you look, how in the hell do you expect anyone else to? I have accepted who I am, my new mantra for myself is "I am who I want to be" and that includes the way I look.
/r/seduction21/07/16 11:02 AM
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I love the video, that dude is awesome lol...SHABANG...thanks for that!
/r/seduction21/07/16 11:00 AM
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I don't think you should try to save it. Sounds like a hot mess to me already. Move on, maybe she'll pursue you but I doubt it. You really shouldn't have seen her for the 1st time being so rushed and unkempt. Have your shit together before meeting any woman, especially for the 1st time. Don't let your eagerness control and ruin your actions.
/r/seduction21/07/16 10:56 AM
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Also, when someone does that, the starts to go negative thing - don't tell them they'll be ok. Don't acknowledge it, the more you try to "comfort" someone who's doing that the more you become that "ear" that they want to talk to and then BAM, you sir are in the friend zone. When they do it, move on quickly.
/r/seduction21/07/16 10:52 AM
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Well yesterday I just went for a quick visit because I hadn't seen her in nearly two weeks. She works at the local mall and asked if I would come by and see her on break. I had been texting her about how much I wanted to see her again for a few days, even if it was just to "steal" a kiss. Keep in mind I wasn't texting her in the clingy "I miss you so much, I can't live without you" kinda crap (stay away from that stuff) but more in the fun "I want to dirty things to you" kinda way. I prefaced my…
/r/seduction21/07/16 10:49 AM
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Georgia, USA :)
/r/seduction21/07/16 10:35 AM
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You know, I seem to be getting more "looks" from younger women vs. women more near my age.
/r/seduction21/07/16 10:34 AM
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I'll try to keep up, and offer where I can.
/r/seduction21/07/16 10:33 AM
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Yes, you are going to need more practice to overcome that. I consider myself a 6 on a scale of 10. I am no Adonis by any means. When it comes to intimacy you'll need to figure out a way to loosen up. It might be a good idea during those first few moments to let her know how anxious you are, use your humor to help lighten the situation. From what I understand women love it when you show some vulnerability so use it to your advantage. It probably depends on the women but it wouldn't hurt to try.
/r/seduction20/07/16 09:52 PM
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Thank you for that, it really means a lot. I wish I had understood this years ago but it doesn't matter now, I can't change it so I've accepted it all as learning and am moving forward. I am who I want to be.
/r/seduction20/07/16 09:48 PM
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She has a tendency to get negative on occasion, especially when talking about ex's. When she does, I don't let her wallow in it or even acknowledge she's doing it. I pull her out as quickly as I can by smiling, complimenting her on something or just telling her how much I enjoy her company or something particularly hot she did for me. I project my positivity onto her and it never fails to make her smile or laugh and forget where she was headed with her original conversation. That's the best way …
/r/seduction20/07/16 09:44 PM
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