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It's amazing how far lightly flirting with a few other girls will take you in a LTR
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 12:50 AM
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I've taken a few virginities and usually for me before anything happens I try to flip their thoughts about it. They think virginity is something special and they're ruining themselves by fucking, and I try to make them feel like they're stupid for having waited that long and they're the odd one out among girls. Then next time things escalate its a lot easier.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 08:43 AM
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That's been the big advice so I'll definitely give it a try
/r/askTRP10/11/15 12:44 AM
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I meant it like I'm gonna hold myself back until it builds up again. Essentially making sure that it's not just having too much sex that's making it lose its luster. Cause we fuck almost every day so I can see that being a bit much for my hormones to keep up with. Neither of us are worried about that stuff though; I don't think it's a relationship problem and if it was I'd just dump her.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 10:11 PM
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I was looking at that if I can't fix it by myself. Do you just go to a doctor to do this?
/r/askTRP09/11/15 08:42 PM
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Not really, I've heard that it affects your testosterone levels but I thought it was supposed to be the opposite way around. No anxiety to quitting though I haven't really looked back.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 08:41 PM
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Those foods are known to build testosterone which I why I pointed it out
/r/askTRP09/11/15 08:40 PM
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I'd prefer to have both sides
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:41 PM
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I'm 21 so hopefully it's not age yet haha
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:40 PM
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I'm curious on this too
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:40 PM
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I've always thought girls as a whole had it way worse. The thing about being a man is that we're LUCKY that we aren't judged solely on looks. Any guy is capable of becoming successful if he works hard and plays his cards right. On the other hand, if a girl isn't born as a 6 or above, she's pretty much screwed to have to settle for some loser. Makeup and plastic surgery can only do so much, and they're really expensive. No matter how much shit you have to deal with, always count your blessings ha…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:53 AM
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Yeah, really solid post, but until I see some proof there I'm calling bullshit
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 07:45 PM
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Cause you're focused on your interests and why people don't like them. Forget yourself, pay attention to other people, read them and get to know them. Nothing makes people like you like being genuinely interested in them.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 03:34 AM
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Well, yeah, you're right, but huge scientific advances are kinda out of the realm of red pill. I'm talking shit like "whoa, he just picked up that really hot girl". Beta sees it as he's a sex God, alpha sees it as okay he's competent. We're both right, just talking about different scenarios.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:11 AM
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The difference is how they take it. A beta mindset will see someone impress them and put them on a pedestal, like the way tween girls fangirl over one direction. An alpha mindset will see someone impress them and see them as now competent, like "okay wow they can actually do that, they can join the club" sorta mentality. Brings it back to whether you naturally feel above or below people.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:50 PM
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About 90% of these described my LTR right now. I see all this fear mongering and shit talking about how women will never commit and I just sit here laughing. Like sure, women are totally capable of cheating and all this horrible shit, but if you have them worried about keeping you happy then 99% of the time they won't do that. It might not last forever, but I'd put money that if it ends its gonna be because I wanted it to end. I think people here forget that they're (hopefully) not some pussy as…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 06:27 AM
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Yeah I agree, I think posts and attitudes of people on here have definitely deviated a lot from the core material. But saying TRP isn't self improvement is swinging a little too far in the other direction. It's obviously not exclusively self improvement, and the self improvement is done to improve sexual strategy, but that self improvement aspect is what separates us from your average pua people or places like /r/seduction. Besides, I would argue that if you say TRP is only sexual strategy then …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 08:29 PM
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Fuck you write good posts. This should be sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 07:08 AM
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Please be careful, molly and sex combined releases a shit ton of serotonin and has been known to fry your system if there's too much. Don't let sex lose its goodness.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:53 PM
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First off, thank you for making this post, the echo chamber posts get old real fast. I appreciate it when someone challenges the status quo. I agree with the other commenters though, that while it's certainly disapproved on a scientific basis, it still has credibility on this sub. If you take it as a principle it works fine and explains behavior very well. Is it technically true all the time? No, but neither are AWALT or hypergamy or any other principle here. It's not that we believe it's 100% t…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 08:21 PM
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To be fair I think just the gender switch itself was enough to mess with her head. If I lived that long as a woman I would probably be admitted too.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:20 PM
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I've been waiting for this post for a long time. I love TRP, it literally changed my life as many people on here will testify. I have so much to thank for it. But for all the shit people talk about feminism and white knights just being clueless people who don't look at facts and just keep perpetuating beliefs, there are a lot of idiots on here who do the same thing with TRP beliefs. Like come on, the reason you ended up here is because you started questioning the social status quo, don't just be…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 07:53 PM
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Nah you are correct, agree and amplify won't work, or at least not used in the same way as for shit tests. Generally comfort tests are her bringing her concerns about being with you to you, so you want to make her feel like her concerns are insignificant/don't matter, but in a reassuring way. One of the best examples I've heard is if a girl comfort tests you with: "you must be a player" Your response would be something like: "I'm just looking for someone I click with. I don't think we're so diff…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 03:16 AM
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There's no real clear cut way to always tell the difference, which is why all the definitions in the comments kinda suck. HOWEVER, if you understand why each one is administered then it'll help you understand when you'll get each and what to do better when you get it. Shit tests are related to attraction. She's basically checking to see if you are qualified to be her partner. Examples may be "that's so gay" "what car do you drive" etc. she's subconsciously sizing you up. You want to appear like …
/r/askTRP13/04/15 11:03 PM
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Sounds like your therapist is doing a good job of pushing you. I've never had depression so I can't pretend to know what it's like, but I think the two things that will help you are pushing yourself and sticking with it. Just make it a lifestyle to always be improving, and you'll gradually but steadily work towards where you want to be.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 04:01 PM
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Give me a common one you hear and I'll give you what I would respond with
/r/askTRP10/04/15 03:49 PM
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The problem is you're taking it too seriously. You still take insults personally. Just be playful about it; agree and amplify works for like 95% of the jabs guys will throw at you. You have to realize they're not trying to insult you, they're trying to get a reaction out of you. If you get angry, you fail. If you see through it and play along, you can hang.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 02:28 PM
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Sit next to her. Ask simple question about homework or some shit. Start conversation. After a few days ask her out to coffee. That simple.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 02:24 PM
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Yeah that was my reaction too, when she says she doesn't want anything serious that wasn't necessarily a friendzone.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 06:29 AM
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This is spot on. When the title said "how to approach a girl I have a crush on" I already knew it wasn't going to work. If you already have her on a pedestal with a crush, and she's potentially caught you staring at her, then she already has the power and probably knows it. Just let this girl be eye candy for now and don't fuck up on the next one. Next time, sit next to her on the first day and start up a conversation. Don't try to be witty; just make a casual comment or complaint about the syll…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 01:16 AM
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They do in a sense. If you've ever had a girl go to stage 5 clinger on you then you know they can. I think the difference is that for girls it's just a really deep emotional attachment, and since emotions fade over time so will her obsession. Men develop oneitis usually in the process of trying to get a girl (not all cases but most), and since they haven't gotten the girl yet it becomes a little more self perpetuating until the guy realizes he's hurting himself.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 01:11 AM
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Being dominant is good, being mean is not. I'd be way more cocky and funny with it. Having the girl be into it is fun. Bossing her around isn't.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:56 PM
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I think you're overthinking it. She had either actually never given one before and that was her first, or she had before and for some odd reason didn't want you to think she did. Either way, you got a blowjob. Also from the conversation it sounds like you're kind of a dick to her. Maybe be a little more playful?
/r/askTRP08/04/15 06:26 AM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with kissing in and of itself. It's just foreplay. If it seems like she's getting clingy and you don't want an LTR then time to soft next.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 12:03 AM
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Does not sound like a girl I would want to be exclusive with
/r/askTRP05/04/15 12:00 AM
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You're letting it get to your head too much already. Realizing her statement about no guys from your school is bullshit is half the battle, but you have to actually ACT like you don't care. No matter what a woman says she can always be baited in to making emotional decisions. If you're trying to get your dick wet on prom night: -relax. Put any notions of what she's said out of your mind. -be confident and funny. Try to lead conversations within groups without seeming like you're trying to. Try t…
/r/askTRP04/04/15 11:58 PM
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This. Also, if she keeps pulling this shit I would honestly just go in and kiss her anyways.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 06:12 PM
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You probably already shit test people without realizing it.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 06:10 PM
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I'm sincerely jealous
/r/askTRP04/04/15 03:05 AM
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I'm in a fraternity, I can shed some light. Rush consists of a set time, usually a week, where all the fraternities host events for guys to come talk to them. At the end of the week, they decide who they liked and who to extend bids to. Here are some tips: -talk to as many brothers as you can, but make sure at least a few REALLY remember and like you. When they vote on bids they go through a slideshow of every rushees face, open for discussion, and then vote. You need to be a recognized face -ch…
/r/askTRP04/04/15 02:25 AM
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This is a really good answer
/r/askTRP03/04/15 10:09 PM
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You bought in to the reputation when you joined the frat. That's your fault. Want to change? Build your fraternity's reputation. I'm a founding father at my college, and we're already moving up just because we work so hard on what our image is. Like other commenters said, you can flip it on her. What sorority is she in? "Ohh....". You can literally judge her no matter what her answer is. Lastly, if you don't give a fuck about what she thinks of you and your frat, she will have a hard time giving…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 10:08 PM
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You never really get rid of them. For as much as I've been through I'll still get crushes every once in a while, or sad if something goes wrong with a girl I was hooking up with, or pissed at myself for messing something up. What really makes the difference is just how others perceive you. With practice you learn to suppress emotions when you need to, and how to process them quick so they don't bog you down for too long. I learn to not let excitement/giddiness show to the girl or how to distract…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 05:37 AM
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This seems spot on. Thanks.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:58 PM
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I'm a little rusty on terms. LMR/ASD?
/r/askTRP02/04/15 03:20 AM
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Warding and cucking are verbs. Beta is a term used to describe males who aren't top tier. Betabux is a reference to the role betas tend to fall in to in relationships. Hit the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 03:40 AM
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Yeah, no harm meant by the sarcasm. I went through the same thing. I got a lot of mileage out of just looking up tips online, so maybe that could help you. How to Win Friends and Influence People is really the only book that comes to mind.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 02:36 AM
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Passed pretty well. Would give it an 8/10. Only thing to change would be to be concise. Send the same message in one sentence and its a 10/10
/r/askTRP27/03/15 08:41 PM
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No. I'm not saying don't contact her because of the opportunity, I'm saying don't contact her because it's not going to be good for you. The fact that she's moving makes it an even better decision to forget about her. If she wants a quick bang or two before she moves she will contact you.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:38 AM
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You'll only get so far on improving social skills by reading. If you want to improve social skills you need to go be social. Funny how that works, right?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:52 AM
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Dude, meeting a girl at a rave and making out while she's rolling just screams of girl I wouldn't want to pursue anything with. She probably made out with and gave her number to like 20 guys that night. You can do better.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:50 AM
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You have to lead. If they like you they will follow. They still think and behave the same as any other girl, they're just more cautious about expressing it.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:47 AM
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If you have a legit reason besides keeping in touch to text her then keep it short and flirty. Otherwise no.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:46 AM
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I made the transition from high school to college a little over a year ago. In all honesty I think your best bet is to monk mode it for the next five months and get ready to slay in college. Lift, read, practice game if you can. Would not recommend going to the ex at all, I can almost guarantee you will develop feelings for her and slip back to your old ways. At least fuck a couple other girls before you even think about contacting her.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:44 AM
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Just ignore
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:41 AM
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There's another good one by Brene Brown called "the power of vulnerability" that was actually kinda what turned it around for me. Basically she researched why some people are always happy and confident and others aren't. What she discovered was that the only difference between the two groups was that confident, happy, successful people believe they deserve to be confident, happy, successful people, while those who aren't don't. If you haven't seen this one yet I highly recommend it as well.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:39 AM
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"....was completely DTF until I sent her a picture of me..." Keep your story straight bro
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:35 AM
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There's a Ted Talk by Amy Cuddy called "Your body language shapes who you are". Would recommend watching it. One of the big points she brings up is that your mind follows your actions, so the whole fake it til you make it thing works. Act like a confident person and eventually you will be a confident person.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:02 AM
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Two options: 1.) she's using race as a cover to turn you down, in which case it's time to next. 2.) she's racist, in which case you next. For it being meeting girls online you are WAYYYY to worried about the right thing to say
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:00 AM
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Don't take it personally. People who are offended by criticism usually are taking it as an attack on their person rather than an attack on on action or habit. Think about it; when you criticize someone, are you trying to insult their whole person, or just point out one problem for them to fix? "What someone says about you says more about them than it does about you" "We judge others by their actions and ourselves by our intentions" Those two quotes helped me with the same problem. Hope it helps …
/r/askTRP25/03/15 04:18 PM
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Careful with the humblebragging there bud. Quit while you're ahead.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 04:12 PM
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Nothing quite as alpha as ripping on a guy through the Internet
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 06:41 AM
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Napping to an extent. It can be a huge time waster
/r/askTRP24/03/15 07:08 AM
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Yeah completely agree, people who obsess over celebs don't really have much going for themselves. Although I think the idea here is that pictures with them do attract positive attention.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 12:34 AM
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Don't try to make it perfect. Live an interesting lifestyle and your social media accounts will follow. Keep political, religious, and any other controversial issues off your accounts. No selfies for the love of God. Think of social media as your highlight reel. Do you want people seeing that you really hate Obama, or that you're an atheist, or your 100 selfies with your dog? Or do you want it to be a bunch of photos you're tagged in with hot girls and cool guys at cool places? One of those peop…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 12:32 AM
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Good points. Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 04:12 PM
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"I don't want our house to be filthy" Be direct, be firm, but also be fair. Don't be a passive aggressive little bitch and bring it up indirectly when it's convenient for you. Tell him outright you want a clean house, then reach an agreement that you can both hold each other accountable for. At the end of the day, you're helping him by making him stay clean, so it's good for him.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 07:10 AM
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I'm gonna go against the flow and say that if you can limit yourself, social media is awesome. Why? Social proof. It's a highlight reel that girls can't hold back from creeping on. Facebook and snapchat in particular are awesome. Meet new girl? You can bet within a few days she's already found you on facebook, and probably seen those pictures of you with other hot girls and cool guys. Snapchat story is awesome because they are small snippets of your life, just enough to get them curious and thin…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 07:06 AM
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So far docile, but it's only been a day no contact. We're college students on spring break right now so we likely won't talk for the rest of the week. Save maybe a snapchat or two.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 06:31 AM
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Would you think this is the case all the time? Or just for girls who put sex on a pedestal? Reason I ask is because she was really causal about losing it. Didn't even mention it until a couple days after.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:22 AM
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Fuck her, then once she cums squat her
/r/askTRP22/03/15 05:54 PM
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This will be an unpopular opinion but I think there's a lot of fear mongering on here about marriage. If things like having kids, being able to file jointly, etc. etc. are worth the potential risks of marriage to you, then it could work great for you.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 05:53 PM
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Just listen to her with a cocky smile on your face. When she finishes, wait a second, smirk, and turn your attention elsewhere.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 12:47 AM
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Yeah, I'm an engineering student too, and trust me when I say social skills will put you much farther above most engineers than a high GPA will
/r/askTRP17/03/15 06:18 AM
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If she accepts, awesome. If she doesn't, next. It's a win win for you.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:15 AM
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Sorry, but that's a stupid question. You're looking for magic tricks. There's no substitute for putting work in. Hit the sidebar again.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 04:09 AM
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Gotta be in it for the long haul bud. If army is your only option, maybe you should do it. Will turn you in to more of a man than any game will. Although if I were you I would look into college. End of the day, if you stay with your parents you're gonna waste a lot of your life.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 04:07 AM
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Don't escalate. If it were me I'd be flirty and shit, just not actually ask her out. You don't wanna date a coworker, but I don't see anything wrong with making her your orbiter.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:19 AM
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If there's a doubt that she's actually into you she probably isn't
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:18 AM
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Metaphor overload Short answer: time Long answer: there's no quick way but improving yourself will take your mind off of it. Also, meditate.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:17 AM
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Being able to be selective comes with time. Set standards for yourself, but don't set them so high that you can't get any girls at all. There's nothing wrong with starting on 5s and 6s as long as you're always upgrading in the future.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:16 AM
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Good luck man
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:14 AM
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/r/fitness
/r/askTRP17/03/15 01:42 AM
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Fuck his wife
/r/askTRP17/03/15 01:41 AM
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If you think you aren't being direct enough you probably aren't.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 01:40 AM
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/r/fitness
/r/askTRP17/03/15 01:39 AM
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You're worrying too much
/r/askTRP17/03/15 01:39 AM
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If you haven't already, read rational male or no more mr nice guy. If you already have, just read something you're interested in that you'll learn something from. I read books about economics and stuff all the time. Just something that you like. Other than that I would take some time to plan out a workout routine and a diet for spring. Will help you a lot.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 01:38 AM
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Shampoo and conditioner and body wash don't matter all that much in terms of smell. Just get one you like. For colognes buy a good one. You'll get way more mileage out of a good one you get at Nordstroms than a shitty one from target. Start with a light scent. The two light ones I have are Eau Fraiche from Versace and Light Blue from D&G
/r/askTRP17/03/15 01:34 AM
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1.) you need to move out as soon as you can. You're 20, you're an adult. It'll be hard but at this point they are really only holding you back. Cut the umbilical cord. 2.) measuring your success by how many girls you bang is setting yourself up for failure. Even the most alpha guys go through dry spells. Just be happy you fucked someone, a lot of guys on here are going on 40 and still virgins. Your focus should be on getting yourself out of your parents house, moving in somewhere else, making en…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 05:56 PM
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This. Hypergamous is neither good nor bad. It is natural. It just falls under a bad light because it's part of the rude awakening guys get when them come here. Also, plate spinning relies on the fact that you are honest about not being exclusive. If you are deceiving them, it is no longer neutral.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 10:27 PM
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In your situation it's hard to tell yourself this but as a high schooler its way better to just focus on grades and start lifting now. Until you're out in the working world everything is going to be based on status. Now the athletes are on top, in college the frat stars will be on top. If you can get there then great, but focus on the long haul first and get pussy second.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 06:57 AM
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I think you're being unreasonable. If the roles were reversed you'd be getting pretty fed up with him. He sounds like he's being pretty reasonable, I think you should agree.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 06:54 AM
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/r/seduction does pretty well here but in all honesty I think you're better off not focusing on that stuff and stick to RP values
/r/askTRP13/03/15 06:53 AM
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While AWALT is true, it also isn't going to help you very much. I've broken in a couple Christian girls so here's my two cents. -don't reason them in to sex. It never works. Usually the first time it comes up I'll just a say one or two points and then just stop arguing it. Plant a seed of doubt and leave it at that. -Dread game. Be ready to walk out at any moment. When you're making out, and you try to take it below the belt and she says no, just stop it right there. May not work then, but holy …
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:37 PM
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Don't follow a popular diet. Just download a calorie tracking app and use that to track calories and macronutrients. MyFitnessPal is a great one. Also, for fitness advice go to /r/fitness. This forum is for discussing red pill specific topics.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:26 PM
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Beef and peppers and cabbage doesn't sound all that bad actually. But still. Might wanna make a dinner that sounds more enticing.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 11:40 PM
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Dafuq is stuffed cabbage. She's not even shit testing you, that just sounds disgusting.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 09:54 PM
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Yes it's healthy and normal, but healthy and normal do not necessarily mean attractive. Women want men to be stoic. Sure they'll listen to you and it's good for you, but it's not making them think you're any hotter. Just like how it's healthy and normal and "womanly" for women to have periods, buts it's not attracting me to hear about them. It's not good for men to bottle up emotions, but it's expected of them to be attractive. Just like how it's not good for women to obsess about weight and mak…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:29 AM
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Never DISCUSS, not never SHOW. It's unreasonable to not have emotions, by she doesn't care about how you say everything makes you feel. Let her read your emotions.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:47 AM
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Knowing all the gross things they do never really helped me. Hopefully it does for you, but in the case it doesn't, I think what helped me was really my mental attitude. When you go in with the intent of fucking them, you put pressure on yourself. Instead, go in with the intent of getting to know them; seeing if you actually like them. Small but a game changer.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 06:46 PM
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learn to stop and smell the roses kid
/r/askTRP03/03/15 06:04 PM
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I want a woman like you
/r/askTRP03/03/15 08:03 AM
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That, and their father figure would be spread pretty thin, so they're likely going to grow up like other kids raised by a mom alone. Plus, although we know it's human nature, a child probably couldn't handle the fact that his dad was sleeping around and had other families. Would create issues of who he loves more, who's better, trust issues, etc.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:10 AM
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I cringed when you said you want multiple families. Women aside, I think you're setting up the kids for a shitty childhood.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 06:12 AM
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I kinda disagree with this. We're at the point where most girls are smart enough to know when a guy has only played guitar for a week or two and is just doing it to impress people. Music is a fantastic hobby. I've played piano competitively for over 10 years and I love it. It impresses everybody. but only do music if you're interested in it, not to impress girls. They are smart enough to sense that.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 06:07 AM
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You're definitely a lot more in tune with you own thoughts and feelings than most people on here. Which is good. Although I would argue you are still in your anger phase.
/r/askTRP14/02/15 05:10 AM
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I think the spirit of it is that you shouldn't be the one worrying about appearance. Let her get all dolled up and do her thing. You lead the date and what you guys do. Be the man. Yeah she appreciates you looking nice, but she really doesn't give a fuck about the specifics.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 06:26 PM
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Being around your brothers is going to be an amazing source of social proof. Use it. Be funny and confident, don't be afraid to touch her, and let the alcohol do the rest.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 05:54 AM
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I would delete anything relating to your ex, not only nudes but all pictures on your phone. Anything you have the ability to look at will just make you want to go back.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 07:56 PM
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definitely didn't keep nose in the book. I say need just because it's been a couple weeks now and I don't want to lose the attraction. It isn't like texting thing where I can choose when to set things up; I see her every day cause of class. My fraternity is having a date party a couple weeks down the road so I'll probably wait until that. It's almost a guaranteed bang if she goes. Thank you!
/r/askTRP10/02/15 06:50 PM
3

You didn't even answer the question dude. You're just throwing out as many red pill terms as you can.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 05:44 PM
1

You're original Near impossible because there's been a huge sexual assault issue here so there aren't many parties to start with and girls are on high guard.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 04:00 PM
1

This post just screams newbie
/r/askTRP07/02/15 02:37 AM
2

No, send them to a sub with knowledge written by experts that is based around it. Lifting is a facet of TRP, it's not related to actual content. If someone wants a guide, send them to /r/fitness
/r/askTRP03/02/15 09:19 PM
10

"Do not attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity"
/r/askTRP27/01/15 06:05 AM
3

Bro just take a look for a second at what you asked. Dating an alpha widow? In fucking high school? High schoolers have barely discovered sex. All I had to read was the title to tell you need to go spend some time with the material. Go read.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 05:11 AM
2

They get their foot in the door really quick but the girls pick up on the fact that they're a loser equally as quick.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:21 PM
6

Definition of beta bux. Next before she starts fucking a guy on the side.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 06:10 PM
1

Go to /r/fitness and read up. A lot of guys here started there, and pretty much any lifting advice you get here is gonna be a repost from there.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 11:18 PM
2

I'm the same kind of person as you, where I can never really be happy about myself. Two things help me: 1.) realize that the attitude you have now is what will get you better. Losers/betas don't think they're wrong; they don't see room for growth. You see your flaws. You know what you have to fix. It won't happen overnight, but you will get there. 2.) your mind is driving you crazy because you're trying to fix all your problems and become perfect at once. Which is just unrealistic. It takes time…
/r/askTRP29/12/14 11:14 PM
1

It's not like there's a checklist as you go along. The other two commenters are spot on. Also, if you're sixteen, and just got here 3 weeks ago, I guarantee you're barely anywhere in your journey. Buckle down for the long haul, friend. You don't become an alpha overnight.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 11:08 PM
1

I think your attitude going in to it is wrong. You're asking yourself if/how you should change to better adapt to your boss. Why should you change yourself just to serve one person? Sure, he's your boss, and you should respect him, but you don't need to be a slave to him. Be your own person. Change your attitude because you want to improve yourself. As one of the other commenters touched on, it would probably be better to watch and learn from him, and change for yourself.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 11:07 PM
9

True, having all the makeup and shit, and dealing with catty bitches would get to me.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 07:09 PM
6

When we talk about any type of self improvement it's pretty much exclusively through the self improvement aspect. This is a very specific question about a workout. Asktrp is more meant for people to check in and make sure they are embodying TRP theory right. This question has no relevance to Trp theory. Also fittit has more qualified, knowledgeable people to answer this, and more resources available to you. If OP were to look at fittit he would realize this looks exactly like a common question p…
/r/askTRP29/12/14 04:50 AM
4

Post this in /r/fitness. This is not for red pill
/r/askTRP29/12/14 12:43 AM
4

Californication starts to get sappy in later seasons but it is great and gave me a good example of alpha male-ness.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 04:46 AM
2

I was hoping this was a joke when I clicked it.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 09:36 PM
1

I would argue that an argument (weird phrasing there) isn't necessarily a loss of frame. Her making an unreasonable demand and you denying it, or you calling her on her shit could both be seen as arguments, but are also alpha.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 12:26 AM
1

It's not an answer, so sorry about that, but I have the same problem. I feel you on this man.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 12:22 AM
1

Thanks! They all sound good. I like cooking so I gotta try inviting them over for dinner.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 05:45 PM
1

If you're going to straight up tell her she's ugly you at least need to be creative about it. Replying "yeah lol" is an asshole thing to say. In the future, just don't respond if you don't know what to do. Right now I honestly wouldn't respond either, and next time you talk just act like nothing happened. Also, lose the lols and shit, you're texting like a high schooler.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 07:28 PM
5

This looks like a run-of-the-mill /r/malefashionadvice question. I'd head over there and post the same question, with pictures
/r/askTRP21/12/14 07:25 PM
1

Good point, I like this way of looking at it. Thanks.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 08:11 AM
1

This. One complaint about TRP is that often the users here are a little detached from the content. There is a post called the five stages of Red Pill acceptance, and after you read I think you'll find most people in the comments here are still stuck on number 2.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 07:23 AM
1

I've been in the situation before. Just be polite but aloof. Say hi, answer questions she asks, but don't add anything to the conversation. Complete ignorance is awkward socially and makes you look butthurt, but acting like you don't care about her will get her hamster going.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 07:19 AM
1

How would you say to internalize the thought that you deserve attractive women? I've been thinking about it lately and I think it's a problem I have too. It's the next big thing I want to work on, but internalizing a new mental attitude isn't something that's as clear on how to do as lifting weights or practicing game.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 07:08 PM
2

I'm a 20 year old college student. So this pertains a lot to the world I'm growing up in. I agree completely with the theory here. Everything is spot on about how it's pointless to game down girls over text, and that it demonstrates lower value. HOWEVER, I disagree slightly with the notion of leaving a voicemail. Maybe OP is used to a different kind of girl, but I think most girls I know either don't check their voicemail or find it weird when guys leave them. It probably varies a lot from regio…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 06:03 AM
1

In the same boat exactly. It is relevant to red pill theory but a lot of it might have more to do with just being in college. You're on your own, you've gone to crazier parties, you're smarter, probably dressing better and looking more muscular. You've experienced more. It just makes you more interesting. Girls like that.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 05:07 AM
3

Meditating sounds stupid, and I'm not really a person to mess around with things that I think are pointless like that, but it REALLY helps me. Some people advise doing it every day, I say whenever you're having bad emotions just sit yourself down, block out distractions, and take 15 minutes to just focus on your breathing and clear your mind. Sounds stupid, works wonders.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 08:55 AM
1

Laughed out loud at the top comment: "....but she wrote an article about what was happening ten years ago!". Girl, ten years ago cell phones barely existed.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 06:43 PM
1

I don't think this is really a post for TRP
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 01:17 AM
2

This should replace the shit tests link on the side bar, or at least be added to it.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:27 PM
30

"The best argument against democracy is a five minute conversation with the average voter" -Winston Churchill
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 05:43 PM
-4

Maybe the correct term is polygamous, not hypergamous, but whatever, you know what I meant
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 08:37 AM
1

Aware of that, and by no means do I support it, however I have seen it in comments here and over on asktrp. Just referencing what I've seen, not what TRP teaches.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 07:18 AM
-2

Yes we are. Women feel the need to find the best mate, men feel the need to spread their seed as wide as possible. The whole surprise of TRP isn't that men aren't, it's just that women ARE. Think about it, you can't say men aren't hypergamous while also saying we should spin multiple plates and date multiple girls. This difference is men also have a mentality to settle down with one woman when the time comes.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 06:57 AM
8

There's also a pretty good chance you're a virgin if you take time out of your day to call people gay over simple semantics on the Internet
/r/askTRP30/11/14 02:29 AM
4

Agreed. It's something that gets better with time and practice. The more you're around them the more you start to see the tiny flaws and the annoying personality quirks, and they start to seem more average. Girls always seem the hottest from a distance.
/r/askTRP27/11/14 04:43 AM
1

With that said though you don't wanna be pitching the tent right into their ass. If it's big wait for a chance and then flip it up.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 06:00 AM
1

Better but that still seems like a high school thing.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 10:02 PM
2

Like visible tattoos it'll be hard to appear professional with much in your ears. I'd recommend not getting them.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 09:54 PM
1

Just on a different scale. In high school if one person gets a bottle and there are like 10 people it's a party. College frat parties are almost like what you see in movies, like some of the bigger ones actually have DJs or go to Vegas or things like that.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 02:40 AM
1

You need girls and alcohol. But also don't just sit around waiting to be asked. Tell the person throwing the party you'll come by with alc and girls. If they don't say yes to that they're stupid. also keep in mind that this won't matter in less than a year, and in college nobody gives a flying fuck about high school parties, so honestly even making it to the biggest high school party ever doesn't really matter.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 12:48 AM
1

When you said you took her chips I laughed out loud. Hella alpha. Seriously though, you could've done a lot worse, and I guess it all depends how you delivered it, but what I saw here made it sounds slightly defensive. If she reacted positively though, then it probably worked. Be careful about gaming a friends girlfriend by the way. It's one thing if she has a boyfriend, but quite another if it's one of toe friends.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 12:10 AM
2

The whole plate model might not work for you; it kind of relies on the fact hat there are enough people that the girls won't know each other and that might not be the case for you. Don't be too hard on yourself; you're in a trickier situation than most of us will ever be in. But the trade off is you have a much better chance to improve. With a smaller group of people it's easier to assert yourself as an alpha because ether women don't have much experience with other alphas. Go into monk mode, im…
/r/askTRP25/10/14 08:50 AM
1

I dressed up as a sexy cop last year. Even stuffed my pants. Had a bunch of girls come up to me; it even got me into a party cause the owner of the house liked it (I'm a college student) Just something low maintenance and funny in a sexual way
/r/askTRP23/10/14 10:40 PM
1

The more you say the more I think it's time to next her. Here's why: -you were blue pill when you met her. If she perceived you as a beta then there's a very slight chance her opinion will change of you, and if it does it'll take a lot more time. -she seems like she just wants you around for attention. She only wants to know you're out there and she could have you whenever she wants, and that is what you have demonstrated. -you seem attached. You want her, you're worried about how she will react…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 01:02 AM
1

It sounds like she just likes your attention. I'd wait for something more than a I miss you text to reinitiate contact. And honestly, unless you really want her, it could be time to next her.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 12:16 AM
1

Honestly unless it was a really sincere message I usually just ignore those "I miss you" texts. If she really misses you she will make more effort to see you. A lot of the times she will text you that literally cause you were brought up in a conversation or she just stumbled on an old photo, and she doesn't actually miss you, she just wants to feel like you're still out there. Never tell her you miss her. Automatically puts you in a position of chasing her.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:31 PM
1

This is what I needed to hear. Thanks
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:00 PM
0

It tends to have a different meaning in college
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:48 PM
13

You wouldn't be posting this if you weren't worried about rejection. Be honest with yourself dude. "Hey, I've got to get going, wanna go grab some lunch?" Substitute dinner/Starbucks/breakfast/whatever in for lunch depending on the time of day and situation Don't say "I'm going to be forward", that sounds like you're worried about her reaction. Don't say "you're pretty", that's too direct.
/r/askTRP03/10/14 07:33 PM
2

I've stopped for about a month now and the main thing I noticed is I don't have as much anxiety about approaching women. Could be placebo effect, but to me it seems like there's something to it. You don't realize how lazy it makes you until you stop.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 04:43 PM
1

I like it
/r/askTRP02/10/14 06:24 AM
1

I'm pretty sure you can be confidentially tested for it. By law if you tell a doctor not to tell your parents about something they not allowed to. Originally created so kids could get things like STD tests without their parents finding out. Talk to your doctor next time you're in for a check-up. Also your parents have a pretty easy argument to shut down. If they're in denial it's because they worry you do have it. By take the wheel he means you don't always need to be the center of attention. Th…
/r/askTRP29/09/14 05:56 AM
1

That's one of the first passed shit tests I've laughed out loud at. Claps
/r/askTRP25/09/14 02:18 AM
0

All the other points are valid but I'm just a gonna throw out, have you considered rushing? Not every fraternity will fuck up your academic life; in fact the right ones will probably help it.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 08:07 AM
2

If she's "sticking her neck out for you" but she won't go on a date she's not interested. I'm willing to bet she's not a 10 either; they don't exist. Move on is the best advice, a devout Christian isn't gonna be a fun plate anyways. I've been the one who's had to convince a girl she's not going to hell for fucking me, and it's just not worth it.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 02:33 PM
4

Start buying some better fitted shirts, and when people start complimenting your muscle your confidence will go through the roof. But to answer your question, the reason we lift is all the above. Most people will start to see good results within a few weeks, and it'll probably be several months or a year when you start getting recognized as a muscular guy.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 02:29 PM
3

I wouldn't say off limits. I know a lot of people who don't drink at parties. Just go with a group of friends, be social, meet girls and hit on girls that are sober or not noticeably drunk. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 05:48 AM
6

Nah. Actually you can turn it into a good thing. Don't let it look like a weakness and rather make it a life choice you're happy about and it'll look good. Only warning is don't hit on really drunk girls if you're sober. Will make you look creepy really fast.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 05:44 AM
1

Chat roulette by itself is pretty innocent as long as she wasn't making any follow up plans. Sounds more like she was shit testing you by making you jealous, and you fell for it. I would more tell her something along the lines of you don't like her having to stoop to that level to get a point across; it's immature and rude. Then let it go, but pay close attention for actual signs of cheating. Edit: I missed the part about her doing it repeatedly. Yeah, you were right to dump her. She sounds like…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 06:47 AM
2

To be honest I don't really believe that you don't care about her that much. I've been in too many similar situations in my beta days to believe it. You really do need to flip the script. It's gonna be hard but you need to learn to not focus on her. You can't just be doing a RP transformation for her, it's contradictory. If you really don't want her as a LTR or plate, then stop talking to her. Your transformation will eventually get back to her and if she's really curious she will be the one to …
/r/askTRP03/09/14 06:37 AM
2

She said lmao twice....are you sure she isn't still in middle school?
/r/askTRP03/09/14 06:27 AM
2

Agreed. Best option is to probably not bring it up, but just drive them in your nice car and be low key about dressing nice and let them silently be amazed. I get a lot of comments from girls about dressing well and usually I just say yeah or thanks quickly and keep moving with the conversation. Tends to work pretty well, makes you look rich but also not shallow.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 04:05 AM
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You're in a good position that you realize it now and not 5-10 years down the road. College is a great time to start. Note that going to a community college won't give you the same atmosphere with huge frat parties where girls throw themselves at you, but the benefit is that people won't know each other as well, so spinning plates will be easier (believe it or not even at the big state school I go to it's weird how many girls know each other). If you're an introvert now first thing is to focus o…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:59 AM
2

http://autoanathema.wordpress.com/2014/06/22/ FBI top ten tips for building quick rapport. Was posted on TRP a while back. Obviously not all apply for an interview but it's a good place to start
/r/askTRP02/09/14 01:38 AM
1

It isn't so much that charities don't care about men, it's just our culture is way more oriented towards helping women. There are virtually no men exclusive homeless shelters in the country, but there are a lot of women's ones.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 12:06 AM
1

I like that
/r/askTRP01/09/14 04:30 PM
1

Good point, thanks
/r/askTRP01/09/14 04:27 PM
1

Honestly it's not the easiest thing, but over at /r/trpgame you might find some useful stuff. It's where I learned a lot. To me it isn't so much to always be escalating, it's more don't just say pointless things. Don't just talk to her pointlessly, move her I'm the direction you want to take her. Hope this helps!
/r/askTRP01/09/14 04:26 PM
1

Yeah all valid points, this is kinda what id been thinking. I've been getting it enough that I figured there was something going on so I thought to ask.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 04:24 PM
2

You can get away with it 90% of the time but that 10% just isn't worth the risk
/r/askTRP01/09/14 08:35 AM
1

You can be the bigger person and walk away but I think if you have proof it would be better to go nuclear and just post it on Facebook. Send her a polite but firm message saying that if she's gonna accuse you of rape, you're gonna clear yourself. Then politely but firmly let her know you don't want her in your life anymore. Then leave it at that. Don't contact her at all. Yeah high school doesn't matter much but it's better to clear your name, you never know when these things can come back to bi…
/r/askTRP01/09/14 05:59 AM
1

Don't make moonshine. Shit is really dangerous. There's a reason prohibition ended. Also don't put in on Facebook, if the whole nudes leak today teaches anything it's that the internet isn't secure. If a parent or teacher finds that you're fucked. You're barely into high school, TRP doesn't even work really until college. You should be focusing on getting good grades, lifting, and staying healthy. I've seen alcohol ruin a lot of people's lives who started this early. However, we've all been ther…
/r/askTRP01/09/14 05:48 AM
2

It's just your attitude. I used to be the same way. Either immediately look for some flaw in them or just be inspired by them. Don't feel threatened. They'll only look down on you if you put them on a pedestal
/r/askTRP01/09/14 05:37 AM
1

You've gotta make a move on her eventually. If you just keep inviting her along to places and only lightly flirting you're gonna get friendzoned. Like the other guy said, always be escalating. Invite her to a party, when the time comes take her back to your place and fuck the living shit out of her. Also I don't recommend getting in line for bp. The guys who stand around the table all night look like the awkward ones. It's really only good for when you're already talking to a girl, and you just …
/r/askTRP01/09/14 05:33 AM
1

Ignore. She already seems slightly worried about what you think. Radio silence will slowly make her go crazy; if she's on the fence at all it'll probably bring her to you. Plus, there isn't really anything to say that would convince her. Talking kills attraction.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 05:27 AM
1

wow, thank you! Had no idea this existed
/r/askTRP26/08/14 03:41 AM
3

Girls shit test really hard the first week or two of college to establish the social order for them. Be on the top of your game. Also don't try to pick up girls, you should be trying to meet new people. If you happen to hook up with one then good for you.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 05:36 PM
3

They have father issues
/r/askTRP23/08/14 05:27 PM
4

It used to be a noble movement back when women ACTUALLY didn't have rights. It's really just become a big hypocritical, sexist movement. It's really more about giving woman everything they want, not just confidence. It allows them to hold equal rights (which I believe as humans they should have) along with still having female privileges. Think about it: -both men and women have the right to vote. Why? Cause they're humans and it's an inherent right. But only men should register for the draft. Wh…
/r/askTRP22/08/14 10:13 AM
1

First option, although little bit of second
/r/askTRP20/08/14 06:55 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP20/08/14 05:34 AM
1

Good ideas, valid points. Thank you.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 05:21 AM
3

Yeah, all narcissism aside I don't think attractiveness is the issue. Probably the latter. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 04:53 AM
7

It's kind of a two in one because it makes you look better and increases your confidence. It's the major thing you can do to physically improve your SMV and really start looking attractive. But it's also just a natural stress reliever, and seeing yourself bulking up really helps your self confidence. So you look better to girls, and you're naturally more confident around them, which are kind of synergistic to each other. Like anything it's not absolutely necessary, but it's so good for you in an…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 04:02 PM
5

Been in an almost identical situation. My breakup was what made me turn red pill. I'll give you my two cents that helped me. First off, realize what is actually happening in your brain. Those feelings of loneliness are extremely strong. But it's really just simple brain chemistry. Something that your brain was comfortable with was removed from your life, and now your brain has a lack of dopamine which creates the craving feeling. It's strong, but realize the chemistry is no different than when y…
/r/askTRP16/08/14 04:15 PM
5

Just make it something personal. Girls get "hey, what's up?" And cheesy pickup lines all day. Give them something that they would want to respond to. If they're main is at a beach, ask them what beach it is. If they have a picture doing some crazy activity, say something about that. For bonus points, make it funny or even slightly flirty, but not creepy. make it something they'd want to respond to
/r/askTRP16/08/14 03:40 PM
1

I'm in the EXACT same situation, would love an answer as well. Stay strong brother.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 04:15 AM
1

I have the same feelings towards my dad. The awareness is really the important part, most of the guys with Beta dads won't realize they're being trained wrong and grow up beta. The fact that you found TRP early, and see the beta side of your dad means you have all the tools to fix it. If you want something to do, maybe try and label what actions/attitudes in particular make your dad seem beta, and keep yourself from repeating them.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 05:44 AM
3

I was in your exact same situation. I discovered trp and I embodied all of it, but was still failing in the field and had no idea how to actually apply it. Go to /r/trpgame. They have a lot of good resources for how to actually be successful. Bang and Day Bang are both worth the purchase definitely worth the buy. Biggest advice I can give is don't worry about failing. You'll be rejected a lot before you start making it. Every guy goes through that.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 07:27 PM
1

I like this
/r/askTRP13/08/14 01:33 AM
1

Good point, thanks
/r/askTRP12/08/14 11:36 PM
1

Roosh's Day Bang gives a great method for getting over it. You can get the whole book over in /r/trpgame, but essentially it's just imagine the absolute worst possible case scenario, where she laughs at you, EVERYONE notices and laughs at you, everyone tells their friends, and it's total humiliation. Get comfortable with the idea. Then once you're comfortable, realize it'll never even be close to that bad. Even the bitchiest girls will just blow you off. And most bystanders wont care; they'll pr…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:36 PM
1

The only thing I worry about with that is she might take it as a lack of interest on my part, especially when I said in person I would be texting her. She might think its a lost cause and give up because she thinks I'm the one not into her
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:21 PM
1

Good point
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:07 PM
1

What's the major difference between the regular one and day bang?
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:33 PM
1

Meditation sounds like a good idea. Thanks for the input!
/r/askTRP29/07/14 09:17 PM
1

I think putting energy into something besides girls is definitely a big part of it. Thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP29/07/14 09:17 PM
2

Didn't think about that. Good advice. Thanks!
/r/askTRP29/07/14 09:15 PM
1

Thanks. Yeah, i think i was just looking for some tricks to help stop doing it. Solid advice.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 09:15 PM
1

Good analogy. Thanks!
/r/askTRP29/07/14 09:14 PM
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I agree with all of them that it's time to quit. Neither of you are getting what you want. Even if it continues you'd need a big break to reset and start fresh, it's not something that happens in just a week or two. It's easy to say you don't want to leave her now, literally everyone on the planet will find a way to justify staying in a relationship they're used to, but I think if you leave her in a month or two you'll be really glad you did. Also consider it's a little hypocritical that you're …
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Disagree. Maybe for older people this holds true, but for people growing up now if you don't have at least a facebook you're looked at as socially inept.
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I'm positive she was, I broke the hymen. I know it's not a 100 percent sure indicator she was a virgin but it's either that or the dude before had a really small dick.
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You're overthinking it
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